: We here at MediaTakeOut.com are big fans of the Housewives of New York. And guess what we're hearing - Bravo is filming a new series - The Housewives of ATLANTA. And there are a couple of BLACK WOMEN in it.
But the news gets better. MediaTakeOut.com just caught wind of a rumor that R&B singer Monica has just agreed to be one of the women on it.
We can't wait!!!!
I'm sorry but I USED to live in Atlanta, and it i VERY OVERRATED! So I don't understand why someone felt the need tocome up with the idea to move the show there.I currently live in the Washington,D.C. metro area where Prince Georges County(better knon as PG Couty) in Maryland has the distinction of having the largest amount of wealthy African-Americans in the NATION. And Mediatakeut themselves as have Black Enterprise Magazine have put the DC Metro area ABOVE Atlanta as the best place to live for Blacks (going by pay scale, etc.)...so I feel this move to Atlanta for the show is in error.
the women they choose to be on these shows are wealthy, educated and/or married to big time players in their cities high society..Monica doesnt fit into any of these categories..just because shes a singer with some fame, doesnt make her suited for that show..these people are really wealthy with yachts, jets, come from royalty, are socialites and live in multi million dollar homes..didnt she just sell her home? hey, I guess they figure that more people would watch
@njadonis78-that was some really useful info because I am lookin to move somewhere and I will definetly look into MD-I love ATL but it is way too overcrowded which is a turn off-but back to topic-Ive watched the show since the OC and some of them women aren't married their just moms so I don't see why Monica can't do the show-I'll def watch cuz NY was WHACK!!!
@jamiejo86...You are stupid. You dont think that rich a/s/s black women are snobby and whiney? Obviosuly you havent met many rich ppl. Its not about black or white, its about rich or poor. I bet those millionaire black women would rather spend the day with their fellow millionaires (black, or white) then spend any time with poor folk.
First of all she's a BM! Maybe even a WIFEY! But no Wife! Rocko is trying to be a big time Rapper and gave a ring like two children ago, still no wedding lmao! And she's doing a show??? That's wild I have to agree with the person that posted earlier that the NY & even the Orange county housewives had SERIOUS money! Those chicks had old money and alot of class (well most of them) So if the show is going to ATL I quess they are downgrading if they're adding Monica! I mean she can sing her *** off but umh she doesn't fit this category! They must not want to show black families doing well & living the same high life as the other shows so they chose to go this way! When you think about it's sad!
I think Monica is a smart woman not to be married to this dude, 1st he's broke and cant even sell records, 2nd if she marries him she has to really take care of him, if they divorce. By the way Wifey is the new Wife....let her be her and do things her way, by all means she aint dumb, people need to mind their *** business..........
LOL! You guys are funny! I mean too each his own as far as marriage but let's not get it confused if you stay home with your kids same dad or not and hold the house down this DOES NOT make you a WIFE ! A marriage certificate does! And I'm pretty sure she does want to be a WIFE but Rocko isn't going there with her! Not trying to say he doesn't love her or whatever but I feel like playing house at this stage in the game is weak! And i do understand some of you ladies feeling some kind of way becasue know one has married you! Again marriage isn't for everyone However, if a man is feeling youl like that he WILL marry you! And yes I am married and have been for the past 13 years :)
No...Wifey is NOT and i Repeat NOT the new wife... You lame Broads that think a dude calling you his wifey is enough and you can move in with him and have his kids and it'll be all good.... Oh no boo boo... he's just Shacking up with your dumb AZZ Your not a wife unless you are married. Bottom line..
Learn to be a woman and respect yourself and know your value. Stop settling for what these lil boys given you.
Flaw_less01 yes you.
if any of you watched the cali housewives, most of them weren't married. they were going through divorce season one and marrying after 2 dates on season two. get real. don't hold black women to a double standard. those women had multiple kids by 2 or more men. both of monica's kids are by the same man and they are together. one of the women on NY wasn't married either.
Let’s just be for real here folks.
Black folks, amongst others keep making these illegitimate babies. She isn’t his wife…and to the person who wrote the comment about mind your own business and it’s a good thing that she didn’t marry him bcz he is broke is a pure idiot. And why you ask? Bcz what sense does it make to create a child with a *** but not marry a ***... Come on…..how can you be on a show about being a housewife and your not even married….and how come you were good enough to MAKE TWO BABIES WITH HIM, but he can’t marry you? Black folks, please step your game up. Stop making babies….without being married. Provide them with stability, and a two parent home…..bcz exposing a kid to the commitment between a man and a woman will ultimately better the child.
