: MediaTakeOut.com has learned that Chilli from TLC is talking openly about her past relationships - including her relationships with Usher and Marlon Wayans. The former TLC star gave a recent interview to blogger Necole Bitchie where she was all too happy to talk about Usher and Marlon - both of whom are in happy monogamous relationships (Usher with wife Tameka Foster and Marlon with the mother of his two children Angelica Zackary):
Here's what Chilli said about Marlon Wayans:
This is gonna be big of me to say this. I have never ever said this in my whole life. Ever. But yeah, I did let one good guy get away and that was Marlon Wayans. Oh Wow! See no one knew!
And it’s funny because I met Marlon when I was 20, when I had just got in TLC and you remember that movie “Mo Money”? I remember we were on tour with Hammer and we had went to the movies and I saw him in that movie. I was like “Oh My God he is soooo cute!!!” So we went out that night and I ended up seeing him that night. And I met him for the first time and we just clicked instantly.
Girl, he is the funniest man in the world. And the thing that was so wonderful about him is that we were friends but he really did love me. Like if I had to look back and say “who really loved and adored me” it was him.
And so my dumb butt, I can really put this on me now. I was caught up in the “bad guy” and how it’s just this challenge. I like to call them projects. We think we can just fix and tweak but as you get older you become a lot smarter and realize people are who they are. They don’t change. And the older they get the more they become that true person so little things that you didn’t see early on, you really are gonna see it later. But ya know, we are friends even til this day. He has two kids with his girl and all that but I’m like maaaaaaaaaaaannn. So he’s the one I let get away.
Here's what Chilli said about dating Usher:
I will say this and I know it’s gonna be everywhere. Lord, Tameka gonna be trying to fight people. But honestly I will say, although Marlon [Wayans] is the one that got away, Usher is the one that I truly did love. \
Like that was truly my first adult love. I love him very much and I will always love him. I don’t know how you love someone that deeply and just stop loving them. I’m not in love with him anymore but I can’t say that I don’t love him anymore. And of course I do want him to be happy and all but me and him had what I never had in any of my other relationships, and that was chemistry. Even in that picture that you have up. Any picture that you see with the two of us, you see it. It’s just there! I could be standing next to him till this day and people will be like “Wow”.
It’s not that you are wondering if we are back together again, it’s just that we look like we just go together.
Wow ... ole girl really did put her own business out there....
wow, that was interesting. Didnt even know she was in a relationship with Marlon. The confessions about really loving usher. Thats real talk and you gotta appreciate that. She wasn't talking reckless just stating the odvious....she really loved dude. I think only a secure woman or man can admit real shit like that.
i mean....what's the problem? she kept it real and said how she felt. i NEVER knew she was talkin to Marlon! lol And I'm sure Usher wishes he hadn't 'confessed' and they were still together! But hey....life is life. No need in keeping stuff bottled up. Good for her for keepin it 100.
Because we ALL have the "one who got away" and we ALL have that ex that could still "get it", LMAO!!!!
Poor thing! Nah, for real tho, she should have tried to work things out with him if she still felt that way. I don't think she got any closure from that breakup. But ya gotta love her honesty. I think she sees that they both (Usher & Marlon) have moved on and are in loving relationships and she is all alone and it hurts.
Wow she was really honsest. I really appreciate that.
I get how she feels about Usher. You cant just dead every feeling you had for someone u felt that deep for esp if you connected on every level. She's just not In Love with him any more.
I wonder why ole gurl wait for them to get married before she do her lil tell all? Hmm? Misery sure loves company.But her and Usher was a great look....since he couldn't have me...but she needs to stop it now and let them men be I bet Mecka finna be all up in dat azz.lol.
somebody feelin it now... I know she be at home like 'Damn, my exs have moved on and got right with somebody and i am standing here in this lonely ass kitchen. **In Katt Williams voice** Won't you send me somebody Jesus!!!'
