: Apparently NBA star LeBron James has been getting busy both on and off the court. Word is that his baby's mother Savanah is pregnant with the couple's third child.
The happy couple is just coming off the birth of their second child this past summer. Congrats to the two of them.
Now LeBron - can you please stop playing around and marry the girl already SHEESH!!!
CONGRATS ! ! !
AT LEAST SHE'S PRETTY AND BLACK ! !
BUT SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHY THEY MARRY THE WHITE CHICK WHO CAN GIVE A RAT'S A/S/S ABOUT THEM WHO THEY END UP DIVORCING AND TAKING HALF (MICHAEL STRAHAN) BUT THEY ONLY CONTINUOUSLY KNOCK UP THE BLACK "BABAY MAMAS" ? ? ?
WHY ??????
GOOD MORNING EVERYONE ! ! !
ATL ! ! ! !
ATL ! ! ! !
Say what you will about Kobe but at least he got married FIRST before he had babies. On the real, being a baby momma or baby daddy aint whats hot. Women set the standards and if they willing to put up with being just a baby momma, thats on them!!! So much for high standards.
---------------------------------- 2 episodes left of the Wire and Omar is dead and Michael is about to get real gangsta!!!
WOW! Congrats. Children are a blessing. I hope he does the right thing and marries her. Otherwise, she needs to stop popping out his kids.
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I'm just glad she's black!! I'm not gonna argue about the marriage thing anymore, because people do whatever they want. It would be nice for him to marry her and give a solid foundation for his kids but it's his decision ultimately.
Off the subject... I took my yearly HIV test yesterday (negative results) and I recommend everyone take it. It's the scariest 20 minutes of your life but it makes you feel better afterwards.
Ok I understand about the first one but after the second one someone needs to be getting married. I just don't see why the world is filled with baby mama's/daddy's and not wives/husbands!!!!! I just think this is really stupid. I'm just saying wake up people. What are we teaching the next generation??
Lebron should be ashamed of himself for not marrying this young lady. She should be ashamed of herself for allowing him to take advantage of her and her body like that. If they break up, he only owes her child support, and as we saw with 50 aka Curtis, that means her standard of living would probably change drastically. Young black women, don't let these men take advantage of you, use you up, then trade you in for a newer model. Get yourself some legal protection...get married. Heck, some folks in this country want to get married and can't. Those of you who can, had better take full advantage of the over 1500 rights & privileges marriage brings you.
They've been together since high school.. She's not a hoe or a NBA chick. She comes from good people. Bron will do the right thing, aint nobody talking about yall and all yo kids with a broke dude...hahaha you know who you are, probably crying over child support right now, lmao, dont be a hater all ya life OH_10!!!!
AND LET ME TAKE THAT BACK. IM NOT SURE IF YOU GUYS CAN CLICK ON THIS BUT. CHECK THIS IS. ALOT OF THEM ON THIS SITE ARE MARRIED AND TO BLACK WOMEN- - WITH THE EXCEPTION OF A FEW ! !
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PLAYERS:
Allen Iverson and wife Tawanna
Alonzo Mourning’s wife Tracy
Andrei Kirilenko and his wife Masha
Antawn Jamison and wife Ione
Antoine Walker and his wife
Antonio Davis and wife Kendra
Ben Wallace and wife Chanda
Bill Walton and wife Lori
Brian Grant and wife Gina
Calbert Cheaney and his wife
Carlos Arroyo’s wife
Carmelo Anthony and fiancee Lala Vasquez
Chauncey Billups and his wife Piper
Corliss Williamson and wife Michelle
Damon Jone’s girlfriend Tina Thompson
Dan Majerle’s wife Tina
Darius Miles and his wife
David Wesley and wife Shannon
Derrick Coleman and wife Gina
Desmond Mason’s wife
Dirk Nowitzki’s wife Renee
Doug Christie’s wife Jackie
Dwyane Wade and wife Siohvaugn
Eric Snow and wife Deshawn / Dikembe Mutombo and wife Rose
Glen Rice and his wife
Grant Hill and wife Tamia
Jason Kidd and ex-wife Jumana
Jermaine O’neal’s wife Mesha
Jerome Williams and wife Nikolette
Juan Dixon and his wife
Karl Malone and wife Kaye
Kenyon Martin and wife Heather
Kevin Garnett and wife Brandi
Kobe Bryant and wife Vanessa
Larry Brown’s wife
Lebron Jame and his girlfriend Savannah
Manu Ginobili and wife Marianella
Memet Okur’s wife Yeliz (former Miss Turkey)
Michael Jordan and ex-wife Juanita
Mitch Richmond and his wife
Morris Peterson and his girlfriend
Peja Stojakovic’s wife
Raef Lafrentz and wife Joie
Ray Allen and his wife
Richard Jefferson and his girlfriend Teresa Lourenko
Rick Fox and ex-wife Vanessa Williams
Robert Horry’s wife and kids
Rony Seikaly’s wife Elsa
Sabonis and his wife
Sarunas Jasikevicious and his wife
Scottie Pippen and wife Larsa
Scott Padgett and his wife
Shane Battier and wife Heidi
Shawn Marion and wife Rebecca
Stephon Marbury and wife LaTasha
Theo Ratliff and his wife
Tim Duncan and wife Amy
Tim Thomas and his wife
Tony Parker and fiancee Eva Longoria
Tony Parker and his ex-girlfriend
Tracy Mc Grady’s wife CleRenda
Tyson Chandler and wife Kim
Vlade Divac and wife Ana
Vince Carter and his ex-wife Ellen
Yao Ming and his girlfriend Ye Li
Regardless to how rich he is and whether or not he can afford them- she is just setting her self up to be " Lebron's Baby Mama" for all eternity. Babies are cute, but not cute enough to be poppin em out for a dude who won't even wife you. A lot of people are saying " at least she's black and pretty "- well yea she is black and very pretty- but she is just adding to the stereotype that is attached to us anyway that that is all that we are good for anyway. I love the fact that my husband understood what I was saying when I told him that I would NOT be his baby mama, but I would GLADLY accept the role of his wife and bare his children. Baby mama is not a good look for anyone- no matter how much money is involved.
