: For the past two years, MediaTakeOut.com has been reporting on the Chris Brown-Rihanna relationship. We’ve spoken to dozens of people who know the couple personally. And many of those that we interviewed have described the relationship between the two as EXTREMELY VOLATILE!!!
MediaTakeOut.com spoke with one insider who claims that R&B singer Rihanna has another side to her – that the public has never seen. The insider, who is of Caribbean-descent, explained, “Rihanna is a typical hot-blooded Caribbean girl, she doesn’t play games … One time she was angry at Chris and she [struck] him in the back of his head. I don’t think she was playing either.” The insider continued, “She’s also very jealous. She checks his phone like crazy and keeps him on lock.”
But Rihanna’s not the only one with anger management problems. As MediaTakeOut.com reported to you last year, Chris Brown isn’t afraid to let his fists fly either. As the below photo’s show, last year Chris Brown got into a brutal brawl at a German nightclub.
And there’s more. MediaTakeOut.com reported to you in 2007 that a South African woman claimed that Chris Brown “manhandled her”. Here’s an excerpt of that report:
According to a number of witnesses who spoke with MediaTakeOut.com, Chris Brown ran into [South African] actress Khanyi Mbau at the launch of The Real Goboza - a South African weekly entertainment show. And it was during that meeting that all the drama ensued.Finally, MediaTakeOut.com can also report that many people close to Chris were uneasy with his volatile relationship with Rihanna – including Chris’ mother. Tells one insider, “Chris’ mother didn’t like Rihanna for Chris. She felt that their relationship was too serious … and she worried that things could end badly.”Khanyi claims that during a conversation with Chris, the R&B singer grabbed her by the arm in an aggressive manner and asked that she go with him to his hotel room. The South African actress explains, "I tried to pull away but his grip was just too tight.”
That's when, according to the lovely actress, her manager came charging to the rescue. Mbau tells, "Malcolm [my manager] had to pull me away from Chris."
Unfortunately, she couldn’t have been more right.
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chris brown stated before that his dad used to physically abuse his mom. unfortunately, linking up with a chick with a negative disposition maybe causing him to resort back to familiar negative behaviors.
I hope they both get help because this is definitely not a healthy relationship for either one of them.
I have a lot of Friends from the Caribean and they are not afraid to beat their men! She seemed a little stalker-ish at the beginning of their relationship anyways. I hope this doesn't ruin Chris' image, he seemed like an ok kid. Not saying it was ok for him to put his hands on her, but if you give me an STD we going have some problems!!!!!!
IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW BAD HER TEMPER IS...IMMA WOMAN AND I'M GONNA SIDE WITH THE CHICK NO MATTER HOW SHE POPS OFF AT THE MOUTH...I BEEN HIT AND KNOW WHAT SHE'S GOING THROUGH..AND THESE PATHETHIC MOTHERS KILL ME TAKING UP FOR THEIR SONS..IF MY SON EVER HIT A WOMAN, IMMA TAKE HIS SORRY AZZ TO THE POLICE MYSELF...
NO EXCUSE for a man(bit*h) to hit a woman point BLANK. if a female hits u first that's what u have momma & sis ***'em for. say what u want but until it happens to u or someone u love u will never know how it feels. chris&rhi should just leave before its to late. to many women are killed by abusive men
Well done Chris, you've ruined your career. I was never a fan of yours but *** man, you've got to maintain your composure, especially being a black male in Hollywood. They're gonna love shredding your career to pieces. As the saying goes "They love to build you up and send you crashing back down." Or something like that.
Stupid people sit back and let sh!t happen.
All that time yall thinking she walking around mean looking ya cus he was probably busting her ***, forcing her to do things she didn't want too.
Don't blame her temper on being Caribbean she was getting fed up.
Only thing this article does is down play how Chris really is twards Rhi *** tries to make Rhi look like she's the one that cus's the beating pon herself. tsk tsk tsk
*** if the "Insider" kno's of the abuse - they both young - why didn't this come out b4 or the "Insider" make this aware to folks that can stop this from getting this far.
