awwwww! hells no!

Not you too! Come back to us

Come on Lyfe! Top 5!

How do you know it's his girlfriend?

Neva woulda thought...

....ok...there's nothing wrong with a lil mixture. that's how food is made. and food is good. ;)

dun dun dun another one bites the dust!

She needs to shave her armpits.

LYFE, GET YA MIND RIGHT HOMIE.

Now I know yall not surprised. As if he'd want to continue the edification of a strong blk woman. Plus, I have a crush on blackexec

hmmmm "Must be Nice"

When will ya'll brothers learn not to play with them snow bunnies??

lol@ robii

Nice! Hate if you want...

I agree w? black exec...Im not into his music, sound or look. They can have him UGGH

she just gonna ber baby momma #2

I guess. You can't judge a book...

I see nothing wrong here. Except men need to stop dipping from women to women. Just nasty!

OH NO HE DIDN'T

She better watch out. He been to prison. And that mean he's prison ***.

I used to be so in love w/ Lyfe Jennings until I heard that he was madly in love w/ his manager. They were dating on the low for some years. She had his back from the very beginning (from what I heard)...So I respected true love.

To see that he has moved on to another...I am disappointed. Not because she is White, because it wasn't w/ me. ((lol))

I don't have a problem with the swirl....what I have a problem is when black men get a lil money in their pockets and start getting attention from different races they run to be at their becking call. If he's with her for love then it's cool but to make him feel like she's his trophy then he's just as pathetic as the others.

YOU GUYS KNOW THE BLACK HOLLYWOOD MOTTO!!! IT AINT RIGHT IF IT AINT LIGHT!!!

ILL TAKE THE BABY MOMMA IN THIS CASE

LISTEN TO MY MUSIC!!!!!!!

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MYSPACE.COM/PRESICEHIGHRISKENT

MYSPACE.COM/PRESICEHIGHRISKENT

WHHHHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY YYYY?! SAY IT AIN'T S0O0

he looks dirty. well that's what happens when the money comes. i just wish the men would be strong enough to stay home with the women who really hold them down.

MMM MMM MMMM.. ***, ***, ***, THEY GET LIGHTER *** LIGHTER *** LIGHTER!!! LYFE, I DNT WANNA HEAR NONE OF THAT CHUMMY MUSIC NW.. UR CONTRADICTING URSELF!

Only in America would someone whos people have a history of over 400 years of racist oppression complain about people dating because the oppressor labled them different races when in fact they basically have the same skin complexion.

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black.

Are we surprised?

SOOO WHATT!! She's cute and they look very happy! Thats all that matter's

PITIFUL AND PATHETIC BLACK MEN WITH NO SELF-PRIDE GO AFTER WHITE WOMEN. Where are all the REAL BLACK MEN?

As long as they're happy, right?

I mean what, some of ya'll ladies thought ya'll had a chance or something?

I would be depressed if it wasn't for that nastyass goatee dude be sportin, man cut that *** off!!!

Black women need to step their game up & stop complaining.

FIRST GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT! THAT IS NOT HIS BABY MAMA AND DID YOU EVER THINK THAT MAYBE THAT GIRL IS MIXED...MAYBE WITH BLACK. HATERS!!!!!

She's nothing special really but looks aren't everything.Just as long as their happy.

@big_juicy

You ever think maybe the old girlfriend was holding them down in bad way. Just a thought. That new girl is not white.

o my god!!!!! what is this???!?!? Why?!

s[SPAM]oooo what!!! MTO and it's racism! But it's OK because it's against white people right? Why is it that black men are pitiful with no self pride just because they are dating a white women? The mother of his child is black! So obviously he isn't exclusively saying he only likes and dates white women. This is the difference between people like him and that little boy Yung Berg. The ones who complain and don't agree with it are the ones with self hate issues and are pitiful!

Wow some of these comments are silly. He can date whom ever he wants. Who really cares about the skin color. All tose girls are cute and besides they look like fans taking a pic. I still love you Lyfe

I love Lyfe and I really hope it true love. Not all relationships work but if he’s only doing this because he’s white I’m going to be hurt. He could date me. Must B Nice

And she doesn't even look only white!!! Hell she is almost the same color as he is. I thought this was what MLK wanted? For people to be united? All races?

As I review the comments here, it appears brothers are fine with being with white women and that is their choice. But when there are sooo many single and eligible black women out there who looking for a strong black brother then I can understand why sistas would feel kind of slighted.

Personally. I would want to be with a woman that is in the image of my mother. A strong black woman but I guess many brothas don't see it that way. Then again love is love.

HA HA HA!!! 4ZHANE is the same girl he dates!!!

Hey, as long as they're happy so what?

So its official he looks high and sleepy all the time!

dag! he look like my babe.. mine cuter though :)

all yall saying that girl might be mixed w/black are crazy!!! Im half black/white and I got kids with a black dude and my sister got kids w a white dude. Our kids is all kinds of diff colors and shades but you can tell for a FACT that them lil white ones got black in em! This chick might be mixed w/some spanish but it ain't black!!! She ain't got NO black features

HE'S JUST LIKE SOME OF THE OTHER BLK MEN.....GET U PREGO WITHIN A SEC, U HAVE THE BABY, THINGS GO GOOD 4 A MIN......AND THEN WITHIN THE NEXT HR THEY GOT SOME OTHER CHICK ON THEIR ARM.

WELL HE HAS THAT RIGHT YA KNOW...

On a side note, who gives a ***!!! Cute story...my daughter asked me one day y we call my dad black and my mom white, I said because they are, she said no momma pawpaw is brown and granny is peach and walked off. I couldn't say ish cause it was true!! Y we gotta care about color so much. How bout we start caring about some1's character and the content of their heart. It's 2008, in 2 years it aint gon be no black and white erry1 gon be gray cuz we all so mixed up now!!LOL. Also I bet the people who are so "against" the mixing of races have passed up on sum1 the lord put in they life on purpose because they couldn't get over that color boundary. *** Shame!!

LoL @ mrnotiq...

About the story, I really don't care, he wasn't mine to begin with. Oh well.

THIS REMINDS ME OF A *** THAT WAS POSTED ON MYSPACE. CHECK IT OUT BELOW...

A White Woman's Opinion of Black Women

White women's opinion of black women & a brother's response

Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this black man.

Enjoy.

It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men.

I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more) !!!

Dear Jamie:

I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.

I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship.

My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.

Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes.

I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.

Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...

I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE

Dear Jamie:

I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.

Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.

I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.

The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.

Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.

I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women.

Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.

I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.

Read your history!

It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.

It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman.

And, through all this, Still They Rise!

It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.

Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women.

I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks.

If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?

I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children.

Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.

No offense taken, none given.

Signed, Black Royalty

@ princedarrell

As I review the comments here, it appears brothers are fine with being with white women and that is their choice. But when there are sooo many single and eligible black women out there who looking for a strong black brother then I can understand why sistas would feel kind of slighted. -------------------------------------------------

Being single and eligible is not a qualification for getting involved in a relationship with a woman or any woman. I couldn't care less if every black woman I met was single, if our personalities don’t match....then it is what it is. Maybe, the woman he is with matches his personality perfectly. Why should this man forgo his happiness just to appease a certain group of women?

@ tastycakes

PITIFUL AND PATHETIC BLACK MEN WITH NO SELF-PRIDE GO AFTER WHITE WOMEN. Where are all the REAL BLACK MEN?

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If a black men who go after white women are pitiful and pathetic, what do you call white men who go after black women?

Better yet, what do you call black women who go after white men?

lol@ the ***.

She can have him and that *** on his chin...I just like his music.

no the whites girls dont end up like oj lyfe you suppose 2 smarter than that ....lyfe it mus b nice ,lol

Easy money.. sign in now work from home no start up fee !! http://cashcrate.com/622997

The mother of his child looks better from what little of her i can see

To each his own...still like his music though.

I don't understand you can have children by a black women but they weather marry a white chick

OR THEY COULD JUST BE FRIENDZ...

NNNOOOOOO LYFE you my boo say it its so...

I am sick and tired of these men going outside their race it makes no sence at all....LYFE I LOVE YOU AND THIS IS VERY DISAPPOINTING....

@da advocator...u just intimidated by single successful and strong black women...admit it, brothas can't handle a woman who is more successful than him. case and point...stedman and oprah

I'm kinda surprised by this, he seems like the type to only like black women, but I guess not! His baby's mother is cute, he should've stayed with her!!!

Now you all know the BLACK MEN gotta keep their WHITE GIRLS Christina Aguleira's. They have an obsession with them if you ask me.

OH BOY....here goes the ***.B.W.H.A (the national black women hating association. GET A GRIP.....they look good together! and she doesn't look like a white women, she looks hispanic(Remember-BLACK 2 u guys) SO WHATS THE BIG FCUKING PROBELM!!! RACIST B*TCHES

IT'S 2008.....GROW UP!

She's a cute white girl. Is she even white? His child's mother is really pretty. Naturally pretty.

new_orleans_finest.....THanks 4 that post

and blackexec...this *** get on my nerve too.

Calls his self lyfe and he did a few years injail for arson! cone on now.

I actually dont care about them havin this one. More power to you for being able to stomach lookin at that hideous beard

These same black women complaining, are the same ones cheering for black women dating white men.

At least this white girl is cute, and not a big fatty fat fat. lol

AND SHE IS NOT BLACK!!!!.....

***, thats what all that interracial couple sh*t do, ya'll cant even tell who black no more.

Wanna hear some real music?... www.wemix.com/nickfraiche

new_orleans_finest that was a good a@@ read. And so true. I'm am a great black woman and many black man do like woman that they can control. But this lioness cannot, will not be tamed by a man b.s. gotta love it.

@CINCITY

Your right she does looks Hispanic( Remember WHITE to you guys). She actually looks like you except your about 200lbs heavier.

Lyfe's ex *** have anything 2 say she didnt want him, so somebody did.

