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awww!!! So refreshing 2 c a nikkah actually fuc*ing w/his kids... Y should u marry sum1 just cuz u have kids, I personally think dats da worst thing u can do! U end up resenting dat person and getting cheated on and sh*t all in 1! If she wanted him to wifey her den she shoulda made dat clear b4 she went havin his babies and letting him run up in it raw!! If he dont wanna marry her...o well!! Worry bout who da fuc* u marrying MTO! dizzamn
Why is everyone so overjoyed that he's spending time with his kids? That's what fathers are SUPPOSED to do. What we're supposed to give Lebron some kind of medal? A father spending time with his children, supporting them, educating them and instilling values in them should be the RULE and not the EXCEPTION in our culture. Maybe next he can work on making an honest woman out of his girlfriend.
It's 2009 folks, enough with this baby mama ***, it's getting really old.
yeah it's messed up how he can love her enough to have kids with her but not marry her...that means that she's not "officially" his woman. i mean how can man sleep with a woman, produce a child and then not be there. it is extremely important for the child to have two parents in the home. do your research. when a child in born into a split situation the results are usually not good. men need to be responsible for their actions. that's why most men are losing respect and don't know it. also it's why most men are not progressing as a man. fatherhood is VERY DEEP.
@ badyellabroad
Exactly!
@ mkef9779
If Lebrons gilfriend & women in general are big on being wives, then they need to make sure they get the ring before they have children. o you blame men for not marryng women sometimes? We give them to much so why would they marry us. It's an old saying but it's true... "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free"! Ladies you do have a say so on how you're live works out. It's up to you to make sure you get treated the way you want & you get what you want & deserve!
@Melania I strongly agree. There is nothing special here. He has yet to marry this woman and they are still making babies. Being an exceptionally talented ball player sometimes photoed with his children does not equate to being a successful father. How pathetic to have to tell your children when they ask to hear the "how did you and mommy get together" story , because they WILL ask, he is a celebrity figure, a lot has been written and said about him and one day very soon his children will be reading about that and things like what we are saying on this blog. Perhaps before then, LeBron or his girlfriend will have figured out either they're in love and should marry or stay friends and go their own way. The ability to play basketball does not excuse one from participation in a civilized society so the children, however rich the father, how ever rich the mother would become, are at this time still ***.
wow, a black man with his children in the position of leadership,provider,and educator. we need more like him. i don't know much about him or the sport of bashetball,but i am overjoyed that this brother is there for his kids. he needs to go out and minister to black men about playing an active role in the lives of their children. there are far too many absent fathers in the black community today. i applaud this brother, i appreciate him,and i hope that his actions will inspire more black men to do the same.
THATS WHATS UP, SHARING BLACK HISTORY WITH THE LITTLE ONES.
AND WHO GIVE A *** IF THEY MARRIED OR NOT IF THEY ARE HAPPY AND RAISING THEIR FAMILY. HE SEEM LIKE A GOOD FAMILY MAN EVEN AT A YOUNG AGE. A RING DONT MAKE A RELATIONSHIP. WOULD YALL RATHER THEY BE MARRIED AND HIM TREATING HER LIKE *** LIKE MOST BALLERS, OR THEY JUST BE TOGETHER AND HIM TREATING HER GOOD. I WOULD RATHER A WOMAN BE WITH ME BECAUSE SHE WANT TO BE WITH ME, NOT BECAUSE SHE FEEL LIKE SHE GOT TO BECAUSE OF A RING AND A PIECE OF PAPER. PEOPLE BUY INTO THIS FANTASY WITH MARRIAGE AND ***. RING OR NO RING A RELATIONSHIP IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT.
Wow.. I draw the line at children, and I think it's cruel to call someone's children ***! They're children.. @ psi1 were you're parents married when they created you? If not do you condier yourself a ***? I'm all for marriage, and personally I don't do the baby mama thing which is why I made it a point not have children out of wedlock, so I don't have any. Honestly I'd rather people wait until they are ready to fully commit instead of getting married for children, becasue we know when people do this it doesn't work. What's most important is the fact that they have a healthy relationship with their father! Moreover in my opinion he doesn't need to get married right now. He's young, rich & he's an athelete. We all know what that life is like, and for those who will argue if he's mature enough to be a father he's mature enough to marry, one has nothing to do with the other. Ones ability to be a father to their children has nothing to do with being faithful to the person you're married to.
just because you have kids with someone does not mean you have to marry them. im a single mom and i had my daughter at 18. i made a choice to keep her despite the *** and now she is 7, well taken care of, i am in the career of my dreams and we are happy.her father and i was in love and all that *** but he changed his ways as a person and ended up selling drugs and joining a gang. are you telling me that i should have stayed with him and got married because we have a kid? that is a stupid logic that society is trying to brain wash into peoples heads.the most important thing is that the child is being taken care of whether it be by two parents or one it doesnt matter. and in Lebron's situation they live together, she is in college and they both are young and taking care of there kids so what difference does a ring make? married couples can be horrible parents too don't get *** twisted!! let them do them and you do you.........
oh and dont call the children *** how dare you? when you call them *** you call my daughter a *** as well since im not married and that does not sit too well with me at all!! wake up, times have changed and some people dont want the stress of marriage in order to be a parent and they *** be judged for it. Have you ever thought that maybe his girlfriend doesn't want to get married? there are alot of women including myself who don't want to jump the broom. think about that, let it marinate people........
I think marriage is a good idea, but not always a great idea. Just because you have one kid with a person, doe not mean you should marry the person. But also, if you have multiple kids with a person and the person doe not pop the question, then what does that say about you and the person relationship? They are young, they may marry later on.
