Confidence is the name of the game! You don't out look or out sing or out act the next woman, artist, you "out confidence" them by CHALLENGING YOURSELF! Allow yourself to unlease your sensuality on full blast...feel and show it! Like a warm caribbean breeze against your face, organic strawberries bathed in champayne, the laughter of a toddler grasping just how fast he or she can run, feeling the passion of what makes you feel good run through your veins. FEEL and the rest will follow! It's Rihanna's hold card...she's ultra sensual, not just sexy, but sensual and there is a difference! After being in the shadows for so long, even if you don't see it that way, you have to reprogram your mind and it will show in your work that you are the lead singer, headliner or leading lady. You're so worthy of having a long career whether singing, acting or modeling...it's there for you.
Beyonce had a total network to support her and that included you! Plus, an alter ego that gave her the confidence onstage to electrify. You need to find that inner place where nothing but excellence lives, we all have that place. Sometimes it's a matter of finding out what the niche is, it can differ from what we initially planned. Be open and flexible to change and allowing the currents to come and go. You are a powerhouse, no doubt about it. You learned a lot, it's just a matter of finding Kelly, through the fray. It's like regrouping from the break-up of a marriage or romance and you have to find out who you are and what you want or adjust to being in an entirely new space.
Play the game the way the game is played, keep your irons in the fire and don't rely on anyone to take you there, allow them to follow you as God guide you to a higher place, where peaceful waters flow and success is inevitable!