: Here’s a report courtesy of one of MediaTakeOut.com’s faithful readers:
Brandon Williams use to play for the 49ers and now he plays for the St. Louis Rams. But anyway he is engaged to this chick and she moved all the way from San Francisco to St Louis to be with him.And here’s what Brandon’s former fiancé writes on Myspace:And look what she had the nerve to put on her Myspace Blog...................Can we say WOW! So after reading this you tell me who she's talking about? Who just puts there personal business out like this on MYSPACE?
You put your trust into someone even after they hurt you b4..i guess hoping and praying that they are not that cruel to do it again. i mean you love them and they love you sooo damn much. You leave your world to come into his not knowing he was doubting himself from the start. Then things start to fall apart and you are back in the same place that broke you b4. you left everything you worked so hard for..for him..for love..for family. then he says im not ready to be a man..i never meant to hurt you again. i thought i could..i thought i would. i dont know why..i dont know how WHAT AM I TO DO NOW.. im broken..im lost..im scarred. i have nothing and no one. how could you play with my life like this. after everything we have been through you go down the same path of destruction. WHY. you owe me more then this. where do I go from here?Uhhh … how about you go back home …. DUHHHHH
SHE LAME FOR THAT. AND WTF DID SHE EXPECT?. THESE NFL WIVES NEED TO START GETTING HIPPED TO WHATS REALLY THE SITUATION. MOST PROFESSIONAL ATHELETES DIDNT GET A LOT OF GIRLS WHEN THEY WERE YOUNGER. THEREFORE MOST OF THEM HAVENT EVEN REACHED THEIR PLAYER STAGE EVEN IF THEY DONT WANNA ADMIT IT. THEY GET IN THE LEAGUE AND GET STATUS. STATUS BRINGS MORE FEMALES, AND IF YOU HAVENT BEEN THRU YOUR PLAYER STAGE, THERE YOU HAVE IT. A BROKEN HEART!!
Aye men suck sometimes, rich, poor, smart, stupid,fine, and ugly. They all suck at some point and time. Just because he plays in the NFL doesn't make you immune to real life sh!t. -------------------------------------------------
^^^Hey women suck sometime too. Its no victim here at all. She knew what was good, She stated that he did whatever he did before in the first two sentences. Sorry she got hurt and other females get hurt too. But females do the same thing or worse to males these days. Its not just us anymore!!!
Poor girl. She's young so this should just be a learning lesson. Always have a backup plan, and never put all your hopes in a man. Just swallow your pride and try to rebuild those bridges you burned. I know "I told you so" are some of the hardest words to hear. But you need to think about whats best for you and your child right now. Get away fast and far and forget him. Oh, and don't forget to swing by Child Support Court on your way home. Best of Luck-
I can't say anything bad about her or her actions. She is truly heartbroken. And, sometimes, when a person is heartbroken, they lash out. At least she didn't say nasty things about him or get violent, like a lot of other women would have done.
She is a beautiful woman. I hope she'll heal quickly. But, it's a difficult thing.
oH pAH-LEASE! GIRL THAT IS YOUR OWN FAULT! I'M SORRY LADIES IT IS TIME FOR US TO LOOK AT THINGS FOR WHAT THEY REALLY ARE! YOU STATED YOURSELF THAT HE HAD ALREADY HURT YOU. Y OH Y WOULD YOU LEAVE EVERYTHING TO BE WITH THIS PERSON. YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN SMARTER. THEN WE ALWAYS GET MAD AT THE MEN FOR DOING WHAT THEY HAVE ALWAYS DONE.C'MON NOTHING IS PROMISED THE ONLY THING THAT HE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR IS TAKING CARE OF HIS KIDS! HE DOES NOT HAVE TO BE WITH YOU. IF HE IS NOT READY HE NOT READY. OK HE IS AN NFL PLAYER? THAT IS NOT A REASON TO UPROOT YOURSELF AND YOUR KIDS AND LEAVE EVERYTHING. SHE SOUNDS SUICIDAL. AND Y DONT YOU HAVE ANYONE. FAMILY, FRIENDS, SOMETHING. I DONT MEAN TO SOUND EMPATHEIC BUT IT'S TIME FOR LADIES TO BE SMARTER AND STOP LOOKING AT WHAT WE WANT A MAN TO BE AND TAKE IT FOR WHAT IT REALLY IS!
I'm sure you weren't his only lover.
He's a professional athlete girl, what did you expect? Oh maybe you thought he would change for you? They change for no one.
Stick around and in the end you may be left with an STD and an, "I'm sorry, I never meant to hurt you" and if you're lucky he might buy you a $4 million eight-carat, purple diamond ring.
People please don't judge this girl, we've all been in this situation before. It sounds like she was so wrapped up in him, she didn't have enough going on for herself. Unfortunately I don't think she understood the game with ballplayers. They either get to the NBA or NFL and become total *** or they're always on the lookout for the next upgrade and as soon as a prettier girl comes along the original girlfriend's *** is out the door. My friend dated a ball player for a year, met his family, stayed at his house, went to the games etc. Then she finds out he has a kid he never told her about and another girl pregnant in Miami. You have to really guard your heart if you date those guys.
well at least she had a baby with him, so she wont be broke..that was a smart move on her part..she knew she wasnt going to get his *** down the aisle, and that most likely he was going to front before the wedding..so she popped out a kid first..thats the best security blanket..women are so stupid sometimes..they invest their lives in a man instead of in themselves..they know the deal, yet they think they can change a man like that..I bet she trapped him with that baby too..she sounds desperate and a little psycho..so who knows what the deal is with her..she needs to pick herself up because she has a kid, so she needs to forget this dude and focus on her child
SOME WOMEN ARE SO *** WEAK IT MAKES ME SICK. IF YOU HAD A BABY WITH HIM AND HE HADN'T ALREADY MARRIED YOU OR AT LEAST ASKED AS SOON AS HE FOUND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT. IT MAKES ME SICK HOW WEAK SO MANY WOMEN ARE TODAY. YOU TRY TO TRAP A MAN WITH A BABY, IT DOESN'T WORK AND WHEN HE'S FINALLY HAD ENOUGH AND LEAVES, YOU FALL APART.SHE MAY NOT GET ANOTHER RICH MAN, BUT HELL SHE CAN LOVE AGAIN. I DESPISE WEAK ASSED WOMEN!!!
