Boy you people sure are IGNORANT! I do not know who is responsible for raising Black women and men because I have never seen a group of people who CONSISTENTLY alleviate their men of moral responsibilitiy. NO MATTER what a man does, Black people ALWAYS find a way to blame the woman. Its always "serves her right", "got what she deserved", etc..Every other racial group is making SOME attempt to make their male/female relationships more equal, But Black folks REFUSE progress..What Ray J is doing is disgusting, immoral and lacks principle on every level. When Kim K posed for play boy, you called her a slut, when she made a sex tape with HER BOYFRIEND who then secrety went behind her back and sold the tape, it was STILL HER fault. And now yet again, Ray J is trying to exploit her by making this tasteless cover and its STILL HER FAULT?
As a young Black women I truly believe I will never get married because the mentality Black women install in their sons on how to behave as men and the mentality men have toward Black women, I have to say the state of Black America is in crisis.