: Remember when MediaTakeOut.com told you that Chris and Rihanna split up. And the idiots over at TMZ tried to discredit our report??? Well we were right and they were WRONG.
Here’s how the NY Post describes Rihanna’s new single behavior:
RIHANNA is on the rebound after her alleged beating at Chris Brown's hands. The songstress was spotted at Nobu Wednesday night "smiling and flirting" with a group of guys, including Brody Jenner. "She was there having dinner. Her blond, female security guard was there the whole time," said our spy…Oh and TMZ – next time you wanna talk MESS about our reporting, we might start TALKING TOO – to the L.A.P.D. We’re sure they’d be VERY interested in knowing what WE KNOW about how you got that Rihanna pic…After the meal, Rihanna joined Jenner's group. "She looked relaxed and happy, like Chris Brown was totally in the past."
That's what happens when we dog out our sistas: they jump ship to go to the other side. It's a sad case that soome of us don't know how to be the men we need to be for our black women.
I blame this on the generational curse of black men being removed from their families so consistently, that the boys who would eventually grow to be men, never learned how to be men for their future sons and when an underdeveloped man steps into a ready made family, he doesn't know what the hell to do. Chris Brown's step dad admitted to being abusive: he himself is a product of a broken home, most likely.
Wow Ri is really going hard trying to make Chris jealous. Go to the corner honey try again on april 6th. He got other things to worry about than you faking like you want a white boy. We all know she ain't off Chris, if she was that jealous enough to start a fight over a text than she not over that boy.
Ump, ump, ump......Brody is a fyne a*ss white boy. Brody can get it any day. Good for Rihanna if it's true.
See fellas. It's a new era and Sistas aint putting up with you ish anymore. So, go on and chase after your white girls.
We sistas are plain sick and tired of you black men treating us like [EXPLETIVE] and thinking you can get away with it.
You'll so quick to have us knocked-down and knocked-up with your kid and then proceed to walk out on us, because you don't want to be the real man you should be.
White men are on the up and up and they're starting get like you black men now, so don't sleep on them, cause they're the ish right now.
This is Signal 89, and I approve this message.
UMM Good for you rihanna? Yeah right! this greasy b*tch been a wh0re! Yeah..Chris Brown is done...DONE with her! Fu*ck her! If you are really happy why do you have to go out with a different man every day of the week? If this was Chris Brown, Mother*fU*ckers would of been shaking their heads, but It is Rihanna, good for her? PLEASE! Just another D*ck to gobble!
@ Kadaj Whatever.
This chick is still with Chris Brown and everybody should know that by now.
They are only trying to soften what happened until after his court date.
I cosign this statement. This is just damage control by her PR team you could tell she really wanted to be back with Chris because thats the first thing she did. Now people don't like that so she has to pretend like she out here messin with other dudes so the bloggers wont boycott her.
Wholetime she just texting Chris like always whenever they apart from each other.
MTO please you DO NOT have any dirt on T/M/Z and the fact that you keep mentioning clearly shows you are threatened. T/M/Z rarely even mentions this broke low budget website. You just mad that they got paper and break all the stories and your poor asses couldn't afford the Rihanna pictures. And I don't EVER recall them saying that she never broke up with Chris.
WTF, MTO you got haters too??? LMAO Rhi rhi deserves some peace of mind and if going out to flirt is her way of achieving it then let her be her,.... i personaaly think she should lay low and get her life back on track and regain her composure. I am praying for you girl and all others that might be going through the scrutiny.
@ signal89 So Chris was treating this girl bad the whole time they was together. UHHH no, get it straight Chris treated that girl like a queen thats why she stayed. This girl obviously got anger management problems if she feel she can hit people with stilletos when they driving a car. Hell isn't this the girl that said she been abusing Chris up to that point.
Damn her head is big!!
Im so sick of this ish
Every damn day!! Its over!! Why do you all keep reporting this and following her around?
She is as interesting as the pimple on my ass...
Im not a hater, I like her style, but she is limited as a vocalist and I dont get the fascination...Enough of her & Bey
There are other people that sing too
Guess who said it best:
Rhianna is starting to get annoying and calculating. Her "independent Woman" goodwill tour is sickening. She really needs that house fast because I am sick of seeing her roaming through the streets like during Britney's dark days. She's more overexposed than Beyonce and her career is just in its infancy. SMDH!
Brody is a prettyboy and a WHORE. Ask LC, she'll tell you...
@ MTO
If you're blasting TMZ; saying they were calling you guys out on erroneous information(that Chris and Rhi HADN'T broken up) you'd also have to admit you were wrong about her dating Wilmer because you're now saying she's flirting with Brody.
Rhianna is starting to get annoying and calculating. Her "independent Woman" goodwill tour is sickening. She really needs that house fast because I am sick of seeing her roaming through the streets like during Britney's dark days. She's more overexposed than Beyonce and her career is just in its infancy. SMDH! [SPAM]___________
I agree with u totally! :D
@Antidumb
I think you are dead on with your comments.
On another note…I bet she won’t put her hands on this white boy or any other white/non-black boyfriend she has from this point on. It’s a shame niccas can’t (or don’t seem to want to...) get their sh!t together unless they are in the presence of white folks. I believe if both parties in a relationship keep their hands to themselves you don’t have the feeling of threat from one another and in the case of her and chris brown it’s a shame she has all but ruined the young brotha’s career behind her trying to punk him one too many times and he flipped. I know I wasn’t there, but I'm a nice brotha and I’ve had sh!t like that happen to me in relationships with sistas enough times to know how that kind of stuff plays out. Not saying all sistas do it...i'm just drawing from my past experiences.
All of these reports only have her smiling or talking with these men. Why do they make it like she's dating them?
Her people are trying to "work" whites so her career does not tank. I think all white ppl thought Chris was dead wrong and she was a fool to take him back. Blacks had mixed views, some blaming her. So her only chance for a career now is if she goes white but if she panders all the way to the white side (BTW You have bleached yourself enough, Rihanna) she will lose bLack fans. Plus, as far as whites are concerned, she went back to him so she is a fool. She is no longer a role model nor a positive figure to endorse their products.
That's also why she's always out and about when she should be home/in therapy/ bath soaking/ writing in a friggin journal/ spending time with fam & friends. She is desperate to remain relevant and change her image from you immediately thinking of Chris, bruises, herpes, etc.
Anybody who's believe this MTO sh!T is damn right fu(kin STUPID!! Or don't have anything else to do!!! Last week it was FEZ, now it's Brody?! GTFOH!! Let's be clear if RIHANNA does move on from CHRIS, it ain't gon be with NO damn white guy!!!!! Sorry! Because we all know that Chris Be HITTIN that [EXPLETIVE] right!! ANd i dnt think NO white Boy Gon Fu(k her right!! And im out this Bit(h!!
Antidumb
"and I look down on Black sisters SO MUCH IN THIS GENERATION................and believe me though they are GREAT for entertainment, "
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I ask this out of curiosity...how old are you? Why do you blame THIS generation? Do you not think bad parenting is to blame? Do you think negative sterotypes of black people began in THIS generation? Why do you "look down" on anyone, yet at times come off as a motivator? My OPINION, how is looking down or putting down uplifting? I'm sorry, black people or a generation cannot be lumped into one large category. We're as multifaceted as anyone else.
Anybody who believe this MTO sh!T is damn right fu(kin STUPID!! Or don't have anything else to do!!! Last week it was FEZ, now it's Brody?! GTFOH!! Let's be clear if RIHANNA does move on from CHRIS, it ain't gon be with NO damn white guy!!!!! Sorry! Because we all know that Chris Be HITTIN that sh!t right!! ANd i dnt think NO white Boy Gon Fu(k her right!! And im out this Bit(h!!
@ANTIDUMB WOMAN HATING RETARDED AZZ SAID......Now you mean to tell me you think Sisters have the option of dating White Men in general? lol........................this is Rhianna and Rhianna in a strategic way......................Black women do NOT have a desirable image and demeanor to be able to date White Men so freely....................if Black men them self are saying "hell no" how do you think that makes Black women look DESIRABLE when the men of their own race doesn't even want to be bothered.
WHY DON'T YOU BROTHERS JUST ROT IN HELL...THAT WOULD BE THE PERFECT SOLUTION..CAUSE FRANKLY IM SICK OF SEEING YOUR ARROGANT DISGUSTING LOSERS...AND TO SAY BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT DESIREABLE TO ANYONE..AHHAHAA..YEAH KEEP MAKING THEM THINK THAT....A PERSON IS NOT DESIRED ACCORDING TO WHAT GROUP THEY ARE IN. A PERSON IS ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE ACCORDING TO THEIR INDIVIDUAL PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER. AND WHO TOLD YOU BLACK MEN THAT YALL ARE SO DAMN DESIERABLE. PLEASE..THE ONLY THING MOST THESE NON BLACK WOMEN DESIRE ABOUT YALL IS YOUR DAMN WALLET, AND IF YOU DON'T HAVE A WALLET THEY COULD GIVE A SHYT ABOUT YALL..AND YOU TALKING ABOUT BLACK WOMEN HAVE TO LOVE BLACK MEN...LAST TIME I CHECKED I ONLY HAD ONE SON..AND IM NOT RAISING ANY OF YOU BASTARDS..LOVE YA DAMN SELF!! CAUSE I FRANKLY DON'T GIVE A SHYT!!
@ANTIDUMB...AND HOW YOU GONNA SIT YOUR TRIFLIN WOMAN HATING AZZ UP HERE AND SAY NOBODY WANTS TO BE DEALING WITH BLACK WOMEN...WELL I COULD SAY NOBODY WANTS TO DEAL WITH YOU BLACK MEN AND YOUR SMUG, ARROGANT, NASTY ATTITUDES ANYDAY, CAUSE THE MAJORITY OF YOU ARE EXTREMELY UNPLEASANT TO BE AROUND. AND THE VAST MAJORITY OF YOU BLACK MEN ARE JUST PLAIN EVIL HEARTED...NOTHING NICE OR ENJOYABLE ABOUT YOU..BLACK MEN NEED TO CHECK THEMSELVES BEFORE THEY CAN CHECK ANY DAMN BODY. BUT HEY, THAT'S FOR THESE OTHER BROADS TO DEAL WITH. FRANKLY I DON'T GIVE A SHYT, CAUSE I CAN BE BY MY DAMN SELF, AND BE HAPPY DOING IT..
don't jump to conclusionsz you might hang yourself MTO i agree with a few of you who said that her and chris are still together i honestly believe that too! but they should have lied and said it was over from rip. that way all this rihanna bashing and chris bashing can come to a cease!!! BIG said it best the more money you make the more problems you see. if you ask me i think chris is gonna walk unless the judge tries to make an example out of him. real talk
oh and she is working them damn shoes!!!
@MZARROGANCE...WELL I CAN'T TELL...CAUSE HE OR SHE OR WHATEVER IT IS IS ALWAYS JUMPING ON SOME BULLSHYT ABOUT THE POOR BLACK MAN..MAN PLEASE..PHUCK THEM..IF IT IS A WOMAN, SHE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HERSELF FOR PUTTING DOWN HER OWN DAMN SISTERS LIKE THAT..HOW DARE HER..JUST BECAUSE SHE MIGHT NOT LOOK GOOD ENOUGH TO ATTRACT A MAN OF SOME OTHER RACE, DOESN'T MEAN SOMEBODY ELSE IS...SHE'S A HATING AZZ PSEUDO INTELLECTUAL BITTER AZZ BYTCH...AND IM OUT..SCREW THIS BROAD OR WHATEVER IT IS...
@ANTIDUMB..YEAH IM CALLING YOU OUT..SOME DAYS YOU TALK LIKE A CHICK, SOME DAYS YOU TALK LIKE A DUDE, WHICH IS IT...ARE YOU TRANSEXUAL..CAUSE IM SMART BUT I'M ALSO FROM THE HOOD SO I'M GONNA TALK LIKE I DO WHEN I WITH MY PEERS, BUT I CAN GET JUST AS WHITE AND PROPER AS YOU HONEY BABY...YOUR FAKE INTELLIGENCE DOESN'T SCARE ME..YOU HAVE PHUCKING OFFENDED ME SO IM CALLING YOU OUT..WHAT!!
SHE IS THE BIGGEST SELF HATING WHORE THERE IS WITH HER WEEKLY CLOROX TREATMENTS AND HER LOVE FOR WHITE MEN.
TOO BAD THEY DON'T LIKE HER ANYWAY SHIA LAUGHED OFF THOSE RUMORS AS IF "PLEASE I WOULD NEVER DATE A BLACK BITCH" HE ALSO USES THE N WORD,SO NO MATTER HOW MUCH BLEACH AND JHERI CURL SPRITZ YOU USE(YES WE ALL KNOW YOU AIN'T GOT NO GOOD HAIR CUZ WE SEEN THE KITCHEN AND THE DOORS WAS LOCKED,LOL) YOU ARE STILL BLACK AND UGLY WITH A STANK PERSONALITY!
BLEACHY MCBLEACHERSON NO WHITE MAN WILL EVER WIFE YOU! HELL NO SANE MAN WILL EVER WIFE YOU YOU LOON!
FUKK THE STORY!!! MTO gettin gangsta...
Mediatakeout Said Oh and TMZ – next time you wanna talk MESS about our reporting, we might start TALKING TOO – to the L.A.P.D. We’re sure they’d be VERY interested in knowing what WE KNOW about how you got that Rihanna pic
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DAMMMMMNNNNNN!!!!!!!!! LMAO!!!
