Inside The Mind Of A DOWNLOW BROTHA

: One of MediaTakeOut.com’s readers – a self proclaimed “DL Brotha” sent us the following essay – describing why he does what he does. We’re gonna call it the “DL Brutha Manifesto”. Here you go ladies, you might need to send this to a few girlfriends…

First of all, I would like to say emphatically that to all black women - I LOVE YOU!!!!. I respect you. I adore you. To me, there is nothing more powerful nor more sexy nor more divine than seeing you walk proudly in the sunlight of your blackness, your femininity, your sexuality, your sass, your strength, and your spirituality.

But sometimes, I want to taste a man.....

It's not that I'm gay, homosexual, bisexual or any of those things. I don't claim any of those titles and so if you ask me if I'm gay, homo, or bi - I'll tell you "No". I'm just a brother that knows what he likes. That's all.

Now, if you ask me if I have sex with men, I'll tell you "No". Yes, I know that lying is wrong and God don't like ugly. But, if I laid with you, and made sweet love to you, and then told you that sometimes I like to go inside a man....you wouldn't want me. Our relationship would be over. And, more than likely, you would "warn" your friends about me. And so, I lie. Not because I am trying to deceive you, but because I just don't think you need to know. All it will do is destroy what we have.

You see, honesty is not as simple as you think....

One day I'll stop, I'll settle down with my black queen. I can't promise that I'll completely stop experiencing men. There's just something about it that draws me. But, I do know that I won't do it nearly as much. Well, I don't know that, but I don't think I'll do it as much.

To the woman I will one day marry : I promise to be a good husband, and a good father to our children, and a good grandfather to our children. I'll love you, and protect you, and cherish you, and make you laugh, and dry your tears, try to give you the kind of home you have always wanted, and do my best to make your life as happy as it can be.
But sometimes, I'll still want a man......

Now this is some mess right here ….

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DLbrutha
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First!!!!!!!!!!!!! Where my fellas at??


radioop79
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THATS JUST PLAIN NASTY


1killa

fynechyna77
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they tryna get us, ladies!!!!!!! top ten!!


BahamianBabydoll
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WTF? OMG? Y U C K !


delicious_dimples08
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Most of my male friends are gay, and I love them to death. I just don't get the whole DL thing. It's not right to the woman that your involved with. Why can't you tell her that that's what you want... she might just be cool with it. But cheating and lying is not cool at all.


sweetness1229
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THAT IS NASTY !!!!!!!! it is to early to hear all this


mrwillbanks

midnightlife
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That is crazy talk right there.


QueenNosizwe
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This just make me so upset. If that is the way you are then why not just let the person your with know. It's about being honest.


Lipsonme
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See this is that bull shyt that is why the HIV/AIDS rate among African American women is so high in America! Because of selfish bas-tards like this! Stories like this make single women like myself reluctant to date. Be careful sistas and make sure your man is wearing a condom at all times. You just never know...ewww!!! I'm sick of these butt munchers!!!


1killa
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I'm DL and that guy who wrote this is ridiculous! He will never stop gettin in that a$$. It's just so good! Unless women can measure up to what a man can do for a man, then I wont ever stop...entirely different experience. Sometimes better. Women, step ya game up!


JazziBabii_1
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WELL...don't tell your black queen that cuz then she won't want u then!!!!


anewfocus
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get this dl negro, there's a movement to have you bastards arrested and thrown into jail. what you are doing is illegal. when ya azz goes to jail, you can taste a lot of men. i live in texas and a dl guy was found guilty of exposing women to aids. he's in huntsville prison today. you arrogant evil bastards will rot in jail and hell. i hate you. you nigg*rs are destroying the black race.


ywallace4
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DOWN LOW MEN ARE COWARDS! Much love to anyone heterosexual or homosexual for being honest with yourself and others.



YungYellah
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Now thats some T for yo ACE! LOL...


Rose1573
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I found a great site """"" Meetw e al t h y .c om............ """""" It 's where you have the opportunity dreaming about dating a millionaire and make it true! I thought everyone needed to meet some miracle after all the terrible stuff in the news and the economy :).,.,.,.


IGOTSUMTHIN2SAY
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THE END IS NEAR...........NOW THAT'S SOME TRUTH FOR YA!


1killa
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Protection is never an option, its mandantory!


thatcatbitch
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i ain't beat for all dat dis time of morning


lih8dakidz
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i fuckin h8 fem fags and i especially h8 fags who air out dirty rainbow aids staind secrets no1 but desprate black women that wanna get the dirt 2 see if they man gay fuckin losers


good_downsouth
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All this down low, cross-dressing, ish should be a crime. smh


kis2000
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it is mofos like this that will cause a good woman to go to jail after she stabs his ass when she finds out. If you don't think there is anything wrong with your actions then why hide it?!


m_wah314
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So basically what I gotten from that statement is that you are ashamed of your self. I respect any man that confesses that he loves to do men publically, but a man who has to hide it is ASHAMED, A PUNK, AND WEAK!!!!!!!!!


porternakia
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GOD AWFUL, What Is Us Gonna Do!


dks6929
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Fred are you trying to tell us something!LOL


keepingitreal
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Dude, you're gay! ACCEPT IT!


dallasdiva78
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LOL @ the pic! I hope these mean are getting tested regularly for the AIDS/HIV virus. This is why most of our black women are getting this virus, b/c it's men like this that are selfish. That just makes me sick!! The azz is an EXIT not and ENTRANCE, Damnit!!!!


Miss32Flavors
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WTF?! Fred, is there anyway you can BAN this nicca?!


Miss32Flavors
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Oh yeah, what the hell is going on in that picture?! Are they having a homo orgy?!



shyshay89
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Wow!!! See these are the ones that you have to look out for! And stop beating around the bush...If you like the same sex you're gay!!...smh


rileyjenai
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WOW...DUDE UR GAY...AINT NUTTIN WRONG WIT DAT...BUT WHAT PISSES ME OFF ABOUT THIS N!GGA...IS THE WHOLE DOWN LOW THING...WHY DONT U JUST B REAL ABOUT IT AND ADMIT THAT U WANT A DUDE...SOME GIRLS DO TAKE IT IN THE A$$...HE COULD JUST DO THAT...BUT TO SAY I WANT TO TASTE A MAN...THATS HOMO...AND LIKE I SAID...NUTTIN WRONG WIT GAY PPL...BUT THERE IS SUMMIN WRONG WIT PPL ON THE DL...JUST BE REAL...AND TELL PPL U GAY...MOST LIKELY...THEY ALREADY KNEW...AND HELL NAW...IF HE WAS TO MAKE LOVE TO ME...THEN SAY...OH YEAH I FUKKED A DUDE TODAY...ID BE SO SICK...ID THROW UP ALL ON HIS ASS...THEN I'D GET MY BRO AND COUSINS TO WHOOP DAT ASS...THE LYING PART ABOUT IT IS THE TRIFFLIN PART...DAS WHAT IM SAYIN...DL N1GGAS...JUST BE REAL...WE PROLLY ALREADY KNEW...


leabea_98
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sir you lying to yourself too. You see, you are gay. If you want to have relationship with a woman that is honest and loving you have to tell her about your "tastebuds" There is a woman out there who will accept you the way your are. It is not me! but she exsit and you will be at your happiest with her not lying to a unsuspecting woman.


ChunkyCharly
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I agree with IGOTSUMTHIN2SAY. The end is near..nothing but the spirit of the anti-christ working on the world and you gay men are falling into it. We all need to pray and stay in church, cuz the spirit of gthe anti-christ will soon work on our baby boys!!! So sad, so scary!


richie09
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thats is so hilarious and coming a bi dude myself he wont stop he never will.DL men are so indenial.it irritates me.ugh he needs to take action for his responsiblities and stop makin excuses.NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!


ChunkyCharly
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Again....I agree with IGOTSUMTHIN2SAY. The end is near..nothing but the spirit of the anti-christ working on the world and you gay men are falling into it. We all need to pray and stay in church, cuz the spirit of gthe anti-christ will soon work on our baby boys!!! So sad, so scary!


martinalutherking
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Yeah, this is total BS. If you are gonna have an experience like this, you need to tell the woman you are with. There probably are women who would be okay with this, depending on how she felt about this guy. Being selective with your reality is not fair! If this woman were to have extra material affairs, how would he feel? He can justify anything he wants before he marries this woman, but after marriage any sexual activity with anyone other than your spouse is cheating!


britt05
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THAT MAKES LADIES GIVE ANOTHER REASON NOT TO TRUST MEN....NOW DAYS ITS BETTER TO PLAY WITH YOURSELF...SHIT YOU KNOW YOU WONT CATCH NOTHING...


whateverusay2
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Where R U from?


doll1
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you nasty mutha phucker..you know what draws you to them ..that big hole you enjoy...hiv-aids carrying freak...your entire life is a lie


honeybunn
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yet another reason why i stopped datin black men, im too suspicious


Ragazza79
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Thats sad and you be reap what you sow, so do you


richie09
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and i wish ppl will stop bring GOD into this non-sense because it has nothing to do with him.all of that he going the hell shit makes you look like a hypocrite so just STFU and dont judge live your life as YOUR OWN.stop saying what others are doing when your azz is jus as terrible.I despise ignorant and close minded people stop skipping over parts of the bible and looking at the things you dostop being all in over folks business SMDH


ghettofabman
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Cosigning with rileyjenai....you know, minus the whole messin' wit dude part!


KingRamses2U
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Phaget-azz muthafcuckas need their @sses whipped!!! I will kill one them bastards quick if one EVER approached me!



Nakrencla
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If that DL dude reading this, just accept that your gay, bi, etc.


yesimbetter
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That is some sick shyt ladies. Watch ur men close bcuz these homo-thugs be frontin. Yall thinkin just bcuz he's 6 foot 200 lbs and got some tats he's straight. I've seen some homo dudes that look straight until they talk and they are as gay as they come. They leave more women for straight men so I guess that helps.


GODSchile

anewfocus
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BLACK WOMEN IF YOU HAVE BEEN INFECTED WITH HIV PLEASE CONTACT THE AUTHORITIES. IT'S ILLEGAL. IT'S AN ASSAULT. IN TEXAS, THESE NEGROES CAN GET SOME SERIOUS TIME. BLACK WOMEN FEEL ASHAME WHEN THEY HAVE HIV SO THEY DON'T PRESS CHARGES. PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF OUR RACE FILE CHARGES. GET THESE N*GGERS OUT OF OUR COMMUNITY! PUT THESE NIG*ERS IN PRISON!


chicagofinest1
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NASTY,NASTY,NASTY!!!


ososcrumptious
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wow this upsets me im scared


miss_frankbarbie
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damn this guy is gay...blk people would be in such a pretty place if they were honest with themselves... if youre bi, thats cool...whats the point in hiding?? this kid is selfish and dirty...how can you praise women, want to marry a woman but can't be real enough to say, "HEY, I'M BISEXUAL." she might be into that, but you wouldn't know cause youre too busy being deceptive... i can't stand that sh-it.


whatwhatwhat
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Ladies, that is a beotch ass man who can't own up to his own messiness. Yeah, this guy is a pussy for hiding behind his fear of rejection. But there are ways to determine if your man is on the DL. And it's very easy. 1. The eye contact. I cannot stress to women how important this first point is. Your man is a hoe, and he will look at things he find attractive even while you're standing next to him. DL men communicate with the eyes. It is an intense connection and you will know it when you see your man make eye contact with another man that just seems too intense, or he'll break contact with the guy once he realizes you're watching. Then comes the tension in the air as you notice your man and the other guy trying to avoid each others gaze. They're not trying to avoid each others gaze. They just don't want you to catch onto their DL vibe. A lot of you women notice this but throw it out of your mind as "nah, not my man". But your women's intuition is right. LISTEN TO IT. 2. The best friend. All men have best friends. Nothing wrong with that. But when your man and his best friend spend Friday nights out with each other every week. Then you gotta do some research. Are they going to the clubs? Then they're OK. If not and they are "Watching the fights" or "Watching the games" every Friday or Saturday nights at his place then that should ring an alarm. 3. If your man complains about the homo's watching him when nobody's checking for him. THAT MEANS YOUR MAN's BOOTY IS ITCHING FOR DICK. If you and your man are out on the streets and out of nowhere he says "Look at that f@g checking me out" or you see some femme boys and he goes on a gay rant. Child. That's your hint to buy a years supply of condoms and get your bloodwork done because your man is a thirsty for some booty. A straight man doesn't care if a gay man is near him, looking at him, walking past him. They just don't care. A DL man will make a comment each and every time.


MissSparkx
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I THINK HE NEEDS TO ADMITT TO HIMSELF THAT HE'S GaY POINT BLANK. Follow me on twitter http://twitter.com/MissSparkx


yummers
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TOO MUCH TO READ..AND IM NOT


whateverusay2
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DL Brutha where r u


G-Man007
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This some nasty junk right here. I know this guy right now today that is married and has a child. His wife ADORES him, and he is getting it up the tail on the regular. He even travels to other states to meet men. He admitted it to me and I blasted that nikka for it. He is putting his life and the lives of his wife and child in jeopardy! Nikkas just need to be real with themselves. If you are doing a man or getting done by a man, YOU ARE GAY!!! Leave these women alone so they can find a man that loves them and is committed to them 100% the way our Black women deserve to be loved!


carmelvls
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OK SISTA THIS SHOULD BE A WAKEUP CALL FOR YOU!!!!! THIS BROTHA IS SELFISH AND THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVIN SISTA.... YOU MUST BECARFUL WHO YOU GIFT YOUR GIFT TO.


richie09
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def agrees with miss_frankbarbie


jimberland
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Don't be scared OSOSCRUMPTIOUS this is some bs this dude is on. Real ni&&Az don't think like this, as a matter of fact, we despise these types of dudes. Yall DL dudes need to wake up and admit what you are, "A FAG". Someone that enjoys hitting men in their azz or whistlin on some guys flute (some of yall enjoy gettin ya azz hit, yuck). Yall can't create a child, so that's how you know it's not natural. But this DL sh* t makes all brothas look like we're giving STD's to our women.



OneLifeo1
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See this is the type of mess that I hate. Don't sit and talk about oh I'm not gay..... I just know what I desire. No you are gay no matter how many ways you to try to explain it. But please don't get me wrong I have nothing against gay people because only God can judge, and that's whom we have to address in the end. But I hate these Down Low Brotha's that think it is just fine and dandy to go stick there dicks in other men butt holes and then go home to their wives and girlfriends and have sex with them.And it's not right, and you are a COWARD if you are on the DL.


iamprettier_than_u
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So your not gay or bi but you like to stick it in menses booty juice??? um okkk whatt-the-fcuk-eva!! as Riley would say " Ni&&a you gay"! and that's fcukked up as hell to be lying to ur girl like that if you gay or bi than you is and the woman that ur with has a right to know. LEt her decide if she wants to be with a bi-sexual man do not make that decision for her. All DL mens are going strait to hell with Chevron flavored drawls on!


ImSoGay
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Dude has some self hate issues. Nothing wrong with being gay.


porternakia
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Ur A Butt Pirate Sir...Stop Lying To Urself! AIDS AND HIV R REAL! SOME PEOPLE WON'T BE SATISFIED UNTIL WE R EXTINCT!


FelonysHobby
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Thats Chance and Gangstalicious (from the Boondocks) in that picure.


huhduh10
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hmm oh ok im not turning my nose up but WTF . just sat, i went to do my laundry and in comes a girl , but on second notice its a dude, my first respoce was to gave him a facial , his foundation was all wrong , so after 10 mins , we spoke and indeed he was gaven a free facial , i did the whole face and lips , complete , and after i was inish i was paid $50 for my skin care and foundation so he can continued to cleanse his skin and take good care and rite foundation , yesterday he came back over and got a mascara and lipstick . tonight im taking him to my sucsess meeetings and if he like what he see and hear , i can recruit him to be a partner , so go gay guys , downlow , and BI , it is what it is , oh and he will be taking me to get a wig just like his lol , it was the shyt , i liked the cut and colour ..


KROW
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WHAT A LOW DOWN DOWN LOW GIGALOW. IT IS BETTER TO FEAR GOD RATHER THAN MEN. KEEP IT 100 FAG.


nicaw
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Please share this with the author of the DL Manifesto... You are not only lying to the women you say you love but to yourself. If you enjoy being with men, you need to see and admit that you are bisexual. And as for loving black women, you don't. You see, lying to her is the factor that shows you don't love her. If you did truly lover her, you would be honest about who you are.


ExoticGemStar
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DL men are the worst type of "species" out there! This bastard needs to go jump off a bridge and DIE!!! He probably got HIV/AIDS. If you homo, gay whatever... ok. Fine, do ur thing... but to deliberately decive and possible put people at risk is just sick. Anyone on the DL should have cement blocks tied to their feet and thrown in the Anacostia River. F'in Bastards!!!!!!!


wakeupblkpeople
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The reason why black people are getting HIV, is because they are dumb. Plain and simple. How are you going to let a dude who just got out of jail go up in you raw black females? And black gay males or DL men...how are you going to let a dude go up in you raw? Testing is so easy. Being Down Low will never stop. I know so many white, black and latino who do the shit. The pleasure is to real, and being called gay is too risky to deal with. Anewfocus: The black race is not dying b/c of DL men, it's dying b/c we are uneducated, lazy and would rather party than read a book.


customcalendars4u2
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How can he fix his mouth to utter those words of love,respect,honor and cherish any woman and have sex with men in secret? I have known some down low brothers and to be quite frank I think all these A.S.S.H.O.L.E.S are SICK IN THE BRAIN! All I ask as a woman who knows I love and cherish men is that you don't lie to women about your sexual preference so she can be able to make an informed decision about what she will and will not accept in a relationship it's only fair and just. So I say to all you DIRTY DOWN LOW,LOW DOWN men who refuse to be honest with us, all I ask of you is that you STAY THE F.U.C.K AWAY FROM ME!!!!! PERIOD! Looking for a unique gift? visit 4u2.com


CincinnatiRed
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wow this is mind blowing and we wonder why AIDS is spreading like wild fires amoung black women it is because of selfish azz bytch neggas like you I have nothing wrong to say about a gay man cause he is who he is and does not hide it for that he deserves respect but you, you are a beast of a far more sinister nature a coward and most of all you are gonna get what you put out just wait and see you will get your!! and her name is Karma remember I told you yall would meet and i hope ya dyck falls off in the azz of what ever dude you are up in you disgusting faggot


Nautiy1
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I guess this is why I'm single!


PrettieLoud
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I DON'T GIVE A F^K WHAT THIS BRO LIKE TO DO I THOUGHT YA'LL WAS GONNA GIVE US FEMALES INSIGHT ON HOW A DL BRO SEDUCES THE NEXT BRO. ANOTHER F^KD UP REPORT TODAY mto THIS SITE IS GETTING TWO GRADES TODAY A "D" AND A "F" - DUMB F^KS


Conscious1
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I see myself up in this thread ALL DAY Let me go read up...



coco526
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Sounds like you Bisexual to me but you need to stop lying to others and yourself


80s_made_me
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This is exactly why the AIDS epidemic is so ridiculous right now. Nasty bastards!


miss_frankbarbie
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@ whatwhatwhat...i know a messy piece of trade and was told # 3 was a dead give away. you should repost those three tips, its good info.


thatnigg
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Where is anti_dumb? I actually look forward to her disatations on post like these.


Thisgirldontplay7
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there isnt any such thing as a DL brother ...your either GAY or Stright ...that BI shit dont count


miss_frankbarbie
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@ conscious...PREACH, TABERNACLE!!!!!! you got to unveil these bytches!!!!


TheBrokenSilence
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Only two possible suspects could have written that. Fred Mwagaugnabgnauga or SlimBrotha. You cannot like men and then say I like women too and will marry one. If a female said that it would be no exceptions. You would be a dyke. Their is no such thing. Some bullsh!t.


Conscious1
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Y'all know this is Fred LYING right? How yesterday me and Blue_Ballz got in it about gayness and this appears today? We all know his crew be lurking because as soon as you post a story in the FORUMS, it's on MTO. As soon as you say it's Amber Rose's sister, a title is changed. It's not even an ARTICLE but just some RANDOM dude telling us why he likes cheeks? Not buying it. Y'all also peep how not even 5 posts in, DLBRUTHA zoomed in here to add to the fire? Also, another MTO mask saying the explosive "Ladies step your game up"?


miss_frankbarbie
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@ TheBrokenSilence...i'm going to go with fred...its not really slimbrotha's writing stlye. ( i lurk in the forums)


1sexycapricorn
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Clearly this dude is fitting the classic case of self denial, he needs to get it together and know that he is bi...


Vetgirl2011
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And this is why black women account for 45% of all new HIV cases!! Faggot ass! Ladies STAY AWAY!


MEDIAclub25
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Thank you G-MAN007. I understand that some people do not like to be defined by labels but brotha you are what you are, you are str8 up bi. I do believe that he may like females as well so that makes him bi, but this dl shyt needs to stop. Be with who you want to be with. Honestly there are women who will deal with and can handle a bi man. I'm just not of them but they do exist, so this dl shyt does not need to continue. Everyone knows gays exist so just live your life nad stop hiding.


kysauntie
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"To the woman I will one day marry : I promise to be a good husband, and a good father to our children, and a good grandfather to our children. I'll love you, and protect you, and cherish you, and make you laugh, and dry your tears, try to give you the kind of home you have always wanted, and do my best to make your life as happy as it can be." This is all a bunch of bullshyt - how are you going to be a good husband/father when monogamy and trust will be thrown out the window the minute you slip into some other man? How can you protect/cherish her when your secrets will ultimately be the thing that destroys her? How can you wipe tears that you cause when she finds out you would rather be with a man (even if it is occasionally)? How can she fell cherished her when she feels like less of a woman because her man would rather be with a man? How can you give her the home she wants, I don't think ANY woman wants a life that includes her man slinging it with another man? How can you make her life as happy as it can be when all this comes to light and she is left broken?


ClassicBlackness
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Sounds like you need to kill yourself! Stop lying!!! The woman you sleep with has the right to know and should be able to choose if she wants to deal with your GAY ass. I respect outwardly upfront gay brothers, it's the down low on the creep trolls like you who are messing everything up!! YOU SUCK, DIE!!


TREWF
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I wish that the media and people in general would stop acting like the DL Gay man is exclusive to the black community. I personally believe that it exists in all cultures and all ethnic backgrounds...example: Ted Hagart. However, this still does not excuse it from being wrong and deceitful. The scary part is that I don't think there will EVER be any real way for ANY woman to know if her man is absolutely 100% straight. Human sexuality is not as black and white as we want to believe. There is a large gray area that a lot of men and women fall into.



BluBoy
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whatwhatwhat is right about how to know if your man is on the DL... DENIAL AND DELUSIONAL PEOPLE LIKE THIS SHOULD always FEEL PAIN!...KARMA IS A BYTCH AND WILL COME FOR DL MEN LIKE HIM TOO!...AND IF THIS NUCCA CATCHES HIV THEN HIS AZZ WILL GET WHATS COMIN TO HIM AND WHAT HE DESERVES!~...I have to fight HOMOPHOBIA AND ANTI-GAY SENTIMENTS FROM FEMALES AND OTHER MEN CAUSE COWARDS LIKE THIS ARE AFRAID TO SAY THEY ARE GAY!...SMDH...SO THEY JUST REMAIN ON THE DL and continue to have HIGH RISK GAY SEX WITH "perfect" STRANGERS And then place thier dycks back up in a VAGINA for "SAFE" keeping!... I WOULD NEVER HOOK UP WITH A DL MAN BECAUSE THEY ARE PROMISCUOUS WHORES... that ARE SO DESPERATE FOR SOME MAN AZZ THAT THEY HAVE NO STANDARDS AND CONTINUE TO PASS THE STD'S to eveyone they are SCREWING!...and its true that he could be screwing or getting SCREWED by his best friends if they are always together!~ YOU FEMALES BETTER WATCH out for these cowards!...


scandalousone
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coming from a homosexual...THATS DUMB AS HELL !!! ladies you can keep this one he is confused, boots...lol


AmericanGangster
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This was written by one of the white gay staffers at MTO. LOL. You guys are hilarious.


nyagua215
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THATS CRAZY IM BI..AN I ALWAYS HONEST ABOUT MYSELF TO THE FEMALES..ITS CALLED BEING REAL


DQC
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LOL womp womp! we knew that. i know two DL dudes from MD who pick up chicks in clubs every weekend. i asked them why they don't say up front what they are, and they told me, it's a one night stand... all that detail is TMI. so whores, u might wanna get tested. and wives, u might wanna monitor your man a little closer. lol my man will tell u he's not allowed to spend time with his friends for more than 10 mins. no hanging with the boys!


msxyred
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That is why so many black women are dying from HIV/AIDS!!!


mkef9779
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to whomever anonymously submitted this: please, do yourself a favor...when you search for the one, tell her what your preferences are and if she doesn't care, then you can have a beautiful relationship...but if you do not be open and communicate, you will cheat yourself and you not be fulfilled. please, keep in mind that there are women out there that do exist on such a level where they are looking for a man like you and have the understanding and insight that it takes to deal with such things...otherwise, if you are not entirely true to yourself, you will settle for less, be a cheater due to hiding and a lack of communication and your appetite might grow on an innocent person...so, communicate what you are or what your preferences are bc if you find the right one for you she can handle you...yeah, black woman are strong and deal with this kind of shit all the time, but there are women in general that can handle and tolerate it...so put your heart into your search for true love...always communicate at the beginning...


BMORE2SWDC
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WELL TO EACH HIS OWN ... I DONT AGREE WITH THE LYING TO A WOMEN CAUSE THAT IS DECEPTION .. BUT I CANT BE JUDGEMENTAL BECAUSE AGAIN WE ALL DO THINGS THAT ARE SHORTCOMINGS IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER .... BMORE STAND UP !!!


momo28
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There are downlow brothas for sure that are out there. But let's get to the next subject. Down low sistas, yes and they know who they are...Latifah, Jada Pinkett, Oprah and Gayle, half of the WNBA, your church choir. Funny thing it's easier for them to get away with it. Cause of the natural bond with women in general. They can sleep in the same bed, dance ,shower and change clothes with ease. Whereas with men it's not the same. Plus, it's easier to accept the fact of two women than two men. Easier, but not in open arms way either. So some you guys may need to watch your women's friend a little closer!!