And why most don't get wifed? It's simple. Why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free? Why would a man marry you if you are willing to play house and the wifey role without being married? If a woman cooks, cleans, and does the things that a wife does but just isn't one's wife, the man feels like there is no point in marrying you bcz your giving him the same treatment that a wife would, so things can remain as they are. What is going to change when he marries you? Nothing!!!!...so with that said, be careful ladies. Don’t live with a man for the hell of it, convincing yourself that it will better the relationship and that you can get to know him better by living with him. Don’t make babies juts to keep a man...keep it solid and make sure he is the one....get engaged, then married, THEN move in together and next have kids...if you do it in that order, you may not turn out like KIM PORTER, lol
Why would he buy the cow if he's getting the milk for free!! I agree with KEEPITREAL83, famous or not she needs to marry him or get some type of birth control because that sh** aint cute to keep making babies without no ring or papers. You don't see a lot of Caucasian celebrities having babies out of wedlock, no matter how much partying Paris Hilton and Kim *** do they have enough sense to protect themselves from getting pregnant, black people need to concentrate on marriage FIRST then a family! --------------------------- ** {B'ham's Finest} **
letemhate.....your the ***!
It is great to know that other black folks feel me. Even if their marriage didn't work out, at aleast they did it.
I just don't understand how people can commit to kids but not each other???? You can always divorce a man or a women, but not children. Raising a kid is far harder then keeping a marriage together. A children rely on their parents, but in a marriage, adults can rely on themselves if need be. They makes kids together and so called commit to being parents but can’t commit to their own relationship.
I hope I am not offending any of the baby mothers out there. I don’t mean it to bash anyone. I just feel that people need to think a little deeper before they pop kids out. And for all of the ladies that make excuses about them not being married bcz they don’t want to, that’s a lie. Most times when you hear a chick say that’s she is making an excuse on behalf of her BD. He wont commit or wife her, so she accepts it and acts as if she agrees with it.
But I am done on this Monica issue. I hope she gets married. I really like her and her, her man, and those children deserve better!
GOD bless you all and have a wonderful and productive day!
@keepitreal83
Thats NOT true. There are other races that do the same thing. I have two WHITE co-workers that have when in a 20-30 year relationship (or playing house as you say)with kids and they JUST got married. Latinos do it too, and so do many other races, but since we are BLACK, we get looked down upon for doing it. Marriage is not for everyone. If people choose not to get married and have lots of babies, that is they're business. If we are not paying their bills, then way the hell should we care or even comment on it?
I never wath this show...it's lame, the whole idea of it. These women are rubbery orange beings with wiry hair and square nails. Who would want to look at them? Yuck! Anyway, Monica is a mere Baby's Momma...how does she fit? And, she's said herself that she lives ghetto fab, so how COULD she fit? Unless they're stooping low for ratings and she's going to be the Snoop Dog Reality Show of the Bravo network. They've lost Project Runway to Lifetime, so maybe they're trying to compensate for the loss of a key demographic or something. Whatever, I won't watch even if she's on...I've always found her attitude annoying. Anyone remember the special she did for BET where she walked around with a bad attitude and Faith was asking her what was wrong? I hate bitter hoes like that. Don't be mad at the world because your life sucks, do something about it!
@ MS_Selana. I agree that there are other races that don’t get married, but I am speaking towards my black people, as I am not white or Latina and could care less what they do....My opinion is not for everyone to agree with, so I am with you about people choosing to do as they please. However, regardless of what you are anyone else says, people should get married before they have kids. It’s that simple, and I am sure your bible states that as well! If you don’t do things right, things don’t turn out right. And maybe not for Monica, but others, MY TAXES go towards them and their kids…why? Bcz they chose weak *** baby daddies, got stuck with their kids and cannot afford to take care of them on their own, so they get assistance, which MY tax dollars go towards.
And I am commenting on it, bcz this is a blog and I have the right to speak my mind. Just like your commenting on my comments. Furthermore, if you look at those that aren’t married, just ask them how great and stable life is. It takes two to make a baby, tow to raise a baby, and tow incomes to support a baby. It’s that simple. Just ask those who came from single parent homes if they would have preferred for their parents to have been married!
I cant wait to watch!!
As usual you broke *** bytches with your broke *** husbands are hating!! LMAO!! Keep it up cuz Monica is laughing str8 to the bank!! Just because you arent married doesnt mean you are not in a commited relationship anyone who thinks that is just a plain *** dummy!
She has a man and two beautiful children marriage isnt everyones agenda for life. SMH@ you idiots thinking that because someone is married it automatically makes you better or changes the dynamic of who you are. Yall stay on your high horses!!
Question to all of you haters
LETEMHATE KEEPITREAL LOVEJONES( I see ur back at it :-( )
What are your educational backgrounds? What type of homes do you own? Cars? And how old are you? What does your bank account look like? And truthfull what you do think of yourself becase people that have high opinions of themself bless the journey of people who have found their way in life they dont get on MTO and hate on a accomplished black woman that aint even thinking about their silly ***!!
Monica has two gorgeous boys and she is YOUNG,BEAUTIFUL, PAID and is in a commited relationship!!
Some bytches are just bitter that they are old as hell poppin a bunch of *** and still have nothing to show for it.
