This is some typical selfishness at best. This is exactly what I'm talking about and this is exactly WHY DL men are so despised.
Don't lie to me. Give me the opportunity to make a well informed decision about MY life, not yours! You know what you want. Guess what, most women do to, but you KNOW you can't give them that, so you deny them the RIGHT to KNOW who and what they are dealing with because it will mess up YOUR thing YOU've got going on. That is completely SELFISH!!!
Then he has the nerve to say:
"To the woman I will one day marry : I promise to be a good husband, and a good father to our children, and a good grandfather to our children. I'll love you, and protect you, and cherish you, and make you laugh, and dry your tears, try to give you the kind of home you have always wanted, and do my best to make your life as happy as it can be.
But sometimes, I'll still want a man......"
WHAT TYPE OF BS IS THAT?!?!?!?
Newsflash, you could NEVER be a good husband, father or grandfather keeping something so profound hidden from your family. And if you do, that's not loving or protecting them. Who will protect them from? Yourself? The mirage you created for them? The life they thought they lived but really don't?
You must not believe that what is done in the dark will eventually come to light - at the most inopportuned time.
The home most women want is a safe, happy, and honest one. Most women need their partner to be their FRIEND and confidante. How can you expect her to be everything for you when you would NEVER be EVERYTHING for her?
There is already VERY LITTLE TRUST between men and women in the black community creating havok in the worst way for our children.
Man is given the responsibility of being a leader. He gets upset when he feels a woman does not hand over the reigns of authority. How can she, when she will possibly be giving her life to someone so willing to tear her down for his own selfish reasons?
I've always said, if the sun doesn't shine again, it's because a man somewhere hasn't done his job.
Learn what each of those words REALLY mean. And MAN UP! You are ***! And you are selfish, conniving, and deceitful!