chris is a spoil brat, these celebrities or singers who have lots of money thinks they can behave any way they can. All he did was sing a few songs and thinks he's mr it. here he's in the club drawing all the attention to himself and acting like a two year old. I find almost all the celebrities and singers act like that, years ago a picture was taken of will smith spitting on a photograher and one of his kids did the same thing. Shannon daugherty also did it and the list goes on and on, these people think they are above the law.The law should deal with them like anyone else they should not be given preferential treatment
IKE *** TINA REVISITED. LOL. I SAID IT B 4 AND I''LL SAY IT AGAIN THOSE SWIRLIES R CRAZY.PUHLEEASE PEOPLE DONT DATE SWIRLIES, THEN DEM DA HELL ALONE, RHIANNA CANT SEEM 2 TAKE NO 4 AN ANSWER WHEN CHRIS BROWN WANTED 2 END THINGS,MARIAH CAREY WIT HER CRAZY *** CUTTING BOTH HER WRISTS *** SAYIN SHE AINT SUICIDAL, SHEMAR MOORE SAYS HE AINT *** BUT WALK AROUND NUDE ON A *** BEACH. LISA BONET, LEFT THE COSBY SHOW, ON OF THE TOP RATED FAMILY SHOWS OF ALL TIME TO FIND HERSELF, THOSE SWIRLIES HACE 2 MANY ISSUES *** PROBLEMS. STAY AWAY FROM THEM PEOPLE R U GET CAUGHT UP IN ALL THEIR *** *** DRAMA! LMAO
I'll put it like this. I'm a woman... but I have a brother. And if some chick is popping off at the mouth and decides to put his her hands on my brother I hope he smacks the *** out of her. Too many woman think its okay to hit men because they aren't suppose to hit back. NO. If you wanna jump out there like a man you better back it up. I'm not saying thats what happened here... I'm just saying the man isn't always the wrong one.
MTO is so funny. You all go from saying that they are such a GREAT couple to now saying how you all KNEW that it was a Volatile Relationship. PALEEEZ!
they cant go anywhere with causing a racus, not only chris but lots of them behaves like this, they love the attention, p diddy for example he can cause a riot wherever he goes and then wants to know why the police is touching him. what is wrong with these celebrity singers, the money and easy access to whatever they want just make them behave like animals.
@PRETTIELOUD..SPEAK GIRL...JUST CAUSE HE'S GOOD LOOKING DOESN'T MAKE HIM A GOOD.. I BEEN THERE..AND WHAT HAPPENED TO ME IN THE PAST MAKES ME MORE AWARE OF THAT "WIFE BEATER" VIBE...MY INTUITION WAS RIGHT ABOUT THIS GUY...HE HAS SERIOUS ANGER ISSUES...SHE SHOULD HAVE WALKED AWAY FROM THIS A LONG TIME AGO...AND MOST OF THE TIME, THE GUYS WITH THE BEST LOOKS ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE WORST ATTITUDES...
WHAT IS WRONG WIT HIM AHD HER?! HE IS IN THE PUBLIC EYE! I GUESS BOTH OF THEM HAS PROBLEMS! I FELT THE SAME WAY HIS MOTHER IS FEELING! THEY ARE TOO SERIOUS AT A YOUNG AGE! THEY ARE YOUNG! THEY NEED TO ENJOY THEIR YOUTH AND NOT SO INTO RELATIONSHIPS! THEY ARE GOIN TO WISH WHEN THEY DID WHEN THEY GET OLDER THAT THEY DIDNT! I WISH THEM ALL THE LUCK IN THE WORLD THOUGH!
***! Chris is CRAZY over African and Barbadian women. Whoa! RIRI doesn't seem innocent either. She's the type of woman that young men have to watch out for. She's so strikingly beautiful, tall and slim and I'm sure is hit on daily by various men. This will have a negative effect on their relationship.
Chris seems like he has anger problems though. He should seek counseling if his anger is uncontrollable as these reports claim.
This is what you KIDS think love is...having *** and arguments. Relationships take WORK and neither of these kids have time for this.
Neither of them has lived long enough to even be thinking this relationship is really important right now or going to last past this moment. All the world at their feet and they go and try to obligate themselves to the first person that gets they little draws tight. Have fun young'uns- you got time to live before you go and obligate yourselves to things that you won't remember when you're 30.
Abuse is serious, it leads to child abuse and suicide.
And Statements from clowns like the following are helping foolish men perform these act thinking its ok because the awards go to:
myxy - with: MANY BLACK WOMEN BE ASKING FOR A BEATDOWN WITH THEIR ATTITUDES. Thats the right attitude you fool.
ayejae - with: rihanna tried to lock down one of the hottest guys out there - stupid young bunkin.
121269 - with: rhihanna probly a f*ckin nuisance.lol - being a "f*ckin nuisance" means it's ok. wow
Statements reek dumb and young.
It's never ok, NEVER.
No matter how BIG MOUTH, ANNOYING or AN ATTITUDE gets to you - it doesn't make it ok to get struck, let alone hard enough to have bruising.
I seen her get Punked by *** and she was so calm even when the guy and kid was speaking to her rudely *** she didn't know a camera was there and she handled the situation at ease. I couldn't imagine her being a ruff neck in a relationship *** if so this should be regulated.
BADD - u wait for the second side - Rhi has a black eye and bruising. which side is ok for you the left black eye, or the right black eye.
It happened she has bruising, no matter what she said or did SHE HAS THE BRUISING.
IT DOESN'T MAKE IT OK FOR DUDES TO HIT OR THOSE BI-*** CASES GAIL TO HIT.
STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE A HIT HURTS AND CAUSES PAIN.
MzSlymm - atleast your brother is not putting his hands on ole girl.
Same should apply to a man - if dude is poppn off in your face or put his hands on you then use your BROTHER, UNCLE, FATHER and then THE POLICE to handle it for you. Don't be hush hush about it.
Its never ok for either to put they hands on either partner but if dude is doing it often then options need to be adjusted.
james007| "he can mishandle them african american ***"
Why you diss African Americans|Not every Black American put up with B|U|L|L|H|I|T| If you don't like us don't live or visit our country|Why y'all be stuck up in y'all African Stores in America? Y'all NOT better than us--that's why black people regardless from Africa or America will never get along because of petty B|U|L|L|H|I|T|
Hey I;m from carribean decent (Jamaica) and I had to learn not to hit men when i was in my 20s.....I was quick to react if i felt my then husband was wrong.....with age comes wisdom....it NEVER okay to hit that goes for men AND women....if Ri Ri is as frisky with her hands as I read...she might have started it...and chris with his past my be trying to defend himself.....I don't agree with him hitting her but I can understand....she probably got upset and jealous from all the pics of him with the gurls in EUrope etc. I don't believe that this is the first time they got physical, just the first time being caught....Ri Ri Taurus men do hit women, they have a terrible temper if pushed, trust me I know....leave him alone, and Live your Life! You both need therapy quick!
I DONT THINK ANYONE IS SURPRISED BY THIS FROM READING THE COMMENTS. WE ALL SAW MILLIONS OF PICS WHERE RIHANNA WAS GIVING CHRIS ATTITUDE AND CHRIS BEING COOL AND MILLIONS OF PICS OF CHRIS' FRUSTRATION.
RIHANNA HAS NO RIGHT HITTING HIM AN PROVOKING HIM. I DONT CARE WHAT U UNFAIR SELF-ABSORBED WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN HIT BEFORE SAY! CAUSE I HAVE BEEN HIT TOO! BUT ONCE A MAN IS PROVOKE CONSTANTLY BY A WOMAN WHO FEELS SHE MUST HIT HIM A MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO DEFEND HIMSELF!THE POLICE NEED TO STOP ARRESTING MEN WHO WERE PROVOKED. AND WERE SIMPLY DEFENDING THEMSELVES! Women who hit men ALWAYS hit men when they are *** off. RIHANNA'S COMPLAINT SHOULD HAVE JUST BEEN DISSMISSED WITH A WARNING TO BOTH OF THEM!!
AND TRUST ME THIS GIRL DOES HAVE ATTITUDE PROBLEMS.YALL SHOULD REALISE CHRIS RAN INTO A PROBLEM. THE FRUSTRATION ON HIS FACE SAYS A LOT.
Let me tell all the ladies in here who have a problem with what this brutha did. HE'S WRONG!!!
but again, from what I know she was extremely abusive and what sicken me is that fact that our sistas don't realize that mean get tired too.
If a woman stab a man for being abusive verbally and physically then she's a hero for the stance of woman. If a man get tired, then he's a punk, sorry brutha and his image is smeared permanently.
Our sistas being weaker then bruthas is a truth factor and whiles she's HITTING on this brutha he should have left just like the woman who is being abused, but why is it that whenever a man gets tired he can't make a stand but its ok for her?
What if he doesn't have a sister or his sister is too young? What if his aunts and mother doesn't want to get involved? Even worse, what if he truly loves this woman and don't want to leave, he just wants her 2 stop abusing him?
Why do our sistas always suggest its the brutha and never the sista? Our sistas are way to perfect for them not to be held responsible for this foul actions. Most of the sistas on here hold this man in contempt even though most rumors have it that she's far to jealous, busting him in the back of his head and so forth. These things are bypassed with foolishness like, "you don't know what she was going through in the background" ... WHAT!!!
She was doing what she was doing! It doesn't mean that he had to be doing something wrong.
I have daughters and you betta know ain't no brutha about to put their hand on them and I don't care if they keep going back to them; he's a broke off bruah - period, but my daughters BETTER not be putting their hands on him either. Abuse brings abuse!!!
This relantionship was over,before it got in too deep.My mom is from the islands,& has the same B-Day as Rihanna,& she "CRAZY" when it comes to her boyfriend.Pieces" they,a fish sign,but crazy,as hell".I hope they didnt really get into a fight last ***,though.Chris look like he had another side too him as well,always smiling,pleaseeee.Yall both need to "Sit Down",& chillax for a while.
@ vivalake like I said I believe women who hit their boyfriends always hit when they are *** off. I use to do that with an ex of mine.I find guys who don't hit girls that end up hitting back won't hit first because he's against it in the first place.But depending on how messed up and frustrating the relationship gets he might hit first. It's so complicated. But I think these jealous Rihanna types always want to get in the first punch.