You know what? I am disgusted by some of you females on here!! WE all have been in that situation before and whats wrong with her expressing her feelings via her blog?? Carmel...you are a simple *** you know that? Your kind disgusts me the most...Where in the hell you got that she tried to *trap* him? This post never even suggested that!!!See thats the problem with Black America instead of supporting we be so eager to hate and tear each other down...You all are *hating* without knowing her,her character or nothing...Sweep around your own front door
I guess, with that lil' *** child, she is supposely financially 'SET'. But Brandon just turn 24 years old. What the *** do you expect? Monogamy!! HA-HA-HA. Won't happen, come back and try again in 10 years. If he tells you he's not ready to man-up but he wants you still, it up to you to leave. No man is going to just let go of FREE 'in house' PUZZZY no matter how many ho's they *** in the street. I hope THE LESSON has sinked in,
@ HardCore
I guess, with that lil' *** child, she is supposely financially 'SET'. But Brandon just turn 24 years old. What the *** do you expect? Monogamy!! HA-HA-HA. Won't happen, come back and try again in 10 years. If he tells you he's not ready to man-up but he wants you still, it up to you to leave. No man is going to just let go of FREE 'in house' PUZZZY no matter how many ho's they *** in the street. I hope THE LESSON has sinked in, ************************************************ No disrespect intended but what is the lesson, that women should not expect monogamy until a nicca is 40 years old? A nicca's word ain't ***? We should expect a nicca to have more than one woman? Please advise on what the lesson is??
AN OLD FRIEND OF HERS
June 25, 2008. Normally i dont blog and stuff but being an old friend of the girl i feel like i have to say something. I have known her for over 10yrs and she is a good person, she just can't stand on her own two feet. She quit her job after dating him for 6 months and moved within a year giving up everything like she said. Her job, apt, friends, and family but i dont blame him i blame her. We are know longer friends because of this. She told me a few things about him hurting her and a good friend would say "Leave him you deserve better" she later took that as me being jealous that she was dating a football player, I met Brandon and he a cool dude, i look at him as a black man with a good job. If he would have been a sale rep for Champs shoes she would of left his *** the first time he cheated or whatever he did that hurt her. But cuz he play ball she stayed and it had to be for the money lol
When she said "I have nothing and no one" i dont feel bad for her because she started acting like new money and pushed her REAL friend away thinking it would last forever. Come on now be for real, you never diss your firend of 10+ yrs over a man cuz look now you have no friends and your family will never trust you like that again. I have a lot to say about this because i was hurt when she said all those things to me our kids love each other ya no? it was wrong but hey im good lol
Her myspace use to say "What a blessing to have a good man" it should say "what a blessing to not have AIDS" lol
The bad thing i will and can say about B is that he sucked with my Niners lol other than that i feel like he tried his best to deal with someone like her and i know it was hard. To be with someone who think they no everything and dont no [EXPLETIVE] is a challenge.....SO BIG UPS TO YOU B AND GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR FUTURE MY [EXPLETIVE] IM SURE YOU WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR DAUGHTER
@honeygirl954. IM SORRY DESPITE WHAT YOU THINK OR FEEL ONLY THE WEEK DUMB WOMEN GO THROUGH AND DO THINGS THE WAY SHE DID. IF SHE HAD ENUFF *** TO STAND ON HER OWN TWO FEET SHE WOULD NOT BE IN THIS SITUATION. YES EVEY WOMEN HAS GONE THROUGH HEARTACHE OVER A MAN. BUT SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN TAUGHT THE VALUE OF HAVING HER OWN *** TOGETHER AND SHE WOULD NOT HAVE THIS PARTICULAR PROBLEM. IT SOUND LIKE HER LIFE IS OVER BECAUSE SHE DEPENDED ON HIM TOO MUCH. LIKE I SAID NOTHING IS WARNTED! HE DOES NOT HAVE TO BE WITH HER IF HE DOES NOT WANT TO. SHE SHOULD LOVE HERSELF AND HER CHILD MORE THAN WHAT SHE IS LEADING US TO BELIVE WITH HER BLOG. SHE HER OWNSELF IS MAKING IT SEEM LIKE SHE IS JUST GOING TO DIE CAUSE HE LEFT. SHE NEEDS TO BUILD A BRIDGE AND GET OVER IT. IT IS HER FAULT THAT SHE HAS NOTHING BECAUSE SHE GAVE UP EVERYTHING AND LIKE IT OR NOT THE $$ HAD SOMTHING TO DO WITH HER JUST UPROOTING HERSELF AND LEAVING HER FAMILY AND LIFE BEHIND. SHE MADE THAT DECISION. HER ALONE SO SHE HAS NO ONE TO BLAME BUT HERSELF. US WOMEN NEED TO STOP FEELIN SORRY FOR OURSELVES AND WEEPIN AND MOPING AND POSTING PUBLIC BLOGS AND GET TO LIVING OUR OWN LIVES. THE POSITIVE THING IS THAT SHE IS YOUNG AND IF SHE OPENS HER EYES SHE WILL SHE THAT SHE IS WORTH MORE THAN SHE IS MAKING HER OWNSELF OUT TO BE. HOW CAN YOU SAY DONT JUDGE HER, SHE PUT HERSELF OUT THERE. AND MAYBE SHE NEEDS TO BE JUDGED MAYBE SHE WONT BE SO *** STUPID. AND PEOPLE ON HER SYMPATHIZING AND BABING HER STUPIDITY IS THE REASON SHE WONT MOVE ON AND FEEL LIKE SHE IS INTITLED TO SOMETHING. WE HAVE ALL HAD BROKEN HEARTS BUT SHE SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS READY TO END HER LIFE. AND THATS THE SAD PART. LIKE IT OR NOT SHE NEEDS TO GET IT TOGETHER.
