: We already told you guys that Sandy Denton, AKA Pepa from the group Salt N Pepa is coming out with a new autobiography - well apparently she's not holding back. MediaTakeOut.com just caught wind that in Pepa's new Tell-All book, she talks openly about the way that her former husband Treach (from the group Naughty By Nature) used to beat her.
Here's how she described it to Essence magazine:
Interviewer: You detail your stormy marriage to Anthony 'Treach' Criss, from Naughty by Nature, and the years of abuse he put you through. Have you ever had an opportunity to talk to him, post-divorce, about how it affected you?
PEPA: No, and honestly, he's the one person I'm nervous about reading this, but I had to do it. How do I not tell that part of my life story? This book is not so much about my abuse, but my road to recovery.
Interviewer: For years, there had been industry whisperings about you and Treach's tumultuous marriage. Has he ever reached out to you to apologize?
PEPA: No, and I want to make it clear it is what it is. From what I know, people grow and that might have been who he was in the past. I can't speak for who he is now. Hopefully, this was then. He really is a great father to his kids. I don't want to make him out to be the bad guy. Again, the real story I wanted to tell is more about why I allowed these things to happen to me.
Interviewer: That's truly a blessing. In your book you say that your decision to change your patterns with abusive relationships had to do with your son, Tyran, and Egypt, your daughter with Treach. Did they ever witness the physical abuse and question you about it?
PEPA: No, never physical, but they were often present during yelling and screaming matches. People forget that verbal abuse is equally unhealthy. My kids used to see me crying and depressed all the time, and that can affect kids as well.
You know, we suspected something like this was going on in their marriage. Thankfully she got out of it....
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FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO SIT THERE AND BAD MOUTH PEPA YOU NEED TO SHUT THE F U C K UP BECAUSE BEING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP MYSELF IN THE PAST SOMETIMES IT TAKES AWHILE TO GET OVER WHAT YOU HAVE JUST WENT THRU IT HURTS TO TALK ABOUT IT AND YES ITS EVEN EMBARASSING ONCE OTHER PEOPLE FIND OUT ABOUT. ITS EASY FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE NOT OR HAVEN'T BEEN A SITUATION LIKE THIS TO EASILY SAY LEAVE IT'S NOT THAT EASY FOR SOME PEOPLE ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE ARE CHILDREN INVOLVED. SOME PEOPLE TRY TO STICK IT OUT FOR THE SAKE OF THEIR CHILDREN AND ALSO SOME HAVE HOPES OF THAT PERSON CHANGING SOME DO AND SOME DONT. BUT DONT KNOCK HER CAUSE SHE WANTS TO TELL HER STORY EMBRACE HER AND SHOW HER SOME AND STOP BEING SO DAMN IGNORANT.
Boooo...this ain't news. Who didn't know just by looking at her and the fact that she got with this KNOWN whore, that she had low self-esteem. Of course he beat her. Iventure to guess that he did it without the aid of crack as well as with it.
TREACH is a wanna be thug... seems a little "lite in the ass" to me... guess that's why she was such a free spirit on the show...she was acting as if she had just broken free from the chains of TREACH! p.s. MTO she mentioned her abuse on the show! I LOVE ROUGH NECKS but he won't be beating my a.s.s!!
Can't understand why women stick around the 1st time a man takes his hand to her. Don't tell me 'bout no phucking love, 'cause if you loved yourself you wouldn't put up with it.
I wouldn't be with a man who found that cool but if I mis-judged a muthaphucker, there's a bottle of colorox under the sink, he'd be tasting a supper time.
I doubt the sista would lie about sumthin like this! If it's true that's some f^cked up sh!t joe!! Treach look like a ole woman beating a$$ dude though to tell you the truth!! If you gotta beat it leave it!!
PLEASE PHUCKING PLEASE, if you are a grown ass woman, you have only yourself to blame if you allow someone to continuously abuse you.
If there are children involved more phucking reason to be out of the good damn shyte!! SORRY, I know you all feel like victims but you should seek help if you can't do it alone. NO EXCUSE to remain in the muthaphucker, when you know the muthaphucking situation is not good for you.
Pepa U talk and continue ur "SELF-THEROPY" cause some woman don't live long enough 2 do that much. Continue 2 give the next Female, older or younger, the reason and strenght 2 move on. Speaking from experiance some of us don't even mention it. We just keep on keepin' on. Bless U Pepa for making it through. Nuf RESPECT ... Showing that NYC's Mocha LUV
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Faith now Pepa! Dam these late 80s early 90s hoes can't sing no more or rap so now they use another outlet.. A book. Smart move on both of their part, but Faith is not telling the whole story in her book. Bytch if you gone write it, tell it. And Pepa, well, she look like a dumb broad that will let a ni**a put his hands on her and call her out of her name. No self esteem. Watch the show you'll see.
I have been a victim of abuse too...it's just I"m not finna' write no book about it because I've dealt with my situation a little differently. Some people write books, some sing songs, some do movies, and some just put pray and put god first in their lives and continue to pray. Well....one thing I can tell you is that god does answer your prayers....he might not answer them when you're ready for him to answer, but he answer them. I prayed hard and long, and it is still a routine in my life. It's also been well over 10 yrs. since a man laid hands on me. It's a feelin' of relief, and confort of being free of trouble....so maybe writing a book was her way of overcoming her pain and fear. You never know what a person going through in situations like that unless you've gone through it yourself.
I've worked with women like Pepa and for those of you who can't fathom why a woman stays it's because she doesn't love herself or she saw other women go thru that while growing up. Some women see abuse as a normal thing.
Many of you have probably been in a relationship where the man has used you or cheated. Why did you stay? Same kind of concept. You had to learn better to do better.
I like pepa but i can't understand marrying a thug ass rapper and expecting him eto treat you any differently than he treats all women. Let's see, she startrted sleeping with him, got pregnant and somehow convinced him to marry her. He was probably abusive before the marriage and the baby, but she was so in love she let it slide, but of course it only got worse. This pattern happens, over and over with especially Black women and I don't get it. Abuse is abuse, if a man is calling you stupid bitch, before he marries you, he'll probably be kicking your ass after he marries you. No abuse of any type should be accepted and she's right, she accepted it. She was just as wealthy as famous as he was, she could have left at any time. She let it happen and I'm glad she got out. Judging from the stupid things Treach did after the marriage, he was pretty phucked in the head.
I was in a relationship where my ex tried to become towards me. And the 1st time that ni99ga hold a gun on me, I got away and ran his @ss over with my car and I never went back. I am glad that Pepa got out of that relationship, but she stayed too long with that woman beater. I grew up watching my aunt being abuse by her husband and they’re still together almost 27 years now. After, seeing this I knew I wouldn’t let the same happen to me.
AND MOST OF YALL ON HERE SAYING "HE LOOKS ABUSIVE" OR "HE LOOK LIKE HE BEAT WOMEN" SOUND LIKE THE SAME RACIST COPS THAT SAY WE LOOK LIKE CRIMINALS, OR WE LOOKED LIKE WE WERE REACHING FOR SOMETHING..HINT HINT SEAN BELL (50 SHOTS), AMADOU DIALLO (42 SHOTS), ABNER LOUIMA ETC....DAM YOU SLAVES!!DAM YOU ALL TO HELL....
this is not new... Treach, man, fussin n yelling don't solve nothin... I was in the same boat, and it took me time to realize that when u got a woman that wanna give u da world, u gotta talk... I wish them both the best of uck n their futures... a good man is hard to find, but good black women are all around us... I have now been humbled...
Can't think of that website I saw him piping some video chicks - that's why she stayed. Some people been there, but what I like about her and Faith too is that they really seemed to have walked away from it and learned a lesson. Superhead not so much.
NOT SHOCKED OR REALL SURPRISED. Y IS SHE COMIN OUT WIT A BOOK ABOUT ANYTHING ALL OF A SUDDEN? SOUNDS LIKE SHE'S IN DIRE NEED OF SOME MONEY.......I LIKE THIS LADY BUT EVRYTHING SHE DOES IS AN ATTEMPT ON MAKIN MONEY....YEA ITS FUCC'D UP THAT TREACH IF HE REALLY DID BEAT HER, BEAT HER.......BUT SHE AIN'T SAY SHYT ABOUT IT B4.........AND THEY BEEN SEPERATED FOR MORE THAN A DECADE.....COME ON......SHE'S TRYIN 2 GET PAID 4 HER TRAGEDIES LIKE EVRY1 ELSE......DON'T BLAME HER.....BUT DON'T EXPECT SYMPATHY FROM SOME ABOUT IT.