CHILLI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1GET OVER IT YOU WILL NEVER HAVE USHER TRY MARLON WAYNE AGIAN.USHER WIFE WILL HUNT YOU DOWN FOR LIFE WASH YOUR BACK YOU GUYS LIVE IN THE SAME PLACE ATL AND IS SMALL TAMEKA RAYMOND WILL HUNT FOR YOU SO STOP TALKING TRASH ABOUT HER SON LOL HUSBAND. YOU SHOULD GO FOUND HER OLDEST SON HE TAKE YOU SO YOU CAN BE CLOSED TO USHER.LOL
well she didnt say anything negative about anyone..I never knew she dated Marlon, but I could see how she was diggin him.. a sense of humor is always attractive, plus hes cute..as far as Usher goes, as ugly, short and skinny as he is, he was probably hittin it right and she aint had d*ck that good since him..sounds like shes crying for it..homegirl is talking about "chemistry", yeah right, its called "beatin it right"
AWW I KNOW THE FEELING GURL GET OVER IT THOUGH GIRL LET THAT MAN BE HAPPY WIT HIS NEW FAMILY BOTH OF THEM!! I DID ALWAYS THINK HER AND USHER MADE THE "CUTIEST COUPLE" AND THOUGHT THEY'ED HAVE THE CUTIES BABIES EVER TOGETHER BUT, HE'S MOVED ON,SHE NEEDS TO DO THE SAME. YOUR BEAUTIFUL GIRL SUM ONE GONNA SCOOP YOU UP GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT!!!
WOW, I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW THAT SHE USE TO DATE MARLON WAYANS, THAT'S NEWS TO ME!!!...THAT WAS VERY BRAVE OF HER TO TALK OPENLY ABOUT THOSE TWO, SHE'S JUST BEING HONEST ABOUT HER FEELINGS, SO PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT THAT CAUSE THERE'S NOT A LOT OF CELEBS OUT THERE WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO SHARE THEIR FEELINGS LIKE THAT...LUV YA CHILLI!!!!!
YOU SEE LADIES, IF YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO KEEP LOVING THAT PERSON...BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T YOU'LL BE ON MTO TALKING BOUT HOW MUCH YOU MISS HIM -LOL...BUT SERIOUSLY!
It's about time she got rid of all of those bitter feelings...I thought she was going to need to be put on suicide watch for a minute...Big woman of you Chili...Very pretty girl...
I used to be so crazy about TLC...lol
Chilli always been one of my favorite people. I am not feeling the whole single woman talking about people who are married ish but I guess she is trying to keep it real. Its just kind of Tacky and shows no tact at all. Its kind of messy and if they were meant to be they would be so Why not just leave all of it alone and stop digging up old stuff. I guess when you get older and your clock is ticking to find people when it starts running down you think about the decisions that you made when you were younger but time does not move back it moves foward. I wish her the best and hopefully she will make better decisions in the present.
@Missmedia81-I have to agree with you..I like Chili and I know shes not doing this out of malice, but I dont think its cool to talk about your ex that candidly when theyre married or in a relationship and have children with someone else..and she needs to stop digging up the past..she didnt have to be that detailed, she could have just said she will always love them, and left it at that..its funny because she started off talking about Usher saying-Tameka is gonna wanna fight someone..lol..so Chili knows it wasnt right for her to open up her business like that..but Chili I hope you find happiness
ITS HARD IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS U KEEP HOLDING ON TO OH ME N HIM LOOKED PERFECT TOGETHER,MY HEART GOES OUT TO CHILLI CAUSE SHE HAS TO REALLY LET HIM GO I WAS IN THE SAME SH!T HE BOUGHT THE RING HE WAS THERE WHEN I HAD OUR DAUGHTER, THEN BANG HE LEFT ME FOR SUMTHING UGLIER THAN TAMEKA FOSTER ONCE A MAN HAS AN EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT TO SOME1 ELSE ITS A WRAP HE THREW CHILLI O-U-T THE HOUSE WIT HER SON N LAUGHED ABOUT IT N SISTER2SISTER MAG F HIM CHILLI WHEN U START AGING U JUST WANT SUM BODY 2 LOVE U I FEEL BAD 4 U HE USED HER 4 HIS CAREER HE KNEW THEY WOULD LOOK GOOD 2GETHER N ALL HIS VIDEOS. HE DID NOT LOVE CHILLI BUT UR FANS LOVE U GURL
it takes a minute to sink in, but...you can't force someone to love you...Chilli's beautiful and most people think I am...but we've both been dumped...Chilli's problem is she's always been the object of love and when she finally fell...she fell hard...it's gonna take some more time...but as my dad always said: Time heals all wounds....it's not about beauty...its about how you make a man feel...
Well you live and you learn. At some point in our lives we take time to reflect on the wrong turns we'va made in life or the missed opportunities, but you make peace with it and move on. And hopefully come out a better person as a result of it. But life is crazy, and you never know what fate has in store...just when you think the deal is sealed, it can be broken. I'm not saying she and Usher will get back together, but you never know what life has in store later down the road. TRUST! I've lived that love scenario.