LADIES ALL I CAN SAY IS HAVE A BACKUP PLAN EVEN IF YOU AND YA MAN ARE HAPPY AND IN LOVE. KEEP YA FAMILY CLOSE CUZ WITHOUT THEM YIU REALLY ARE NOTHING. U *** YA MAN COULD BREAK UP ANYTIME BUT UR FAMILY IS 4EVER. STASH MONEY, KEEP YA *** JOB JUST BE SMART. IM IN A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP BUT IM SMART SO TO ALL U LADIES U GOTTA WATCH YA BACK 1ST SO DO IT.
Women like her (i.e., pretty b!tches) kill me…thinking a nicca owe them something cuz they fine. B!tch please. Take your @ss back home and get a job and find another sucka willing to put up wit your whining, self absorbed @zz. She reminds me of the same type of h0e you see in the VIP area of a club trying to snag a Baller when they know how those nicca’s do they women. Don’t expect any sympathy now. Just be happy you was able to trick the nicca into having a baby with you. At least you will get that fat child support payment. LOL. Now the nicca will go find any ole white gurl and fall madly in love her (e.g, Reggie Bush and the countless other nicca's just like him)…and Sista's will forgive/excuse the nicca's that do that kind of ***!t (like they always do...) and the cycle will continue. SMDH. When will they learn. Sad...just plain sad. LMAO!!!
I'm a dude so this sh!t is funny to me.
Anyways.....*** out to my real Sista's that work hard and don't go for this type of ***!t just cuz a nicca got money!!!!!!!!!!!
Why does everyone think that all atheletes are cheater and players? Not all of us are like that. Their are alot of women that will pretend to love and care about you, when they really don't give a ***, they only worried about what they can get. Dudes are not the only ones who do dirt...It is equal. Plus we don't know what was going on in THEIR relationship.
@ Illbeyourthinspo
you just had a bad experience with the wrong man! that's whats wrong with some of you black women, you select a black man upon the negative images given on TV. why do we have to be "hard" to be a man? and if a guy acts nice to you, he's automatically borderline ***? some black women need to wake up quick, before we are all dating white girls...lol
i personally know fea and B...they are happy man..this [EXPLETIVE] right here is a total mess and the comments being left are even worse..especially the girl claiming to be her friend of 10 years..we know who you are NIKEA SCARBROUGH right?
you wrong for even thinking about putting anyone business out there..so if all that sh#t u put on here is true it sounds like you never really was a friend in the first place..i think fea saw that it was time to cut insecure females out her life..you the one started acting bran new from what i hear...ANYWAY
they been holdin each other down for years..brandon knows what he wants and felcia is far from not knowing what she wants in a man..B is that man
they made a good choice when they chose each other and this is actually something they will be laughing at becuz its pathtic..its bothers them yes im sure but i know them and i know B even better..that ***&%^$ loves the hell out of that woman..
so MTO your sources were wrong on this one..SORRY
ok I have to blast her so-called friends for coming on this sits and commenting..you dumb *** need to mind your f*ckin business and worry about your own lives..how dare you come on this site and speak on behalf of other people..then we have two conflicting stories..one idiot claims to know her for so many years and that things are terrible..the other fool claims that everything between this couple is peachy and great..both of you *** the f*ck up..you dont really know whats going on..people front all the time like theyre happy because thats what they want people to think..if things were so great between her and her man, why did she post that blog? explain that one..and to one of the other "friends" you obviously were a jealous hating *** ho, becuase if you were a real friend you would NEVER have put her business on this website..for the other dumb *** that claims everything is great, how well do you even know them to be claiming that things are great? who the hell are you? and why do you take it upon yourself to post anything regarding this? even if its a lie..thats why our people are so f*ckin dumb sometimes..we stoop to low levels instead of walking away..celebs and friends of celebs should never come on here to defend anything..you let their PR people do it, you let their agents and managers do it..you nosey *** "friends" need to stay out of it and not take it upon yourselves to meddle in their affairs..***, with friends like yall, who needs enemies??????
To The Old Hater!!
Wassup Nikea? I see you still up to your ways. You just dont know how to mind your own business do you? Is she even still your friend? Does she talk to you? Do you even really know what you're talking about? I'm not surprised... Just like you pretended to be my friend and couldn't wait until I left school to f**k my dude, you always been hella two-faced.
Anyway Media Takeout, I happen to be her current friend (actually I'd like to think I'm both of their friends), and they are very much together and happy to boot! This whole thing is absolute foolishness... She still has her family and friends, and a career and a family. I'd like to think she's standing on her own just fine. Why the media always has to take facts and twist them is beyond me.
And Nikea for you to say that she stayed with Brandon for the money is so telling of the type of person you are. If you were really her friend and not a speculator you would know otherwise.. I know it, Brandon knows it, and all the people whose opinions actually matter know it (I'm sorry, but you don't fall in that category). She really loves him, and she is the type to stick with who she loves, shoe salesman or football player... A real friend of hers would always know this. You've just always been bitter and secretly competing with her throughout your friendship with her. You took from her when you needed help and when you got on your feet you acted like you were better than her, and everyone saw it.. By the way how many baby daddies you got? How many times did you have to depend on outside resources (we wont get into what) to get by for you and yours because you weren't working chasing behind ni**as - or should I say white boys? Oh, and by the way, I keep it real with her at all times and say s**t she doesn't like, but I never got pushed away because I KEEP IT REAL, I dont need to hate on her or embellish to draw attention to myself. You hella scandalous and you cant be trusted, thats why you got dropped as a friend.
Too everyone else out there, stop believing the hype... No relationship is perfect so its unfair that you would put theirs under such scrutiny because I'm quites sure you have your own things to deal with. But the whole point is, its not true. She is still there and not going any where, and he doesn't want her to. Get off it. And Nikea, we know you're not happy - but that jealous sh*t gotta go L.I.G it man for real.