@ FIREBUNNY1 I WOULD HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU, IT IS SO EASY FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS NOT BEEN IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP TO PASS JUDGEMENT, BUT THE FACT STILL REMAINS THAT THIS HAPPENS IN ALOT OF RELATIONSHIPS WHICH IS SAD, SOME WOMEN & MEN ARE NOT AS STRONG AS OTHERS TO JUST LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP DO TO CERTAIN SITUATIONS, NOW WITH THAT BEING SAID, I'M GLAD SHE WAS ABLE TO GET OUT OF THAT SITUATION, NOT ALL WOMEN/MEN ARE THAT LUCKY, HERE IN DALLAS THERE HAS BEEN ALOT OD DOMESTIC VIOLENCE WHERE THE WOMAN/MAN DON'T SURVIVE THEY ARE DEAD AND GONE BECAUSE THEY COULDN'T GET OUT IN TIME, THERE WAS A FEMALE FROM MY CITY THAT WAS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND THE OUTCOME WAS THE DEATH OF HER AND 2 OF HER CHILDREN, SO SAD. GOD BLESS!!
As a BLACK SON, BLACK BROTHER, and A REAL MAN, I am shocked at some of the comments I'm reading from some of these male viewers. Calling Pepa a hooker,etc. or saying she's lying or trying to sell books is ridiculous! Having witnessed my FATHER hit my mother once, I have first hand knowledge about the effects of domestic violence. We in the BLACK COMMUNITY don't discuss this issue (along with HOMOSEXULAITY, DEPRESSION, and SUICIDE) "sanely" enough. If her book helps only one person come out of an abusive relationship IT IS A JOB WELL DONE! What does Pepa have to gain from lying about this situation? She's paid, had her show on VH-1, Salt N Pepa CD's will always continue to sell because their classic records. I wish Pepa nothing buit the best and hope that Treach (who still appears like he has some growing up to do, based on the fact that he REPS BLOODS affiliation/ and has MANY CHILDREN FROM VARIOUS WOMEN) sees the light and is taking steps to become a REAL MAN.
ROTFL @ Brew62! No one deserves to get hit, or screamed on ... your man is NOT your Daddy, and your Daddy knows to adjust the way you are Disciplined when you reach a certain age. Anyone who knows about abuse is familiar with "Battered Woman Syndrome." I hope Pep helps a lot of women who may need help.
ALL OF YA'LL FOOLS TALKIN BOUT SHE NEEDS TO GET OVER IT & SHE MUST BE BROKE NOW....NEED TO SHUT THE FCUK UP & EAT A D!CK!!!!
UNTIL U WITNESSED IT OR BEEN IN HER SHOES...THEN U HAVE NO IDEA OF HOW IT FEELS...HOW IT CAN AFFECT A WOMAN OR HER KIDS!!!
I HATE IGNORANT AZZ PPL LIKE U!!!
I believe it, but to be honest, she looks like she can take him down with those big ass muscular arms she has! But my thing is, if you’re no longer with the person and you really didn’t say or do anything back when it happen, then why run your mouth now? Once again it’s called I’m writing a stupid book and I need your support because I’m broke and I’m a HAS-BEEN, LOL!!!!!!!!
You got that right about them stereotyping. Can someone please tell me what a woman beater looks like so I can avoid them? No you cant because the most mild mannered men can knock your ass out too.
A woman must have extremely low self-esteem if she stays in a relationship with a man after he physically abuses her. The kids should have been all the more reason for her to leave because if he could do it to her he could do it to them.
I will have to cosign with Firebunny1 on this one it's so true. I been there and i still get nightmares from it and that happen to me about 5yrs ago. It's not easy getting out and lot of people don't take you serious when your going through it. People always say it's so easy to get out until you have knuckle head threating to take your life and your childs. I have nothing but respect for this woman for coming out with her story regardless of how long ago it was.
Don't knock Pepa. I've never been in that type of relationship but I'm sure it wasn't easy to talk about and i'm sure it took time for her to feel comfortable enough to even discuss it. I'm glad that she no longer has to suffer abuse from that a$$hole.
I'm not into men who beat on woman or verbally abuse females... I can understand her pain because I had situations like that in the past...SO OVER THAT!!
Pepa to me is not real..She is so insecure with herself its crazy she is very jealous and all about attention...
The way they treat Spin pretty much like nothing all on the show literally telling Spin she was a nobody but a DJ....They both are fake Pepa and Salt back in the day they were all in her face and all that mess as soon as things got tight...They went on an diss her...
The real issue is Treach dogged and used her soon after that so call wedding he showed out!
Treach was on the radio talking about his other children by other females he also has a porn tape in which I saw him in...He looked really nervous in it...
Spin is crazy I would of left them alone and wrote a book....Title "Scandalous Fake AZZ Rappers" Full Details Inside includes Salt and Pepa.........Thee End!
LOL & SMH @ people who ask Y NOW? You can not tell someone who has been through something when the "right" time is to talk about their situation. I commend her because so many woman NEVER talk about it...It is the dirty lil secret of society...I personally konw women who have been in abusive relationships, and yes I think they are crazy and stupid because I, personally, couldnt do it, but they are not me..but i also realize there is something else there, maybe a lack of self respect and self esteem..maybe their parents or someone abused them so its not that out of character to them...Maybe they are too scared and intimidated to get away...I mean lets not forget woman who have been killed trying to get away, how about the woman who got away and got set on fire at her job!!! The ones who do get away by killing the bastard end up in jail..I have also noticed through people i know that a lot of these abusive men dont start off that way...they take years to get to know you and get in your heart and head..Its not like they were beating these women on the 1st date...I respect and commend Pepa for being honest and not running his name through the dirt..She gave him props for being a good father and she also admitted that she, herself, had issues that she needed to get help with. May God bless her and her kids and Treach and all of us!!
YOU SAY YOUR A "BLACK SON" A "BLACK BROTHER" WHILE SIR YOU SOUND LIKE A BLACK FOOL. HOW THE HELL DO YOU KNOW SHE IS TELLING THE TRUTH? I DONT KNOW IF HE BEAT HER OR NOT, BUT I DO KNOW THAT PUBLISHING COMPANIES ENCORAGE PEOPLE TO EXAGGERATE AND INSERT FICTION IN THERE "TELL ALL BOOKS"...SO THEY CAN SELL THE BOOKS...THE BURDEN OF PROOF IS ON THE ACCUSER TO PROVE GUILT SIR... YOU LOSE CREDIBILITY WHEN YOU MAKE ACCUSATIONS FOR PROFIT ONLY......GET THE FUKKK OUTTA HERE....SIR
BTW: I'VE BEEN TEACHING MY DAUGHTER MARTIAL ARTS SINCE SHE WAS 3 YEARS OLD SO SHE WILL NEVER BECOME A DEFENSELESS VICTIM ....
Hmmm, seems strange that all of these "previously" famous celebs are coming out w/ tell all books.........they're just trying to recycle what's left of their fame and get paid.......I think I'll call it "Superhead Syndrome".
What about my comments makes me sound like a BLACK FOOL? My brother (and I use gthat term VERY loosely), YOU'RE the one who sounds like a fool stating at the end of your comment and I quote:
"BTW: I'VE BEEN TEACHING MY DAUGHTER MARTIAL ARTS SINCE SHE WAS 3 YEARS OLD SO SHE WILL NEVER BECOME A DEFENSELESS VICTIM ...."
**REALITY CHECK- Unless your daughter is BRUCE LEROY and she catches bullets through her teeth, you can teach her all the martiual arts in the world, but if her boyfriend, husband, etc. comes at her with a gun, that kickboxing bull will not help.
Later for this chick! I've met this chick! She's the type that HAS TO BE the fly one in the relationship.She has a stank attitude off camera and can't deal with a brother on point! She probably thought she could run over Treach and he wasn't having it. I remember her indirectly calling him ugly in a record too lol. How nice of her. Trust me this chick's got a nasty mouth.I doubt he physically abused her...why would he..besides if he did,she's not the type to bite her tongue but notice she never stated the abuse was physical.As far as yelling goes....please! Fix your stinky attitude and you wouldn't have to argue with dudes all the time.....or your own crew. NUT!! Scorpio's got rep for their sex game and NASTY ATTITUDES....tell me I'm lying.
"YOU TOLD HARPO TO BEAT ME" HE BEEN BEATING HER DOWN SINCE BEFORE THEY WAS MARRIED, BUT SHE WENT THRU WITH IT ANYWAY. WHY DO WOMEN STAY WIT A BRUH THAT'S KICKIN FIRE OUT OF THEM, THEN WANT TO PUT THEY BUSINESS IN THE STREETS. JUST BE THANKFUL THAT YOU GOT OUT WITH YOUR LIFE,. SOME WOMEN ARE NO THAT FORTUNATE.
