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LOL... I remember the rumors that Kane was in PlayGirl. My homies' Momz was crazy 'bout Kane and said she had him in a magazine...
Yeah the *** looks fruity in '09, but I'm sure ladies of the 80's went wild over this ***.
I know Kane took some bukkid nekkid pics with Madonna, and Naomi Campbell too... MTO just decided to exclude those and show this ***.
These pics weren't lost, they are just old news. They talked about it on VH1 recently. He played on his *** appeal and did Playgirl. He wouldn't be asked to do Playgirl now because he doesn't have that body anymore. What men did and wore in the 80s and early 90s would not be considered attractive any longer. Most of the rappers had no problem doing dance routines in their videos either. They would be labeled as fruity now.
Yep he's a ***. Are you surprised, I mean really?! It seems the TREND for Black men now is *** and transgender/transvestite tendencies. ***. Farakkan was so right when he said BLACK MEN Are becoming an ENDANGERED SPECIES lol and SMH! How right he was!
It's so sad to see this rapid deterioration of the black man's masculinity and pride. I hate to talk about yall but I see this mess PLAY out every DAY!
These seem to be the categories of black men (nowadays):
***
Transgendered
Bisexual/ DL
Wife/date non-black women EXCLUSIVELY
In prison
On death row
Dealing with baby mama drama
Deadbeat dad
I find if you're a highly educated black man with a black wife and kids, you're some how in the MINORITY or an EXCEPTION to the rule. It makes no sense. What is happening to our men?!
***! What is wrong with us?! We are in such a BAD place right now, that we actually give KUDOS to a black man taking his CHILDREN to the PARK spending quality time with them! LAST time I checked, this is a responsiblity of a FATHER anyway.
I was just talking with my mom (who grew up in the 70's) about her difficulies finding men during that era. She told me that it was so easy to find college educated black men during those days! They was an "overabundance" of GOOD black men and EVERY BLACK woman had their pickings. Well today seems to be a new day... All of her sisters (my aunts) are married to professional black men. But my female cousins (who btw are educated, beautiful black sistas) got baby mama drama and black men issues. It's a shame.
Man I nev thought that dude was sexy. And I really wouldn't have if I had seen these pics. BWAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!OMG!!!!OMG!!!! Where the definition in his chest? Why his booty crack showin in the mirror? How he hidin his package with that little box of chocolates?
*scrowling up to look again*
BWAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! Look at that ole cheap *** headboard?Look at that ole stale come hither look? BWAHHHHHHHHH!!!!! I'm coming back all day everytime I need a laugh.BWAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! Sitting up there with his rusty dusty azz in them socks scrunched down and ***.
bigbootyboy1 Flag post Most black men have small penises" --------------- Yes Girl" Ya Man Wants This!!!!
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I dont know what black men you've been messing with....Aren't you a black man??? I just know you're not admitting that to us about your ***.....lol
MTO ya'll know ya'll need to stop...r ya'll serious?!?!?!...this is his playgirl pic from like YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE EARS ago...i wz still in highschool when this came out...i remember Wendy talking about it *** then RUNNING to the store to have a adult buy it for me...STOP IT...*** say word the readers DIDN'T CATCH IT...come on MTO i tht ya'll wz gon have something that we didn't see like him bent over with a finger in his *** mouth ur something...no ya'll DIDN'T just re-surface like this is fresh news...*GAGGING*
Everyone that said that he posed for playgirl is right. As if you could not tell from the flat top hair cut. These pictures were not considered fruity, zesty or any of those terms that are used in today's messed up society. He was considered sexy and for the record it has always been rumored that dude was very well endowed. He was doing Madonna when she was an official freak. There was and is nothing wrong with Big Daddy, come on he wore suits and Bally's. Fred you need to stop.
These seem to be the categories of black men (nowadays):
***
Transgendered
Bisexual/ DL
Wife/date non-black women EXCLUSIVELY
In prison
On death row
Dealing with baby mama drama
Deadbeat dad ---------------------------------------------- These must be the men in your surroundings because to my knowledge, this list applies to ALL MEN OF ALL RACES...... Brothers are just put on blast more......I know it doesn't justify their ways, but trust me, they are not the only ones.
These are old school pics that probably don't play as well with todays female audience but Big Daddy was the truth in his time and still is really.He kind of did play himself with that Playgirl stuff but hey he was young.
Now compare the following free style with Kool G Rap to todays artist...CRAZY!! :
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Big Daddy Kane is one of the greatest MCs of all time.
Guess Jeans is an angry white man. Look what he wrote before.
SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE SOME BLACK MEN AIN'T WORTH A ***
April 11, 2009. I'm sick of SOME black men with their TIRED RANTS against the white man. ***.
NOBODY told yo *** to GET LOCKED UP.
THE WHITE MAN didn't make you sleep with 6 different women to which you have 10 different kids and facing chid support!
The WHITE MAN didn't tell yo *** not to LAND A decent JOB
He didn't make you DATE their WOMAN
The last time I checked, this was the LAND of OPPORTUNITY and EVERYBODY is entitled to their own FREEDOM. ALSO the U.S has made it so EVERYBODY can go to school (whether community college, state school, etc) to land a SUCCESSFUL and FULFILLING JOB!!!!