Oooh, I see ignorant people - all over the place today! Whatever. Girlfriend is pretty so baby mama can be damned. I cram to understand why people are so hung up on Black men who choose to date White women. That whole "taking our men" mentality comes closest to that of a slave owners. We don't OWN anyone; we're just lucky to have good people in our lives when we can, race be damned! OMG!!! "Going outside their race..." WTF does that mean? Are we not all members of the *** HUMAN race? (Well, I'm sure there are a questionable number of folks running around to whom that doesn't apply. I'm just shocked so many of them bothered to wake their crusty *** out of bed this morning to spew their idiotic viewpoints. Further proof that the Internet is not for everyone)!

@ Jtech....We cheer for them cuz we get tired of seeing that sh*t happen to us, and we want you to see how it feels.

Who da *** else we goin date? we already out number a ya'll 2 to one and then even less cuz of *** like this....

GET IT HALLE!!!!!

I havent been on MTO in a min but i see nothing has changed with DA ADVOCATOR(White Girl) whateva. This is a person who only downs black women nobody else. Yea because there is nothing 4 him(HER) 2 fix when it comes to black men.lol

To TreasureT..no problem...I felt I had to share that. Also LoveMeSweetly, I know it really is...very deep!

Oh and 2 the rest of yall lets not get on black women who get mad at swirls. I cant even begin 2 tell the amount of black men who curse me and my husband out when we go places. And the looks we get from white women (Oh he aint hitting it right, U r just there 4 money).

WTF????

Da_Advocator why don't you go the *** on with your stupidity. You are so WEAK and PATHETIC. The only time you post is in an interracial topic and to tell us black women we ain't ***. Where are you in topics with pictures of beautiful black women with black men...oh yeah you're in those too...never once commenting on the topic at hand, just to once again down us becacuse we are glad to see black together; reminding us how sad we are for praising this. You swear you're stopping folks from thinking the way they do, but you aren't. I am not here to tell YOU who to *** so save that overused retort. However, if a picture is posted, I am here to say I will never cosign with it. You will not change mine, or any one else's mind so stay the *** in the shadows with that mess. How foolish is it to claim you're a conscious black man but only post when white women are being attacked? What the *** is wrong with you really? Why don't you just go *** out your white whor'es hole instead of coming on here trying to get folks to change their mind. We get it you want us to accept your relationship.

You're so moronic. This is all you do:

-Come on SOLELY in these topics -Tell us not to tell black men who they can *** -Call us miserable, yet you can never state your opinon without name calling and brash language. Angry Black Coon. -Tell us we're brainwashed by the media then around and say black women don't have much to boast about but their assets. So in essence the same thing the media (who happened to brainwash us) says about the black woman you regurgitate. -tell us a couple more time to get the *** outta here -then say you're gone but keep returning.

You spew the garabage rhetoric ad nauseum. Over and over and over and over and over.

*** this *** is pititful.

I await the infamous, "*** outta here" and just like the defiant black woman I am, I'mma plant myself in this thread. WHAT!

Who cares.

If mabye you would quit complaining and take care of your man, white girls won't keep taking them from ya biatch!

I've said this million times on MTO. On average women of other races are easier to aproach than the average black woman.

Sweet Diamond

You're wrong, brother's can get a women of other races when he's dead broke and she's filthy rich! If she likes your style she'll give you some play. You can jump off the bus, and if you're a fine brother with potential you're in!

Now tell me the average attitude of sister's when she sees a fine brother who's still getting his money right with a less expensive car than hers, or no car. BE HONEST! (Im not saying all sister's)

Oh, and I'm a succesful brother btw, but I originated from the hood so I haven't always been, trust me I'm speaking with expertise!!

You will never catch this sorry *** n*gger in a black on black crime post. This *** just sits in the shadows waiting to attack because he's *** a white gizzard trick and we don't approve. Its that, "You don't like us, make remarks, so I'm going to get y'all back" attitude. If you're a conscious black man you care about all black issues not just a white girls getting called what they are.

You see how he's quick to attack black women but when black men step to him, he speaks in a calmer tone saying he doesn't want them as their enemy? What type of *** *** is that? Only steps to those he feel he can ***. *** you n*gger you ain't *** and your white woman ain't *** either.

Aww c'mon man

WhitemanLover: White woman say ur with your husband just for money? Really? (not trying to be sarcastic) Well that's what we say about them, when they get with the NFL/NBA and baseball players, no difference there.

Well if you don't mind me asking, what does he do for a living?

He's with that white girl cause its a easy F**K. I bet they met at a club and he hit the first ***.

And just for the record, I bought this fool's cd last weekend. He's lucky I'm semi-open minded and I really like his music.

Sexazzdiamond: You really do resemble LisaRaye, any relation? Cousin, half sister or something?

I hate to admit it but this Type of situation is going to continue to happen until black women begin to realize that they are the problem. Black have to check their *** attitudes, *** their mouth and submit to their man. It is the only way.

What's that *** on his chin? Not cute at all!

TheBestEver

LOL we could do all of that (and I'm not disagreeing that many of us have bad attitudes) but still we could do all that and it still won't undo the greatest brainswashing done to most of you black men. They did a number on y'all. Real talk.

@conscous1

lol...I see I struck a nerve. I am glad you pay close attention to what post I comment on.

such hostility....lol...why?

I mean, your womankind just called all black men who dates white women as pathetic and pitiful.

I wonder if you and her feel the same way about Venus Williams, or Diana Ross, or Tina Turner, or Hally Berry, or Paula Patton or Kerry Washington, or Nami Campbell.

See the problem with these post is, I rarely here you miserable black women bash women in the industry that does the same thing some of these black men are doing. Seriously...until you do, all of your complaints and bytching will come off as a woman scorned.

I don't think you women have issue with interracial dating...if you did, you be bashing these black women that dates exclusively non-black males. The problem you women have is with black men who dates non-black women.

You believe, you own the black man...and he is yours to ridicule, cuss-out and blame. lol...

Some of you miserable black chicks are in for a rude awakening.

I don't entirely blame you...I blame your mother as well...

Shave dude.

I've had just about enough with MTO. MTO NEVER has their facts straight on here. MTO should have learned there lesson when Trey Songz put them on blast about putting FALSE information on here. First off, That is NOT his baby mama, that is the same girl ( a groupie) MTO posted on here about two months saying that was his "soon to be baby mama"..which wasn't true..lol. Joy is his baby mama and EX-manager. He only has 1 baby mama. And the girl who he is with is not white, she is mixed with Italian and Black, why you ask, b/c I know them personally. And so what, what if they are together, WHO CARES! WE HAVE BIGGER PROBLEMS than this than worrying about who is with who! As long as their happy, THAT'S all that MATTERS! It’s 2008!

Well, I used to think he was hot, until now.

I like the baby's mother..

I am not an advocate of inter-racial dating...BUT JUST FOR MYSELF! To everone else if they like it I love it!!! As long as you are at peace with yourself then do what makes you smile!

People have issues with me because my man is locked up...he is black and a sister is holding it down for him and being faithful until he touches down. So everyone that has a problem with who other people date try this:

Spend the next 6 months minding your own business, and then the following 6 months staying out of everyone else's business!

God loves all his creations...black, white, whatever!

Uuuhhh Unnn He Better Stop! He's Playing Himself 002 Thee Maxxxx:[

Da advocator

And I blame your mother for doing an inept job and producing such a cowardly, debilitated, decrepit, degenerate. Another slain soldier.

See, and you thought we wouldn't find any common ground. ;)

@ conscious1

*** outta here ....

Why don't I post on black on black crime? hahahaha

Why don't I post on black on black love? ahahahahah

So, you feel, I am only here to comment of interracial post...lol....

I have no issue with interracial posts...in fact, I wouldn't comment on them...

The issue I have with these post is, you women who come on these posts and try to ridicule all black men. Your way of thinking is not only devisive, but empatically incorrect. To say all black men who dates non-black women are weak and pathetic is absurd.

What would your reaction be if I said, all black women who have a *** child are *** or money grubbing bytches?

Seriously, get over yourself. Some of you miserable black chics are delusional.

If Lyfe Jennings *** nothing but black woman, how does that benefit your sorry a$$ on here?

Are your getting the money, the vacation, the trips, and the jewels...?

You are *** delusional...get your on *** life...your miserable black ***

@DA ADVOCATOR...U MUST HATE BLACK WOMEN IF SO U HATE YOUR MOTHER...ARE U WHITE? MAN CHECK YOSELF

What the hell 2008 gotta do with anything? Y'all see the stuff the whites tried to pull with Beyonce's ad in 2008? You see cops beating up folks in Harlem because they complained about them rolling around with black dolls on their cars in....2008? You see how hard it is to get a black man elected to an office, in which if his competitor was running against another white man, he'd be ahead by a LANDSIDE in 2008? You see white *** using n*gger left and right calling it comedy in 2008? You see reporters joking about lynching Tiger Woods as the only way to win in 2008? Jena 6????

Again tell me what 2008 really has to do with anything when white folks are acting even worse than before? Yall sleep if y'all want to. Act like we in harmony. They always make you comfortable right before they SLAUGTHER your a$$es.

God my people get on my *** nerves!

@ Whitemalover

lol@ the *** irony

I have a black woman who feels the need to proclaim to the world she love white man...telling me I bash black women...

lmaooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!ahahahahhaah

The *** hypocrisy on this board is incredible.

Yet, she goes unscathed...none of these miserable black chicks will call her on her *** statement.

Trust me, if a black man curses you because you are with a white guy...he must have feminine issues....

Too many pucci avaialabe to be worrying about one that is attached...and attached to a white man at that....*** outta here.

Got da maserati dancin on the bridge *** poppin, Tell the coppers..hahahaha you cant catch em, you cant stop em

@princedarrell.

you must hate yourself. No self respecting black man, will stand by and let some miserable wench destroy his character.

If it is free pucci you want...don't do with by climbing on my back...you would be better at complementing them.