And you wonder why some chicks dont say anything, look at these comments.
My sister in law is going through the same thing and has been for about 8 years and the person doing it is my brother. I ask all the time why is she still there,but the fear TRUMPS everything. Dudes are killing wives and girlfriends, this is not a joke. and even after all is said and done, that stuff sticks with you and causes major issues YEARS down the line. If anyone read what Pep sais, she said this book is not about the abuse its about the recovery, so many sister need to read that so they know they can get through it.
As far as the money Pep always had more money than Treach and she is still getting paid to this day. Royalties keep her nice, not to mention she just wrapped up a tv show, she is far from hurting(money-wise) Salt n Pepa were HUGE during a strong 15 year run.
As usual MTO is putting words in people's mouths. She never said he BEAT her, she said it was never physical, but VERBAL ABUSE. cussing each other out is verbal abuse, so i'm sure she was giving as good as she got.
He looks like a woman beater, dayum punk. That $hit just sickens me but prolly be the first one to catch a beat down esp in the pen with those steriod jail house muscles of his. Thats why he fell the f uck off with his balding a$$ and shes back on a come up. God don't like ugly and neither do I!!
One thing she said that is very true.....It can be even worse for children to witness verbal and emotional abuse than it is to witness the physical...Physical scars heal, the emotional and mental ones run deeper and are actually the lasting ones that hurt women and families in this situation more.
Who knows whether its true or not....You can't look at someone and tell if they are violent or not (Those who claim someone "looks" like a woman beater are foolish....There are some clean cut, passive looking people who behind closed doors become violent and crazy...can't judge by appearances...) But if its true, and she moved on to give her kids a better environment, then good for her.
I think PEPA is Crazy, Sexy, Cool! Some one that seems to know how to have a good time and fun to be around!
To those who want to read and Cop the Book,
I hope what she shares gives you a better understanding of her and how much things that have happened in the 80's or 90's (back in the day) are not to much different to what still goes on today!
No man should EVER put his hands on a women, and vice versa! How do we CHANGE these types of VIOLENCE from happening?
That was an unfortunate situation, however, she gets no sympathy from me because she had the means to remove herself from this situation when it began. Many young women (and men for that matter) do not have the resources to get out of abusive relationships because they are more than likely dependent on the abuser. Pep had the money, the security and support to leave Treach when he had her lookin like a cat burgler by the eyes back in '95.
And for you women who keep defending women who stay in abusive realtionships........I applaud your conviction. But how many times can you help a woman that comes to you time after time with the same problem and she won't help herself? The first time a dude starts telling you what to do, where to go and who you can see is a sure sign that he is controlling and more likely an abuser. The first time a man raises his hands to you or your children (especially if they're not his) is SURELY a sign that he is an abuser and will continue to be one no matter how many times he apologizes complete with a hott romp in the sheets (that's REALLY how they get y'all). Some of y'all equate getting jumped on or stalked with love and that is one of the sickest things I've ever seen in my life. So, in most cases, no, my sympathy is not wasted............especially after I done sat up with you at the emergency room AND police station to file charges all night only for you to drop them in the morning. I thank God I've never been a victim.
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Agree with you Kats... This world is very cruel. SMDH at the vicious comments that are being made against women that get abused! All the folks bumping their gums about "why now" like she shouldve wrote a book about her abuse the day after getting her azz kicked. GTFOH
I've seen relatives get abused and it's SCARY and downright FRIGHTENING in the worse sense. It can take eons to get over that sh*t and nobody can put a f*cking "timetable" on another persons suffering. Besides, who the hell would WANT to come out knowing they'll be raked over the coals by family, friends and the public for exposing "private business"? F*ck outta here.
Tina Turner didnt get outta her situation early EITHER because she probably thought that the public would say she was lying, trying to dog her husband or trying to "start some mess". Even her own mother tried to make her stay with him because wshe felt the lavish lifestyle they were living superceded Ike putting his foot in Anna Mae's azz.
Wake up black people! This is not a good thing to have going on in our community and damn sure isnt good for our children.
I APOLOGIZE TO YOU SIR FOR SAYING YOU "SOUND LIKE A BLACK FOOL" WHEN YOU HAVE JUST PROVEN YOU ARE AN ACTUAL FOOL!
YOU IMPLIED THAT I SHOULDN'T TEACH MY DAUGHTER MARTIAL ARTS??? ARE YOU WELL SIR? MAYBE YOUR MEDS ARE EXPIRED? CHECK THE EXPIRATION ON THE BACK OF THE BOTTLE. PEPA DIDN'T GET SHOT SHE "ALLEGEDLY" WAS BEAT UP. WHY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT GUNS FOR...WHEN MY DAUGHTER GETS OLDER SHE WILL ALSO BE VISITING THE LOCAL PISOL RANGE FOR YOUR INFORMATION.
YOU SOUND YOUNG AND IMMATURE. YOU ALSO SOUND LIKE YOUR TRYING TO FORCE YOURSELF INTO AN ADULT CONVERSATION.
MOST PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN URBAN CITIES HAVE EITHER BEEN ATTACKED OR KNOW OF SOMEBODY CLOSE TO THEM THAT HAS BEEN ATTACKED (DOMESTIC OR PUBLIC). YOU HAPPEN TO SOUND LIKE SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN VICIOUSLY ATTACKED RECENTLY, AND ARE BITTER AS HELL.
I FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR GIRL FRIEND (OR BOYFRIEND, HEY WHAT EVER FLOATS YOUR BOAT)BECAUSE I'M SURE SHE WEARS THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP..I HOPE SHE DOESN'T BEAT YOU...
I can't speak directly to the facts of an abusive man/women because I have never abused a woman and I have never had a woman try to abuse me but, I WILL say that ANY MAN that gets his rocks off by beating his woman is a PUNK AZZ BYTCH!!!!....
Who the fuk are you to be passing judgement on what someone else is going thru or been thru????....You can talk all that shyt about, "A woman is a dumb bytch for staying"....I agree that you have to be unstable to continue staying with a man that abuses you in ANY way but, I believe that when a man abuses a woman HE makes her unstable....That shyt will KILL a womans self-esteem and I am sure he mentally poisons her into making her believe that she deserved it and that if not him then the next man will do the same thing to her....I am here to tell you ladies that THAT shyt is NOT TRUE!!!....Not all men think like that!!!!....We don't ALL have to dominate you in order for us to feel like men....There are some of us out there that don't take pride in dominating their woman to the point that you feel like she is one of your children....Women love HARD, much harder than men do on our best day and just imagine giving all of that love to someone that turns around and uses your love to dominate you and take all of the loving energy that you have and then beats your azz!!!!!....That can kill ANYONE'S self-esteem man or woman....Choose your words carefully before you judge DUMMY!!!!!!!
I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE U CLICKED "ADD COMMENT" AFTER YOU WROTE THIS HORSE SHYT....
**REALITY CHECK- Unless your daughter is BRUCE LEROY and she catches bullets through her teeth, you can teach her all the martiual arts in the world, but if her boyfriend, husband, etc. comes at her with a gun, that kickboxing bull will not help.
DUMBEST S.HIT I EVER SEEN ON MTO...LMAO...YOU SOUND LIKE A HUMAN PUNCHING BAG.....PLEASE LEAVE THIS ADULT AREA.....THE DISNEY CHANNEL IS THREE BLOCKS DOWN....AND DONT GO IN THERE TALKING SHIIT CAUSE MY DAUGHTERS IN THERE AND I WOULDN'T WANT HER TO WHIP YOUR AZZ....LMAO!!!!
I'm sure this book was theraputic for Pep. And, she probably wrote it to help other women who are or have been through abuse.
It's good that she was able to leave that relationship. Women stay for various reasons, including shock, economic, emotional, etc. It's up to that woman to determine when she's had enough. Pep had enough strength to leave and it took her awhile to work through it. Maybe the book will be a blessing to someone else.
I want to know when did there become a statute of limitation on when you can tell that a mathafaka has been whooping yo azz????....All I keep seeing is, "Why is she just now telling or Why now?"....Who the fuk made ya'll the judge and jury on this woman and what she has been thru or ANY woman for that matter???....Maybe she is just now getting over her fear of that mathafuka and from what she said, she STILL seems to fear him....There ain't a MOFO on here that can't tell me Treach don't look like he would be the type of nicka to be whooping some woman's azz???????
That woman can tell her story when ever she feels like it....That's like when women come out and say I was molested as a child by my father/step-father/uncle/mom's boyfriend etc. (ie. Oprah)....Did anyone ask her why she waited til she was damn near 40 to tell about it????....Who gives a fuk why they waited, maybe it is because they have every fukin right to keep it or tell it whenever they see fit!!!!....Azzholes on this sight I tell ya....