Also,
If you all watched the previous seasons of the show. The WHITE WOMAN werent all married and had children!! So please... Lets know the history of thes show before you start showing your envy of Monica. There is one of her and a million of you!! HATE HARDER!!
-- I will never ever understand why people concern themselves with placing judgement on someone elses life! If she is happy with her situation which im sure she is then what the *** is it to you?
I know I went IN a lil' bit... but I get tired of them same few lames hating on Monica.. The *** is ridiculous already!!
IF YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED THEN YOU GO GET MARRIED DONT TELL SOMEONE ELSE HOW THEY SHOULD LIVE THEIR LIFE AND CONDUCT THEMSELVES !!!
LMAO @Shanny07.....I guess those who get upset about my comments must be wsahed up *** baby mommas who were never wifed. that is evident. This is a *** blog spot. and thats great that monica has money. But what does that mean? At the end of the day, she can be richer than rich, and then what? a REAL family consist of two people being married...and the topic of this blog was monica being on a show about being a house wife and my point again, SHE AINT NO ONES WIFE...and who are you to call someone broke? I am not even going to go there with you, as you dont know me and I dont know you...this is a blog, not my life, so on that note PEACE Shanny07!!!!!!!
you can be a housewife and not be married...i am housewife and my fiance wants to marry me but i will not get marrtied until i finish school.....being a ''single mother'' has allowed me to get loans and grants for school ,subsidised childcare and a whole host of other benifits i would not be eligible for if i was married...dont hate on monica...none of us know her situation......just b/c a couple is married does not mean they provide a good life for their kids or are happy themselves....my man brings that check home every two thursdays,is a good father and man ,we share a bank account and have insurance policies just in case something happens to one of us.....btw all these people scream marriage marriage marriage ,please ....that does not gaurantee that you and that man will be together forever,stay faithful to each other ,or take care of financial resposibilities...
And Shanny07, how do you know her relationship is committed????? and what kind of car do you drive? And where do you live since your inquiring? And what is your education background? I tell you about internet thugs and young hoes with young money! How typical....and you’re ignorant for thinking that playing house is cool! and again, NO ONE wants to marry you hoes so you get upset when we clown BM's....broke isn't an option for me....that’s what I got my MBA for....to NOT remain stagnant in this life!
NUFF SAID
Those who cant handle opinions, stay off the net. I respect yours, yet you cant respect mines!
And who is hating on her? I am not. I would like to see her married, as I think she and her children deserve that!
@KeepitReal:
News Flash ! Every one doesnt believe in the bible so lets not bring religion into this because everyone isnt religious. I am sure that you dont live your life by every principle in the bible. And if you read it a little close you would remember the part that states that you *** judge anyone! GOD is the ultimate judge and how people live their life is between them and the god they serve NOT YOU!
Those Latina W H O R E S are the biggest baby factory.. Nasty Welfare ***.. feeding off of my hard earned tax dollars.. *** [EXPLETIVE] with their 20 kids jumping the border to leech off of our money..
At least Blacks are US citizens..these ghetto Latin bunnies are leeches.
I guess that comedian said it right.. These beetches don't need weapons.. All they have to do is lift up their skirts and *** babies..
@wenn01
marriage doesn't mean ***. you are right. it still doesn't mean that you can't do it for the sake of your KIDS....whether it works out or not, its worth a try. again, if one is good enough to make babies with than one can get married. everyone makes all of these excuses....about why they have or haven't. again, it goes back to the kid came first and countless excuses are going to be made as to why that happened before marriage. All of those that dont agree with me, i woudl love to find out about you and your bd's 5 years from now...if it lasted or not...since marriage isn't important and everyone thinks that they can do it without it...lets just see how long playing house last....
Shanny07...again, I am not judging...its my opinion and only god gets to do the final judging.....just like your opinion is that marriage isn't for everyone. Can we all just get along, lol
the world is full of differences...it is what it is...again, I respect your opinion, so respect mines, as it is just an opinion. I am sure neither of us will lose any sleep over monica not being married. So lets just end it at that!
I said it once and I will say it again, this is a blog spot...no need to *** fight online about monica and her life choices!
Actually enough wasnt said!
- The infamous MBA!! How special.. I guess we should all offer you a [EXPLETIVE]!!
As for my background since you care to know! I am fresh out my teens and I am a full time student!! I live in New York!! I am far from an internet thug what I say with this keyboard is exactly what I would say in someones face. I've never in life been one to back down! I'd like to know exactly who you are to decipher what a REAL family consists of?
"YOUNG HOES WITH YOUNG MONEY"
How mature of you?