I can respect her being so candid. Takes a lot of nerve to put yourself out there, knowing it's sort of playing yourself. I don't think she was being disrespectful, just maybe exorcising some demons!!!!
WE ALL NEED THERAPY!!!!
Let It Burn Chili!
I Swear I Wish URSHER Had Married Chili Instead of That Broad He Wound-Up With!!! Yuck!
If Marlon came back her way right now, I bet she STILL wouldn't accept him. She's only looking at the fact that he's a good man; married with children, holding his family down and doing his thing. I don't think she was emotionally or physically attracted to him.
If she had a choice, she would go right back to Usher. What she saw in Marlon is what she wanted Usher to be because she was in love with him. That's why she's saying she was waiting for him to change, but he is who he is.
She needs to let both of them go. Hopefully she found some release in talking about it, but what's done is done.
CHILI'S PROBLEM IS THAT SHE FELL FROM SOME KIDS INSTEAD OF MEN. USHER WAS WAAAY TO YOUNG TO COMMIT(PERSONALLY I THINK HE STILL IS) AND I DON'T KNOW HIS AGE, BUT IN MO' MONEY HE LOOKED ABOUT 18. GIVE ME A BREAK!!!
DAMNIT THEY SHOULDA GOT MARRIED!!! Usher and Chilli. Tameka looks like a man and a drag queen.
And those who are like "why would she say this" must have never been in love. Sometimes your pride doesn't matter as much as your heart. Also, she never said she wanted to steal him from Tameka. She just said she'll always love him... and she will. When you truly love someone, you love them forever. If you've ever been in love, you know that.
AND you don't know the context of this interview. It sounds like they were talking about love, relationships, and gpod men. Maybe the person asked her if there is anybody she felt she let get away and if she still loves anybody from her past. Chilli is a real woman, all she did was discuss. She never actually said she wanted either of them from their women. STOP TRIPPIN.
Anyway, Chilli is beautiful, and I hope she finds Mr. Right.
& Isn't Usher/Chilli/Tameka kinda like our Brad/Jennifer/Angelina but in reverse? Like, Usher ended up with the ugly one that no one wants him with... haha. Sorry, Tameka, but you look beat girl.
8@lovely..she said she dated marlon during the mo money days so I dont think usher was the dude she was trying to change being as though usher was a kid..maybe it was dallas austin, who still does drugs and boys and whom she dated practically since tlc's inception lmao@tameka is gonna want 2 fight people..I guess tameka really is the barracuda that she appears 2 be..I bet usher still loves her, hes just trapped in the closet with RUPAUL...SMH...
tameka gon be pissed foreal, but she shouldn't if she knows what she got, then why bother, Chilli just put out what she really feels and theres nothing wrong with that. In due time, her "true" love will come...
PRODIGY CHILD THANK YOU!!!
for the ENTIRE interview go to
the interviewer who was Necole Bitchie ask her the questions and Chilli just gives her the answers I guess honesty doesn't mean anything to you people anymore! I respect Chilli for being real usually she'll brush these questions off and wont answer with the whole truth and everybody says she's fronting, but the one time she chooses to be honest everyone jumps down her throat! Guess that's life, but I agree with her everyone has that one person they know were good and let get away and everyone has that one they'll always love! So stop trippin on her!
love you chilli you the bomb!! =]
Generally speaking though, how many times have you heard the story of the female who wants the bad guy to be like the good guy that she doesn't want? You know he ain't good for you, but you HOPE that one day he'll just "snap out of it" and realize what it is that he has right in front of him?
That's what comes to mind when I read the interview. Just my opinion.
Chili chiiiiiile. That Marlon is uh freak. I done seen him work Rasputia out in Nurbit. Chiiiile make big Shirley hungry fo ribs just thinkin bout Marlon skinny juicy hammhock legs and big cock. Mmmmmm Mmmmm Shirley just hungry thankin bout it.
Girl Talk With Chilli
Published by Necole Bitchie at 12:00 pm under Chilli, Usher
Songwriter CriStyle and Chilli
I had the opportunity to meet up with Rozonda “Chilli” Thomas at Signature Sound Studios in Atlanta the other day and we had a very interesting conversation about relationships. As you may know, her new record “Dumb Dumb Dumb” leaked online the other day, so of course I had to find out if the song was based off of a personal experience. We ended up chatting about everything from Floyd Mayweather to her feelings for Usher. And you will never guess who she said was the guy she let get away. Check out the Interview under the hood
Girl first I gotta ask, what kind of regimen do you use on your skin, you have the fountain of youth!