People are fogetting how young these kids are. They, especially Chris Brown, still have juvenile instincts which will only go away as they mature. That's why it's never healthy for teens to get all caught up in the first "relationship" they call themselves having. The mimmicking of adult behavior only needs to unneccessary drams, as we are witnessing now.
Jusacoolchick|
Jealousy produces violence and everyone has their breaking point, even those who aren't violent..catch them on the wrong day and its a wrap|That's why majority of men will try to leave and cool off but usually the woman is trying to force the guy to stay and he knows he needs to leave|and then all hell breaks loose| But I'm still a believer that "two wrongs don't make a right"|
I DUNNO IF IM JUSS TO HOOD OR WHAT BUT, THIS *** IS NOT EVEN NEWS WORTHY. WE TREAT CELEBS LIKE THEYRE NOT HUMAN AND E1'S GOT AN OPINION BUT IF THIS *** HAPPENED NEXT DOOR OR DOWN THE STREET ALL THAT'LL BE SAID WAS GUURL U KNOW KK WHOOP'D JJ *** AGAIN. TOLD DAT *** TO QUIT *** WITH HIM I KNOW IT AINT PC BUT UNFORTUNATLY ITS REALITY
@ getreal do u honestly believe what u said made any sense?
So what actions would presume her wanting to keep him on lock? Literally keeping him locked up in some chamber with a ball and chain attached to his foot?
How old are you anyway? 7? That makes absolutely no sense.It's something like oh I wasn't sleeping I was just resting my eyes and doozed off type of things.
@ Vivalake. It's true.
@ some people Ughhh! They are not kids!Rihanna turns 21 this month. Okay maybe it's because I'm 21 that I took offense. Oh and in Barbados by law at 18 you are officially an adult. I don't believe you Americans have towait till 21 to drink and get into certain clubs lol. Aww..
Of topic. Oops!
beccsdabizniz, you know what I agree with you on that to a certain extinct. I've heard of chicks being beaten or couples fighting and been like "Oh well" cause after a while it gets old. But celebs are different I guess because they always have this "image" they want to potray and try to stick to rather than just be themselves. So when it all breaks down everyone is like "Yes! I knew it!" Especially the media.Lots of people are just waiting for them to mess up.We expect regular ppl to mess up everyday.
I dnt believe the part when the actress said he grabbed her hard cuz Chris iz 2 sweet nd wat ive heard bout Rihanna she iz very uptight bout everything nd plus dey grown soooo let dem live dey life everyone argue's.................plus after wat she did i wouldn't be suprised if dey neva talk again......maybe dey jus wont mint 2 be 2gether??
They are human just like everyone else!!! It's kinda sad, that they are going through this, but that's life. Plenty of people go through this everyday. And guess what some of those people learn from their mistakes and grow up. They are both young and this is an experience that both parties will grow and learn from. I think they will be okay.
There is no need for a man or women to put their hands on each other. Sadly to say this isn't anything out of the ordinary. It’s just that more people know their names. You guys were all young at some point and I'm sure a number of you have experienced the same situation. I like them both and I hate to see any relationship go bad.
I don't know what to think...
To ANTIDUMB: You described my older sister, lol. She dates a lot of pushovers, our family always tells her to take it easy on them.
I belive Ri probably does hit Chris, but I don't think she should've got whup like that...and according to this Chris has a lil' history himself...
I'm not a fly on the wall...so I really can't call it on this one. They just need to break up, then. I hate when couples argue and physically fight...go get a punching bag if your ***. Why are you with someone if they're the cause of your anger???
Jeez, people are so scared to be alone.
rihanna *what you was doing with that *** in france? Chris Brown *we was just partying, don't trip* Rihanna *don't trip, what the fugg you mean don't trip, I was busy working in miami and you partying with some ***.. WHAPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!! SLAPS HIM BEHIND THE HEAD CHRIS BROWN *BITCH!!!!!!!!WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM, YOU DON'T SEE ME ASKING YOU ABOUT HERPES ON YO LIP BITCH* RIHANNA* *** UP AND DRIVE!!!DRIVE DRIVE!!! *** UP AND DRIVE!!!! Chris *STOPS CAR...WALKS OUT....HOLDS RI RI AROUND THE throat AND SINGS!!! TELL ME HOW YOU SUPPOSE TO BREATHE WITH NO AIR*
lol@ CB beating up riri singing *Bitch yuh gave me herpessss oh hell nah!!!!, i'm beat yuh with with um ber ella ella aye aye aye*
Deeqt4u2c SAID IT BETS!!!!! ~Chris brown stated before that his dad used to physically abuse his mom. unfortunately, linking up with a chick with a negative disposition maybe causing him to resort back to familiar negative behaviors.