I'm sick of the *** woe is me ***! YOu think BLACKS got it bad, go to these third world countries where you LITERALLY will find 5 yr old kids CLEANING the STREETS and working a 9-5 because they helping their mama and daddy pay some bills while living out of a cardboard box or mud hut.
***.
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This Kracker has got issues.
@guess jeans amen!! i absolutely agree. that's why i don't digg black men. i know that there is a small % of good ones out here somewhere,unfortunately you never know what you're gonna get and i'm not willing to gamble on a black man. there's too much of a risk. i don't deal with them.
@the topic i remember when kane was the man back in the 80's.i was in jr. high and i remember when he did that spread in playboy. these pics were not considered as *** back then. man,times have changed so much.
whitemanlova Flag post @guess jeans amen!! i absolutely agree. that's why i don't digg black men. i know that there is a small % of good ones out here somewhere,unfortunately you never know what you're gonna get and i'm not willing to gamble on a black man. there's too much of a risk. i don't deal with them.
------------------------------------------- I know what I have, and he's a great black man....educated, works, and not to mention he's the bomb in bed. Maybe the good black ones dont want you because your not a good woman to be with....Maybe YOU dont meet up to their expectations.....You probably fit in more with the "hood" "dogmatic" "deadbeats".....
I agree with the point made earlier, that a lot of women on MTO must be seriously ***. The pictures look dated;yes and not altogether masculine; true but that's how they did it back then. However saying you're sick after seeing them or going to throw up? SMH excuse me??? Big Daddy Kane was a good looking man. What about him would make any heterosexual woman throw up? Ladies please stop it cause y'all sound overly dramatic and childish. God forbid he was pictured with a white woman,then what would you all be saying? Grow up ladies boys aren't yucky anymore.
I'm not one for biting my tongue and I meant every word of what I stated. As I said earlier, I wasn't refering to ALL black men but I see some of you are quick to demean my comments and accuse me of being something that I'm not. If the comments are soooo demeaning, why do you chose to leave a response regarding what I've post? Obviously the comments must bother you otherwise if it didn't, and you knew what I mentioned to be FALSE, you wouldn't BOTHER responding back. Obviously something hit a nerve.. Nonetheless this is an entertainment site and I'm simply blogging like the rest of you. Moving right along....
After reading some of the post it is pretty sad how the conversation changed to black men are bad. I am trying to figure out when did white men become so great.
Since the begining of time white men were triflin (some) that is why black men are still paying. (I am now stepping off my soap box)
But I am curious has anyone seen the Jerry Springer show? There are white men every day and all day in there are not seen in a good light. I also know a lot of white women who have the same problems so lets eliminate the negative stereotypes okay.
Plese keep in mind those without pictures need not to speak negative about black people unless it is a safe joke. For all we know you could be a kkk member. So Stay off.
So we can safely say a lot of white men have those exact same issues too then huh? By the way black men on the downlow usually *** white men on the down low. So it is not just a black issue.
That is why I worry about my own and not care about the rest. We all have skeletons in our closet if not sexual then something else. We need to check our self before we check someone else. (black men) Just sayin.
@***- I agree with what you're saying and I wasnt trying to make this thread a "Bashing black male" thread today.
I'm fully aware that WHITE men can be triffling as well. However, I guess because they own this country and make its rules, and are of the majority, it seems that the trifling people in their society gets ignored and disregarded.
Everybody knows the terrible history of the white man and he definitely has his faults and ***. HOWEVER I guess it APPEARS that sisters come more hard on BLACK men because I'm assuming this is a BLACK site and the majority of the posters are BLACK and because we are BROTHERS and SISTERS, its only natural for us to FEEL or have more EMOTIONS (whether its blame, anger, aggression, love, etc) for OUR OWN peoples.
I know in the Spainish communities for instance, their men are faced with the SAME problems as black men, but because I'm not Spainish, I'm not going to too RESPONSIVE or emotional to their problems. Hope that makes sense
@She_so_Fly- LOl! Girl you said he's fat and out of shape NOW... Goodness he is FAT and out of shape in these photos lol!!!
BTW where in the world is the photoshop! I know these were taken ages ago but he looks so dirty, ashy, and musty you can see all types of vericose veins on his back and the fat dimples of his ***... Yuck I want to gag right quick lol
GuessJeans Flag post @She_so_Fly- LOl! Girl you said he's fat and out of shape NOW... Goodness he is FAT and out of shape in these photos lol!!!
BTW where in the world is the photoshop! I know these were taken ages ago but he looks so dirty, ashy, and musty you can see all types of vericose veins on his back and the fat dimples of his ***... Yuck I want to gag right quick lol --------------- ti amo, amore mio Christian. Et tu?
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That's one thing I have to agree on you with....lmao They do photoshop everything else but not this poor man.....lol
GuessJeans Flag post Yep he's a ***. Are you surprised, I mean really?! It seems the TREND for Black men now is *** and transgender/transvestite tendencies. ***. Farakkan was so right when he said BLACK MEN Are becoming an ENDANGERED SPECIES lol and SMH! How right he was!
It's so sad to see this rapid deterioration of the black man's masculinity and pride. I hate to talk about yall but I see this mess PLAY out every DAY! ------------ GuessJean, you seem to find pleasure in TALKING about black men,. it's getting a bit old , sweetie. Lol! And the nerve of you to attempt to clarify by saying "Not all Black Men" when in fact you stated they are becoming an endangered species., so not much of a distinction, huh?