" tell you about internet thugs and young hoes with young money! How typical....and you’re ignorant for thinking that playing house is cool! and again, NO ONE wants to marry you hoes so you get upset when we clown BM's"
I dont acknowledge the term playing house because its ignorant! What I think is cool are two people married or not African American or not that are comitted to loving and raising their children to be the best that they can be. I dont think that starts with being married. I know more people who are unhappily married than people who are happily married. The divorce rate in this country is proof that just because your married it doesnt somehow increase your chances of anything! I dont get upset when you clown anyone because the only CLOWN is you. Judgmental bible thumpers come a dime a dozen and you are just another one! There is no such thing as perfection in this world! Marriage is not something that some one is deservant of it is something that people decide they should or *** do. If they have decided that it isnt for them then what is it to you? Your just another old BYTCH with an opinion of how someone else should live their life!
Im done!
one more thing....@wenn01????? your not married bcz you wanna finish school, YET you made a baby???? OMG....you females are so game goofy!!!!!! I dont get it....raising a kid is easier than getting married and finishing school? I didn't know getting and education would put marriage on hold....it only takes a weekend to get married, a NON school day!
and one more thing...everyone keeps talking about you can be committed without marriage...so if being committed isn't an issue and marriage is just a simple piece of paper, then why is it SO HARD TO JUST DO IT....HELP THESE PEOPLE OUT HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LMAO @Shanny07....again, I dont even know you. You dont know me. and for me an MBA is special...and anyone can obtain it....so its special for all...again...your just silly and if you think I am old and broke that is fine...I am not even 30, or close to it, lol...not broke, and not about to argue with you. I am not a bible thumper and honestly, it doesn't matter what you, monica, or anyone does. Again, this is the net. I laugh at you....I dont get mad....I know people who are married and unhappy...why....they married for the wrong reasons or just plain out couldn't keep the passion going...i also know those who are umarried...and they are unahppy too...so if either could lead to unhappiness....I'd aim for whats best for the kid...you silly people think about yourselves too much...think about the kids and get married for them!!!!!
@ shanny 07....And yes we can get along but I think that upliftment is a better choice than judging her thats all!! Marriage isnt everyones main goal in life and people should respect that!
that was all you had to say...you took it way to far, as if I am wrong for being for marriage and your right for not.......and again, I respect your opinion..but you called ME out...I didn't call you out...and I am not judging her, you, or anyone else...i am expressing my thoughts about marriage and kids...and this is not a monica issue, this is universal boo!
and how do we know she is happy with her situation??? again, those excuses....she may really want to get married...and maybe dude isn't on that hype!!!!!!! but she loves him enough to accept that...guess no one thought of that!
So they are changing the title to "The Real Ghetto Baby Mamas of Atlanta" I don't watch this *** show anyway and if Monica's 2 kid out of wedlock azz is going to be on the show, I really won't watch it now. Black people seriously need to do better. Stop justifying bad behavior. It's not cute to pump out kids and shacking up without marriage and we're the only race that will make excuses for bad behavior. That's why we can't get anywhere. We're always talking about being "paid" and blah blah blah. How about some *** morals? And for the record, I am happily married and have been for 4 years.
obviosly you did not read my entire post...i said that as a single mother i am eligible for grants and loans and other programs...either way you are entitled to your opinion....you can call me goofy or stupid or whatever...like alot of young black women my pregnancy was not planned but my fiance and i decided to have our child....i am not broke or ghetto[whatever that means] and a young woman living my life...if me and my man fell out of love tommorrow we would part ways....what is the difference between a couple who were never married and break up and still raise their kids and a couple who gets divorced and still raise their kids together.....i will never get married to someone for the kids....i dont know if you are a parent or not but iv learned that kids thrive the best when their parents are happy and content....if you get married only b/c you have kids and not b/c you want to spend eternity with that person it is a recipe for disaster...and whether im married or not my fiance/babydady/man is home *** and day with me providing a nice life for his kids.....we do what works for us and you do what works for you....i guess if i was white like brad/angie i would be considered progressive.....btw whats up shanny07...dont let the haters bother sis
AMEN starlite....and @wenn01...I am not judging you...I keep saying that. we all feel differenlty and I am not mad at you...again what works for you may not work for me and vice versa. so many people are agreeing with me...yet, I am getting the *** outs....when did an opinion constitute for hating? come on....monica can have have all the money in the world...i guess her money makes it everything ok in this lifetime to some....and babies dont happen on accident...unless your condom broke, you were being irresponsible... so it wasn't an accident, it was a lack of being responsible... with condoms and bitrth control, NO EXCUSE....excuses, excuses, and more excuses....and i dont agree with brad and angelina......and the only reason why folks dont speak on them is bcz they adopt kids....guess the not being married gets waved by being a humanitarian and white! and Wenn01...I hella agree about people not getting married for kids, as each parent needs to be happy to contribute to the child's well being...but i feel like when 2 people love each other and wanna stay together, its not that hard to get married...but thats just me...and I aint mad at you or your choices and I wish you the best!!!!!
