: MediaTakeOut.com got its hands on an Usher track. It was reportedly recorded in 2006, but didn’t make the cut onto his new album Here I Stand. It’s called Get Used To Her and it lets you in on just how much he loves his wife Tameka.
Call us nutso, but we’re actually warming up to those two as a couple….
Love, love the song! What a beautiful tribute to the woman that he loves. You can just feel the love. I think Tameka is an attractive woman. Some people may not agree. Yes, she is a chocolate woman but she has the same type of features as many lighter skin women that people are quick to say are "so pretty", i.e. Rocsi from 106. When are we going to, especially as women, learn to celebrate when a man loves a woman sincerely. Black love is a beautiful thing. Celebrate it - don't hate it.
THIS SONG IS GOOD USHER IS SINGING ABOUT HIS EX CHILLI NOT THAT MEN HE IS MARRED TO I CANT BELEVE THAT HE WANTS A BABY GIRL BY THIS WOMEN YOU KNOW THAT SHE CANT STAND LITTLE GIRLS and she will end up having other boy agian. dame ushet giveup on that dream of having a little girl your wife is getting old she jhust turn 41 in dec she cant have no more kids in that age usher you should cheat on her to have your little girl get a divorceaready get a new life move on. you know allllllllllllll of your fans cant stand that ***.and never will.youshould not but this song on your new cd it will bomb you should chage it right a way.
@sweetface......I'm a little confused. You may have a poing if you feel she doesnt care for little girls...I dont know whether thats true or nor...What I dont understand is your reasoning if she becomes pregnant again.....QUOTE "She will end up having other boy again" I dont see how she has any say in that matter..
All I have to say is why marry someone who does not have their kids? Is or was she that unfit? If she changed why don't she have all her children? If anything ever happens between them Usher needs to make sure that he's ready to be a single father. I don't care what her story is... looks like she's doing good enough to take care of all her kids. Women like that make me sick!!
I cosign dallasdiva78. I thought he was really lame for that move. It seems like she jus left her previous kids with her husband to start a new family with Usher, and for him to have kids with a chick who already had like 3 or 4 before she met him? IDK It seemed like he sold himself *** (especially being a celeb) Being that, I dont have kids, I wouldn't wanna marry no nicca that has like 3-4 and then they're not even taking care of them?!!! WTF??? But everyone is different. Anyway, I doubt anyone is gonna care about this song. He lost alot of his fan base when he married this ugly bytch
im gonna take a wild guess *** say whats in that song. Usher sings "she's like my momma, she is old *** takes good care of meeeeeeeee, breakfast in the mornings, clothes well ironed *** my lunch box is ready for me to goooooooo on tourrrrrrr! with a banana *** orange to keep me healthyyyyyy,,,ooouuuyyh yea"
ya know, she is not who i would have imagined him marrying, but at the end of the day they are married. and as fans, listeners, or just human beings, we should respect the sanctity of marriage.
it is so immature to wish someone would break-up when they already took their vows...wish them the best & keep it movin!
Thats crazy how all these UNCLE TOMS on here talking about how she look like a man. Why cause shes not mix looking or a white woman..
THAT WOMAN IS BEAUTIFUL AND NATURE LOOKING AND SHE MOST LIKELY A GREAT WOMAN.
You UNCLE TOMS would love for him to be with someone that is beautiful and thats it....GET A LIFE ***!!!!!!!!!!!
uSHER JUST REALLY NEEDS TO GET BACK IN THE STUDIO AND COME UP WITH A NEW SOUND, STOP AIMING FOR ALL THIS MATURITY AND MUSIC ABOUT YOUR WIFE AND PUT OUT SOME BANGERS.
HE TOOK TOO MUCH TIME OFF AND NOW THE MARKET IS SATUATED WITH HIS SOUND. B.COX AND JERMAINE DUPRI GIVING EVERYBODY THAT SOUND...SO NOW ITS TIME TO GET WITH SOME FRESH FACES AND NEW PRODUCERS...IF YOU PAY ATTENTION CHRIS BREEZY AND USHER WORK WITH THE SAME PRODUCERS...ITS TIME FOR TO SWITCH IT UP.
well,i'm not too fond of his wife. i don't dig her leaving her children. he loves her though,so let it be. at least he's not an infedel,which is uncommon for alot of men in the entertainment field. i respect him for that. his wife is actually very lucky to have someone like him,whether he has 500 million dollars or 5 dollars. his love is obviously pure and he's not going anywhere. i applaud usher for being a man and marrying the woman of his choice,and not just "shacking."
AM SURE all you lot arent teenagers..GROW UP! Done this track for some of you all i guess. How can you not like him for his mate choices its non of yr darn business, Who do you want him to be with ??? Chilly maybe what based on her looks who could have been a horrid person in private, just saying, Grow up how is she man lookin i dont see it buts thats what u think now let the man live i will still be listening trust cause that song is HOTTTTTT...and he is a better role model than most of these celebs anyway so haters kiss his *** roll with him or move over.