Reading that line yields very little hope or optimism. (crickets)
But oh well, Your attempt is never to provide a more optimistic or positive spin as it relates to black men, so the hipocrisy of what you say speaks to your own discontent with your own man! Perhaps even deeper issues!
I laugh at how you object to the blogger's response as if you did not know you would get attention by typing disparaging remarks. smdh Anyway, It is human nature to defend one's heritage and gender.So please! You just want attention from black men. You just want to showcase them!
I'm the product of mixed parenting, and i can tell you first hand that you don't know jack. White men fit that list as effectively as brothers due. THe massive difference is the deception. The white man is a deciever and will leave you blinded by his inadequacies. Open your eyes..sweetie.
@ Tika...
Hey girl..If i were you I would not agree with her on ANYTHING. (Guess Jeans) she just said that black men look dirty, ashy, and musty. Yeah, she was referring to Big Daddy Kane, but her track record is to put that type of imagery out there about ALL black men in general. THAT WHOLE REMARK WAS TACKY COMING FROM AN ALLEGED BLACK FEMALE. She's a bust it baby. Lol! Trust me
MTO dats just wrong....!!! Cuz I just lost ALL the love I could've had for BDK!! With his no calf havin, ***-fuzz havin and questionable eye contact with the camera... How you gonna do nude *** but keep the tube socks!! Just tell them to keep the feet out the ***....KANE?!?!?! C'MON!! AND I HAD SOME SEERIOUS LOVE FOR KANE BACK IN THE DAY BUT......IT IS D-E-A-D NOW!! thanks MTO
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Yeah the [EXPLETIVE] looks fruity in '09, but I'm sure ladies of the 80's went wild over this [EXPLETIVE].
I know Kane took some bukkid nekkid pics with Madonna, and Naomi Campbell too... MTO just decided to exclude those and show this [EXPLETIVE]. --------------------------------
Yeah MTO and their little *** agenda...Stay trying to frame every black man they can in a *** light. I swear "zesty" is the new "swirl" when it comes to posts around here.
But you make a good point...Obviously the pictures are not a good look, but they were taken back in the day...Can't judge them on 2009 standards. Kane was one of the first rappers to do the playa role and one of his advisors talked him into this and the Madonna book...People clown now but I remember girls falling out over BDK back in the day
DQC Flag post and his *** needs some resurfacing. lmfao why is it the darkest place on his body? blacker the the booty the sweeter the juice? lmfaooooo -------------------------------------------------
ROFLMMFAO!Girl if that's the case his *** got TOO much sugar in it.LOL.
Speaking of sugar those pictures are a little...uh...sweet of him....Lol.
But this was the 90's eh.
@Fanfare- I'm not here to belittle black men I was simply stating something that we're all well aware of. OF COURSE white men are the masters of disguising their inadequecies HOWEVER that doesn't DETER from the NUMEROUS ISSUES PLAGUING BOTH the black man and BLACK WOMan. YOU as well as I and other sisters/brothers are AWARE that our communities got some issues! It's sooooo easy to sit back and hurl insults at me. That fine .. However doing so, WILL NOT miraculously erase OUR problems. BTW I"m not the ONLY one to speak on our problems. MANY bloggers have reiterated the same exact thing. ALSO I have seen some brothers on put our problems on blast as it relates to the story MTO put out (i.e ghetto mom having *** in front of baby, mom wilding out in clubs, etc).
I KNOW these problems EXIST but I never degraded the brother (s) who put them out there... By my doing so would be SILLy ESPECIALLY since I know these problems exists.
I'm not about to get into an "e-argument" with you OVER problems that BOTH of US are WELL AWARE of despite how harsh and negative the reality IS. You have a good day sweetie and try to calm down when addressing people. I've seen you on her before and I must say if you talk to people the way you seem to present yourself in typing, you need to wash your mouth out with soap because REAL WOMEN don't hurl curses and profanities at other people all day everyday. Ok sweetie? Ok tootles dear. Be good.
@Tika90- Girl you are very level-headed and always display class on here. I do speak negatively on black men but it doesn't occur all the time. Fanfare is a bitter individual and has instigated beef with EVERY *** body on MTO. I'm not about to become a part of it. She picked the wrong one if she thinks I'm about to go there with her.
Anyway I've seen playgirl magazines before and I have to just say men (white and black) look FRUITY as all break out when posing with their legs spread wide! I'm sorry but it emmasculates their image almost. Don't nobody want to see a man spread eagle with his thing exposed! It seems very *** to me lol
Tika90 Flag post Hey Fanfare......Lol I know how she puts black men down, she was caught on to a long time ago....lol, the photoshopping I hafta agree with her on though.... They made sure he looked bad for us...lol --------- lol. they are old pics. Mto, probably don't know how to photoshop., girl. They can barely spell. lol Guessjeans, just saw a way to take a cheap *** at men, she knows the pic is oldschool. Why photoshop it, and take away the authencity...
It's hilarious how one little naked man can cause so much curiosity to the mind and bring ignorant questions such as 'Was thig guy ***?'
Lol!Believe it or not there's magazine's made for women so they can be aroused (which by these pics...I don't see how they can get there LOL!).