And just record... Hypothetically (If the was the s**t was true), why is everybody dogging her? Aren't women supposed to stand united? Why isn't anyone saying "***, that ni**a aint s**t?" (Sorry Brandon, u know I luv u!) But for real tho? Would she be stupid for loving him, and having a family? Take some time to really think about things before you say something.
http://mymonavie.com/JessicaHollie
@Jessica-maybe you need to tell your girl not to spill her guts on myspace the next time shes feeling emotional..you claim you keep it real with her..so tell your homegirl thats not a wise decision to put her business out there when shes dating someone who is famous..its just going to end up on MTO and other gossip sites..and if things are so great, and if youre such a good friend, why does she feel so empty and alone..I think she has a bunch of leeching *** hos around her that pretend to be her friend because she has money..sorry, but if she had such good friends on her side, why would she feel the need to write a blog on myspace to express herself? why didnt she call you? I think all of yall are wrong for posting her business on here..its not your place..so please stop commenting on her life like you know her like that..if yall were so close she would be on the phone telling you how she feels instead of crying out for help to a bunch of strangers
To Gigi2007 - I am the current friend honey. I do know what I'm talking about. Nikea (the old friend) is someone from high school that could not keep to herself. Unlike Nikea, I talk to Fee *** near every day. Its safe to say we are more like sisters than friends and I do know that they are happy and together. Oh, and I just came back from visiting them for a week. I'm quite sure I would be able to sense that kind of tension if it was true, and why would I go visit her if she was coming home anyway? People don't want to believe that the blog wasn't about her. Many women leave behind things they love for a man, many women feel torn over a man... Is writing a poem or a song that wrong?
wow...were do I begin??? How about with the stupid *** females on here claiming to be this girls friend or associate; taking up for the pitiful so called fiance!!! First of all what kind of friends are you? this girl had to go on her *** myspace blog to vent instead of her so called friends and fam...so that says a lot about u!!! And yall claim that these two individuals are happy??? lol...I can guarantee that these so called friends are not in St. Louis cuz they obviously dnt kno wut the hell is going on!!! She is not happy and neither is he...and I kno this for a fact!! so how can you say anyting when you are all the way in San Fran and she obviously doesnt tell you everything cuz her actions speak for it!!! Now enuff with the lame ***, weak ***, sorry ***, *** ass friends lets move on to main person!!!! I dnt feel the least bit sorry for her...you kno why??? B/c first of all kids put *** up about their personal lives on myspace for the whole *** world to see!!! And to make it even worse the girls profile isnt even private!!! C'mon now!!! Gots to b mo careful...She is not in an ordinary relationship so she cant go about things like common folk can!! This man has a reputation and fan base to uphold and u meaning to tell me that she is selfish enuf to sabatoge her man and her family and oh yes her so called friends too!!! Young and dumb can be the only excuse!!! And then the girl has the nerve to put up 2 other blogs about the blog that started the mess in the first place...talkin bout I wrote that as an expression for other females who are feelin that way! *** please!!! If it was soo innocent and meaningless why in the hell did you delete it???? Grow UP!!! Yes all women have to vent and all women has been thru pain....naw *** that you got to do better than that sweetie!!! That man has to be mad as ***!!!! cuz i would be....This *** prolly dnt do ***!!! she prolly sittin on a *** high horse with nothing to do but sit at home and write *** myspace blogs all day!!! Get a *** job and do something constructive with your life you simple female you!!!! And their relationship will bever be the same after this!!! This chick needs to go bak to san fran to build herself up cuz she has no kind of strength!!!!
@thisaintright..I totally agree with you..he so-called friends need to keep their mouths ***..yall must all be young..because Im 31 and I would never put my friends business on Media Take Out.com..this is a trashy ghetto *** website with no credibility..so the fact that youre on here "defending" or dissing your "Friend" speaks volumes of your immaturity..its one thing to read this site, its another to put your friends personal business on there..how old are you people? do you see any of the other celebs that they talk about posting comments defending themselves? no..why? because its just a stupid f*ckin gossip site..just because you spent the week with her and talk to her on the phone doesnt mean jack..youre just another groupie hanging off of your rich friend and her famous husband..a real friend or a mature friend would never come on here and speak on anyones behalf..who are you-her agent? his agent? his PR rep? they have people-well, theyre supposed to have people-that handle things like this..its not your place..youre just another nosey *** female who wants to be in the mix..let me tell you something..I spent 2 weeks with my cousin, her husband and their kids last summer..they seemed so perfect, beautiful home, they were all affectionate with each other, the kids were so happy..a month later my cousin tells me her her husband is leaving her and that they were having issues for a while but they were trying to work on it..and this is my cousin, someone Im close to..not someone Im trying to party with and leech off of..I know my cousin..and still, she was able to hide things from me and front like things were fine..so dont come on here acting like you know their intimate details..no one knows what a couple is really going through but the couple..even if that was a poem, its very depressing and indicative of something deep..so dont say it was just a song or poem..you want to make it seem like you know whats going on, like youre her real friend, you want to make it seem like shes happy because you want her old hater friend to feel stupid..I dont pretend to know the truth because I dont know them, but something wrong is definitely going on..stop posting comments and take care of your homegirl
come on now people..you saying things about this girl that you dont even know..GET A REAL JOB?..how do you know what it is that she does..no one knows her or brandons situation but them..i pray she doesnt read some of the things being said..someone even called their baby a *** child...i mean seriously this is an innocent baby that has done no wrong..let them alone..i read her 2 new blogs..okay so what! do you now want to debate on those as well? i think she is disgusted by all of this..leave them alone...go talk bad about Jay Z and Beyonce or Usher and Tameka or something..
@gigi2007
Speak on it baby girl! These so called friends are just putting more of her business out there.. Time to analyze your friends girlfriend and
@Jessica_Hollie
Why da hell you spending a week at ya girl and her man's house??? U sound scandalous as well. I feel for ya girl cuz her blog speaks on her emotional state she need some real bytches around her cuz it seems like she is surrounded by a bunch of scandalous broads!! Quit talkin your girls f0ckin business, stupid!
@RealTalk3000-"Now the nicca will go find any ole white gurl and fall madly in love her (e.g, Reggie Bush and the countless other nicca's just like him)…and Sista's will forgive/excuse the nicca's that do that kind of ***!t (like they always do...) and the cycle will continue."