THIS IS SO TRUE SO TRUE!!! ADD THAT HOT BAJIAN BLOOD AND YOU HAVE IKE AND TINA ONCE AGAINE...
I like Chris Brown, not so much as Rhianna. I knew there was something about her when she first stepped onto the music scene- but people were giving her the benefit of the doubt like her sh!t don't stink. Now I don't condone men hitting women, but if a strong natured woman like Rhianna has so much of an anger problem and/or jealousy then she needs to spent all of that by herself; cause its not fair. (But life isn't fair)
..and the reason why she proably doesn't want to press charges cause she's partly to blame for it too! You just can't go and blame the man ALL time- if she(the woman) puts herself in a man's position then... *Sighs
Stay Tuned for the next Young and the Useless..lol
::Peace Out::
One time she was angry at Chris and she [struck] him in the back of his head. I don’t think she was playing either.” The insider continued, “She’s also very jealous. She checks his phone like crazy and keeps him on lock.”
I'm so sick of women thinking that's it's alright for THEM to hit men but if a man hits them back, it's domestic violence and it's so terrible. f--*** that! If you women don't want to get knocked the f--*** out, don't hit US and we won't hit YOU! Where's the comments about HER hitting HIM in the back of his head? Where's the outrage over that? She deserved to get her azz whupped if she hit him first. Period.
Flag post Didn't we all have those silly relaionships at that age? Unfortunately they are celebrities so its blown out of proportion. That's how most young people interact at that age, silly and upset about every little thing.
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That's true and this is why we *** encourage young people to get serious. Young people should not be walking around with emotional baggage. Enjoy being a kid because ur going to have enough problems being an adult. I'm not gone sit back & act like I neva been serious, it happens but I wish it neva did because it's wasn't worth it.
They said she had bite marks, sounds to me like she was the one who started and Chris was trying to defend himself. Yes men are taught not to put hands on a woman but I know a lot of my friends who are teaching their sons if a woman puts her hands on you, handle it. I guess I am in between on this one. I wish he would have listened to his mother, momma's knows best!
OK we got our own Ike & Tina. Who knew? Ya'll outta know aint none of these stars what you think they is. the goodie goodie lookin ones is the worst & the so-called hard ones is all frontin. the ones w/ all the women is fruity in the booty & everybody on drugs. i dont doubt that rhianna is a str8 up biyotch who would push a n*gga to backhand her. i bet alotta women dont dig her either. you can smell her ego a mile away. anyway this is a mess.
Clara please *** the hell up your comment is dumb as hell. My family is caribbean and we are not taught to steal *** from anyone. We are taught to be independent and to work hard for what you want. No one knows what happened here besides Chris Brown and Rihanna, and if she indeed did hit him then she did that because thats just her character not because she's Caribbean some people are so ignorant.
Some Women and Men don't know when enough is enough. Sometimes you just have to *** and leave well enough alone. He should have listen to his Mama. We are able to judge your character on initial meetings. Poor Chris. Her so call friends ready to tell it all. First time she talked aggressively he should have given her Silent Treatment and then nothing. If it's an industry girl that he's looking for there are many others. More then likely he will do much better with the plain-o-Southern girl.
@Dreayonn a.***.a my husband....I totally agree with you! I did the same thing when I was 18 and I wish I hadn't done that either! I mean I got a beautiful lil girl out it, but still I could have waited on parenthood that early too! lol My seed already know LIVE YOUR LIFE AND ENJOY YOUR YOUTH WHILE YOU CAN!! I TELL HER DON'T EVER GET SERIOUS TIL AFTER COLLEGE!
& Personally where gonna see the old saying back in act
money talk *** walks [if i am correct]
they been together too long to not know what eachothers breaking points are & flaws
& so as fars as i know if he wasnt happy he would have left
She right stay out the public let the media talk its lies we will all never know and it most likely is not ever going to be told its called privacy these people are human get over yourself hop off they ish.
anyways big up to Guyana! Rih representin.
Nah real ***.think about if anybodi gave you herpes oo ANY Std wat wud you do??thts gud 4tha chick ,i dont blam chris brown..its not like he did anything wrong besides the fact that he hit a gurl..but come on mn herpes aint nuthin to mess with..it was probly his first reaction.:D i styll love him!!
..thabest
Alright this is how I Feel honestly,We dont know what the hell happened so until, both sides of the story are trufully aired out, i suggest that certain people *** the hell up, stop talking *** and assuming things when u really dont know. Yea it's sad what happened but then again no one is talking from either side so no one knows the truth. That *** urks my nerves, we dont know if he hit her or if she hit him, u know people have a way of twisting up the truth in the media... And he didnt state that his dad used 2 abuse his mom, he said his mom was in an abusive relationship but that it was not with his father....