I'm on vacation right now in Kenya but had to log in to post a comment to this thread. RhiRhi can date whomever she chooses! Let the girl live a little and cut her some slack. I'm tired of MTO dogging this girl. BTW the thread last night regarding Diddy and the Chiroc promos was CRAZY!! All I have to say about that is some of ya'll are off the chain on the real. I'm over here chilling amongst black, brown, yellow, and white folk and NOT ONCE have anybody brought up or mentioned RACE! Hell I even forgot I was black and my man Italian. In other words, in other parts of the world BESIDES AmeriKKKa nobody gives a damn what color you are. It's the content of ones character which defines us. Good Day MTO bloggers :)
Good for her! She should be out having fun. She is young and has a blossoming career to focus on rather than relationship drama.
Also, considering we have elected an African American president, isn't it time for some of us to let go of the racial barriers in dating? I mean damn, just because someone dates outside of their race doesn't mean they slight their origin. "Free your mind and the rest will follow. Be color blind, don't be so shallow-" En Vogue - "Free Your Mind"
I DON'T BELIEVE FOR ONE SECOND THAT THIS GIRL IS NOT WITH CHRIS. SHE TRYING TOO HARD TO MAKE PEOPLE THINK THAT SHE IS MAKING THROUGH HER PAIN WITHOUT CHRIS.IF THEY LIED FOR A YEAR, ALTHOUGH IT WAS OBVIOUS TO ME IN A MONTH, THAT WERE DATING AND THEY LYING NOW.SHE IS FOLLOWING THE PLANNED ACTIONS OF THE SCRIPT GIVEN TO HER. THE ONLY PERSON SHE WITH IS CHRIS, THEY TAKING A BREAK SHE MESSED UP BY TAKING CHRIS BACK AND NOW SHE IS TRYING REDEEM HERSELF. YOU DON'T GET OVER SOMEBODY THAT QUICK,ESPECIALLY IF U SPENT 24/7 WITH THEM.
I'M TIRED OF THIS [EXPLETIVE] ABOUT BLACK MEN. YES THERE ARE SOME BAD BROTHERS OUT THERE, BUT THERE ARE ALSO GOOD BROTHERS OUT THERE TOO WHO LOVE SISTAS AND TAKE CARE OF THEIR FAMILIES. JUST LIKE THERE ARE BAD WHITE MEN OUT THERE AS WELL. SOMEHOW I THINK SOME OF YOU THINK THAT WHITE MEN ARE IMMUNED FROM ANY WRONG DOING. IF SHE THINKS THAT DATING A WHITE GUY IS GOING TO SOLVE HER ISSUES OR MAKE HER FEEL BETTER, THEN MORE POWER TO HER. WE ALL DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED BETWEEN HER AND CHRIS BROWN, BUT IF SHE DON'T RESOLVE HER ISSUES, THE SAME THING WILL OCCUR WITH HER AND THIS WHITE BOY. WHITE MEN DON'T GET A PASS FOR BEATING THERE WOMEN EITHER.
Instead of acting like she don't have a problem Ri Ri stans why don't you tell ole girl to hit up those anger management sessions with Chris. We all know this girl had it for that boy. The only thing that messed up they young love was the fact that she was an abusive island girl like all the rest of them.
If you don't believe me then think about this Chris Brown was the boy next door type of dude who didn't smoke didn't drink and had absolutely no negative press before this whole situation. Now look at him now thats what island girls do to you they crazy and abuse they men. Now she out here messing with white boys trying to get Chris jealous when he got a case to fight off. I'm sorry Ri Chris doesn't have time for little kid sh!T call him back after april 6.
Here we go....MTO is going to have Rhianna "dating" a new person every 3-4 days now...
Although Antidumb did raise an interesting point...The publicists for these stars often act in a strategic way in trying to link their celeb to certain people. Rhianna stood to lose a lot of her mainstream (White suburban) support over the Chris Brown fiasco, so linking her to an "All-American Boy" sounds like a way to try to shore that support up.
@ Antidumb
No disrespect but I think you are generalzing and assuming. If my sister listened to folks like you, she would have no self esteem and no husband. Sad I use to feel similar to the BS you spit. How can you say black women this and that, have you been a black woman? Do you get hit on by non black men? If so, then I fall back, if not then don't speak for the f8cking world. And don't get it twisted. It's not about a quantity of how many black women are with white men or vice versa because it's never been about that. My sister turned more white mens heads than black ones, so explain that? Is she an exception, no, she just took the bait. Some black women don't want to take the bait. Would it make black women more credible if other races were dissing their women for them? How does it make black men look to be in other races pots? And what about the vast majority of black men who are not into other races? Why do they go ignored so much?
@ TheFabMD2DC
Folks like you keep ignoring the fact that Chris grew up witnessing domestic abuse, so he is he problem. He repeated a cycle of abuse. Own that. Accept that. He was damaged by the step father for years. That we know for sure. The thins you sayinig about Rihanna is just speculation. All that island girl crap, who cares? Chris had the right one to abuse, she still want him so how is she the bad guy again?
@ GuessJeans I'm sorry but black men tend to be emotional. If your talking about in terms of Chris and Rihanna's relationship we all know who is the emotional one. Rihanna put them in this whole situation with her jealousy, her immaturiry, and her abusive behavior towards Chris. Its not black men who ruin relationships its the women who don't know how to have a relationship without resorting to violence. Hell even Ne-yo said he saw her hit him before. Don't lay all the problems with relationships at black mens feet because we are all human and not immune to our emotions.
OH YEA...LOLLL@THESE GURLS USING OTHER GURLS FOR THERE IKON PIC OR DISPLAY PICTURE...GET YALL OWN PICS.....N POST YALL MYSPACE...YALL WORSER THAN MYSPACE ON HERE USING OTHER PPL PICS LIKE ITS REALLY YOU..IF ITS REALLY U..THEN POST YO MYSPACE!!!!!!!!!! *********************************** *********************************** This is one of the DUMBEST comments I have read on here in a long time!!! Are you serious?!?! Everybody don't have to post their real pic on this crazy azz site and they damn sure don't have to post their myspace page!!! People don't have NOTHING to prove to you or anyone else on here...focus more on the comments rather than the damn pic they have up, it's nonya' damn bidnezz!!!!
ON HBO AND DEMAND, THERE IS A DOCUMENTARY ON THE REPUBLICAN PARTY DURING THE ELECTION RACE. NOT SURE IF IT IS STILL THERE, BUT YOU ALL REALLY NEED TO WATCH IT. IT WILL TELL YOU HOW WHITE FOLKS REALLY FEEL ABOUT BLACKS MALE AND FEMALE IN THIS COUNTRY. THEY DON'T CARE HOW SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE. WHETHER YOUR A BUSINESS WOMEN OR AN R&B SINGER. WE JUST DON'T FIT IN THEIR WORLD!
@ TheFabMD2DC You say Chris must have been pushed or provoked, but ok fine. But that can also apply to other abusers as well. No one is saying these men were not provoked BUT as a man, you must find a way to better deal with it. Be a leader and know that if you hit a woman no matter what, you will look bad.
As a woman, you must know that you are not a mans equal and therefore, you can't whip his azz. Stay in your place on both ends.
@TheFabMD2DC, and ss_n_ntr_k3_t3_wn- Cop the book entitled "The Black woman's guide to understanding the Black man" by Sharzarad Ali. In this book which is written by a black sociologist, you will find that as a result of institulionalized racism, and pre-post slavery, black men overly-sensitive and prone to physical outburst due to their shattered and fragile egos. The white man never had to endure shame, blame, or racism. This is why he is more patient, gentle, and in tune with his emotions. I'm not trying to pit black man against the white man. I'm only stating facts here.
Furthermore, OF COURSE white men will have the highest statistics of abuse and domestic violence. There are MORE of them. We (black folk) account for some 12% of the entire U.S population compared to Whites (79%).
@ MidNite69 If it only happens once on Chris part is he an abuser. While if Ri resorts to fists and slaps everytime they have an argument would't she be classified as an abuser. Women can get locked up that stuff to. I just think this case is weird since Ri is acting like the abuser going out getting tats not having a care in the world. While Chris is out her acting like he got his ass whooped not going out, feeling depressed, and worrying about his relationship. Its like the exact opposite of how people usually act when this stuff happens to them.
Furthermore before I go, some of you need to think analytically and critically before jumping on your emotions. Learn the art of critical and objective thinking. I'm only stating FACTS. My reitering these facts doesn't mean I'm a sell-out or a "coon". It simply means I have learned to think objectively and expand my mind set. I will always have love for my black folks but sometimes the truth hurts and is painful. But it is only when we look over the hurt and pain that we can be able to address and improve on the problems that plague our communities.
GUESSJEANS-----FOR YOUR INFORMATION THE STATISTICS WERE NOT DONE BASED ON THE AMOUNT OF BLACKS OR WHITE THAT IS IN THIS COUNTRY, BUT ON A CASE BY CASE BASIS. THE NUMBER OF CASES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ARE CALCULATED FIRST BY CITY, THEN STATE, THEN NATIONAL. SO THEY RATE BY THE AMOUNT OF CASES IS WHAT IS REPORTED. WHITE MALES IN THIS COUNTRY ARE MORE INVOLVED IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CRIMES BASED ON THE REPORTED CASES. NICE TRY THOUGH!
some of you ppl are some dumb mother fuc@kers. just because somebody is seen with someone else dont mean [EXPLETIVE]. The sad part, u all fall for it and start calling the woman names as if u all know what she is really doing. There are some true jealous bit@ches on this site too. for those calling her a slut, it takes one to know one, dont it.
"Oh and TMZ – next time you wanna talk MESS about our reporting, we might start TALKING TOO – to the L.A.P.D. We’re sure they’d be VERY interested in knowing what WE KNOW about how you got that Rihanna pic…"
MTO aint nothing but a website full of theives and snitches.Website is run and organized on dishonesty.
To GuessJeans you sound like you are a smart person, but you are mistaking your opinions for facts. You would know that you cant stereotype any type of person and you would stop speaking as if every black man has the same DNA and conditioning(upbringing). Not "Every" black man is the same. I hear your argument, but please be more specific about which black men you are speaking about, and understand that we are not all the same. Sometimes you black women sound worse than white people with the way you make all black men sound like the enemy. This is just my opinion.
Ri need to sit down somewhere with Chris and get some counseling. If you got to the club every night thats not gonna make people think of you as a victim. Which is apparently what you want since you haven't said anything in regards to what happened with Chris. Rihanna been boozin it up like sh!t since she turned 21. Damn Ri I wonder what you gonna do when its Chris birthday.
MTO is soo full of sh*t! You guys swore out rihanna was dating Wilmer, now she's dating this dude? and you have the nerve to go at T/M/Z. get your story straight MTO!
As for rihanna, that girl is crazy! she was at the club partying up just last night! now she has these dumb gun tatoo's? what is wrong with her?
I just find it funny how rihanna is all club hopping every night getting dumbass gun tatoo's, while chris is at home in VA with his family and friends....but yet HE'S the "monster" and shes the so-called "victim".
what a joke!
chris keep ya head up kid. this to shall pass!
I knew she was a whore! she has always been and will always be. I used to try giving this slut the benefit of doubt but when I think about how many dudes she has been with, it looks like she is gonna give J Ho or J Lo a run for her money. She was screwing Shai LaBeof, Chris, JAy Z, flirtin with JAmie Foxx and the list goes on Wilma Valderamma (how lame is that one?), now this dude and Im sure theres more we dont know about. If i see the tramp Ima whoop that trick! JUSt playing she better make some hits and pray for forgiveness. Poor Chris tried to turn a hoe into a house wife.
jazzy_326...(a few posts up) I could not agree with you more. I remember how Ri laughed at britney spears when she went through and now someone is suppose to feel sorry for her. I dont think so.
You can tell when some one has real talent like Aretha or Patty or even Denzel. their talent speaks for them. They do not need to be all in the media like her. She is always dressed for Cameras. Ri get outta here.
ITS FUNNY HOW EVERY TIME YOU SEE THIS SITE YA'LL ALWAYS BIGGIN UP THE FACT THAT A BLACKWOMEN IS WITH A WHITEMAN WELL NEWSFLASH( THE WHITE MAN ALREADY OWNS YOUR ASS MORONS YOU PERM YOUR HAIR WHERE CONTACTS BLEACH YOUR SKIN!) THE MILLIONTH TIME THE WHITE MAN IS GOD TO YOU BLACK BITCHES AND EVERYDAY ON THIS SITE YOU PROVE ME RIGHT! AND THE CRAZY THING IS YA'L THE FIRST ONE TO CALL SOMEONE A SELLOUT FOR DATING SOMEONE THATS ISNT BLACK( AND YOU WONDER WHY ALOT BLACKMEN DONT WANT 70 PERCENT OF YA"LL ANYMORE) REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE IM THROUGH WITH NORTH AMERICA BLACK WOMEN!
Its sad that Chris is catching a case over this girl that obviously don't care that he's in trouble right now. I don't know if he gonna get over this girl. She partying it up while he depressed as hell about this girl and this case he got caught up in. See Chris this is what happens when you start messing with these island girls. Rihanna is officially the most messed up chick in the game. I guarantee you wouldn't catch beyonce or ciara acting like that.
We all know she is still with that boy. She is making sure the media sees her with different men so she can keep her career.
I am thinking if something as horrible happened to me I would be at home with my family. She is in another place without family and original friends, something is wrong with this picture.
Rhianna you already got the gift that keeps on giving; messing with this pink toe you gonna get something else new alright! ------ @guessjeans shahrazad ali is an intellegent sista with knowledge of self, i've seen her on the donahue,sally,rolanda show (you can youtube her) talking about both of her books. She wrote a guide on males and females. Good to see you back on here, because in a strange way I was missing your hate,lol. But the same woman's book you choose to "champion" would look down upon you for marrying a white boy. Just saying. Peace.
@Guessjeans
Sister to Sister,
I know that you are an intelligent woman. So, please refrain from classifying ALL black men into one group...You know, as well as I do that people are as diverse as snowflakes...It is UNFORTUNATE that the black men that you've encountered during your lifetime have all fit your stereotype/impression of the typical black man: overly emotional; ignorant; mysoginistic; violent etc.