MEDIAclub25
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typo *and oh and @HONEYBUNN: DL men are in every race, ok. White college guys do it, Hispanic men do it, not just Black men. So just to say that DL dudes are the reason that you don't date Black men is kind of crazy. As usual the media only shows the negative when it comes to our race or distort the figures to make us seem worst then everyone else.


ravenbtc6twh
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LMAO..WOW!! I WANNA C DUDE DAT WROTE THIS..


MissM
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Brotha, you are in DENIAL. I know you do not wish to have your manhood questioned, but let's face it, you are a gay/bisexual man. What you should do is disclose all of that and who knows, maybe the woman would still want you, but do not count on it. The trouble I see is that you are not being completely honest and that is what is going to impede on any relationship that you have, be it men or women. Just be who you really are and if someone wants you, they will let you know, its just that simple. Boldly bring it to the forefront and then everyone is on the same page.


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VicSage
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So that's what Lil dck suck and GayYe are thinking..Hmmmm makes sense now to the masses..True Talk.


WELCOME2HOLLAND
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I SAY WOMEN... TO MAKE SURE WE ARE PROTECTED FROM ALL THIS F*CKERY..... ALL LADIES ( IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE)))) NEED TO JUST INVEST IN B.O.B AND CALL IT A DAY BOB=BATTERY OPERATED BOY..... ALL LADIES ( IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE)))) NEED TO JUST INVEST IN B.O.B AND CALL IT A DAY BOB=BATTERY OPERATED BOY..... ALL LADIES ( IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE)))) NEED TO JUST INVEST IN B.O.B AND CALL IT A DAY BOB=BATTERY OPERATED BOY..... ALL LADIES ( IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE)))) NEED TO JUST INVEST IN B.O.B AND CALL IT A DAY BOB=BATTERY OPERATED BOY..... ALL LADIES ( IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE)))) NEED TO JUST INVEST IN B.O.B AND CALL IT A DAY BOB=BATTERY OPERATED BOY.....



DBOSTON
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@whatwhatwaht I do not agree with your point number #3. If a gay man looks at me for a extended period of time. I will ask him what the f##k is he looking at me for. He might get an azz wooping depending on his response. I would give a damn if a gay man is looking at me. I do not want no dude checking me out. Most straight men would have a problem with a gay dude checking him out. You are trying to mislead the black sisters with point # 3 down the wrong path. If a man has no problem with a gay man checking him out then I would argue that that fool is gay.


lainy
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Has anyone checked out DLBrutha? He posted second.He is actly what this story speaks about. I really don't understaqnd if you are in search of thy true self why not find that someone that accepts you for you? Why jepordize the lives of so many others? Those that switch are truly in search of what makes them comfortable and happy. Black soceity does not help we do not condone gay/bi relationships. I think if we were more accepting then more gay black men would come out and let the world see who they truly are.


Conscious1
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miss_frankbarbie Flag post @ conscious...PREACH, TABERNACLE!!!!!! you got to unveil these bytches!!!! ====================================== This was TOOOOOOOO easy. This thread goes up and "DLBRUTHA" was the second poster. SMDH @ how they love to pull black folks string. What an evil person---love seeing black folks paranoid (DL stuff) and in an uproar(IR relationships). Yep, a white man most definitely owns and RUNS this website.


WillYouMaryMe
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This makes you want to avoid men all together. Whenever I see a sagging pants-wearing man with his booty all exposed, hanging with his boys [or one of them fems with tight, skinny jeans and emo hair], I just write them off as being f*gg0ts.


DBOSTON
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whatwhatwaht I do not agree with your point number #3. If a gay man looks at me for a extended period of time. I will ask him what the f##k is he looking at me for. He might get an azz wooping depending on his response. I would give a damn if a gay man is looking at me. I do not want no dude checking me out. Most straight men would have a problem with a gay dude checking him out. You are trying to mislead the black sisters with point # 3 down the wrong path. If a man has no problem with a gay man checking him out then I would argue that that fool is gay.


HandsomeStallion
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momo28, I agree. If you're downlow, male or female, you're a coward and a liar. No two ways about it. I'm gonna keep it 100 here. People wonder why there's so much homophobia. I personally don't have anything against those who wish to indulge in such an act. That's their business. What they do between the sheets doesn't affect my life one bit. But when this d/l brothers are deceiving our sisters like this, it pisses me the fúck off. One of my sisters found out her b/f was d/l after 2years. I swear, when I found that out, I went over there and whooped his ass. I don't give a damn what anyone says, when it happens to your own family, all logic flies out the window. Luckily, that piece of crap didn't give her anything, but I swear, weak simple minded brothers like him need to be castrated. This is why there's hardly any trust in the black community anymore.


butch31
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What cracks me da hell up is this: If someone tells u sum shyt like this, and most of u say, why dont u come out, and show who u r, or why r u hiding? why da hell would u want to know who it is? When i'm at work, da gym, gocery store or mall, i dont want to know ur personal business, like wut u did wit who last nite, last week, last month etc...TMI. If a dude or female is attracted to da same sex, let it be! Just be glad it aint u. By now, all of us should be able to spot lesbians, gays, bi-sexuals and down low people. Its easier now, than say 30 yrs ago. Do u, and move on!


keeta85
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He is very nasty and whoever that woman is in the future good luck he should have kept that shit to his self


tiajohn74
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See shyt like this is the reason why I'm going to become celibate. With men like this walking the earth I don't ever want to get married, for real, I will stay single and celiabte, happy and HIV NEGATIVE.


HandsomeStallion
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myxy, I feel where you're coming from on that, but it goes both ways. If alot of these peeps were so deceitful, I guarantee the homophobia wouldn't be so high in our community. Alot of the hate stems from fear. Like I said, I've got nothing against gays. That's their business. But when I see how the d/l gays do that shiet to my community, it pisses me right off.


scorpio_queen02
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I almost threw up in my mouth reading the 1st few sentences... I don't even know why I clicked on this You's a fukkin GAY! Find a btich that accepts that shit! FUKK MAN! Pisses me off


jade516
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THIS IS SOOOOO FOWL. LISTEN I DONT CARE IF YOUR GAY, STRAIGHT, BI BUT PICK A TEAM AND STAY ON THAT TEAM. IT'S SOOOOOO UNFAIR TO MISREPRESENT YOURSELF TO SOMEONE BASED ON GREED OR "YOUR NEEDS" BEING FULLFILLED. IF A PERSON IS STRAIGHT FORWARD AND A WOMAN DECIDES TO DEAL WITH YOU...THEN THAT IS HER BUSINESS. TO TAKE AWAY A PERSONS RIGHT TO KNOW WHO THE REAL YOU IS, IS SIMPLY IMMATURE AND SELFFISH.


DQC
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we can talk about the cause all day, which we all know is Christianity, but the real issue is how to 'escape' the effects of DLism. it's worse than crack!


TooFine4WhiteMedia
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This whole story is more then likely a fraud and was just created by MTO to drive Black women crazy and generate clicks. Read the following except from an article written about MTO (WHICH THEY HAD LINKED TO THEIR SITE AND THEN REMOVED) : "Mwangaguhunga begins his day at 2am every morning and has a meeting with his staff of four between 3am and 4am to discuss what’s going to be on the site, each of who are required to produce between one and two stories everyday, seven days a week. http://www.blackweb20.com/2009/03/19/inside-look-at-mediatakeoutcom/?disqus_reply=7418612#comment-7418612 MTO just makes crap up for clicks. Take the above story with a grain of salt ladies.


scorpio_queen02
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This is why I don't get too mad when i see niccas with white girls... If u like men, then like men! Don't say ur not gay... u fit the damn definition... so what, the definition is wrong? No...



Treasure8430
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NOT TRYIN TO JUSTIFY WRONGS INTO RIGHTS........BUT SINCE I AM A WOMAN (HETERO WOMAN AT THAT)MY ONLY CONCERN IS THE DL DUDES OUT THERE......THE 1'S WHO WON'T ADMIT TO THEMSELVES AND THE PEOPLE THEY SUPPOSEDLY LOVE THAT THEY R BI/GAY.....THINKIN THAT IF THEY USE CONDOMS ON THE MEN THEY SLEEP WIT THAT, THAT WOULD MAKE THEM WELL AWARE OF THE ACTIONS THEY R GOIN TO PROCEED WITH AND BASICALLY ACKNOWLEDGIN THEY R GAY......THAT'S Y SO MANY WOMEN HAVE HIV & AIDS.......U NEVA HEAR ABOUT BI/LESBIAN DL WOMEN GOIN OUT SLEEPIN AROUND AND THEN COMIN BACK TO THEIR HUSBANDS GIVIN THEM HIV AND/OR AIDS......NOW IF THAT'S GOIN ON HOW COME WE'RE NOT HEARING ABOUT?


TaylorSiluwe
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This is so weak. This self-loathing homo actually is trying make the case that he "just likes what he likes." I have no tolerance for people too WEAK and SMALL to live authentic lives and who make up convoluted excuses for why they do what they do and expect everyone to be stupid enough to believe it. This man isn't bi, he's GAY -- straight up self-hating homo church abused GAY. Of course he loves woman, all gay men do, especially our African Queens -- but that doesn't make him bi. If he really wanted to put women on a pedestal he wouldn't lie about liking dick. The fact that he can't makes him pathetic. Bottomline, he's a sad excuse for a man, and will a lousy partner for anybody (male or female), until he grows a pair learns to be himself and proud about it. ~~ SGL Cafe - where Same Gender Love rules!


TooFine4WhiteMedia
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And why are the brothers sitting on a white boys lap in the cartoon? You know damn well a white boy draw that cartoon. They always have to put themselves in our lives one way or the other like some how someone is thinking about them or concerned with their existance. SMDH.


HandsomeStallion
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weren't so deceitful*


EducatedBlaqueChick
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I'd like to first start by saying that this young man is obviously bisexual. He enjoys sex with both men and women, so no matter how he tries to twist his desires to satisfy his conscience, that is the title that fits him best. As for him hiding his sexuality and refusing to see it for what it is, look at the comments you all are leaving... Homophobes like the ones here on mediatakeout are the reason why we have downlow brothers. They already face a hard life considering that they are Black males, and they don't want to make life any harder by being a GAY Black male. It's not the White people that would look down on them for their sexuality, it's their own people. And why would anyone "choose" to be gay or bisexual? Matter of fact, why would anyone Black choose to be gay or bisexual? They obviously aren't "choosing" to have these desires. This is why they are on the "downlow".


WELCOME2HOLLAND
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LADIES SLEEP WITH B.O.B ONLY BATTERY OPERATED BOY HE IS SAFE... I THINK ITS TIME INVEST..LMAO


soniablaid
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WOW! This is exactly why I've been celibate for the past 2+ yrs! I guess I will stay that way as long as there are sorry, low down bro's like u! How can u say u luv black women. Don't u have a mother or sister, niece, something? Would u want them 2 be treated this way? Goodness.... If u want 2 be NASTY, be nasty by yourself, don't make black women suffer with u (haven't we suffered enough)! Keep it real!


Tika90
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1killa Flag post I'm DL and that guy who wrote this is ridiculous! He will never stop gettin in that a$$. It's just so good! Unless women can measure up to what a man can do for a man, then I wont ever stop...entirely different experience. Sometimes better. Women, step ya game up! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your a fag!!!!!!Your not DL....DL my ass, or shall I say his ass....You like it waaaaay to much, it seems... There are some women that will give you the ASS, that is if it ASS that you want...It seems like you like the whole package...


wakeupblkpeople
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It's so easy to be DL. The sex takes about ten minutes, you don't have to worry if the man will climax or not, the sex spots are endless and after you are done ...you're done, no one will have your business all out in the streets. The world forced men to go underground, by assuming all gays were limp wristed, ladylike men who wear make-up and all that bs. Now you have DL Men of all races. SO I guess it's something we have to live with. And ladies you can't tell if a man is DL or not. Just be careful.


Goose82084
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What type a $hit is this?? How could you have feelings to go up in a man a$$ and your not gay, You want man a$$ and you think you could have a normal relationship with a woman, too much AIDS going ran for that boo!!


EducatedBlaqueChick
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"I'm DL and that guy who wrote this is ridiculous! He will never stop gettin in that a$$. It's just so good! Unless women can measure up to what a man can do for a man, then I wont ever stop...entirely different experience. Sometimes better. Women, step ya game up!" Why don't you come out of the closet and stop expecting women to meet your homosexual desires. Obviously, women are not for you so why should we "step" our game up?


ladyj12
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This guy says that he loves black women so much, then why is he killing us by sleeping with men and then most likely catching AIDS and spreading it to women????????


Justforfun
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Be especially weary of men that were incarcerated for an extended amount of time. I know one in BK that to this minute you would never have thunk it EVER, came home only wanted to hang with dudes he knew up north just about alienated every other male or person who was close to him before and hides behind women who are stupid and unsuspecting because of his street cred. The day I heard him express his feelings on how he Looove, this one dude the first thing I thought was " It's like that" and another time he was like "now I know why men turn that way" I should of called him on the spot right then and there but when I brougt it back up at another time he said he never said that. I feel bad for the women they do deceive and it is only because they are ashamed if it was 100% acceptable in the community, most would still lie. However, alot of these women dont care who they sleep with, whether he just got out of prison, if he is married, got a girl whatever placing themselves as well as the 2 or 3 other men they sleeping with at risk and it just goes on forever. Only thing you can do is strap up til YOU KNOW. Most of these thugs do not have a good job, health insurance and if they do dont take time to go check what is going on inside their bodies its a crying shame.


DQC
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u know what, Christianity does cause a fear of honesty about what is deemed unacceptable behavior, but i have to add that some people are just turned on by the 'sneaky' factor. a lot of people cheat and/or go DL just because it's sneaky and it brings some excitement to them. but once again, the real issue is how to stop and avoid this mess. i say we all go celibate! lmao


Treasure8430
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@ TooFine4WhiteMedia YEAH OK........MTO MIGHT HAVE MADE THIS STORY UP......THE THE SUBJECT MATTER IS VERY REAL......I HEARD ABOUT DL DUDES THINKIN THAT TYPE OF NONSENSE ONCE TOO MANY TIMES.......SO I'M NOT GONNA B NAIVE & GULLIBLE AND I KNW A LOT OF WOMEN OUT THERE AREN'T EITHER.......U ONLY GET 1 LIFE & 1 BODY..........U HAVE TO CHERISH WAT U HAVE.



DQC
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o my! stop the gay bashing! this is exactly why people lie about being gay. lol silly people.


miss_frankbarbie
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@ momo...queen latifah, jada pinket, wnba...ummm their on the dl TO YOU/the media...latifah is engaged to her girl and i'm sure will knows whats up with jada (hence the swingers thing) and mto just posted pics of some bball chick hugged up with females. i think youre missing the point of being on the dl...just cause you and i don't know about it, doesn't mean youre on the dl...its keeping your sexual desires and "likings" hidden from the person you are having relations with. you can't be dl if you are marrying the person your on the dl with...smh, you guys are funny.


PUSSYCATFUN
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GET THE F*CK OUTTA HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF A MAN HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN HE'S GAY! IF A MAN LIKE TO "TASTE" ANOTHER MAN....HE'S GAY IF A MAN LIE ABOUT BEING GAY HE NEED TO GET "TESTED" IF A MAN LIE TO THE WOMEN IN HIS LIFE ABOUT "TASTING" ANOTHER MAN...HE NEED TO GET KNIFED UP!


miss_frankbarbie
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to the writer of this "manifesto" (using the word manifesto VERY loosely): if you have to hide your feelings and desires from your partner, man or woman, then they are not the one for you...its that simple. to me, it seems like dl queens (yall dirty pieces of trade) like the drama, secrecy and deception. any self respecting homosexual would bash this fool on the spot.


Tika90
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Yall are going to think Im crazy, buuuut, I dont think there are more than one type of gay....We have the DRAG QUEENS (men that want to be women), gays that want a "woman-man" relationship, excluding the woman, the men that are not necessarily turned off by women, but extremly turned on by men, they consider themselves "Bi", they are more of "tri" to me,but anyway, we have the flaming fish, and then DL. To me, DL men dont want to be with a man,in a relationship anyway, they just want the physical benefits of it...I dont think they want to lay up with a man either, I think they fulfill their fantasy and come back to reality to the straight life with the kids, wife, etc. These DL men wish it was just a group of them, but there are some that are a little more than DL and dip off into the gay community where there is a higher rate of AIDS, and their little group starts being affected, which causes women to start catching it. That's my theory! And yes,to you DL men, DL IS A FORM OF "GAY"....YOU DETERMINE THE LEVEL... Some of you think the DL level is not that bad...ha, it's no different than the other, except the scenario, and lifestyle may be different...but you all have something in common...MEN.....It's like a box of crayons...they are all crayons, just different colors!!!!!


caramelphatty
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This is dreadful and scary...This is why women are dating outside their race and becoming lesbians. And this is why I have no respect for DL men...I love black men, but this is a shame...This happens in other races also but I honestly think it has become a serious epidemic in the African American community. These DL brothas need to start being truthful cuz it takes one crazy woman to find out what your doing and then she will torture and then kill you...GTFOH!!


DQC
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wow! lol i predict 1000 comments. i know everybody has their own beliefs, but i don't agree that gay is bad. i do concur that lying about being gay is a problem. DL guys, have a heart! think beyond your dick and your ass and try to spare us all the drama and trauma we do not deserve. at least wear a condom.


FASTBLACK
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i think he should just be honest. there are some women who wouldn't mind....like Jada


wakeupblkpeople
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Somebody said this is why women become lesbians? That's just dumb. Must be ugly or fat. You don't start licking pu$$y b/c of DL men. Don't be ignorant.


miss_frankbarbie
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what is sad is some of these comments... some of you are so clueless...its not about coming out to the world about your sexual preferences, its about communicating with the person you are having sex with. none of you should give a damn what "dl brotha" does behind closed doors unless you are phucking him. grow up people, wake up!!!!


miss_frankbarbie
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@ wakeupblkpeople... I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!


Tika90
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lol @ FASTBLACK.... there are some women out there that dont feel threatened by this... All they need to do is look for them. There's somebody for everybody.


AKeysWannabee
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Well, that's just nasty..


longlegzzlady
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NICCA YOU'RE IN DENIAL. WHEN YOU HAVE ANY DEALINGS SEXUALLY WITH SOMEONE OF THE SAME SEX YOU ARE GAY NO MATTER WHAT YOU CALL YOURSELF. IT'S PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT'S KILLING US BLACK WOMEN WITH AIDS. IT'S THE SAME AS IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE IS PLOTTING TO KILL ANOTHER PERSON AND YOU DON'T WARN THEM. DIG DEEP IN YOUR SOUL ON THAT NOTE AND SEE WHAT YOU COME UP WITH. I HAVE MUCH RESPECT TO THOSE WHO IS OUT AND GAY OR BI BUT I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR CREATURES LIKE YOU. SAD THAT I CAN'T EVAN CALL YOU A MAN CAUSE YOU'RE NOT.


monique2468
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CANT TRUST ANY1 LOL HOWZ HE GNA SAIII HE AINT GAY I FEEL SORRY 4 HIS FUTURE WIFE



Tika90
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wakeupblkpeople Flag post Somebody said this is why women become lesbians? That's just dumb. Must be ugly or fat. You don't start licking pu$$y b/c of DL men. Don't be ignorant. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- You know who said it....Dont be scared to call them out...lol


NILE
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Its 2009...are we really still shocked by this??? If you are then I am glad that perhaps this brought you into the light. Women use condoms alllllways with allllll men...and use your brain and your instinct before commitment...your gut never lies to you...we only lie to ourselves. Its 2009 ladies...nothing wrong with some serious ivestigation in folks before forming relationships. A man is a MAN and those in question reveal their true self in one way or another...just stop making excuses and covering your eyes to hide from the revelation.


DQC
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ooo! arched eyebrows are a dead giveaway!


thatnigg
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Most DL men that are Tops (givers) enjoy the power of pulling up behind another masculine man, and starting his engine. When he looks at it as power he can then avoid looking at it as being gay.


DQC
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preach it richchick! and even though some are smart enough to give u the right answer, still interrogate the mofo to no end and watch his bodylanguage! i love telling them i'm bi and getting nasty with my convo to see what they'll share too. there was one dude i asked if i could tie him up. yes. so then i said, could we go buy a strap on so i could experiment with u? he was like, no girl u crazy! but the giggle he gave made me dig deeper. so i cocked my head to the side and gave the puppy eyes and begged. why that mofo said ok fine. lmao busted!!!


50RoundDrum
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thats some nasty bull shittt there!


jordansmommy84
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. . . . . . .


Conscious1
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Damn HandsomeStallion it hit close to home for you huh? That must've been a scary time for your sister. Is she getting tested every 6 months? She has to keep doing so for about 2 yrs to make sure she's in the clear. How'd she find out? Dang. The stink around town is that my cousin is messing with a dude who sleeps with guys for money. Everyone knows. She doesn't care. She ain't leave him when he beat her and cheated on her with other females, so she ain't gonna leave him because of a little downlow thing. <sarcasm>


Constance_Turbo
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FAKE!!! Cut it out MTO. If you don't have real stories just close up shop already.


Redduck
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It's ok to admit it but why admit it if your still on the down-low??? I just don't understand why you can’t be honest and give the lady the choice? If she doesn’t want you becuz you sleep with me, of course she doesn’t want that, but you’re playing with our lives as women. It's unfair and not healthy at all! You should be shot becuz if she doesn't except you for your raging hormones of wanting both sex, then leave her, don't destroy her life or better yet take her life by your ignorance and your selfness. You need to be proud of you and all that you do, if you’re going to do it. I went to my first gay club Friday with a friend becuz I finally except her for coming out, and I seen things I was applaud by but my friend who I went with told me that gays need to enjoy there life too, I seen a lot of down low guys in there and I was pissed but then again I was glad that they wore mingling with their people and not going to a straight club trying to deceive people. So to who wrote this letter, come out and be real to yourself and with others becuz one day you will be exposed, rather you get sick with HIV or one of your down-low lovers exposé you.


byemail
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keep it reall ppl!!! don't lie/deceive ppl!! smh


SpeakOfTheDevil
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Hey MTO! If I write a, How To F@ck Whitey Over Economically manifesto,will you print that??


Tika90
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@ DQC, OMG...LMBAO...Your a mess.


DQC
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LOL true story though. i'm so paranoid about DLs that I go to extremes to uncover them. lol


BASHY
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I'LL PAYPAL 1,000 PESOS TO ANY READER WHO EXPOSES THE NAME OF THIS FOOL!



SpeakOfTheDevil
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@Tika90 What are you ranting about? Aren't you a DL dyke? MTO ( crazy homo guys) and you broads are all nuts. The story is a complete fabrication but you people are so neurotic that you go along with whatever MTO tells you.LOL Morons!!


Foxy90210
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This not right! If a man what's to be on the down low than that's fine! But at least be honest! But please don't look my way lol


Conscious1
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DL is the new black...literally. SpeakOfTheDevil You're one HAWT white boy. We'd make pretty babies. Call me. *wink*


IncrediblyEasy
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I can kinda understand where he's coming from. I tell people i'm 35 all the time. But it's wrong and deceptive. Ladies need to be careful.


MISSMONROE
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that ish makes me soooo f'ing angry. and for the record u ARE gay! if any man want his dick near another man he's a HOMOSEXUAL.lets call it like it is. thats the reason hiv/aids is an epidemic in the blk community now. how dare he say its not lying by not telling women his gay tendencies rather just dont feel the need to tell them. that doesnt give women an opportunity to protect themselves. its selfsh and disgusting and he should fcukin kill himself


whatwhatwhat
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Another thing ladies. DL and married DL brothers DO NOT LIKE TO WEAR CONDOMS. That's right. They are f*cking all these booty holes raw. They think they are indestructible. A gay man will have to fight a DL man to put a condom on and he still won't do it. I don't know why but they are ignorant to safe sex practices. That's why it's important FOR YOU to ALWAYS MAKE YOUR MAN wear a condom.


Tika90
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SpeakOfTheDevil Flag post @Tika90 What are you ranting about? Aren't you a DL dyke? MTO ( crazy homo guys) and you broads are all nuts. The story is a complete fabrication but you people are so neurotic that you go along with whatever MTO tells you.LOL Morons!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Suck a big hot hairy cock....I've never been a lesbian....I love my man, and I love myself...Sure there are some HOT women out there, but it's easy to recognize them because I one!!! Dont try and down play me with what you dont know about me....Im honored that you find my post interesting enough to try and clasify me as something Im not... And Amber is still HOT....lol


Tika90
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@ speakofthedevil....I dont necessarily BELIEVE the story MTO puts out there...but it gives us a hell of a topic to talk about....


DQC
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Tika90 Flag post Suck a big hot hairy cock. **************************** rofflmfao


TravelAgent
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This is some typical selfishness at best. This is exactly what I'm talking about and this is exactly WHY DL men are so despised. Don't lie to me. Give me the opportunity to make a well informed decision about MY life, not yours! You know what you want. Guess what, most women do to, but you KNOW you can't give them that, so you deny them the RIGHT to KNOW who and what they are dealing with because it will mess up YOUR thing YOU've got going on. That is completely SELFISH!!! Then he has the nerve to say: "To the woman I will one day marry : I promise to be a good husband, and a good father to our children, and a good grandfather to our children. I'll love you, and protect you, and cherish you, and make you laugh, and dry your tears, try to give you the kind of home you have always wanted, and do my best to make your life as happy as it can be. But sometimes, I'll still want a man......" WHAT TYPE OF BS IS THAT?!?!?!? Newsflash, you could NEVER be a good husband, father or grandfather keeping something so profound hidden from your family. And if you do, that's not loving or protecting them. Who will protect them from? Yourself? The mirage you created for them? The life they thought they lived but really don't? You must not believe that what is done in the dark will eventually come to light - at the most inopportuned time. The home most women want is a safe, happy, and honest one. Most women need their partner to be their FRIEND and confidante. How can you expect her to be everything for you when you would NEVER be EVERYTHING for her? There is already VERY LITTLE TRUST between men and women in the black community creating havok in the worst way for our children. Man is given the responsibility of being a leader. He gets upset when he feels a woman does not hand over the reigns of authority. How can she, when she will possibly be giving her life to someone so willing to tear her down for his own selfish reasons? I've always said, if the sun doesn't shine again, it's because a man somewhere hasn't done his job. -Love -Protect -Provide -Guide Learn what each of those words REALLY mean. And MAN UP! You are gay! And you are selfish, conniving, and deceitful!