Thank you! Honestly, you know girl “black don’t crack”. I just drink a lot of water, I eat organic foods. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke. You know I have to give my mom credit for the good genes and I just take really good care of my skin.
You still look like you are 21, 23. Everyone’s aging and you are still like “heeeeeeeeeeeeeeey”!
[laughs] Thank you!
Okay so we just listened to your new record Dumb Dumb Dumb, when should we expect that single to be released?
Well right now radio is getting it. We are sending it out to everybody and just hoping it blows up. I love that record and working with CriStyle, Oh my God she’s amazing. She’s so talented and just so sweet. This record means so much to me on so many different levels. I wouldn’t say it’s a male bashing song but I am a woman and it’s coming from a woman’s point of view. Who can’t relate to being in a relationship where the person mess up or it’s just a dumb move. A lot of us can high five on that
So what is your definition of a Dumb Dumb Dumb?
Well you know, it’s not just for females dealing with dumb guys. There are some great guys out there whos been in some relationships with girls who did not appreciate them because they are too nice. That is the craziest thing I ever heard. The DUMBIEST thing I ever heard
You know we like bad guys!
I don’t! I don’t like bad guys at all! But you know, you just be in a relationship and guys don’t communicate well, or in my opinion you are the complete package and they mess up anyway and end up with a retard. It’s like, that makes them a dummy
So have you had anyone that you let get away? Like he was a good guy and you didn’t realize it until the relationship was over?
This is gonna be big of me to say this. I have never ever said this in my whole life. Ever. But yea, I did let one good guy get away and that was Marlon Wayans
See no one knew! And it’s funny because I met Marlon when I was 20, when I had just got in TLC and you remember that movie “Mo Money”? I remember we were on tour with Hammer and we had went to the movies and I saw him in that movie. I was like “Oh My God he is soooo cute!!!” So we went out that night and I ended up seeing him that night. And I met him for the first time and we just clicked instantly
And he is soo funny..
Girl, he is the funniest man in the world. And the thing that was so wonderful about him is that we were friends but he really did love me. Like if I had to look back and say “who really loved and adored me” ..it was him. And so my dumb butt, I can really put this on me now. I was caught up in the “bad guy” and how it’s just this challenge. I like to call them projects. We think we can just fix and tweak but as you get older you become a lot smarter and realize people are who they are. They don’t change. And the older they get the more they become that true person so little things that you didn’t see early on, you really are gonna see it later. But ya know, we are friends even til this day. He has two kids with his girl and all that but I’m like maaaaaaaaaaaannn
That could have been you!!
Yes, yes! So he’s the one I let get away.
Well you know everybody wants to know.. They’ve seen you parlaying around with Floyd [Mayweather] and these stories about him spending thousands of dollars on some shoes..
That’s hilarious! Floyd and I are really good friends. I like Floyd. You know it’s funny because you see Floyd on television with all the money and all that kind’ve stuff. I get on him and say “stop doing that and go to a hospital and pay a families bills and he actually thought it was a great idea so he’s really a great guy! That is just an image that he puts out there but the Floyd outside of that. He’s just amazing. Like he has one of the biggest hearts I’ve ever seen. I honestly have to say that. So he’s just someone that I like hanging out with. He’s the type of person that when we are all hanging out together, he’d buy stuff for everybody. He’s just real giving like that so of course if he’s buying me shoes, then it’s like “they are together”. But no, I’m not dating him. I do want a date. I want a boyfriend. I want a husband
I know that’s right
I do. I want a husband but I’m very picky. My standards are very very very high.
What are you looking for in a potential husband?
Girl, Marlon! [laughs] Oh god! He’s so awesome. I messed up. I blew that. I just wasn’t there at the time you know. Just someone who loves God and who is very respectful of himself. If that relationship with the Lord is there then he’s already gonna just not do certain things and will naturally do other things and that’s the part that’s hard for me to find. Like I meet these guys and they may have some stuff but they don’t have everything. And the things they don’t have are major enough for me to just be like “no, I can’t”. And girl I don’t waste time, I can tell by the second date. It’s like peace. Like “baby bye” and I won’t talk to him again.