Tell them they are goddesses...beautiful black queens. Have them *** on you...yell at you like some 4 year old. Then, you can bend over backwards for them and kiss their a$$es.

Go ahead....maybe you can get lucky and find a "beautiful black queen" so you can workship. Then after a couple of years, tell me where that get you.

You know what is worst than a miserable black chic who bytches and complains all the time, an effeminate black dude, willing to do anything just for some pucci.

See much still hasn't changed here.

- Mto is still RACE baiting.

- Black women have a free pass to get with any race or ethnicity group. When Halle Berry, Eve and others get with white men, the females here BLAME black men for this.

- Black men are still accused of hating their race if they are with anybody who isn't dark skinned.

It's ALWAYS okay for a Black women to be with any race she wants to, right? Just blame black men and say that idiotic phrase "There isn't anymore good black men" as an excuse.

However it's illegal for a Black man to be with any race or even light skin black women, and if he is he hates his mother, his race and his community.

So regardless, of the situation it you women always blame the Black men. Thanks for the support.

To you hypocrites it has to be the Black man's fault, everything is the black man's fault. You have this mindset and you wonder why your life is the way it is. Wonder no more.

So how do you all feel about Black Women that cheat with Married Black Men?

I know more SISTAH's that are wrecking black families then the other persuasions...i mean i dont have any numbers to back it up but i guarantee some of you would be the mistress to a Black Man that is married to a Black woman and they are living a lifestyle that you desire...see if this was dude that played "Steve Urkle" on here with a non-black chick we would be like "WHO CARES"...BUT because we see LYFE as $$$ HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM!!!

Whats dude name...SEAL...WITH HIS UGLY AZZ YALL AINT TRIPPING ABOUT HIS LOVE FOR THE SNOW BUNNY! LOL

GOD IS LOVE!

Da

Got a question for ya..since I refuse to sukk white peepee, I'd like to know how does it taste? Does it compare to the delicious chocolate? Everytime you kiss/go down on Sue and the amounts of white dikk she inhaled previously...does it even compare? Between you and I, I won't tell a soul. Just let your sister in on this lil tidbit. ;)

ONE MORE THING... @ JUICE

However it's illegal for a Black man to be with any race or even light skin black women, and if he is he hates his mother, his race and his community.

This is real talk...im a ligh skin chick and we get alot hate too...right here onthis website...when the celebs got them a light chick its ...there they go again with the light skin long hair braudes...make up your minds!

God loves them light and dark!

@ bleepthis... Its sad cause Lyfe always talkin bout the black family....and then he goes off on that! & black men use white women as status symbols.....left over SLAVE Sh*T!

Da Advocator

You the only effeminate *** ass *** up in this thread. *** n*gger. Mark *** busta. Always getting your panties in a bunch every time white women are called out their names. That's the only time you appear to play captain save a hoe. You can't save 'em Cap, they don't wanna be saved.

@conscious...

You say i kiss white's peoples a$$....where in my avatar...where in my comments do you see I am even remotely kissing someone's white a$$.

You still fail to understand. I don't give a *** if you hate white people. I couldn't care less. *** it, on some issues I will agree with you regarding white people.

My only issue, is with you *** who come here bashing innocent black men because of who they are ***...when black women have been *** everyone and everything for centuries.

If you are going to bytch at black men...then do the same when the tables are turned. Don't be bias. I want to here you black women call all black women who dates non-black men "pathetic, pitiful, weak, self-hating, coon" and other derogatory comments.

If you can't do that, then, STFP....and bite your tongue next time you see a black man with a non-black woman.

White princess i bet yo pale *** jus left the tanning bed you jealous white ***. I dont give a *** when a black man is wit a white woman cuz if he can endure the mindless lifstyle that 75 percent of white woman lead, then he aint my type of man anyway. He's obviously an airhead too

They're not dating...I know her...

if a man wants to date a light skin- dark skin- brown skin woman- then so be it!!!!!!! everyone need to stop hating!!!! darker women get mad when brothers talk to women of a lighter complexion...when they DO date a dark sister- yall always say- they could do better..haha whatever... the issue is- ..I HOPE HE IS WRAPPING IT UP!!!!!! he has a baby mothers- so obviously went raw dog- just hope hes keeping it safe regardless of what the women color is... because DISEASES DONT HAVE NO COLOR!!!! PERIOD

@conscious1

yeah...now I am a byctcha$$ ***.i.g.g.a.

I see you got your shame tactics down pack. You love calling men bytches...again...it's not your fault...most likely, you were raised by a bitter black women, who thought black men were to blame for her pitiful ***.

lol...*** trips me out....some of you black men I pray for you. If this is the pool of available black women you have to choose from, you American men have a lot to deal with.

@ the da_advocator.....we dont say *** to whitemanlover cuz we feel like "*** it, they goin explore their options(black men) then I am too." Now you get yo pale skin, flat booty, thin hair havin lovin *** the *** OUTTA HERE

@ da advocator

"when black women have been *** everyone and everything for centuries." WOW! BLACK WOMEN WERE RAPED BY WHITE SLAVE OWNERS! & YES BLACK MEN THAT ONLY DATE WHITE WOMEN HAVE SOME INTERNAL ISSUES THAT DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH US....FIND YOUR BRAKES ON THAT BUL*SH*T

people can date whatever color they choose too.. just because your black- YOU DONT HAVE to date a black person- thats crazy...and silly.. you date who makes you HAPPY- period.. Im one that date outside my race- in my race- whatever- I DONT GIVE A ***..its about the person..Once people get that into their heads- some of this ignorance will cease so if you start to like someone of the other race- should you stop trying to like this person because they are not the same color as you- now THATS IGNORANT..and real "***" way of thinking some people like to EXPAND to other cultures - to embrace another side of the world...whats wrong w/ that.. Your attracted to who your attracted to- period.. Happiness and respect should be one of the main foundations- not if the person is black or white..hahahah- DAUYM and we are in 2008.... hahahaha

Baby momz looks better to me. But whatever.

No matter how much black women don't like it..black men are goin to continue to date outside their race. For some men it's not about black or white...if the true love is there then that's that. You can't knock him for that. At least he's not saying. "Oh i'm dating this white woman because black women talk too much. They're too loud and they don't know how to take care of their men." He's with her because he wants to be with her and he doesn't feel a negativity toward dating black women.

As long as black women are opionated, succesful, independent, and not taking BS from anyone or from any direction...interracial dating with black men [not all black men..SOME] and other races will continue for those exact reasons.

As far as black women dating white men...their reasoning behind it is probably, "their ain't enough GOOD brothers around." For instance...Halle Berry.

She did date a black man...but if I can recall he was addicted to ***...and he cheated on her. Hmmm...Isn't that strange.

So, as long as brothers are messing up good relationships, black women [not all black women....SOME] will continue to date white men.

Some black men are blaming black women...and some black women are blaming black men.

The biggest irony here is the fact that these black women who are saying men aren't respecting them aren't respecting the men either. All this because MTO dug up a picture to spark a race bait.

You've said:

- All black men are mentally brainwashed.

- Just because MTO race baited, "there are no more good black men".

- Calling us "sorry as n*ggers".

- Saying all of us hate our mothers, daughters, and community.

- etc

IS THIS RESPECT????????

The insult on this page is astonishing to put down and degrade Black men. All coming from the women who are saying Black men don't respect them?

Hypocrisy.

Had a black male poster said half of that (which would be wrong) you guys would be in uproar. However it's okay for you to trounce on the black man? It's okay for you to degrade us and tell us we don't love our community? It's okay for you to talk down to us, and we have to accept this? ALL BECAUSE OF MTO RACE BAIT??????

Are you fu-ck-ing kidding me?

You don't respect us!!!

I mean FFS, read any Jay-Z article and see how many of you call the man an animal and degrade his looks. The same nasty attitude you have in real life you bring on the internet, however like always it has to be the black men which are the problem.

I can't wait for the day that we as black men won't be villianized by our own women, like we are by society.

HARDEST thing in this word is being born a Black Male!

@Reba

please enough with black women were raped...Yeah and plenty of black women were madames...they owned and operated *** houses that would feed the insatiable appetite of white men

@ TreasureT

Get your ignorant a$$ to the library. If you are not going to call black women on their *** comments, then *** outa here. You have no credibility with me...you appear to be bitter and angry.

I am sure, there are some black men on here willing to your doormat...you just have to ask.

@juice...

they are blinded by the severe hate they harbor for the black men....I really believe, some of these women despises the black men. So be aware....they come in sheep clothing, but are wolves.

I have no problem with interracial dating. It's the reasoning behind a person dating outside their race that bothers me.

The people on this board is ***. You love MLK and what he stood for, but when ppl actually come together, you bash it? I know there still racism going on, but what does that have to do with the average white girl?

There so many misconceptions about why black men date white women. Black men don't date white woman because they are easy. Don't get me wrong, their are easy white women, but their are easy black women too. White women only mess with black men that have money. That ***. All I have to say is go to Hagerstown, MD. Broke whites and blacks date each other. Blacks and whites with money date each other. They don't see racism there.

Another is they do you like they do Kobe. That *** because you making it sound like black women don't do ***. I recall 2pac going to jail because of a black woman. I recall tons of dudes going to jail because a black woman put them there.

Black man that date white women is a sell out and date all white women. Rigggghtttttt. What is he selling out? How do you know he date all whites? He might have a blind eye to race and don't care what race he dates.

White women are easy to walk over. LOL. And black women isn't? I know black and white women who put up with their black man cheating or beating on them. Out of fear of being lonely or w/e they convince themselves.

On the flip side, every black woman is not ***, needy, demanding and all that other ***. While blacks and whites come from different culture, believe it or not they are exactly the same at the end of the day.

So why do black men date white women? Does it matter? I hope interracial dating continues to happen. That way when it all said and done, there will be no racism or the MTO race baiting.