DQC
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lmfao i can't quit laughing. are they really hot? LOL ima be checking the temperatures from now on. lol


Tika90
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LOL @ DQC.....The ones he sucks are...lol


LesbianBeauty84
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Holdddddd the fu*k UP!!! My dude, this is the reason why HIV/AIDS is around!!! You're willing to lay up with a man and have sex with him, but at the same time doing the same thing with a woman. What in the hell is wrong with you? You're bisexual...no I'm sorry you're GAY. Just come out the closet already...by you doing what you do...you're going to end up hurting someone, someone will either beat your ass and you just might either get an STD or HIV/AIDS. My dude, you need to wake the FU*K UP and decide which sex you want to be with.


Lovely_Brown
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This "Manifesto" reminds me of an episode of the Tyra Banks Show. On the show, there were these men, who were gay, but said that they hated gay people and wanted to give up the lifestyle by the time they reached a certain age. Now while I think some of those men probably will still attempt to give up, or at least slow down, their involvement with men, I believe what was learned from that show is that gay is gay. If you are a man and you lay down with another man, or if you have romantic feelings for another man, then you are gay----period. Now, if you want to not act on those feelings, that is entirely up to you. But, bringing a woman and children into that madness is not the right thing to do. Your being "down low" is making your issues THEIR problem now, and that is not fair. And another thing, many men, gay and straight, think that they have the right to determine another person's circumstances. And they think that they are somehow doing this other person a favor by lying to them; but no, what you are doing is being a coward, selfish and disrespectful. So, with all that typed, hopefully, these men will one day learn that they need to be honest with themselves as well as the people that they bring into their lives and into their beds---I mean, it's simply the very least that they can do.


cocoablissnVA
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See ladies, that's exactly why we have to educate ourselves to stay ahead of these fools that think they are protecting us by not "titling" themselves as HOMO! That's what they are...GAY AS HELL.



sweetpea1
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I don't care what he says. If you are a man having sex with another man or a woman having sex with another woman, you are bi-sexual or homosexual. If he is so "bout bout", there would not be any shame in his game about him letting a woman know he likes to have sex with men too. He's full of it! Coward! People protect yourself or practice absitience.


bew-t
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This is sad to me. I am a woman. It is scary. To me any1's s e x life is thier business, but me personally I couldn't live a lie. If I knew I had to sleep with men and women, I wouldn't commit to marriage for sure. I'd definitely let the woman know. It's only fair - if I want to sleep with men and I am going to do it from time to time - it's up to her if she still decides to get emotionally attached to me. Be real with what you do - it's what you like. Don't post this anonomous bull s h i t - just keep it real.


thatnigg
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BIGBOTTYBOY where you at? This was made up by MTO staff. It was just time for a post like this.


fine1natl
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This is bullshit im sick of these dl dudes and there shit...i use to be a dl dude when i first started dealing with the lifestyle and then i realized that i could never be true to me and have fun with my life because im worried about what people thought or somebody calling me out..Once i owned up to who i was and am no one treated me diffrent no one stop talking to me judged me at the height of my career and i was still respected. i dated men and women most of the times i dated them at the same time STRESSFUL IT IS!!!! but i sat my girlfriend down and told her what the biz was and she accepted me for me we are still friends to this day and infact shes a lesbo now we broke up on good terms (relocation) and everyone female after that i made it very clear I am bi I have dated dudes i will not date a dude while with you i have gay and bi friends your more then welcome to meet them can you handle it 87% was fine with it. DL DUDES JUST NEED TO BE YOURSELF!!! I tried dating DL dudes and it never work im not gonna play your homeboi around your friends and family or we living together and play as your roommate thats tired be a MAN STAND UP OWN IT


whatwhatwhat
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@DBOSTON @whatwhatwaht I do not agree with your point number #3. If a gay man looks at me for a extended period of time. I will ask him what the f##k is he looking at me for. He might get an azz wooping depending on his response. I would give a damn if a gay man is looking at me. I do not want no dude checking me out. Most straight men would have a problem with a gay dude checking him out. You are trying to mislead the black sisters with point # 3 down the wrong path. If a man has no problem with a gay man checking him out then I would argue that that fool is gay. ____ Dude, why did you have to prove my theory right? See you didn't have to say anything. But you want to kick some gay man's ass. For what? Because he hurt your manhood with his eyes? And most gay dudes will whoop your ass if you tried man up to them like that. Fact is gay dudes don't take whippings like they used to. Because of that little Homo Thug movement most of them are harder than you are. And they fight like it too. But you are right. Most straight men do have a problem with gay men looking at them. But most straight men are confident in themselves to let it slide and probably even take it as a compliment even though they're no homo. So if you see a gay man checking you out just take it as a compliment and thank your parents for the good genes. Because gay men are picky as hell and if you can turn their heads then you got it going on.


mightybig
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Dude is gay.He should accept it all......


Lovely_Brown
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whatwhatwhat, why would it matter if a gay dude is checking you out? Are you scared that you will turn gay? If you are secure in your manhood, then it doesn't matter what someone else is doing. All you have to say to that man is that you are not gay. But, if you feel the need to get all loud and confrontational about it, then that just makes it seem like you have to create some sort of a diversion to get the attention off of you. I swear, most homophobes are secretly gay. They are the main ones who eventually end up being caught in some hotel with a dude. I mean, I get that being in denial and scared about your orientation being found out can be difficult; but you acting like Rambo just because some random dude MIGHT be interested in you only makes it seem like you have something to hide. SMH


fire4u
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And the gay agenda continues..... This letter serves to envoke fear in the heart and minds of young black women who desire to have a straight man, and a secure family life. This letter serves to destroy the secure foundation of the black family and the procreation of children and marriage as a relates to the black family. Without a straight male and a female securely in place, the black family is destroyed. WHy would the author of this ignorant letter began his thought by first stating that "He loves us"! lmao! Give me a break.The intent is to "gloat" and to rub our faces in the homosexual promiscuity. If not, I would hate to encounter someone that hates me. A man that loves you will protect you, and will give you all the truth that allows you to make a decision for you, and not just for his selfish agenda. If my agenda is to have a solid family , and yours is not, then one would wonder why you would not just be gay? That is if you love me. So, this letter is from a gay man,who seeks to further "highlight" the gay lifestyle, peek the curiosity of the straight men, as well as keep the small percentage of dl men that they seek have inside the fold. Yes, Dl men do exist, but the author of this letter is a gay man, otherwise why write it?


Girlsluvgems
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Down Low Brothers should be strung up by their balls... No better yet, slice their balls off and stuff them in his mouth since he like to taste nuts... People are so SELFISH now a days. YOU WANT IT ALL!! Cheating is cheating!! Sexual diseases WILL damage your insides IF you are un aware of them. Marriage IS STILL A SACRED UNION! AND LIARS DESTROYS PEOPLE'S LIVES!!! YOU KNOW YOU ARE GAY!!! JUST PRANCE OUT THE CLOSET AND DEAL WITH IT SICKO!!!!!


WELCOME2HOLLAND
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SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many of us are EDUCATED about the this FUCKERY and sooooooooooo many GOOD VALID POINTS U WITH SENSE HAVE MADE its just sad BUT THE MF PRIDE OF MAN NOT JUST A SPECFIC RACE..BUT MOFOS PRIDE TO STRONG TO BE REAL AND THEN WE ARE THE FREAKIN VICTUMS..


WELCOME2HOLLAND
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MAKES ME THINK OF THE MOVIE COVER WITH LEON


WELCOME2HOLLAND
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I DO BELEIVE IN CHOICE AND IF THATS WHAT MAKES U HAPPY SO BE IT..BUT CHOOSE A SIDE... BECAUSE THIS IS CRAZYYYYYYYY


HandsomeStallion
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Conscious1, it happened to her like 5 years ago. She found text messages on his phone and then eventually caught him in the act. Damn, when she came home and told us, me and my dad found that sick fúck and whooped his ass. The dude had the nerve to say 'it's your fault because your family is homophobic." what the hell is that? Stop blaming homophobia. If you wanna sleep with a man, that's you, but don't try and live under false pretenses and involve innocent women. You would think after that happened I'd have a strong vendetta against gays. But I don't. Just liars. And DL brothers are the worst liars. Cowards. Luckily, she settled down now and is married. Me and my family don't play around when it comes to health. Promiscuity and DL brothers are the reason HIV/STDs are so high in the black community. People need to strap up and and not just sleep with anybody. Your body is a temple. Sex is sacred. If you are gonna sleep with someone before getting married, at least make sure you know this person 100%. You're always gonna regret one night stands, especially when it comes back and bite you as a disease.


esotericdredz
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Conscious1 Flag post Y'all know this is Fred LYING right? How yesterday me and Blue_Ballz got in it about gayness and this appears today? We all know his crew be lurking because as soon as you post a story in the FORUMS, it's on MTO. As soon as you say it's Amber Rose's sister, a title is changed. It's not even an ARTICLE but just some RANDOM dude telling us why he likes cheeks? Not buying it. Y'all also peep how not even 5 posts in, DLBRUTHA zoomed in here to add to the fire? Also, another MTO mask saying the explosive "Ladies step your game up"? ----------------------------------------- The minute I saw this posted I thought the same thing...That is was related to the argument from the post yesterday. MTO will make up any old kind of nonsense just to get and keep people arguing and fighting. This story is completely fabricated. ---------------


WELCOME2HOLLAND
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I AM A STRAIGHT WOMAN AND I HAVE A STYLIST WHO IS A GAY MALE .. WHILE AT THE BONNERS BROTHER HAIR SHOW N ATL ... WE WANT TO A MALE GAY CLUB UNKNOWINGLY.. BUT THE FEW MINUTES WE WERE THERE IS WAS VERY SAD BECAUSE I WAS IN DISBELIEF AND YOU GUYS SHOULD HAVE SAWWWWWW THE FINE MEN,THUGS, AND ALL THESE SAME DUDES THAT BE ON THE STRAIGHT CLUBS WHERE THERE IT WAS HEARTBREAKING.. I WAS SO IN SHOCK THAT WHEN WE PASSED THESE CLUBS AND THEIR STRIP ONSPRING STREET ANYONE IN ATL KNOWS THATS WHERE THEY PROSTIUTE.. I WAS GETTING A GOOD LOOK AT ALL THEM NEGROES..PICK UP TRANNYIES... AND ALL THESE MESS...ITS LIKE A SECRET SOCIETY AND ITS SAD BECAUSE SO MANY MEN ARE DOING THIS SHHHHHH



DQC
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lol naw mto put this up because they have that new gay website ad. they figured DL dudes would come read this so they can chuckle like lil bitches at how clever and sneaky they are, and catch the ad at the same time. the weakness and lack in creativity of the story does suggest that it was fabricated by someone who has never even kissed the opposite sex, but nonetheless, it is a real problem in our society.


WELCOME2HOLLAND
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i was getting my hair done and another GAY male worked nhis shop at the time...AND ONE OF HIS CLIENTS BOYFRIENDS BROUGHT THE DUDE ROSES HE WAS DOING HIS CLIENTS MAN...AND HE WAS FINE. BEING FRIENDS WITH A GAY GUY OR 2 IS VERY INFORMATIVE..I ASK QUESTIONS BECAUSE I BE WANTING TO KNOW... THEY STORIED ABOUT HOW MEN STRAIGHT SO CALL MEN APPROACH THEM IS BANANAS.... ITS REAL AND THESE STRAIGHT MEN HAVE NO SHAME AND A LOT OF THEM THAT HATE GAY GUYS SO MUCH BE THE MAIN ONES DIBBLING... MY BIDDY HS TOLD ME HOW A DUDE WOULD BASH HIMINFRONT OF CHICKS AND STRAIGHT GUYS AND BE ASKING FOR HEAD ONTHE BACKEND


hotboyee
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Dude is Bi and just don't want to admit it kuz he like to do straight guy things. he need to just do him. i bet people already got there suspicions about dude but he don't know it. Come clean and be real with your self.


Boosie
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DUDE UR GAY...GET THE FCUK OUTTA HERE!! I HATE U DOWN LOW MUTHA FCUKAS!!! U DISCUSS ME! U ALL SHOULD BE IN JAIL...FCKING FUDGE PACKERS! FCUKING UR HOMEBOY'S THAT U HANG WITH EVERYDAY & PLAYING IT OFF & SHYT! IF I EVER FOUND OUT A MAN OF MINES WAS FCKING ANOTHER MAN... ROCKA BYE BABY!! GOOD NIGHT!


DARKRED
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FRED WE ALL KNOW YOU WROTE THAT...FRED IS ON THE DOWNLOW..ASK FRED..WHO IS KEVIN C. ?


hotboyee
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But on the real i don't get the whole Gay Bi thang kuz woman is just to beautiful. if you want some booty just do it to your girl in the booty. woman like that too. but i guess they like men period. Hey more power to em but be real with the girls who trust you and don't know what you exposing them too.


CatanomicSunset
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I am white and there are lots of downlow brothers here, too. For instance, I know a guy who is openly gay and very feminine. He is living with another man who's family is Christian and has NO IDEA there son is f*cking another man. I have met him and he seems straight, it's scary to know that he sleeps with men and his close friends and family thinks he just has a room mate. I am always weary of grown a@@ men who live with other men. These guys are so f*cked up, taking it up the @ss and all the while playing women. If you go to craigslist and look around you will see all of these married men looking to give brain and stick their penis in a @ss. I think this is straight up sin, you black people recognize sin for what it is, thank God you grew up in the church.


koool
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ITS MIND BOGGLING HOW PEOPLE CAN BLAME THE AIDS/HIV SPREAD TO JUST ONE GROUP. IT IS ALSO THE WOMANS RESPONSIBILITY TO CARE FOR HER BODY AND TO USE PROTECTION. AND PEOPLE SO QUICK TO BRING IN RELIGION WHEN IT COMES TO HOMOSEXUALITY ON HERE.. YET THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHER TOPICS POSTED ON MTO THAT YOU CAN THROW THE RELIGION AND ANTICHRIST CARD IN ON. AND IM NOT TAKING UP FOR THIS DL BROTHER OR ANYTHING.. JUST STATING THINGS THAT IVE NOTICED.


wakeupblkpeople
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How many women on here would stay with their man if he told them he had slept with a man before he met you or he had been in prison(which is basically the same thing)?


Azz4Daze
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Sick BASTARD! I hope he burns in hell.


wakeupblkpeople
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I live here in DC, and no offense but thank God my wife is from North Carolina, but black men in DC thinks it's some type of badge of courage that they have been in prison. Yet these dumb women still sleep with them. So why are we shocked that DC has the highest HIV rates in the country? No surprise at all. The black community is a mess. Barack or no Barack.


Brother2DaNite
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if the DL dude is screwing other men in the butt and he's not really attracted to the man why not ask your woman to take it in the butt, or if you like it in the butt, be real w/ your woman and maybe she will strap one on for you and everyone can be safe at home!


DQC
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lol @ rockabye baby! lmao rock a bye, baby on a hot cock (rofflmfao @ tika) when the wood blows AIDS juice it will drop run home to wifey after leaving jamal don't u feel clever you're killing us all! LOL i need the Dream to produce this.


ReggieBushGurl87
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WTF!!!! You out here sleeping with men and the women you with is out there looking stupid and you can give her a disease...Personally I can't stand man like you ppl like you need to decide if u want to be with a woman or man


Tygalily
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DL Brotha really think he gone live to see grandchildren... better get a head start and take a time-out right now! [Didn't read ONE comment on this thread and now I'm outta here.]



DEALBREAKER
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I had to skip all the comments, because I just know there is some ranting and raving going on. I have to say I think this is 100% fake bullshyt. If you ask me the shyt sounded bogus from the jump. MTO loves to keep this gay thing stirring up on here. Secondly I think that it is MTO intent to make ALL gay people look bad, when posting lame ass bullshyt like this. I would fathom that at the very least 50% of your reading public is homosexual. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I am a fcking law abiding, gainfully, employed citizen who is open and happy. I don't sleep or for that matter even hit on women. And I am sure I speak for most if not all of the people who are in the life that none of the shyt you post on here even applies to us. Now I have nothing against lesbians, but they are either ignored, overlooked, or sometimes even praised on MTO. Whats up with that? What is the phenomenon about DL guys. They are few and far between, and most of the ones that are is because women allow them to be. Every "so called" straight man that has hit on me, was gleaming homosexuality. It is generally overlooked by a woman because he has a nice car, nice job, maybe even a house and no kids, but the signs are generally always there. I am in no way taking up for DL guys because they make guys like me look even worse in the eyes of most people who already condemn what I do. I wish that MTO did not manifest it. And I wish that people would realize that most gays are just hardworking regular guys, who deal strictly with men, don't wear women's clothes or make-up, and just want to be left the hell alone!


honeybunn
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@MEDIAclub25 um...sweetheart i NEVER said i stopped datin black men because of the DL babe, you maaaay wanna scroll babck up this thread and read again. im smart enough to know black men are not the only ones on the dl. DUH, they're not the only race of men who have d!cks


MissJNS
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Whatever! If you stick any part of your "manhood piece" inside the ass of another man, you are GAY! There is no cute, fancy way around it. As a wise man once said, there is no such thing as "BUT." Meaning, you cannot say, "I'm not gay....BUT, I like men." And to the user above named, "KOOOL;" come on dude...get real. I agree that it is a woman's responsibility to protect herself as well; but exactly what kind of woman are you talking about? A girlfriend? A hooker? What happens when it's a WIFE? Is she still to blame for her husband's infidelity? Most married couples do not use protection, especially if they're trying to have a child. So before you go on this tirade about how women are equally to blame for a man's DL behavior, you might want to think about the fact that not all women are whores. Some of us ARE in fact wives.


DQC
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Brother2DaNite Flag post if the DL dude is screwing other men in the butt and he's not really attracted to the man why not ask your woman to take it in the butt ******************** good point! even though that's gross, but good point.


donthateonthegreat
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Now see, this is how hiv/aids is gettin' spreaded around!! I hope I never run into this man, or a man like this! I'm not gay bashing, but this is like whoa!!!


MissJNS
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Dealbreaker, The reason lesbians are ignored, is because the average man does NOT CARE that a woman is gay or bisexual. Most men are turned on by it, where as women are not turned on at all looking at two men.


Phoetik
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Of all the things he mentioned he'd give his future wife like: the house, children, etc.., He forgot to mention that he'd also give her AIDS... . These "DL" "boys" are siply cowards who can't control themselves. The typical "DL" brother is the man who never grew out of the puberty stage where they couldn't control their sexual urges. Once they longed for and dogged out woman for so long, well, just like any other drug, they eventually needed something "stronger". These men will wake up one day, realize their not really gay, and wanna kill themselves for what they did out of simple greed and lack of self control!!!! Since nobody wants sex more than another man, they can get as much booty as they like without having to take'em out on an expensive date and spend time convincing them of how much they like them. They are attracted to each other because they are equally greedy for sex. However, they are also equally irresponsible, hence all the new AIDS cases. This is "unintentional genocide". So sad... .


Conscious1
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Eso, Let me find out I can make MTO's staffers jump. They got some Cop stories up too thanks to moi and some others.


Tika90
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DQC Flag post lol @ rockabye baby! lmao rock a bye, baby on a hot cock (rofflmfao @ tika) when the wood blows AIDS juice it will drop run home to wifey after leaving jamal don't u feel clever you're killing us all! LOL i need the Dream to produce this. --------------- ~U can spark it up, but Ima put U out! ~ -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- LMFAO....Imma call the Dream for you....We gon get your deal...I want 10 percent


Baskin_Robbins
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I think MTO made this story up just to have a topic..HOWEVER this type of story does exist in our communities...this is why AIDS is so heavy in our Black neighborhoods and is killing our people...this is sickening...I mean if u like men thats fine but dont go spreading that sh!t to a woman...i dont hate gays but lying about your manhood and deceiving women by marrying them and then going out and sleeping wit a man is just WRONG AND TRIFLING! it aint cute and it damn sure aint funny! Its alof of dl dudes out here and its more than what we really know!! I'M SCARED!


fire4u
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@CONSCIOUS 1..@ DARK RED..LOL THINKING THE SAME THING.. Yep, THIS WAS POSTED FOR A PURPOSE. THIS IS TO ENVOKE FEAR , AND A "STEP UP YOUR GAME" TYPE MENTALITY IN black WOMEN. THE NERVE OF THE BASTARD WHO WROTE THIS TO START IT OFF BY SAYING THAT THEY "LOVE US"?! lol THIS IS MORE LIKE HATE, DISDAIN AND ENVY FOR WOMEN, MORE THAN IT IS ABOUT LOVE why would a man want to destroy the women that have carried them generation after generation, both historically and even today. the person has to have some serious issues, as it relates to women, more so than just the mere act of being gay. SO, SORRY...KISS MY BOOTY CRACK AND TELL ME THE TRUTH! Anything short of that is bullshyt. Being with me, and with a man, is hardly the same as being with me, Sally or Michelle. HIDING BEHIND A LETTER will not cure those wounds. Taking the blinders off about why you do what you do, will force you to face your fears. Basically, Continue to be a coward, or choose to be a man. It's not that complicated. It's inevitable.


Ridingfinest
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OMFG!!!Is all I have to say. I may not be happy all the time in my marriage but I will keep what I have at home. This is the reason Adult Shop and porn are making a killing becasue I'm scared to death for my lil'sister with the men that's out there now. This makes you want to run to the adult shop right now. But I have agree with PhattMunch. If you were up front with sexuality then there wouldn't be so much hate crimes against Homo's.


Bigmike20
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Women have been bisexual for years now, so now I guess men are doing it too. To each their own, whatever floats your boat. It's a new millennium.


VivaLake
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THERE'S PLENTY DL DUDES ON MTO| AND Y'ALL NOT FOOLIN' NOBODY| HAHA! THE ONLY GAY MEN I RESPECT ARE THE ONE'S WHO DON'T LIVE DOUBLE LIVES| NO B|I|T|C|H|A|S|S|N|E|S|S


fire4u
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@ Dealbreaker.. Hi! Atl representing. You have a great and valid point! And while, i do not condone the gay lifestyle..you are so right. I welcome the dialouge because..what makes most of us develop disdain, anger or discontent.. is the DL factor. I felt their purpose on here, or agenda i should say is to make women be fearful , and want to give up hope on men. These people or this agenda..seems to want to also do a "rub it in your face" type of thing..in the black community. Why?? So what you posted was well stated . Because we women pretty much feel the same way. Just live your life, and stop impeding on the safety and security of those who have chosen a different type of life.



biancablu
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I would like to say first that I have absolutely nothing against gay people I think they should have every right as straight people even marriage. That being said I think these down low black men are the worst kind of trash to me they are not even human. These men are not bi they are gay and so frightened and cowardly they can't just be who they are. They don't love black women they HATE that is why they lie to them. These men dare black women so they can use them for money and a place to live they use these women because they want some fake relationship to show their momma. If you look at the statistics on HIV they men have unprotected risky sex and they don't even warn their female sexual partners then they come home and have unprotected sex with their wives and girl friends. The HIV rate in washington dc is worse than sub sahara africa and the number one rate of transmission to the straight community is down low gay men passing it to women. These people are animals they are killing our black women and infecting them by the millions and you can read how much this arrogant piece of shit cares. I think these people should be prosecuted for their lies that are costing black women their lives. To the down low brothers out there. YOU ARE NOT STRAIGHT IF YOU HAVE EVER WANTED TO FUCK A MAN YOU ARE GAY SO BE GAY HAVE A GOOD LIFE AND LEAVE STRAIGHT BLACK WOMEN ALONE WE DON'T WANT YOU.IF YOU LOVE US LEAVE US ALONE YOU ARE HURTING THE BLACK COMMUNITY!


HandsomeStallion
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fire4u, I agree. This story is probably fabricated just to rile up some people in here, but it doesn't change the fact this is still an epidemic situation.


iitzjuiic33mo
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WOW!!! THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A GAY MAN.. BUT TO HIDE IT NOT ONLY ARE YOU LYING TO YOUR SPOUSE BUT YOU ARE INDENIAL AND ASHAMED OF YOUR OWN SEXUAL IDENTITY. THIS MAN IS NOT ONLY A COWARD HE NEEDS PSYCHIATRIC HELP THERE'S NO WAY YOU CAN TELL ME THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY TYPE OF FEELINGS FOR A MAN THAT YOU HAVE FUCKED WHAT SO EVER THAT IS JUST A BUNCH OF BULLSHIT RIGHT THERE. IF YOU HAVE SEX WITH A MAN AND YOU ARE A MAN YOU ARE GAY. POINT BLANK PERIOD! I COMMEND ALL GAY MEN THAT ARE OPEN ABOUT THEIR SEXUALITY BUT FOR THE ONES THAT ARE TOO ASHAMED AND HIDE BEHIND THE CURTAIN I PITY YOU FOR LYING.