MTO I agree with the last sentence. What is going on with all these girls having babies without getting married? I am not to judge because I was raised in a single parent home. It was hard and I wished for a two-parent home at times. My mother did a great job raising me by herself. It does not matter if Lebron has money and we all know he's ballin. But to have 3 children by the same girl and not marry her?? That's just sad!
YALL TACKY *** GOLDDIGING HOES TALKING BOUT "KEEP POPPING OUT THOSE AND "SHE GONE BE SET FOR LIFE" JUST LISTEN TO WHAT YOU SAYING JUST BECAUSE YALL BROKE *** WILL KEEP HAVING BABIES TO SECURE A FUTRE DONT MAKE HER THAT WAY!!!
SHE WAS WITH HIM BEFORE HE WAS EVEN IN THE NBA!!! YOU HOES JUST SOME HATING TRASHY ***!!!
Pooh9 is right on. I can't believe what I am reading.
Having babies so you can be set for life?!
Congratulations for lowering yourselves and other women everywhere down to a loose form oof prostitution. What the hell is wrong with you people?!
They are both dumb as hell: Him for knocking her up and her for not settling for less.
Three kids... Can't help but remember that story about players going broke 5 years out of the league. Child support can suck money like a vaccuum. Why is he having all these kids? Is he planning beyond the dressing them up in cute little expensive toddler outfits, fur coats, and child-size bling? Why have all these children if you won't even be around to play with or enrich them. Hearing them say "Look, there's daddy on TV" half the year is cute, but is it healthy?
To all the chickenheads saying "get your money" and all that lazy azz, no ambition havin' BS- that may be why Black male athletes end up marrying non black women...because some- not all- proudly carry that golddigging attitude. Of course white chicks and others may THINK that way- but don't necessarily go around *** IT.
settling to be a "baby mama" and ignoring the fact he doesn't want to get married cuz he wants to *** other women on the side---just to have kids and get a check each week is a sad and sick way of living...
then if he does marry her and he stays out all *** or gets busted with a jump off the "wife" will have the audacity to get mad...when she set the tone to begin with.
we see this time and time again and it always ends one way- DIVORCED with 3 kids at 40. look at Shaq and his ex-wife...$$$ doesn't seem to make her too happy anymore.
Smarten up Ladies- don't put a price tag on the most invaluable thing you have: YOUR SELF ESTEEM.
@ Real-Deal:
Thank you. It's not about the money (or at least it *** be). But women will have a man's baby because she loves him. Well then, he should marry you because he loves you.
Ladies, never let a man to be your priority while allowing yourself to be his option. Real talk!
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WOW...well congrats to them a child no matter the *** is always a blessing, I'm not the one to preach the whole "hurry and get married if u having babies" I always say do it when the time is right cause having A child (meaning 1) doesn't mean u will have a happy marriage, BUT Lebron and this girl been together forever and now 3 babies now that is rediculous, what the Hell is he waiting for after being together all these years and sharing 3 kids together the only thing else missing is the paper and her "status" cause I know she feels smaller than the NBA wives sitting up in those meetings when she has put in just as much if not more work as they have???????????????
You said it SpicyLatina!!! It really sickens me how some women will bare children as a means to obtain finanical support. Your children are not your personal bank accounts!!! Get a *** job, diggers!
Simply put, it's downright tacky to continue having babies out of wedlock whether it's from one man or multiple men. I don't see how any woman who has a sense of pride within herself would settle for the "baby mama" role. I know *** happens, but twice, three times...etc? Smarten up ladies.
I don't think anyone should really be worried about this chick. I'm worried about LeBron and how much money he's gonna be putting out. But then again, she looks like the type of chick who'd stay with him and accept all of his extramarital affairs and have a dozen of his kids, all because he has some clout.
I just hope she is taking care of herself on the side and getting her own career together.
This is for all ladies: Don't think having babies by a man with money will secure your financial future. Only you can secure your wealth and child's well being. You better always have a plan cause he can drop you and your babies for the next jumpoff/goldigger.
Many of those NBA players and professional athletes want to play around. They don't have time for marriage. If they did and were serious, they would've gotten married first then planned a family. Not these knuckleheads.
I have to hand it to Juanita Jordan. Although Mike was young and still wet behind the ears when they met, when she started spitting out those babies she demanded a marriage license and got it. She had to put up with a lot during their 17 yrs together but they were married and tried to make it work for a while. These girls having babies by these men with no committment at all, will be in court asking for $50,000/month. It will never end.
If one of these women were my daughter, she'd get a serious discussion about being in a relationship vs just bringing children into this world.
That's the point of dating, to get to know each other. Most serious couples marry and don't plan a family for the first 2-3 years so they can get a chance to learn how their marriage works and enjoy each other first. Some of the current generation would prefer not to know him that well and just give him babies. SMH....
Why should he respect/marry her when she keeps dropping babies every year like she's crazy? That is not cute (neither is he if you take the money away, for that matter. Oops, I digress!) And he can't use the fact that his father wasn't around as an excuse. This is just plain trifling. After she's had about six kids, he's going to dump her for someone else.