If my mother told me right now that my father used to abuse her, I would go slit that nickas throat where he stands!!!!....Or maybe I could just say, "Mom, why the hell did you just now say something and you are a dummy for keeping it"....Yeah, that might work better huh.....
You clearly have some personal issues, you are only attempting to pick an "internet" fight with me because I COMPLETELY SHUT YOU DOWN on my answer post to you. I SHUT YOU DOWN so much that you felt the need to respond back to me TWICE. There's no need for me to go back and forth with you. I have my opinion and you have yours. REAL MEN CAN AGREE TO DISAGREE. AND A REAL MAN doesn't resort to the petty stuff you're speaking, because you don't know me, AND NOR DO I CARE TO KNOW YOU...hopefully your daughter doesn't grow up to be as big an ASS as you are..AND DO US ALL A FAVOR AND PLEASE TAKE DOWN THAT PICTURE...YIKES LMAO!!!!
@ GGGB WHAT WILL YOU DO IF YOUR LIFE AS WELL AS YOUR CHILDRENS LIVES ARE BEING THREATENED. WHAT IF HE KNOWS WHERE YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS LIVE AT OR WHERE YOU WORK AT. WHAT IF HE IS THREATENING TO DO HARM AGAINST OTHERS IN YOUR FAMILY JUST TO GET AT YOU? ALL THESE THINGS HAS TO BE TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION. I KNOW A FEMALE OTHER THAN MYSELF WHO WAS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND SHE LEFT THE GUY AND YOU KNOW HIS CRAZY ASS WENT TO HER JOB IN BROAD DAYLIGHT AT A RESTAURANT AND SHOT HER IN THE HEAD AND THEN TURNED AROUND AND KILLED HIMSELF. SHIT AINT AS EASY AS IT MAY SOUND. I STAND BY MY WORDS IF YOU'VE NEVER BEEN IN THE SITUATION YOU CAN EASILY SAY WALK AWAY BUT SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THAT EASY.
I agree 100% in what you just said...There was this situation back in 01' where a friend of mines step daughter was shot in the head by some ex-boyfriend...The ex rape her that day while in her apartment packing up some clothes to leave....He knocks on the door bust in her house and shot her in the head right in front of her 3 year old daughter and her step mom...So sad...she was only 22 the monster was 29 can you imagine...The pain and hurt..
I went to high school with this girl who was pregnant and her boyfriend and her were fighting over a air-conditioner being on....He choked her to death....Left there little girl in the living room on the couch...He drives to New York dad tells him to turn himself in...
This other guy kills his ex girlfriend because she had it going on and graduated from college with a BA and was pretty he felt like she thought she was all that and beat her down every chance he got he eventually killed her according to her grandmother she said she told her to leave him alone. The police said she was so badly beat up they thought it was animal in the kitchen not a person....Sad.....
Ladies please! It's easy to say "Oh that could not be me" "I would of went off on him and kicked his azz"! To be honest you never know what you might do until it happens to you...Pray you get out safe without being killed......
Warning Signs are all over some of us just refuse to except it.......Get Out!!
@NJADONIS78.... THANK YOU FOR SHUTTING THAT A S S UP BECAUSE HE SOUNDS VERY IGNORANT IN THE THINGS HE IS SAYING BECAUSE THAT MARTIAL ARTS S H I T IS ONLY GOING TO PROTECT HER BUT SO MUCH SO IF ANYTHING YOU NEED TO TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER SELF WORTH AND HOW TO AVOID GETTING CAUGHT UP IN THAT TYPE OF SITUATION
YOUR A JOKE....PUT UP YOUR PIC THEN LETS TAKE A POLL OF WHO GETS A THUMBS DOWN FROM THE LADIES OF MTO......OH AND YES YOU HAVE TO USE YOUR OWN PIC...I KNOW YOUR A LAME AZZ CORNBALL...WE ALL KNOW YOUR A CORNBALL....YOU TRYING TO GET FAMOUS ON MTO WITH THE WRONG ONE!!!!!
BTW: YIKES??? (MY PIC IS INTENDED FOR LADIES) JUDGING A MANS PICTURE, HHMMMMMM I'M GLAD IM NOT YOUR TYPE....YOU PROBABLY LIKE LIGHT SKIN MEN....RIGHT...LIKE BORIS KODJO...I SUSPECTED YOU WORE THE PANTIES IN A RELATIONSHIP BY YOUR FIRST COMMENT....AND IM NOT THE ONLY ONE....TRUST ME....
YOU RAT AZZ WHORE..MIND YOUR BUSINESS..YOU SPEAK FOOLISHNESS EVERYTIME YOU POST SKUNK. ALL YOUR GOOD FOR IS SHOWING SOMEONE ELSES AZZ ON YOUR AVATAR...SHUT CHA FUKKIN MOUTH...YOU DIRTY AZZ WHORE...YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I TEACH MY DAUGHTER...I SEE YOUR HOE AZZ MOTHER TAUGHT U TO PERPETUATE THE OBJECTIFICATION OF WOMEN WITH YOUR LOW LIFE BUTTMAN COPIED MAGAZINE PIC....GO FEED YOUR ILLEGITIMATE KIDS....
NEXT TIME TRY HELPING YOUR FRIEND OUT BEFORE JUST LETTING HER GET HER BRAINS BLOWN OUT BY SOMEONE U KNEW WAS CRAZY....BUT YOU, LIKE PEPA WANNA TALK SHIIT AFTER THE FACT.... YOUR A SORRY AZZ SKUNK!!!!!YOU COULDNT EVEN HELP YOUR FRIEND BUT YOU TRYING TO HELP THIS H.OMO ON MTO????
I'm glad i'm making your day, you must be sitting with this portion of the site up waiting for a response from me. And since in your own words "IM NOT THE ONLY ONE...TRUST ME.." why are YOU the only person out of all of these comments that disagree with what I initially had to say. You were the one that came at me with the negative connotations. And no i'm not trying to get famous on MTO (because I already get accolades for what I do professionally) and the with the "wrong one", what is that suppose to mean? You internet thugs kill me. Like you're going to jump through the computer and come kick my A**..LMAO...Nah man i'm not gay, never have been never will be, BUT I DID SHOW YOUR PICTURE TO SEVERAL FEMALES AND TRUST ME...I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO THINKS YOU SHOULD LOSE THE PIC..
THANK YOU FIREBUNNY!! And it's pretty sad that this FAKE ASS NINJA dude is calling you out of your name calling you al types hoes and being disrespectful while raising a daughter. DAMN just to think the same names you are calling this WOMAN, someone will soon be calling YOUR DAUGHTER. And you can call me a HOMO or whatever you don't know me man, so it has no affect...
SO YOU SHARED MY PIC WITH YOUR FRIENDS WHO LIKE MOST GAY MEN ARE PROBABLY ALL FEMALES...MORE PROOF...STOP RIDING MY PIC/DIICK H.OMO....
REMEMBER YOU CAME OUT UR FACE AT ME...I DONT BOTHER ANYBODY ON HERE...BUT F.AGGOTS LIKE YOU AND WHORES LIKE FIREBUNNY COME ON MTO TRYING TO GET ATTENTION.....FUKK BOTH OF YOU BASTARDS....
LIKE I SAID YOU PICKED THE WRONG ONE....IMMA BOUT TO UNLOAD ON YOU....DAM... I CANT TALK TO YOU LIKE THAT CUZ U GONNA TAKE IT THE WRONG WAY...LOLOLOLOL....CLOWN AZZ DIICK RIDER....LMAO
Yeah very intelligent..and like I said you have a daughter? Damn I feel sorry for her to have an internet gangtsa who contributed to her conception, there is no way you are setting a good example for her spewing this kind of venom online. I picked the wrong one huh? WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO? PLEASE TELL ME WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO? Once again, no need to address the homo shyt, I'll let that ride because as I said before I know who and what I am. You're initimidated by me and my intelligence..BUT YEAH TEL ME WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO?
1. THE GREEK GOD ADONIS WAS A PRODUCT OF INCEST.
2. ACCORDING TO THE ANCEINT HISTORY HERODOTUS HE WAS ALWAYS FOUND SOCIALIZING WITH WOMEN. ESPECIALLY THE WOMEN OF THE MEDITERANIAN CITY OF LESBOS. AND YES LESBOS IS WHERE WE GET THE TERM LESBIAN.
3. THE PORNOGRAPHY TERM "GOING GREEK" (WHICH REFERS TO ANAL SEX) DERIVES FROM THE PRACTICE OF GREEK MEN HAVING SEX WITH EACH OTHER.