LOL You can not be a housewife and not be married you can be a homemaker or homewrecker. Who is she married 2? Even though Joe was not a housewife in the Orange County housewives show. Okay when they finally have a black woman on there she is going to be a out of wedlock ghetto baby mama. Its nothing special about being a single mother there are a lot of single black mothers. They should have someone like Pilar Sanders on there. She does some justice to the black womans image on tv. Well if Monica signed on that lets us know where her career is. They rarely give the black woman any respect on television I doubt Monicas bad attitude will make the image any better but maybe her attitude will not be as bad as the media used to make it seem.
This topic has gotten out of hand. Who are we to judge if Monica is "ghetto" (which she isn't), and her choice to have two children with the same man without being married? I think this show willbe a good look for her and I don't think she will allow herself to be taken advantage of. Contrary to what some of you may believe, Monica is very intellegent and does have morals. She may have too many morals, that's why her career is as prominent as Beyonce and others, because she refuse to compromise.
we have been judged for not being married by people in our everyday by a host of different peeps ....i know this woman who said we never have any good luck until we marry or that he would never be good to me fot the same reason...this same woman later learned that her husband whom she bragged about as if he was the second coming was paying his jumpoffs rent instead of paying the mortgage on the home they shared with teir 3 kids...this lead to them almost losing their home....when by the grace of god she was able to sell it instead of foreclosing she was forced to split the casdh with him b/c they were married....then instead of helping to support his kids with his half of the money he decided to buy himself a acura and his jumpoff a truck....then when she filed her taxes her accountant filed her and husbands together b/c they always had done so in the past....this lead child support take the return[yes hers and his] to pay the back child support he owed and refused to pay....i say this to say in this day and age marriage or the peace of paper binding 2 peopletogether means sqaut...the only thing in my opinion that is good for is logistics...i.e pensions,benifits and 401ks.....i am a full time student and parttime receptionist....on my pay i am able to pay just 60 dollars a week for childcare instead of 250 if i was married...you see when you are married they count you as well as your husbands pay...i am eligible for grants and loans and other educational subsidies being a singlew mother with no parents than i would be if i were married.....i dont know how or when you got your mba keepitreal183 but for me school is very expensive and im gonna get mine however i can...me and my man love each other and we will jump that broom when its the right time for us....we could get married tommorrow and he leave next week....marriage is not a gaurantee to anything.... p.s thanks 08onmynewish bont be fooled she is a beast...lol but her and my son are the loves of my life even in all their illegitimateness..lol
my point again...people cannot afford day care but they pop out babies....makes no sense...tired of the excuses....use condoms and stop making illegitiamte babies...go to school first and haev babies last! get your *** in order and then try to provide a life for someone else!!!!!not a good look for ANY RACE....just not....period. end of story...AND with all of the scholarship resources out there, grants , and loans, school can be paid for. Just stop making excuses about your life....bcz if you have to keep explaining your situation to me, I must be getting under your skin...if marriage is nothing to you, why bother commenting? just let it be nothing to you....and I never said it Guaranteed ***...but neither does having a kid with someone or neither does being in a relationship. marriage is more than a piece of paper IF you marry the right person for the right reasons..and they can work out just like playing house can work out...its all about choices...not my fault that folks dont have safe ***, end up preggos and unmarried, and then make hella lame *** excuses as to why?????
just keep it real with yourself...as the truth will set you free!
At the end of the day, folks KNOW they wanna be WIFED....so just stop with it...and say I did what i did and it is what it is...no excuse needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
btw...i dont feel like i HAVE to explain anything to you...i thought we were having a sort of online discussion....you dont get under my skin...i dont even know you and you dont know me....if i cared what you or anybody else thought of me i would come up here and lie about being in med school or law school or about having a mba or some other random *** to make myself look good online....i mean this all anonymous....agree??
@NYCFashionista: you have some nerve to be judging Latina women. First off I am Latina and a US Citizen born in Brooklyn, NY. Second of all I have two children by two different men, however I a married one...and he is as Black as you are. Maybe you all washed up or lost your so-called man to a Latina woman and that's why you talking smack about us. Latina women are cut from the same cloth as black women, we just have different views on stuff. Ignorance is bliss...***. If you don't have anything worth saying that would contribute to a meaningful conversation then *** the F#*#*** UP, HO. I'm probably paying for your benefits every first of the month. WELFARE TO WORKFARE, beeeotch. Benefits are terminated after five years so go get some training or enroll in an activity, ***
Wenn01...all i was saying is that YOU DONT have to explain anything to me or anyone else....thats the point...I have been trying to make...everyone is getting upset....we are all elaborating on what we believe in and your in a situation where you are with child and not married and YOU decided to blog about it...so again, we dont know each other and honestly, like I said before, NEITHER OF us is going to lose money or sleep...but again, MY TAX dollars paying for your kid...SAD...that you would even admit that.....SAD....baby daddy has so much, yet you cant ride off of his coattail...my point again....people making babies without the *** means to take care of them..and calling it an accident when it should be called NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE....and again, I am NOT tryna look good on here....this is the net...NO ONE knows ANYONE...we dont matter to eachother...so you can now comment back to the person who is clowning your child, lol
@ponchoswife1104 nycfasionista needs some love and attention....dont be mad at her...shes having a bad day....why else would she spout such hate..the other ladies,though i dont agree,all had well thought out opinions ....this person had to say something so off the wall just so somebody,anybody would pay attention to her...poor thing....lets everyone give her a *** to make her feel good... HI NYCFASIONISTA
F U C *** You W E T B A C *** B i t c h..