The truth is that the majority or black men are: law-abiding; upstanding; hardworking; and loyal. The same thing needs to be said about black women...Some people think that we are only goldigging, loud-mouthed, baby making chickenheads. Although some black women fit this stereotype, you and I know that those women are in the minority...
Not trying to throw you under the bus...Just some food for thought, young sister...Enjoy Kenya!
@ Antidumb
You know whats the funny thing about those SPECIFIC black women like Signal89, who think they're empowering themselves by fiending over white men?
Lmfaoooo!!!! They're in 3rd place.When white men interracially date in America its
1 Asian 2 Latina 3 Black women
There are over half a million white men married to Asian women and over a quarter million married to Latinas.These black women haven't even passed the 2 hundred thousand mark yet.
You know that black women outnumber Asian women HEAVILY in this country right?If white men were so thirsty for you like you were for them,wouldn't the numbers be reversed?Wouldn't it be over half a million WM with BM and under 2 hundred thousand WM with AW?
There are whole agencies of white women who try to stop unions between white men and Asian women.Thats the real winner when its comes to interracially dating white men,its asian women,thats where the real threat comes from to WW.
You CAN get a white man dont get it twisted,anyone can.But when it comes to what they want,they aren't so gung ho over you as you are for them.
White male sex tourism in black countries aint no where near the sex tourism in Asian and Latin American countries.Sex tourism in asian countries over the past few decades has brought in hundreds of millions of dollars,close to a billion.
I've never seen someone sport mediocrisy so proudly.You go on and shine with yo Bronze medal honey!!! Be proud of your bronze medal !!! Fawk ferst place,its all about 3rd in the Oh Nine 09.
"See fellas. It's a new era and Sistas aint putting up with you ish anymore. So, go on and chase after your white girls." <-- She sound scared of white women.
Oh and by the way theres only just over 3 hundred thousand black men married to white women.Tens of millions white men married to white women.Ya'll specific females keep empowering yourself.White males have an instinctive attraction to white women,so even your white men are more attracted to those white women than those black men chasing white women.
Remember who told you that you need to straighten your hair or dye it blonde or wear contacts or lighten your skin to look good.Lol to even be attractive you gotta look like the white woman u so fearful of.You'll always be at the bottom but dont stop "empowering" yourselves.
You'll never actually empower yourselves,just feed yourselves more fuel for your inadequacies and insecurities.You'll always go round and round in a circle.
When it comes out that Rihanna abused that boy the entire time they were together and she ends up not getting help thats it I'm done with this chick. Look what you did to Chris' career because you have personal issues to deal with and that gives you the right to abuse your boyfriend. Damn Ri, I just know what I see and what I see is Chris being depressed and you going out like britney, lindsay, and paris all rolled into one.
@ signal89
Another Bitter Black Woman...when will you losers ever die out?
I'm being serious...I HOPE you do jump ship...and don't hop your sambo, coon-ass, whiteboy ass kissing self back over here, lol...for real.
BREED YOURSELF OUT OF THE BLACK RACE. We don't give a [EXPLETIVE] about you or any other self hating black folks out here.
You pathetic ass Black people think you know ALL Black people from a few bad apples YOU ran into. REAL Black Women aint going nowhere.
But "black" girls like you...who are indeed the NEW AGE WHITE WOMAN, are not even cared about...why you think brothas didn't treat you right? They probably knew who you were deep down inside...a coon...sambo...BLACK MAMMY...that's what you are.
When them whiteboys finish dumping that boy goo on your face...make sure you wash up before you kiss your confused ass children.
I seriously will be glad to see a white dude beat the [EXPLETIVE] out of one of these self hatin' black women...
...kinda like the chick in West Virgina. Get your self hatin' asses whooped...spit on...and SHYT on...you always come crawlin' back to Black folks lookin' like a fool.
I'll be glad to see the day Black folks stop acceptin' self haters back to the group. Trust me self haters...it's a new day. Once you cross that line, and white people start beatin' that ass...Black people aint gonna want to hear it.
You'll be suckin' DYCK for the rest of your life just to make ends meet...and we'll be laughin' at your clown ass in the process.
WELCOME TO BETTERMAN'S WEEKLY HOMOSEXUAL EXPOSURE: WHERE I CALL OUT ONE MEMBER OF MTO AND PUT YOUR BUSINESS ON THE STREET. THIS PERSON IS DISGUSTING, VAIN, AND VILE BECAUSE HE TAKES PENIS IN THE ANUS ONE DAY AND THEN HAS THE NERVE TO HOLLA AT A SISTA THE NEXT. YALL NEED TO WATCH OUT FOR THIS NYGGA CAUSE HE'S IMMUNE TO THE SMELL OF FECES DUE TO SODOMY.
AN THIS PERSON IS(DRUMROLL PLEASE) LVLARIO
GO GET EM BIGBOOTYBOI!
Alot of people got on Antidumb for speaking the truth?
How many articles you see of 70% of white/asian/latin/indian women single?
Black women as a whole dont have a good image when it comes to dating.Black men dont either.Anti doesn't mean every single black woman but its true.
If I'm wrong,name me 1 race of men that puts you ferst when its comes to interracial dating and marriage.
Before you even research there was only 6,000 black women married to asian men and over 120,000 Asian men married to white women.
Black women aren't the ferst pick over all for ANYONE when it comes to the INTERRACIAL thing.
People usually marry their kind and in America black males are most likely to date and marry black women.In the U.K how ever,white women are the ferst pick PERIOD when it comes to marriage.
Over 7 million Asian women in this country and over 20 million black women.Over half a million white men married to Asian women and under 200,000 black women married to White men.
Now if you out number Asian women by 13 million and are soooo preferable to white males,wouldn't the numbers be reversed?Hmmm?
Half of 500,000 is 250,000.Black women haven't even reached 200,000 so its not even half.
Half of 20 million is 10 million.Theres less than 10 million Asian Women.
Why are BW/WM marriages less than half of the AW/WM marries when the Asian female population is less than half of Black female population?
THATS WHAT ANTI WAS TRYING TO SAY.She never said no white man aint want Black women cuz thats absolutely not true.She never said ALL black women were undesireable,just overall they dont have a good image.
I myself am a brotha who will only date/love/like/befriend/marry a CERTAIN kind of BLACK woman so no one can say ALL black women are undesireable.Thats NOT what she was saying.Anti spit some real talk and its rare for a woman to spit real talk about other women of her kind like that.
"Black women do NOT have a desirable image and demeanor to be able to date White Men so freely....................if Black men them self are saying "hell no" how do you think that makes Black women look DESIRABLE when the men of their own race doesn't even want to be bothered."
I as a black man am telling you other black men dont have a desireable image when it comes to dating.Black men prolly have the worst image out of ALL MEN when it comes to interracial dating.
The point she was tryna make was if black men dont have a desireable image and a certain percentage is turning black women down,can you imagine how low black women's image is?
I actually think this white cat is cool. He reminds of me of the white type of dudes I've hung out with all my life. The type that live and let live, and don't give two sh!ts about that ridiculous color crap!
I have to agree though, I agree that this is a sneaky ploy to redeem her career back into mainstream. The media did all they could do to demonize Chris, ruin his name, earning potential, and career.
Since they protect these white boys reputations with all of their might, and feed the world this white boys are "good natured", "perfect" and the "best catch" it's only logical to connect her brand to this polly pure BS!
I'll whoop yo azz lvlario for sayin this:
I myself am a brotha who will only date/love/like/befriend/marry a CERTAIN kind of BLACK man so no one can say ALL black men are undesireable.Thats NOT what I'm saying. Anti spit some real talk and its rare for a woman to spit real talk about men like me and the salads we toss.
Truthiz
Threatened?? LOL!! Are you kidding?? Have you been listening? Black women's reputation is shot out. Ours is too. The thing is we have sport figures and certain entertainers that thwart off the hate that's being spat on our name, and that's why you still see us get play.
When these negative qualities are put on women, it kills your feminine qualities to the masses. That's the whole thing that attracts men to women in the first place, and with your "loud mouth" reputations, your "I'll cut you" reputations etc. your reputation in in the toilet. Real talk!! You can dream all you want , but reality dictates!! IT'S A WRAP FOR YOU!!
LOL @ Truthiz
Please...get yo self-hatin' ass outta here.
"Replaced"...the ONLY reason you go for white boys is because you're a reject...that's all...something is wrong with YOU.
Messed up people are in every bunch.
But to lie to yourself and say a Black Man is getting replaced...LOL...how delusional can you be?
I will NEVER have a problem getting one of you...but alot of you seem to have a problem getting a Black Man you can run over.
Keep lying to yourself, okay? Lol...you WISH most BW would leave BM alone...but it ain't happenin'. Why do you think so many of you are single...and single mothers to be exact.
Don't really wanna step on a good Sistas toes...know there are some foolish brothas out here...but chicks like "Truthiz" (you don't deserve the respectful title of Black Woman) come a dime a dozen...even whiteboys know that.
All you gotta do is lie to 'em, talk slick, and have some money...it never fails...you're too easy. Just another sperm bank for whoever tells you what you want to hear. That's not a trait of a REAL BLACK WOMAN.
Like I tell all ass kissing "black" women (New Age white women)...BREED YOURSELF OUT OF THE BLACK RACE...please, by all means, LOL. Don't need ya...don't want ya...you're used up, washed up, and thrown out...can tell it in your voice. Shoulda stayed off of your back, kept your legs closed and been more selecful. YOU choose who you date...later TRICK. Make sure you keep a napkin handy when that whiteboy dumps his goo on your face...don't need to be kissin' any children with an ass kissin face like that.
To all the RESPECTFUL REAL BLACK WOMEN. This post was a little harsh...but these self-hatin' "black" people deserve this [EXPLETIVE]. We need to stop being nice to a group of people who have no self accountability and want to blame all of their woes on the Black race...no matter if it's man or woman.
@sypamylf
just because you and I don't agree with getting physical with females, doesn't mean that the sista doesn't speak truths and make good points to be debated, (speaking in general) that is what is wrong with the majority of us, we have selective hearing, and don't deal with the topic or statement at hand in the context in which it was used. We pick and choose what we don't like and then form our opinion on one "soundbite". Peace.
And another thing Truthiz...
...we ain't insecure about no corny ass white dude. We're tired of WEAK ASS "black" women like you that try to use us as an excuse.
THAT'S the reason. Nobody cares about a few chickenheads that get with a whiteboy. Whiteboys will PHUKK anything that walks...you ain't special to them, lol. Just a piece of Black Ass to most of 'em.
SOME white men date sistas because they think of them as a sexual being just like in slavery.
Some white men date asians because they think they are sexual and attentive blah, blah, blah
Some White men marry their own because that is their type or because, white women make them lol.
Some Black men marry black women because they make them lol among other reasons.
Some Black men date black women because it is their type.
Some Black men date white women because they give good head, they think their stupid, or have money. (from what I heard)
Most men think with their genitals so do not be offended.
With that being said EVERY SO OFTEN a man either dates or marries another culture or his own for love only.
At the end of the day if this is true white boys you see what Ri did to a nice upstanding young man like Chris, She abused that boy up and down until he snapped and caught a case f'ing with her. Don't fall into her trap she a crazy island girl. When you mess with these island chicks remember the only way they win is if you respond.
Lol
You negroes are so easy to please….ahahahaha!!!!
I am trying to understand why are black women hooting and hollering and why black men are up in arms?
Don’t you know the social history behind black women and white men sex-slave practices? Ahahahah!!!!!
See, most black women equates love with sex. Thus, any white boy that’s willing to fukk them is seen as a sign of love and affection. What these “attention-starved” sistas don’t understand, very few red-blooded heterosexual men will pass up on a decent piece of as/s, especially when it is free.
Lol…these women are trying to get you dudes riled up…if they thought it was that easy to get a decent white boy….by decent, I mean, a white boy with a 401K and savings retirement, with decent looks….If they thought it was that easy to snag a decent white dude, do you think they would be on MTO bitching about the black man…ahahahah!!!!
Trust me, if these women are true…and if they are married, co-habitating, or fukking some non-black dude…there’s no way they would be so concerned or bitching day and night about the black man.
Relax…lol…pucci is pucci….when you get to a level…any level or socio-economic prosperity….race becomes less of concern.
Lol….hey…The English Royal Court may have my head for this…but, do you know that Queen of England love to engage in all types of sexual tryst, especially with black men…I heard she has an insatiable appetite for black men…ahahahahahah!!!!!!!! In fact, it borders on black male prostitution…ahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!
Ahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol…..I am outta this shyt…ahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!
Whiteboys will PHUKK anything that walks...you ain't special to them, lol. Just a piece of Black Ass to most of 'em.
BlakGold
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You can't be for real , Men are men regardless of their ethnicity , Some WHITE men in their defense would even say ' They pass up on banging FAT WHITE girls, But you brothas are all up on humping them like horn dog on a leg.
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@ Truthiz
Your ass is suppose to work. Isn't that the reason you fought so hard beside your "White Sisters" during the feminist movemtent?
Hell...you wanted the same rights as men, now you got 'em. Sounds like you don't know what you want.
But here's a stat for you...black men on average make more money than black women...and we own more businesses than you do. Even though you go to school more, you are more subject to be a Black Mammy..."black" women like you envy the white woman...you want to be her...you want what she has. "Black" women like YOU are scared of white women...white woman says jump, self hatin' "black" woman like YOU says "how high?"
Don't project YOUR ways onto that of Black Men...if you read anything SupaMYLF said, you would learn something. You're too busy trying to be white. Wow...didn't know that self-hatin' "black" women like YOU desired so much to be like a white woman.
REAL BLACK WOMEN don't have this problem.