If he is ***...what?LOL!It's not hurting anybody but himself but you ALL know he's not ***. This is the 90's.
Soooo were there questions about a girl being a *** when pics like these shown up.No because majority porn magazines,shows,etc. star women.Hell even when a girl is kissing a girl she's considered somewhat heterosexual.
But when a guy does this there's questions?You sexist buffoons!LOL!
@Tika90- Girl you are very level-headed and always display class on here. I do speak negatively on black men but it doesn't occur all the time. Fanfare is a bitter individual and has instigated beef with EVERY *** body on MTO. I'm not about to become a part of it. She picked the wrong one if she thinks I'm about to go there with her.
-------- Tika, I'm not negative for the most part. I just call it like i see it like most folks on here that keep it 100 percent. Yeah, i may be a bit harsh at times..lol..but only to the stank tacky ones that just go there. Guess jeans is a negative , bitter individual who thinks she has somehow become superior in mind and body, because she now has a white man. It's kinda like a poor person who thinks by hitting lotto, that they are now cultured and wealthy. GuessJeans strikes me as a cheap imitation of an 'socialite'. She wants to arrive..so she went out and got a white man. (snickering) Yet, somehow she is still on MTO dissing black ones..hmmm ..wonder why?
@Fanfare- Why NOT photoshop it? I'm sure women are not attracted to every single blemish on a man's posterior lol.
I listened to Big Daddy Kane in the past but to the eyes of a 12 yr old he was FAR from attractive or sexy to me lol. I wasn't aware he posed for playgirl either. YOu love to make assumptions. SMH>
This is just sad on every level that there is. I do believe that MTO has done this on purpose just to get a reaction from us, cause all honestly wasn't no one checking or even thinking about BDK! For real.
..but, Kane was THE MAN bad in the day, I am telling you! Dude was overtly HUNG in that dept. It was well known and I think that that played a good chunk of him getting this gig(that and him being the *** symbol he was).
Him and Father MC WERE the *** chocolate *** symbols back then when it was ok to do and when PEOPLE didn't over do it like today. PLAYGIRL was a big deal in 80-early 90s.
Guess jeans is a negative , bitter individual who thinks she has somehow become superior in mind and body, because she now has a white man. It's kinda like a poor person who thinks by hitting lotto, that they are now cultured and wealthy. GuessJeans strikes me as a cheap imitation of an 'socialite'. She wants to arrive..so she went out and got a white man. (snickering) Yet, somehow she is still on MTO dissing black ones..hmmm ..wonder why?
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@Fanfare- I don't have nor do I believe I'm "superior" (as you stated) over anybody. We all bleed red sweetie. How does the fact that I'm married to someone (who by the way comes from humble beginnings) NON-black puts me in a category of thinking that "I've made it; I'm a socialite" smh. Do you realize your mentioning of what you proposed I act as, is merely a reflection of YOU THINKING that WHITE is better?! You state so yourself. Why do you think I think I'm better because my husband is italian (not anglo-saxon) but Italian??? That is absurd and silly. I'm not even going to argue with you any further now. You are insulting my intelligence.
@Fanfare
B!G *** B0Y'$ W0RD$.....
Ohh!!! He got some phat cakes!!! most black men have small penises
OMFG!.. YOU G.A.Y A$$ ***@FCK@! OVIOUSLY..YOU HAVENT F0UND THA RIGHT 0NE TO BUST DAT A$$ 0PEN THA RIGHT WAY..TISK..TISK.. better g0 to burger king and l00k f0r ya h0ney becuz customers are always right!...r0tflmfao
Fanfare said. they are old pics. Mto, probably don't know how to photoshop., girl. They can barely spell. lol Guessjeans, just saw a way to take a cheap *** at men, she knows the pic is oldschool. Why photoshop it, and take away the authencity... --------------- I stimulate the economy..
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Girl tell me about the spelling.....lol Things can be photoshopped from the past, we have the equipment now! They did a good job digging these up.....His boys are never gonna let him live that down...lol They dont even try and correct it sometimes. You and Guess are always at eachother though...You two are funny!
GuessJeans Flag post @Fanfare- I'm not here to belittle black men I was simply stating something that we're all well aware of. OF COURSE white men are the masters of disguising their inadequecies HOWEVER that doesn't DETER from the NUMEROUS ISSUES PLAGUING BOTH the black man and BLACK WOMan. YOU as well as I and other sisters/brothers are AWARE that our communities got some issues! It's sooooo easy to sit back and hurl insults at me. That fine .. However doing so, WILL NOT miraculously erase OUR problems ----------- AND NEITHER WILL HURLING INSULTS AT BLACK MEN, HONEY! WHETHER BY USE OF PROFANITY OR CONDESCENDING TACKLESS REMARKS,... IT 'S ALL THE SAME!
IT'S STILL TACKY ..AND COUNTER PRODUCTIVE.AND ACTUALLY, SO ARE YOU WHEN YOU DO SUCH THINGS. YOU MAY NOT SAY ONE CURSE WORD IN THE ENTIRE PARAGRAPH, BUT YOU STILL SOUND VERY NEGATIVE AND DIVISIVE, GIRL!
YOUR ONGOING NAGGING WILL NOT MIRACULOUSLY MAKE BLACK MEN BETTER OR MORE EFFICIENT! AND..ARE THEY REALLY ALL THAT BAD..OR COULD IT JUST BE YOU?