Congrats to King James and his Queen, whoops, most dudes marry their queen. She is no more than his baby maker. The greatest gift from a parent is to legitimize your children. Yes without saying the ugly "B" word, parents need to be aware of that. If not, then you are just having kids out of wedlock and that is no good for family morals.
Quick story- A friend of mine has 2 kids by 2 different woman, he didn't marry either woman. His 2 brothers have children by their wives. His pops came up to the hospital when both children were being born and told his son in front of the hospital staff, "those children can not have the family name, because they were born out odf wedlock". My boy was hurt and it seemed like a lot of his family was too, but the father said that was his parents last name and, his grand parents last name, and he always wants it to be held in respect. In the end he told his son "don't look at me, this is something you made so you live with it, I gave you a legitimate last name, I did my part".
truth hurts
HALF YOU BLACK BYTCHES DON'T GIVE A *** ABOUT MARRIAGE !
AND 90% OF YOU NYGGAS DON'T GIVE A *** EITHER !!!
ALL YOU BYTCHES IN HERE TALKIN ABOUT IS HOW THIS STUPID BABY HAVIN MACHINE IS GONNA GET PAID !!!
WHAT ABOUT THE CHILD WHO WOULD LOVE NOTHING BETTER IN IT'S LIFE THAN TO WAKE UP EVERY DAY AND HAVE BOTH THEIR MOTHER AND FATHER IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP ON PAPER, SLEEPING IN THE NEXT ROOM !!!
AIN'T ENOUGH RESPECT I CAN GIVE YALL MARRIED FOLKS IN HERE, REAL TALK ! HOLD IT DOWN CUZ MOST OF US AIN'T !
A BYTCHES WONDER WHY WE DON'T RESPECT YO @SSES !
LETTIN NYGGAS WITH NO INTENTIONS TO SOLIDIFY ANYTHING WITH YOU, BUST ONE ALL IN YOU, GET YOU PERGNANT AND KEEP PUSHIN TO THE NEXT TRICK !
I HEAR BYTCHES IN HERE TALKIN BOUT HE FINE ???
BYCTHE PLEEZ ! IF U SEEN THAT NYGGA ON THE STREET AND DIDN'T KNOW WHO HE WAS OR HOW PAID HE IS, HE WOULD LOOK LIKE A PIECE OF *** TO YOU !
A WOMAN ONCE SAID "A *** MAN IS 6 FEET TALL WHEN STANDING ON HIS MONEY" ???
MATERILAISTIC HOES !!!! LIKE HAVIN KIDS TO GET PAID IS A GOOD THING !
@ focus, I agree with your points but I disagree with you on Juanita Jordan. Juanita is the ULTIMATE golddigger. Mike married her at 4 am in Las Vegas only AFTER she threatened him with a palimony suit when she got pregnant with their oldest son. Mike had just signed the big Nike deal and didn't want the bad publicity.
As much as Mike's media relations people spun the marriage to look ideal, it was always a bit of a farce because she played him when he was "young, dumb, and full of c**". But I completely agree with you on the importance of instilling actual dating and getting to know people in our children. We need to instill those values.
@ greyeyedchick, thank you for pointing out that fact. Sports mirrors society and in both the majority of black men that get MARRIED, marry black women. The numbers across society are over 90% and even in the NBA its a clear majority if you look at players and who they go home to. But it doesn't matter because nyggas love to complain and they will take a few high profile cases and try to stretch them to look like the majority just to have something else to dis black men over.
And it is absolutely hilarious to read the comments of a lot of these shallow, superficial no morals having chickenheads advocating her to be a golddigger and "get her money"...Ridiculous!
WOMAN WILL STAY WITH MEN WITH OUT BEING MARRIED BECAUSE THEY LOVE THEM AND THINK THEY WILL MARRY EVENTUALLY!!
BUT TO ALL YALL SAYING "SINGLE FAMILY" EVEN IF THEY DONT WORK IM SURE LEBRON GONE BE IN THEIR LIFE!!! TO ME SINGLE MEAN ONLY ONE PARENT IS TAKING CARE OF A CHILD!!!THIS IS TOTALLY DIFFRENT!!!
SO IF THEY GET MARRIED AND GET DIVORCED THEN WHAT!!! MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING BUT IM JUST COMMENTING TO THE ONES THAT THINK A MARRIAGE WOULD MAKE EVERYTHING ALL RIGHT AND THE CHILD WOULD BE A GENIOUS OR SOMETHING!!!
I'm with the person who told the story about the grandather coming to the hospital and setting things straight. We have gotten to the point that anything goes in the black community. That is why our homes and neighborhoods are such a mess and out-of-wedlock births are rampant along with baby daddies and baby mamas who can't properly care, raise or educate their children. You have to set and maintain standards.
Marry the girl Lebron! What's the *** problem! And I'm mad at her for not getting the dude to marry her before spitting out a village of kids for him. And of course, the gold digging baby mama brigade is in full effect on here. Talking 'bout how she set for life and keep having kids. You black chicks are a trip. I swear, you give good girls like me a bad name! ***!
STOP TALKING ABOUT THE MONEY YOU STUPID HOES ????? THAT'S ALL YALL SAYIN, SHE GONNA GET PAID REGARDLESS ????
F@#%*** THAT ! THAT AIN'T AS IMPORTANT TO AN INFANT, LOVING PARENTS ARE !!!
AN EVEN IF THE GET DIVORCED, THE FACT THAT HE GOT MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE MEANS THAT HE COMMITTED HIMSELF TO HIS FAMILY !!!