Truthiz...(a few post above) wow, those words are deep. Sounds to me like you are watching way too much t.v and listening to the media. Because all they show are negative images of us. Positive images does not make the news. Drama, sex and negativity sells more.
You need to go to a multicultural church and other places. There are tons of good black men around. Turn off the media and walk around you will see a lot of great men of color around you everyday.
@ Truthiz So when the truth comes out that Rihanna hit and abused Chris numerous times during their relationship. It will mean that women need to stop blaming black men for the sh!t that we do to them.
The reality is that everything a man does is a reaction to something f'ed up a female did to him. Stop blaming black men for the fact that you can't be a strong woman and own up to the fact that you treated your man wrong. A man doesn't wake up and decide hes going to do bad by his female. He was always pushed to do that wrong by something she did to him. Everything in life is reactionary not revolutionary.
For the bloggers who are not black please come closer to the screen, a little closer. STAY THE F*CK OFF DUMB AZZ! Go! BYE! We are not paying your racist butts any attention.
MEMO TO RACIST WHITE PEOPLE: WEES FREE NOW. (Im am now bending over so you can kiss my azz) but you have to wash your mouth out first since yall let your dog tongue kiss you. NASTY RACIST BASTARDS.
Oh yeah one more thing those bad black men you are talking about well one of them is PRESIDENT of the US. Take that you trash.
Yeah, and everything you mentioned a lot of sisters are caught up in it too. You're reputation with hite men is your're easy to sleep with, I've had a lot of white boys say all they have to do is flash a smile at you and they can sleep with you because they see the desperation on your face to be accepted and treated like a white woman.
It's us that bring a bad reputation to the race, but you're still not wanted by white men or any other men for that matter. I'm not saying ALL sistas aren't, I'm saying far too many.
I'm not in competion with you, so you mentioning buying homes means nothing to me. Most of you are in those homes alone anyway. You're supposed to buy a home, you're an adult, what in the hell do you want a trophy because you bought a home!!! LOL!! GTFOH!!!!
Learn how to be approachable and get your "home" outta your head and maybe you can get a man. No one care about that ish. That's your problem, you think a "home" makes you invincilble or something and it shows in your attitude and it turns men of all races off. Your vagina is no better than any other woman's, who needs your stank "I have a home" attitude Your going to die alone in your "home" while the rest of the world still live their life in spite of your "home"!!!
To the Non-racist white people; my prior post does not apply to you. I love some white people just like I love some black but we black folk cant have nothing to ourself without yall butting in our biz. Can we have this site please? WHEW!
Anyhoo, Ri is not worth e-fightin for anyway. A hoe is a hoe period.
@ sweet_insanity
Yeah...I am for real. Where the hell do you think beastiality came from????
You Black folks need to read a phukking book...turn off the idiot boz. White people are full of fantasy...and that's what they see Black people as...a fantasy. A white dude wants a BW...he's thinking about her wrapping them full lips around his DYCK, and that "big black ass". A white woman wants a BM...she's thinking about the "Mandingo" fantasy...it's forbidden and they also wanna piss BW off.
@ Truthiz
Tip of the iceberg???? This is a small iceberg then. Don't take my word for it...see for yourself. White men have been sleeping with/raping you for centuries...why are marriage numbers so low between you? Yet the divorce rates are SKY HIGH when it comes to you?
Yet, a white dude will QUICKLY marry an Asian or Latina and will try his best ot make it last...hmmmmmmm. You've been over here longer than either, but are WAY behind them when it comes to their choices. Why aren't whiteboys expressing their love for you in droves in public? LOL...you are a booty call...majority of you. Like a poster just said...when there IS an IR union, RARELY is it about love.
Sure, a whiteboy will sleep with you in the dark...but most don't wanna be seen with you in public...not in the spotlight anyway. This [EXPLETIVE] is propaganda...YOU can put stake in it all you want...I KNOW better.
Ri-Ri don't represent a REAL BLACK WOMAN to me...she more than likely slept her way to where she is now...and that's not a REAL BLACK WOMAN.
And the way I talk has nothing to do with the situation...I talk like this to "black" people LIKE YOU...COONS...SAMBOS...SELL-OUTS...WHITE WORSHIPPERS...BLACK MAMMIES...WHITE ASS KISSERS...and whatever else they call you...
...not REAL BLACK WOMEN...they get PLENTY of love from me...and I get it back.
to the blogger talkin bull about black men...
and white men are also the ones with the wife and kids at home but will pay for a nasty discusting prostitute while being caught on camera or on how to catch a predetor. I have not seen a black man on that one yet. Or they have a boyfriend on the side. They are also thieves behind paper work who steal money from folk who dont deserve it but find legal ways of doing so.
Most white men hide behind the family, home and degree but are just as bad, so to hell with you bull ish about our black men.
Truthiz
Show us the evidence that BW/WM marriages are catching up.
2000 census showed that 289,000 Black males were married to white women and 119,000 black women were married to white men.
" I predict by 2010 our numbers will match that of Black Men and others and maybe even pass you up."
For that to happen, 170,000 will happen between black women and white men and the Black male white woman marriage would have had to freeze and come to a stand still in 10 years.
Did BM/WW marriages come to a stand still in the past 10 years?
Did 170,000 marriages occur between BW/MM?
Even if 170,000 marriages occured,the BM/WW marriages would have had to come to a stand still.
The year 2000 census report says.
"In 2000, African-American men had white wives 2.65 times more often than black women had white husbands. In other words, in 73 percent of black-white couples, the husband was black and wife was white."
"This interracial gender gap is even sharper among black-white couples who cohabit without being married. Five times as many black men live with white women as white men live with black women"
So basically if 20,000 black women lived with white men then 100,000 black men lived with white women.
Boo boo thats straight from the census report.
They predicted in 1980 that the marriages between BM/WW and WM/BW would be even by the year 2000.
As you see that never happened...
Black women interracially dating and marrying has increased but dont forget that Black men's numbers are SHARPLY increasing.
From 1995 to 2000 there were almost 100,000 marriages between black men and white women.
From 1995 to 2000 the marriages between black women and white men actually decreased.
From 2000 to 2007 the unions between black women and white men increased to 120,000.
From 2000 to 2007 the unions between black men and white women increased to 330,000
So in 7 years BW/WM went up 20,000
And in 7 years BM/WW went up 41,000
From the year 2000 to 2007 it went from 289,000 to 330,000.
The unions between black females and white males isn't happening any where near the unions between white females and black males.
It used to be more black women married to white men than black men married to white women till them Asian women came into the picture in the 70's and 80's.
White men love they Asian women too much.More White men married to Asian women than Black men and Latino men combined.
Infact if you add the number of Black men and Latino men married to asian women its still less than 1 quarter of white men married to asian women.
Black males in the U.K are the only men on the planet who are more likely to marry a woman of another race than women of their own race.
The same thing is possible in the U.S.
Remember Truth,those black males hate themselves even more than you hate them.I wont even get into talkin about organizations that those self hating black males have, that you can't get into if you're not married to a white woman SMFH ...
Truthiz
We won't reach a white man's status, but black women will reack a white woman's status as far a money, opportunities, etc?
Asians won't date us? We don't even like their body types. Do Asian men date you all?
You're beating us in leaps and bounds, and it looks like you're the only ones that care. Who else mentions this besides black women? Do white men get at you in droves now? Does he put you above white women now? KEEP DREAMING!!!
Truthiz
LOL...please...you AIN'T a Black Woman...so what the hell do you know. LOL...
...like I said, we own more businesses and make more money...point blank. But it's not a competition to me...I'm just giving YOU some stats.
Black Women ain't goin' nowhere. And YOU'RE the one runnin' your trap...why aint you with a whiteboy now?
Please...keep lyin' to yourself...until you're about 65 yrs old and STILL single talkin' about you INDEPENDENT and you don't "need no man to help me put in my dentures."...LOL...GTFOH!
That's why you still on this computer...arguing with BM...seeking attention...everybody deserves some love i guess. Step your game up and stop blaming everybody else for your F'D up life.
And the only reason white people are where they are now is because of corruption and exploitation...of YOU and me...that [EXPLETIVE] about comparing me to a whiteboy DOESN'T PHAZE ME...LOL. That [EXPLETIVE] is so old and pathetic...lame and used up...TRY ANOTHER TACTIC PLEASE! LOL
@staypoppin01
...How is it that you know so much about what WHITE men think? I've followed some of your posts and in most of them you state "White men think (blah, blah)"...(I am assuming that you are a brother-right?)...Just wondering...
@allauakbar
...Touche' my brother...So what is your take on men raising their hands to keep women in line?
BlakGold...thats whats up.
Truthiz...come on now. Please do not tell me you are black person putting down your own. We are suppose to correct, uplift and encourage each other, not belittle and degrade. If you call out a person this is okay, but dont say all because then your words are not true they are your opinions only.
but if you are white please refer to my post above. Thanks
Truthiz ... @imsick, i figured a sista soulja type like you would come in trying to save the BM but, im just stating fact and what millions of other Black females say daily. I'll just hope for you that you'll wake up and smell the coffee. You're so in denial. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> you seem very angry and bitter. How can I be in denial when I know good black men who are husbands, fathers big brothers, community leaders (for free) etc.
I am sorry you've have bad experiences but get around different people and you will have different results.
@truthiz
LOL I understand you are upset because you feel black men betray us with white women. And to get even with them you feel you need to bash them lol. Don't do it. A real blk woman sticks with their black men. I admit its frustrating to see how angry they get when a sista is checking for a white guy and it's supposed to be all good when they go with a white girl smh. Black women are so loyal to black men. It's so rare to see a white guy with a black woman. But I see black men with fat white women ALL DAY EVERY DAY. LOL
I just feel like you are going too hard. Trying to argue with a black man is pointless. You will NEVER win lol.
It's Culturele that makes brothas go with other women. You would never see a muslim dating outside his race. And if he did that person better convert or better not come back to their house. It's a shame on the family. It's the same with jewish people and others. They don't date outside thier race. Black people have no cultural wall like that though. We let EVERYONE in. Thus we are the most mixed people. Soon there will be no black people left. Just mixed.
this dudes a phukkin phaggot! ole i have a show called bromance a$$ sukkah. u gotta be sh!tt!n me. this dude displays his b!tcha$$ness on mtv thru 2 girly a$$ shows and she phukks with him?!! i lost respect 4 her. she a ugly h0 and obviously didn't get slapped hard enough cuz this dude is worse than C.B.
@ Mz_Jazmine
Trust me...it urks me just as much, EVEN MORE SOMTIMES when a "black" man "praises" WW. It makes me rather sick and I just can't stand it.
I'm an equal opportunity "basher"...lol...if you are a self-hater, and try to put the blame on Black people...I don't like you, man or woman...not just women.
Talk about CP Time...this story and video were on Tee Em Zee 2 days ago when it actually happened. What is MTO going to headline next? Maybe that Obama won the election? I'm sure everyone knows that Brody Jenner, Wilbur Valderama, and other C-List young single guys about town yet to come are making 'appearances' with her because the public is so vapid we're supposed to be distracted from her relationship with Ike Turner Jr. Of course on MTO the story inevitably got dragged into a stupid race battle.
imsick.....when he gets older hopefully people like sistah soulja and bill o reilley are decapitated. i hate racist people whether it be black, white, or hispanic. this is 2009, and yea it's iight to have pride in who you are and what you are, but EVERYONE should have learned by now, especially my generation (80's baby) that sh!t is so much better without all that hate. skin color ain't sh!t. some of my best friends been black and the realest people i met. they have good and bad on both sides of the fence, the good will prevail cuz the bad ones are 2 ignorant and don't have enough fire power anymore
All yall just STFU! Yall know yalls intention was never to discuss who Rihanna was dating. Yall came to this thread to talk about black women, black men, and interracial dating. Damn its the same thing on every blog. Who gives a f*ck who she is dating. And who gives a [EXPLETIVE] about interracial dating.
@ Bubmayne shut the [EXPLETIVE] up with that "my best friends been black and the realest people i met" typical white person with that BS. Who gives a f*ck if you had black friends. WOW You still don't win the Nobel Peace Prize. Log off and stop with the silliness.
Tommy Lee whipped out Pamela Anderson. Eminem whipped out kim and on and on. But white America is sweating Chris B and Rhianna's personal business. Not that I am supporting men hitting women but nobody was there but everyone is in it. And you know why? Because at the end of the day America id pissed that these 2 Black kids have more money than God and it pisses the White man off! Chris and Rhiana are 2 grown ass folks so mind your business!
Aint [EXPLETIVE] racist about knowing who you are and preserving who you are. Call SistaSouljah want you wanna call her...she's real.
In that case, Harriet Tubman was racist also. Please, if you want to assimilate, then you do that. But don't tell other Black people what they should do...not in this [EXPLETIVE]' country. If you mingle with white people, then do you...as long as you ain't self-hatin', then it's all good here.
But hatin' on other Black people that spit truth...nah, it ain't gonna happen.
Keep living the dream while police are shootin' up people. Racism will never die out...it is what it is...it's about survival when you think about it.
To me...Sista Souljah is the truth...and any other Black person that's real about our situation over here...because it's 2009 don't mean [EXPLETIVE]...it's still the same game. But I can tell majority of us are still sleep because we still have FAITH IN POLITICS (POLY-TRICKS)...so I know majority of us are not fully awaken...but you will soon though...don't say nobody told you.
@TheFabMD2DC
"The reality is that everything a man does is a reaction to something f'ed up a female did to him."
You need to shut the f*ck up as well. You probably think that is the truth and nothing but the truth so help you god. Mutherf*cker you still need jesus. You don't know what happened and neither does anybody else on this site.
@ Truthiz
In 1990 the Bw/Wm marriages was 50,000 and in 2007 it was 120,000.
50,000 x 3 = 150,000
Tripled?