Baskin_Robbins
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The bottom line is this IF U FUKING AND SUCKING U AT RISK! If u have a GUT FEELING the nicca MIGHT BE GAY then leave his azz alone ASAP! U should not have a gut feeling that your man is gay period..(shaking my head) I'm really PISSED THE FUK OFF AT THIS BULLSH!T BECAUSE ITS NOT RIGHT! these niccas go to jail and do 5-10yrs come home and run raw dick up in a woman and give her AIDS and act like he aint been doing sh!t in jail but beating his meat! the sh!t is a lie...I mean how do u tell who lying and who aint?? Its faggiez in jail and when u in there for years on years to me that faggie might start being attractive..but u got these dudes who is like..man I would never fuk a man I dont care how much time i got...I dont be believing that sh!t..men is weak for pussy and some niccaz is on pussy hard so why would that change when they go to jail... And its the ones u think aint gay is always gay...its too much of a fuking puzzle for me. All u can do is get tested on the regular other than u might be fuked in the end literally! U can be married and still get that sh!t because of somebody else's actions and infidelity! Well this is the world we living in..anything goes and you never know whats gonna happen TO YOU!


Obama4Jamaica
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okay.....THIS IS SIMPLE DL BROTHER...YOU NEED DELIVERANCE GET YOURSELF TO A CHURCH AND GO UP THAT ALTAR...AND CRY OUT TO JESUS...HE WILL SET YOU FREE...WHO THE SON HAS SET FREE IS FREE INDEED...AND MEDIATAKEOUT STOP POSTING THESE SATANIC PEOPLE STUFF UP IN HERE....


Conscious1
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Dealkbreaker You might not like the answer I'll give because it will be seen like a double standard or making excuses, but it is what it is. A woman was always seen as lesser than a man. The almighty male is POWERFUL and strong. The woman was supposed to be the subservient one in the relationship. She was supposed to be behind him...under him etc. She is not physically as strong as him. You got Eve who came from Adam's rib. He was nicely made out of clay and she got the scappy rib. That tells the story right there of how we're seen. The man is the alpha and the omega. All ideology of course. A woman being with a woman doesn't take away any type of "masculinity". She was never placed in such high regard or seen as anything more than soft to begin with. When people, I'll speak for myself, hear about a gays, you automatically go to sex, not that they're hardworking, funny, nice etc. You think gay and you think sex. Now to think of a "man"...the almighty man being in a (if I maybe blunt) he's getting fukked position it seems like he's weakened. I think we think women get fukked and men do the fukking. Dominant and subservient role. If that is how we think, (whether right or wrong) a woman is subservient so two women together isn't nothing but women being....subservient. The almighty male now...he's getting fukked. You don't want to hear it and it might offend you but I'm just answering your question. Him getting fukked takes away from his masculinity; making him look weak. I'm not saying the thinking is right or wrong but it is what it is. Secondly, and MOST importantly, open gays want to be left alone? Well open hetero females want to be left the hell alone too. We shouldn't have to play detectives when being with any of these men. You said "we've allowed it" and that it's clear these men are gay. Not the DL hood dudes. That is the point. They are very, very masculine. The toughest dudes out there. How can we see through them? These me aren't "Jonathans" (Stella Groove back writer's husband). They're Dayquans. Now you are comparing DL men to DL women and there is no comparison when it comes to HIV transmission rates. The riskiest sex is anal sex. The least is lesbian sex. It's not just the non manly aspect most of the women don't like but the fact that DL men messing with women will cost a woman her life! As a woman I can't be worried about what women on the downlow are doing because they really don't affect my livelihood, but if my husband were on the DL, that could prove costly.


LIBRA76
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OK I HOPE WHOEVEA WROTE THIS IS READING MY COMMENT " YOUR AZZ IS GAY" WHY? NOT CLAIM IT IF YOUR SEXIN THE SAME SEX YOUR GAY. LET'S JUST SAY I KNOW I'M TIRED OF ALL YOU "DOWNLOW BROTHERS" SAYING YOUR NOT GAY YES YOU ARE WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOUR NOT. YOU STICK YOUR PENIS IN OTHA MEN AND SUCK THEIR D--- WHAT MAKE YOU THINK YOUR NOT THE FIRST PART "It's not that I'm gay, homosexual, bisexual or any of those things. I don't claim any of those titles and so if you ask me if I'm gay, homo, or bi - I'll tell you "No". I'm just a brother that knows what he likes. That's all." OK SO YOU DONT CLAIM A TITLE A LOT OF US DONT BUT YOUR STILL GAY BE PROUD IF YOUR GAY STAUS YOUR GAY DAM!! STOP TYRING TO SUGA COAT THA SHIT.


DQC
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amen, focusfocus! we know what's happening; no sense in whining about it. do what you can to protect yourself and avoid these murderers. and that's that.


LIBRA76
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I CAN SPELL "STATUS". Society already give "gay" people a bad name and already think of it as nasty this and that, but to me men like you are more nasty. I'm not knockin you want a man, but that is how shit get spreaded oh and by the way you are "BI". if you F--- women and men you are "BI"


Conscious1
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Fire4U MTO has no same. They'll steal from TMZ and their bloggers.


Twinn_22
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Honestly I'm disappointed that more of my str8 brothas didnt step up and comment on this man essay. Just like some of my sistas out there this offends me. Why you ask....because I sleep with black women....and it men like this who put us all as a race at risk. Brotha I wish you good health and pray that you learn the value of honesty and not with just yourself but with others


Conscious1
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*shame *Tee....M....Z


kaori
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"But sometimes, I want to taste a man....." " sometimes I like to go inside a man" I unno the single life is starting to look pretty damn good! I hate to say this but by the way SOME black men are acting the other side aka other men such as Asian lol is starting to look pretty damn good. Are black men confused or what? That is disgusting! Laying with a man and then going to a woman? If your going to be gay then be gay! Dont be selfish and try to have your cake and eat it too! So disgusting no wonder aids is the no.1 killer of Black Americans! SMH! Women please protect yourselfs! I know any man can be on the downlow but black men scare me lol


themalebuffiethebody

kelzsimplyput
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DL is nothing but a layover on the train to gaytown! smh....



Buckav
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EWWWEEW I THREW UP IN MY MOUTH, A NASTY NASTY FAG-GOT AS-S SHIT DOWN LOW, you're a fucking GAAAAAY! GAY. if a motthefuck do that my sister i'd kill his ass period.


ButterscotchGemz
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okay.. I just starting hanging out with this dude I believe was almost perfect.. except.. I know he's DL.. He never came out and said it.. I haven't slept with him don't think I will. He is fine as hell and very spiritually well rounded.. But when we watched RuPaul's Drag Race I could tell.. really.. I was like ahh well its nice to fantasize thought..lol..


Buckav
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(to my sister)


allahuakbar
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I think this story is fabricated as well, but Black people we need to stop trying to do every damn single thing that white people do, WE ARE NOT THEM, now I know some of yall brothas and sistas have been raped,abused, molested and just suffer from weak minds and are easily influenced, but naturally speaking we were not created to be GAY. I don't go around gay bashing even though I don't agree with it and don't think it's right, the sista concsious1 made a good point: the first thing I also think about when someone says gay is homosexual sex, and not the law abiding citizens who exist in this society as well. The fact that society is trying to force this agenda on the rest of us I do have a problem with and baynard rustin, the father of the civil rights movement knew exactly what he was doing putting MLK out in front of this movement to slowly indoctrinate the Black community with "Greek Love". Again, being gay doesn't constitute my hate because I'm not the jugde of you and gays don't have to answer to me, so why shouldn't they have the same benefits as everyone else in society, now with that being said i'm not going to say I agree with same sex marriage or hate crimes but that DL sh*t is not fair to women at all and savagery. A gay person in general will garner more respect than a snake playing both sides of the fence. Even though Black's were made the scapegoat for prop 8 (?) in california not passing!


Shinningstar
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Dude has a one way ticket to that lake of fire. I feel sorry for him and people like him.


DEALBREAKER
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@fire4u... Wassup my ATL sista!! I always appreciate your post and I definitely understand the reason for the concern. I am going out on a limb to estimate that about 80% of American society (although they may not agree with homosexuality) would accept it or overlook it. I have been out and open with my sexuality since 2 weeks before my 16th birthday. My entire family knew before I went on my first date. After 10 years I have not changed as a person, I am not flaming, I never wore make-up nor women clothing. I have been successful in my professional life and they all have generally known. What it all boils down to is respect. And I respect myself, my family, and my place of employment. I am not going to bash other gays, but there are the ones out there (and we all know them) that take it entirely too far. My life is not a contest to be the most flamboyant, outrageous, etc etc... I just want to live as normal of a life as possible. @concious1 Let me explain... I was not comparing DL men to DL women anywhere in my post. I venting because not only in the DL light, but in any light MTO creates a forum for gay men to be bashed. I do understand that there are some "hood" DL brothas out there. I have as much distaste for them as you. It actually hurts me. You see, all gay men are not promiscious, whores, and spreading HIV/AIDS, but that is exactly the sentiments this type of story will give people, especially black women. I get the whole masculine and feminine roles that have been since the beginning of time. Understand that although I understand the reasoning that you gay, I still think it is totally biased. Me being gay does not make me less of a man. I believe it makes me more of a man that not only can I admit it, but my pic is to the left for people to see. It's there because I have nothing to hide. I know a lot of people are not like me, but damnit if I can stand up for me, then who can I stand up for. I respect everyone and there opinions and ideals. I just don't like being generalized because there are some assholes out there.


DEALBREAKER
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Sorry for the typos...typing feverishly while at work!


Tika90
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yes,to you DL men, DL IS A FORM OF "GAY"....YOU DETERMINE THE LEVEL... Some of you think the DL level is not that bad...ha, it's no different than the other, except the scenario, and lifestyle may be different...but you all have something in common...MEN.....It's like a box of crayons...they are all crayons, just different colors!!!!!


DQC
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i just don't understand wanting to put your wing wang into poo poo. i just do not understand! why not a nice juicy peachy vagina? i'll never understand.


SxYMahogany
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Sickening!! why you gonna do that to a woman who doesn't deserve that?!? weather she knows about it or not its still wrong and you are going to bring diseases to someone who doesn't deserve it. Straight EVIL!!!!


Conscious1
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Dealbreaker flagpost Now I have nothing against lesbians, but they are either ignored, overlooked, or sometimes even praised on MTO. Whats up with that?" ======================================== That is what I was referring to. You asked why gay females aren't an issue. I'm sure it seems like a double standard, but as a married woman, a DL brother is who I'd have to worry about when you consider the transmission rates. If this was just an issue about gay men wanting to be left alone and they didn't have anything to do with my life, I could totally agree. What I think about your lifestyle doesn't matter, but with the DLs, your lifestyle clashes with mine. You say it's few and far between, but there are so many stories. Look at Handsome Stallion...and far more that we don't know about or refuse to believe. DL brothers refused to protect themselves because they say that shows that they're gay. Knowing the HIV/AIDS rates, anal sex is the riskiest. It's a higher probability that unsafe sex with another male, (especially when men can have sex back to back with as many and different dudes as they like) will result in infection(s). I wouldn't like to be cheated on, but the lesser of two evils for me is if my man cheated with a woman. It's harder for a man to catch a disease from a woman. Now obviously the answer is for everyone to be safe and to not sleep around. I am not talking about the dizzy broads up in clubs dancing with their panties off. If they catch something, that's on them. If you don't know by now that stuff is real out there, then you're just DUMB. My concern are for the females (in what they think) are monogamous relationships. Been with a guy for years. Got checked out in the beginning and since you're believing it's only you two, think you have nothing to worry about. Females who are married like myself. it's preposterous to say we should be wearing condoms with our HUSBANDS. That is what some authors are saying. I got married so I wouldn't have to do that. Marriage is supposed to lead to procreation. How are you going to procreate wearing condoms? These men are messing it up for open gays like yourself (who already face discrimination), for us females, and for straight men. Because now women are looking at straight black men like, "You're going to infect me".


BlakGold
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Yo honeybunn... ...FUCK you Bitch. This is a small population of black men doin' this DL...whatever it is. I can't stand Black "girls" like your ass. As a matter of fact...keep kissin' massa's ass...breed yourself out of the Black race.


mscreative1
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He's ass is gay weather his doing it "securely" or not


Buckav
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surprise surprise ! no tjtrae1's comment on this topic hmmmmmm! a fucking downlow


spermmakesprettykids
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THIS IS BU11 SH!!T!.....



boyslikegirls
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This is why I loathe DL men. You make it harder for straight black men, or at least in my situation, to date black women. I’ve been dubbed “gay” and “dl” by a few black women and men who don’t even know me, when I’ve never had an interest in men whatsoever. I was labeled with those names solely based on my appearance and demeanor. I was raised in a predominately white neighborhood and I can admit growing up was easy up until my parents split-up. My mother moved to a diverse suburbanized area, with the local school being predominately black. I thought to myself, “It’ll be cool. I was 'popular' at my old school, and I'll have no problem making friends.” The first day I attended school, I got called gay because of the way I ate my food?! My parents instilled manners in all their children. I was also teased because my pants didn’t hang off my ass and because I wore Abercrombie which they referred to as “white clothing”. Furthermore, I talked English, or so I thought, but was made fun of because I was considered too “white”. It was all an experience. The criticism, coming from both male and female, hurt more when girls made the allegation. I mean, they didn’t know who I was. They immediately assumed, because I was different, I was gay. That specific event happened in 8th grade. I was kind of dumbfounded because I had never been written off as that. But needless to say, I ignored it. With that said, I feel strongly when I say, DL black men, give black women this undertone that all black men are gay (and really, it’s not even about race, men who are DL, give women that connotation period) when they really aren’t. I’ve dated a few black women, and can honestly say all black women aren’t like that. But then, there were the ones who wouldn’t give me the time of day to treat them how they are suppose to be treated, because they labeled me as ‘suspect’. I didn’t even know what the hell that meant up until visiting this website! By all means, protect you, nothing wrong with that. But once you start categorizing all black men (and men in general), you don’t even know, as gay or straight, you severely limit yourself to who you can date. That’s why I’m more inclined to date outside of my race because black women I’ve expressed an interest in, aren’t interested in me, at ALL, because I don’t have “thuggish” qualities, or I act “too white” or “dress too gay” for their standards or some other bullsh*t excuse. Hearing something like turns me off completely. I’ve never had to put up with that while dating outside my race. With that said, I’ll always love black women, because my mother is a strong black woman who gave birth to me. But seriously, it’s okay to protect yourself, but don’t block out every guy who would like to have a chance at a stable relationship with you. My parents have raised a competent, intelligent, young articulate STRAIGHT man with character and demeanor, who WILL succeed in every aspect life has to offer. I’m surely not about to change who I am, or what I’ve become or about to become, to be with someone who cannot accept me for who I am from the start.


dianty
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THIS STORY MADE ME PHYSICALLY SICKK. Not LYING . i hate all this crap, this poisen, deception i just dont get it why is this fashionable, you are just an extreme freek maybe i just dont get it but back in he day they was a low count of people that where truly born gay from start now its like fashion i hate to think one day each of us may settle with one i just want to cry got tears in my eyes already...u dont know who to trust whose who whose to feminine or too masuline its just all to confusing and anyone can be left in the dark untill well something like diesease pops up if it does..Man why can't men like some women control some horny-ness why cant one have limits and not want to be extremely free and animalistic n push what u should cherish into everything..maybe its me i just dont get it...i think social conditions can affect the way you turn out also, your sorroundings yr liasons yr influences sometimes...it gets you loosing focus of what right or wrong or even countries u grow in or tv..Mayn its scary do i really want kids in this crazy world...I REALLY BUN DAT 100 sorry. and if u know i bun that n lie to me its ONNNNNNN


jaxon204
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conscious1, thats one of the best posts ive read on mto! I completely believe that straight people jump right to sex when they see a gay man or hear that someone is gay. Even gay people do, wondering right away whether the person is top or bottom. I think the same is true with interracial couples a lot of the time, that people jump to sex. But thats why mysoginy and homophobia go hand in hand a lot of the time - because getting fuKKd somehow makes you subservient or less worthy of respect. As an openly gay man and i have no shame in saying that i take it in the butt. Yes yes what.. It doesnt make me less of a man, although i'm sure a lot of people think that. But i'm at the point where i really could care less. It's frustrating tho with all these stories that always focus on the negative aspects. I don't know anyone who fits into the reality that post represents. That said, i'm 99% certain that Fred and his gay ass wrote that story himself.


Darbo
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I used to be DL and got put out, by a jilted lover.....It was the best thing ever, im more open wit my family and we've all gotten tighter. Even my homophobic brothers go clubbin wit me! its not as bad as you think....ya know being yourself!


DQC
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my husband asked me to say... this is what yall get for teaching young men that 'ass' is the best thing next to God! yall never guessed that some of them wouldn't care who that big round ass is attached to. lmao wow! how true!


BlakGold
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And for the rest of the Black population that's takin' this story to heart... ...ya'll are some dumb MFs...for real. This story is TOO fake...it's too easy for a white boy to write this shit.


DEALBREAKER
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@DQC First of LMAO.... wing wang in poo poo is funny, There are ways to insure cleanliness just as a woman does... (no details needed) @ JTWILKINS It kills me for someone to mention God and then swear! So touche my friend! @Conscious1 I knew where you were coming from, I just want to clarify that at that point i was no longer referring to the DL lifestyle. All of your points are valid to me. I have been venting because I am also affected by DL behavior. Although we may be affected differently, make no mistake about it, I CONDEMN DL behavior! There is absolutely no need for it.


Maria121

dianty
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lesbians dont have penis so it doesnt offend as much...but its still not natural for women to lick out other women its grosss.people watching one too many pornos turned out by men...or ladies or men abused as children n didnt get over it hence going down gay or lesbian route...i dont get into trying to mind understand em just keep to yrself let straight keep to emselves just stop try to recruit n ask how u know what u like if u dont try...man i know n it aint u cause i know me should be peps responses. ISH like this boils my blood. Hows is it right or natural if two opposite sex didnt mate how will u be here..thats why i think that will never be right in my eyes so dont convince me using media....n dont say i need to try ish by trying to corrupt my soul n dont put it in the same box as racial descrimination cause its far from that....i hate when peps try put gendar ish in racial box f off... moral of this just be honest n leave people alone..stick with yr on that like that ish dont lie to others dont corrupt nubies with underdeveloped minds


thatnigg
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As a gay DL man. I can tell you that having sex with a man is no always about the booty. Its about the power also. Knowing that you hittin another masculine cat in the a$$ is a adrenaline rush.


DEALBREAKER
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@buckav NOW aint that some shyt to think about... Im just sayin!!!


dianty
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LOOK at all the gay dudes posting lol true who else will be on these sites rahhhhhhhhhhhhh


Conscious1
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DQC Lady, you are a trip!!!!!


nickiicky
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THEM FOOLS AINT FOOLIN NOBODY BUT THEM SELVES THEY GON CATCH AIDS


dianty
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@ fine1natl Sad dude yr ex is a lesbo now cause you turned her that way, yr selffish ways didn't even see the hurt and pain you caused her, 'she is a lesbian now' what after u hahaha u c, u scarred her for life so bad that now she is afraid, terrified to even date another man. The thoughts she may think the insecurities she may feel all because you entered her life messed her up passing on her genes now she decided to be with a woman cause she feels she'll understand her feelings or just to be safe, sadddddd u messed up someones life. But she may never tell u what u really did to her, part of her died that day.



nickiicky
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AND I DO NOT THINK THESE DOWN LOW MEN ARE GAY THEY ARE BORN IN A MIND SET OF CONFUSION THERE DICKS GET HARD TO ANYTHING THAT SEE LOOKS GOOD WHETHER ITS A WOMAN OR MAN


TheSweetestTaboo
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But sometimes, I want to taste a man..... ********************** I spent 10 minutes stuck, LMAO, LMAO, LMAO, at this line...woooo... Though, this “DL manifesto” is not dressed in truth's attire, it was GOLDEN! Thanx MTO! *wink, wink*


dianty
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@ nickiicky Flag post AND I DO NOT THINK THESE DOWN LOW MEN ARE GAY THEY ARE BORN IN A MIND SET OF CONFUSION THERE DICKS GET HARD TO ANYTHING THAT SEE LOOKS GOOD WHETHER ITS A WOMAN OR MAN lolololllllllloooooooooooo hear that u ccccc some i best nasty no control hard so let me use it saddddddd losers


nickiicky
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AND FOR ALL OF YALL TALKING ABOUT BE REAL ABOUT IT BE HONEST YALL MAKING IT SEEM LIKE ITS EASY IN TODAYS SOCIETY PEOPLE GET KILLED, MADE FUN OF FOR BEING GAY. SHIITTTT NOT LONG AGO IT WAS CONSIDER A MENTAL DISEASE SO I CAN SEE WHY THEY WOULD WANT TO KEEP IT ON THE LOW EVEN THOUGH IT IS WRONG. AND THIS WAS BOUND TO HAPPEN BECUASE IF TWO SEXY GIRLS CAN GET TOGETHER AND SOCIETY THINK ITS CUTE WELL THE OTHER SEX IS BOUND TO DO IT TO IM JUST SAYING AS AN EXAMPLE


dianty
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trust me i will go ganster on a lying ass dude that ffs up my life (ie health/ safety badly) all women should any race its mandatory and standard


TravelAgent
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DEALBREAKER wrote: There are ways to insure cleanliness just as a woman does... (no details needed) --------------------------------------- Do you douche? I'm not trying to be funny. I'm just asking.


silky1700
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Playa u just wan't some boy p###y.


Tika90
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thatnigg Flag post As a gay DL man. I can tell you that having sex with a man is no always about the booty. Its about the power also. Knowing that you hittin another masculine cat in the a$$ is a adrenaline rush. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I believe that's why you sleep with men, in fact, only DL men probably feel this way, buuuuut, having sex with a man is still a form of being GAY!!! Your turned on by this control of banging a man in the ass...Just like when certain pedofiles sleep with children...they may only like the innocece of the child, and nothing else turns them on about this child, but they are still a child molester.


Crossnation
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Homeboy you are gay, no matter how much you try to flip it you are gay and it's sad cause this is one of the reason why some females get with other females cause of these sometimin' dudes not making up their minds...If u wanna be gay cool, nothing wrong with that to each it's own...but when u do sh*t like this you should be punished.... ------------ "CrossNation"


MsChynaD
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This is some straight up sucka azz bullshit! If you going to be a man be straight up with your girl! That's why AIDS will never come to a end because of bull shit like this that shit ain't cute. If you gay you gay if you bi you bi put it out there quit bull shitting your self and everyone else!!!!!


DEALBREAKER
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@travel Agent Something similar to that. For me it's not always a sex thing, because I am not always in that role, but for me I always like to be clean....especially if I am away from home for long periods of time!


DQC
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well, nickiicky, i hear you, but with this thatnig talking about how it's an adrenaline rush, i'm thinking it really is a mental disease... like a rapist like tika touched on. wow! i hope i never have a boy child. yall scare me more by the minute.


TheSweetestTaboo
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HandsomeStallion One of my sisters found out her b/f was d/l after 2years. **************************** Dayyyyuuuuuum! Conscious1 The stink around town is that my cousin is messing with a dude who sleeps with guys for money. ************************* Double Dayyyyuuuuuum!


Tika90
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nickiicky Flag post AND FOR ALL OF YALL TALKING ABOUT BE REAL ABOUT IT BE HONEST YALL MAKING IT SEEM LIKE ITS EASY IN TODAYS SOCIETY PEOPLE GET KILLED, MADE FUN OF FOR BEING GAY. SHIITTTT NOT LONG AGO IT WAS CONSIDER A MENTAL DISEASE SO I CAN SEE WHY THEY WOULD WANT TO KEEP IT ON THE LOW EVEN THOUGH IT IS WRONG. AND THIS WAS BOUND TO HAPPEN BECUASE IF TWO SEXY GIRLS CAN GET TOGETHER AND SOCIETY THINK ITS CUTE WELL THE OTHER SEX IS BOUND TO DO IT TO IM JUST SAYING AS AN EXAMPLE -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- They dont have to sleep with women, or they can at least strap up... Hell, they dont lie to the man about sleeping with women..


dianty
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@ nickiicky yr last double repeat post dont agree with u there.. men should know better they should be the ones setting examples sadly not all can man up ....well some but a lot of men hide behind low expectations bad morals media mens excuses so much ish society seems to think for em..all am saying we all got a brain man or woman use it wisely



justwant2say
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You can come up with all the excuses you want my brother but you are a bi-sexual man. I don't care how you want to paint it. I feel sorry for the woman who marries you.


DEALBREAKER
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Oh and let me clarify something. A lot of these wannabe DL guys saying it's an adrenaline rush to penetrate a man. THATS BULLSHYT!! Any married dude, "straight dude," DL dude, etc that I have ever come across generally wants to be penetrated. This is true for most of the stories I have heard from friends as well. I don't actually engage in the act because as I have stated... I want another open gay man, but these DL dudes have no problem throwing themselves at you and telling you exactly how they want it and how they will take it... So you can throw all that Power and Masculinity theory out the window! REAL TALK They generally look for someone bigger than they are because for once they want to feel subservient!


thatnigg
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I never said it was not gay. I just said it was an adrenaline rush.


dianty
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@ HandsomeStallion One of my sisters found out her b/f was d/l after 2years. **************************** Dayyyyuuuuuum! Conscious1 The stink around town is that my cousin is messing with a dude who sleeps with guys for money. ************************* Double Dayyyyuuuuuum! --------------- tripple wHAt theeeeeeeeeeeeeeee??? CRAZY...after 2 yrs...NOW I c why some peps gwan like they do....ANyway money boy can't catch me doin anything for it


thatnigg
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@ TIKA 90--- I never said it was not gay dawg. I just said it was an adrenaline rush. I do believe it is wrong to hit a man and then run to a women. I don't do that. believe that's why you sleep with men, in fact, only DL men probably feel this way, buuuuut, having sex with a man is still a form of being GAY!!! Your turned on by this control of banging a man in the ass...Just like when certain pedofiles sleep with children...they may only like the innocece of the child, and nothing else turns them on about this child, but they are still a child molester.


TheSweetestTaboo
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DEALBREAKER What is the phenomenon about DL guys. They are few and far between, and most of the ones that are is because women allow them to be. Every "so called" straight man that has hit on me, was gleaming homosexuality. **************************** In my experience, I have found this to be glaring with truth. Of course, there will be exceptions to the rule, though not too many.


dianty
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Whatever self controllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll BUN DAT JUST SAY NO ........................