YOU CAN SAY THAT I AM MEAN AND THAT I CURSE ..BLAH BLAH BLAH. YOU CAN SAY THAT BLACK MEN ARE THAT LONG LIST OF THINGS YOU TYPED.. BUT I COULD CARE LESS, BECAUSE THAT IS NOT THE TOTALITY OF WHO I AM., NOR IS IT THE TOTALITY OF WHO BLACK MEN ARE. I SAY THAT, BECAUSE YOU HAVE A ONE TRACK MIND. THE USE OF PROFANITY IS AN EXPRESSION, AND THIS IS A BLOGSITE. DUH!
AT THE END OF THE DAY, I AM ASKING YOU TO LOOK IN THE MIRROR. PERHAPS IT'S YOU. PERHAPS IT IS YOUR APPROACH TOWARD BLACK MEN. PERSONALLY, I FIND IT TROUBLING AND COUNTERPRODUCTIVE TO CONTINUALLY FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE ASPECTS OF YOUR "OWN" MEN, RATHER THAN THE POSITIVE. THERE ARE QUITE A FEW, WILL SMITHS IN THE WORLD, YA KNOW. TOODLES!..
@Fanfare- I can read without all the caps sweetie. What do I need to stand in the mirror for???? To contemplate what?? TO attact whom?? Besides my daddy, uncles, and other male relatives, I don't need to think about any other black man. I'm happily married so there is no point in doing such.
I will say though, you're correct about one thing. My "bickering" (as you called it) against black men is JUST AS counterproductive as your INSULTING me is on this same issue. Some of you regulars are extremely sensitive when it comes to engaging in a dialogue about our social issues. Well maybe I'm wrong as I guess MTO is not the best forum for such discussions. Anyway have a good day sweetie. Tootles!
@GuessJeans
I just read your first post and FanFare is 100% correct.There was NOTHING positive about your post.NADA.
You're practically generalizing the whole race to being on the verge of becoming something associating with ***.
And why?Because of a pic of a naked STRAIGHT man?Lol.Wow.You knew this was the early 90's late 80's and these are the era of weird things.Lol.So why on Earth are you comparing a 90's picture to 2009's black communtiy?
***, Guess Jeans is at it again. Trolling as usual.
Hey folks, if you want to be an annoying little toss artist aka a troll, follow these simple steps.
how2be GuessJeans or a troll.
a. sit back long enough to see what the general consensus is in an MTO topic is.
b. adopt an opposing position (in this case, against black men and questioning their sexuality)
c. bait anybody into an argument by throwing lil bítchass comments and slick shít
d. find another topic and start from a
Guessjeans flagpost @Fanfare- I don't have nor do I believe I'm "superior" (as you stated) over anybody. We all bleed red sweetie. How does the fact that I'm married to someone (who by the way comes from humble beginnings) NON-black puts me in a category of thinking that "I've made it; I'm a socialite" smh. Do you realize your mentioning of what you proposed I act as, is merely a reflection of YOU THINKING that WHITE is better?! You state so yourself. Why do you think I think I'm better because my husband is italian (not anglo-saxon) but Italian??? That is absurd and silly. I'm not even going to argue with you any further now. You are insulting my intelligence.
------------ Now whose upset. Interesting. lol I am not arguing with you, honey. I'm informing you. Please read and learn. My accessment and mentioning of "superior" is based on your overall persona. "YOU" SEEM TO THINk THAT WHITE IS BETTER! I don't. I've tasted from both water streams and I am here to tell your that they taste the same. So, Not just based on remarks made today.,but by the mere fact that you 'put down' the black man,with such intensity,ever chance you get. Yet ignore the negative attributes of the white man and other races of men in most of your blogs. (i assume just to get a rise)
There clearly should be a balance in your critique of men., if you are going to have one. You know that you are not fair..so just save it.
In almost every thread, you display negative imagery and connotations of the black men, as if though there is nothing negative that can be presented about white , italian, hispanic or any other man. You somehow make it your topic, even when it is not the MTO headline.
Never mind that this is a black web site! Does not give you permission to bash black men. You sound jilted and bitter!
You can choose to uplift , by pointing out the divirsity rather than ALWAYS focusing on the negative. SO, i say what I say about you because , although your husband is Italian, he is still not black. Because based on your disparaging remarks, "black men" are not good enough for you. With that said, you believe yourself to be superior because you have selected a different race of man. SO what? GO *** him, and be happy! No pun intended.
Toodles.....!
I WON'T GO AS FAR AS CLAIMING THIS DUDE IS ***, AS THE RAPPERS DID CORNY *** BACK IN THE DAY. BID DADDY KANE'S FACE WAS INDEED HANDSOME, NO, HE WAS NOT "UGLY" BY A LONG ***.
BUT THAT SAID, HIS OUT OF SHAPE BODY IS QUITE UNAPPEALING...DUDE HAD TO BE IN HIS EARLY 20'S BK THEN, RIGHT? SO WHY IN THE FLUKK DOES THIS KAT HAVE FLABBY, GIRLY ARMS, A BYRD CHEST AND A FLABBY AZZ AT THAT AGE? *EEEEWWW* NOT A GOOD LOOK, JUST SAYING...