4. ROMAN CIVILIZATION DERIVED DIRECTLY FROM THE FALL OF THE GREEK CIVILIZATION AND CARRIED OVER MANY OF THERE TRADITIONS. SUCH AS ROMAN BATH HOUSES WHERE WOMEN WERE NOT ALLOWED.
5. ADONIS WAS A BISEXUAL.
WHY WOULD ANY REAL MAN NAME HIS SCREEN NAME AFTER THIS CHARACTER???
1. STOLEN LEGACY BY DR. GEORGE GM JAMES
2. AFRICAN ORIGINS OF EURPOEAN CIVILIZATIONS BY DR. IVAN VAN SERTIMA
3. THE WORKS OF HERODOTUS BY HERODOTUS
NOW PLEASE..... STOP BITTEN PILLOWS AND QUIT JERKING OFF TO MY AVATAR....
@ firebunny1 - Thank you! your words said it best!
No one knows what it's like to be in a situation like that (unless they have been there) - and no one should judge either way. Maybe it took her 10 years to finally be able to talk about it. I've also been in an abusive relationship - physical and verbal - and it is very painful, it's embarrassing and it mentally breaks you down.
and for the people that wonder why women stay in that type of situation (again, you don't know unless you've been there - and every situation is different, I'm sure) - but for me, my man was like two different people - the mean one and the sweet one - when he was mean, he was very controlling - and as soon as he would hit me, he'd apologize and cry and say he would never do it again..."I love you baby" - and for some reason - my dumba$$ still loved him (at least the sweet version!) so I stayed.
I wish Pepa the best. Even though she's been through a tough situation - hopefully it made her a stronger, better person having experienced that. Maybe now she can teach her son to respect women and teach him how not to become woman-beater.
THAT'S ALL YOU'LL EVER HAVE IS A GODSON CUZ H.OMOSEXUALS CAN'T REPRODUCE.. YOU PROBABLY HAVE YOUR FIGURE UP YOUR AZZ RIGHT NOW PULLING IT OUT TO TYPE AND GETTING SHIIT ALL OVER THE KEYBOARD NASTY AZZ BASTARD!!! YOU STINK...I AINT HEARD ONE MASCULINE OR INTELLIGENT FROM YOU YET...
"I SHUT YOU DOWN" "I SHUT YOU DOWN"......YOU SOUND STUPID, AND DESPERATE.....I BET YOU WONT MAKE NO MORE COMMENTS TA ME....ADONIS....STILL A HISTORICALLY H.OMO'S NAME....WHY AM I ARGUING WITH A GUY WHO THINKS IM CUTE....I'M OUTTA HERE......BUT I WONT TURN MY BACK ON YOU....U KNOW WHY OF COURSE.....LMAO.....LAME DO DO CHASIN THONG WEARING HERB.....
Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're an idiot and all of your comments show proof. If calling me a homosexual makes your day, i'm glad I could bring a smile to that UGLY ASS FACE, LMAO! You're wack, and based on the looks of it TOO OLD to playing internet gangsta. You said you have a daughter, go play with her, instead of infecting MTO, with your stupidity.2558
This is why this subject is so taboo. People's lack of understanding of the psychological damage that takes place in one who has been 'battered'. Domestic violence is a form of control for the abuser. I know, I'm a survivor. STOP THE VIOLENCE!
You didn't mention ---the phase "platonic relationship" actually refers to the greek philosopher Plato who was gay too.
Anyway. I want to ask the ladies on this board With the abusive relationships, painful as they might have been..where there any signs that the guy was going to beat you and threaten you? Was there any thing you did to feed into this? Did you already know how the guy was cut, but you thought that you would be the one that would "change" him and he would never do it to you? I am not being a smart a$$ I am being serious.
as far as pepa goes, I don't want to see any woman beaten on. There have been many times I had to stop guys from hitting women ( I have been a bouncer in my past). I won't hit a woman. I would Kill her with my strength
Pep needs her wild ass tamed she is off the hook and needs to be tamed come on yall seen the show she to old to be actin all loose like that its embarrassing
atleast I am embarrassed for her. She needs to settle down shes playin herself
Kids are NOT an excuse to stay an abusive relationship... That should be your excuse not to stay... You staying with a nut is only going to mess your child up.. I'd take agreat single parent over 2 messed up fools anyday...
Side note... I pushes every last one of my husband's buttons and he probably can take me if we get into a fight but he bet not go to sleep!!!!
AND... there are warning signs...
Went to my friend's house and went to walk by her bedroom door and had to do a double take... her boyfriend (later her husband) had punched a hole in her door... straight through the damn door!!!
I said Hell to the NO!! I said to her "your head is next, you need to put his tail out". Of course she didn't listen... and you know the rest.
That is messed up because he should have never abused her physical or not physical. Abuse is very wrong and it is NOT ok. I thought Treach was sweeter than that. They should have witness the physical stuff that he use to do to her too.
Most of these black women like Pepa and T Boz are always looking for a thug (whom they consider to be real men) and when they end up getting their behind wooped daily they always crying victim. Pepa never wanted a decent man, at least Mary J Blige, and Pepa's friend Salt wised up before they hit wall.
Wow, I can't help but wonder what Treach's reaction to this is. If anything he should feel some guilt. Pepa did the right thing by telling her story, and I'm glad she was able to break free from the abuse. Maybe she can be a motivation for other women in a similar situation.
I KNEW HE WAS WHOOPIN HER ASS SHE TALKED ABOUT IT IN S2S MAG BACK IN LIKE 98 WHEN SHE WAS PREG WITH EGYPT AND AFTER HER AND THEY MARRIAGE LAST LIKE LESS THEN A YR HE ABUSED HER ASS HELL HE LOOKS ABUSIVE...
What I don't understand is why some of you are accusing her of doing this for publicity, money, or to make him look bad. She made it clear that she is not trying to do any of that. She stated that she hopes he is a different/better person than he was when he abused her. She even gave him credit for being a great father. That doesn't sound like a woman who is out to make a man look bad. Her writing this book is just part of her healing process. I say more power to her and other women that rise above the abuse.
@AllaboutmeWill......Look like the fumes in that Water Closet you posin' in, has phucked up your thinking!
FIRST OF ALL muthaphucker, just as you have the right to express your asinine opinion on a public forum, so the phuck do I!!! I repeat....ANY BYTCH FOOLISH ENOUGH TO TAKE PUNCHES ON SEVERAL OCASSIONS, NEEDS TO CHECK HERSELF". We all know about the psychological profile of an "abused woman", you aint teaching nuthin bro, which is why if she's too weak too do something herself then she should seek help ASAP!! So her children don't grow up seeing that daddies can beat down on mommies any day of the week, if they felt like it. 'Cause Dr. Phil (AKA, AllaboutmeWill), we know that muthaphucking cycle continues.
BTW...Aint nobody buying your "new man" bullshit round here. You need to find you a dating site, so you can pluck one of those "unstable" chiquitas and she can listen to your crap all day, instead of using up the yarns on this thread
SOMETHING ABOUT THIS JUST SAYS LAIR I MEAN SHE WOULD DO TRHIS LIKE OKAY HER SHOW DOESNT AIR UNTIL NEXT YEAR SHE'S BORED THERE ARE NO MORE SHOWS SHE CAN GO ON AN THERE NOTHING FOR HER TO DO SO WHAT ELSE BUTY TO SAY HEY I CAN TELL ALL I MEAN HE DID GRAB ME THOSE TIMES..AWWWW YAWN
I KNOW A MAN PUTTING HIS HANDS ON ANYWOMAN IN ANY WAY IS WRONG BUT SHE PUSHING IT
I EAN WAY BACK WHEN EVRYTIME WE SAW HER SHE WAS PICTURE PERFECT SKANK SO WHATS THE PROBLEM NOW 10 YEARS LATER
LOOKING BACK I THINK EVERYONE PUTS UP WITH SOME CRAP IN THEIR LIVES ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG AND THINK THEY ARE IN LOVE. WE GROW UP AND REALIZE DIFFERENT. SHE SAID IT IS WHAT IT IS. AND PART OF HEALING IS ADMITTING THINGS SO YOU CAN FINALLY MOVE ON. SHE'S PROBABLY IN HER 40'S TRUST IT WOULD NOT HAPPEN NOW. YOU ARE A COMPLETELY DIFFERNT PERSON WHEN YOU ARE 20 AND WHEN YOU ARE 40 MIND, BODY & SOUL. WISH HER THE BEST
PUT YOUR PIC UP...SEVERAL WOMEN ON HERE WHO CHOOSE TO REMAIN ANONYMOUS SAY YOU SOUND LIKE A FAT GUY WHO'S PROBABLY IN THE CLOSET.....