TravelAgent
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Oh, okay DEALBREAKER. I was just curious.


dianty
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MEN WANNA BE KEPT MEN LOL LAZY BUMSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS


Tika90
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thatnigg Flag post I never said it was not gay. I just said it was an adrenaline rush. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Although, I think your an imposer....with your new avi being"thatNig" claiming to be 'DL"....CUTE! But anyway, glad you know DL is D Gay!!!.


STAYPOPPIN01
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I'm a straight an and I've always said that it's a double standard for gay men and lesbians. A gay black male is always looked upon as being taboo, or like some kind of alien. A lesbian is looked upon like an alternative, or a fantasy, or a hot trend!


cater2dahaters
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I'm glad i read this story last because it did nothing but piss me off and disgust me. I'll keep it short & sweet: "if you are on the DL, you deserve to have your life taken because you are taking somebody else's life from them by not being honest." I have nothing against openly gay people- they are fine, hard-working, normal people who just prefer the comfort of their same sex. That is more than fine, and I hope those OPEN & HONEST gays get all the same rights, freedoms & protections as everybody else. But these DL people? I say kill them off without any anesthesia. Hell...give me the bullets and the gun, I'll do it myself. Nasty bastards. SSSOOOOO glad i'm celibate.


Pattyg
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THIS IS FRIGHTENING, DEADLY AND ABOMINABLE. I PRAY THAT HIS DEADLY SIN IS REVEALED TO ALL HE ENCOUNTERS.


TheSweetestTaboo
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LMAO @kiaallday...ya heard!


Tika90
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Im a woman....



DQC
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no one is downing gay black males. this is about DL males. in other words, lying ass gay males. plus lesbians are cuter. lol


DQC
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cept the mannish ones


kiaallday
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IM suprised that down low CONFESSIONS DUDE didn't COMMENT today LMAOOOOO


Tika90
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STAYPOPPIN01 Flag post I'm a straight an and I've always said that it's a double standard for gay men and lesbians. A gay black male is always looked upon as being taboo, or like some kind of alien. A lesbian is looked upon like an alternative, or a fantasy, or a hot trend! --------------- Excelling With Honor. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If people weren't contracting AIDS, this would'nt be a problem for men either...How many LESBIAN women you know pass the AIDS infection??? None, and if there were any, she prob got it from a DL MAN...


TravelAgent
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"So you can throw all that Power and Masculinity theory out the window! REAL TALK They generally look for someone bigger than they are because for once they want to feel subservient!" --------------------------------------------- Well, hell, I can slap a nucca around and choke him for a minute and make him my biotch if that's what he wants. "Do my laundy!" "Make my dinner!" "Do that thing I like and shut up!" It's gotta be more to it than that...


dianty
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@STAYPOPPIN01 WHAT R U SAYING REAL PEOPLE STILL SEE IT AS SKANK BEHAVIOUR MAN OR WOMAN...GO SAY TO YR GRANMA C WHAT SHE SAYS BOTH I DONT CONDONE MAYBE YR MALE FRIENDS DO....HOW U COME WITH A COMMENT LIKE THAT AN SAY U STRAIGHT....OR MAYBE CAUSE MEN HAVE PENIS I SAID EARLIER WOMEN NO DIRECT PENTRATION LIKE MEN N MEN...BUT BOTH I DONT CONDONE BUT ONE CAN CLEARLY C WHY ONE MAY BE LOOKED AT AS WORSE THAN THE OTHER


TheSweetestTaboo
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@DQC Weren't you on here one day asking if Mr. Bentley was gay...lol...now your gaydar waaay strong...lol j/k


DQC
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TravelAgent, i was thinking about being nicer to my boyfriend but after reading that, I'm with u. He's officially my bitch!


dianty
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I STILL wont like to c woman n woman kiss maybe some men but that dont do ish 4 me mate


kiaallday

LadyKarma
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Gay. Plain and simple. If you desire to have sex with a man then you are gay. I don't have hate towards gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, but to the downlow brothers be honest with yourselves.


nickiicky
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I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY THE AIDS WILL NEVER STOP CAUSE OF THE DOWN LOW MEN YALL ARE WRONG YOU WANNA KNOW WHY AIDS WONT STOP BECUASE PEOPLE ARE TO HARD UP FOR 15 MINTUES OF PLEASURE WHEN YOU CAN ASK YOUR PARTNER TO SEE SOME STATUS ON A PAPER CLEARING THEIR NEGATIVE I THINK THATS HOW IT SHOULD BE FOR KNOW ON EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX


TheSweetestTaboo
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Chile plus...don't make me choke on my drink...lol!!!


cater2dahaters
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I'm disgusted..and @ thatnigg: if you are truly one of these "down-low" men screwing men and women concurrently and spreading diseases....I hope a bullet pierces your skul first. I have a ZERO TOLERANCE policy for that kind of nasty, dirty, disease-spreading buffoonery. Stop being so weak and cowardly and ounishing others because your simple, confused, indecisive azz wants to be selfish! And DLBrutha..you can catch bullets number 2-16. Ignorant bitch of a man....


DQC
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LOL my bentbent is not gay!



Conscious1
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TheSweetestTaboo Flag post HandsomeStallion One of my sisters found out her b/f was d/l after 2years. **************************** Dayyyyuuuuuum! Conscious1 The stink around town is that my cousin is messing with a dude who sleeps with guys for money. ************************* Double Dayyyyuuuuuum! ===================================== She's a fukkin idiot I tell you!!!!!!!! Too pretty for all that nonsense. She's been with ol boy for over a decade though. He's given her other diseases but not the Batman Forever....not yet.


TheSweetestTaboo
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Conscious1 I didn't think the story could get any worse..but you learnt me(He's given her other diseaseS)! What's wrong with her because I can't think of any excuse for that! LOL @the Batman Forever


kimchoo
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Personally, as a female, I don't identify with any orientation. Humans in GENERAL are just SEXUAL, and that's it. When I read this, I understand where he is coming from, because many women tend to need to be validated by men, and so if a man were to tell her he's been with men or is currently seeing one, she would feel as if she isn't enough- not to mention betrayed. And when a woman is betrayed, you better pray! BUT with that said, it is so dangerous to not be open and honest with the people you're with, because there are so many ways to out both you and them in danger. HIV/AIDS is just as real as it was in 1985; STD's are very real still. As a DL man, you are already hiding one secret, so who is to say you aren't hiding another? It's not about who you are with- it's about how you are with them! PLEASE BE SAFE!


biancablu
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These down low brothers are just hateful in denial cowardly gay men.There is no excuse in 2009 for their behavior. As a gay man they can have a full happy life. It comes down to hatred of black women they don't love black women they hate them that is why they lie to them and spread disease and destruction to our community.I have pretty much stopped dating black men because of the HIV statistics and these on the down low animals. These guys hiding in the community make black women afraid to date ANY black man.


DQC
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i think it's about safe to say that we are not necessarily under attack but definitely these reckless mofos couldn't care less if we die or not. they're asses and dicks and adrenaline rushes and needs to be dominated and degraded have completely obliterated any regard for welfare of 'the woman'. that being said, let's not be victims. let's hunt these mofos down and kill them faster than they can kill us. i bet you a 12 gauge shottie shoot faster than a 12 inch dick! let's rent us a 70's show van and ride out, ladies. i'm so serious!


Tika90
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cater2dahaters Flag post I'm disgusted..and @ thatnigg: if you are truly one of these "down-low" men screwing men and women concurrently and spreading diseases....I hope a bullet pierces your skul first. ----------------------------- I think he's an imposer


dollish
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nothin but bs


TheSweetestTaboo
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DQC Shut yo ride or die ass up!!! lol


DEALBREAKER
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@Travel Agent... glad you asked, I have no quams about sharing... just know that if your man has a green box with 2 bottles with clear solution, you have reason for concern... LOL at the slapping him around, but it isn't as simple. When their spouse or girlfriend does it, its degrading, it makes him feel less of a man. When he is penetrated by a man, he just feels as if he is being dominated by a bigger, stronger, more powerful being. A woman being demanding is demeaning to this type of person. The DL guys that a normal lady would meet, is probably successful, wife is more the server, the one who takes care of home. Besides the dirty street trade...most DL men fall into a pretty vivid profile.


uprising
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BOOM BYEBYE inna batty bwoy head! fire pon babylon...


DQC
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LOL i'm headed to MD. that's their hub.


biancablu
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And don't think this is rare I live in west hollywood ca.( the gayest neighborhood in america, although a lot of straights live there) and I see these homo thugs sneaking into bars and clubs on the DL by the thousands. Statistically speaking experts say about 10% of black men are engaging in this behavior. At least with white people if they are gay they will just be gay they don't insist on sleeping and lying to women.That's why when a black man asks shows interest in me I keep it on the friend tip because at least with white men you know for sure you are getting a real straight man not some cowardly gay man pretending to be straight.


Conscious1
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DEALBREAKER Flag post So you can throw all that Power and Masculinity theory out the window! REAL TALK They generally look for someone bigger than they are because for once they want to feel subservient! ========================================== You see? So even you must secretly feel it's emasculating. You just said their power and masculinity are taken away aka, "Throw that power/masculinity theory out the window" because they want to be DRILLED(penetrated) and in the subservient(thought of as the female position)role "for once"<-----meaning NOT typical(atypical) Because usually...or rather, the standard is for them to be the Power forward, Leader, Aggressor, Mandingo, Omnipotent, Man's man!



DEALBREAKER
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This is going to be silly, but I am 1/2 serious... I believe all women should have a gay friend. Not some big flamming queen, but a guy who is secure with being gay, but still can pass in everyday situations. Call him your coworker. This person should be masculine but come across very non-threatening. Even give him an imaginary girlfriend or wife. He can probably provide this himself. You then should go out for drinks and social events together...ALL OF YOU!! Watch your mans interaction with your friend. See if the conversation sways to just them talking. Notice if your friend goes to the restroom, if your man shortly follows, or if your friends goes and order drinks, your man is says "hey I come with you" ..... I could go on and on, but you get my drift... And afterwards pay attention and see if your boyfriend/husband complements him i.e "Man (insert name) was really cool." Or "We should get together again!" Are you following me ladies? AGAIN REAL TALK! I have done this for several girlfriends and before the end of the night or after a day or so, they know before I even tell them!


MsGoodGood27
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ok remember ladies, whenever you think its to good to be true...remember this Downlow Manifesto and do your investigation :)


biancablu
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@uprising For anyone who does not know what this sick piece of garbage meant he was saying we should kill gay people. There is nothing wrong with gay people you hateful piece of human excrement. We are talking about cowards who hide it and date women.Maybe if there were not crazy homophobes like you with the "boom boom on a bateboy bullsh*t" they would not be so afraid to come out. Do the world a favor crawl back into your mothers womb.


DQC
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check out bianca trying to start a black/white debate. lol u posers slay me.


TheSweetestTaboo
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DQC OK! He said "I see these homo thugs sneaking into bars and clubs on the DL by the thousands" come on now! I aint seen straight ppl go into the clubs by the thousands. Come again!


DEALBREAKER
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@bianca You cant be serious. I live in ATL where its the black gay mecca, and I have been hit on by more white married men than black. Its not a black thing baby girl....TRUST!


Rebeloution215
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EVERYBODY LIES BLACK OR WHITE, ITS PEOPLE THAT GET MARRIED AND LATER DECIDE THEY WANT TO LIVE AS THE OPPOSITE SEX. THIS DL STUFF NEEDS TO STOP, ITS NOTHING NEW EITHER, BUT IT NEEDS TO END, I DONT CARE HOW HOMOPHOBIC SOCIETY IS. ITS EITHER YOU JUST HAVE SEX WITH MEN AND MEN ONLY, OR COME OUT THE FUCKING CLOSET YOU BISEXUAL BAFOONS!


MissDaniBaby2
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@HANDSOMESTALLION<<< DAMN, MY DUDE...YOUR SIS ACTUALLY "BUSTED" THIS LOW-LIFE KAT IN THE ACT??!? LAWWWDDDD, LET US PRAY... BUT ON THE REAL, I HOPE YOU BEAT HIS AZZ SOMETHING RIGHTEOUS. YOUR POOR SISTER DID NOT DESERVE THAT WHATSOEVER!


DEALBREAKER
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@Conscious1 They feel that way not me. I do not feel like it is emasculating at all. I am explaining the psychy of a lot of DL men.


Baskin_Robbins
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nickiiy-AND FOR ALL OF YALL TALKING ABOUT BE REAL ABOUT IT BE HONEST YALL MAKING IT SEEM LIKE ITS EASY IN TODAYS SOCIETY PEOPLE GET KILLED, MADE FUN OF FOR BEING GAY. SHIITTTT NOT LONG AGO IT WAS CONSIDER A MENTAL DISEASE SO I CAN SEE WHY THEY WOULD WANT TO KEEP IT ON THE LOW EVEN THOUGH IT IS WRONG. AND THIS WAS BOUND TO HAPPEN BECUASE IF TWO SEXY GIRLS CAN GET TOGETHER AND SOCIETY THINK ITS CUTE WELL THE OTHER SEX IS BOUND TO DO IT TO IM JUST SAYING AS AN EXAMPLE ------------------------------------------------ I agree wit you..THE REASON THEY ON THE DL IS BECAUSE SOCIETY SAID A MAN IS CONSIDERED WEAK OR NOT A MAN IF HE LIKES ANOTHER MAN! SO THESE MEN WITH THESE INNER DESIRES TO BE WITH ANOTHER MAN HIDES IT BECAUSE THEY FEAR BEING MADE FUN OF OR RISK PUTTNG THEIR LIVES IN DANGER SO WHAT THEY DO IS HIDE BEHIND A WOMAN SO PEOPLE CAN THINK THEY ARE "A MAN" AND NOT A FAGGIE so its LIKE US WOMEN ARE CAUGHT IN A CROSS FIRE OR BEING A SHIELD FOR THESE MEN TO FUK OTHER MEN IN THE DARK. AND SOCIETY DO ACCEPT LESBOS MORE THAN FAGGIEZ WHY I DONT KNOW? ITS BOTH DISGUSTING FOREAL I GUESS THEY LOOK AT THE FACT THAT WOMEN AINT PENETRATING EACH OTHER INSTEAD JUST EATING EACH OTHER OUT! THIS IS TERRIBLE..THEN U GOT MEN THAT LIKES WOMEN AND MEN..THEY WANT TO BE WITH A WOMAN AND A MAN SOMETIMES...THE POINT THAT IS VERY DISGUSTING IS THE DISEASES THAT COMES WITH THAT.... ALSO THIS IS A QUESTION I NEVER GOT ANSWERED! WHAT IS IT THAT WHEN MEN FUK ANOTHER MAN HOW DOES THAT TURNS INTO AIDS? WHAT TRIGGERS IT? WHEN A MAN FUK A WOMAN IN HER AZZ IT NOT NECESSARILY AIDS WHY WHEN A MAN AND MAN GET TOGETHER ITS VERY RISKY FOR THEM TO CATCH AIDS? WHAT TRIGGERS THE DISEASE IN THEM?


iL0V3PURPL3
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downlow men are a disgrace....the end is near and the devil has cum 2 kill, lie and destroy...and millions of ppl are falln 4 his trap.


biancablu
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@DQC Just my opinion. I'm not the one pretending I look like a cartoon character. You aren't jessica Rabbit poseur.Come to West hollywood dummy there are about 30 clubs on one block of santa monica blvd and every night of the week they are packed.If you don't know what you are talking about shut up I'm talking about my hood you talk about yours


Rebeloution215
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Black, white, green., yellow: I dont condone it. If your gonna be with a man be with a damn man!!! This is a fake story though, you can tell, its still something that needs to be talked about though. IM GLAD BLACK WOMEN ARE ANGRY, SNIFF THEM HOMO THUGS OUT!!! SO YOU DONT END UP BEING THE SICK ONE!


MissDaniBaby2
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@FIRE4U<<< CO-SIGN GIRL. YOU AND A FEW OTHER BLOGGERS ARE DEAD ON! THIS "MANIFESTO" SHIITT IS AS FAKE AS THEY COME, AND WAS INTENDED TO GET SOME "DL HYSTERIA" GOING ON. THIS IS A VERY REAL, TABOO AND HARMFUL ISSUE IN OUR COMMUNITY, BUT CALM HEADS MUST PREVAIL. WE DON'T NEED THE ANTI-BLACK RACISTS OF MTO PULLING OUR COAT-TAILS FOR RATINGS AND/OR THE PLEASURE OF WATCHING US SQUIRM IN OVERWHELMING FEAR. MTO = SICK, SADDISTIC BASTARDS.


DQC
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bianca, boo, your white man is just slicker with it. lol i bet he loves going to the gym. does he have a personal trainer? i know a personal trainer at gold's gym in miami right now who is an ex con who picked up gayness in prison who gets all his DL hookups which are mostly white, right there at work! wake up!



spoiled78
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....and give her HIV...BASTARD!


TheSweetestTaboo
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@HANDSOMESTALLION I have one question. Do you know if the dude is still "DL" or is he out of the proverbial closet now? ***************************** DEALBREAKER Will you be my gay bff? I'll make a great hag! Promise...lol


biancablu
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@Baskin_Robbins Men don't generate AIDS. The HIV virus is transmitted much more easily through anal sex than vaginal sex for the reason it is more easily transferable in the gay community although unsafe makes it very transferable between straights as well. It is a disease transferred by body fluids in the bloodstream which without getting to graphic is much more likely to happen during anal sex.


candygirl81
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If you're a dude and you PREFER men over women then YOU'RE GAY!! The same goes for a woman that PREFERS another woman. This -ish makes my stomach turn.....so damn selfish.


DQC
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oh bianca... u poor thing. lol


DQC
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*dead at the dumbness!* rofflmfao


STAYPOPPIN01
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Tika You're wrong, check the stats on catching AIDS from oral sex. It comes from if the woman is on her period or if she still has has blood somewhere lingering. YOU CAN CATCH AIDS FROM THE BLOOD!! Dianty I can't be straight and observe this from a straight male prospective???? I'm not talking about grand ma. I talking about all of these women I hear say they can go "lesbian" for some hot ckick! IT'S EVERYWHERE DON'T PLAY!!! There is penetration with lesbian sex! Have you ever heard of a dildo? In fact, lesbians have anal sex using that thing. It's safer as far as AIDS is concerned, but there is penetration.


biancablu
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Actually you cannot catch AIDS from menstrual blood(gross)through oral sex the HIV virus dies when air hits it. It is a blood borne disease that can only live within a host. Am I the only one who had sex ed in school? Talk about misinformation.


Conscious1
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Dealbreaker I realize you were relaying what you've heard your friends say about their DL lovers...that they like being in the subservient position. But YOU told us that we can just throw the "Powerful "Masculinity" theory out the window BECAUSE of the cases you've heard of the men liking to be dominated for once.


MissDaniBaby2
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@TOPIC<<< I REALLY AM DISCUSTED BY THIS WHOLE FUKKING STORY. THE VERY "THOUGHT" OF A MAN WANTING AND SEEKING A BIG HAIRY, ASHY BOOTY HOLE OF A GROWN AZZ MAN IS SO DISTURBING THAT IT TAKES MY MIND TO PLACES I'D RATHER NOT GO. I AM MARRIED, SO THE THOUGHT OF SOME "DL DUDE" COMING ON TO MY MAN IS TRIPLE DISTURBING. I MEAN, WTF? IS NOT "ANYTHING" SACRED ANYMORE? LIKE ANOTHER BLOGGER SAID, IT IS GOTTDAMMM REDICULOUS TO EXPECT "MARRIED" WOMEN TO WEAR CONDOMS WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THEIR SUPPOSSED MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS...I MEAN, IS THIS WHAT WE'VE COME TO?? I DON'T EVEN HAVE A BABY YET DAMMIITT! WHAT IF I WANT TO HAVE ONE? SHOULD I HAVE TO GO TO A SPERM BANK AND GET INVITRO FERTILIZATION AFTER MY HUSBAND'S SPERM HAS BEEN BLEACHED AND FILTERED FOR SAFE USING AFTERWARDS BECAUSE SOME BATTY BOY HAPPENED 2 HAVE GOT AT HIM FIRST??? THIS IS MADNESS!! I HATE LIERS. I HATE MANIPULATORS. I HATE FAKES. I HATE SELF-SERVING BASTARDS. DL BROTHERS = ALL OF THE MUFUKKIN ABOVE


PrettiestMamiiAlive

james007
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HAHHAHA..WOW, there are actully alot of dykes sistas too soulde gross.LOL


DEALBREAKER
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@concious1 I was more referring to the DL men who were argueing that they sleep with gay men for Power. Sorry for the confusion. The DL men were who I was essentially talking to and about.


james007
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soulde = double sorry typo


Conscious1
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POPPIN Everyone knows blood contact is the way to catch it without a doubt. That's a given. Period = blood contact. 1.)Blood transfusions 2.)Breast milk 3.)Needles (because you're sharing bloods) Yes, you can get HIV through oral sex, but if you check the stats, that's the LEAST likely case. Lesbian sex, truth be told, is the safest sex. The highest risks are in this order 1.Male to male and male to female 2.Female to male 3.female to female Hands down men are the BIGGEST and most LIKLIEST case to infect a woman than the other way around.



trixie
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@Dqc..roflamo.. No seriously this is worrying an very disturbing the lies @Handsome.. Wow..I'm glad your relative is o.k. i would have done exactly the same thing, not because the person was gay more out of fear you lie over something like that you will lie over anything


Rebeloution215
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I THINK WE NEED TO STOP BLAMING SOCIETY OR DL MEN WILL ALWAYS HAVE A REASON TO SPREAD AIDS!!! if you got something to hide then u shouldnt be doing it.


MissDaniBaby2
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AND JUST ONE MORE GOTTDAMMM THING. WHO IS THIS POSER NAMED "DL BRUTHA" AT THE TOP OF THE THREAD??? THE AVATAR DEPICTS A VERY DARK AND HANDSOME, MASCULINE "LOOKING" BLACK MAN...YET THE MESSAGE THE BLOGGER SENDS IS THE EXACT "OPPOSITE" OF WHAT THE PICTURE IS EXPECTED TO STAND FOR. SHAMEFUL I TELL YOU. ALL THESE MTO PLANTS, FAKES AND INSTIGATORS TRYING TO KEEP THE POT STIRRED AND THE HYSTERIA GOING. ALL THE "REAL BROTHERS" PLEASE STAND UP! PEACE~


tammywammybammy
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Whether this story is fabricated or not is of no consequence. This is a very real depiction of what goes on in the mind of these men. They really believe that they have the ability to turn this attraction on and off and that no one needs to know or will ever find out. DBoston whatwhatwhat was right on point #3. The part you missed was how #3 realtes to point #1 that the two DL brothas would be caught in a "DL vibe" Since you are not DL you wouldn't get caught in that vibe right Boston :) so why would you be offended, you wouldn't have a chance cause you wouldn't notice the look, right?


STAYPOPPIN01
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Conscious I agree. Tika said NO women catch AIDS from female to female sex.


DEALBREAKER
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@thesweetest taboo Sure. I wouldnt mind having some more hot chicks to club with, gay men love it when you have pretty chicks around you...STRANGE but TRUE!! I just don't consider my female friends hags... don't like the word that normally goes in front of it!


Tika90
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STAYPOPPIN01 Flag post Conscious I agree. Tika said NO women catch AIDS from female to female sex. --------------- Excelling With Honor. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I said unless someone has given it to her, which is prob a DL man.


DEALBREAKER
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JTWILKINS Please save the catty comment. My point was that we all sin. Whether its swearing, stealing, lying, or who we have sex with That clearly went way over your head. I understand! So in essence it was not only nice try, but a nice succession!


DQC
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i don't think AIDS/HIV can be blamed on any particular group of people anymore. because of people men/women engaging in reckless sex and drug use, it's now an every and any body disease. the bottomline is to try to be as safe as possible even if you're married, because we all think we know the signs, and can identify who is DL by who they walk into clubs with, but i think it's necessary to acknowledge that we do not have a handle on it! i'm sure that every tactic we've thought of, they've thought of and figured a way around it.


Rebeloution215
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Its not societys fault that these men are cowards, its their own isnt it??? It is what it is, OWN IT! Its the job of the straight women and out gay man to not support this bullsh!t.


cater2dahaters
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@ DQC: I'll ride with you with an uzi. I live in MD though, and right around that DC/PG line is where all the "DLness" starts becoming rampant. @ Dealbreaker: will you be my passable "friend?" I have a couple of gay-guy friends but in no way, shape, or form are they "passable" as straight? (Plus I specifically have some questions about a couple of men I know who reside in ATL, and I want to know are they just creative with their clothes and very much mild-mannered gentlemen (i.e.- Lenny Kravitz/Maxwell)...or are they hiding something and I'm trying too hard not to be the stereotypical "paranoid" female?


DQC
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LOL cool. cater2dahaters is on board. trixie u ridin? lol


TheSweetestTaboo
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DEALBREAKER Awwww...you have me feeling all sugary and vulnerable. I thought you didn't do that for females;) On that note, I'm out...on my high...


LuvTakeOut
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Man, you are Bi and why would you lie to people about that, i'm sure there is someone out there that likes that and will accept it. I get tired of people thinking they know what will happen if you keep it real. Let people make their own decisions about if they want to be with you or not, for being YOU.


james007
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@MissDaniBaby2 if u are married why is ur screen name miss and not mrs. u know ur azz aint married.LMAO



DQC
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don't attack dealbreaker! he's our informant. lol carry on, dealy.


DEALBREAKER
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@cater2dahaters Sure I will. There is nothing I would love more than to rid the streets of DL men. They are in no shape or from attractive in my eyes. Quick story... My stepdad cheated on my mom and instead of leaving she decided to have an affair of her own..(Now please don't judge my parents at least not on here because I am sensitive and they are deceased), but anyway... so she meets this man and he is extremely attractive.. great guy! So my mom tells him that she has two sons one being gay...and low and behold he asked about me everyday. He couldnt wait to meet me. ' That is just one of many stories! @Thesweetestaboo Actually my best female friend keeps telling my I would make the perfect man for a girl if I was straight, but that has everything to do with my upbringing..... NO FRET LADIES you are totally safe around me!