It hasn't tripled yet.Show us the report that said it tripled,where are you getting your info from?
I got mine STRAIGHT from the census and the Census aint got no reason to lie on you.
I'm letting you know your prediction is wrong.
While you're busy trying to make enemies with black men,Asian women are marrying white men.
Its a known fact that the only reason there are more Black Males married to White Females is because of Asian Females marrying White Males.
If you're so true and loyal and confident about white men,why are you arguing with black men?
Shouldn't you be out competing with Asian Women?
For the record,you're never going to be able to compete with Asian women for White men.You can't even compete with Latinas for white men.
1 Asians 2 Latinas 3 Blacks When it comes to white men interracially dating and marrying,thats the order.
If white men loved you the way you loved them,why they put Asian women ferst,Latinas second then you after?
Are white men that special to you that you should show off your bronze medal?Does having a white man care for you make you feel that good inside?
Truthiz I ONLY date black women so you saying black men are leaving black women for white women only shows your insecurity and inadequacy.Any black woman that says black men are leaving them is clearly insecure.
There are MILLIONS of black men like myself who exclusively date black women.So you're telling me you can't attract ONE of those men out of MILLIONS of us?
You're #3 for White men and the Black women I deal with, CAN'T BE CALLED NUMBER 1 BECAUSE THERE IS NO NUMBER 2.
They are my ONLY choice.
I could say "Black women leaving black men for non-black men" as I do often see it happening,but I'm not insecure or inadequate like you.I'll compete with ANYTHING or ANYONE for my sistas.
I'd even lay down my life and die for my sistas or dedicate my life to helping them and protecting them from any physical or mental threat.
Can you honestly say you're the type of black woman who could make a black man live and die for you?
You're so fearful of white women because YOU YOURSELF find white women to be extremely attractive.
The sistas I deal with aren't fearful of any other women because they know THEY GOT ME HANDS DOWN!!!
@ fashionista0075 Damn, I wasn't even talking about Ri and Chris but at the end of the day why would Chris Brown who is known for his good guy boy next door beat up rihanna. The reason he was being abused by that crazy ass island girl and she pushed him to far that night. Keep thinking Ri didn't do nothing to that boy and act like black women never do f'd up things to they dude. Like I said men never wake up and decide to do they girls dirty. Either they girls do them wrong first or She stop caring about they man.
@ Antidumb
I see many many men on MTO declare their exclusive love for a CERTAIN type of BLACK WOMAN.Alot of insecure black women will pass over all of those comments,scroll down and type "black men are leaving us".how can they hope to have a good experience with black men if they have that level of insecurity?
Essentially if a black man gets with a bad black woman,that means they ofcourse are a bad black man.The same thing applies for the vice versa.Like attracts like...
Instead of bettering themselves and identifying the problem,they wanna play victim forever and point fingers.
If I got with a sista and I felt she was bad,I'm NEVER EVER gonna think of getting a nonblack woman.I'm going to identify what the problem was WITH ME,that allowed me to get with such a woman.Hopefully I will be able to sort it out and get a better black woman.
I understand and appriciate alot of black women.
If someone had a bad experience with a few sistas and immidiately thought that the key to their happiness was a non-black woman,could they ever truly say they appriciated or understood black women?The answer is NO!
All in all the reason we see so many bad black realationships is because those people never knew how to appriciate,understand and essentially love their black partner.
They aren't willing to correct thee internal problem,thats their biggest problem.
As black women are my only choice,I'll stick with them till the day I die.If a sista and I have a bad experience I have no choice but to identify and correct the problem within MYSELF or I'm doomed to have it happen over and over again...
Blackgold...And here is "imsickoftvnradio" co-signin' with this clown...wow, he talked you down that easy and quick huh? Pitiful
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> I cosigned with her when she said...dont segregate, INTEGRATE!!! She made that comment after I cosigned with her lol. There is way in hell I agree with all of what anyone says. but it is not enough time to point it all out.
Sista souljah is a woman I always liked. She does not hate on black people to me. She speaks the truth and so does bill Cosby and others who used their celebrity status to uplift not use it like most rappers to earn money. I read your post and I do agree with what you are sayin.
lvlario
I love how you put down your statements for us sistas!^^
You're sooo right.We can have a weak mentality and become so insecure that we ACTUALLY think white women are trying to take our place.
They may have big fake boobs and fake ass legs and basically is literally a Barbie figure and we acutally try to compete with thet fake?
Black women we got to do better than that.Come on now.
I doubt this is just puppy love as some of ya'll are calling it. I think this was the first real relationship they both had. Emotions can be a b!tch so I can see why Ri would take him back. She realizes that she shouldn't have treated Chris that way. She knows that Chris treated her well despite how the media is describing him as a thug and an abusive person. Now she has to do the PR trip to give the image that she's over Chris to stop the white media from criticizing her decision.
I think if chris gets locked up this chick is gonna have a breakdown.
U BROKE LAMES HAVE NOWHERE TO GO ON FRIDAY NIGHT? YALL STRETCHIN THEM UNEMPLOYMENT CHECKS EH? TRUTHIZ, PHUCK YO UGLY AZZ. THAT'S HOW UGLY WOMEN TALK. ONCE A WHITE BOY PLAYS YOUR AZZ THEN YOU'LL SEE IT'S NOT ABOUT RACE.
AND LVLARIO STOP PRETENDIN YOU'RE HETERO SAYIN THINGS LIKE THIS:
As black men are my only choice,I'll stick with them till the day I die.If a brotha and I have a bad experience I have no choice but to identify and correct the problem within MYSELF or I'm doomed to suck dyck over and over again...
Ok sence were now talking about interracial dating I will put in my two cents. Although when it comes to the chris and rihanna saga, I am most certainly on chris's side. I do belive however, its crazy how people get up in arms when they see black women and white men dating. I mean c'mon why is it ok for black men and white women to date..but its taboo for black women and white men to hook up? I personaly see nothing wrong with it. I have yet to date outside my race but I'm not againts it. why do blacks get soo offensive when we see each other date other races? ITS THEIR LIVES PEOPLE. If you dont date outside your race then cool..but whats the point of bashing others for doing so? I just dont understand it. can sombody fill me in please?
imsickoftvnradio
I don't fully agree with integration either...that's why you still goin' to white people for a PHUKKIN' job. As long as we INTEGRATE, we will be expected to ASSIMILATE...believe it or not...it is what it is.
So I disagree with that. Integration only allows them to exploit further. That's why Black people are NOT self-sufficient as a whole....we ALWAYS have to run to somebody else for something. Want a loan? White person. Want a job? Ask a white person.
Black people are too damn easy...I swear. Sometimes I wish white people would just run up to alot of us and slap the [EXPLETIVE] out of us...Black people are STILL satisfied with the scraps.
Is this your sad attempt to answer my questions? I asked you that because you said we won't reach a white man's "status". Now you admittedly say you won't reach a white woman's level as if it's OK for you to not reach theirs, but it's a crime if we don't reach a white man's status. If it's not a crime for you not to reach a white woman's "status" why do you throw it up in our face we will never reach a white man's "status". If you're not talking about money and power what status are you talking about?
You don't date to hold a history class, but you tell us that Asian women will never date us or touch us. We don't hold history class either, and we date for fun and to have a good time.
I don't have to ask black women if white men try to holla, I ask white men. I believe in getting it from the source. Most say they've never slept with a black woman, let alone dated them!
betterman Flag post U BROKE LAMES HAVE NOWHERE TO GO ON FRIDAY NIGHT? YALL STRETCHIN THEM UNEMPLOYMENT CHECKS EH? TRUTHIZ, PHUCK YO UGLY AZZ. THAT'S HOW UGLY WOMEN TALK. ONCE A WHITE BOY PLAYS YOUR AZZ THEN YOU'LL SEE IT'S NOT ABOUT RACE.
AND LVLARIO STOP PRETENDIN YOU'RE HETERO SAYIN THINGS LIKE THIS:
As black men are my only choice,I'll stick with them till the day I die.If a brotha and I have a bad experience I have no choice but to identify and correct the problem within MYSELF or I'm doomed to suck dyck over and over again... -----------------------------
STFU!Didn't you say this before?
Yet YOU'RE on Mto.LOL! Hypocritical much?
@ jazzy_326
I'll say this AGAIN...how many times does it need to be said...the world may never know.
And i'm puttin' it in all caps, because for some reason, Black people have selective hearing and reading.
IT'S ABOUT THES INSECURE BLACK PEOPLE BLAMING BLACK PEOPLE FOR THEIR CHOICES. AND AGAIN, STOP TRYING TO SAY BROTHAS GET MAD...BECAUSE A SHYTLOAD OF SISTAS GET MAD FOR THE SAME [EXPLETIVE] IF A BROTHA DOES IT...SO IT'S NOT JUST THE FELLAS...STOP PLAYING VICTIM...THE SHYT IS OLD AND I'M PHUKKING TIRED OF HEARING IT.
*Damn...if anybody else wants to know why your self-hating ass is getting clowned by Black People, re-read this post.*
@ dagreat1 You never forget your first, so I can understang why Chris is getting matching tattoos with this chick. I know Ri been getting chopped down by dudes so this is like heaven for her being with one person for so long. Anyway, I know when I was that age I knew exactly what love was. I fell in love with my high school sweatheart and we married now. We took a couple of breaks but we always came back to each other. That's why I'm probably inclined to think that Chris and Ri are in love. I see the parallels with me and my girl. I know that when I was 19 I couldn't do any better than what I had. I suspect Chris thinks the same thing that's why they trying to stay together.
STAYPOPPIN01 said...
"Now you admittedly say you won't reach a white woman's level as if it's OK for you to not reach theirs, but it's a crime if we don't reach a white man's status. If it's not a crime for you not to reach a white woman's "status" why do you throw it up in our face we will never reach a white man's "status"."
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Bruh...excellent evaluation. You just typed a paragraph that you could actually package and sell. This explains this broke down used up shell of a so called "black" woman.
ALWAYS lookin' at somebody else and what they can do to better themselves...but she has no faults of her own. Enuff said...this TRICK is sad and old. You could buy her for a nickel right now.
@ Truthiz
Dont take Mario's werd for it,get it from the horses "mouf".
I rounded the numbers to a more understandable number earlier.You'll see its truly 338,000 black men married to white women and 126,000 black women married to white men.
Go right to the census and You'll see.
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1990 saw 61,000 Black women married to White men.
2007 shows 126,000
61,000 x 3 = 183,000
Tripled?
So ONCE again,where's YOUR info that says it tripled?The Census is lying on you?
338,000 - 150,000 = 188,000 more marriages to White women in 17 years.
126,000 - 61,000 = 65,000 more marriages to White men in 17 years.
65 to 188 ? You see those numbers equaling any time soon?
338,000 - 126,000 = 212,000
There are 212,000 MORE marriages to white women.If white men love black women SOOOO MUCH and put black women on this pedastal,then why are the numbers that way?
I dont wanna call you out ya name but if you think you'll EVER see the day where White men pick Black women over Asian women then,"Blank" you have big dreams!!
I proved I got my info right from the Census itself,prove where you got yours from.
Another little interesting statistic is:
Black males are the most likely to marry inside their race in America out of all Minority groups.
The only reason White Males beat Black Males when it comes to marrying their own women is because,there are tens of millions of White men in this country who are basically geographically isolated from Non-White women.
You wanna try to prove me wrong on those statistics too?Prove where u got YOUR numbers from,I proved where I got MINE.
White men dont even put their own women on a pedastal.You think they're gonna pass over White Women,Asian Women,Latina Women to put black women on a pedastal?
You think the same women they raped,taught how to hate them self,put at the bottom of the ladder when it comes to beauty,you think they're gonna pick you ferst and put you on a pedastal?
"Blank",shut the fawk up.I'm done with you...
Take this as a lesson,the only men who're gonna put black women ferst and foremost are black men.
You keep treating Black Women's biggest supporter this way and you're gonna see those Interracial marriage statistics go up and up and up...
At this rate it'll be 25% of Black Men married to White Women in the year 2030 as opposed to 8% of black women married to white men.You know what 25% of black men are right now?
4 MILLION. Imagine you woke up tomorrow and 4 million black men were married to white women.That'll be the reality in 2030.
THATS when you'll start to feel scared.So you keep treating black men the way you do and in 21 years THATS when you can truly say black men are leaving black women.
Another side note is the immigration of Latinas is DRAMATICALLY increasing and the immigration of Asian women is SHARPLY increasing.
Soon you're gonna see either no growth at all or a stunt in Black Women White Men marriages,as they are numbers 1 and 2 for white men.
Black men are dating and marrying latinas more and more.
So in the year 2030 30% of all black women will be married to women of other races.
There are more black women than black men period and imagine only having your pick out of 7 of every 10 black men.
Trust me,you aint scared yet.You'll get scared in 2030 ...
MTO leave that chil' alone and let her (AND Chris heal and get themselves together)!! Every other day y'all are saying she is messing with some other guy; first a Latino, now a (FOINE!!!)White boy LOL! I digress..... Quit stirrin' up mess...the White media is doin enough damage to these 2 troubled, BLACK stars. Try to be a little uplifting...you know...like you are with your Daily Cova girl..Bey and her CRAZY sister..Sol...
But on the real...keep showin' pics of Rhianna's shoe game! Hot to death!!!
BlackGold...yes we do have to go to white men for a lot of things but we have come a long way. Who would have thought just five years ago we will have a black president? We need to go out and get our education get the good jobs or our own businesses and start running ish our self and hire our own who want to do well. I wish Oprah will hire more blacks, but that is a whole nother subject. (da*n I do sound like souljah)lol
Stay positive and strong regardless to the nay sayers BlackGold. :-0
Yall are a trip. FIRST YALL WANT HER TO LEAVE CHRIS--NOW ONCE SHE LEAVES CHRIS AND HANGS OUT WITH OTHER DUDES (WHICH IS WHAT YALL WANTED HER TO DO IN THE FIRST PLACE), YALL CRUCIFY THE GIRL..LEAVE HER THE PHUCK ALONE!!!! If she hooks up with any guy--it would be an improvement from Chris Brown...LET HER HAVE FUN--SHE'S 21!!DAMN!!!! BTW--SHE LOOKS GREAT IN DEM JEANS..