INTERNET GANGSTAS THREATEN PEOPLE ONLINE...I HAVE NOT ONCE THREATENED YOU, ONLY EXPOSED YOUR CLOSET GAYNESS AND SHOT HOLES IN YOUR BASELESS RHETORIC!! YOUR ANALYZING MY PIC....FOR WHAT? MY PIC SPEAKS FOR ITSELF...GET OFF MY D.ICK..YOU SAID YOU WERE BORN IN 1978 THAT MAKES YOU 30 YEARS OLD...NOW WHO'S TOO OLD TO BE PLAYING ON THE INTERNET....
BTW PLEASE TYPE ONE SENTENCE THAT SHOWS YOUR JUST NOT SOME IGNORANT CLOSET-CASE TRYING TO GET ATTENTION....I HOPE THEY WATCH YOU AROUND YOUR "GODSON" ADONIS CUZ YOU TYPE LIKE YOU MAY HAVE PEDOPHILE TENDENCIES....AND U PROBABLY SUGGESTED THEY NAME HIM THAT KNOWING FULL WELL WHAT THE NAME MEANS...I HOPE I RUINED YOUR WEEKEND...YOUR PROBABLY TOSSING AND TURNING RIGHT NOW...SAYING, " I HATE THAT STUPID UGLY FINE AZZ CHOCOLATE N.IGGA CNINJA....LAMO....GAY PEOPLE ARE FUNNY...NOW I SEE WHY ALL THE GIRLS HANG AROUND WITH YALL....LOLOLOLOL
THIS IS ONLY ENTERTAINMENT FOR ME....YOU LOOKING FOR A HUZZZZZBAND....LMAO AT YOU...
BYTCH are you serious....I just read your comments and I don't even know what you just said because it sounds like blah blah blah!!!!....At the end of the day you ARE entitled to ur dumb azz opinion no matter how insensitive as it may be....Have a wonderful weekend....;)
Lemme give some insight as to why celebs write tell-all books about themselves or others...because they want us to know that we are just like them except they have more money and more fame. They get their asses kicked by their men, get nasty diseases, cry and stay up all night waiting for them to come home, argue, etc. just like normal everyday people. Of course a lot of it is for more money and exposure, but some of it may be to let you know that all that glitters aint gold and not to hold them to a higher standard or put them up on pedestals; their shyt stinks too !!! Case and point...The Way It Is, Keyshia Cole's show. How many of us either have people like that in our families or know folks like that? Ok, she made a lick off of it but damn...that is her reality as a platinum-selling celeb. I'm glad Pepa as well as any woman is able to get out of an abusive relationship with her life and dignity and live to tell about it.
Just because U slap ah bitch doesn't make U an abuser. She deserved it and he didn't fuck her up to the point of sending her to the ER. She thought she was tough so she got put in her place. Shut ya mouth and know ya role bitches!
@ c Ninja
Several women my dyck, man you aint talk to no one about me, and if you did so what. Nah dude you could NEVER ruin my weekend, it should be the other way around since I completely SHUT YOUR STUPID A** down post after post. And there's no need for anyone to watch me around my godson, if anything someone needs to watch you around your daughter, lets hope she doesn't grow up to be the SMUT you are. You're a funny dude, if labeling me gay or fat (which i'm neither) is the best you can come up with try again ugly.
PEPA TRIPPIN LIKE I SAID BEFORE SHE WANT ATTENTION SHE BORED AN SHE AN RICH SHE SURBURBAN LIVING AN SHE WANT TO BE BEVERLY HILLS LIVING
SO SHE WRITE A BOOK IT SELL AN THEN HER SHOW AIR THEN SHE BACK ON THE MARKET THE THE SHOW STOP AN KARRINE "SUPERHEAD" STEFANS COMEOUT WITH A THRIED BOOK THAT TOP HERS PROBABLY CALLED OMEGA HEAD RAGS TO BITCHES:WHY I HOE THEN SHE GONE GET BORED SPEND ALL HER MONEY THEN SHE GONE RE-LEASE ANOTHER BOOK CALLED MY LIFE AS PEPA
THE BITCH IS TRIPPING AN YALL KNOW IT
I BET YOU WERE WAITING ALL NITE TO SEE IF I WOULD RESPOND TO U HUH.....LOLOLOLOL....YOU BETTER NOT EVER POST NO WHERE ON THIS SITE AGAIN....CUZ IMMA EXPOSE YOU EVERYTIME I SEE YOUR COMMENT....PROMISE....YOU WILL NOT BE THE FIRST PERSON I RAN OFF MTO......
ONLY A CHICK SHOULD BE TALKING ABOUT IF IM CUTE OR NOT.....I COPIED EVERYTIME YOU SAID IT SO I WILL POST IT EVERYWHERE YOU COMMENT.....LOLOLOLOL..WHAT A CLOWN YOU ARE....I SERIOUSLY CANT STOP LAUGHING AT YOU....PLEASE PLEASE CALL ME UGLY AGAIN....AND THROW IN ANOTHER "I SHUT YOU DOWN"......YOU WERE BORN IN 1978 AND 30 YEARS LATER YOU GET DEADED FOR TRYING TA FLIRT WITH ME......
TELL THE TRUTH, YOU WERE UP ALL NITE WEREN'T YOU...MAD AS HELL I BET...GUESS YOU SHOULD HAVE STAYED IN COLLEGE AND DROPPED OUT AFTER 3 WEEKS...BTW WHERES YOUR FAKE PIC HAVING WHORE WHO ENDORSED YOUR FOOLERY....
PUT YOUR PIC UP......IM IN MY OFFICE PASSING TIME WHERE ARE YOU??? PROBABLY BLEEDING FROM YOUR AZZHOLE IN SOME DIRTY MOTEL IN NEWARK...
BTW I KNOW YOU READ MY POST ALL THE TIME....SO U CLEARLY KNOW I'M EDUCATED, THAT BEING SAID WHAT EXACTLY CAN YOU TEACH A CHILD? WHAT HAVE YOU EVER DONE TO HELP SOMEONE HELP THEMSELVES? CAN YOU TEACH A CHILD ABOUT SELF-RESPECT, DIGINITY, HONOR, THE IMPORTANCE OF KNOWLEDGE OF SELF, PROPER PLANNING, DISCIPLAN? I BET YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A "GOD PARENT"...YOUR PROBABLY SOME HOMOSEXUAL CHOIR DIRECTOR IN SOME CHURCH IN JERSEY THAT HAS NEVER EVEN READ THE 66 BOOKS IN THE BIBLE.....BUT YOU'LL READ ALL MY WORDS ON MTO, AND ALL I DO IS SHYT ON YOU.....GO FIGURE...
YOU BETTER LEAVE ME ALONE BEFORE I MAKE YOU KILL YOURSELF....AND LEAVE ADONIS ALONE HES JUST A CHILD FOR HEAVENS SAKE.....PERV....