Not to mention GUESSJEANS you kind of forgot that Europe is filled with *** men are and funny, Italy is in Europe.LOL!
But no you decide to diss the African American men in which I can be sure that the population of black *** men is dominated by the *** men in Europe.But never mind that right?No.Lol.
GuessJeans Flag post @Fanfare- I can read without all the caps sweetie. What do I need to stand in the mirror for???? To contemplate what?? TO attact whom?? Besides my daddy, uncles, and other male relatives, I don't need to think about any other black man. I'm happily married so there is no point in doing such.
I will say though, you're correct about one thing. My "bickering" (as you called it) against black men is JUST AS counterproductive as your INSULTING me is on this same issue. Some of you regulars are extremely sensitive when it comes to engaging in a dialogue about our social issues. Well maybe I'm wrong as I guess MTO is not the best forum for such discussions. Anyway have a good day sweetie. Tootles! --------------- Correct. You finally get it. MTO is not the correct forum for such discussions, honey. It is not a breeding ground invented for you to put down black men, because you feel this is where they will "come and read it". How convenient for you.
If you really had good intentions., one would think that you would provide "SOLUTIONS" RATHER THAN ongoing bashings about social issues, stereotypes, statistical data, ***, doom and continued praise of your happy marriage to Mr. Italian. lol
I, more than anyone am open to interacial dating , marriage, and happiness..etc..if it is birthed in LOVE. But you clearly represent something far more sinister.
@Fanfare- What part of my comment did you not comprehend?! I told you that BASHING as well as arguing about the negativities in black men won't help absolve the issues! Why are we back at square one on this?! I too have had relationships with black men and yes they are the same as white. The last time I checked, BOTH men bleed red, have two arms, two legs, 10 fingers, and 10 toes. My point is, we're ALL HUMAN and just because my husband and myself CHOSE to SPEND our lives together as a married couple doesn't mean I BELIEVE MYSELF to be BETTER than BLACKS nor does it mean HE believes he is BETTER than ITalians (he's NOT anglo-saxan). My man is dark Italian similiar to the olive complexed coloring of Arabs NOT caucasian. Whatever. It doesn't matter his color. The point is he is a MAN and a HUMAN being. We have discussions about white people on here all the *** time and often comment on their NUMEOUS FLAWS. Well has it occured to YOU that we ALL HAVE FLAWS?>! That's just the human condition and it seems I am exploting the BLACK FLAWS more than WHITES FLAWS because it's natural; I'm a BLACK woman. My man is italian but he isn't ME. I'm still a BLACK woman so why do you chose to think I'm exempt from discussing BLACK social problems?!?!?! Anyway I don't expect you to understand where I'm coming from. You you do good. If you don't oh well.. tootles sweetie.
GuessJeans, I think it's only appropriate that you humbly recant.
That comment of yours was malicious and baseless. After reading your comment, the whole hilarity of the post was lost!
This is one person; not the entire black male race. Do you say the same things when a white male takes a silly picture?
You really ought to search within yourself and figure out what makes you so angry and bitter toward black men.
For the record, just in case yo do believe the stuff you said, I know many black men who are the absolute opposite of what you suggested. Maybe YOU attract the types of black men that you talk about.
LMAO! Kane ain't *** (i don't think). But this is sum funny sh*t!!!! Dis N*gga was eating chocolates *** naked with a dress *** wide open and socks on. LMMFAO! Woooooooo that tickled me. How in the hell did yall start all of these arguments over Big Daddy Kane gettin bucked naked??? If you take this serious for real...go to counseling...ASAP
@ Forever dope..
She does it on purpose. She refuses to research data on other races. @ tika90- Actually, i think this is my first exchange with her. I usually ignore Guessjeans. But that long list she put up today was just a bit much(plus she is off topic) tee he he She clearly has issues with black men! displaying that long list for younger black men that come on here to read is just not right!!!
AYO WHO IS THIS "GUESS JEANS BROAD???" SHE'S A PERSON WHO DIDN'T GROW UP WITH THE KANE??? WHAT A BUCK!!! AS FAR AS TRYING TO SOUND INTELLIGENT AND STUDIOUS, "FUGETTABOUTIT!!!!! YOU SOUND LIKE YOU JUST MIGHT HAVE GRADUATED FROM HIGH SCHOOL!!!
YOU ON A MOSTLY "BLACK" BLOG TALKING SH*! ON THE BROTHER'S CAUSE YOU GOT A "WHITE BOY??" I KNOW YOU DON'T WANT ME TO LEAN ON YOU AND YOUR "BUTTERMILK BOY" DO YOU?? BASHING THE BROTHER'S???? ARE YOU SIMPLE, SLOW OR STUPID!!!! BLACK MEN ARE SLIPPING A LITTLE IT IS TRUE, BUT DON'T COME ON HERE TALKING LIKE YOU ARE THIS AND THAT CAUSE YOU GOT A "WHITE BOY???" YOU'RE A LIMITED MINDED INDIVIDUAL WITH OBVIOUSLY "NO TASTE OR CLASS!!"