I’m like that too. I have like a two date rule
Stay that way! You know what, at the end of the day majority of people in the world are unhappy in relationships. If you and I are by ourselves, it makes sense for us to get lonely every now and then because no one is there but for the most part, if we are with someone and still lonely, that’s a problem.
And you know what, I have a lot of friends that are with someone and they are still lonely
Miserable! They are miserable because it’s just human nature that we feel like we have to have somebody in our lives and I don’t believe that God meant for any of us to be alone, but I know he didn’t mean for us to be with the wrong person and deal with crazy stuff all the time. No way, I’m not doing it!
I’m gonna need you to write a relationship column on NecoleBitchie.com as a guest blogger!
I would love to[laughs]!
But for real, I put your record up today with the jacked up picture (as they say) (laughs) I just needed a visual to go along with the song at the moment and it was just perfect when I googled images. But yea, it’s a really hot record, I know it’s gonna be on the charts and most people were like “Yea, I’d bump this in my ride”
Thank you! I appreciate that so much. You know it’s funny to me that people refuse to let the Chilli and Usher thing go
I mean because everyone was rooting for the two of you. You were like the cutest couple ever
Well you know what’s funny. I will say this and I know it’s gonna be everywhere. Lord, Tameka gonna be trying to fight people. But honestly I will say, although Marlon is the one that got away, Usher is the one that I truly did love. Like that was truly my first adult love. I love him very much and I will always love him. I don’t know how you love someone that deeply and just stop loving them. I’m not in love with him anymore but I can’t say that I don’t love him anymore. And of course I do want him to be happy and all but me and him had what I never had in any of my other relationships, and that was chemistry. Even in that picture that you have up. Any picture that you see with the two of us, you see it. It’s just there! I could be standing next to him til this day and people will be like “Wow”. It’s not that you are wondering if we are back together again, it’s just that we look like we just go together.
So unfortunately we couldn’t get all the other stuff right and I think a lot of it had to do with timing. For me I had just come out of an off and on 10 year relationship with Dallas and as a female to female you understand that when you get out of those crazy relationships you kind’ve get this “I’m strong and I’m not gonna let anyone in”
Yes, let me break this wall down
You can be a little bit much and I think at the time I was kind’ve like that and he was a lot younger and so he was immature in ways. I was too so I won’t put it all on him like that but to me I felt like if the timing was different, it would have been a different story. So yea, I will always love him.
What should we expect from you in the future?
I really want to do big things with kids. My goal is to write a book one day on parenting. You know it’s funny but my son goes to a Private Christian Academy and alot of them are like “wow, it’s amazing to see you up here all the time and you are so involved. You’re a celebrity and blah blah blah” and I’m like “wow”. It feels good to hear that but at the same time I’m like “that’s jacked up”. That’s my son! I’m supposed to be involved in his life. I’m supposed to cook him dinner. I’m supposed to make him lunch. I’m supposed to just love him to pieces like I do and to me when you don’t give those things to kids that is when they grow up and they are getting in too trouble and going to jail and all that type of stuff… And not knowing how to be in relationships because it starts at home. I’m just gonna try to help honey!
Trying to do what you can right? So do you have a release date for your album yet?
I’m actually still recording. I’m pretty much done but if someone calls and says you have to hear this record and it’s “hot”, I can’t turn it down.
And have you titled the album yet?
I have something in mind. I’m working on some things. I’m a perfectionist. Even with working with TLC, we always had these cool titles and I still have that same mentality. I’m from the old school so I want people to buy my album and feel like it was worth every penny.
Make sure you check out Chilli’s new business venture Bags By Chilli These are the perfect gifts for Mother’s Day!
Interview Audio Snippets
Chilli on the Definition of A Dumb Dumb Dumb
Chilli on the one that got away
Chilli On Floyd Mayweather, Wanting A Husband and Relationships
Chilli On Her Feelings For Usher
Dumb Dumb Dumb Listen/Download
Funny how mediatakeout loves to state that other gossip sites doesn't give them credit for news stories but in many cases MTO gets its stories from other sources and very rarely mention it.
But as much as I will complain I still keep coming to this site.
THATS ASHAME USHER HAS BAD TASTE. TAMEKA LOOKS LIKE A FUKIN MAN AND HER KIDS ARE UGLY TOO. SHE DOES NOT DESERVE USHER BUT THEY HAVE KIDS NOW SO HE BASICALLY STUCK WITH HER RATHER HE BREAKS UP WITH HER OR NOT! KIDS ARE NO JOKE PPL...THEY ARE WITH YOU FOREVER SO BE CAREFUL WHO YOU HAVE THEM WITH!!!