Conscious1
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@Dealbreaker-Gotcha MissDANi-LOL you feel me? As soon as I saw DLBRUTHA, I knew it was a setup. Come to think of it... "DOWNLOWCONFESSIONS" and "BigBootyBoy" are all on Fred's payroll. Maybe Blue_Ballz...I mean Boy too. The jury's still out on him.


MissDaniBaby2
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@JAMES007<<< LOL. DUDE, YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT ME. TRUST. THE "MISSES" MONIKER IS SIMPLY AN EXPRESSION...TO EXPRESS SASSINESS, UNBRIDLED OPINIONS, AN ATTITUDE ETC. AND SO I TAKE IT THAT THE "007" IN YOUR NAME MEANS YOU'RE ACTUIALLY SIR JAMES BOND TYPING ON THAT KEYBOARD OF YOURS, HUH? RIIGGGHHHTTT. CALM DOWN CLOWN...YOU DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING. LOL LMAO!


DEALBREAKER
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@DQC Thanks! I am here for you ladies. Some of you have suprised me today. I am not looking for people to celebrate my sexuality, but we can all coexist peacefully if we do the right thing to each other.... HELL I am down to ride with you.... I can be your undercover spy!!!


Conscious1
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POPPIN Have you ever watched lesbian porn? Have you ever watched gay male porn? Did you like either? (I know the answer already, lol) but you see, if it's a double standard, trust me, you share it...if the answers are what I'm thinking they're going to be that is. Even if you USED to think one way (about two females together being hot), but as a grown man, don't anymore...if you're "passed" that. I'm "guessing" you know, why although it might be a double standard, it's viewed differently. Also, women who've been with women can totally one day get over that. They go on the straight path having been there and done that. A fad. I have yet to see a bisexual man be cured of lusting after men. Even those preachers who've said they were "cured" are lying to themselves. It can be temporary with women. Once a man has gone there, he's staying.


Mstery
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I can't stand when people try to play that DL card! Either be straight or gay gosh! Stop going both ways! If dude will not admit to females about being on the DL; neither will he admit to having HIV/AIDS nor any other STD he may catch. YUCK!


la_india
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will someone PLEASE explain to this freak that no woman in her right mind wants anything his nasty ass has to offer! he thinks he sounds deep, too! ignorant ass.


MissOfficial
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@TOPIC.... evnthough this is a fake manifesto i think it opens up for sum gud open conversation....but im goin to comment on it as it is a reel guy then nigguh u GAY!!!!! DEAL WIT IT.... i hate dem mufukn DL nigguhs (not GAY but DL) u disguist me yal always talkin like yal so mufukn tuff n all det macho shyt "aww dude bet not sey shyt ta me ill beat hiz mufukn azz" and yet u livin on tha dl u puzzy!!!!! and IM SICK OF ALL THESE MUFUKAZ ALWAYS ADVERTISIN SHYT LIKE IT ONLY AFFECT 'BLACK' PPL...THIS SHYT GOES FURTHER THAN RACE THIS SHYT AFFECTS ALL RACES.. REMEMBER WE ARE 'MINORITY' SO IT SEEMS LIKE ITS MOSTLY US BUT ITS 'NOT' N I WISH SUMMA YAL WUD GET DET..... @HANDSOME STALLION... evnthough summa da things u say sumtimes irritate me (LOL) u made sum really gud points today.......nigguhs (guys) need to step up n take responsibilities for tha decisions THEY make..... @MEDIACLUB...DL men are in every race, ok. White college guys do it, Hispanic men do it, not just Black men. So just to say that DL dudes are the reason that you don't date Black men is kind of crazy. As usual the media only shows the negative when it comes to our race or distort the figures to make us seem worst then everyone else... GURL YOU AINT NEVA LIED I DON SEE WHY PPL DONT SEE DET SHYT BY NOW...... @DQC.... gurl u crackin me da fuk up today.....LMAO....


MissDaniBaby2
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@CONSCIOUS<<< "MissDANi-LOL you feel me? As soon as I saw DLBRUTHA, I knew it was a setup. Come to think of it... "DOWNLOWCONFESSIONS" and "BigBootyBoy" are all on Fred's payroll. Maybe Blue_Ballz...I mean Boy too. The jury's still out on him." ---------------------- HEY MA! YEAH, I FEEL YOU TOTALLY. IT'S LIKE THE ESTABLISHMENT IS SUBTEDLY TRYING TO GIVE US A "FACE" FOR THIS DISGUSTING, DOWN-LOW BEHAVIOR. NO SURPRISE! THEY PUTTING ALL THE FILTH ON THE DOWN TRODDEN, BLACK RACE. DON'T GET ME WRONG, I KNOW THIS SHIITT EXISTS IN OUR COMMUNITY, AND IS VERY REAL, I'M NOT NAIVE. BUT WHY WE ALWAYS GOT TO BE THE "POSTER BOY" FOR EVERYTHING NEGATIVE OR SINFUL IN AMERICA?? HELL, THE FRIGGIN' WORLD EVEN! EX: HIV AIDS DIABETES HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE PERMISCUITY HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUTS OBESITY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE UNWED MOTHERS CRIME JOBLESS RATES BLAH, BLAH AND MUFUKKIN BLAH. GIRL, THIS MESS IS WEARING ME OUT! BUT I'M TRYING TO STAY STRONG! LOL


ronjeremy
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boom bi bi in the batti boy head.


ronjeremy
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stop polluting the puss, nicca need to be honest with themself, either you are gay or straight.


la_india
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@1killa, don't try to make this about what woman can or can't do for a man. you claim that you'll keep doing it until a woman can measure up, but i have some important news for you....you'll keep doing it BECAUSE YOU ARE GAY! Period!!! nice try, though.


Coffeecolor
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....do that thing I like and shut up?.....woo Lawdy I- was -rol--lin!...


MissDaniBaby2
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@CONSCIOUS<<< LMAO...GIRL, DON'T GET ME STARTED ON "BIG BOOTY BOY"!! AND THERE ARE ACTUALLY SOEM DEVIOUS CLOWNS ON HERE THAT TRY TO HOOK UP WITH THAT FOOL "ON THE LOW"! *ROLLS EYEZ* I FORGET THAT ONE NIG'S NAME, STARTS WITH AN "M" AND HIS SIGNATURE IMPLORES "ALL DA LADIES TO HOLLA AT YA BOY". WTF?? I JUST NEED SOME HOLY WATER, INCENSE AND A NINE-MILLIMETER TO "BUKE SOME DEMONS" OUT THESE MOFOS. LOL



Conscious1
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MissDani Because they gotta keep making themselves look and feel superior. Before they came across us, they were abusing each other. In order to have Good you need bad, hot...you need cold. We're to forever be in the role of the bad cop in this good cop/bad cop thing. You know whites, (without brainwashing and cheating) can't win against us.


trixie
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@DQC..LOL.. NOT BAREBACK SORRY NOT INTO ALL THAT HIDDEN CLOSET BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN ISH


MissDaniBaby2
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@CONSCIOUS<<< "MissDani Because they gotta keep making themselves look and feel superior. Before they came across us, they were abusing each other. In order to have Good you need bad, hot...you need cold. We're to forever be in the role of the bad cop in this good cop/bad cop thing. You know whites, (without brainwashing and cheating) can't win against us." ---------------------- GIRL, DON'T GET ME STARTED! I INDEED BELEIVE IN THE COVERT CONSPIRACIES BEING PERPETRATED AGAINST OUR PEOPLES...H.I.V. BEING ONE! BUT THAT'S A WHOLE 'NOTHER SHOW MY SISTA. NOT SAYING THE VIRUS ISNT REAL AND DOESNT REALLY KILL PEOPLE, BUT I BELIEVE WHOLE-HEARTEDLY THAT IT WAS "MANUFACTURED" JUST LIKE SO MANY OTHER ROTTEN DISEASES THAT AFFECT US DISPROPORTIONATELY TO THE SO-CALLED GOODY-GOODY WHITE RACE. NO, I'M NOT RACE BASHING, BUT IT IS WHAT IT IS! LOOK AT THE NUMBERS! BUT YOU HIT IT ON THE HEAD, CERTAIN ECHELONS OF WHITE SOCIETY ALWAYS NEEDS AN "ANTITHESIS" OF THEIR STERLING SILVER PERFECT, ANGELIC FAKE PERSONA THAT THEY PROPAGATE ACROSS THE GLOBE. GTFOH! BULL SHIITT AT IT'S UTTER FINEST!


trixie
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THIS TOPIC IS MAKING ME FEEL QUEASY I'M STILL :-{ READING THROUGH THE TOPICS ABOVE ABOUT THE BLOOD


Conscious1
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MissDani That's the truth and nothing but. I'm out of here guys. See y'all tomorrow.


Dee87
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SMH this dl shit is gettin ridicolous for real eva since that movie cover.....i look @ my bf so different now.... like guys if ur bi sexual u need to tell ur girl whether u lose her or hurt her...either way ur losin her cuz if she find out on her own shit is gonna get real ugly TRUST especially if ya girl a blk woman lmao u will neva hear the end of it... but for real dl men B REAL youll get so much respect


mzarrogance
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@ post - How can you be a good husband when you're stepping out putting your wife at risk?! SMH


Dee87
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and these men r prolly dl b/c they was whores when they were younger and they're tired of pussy so they want sumthing new....Eww the thought of it makes me sick


carmel666
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DEATH TO ALL DL BEEYATCHES. PHUCK ALL OF YOU! I WILL CHEER WHENEVER ONE OF YOU IS EXPOSED AND LOSES EVERYTHING. EVERYONE OF YOU LYING CHEATING WEAK PUZZIES DESERVE NOTHING BUT CONTEMPT. AND NO COURT WILL CONDEMN ANY WOMEN WHO BLOWS YOUR HEADS OFF IF YOU GIVE HER AIDS(TEMPORARY INSANITY)!


lvlario
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@ Danibaby2 Yo I'mma get to you in a second. @ Conscious1 Is it me of is this the funniest thread MTO ever posted?did this mu fugga say he wanna taste a man?Lmfaooooooo @ TooFine4WhiteMedia You know its sistas like you and Danibaby that make me realize why brothas in Africa got more than 1 wife.Its just too hard to only have 1 good black woman.Unfortunately I can only have 1.


lvlario
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@ MissDaniBaby2 Everytime I see you I pour baby oil on my keyboard and play some Maxwell. But yo I'm still mad that you're married.Why you cheatin on me wit ya husband? Come here and let a brotha put his hands on them child bearing hips,pull you in and kiss ya stomach.


babygirl8
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i'm sorry but if you like to have sex with a man and you yourself are a man you are atLEAST bi-sexual. as far as i "respect you"...hell no you don't because if you did you wouldn't be keeping that from the woman in your life. with the AIDS rate so high people need to be more honest with their partner.


carmel666
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THE MOST FLAMING DRAG QUEEN IS MORE OF A MAN THAN ANY DL BITCH, CUZ THEY KEEP IT REAL. YOU DUMBASSES BEST BELIEVE, GAY MEN TALK. WHAT'S DONE IN THE DARK ALWAYS COMES TO THE LIGHT. RECOGNIZE.


tionne
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Man you all tha way gay.LADIES BEWARE !!it's plenty more out there


hadtoo
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I signed up for a mediatakeout account just so I could comment on this. You have to stop lying to yourself. If your only excuse for not being honest with women is your fear of rejection then why don't you find a woman who goes both ways. Stop jeopardizing someone who wants no part in your lifestyle. Karma is real



lvlario
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@ Danibaby "I AM MARRIED, SO THE THOUGHT OF SOME "DL DUDE" COMING ON TO MY MAN IS TRIPLE DISTURBING. I MEAN, WTF? IS NOT "ANYTHING" SACRED ANYMORE? LIKE ANOTHER BLOGGER SAID, IT IS GOTTDAMMM REDICULOUS TO EXPECT "MARRIED" WOMEN TO WEAR CONDOMS WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THEIR SUPPOSSED MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS" So not only are you cheating on me wit ya husband,but you be lettin home boy go raw too?


Dreayonn
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As disgustin' as this, it's no worst then the filthy club pics MTO posted previously. People in genaral are nasty if you ask me.


bajanrn2
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ok he has sex with men but hes not gay or bi ok..


babygirl8
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*so high in some places that was supposed to say


KEKE2009
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DIDNT EVEN READ THAT MESS..


mzarrogance
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bajanrn2 - DENIAL!


Dreayonn
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And so, I lie. Not because I am trying to deceive you, but because I just don't think you need to know. All it will do is destroy what we have. ---- You already destroyed what you have by lying. If you have to lie, then you do not need to messing around with women period. A woman deserve to have a choice weather she want to be with a man who sleeps with men because she may become emotionally attached to you. Saying I don't want you to know because, you wouldn't accpt me, is selish. It's not about you, it's about being upfront and honest with the person ur dealing with. Whoeva wrote this is gay and I don't care what nobody say. If ur a man sleepin' with men, then ur gay period. Stop the bullish!


mskiki
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i didnt even bother to read all of that shiit! if u read all of that, you have too much time on ur hands!


mzarrogance
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People will have to resort to lie detector tests for a decent relationship


Coffeecolor
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Sad thing about it is....he is LOOKING for a wife,even if this is a bogus story...his KIND is out there!...And as long as he does this before he IS married,he heightens his chances even more of getting infected with HIV...Mothers talk to your daughters, make them aware of this type MAN.Insist that they make all new boyfriends get tested BEFORE having sex with them...Tell them to GO WITH THEM for the test, and GO BACK with them for the results! and NO SEX-BEFORE you get those results!...If he doesn't want to take the test or wait before the test comes back?..Tell your daughters to be smart and MOVE ON!... Becoz as soon as a young girl sees a dude like DL Brother she would think she has hit the jackpot!....and then..BOOM!-Positive!...


watzgood
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DOWNLOW DUDES ARE COWARDS. JUST BE HONEST WITH YOUR PARTNER. YOU NEVER KNOW THEY MAY BE DOWN WITH YOU HAVING SEX WITH DUDES. IF NOT THEN AT LEAST THEY HAD A CHOICE. DUDES WHO ARE ON THE DOWNLOW ARE TAKING AWAY A WOMAN'S RIGHT TO MAKE DECISIONS. THESE DUDES HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES OR ANYONE ELSE.


lvlario
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@ mzarrogance Wus up sista,how u doing? I read up and saw you but I was caught up in the love triangle that is DaniBaby,her husband and I. Sistas be breakin brothas hearts,but we dont have a shoulder to cry on. I always know in the morning if I dealt with DaniBaby the day b4 becuz I wake up with tears on my pillow.


mzarrogance
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@ lvlario - I'm good and u? I won't involve myself in your love triangle...leave that married woman alone,lol. If someone broke your heart, you can cry on my shoulder.


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<<< WHAT'S US BABBBYYYYYY! LOL YOU KNOW YOU FOOLING TODAY, RIGHT? >>>"So not only are you cheating on me wit ya husband,but you be lettin home boy go raw too?" ------------------ LMAO!!! BUT I MISSED YOU BOO, WHERE YOU BEEN HIDING? YOU BLOG ANYWHERE ELSE?


STAYPOPPIN01
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Conscious The only reason I share in the double standard is because I'm straight. I like to see ONE naked women let alone two. lol I'm saying how some of these straight women look at other women and find them doable. Maybe I can't understand it because I feel women should be as grossed out by other women as much as straight men are about other men. Maybe it's not the case, but that's the only way I can see it being that men make my skin crawl!



lvlario
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@ mzarrogance Yea I think I'mma pack it up and call it a loss. You married too? If you're not married my head wont be going on your shoulder,it'll be going between your...


mzarrogance
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@ lvlario - No I'm not married... lol


SLiMThiCKY
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there's no sugar coating it ur gay, and in the end he's still saying hes going to cheat on his wife if he marries, why get married?


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO AKA "MARIO" "@ All the Black Women in here Easy 2 ways to see if your man is gay.These 2 methods have been well known in the black community for decades,might have even heard of them b4. Ferst way is check his underwear.If home boy got Doo Doo stains in the back AND the front,then he's def h0m0. Second way,is to listen to his fart.Ya man's fart can tell you all you need to know about his sexuality.If he fart and it sound like a whoopi cushion,then you're good.He's straight,that means his booty hole is tight. But if he fart and that sh!t sound like "Whoooo",like you blowing over an empty beer bottle,then he h0m0!! That means his booty hole is loose and he's had someone put meat missiles in his Poo Poo Palace." ------------------ ROTFLMBAO.


lvlario
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@ All the Black Women in here Easy 2 ways to see if your man is gay.These 2 methods have been well known in the black community for decades,might have even heard of them b4. Ferst way is check his underwear.If home boy got Doo Doo stains in the back AND the front,then he's def h0m0. Second way,is to listen to his fart.Ya man's fart can tell you all you need to know about his sexuality.If he fart and it sound like a whoopi cushion,then you're good.He's straight,that means his booty hole is tight. But if he fart and that sh!t sound like "Whoooo",like you blowing over an empty beer bottle,then he h0m0!! That means his booty hole is loose and he's had someone put meat missiles in his Poo Poo Palace.


mzarrogance
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LMAO @ lvlario. You pulled out the old school checklist.


lvlario
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@ MissDaniBaby2 Dont try to come and sweet talk me now,you jus blatantly let me see that you be lettin your Tag Along man-friend hit it raw. But I'm the kind of brotha that gives credit where credit is due.He's the better man,I'll let him have you and respect your marriage.But yo,can you do me a favor?Ask him if I ca smell his fingers? If you AINT gone let me hit it,atleast let me smell home boy fingers.Let me imagine what it would have been like.J/kkkkkkkkkk I'm jokingggggggg!!!!! But DaniBaby its time for me to move on,I hate when Black Women get married in their 20's.Wtf is all the rush? **Plays Chris Brown-Say Goodbye "Its never a riiiggghhhttt time to say goodbye, but you gotta know That we gotta go our seperate waaaaayyyssss".


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVALRIO<<< LMAO! YOU SILLY AZZ! THIS HAS TURNED INTO AN E-CHEAT DEBACLE...I DEMAND AN APPT WITH DR. PHIL!! *HOLDING BACK TEARS* LOL BUT "SMELL THE FINGERS" DUDE?? WOWWWWW. *DEAD* LOL


lvlario
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@ MzArrogance So I noticed you said you weren't married,but you didn't decline my offer to put my head between your..... MzArrogance,just to let you know off the bat I'm the jealous type when it comes to the sistas I deal with. I dont even want my gerl using tampons.Thats cheating to me.She gotta use them old school pads that sound like pampers when she walk. I dont even want my gerl d0uching for that matter.Its not because it takes away from your natural fluids after a while.The whole action of putting it in and lettin it squirt inside you is...I dont wanna be to graphic but its either me or the Summer's Eve. It can't be 2 of us going inside you and squirting,ya mean? Alot of guys wouldn't say it but I keeps it real,I'm the jealous type.


lvlario
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@ MissDaniBaby2 Smh at you pointing out the figners part Smh lollolol. Now u making me sound like the guy who wrote the essay this thread is about. DaniBaby dont think I'mma let you leave me so easily,I got 1 last trick up my sleeve.


MissDaniBaby2
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@MARIO<<< NOOOO...I WASNT INSINUATING YOU WERE HOMO BABE, IT'S JUST THAT YOUR LINGO AND "GRAPHIC" DETAILS GET A GIRL LIKE ME NERRRVOOUSS. LMAO


MissDaniBaby2
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@STAYPOPPIN'<<< "I'm saying how some of these straight women look at other women and find them doable. Maybe I can't understand it because I feel women should be as grossed out by other women as much as straight men are about other men. Maybe it's not the case, but that's the only way I can see it being that men make my skin crawl!" -------------- GOOD POINT. I FEEL THE SAME WAY. THERE IS INDEEED A DOUBLE-STANDARD WHEN IT COMES TO FEMALES AND THE WAY THEY OPENLY TALK ABOUT LUSTING AFTER OTHER FEMALES. I'M LIKE WTF? YES, WOMEN IN GENEERAL ARE MORE VOCAL ABOUT PAYING OTHER GIRLS COMPLIMENTS LIKE, "SHE'S PRETTY" OR WHATEVER...BUT BEYOND THAT, LIKE GUSHING ABOUT HOW ANOTHER BRAWD IS "DOABLE" REEKS OF HOMO-TENDENCIES IMO. JUST TO KEEP IT 1000000%, AINT "NOTHING" ANOTHER BRAWD CAN DO FOR ME EXCEPT POINT ME IN THE DIRECTION OF A BROTHER. REAL TALK. EXHIBIT A-Z: AND I'M STILL GAPING ABOUT THE AMBER ROSE THREAD LAST WEEK!


lvlario
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@ MissDaniBaby2 Wha took you so long to respond?I bet them graphic details got you... I know wha u was jus doin,but yo dont leave me for more den 7 minutes again.


Cincinamon
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Cancel that marriage and woman fantasy dude. There is NOTHING a woman can do for a man once he's been inside of another man. When a man who has gone there with another man keeps claiming he is "bi" sexual (or talking like this dude is), it is only societies scrutiny that's making him THINK he wants to be with a woman. Stay true to yourself, dude. You know you don't want no pu$$y... 1. Physiologically speaking, men’s pituitary glands are twice as big as a woman (read what is does to your body before and during arousal if you don't know, I haven't much time to explain). 2. A woman’s vagina has NO feeling like that of a sphincter muscle-no matter how she thinks she's got that "good good." (Quite frankly-same is true for a man entering a woman's anus too. When a "man" hits a woman there-or he's been there-period-even with a WOMAN, he doesn't want that pu$$y no more...he just knows he has a heterosexual position to play and to keep you from spreading rumors that he is/might be gay, anal sex is "occasional." (My opinion-sorry, not trying to offend anybody, if that's your thing-seriously). 3. The euphoria a man feels from having another masculine body beneath him submitting to him is NOTHING a woman can come close to bringing out in a man (that has gone there with another man). It's taboo and secret, physiologically arousing and physically feels out of this world to a man-having gone there, with another man. It’s an entire mental, physiological, emotional and physical experience that NO woman can compare to. Hands down-please believe it. These men go through all KINDS of unexplainable sensations when they are with other men. On another non-opinionated note, (excluding all conspiracy theories); it is SO unfortunate that a disease like HIV/AIDS began at a time (1986) when it’s name was GRIDS (Gay Related Immune Deficiency Syndrome) and because a group of people felt isolated and cried out, it’s name was changed. That is not to say that the epidemic would have been any better off than what it is today in 2009; but no matter the conspiracy theories; anal sex IS the sure-fire way to catch it (homosexually OR “heterosexually.”) Yes, there are other ways to get it, but we are talking about “down-low” (anal sex), in this thread. So called “heterosexual” anal sex is no safer way of contracting AIDS/HIV than DL/gay sex. I repeat: Gay and DL anal sex are no more to blame on this epidemic as “heterosexual” anal sex. A sphincter is NOT built/made for a penis (of any size) therefore, it is going to tear/bleed/secrete blood inside-welcoming our epidemic foe. I do not have as much time that I would like to elaborate on this but go look up mitochondria. Quite frankly, you have probably laid up with someone who had AIDS/HIV (and didn’t know it) and fortunately for you-your mitochondria “saved” you (that time)… A woman who loves herSELF, her life, her man and wants to keep her man a REAL man-knows that anal sex should be JUST as taboo, mysterious and unexplored as childbirth should be to that man… Just Cin’s "manifesto."


BkalldayJay
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DL BRUTHA IS NUMBER 2 IN THE POSTS! WTF THAT WAS THE NIGGA THAT WROTE THAT! GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT SHIT. CHANCE IS IN THAT CARTOON TOO!



MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< "@ MissDaniBaby2 Wha took you so long to respond?I bet them graphic details got you... I know wha u was jus doin,but yo dont leave me for more den 7 minutes again." --------------------- DAMMMM BOO, YOU TIMIN' A SISTA NOW? I THINK THIS RELATIONSHIP IS BECOMING ABUSIVE...YOU NOT THE C. BREEZY TYPE ARE YOU...DON'T HURT ME...I ONLY WAS TRYING TO COMB OUT MY FRESHLY WASHED HAIR. LMAO


mzarrogance
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@ lvlario - LOL. Thanks for admitting you're jealous. Do you have a problem keeping your hands to yourself? You know, no woman should be douching. Another topic, but it shouldn't be happening. Are you jealous of vibrators also?


mzarrogance
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JUST TO KEEP IT 1000000%, AINT "NOTHING" ANOTHER BRAWD CAN DO FOR ME EXCEPT POINT ME IN THE DIRECTION OF A BROTHER. REAL TALK. EXHIBIT A-Z: AND I'M STILL GAPING ABOUT THE AMBER ROSE THREAD LAST WEEK! - - - - - - - @msdani - OK?! That thread had my mouth wide-tf open. As a woman, we have no shame in appreciating each other's beauty (amber is pretty) but there were so many "i'd do her, no homo" comments. There are obviously plenty of women on the DL also.


BkalldayJay
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Cincinamon that was crazy...the dude going into another dude part is gross...chill on that note. PLEASEEE


trinigurl89
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I'LL GO OUT ON A LIMB AND SAY IT...I DON'T LIKE HOMOSEXUALITY. HOWEVER, I TOLERATE AND RESPECT ALL HUMAN BEINGS WHO RESPECT ME. I WILL NOT EVEN CALL THIS COWARD A MAN. HE IS A B***H. PERIOD. IF YOU DON'T SEE THE SIN OF YOUR WAYS, WHY LIE?? I COULD GO ON FOR HOURS HOW THIS SELFISH, RISKY LIFESTYLE DISGUSTS ME. YOU WILL NEVER MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND, NOR FATHER, BC YOU HAVE YET TO UNDERSTAND BEING A MAN. AND ANYONE WHO APPLAUDS OR IS AMUSED BY THIS SICKENING BEHAVIOR DESERVES EVERY HEARTACHE, A$$ WHOPPING, AND DISEASE THEY GET. YEAH I SAID IT.