@da_advocator....LMAO. I'm not even mad at you sweetie. Some beautiful black woman broke your heart! AWWWWWW, poor baby. Now run to Becky, she can make it all better.

I get your point and I agree with you on most of the topics you address. However you yourself seem very bitter as if a Black woman broke your heart and you can't get over it. Not all Black women are the same, and not all Black women think alike. Please remember that. The Black women on MTO dont represent ALL Black women.

Well I'll just be damned - another one of my beautiful brothers has crossed over!!!

That was for da advocator.

<--cosign @ bone21

awww shes pretty but his baby momz prettier

Da Agitator

You didn't answer my question. That was very rude kind Sir. How does the white man's dikk taste????

I bet you ain't ask that trashbag how many men she swallowed whole. Human *** dumpster. You saw the complexion and complacency and jumped to put a ring on them pasty, veiny fingers huh?

lol... there we go...some beautiful balck woman broke my heart...retorts...

lol..I know...many of you would love for that to happen.

This black man, the reason why he appears so adamant towards black woman is because some black woman broke his heart...awwwwwww

lol....*** outta here....you have no idea, who you are speaking with...

@retromiss

I see you good in peddling ***. So, Halle Berry gets a free pass because she dated black men. Lyfe Jennings previous relationship has been with black women....so, why doesn't he get the same free pass.

Like juice said, when a black woman *** a non-black man...it is because "there aren't good black men left...or she can't find a brotha on her level."

It's still the same *** rhetoric, that has been disprove over and over again.....lol..

Give it a rest...the same excuse you can give...I can give for why black men dates non-black women..

Listen...fair is fair....lol...my only thing is...stop with the *** needless bashing of black men.

@GGGGG

If you get my point....how can I be bitter...do you see me calling black women "***, bytches, golddiggers, loudmouth..."

I am only arguing facts...lol...

If you are not happy...*** it...go find someone...the *** is getting old.

@ conscious1

now, you are calling me ***....lol...when will it stop?

lol....you are pitiful...but, you know what...I am sure, if you smile more, some black dude will give you the time of day....lol

lol...I still lubbb you...aahhahaha

GGGB Flag post Please remember that. The Black women on MTO dont represent ALL Black women. *************************************************

This is what I comfort myself with.

Thank GOD, all Black women don't think and act like some of the ones on MTO.

- Blaming Black men for everything and not taking responsibility for anything.

- Claiming Black men don't respect them, however they don't even know what respect means.

- Giving a free pass to all Black women who date outside their race, but hating all Black men who date outside their race and even inside their race if the women isn't dark skinned.

Thank God, this isn't how all our women are like, this is just a representation of the sad miserable women on MTO.

With that said, thank God as well that the ignorant men who hate Black women on MTO aren't a representation of our Black male community.

It goes both ways.

Juice

To answer you respect question. Umm I don't know what you're studying but I don't respect men who don't respect us. Read up and see how popped off...who's ALWAYS poppin off. That b*tch *** did. So pump your breaks. Now you tryna play captain save a soul. Not hearing it.

And to further elaborate because I know this is next. Just because we say we love black men don't mean we love and support all. I love black men who love black women...PERIOD! Why the *** would I care for those who could give a *** about uplifting this race? (I.E. Da WhitePu$$ySavior)

Man it isn't that hard. Only numbskulls make it that way.

I really hope this is not true and MTO is just starting some BS, if so I’m heart broken that Lyfe was singing all those beautiful songs to a white chick.. Girls, we need to start dating out side our race like these brothers are doing because if you’re waiting for a black prince you’re going to be waiting a while. *** you lyfe!!! His CD is going in the trash ***. LOL

Never bitter, never angry...MEN adore me. BLACK, WHITE, MEXICAN, BLUE, GREEN so I dont need approval from your whack ***. I have bi-racial brothers and sisters. Like I said. I dont care if you date a white woman....Jus further proves that you are not my type. And you hit the library and read black history. White woman first began *** silly *** like you to *** off white men. Idiot. Her dady prolly cant stand yo black ***. And if he does like you its because you either A: got a lil money, or B: kiss great ***

Barack 08

*** you sukk the white man's d*ck every time you kiss your woman. You're *** by way of SallySue imbecile!

NOW ANSWER THE GODDAM QUESTION b*tchboy.

*waiting*

lol....

lol...ahahahah

I said my piece....my old man use to say...American women loves two things: they love drama and they love exposing their a$$es....lol..

With that said...you know...I am only feeding into some of you broads... your argument has no merit or legs...it stands on nothing...yet you continue to post nonsensical ***.

lol...keep typing....some of these comments are ridiculously funny....

Don't stop...keep posting....I will come back later in the day to have a good laugh...

@da advocator...wow u must had a really bad experience with a black woman because your rhetoric about them is nothing *** of pure hatred for them...u must be a nutcase who blames your mother for all your relationship problems...man get over it and get a life.

@ da_advocator.

I didn't say that was the only reason a black woman has for dating a white man but that is one of the reasons given for it. Yea Lyfe Jennings dated a black chick but there is not one time that I disrespected him or called him out of his name simply because he's dating out of his race. I was trying to make a point out of black men blaming black women and black women blaming black men.

that was for da_white woman_advocator

I blame it on Black women. Black women need to adjust their attitudes. I cannot blame Black men for dating outside their race. Black women are bitter, angry ladies who are always ready to attack. Who wants to deal with that on a daily basis? Stop being so angry.

The same way black women blame black men...BLACK MEN BLAME BLACK WOMEN. So If a man can have a reasoning behind dating a CHICK OUT HIS RACE simply because HE'S BLAMING A BLACK WOMEN...then a black women can also. So u can't ride on a black chick for that if the black men do the same thing.

She's not white!!!!!

da_advocator Flag post @conscious...

If you are going to bytch at black men...then do the same when the tables are turned. Don't be bias. I want to here you black women call all black women who dates non-black men "pathetic, pitiful, weak, self-hating, coon" and other derogatory comments . [SPAM][SPAM]____________

Hmmmm seems that many of these same Black women are accusing you of the same thing. Of only frequenting topics when the people involved in the interracial relationships are a Black male and white female. Now how are you any better?

There are various Black women telling you that they experience the same negative sentiment from Black males when they are out and about with white men and you conveniently dismiss it. Why?

Also why are you ignoring the Black men who do it on mediatakeout..*** why are you ignoring the ones who are calling you out RIGHT HER IN THIS TOPIC? Don't think that this is going unnoticed....you reek of the white man's 'divide and conquer' routine for some reason.

amber85 Flag post I blame it on Black women. Black women need to adjust their attitudes. I cannot blame Black men for dating outside their race. Black women are bitter, angry ladies who are always ready to attack. Who wants to deal with that on a daily basis? Stop being so angry. [SPAM][SPAM]____________

Amber why are you also always around to bash black women? I think you need to take your own advice and 'adjust your attitude' because in case you haven't noticed MOST BLACK MEN DATE WITHIN THEIR RACE. Worry about why white men are sending money overseas BUYING wives of other races instead of marrying all the single white women right under their noses.

OK OK BLACK SISTERS LET'S NOT HATE ON LYFE & THE UNKNOWN WHITE GIRL, LOVE IS LOVE AS LONG AS THEY'RE HAPPY THERE *** BE ANY OBJECTIONS FROM ANYONE ELSE, NO ONE IS STOPPING US FROM DATING MEN OUTSIDE OF OUR RACE SO DONT START WITH THAT "HE HAD TO GO GET A WHITE GIRL" ***. I JUST HOPE HE'S TAKING CARE OF HIS CHILD AND HE'S HAPPY. YOU GO LYFE!! WE NEED SOME MORE MUSIC FROM YOU!!

I'm black and married to a black woman. My mother married a white man after her husband of 24 years passed away. My uncle (who is black) is married to a white woman (for more than 13 years) and they have a child. Both my white relatives are great people and they just because they don't completely understand the struggle of us black people in America, they are still great people because their actions and behaviors show an actual strong love and respect for all people. I don't like seeing black people ignored, avoided or overlooked when it comes to dating, but that comes from black and white people in this country. It makes me upset when i hear that someone is a different race since there is only one human race. People should date or marry people who are the best match for them no matter what their skin color is. When you start to generalizing and grouping people into dateable and nondateable based on skin color, that's prejudice and racism and the end result is not ever true love or attraction. Back to Lyfe, I'm from Toledo and I know firsthand that the white chicks that Lyfe and some of his family members around here have kids by and/or mess with are trashy and obsessed with any black entertainer they can latch onto. They are some of the worst wiggers in this city and I know they get worse in places like NY or Detroit. SMDH at them all.

Amber65

While you're at it, blame your daddy's daddy too. How does it feel knowing they were BRAINWASHED into *** your nasty sewer ***? I'm sure you'll come back with it's love but not so *** child, if we weren't taken from our land and reprogrammed trust you'd see NOTHING but black with black. It's the place and state of mind not love. Check it. While you're at it, you missed a *** on your left cheek deary.

LOL @ activator saying he left. That *** ain't go nowhere. He still around. Will never leave Becky's side. You see how quick he jumped up in this post. You know, his fight ain't half bad, too bad it's on behalf of loose p^zzys.

all of these self-hating, approval seeking, low-self esteem having black men will get theirs in the end, trust me on that one!

eww...Lyfe is busted anyway, he look like he stink

Lmao @ activator

Whatever tho...If you find love...black or white...don't let it be behind a petty reason. That's all i'm asking. And every man or woman does not think/react the same way so u cant put facts of a few on EVERY SINGLE MAN OR WOMAN.

And where the hell is he from anyways? He keeps saying "American women...". This fool ain't American? No wonder he looks down on us more than enough.

Acti---I can call you Acti right? Them Europeans aren't your friends. Heed your sis, Conscious' warning. Umkay? Good.