"sistas" forgive just like WHITE WOMEN forgive and LATINAS and every other woman! so you're saying blk men gonna fall for white girls bc what??
and also to her "friends"..you all have issues and you all need to sit the f*ck down..talking about this one couldnt wait til you left school so she could f*ck your dude..what is this high school? youre all talking sh*t about each other..theres no loyalty or love, which is why this woman feels so empty and alone..youre all leeching *** hoes..and she knows it..none of yall are her real friend, and she knows that too..youre all a mess..go back to school, get jobs, do something construtive with your lives..stop trying to hang out with this girl because you want to *** a ball player and get hit off with doe..grow up
To Hischild: *** *** the *** up PLEASE!!!!!! You are so uneducated about the whole situation! I am an insider and while this *** claim he's working, 75% of the time he's *** me. In addition to that, you need to be a real friend and tell it like it is cause there is no way I can know he's not happy but yet her so called friend thinks all is well? And lets stop for a second and talk about how this *** thought he had another baby on the way the same time her stupid *** was pregnant! Can we say WOW! Both you *** are dumb! Hischild is dumb because your adding fuel to the fire by steady posting comments on the situation. A real friend wouldn't acknowledge the situation if it wasn't true. I just would love to have the honors of showing you ladies how the game is suppose to be played because its quite obvious Ms.Felecia Faye D'Angelo has no clue (dumb ***)! Stop sitting around confessing your heart and personal business on Myspace and maybe you'll get somewhere in life. By the way, B i'm ready for round 2, lol!
I just hate the way overly judgemental men and women jump to the conclusion that just cuz he play pro sports she should have seen it coming, no she should EXPECT fidelity(sp?).
Now that they have had some *** in the past SAME thing, and yes she IS kicking herself by continuing to stay...
But hey these are the HARD life lessons that we learn. Some of us have the courage,smarts, whateva to walk away at the 1st sign some don't..You cant go through life w/o making some mistakes..Just .2
I can't believe what I'm reading on here! These tricks (49ers, Jessica_Hollie & hischild) on here saying they are her "friend". I would be whopping some AZZ if ANY of my girls put ANY of my biz in the streets; whether it be for me or against me. You can tell they are all young, dumb and full of ***... And for ole girl putting this *** on a blog....sweetheart, do yourself a favor, and handle your grown woman behind closed doors. Call your girlfriends up, get you a nice bottle of Hogue Riesling from Johannasburg, get out some tissues, cry it out, suck it up, dry your tears and let it go. Then, the next day, tell him you would appreciate him taking care of his child; don't try to kill his pockets and PLEASE don't take him all through the court system...we don't need the "others" in our business...move on with your life and know that whatever else God has planned for you will come to fruition.
P.S.- A wise old woman once told me this....
THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER A MAN IS TO GET UNDER A NEW ONE!
She ain't neva lied.
mzsthick IS right, I dont no a Nikea Scarborough but i do no felisha and we did not go to high school together. We lived in a group home together in oakland well that was b4 her *** blackened her eye then she moved. I got back into contact with felisha through darrell in 2003 so that Jessica girl needs to *** up. Oh wow you the girl she said wanted to kill her self all the time because her grandma said she was hella fat and to dark right? but thats your freind huh? I hope that Nikea girl see this and comments because you put her biz on blast and had the wrong person lmao lol hahahahaha
Hischild and the rest of the Felicia Faye clan: C'mon now chick!!! So you still in denial about the fact that *** aint what it seems huh??? Grow up and open yo eyes!! I guess this is how San Fran chicks roll huh??? Seems to me like San Fran chicks are weak and SUPER DUPER immature!!! Yeah we all may be ignorant for putting our opinions out here but the difference between u and the rest of the people who dnt kno her is just that!!! WE DNT KNOW HER so it doesnt make or break us...but you?!?!?! You look like a dumb chik who thinks she knows everything thats going on in her girls life...do you think she is going vent to people who are not her tru friends??? NO!!!! you arent a tru friend cuz if you were you would be too bizy makin comments bak and forth; instead you would be tellin yo girl f*ck that website girl!! Lets not even entertain these liars!!! Yo dumb *** should be tellin her to get Brandon to buy her a ticket to San Fran so she can get some R&R!!!! Take notes on how to be a tru friend!!!!
Thanks 49ers and hischild, I thought I just told you to *** the *** up 20 minutes ago? I see you don't take direction very well so therefore I must put the situation on blast somemore! Brandon will continue to stay in between these legs cause obviously Felecia cant keep him satisfied! While you texting that *** late at *** asking him to come home, he's up in my bed talking about how unhappy he is and how he's ready to kick yo *** out the crib and send you home packing! *** the only reason why he's dealing with your thirsty for money *** is because of your daughter you have together. Oh and by the way, ask your friend how my *** taste????????????
that's a *** shame but she should have her own sh&t...running behind a man just cuz he plays ball can land you in a situation like this. can't say im surprised.
and its hard for someone who is an athlete to stay faithful when there are always cheap ho$s always willing to let them smash and act a fool. if women were classier, half of this cheating wouldn't be going on. i just told a guy playing ball to stop calling because i wouldn't trust him being faithful. who wants to deal with that? most men think women want to snag a ball player, but if a woman can take care of herself, she wouldn't need someone for their status.
@mzthick, do you really think its cute to be on here posting that you ready to go at it with a man who is already in a relationship? have some respect for yourself.
WoW at yall on here! ***..I mean I don't know any of these people and I don't know who's telling the truth, but since when does trying to defend a friend become such a "suspect" thing? I mean no matter what site you go no these days whenever people involved or the fam/friends people automatcially jump ALL down thier *** throats....What's wrong w/ yall..***!
And b/c we're on the outside yall just have to go w/ the "theme" of the post, huh? No INDEPENDANT thought here..IDK man just ***..LOL!
Some of you stupid *** kill me. Every time a woman is hurt by a man, you blame her. Its her fault because she should've had a back-up plan. No, it's those trifling *** *** faults for being almost 30 years old and still acting like little *** boys. If there weren't so many women quick to say "men cheat...thats what they do...accept it" there wouldn't be so many men cheating. Stop condoning that ***. It's not acceptable.