Quite honestly I think what she and Usher had was young puppy love...they may have had some lil' chemistry when they were together, but Usher is a grown azz man now, and he definitely knows what he wants now, and obviously he has much more chemistry with Tameka Foster-Raymond ie. HE MARRIED HER, HAVE A BABY WITH HER, LIVE TOGETHER, HAS EXCEPTED HER KIDS AS HIS OWN, LOVES HER AND HE DOESN'T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT WHAT ANYONE THINKS....that's true love.
Ain't nobody scared of Tameka dumb a$*! Chilli was just expressing how she felt and still feels to a certain extent. Her and Usher were cute as a button together... I must admit
But Usher prefers to have an ol', ugly, bitter, insecure heffa who has absolutely no respect for his mother so.... that's too bad for Usher.
That's what she gets. Women always look at the nice decent dudes like they are corny because they know how to treat a woman. Now for the rest of her life she will pine away from Marlon. I'm just glad he found a good woman who he married and has a family with.
Ok i have to start by saying i hated when usher and chilli went together but i think it was because i was jealous but now that he wit ugly tameka its like what in the world was he thinkin. when i read this it got me thinkin when usher and chilli were together they did have alot of chemistry and now i can finally say chilli and uasher should be together because he had the most passion and chemistry wit her then anyone esle he has been with.
Okay, maybe this is JMO, but considering that both of these men have moved on in their lives and are now in committed relationships and even have children, I think that it is somewhat inappropriate for her to be airing her "ongoing feelings" for these guys. I mean, it's over, so let it be over and keep your feelings about it between you and those closest to you. Don't disrespect these people's relationships by publicly "lusting" after the past, and regardless of how you may feel about Mrs. U. Raymond, she is his WIFE, and how HE feels is what's most important...how two people "look together" means less-than-nothing.
i know how she feels i have an ex like that and she cheated and she wanted me back but i cant trust her anymore but i do still love her so i know where chilli is coming from. when tameka leaves usher and takes half his money it will be nice if he and chilli get together and make it last this time...
This story hits home 4 me too cuz Like Chilli, i had a few "nice" guys that i just simply wasn't attracted to. I wasn't and still isn't into "bad boys" i don't have the energy to any outside "projects" however, those nice guys were boring to me, but i tried to force an attraction because i knew they were good catches.U CAN'T FORCE LOVE THOUGH, and instead of prolonging their pain, i had to let them go, not even remaning close friends, to kill any hope they had or anything more.
THEN i feel in love with a guy i THOUGHT was a nice guy, only he had a sense of humor, he had personality, and charisma...thas wha women like! But come to find out, even though we were the best of friends, he was a serious LIAR and wouldn't let me go even AFTER i found out about his lil indescretions(spelling) He's engaged now to be married, with 2 kids. It hurt me to see him moved on in that way, because like chilli i will always love him, but he isn't a good person. And while the girl he is with now was in the hospital, he was lying to us both and sleeping with me in their own home, in HER bed. Why would i want a man like that? Chilli, though it hurts, u have to know that as u desire a man who has a relationship with the Lord to make sure ur relationship with the Lord is on paint as well.
And tho it seems all the men in ur life have moved on, it doesn't mean u missed out, because if it were meant to be...it would be. Tameka may have the person u loved most, but ask urself what kind of man do u really think he is being for her? Even though u can't see it yet, u won!
Honestly, I bet if Chilli came out today and told Usher she wanted him back, his ass would go running, he left cause he knew he had no future with her and he didn't even think she loved him anymore but this article oh it's gon make that nigga think twice about what he had and what he got...Usher still loves chill but he got his head so far up dat other niggas ass if he spits its comming out that bitches mouth. Ush needs to get the shit right, he let go of a good one.
yea man usher is trippin'how the hell he gone marry that ugly ass dude. I went to school with usher's husband, he was a nerdy ass guy named Tom Foster and he used to get his ass whipped every day. I will marry you Chilli.
Um, it's kinda odd that she would come out and state feelings after all this time, because she hasn't in a while, but she din't say anything disrespectful, and stated that she wasn't in love with Usher. I too thought that she and Usher made a cute couple but she wouldn't put up with the infedelity. I aint mad at her but this is just something that she's gonna have to learn from and keep it moving.
And as for Marlon,I can definitely see what she saw in him. He's handsome and hilarious. That's a powerful one-two.Plus he's successful.