2 babies from 2 different men?? Oh So I guess you aren't as fertile as your other sisters?? Who pop them 20 in an hour..LOL
Who cares if you're married to a black man? As far as I care you're cheap welfare TRASH. Latin women use *** as bait to get Black men.. and provided you're a few shades lighter they will chase you.. Coz you cook and F U C ***.
Your mom probably jumped the border to get you your "citizenship" and I am pretty sure that Beeyotch didn't COMPRENDRE a word of English when you utilized the free services in that Californian/Texan hospital..
Unlesss you're making $200K and living in the 10021 zipcode I hardly doubt welfare trash like you can pay for ***...leave alone my Tory Burch and Marc Jacobs.
So do what you do best.. Keep breeding and keep my toilets clean..
BTW Your sister missed a stain in my toilet last week.. tell her I'll leave the $30 with the doorman because I refuse to have contact with something that smells like the ISH it cleans.
KEEPITREAL83 I RESPONDED TO YOUR COMMENTS BECAUSE UNDERSTOOD WHERE YOU WERE COMING FROM BUT I DID NOT AGREE WITH YOU...I WORK MY MAN WORKS SO ACTUALLY ALL OUR TAX DOLLARS NARE PAYING FOR IT....IF YOUR HOUSE BURNS DOWN MY AS WELL AS YOUR TAX DOLLARS PAY FOR IT....YOUR TAXES PAY FOR ALOTMORE THAN GOVERNMENT PROGRAMS...AND I DONT TAKE HEED TO IGNORANT COMMENTS MADE BY SOME FACELESS COWARD ABOUT ME OR MY KIDS...I KNOW WHATS TRUE AND WHATS NOT....I RESPONDED TO YOU B/C I THOUGHT YOU WERE A YOUNG LADY WHO MAY NOT HAVE KIDS THEREFORE U NEEDED TO BE ENLIGHTENED ON A FEW THINGS....SORRY IF I ANNOYED YOU BABE...I WONT COMMENT ON ANYMORE OF YOU POST....
@keepitreal83
Listen baby girl or boy you will never reach these people because they just don't get it. I find it funny that wenno1 can live with a man that can't really support her and her spawn yet feels free to dip into hard working peoples pockets just because she popped one. If her education was that important to her she would have kept her legs closed and got it on her own with out aid.
I get what you are saying but don't waste anymore time on these dummies. They were put here to breed not think.
Oh my....this has gotten out of hand...but I just wanna say to any of the BM's that aren't married or GENUINLY dont wanna be, I AM NOT MAD AT CHA....do you boo....on the real...I just want people to know that marriage is more than a piece of paper, just like a REAL relationship is more than a ***...it simply works when 2 people work well together... Again, mnay don't work for so many reasons...and even with cheating marriages, 9 times out of 10, the passion is lost and someone isn't adult enough to bring that issue to the table so like a coward they cheat....and also, many that are married knew that *** wasn't cool before they jumped the broom...for example...usually a man that cheats alot was doing it from the jump and the tell tell signs were there for the woman to see...so we cant KNOCK THE CONCEPT of MARRIAGE itself..we know the PEOPLE who can't take it seriously....so on that note, don't knock it until you try it...as well all know marriages dont last, neither does basic relationships...and why I beleive in marriage besides for kids and committment reasons???? I am not going to date someone for year upon years for it NOT to progress.....BUT that is just ME...so with that said, this is honestly just a blog and just my views. No harm intended...
@Lucy48 THANK YOU MAMAZ.... I appreciate the support.... and Wenn1...you didn't annoy me at all...I appreciate your comments and I am glad we were able to express our thoughts to MTO and it's viewers....and I dont have any children due to me not being married....I have NEVER been preggos in MY LIFE...I am however engaged and after we plan this wedding and make it official, I will consider children, should this planet become a better place for raising a child!
ponchoswife1104, it's odd that you choose to insult black women when obviously this is about the only forum you have. If it were not, surely someone of your thinking would go elsewhere? In the end, you sound like an idiot. Don't ever get that mad. Log off. Go do something, if someone online gets to you... because, doing otherwise makes you seems like you don't have a life.