Again, you all are judging and HAVE NO IDEA. 1. 2008--everyone is dating different races now-what does it matter what color you are on the outside? These are HUMAN BEINGS we are talking about with Souls and Characteristics. Everyone is DIFFERENT--the Race does not define the person! 2. How do you know that's his baby mama? 3. How do you know that's his girlfriend or what kind of relationship they have? 4. How do you know she is white and what does it matter? Would it matter to yall if her mother was black and her father was white? Is he still wrong huh? WOW!!!!!!! 5. If it is his girlfriend, that is his choice and you can't judge someone's relationship when you are not even IN IT!! 6. There are ALL TYPES OF GROUPIES--DIFFERENT RACES --DIFFERENT KINDS!! It's disturbing how ignorant some of you sound and it's sad our kids are still having to grow up in a world like this. WE ALL BLEED THE SAME[SPAM]!!!!!!!!!!!! We all gonna get old and die too! PEACE and remember it's about the person not the COLOR OF YOUR SKIN!

man another white woman! what is it about them, I just cant put a finger on it......oh they swallow and yall dont even suck lol just messing around sistas i LOVE yall!

NOT HIS BABY MOMMA AND THE OTHER AIN'T HIS GIRL. QUIT SENDING IN FAN PICS LADIES

YAWN!

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And we're all created equal and they treat us this way. RHETORIC!

Im so sick of seeing these White women with our successful Black men. I usually don't complain b/c you never know what type of connection they have but since Lyfe portrays "his struggle" with life in his music, how could SHE even relate to it. I bet she didn't even know his music. This is sickening.

BTW, why does he always look "ruff" in the face? He needs a barber to trim that facial hair up.

If these are fan pics, why are there 3 different scenes, in which one looks to have been taken inside a home or an apartment? Hmmmmmm?!

whats the problem? black women need sum act rite if a black women had an attutide like white women black men wouldnt date white women. but thats me

NICE COUPLE,congrats. Lyte

JUST CAUSE SHE HUNG OUT WITH HIM DON'T MEAN SHE'S HIS GIRL. WHO ELSE WOULD SEND IN PHOTOS AT SOMEBODY'S HOUSE? SHE SENT IN PIC OF HER WITH HIM...DOESN'T MEAN SHE WAS THE ONLY ONE AT EITHER PLACE

THEY LOOK LIKE FAN PICS, AND SHE DONT LOOK WHITE SHE LOOKS HISPANIC

DO YOU LYFE >>> EEFFFFFF ALL THESE HATERS !!!!

Well somethings never change do they? I take a break from MTO then come back and it's the same old same.That girl is a Hispanic you know "cousins to the blacks".lol.A read that once on line here. Don't tell them that though.lol.Whatever she's ugly anyway and he's no prize. I'm going back to the Tyson pics. Bye!

all the black angry women who hating on lyfe for dating a white women should feel stupid because she is hispanic LOL!!! HATERS LOL!!

@ GGGB....HAHAHA..FCUK U B*TCH. IZ THAT WHY U DON'T HAVE A PIC UP? SO WHAT IF IM 200 LBS MORE I PROBABLY STILL LOOK 1000 X'S BETTER THAT UR AZZ! MAYBE CAUSE UR A FAT UGLY BLACK WOMEN WHO WISH U LOOK AS WHITE AS LFYE GF? IF I WERE U I WOULD *** DA FCUK UP ABOUT PEOPLE WEIGHT IF U DON'T HAVE A PIC OF UR SELF!! BEYONCE WANNABE! UR NAME SHOULD STAND FOR

GOOD GOSH GORRILLA B*TCH

DON'T HATE!

wowwwwwwwwwww....well she's ok lookin..

once again i wish MEDIATAKEOUT would come with REAL gossip that is not MISINFORMED. liberty, the girl in the pictures is my friend and she's BLACK AND ITALIAN. this is like the third or forth mto has come up here with some BOGUS *** talking about friends and people i know.

CHECK YOUR FACTS and SOURCES before you break a "Story".

His baby mama is cuter. MTO does every woman a male takes pictures with his woman?

I dont see the big deal.if you are feeling that person and like to be with them color dont mean nothing. Im a Equal Opportunity Dater. If you look good regardless of color I will get at you. That white girl look ok but I rather roll with the baby momma.

***...GGGB you really *** that chunky chick off didn't you!!! I wonder why all of these people who harbor such dislike for our people constantly come to black websites.

There is a name for people like that.... WANNABES!!!

Don't worry little girl... your black cousins still love you... LOL!!!

Who cares.. I love to read the post by white and Hispanic women when they see black men with white women IT IS hilarious. This is just a small percentage of men it’s the media who highlights this sh** to stir up race baits. They really think it hurts us LMOA! at the Hispanic women on here It's a small percentage of brothers. I know men who would not dare go near a Spanish women or a white *** SO please STOP IT with all the boasting. It’s so funny how they think black men want them.. NOO not true mami's …when you see successful brothers they are with black and white women not Latin women. Most of the NFL and NBA players are married to black women so hate on that... do some research the media blows it up but for the most part, black men stay with their own. And too the chick up who said that black women has attitudes. Stop talking about your self like that...

First off she looks rican and she prolly is, aint nottin wrong wit that

SAD. JUST SAD. i have no words. his as* is ugly anyway. he lucky ANY woman wanna sleep with his funky ***. tired as* ni&&a!

*** CONSCIOUS1 IS SOME ANGRY!

I'm sure there's a logical explanation...Lyfe please respond and clear this up please!

AINT THAT SUM ***..*** HE KEEP SINGIN BOUT MAKIN RELATIONSHIPS WORK *** ALL KINDA ***..NUCCA PLZ..HOW U GONNA SING BOUT SUM *** SO DEEP *** U CANT EVEN KEEP UR OWN RELATIONSHIP 2GETHA..***..

once again... i'm not a stan but i do know

# that IS his girl... # she is mixed, black and italian

again MEDIATAKEOUT should check their SOURCES before they start to spread LIES...

hahah- im with the advocator- this is verrry funny- the perception that people have is quite amusing.. For one- being black- BLACK MEN- is not OUR MEN..hahahaha- they are whomeven man who chooses to be with them. I do agree with some of these point.. The black race is quicker to say something negative to a black man who dates outside their race than a black woman. When a black woman does it- SHE HAS AN EXCUSE..haha- when a black man does it- HE IS FOUL>>> whatever... Im going to date who i want- but i can understand the difference in cultures and i can understand why many black men date outside their race. NO - NOT EVERY black woman has an attitude- or cant speak a sentence without using foul language, or talks and moves her head at the same time or have 3" nails- weaves and no job...- NOT EVERY black women is like this..just like NOT EVERY black man- dont take care of their kids, use to be a drug dealer, or have no respect for women... ITS THE PERSON>>>>NOT THE RACE- when will are you people realize it. A white PERSOn can act more ghetto than a BLACK person- its not about your color- its about your culture, surroundings, and your upbringings...PERIOD> As a black woman I dont feel the need to PROTECT and come to DEFEND EVERY BLACK MAN- because I dont know them all- and many of them are full of ***, cant speak, on the down low, and have no respect for SELF- so of course not for women-just like MANY of them ARENT this way!!!! But this is funny... You date what COMPLIMENTS you and your PERSONALITY This is why i believe many black men date outside their race- to compliment who they are- Many black woman are naturally more aggressive than white women- and if you have an aggressive black man- sometimes he may want someone more laid back- more easy going- more understanding to HIS NEEDS- and that person may be WHITE- SO *** WHAT>>>>>so what he has money- hes cute-....if he wants to date a white woman- then i say- DO YOUR THING - JUST BE HAPPY.. we are forgetting the most important part- HAPPINESS- does that even matter?????

@ ThickLikeGumbo

Sorry sweety but they are not YOUR Black men. They can choose who they want to pursue and date. Like I said before, adjust your bitter, angry attitudes and maybe, maybe you'll snag yourself a man. I can't even tell you how many times I've heard Black man say that Black women are too rough and too hard to deal with. Therefore, they seek love elsewhere. Conscious1 is a perfect example of an insecure, bitter Black female. She's already turned off half the men here with her rotten "i hate Black men" attitude. Regardless, focus your negative energy on bettering yourselves. Go to school, eat healthy, stop having babies in efforts to keep your man and finally, lighten up.

I BET YOU HE WILL TREAT HIS JUMP OFF LIKE SHE IS ROYALTY AND *** ON HIS KIDS MOM.....WHAT A SHAME.

@ da advocator

It is apparent from your posts that you are not African American. You talk about black women like you have no black blood in you. How many black women do you actually know to spit such ugliness out at us? Out of the millions of black women in this country, how many of us have you dated? How many of us have you had a conversation with? Really, what do you actually know about black women....I dare say it isn't enough to stereotype us all as being angry and bitter.

I love black men. I treat my man like a king because he deserves it.... he actually deserves it. If your woman treated you like a four year old, maybe you were acting like a four year old. If you meet "bitter women," do you ever stop to consider that maybe none of them have met a good man yet? It is quite possible that there are some unfortunate sisters out there who haven't been able to access our black kings for some reason or another.

Not everyone is blessed with the self awareness you obviously seem to think you have. You seem to be quite arrogant in your assessment of black women. You have taken on the defense of "all black men." Does this include your father? From what you have said, it seems that your father doesn't seem to like African American women that much and he raised you to feel the same why. Kind of like the way clansmen raise their children to hate people that aren't white christians.

No matter how often I come to this website, I am amazed at how often my own brothers seem to diss their own women. Not all of you, thank God. But some of you sicken me. I am actually sorry for you, but before I feel pity, I puke (not literally).

When you scoff at the fact that black women were raped by white men for over 400 years in this country, I have to wonder what type of black man are you. You claim that black women were *** and madams. What kind of black man would speak of his ancestors in that way. Was your grandmother a madam or was she a ***? Are you the descendent of a white john or a white ***?