YOU PHUCKING FAKE ASS WANNA BE MARTIAL ARTIST YOU CAN SUCK A DICK FOR ALL I CARE. FOR YOU TO JUDGE ME WITHOUT KNOWING ME MAKES ME TRUELY BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE THE JACKA S S I THOUGHT FROM THE START. LET ME SET YOUR IGNORANT A S S STRAIGHT FIRST OF ALL I DO NOT HAVE ANY CHILDREN. 2ND YA MUTHA IS A PHUCKIN WHORE AND YOUR DAUGHTER WILL BE ONE TOO. 3RD BELIEVE IT OR NOT I AM HIGHLY EDUCATED UNLIKE YOUR DUMB A SS LOOKING UP BIG WORDS TO USE IN A DICTIONARY JUST SO YOU CAN SOUND "INTELLIGENT". B I T C H I WORK IN PUBLIC SAFETY AND I SEE THIS KIND OF SHIT ON THE REGULAR AND TO ANSWER YOU IF I WAS DOWN HERE WHEN MY FRIEND GOT KILLED THERE WASN'T A DAMN THING I COULD HAVE DONE. IM NOT SUPERMAN AND I DAMN SURE CAN'T STOP NO BULLET. YOU CAN TELL SOMEONE WHO IS BEING ABUSED TO LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP OVER AND OVER AGAIN BUT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT IT'S UP TO THEM TO LEAVE. I DID MY PART AS A FRIEND SO F U C K WHAT YOU TALKIN ABUOT YOU WERE NOT THERE ON THE NIGHTS SHE ASKED ME TO COME GET HER I WAS. YOU WERE NOT THE ONE WHO SHOULDER SHE CRIED ON WHEN SHE WAS HURTING I WAS.YOU WERE NOT THE ONE WHO OFFERED HER A PLACE TO STAY I WAS. SO SHUT THE FU CK UP. YOU ON HERE CALLIN PEOPLE WHORE AND HOMO'S AND SHYT LIKE THAT BUT YOU LOOK LIKE THE PHUCKIN FAGGOT ON HERE SNAPPIN YOUR FINGERS AND ROLLIN YOUR NECK TRYIN TO ARGUE BACK AND FORTH WITH PEOPLE. AND FOR YOU TO SAY MY COMMENTS ARE ALWAYS IGNORANT MUTHAPHUCKA PLEASE CAUSE VERY RARELY DO I COMMENT ON THE WEBSITE. UNLIKE YOU I DO HAVE A LIFE AND I DO HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO THAN ARGUE BACK AND FORTH WITH SOME UGLY ASS KOBE TEENAGE MUTANT "NINJA" TURTLE LOOKIN A S S MUTHAPHUCKA LIKE YOU. KARMA IS A BITCH AND BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY THE SAME WAY YOU DISRESPECT ME PLEASE BELIEVE YOUR DAUGHTER WILL RECEIVE IT TEN TIMES WORSE YOU PHUCKIN PIG. AND BY THE WAY HOW THE HELL DO YOU KNOW THATS NOT MY PIC? HOW DO YOU KNOW THA TMAYBE SOMEONE ELSE HAS USED MY PIC FOR THEIR OWN PURPOSE. DO YOU KNOW ME? NO YOU DONT SO HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU SAY THAT IS NOT ME? GET YOUR FACTS TOGETHER BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND MAKE YOURSELF LOOK LIKE AN EVEN BIGGER A S S. DONT GET MAD CAUSE YA GIRL AINT HOLDIN LIKE ME .... IT TAKES TIME TO GET ON MY LEVEL WHEN YOU GET THERE HOLLA AT PUNK A S S BI T CH. SUCK A DICK THAT JUST CAME OUT OF A BLOODY P U SS Y. YA FAGGOT.
WASSUP FIREBUNNY? THANK YOU FOR SETTING THIS IGNORANT ASS PERSON (I WON'T CALL HIM A BROTHER OR MAN) STRAIGHT! He's sick and insted of playing with his alledged "daughter" he's online accusing people of being gay or a hoe. In his last post he stated:
"YOU BETTER NOT EVER POST NO WHERE ON THIS SITE AGAIN....CUZ IMMA EXPOSE YOU EVERYTIME I SEE YOUR COMMENT....PROMISE....YOU WILL NOT BE THE FIRST PERSON I RAN OFF MTO......"
How JUVENILE..lol! Yo he has some serious issues. And no cares what you look like, you probably wish someone (female or MALE-because you keep pushing the gay thing you fit the bill to be DL) was looking at you. No said a THING about how "cute" you were, I asked you to take that blurry/horrible pic down. And nah I don't live in Newark a**hole, nor am I in a choir, you have serious issues fake ass Bruce Leroy eating fried chicken with chopsticks muthaf*cka
@FIREBUNNY1 (LOCAL PROSTITUTE)
YOU PIC STEALING WHORE!!! EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT;S NOT YOU SKUNK....I DIDN'T EVEN READ WHAT YOU POSTED.....LMAO...YOUR AN IDIOT...WHAT SCHOOL TAUGHT YOU TO EXPLOIT THE AZZ OF ANOTHER WOMAN INSTEAD OF YOUR MIND??? SOUNDS LIKE THE ONLY SCHOOL YOU WENT TO WAS FLAVOR OF LOVE'S CHARM SCHOOL......I LEARNED THIS FROM MY WHITE COLLEGUES....YOU DUMB C.UNT....I FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR "FRIEND" IT SEEMS THEY ALL ARE DYING FROM LACK OF HELP FROM YOU.....
YOU MUST JUST BE GETTING OFF THE H.OE STROLL, OR YOUR WHIPPING YOUR AZZ IN A SLEEZY MOTEL WITH INTERNET ACCESS....IMMA FIND THAT PIC AND PUT IT HOOKER....LMAO
Actually it looks like YOU HAVE THE HIV it looks like you're showing the signs of "wasting" in your face. Call me what you want you're childish..I can't stress it enough that i feel sorry for your daughter of a B*TCH*SS*IGGA, some example you setting.
MY NUTS ARE ASKING IF U WOULD STOP SWINGING FROM THEM....IS THAT A REASONABLE REQUEST?
SINCE YOU LIKE BUTT HOLES...WHY DONT YOU GO FUKKK THAT PROSTITUTE (HOEBUNNY1) WHO JUST WATCHES HER FRIENDS GET KILL AND THEN TALKS ABOUT THEM ON MTO...SHE SOUNDS LIKE AN ANAL QUEEN AND SINCE YOUR A QUEEN........
I DIDN'T WANT TO INSULT YOU, BUT YOU CAME OUT YOUR FACE AT ME FOR NO GOOD REASON AT ALL. SCROLL UP YOU'LL SEE MY ORIGINAL COMMENTS WERE NOT INFLAMATORY TO ANYONE ON MTO. I HAVE A RIGHT TO MY OPINION ABOUT PEPA'S "TELL ALL" BOOK. YOUR OPINION IS NO GREATER THAN MINE NOR MINE YOURS. WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO THROW E-ROCKS I THROW E-BRICKS. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A SERIOUS ISSUE IN AMERICA. YOU AND THAT OTHER GUY BOTH ATTACKED FIRST....FOR WHAT? HE GAVE YOU THE RIGHT TO SAY WHOSE COMMENT IS VALID AND WHOSE IS NOT. I WILL ALWAYS DEFEND MYSELF FROM ELECTRONIC ATTACKS FROM ANYONE! I'M EDUCATED BUT MY ENVIRONMENT TAUGHT ME TO SPIT FIRE WHEN NEEDED....
@AllaboutmeWill (AKA. Dr. Phil).....Oh come on, are you now claiming to be a simple minded muthaphucker? LOL.
At least you now understand the concept of a public forum, on an entertainment website. You looking for sensitivity bro, you need to take yo ass to Oprah's forum and save us the need to scroll down for 10 mins, just to get past your shyte! LOL.
Imma have me a great weekend thanks and I wish the same for you. You may wanna change your avi photo, as that Bidet you posing next to, is not a good look! LMAO.
@cninja and anyone else who is on a need to know basis............................................ LOOK FOR THE NEW AVITAR. TRUE INDEED THAT IS NOT ME, BUT WHO'S TO SAY THAT THAT IS YOU? I DONT HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE SWEETY AND SINCE IT IS SO OBVIOUSLY PLAIN TO SEE THAT YOU ARE SO INTRIGUED TO KNOW WHO I AM YOU CAN CHECK BACK LIKE I SAID ONCE THEY APPROVE MY AVITAR AND SEE REALLY WHO FIREBUNNY1 IS. JUST SO YOU KNOW IM NOT MAD AT'CHA. THIS IS A PUBLIC SITE AND EVERYBODY IS ENTITLED TO SAY WHAT EVER THEY WANT.
FIREBUNNY YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTER. You don't have prove ANYTHING to an A** like cNinja. Like I said many posts before this one, he's an internet thug, that has nothing else better to do with his time but pick fights with people and resort to calling folks names, he's childish. Enjoy your weekend sis, and bother to donate anymore energy to that A**WIPE...:)
i remember on the salt n pepa show they did with Iyanla Vanzant at the camp and pepa admitted to being in abusive relationships and men hurting her coming up in an abusive household myself by a stepfather and watching my mama go through it, it affects everyone big time so dont talk about her that's not rite
THANK YOU BUT I FELT THE NEED TO PROVE HIM IM NOT WHAT HE MAY THINK I AM. ITS PEOPLE LIKE HIM THAT MAKES A WOMAN LIKE ME NOT EVEN WANT TO DEAL WITH MEN. HERE WE DISCUSSING A BLACK FEMALE BEING DISRESPECTED BY HER HUSBAND AND HERE HE IS ON LINE DISRESPECTING ME . IV BEEN IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BEFORE AND WHEN HE STARTED TALKIN ALL THAT WHORE THIS AND THAT I KINDA TOOK IT PERSONAL BECAUSE PEOPLE GO YEARS AND SOME EVEN TAKE IT TO THE GRAVE ABOUT BEING ABUSED BEFORE THEY TELL ANYONE IF ITS NOT ALREADY NOTICEABLE AND FOR HIM TO SAY WHAT HE SAID IT PISSED ME OFF. BUT ANYWAY I WILL TRY TO ENJOY MY WEEKEND..... PULLING TWELVE HOUR SHIFTS THIS WEEKEND:(
OK LET ME SAY SAY SOMETHING,
OK I HAVE A GOOOD GIRLFRIEF THATS GOING THRU THIS MESS HER HUSBAND IS VERY CONTROLLING SHE IS SCARED TO FEALTH OF THIS MUTHAF*CKER, HE HAD NOTHING BEFORE THEY HOOKED UP NO CLOTHES, NO JOB, NOT EVEN A PLACE TO CALL HOME YOU DIG ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
THIS DUDE FOUND HEAVEN AND IS TAKING COLD ADVANTAGE OF HER. HE TELLS HER WHAT TO DO AND WHEN TO DO IT, EVERY BODY IS TALKING ABOUT THEM
SHE HAS TO ASK HIM FOR PERMISSION TO DRIVE HER ON TRUCK, SHE CAN'T GO ANYWHERE WITH OUT TAKING HER KIDS WITH HER, SHE CAN NOT BUY HERSELF ANY NEW CLOTHES (THRIFT STORE) ONLY HE BEAT HER AZZ
ANYWHERE IN FRONT OF ANYBODY, HE HAS TOTAL CONTROLL OVER HER..