No 3am, that 15% is based off of on YOUR personal experience or those of your friends and family... unless you have dated every black man (if that was the case I would be worried for you) you cannot generalise like that. Now if you had said out of the men you have dated, that 15% were decent, it would be a fair comment. But it's cool though. You're entitled to your opinion. I'm not going to try and sway your opinion. I'm not even going to counter it. I will just say I am dissapointed on your mypoic view of black men.
HandsomeStallion Flag post No 3am, that 15% is based off of on YOUR personal experience or those of your friends and family... unless you have dated every black man (if that was the case I would be worried for you) you cannot generalise like that. Now if you had said out of the men you have dated, that 15% were decent, it would be a fair comment. But it's cool though. You're entitled to your opinion. I'm not going to try and sway your opinion. I'm not even going to counter it. I will just say I am dissapointed on your mypoic view of black men.
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70 PERCENT OF BLACK HOMES ARE MISSING THE BLACK FATHER. IT'S TIME TO STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR OUR BLACK MEN. THEY NEED TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND HANDLE THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES
"70 PERCENT OF BLACK HOMES ARE MISSING THE BLACK FATHER. IT'S TIME TO STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR OUR BLACK MEN. THEY NEED TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND HANDLE THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES"
And just because you got that statistic from a source that more than likely got their information through frivolous sources, you are going to use it as the catalyst to stand up and *** "Black men, step up to the plate"? Is there alot of black fathers missing? Well no shít there is. It doesn't take a genius to figure that out. But it takes two to tango. There are women whose legs will be opened like a 7/11, there are those guys who are allergic to the words commitment and responsibility like it was the plague. However, we will ever stop these two kinds of people procreating together? Sadly not, and thus perpetuating these broken homes. However, I feel it is unfair that you're using this topic to completely go off on a tagent and bash black males. But whatever.
HandsomeStallion Flag post "70 PERCENT OF BLACK HOMES ARE MISSING THE BLACK FATHER. IT'S TIME TO STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR OUR BLACK MEN. THEY NEED TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND HANDLE THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES"
And just because you got that statistic from a source that more than likely got their information through frivolous sources, you are going to use it as the catalyst to stand up and *** "Black men, step up to the plate"? Is there alot of black fathers missing? Well no shít there is. It doesn't take a genius to figure that out. But it takes two to tango. There are women whose legs will be opened like a 7/11, there are those guys who are allergic to the words commitment and responsibility like it was the plague. However, we will ever stop these two kinds of people procreating together? Sadly not, and thus perpetuating these broken homes. However, I feel it is unfair that you're using this topic to completely go off on a tagent and bash black males. But whatever.
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valid point. only problem missing from your statement is the fact that it is the female who is left with the burden of rearing a child alone while the male is off to do more procreating
It wasn't missing from my statement because it goes without saying. Who is to blame? The father for running off or the lady for opening her legs before she let Lil 40oz hit that before putting a ring on her finger? We could debate who should be more responsible until the cows comes home but playing the blame game will not resolve this matter. I was fortunate to grow up in a stable house hold where my parents are still married (and have been for 40+ years).
Obviously, there are many people who don't have the luxury of growing up with stability but in no way am I excusing their behaviour. All I'll say is do you, and set the best example you can. And when/if you find love with the right person, the best you can do is teach your children how to treat others the right way because bashing others, especially on a website is futile.
Once again, this is a sad report. IF both have problems with controlling their anger, their managers and family better get them in check and really quickly. I have witnessed too many situations with artists and the 'fans' who have accused them of being manhandled...none of them have ended without the artist coming out of his pocket to pay the accuser in order to keep their mouths ***. I have seen with my own eyes and sat at the table with attorney's and managers and artists while they try to work out payment issues with accusers. Many of them can't deny their actions because they are known for the uncontrollable situations they have allowed themselves to be in. I feel sorry for both of them and I suggest strongly that they get help before their careers are turned upside down. Believe me - I have worked with artists who have lost their commercial deals because the client got wind of their 'anger' issues. It's something to loose $100,000 + deals with Asian clients who have a strong feeling about personal anger issues.
Keep them in prayer.
3 am is entitled to say whateva she wants. Who bites people ??That's *** as hell, he looks half *** anyway. Pretty soon he can bite on bubbas d!ck in jail after he penetrates his a** hole. I wish a ***!gga would put his hands on me I would take a hammer and crack his skull. I won't say black men are worthless, but they ain't worth much.
This is terrible. Also terrible is the number of women on this site who think she had it coming. Next time somebody calls you a ho or a trick and then smacks you upside the head, please don't complain to anybody. You're a fu@%ing embarrassment to decent black people everywhere. And yes, I'm from the Caribbean, so yes I have an attitude.