***, DON'T YOU BYTCHES SEE THE LOGIC IN THIS ???????
VERY PRETTY WOMAN....HIM BLAH...but any who. I'm never the one to be negative so I guess I'll just pose this as a question...cause I'm really curious. Do you get money PER CHILD when you file child support...or do these women really really love thier man. I'm just asking cause I see the comments about girl keep pushing them out and get your money. Having a baby is a really happy..BUT PAINFUL experience. I can't see just pushing out baby after baby after baby for the sake of more dollars if it doesn't work. I'd really have to love a man's DIRTY DRAWS to keep having babies for him. LL Cool J's wife did the same thing too...baby after baby after baby...wooooosh. Hell I'm tired and acheing just thinking about it. Well if it's legitamately out of L-O-V-E...then congrats.
KATTDADDY...TELL THEM DUSTY HOES AGAIN!!!!!!! ALOT OF WOMEN REALLY SELL THEMSELVES VERY *** FOR A FEW BUCKS....AND TO ME THAT'S RIGHT UP THERE WITH STAYING WITH A MAN WHO BEATS YOUR AZZ DAILY CAUSE HE IS TAKING CARE OF YOU FINANCIALLY. WOMEN LIKE THAT HAVE ISSUES....BETTER GET OUT THERE AND GET YOUR OWN *** CHEESE...SO YOU CAN BE YOUR OWN BOSS!!! I RUN MY *** AND THE *** CAN EITHER GO WITH THE FLOW (AND MAKE IT TWICE AS NICE) OR HIT THE DOOR!!!!
It is almost accepted that Black folks don't marry who we have babies with. No matter what rose-colored glasses you wear, it is never going to be viewed with the same perceived respect that being in a marriage has.
It is a selfish act to knowingly choose to have your babies outside of wedlock, and then tell them that it is all the same. I believe, and some of you may not, that when we don't marry each other we create a situation for our children that just gives them another hurdle they must face - the stereotypical baby mama family archetype.
I have friends who are single mothers and are holding it down, and it isn't right that the men are on the peripheral, just support checks and weekend visits. This is as well for single fathers raising their own, too. Do you realize how much a two-parent family can accomplish, vice each parent struggling on his or her own?
LeBron and those like him need to step up to the plate, marry these women, and stop playing at being men. Women need to develop their own lives and get their education, make their own money, and stop using children as a ploy to keep a hand in someone's pocket! Because at the end of the day, when your child asks about why he is here, and why didn't you love him enough to marry, what can you say?
Kinda deep, but I had to say ti.
WOW, why is marriage and then kids not normal in the black community? I am 30 and married with 2 kids, but notice that there are not too many other black couples in our age group that are married or even in a real committed relationship. A lot of my husbands friends have several "baby mamas" that they basically got pregnant, and a lot of the girls only got pregnant to get a welfare check and some section 8 cause they knew the guys ain't have no money to support the kids before they had em! Its a sad state of affairs in our community when women grow up and think they are officially a woman when they get pregnant, get off their mother's welfare budget and open thier own cases.....
What is wrong with a regular job,paying rent like everyone else, and committment to a man who is committed to you and willing to give you the respect you deserve by marrying you? Just think of your kids at school who have to always explain why they brother have a different last name than them? Or is rocking their mother's last name cause Daddy ain't even claim them? NICE story Jimbaland, thats why we can't ever trace our ancestry in our community! All you will find is the women!
LMAO @ kattdaddy2 and how he always strait cussing folks out, but at least he's speaking the truth...It is VERY trifling for chics to look at their children as pay checks, yeah that's horrible...just like it's horrible for a man to look like he is using the mother of his children as a "bedwarmer" as someone called it...To say ur not sure if ur ready for marriage, but ur working towards it is one thing, but to say "so what if we ever get married, I'm paid anyways" is one of the most selfish attitudes to have not to mention lowering your self-worth
@KEKO1720,ladytee35, ivorymarie WHY WOULD THE 3 OF YOU MAKE THAT ASSUMPTION ABOUT HER WHEN U DON'T EVEN KNOW HER? I MEAN IVORYMARIE TO SAY KUDOS TO HER WE KNOW HOW U NBA CHICKS GET DOWN, WHAT IS THAT TO CONGRATULATE, IF SHE WAS JUST HAVING CHILDREN TO HAVE A PAYCHECK? @KEKO1720 YOU AREN'T ANY BETTER TO SAY SHE MAKING SURE SHE DON'T HAVE TO WORK AGAIN. I MEAN IF WOMEN ARE DOING THIS THESE DAYS DOESN'T THAT CHEAPENS WHAT THE CHILD MEANS TO?
THEN U 3 ACTING AS IF OK TO USE A CHILD A PAYCHECK. THAT SICKENS ME.
***, KattDaddy went the fu(*** Off. Yall Bit(hes better gt yall house in order because if yall sit yall triflin azz down waiting on a man to take care of you and your *** kids it ain't happening. We women have to keep our eyes on the prize and that's out kids. Hell if the ***@r left your azzes with 3-4 kids you have to know how to grind. take care of your own for only the strong survives. For all my ladies that Katt Daddy istalking about. Don't just sit down in the houses with the kids running around outside waiting on your Lebron. Take your azzes out and get an Education, for Knowledge is something that no one can take from you.
Dang. I'm usually one to say marriage or not, long as it's love, but.....I mean....that's based off of possible intentions. We don't know what they intend to do. Something I'm sure. Hopefully.