YOU MEAN TO TELL ME THAT YOU CAN REMEMBER "MADONNA" AND HER "F*&KERY" BUT NOT THE BIG DADDY KANE, BOOGIE DOWN PRODUCTIONS, TREACHEROUS THREE??? YOU PROBABLY WATCH THE "BRADY BUNCH, FULL HOUSE AND WHATEVER "WHITE" PROGRAMMING YOU COULD WATCH!!! WELL I TELL YOU WHAT THE NEXT TIME I CATCH YOU ON HERE TALKING SH*! I'MA DEFINITELY GET ON HERE AND PUT YO: BOOTLEG, IMITATION WHITE *** ON BLAST FOR REAL!!!! WATCH WHAT YOU TALKING WHEN YOU TALKING ABOUT THE "BLACK MAN"
MESS AROUND AND THE "BROTHA'S" (I'M SORRY WAS THAT TOO BLACK FOR YOU??) GANG UP ON YOU AND LET YOU KNOW HOW IT'S REALLY GOING DOWN!!!! YOU SOUND SUSPECT OF TRYING TO BE BLACK AND DIDN'T PASS THE TEST!!!! WHAT DO YOU USE FOR YOUR HAIR "SPRITZ OR AFRO SHEEN??" DO YOU USE COCOA BUTTER OR JERGENS LOTION?? DO YOU EAT APPLE PIE OR SWEET POTATO??? CONFUSED??? PROBABLY!!!!
P.S. AS FAR AS YOU AND YOUR "KENTUCKY FRIED [EXPLETIVE]!!! (YOU CLAIM HE'S ITALIAN) "IF HE'S A DELIVERY BOY FOR PIZZA HUT, THAT DOESN'T QUALIFY AS ITALIAN" I KNOW Y'ALL BOTH PROBABLY SMELLING LIKE WARM LETTUCE AND ***!!! MOTHER F*#KER!!!
the first pic looks like a invitation (for men) and in the second pic he looks sweeter than the chocolates he's holding. IDK IF he's *** but I do believe Kane was getting pu$$y by the pound back in the day, yet you never know for sure. Besides I truly think almost everybody in the industry is ***, whether they are a sports player, actor or singer
That's just the human condition and it seems I am exploting the BLACK FLAWS more than WHITES FLAWS because it's natural; I'm a BLACK woman. My man is italian but he isn't ME. I'm still a BLACK woman so why do you chose to think I'm exempt from discussing BLACK social problems?!?!?! Anyway I don't expect you to understand where I'm coming from. You you do good. If you don't oh well.. tootles sweetie ------------------- I understand where you are NOT coming from, but you are correct. I donot understand where you are coming from , because i can't relate.
You feel it is NATURAL to "EXPLOIT" THE BLACK FLAWS MORE?? because you are a black women.
So, because you are a black women, you think it is ok to exploit our men? Do you have any brothers? Do you have a son? Do you want them to read, feed into, or believe that long laundry list of negative things that you typed? Have you ever heard that song by Angie Stone as it relates to black men? Why not type things like that sometimes, Guessjeans?
@ thebigwill WHAT DO YOU USE FOR YOUR HAIR "SPRITZ OR AFRO SHEEN??" DO YOU USE COCOA BUTTER OR JERGENS LOTION?? DO YOU EAT APPLE PIE OR SWEET POTATO??? CONFUSED??? PROBABLY!!!!
I just felt answering these questions......... personally I like spritz, cocoa butter, and both pies uuummmm hmmmmmm
now where can we look at those pics without the blockage?
@ FOREVER DOPE YOU *** RIGHT BABY!!! I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS WHI&&A ON HERE TRYING TO BASH THE "BROTHA'S" THAT'S UNHEARD OF??? IT'S A SHAME BUT SHE'S GOTTA GO!!! I'VE NEVER HEARD ANYBODY TRY AND DAMAGE THEIR OWN RACE, UNLESS SHE'S TRYING TO BECOME THE FIRST BLACK FEMALE "KU KLUX KLAN" MEMBER!!!!
DUMB *** PEOPLE WITH DUMB SH*! TO SAY!!!! TRYING TO SMOOTH OVER THAT "OH I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT "ALL" OF THE BLACK MEN!!! DON'T TALK ABOUT NONE UNLESS HE "CHRIS BROWNED" YO ***!!! SHE SAYS SHE'S WITH A WHITE BOY OR ITALIAN, EITHER ONE OF THEM WILL SMACK THE SH*! OUT OF HER!!!
GUESS JEANS IS A NOTHING NOBODY WHO WANTS ATTENTION, WELL SHE GOT IT FROM ME AND AS FAR AS HER AND HER INTELLECT (IT'S LIMITED) ESPECIALLY GETTING ON AN ALL BLACK BLOG AND COMMENT ON "THE BLACK MAN" THIS BROAD IS "UNDER INVESTIGATION" FOR PERPETRATING THE FRAUD!!!!! TRYING TO BE BLACK AND CAN'T!!!! ASK HER THE LAST TIME SHE DID ANYTHING BLACK??
SHE THEN CROSSED OVER AND IS PROBABLY NOW DRINKING "BROCCOLI MANGO SMOOTHIES" OR PREPARING "CASSEROLES" FOR HER "GUESTS" NOT COMPANY BUT GUESTS!!!!! SHE'S A VERY IGNORANT YOUNG WOMAN WHO OBVIOUSLY DOESN'T KNOW THERE ARE "GREAT BLACK MEN" OUT HERE AND I'M ONE OF THEM THAT'S WHY I'M OFFENDED SO!!!!