Don't lash out at a sister for hurting...lash out at the one who hurt her. Thats why our people can't get anywhere now...always pulling one another down.
And MTO is wrong for posting this ***. I'm sure your *** ass has been hurt before FRED. I guess when you're hurting you post OTHER folks business instead of your own. Get a *** life.
Yes, londyn.
Exactly, I mean some of the "advice" is on point even its harsh tone w/o any compassion. Trust I had a very DIRECT mother,g'ma and aunties that told you what you DID not want to hear, when you didn't want to hear it..lol But it was done in a way that you actually got something out of it rather than gratuitous digust and condesceding attitide.. ya know?
Can we all hug? j/j
All ya'll bytches trippin on this site.
But @mzsthick Oh and by the way, ask your friend how my *** taste????????????
I don't know you, you nasty c/u/***/t bytch but do you think you suppose to be the baddest bytch cuz you sharing dyck? You da 2nd bytch h/o/e!!!!! Don't see your azz lookin all pretty with you man like ol girl is in the picture above...you lonely w/h/o/r/e
@49rs & Jessica, & Hischild & Mz Thick this display of total *** is ridiculous there are not enough words in the english language to describe how slow all of you are. Its a cast of young azz girls who don't know there puzzies from a hole in the wall let alone know your own mines. You got the two hanger-ons, the baby mama, the hater and the skank (that's you Mz Thick if your confused). And all of you look like a bunch of fools. Heres a lesson you all need to learn 1.) MIND YOUR OWN AFFAIRS & MAYBE YOU'LL BE SOMETHING 1 DAY 2.) LEAST SAID, LESS MENDED 3.) IF YOU ARE DATING AN ATHELE, CELEB OR ANY MAN WITH MONEY, THEY WILL, AND DO CHEAT!!! Simply because every man no matter his station in life is to conquer as much punani as he can before he dies!!! To baby mama if he cheated on you once and you stayed than you knew that there was a possiblity...no a certainty he would do it again to the skank, Jumpoff Mz. Thick learn your role your a jumpoff, a sideline hoe a groupie. So know your role and *** your *** mouth cause you can and probably are being replaced as I type this. To the so called "friends" No friend no matter how close they are knows absolutely everything about their friend so don't assume *** looks can and are decieveing. Secondly stop running your mouth cause if the blog your friend wrote is true or false you running your *** mouth doesn't help the situation. Don't defend what you don't know to be the absolute truth. And lastly if you all would put your energy into something real and positive you would have your own and not have to concern yourself with other peoples goings on, but as it is human nature its easier to mind someone elses store than run your own.
Im a say this then im signing off cause I you hoes are dumb! *** first I want you to look at yourself before posting another public pic for the world to see! *** you don't even look good enough to be a side chick let alone pull any celebrity you thirsty hoe! In addition to that hoe your probably sharing *** as well cause by the looks of that pic *** you couldn't keep a blind mans attention! icanmakeitjuicy4ya i'm not expecting him to leave me for her cause on the real I just want one thing and i'm getting it. Nevertheless, thanks for your time and im signing off now ***!
ooowweeee..lol..things are heated up in here..the bottom line is, these people who supposedly know her need to *** the f*ck up and mind their business..they *** be talking about her..you dont know whats really going on between her and her man..I dont give a f*ck if youve known her for 15 years or 5 minutes..you dont know her personal biz..women who are married to celebs or rich men tend to hide it when things go wrong because they want to act like they have a perfect life and they want others to continue to be envious of them..so of course shes not going to tell her "friend" that hes cheating, he got some other b*tch pregnant or that shes miserable..shes going to laugh and smile and act like things are cool..you fools need to *** the f*ck up..get your own life, stop leeching off of this girl, stop trying to come up off of her, get your own man, get a job, go back to school..do something other than being nosey *** star f*ckers..dont none of his ball player friends want to get with your groupie *** so just quit it
@mzsthick
Quit lyin bytch you ain't signing off ***!! you wanna see my *** response.. I ain't even going to respond to your comments about my looks b/c I love me some me bytch! Do you love yourself you sideline w/h/o/r/e????? Nah you don't even like yourself really! Bet you da bytch trying to get approved on my myspace just now so you can really see what I look like huh????? Denied bytch..The first thing a weak bytch does is try to down a real bytch. Come on ma! Do better and Suck a d/i/c/*** h/o/e!!!! LOL... I'm getting off work now.. you made the last 30 mins go by quickly..thanks c/u/***/t!
@iCanMakeiTJuicy4Ya
Actually I'm just speaking to my Sista's. I don't know or could care less about other races of women. Not trying to be cruel...I'm just saying...a nicca is only gonna do what (in this case and soooooooooo many other cases) the sista(s) allow him to get away wit. Just look at her comments and the comments from her so called girl friends. Them sista's following that nicca around the country like he is the last man on earth or something. They all need to get their sh!t together. Any real sista ain't going for that ***!t. I know my wife wouldn't put up with that type of ***!t with me and I hope my daughters don't put up with that type of ***!t when they grow up. Honestly...do you think she or her girlfriends would be following "Joe the Janitor" around the country sniffing behind his funky @ss. I don't think so...LMAO. And my comment about them nicca's falling for the white gurls is self explainatory because the sista's settle for baby mama status (just as in this case...) and not demand that the nicca wife her before the kid. Sista's got to do better than that. I'm just saying...I just hope and pray my daughters make smarter choices in their lives. SMH for real!!!