You seem to be quite opinionated when it comes to being negative toward black women. Your strong opinions, however, don't hide the bitterness you obviously feel toward us. How many black women turned you down brother? How many of us told you that you are weak and spineless? Did that spawn the river of hate you spit out at us today? How many times where you passed over for the bigger stronger (possibly more handsome) brother? I guess none of the big *** girls looked at you so now you ridicule them.

This is so sad. My people, we could debate the pros and cons of inter-racial dating all day. One thing I can say about it; white women can have some of these men. We don't need them. Some of them.

@Princedarrell

Thank you brother. Men like you are the reason why I haven't lost faith. Even though we are confronted with dumb *** like "da advocator" we always know there are men like you waiting in the folds. Thanks : )

Good men should be treated like kings. My kings, I adore you too.

Bottom line is this.... @ DA_ADVOCATOR; I do apologize for the brash words that I used against a complete stranger. That was wrong and immature of me to let an irrelevant computer aviator upset me. I will commend you for having a strong enough opinion to ignite fury in me.

I SINCERELY APOLOGIZE AND WISH YOU AND YOUR WHITE QUEEN ALL THE BEST. JUST DO US ALL ONE FAVOR AND HURRY UP AND IMPREGNATE HER SO THAT YOU CAN LIVE OUT YOUR LIFE DREAM OF HAVING WHITE BLOOD VICARIOUSLY THROUGH THEM. GIVE IT A TRY. I HONESTLY THINK IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER

I am in no way saying that men who marry or love white women secretly wish to be of white blood themselves. If I were, I would be insinuating this about my own father and uncle. I am however saying that I truly believe this to be the case with this so called advocator. Advocator of what is the question.

It truly is not your fault. You clearly suffer from some sort of emotional disorder that causes you to resent black women. It could have been your mother, grandmother, third grade teacher that didn’t pick you in class, or the pretty black girl that wouldn't go to prom with you. Hell, I don’t know. But whatever it stems from, I apologize on behalf of them so that you can let go of your anger towards black woman.

To whom it may concern:

I do apologize to any white woman and or any other person that I offended with my previous comments. I don’t have anything against white woman and I should not have made those comments just to degrade da_advocator. I genuinely apologize.

EXCEPT TO YOU WHITE PRINCESS. I MEANT WHAT I SAID TO YOU ***. LMAO. SERIOUSLY THOUGH, *** YOU.

LOVE WHO YOU WANT PEOPLE. JUST DON'T DEGRADE WHO YOU DONT WANT. ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR OWN PEOPLE

@ cruziangirl6..( NO DISRESPECT) BUT.. NOT EVEN, IT DOESN'T FAZE ME. GET IT CORRECT... SHE GOT OFFENDED WITH MY COMMENT SO THAT MEANS SHE APART OF THE ***.B.W.H.A. THATS ALL..WHAT DOES MY WEIGHT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE TOPIC?. THAT'S SOME INSERCURE ***! AINT NOBODY MAD I DEAL WITH HATING *** LIKE THAT EVERYDAY SO PLEASE SISTA. AND NOBODY HATING ON BLACK PEOPLE PLEAZZZZZZZZZZZEEEE. I WAS BORN AND RAISED AROUND BLACK PEOPLE ALL MY LIFE SO DONT TRY TO FLIP THE SCRIPT. AND AS FAR AS THE WEBSITE, I CAN BLOG ON ANY SITE I WANT!

@ TreasureT: VERY NICE COMMENT, I AGREE WITH U 100%.

@ amber 85

I have met so many black men that say when they date white women, they do so because you guys are easy. Easy to bed, easy to run over, and easy to fool. I would prefer to be a woman with a back bone; a woman who is strong enough to stand up for what is right. I won't be the easy girl. I took a black man from a white girl once... he told me I was what he was missing. I broke up with him eventually, but not after I trained him up right. We are still friends to this day, and you know what, his black wife is the bomb!!! So when you are with your black man, pay attention to what he says to you. When he says that we are too tough, too aggressive and too angry, he is really telling you that you are so easy, so spineless and so weak. That is why that brother wants you Becky...Amber...Sue, whatever the hell your name is.

By the way, we sisters do eat healthy. Skinny, fat, thick or thin, I am sure that you can't hold a finger to the sisters (that's why you don't have a picture up). And having babies isn't a sin. Dummy, nine times out of ten a black man laid down with the sister to make the baby. You are such and idiot. What the hell... do you think we fertilize ourselves? You want to be a black girl. That is why you are here. You want what we have. But no matter how many black $@#@s you suck, you still won't be black. It's okay. You can have "da advocate." He's another brother we don't want. LOL!!!

I BET AMBER FANTAZIZE ABOUT HAVIN AN 10 IN BLACK ANADONCONDA IN HER MOUTH

@CINCITY

Black to us guys?? I KNOW mixed and confused garbage like yourself don't want to be considered Black and personally that's fine with me. The Black woman, is God's first daughter ...FACT!! All others a watered down dilutions. The Albinos and their surrogates,the diluted confused people( "HISPANICS"), attempt to minimize her value.This in my humble opinion puts them all on the wrong side. As far as I'm concerned, they have a right to be annoyed. NOT ILLOGICAL AND WANTONLY JEALOUS BUT RIGHTEOUSLY ANNOYED. WHY?...Because your are in fact beneath them!

U ARE SO RIGHT CRUZIAN

and the truth of the matter is that any so-called black man who has to defend why he dates outside of his race(advocator or anyone else) is a loser. if it was for love you wouldn't have to defend anything. black men like that who date outside their race do have self-esteem issues. they think 'other' is better and are not satisfied with themselves. its fine to date outside your race. the problem comes in when you make excuses for why you DON'T date black women. you've exposed yourself and your lack of self-love. that is whats really sad. just admit that you've always wanted to date white, you think it better, and you don't like yourself. that's fine. but don't make excuses or generalizations about black women's 'attitudes, etc.' do you. doing you means not liking yourself. just be real about it. cause real brothas who date for love don't have to degrade their women or defend themselves. nor do they walk around with their white woman like its a trophy. go on dr. phil for awhile and tell him u don't like urself and thats why u do what u do. then come back with something credible.

LOL!! I love it!! I think they look cute together. Its nice seeing people being equal with one another. we are all God's children!

@ cincity

I agree with you, weight IS A NON ISSUE. You are a cute girl.

But when I speak of people hating or harboring dislike to blacks, think about it before you respond. When you use an acronym like NBWHA or call another sister a "gorilla" it reeks of prejudice, bigotry or even racism. I will admit that I too have some prejudices, however, I don't go to hispanic websites and use racially charged epitaphs because someone picks on me. She picked on your weight, not your looks. I am 170lbs, thick and proud and you should be too. But calling a sister a gorilla sounds like the clansmen calling black people monkeys. You may not have meant it like that, but it sure sounds like it to me. If you have to curse a black woman and use her blackness as a negative, you may be harboring some dislike towards us. That is what I am saying. You can definitely post whatever you want where ever you want. Just know that being raised around black people doesn't make you cool with us all. It doesn't mean that when you degrade a sister, the rest of us won't sound off in her defense.

1st of all...if he wasnt dating her would he actually be dating any of you? probably NOT so quit hatin'!! 2nd of all...she is mixed, black and white...her MOTHER IS BLACK (full black i might add) and her father is WHITE, her 1/2 brosthers she grew up with her whole life are full black (as you all like to say) as if ANY of that even matters!!!! and why does she not look black? because she straightens her hair? wow come on people grow up llok at mariah carey...does she look mixed at first glance? People come all diffent now I have 3 mixed kids 1 looks all black and the other 2 spanish...they ALL HAVE THE SAME MOM AND DAD and i am white so did that mean it was easy for him to *** me...hello NO!! 3rd of all she is very beautiful inside and out, she also models and is good at it so it sounds more like all of u with negative things to say are just JEALOUS and thats pretty sad!....By the way she is NOT about to have a baby with him go get the facts straight and let them have a good time, she only doing with him what baby mama wasnt, having fun!!

@cruziangirl6

Well said.

Doesn't the term "baby mama" imply that your are not married and no longer together? I take Baby Mama to me she is no longer with me but we have a child together. If a man was still with his "BM" he would refer to her as girlfriend or wife.

Lyfe's BM isn't likley to be excited that he is parading around with this new chick, but I am sure she will learn to deal with it. The child support checks are likley to make the pain easier to deal with.

i love people getting in a tizzy over this bs

Here we go again with the same old ***....LMAO

MTO back to its race baiting foolishness and people taking the bait again and getting all worked up....

To the topic: If that's his girlfriend, then its his girlfriend. Last I checked he was a grown man and had the right to be with whomever he wants. As to the mother of his child (hate the whole "baby mama" designation), as long as that man is supporting of and active in his child's life, and the woman he has chosen is similarly accepting and a positive force around his child, then there's nothing else to be said about it. People break up and people move on....As long as the child is provided for and loved, then that's all that matters, not they petty stuff.

As to the comments, its just hilarious to me that folks feel like they can come in and bash, trash and put down black men, then get indignant when brothers stand up to and challenge the negativity...Do folks REALLY think brothers are supposed to just lay down and allow themselves to be categorically dissed and walked on? Come on now...LOL

There are many important issues in the black community...Interracial dating is NOT one of them...Especially considering that the overwhelming majority of black men and women date and marry within the race...So making a big deal over something like this...Or dismissing ALL black men over the actions of a small minority...Is ignorant, petty and wrong.

What kind of swirl would this be..chocolate and carmel

KILL INTERRACIAL COUPLES *** RACE TRADERS MALE AND FEMALE!

Ok, like ya'll said, that's his baby's mother. So what I gather from that, they're not together anymore. He's not tied down to her. Again, MTO, this is not dirt, nor does anyone care.

@Milatanti Why so brutal? Why are you so against interracial couples? (I'm just asking a question, not coming at you)

cincity said...

***.B.W.H.A (the national black women hating association)

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!!

That sh!t made me laugh.

Really though, MTO is just trying get all the sisters upset again, so they can get another 400 comments.

Once again the vast majority of black men are married to black women, successful or not.

