Nothing to do with a haircut or anything.Lemme explain to you a lil bit what I mean when I say step his game up and better black women will come.
When I was 18 my cousin dropped some knowledge on me over the course of months because I always wondered how he got his incredible wife.His wife is wonderful and thats the kind of sista I wanted.
Me on the other hand had unrealistic stanards and requirements with the sistas I was going for.My cousin told me,"You ferst have to know what kind of sista you want and you have to understand the type of woman she is and appriciate that".
He also told me "You gotta give the sista a reason to want you.You have to distinguish yourself from the other hundreds of millions of brothas on the planet".I was going after women based on physical appearance for the most part but the thing is, I wanted them to have certain qualities.How can I want qualities in them when I'm chasing their physical appearance?*** I chase the qualities that I want and not the physical appearance?
So I focused in on what I felt would be the best kind of black woman for me.But ferst I had to learn them and appriciate them.When I understood them better and gained a new appriciation for them,the results came quickly !!
I met a young woman some years back when I was 19 that I'll refer to as Jane Doe.I thought she was incredible and the thing I noticed was,if I had met her the year before when I was 18 I wouldn't have been compatible with her and I also wouldn't have been able to appriciate her the way I should have.
With my NEW appriciation and knowledge for this type of black woman I was not only better equipt to get her,but also better equipt to keep her.Before I met Jane Doe I swear to you,I never had a realationship last more than 2 months.
I remember I'd sit and listen to my mother during family reunions because she always knew how to command the room.She told great jokes and stories and knew how to get peoples attention.Lol So I swagger jacked my mom's style,but not her jokes.I used the blue print of how she did it,and created my own style.I'd use different things from my own life and experiences to make my own jokes.I delivered punch lines like her and spoke a little like her and this improved on not only my personality but my ability to hold a convo with Jane Doe and other people in general.
I not only upgraded my knowledge and appriciation but I upgraded my personality and also my interests.
Now if Jane doe was the kind of woman who would want her man not to cheat,she'd have to give her man a reason to not want other women.
When I was messin with Jane Doe she was the best thing I'd ever come across and I JUST COULDN'T BE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.Soon 6 months past then 8 months then a year ...I went from not having a realationship last more than 2 months to being with Jane Doe for a year.
Also when I had met Jane Doe I wasn't dating but I kindda had a few "female friends" if you know what I mean.As I started talking to her after about a month, those other women became unimportant to me and I ignored them.
Jane Doe didn't even know she had compitition but rendered those other women obsolete.I also ignored my best friends,because I was no longer compatible with them and Jane Doe not only became my gerl but my new best friend.
So picture this.Even if I wanted to be with another woman I couldn't because, I'd not only lose the gerl I loved but I'd also lose my only friend.After a few months I even told her I was chit chatting with a few other gerls when we ferst met and that she made them irrelevant.We'd even make jokes about cheating but we both knew it wasn't possible for either of us,as we were too in to eachother.THATS THE KIND OF BLACK WOMAN I WANTED!!!
She was not only my gerl but my best friend.But if I didn't step my game up we would've been incompatible and I wouldda never had that experience.She was the kind of sista that knew how to diffrenciate good brothas from bad and LOVED her black men.If I didn't know how to diffrenciate good from bad,appriciate them,learn, understand them and also make myself more personable and interesting, we wouldda never werked out from Jump.
If the guy in the video and brothas throughout the werld stepped their game up,better black women will come.She was also very physically attractive to me and at ferst it kindda felt like she was "dating down".I had already taken pride in my appearance but because she was so far ahead of me in appearance it forced me to take even more pride.
I was a lil chubby back then but then I had to get in shape because she was.I got,and still am muscular and now I play sports.She had great clothes and I had to get a part time job while I was in school,just to not only buy clothes for me,but take her places she'd never been.She'd never been to an amusement park so I took her to more than one.
If that black woman you desire is what you want then you gotta be willing to improve yourself for her.
That guy was in the video talking about "black women wouldn't have given me a chance,but they roll their eyes when they see me with a white gerl".He's a sucka.He has an antiblack woman mentality,how would he be able to get and keep a black woman,if he has an antiblack woman mentality?
You know what happens when you have 2 people with anti black woman/man mentalities come together?Ike and Tina Turner etc...
Learn the different kinds of black women and step yo game up,I'm living proof it werks!