MissDaniBaby2
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@MZARROGANCE<<< "@msdani - OK?! That thread had my mouth wide-tf open. As a woman, we have no shame in appreciating each other's beauty (amber is pretty) but there were so many "i'd do her, no homo" comments. There are obviously plenty of women on the DL also." ------------------ GIRL, YOU FEEL ME??? I KEPT MY PEACE, AND DIDNT WANT TO COME ACROSS AS HOMO-PHOBE LAST WEEK, BUT I WAS LIKE DAMMMMIIITTT MAN! WHY SO MANY BRAWDS OUT HERE WANTIN' COOCHIE? NASTY, I TELL YOU! YOU'RE RIGHT, THE DL WOMEN NEED TO STOP THE MADNESS AS WELL!


lvlario
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@MzArrogance I sure am jealous of vibrators!If my gerl is usin a vibrator,its like a slap in da face.She got me here but she went out and spent money on another d!ck? As soon as I see double A batters that I AINT BUY in the garbage or batteries missing out of the remote,the realationship is over. By the way,any gerl messin with me betta be prepared to get a tattoo to cover up her C-section scar. They aint havin no natural berth. I like to think my d!ck is big but in NO WAY can it compete with 7 pounds 8 ounces. Bottom line is I dont even want her around anything shaped like a pen!s.No bananas no popsicles no sausages no foods shaped like it.I dont even want her visiting landmarks shaped like 1. She can go to the Pentagon,but never can she go to the Empire State Building. I dont even want her going to the zoo,b4 she see 1 of them larger mammals and get a new set of standards.


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< "Bottom line is I dont even want her around anything shaped like a pen!s.No bananas no popsicles no sausages no foods shaped like it.I dont even want her visiting landmarks shaped like 1. She can go to the Pentagon,but never can she go to the Empire State Building. I dont even want her going to the zoo,b4 she see 1 of them larger mammals and get a new set of standards." -------------------- *DEAD* LMFAO


Violetta
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fIRST THIS MAN IS FOOLING HIMSELF HE IS BISEXUAL AND HE HAS A RESPONSIBILTY TO HIS PARTNERS IN LETTING THEM KNOW EHO HE IS AND WHAT HE IS ABOUT! SECOND THIS IS WHY YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO PROTECT YOURSELF LADIES REGARDLESS OF HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN DATING SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU JUST NEVER KNOW WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS DOING STRAIGHT OR BI OR DL!IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBTS LADIES DO THE FINGER TEST DURING SEX LET YOUR FINGERS ROAM TO THE BOOTY IF A GUY DOES NOT EVEN FLINCH THEN HE´S HAD SOME ACTION DOWN THERE BEFORE!!


Boe_Leggs82
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This is why so may sexual diseases are tranferred to our black women.... Lying to your patner about who your having sex with protected or unprotected is very dangerous... and lying about sleeping with the same sex is just down right wrong. Please Sir who ever you are, If Black women mean so much to you help them and give the chance to decide whether they want a relationship with a bisexual man. They will find out sooner or later. WHAT YOU DO IN THE DARK WILL COME TO THE LIGHT


lvlario
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@ DaniBaby I'mma put a trackin device in ya car like Michael Strahan. And I'mma get one of them dog collars that give the electrical shock when eva they get to far.If you go outside the 2 mile radius, 50,000 volts will make sure it dont happen again. Lemme stop playing b4 you start takin me serious.I'd never put my hands on a sista going faster than 3 miles and hour.I know ya'll are very delicate.


biancablu
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@lvlario you must be lousy lay or have a really small dick to be just insecure and selfish. Acting like that will get you cheated on for sure. Be a man a really man wants a real woman and a real woman would never allow herself to bullied and controlled that way.Telling a woman she can't use a tampon. Get yourself some business brother than call a psychiatrist.


msrbsinger
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Dealbreaker, I know what you are saying in regards to the clear solution and green tip LOL, I knew what you were saying even b4 you posted a response to travel agent, I've heard of this before is why. But question: Do you think its weird for a normal guy to use an enema? Like, you said you like to keep yourself clean not necessarily because of you being gay, can that be the case for a so called hetero man? What you think? And where do you live? I would love to hang out with you sometimes and learn somethings!! Back to the story: MTO is lying in regards to a poster that sent them this manifesto, if it was a poster than they played MTO because this is an actual true case but you can find it online because I read the same exact thing on a website over a year ago, its just been copied and pasted. I think this story has generated much needed conversation that needs to take place between Gay blk men and blk women and DL men also... Its so sad, you can't even get into a relationship without having to worry if a man is really into another man.


sexydreads34
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@WHATWHATWHAT SO TRUE HOMOPHOBIC MEN ARE USUALLY THE ONES THAT ARE CURIOUS.OR THE THE MEN THAT ARE SO MAD WHEN THEY ARE AROUND FLAMBOYUANT GAY MEN THEIR SO SCARED THIER GOING TO SNATCH THEIR SEXUALITY AWAY GAYS KNOW OTHER GAYS! REAL -TALK@MISSDANIBABY2 WHATS THE PROBLEM WITH BEING ATTRACTED TO CHICKS?


lvlario
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I know ya'll not talkin about that white b!tch Amber Rose. Oh helllll noooo!! Only thing I hate more than a brotha drooling over a white b!tch is when a sista does it.Them white h0es is not whats up.I need that brown skin sista.Dark brown, medium brown or light brown,she gotsta be brown!!



Whatevea2009
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IF YOU ARE A MAN HAVING SEX WITH A MAN YOU ARE GUY CALL IT WHAT IT REALLY IS AND STOP HURTING AND HARMING BLACK WOMEN AND THEIR HEALTH!!!!! STOP BEING FAKE, LIARS AND COME OUT. YOU CANT HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TO.BECAUSE OF MEN LIKE YOU I WON'T DATE...I'LL STAY SINGLE


lvlario
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@ biancablu Hahaha no sweetheart this is an inside thing.See thats what happens when you dont mind your business.Its a joke.Smh what kind of low intelligence person would take what I was saying seriously?


MissDaniBaby2
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@SEXYDREADS<<< "@MISSDANIBABY2 WHATS THE PROBLEM WITH BEING ATTRACTED TO CHICKS?" ---------------- NOTHING WRONG WITH IT IF YOU'RE STRAIGHT LESBIAN, I GUESS, BUT THE "DL BRAWDS" (ONES WITHN HUSBANDS, BOYFRIENDS, KIDS ETC) LUSTING OPENLY FOR CHICKS IS CONFUSING. WE CAN'T GET ON A DL BROTHA'S CASE AND GIVE SISTAS THAT ENGAGE IN THE SAME BEHAVIOR A FREE PASS.


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< "@ DaniBaby I'mma put a trackin device in ya car like Michael Strahan. And I'mma get one of them dog collars that give the electrical shock when eva they get to far.If you go outside the 2 mile radius, 50,000 volts will make sure it dont happen again. Lemme stop playing b4 you start takin me serious.I'd never put my hands on a sista going faster than 3 miles and hour.I know ya'll are very delicate." ------------------------- LMAO. I PROMISE I'LL BE GOOD....PROMISE!


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< YES, IT GOT UGLY UP IN HERE LAST WEEK OVER MISS AMBER ROSE: HERE'S THE LINK: "http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/31414-mto_world_exclusive_ummmm__kanyes_girl__and_her_sister.html"


mzarrogance
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@ lvlario- I see that's one place we agree. I think something's wrong if your woman has a vibrator. I've had enough debates on this issue with other women to last me a lifetime. Could she visit Florida? lol Please tell me you wouldn't go that far... I know that YOU know the vagina is a muscle. If you do right and wait your six weeks, you shouldn't worry about being adequate after birth.


mzarrogance
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I dont even want her going to the zoo,b4 she see 1 of them larger mammals and get a new set of standards. - - - - - - I guess taking you for a visit to the family farm is out! LOL


lvlario
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@ MissDaniBaby2 I've been tryna move on and start a new life without you but its HARD.Its hard and jumping,its also hard to take my mind off of you. Dont try to cover it up,what you said to that dyke.Its wrong for a woman to like another woman,as well as a man to like another man. A man's butt hole is an exit only,and a woman should not have her face in another woman's pum pum.


Empress8
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@ thatnigg, I heard gay men say there are no tops or bottoms. Men who desire men are both top and bottom. SMH @ the manifesto. Like someone said, we are in the last days and the sign are all around, from politics to the economy to people. Be careful is all I can say.


crystal214
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DATS HOW AIDS GETS PASSED AROUND


mzarrogance
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MissDaniBaby2 Flag post @MZARROGANCE<<< "@msdani - OK?! That thread had my mouth wide-tf open. As a woman, we have no shame in appreciating each other's beauty (amber is pretty) but there were so many "i'd do her, no homo" comments. There are obviously plenty of women on the DL also." ------------------ GIRL, YOU FEEL ME??? I KEPT MY PEACE, AND DIDNT WANT TO COME ACROSS AS HOMO-PHOBE LAST WEEK, BUT I WAS LIKE DAMMMMIIITTT MAN! WHY SO MANY BRAWDS OUT HERE WANTIN' COOCHIE? NASTY, I TELL YOU! YOU'RE RIGHT, THE DL WOMEN NEED TO STOP THE MADNESS AS WELL! - - - - - - - - - - Most of the comments were coming from women what are straight (in their minds). Too many women who weren't 'born that way' are making choices to be with women. What is going on in the relationships with men? Is it really THAT bad and I don't see it?


lvlario
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@ mzarrogance Lmfaooooo yo that was the jokes!!! Did you say "Could she visit florida?" haHAhahaha!!! MzArrogance I got some baggage but I'm ready to move on as long as you're willing to meet my requests.Come ride my face,make my breath smell like a gynocologist office.


Choclair25
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This is the honest to god reason why I haven't dated in almost 3 yrs. I don't trust these black men. I have several gay male BFF's some are the froo froo kind and some of them are the masculine type that you probably wouldn't even know that they're gay. Anywho I've seen my masculine gay BFF's pick up men right in front of me, sometimes without even having to say one word. The guys that they pick up are masculine types as well. My gays have saved me from deception 4 times know in regrads to this DL nonesense. Nowadays if I'm interested at all in a man I introduce them to my masculine gay BFF's to see the body language and interactions, then later my BFF's give me the report. Like I said they've saved me 4 times so far from this nonesense. Like Beenie Siegel said " You might as well come all the way out the closet". If your gay then your gay stop putting us black women at risk for AIDS you ignorants assholes.


tashon74
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I wasn't going to make no comments today on MTO until I read this shyyyyt! How some man gonna fix his mouth to say it's not OUR business as a woman to know that he is screwing men on the DL? It is our business! He must don't know about AIDS and STD's! I guess it would be ok if us as women screw other men behind his back and not tell him because HE DON'T NEED TO KNOW! Same thang right? I don't get it. I mean if you feel like being with a man fine..I have nothing against that at all. Just like if a woman want to be with a woman that's cool. But when you are involved with some one, they have every right to know who you are sleeping with regardless if it's another man or woman. You are putting both of who you are sleeping with life in danger. I think this whole DL thing is straight up bull shit! And who ever wrote this shyyyyt is full of shyyyt and cum!!!! LOL There is no way his ass or any DL man can become a good husband to his wife. If he is screwing men now and just have to have a taste of a man every now and then...then he is ALWAYS GOING TO BE THAT WAY! PUNK ASS!


Pattyg
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90% + OF THE AIDS CASES OF AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN ARE DUE TO HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX WITH THE TRUSTING BROTHER WHO'S REALLY A DL BROTHA!!! THESE ABOMINABLE, SICK MEN ARE KILLING BLACK WOMEN. JUST A DAMN SHAME, HELL FIRE AWAITS ALL OF THESE NON-REPENTANT ANIMALS!!



mzarrogance
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lvlario - 'some baggage'. Please define. as in carry on - laptop bag, carry on - duffel, trunk load of luggage....


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< "@ MissDaniBaby2 I've been tryna move on and start a new life without you but its HARD.Its hard and jumping,its also hard to take my mind off of you. ----------------------- ^^^^ I'LL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR HEART BABY, DON'T GET IT TWISTED. LOL *SINGING* 'DONT FIGHT THE FEELING....' Dont try to cover it up,what you said to that dyke.Its wrong for a woman to like another woman,as well as a man to like another man. A man's butt hole is an exit only,and a woman should not have her face in another woman's pum pum. ----------------- ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ DAMN BOO, YOU COLD! LMAO. IT IS NOT MY INTENTION TO HAVE E-WARS UP IN THIS MOFO, CALLING OUT THE "DYKE ROLL CALL". LOL. HEY, IF WOMEN BELIEVE THEY ARE LEZBOS AND ACT ACCORDINGLY, THEN THAT'S THEIR CRAZY AZZ BIZNESS...I WAS JUST MAKING A CASE FOR THE "DL" ACTIVITY...DEAD AZZ WRONG, CUZ "LYING" IS WRONG. YOU FEEL ME? I WON'T FRONT ABOUT "UNDERSTANDING" THE HOMO LIFESTYLE OR EVEN APPRECIATING OR DIGGING IT, BUT A PERSON THAT IS UPFRONT AND IS NOT ON THAT SNEAKY SHIITT GETS A LOT MORE RESPECT FROM ME THAN THESE HOTT AZZ, PUZZY BREATH BRAWDS WITH HUSBANDS AND FAMILIES. SHIITT IRKS MY NERVES! JUST SAYING...


lvlario
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@ MzArrogance The past is the past,I'm ready to move on. You're about to have a new man in ya life.1 that will cook breakfast for you butt naked in the kitchen like Ving Rhames in Baby Boy. By the way,I've evolved to breathing out my ears if you know what I mean.


lvlario
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@ DaniBaby I was reading that thread.Smh @ some of the black females in there fiendin over a white b!tch. I can't stand white b!tches for nothing and I hate when sistas kiss they azz.


MissDaniBaby2
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@MZARROGANCE<<< "Most of the comments were coming from women what are straight (in their minds). Too many women who weren't 'born that way' are making choices to be with women. What is going on in the relationships with men? Is it really THAT bad and I don't see it?" -------------- I CAN'T CALL IT. THE PROBLEM? NATURE V/S NUTURE? I MEAN, IS IT THE SIMILAC THESE BYRDS ARE GETTING AS BABIES (SAME FOR THE MEN!), WERE THEY MOLESTED AS CHILDREN? OR....*DRUM ROLL PLEASE...* ARE THE MEN "THAT" WACK THAT THEY ARE EXPERIMENTING ELSEWHERE? OR ARE THEY JUST USING THE BROTHAS AS A SCAPEGOAT FOR THEIR OWN EXPLICIT LUSTS? BOTTOM LINE, THIS FUKKERY IS SPREADING TO PANDEMIC PROPORTIONS. REAL TALK. I'M TRULY AT A LOSS...


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< "@ DaniBaby I was reading that thread.Smh @ some of the black females in there fiendin over a white b!tch. I can't stand white b!tches for nothing and I hate when sistas kiss they azz." --------------- CO-SIGN 100%. THAT THREAD WILL GO DOWN IN HISTORY AS THE EPITOME OF FUKKERY.


MsGee757
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aaaaaaaaaaaaaHHHHHHHHHHHHH I JUST WANNA SCREAM I HATE WHAT THESE NASTY BOTTOM UP BASTARDS ARE DOING TO US BLACK WOMEN. I READ THE BOOK ON THE DL AND I WANTED TO THROW UP! YOU NICCAS ARE GAY,BI, AND HOMOS SO STOP LYING TO YOURSELF. I SWARE ITS BEC OF DL GUYS THAT I HAVE GONE CELEBIT.


alei
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I HATE THIS DL SAGA I MEAN IF U LIKE MEN U SHOULD B HONEST TO THE WOMAN U R WITH BECUZ AT THE END OF THE DAY UR GONNA LOSE, HONESTY ISNT EZ TRUST BUT THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS COME OUT ITS NOT FAIR THAT UR LYIN TO THE WOMAN UR WITH OR "LOVE"...I JUS FEEL IF U INTO MEN JUS LET US KNOW STOP BEIN SELFSIH AND IGNORANT


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< JUST CURIOUS, WHAT'S YOUR BIRTH SIGN?


lvlario
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DaniBaby u in your 20's?


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< I'M WHATEVA AGE YOU WANT ME TO BE...LOL


lvlario
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Aries I hope u not 1 of them astrologists. March 31st is my Bday.U in ya 20's?


IDK
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I agree that who ever posted that is in denial and very ignorant. I'm not going to excuse the author but has anyone ever wondered why he's on the DL to begin with? 1. Blk People are very conservative but @ the same time very liberal. So if you go around telling people they are abominations and sin after they tell they are attracted to the same sex then eventually they are going to stop telling you. 2. Gay men and Bi men are no less men then str8 men. In fact there are some gay and bi men who are "more of a man" then some str8 men. Trying to emasculate gay and bi men only makes you look stupid and in turn isolates DL men. 3. Bi men unlike Bi women are more frowned upon. How often will you hear a guy reject a bi woman? Very unlikely but women reject bi men all the time. Think about it if a guy is honest enough to tell you he likes guys but CHOOSES to be w/ you (a female) is it really that bad to give him a chance? My point is a lot people tend to not think this through, choosing only to jump on the hate/blame wagon and put the actions of a few on the shoulders of many. Ignorance only breeds more ignorance. Also to the person who said that 90% of HIV were caused by DL men, look again. If you did your research you would have correctly said that most reported cases of HIV are actually cause by improper use of needles. It's comments like this w/ no basis in fact that cause problems. It only serves to cause commotion.


MissDaniBaby2
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@UP2IT<<< GOOD POINTS... DAMN A COP GETTING IT IN LIKE THAT??? EEWWW...


lvlario
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@ DaniBaby2 Ok so you're in your 30's then. Smh I can already tell lolol.



MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< CAN'T ANSWER MY AGE ON A BLOG FORUM BABE, 20'S 30'S 40'S 50'S...SOME PSYCHOTIC MOFOS THINK THEY "KNOW YOU" ENOUGH AS IT IS... BUT DAMN, YOU A MARCH BABY JUST LIKE THE HUBBY! WOW IMMA A VIRGO BTW...AND YES, I DO BELIEVE IN ASTROLOGICAL TRAITS AND COMPATABILITY!


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< "@ DaniBaby2 Ok so you're in your 30's then. Smh I can already tell lolol." ------------------ LMAO. I COULD BE 50-60, WITH AN AARP PLAN, DENTURES, DIAPERS, A CANE AND AN ELEVATED, ELECTRONIC RAMP TO MY MINI-VAN...SO IN ESSENCE YOU COULD BE WANTING TO SMELL SOME BENGAY TWAT! LOL!!!! HEHE JOKKKKEEEEESSS! I KID, I KID....STILL CANT TELL THE AGE THO! *WINK*


MissDaniBaby2
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OR MAYBE EVEN A RETIRED 45 YEAR OLD STRIPPER LOOKING FOR A GOOD 401K PLAN IN THIS RECESSION... LOL


lvlario
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@ DaniBaby "DICHOTOMY" I must say I'm impressed.An intelligent and personable sista,now I can see why you're married. Dude wasn't waiting for the next cat to come snatch you up,he saw a good thing and put a ring on it. But yea by the fact u aint say u was in ya 20's,let me know you was in ya 30's lol. Looking to the stars for love is fake Dani.I was kindda wishin you was a "Virg" but the fact u said he went in raw,let me know someone beat me to it. http://www.youtube.com/user/ICanBeA8lllllllDHead Check out the video I posted,its hilarious.Read the description ferst b4 the video.


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< GOING TO CHECK OUT THE VID>>>>>>>>>


SoSerious4life
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I'm beginning to HATE these DOWN LOW MEN! Yes, I know it's a sin, to HATE, but I absolutely HATE these bastards. How dare he have the nerve to write something like this. This is part of the reason, the black race, is screwed up, with sooooo many sexual transmitted diseases. It suck, because us black women, try to support, and stand by our black men, but look at all of the unnecessary mess, they put us through. I know there are a lot of good brothas, our here, but where at? I mean because you just never know, about these men, people period, now a days. It just sickens me. They're selfish, Devils! I hope they be destroyed one by one. KARMA, is a bitch, though. To all you BLACK MEN, on the DOWN LOW, your days are coming. P.S. These DOWN LOW BROTHAS, are making it extremely hard, for the REAL MEN, who are not on that gay shyt. I know the STRAIGHT BROTHAS, get tired of us women, asking them are they on the DOWN LOW. But you have to ask, even though, more than likely, they're gonna be dishonesty about it.


lvlario
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@ MissDaniBaby2 50's to 60's? Damn thats some World War 2 puzzy.Can it even get wet on its own at that age?Breasts prolly lookin like 2 oranges inside gym socks. I might have to add my own water and stir,like Kool Aid.I'll eat it while u watch Matlock.We can cuddle after and watch Price is Right. I'll hit it and make your pace maker sound like them old school car alarms.I'll make that Bob Barker edition pace maker do the "2 way freak" beat while I'm hittin it. So you're a GMILF? I kid I kid...Na you def not 50's - 60's tho.


lvlario
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I'm out for tonight DaniBaby,hit me up next time u see me,dont be a stranger. Keep ya head up,like you got a nose bleed,dont let the werld get to you.


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<<< OMFG! THAT SHIITTT IS FUNNY AS HELL! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. I MEAN, WHY THIS DUDE PROBABLY UNDER 200LBS BUT ROCKIN' MAN-BOOBS? AND DON'T GET ME STARTED ON THE JESUS SANDALS AND BLACK SOCKS...AND OMFG, THE PLUGS OF HAIR MISSING FROM HIS RAGGEDY HEAD...AND WHAT THE HELL KINDA HOOPTY IS HE DRIVING!! LMAO! ON THE REAL THOUGH, DUDE IS STRAIGHT HELLAFIDE CRAZY. IS THIS NIG, LIKE KANYE, "JESUS WALKS"? AND "HE'S" JESUS???? WTF??? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! WHEW... *WIPING TEARS*


MissDaniBaby2
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@IVLARIO<<< ""DICHOTOMY" I must say I'm impressed.An intelligent and personable sista,now I can see why you're married. Dude wasn't waiting for the next cat to come snatch you up,he saw a good thing and put a ring on it. But yea by the fact u aint say u was in ya 20's,let me know you was in ya 30's lol. Looking to the stars for love is fake Dani.I was kindda wishin you was a "Virg" but the fact u said he went in raw,let me know someone beat me to it." ---------------------- YOU KNOW I WAS STRAIGHT WAITING FOR YOU BOO...BUT YOU LET ANOTHER MAN STEAL ME AWAY...I DIDNT MEAN TO GIVE IT AWAY! LOL NAW, BUT YOU'RE VERY SWEET, THANKS FOR THE COMPLIMENT, LUV YA BACK! GOOD NITE MARIO, MIGHT SUBSCRIBE TO YA PAGE...KEEP THE FUNNY COMING! LOL G'NITE ALL!


MissDaniBaby2
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"@ MissDaniBaby2 50's to 60's? Damn thats some World War 2 puzzy.Can it even get wet on its own at that age?Breasts prolly lookin like 2 oranges inside gym socks. I might have to add my own water and stir,like Kool Aid.I'll eat it while u watch Matlock.We can cuddle after and watch Price is Right. I'll hit it and make your pace maker sound like them old school car alarms.I'll make that Bob Barker edition pace maker do the "2 way freak" beat while I'm hittin it. So you're a GMILF? I kid I kid...Na you def not 50's - 60's tho." ---------------------- *OKAY, STILL LAUGHING* I'M OUT FORREAL THIS TIME... LMAO!


TennisNutCase
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You're phucking BI-sexual and NASTY. And leave black women alone, bitchassfreak. Got some jokes for your freaky a$$: 1) Why are homosexuals so generous? Because they don't know how to be tight arsed! 2) What's the definition of a homosexuals? A bloke who enlarges the circle of his friends! 3) How many homosexuals does it take to put in a light bulb? Only one.....but it takes an entire emergency room to remove it! 4) What are the first symptoms of AIDS? A pounding sensation in the a$$! 5) What's the definition of tender love? Two homosexuals with hemorrhoids! 6) What does a homo and an ambulance have in common? They both get loaded from the rear and go WHOO! WHOO! 7) What do call a queer who doesn't have AIDS? A lucky cocksucker! 8) What is a shit? A homosexuals wet dream! 9) What does AIDS stand for? Arsehole Injected Death Sentence! 10) How does a homosexuals fake an orgasm? He spits on your back! I've got a million of them. Freaks! WOMEN TAKE YOUR TIME WHEN YOU MEET A NEW MAN -- especially in Atlanta, San Francisco, and New York City. NASTY!!!!!!!!!!!


TennisNutCase
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Sorry - 8) What is a [EXPLETIVE]? A homosexuals wet dream! 8) What is a shitte? A homosexuals wet dream!


putonblastt
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thats a dam shame these dl brutha's need to b put on blastt so go to www.putonblastt.ning.com and lets talk about it.


DJ_Mann
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I always laugh at how women re-act when they read shit about DL Brothas..........Lord knows there's just as many DL SISTAHS........I personally know plenty DL WOMEN that have a man and a woman and the dude have no idea !!! As humans we need to stop acting like DOWN LOW only pertains to black men. It is in every race and both male and female....Anybody that play games is a fucckkkin fool but even more so is all those lady's that's quick to put a man on blast knowing they've tasted more pu$$y than most fellas !!!! So how can women expect a man to keep it real when alot of thier a$$es likin clits too ! THAT'S REAL TALK !



tiara_bubblez
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IM BI AND I KEEP IT 100 ALL THE TIME. IF U LIKE BOTH I THINK U OWE IT TO THE PERSON U WITH SO THEY CAN DECIDE IF THEY CAN DEAL WIT IT. I HATE DL PPL


DJ_Mann
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And the reason alot of you women is becoming HIV POSITIVE is not because they're with DL BROTHAS, but because thier stupid azzes don't use protection....FUCCCKKKK WHAT A NIGGAH TELL YOU ! PROTECT YOURSELF , cause truth is, none of us have no idea where our woman or man have been, what he or she is doing and who they slept with so PROTECT YOURSELF ! LADIES STOP RUNNING BEHIND THESE NIGGAHS !BELEIVEING EVERY THING THEY SAY WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS, DUDES DO IT JUST TO GET A NUTT ! REMEMBER THAT !


fire4u
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@ djmann.,, Are you kidding? Personally i would not condone either...but let's face it, taking it in the butt in relation to licking a click, is quite a vast difference or contrast by far. Now if all that these dl men were doing to one another was giving some head..then that would be more of a comparison., and the female fear would be far less intense. Allowing a man to enter your butthole, which is an exit used for external release of food and wastes, is far more risky than just having him lick and suck. And according to some of the gays on these threads..some of the dl men are not using condoms while doing so. At the end of the day , it is wrong to decieve someone. But the end result of deception can be compared to armed robbery vs petty theft. One most certainly results in far greater penalties than the other.