I wonder what happened to the CNN guy. Now that brotha was fine!
She'll be alright though.
Relationships are hard to get over especially when it was a really good relationship. I hope Chilli can at least be friends with Usher. I am sure they can be because Usher is a nice guy. I don't understand why people on MTO dislike Tameka. Please don't hate but I see nothing wrong with her. I know she is older but stop hating on her. But I do wonder why Chilli and Usher broke up in the first place? Who knows. It is really amazing that Usher is into older women. I am not mad at him. I am not mad at Tameka or Chilli either. I just hope the marriage works out and I hope Chilli can move on and be friends with Usher. What's wrong with being friends?
i kno where chilli is coming from with this..sometimes its really hard to admit that u still have feelings for ur exes, especially when u see them moved on & happy. But its something u gotta do to get closure in your life & move on.
@ProdigyChild yea ma I feel you.
BUT ON THE OTHER HAND IT IS REALLY BRAVE OF YA GURL TO COME ON A SAY THIS FOR ALL TO SEE. YEA IT MAY STRIKE A NERVE WITH THE OTHER CHICKS BUT IF THEY CONFIDENT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS THEN HER WORD SHOULD MATTER NOT. CHILI COMING FROM A MANS POINT OF VIEW YEA YOU WON HE MAY LOOK TO HAVE MOVED ON BUT HE ONLY DID SO B/C HE THOUGHT YOU WERE DONE AS WELL...LISTEN TO CONFESSIONS A BIT MORE CLOSELY. AND IN THE FUTURE IF YOU STILL DONT FIND THE RIGHT ONE THEN YOU SHOULD SWING BY ORLANDO BOO...I WANT YOU BABY HAIRS AND ALL LOL!
She needs to seriously move on with her life. Usher is married, he had a kid, and when he was with her he wasn't happy so, he CHEATED on her. Tameka although people hate on her because she doesn't look like Chilli of TLC she makes Usher happy enough for him to truly settle down with her that which he wouldn't do for Chilli and her chemistry. He didn't want to be with her that is why, things didn't work out. So, she needs to get the point and just let go before making herself look like more of a fool. Yes, she's pretty, but clearly that's it. If she were smart she would refuse to discuss Usher in any interviews with the media because her career is in a flop, she's still single and it makes her look like she's living in the past. Meanwhile, he's happily married, with a new baby and a booming career...he has everything that she doesn't have and she couldn't have highlighted it more in this supposed interview.
KNOW HOW U FEEL BABYGIRL I HAD A SHORT SHORT SEAT WITH LEFTEYE AND MAY SHE REST IN PEACE YOU WOMAN HAD A WAY WITH MEN ONCE YOU SEE L.O.V.E. EXPLO IT THATS WHERE ITS AT. IN YOUR HEART! AND THE DAY I OVER HEARD YOU IN THE BACK OF THE LIMO YOU SOUND LIKE EAZY-E WIFE YOU KNOW, THECHAUFFEUR, ONE LOVE BABYGIRL LOOK FOR THE BOOK.:):):) THATS ALL!
I C/S with you. I thought they were a "cute couple" but he is now married to Tameka. That is how it is and they have a child. I love it. To me there is nothing wrong with thinking something, but some things are better left un-said. It's called tact, class, morals and respect. Hopefully she will find her own happiness. It's out there.
see i can dig what chilli said , if i had to go back in time and i mean time i would choose my ex lover whom i dated since i was 15 yrs , on and off , and he too knows this , we speak and laugh and say things to each other just like if it was yester year, i can just get up and say today so and so will call and he does .
f%%k chillie she washed up when she had the opportunity she was trying to act like she was all that trying to be a player and she ended up getting played now she dwelling on what could have been dont nobody want that broke b%%ch who the scrub now lol
That was a little on the messy side - about his wife "gonna be trying to fight people." Well, Chili, here's the deal: He married HER, not you, so it may be time for you to get over it. She's right -- they looked great together. But the longer Usher is with his WIFE, the woman he chose to be with, the more I like them together (not that they care either way)!