I have three kids by one man, who is now deceased. We were never married, but honestly, that was because I wanted this BIIIIG extravagant wedding(real big, lol) and we were both in school at the time. I can't say I just "settled for love", because we did intend to get married, and maybe Lebron and his girl intend to do that too.
But yall women screamin keep having kids for the money??? Let's get to that.
How degrading of a statement. See, that's why we laughed at today, black women, baby mommas, etc. cuz of attitudes like that. I myself have turned down a couple "proposals" from guys that would have probably set me in a beautiful home, etc., never having to work again. Why? Because I'm not FOR SALE. I take care of my children, on my own, even when their father was alive. I got off my azz and made a living MYSELF, that way my kids can say "mama did it". I don't want to be some man's dependent, neither will my daughter. And IF I did have a man taking care of me, you better know we'd be MARRIED, or he wouldn't have to worry bout taking care of ish, cuz I do that first AND last. There's NO check that can amount to REAL LOVE. Believe that, especially when raising children. yall got the game f**ked up backwards...
I don't care if my man was the Richest in existence, I'm not gonna have a baby just to secure some kind of check! That ish is trifling, and if you think that way, you're a part of the problem with our next generation, and I hope you don't have or won't have kids. Period. Then when the man leaves ya azz, or cheats on you, or you can't get all that you thought you were gonna get, you wanna call him all kinds of "no-good n*ggas"??? Please. Women like that are the first ones screamin "N*GGAS AIN'T ISH", "I CAN'T FIND NO GOOD MAN", etc.
That's sad that some women look at it like that, but will be the FIRST to call another woman a b*tch or a hoe, regardless of the reason. I wish there was no such thing as child support/alimony, then we'd see how many would be quick to spread their legs, or for that matter, walk down an aisle. If there was no such thing, there would probably be a lot more REAL relationships, cuz "hoes" would have to stay in the crib, or get out and get a job to make a living, leaving the path open for REAL WOMEN and REAL MEN to link up. wouldn't THAT be funny? And God knows there would A LOT less kids born. (...or would there be?) Lol. Oh, my bad, we'd have to also eliminate food stamps and section 8 for that! LMAO. Then we'd see who's real and who's not. Lol. THAT would be keeping it real.
It's one thing to have a baby with someone you indeed love and not be married, it's some f**ked up ish to think "oh ish, girl he rich! D*mn right I'ma have his baby!!!"....GTFOH. Sound silly az h*ll! Like PAC said..."you wonder dey call you B*TCh!"
I wish there was no such thing as child support/alimony, then we'd see how many would be quick to spread their legs, or for that matter, walk down an aisle. If there was no such thing, there would probably be a lot more REAL relationships, cuz "hoes" would have to stay in the crib, or get out and get a job to make a living, leaving the path open for REAL WOMEN and REAL MEN to link up. --------------------------------------------------- I'm lovin that part!!!
She's a cute girl, but LeBron is still wet behind the ears and it's a shame at what money do to these athletes and artists...*** SHAME!
If they're having kids b/c they want them and love each other, cool...but, don't pop them out b/c you KNOW you can afford them!!! NOT COOL!
I hear Katdaddy and I don't necessarily feel like i'm one of the females he's speaking of, but IF I am- I just feel a need to clarify... I'm not condoning and/or applauding having the kids out of wedlock. All i'm saying is- Obviously SHE doesn't care- so why are y'all stressin him marrying her, more than she is? She's probably lookin at the big picture of things (That she can easily live off of child support if he ever leaves)- And no that doesn't make it right, but that must be where her head is at... or why else would she keep poppin out babies? And no, I'm not one of the females with numerous kids and numerous baby daddies. I don't have any children, but mine is more because I'm not willing to risk getting stretch marks until I have a serious commitment... period.
Diddy must be Lebron's mentor. How old is he again?? and already on his third? *Word to the wise or at least who think they are* When you gonna rant and rave and preach about how women dont respect themselves you may wanna consider using words other than bytches & ho's to enunciate, just a thought. SMDH
@ MrCBR1000
IF YOU AIN'T READY TO MARRY YOUR CHICK, DON'T GET HER @SS PREGNANT, THEN YOU WON'T HAVE TO CONTEMPLATE MARRIAGE.
MARRIAGE IS A SELFLESS ACT. YOU ARE GIVING YOUR MIND BODY AND SOULD TO A WOMAN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
THEIR IS NOTHING MORE MORAL THAN A MAN GIVING UP ALL THE FREE P#ZZY IN THE WORLD, TO BE A FAMILY WITH ONE WOMAN.
YOU ARE DEDICATING YOUR LIFE TO THIS WOMAN AND THE CHILDREN YOU HAVE TOGETHER BEFORE GOD.
@ DREDOG, I WAS NEVER MARRIED, I WAS ENGAGED TO MY FIANCE AND IT DIDN'T WORK OUT, BUT I STILL WANT TO BE MARRIED ONE DAY.
Oh okay Kattdaddy. I too would like to be married someday but if I'm not then that's fine too. Don't have kids either...just wasn't in the cards for me and now my bioligical clock is running on fumes....but overall I have a wonderful life and I'm truly blessed.
It's nice to see a man who feels strongly about marriage. Most men run for the border...LOL.