@Foxy90210, Sorry but Real Men date and marry REAL women. They don't take a woman from her children nor would a REAL man be with a woman would come willingly and leave her children behind . oh and Foxy90210, A REAL MAN treats his MOTHER like the Queen she is and always keeps her on a pedestal of love. Usher is a dressed up joke.
I AM SO TIRED OF HIM TRYING TO DEFEND HER.SHE IS HIS WIFE SO, WHO CARES? I KNOW I DON'T!! I JUST LOVE USHER MUSIC. TO ME HE'S TRYING TO CONVINCE HIMSELF AND, NOT PEOPLE OR HIS FANS. STARS GO THROUGH THIS ALL THE TIME. USHER IT'S UPSETTING YOU THAT PEOPLE NOT ACCEPTING HER. SO, YOU MUST HAVE SOME DOUBTS YOURSELF!!!MOVE ON!
@Chicagofinest1 I totally agree with you why is it that he is always talking about how much he loves his wife we know he love her cause if he didn't why would he marry her and for the most part i feel that he thinks if he say it enough then maybe just maybe he will start to believe it him self i am a huge Usher fan but this right here is really ruining the moment for me i like him being grown and sexy so the thoughts i have of him want be like im robbing the cradle...lol but Ush who are you trying to convince us or yourself...think about it
everybody are a bunch of *** hypocrits..
one minute we want someon to be married before having babies but when Usher pics a woman he is wrong for wifing her.
He should have told the fans ***!ss my azz!!!
Ya'll want these fake azz thugs who are on the screen fakin all the time. From the fake cars, women, and money in the videos. the whole industry is fake. Most guys try to hide their plain wives (snoop, ll Cool J, fat joe, denzel, that boy ja rule). You did not start seeing these guys others until recently and how longhave most of them been in the game? A bunch of fake men.
Hip hop always talking about being real when they the fakest in the world. Other countries listen and dogg our rap artist b/c we are a country based upon a bunch of ***. To the rest of the world america is one big Hollywood.
most of ya'll single and desperate for a man but gonna hate when another woman has man who will stand up for her against everyone. Dumb *** women and can't tell why their *** is still single. ya'll are confused as hell!!!!!
Tameka looks just like usher mom except skinnier face.
I hear exactly why this got cut even though it is a nice track. You are a male recording artist with a large female base you can't tell us to get used to some b/i/t/c/h.
"If you're used to me......" Usher please, we've been getting used to you since you were 14 this *** is new not to mention temporary.
Call me what you want but the divorce rate is high and the celebrity marriage is a joke. In a few years he won't even be married to her but guess what he'll still need his fans. Last time I checked wives didn't buy albums by the millions and sell out arenas. And with a ego like Ushers and as *** as he is he should have known better than to even record a track that might jeopardize that.
I can already see him now, explaining why his marriage failed. "Well you know a man is just a man and...temptation....and no ones perfect..... I'm a *** addict"
Celebrities kill me sometimes I swear. Just like when Kobe was on Mtv frontin and telling the ladies he was taken while showing off his wedding ring. Ha! Obviously that ring didn't mean s/h/i/t to him.
Ushers fan base hasn't moved on we're just let down by this album and its content and lack of lyrical variety. He was not just a big star. Usher was a ***. And like most he let the fact that pretty much everything he touched turned to platinum. Then started letting love guide his decision making.
What mega *** has it all? None. Prince Madonna Janet Whitney MJ (and soon Mariah). Ushers day will come and he will have to choose. Great personal life and mediocre career. Or unfulfilled personal life and outstanding career. One thing or the other is gonna have to take the back seat.
babyfat.....
Not desperate but yes single and by CHOICE (men are too much f/u/c/***/i/***/g work.) But anyway..... How is Usher any different from the men you listed? Because of this song? Girl don't take the bate. LMAO
If you want to call someone a hypocrite point your finger at every R and B singer that ever lived. R *** B is filled with the same things as rap. Just less profanity and smoother vibes. It's full of cheating and deception. Hip hop is just disrespectfully honest where R *** B is fronting like it's 'more for the ladies'. Listen more closely.
Again I say DON'T TAKE THE BATE.
@Foxy90210 my post was not directed to confuse but to indicate that real men wouldn't be with a woman who would be willing to leave her children because a real man would understand the importance of the mother. A woman with children already is a package deal and that package should be complete when delivered with just as much love. It's not a "take" situation but an indication of the type of person he is to be with someone who would leave their children willingly, and he was ok with it. I've seen your post before and there is little doubt in my mind that you are clearly in control of knowing who you are. I would not expect anything less from someone as intelligent as you. It is unfortunate that some of our gender lack the traits you so effortlessly infuse. MY hat goes off to YOUR mother, she did a great job!
you people on here are sad real sad the females really.ya'll talkig all this *** about his wife.so what if she got kids so because a women has kids that means that she has to be along for ever and if a female is older then a man then she definely cant get play.think about the stupid stuff that comes out your month 4-real she is a pretty black women who marryed a good blac man and you hateful miserable chicks cant even support taht im a black female but i have to be real and say some of you black women is a *** joke.