@LUCY48 YOU MUST NOT HAVE READ MY ENTIRE POST....I WORK VERY HARD AND SO DOES MAN....I LIVE IN JERSEY WHERE RENT EVEN IN THE HOOD COST 1200 PER MONTH....IN THIS BUSH ECONOMY YOU *** RIGHT I WILL EXCEPT ANY HELP I CAN GET....MILLIONS OF WORKING FAMILIES HAVE CHILDCARE SUBSIDIES B/C CHILDCARE IS VERY EXPENSIVE...MY''SPAWN'' ARE WELL TAKEN CARE OF AND WANT FOR NOTHING....I AM NO WELFARE RECIPIENT EVEN THOUGH THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT IF THAT IS WHAT ARE DOING TO BETTER YOURSELF AND NOT USING IT TO GET OVER....ASK YOURSELF THIS,IF THEY CUT WELFARE,SSI,MEDICADE,FINANCIAL AIDE PROGRAMS,FOODSTAMPS AND OTHER GOVERNMENT PROGRAMS DO YOU THINK THEY WOULD STOP TAKING THAT MONEY OUT OF OUR PAYCHECKS OR WOULD THEY REROUTE THAT MONEY TO SOMETHING ELSE.....TRUST AND BELIEVE THEY WOULD TAKE THAT MONEY REGARDLESS....
^^ If you canoy afford to have kids don't have them.. Nothing *** me off more than these uneducated, low income gutter bunnies producing spawn as a meal ticket to chew off of govt aided programs and the *** about taxes and the government.
Get over it.. Bush didn't F U CK you or get you pregnant.. you had a broke brother drop a load in you with no promise of a 0.2 carat ring or future.
"on my pay i am able to pay just 60 dollars a week for childcare instead of 250 if i was married...you see when you are married they count you as well as your husbands pay"
I want people to educate themselves seriously!!!
Don't you realize that it's this exact reason why minorities stay on the bottom. They feel like why should I get a job and have to pay REGULAR price for all the sh* I got for free or seriously discounted when I was on welfare!!
That's the starting point to loserville!! Read the fuggin book and get off the net!! How about Bill Cosby's book appropriately titled "Come On People".
@ttiiaa77 AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN NNNN
I love it...some people GET IT while others don't....so so so sad...and at the end of the day....the real reason why WOMEN aren't married is not bcz of assistance, school, or bcz they dont wanna be...THEIR MEN WONT COMMIT....THAT SIMPLE....If he loves you enough to make a baby with you, he can marry you...and marriage is NOT a piece of paper unless your a simple minded person that wants to believe that so you can feel better about NOT being married...love is a strong word and many use it but dont display it!!!!
My vote isn't for Hilary, Obama, or for McCain...its for EDUCATION over BABIES and WIFES over baby mommas!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Let’s just be for real here folks.
Black folks, amongst others keep making these illegitimate babies. She isn’t his wife…and to the person who wrote the comment about mind your own business and it’s a good thing that she didn’t marry him bcz he is broke is a pure idiot. And why you ask? Bcz what sense does it make to create a child with a *** but not marry a ***... Come on…..how can you be on a show about being a housewife and your not even married….and how come you were good enough to MAKE TWO BABIES WITH HIM, but he can’t marry you? Black folks, please step your game up. Stop making babies….without being married. Provide them with stability, and a two parent home…..bcz exposing a kid to the commitment between a man and a woman will ultimately better the child. -------------------------------------------------
AMEN to this and everything else you've said.
@mspeach8272
Can I seriously ask, if thats just a bad angle of ur pic or do u really look like a bean head?? Arrggh I hope not, and please remove that pic
Wow, i had to scroll back too.. That pic is funny.. chick has a miniature glow worm head!!!
LoL!!!
Ok... why in the world is monica going to be on the show? i thought she was broke? hm..
I've watched Orange County and NY series. What I don't understand is how either one of these shows is titled housewives. They'll all working and on both shows there's a woman w/no children but runs in the same circle. I like Monica, but she can be a bit ghetto, I won't even touch on her NOT being a housewife. Are we sure this isn't supposed to run on BET? LOL I'm not interested in an Atlanta show. I'd much rather see a Miami show. Sorry Atlanta.
@sexy_cece girl you are funny....I wrote about ms peachy the other day!!! I don't remember what the topic was. But she is horrid. I said she looked like arsenio hall!!!
@keepitreal-you are 100% on the dough!!! Black woman always gotta pop a baby out. ALWAYS!!! And who cares what the "others" do we need to worry about what WE do. Blacks have entirely too many illegitimate babies, mostly by loser negros. Some have babies w/men that they don't know (a jump-off baby). In these caes we need to exercize our right to ABORT!!! Or they do it for a "come-up" when they can get with a baller or someone w/money. Yeah...the others do it too, but we need to raise the bar on how we represent. Blacks LOOK THE WORSE!!! Being ghetto (LIKE MONICA) needs to be PUT TO DEATH. Being hood & ghetto needs to be euthanized (I may have spelled it wrong)...but y'all get my point.