BlakGold...
wow! Ok first of all, I dont belive I said ANYTHING about "black men" getting mad. I SAID "BLACK PEOPLE". Meaning black people in general get mad when they see black women with white men....not just black men. I know and have seen alot of black women give other black women the side-eye for dating outside their race, so its not just the men.
Second of all, How are blacks who date outside their race "self hating"? I love my self and my culture AND my skin..just becuz I fall inlove with sombody out side my race doesnt mean I hate myself. how ignorant are you?
and last, Love is Love period. Regardless if its with someone who's white, black, green or pink. when people like you will start to realize that maybe we as a nation can move forward.
Rihanna needs help instead of the club. You see what they did to Chris when he was trying to get help. They said that boy was a thug. Really though Chris you need to bring Ri to anger management with you cause her ass is just as crazy for abusing you like that and thinking its okay. I know as men we don't want to be seen as a b!tch like dude who called the cops on his wife for biting him. You gotta deal with it though and tell your girl she got problems and you gonna be their to help her through them. This goes for females to. If you honestly love your partner make sure he or she gets help and support them through this situation.
betterman Flag post @ForeverDope
Shyt im at the club right now homie so now what? Can I expose my enemy please? U ain't Aaliyah darling --------------------------------
Hold on bloooood
I know I ain't Aaliyah,she just so happens to be my influence.And and?So so?LOL!
STFU!You're at a club on MTO because ain't no dudes/chicks (whatever you want) dancing with you?LOL!
Can't afford drinks?LOL!
Or you're just f*cking lying!Any way it go you're pathetic.
jazzy_326
IT'S PRETTY CLEAR I HAVE TO GRAB YOU BY THE HAND LIKE A 2ND GRADER TO MAKE YOU UNDERSTAND.
WHEN...BLACK PEOPLE...BLAME OTHER BLACK PEOPLE...FOR THEIR CHOICES...THAT'S WHEN IT'S A PROBLEM.
WHEN...BLACK PEOPLE...NEED VALIDATION...FROM WHITE PEOPLE...THAT'S A PROBLEM.
IF...IT'S TRUE LOVE...WHICH RARELY IT IS, JUST LOOK AT THE LOW PERCENTAGES...THEN THAT WOULD BE FINE.
I...DON'T...LIKE...SELF-HATERS. IF YOU DENY...THAT...THERE ARE SELF-HATERS...THEN YOU ARE ON SOMETING.
Did ya understand it now? Do you need hooked on phonics for this? I really don't wanna get smart-ass on you...but i can't get too much more simple than that.
Damn...Black people just wanna love "massa" nowadays. Jeez...ain't nobody stoppin' you from being with "massa".
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Those are the statistics if you think I'm lying.and the Census dont got no reason to lie...
So once again to all the Women who take it upon themselves to talk down and look down on black men.
In 21 years at this rate 25% of ALL black men will be married to White women.
Once again 25% of the current black male population is 4 MILLION.Imagine waking up tomorrow and 4 million black men were married to white women.That'll be the reality in 21 years.
A little over 30% of ALL black men will be married to "other" women.So imagine out of every 10 black men you see,you could only have your pick of 7.
You can't even get all 7 because of homosexual men.Factor in fagg0ts and it'll be either 6 or 5 out of every 10.
On top of that black women already out number black men.So your treatment of loyal black men might wanna be a little better...
Because remember,white men are you ferst interracial dating option and you're their 3rd.
As more Asian women and Latina women come to this country in SHARP numbers your white male dating options will also decrease.
95,000 Black women married to white men in 2000 and 126,000 in 2007.
126,000 - 95,000 = 31,000
268,000 Black men married to White Women in 2000 and 338,000 in 2007.
338,000 - 268,000 = 70,000
Those self hating negros are beating you to the punch at more than double the rate.
So keep thinking you can try "Something New" and "Broaden Your Horizens" and you'll be reduced to messing with married men and fagg0ts.
Asian men and Latin men wont be much of an option either as they'll either will be married to their own women or eachother's and whites.
So everytime you see that loyal black man you better treat him good.Eventually it'll set a trend and more and more black men will want to marry black women.
If you dont...In 21 years that generation's black women will only have their marrying pick out of 6 or 5 out of every 10 black men.And if you ever get divorced YOU KNOW ITS A WRAP.
@ss_n_ntr whatever
U have the stupidest tagline I have ever heard. what is wrong with u man? 70 percent of Black women r unmarried but this buttlicker(lvlario) talkin bout we marry sistas more than any other race. I'm tellin yall don't listen to this abomination. Tryin to sound smart and kick knowledge. bytch nygga i own you.
lvlario said...
"So keep thinking you can try "Something New" and "Broaden Your Horizens" and you'll be reduced to messing with married men and fagg0ts." *********************************************
LOL...this is gotta be the funniest [EXPLETIVE] I seen all day. Might have to remember this saying right here...lol.
@ss_n_tnr_k3_t3_wn
...mmmmmmm was I talking to you sweetie???? uhhhhh NO!
@Blak Gold..............*yawn* you sound like a bitter person who cant stand blacks finding the nerve to date other races. Well in case you havent notice honey let me break it down for you.
*clears throat*
ITS 2009!
ITS 2009!
ITS 2000 IN FREAKING 9[SPAM]
ITS A NEW DAY!!
ITS A NEW DAY!!!
ITS A NEW FREAKING DAY!!!
BLACKS ARE DATING WHITES..... WHITES ARE DATING BLACKS... ASIANS ARE DATING BLACKS... BLACKS ARE DATING LATINA'S AND SO ON!! AND SO ON!!!!!!! GET OVER IT!!!
THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!
YOU CAN WHINE AND MOAN AND COMPLAIN AND B*CTH ABOUT IT ON MTO UNTILL YOUR BLUE IN THE FACE BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY!!!! BLACKS ARE NOT... ARE NOT.. ARE NOT.. GOING TO DATE IN ONLY THEIR RACE!!! AND THATS JUST IT!!!
GET OVER IT
Calling them "self hating" wont change ANY THING! and untill you close minded people figure this sh*t out the better this world will be.
LOL MTO yall wild! I wonder if TMZ even give a damn bout that threat! Probably not! Anyway, I am glad Rhi is doing her thing. I love her style...She has been looking very pretty and stress free lately. Continue to keep ya head up Rhi! They didn't stop making lil boys when they made Chris! You need you a man anyway. One who won't throw fits and punches!
@ ForeverDope
Sweet heart heres a graph of Interracial marriages between blacks and whites.
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Blue is Black Men,Red is Black Women.
Do you see how sharply its rising!!! I wont lie I'm scared for our people my damn self!!
Sweet heart all you gotta do is do the math with the CURRENT TREND.
Thats why I said at THIS RATE,and its true,at THIS RATE it'll be 25% of all black men.Right now its 10% of all black men are married to white women.
Is 25% hard to believe in 21 years?
It could be a little lower or it could be alot higher but look at the Census statistics and the graph.do the math YOURSELF with the current rates.
The marriages between black men and white women has never dropped since 1985 and its SHARPLY increasing.
Dont take MARIO'S werd for it,DO THE MATH YOURSELF.
ONCE AGAIN,DONT TAKE MY WERD FOR IT,DO THE MATH YOURSELF!! WITH THE STATISTICS PROVIDED BY THE KIND GOVERNMENT OF THE UNITED STATES.
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jazzy_326
Get the phukk outta here...i don't care about that [EXPLETIVE]...I just told you what I think.
I dont give a [EXPLETIVE]...you a MASSA LOVIN' COON-ASS NEGRO...that's what you are. When you get called out, your true colors show.
Yeah, date who you want...but that's why them sell-outs is getting murdered over there in Afrika...just be glad YOU ain't over there...or your ass wouldn't be on a computer.
Sometimes I smile when I see white people put a foot in a self-hating Black person's ass...brings your ass back to reality.
ONLY A SMALL PERCENTAGE DATES OUT...AND IT'LL STAY THAT WAY...YOU GET OVER IT!!!!
I CAN TELL YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT CULTURE...YOUR LYING ASS. IF YOU DID, YOU WOULDN'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT POLITICS...SLEEP NEGRO, THAT'S EXACLTY WHO YOU ARE...KICK ROCKS CHICK...NOBODY'S CHECKIN' FOR YOU...EXCEPT "MASSA"...WHEN IT'S TIME TO SPILL SOME GOO ON YOUR FACE BECAUSE HIS WHITE WIFE WON'T LET HIM.
You come phukked up, i'll let you have it.
AND IN CASE YOU DIDN'T KNOW...2009 DON'T MATTER!!!! STUPID ASS...THE SYSTEM IS STILL IN PLACE. TAKE YO WANNA BE WHITE ASS BACK ON THE PORCH...HOUSE NEGRO...LOL. PLEASE, I HOPE YOU AIN'T GOT KIDS...I KNOW THEY ARE CONFUSED AS A MOFO.
LOL...MAD BECAUSE I AIN'T BRAINWASHED LIKE YOU...GET OVER IT..."MASSA" GOT THE KUNG-FU GRIP ON THAT BLACK ASS...LOL.
Stay out of Afrika...unless you got security...they don't take kindly to Black Mammies and Sambos.
@ tashon74 Get it right now that boy Chris wasn't the one doing the abusing. Why you think Ri aint pressing charges against him. She got scared when he said he was about to put her out there on facebook. She got with him to make sure he was still hooked and threw him away when she found out he wasn't gonna put her out there. Now this boy all depressed cause he got this case to deal with and he still got feelings for this crazy ass girl.
MTO SHUT THE [EXPLETIVE] UP YOU BE [EXPLETIVE] TALKING A LOT [EXPLETIVE]. FIRST WHEN THAT PIC CAME OUT YOU JUMP ON TMZ'S DICK FOR THAT PIC AND SINCE YOU KNOW WHO THAT PERSON IS WHO LEAK IT WHY DIDN'T YOU'S GO TO THAT PERSON FIRST AND SINCE TMZ TOOK THAT PIC YOU GUYS COULD HAVE TRY TO GET ANOTHER PHOTO BECAUSE I DOUBT HE HAD ONLY ONE PIC YOU [EXPLETIVE] DUMB [EXPLETIVE] NOBODY LIKE'S YOUR SITE POINT BLANK MOTHER [EXPLETIVE] ONE THE WAY YOU WRITE YOUR STORY'S IS FOR [EXPLETIVE] THIRD GRADERS TWO THE [EXPLETIVE] YOU SAY MAKE'S A "[EXPLETIVE]" GO HUH?!?!?!?! [EXPLETIVE] YOU MTO!!!! [EXPLETIVE] BULLSHITTERS
Can an idiot get a word in.
Seems like I may have to share my dunce cap with some of the folks around here.
For one thing, one should not rely solely on the use of basic algebra to accurately predict the outcome of human behaviors.
The essential elements missing from these projections are psycho social factors which are difficult to measure.
A psychological factor could be the discomfort between members of the black race and members of other races.
One social factor could be composition of neighborhoods.
On a basic level, numerous studies have shown that majority of people select mates based on geographic accessibility. As so called races and ethnic groups begin to mingle and live in integrated communities we are experiencing an increase in interracial and inter-ethnic relationships.
Anyhow, a basic grasp of arithmetic should make it obvious that if 300K black men marry white women, there will be a corresponding decrease in available white women for white men. Not all of these white males will travel to Asia to acquire brides.
And similarly if those white men did marry Local Asian women, there will also be corresponding decrease in the pool of available Asian women for Asian men.
And again if those Asian men sought out white women, we would have even more white men without access to white [EXPLETIVE] ..... hope you get where I am going. This anaylis could also Latins, Marsians, whatever..
In 2050 the statistics will be revised but people will still have partners - America will just be more diverse.
Pardon an idiot but, on a silly note, where would those black men who will marry white women come from if black women will not be having sex.
BLAKGOLD...SISTA SOULJA A SLUT. BUT I GIVE HER CREDIT, SHE GOT BALLS ENOUGH TO VOICE HER OPINION. YOU ON THE OTHER HAND SIT ON MTO FIST PUMPING THE AIR AT YOUR PC TALKIN BOUT WHITE THIS WHITE THAT. U A BLACK SHEEP MAYNE, A PAWN IN THIS GAME OF LIFE. AND UR OBVIOUSLY GETTIN PLAYED LIKE A BLIND ONE ARMED MIDGET....CHECKMATE/KING ME! YOUR IGNORANT, GO KILL YASELF. TAKE A CRAKKA WITH YOU. MATTER FACT TAKE 5 OF EM. YOU AND DAVID DUKE NEED 2 GO PLAY IN TRAFFIC TOGETHER...YOUR A IGNORANT CRAKKA JUST LIKE HIM!
bubmayne09
If you Black...GET THE [EXPLETIVE] OUTTA HERE BYTCH [EXPLETIVE]. You a phukkin' clown ASS NYGGA.
You playin yourself by tryin' to label me...FALL BACK PHUKK BOY...I CAN TELL HOW YOU FORM SENTENCES YOU AIN'T ON MY LEVEL.
IF YOU A WHITEBOY...LOL...THAT'S PRETTY MUCH ALL I NEED TO SAY. STICK YOUR NOSE IN BLACK PEOPLES' BUSINESS...WHY DON'T YOU FIND A SHEEP TO SCREW.
IF YOU A BLACK WOMAN...TSK, TSK, READ MY EARLIER POSTS.