i luv chili! Aint nuthin wrong w bein honest. Usher was confessin all ovr the place she can have her say too! And shes always been a tell it like it is person. She kno tameka is crazy and wuld cuss sum1 out just for mentionin ursh's name. Shol wish her and ush wulda got married but ahh well. I hope she finds herself a good man soon tho. :)
well at least she kept it real...and damn she let marlon fine ass get away? fine and funny? and rich? and black? LOL that was a damn fine combo right there...oh well...happens to teh best of us
and she's so pretty :-)
I doubt is Usher miss being with Chilli. I mean he probably still got mad love for her,but he moved on is married and has a beautiful child. Anyways WOW she dated Marlon. Shooott I would of kept me some Marlon lol.
ladies all i can say is rent requiem for a dream unedited version......who ha thats a big woozer..he aint look like the ugly wayan then...who ha!!!........question no mention of her kids father and that love or inlove for him??? oh yeah i used to like her until i saw her on that reality show being a diva over some nasty waffles fyi waffle house on cheshier bridge is the best 1 they get your shit done right first time!!!
I agree with MissMedia-it was tacky for her to talk about her exes like that knowing they are in other relationships. It was disrespectful to the other women. But she always seemed like a hoe to me...I always loved T Boz.
SHE WAS HONEST BUT COME ON THESE 2 MEN ARE IN COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP WITH KIDS AND HERE SHE GO TRYING TO STUR UP SOME S*IT. I HATE EX GIRLFRIENDS WHO CANT OVER THEIR EXES, BECAUSE IF SHE WAS THEN SHE WOULD NOT BE TALKING ABOUT THEM SHE WOULD SAY THE PAST IS THE PAST BUT HERE IS MY FUTURE AND LEAVE ALL THE OTHER BULLS*IT ALONE. SHE NEED TO MOVE ON A GET A DAMN LIFE AND STOP LIVING IN THE PAST YEAH YOU AND USHER HAD CHEMISTRY BUT THAT CHEMISTRY WASNT GOOD ENOUGH CUZ OBVIOUSLY HE'S MARRIED AND NOT TO YOU SO MOVE ON. STUPID BITCH
Yeah I can vouch they were the cutest thing. I been through that before.. wher it was jsut two diffretn levels but the connection is so strong and you can tell " We Belonged Together" It hurts butyou gotta move on and and let them get through what they need to get through(men).
GET OVER IT B*ITCH>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
HE CLEARLY DID NOT FEEL YOU WAS HIS SOUL MATE....
LMAO LMAO LMAO LMAO... HE MARRIED TAMKEA AND NOT YOU
GET OVER IT, GO MAKE A CD OR A SONG..sit yo a*ss down................ GO GET MARRIED, LONELY SLUT ,
This is not a good look for Chili right now. What is the point of bringing up her past relationship with Usher NOW that he is married with child? It is silly. There were a few years in between their breakup and his marriage. Why not 'reveal' all this during then? Also, maybe nobody else recognized the little cattiness but was it really necessary for her to say "Lord, Tameka gonna be trying to fight people.". I mean really...Chili you are the one fighting to be heard right now when you aren't relevant anymore. It sounds like she is trying to soften the events that went down by bringing up another love and trying to make Usher's current woman..sorry his WIFE sound like the one with the problem and insinuate that their old relationship was somehow better. One thing though..IT WASN'T. He is with someone who is a better fit for him. Get over it.
Damn she was not holding back!!! She was really candid about both relationships with Marlon and Usher. I know she got Tameka wanting to catch a case off that one comment though! She said that until this day if her and Usher were to stand beside each other, you would still see the chemistry. Now personally, that would not set me off, but the type of female Tameka is, she'll probably trip because of that comment!
Omg..I'm sorry..I would of never put Marlon's name out there..to me thats kinda embarrassing..Thats like a step down..Sorry...I have a friend that thinks that Marlon is handsome and I thought something was seriously wrong in her mind..Ladies please..do any of you think that Marlon Wayans is handsome..because I never thought of him that way
@Sisterpoetry YES! I think Marlon Wayans is one sexy man, and his wife is hella lucky cuz not only is he sexy but let Chilli tell it he is a good man. OOOH Marlon if u break up wit yo wife come holla at me boo. He been sexy to me since In Living Color when he was on their making those crazy face oh and also The Wayans Brothers show he always been fine.
Wow, never knew dat bout her and Marlon. He's a cutey! I know he is hilarious! Tameka get on my damn nerves. She's gonna chase him away being so over-protective. I know Chili still visits and conversates wit Usher's mom, Meka's gonna b on her guard.
ewww are u serious that girl look like a gorilla on slim fast...booooy u done
f***** up....eh someone call the zoo the main attraction got loose....u cant just
bring home nething when u climbing mountains....