@realtalk3000-i agree..that girl does need to get it together if in fact, she relies on him for her source of income..but i know this lady right here aint settling for milking this cow for free..and i dont play house..not my style, there's no way i'd be getting kicked out of nowhere! lol..and that comment about blk men falling for white girls, please..do you really think those white women would want "Joe the Janitor" as well? negative! they only want the rich black men...so yea, us black women need to wise up, but so do you black men who get a bit of money then don't know how to act..kharma's a b!tch
WOW, this is not REAL. Felicia is a writer and i am certain that she was writing a song. Judging by all the fuss she got from the poem she ought to get a beat and make a song. CAN ANYONE SAY HIT IN THE MAKING. In addition, Ms. Jessica i cannot believe what you said about me, 2 wrongs do not make a right so i will not retaliate (to deliberately harm somebody in response or revenge for a harm he or she has done) on you because I am to old for that and this site. My friend called me like girllllll check out this website and I see my name on a few comments. I didn’t even know about this site or their *** because I don’t care. I wish her, Jay, B, and you nothing but the best of luck in life. Please get your facts str8 before you accuse someone of something so petty and cruel then “try” to assassinate someone’s character like that. Felicia if you read this, make a song if you haven’t all ready done so because it’s a freaking hit. Jessica if you have anything to say to me hit me on myspace other then that please don’t believe everything you hear. And keep my name off your key board because it’s childish I’m not going to get into to what’s true and what’s not because my friends no me and who I am. I would never wish anything bad on anyone let alone Felicia or anyone else I knew when I was a child. Its 2008 I don’t have time for anymore drama. So with that said you guys take care and if this BS is true (which I highly doubt) take care of her take her out like a few other writers said.
@49ers do I know you? If not we should because im a 49 fan as well=) male or female?
You should do what makes you happy and if that's not with a black man then who cares in the first place. It's one less sista throwing black men under the bus and why should a black man want to be with a trifling idiot like you. As a black man myself I am sick and tired of hearing the same old song about a brotha did to you. When the truth of the matter is he did what you allowed him to do to you. There are no victims here because you were a willing participant. My advice to you is to get yourself a woman then since they know and understand you so much better.
I guess she is feeling hurt and disappointment but she put herself in this position by having a baby with him without being married to him and having some legal protections. she chose to go for the ride the second time believing that he would change and that she could make it happen. This is the most idiotic thing a woman can do. We are who we are, it is what it is, and what you see is what you are going to get. Most people do not change their ways and or behavior. she needs to get herself together first and take things one day at a time, it's not going to get any better.
Oh my goodness!! This was the best thread I've read in a long time!! lol Haaaa! I couldn't stop reading, everytime I tried a NEW friend came on putting their 2 cents in! I especially like the reference to 50's baby's mother, THAT was funny!
Anyways MsThick you aint right, you know it aint right too. BUT I have seen situations where men stay just for the kid and when they do finally get enough *** to leave, the women turn the kid against them and tell the kid that your father doesn't love you, (NO B*tch, he doesn't love you) so I'm not gonna say anything about that.
And *** you friends with all this conflicting info. Felicia sweetie pie, go find another baller like the rest of Hollywood, NBA, NFL ect! And I'm not trying to be shallow either by saying that because once you've reached a certain plateau NO ONE is thinking about "Joe the Janitor" or Randy who works at Home Depot! Seriously.
@iCanMakeiTJuicy4Ya
You are right...karma is a b!tch. So sista's need to let them type nicca's do they thing and maybe get with "Joe the Janitor" or a nice nicca that will do them right. A lot of them nicca's that get that money like that don't really know the true value of dealing with money anyway, so a lot of them end up broke when it's all said and done. Not hating...because I like to see any brotha do good...I'm just saying you read all the time about them getting houses forclosed on and stuff like that. So when you add that with the groupies and partying those guys do...it makes you wonder why any real sista would want to deal with that. Unless they themselves are looking to gain financially...which in itself is some ***!t...so you see karma works in more ways than one. Cuz in this situation she is getting a healthy dose of it now. Just a thought...
O.*** now back to the gossip... (in my best Wendy Williams voice)
1. When did Felicia get pregnant with the baby, during his high school years or college years? If his Mama is walking around saying I never liked that girl the minute he brought her through the door, HOUSTON we have a problem!
2. MsThick, do you live in St. Louis or does he pull R Kelly stunts and fly you out to see him??
3.MsThick has he bought you any lavish gifts? Superhead got 10G's a month from Shaq, if you aint getting anything out the deal but dYck and bubble gum then you're a lame!
4. 49ers, you said you two were in group home together aren't those for run-aways and juveniles? So Felicia was a juvenile delinquent basically??
5. And MysteryCelebrity, what line of business are you in Hip Hop, NFL, NBA, Hollywood?? Help me out here...
Stop the Madness!! She did not put him on blast. And I don’t think because she is expressing herself through words of hurt and pain that she is not a woman. Jthatdude: that was the dumbest thing you could every say!!! If anyone has loved someone so much they have given up the world for that person, inside you feel like you are nothing. At first you are not as strong as you seem to be, but getting over the pain is what makes you strong. I am a strong woman and I’ve had times of destruction myself because I gave up so much, but when you love someone you sacrifice to make your situation work. If she plans to stay in St. Louis then hell take all you can from you experience and make yourself whole again. The problem with some people is they are so busy attacking others they never give a true thought into the situation. Instead of telling the poor girl she is not a woman, hell tell her it will be ok... She just has to get over this hump. Furthermore, all NFL players are not going to leave their women for the high life, its just unfortunate that some do and the media find out about it… It's that 80 20 rule we've heard so much about lately!! When he realizes his mistake, he will come back, but I just hope she is strong enough to say Hell No, get on ***!gga, Imma do me (at least right now). Many of us have been broken by a dude or a chick and no one can blame her for the blog!!! Sh!t expression makes the mind grow... Crying relives the stress... And once all of that is over, you find Happiness!! Take that from someone who knows what it feels like to be broken!!! Stop hating some of yall and put yourself in other people’s shoes sometimes!!
Ohhh *** son! What have I been missing...lol See *** like this is why I deleted my Myspace page...Because I'm sure someone could have made a BS story up on me and mine and some of my athlete friends and send the *** to MTO...
Women(of course not all) just can not hold ***...People on here singing like birds about these people relationship...That's why I'm a private *** mofo...I don't trust BYTCHES!!! And not that I trust men that much either...
Oh Not commeniting on this situation because I haven't a clue about their life or relationship, but @Hotbunny, you are so right about being ambitious and trying to get your own...These men respect women like that...Trust...And you're right, let them chase YOU...It never fails.