DJ_Mann
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Fire4U....It's not my lifestyle but alot of friiends live like that and the only thing that can be somewhat safe is for everyone, especially women to use condems and stop beleiveing everything a man tells them ! Deception is deception especially when the heart is involved ! But women gotta stop laying down with these kats not using condems, thinking he is the one. Men and women see things differently but it will never ever ever ever stop. It's aprt of life, it's reality so use condems cause I've ran into kats in the studio, in the rap and R&B game, NBA & FOOTBALL Players that talk alot of sh!t when women ain't around, fool around with each other etc. I Know it's crazy but it's the truth ! WOMEN make em wear condems ! BOTTOM LINE !


smuvJ
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these people need to google hell experiences and see if that's where they want there souls to burn. You have a choice now, but not later.


fire4u
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@ dj mann.. I get what you are saying about laying down without using condoms. But..ok..sO wives would need to use condoms too then? Did you not read a lot of what was said in this thread today? "Married" men are a bulk of the DL men, that are sleeping with gay men outside the parameters of their marriage. One blogger insisted that many of these married are not using condoms, while messing around out there. SO , is the wife to insist on condom use by her husband? THis was not GOd's intent. GOd's intent was to allow men and women to marry and be loyal to one another so that they could create seed,..you be "fruitful and multiply" in order to maintain the flow of the family structure and the gift of life. Even if someone does not believe in God, commom sense still dictates that you cannot carry on your name or your seed,, as a man, if you are using condoms all the time with your wife. Men simply need to decide to be loyal to their wives. IF or when they do "slip up" they need to insist on condom use with the outside person.


ahalledu
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DJ MAN I HOPE U CATCH AIDS FUCKINW WIT A MAN AND YOUR AZZ HOLE BURNS OFF U GAY BYTCH. U R POISIONING THE THE PUSSY WITH YOUR GAY DYCK. AND U THE TYPE OFF DUDE KILLIN ARE BLACK WOMEN. I HATE YOUR KIND


ahalledu
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i meant dl brotha not dj mann sorry bout thatdj mann, dl brotha u r a discrace and u are a coward for hiding your gayness.


DJ_Mann
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Fire4U........I do feel you when it comes to married couples but in reality in today's age, people must use condems regardless, and I beleive married couples as well as any couple or individual should go get tested on the regular. I got approached by a rapper at a after party just last weekend. I could easily put him on blast especially here at MTO, but it ain't my place ! These kats here in the ATL is bold and don't care especially when they get that liquior in them or smoke them one or two of them thangs. COVER UP OR JUST DONT DO IT !


ELEE419
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WOW these cats are just flat out nasty i cant belive i just read that nigga u gay


bajanrn2
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well hes sure gonna be on the DL aint no way hes gonna come out the homophobic reaction hes gonna get


fire4u
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@ dj mann... I definately believe you. I live in Atlanta! I've seen and heard quite a bit. The gay clubs are filled to capacity, YET, so are the strip clubs. So there's a confusion of what men really want, a trick or a treat? lol So, here we have a trend of "supposedly" straight men..curious about what all the hype is about. And liquor, partying and drugs..are intensifying the promiscuity all the more. I would like to see blacks pay more attention to the alarming rise in Aids related cases that are on the rise in our community, rather than a few minutes of "strange" love with the same sex. All of us, as a people really need to grow up! There is more to life than hot"sex". Especially the kind that might put you on HIV drugs for life. smdh.


fire4u
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dj mann... I could easily put him on blast especially here at MTO, but it ain't my place ! ------------- AND YOU SHOULD. ESPECIALLY IF HE IS HERE IN ATLANTA. WOMEN NEED TO KNOW. MORE STRAIGHT MEN NEED TO BLAST DL MEN THAT ARE DECEPTIVE. LOL..(GIVE ME HIS INITIALS) lol


DJ_Mann
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Fire4U U know I'm telling the truth about these kats in the ATL......I've played in clubs { straight clubs } where the men would hit on each other right in front of a woman and she don't have a clue of what's going on. It's a certain language those kats use, and to a woman it appears, oh it's just his homeboy but in reality it's more....More and more of my friends is DL, we talk about it, fuss about it and I try to understand. BUT I DO HATE WHEN THEY ARE MARRIED. I know a kat married to a beautiful woman with a beautiful baby girl but he has a girlfriend, and he also have a boyfriend and does undercover gay porn. He's also promoted big events for ever other artist in the music game. He's well respected in the music industry and the lady's love him { appearantly the dudes do too } HE GOT TOO MUCH SH!T GOING ON WITH HIM ! I can't even talk to him no more cause I lost all respect for him and how heartless he is with what he does. This dude is one of the most masculine kats anyone could ever meet. It's very shocking but it's so true. I'm very guarded around alot of dudes cause I know it's a matter of time before one of them try me and it happends on a daily basis here in the ATL and when i'm in NYC.


DJ_Mann
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Well I'm out folks, Cool chatting with cha Fire4U Stay real baby ! Gotta catch a flight to NYC first thing in the morning ! and baygirl you know I cant give you his Initials ! LOL ! I'd be in somebody's court !



fire4u
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@ dj man.. Blast him!....put him on blaaaaaaaaaast! lol I'm serious. DL type behavior like this..is ruining our community and our family base. It's one thing to cheat, but to cheat with a man is just unacceptable. That is so unfair to his wife and daughter. You just may be saving her life if you do so. It's like playing russian roulette with her body. Is he using a condom with this man..? uuuuuuuugh. i'm scared for you to answer that! What a mess.


fire4u
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ok...good nite djmann. i understand. i'm off tomorrow.. just up being nosy. lol You gon' have me drilling my man all over again about gay things, cheating... and just start nagging him.....he he Lol thanks. nice chat.


MANSEMINOLE
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I think you should let a person know what's up with you before you lay with them. I dont buy the DL crap. If you like men, then you like men, if you like women, then you like women. I dont to much understand the bi-sexual thing either, but it is what it is. I think the black community have a lot of issues. A lot of people want to live by the law of the bible but still do sneaky sexual and other things behind our loved ones back. A lot of the men and women in church are undercover gay or bi-sexual, but scared to come out because of religious belief and their family thoughts. If people were more accepting of people, regardless of what they are or look like, and who they love, we would not have this DL crap going around as much I think. Society is hard as hell on a Black Man, and the Black Woman, and also black folks can be hard on each other. I personally think at a certain age, you know if you are gay or straight, but many people go against the grain to try and fit in with society norms and then it results in this downlow stuff. I say follow you heart, only God can judge you. I believe in God, but sometime I question the bible, it is a staple in the black community for bible thumper's when ever their is a problem, instead of using self judgement for themselves, people try to get all religious and "holy as thou" on folks. I personally am a spiritually person and I am not religous, but I dont knock anybody else's religion, I just accept people for who they are. But religion, what the family thinks, the church, and fear is what keeps black men and black women on the Down Low. And I bet you, their are just as many black men, as well as white men and white women on the DL, but society made it easy to be white and gay or out the closet.


hursheykisses89
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I totally agree woth manseminole and a few others on here, however we are partly at fault because if we allowed gay ppl to b themselves and rather than except their lifestyles try to understand instead of bashing, we are all too judemental based on our religion wen no one on here is the messiah himself, if we were not so judemental and more open maybe there wouldn't be so many dl brothers...,o one can be the jodge but GOD we should keep that in mind. Oh and ppl there is no such thing as bisexual, ur gay or straight. If u consider urself "bi" well dammit ur gay.


TennisNutCase
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@DJ_Mann, DL Sistahs and DL Brothas are two VERY DIFFERENT things. You understand that fundamental, riiight?


TennisNutCase
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@MANSEMINOLE - "I think you should let a person know what's up with you before you lay with them." I've been watching you for months now. You continue to make conscientious constructive points of thought that are very respectful and helpful. "If people were more accepting of people, regardless of what they are or look like, and who they love, we would not have this DL crap". The problem is deception and mendacity. People like telling lies and being sneaky. They feel like they're getting AWAY with something. They're shitte always bite them in the a$$ in the end. Unfortunately, others are hurt in the process. Christians are deceivers and liars. Don't be fooled by their religion. @MANSEMINOLE - "I think you should let a person know what's up with you before you lay with them." I've been watching you for months now. You continue to make conscientious constructive points of thought that are very respectful and helpful. "If people were more accepting of people, regardless of what they are or look like, and who they love, we would not have this DL crap". The problem is deception and mendacity. People like telling lies and being sneaky. They feel like they're getting AWAY with something. They're shitte always bite them in the a$$ in the end. Unfortunately, others are hurt in the process. Christians are deceivers and liars and murders. Don't be fooled by their religion. There are HEAPS of white men on the DL -- just start with the Catholic (Christian) church. Men need women. Women need men. Women need to KNOW if their men are on the DL for safety sake.


Cort_2000
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I don't know if you can be in any more denial than when you say, I want to taste a man every now and then but I aint gay or bi...what would u like me to call it?? Cause call it what you want...gay is gay is gay is gay


TennisNutCase
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Sorry -- didn't mean to post twice. My point was... @MANSEMINOLE - "I think you should let a person know what's up with you before you lay with them." I've been watching you for months now. You continue to make conscientious constructive points of thought that are very respectful and helpful. "If people were more accepting of people, regardless of what they are or look like, and who they love, we would not have this DL crap". The problem is deception and mendacity. People like telling lies and being sneaky. They feel like they're getting AWAY with something. They're shitte always bite them in the a$$ in the end. Unfortunately, others are hurt in the process. Christians are deceivers and liars and murders. Don't be fooled by their religion. There are HEAPS of white men on the DL -- just start with the Catholic (Christian) church. Men need women. Women need men. Women need to KNOW if their men are on the DL for safety sake.


TennisNutCase
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Good night ladies and gentlemen. It is always a pleasure.


flench
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He must live in Atlanta next to Andre 3000 and that Farnsworth Bently, lol... My Identity Is Top Secret Folks !


headbusa
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bitch u a fag and if i come across one of u ima beat the brakes off u. not cause u a homo but because u bringn that shit to my blk women


THE_DEFENDER
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Another bogus MTO lie about the DL brotha. fable, fantasy. Fiction, fabrication, figment suggest a story that is without basis in reality. Fiction suggests a story invented and fashioned either to entertain or to deceive: clever fiction; pure fiction. Fabrication applies particularly to a false but carefully invented statement or series of statements, in which some truth is sometimes interwoven, the whole usually intended to deceive: fabrications to lure speculators. Figment applies to a tale, idea, or statement often made up to explain, justify, or glorify oneself: His rich TT_MM_ZZ uncle was a figment of his imagination. This to me sounds like a lesbian in heat for you know what I mean. I do not know any of DL brotha who will ever admit to anyone about their desire to sleep with both men and women and with that being said he will not ever write about his hidden agenda because it is what it is. Now manifest that! Inside the mind of a DL brotha is called a secret. The truth to the matter is my DL friend wife is mean as H_E_L_L to everyone. I am not giving you biotches my secrets, but just put 2 and 2 together. The moral of the story is to keep your man at home after any disagreement and don't let him cry on a lonely biotch shoulder quiet as kept. The DL portion was not suppose to happen or wouldn't have happen if.....................


MsLady_Scorpio
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This is some Bull !! This is the reason that HIV/AIDS is so rampant in the black community because of selfish black men who want to Suck & Fuck each other then say their not GAY YES the HELL you are so admit it and leave us women alone.


nytova23
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NIGGA YOU GAY!! OK YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO A FUKKIN MAN THAT HOW YALL NASTY BITCHES BE BRINGING HOME AIDS TO YOUR WIFE THAT SHIT IS NASTY I KNOW THERES ALOT OF GAY BI WHATEVER MEN NOWADAYS THAT ARE COMMING OUT LEFT AND RIGHT BUT EVEN THO I THINK ITS DISGUSTING AND YALL ARE ALL GOING TO HELL I ENCOURAGE YO ASS TO COME THE FUKK OUT I NEED TO KNOW DONT HIDE THAT SHIT CAUSE IT AINT FAIR FOR YOUR OWN INTEGRITY AND MORAL THAT SHIT CAN BECOME DEADLY AND I KNOW CAUSE MY SOMEONE I KNOW IS DIEING OF AIDS RIGHT NOW BECAUSE HER HUSBAND FUKKED MEN AND WAS ON THE DL........


Hotmomma
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The widespread of DL activity is larger than people think. Alot of DLers and gays know it but force their "Don't judge me" agenda on others so people can stray away from it so they can continue on with the DL festivities. Alot DL men become DL men, now before people get upset majority of DL men are homosexual men who are afraid to be labeled as feminine, or sissyfied and afraid of the feedback they'll recieve from the community. But when it comes to men they're sexually greedy. If doing one thing for a while gets boring they want to go see what else can get them to that sexual high again when they first had sex. So some men are turned out and alot of gay men are very bold now-a-days they love messing with straight men because it's taboo, and once they get with them the brotha is all the way in the closet now and ain't coming out. It's 2009 gay folks done sprinkled glitter and zest all over parts of the world now freely and you got scary fools still hiding. The one's hiding are the one's who have been pulled into the closet, the one's who hide and then build courage to come out are the one's who are secretly game and afraid. Men who are in prison are a prime example of the first example I gave. But ladies watch your man, look for signs, look for anything because that's why black women are being infected with HIV left and right. It's much harder for a hetero man to contract it through heterosex than a gay man through homosex and a straight man through homosex. Do you research. And alot of HIV cases are that of homosexuals, I know we want to defend and not ruffle the feathers of the gays but sometimes you have shed some light. Ladies watch your back.



DEALBREAKER
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@fire4u Dang girl, you left me out of some good convo with DJ. See that is how real discussion is suppose to go. I thought I had your ATL love....tsk tsk tsk!


Hotmomma
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And for people bashing Christians or other very religious people, it makes some of you hypocrites. You can't preach against people judging and then judge those who are religious and their beliefs sounds like a "I want my cake and eat it too" party. I've seen some of you same clowns judge every person MTO has posted on here judging doesn't stop at someone's sexuality. It goes on to the way a person looks, sounds, feels and etc. So stop trying to be the victim while making someone else a victim as well. God doesn't approve of homosexuality and I don't either but that doesn't mean I hate or dislike gays when my younger cousins is gay as well as my Uncle. Like someone said only GOD will be the one to deal with the homosexuals in the end times.


thebigwill
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I HAVE TO SAY THIS!!! DL MEN DEFINITELY NEED TO COME TO THE FOREFRONT AND STATE THAT YOU ARE BI, GAY, WHATEVER!!! THE NEW THING THAT IS HITTING THE STREETS IS THE "TRANSEXUALS AND SHE-MALES" (MAD SICK YO!) IT'S DEFINITELY HERE IN PITTSBURGH, PA!!! ALOT OF BROTHAS ARE TURNING INTO SISTAS, AND IT HURTS MY SOUL TO KNOW THAT TODAY THAT GAYS, BI, DL, CURIOUS EXIST IN SUCH HIGH NUMBERS!!! ALOT OF KIDS (NOT EVEN 18) HAVE THESE HOMOSEXUAL TENDENCIES!!!! THE ONE THING THAT HAS BEEN PROVEN THUS FAR IS THAT MEN IN GENERAL ARE HORNY SONS OF BIT#$ES AND WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET OFF!!!! I THINK (MY OPINION) MEN HAVE SEX WITH ONE ANOTHER BECAUSE SOMETIMES WOMEN DON'T FULFILL THE DEAL ALL THE TIME!!! LIKE, TURNING A MAN DOWN OF SEX OUT OF SPITE, NOT GIVING "HEAD" LIKE WE ANTICIPATE, NOT HAVING HUGE AMOUNTS OF SEX PER DAY!!! WHERE AS I GUESS THE HOMOSEXUALITY IS MORE ABUNDANT AS FAR AS SEXUAL FULFILLMENT AND EMULATING THE FEMALE CHARACTERISTICS!!! ASK YOURSELF, WHY DO I HAVE A WIFE AND A GAY LOVER ON THE SIDE??? WTF HAPPEN TO THE OLD DAYS OF DOING GUY SH*! LIKE: LIFTING FOR THE LADIES, TALKING TO THE FINEST LADY IN YOUR HOOD, HOW ABOUT LOOKING AS BEST AS YOU CAN BECAUSE YOU FINALLY GOT ON THE CUTEY WITH THE BOOTY???? NOWADAYS YOU GOTTA BE WEARY OF ANYTHING, YA HOMEY COMING OUT OF THE CLOSET, YOUR NEW GIRL MIGHT HAVE BEEN WITH A DL OR HOMOSEXUAL BROTHA!!! I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO SAY THAT IT'S NOT ALL THE BLACK MEN'S FAULT AS FAR AS PASSING THE MONSTER AROUND!!!! I DON'T CONDONE HOMOSEXUALITY NOR DO I HATE GAYS BECAUSE OF IT!!! THE ONE THING THAT BOTHERS ME IS: "MOST OF THE BROTHA'S WHO ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME OF THE FINEST WOMEN ON THE PLANET ARE BEING PLAYED FOR SUCKERS CAUSE THEY MAN WANTS TO CREEP AROUND AND GIVE HIS BOOTY UP TO ANOTHER BROTHER!!! THAT'S NOT FAIR TO THE LADIES AND TO US "REAL HETEROSEXUALS OUT HERE WHO DON'T MIND EATEN ON SOMETHING OR SUCKIN ON THE TIG OL BITTIES" NOT THE ONES WHO PERPETRATE THE FRAUD!!!!!!! PLEASE, NOT I BUT TO ALL THAT KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT GAY, DL, BISEXUAL, CURIOUS OR WHATEVER LETS TRY AND WEED OUT THESE FOOLS MAKING IT BAD FOR "US" THE FEW, THE PROUD, THE STRAIGHT MEN!!!!!!!!!


thebigwill
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THE MESSAGE I LEFT I HOPE DIDN'T OFFEND, IF IT DID SORRY, I JUST WANTED TO VENT ABOUT HOW THIS DL, GAY, BI, TRANSEXUAL, SHE-MALE STUFF IS JUST NASTY (MY OPINION!!!) IT'S JUST UNFAIR FOR THESE FINE ASS LADIES TO BE SUBJECT TO "F*@KERY THAT THEY SHOULD'VE NEVER BEEN SUBJECT TO IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! THEN IT MESSES MY CHANCES UP FROM TREATING HER RIGHT FROM YOUR MISGUIDED PLIGHT!!!! DON'T WASTE A GOOD WOMAN'S MIND, BODY OR SOUL WITH YOUR LIES AND DECEIT!!! MAN UP AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU "SUCK ON SUMPTHIN" FROM TIME TO TIME OR THAT YOU WANNA BONE MEN!!! IF YOU'RE GONNA BE GAY "COME OUT THE F*@KIN CLOSET AND HELP ME AND OTHER STRAIGHT MEN OBTAIN THAT "STEAK" THAT YOU TREAT AS "CHICKEN"


Pattyg
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UP2IT, WHERE DO YOU THINK THESE "SO CALLED" HETEROSEXUAL MEN ARE GETTING THE AIDS VIRUS FROM. NOT WOMEN. HELLO. IT'S A MEDICAL FACT, THAT IT'S HARDER FOR A WOMAN TO TRANSMIT THE AIDS VIRUS SEXUALLY TO MEN DUE TO THE LACK OF FLUIDS. THAT'S FACT. THESE MEN ARE ON THE DOWN LOW. I DON'T CARE HOW MANY LOOSE WOMEN THEY'RE SLEEPING WITH, THEY'RE BRINGING THIS VIRUS TO THESE WOMEN. THEY'RE ON THE DL.


BAARBIE69
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this nukka is GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!..NO DOUBT BOUT IT!...how the hell u gon' want to be in a man but u claim u aint gay?...f*ck curiostiy u plain old GAYYY!!!!...check urself nukka!


beautylicious
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THIS MF'ER DOESNT TRULY LOVE RESPECT OR ADORE ANY WOMAN DOING WHAT HES DOING.THATS JUST LIKE A F@G- FAKE AS HELL!I HATE THIS DL SHYT!


TheFashionista
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F|A|G. Burn in hell. I'm tired of these lying ass homos. LADIES, IT'S TIME TO GET DOWN WITH THE SWIRL. LEAVE THESE LYING ASS F|A|G|S TO BURN!


Miszprincessbj
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WTF! This is ridiculous! I'm just saying, if asked are you gay be upfront this is why black women contract hiv from this bullshit.


Mary_collins_Da_Best
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SHORTNSASSY
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If I married his lying ass, I would be on Snapped for cutting his thing off and making him eat it! Why lie if you don't think you are doing anything wrong? If you are bisexual, that is fine, but as a woman, I have a right to know if you like men, so I can dismiss you with the quickness.


SHORTNSASSY
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Condoms saves lives. Black women, know who you are going to be with and always use a condom. You never know who your "man" has been with.


mzindependent5250
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What a shame before God. This is just disgusting. An abomination in the sight of God. He is going to hell if he does not repent and receive Jesus in his life. And by the way he is gay as gay can be. Sickning.


blubabiecutie28
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NO WONDER I DATE WHITE STRAIGHT MEN..at least white guys i knw tell me straight up theyre gay & dnt hide it..OMG.


Azjhuan
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THESE TYPES OF DL GUYS MAKE ME SICK. WITH THAT BEING SAID, THE WHOLE REASON FOR THIS SUBCULTURE IS BECAUSE BLACK PEOPLE ARE SO DAMN HOMOPHOBIC THINKING THAT BEING GAY IS A *WHITE* TREND...I MEAN GET A F*KIN CLUE!! AND THESE HOLIER-THAN-THOU CHURCH GOERS WHO CALLIN IT A SIN, WHEN THEIR ASSES UP IN THE CLUB SAT NIGHT AND PRAISIN THE LORD SUNDAY MORNING OR THEY SITTIN AROUND SMOKIN BLUNTS!! THOSE IN GLASSES HOUSES SHOULDN'T THROW STONES!! IF BLACK PEOPLE WOULD JUST BE MORE ACCEPTING OF GAY MEN THAN MAYBE THESE YOUNG GAY GUYS WOULDN'T TRY TO CONFORM TO THE SOCIETAL NORM AND THINK THEY GOTTA SLEEP WITH FEMALES AND MARRY THEM WHEN THEY DEEP DOWN WANT A MAN...CUZ EVENTUALLY THAT SIDE WILL COME OUT AND THEY GONNA CHEAT AND BE WITH A DUDE ON THE SIDE. AND ALSO THESE UNMARRIED FEMALES SHOULDN'T BE HAVING SEX ANYWAYZ, SINCE IT'S JUST AS GREAT A SIN TO BE DOIN THAT AS BEING HOMOSEXUAL! AND IF THEY ARE, THEY SHOULD BE USING PROTECTION FOR THEMSELVES AND THAT WILL STOP THE SPREAD OF DISEASES THAT THEY CAN CATCH FROM A *DL* MAN.



skylersully
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You know--stuff like this bugs the hell out of me. Only because this is what I believe is unnecessary social chaos. How can you create social chaos in a group of people? It's easy--take a few social issues pertaining to that group that can or seem to have a correlation with one or more issues, give it an attractive name, create a few "what if" scenarios and make them believable. Write a book about it, pass along a few emails, letters or phone calls, and BAM—Instant Social Chaos. This in turn creates doubt, hate and amongst people within the same group and has the power to break the group apart. People get angry and filled with more prejudice. Society here in the US consists of puppets and the people who pull the strings that create this kind of chaos. BY NO MEANS am I denouncing any of the social issues involved--because they are real (some of them, anyway). But you can tell by just looking at the comments how this "on the DL" issue has an effect on people (especially Black women). The only thing I feel this has done is set us back even more. The point I'm trying to make is that this article creates unnecessary chaos. Do you really think someone on the DL would really write something like that and risk being found out (there are ways to find out)? Who's to say that article wasn't written by someone who is NOT on the DL? Who's to say the article wasn't written just to get a certain response from a specific group of people. The article even says in its first sentence: "Here you go ladies, you might need to send this to a few girlfriends" Please, people. Start thinking for yourselves and stop allowing yourselves to be so easily manipulated.


AshamedToBeHere
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How selfish. There is someone for every! Go find a chick who will either tolerate that nastiness or maybe even like it. Hell, Will found Jada! Not matter how much you lie to yourself, you are BISEXUAL! If you have pleasurable sex with both men and women, you are bisexual. If you are that delusional you are at risk to get AIDS real quick. Men in denial don't protect themselves the way they should. He is apart of the reason why so many sisters are dieing of AIDS.


sprinter05
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It's wrong for a man on the DL, to keep something like that from the one female he says he want to be with...and its wrong for females to put the blame of HIV/AIDS on the black gay DL men, reason I say this is when reading comments like, "Men in denial don't protect themselves the way they should. He is apart of the reason why so many sisters are dieing of AIDS" I feel that there is a one-sided blame...Be real it is not just the men that dont protect themselves it's the female as well..Stop letting those "DL" men stop you from using protection, be smart about it get the test before you get caught up in the heat of the moment..


mooremello
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this man is clearly wrong, but everyone should KNOW the person they sleep with...its simple...don't give it up so easily....you don't know who your giving it to....