There absolutely nothing wrong with this couple.

@ cruziangirl

Hey you broke it down so it is forever broken (for Amber especially!).

Let us learn to respect first ourselves then we can respect the lives of others. If you are easily offended by ANYTHING that another human being says about you or your culture than you have allowed them to have power...

Self acceptance gives you the freedom for fearless expression. As long as you are okay with who you are...then what you express is your truth. Da Advocator may not be the most liked person in this conversation but he has the right to feel the way he does...Conscious1 you were making good points but then you attacked da advocator with name calling and vulgur language...you began to degrade white women so you fell right into his trap...he wins.

When I read the comments of Da Advocator and Cruziangirl I think of this:

You have to have the arrogance to do what you want to do. Behind every action that you make and every word that you say is the belief that “this is the truth”. Do not believe in wrong actions. Believe that they are right ones because you are the one making them. Authenticity comes from the permission you give yourself to be a genius, to take something that is considered junk and proclaim “this is beautiful”. Power comes from being yourself.

And at the end of the day we must remember...John 3:16

For God so loved THE WORLD that He gave His only begotten son...

BLACK WOMEN ARE THE NEW WHITE SUPREMCISTS KILL ARE BLACK FEMALE SELLOUTS!

BleepThis

Thats my biggest problem with some of these chicks on here.

If you disagree with me on something, thats fine. I know I'm not always right and I welcome other peoples point of view and perspective.

But when you start the immature name calling, and making assumptions about someone's character, whom you have never met in your life, thats when your wrong.

Well it says "baby's mother" not girlfriend, so she might not have a problem with it what so ever.

LMAO Woosah...

Where is the swirl MTO? This chick looks either mixed or Hispanic...

There are TWO White chicks that I can't stand and don't want to see their *** on this site...lol And that is Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian(fk calling her Armenian)...And going by the things they both have in common, you can easily guess why...lol

But all of this IRR sell-out posts madness is just starting to go too far...I am not sure why comments have to be directed at all Black men or Black women...

I love Black men...and I love Black women...But I do feel like some Black women are doing themselves a disservice being overly concerned with IRR's...You are going to drive yourselves crazy worrying about who every Black man dates who is non Black...

Now I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't rather see Black men with Black women(I'm an advocate for Black love) but I *** sure ain't about to go crazy about it...At the end of the day, I have a Black man...and if he woke up tomorrow and told me baby it's over...It would hurt but I know I would be able to get another one of the same or similar status because I'm just that confident and secure with myself and I keep myself up...

The one thing my boyfriend loves about me is that I'm a bit c/o/c/***/y...I'm like Terrell Owens...I love me some me...And some of you should start telling yourselves that every morning when you wake up and look into the mirror...And then, I don't think these things would bother you as much...

i agree with PRINCE DARRELL...CAUSE HE KAYUTE =]. LOL NAW, BECAUSE I PREFER I DUDE TO BE DARK-SKINNED LIKE MY "DAD" BUT I WQUD'NT TELL HIM THAT CAUSE I DON'T LIKE HIS AZ.Z

@qUEEN OF 256: I TOTALLY AGREE, WE ARE ALL GOD'S KIDS.

what ever!

I agree with Treasure T. We cheer because of the numbers. If only 20% of black men are worth dating, and half of them date non-black women, that leaves us only with 10% of black men to date. People can say that black women are free to date anyone. That is true, but the "typical" White,Asian,or Hispanic guy isn't knockin on our door. Black people in general are discriminated against. Not many non-black men want to date a sister and take her home to meet his mother. So that leaves many Black women out of luck. So some of get happy when we se a sister with a non-black. I get really happy. Go Halle! It gives some of us hope. Like Treasure T stated "Who the F are we supposed to date.

Just to let you know, not all white girls just came out the tanning beds, are easy, and have flat booties, ( I bet mine is bigger than yours!!) You are the prejeduced *** that can't accept the fact that black men want to keep their options open. I got a good black man and he knows he has something good. I have dated white and black men, I go for who I like. You might could learn something from someone like me.

P.s. "The one who angers you, controls you"-so keep getting mad *** love the control.

bone21

Everyone should read what you wrote.

Theres is not on stereotype you can put on white women that I havnt seen in woman of other races, and the same holds true with black women.

@ cruziangirl6

I love how Black women justify reasons for dating other races when it comes to Black men. You claim that we're easy and easy to push over. Absolutely false. You couldn't be further from the truth. Unlike you ladies, we respect and take care of our men. We stand behind them when they needs us and we expect the same type of support. We're far too independent to rely on a man but like all humans we want companionship. However, Black women are not compassionate and as evidenced on this site, demean their men constantly. You think a strong woman is a violent one who doesn't take *** from anyone. Sorry. That attitude only reveals weakness and insecurity. It's easy to blame others for your misfortunes and failures than to take responsibility. Therein lies the problem. Instead you should focus all that negative energy into something positive. Let go of the animosity. Better yourselves. Don't hate on others because it's easier to.

hahahahahahaha[SPAM]H[SPAM]HAHA

@whiteprincess

Would you share your same thoughts towards black women with his BLACK MOTHER, GRANDMOTHER, AUNTIES, SISTERS, AND SO FORTH...

Respect people...it doesn't matter who has the biggest azz (white or black)...it matters who has the missing rib...food for thought. Stop trying to be mans' backbone and be his rib...the rib is there to protect the heart. Know your role in your mans life...the man that GOD has chosen for you...

A man that findeth a wife findetha good thing...so whoever these men choose if it ain't wifey then it right anyways whether she is black or white!!!

God loves inter-racial marriages...HE created them!!!

amber 85

Good post, I couldn't have said it better myself.

weak. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

I see what the real issue is. Get over yourself. You trained black men? You arrogance and jealousy are unbecoming. I live in an age where a woman can scream “*** yous and bytch a$$ ni/ggas” at a man, and believe she is expressing the trait of a strong black woman.

In the age of my mother, women like these would be considered as an uneducated, street-walking, uncouth hag. Times have definitely changed…and not for the better.

Cruzian said: ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- No matter how often I come to this website, I am amazed at how often my own brothers seem to diss their own women. Not all of you, thank God. But some of you sicken me. I am actually sorry for you, but before I feel pity, I puke (not literally). ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

You should really examine the post on here. Black women “disses” black women more than any black men could or would on here. In fact, take some time and re-read this post…tell me how many negative comments these “sistas” made towards this black man they barely know. Lol….man….you will see what you want to see. That’s the sad part….

And to everyone else….lol…I couldn’t care less if you hate me or my statements. My old man once said, the truth hurts. It is painful, I know…but, you are so used to men filling your head with *** just to get in your panties. I am not him. Again, I couldn’t care less.

Lol….but, I must admit….some of you women are so emotional you lose all sense of logic….ahahahahah. Some of these statements are so far off the wall, there’s no way I will respond to them

Ahahaha….but keep them coming.

its about time some intelligent white women are defending themselves, but in the same token, we are all the same inside people

Cruzian Said: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I took a black man from a white girl once... he told me I was what he was missing. I broke up with him eventually, but not after I trained him up right. We are still friends to this day, and you know what, his black wife is the bomb!!! So when you are with your black man, pay attention to what he says to you. When he says that we are too tough, too aggressive and too angry, he is really telling you that you are so easy, so spineless and so weak. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

I see what the real issue is. Get over yourself. You trained black men? You arrogance and jealousy are unbecoming. I live in an age where a woman can scream “*** yous and bytch a$$ ni/ggas” at a man, and believe she is expressing the trait of a strong black woman.

In the age of my mother, women like these would be considered as an uneducated, street-walking, uncouth hag. Times have definitely changed…and not for the better.

Bleep this: yes I would share my thoughs with his mother, aunt, grandmother, etc. because they do respect me. You see, it's all about respect. They see the looks we get from black women when we are out in public and they see how black women treat us. They feel the same as I do, towards these young *** girls that don't know any better.

I have no problem with Lyfe dating outside of his race. Non of use should. What is the big deal? Can someone explain to me what gets a black woman upset when the see this?

I went from being a white, to being a white woman, to being a European, to being a self-hating coon whole will marry Becky...ahahahahah lol!!!!!!!ahahahahahah

I was in tears....man... I luv this site...ahahahah

who cares about all of this black white stuff? Have any of you ever heard this idiot talk? He's so stupid I wouldn't want him to be my baby father or boyfriend

because one by one black men are going to white women and it drives them crazy? but Martin Luther King himself would praise and appreciate it because all he ever wanted in his life were for all races to be equal. and for black people to get mad at this one simple thing, it should be seen as a victory, because we are all on the same plane as one race. not many divided.

@whiteprincess

sounds like your relationship is solid! Thats whats up! Just focus on the positive and pray for the naysayers (real talk). No matter what we do in life someone is going to have something to say...good and bad.

"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor, and hate your enemy. But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you." Matthew 5:43-44

God loves whiteprincess...He created her!!!

queenof256 its about time some intelligent white women are defending themselves, but in the same token, we are all the same inside people ---------------

you are a hypocrit.

no not a HYPOCRITE, im just being real.

Babybcheeks78 says:

who cares about all of this black white stuff? Have any of you ever heard this idiot talk? He's so stupid I wouldn't want him to be my baby father or boyfriend ---------------------------------------------

another black woman praising black men...lol...black love is strong....how endearing. Black women sure do love the black man.

ahahahahahl....@ the ***

i said intelligent ones...the other white women on here were just dumb. it wasn't pointing out race.

queenof256 Flag post because one by one black men are going to white women and it drives them crazy? but Martin Luther King himself would praise and appreciate it because all he ever wanted in his life were for all races to be equal. and for black people to get mad at this one simple thing, it should be seen as a victory, because we are all on the same plane as one race. not many divided. ---------------

[SPAM][SPAM]_____________

Yep keep talking...and lets see if da_advocator, esoteric, papamurf, cincity will correct you on your little observation...lmao..something tells me they wont!