And some people can be so judgemental...Everything on the woman...The woman is automatically a gold-digger...Be careful ladies because people can assume the same *** about you...Sistas need to stop being so hard on other sistas...Men aren't all that innocent either...
And for the people who are saying, "Oh he's an athlete, you know he cheats or probably will get some STD"...News flash people...A man does NOT have to be an athlete to cheat or give you a disease, in fact, I'm willing to bet that most new cases of AIDS and etc, are from regular *** people and most who are likely poor...
I guess because athletes business gets put out there(like on here) people want to make it an athlete thing...Your guy at home may be cheating more than him...Difference is, it's not publicized...
Man please get off of her with that "I've known her for whatever years" You on here posting this BS...stay out they business! Ya'll actin like ya know EVERYTHING...u just amped you know somebody on media take out. Get yo *** on. If ur her friend...you would have never posted it!!!! But it's all good. The truth comes to light...faye you already know I got ur back...u still comin thru tonite???? You know who this is...
Hmmmm bad parents huh?? I can just smell it in the air! IF what MsThick said about him not being happy and that he's just staying for kid is true, I can see it all unfold.
He tells her he wants to leave and she throws the guilt trip on him about her not having a "REAL" family and saying do you want that to happen to your daughter?? And of course he falls back into his miserable lil hole and then texts MsThick to ask her what she's doing!! Haaaa!
*** I can't stand being right!! lol
Since Felicia is reading this (thanks Mimi55), why don't you just come out and set the record straight?? Tell everybody to *** the Puck up, but first a few questions...
1.Did you write that after a recent fight or something? 2.Do you have a job? School? 3. How are you going to address your cheating man? Ole girl said her puzzy taste is still on his lips NOW!! You should punch him in his f*cking face for embarrasing you like this and then pray on it. I bet he won't take you for a sucka no more!
On the other hand if you've overstayed your welcome, it's time to go! Move on.
APPARENTLY SHE'S HURTING. AND THAT IS SO PAINFULL. I REALLY FEAL SORRY FOR HER. I PRAY SHE HEALS QUICKLY AND CAN GET OVER HIM. I CAN TELL HE'S NOT WORTH HER. IT'S SO SAD HOW SOME PEOPLE BOTH MEN AND GIRLS ALIKE WILL DROP PEOPLE LIKE A HAT ON THE BED. PEOPLE HAVE FEELINGS AND I THINK FOLKS NEED TO STOP LOOKIN AT ALL THE VARIOUS GIRLS AS COOKIES PIPE ING HOT COMING OUT OF THE OVEN AND FOCUS ON ONE PERSON AT A TIME. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON AND NOT THE BOOTY. THIS IS WHY BLACK FOLKS ARE
FULL
OF
AIDS!
ANYWHO SHE'S MEGA PRETTY. HE'S NOT CUTE AT ALL. HE WOULD HAVE NEVER GOTTEN MY ATTN ANYWAY.
SAD SHE WAS HURT BEFORE.
WAS TORN OVER THE MATTER TO TAKE HIM BACK.
TRUSTED HIM.
NOW HE'S HURT HER AGAIN.
THEN THESE SAME MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO COME WITH BAGGAGE. MAN GTFOOH. IT'S SAD YO.
People crack me up how they lash out at people for expressing their feelings
Sometimes writing is the best way to cleanse yourself of a past hurt or lost and sharing it because someone somewhere will relate
Then you look back at your past through what you wrote and see where you were and where you are now. I do it all the time (on my myspace blogs) and the positive feedback from family, friends, and strangers is healing
so think about that before you knock a sister fro just releasing
Whateva she ain't the only one who been heart broken so yeah she can suck it up just like all the other ppl b4 her had to do. She could b stupid and take her life but that is crazy talk. Unlike all those other trillion ppl who been heart broken b4 she doesn't have to start at ground zero. She should have enough of his money to make her forget he existed. I know money won't stop the pain but it sure does ease it. Spend his money on the next *** like the rest of 'em. He gotta pay believe dat. Plus Karma is a ***. He will end up with a gold digger and she gone leave him for the rest of that lil change he gettin. God don't like ugly... Besides I think she pretty so she'll b able to get another man. As a matter of fact she is in the circle already get another NFLer (believe me men don't care who you dated b4 them,fiend or foe).
So..perhaps I'm just extra late, but I had to comment after reading everyone elses hiliarious comments. First and foremost, Ms. Felicia I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you...but we (grown women) NEVER NEVER NEVER need to put our business on blast ESPECIALLY on Messy Myspace. I feel you...I see the poetry in what you wrote, but when you are with someone of that status personal problems should remain between you and Brandon regardless of how much you need to vent!!--->because we all know there is always a hoe watching and STALKING from far away. I have known Brandon since junior high and to some extent I'm not surprised @ the drama, but at the same time I have heard and seen how Brandon acts towards Ms. Faye and I'm sure he knows what he has--->which is why he may need some more time to get his *** together. I just hope he does because these messy *** are NOT worth it.
To MzSThick:...I sincerely hope that your name does not stand for Ms. Super Thick..if it is indeed I'm disappointed because I thought highly of you. It doesnt matter how many times you and that man "so-called" had ***...he don't love you and that makes you the DUMB b!tch...and a h0e to boot! Stop hatin on what that girl has because it seems to me that you will remain in the place of a h0e and not somebody's wife. And yea...we know about ol girl Z supposedly being pregnant also...she just another St. Louis h0e like you!
now I aint on nobody side...because I don't know Felicia...I only know Brandon, but that comment about "how my puzzy taste?" was just plain ol' unladylike so I'm throwin in my two cents!
okay so this whole story is crazy....they had something but it ended. he doesn't even play in NFL anymore he has moved on with his life and he is happy. so lets just drop it. he has a new person in his life and she needs to move on or drop it but to try to blast him on the net is very childish, he takes *** good care of his daughter so what more do u want. life goes on sweety im sorry u got hurt but all females and males get hurt at some point in time its just life! ......