@jimberland- I WISH MORE BLACK FATHERS HAD THAT MIND SET. BACK IN THE DAY- IT WAS SO TABOO TO HAVE KIDS WITH ANY AND EVERYONE. BUT YOUR FRIENDS DAD WAS RIGHT. I WISH MY HUSBAND HAD BEEN THINKING THAT WAY WHEN HIS BM HAD THEIR KID. SHE GAVE MY STEPSON MY HUSBANDS WHOLE NAME. AND THEN SHE ACTUALLY HAD THE NERVE TO TELL ME SOME YEARS LATER THAT HAVING THAT BABY SECURED HER PLACE IN MY HUSBANDS LIFE AND OUR BANK ACCOUNT. WELL SURPRISE, SURPRISE WE HAVE PERMANENT CUSTODY AND HER RIGHTS WERE TERMINATED. BUT THE MESSED UP PART IS THAT NOW THAT SHE HAS NO RIGHTS WHICH EQUALS (a) NO CHILD SUPPORT (b) NO TIES TO MY HUSBAND AND (c) NO WELFARE FOR THIS KID- SHE DOESN'T EVEN WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM. SHE HAS SEEN HIM FOR ALL OF 30 MINUTES IN THE LAST 2 YEARS AND SHE HAS ONLY SPOKEN TO HIM TWICE IN SO MANY MONTHS. SEE WHAT BEING A BABY MAMA GETS YOU- NOTHING. NO RESPECT, NO REVERENCE, AND IF THE YOU GET ON THE RIGHT NERVES TOO MANY TIMES- NO KID!!!!!!
@ esotericdredz and kattdaddy2
Chuch my brothas.
The saddest part of this is people are still trying to act like being married isn't as important as taking care of the kids. The problem is that on begat the other, and a cycle of single family homes starts and continues when certain values are passed down or never present in the home.
The reason we value things certain thing in the African-American community (new shoes, money, fancy things, *** everything that moves, music over education) comes from a SLAVE mentality.
That's what makes the *** sad. Masta could goto the slave house and bang any woman he wanted and just produce more workers. Its the loss of family, identity and self worth that everyone loses a little at a time everytime a story like this is celebrated that hurts us.
This *** may be to deep for a funky a$$ MTO rumor, but think about it. She's more content to pump out workers of her masta (black or not, the money some of yall hos keep praising LJ for will control her, and thats slave ***) and she will never have the pride and respect she could have had if she would have got off her back and stood up and demanded to be a wife.
If you don't want to be called *** and hos, don't act like it. Men, if you don't want to be called ***, coon or sambo, demand better.
Quit *** settling.
I agree Outkast1914- if that's not how you wanna be perceived, do something to change. I hear baby mamas all the time saying that they hate to be referred to as that- FOR REAL??? What are you then? Usually I hear baby daddies saying that it's not their kid, but the same applies to them. Being a bm or a bd is a bad look. Husband and wife sound so much more suitable.
LaBron was drafted to the NBA right out of high school so if they were together in high school her motives can still be questionable. I am not saying she is with him for the money but one coould assume that by her actions. I was raised by a single parent(so I have nothing against Baby Momma's) but GOD want's us to have kids as man&wife adn that's how it should be.
How does a baby = more money??? that's a *** shame that some women carry that mentality. Wanna know what really equals more money? EDUCATION. Bachelors degrees. Better yet Masters degrees. Get it how u live! Be a better role model for your kids and make sure you NEVER have to depend on no man. It's a relatively simple plan and a great investment. A mind is a terrible thing to waste =)
she was with him since high school but i heard that she aint get with him until he was known all around the world to be an nba prospect. soo, i dont know what her intentions are ;) but i do know that if i was her mom i would grab her by the neck and tell her to stop poppin out these babies for him until he marry u!! dammit.lol.
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@katdaddy and esotericdredz - I do agree with your strong viewpoints. In this day and age, if we don't raise our children to expect nothing less but the best from themselves (for instance - not settling for just being a baby mama or baby daddy), then they will settle for any old thing. Any sister that thinks this is cute, or that it is all good, then I am sorry but, you are blind.
I feel that it is in our best interest to be promoting strong marriages and raising our kids (boys and girls) to be strong and self-sufficient. To raise a girl to be more than an incubator with the hopes that she gets pregnant by a "baller" is something we all should be doing. To raise a boy to look for the best of qualities he wants in a WIFE and not settle for anything less (even if it is a video "girl" with a huge backside) is to give him some tools to keep him out of these situations.
It is a sign of respect and love for you to put a wedding band on your partner, and to be committed enough to be a couple when having your babies. But in our twisted society, the P. Diddys and LBJs of the world are idolized, and we accept that type of misogynistic behavior as a rule, and not the exception.
Whether this is JUST a rumor or not, it has opened up a great discussion!
@blknyte - you are funny! Didn't know it took all of that!
It's a trip how a good amount of black men are quick to get black women pregnant, but not quick to marry them. And this is happening all too much to be just a coincidence.
I hate to say this, but I bet if his baby momma were white, he would of been married her by now! That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it! SMH
@Shesofly - I see what you are saying, but it does take two folks to get there. If you are going to have ***, we need to stop looking at condoms like water balloons and use them for real! INSIST that a man uses a condom, and make sure you are using your protection, too.
BTW - getting pregnant by men who may not be faithful shows the desperation to keep someone in your life that could cause you to lose your life. Hm - we wish that he is faithful, but if he doesn't love you enough to wife you, why should he be?
Women should be quick to deny the man the punanny if there is no real commitment, or at the very least, if your carnal nature takes over, shield yourself up!
I hear ya rozgirl and MzJSUfan :)
I guess I'm flip flopping on this issue because I remember the stories that MTO was putting up about Monica and her baby daddy. I justified at that time that maybe Monica is happy with the situation as it is and that all women are not looking to get married just because they have a baby or two with a man.