Well could one of you intelligent, patient, quiet, obedient white women please tell me why white men are the top consumers of mail order brides (aka buying a foreign wife) when there are sooo many single white women right under their noses? I have asked this question MANY times and none of you quiet, meek, friendly ladies seem to have an answer...hmm.

To anyone who was passively aggressively attacking me. I get the feeling it's those self righteous, so called pro black brothers by the name of esotericdredz and Papamurf. Go on with that. Here we go again? I don't know why you choose to waste your time always commenting in these race baiting threads if you hate them so much. And Yes I attacked that fool and I'd do it again. Yes this "chick" did that.

Moving on....

BleepThis,

I wasn't trying to make points. Trust I know how to debate logically. I called him out on his *** and I'd gladly do it again. Call me bitter if you want to. I could give two ***. This idiot has been coming on each and everytime saying negative sh*t about black women no matter what the case. So unlike what Estoridz tried to apply with that, "You think you can talk down to black men and not have them say anything back" ***. It's Activator who actually says it first. But unlike the (BDWWWMA) Black Downlow Weak White- Washed Whiny Males Association (thought I'd make up an acronymn for their crew since Papamurf thought ours were so hilarious *wink*) I'll gladly hand it back to is ***. They all *** eachother. Have more loyalty to men than they ever will females. *** shame.

And for the record I wasn't riled up by this topic. I've realized for quite some time y'all were lost causes. If you look, I didn't even comment on Lyfe and his women. I was prepared to leave my inital comment and keep it moving, but decided to have some fun with my dear friend, Acti. :)

Cheerio.

@ cruziangirl6: TRUE, TRUE BUT I DIDN'T MEAN TO OFFEND ANYONE ELSE ON DA GORILLA COMMENT. BUT HONESTLY IT WAS AT MY DEFENSE. HERE ON MTO black women always try to put downPLAY hispanics in every kinda of way, SO IMA SPEAK MY MIND AS WELL. SAME WAY BLACK WOMEN COME INTO DEFENSE ABOUT THEIR OWN RACE. FOR EXAMPLE....THE OTHER WEEK THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT FABS GIRL.....MTO PEOPLES DOWN PLAYED HIS GIRL WHEN THEY FOUND OUT SHE WAS HISPANIC. NOW CORRECT ME IF IM WRONG BUT I THOUGH HISPANICS WERE BLACK ALSO. WERE THE UNITY! I DO AGREE WITH SOME OF THE THINGS UR SAYING, RESPECT OTHER AND OTHERS WILL RESPECT U! MTO DOESN'T RESPECT NO RACE.

lol....@ conscious1

lol....if words where sharp as knives, I would have bled to death...wow...

but, conscious, I never made any comments towards you....but, you expressively typed my name in your response.

I think you have a crush on me...but, conscious1, I don't do bitter broads...

hell i dont know why white men buy mail order brides, ask them sick ***. thats like asking me why lindsey lohan turned ***?

CINCITY, DA ADVOCATOR, PAPAMURF, ESOTERIC...look below. These are all comments coming from people who are not Black women but are what you would deem negative. I am going to assume you just missed these comments..so I reposted them for you to see so you won't think that only Black women have something to say on the matter. I wouldn't want you to be accused of being one-sided or anything...

Jose100 Flag post Get is Lyfe... Will she be there when the 20/s stop spinning???

blackexec Flag post Something about this dude.. I just can't stand

MILATANT1 Flag post KILL INTERRACIAL COUPLES [EXPLETIVE] RACE TRADERS MALE AND FEMALE!

amber85 Flag post I blame it on Black women. Black women need to adjust their attitudes. I cannot blame Black men for dating outside their race. Black women are bitter, angry ladies who are always ready to attack. Who wants to deal with that on a daily basis? Stop being so angry.

princedarrell Flag post @da advocator...u just intimidated by single successful and strong black women...admit it, brothas can't handle a woman who is more successful than him. case and point...stedman and oprah

Lose those Thunder Thighs only @

Bleep this: I do pray for the naysayers ***, maybe one day, they will grow up and then maybe they can find something like I got!

Hi Amber85 and Whiteprincess (LMAO by the way),

It is so lovely that you took the time to respond to me personally. It isn't often that I get to *** some logic at flawed opinions and ideas. I know plenty of white women who do not support their men. In fact, I know plenty of them who can't wait for their man to leave home so the next one can come in and break the bed post. I have seen many white women destroy a good man, white and black, for out of sheer selfishness, greed, and ignorance. When women like you come to these sites and expound on the virtues of white women as superior to black women, we only have to pick up a newspaper and read about your true virtues. Like a said before, I can admit that I have my own prejudices, however, many of you cannot do the same. It is obvious that you want to believe in your superiority when if fact you are extremely insecure. If you believed what you are saying right now, you wouldn't have to say it twice. I have seen your postings many times on MTO and every time you post, you bash a sister. You are jealous of us. You are scared of us. You want to be us so badly that you have become the proverbial fox. You know the one Aesop talked about. You see the the sweet grape but you can't reach it, so you assume that it is sour. Instead of trying to discredit a black woman, talk to one. The black men you are relying on for your information obviously don't know much about a good black woman, or they wouldn't be with you. I am sure that not all white woman have the problems you and white princess do, however, you two are the only ones I have addressed on this topic, so I am using you two as models. Once again, black women, all the black women I know, respect their men. We support them to the fullest. But supporting a man doesn't mean making him right all of the time. Sometimes supporting a man means letting him know he is wrong. That is only right on both sides of the equation. A weak man cannot appreciate this, so he finds solace elsewhere, may be in your arms. But this doesn't make you better; only convenient. Before you put yourself on the pedestal, be sure to know who is up there first. The fall can be pretty hard and you'll scratch your knees up, for real.

Peace

Truthfully, I don't believe that all white women feel like these two. I cannot say that I have white "friends," but I do have a few acquaintances. Some date men of other races. I think that if people date for love, it is okay. I personally prefer black men. This doesn't make me right; I am just comfortable with the brothers. When people like Amber and Whitewhatever talk like they are the "better choice" because of their race, that is when I take issue. No white woman is better than me because she is white; that is the bottom line. Brothers, listen to what sisters are saying here. We are not hating. We are just frustrated.

But I truly believe that their are good black men out there who do not need a Becky or a Sue to feel good about themselves. If the fall in love with Becky or Sue, it will be because Becky or Sue is the right one for them, that's all. (But the secretly want Lawanda and Keisha....LOL!!!!)

realwoman im pretty disgusted by that question

whiteprincess wrote: P.s. "The one who angers you, controls you"-so keep getting mad *** love the control. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

If that's true Black people of been controlling whites for a long time.

@ realwoman

What would you like me to say to these precocious white broads on here? Listen, my issue is not with black women/white women. If a white woman blasted innocent black men as much as some of you women do on here, I would have issue with her as well.

If a black men does it as well, I will have issue with him as well.

I am just tired with the hypocrisy. If you are going to bytc and complain about interracial relationships, then be fare.

If you are going to call out a black man for messing with a non-black chick....be fair...and call out every black woman does the same.

If you are going to ignore one side, and constantly bash another, then you lose all credibility with me. You will come out as bein bitter and angry. Simple as that.

And one more thing...take accountability for you actions and decisions

Da Advocator

*** you and your old man with sick dikks. I don't know him but can't stand him because he insterted you in the wrong hole.

@Veto2o2

Black women don't "gets" upset when they see an IRR. They sometimes get upset at the motives. 1. Trophy

2. Self-hate

3. The I have made some money and I can't help but fall in love with a white women syndrome.

Black women tend to pick men because of how they treat them.

I got this email and thought it was interesting....

White Woman's Opinion of Black Women

White women's opinion of black women & a brother's response

Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this

black man.

Enjoy.

It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a

Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad

she got what she asked for (and more) !!!

Dear Jamie:

I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male

readers.

I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking,

educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's

attit udes about our relationship.

My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women

were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too

mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too

much excess baggage.

Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly

approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If

Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't

they look at themselves and make some changes.

I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in

public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so

appealing and coveted by them.

Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles

Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams,

Quincy Jo nes, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi

Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry

Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...

I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is

why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so

many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and

we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let

me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE

Dear Jamie:

I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White

Girl.

Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated

from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with

a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job a t a

major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider

myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.

I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to

set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the

day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was

because they were considered easy.

The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were

very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it

to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone

who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to

the white girls.

Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because

they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of

insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by

the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be

more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and

own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more

docile woman. Someone we can control.

I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on

how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to

set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not

all successful black men date white women.

Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris

Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds ,

Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And,

to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot

light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted

Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.

I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop

thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember,

when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling

Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in the caves of

Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.

Read your history!

It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your

food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It

was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during

slavery

It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,

husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women

were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman.

And, through all this, Still They Rise!

It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and

beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is

not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not

the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I

love them.

Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women.

Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their

ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women.

I honestly believe that your anger is geared more t oward jealousy and

envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you

continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so

proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale

skin?

Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with

unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more

voluptuous?

I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what

the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk

over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children.

Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am

looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately,

you do not and CANN OT fit the bill.

No offense taken, none given.

Signed, Black Royalty

Wow!! We must pass this on to make the day of the Black Queens

wow do people really have time to read all that???

@cruziangirl6, I agree with your comment to CinCity...She has been talking sideways for a minute now about Black women...

I'm not around too many Latinos but by some of the comments (blatantly, subliminal/indirectly) a few Latin chicks on this site have made in regards to Black women, I can tell you I have been accurately taking notes...

Coming to this Black site pretending to be down but all in the same breath sneaking in slick ***, thinking people aren't taking notice...That's that flip-flopping *** I've spoken on previously...

Just because a black man is with a white girl right now doesn't mean he does not like black women. Instead of talkin *** about her take her man like you do your girlfriends... You should know best what a black man likes and needs right? How hard could it be. Aren't you easier to take home and explain to mom?