Saying that ATL is overrated is like saying NY is overrated. I've been to both places and I love Atlanta, GA baby! But maybe I'm biased because I'm from Florida and love the southernness of Atlanta. I didn't feel all the comfortable in the NY. But I am from the south. It's vastly different.
The people, the accents, the southern hospitality, the houses,the restaraunts, the businesses, the society. It's different. I love ATL. I think this would be a good show.
IM SICK OF YALL LADIES SAYING THAT MARRIAGE IS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER-MARRIAGE IS A SERIOUS COMMITMENT THAT A MAN AND WOMEN MAKE DEVOTING THERE LIVES TO EACH OTHER FOR THE REST OF THERE LIVES, A MAN PUTTING U BEFORE ALL HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND MAKING VOWS SHOWING HOW MUCH HE LOVES YOU IS MUCH DIFFERENT THAN A BABY DADDY TELLING YOU THAT YOUR HIS GIRL! AND ANOTHER THING WHAT ARE U BABY MAMAS GONNA DO WHEN HE LEAVES YOUR AZZ WITH NOTHING! A WIFE WOULD HAVE ACCESS TO ALL CARS HOUSES AND BANK ACCOUNTS LEGALLYY!!! ALL A BABY MAMA HAS IS HER MANS WORD! A SMART WOMEN WOULD MARRY HER MAN AND SECURE A FUTURE FOR HER CHILDREN. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A BABY MAMA AND A WIFE IS-BABY MAMA-$0 AFTER UR MAN LEAVES U -MARRIED WOMEN -$$$$$$..GET A CLUE HOODRATS WITH YOUR STUPID MENTALITIES
@KeepItReal:
Whatever you say I dont agree. I will never agree with someone telling someone else what is best for them and how they should live their life. I would never suggest marriage for people just because they have children!
@FendiFraud:
Are you trying to say that something is wrong with people earning money in the entertainment industry?
I'd say the majority of the people in the south have guns. She is a famous singer who travels WITHOUT bodyguards. She'd be a fool not to carry a gun to protect herself. You saw the ABC special so I wont go into detail. Are you really making light of a situation that ended in devestation for her and the gentlemans family. You are pathetic!
@Caramel:
Just because YOU think that marriage is a serious commitment doesnt mean that everyone else does. Just because a "HUSBAND" should put you before everything doesnt mean he will!! Check the *** divorce rate in this country!! Do you really think that just because your in a relationship with someone and you break up doesnt mean that you are now a b roke *** that needs to run to the state office. Are you really that stupid? Your saying that the difference is you ge tmoney when he leaves. A real woman can take care of her children on her own or choose to stay home!
@kyle19: Monica is intelligent, well spoken and paid! End of story she isnt knocking on anyones door asking for someone to pay her mortgage! @MzJSUFAN:
Your praising papamurf...LMAO...Hes another old *** clown he talks a bunch of *** and preaches a bunch of righteousness when it pertains to single mothers. Read all his other postings. He is a true clown!
@JLH527:
You ar exactly right!!
@NYCFASHONISTA:
Your disgusting. How dare you even make those comments? *** the 10021 zipcode! Bunch of old *** bytches still acting like they got it! Get the *** over yourself! TORY BURCH is not that *** expensive I know 15 and 16 yr olds who wear those *** shoes. I use to wear those when I was like 18 so please knock it off. Marc Jacobs is also moderatly priced and the things that are super expensive arent even cute!! The only person that you are fooling is yourself. We can all tell you are common NYC trash by the way you speak!! Look on S-a-***-d-r-a-R-o-s-e and look at Monicas outfit! Thats how a real "fashonista" puts it together!!
Please everyone go to S-andraRose and listen to the voicemail that Monica left! She is gorgeous and a class act! You people are making noise and dont even know what yall are talking about!
Monica is cool but why would she be on a show"REPRESENTING HOUSE WIFES" she's not married, and from the looks of things dont think she will if she continues to have babies from a brotha that can't make a "true" committment to her and the kids they have created together, im an old fashion brotha" a woman that allows a man to continue to impregnate her with no committment normally ends up raising those kids ina dual paretning situation but she cool just dont agree with how she keep having kids with no ring on her finger yet
Monica will not be on that show, she has her own show. Monica can out debate and out perform all you stuck up ***, she is very artticulate and has stated that she is not ready to marry as yet ut she wants a family, stop being so *** self ritious people, Monica and Rodney are committed,they don't want all you *** people up in there business. Anybody on here who wants something to celebrate go get married your *** self, Monica is very happy and not tripping.
Um, most people in the south carry guns. That's how we roll. It's our right. They just made the gun laws even better here in Florida. Florida, Ga, Texas, The Carolinas, etc. That's how we roll.
Everyone has the right to protect themselves. If I led a high profile like Monica has since she was a young teen, I'd be strapped too. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her carrying a gun. She has the same right as anyone else.
I love going to the range. It's good to know how to handle yourself.