But then I think back on the other non married but have kids couples: LeBron and his baby momma, Diddy and Kim (which I know pretty much there's no hope for them), La La and Carmello....The list goes on and on.
Bottom line is there are way too many black baby mommas and not enough black wives. It is sad when you think about it.
wdff?? didnt she have a child like last summer not to long ago d-wades wife had her 2nd child?.smh..i guess thats all shes good for ..poppin out babies..lol..you know she gonna drag his azz to the court 4 child support..with all them babys popping out left *** right..bron needs to keep endorsing himself:it will come in handy..how he has all dat energy off the court as well as on the court? good lord..he must hiding a secret..must have superpowers or some ***..daymn
in madea's voice "i be stroking,i be stroking!!!" rofl..lay it down bron!! lol
Some of ya'll are some bitter *** hating as women. *** ya'll got some kind of chip on ya shoulder against white, asian, latin, arab, sh i t *** near every woman.
Why do you feel inferior?
I know the attractive black women don't, because they don't hate on any and every non-black or light skinned woman, but most of ya'll some crabby as women.
I can't stand a female who always complaining, arguing, and hating. Most guys can't regardless of skin color.
Maybe some of ya'll need to check yo selfs.
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She isnt adding to anything! You are a stereotype if you let herself be. IDK if anyone watched them on Oprah years ago but they have been together since they were like 16 years old so she is far from just the baby mama. MAYBE THEY DONT WANT TO BE MARRIED!! IT ISNT LYKE HE DOESNT HAVE THE MONEY. THEY ARE YOUNG RICH BLACK AND BEAUTIFUL THEY SHOULD HAVE AS MANY KIDS AS THEY CAN HANDLE I WISH THEM THE BEST! MARRIED OR NOT!
Another thing is that she isnt a single parent. They live TOGETHER and are raising the children TOGETHER!!
And all you losers bigging up Kobe what difference does it make when he str8 cheated on her and did her dirty. Marriage means nothing!! You are either commited to someone or you arent if Lebron and his wifey are happy then let them be!!!
@shessofly - the media is happily putting Black men and women at war with each other, by promoting the perceived negative relationships and activities of us, and downgrading the positive ones. We should cheer each other on instead of butting heads.
Yes, our men are wife-ing up white, oriental, greek, hell - a whole rainbow coalition of women, but it isn't as big an epidemic as we are led to believe. I looooove Black men, and if I do find myself at the altar, that is who I hope to be standing next to. But to just have some babies for him without the ring - naaaaw - I'll pass on that one. I deserve so much more.
@juice, if a man is dating a woman of another ethnic origin, he wasn't for me anyway, so why waste the energy drinking some bitter-azz haterade? More power to him, but I think that some Black women feel that when Black men are seemingly rushing to marry women of other races, it hurts to think that some of our own color do not think we are good enough.
Black men love us, but we have to love ourselves as well. All Black men aren't dogs, and all Black women aren't haters, so everyone needs to put on their grown people "draws" and STOP BYTCHING ABOUT EACH OTHER!!!!!
Ok...I am going to put my two cents in..as an educated black woman...I don't understand why he wouldn't want to marry her...having all them babies and not marrying the woman for me is the ultimate sign of disrespect..I don't care how much he hooks her up...he didn't give her the ultimate hook up..marriage..and I am not talking about being engaged for 5 years either..I am talking about actually going through with the whole thing...and no marriage is not the end all but if she is good enough to lay with then she should be good enough to carry your name. Plus having all them babies back to back isn't good for your body either...childbirth is so tramautic your body needs time to rest and recover. And all you skank *** *** out there telling her to keep having them or she going to get paid...GET SOME *** RESPECT FOR YOURSELVES!!
How does anyone know if Lebron and Savannah want to get married right now anyway??? The way I see it, it’s their prerogative whether to get married or not… Marriage is a lot of work and I’m speaking from experience… Simply because two people have children in common doesn’t mean that they should enter into marriage! Anyone can care for and raise children, but it takes HARD WORK to have a successful marriage. Bottom line, children shouldn’t be the basis of getting married. There has to be more factors involved or DIVORCE will be the end results!!!
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@KASEY30 LET ME BREAK IT DOWN FOR U IT SEEMS U HAVE TROUBLE READING. I SAID I HATE THE TERM BABY'S MAMA OR DADDY. I SAID NOTHING ABOUT I HATE BEING CALLED THAT.
FOR YOUR INFO HONEY, I HAVE NO KIDS OUT OF WEDLOCK, ME & MY HUSBAND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 6YRS 5MONTHS & BEEN MARRIED 4YRS 6 MONTHS OUT OF THOSE 6 AD JUST HAD OUR FIRST CHILD FOR BOTH OF US 27 DAYS AGO SWEETHEART, SO READ RIGHT WHEN U COME AT ME.
THE ONLY THING I'M SAYING IS I FEEL LIKE THAT TERM SHOWS DISRESPECT FOR THE WOMEN THAT HAVE HAD KIDS BY MEN THEY'RE NOT WITH OR VICE VERSA. ONLY MY OPINION
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Hey congrats man..children are a blessing...and people need to stop with all this marriage nonsense. they are married.. the minute you lay down with someone you are married to that person..God don't recognize no paper from no white man so stop it people...at least he is with this one girl and don't have 3 children with 3 different women....
@ Smiley5, well said! Just because people have a child or children together doesn’t mean that they should get married. One must have more than children in common to enter into marriage!!!
Some of you need to read Dov Heller’s Golden rules for finding your life partner below… It makes a lot of sense to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr. / Miss. Right!
If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: "We're in love"; I believe this is the #1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love.