SHE'S TOLD ME SEVERAL TIMES SHE WANTS LEAVE, SHE'S NOT HAPPY BUT IF SHE WANTED TO LEAVE SHE WOULD PERIOD, I USE TO FEEL SORRY FOR HER NOW I DON'T BECAUSE IF YOU ARE CRAZY ENOUGH TO GIVE SOMEONE THAT MUCH POWER AND AUTHORITY OVER YOU THEY OUGHT TO BEAT THE SH*T OUT OF YOU.
*** YUP I SAID IT TOO ***
I MUST SAY THAT WHEN A WOMAN IS IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP IT TAKES A TOLL ON HER NOT JUST PHYSICALLY BUT MENTALLY...BUT PLEASE LETS NOT GET THINGS TWISTED AND SAY THAT SOME MAY HAVE STAYED FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS!!! BECAUSE WE ALL KNOW THATS BS...THE KIDS DO NOT WANT TO SEE THEIR PARENT GET ABUSED PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY..NOW DO THEY? HELL NO...JUST AS A CHILD LEARNS TO TIE HIS SHOE BY WATCHING YOU DO IT, IS THE SAME WAY A CHILD LEARNS HOW TO PICK UP ABUSIVE PATTERNS..A WOMAN THAT HAS LOW SELF OF ESTEEM AND NO SELF RESPECT WILL STAY UNTIL "SHE IS TIRED" IT'S ALL ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU LOVE "YOURSELF" AND "KNOWING YOUR SELF WORTH" LADIES WE NEED TO HELP AND UPLIFT ONE ANOTHER ....AND FOR THE "BOYS" OUT HERE BEATING ON WOMAN PLEASE THE NEXT TIME YOU GO TO HIT A WOMAN IMAGINE YOU BEATING YOUR MOM DOWN.
@ Mzspoiled1- well said.
Regarding Pepa's biography- I am glad she has the courage to finally come forth and put a rest to the rumors. Its good for her healing and hopefully will give others courage to get out as well.
I am not exactly sure how you can LOOK like you'd bust some arse becauase anyone who gets with someone who LOOKs like that is a fool.
I think Treach is sexy as hell, but the rumors alone keep him out my steamy dreams at nite.
Go for yours Pepa, I will be reading it.
@AllaboutmeWill...Once again, (an’ imma say this slowly) this is a PUBLIC FORUM of a CELEBRITY GOSSIP SITE, people come here to be entertained, therefore, personal photos and sensitivity training, is NOT necessary. (jeez! thought we been through this shyte already??!)....And for the record, it don’t matter how good you think you look, you’re NOT rocking that bidet.LOL......You obviously wanna appeal to those “wounded” sisters, so you need to step up your game and show more class. LOL.
Now, I’ve already wasted far too much time on your ass with this subject, so this is the last conflab I’ll indulge with you. Aint nuthin personal bro. God bless and be happy!
BOOOOOOO!!! I hate when they come out after that fact and she is still making excuses.No respect for her , How about you leave his AZZ the first time he did that.. and report it then.
How convenient now when you need to sell a book and make money.
YOU ARE DELUSIONAL! YOU ARE AN ATTENTION SEEKER WHO THROWS SUCKER PUNCHES THEN TRYS TO PLAY THE VICTIM WHEN CONFRONTED....JUST BECAUSE I WHOOPED YOU INTELLECTUALLY WITH AN ARAY OF VERBAL LASHES DOES NOT MAKE ME A BULLY NOE "INTERNET THUG" (LMAO), IT JUST MAKES EVERYONE SEE HOW WEAK YOU ARE. TRUST ME, YOU HAVE NO SUPPORT HERE...I'VE NEVER SEEN U IN A POLITICAL POST OR ANYTHING OTHER THAN GOSSIP...YOUR A LOSER..I'M SURE YOUR WEEKEND WAS SPENT ANALYZING MY PIC AND SEEKING COMFORT FROM FRIENDS AFTER I CLEARLY TRAUMATIZED YOU....AND EVERYBODY KNOWS IT...EVERYBODY SEES IT....
I WAS GONNA HAVE MERCY ON U IN THE FUTURE AND LET U LIVE...BUT SINCE U WONT SHUT UP...I PROMISE I WILL HOUND YOU AND REPOST ALL YOUR BISEXUAL COMMENTS TOWARDS ME EVERYTIME I SEE YOU COMMENT....I AM RELENTLESS.....
(in my tony montano voice)
" YOU WANNA PLAY WIT ME, HUH, U WANNA PLAY RUFF???"
YOU ARE AN E-DEAD MAN....NOW YOUR A TARGET TO ME...I WILL BURY YOU...U WILL NOT BE THE FIRST PERSON I PUT IN THE MTO GRAVE YARD...BANG BANG...LOLOLOLOLOL
I'M TRYING TO LET YOU LIVE MA..I COMPLIMENTED YOUR REAL PIC ON ANOTHER POST...BUT IF I SEE ANOTHER POST WHERE YOUR TALKING RECKLESS TOWARDS ME...IMMA GET BACK ON YOU MAMA.....THIS TIME I WONT BE NICE....THAT LITTLE DIPSHIIT U WAS TAG TEAMING ME WITH IS E-DEAD...U GONNA WANT TO STEER CLEAR OF HIM.....
MANE THIS IS ACTUALLY OLD NEWS LIKE FOREAL. SHE BEEN TOLD THIS STORY. MTO JUST TRYING TO MAKE IT SEEM LIKE SHE RECENTLY REVEALED THIS FOR THE FIRST TIME. SHE HAS TOLD THIS STORY BEFORE. GET YOUR FACTS STR8 MTO
@Carmel908....IF u really from the 908 then u aint far from Newark..unless thats ya celly then u mite be in Newark. There are abusive men everywhere. And if a guy hits a woman he's not a man but yet a boy. And that right there should encourage women to get some self-esteem and stop being insecure where they dont have to settle for abusers, baby daddys with atleast 2 baby mommas before the age 25, lazy job-less sorry for an exccuse male. No disrespect to you just standing up for my jersey men even if some of them are dogz.
YUCK! Most of your responses and lack of sympathy disgust me, especially the women's.
19 y/o Na'lisha Gravely was chased into a Taco Bell and shot six times by her boyfriend and child's father on July 5, 2008. She suffered five years of his abuse; from him stabbing her, shooting her a time before, pistol whipping her, choking her, breaking her nose, etc. She didn't stay because she LIKED IT. She stayed because she loved and feared this man at the same time.
Women who suffer physical abuse at the hands of the man they love risk a 75% greater chance of being murdered when they leave their abuser. So, save all the bashing and negative comments for someone else.........NOT A WOMAN WHO IS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. Matter of fact, keep your ignorant, uneducated comments to your-damn-self. People, especially the women, who made comments and remarks like you all have, are the reason why Na'lisha Gravely and women and young girls like her had no support system and no one to listen to them or help them.
And if Pepa wants to write about her story, then Pepa, write on sista. I promise you, her story will help A LOT of women out who are being abused by their man. And I guarantee you that your comments will never reach a soul and may just get your feelings hurt. Hope you people never need anyone to sympathize with you or listen to you. NO WOMAN DESERVES TO GET HER A** BEAT BY A MAN.
Quit questioning why a woman would put up with a man abusing her.............and never say never.......YOU could be that woman in that situation one day......no matter how strong you may claim to be. Educate yourselves before making foolish remarks on a situation that you are so ignorantly blind to. There is PLENTY of knowledge on domestic violence that you can learn from.