@ HandsomeStallion && 3 am
i just wanna say its very interesting reading yall's convo...however i would have to agree with the stallion. if everyone thought how 3 am thought than this world would never change, so your whole 'step up to the plate' speech is doin more harm than anything. if you want them to step up maybe everyone else should make a change for the better...no ones perfect but everyone is different. we have a perfect example of a black man in the white house...so from where im standing i honestly think you need to rethink your 'statistics'
__just sayin, had nothing else to do right now
THIS WHOLE THING CONFIRMS THAT I'M RIGHT ABOUT MOST BLACK MEN...AND THAT'S TRULY SAD..I WAS HOPING MY BLACK MAN BASHING WOULD BE PROVEN WRONG...BUT I GET IT WONT.....SOMETHING HAS HAPPENED INSIDE OF ME BECAUSE OF THIS..AND I KNOW NOW THAT IT'S REALLY NO USE TO BOTHER WITH THEM...I KNOW I'M ON THE RIGHT PATH....
WELL I AM BLACK AND I AM A WOMAN. I WON'T SAY SHE DESERVED IT BUT WHAT I WILL SAY IS THAT NONE OF US NOWS EXACTLY WHAT WENT DOWN AND I'M NOT EVEN A CHRIS BROWN FAN. BUT I DO KNOW THAT RHI RHI SEEMS A LITTLE TOO HEAD OVER HEALS AND NEEDS TO KNOW WHEN TO LET SOMEONE GO IF THEY WANT OUT. CHRIS IS 19 WITH LIL GIRLS RUNNING AFTER HIM ALL DAY. NO ONE MADE HER STAY WITH HIM, HELL HE IS THE YOUNG BUCK. SHE STAYED CAUSE SHE WANTED TO AND SHE TRIED TO MAKE HIM SETTLE DOWN BEFORE HE EVEN REALLY GOT A CHANCE TO BE 19 OR HOW EVER THE HELL OLD HE IS. THEY WERE TOO *** CLOSE. SHE CHANGED HER WHOLE SCHEDULE JUST TO BE WITH HIM. *** THE NEED A *** BREAK. HE LOOKED LIKE HE WAS ENJOYING HISELF TO ME ON THOSE PICS THAT THEY WERE APART. SHE NEED TO STOP BEING SO JEALOUS AND CRAZY AND GIVE HIM A BREAK. *** AND HE NEEDS TO STAY AWAY IF HE CAN'T CONTROL HIS ANGER AND GET HIS *** NUMBER CHANGED AND A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST HER SO THAT SHE WON'T STILL BE CALLING AFTER THE INCIDENT. SHE NEEDS SOME SELF OF STEM. BECAUSE IF SHE HAD IT, SHE WOULD HAVE REALIZED THAT HE HAD THE SIGNS AND THE AGE OF SOMEONE WHO JUST WANTED TO ENJOY HISELF, THEREFORE SHE WOULD HAVE STUCK TO REALLY JUST BEING FRIENDS AND NOT ACTING LIKE THEY WERE MARRIED.
I was at the party. It started on the inside. Rhianna was mad with Chris. Over a female. Rhianna was all up in Chris face. Chris was trying to play it off. When Chris and rhianna left the party. Rhianna put her hands on Chris first. They got in the car. You can see Rhianna all up in his face. They start fighting. The female that call the police was next to me. I told her not to call the police. She call anyway.
I won't comment on this "volatile relationship" thing just for the simple fact that we don't know the official facts, and MTO talkinq about "They're such a cute couple" and then suddenly turning around and acting like they knew ALL ALONG that their relationship was "volatile".
As far as this "other side of Rihanna" thing goes, how can she be all "gggb" in public and then getting smacked up in private? She just needs to find herself and stop putting on all these different faces for different people...
everybody is actng like its rihanna fault when it isnt it both of there faults and a man *** put his hands on a woman no matter what they have seen or been through in life i just hope that rihanna makes the right choice nd leaves him she dont diserved to get beat on but neither does he they both need angermanagment they need to get there anger under control
I think its unfair that Chris is getting bad media attention when a lot of times women think that they can put their hands all over a man and then call the cops when a dude simply holds a wrist or tries to restrain her to keep the punches away. I'm sure Rihanna started it. Now poor Chris had to go to jail for a bit, which is the worst thing that can happen to someone and their reputation. I feel sorry for Chris when I'm sure it wasn't entirely his fault. After this he should definitely cut ties with her because this relationship is pretty much unhealthy.
Ko25 Flag post I was at the party. It started on the inside. Rhianna was mad with Chris. Over a female. Rhianna was all up in Chris face. Chris was trying to play it off. When Chris and rhianna left the party. Rhianna put her hands on Chris first. They got in the car. You can see Rhianna all up in his face. They start fighting. The female that call the police was next to me. I told her not to call the police. She call anyway.
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did you see it with your own eyes?