BUT IF YOU A CRUSTY ASS UNCLE TOM COON ASS NYGGA...GET THE PHUKK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT RANDOM ASS KISSIN' [EXPLETIVE]. MATTER OF FACT...I HOPE YOUR IGNORANT ASS GET THE 5.0 TREATMENT...THE KNIGHTSTICK JUSTICE...WE'LL SEE WHO'S THE PAWN.
PHUKK OUTTA HERE...CALL YOUR SLEEP ASS CHECKIN' ME...WAKE THE PHUKK UP...KICK ROCKS CHUMP...YOU TOO STUPID TO KNOW THAT YOU DON'T KNOW SHYT.
@Blak Gold
You let me have what? your ignorance? cuz thats what I got.
b*cth please...get a life and stop worring about someone else's.
And if you didnt care about blacks getting with other races then why the f*ck are you here? huh?
why are you here still talking sh*t if you dont care?
the truth is YOU DO CARE cant stand blacks getting with other races. you come here and call me and others "self hating" and what not, but guess what? their are still more and more blacks dating outside their race and there aint sh*t you can do about it.
And you are one dumbass saying I should'nt care about politicts. Its called being educated Punk. Unlike like some people I like to know who runs my f*cking state,city, AND COUNTRY!
And no, I dont have kids yet but when I do I will teach them to love everybody regardless of race. Your kids on the other hand are probably taught to hate anything thats not black... *rolls eyes*
Further more it is becoming clear to me your just a racist ignorant pitiful ass punk who doesnt desreve anymore of my time.
SO GIRL BOY OR WHOEVER THE HELL YOU ARE...BYE!
YES IT IS 2009! IT IS A NEW DAY AND PEOPLE ARE STARTING TO REALIZE THAT, THAT JIM CROW SH*T IS NOTHING BUT IGNORANCE AND HATE!
AND THE WHOLE BLAMING THE SYSTEM MESS IS GETTING OLD AND TIRED. GET AN EDUCATION DUMBASS THEN YOU WONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THE SYSTEM WITH YO BROKE ASS!
GET REAL C.U.N.T! NO BODY CARES ABOUT YOUR IGNORANT RAICST ASS! THIS IS AMERICA B*CTH WE HAVE FREEDOM TO DATE AND F*CK WHO WE PLEASE!
NOW GO CLIMB BACK INTO THAT WHOLE YOU CAME FROM B*CTHASS! YOU JUST GOT TOLD!
Come on nah.
If this IS true, (which I doubt), it's some bullsh!t. Ri is STILL in love with Chris...and what better way to piss him off then to see her with another man.
Y'all know how this game is played....it's called the rebound....this guy doesn't stand a chance with her, he's just a pawn in this game she's playing, to get back at Chris, and what better way to do that is to...be seen with another man.
bubmayne09
I ain't from the city BYTCH NYGGA...FROM THE SOUTH.
THAT'S ALL YOU GET OUTTA ME...PSYCHIC NYGGA...LOL.
NOW ON TO jazzy_326...this CLUELESS WASTE OF A WANNA BE BLACK WOMAN...
EDUCATION AIN'T GOT SHYT TO DO WITH POLITICS...LOL. Please, save that "I'm a Strong Educated BW" shyt for somebody else. If you were truly educated you'd know that Presidents aren't elected, but SELECTED. And your politics are jacked up...why you think Japan and China along with Israel damn near own the U.S.? Educated...PLZ, FROM WHERE? I SEE THEY GIVE EDUCATION TO ANY-DAMN-BODY.
AND FOR YOUR INFO, I'LL BE GETTING MY 2ND DEGREE SOON...BUT IT AIN'T ABOUT THAT, JUST THOUGHT I WOULD LET YOUR IGNORANT AZZ KNOW THAT...TRICK PLZ, "MASSA" NEED HIS BED MADE...I HEAR HIM CALLING YOU.
LOL...THAT'S ALL SELF HATIN' BLACK WOMEN CAN COME UP WITH...THE "BROKE ASS" COMMENT...THAT SHYT IS OLD TOO...FOR ONE, I'M FAR FROM BROKE...BUT I'M GLAD YOU KNOW MY FINANCIAL SITUATION BETTER THAN I DO...DAMN, I MIGHT NEED TO CHECK INTO THAT...OR NOT! SILLY...LOL...YOU AN IGNORANT AZZ...YA KNOW THAT?
LOL..."MASSA" GOT THAT BLACK ASS ON LOCK..."YASSSAAAAA MASSA, I'S GON' BE'S A GUD NIGRAH WOMUN...I'S GON' OBEYS YEW."
LOL...YOU SO WHIPPED AND IT'S SO EASY TO SEE...LOL. "I'S A GOOD NIGRAH..."MASSA" TAWT ME WELL. I'S A NEVA TAWLK ABOWT MY "MASSA"...NO'S I WON'T."
GET YO SELF HATIN' ASS ON SOMEWHERE...DAMN, "MASSA" LET YOU USE THE COMPUTER THIS LONG???? DON'T YOU HAVE TO GO BREAST FEED HIS KIDS OR SOMETHNG? DAMN, GO KNIT HIM SOME NEW SOCKS. YOU KNOW YOUR AZZ GOTTA BE OFF THIS COMPUTER SOON...GOTS TO "PERFORM" IN A LITTLE BIT...YOU KNOW "MASSA" WANT YOU TO BE FRESH WHEN YOU GIVING "SERVICES".
FALL BACK WHITE WOMAN...YOU AIN'T BLACK ENUFF...STAY WITH YOUR KIND...YOU FEELINGS MIGHT GET HURT, LOL. NOW RUN ALONG...DONT' KEEP "MASSA" WAITIN'.
go away for a few days and come back all hell has broken loose.
these comments are hilarious and enlightening.
@truthiz ...um. you AINT the truth. What can i say that hasn't already been said? Po chile, sorry a better you didnt attract some better men, cuz you sound hurt.
Blakgold-you are killing me. On point with all that was written. but i almost fell out the chair on this one:
spicy_hot
WIGGER ALERT! Nobody plays the dozens no more...LAME!
White people are ALWAYS behind when it comes to Black culture...smh.*********YA know???!!!???
@lvlario excellent posts-good stats--nothing like the nekkid truth vs well dressed LIES
@antidumb- the only reason I log in to this lousy site.
@ss_n_ntr_k3_t3_wn--keep spitting the knowledge
ShuugHunIceT
You bitter asses need to come up with another catch phrase...LOL...ALWAYS think you know somebody's financial situation...you don't know shyt. That shyt don't phase me...i'll continue to speak my mind regardless...that shyt is old, and that day is dead...all that "you broke" BS don't fly here...LOL. Come up with something new...lame asses, lol.
And since we're getting technical with words now...it's "you" and "are"...not "u r".
Why don't you go pick up your 4th baby from your 3rd baby daddy house...and fall back.
BlakGold U R a funny bitter little man, and u call me bitter umm no I am not at all..JUST real and REAL Recognize REAL. I bet u r short probably 5'5" or under and in bad need of dental work, I see ugly short ignorant black men daily beggin for change outside my building lol. Sorry if I refused u but I don't carry cash on me sweety. Maybe tomorrow I will throw u a slice of bread or sumthin so u wont be starving all day,lol. Someone is awfully upset about the broke comment I was right on point..Yeah I know.
PS. I dont have any kids nice try though keep trying and eventually you will suceed lol
@ ShuugHunIceT
*sniff, sniff*...you figured me out...NOT! LOL...keep trying as you said...you MIGHT succeed.
But the joke is over...your cover is blown.
1. you're a pathetic ass whiteboy, which there are alot of you making fake profiles on Black websites.
2. you're a bitter Black female, who DOES have kids...and you're lame...and don't have a damn clue as to what you are talking about.
OR
3. you're a pathetic ass whiteboy, which there are alot of you making fake profiles on Black websites...and you want to be Black.
Which is it? It's either one of the three.
@BlakGold You poor unfortunate soul it is obvious from your posts you are an unhappy individual with too much time on his hands. I mean really sweetheart get a clue black women aren't doing too well? We are doing much better than black men nowadays and some of us uninformed naive ones are also supporting your broke triflin lazy asses. Not only are we excelling at all we do we are doing it all while taking care of your children while you do nothing but bash us on mto at 2 in the morning. who we choose to be with is up to us and why do you even care? What you need to do is stop denying your kids put the child support check in the mail and spend some time stepping your game up. I mean honestlt it is quite sad one minute you guys want to sit up and quote how many of you are turning to white women and women other than black but you get mad when we choose to date outside our race? I am so sick of you all blaming us for everything from why you date white women to why you all choose to get hit from the back and fall to your knees for each other. Everyone has freedom of choice and if our choice is not to date you then so be it. We could care less who you date so leave us the hell alone and take some responsibility for your own actions and choices. Stop trying to equate the black woman with the antichrist. You do you and let us do what we do.
ShuugHunIceT
Actually...they are different...the first whiteboy just makes bogus profiles, while the 3rd makes bogus profiles AND wants to be Black.
WOW...lol, nothing else to say to you after this post...lame as hell.
Nah, you aint a Black Woman...you don't deserve the title...haven't proven it to me. You are a whiteboy...a pathetic whiteboy at that, lol.
@ isis3079
First of all you don't even deserve that name.
Now...let me school you're "Strong educated independent" ass...seeing as how you know my agenda o so well.
We own more businesses than you...we make more money than you on average...you're not doing better than us...but once again, it's not a competition with me...i stated that fact for somebody else.
If you talk to a couple of the REAL Black Women on this site, they'll tell you that I have nothing but love for them...but not ALL of you are REAL BLACK WOMEN...I can distinguish between the two.
So i'm not bashing REAL BLACK WOMEN...i'm only crushing on the fake and the self-haters...if you wanna throw yourself in that category, then be my guest.
Nobody is trying to be nice to clueless Black people...nobody. You're all grown and should be able to take accountability. I don't have kides, don't know who you're talking about...but it's clear you're ANOTHER PSYCHIC BLACK WOMEN WHO KNOWS EVERY PHUKKING THING ABOUT EVERYBODY ELSE...YET YOUR LIFE IS JACKED UP.
Let me tell you something...keep your PHUKKIN' LEGS CLOSED UNTIL YOU RUN INTO THE RIGHT ONE...THEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT NONE OF THESE BUMMY ASS DUDES AT ALL...THEY CAN BE AVOIDED...YOU DO KNOW THAT RIGHT? YOU DO KNOW THAT YOU HAD A CHOICE BEFORE YOU SLEPT WITH THAT BUMMY DUDE...RIGHT? IF IT DOESN' APPLY TO YOU, THEN I'M TALKING TO THOSE THAT IT APPLIES TO.
Make no mistake about it...to say that i'm mad just because a few Black Mammies can't look at self in the mirror...I laugh at that...I really do. At the end of the day, I don't need validation from white people...self-haters do. What alot of you need to do is learn some self evaluation...and pick better men to be with.
Let me clue you in on some other things...i'm not broke, far from it...and about to get my 2nd degree...just to let you know...so YOU or any other Black Woman don't support SHYT OVA HERE...got that?
And I don't make excuses to date white girls...BECAUSE I DON'T DATE THEM ANY-DAMN-WAY. WHITE GIRLS AIN'T GOT [EXPLETIVE] FOR ME...I LOVE BLACK WOMEN...ALL DAY EVERYDAY.
And I damn sure dont equate the REAL BLACK WOMAN with the anti christ...please, she's a GODDESS...get you're shyt together and stop thinking that i hate you because i choose to speak my mind against self-haters.
It's obvious you been through some shyt...or witnessed somebody close to you that has. Don't get me twisted...got much love for my Black Women...but I don't stand for the bullshit. I re-read your post...and thought about it...it's obvious you think i'm attacking Black Women as a whole...and being the women you are, alot of you get emotional and the first thing you want to do is defend...and I understand. So this post won't be as aggressive as my others...because i can actually kinda see where you're coming from...but I will say you jumped the gun a bit.
First of all you keep talking about others assuming to know so much about you yet you seem to think you know an awful lot about me. Men make more money than women on average yes you are right it is called discrimination it does not mean you do your jobs any better than we do. Moving on why does it have to be self hate if a person chooses to date outside their race? I love REAL BLACK MEN. I love REAL MEN. Unfortunately there are not many out there anymore due to a lot of different reasons the majority of them being that men are not sticking around to teach their sounds how to be REAL men and not phony imitations. What is obvious to me that you believe everybody who disagrees with you is unhappy. It is called a difference of opinion. Everyone is entitled to one. I agree a lot of women need to pick better men to be with. And a lot of men need to choose to be better men or choose to be men period instead of sniveling whinny little boys. Please don't assume you are the only one doing something with themselves. They didn't stop making degrees when you got yours. I think that people should date whomever they damn well please and if a black woman chooses not to date black men that doesnt mean she hates herself it means she is not limiting herself especially when there are not many black men who are choosing to be REAL MEN.
BlakGold
I get what you're saying with that real & fake black women.
But instead of ridiculing them and attempting to make their lives more miserable than it could already be by stereotyping them and judging them wrongly, why don't you try to boost their confidence and self esteem?
Since they have so called 'self hate.'
As I saw,you've stereotyped others trying to figure out THEIR situation and when they do that to you they're 'PSYCHIC BLACK WOMEN WHO KNOWS EVERY PHUKKING THING ABOUT EVERYBODY ELSE' and I know that you say this with sarcasm.
isis3079...smh...
Lol...i just don't feel like explaining that shyt again right now...if you look at my posts, you'll see what i mean. Self-haters...blame their own people for their F ups. Some of your assesment is right...but i don't boast about my degrees...you posted accomplishments also...as if it's something that only Black Women do...you did the same as I did.
Self hate is definately out here...and it's running rampant with Black People...it is what it is...you can agree or disagree.