Though this may sound "not politically correct", there's a profound truth here. Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again:
"You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone"; you need a lot more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION...1: Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone.
What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.
Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or (2) You can grow apart.
50% of the people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life! Bottom line; and marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION...2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship. Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust - i.e. trust that I won't get "punished"; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague's of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION...3: Is he/she a mensch?
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions.
Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves?
A teacher of mine defines a good person as "someone who is always striving to be good and do the right "; .So ask about your Significant other What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) People who are dedicated to seeking comfort.
Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION..4: How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure. Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self-absorbed? To measure this, think about the following:
How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc… How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone who treats others poorly will eventually treat you poorly as well.
QUESTION..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?
Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to "improve"; them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it: "You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse" If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart.
It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself in trouble because you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective....
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance....
It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention....Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know, or appreciate you?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An old proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye"; Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, pity, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life"; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, ***, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG ARE: 1. TRUST 2. COMMUNICATION 3. INTIMACY 4. A SENSE OF HUMOR 5. SHARING TASKS 6. SOME GETAWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN 7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, Notes 8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS. 9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE 10.GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT
@Chicken80...You said you hate the term baby mama, but that is what Savannah has turned herself into. That's completely her fault since she is allowing it to happen. I am sure she can afford to buy some form of birth control if she wanted to.
@Smiley....I agree with you to an extent, but why have three kids with someone who if you are not ready to commit to them. *** Savannah have thought about that before the 2nd child?
@ Butta, I agree with you to an extent as well, as I wouldn’t just sit back and have child after child with a man and he’s not ready to commit to me. However, we don’t know if that’s the case with Lebron and Savannah; we’re just speculating. God gave us freewill. Therefore, everyone has the right to choose how to live their lives… If this is working for Lebron and Savannah right now, then I don’t see what’s the problem. Additionally, if they both wake up tomorrow or ten years from now and decides to get married, it’s their choice. I think there could be a number of a reason why they haven’t jumped the broom yet. However, simply because they haven’t done so while bringing forth their third child, doesn’t mean that they should be ridiculed for it!!!
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4 Smiley, you’re absolutely right!! Btw, nice smile, y don’t you give us a peek @ da rest?
My wife and I had our daughter and son before getting married. I didn’t marry her just because of that reason. I don’t think I would be happy if my wife had agreed to enter into marriage with me just because we had kids together. At the end of the day it’s easy to bring children into the world. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Children should add to that commitment along with many other factors. I am yet to see a successful marriage that was entered into based on children alone.
@ Leadin, good hear it from a male standpoint. Good comment! People some people thinks that marriage is the answer to everything and I just don’t get that because if that was the case, the divorce rate wouldn’t be so high. Marriage gives you status; it dosen’t guarantee you happiness!!! Thanx for complimenting me on my smile! And if a picture is what you’re asking to see of me, sorry I don’t believe in putting myself out there like that… A friend of mine had a bad experience with posting her picture on the net and that made me look at things differently. And by the way, I know you’re not flirting; married and all… Not cool Leadin, not cool at all, LOL!!!
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Its so funny how quick people are to judge a situation they no absolutely nothing about. These idiots are on here talking like they know Lebron and Savannah personally. First of all, marrriage does not equal happiness. One track minded hoes on here talking bout being his baby mamma is tacky, no what's tacky is people who get married for the WRONG *** REASONS, while the "husband" beats the hell out of his "wife" not to mention infidelity and completely dishonoring their vows. Marriage is a wonderful thing, when its right. Its their life, let them live it. All you fake ***, insignificant, over opinionated hoes have nothing better to do but be in someone else's business. Get a life!!!!!!!
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@TravelAgent
yeah but wear in the Bible does it say you need a paper from the state to prove that you are married... and who is talking about fornicating.. I said the minute you lay down with someone you are married...period.. did adam and Eve have a ceromony? marriage means when a man and a women comes together period. you don't need no ***...God does not recognize those things..
FYI.. to all you baby mamas and baby fathers please get along for goodness sakes because if you don't your little crumbsnatchers will pick up on this and manipulate the both of you against each other when they get to be teenagers!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've a bratty teenage sister who is doing it now, so take my advice!!!!!!
she need to learn from latrell sprewell baby momma. he was with her since alabama (college) and never married her. well now she stuck with either 3 or 4 kids in milwaukee i think. that is where he left her. she still trying to get her money. he told her he would "always" take care of her. YEAH RIGHT. make it legal is all i am saying. babies are a blessing. but marriage is too. a union before GOD.
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okay he left her azz in purchase, ny. but i know he had left her azz someplace that he USED to play ball. and up the creek without a paddle. get a clue ma ma. and yes it was FOUR kids he left her with not 3. AND a baby he pure had with somebody else. get a clue girl. buy one. SOMETHING!!!
Its nothing stopping that man from marrying her with the exception of he does not want to. Black women always the baby mama never a bride. I changed it from a brides maid because most women wont be married and will never marry. Lebron will probably get married one day but more than likely not to her. :( He knows he does not have to marry her so why would he.
He should marry her because its dumb to keep impregnating someone you have no intentions on being with. Prenups are important if you have money but they are suppose to be first. PRe-Nup Marriage then baby not the other way around you defeat the whole purpose of a prenup if you have babies popping up everywhere before you even get married.
We're like the same age wtf..... wait he's a like a year older like 23..... wth is wrong with them at this age with all these kids.
There are people who stay together 20, 30, 40 years and more and stay solid w/o being married..... marriage is just putting it on paper.... are people worried about their commitment to each other or just if it's legal and what if he dies who gets the money?