@ Clara _______ Dutty Stinking Bloodclaat gal stop chat foolishness bout mi *** country
In other word, Everything you have said can be potrayed by men of all races and ethnicities. Why do you have so much hatred for island men. Have you seen the news. Look at these men killing their pregnant wives and throwing their bodies in the ocean....and you don't find that insane..B!tch get a F!@#$% life....YOU ARE A WASTE OF FINGERS AND A KEYBOARD!.....SUCK YUH SELF!.....LABA JUICE YUH MOOMA!!!
Chris sounds like he's a great guy, and Rhianna is a good girl, the two are just growing a part. That's all the growing pains of life. You Live and Love... Some take it better than others,in her case she got the ***... lol real talk, he's her first every thing, she doesn't want to let him go she will fight for his love...
in the end is it all season... only she knows.
@Clara, why are you so ignorant.The men you dated have a lot to say about the kind of person you are, thats what you choose to date, your fault. Chris had no right putting his hand on Rihanna. "If" she give him herpes, he is to be blame too, condoms are cheap. Protect yourself.People need to stop hating on Rihanna, she has talent not like others who cant sing on stage and have to use dance as a cover up. Anyone think Chris Brown could have gotten herpes from SUPERHEAD. He was once link to her. JUST A QUESTION?
Everybody saying she gave him something...I think its probably the other way around. He never should have put his hands on her and she should press charges. She does seem controlling though. Anybody who dates someone in the industry should just automatically assume they aren't going to be the only woman...bottom line
I wonder why clara hates people from the Caribbean so much to generalise things that dont even fit their personalities. Like there are not Americans and other people with the same negative qualities that she describes west indians as having.
She may need to have some counselling to get over the issues she clearly has. But i must state ppl from the caribbean DO NOT HATE AMERICANS and ARE NOT BROUGHT UP TO HATE AND DESPISE OR TRICK AMERICANS. If anything they hold America and Americans on a pedistal otherwise would so many of them be trying to get to America to live.
Plus you cant generalise a whole region based on what is said about one country. You all keep saying Jamaicans this Jamaicans that. I know many Jamaicans who are nothing like what was described so put aside your prejudices in observing this situation. For it has nothing to do with whether Chris is American and Rihanna is Barbadian.
Cause spousal abuse happens in America all them time (sadly) with all american spouses.
Chris Brown beat Rihanna up. Period. He broke the law and should suffer consequences for that. He certainly should seek help to manage his anger more appropriately or we will be reading about him getting in trouble for the rest of his life. He will waste his amazing talent that brings a lot of enjoyment. He has a gift that should not be sqaundered.
If Rihanna has an anger problem, she should seek help, too. She has a lot to lose, too.
Many commenters have expressed that what Brown did was "okay" or "justifiable." NO, NO, NO! He should be able to control himself, and protect his legacy by behaving within the law. We need to learn to respect ourselves and other. WE. ARE. WORTHY. OF. RESPECT. We need to value each other, and not treat ourselves worse that we would treat our pets.
@Misscutieuk1
Take them big ugly *** sunglasses off and READ the story and comprehend what you READ this time. The pictures above have nothing to do with the altercation with Rihanna dumb ***! They were taken in South Africa!! Now take that *** neon green nail polish off and go get ya hair done dumb ***!! *** I can’t stand when a *** can’t read!!
i think chris is this way cuz he has so much hurt built up inside from wen he was little and his step father use to beat his mother...dat he is takin all his anger and frustration out on his girlfriend or friend rihanna and other people...but i never thought chris would act dis way he looks so innocent with dat baby face of his.
i think rihanna needs to watch herself becuz i've heard dat she has been a round the way girl messin wit jay-z, shila beafuh, and sum otha white guy...she needs to catch herself before she says sumthing 2 chris dat would make him do wat he did to her sunday morning before dat grammy's, dat dey didnt attend....she needs to leave him alone mind her own business and stop wit da jealousy thing..
LOL LIKE I SAID ONCE AND I'LL SAY AGAIN RIHANNA CRAZY *** PROLLY PROVOKED HIM. SHE LOOKS NUTS.. LISTEN TO HER SONG TILES.. "DISTURBIA" , "BREAKING DISHES", "REHAB" SHES A BONAFIDE LOONEY TOON! SHE'S JUST A PRETTY ONE. DESPITE HER ENLARGED CRANIUM! SHE FROM BARBADOS IF I WAS CHRIS ID WATCH OUT SHE PROLLY GONNA MAKE A VUDOO DOLL OF HIM AND KICK HIS *** LOL. IMA TRUE CHRIS FAN AND ALWAYS WILL BE. SHE PROLLY DESERVED IT. AN STD AND SHES CRAZY.SHES DOIN TO MUCH! SHE NEEDS TO SIT HER *** DOWN SOMEWHERE!