Don't know where you're at...but there are MANY REAL MEN WHO ARE BLACK MEN...check yourself...alot of REAL BLACK WOMEN will tell you this. I can look on the net now and show you Black Women who are not choosing to be women.
We can go back and forth on this all night...truth is, you can't point at just Black Men...ain't happenin'...MANY OF YOU have your own backyard to clean up.
But i'm not going to argue with YOU...my eyelids are getting droopy. Everybody who disagrees with me don't get my points...you're not understanding where i'm coming from because you would rather look at the "Black Man" than yourselves. Nobody forces these women to sleep with bums...SO WHY LAY WITH ME ANYWAY IF YOU KNOW I'M NOT GOING TO DO RIGHT BY YOU? Not saying I MYSELF am a bum...but you get my point...i'm also not perfect. I know i'm not the only one doing something with themselves...but since you're "checking" me...you also need to check some Black Women and YOURSELF when it comes to that as well...because alot of you like to brag. Dont believe me? Go over some of these posts including yours.
Damn...this post is longer than I wanted it to be. Check my other comments and you'll get an idea...IF YOU ACTUALLY READ THEM.
I'm sick of ALL the blame being put on us...THAT'S what i'm tired of...ALL THE BLAME...1000%...sick of it fo real.
But that's enough from me tonight...i'll check back tomorrow if you have disagreements or anything to say back to me. Goodnight...Hotep...peace.
ForeverDope
Yeah...boost self confidence...i'm just another Black Man...if a woman self-hates, you think she'll listen to a Black Man? IDK...you can try it...but i'm not taking the nice approach...these people are grown.
As far as trying to figure out these people...there's nothing to figure out. Of course i don't know their personal lives...but I know how alot of Black people are...i'm Black and been around too many Black people not to know. Of course I don't know it all...this I already know.
The only thing that will teach people like this is life...when it gets crucial, people have a tendency to learn REAL quick.
People should know that they shouldn't look to others to validate them...if a Black person is living here in the U.S. and don't know the history or choose to be ignorant to our situation over here...THAT'S ON THEM. But they might as well get ready for some backlash.
Black people need a wakeup call...and you can't do it being nice...you just can't...some, but most, you can't...in too deep of a sleep.
You say that black women 'self hate' by blaming their problems on black men for dating white women.
Hun,if you didn't consider this 'self hate' no one would've argued with you at all.
Now if you REALLY knew the black race specificly women you would know that we're one of THE most confident highly self esteemed people.
I mean look at urban reality shows,music videos,and even videos on Youtube searching for the current dances that comes out.Yes even grown women do that sh*t.But the point I'm getting at is that we show confidence in mostly everything we do.You rarely find a shy black girl because of our high self esteem.
So as far as 'self hate' goes that's a false statement.And same for black men as a matter of fact.
But to the situation at hand we know our history very well but what does THAT have to do with the future?I seriously don't get where you're going with that.
And hun,black men have for YEARS blamed their problems on the white men.In which in a lot of cases they are right,however in a lot of cases also they are wrong.As in them breaking rules and get a certain amount of time in jail and they somehow find that unfair and that it was racially skewed.
Black men to this day STILL do that.So you might want to check them out on that too.
@ForeverDope Thank you thank you thank you Black men blame their problems inadequacies choices and everything else wrong in their lives on someone else. When do you take responsibility for your own life? I mean seriously anytime you can say you do this because of this then you know better and it is time to change it. I am really tired of black people as a whole blaming their problems on someone else. Do what needs to be done to fix your present situation no one can change you but you. Black Men stop blaming Black Women and White Men. Black Women stop blaming Black Men. Everyone take charge of your own destiny and realize no one is perfect. Women stop dating losers and then blaming them for being losers you knew that when you got with him. What you thought he was going to change for you? If he hasn't changed for himself you are not going to be the one to "fix" him. Men start being Men we are tired of the same old sob stories we don't want to hear about what the last girl did and how that makes it hard for you to open up or do this or that if you still feel the need to talk about it stop dating til you get over it or better yet go talk to a shrink someone who gets paid to listen to sob stories. Women stop sittin around tellin your new guy how terrible the last one was get over it or don't date til you are. You are giving them a low standard to live up to. They start to feel like as long as they treat you better than the last one you have no reason to complain. You are just setting it up for you to keep going through the same bs. Black people stop bashing each other we are the only race of people that behave this way and it is oh so sad. Take responsibility for yourself. Stop categorizing each other and don't judge people. Let them make their own choices on what they want to do and who they want to screw. Just because someone black is dating someone not black doesn't mean they hate blacks or themselves it just means they like who they like. More power to them.
This is how them crazy ass island girls do you man. They get your ass in trouble for some sh!t they started and then when you try to get away ,they get on some I'm going to make him jealous stuff. This girl Rihanna got Chris looking sadder than Eeyore over her crazy ass and now she is having the time of her life while he is having the worst time of his life. This just shows you how f'D up she is. I mean damn Ri you really put that boy through the ringer. You better stick with white boys while you can cause now black men know how crazy your ass is. I think the only black man that would mess with Ri after all this sh!t is Chris.
Sad, Sad, Sad look what you did to poor Chris Ri, This had to be the softest, nicest, unhood, country boy ever and you turned him into OJ.
@ ForeverDope
You're tellin' me what I already know. But don't mistake confidence for the selling of "wolf" tickets.
You just sat up here and praised somebody for showing a new dance move...okay???? I don't get it...what does that have to do with anything.
So far as the Black Man situation, blaming "the syste"...don't YOU BLAME BLACK MEN???? You're doing the same thing...how you gonna tell me to check brothas, which i have done, but RARELY does a sista check another.
You're going in circles with me...while Black women do have confidence, ALOT of you have some BS with you too. You NEVER seen me sweep ALL Black Women in the same category...so me being able to distinguish says alot...I could just sweep you all into one category, but that would be wrong.
Blaming "Black Men" is a DEFLECTION TACTIC...when alot of the time she doesn't like her own...and she doesn't like herself...and it's deeply rooted with some of them...notice my words some, please do. Some of you have even went further...
...remember the stripper in the DUKE CASE? The Duke Lacrosse team? TOO MANY sistas out here can't take responsibiltiy for themselves. Who knew her reasons for trying to set them up. She had soooo many black people ready to "go to war" for her...and she came out to be full of shyt. This is just ONE of the many incidents that's happened in recent years. Don't tell me about Black Men when there are so many phukked up black women out here. Talk about cleaning up backyards...when have sistas EVER got on another Black woman for shyt???? You RARELY do...so please save that for somebody else.
DO YOU REALIZE HOW LONG BLACK WOMEN HAVE THROWN BLACK MEN UNDER THE BUS???? And you wanna get mad when a few of your "sistas" get called out...double standard much?
And did you bring up urban reality shows???? Where they bring out the worst in Black people???? Let me stop right there...
...just look at what you're focusing on...reality shows...new dances...wow, that's something we can really build off of...I tell ya. That shyt is used to EXPLOIT black people more than anything...it's not for the benefit for black people. What does a reality show or new dance do for YOU or the Black community overall? Nothing...it's entertainment...which is cool...but at the end of the day...it means nothing but more money for white people...because they are the ones at the forefront of it...they're just sitting behind the scenes. Viacom owns most of that shyt anyway...and you should know about Viacom by now.
isis3079 said...
"Black men blame their problems inadequacies choices and everything else wrong in their lives on someone else. When do you take responsibility for your own life?" ********************************************
You can go ahead and add Black Women to that list as well. But i read the rest of your post...good post.
And no, a person doesnt automatically self-hate when they date another person outside of their race...but TOO OFTEN is this true with Black people...it is what it is...you can get upset all you want.
You spoke on bashing...you sittin' up here doin' the same. Talkin' about brothas don't take responsiblity, blah, blah, blah...the same bullshyt ya'll been spittin' on national TV for the longest...and EVERYBODY is getting tired of it...not just Black Men. What ya'll need to do sometime is just shut up and listen...for real. Black Women as a whole have never shut up...you always talkin...in magazines and on national TV...imma just be real about it. You can pump yourself up all you want...true, alot of sistas out here are doin' it big...and i love seeing that.
But alot of you, too many, are just as phukked up as Black Men. So keep thinking you're alright and you don't need self-evaluation. Somebody is always on a Black Man's case...RARELY on a Black Woman's case...until now.
But you might as well get used to it...ALOT OF BLACK MEN AND WOMEN ARE CALLING SISTAS OUT NOW. They are all over the web...just lettin' you know. The [EXPLETIVE] ain't gonna stop...until Black women can look at self...YOU'VE ALWAYS LOOKED AT BLACK MEN FOR SOMETHING...hardly ever yourselves as a whole...and you KNOW i'm telling the truth.
Say what you want...doesn't matte to me...whether you're with a Black man, white dude, asian, latino, a martian...a phukked up attitude is a phukked up attitude.
EVERYBODY is looking at you, whether you believe it or not. Everybody is used to the "Black Man" as being the bad guy...nothin' new...shyt is old. Trust me, if Black Women didn't have problems...men would be looking MARRY you in droves...but they're not...vice versa when it comes to Black Men...its mostly a sex thing.
Why do you think some of us go at you so hard? Our expectations of a Black Woman are high...sometimes unrealistic, but high. Just because I go hard on you doesn't mean i'm your enemy...and because i smile in your face doesn't mean i'm your friend.
I'm being real...that's the only way i'll be...i'm not sugarcoating [EXPLETIVE]. And when Black Women start checking Black Women as much OR more than they do Black Men...i'll fall back.
Until then...it ain't happenin'. Until Black Women as a whole can look at self...say what you want...they'll continue to get checked when they come talkin' crazy about Black Men as a whole...you ain't perfect...far from it, and you DON'T have a favorable "rating" when it comes to society...only a few of you do...vice versa for us.
Uncle Willie Lynch (I'm using "uncle" metaphorically, because just like a real uncle, Willie Lynch has had a large influence on our behavior.He's had more influence on black ppl then any black person whose fought on behalf of blacks i.e. MLK jr, Huey Newton, and Fred Hampton)
Look this whole Black men VS Black women, vendetta must end. I am black man, and I love black women. Most black men appreciate the strength of black women, and I know for a fact that black women love even the tiniest details of a black man's personality...
We need to stop complaining against each other. Because it's more destructive than it is constructive.... (feel free to stop reading now, I've said the most important stuff already)
When black men say that black women are too critical, we're not trying to fight blk wmn, we're asking you to set realistic standards..... When Black women criticize black men for their "shortcomings", and compare blk men to white men and other races, it's prbably not to berate us, but to urge us, to view the life realistically, and act accordingly by fighting to succeed....
.....Anyway I'm done, y'all take it easy, and spread some love.... Before you know it, blk men and women will be killing each other literally, and when this happens Uncle Willie Lynch's kids will be so happy.
Thruthiz, how dare i offer you interracial romance in Afghanistan when there's far better interracial options right here in America. My sincerest apologies. Let's find you a mate that have the greatest compatibility, so you may find love for once and for all. People filled with love only deserve others so filled with love. And those filled with hatred deserve the like-minded. Fair enough, right? Good! Forget about those garbage fake interracial romance sites. Let's get you a truly glorious white lover, like those over by them ghetto gagggers porn site. These white lovers of yours don't mistreat black women. Oh no! They love you more than you can ever love yourselves. They will have pity on you and invite you over to do porn flicks so they can stick their kkk-tattooed poisonous dikkks down you and your like-minded black sista's throats. Gagging and choking you until you suffocate, cry and vomit! What sweet and joyful interracial romance! Yes, Thruthiz. This is the one! All your complaints come to an end right here. You and your black man-hating white supremacist lovers who share your desires for humiliating and destroying the black race, are right on the ball. The blue-eyed knights in shining armor, shall surely give you sistas a vicious and bumpy ride, with degrading and violent sex. For the price of what? A few pocket change? Have you ever ask your sistas in the porn biz why they hate themselves so much to willingly let the sons of their former slave masters treat them worse than slaves for a few bucks? No. They should hurry up and get that swirl! So much for being liberated, independent, sophisticated and intelligent black women, with your own homes and finances. Yes, Thruthiz. This is the living truth. The sweet and enduring interracial love-making you profess. Yup. Perhaps you would like to be the octomum for Sean Penn and give him 8 white babies. He would stick your head in an oven and clobber you with a baseball bat like he did to Madonna, then you can run-off to Africa and show Madonna that you can adopt more black baby boys than her; and shower them with greater love. Don't let a worthless animal like me stand in your way. Your prince in shining armor is waiting with his hooded buddies at a bonfire. Hurry up and swing-on over on a hangman noose. Show the black man you can get your gagg on! You go girl!
@Truthiz
Well u r goin to be lonely for a while because whites aren't checkin for yall for real. Maybe those whites who idolize blacks and their strength and try to copy will date your coon azz. Why do u have to have a reason for dating white guys? That proves that u date them to teach black men a "lesson." In public u probably walk around with your head in your azz thinkin u hit the phuckin lotto jus cause u got whitey. Black men could give a flying phuck. That just takes the guilt away from us stepping away from the race. A black woman and a white man: so freakin tacky! I already know you're unattractive so u aren't worth the energy and white guys are the ONLY ones who see worth in your worthless azz. Trust me we gettin it together and we'll laugh at u sellout coons. U don't naturally like whitey idiot. Why don't u take a brotha u genuinely like and coax him into being the best he can be? U can't do that because being selfish is a AWFUL trait black men AND women have.
@Thruthiz
QUOTE: "You're so enraged that a white guy got rhianna now you have to start talking about slavery and pron.."
ANSWER: You aint enraged that ya sistas in porn, are choking up vomit on the gorgeous white dikkk of a swirl, to make money?
Nah. Come on baby luv. Get that swirl over by ghettogaggingsluts.com. You go girl!