THANK YOU FOR HELPING OUT ON THIS TAINTED TURD!!!!
ForeverDope Flag post Wow right now GuessJeans is like the StormHoe of MTO.LMFAO!Haha. ---------- I was thinking she may have actually been her for a minute.lol But her focus seems to be "black men" PERIOD.
I DID NOT like that list she posted up there on bit! That was totally unfair and extremly biased! She went waaayyyy too far! Whites visit this site, too. And young black men especially may not want to have thier minds shaped by such BS ! And the nerve of her to speak it as "FACT"!! smdh
Well I can tell you that Kane ISNT ***!!These pics were taken in the mid 80's...and that *** was sexy then and its sexy now. Everybody wanna holla tryna say he look ***....***!! Kane had mad se appeal. I dont know whats wrong with you yunguns these days. Everybody look *** but its more of yall on the DL and the lesibian population has tripled with the younger folks so MOVEEEEEEEEEE.....KANE COULD GET IT!!
Again why are you all mad at guess jeans? What she spoke is the truth nothing else, Some sh-t are going on in our community and instead of exposing it people want to sit down and be mad at it, Get out of here, Not all black men are the way she described but a lot are and denying it and calling her name trying to sound Gangsta is not going to change the fact that she spoke on it, If you' re mad at it then do something about it, Stop praising white chicks and putting us down , Stop doing dumb *** that' ll send you to jail, Stop f-cking without a rubber , get a girl pregnant and get ghost, Stop all of that *** then maybe we won' t speak down on you!
I was thinking she may have actually been her for a minute.lol But her focus seems to be "black men" PERIOD.
I DID NOT like that list she posted up there on bit! That was totally unfair and extremly biased! She went waaayyyy too far! Whites visit this site, too. And young black men especially may not want to have thier minds shaped by such BS ! And the nerve of her to speak it as "FACT"!! smdh
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Right!She took two steps too much.When I said she was like StormHoe though I said that because she's argung with everyone.
To me right now,there both stupid and are acting like racist whites.
Fanfare I love my strong black men, but just like the issue of light skin/dark skin, some *** need to be said PLAIN and simple, seriously tho i hate when issues are being brought up and people act like we are just tripping, Now i don' t know about her being white or praising white boys all i know is the part where she called our men on their *** ain't false!It needs to be said, and if a brother read her post and want to prove her wrong by doing the right thing then we won something
@Honestly.
Who's trying to speak Gangsta? LOL!
This girl is bashing the whole community of black men due to a 90's pic that doesn't even contain a *** man.But somehow she found away to get on the subject of the black community and doesn't EVER talk negavtively about the whites though their *** community most likely dominates the black men's by a LONG ***.
Why didn't she talk about white men?Why is she worried about black men when she doesn't have and isn't looking for one?
@ FANFARE AND FOREVER DOPE!!! THIS BROAD IS SIMPLE AND YOU HAVE TO TREAT THE SIMPLE JUST LIKE THAT!!!! GOING TO SIT UP HERE AND TRY TO DESECRATE THE BLACK MAN'S NAME AND CHARACTER!!! GRANT IT WE AS "BLACK MEN" NEED ADJUSTMENT AND ATONEMENT, BUT DON'T COME ON HERE KNOWING YO PUNK *** IS BLACK TRYING TO DISS BLACK PEOPLE!!!!
OH AND AS FAR AS THIS *** AND WORDS IN CAPS, WHAT SHE GONNA DO REPORT ME TO THE "DON'T RESPOND IN CAPS COMMITTEE!!!" THIS BROAD IS YESTERDAY'S TRASH THAT NEEDS THROWN AWAY TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!! SOME *** GUESS JEANS, SHE NEEDS TO GUESS HER ETHNIC BACKGROUND!!! I DON'T CARE ABOUT THE JUNGLE FEVER SWIRLING GOING ON!!! I JUST DON'T LIKE "NOBODY" TALKING SH*! AND THEY *** IS THE SAME *** COLOR!!!!!!
WELL IF SHE WANTS SOME OF ME I GOT A LOT MORE TO GIVE!!! SHE MIGHT THINK ABOUT WHAT WE HAVE BEEN SAYING ALL ALONG, "AIN'T YO *** BLACK??" (DID I USE THE IMPROPER USE OF THE ENGLISH GRAMMAR???) F*@*** GUESS JEANS!!! GUESS THESE ***!!!!!
ForeverDope: FIRST i was referring to the Ayo community talking about beating on her or whatever so if you' re not one of them, Sit Thank you , Second: What happens when people post stereotypes about black women being bitter angry baby mamas and all? Nothing happens two or three sistas speak against it, most says it's the sayer's Opinion, and people call it a day. So if it is one opinion to say that black women aren't ***, Why should people attack a person writing the same *** about Black men? Further more, all the issue she typed ARE part of our community, Again like i said Not all of our men are like that but a lot of them are, Stop Lying to yourself and open your eyes, Why does it hurt more when a [assumed] white person say it? I have been saying the same *** from day one and most people co signed be talking about "girl speak on it" and now that someone else that is [presumed] white says it it' s a crime,Our president is black so Who gives a *** (no offense) What a white person has to say Anyway? And to answer your question, Hell to the *** yeah white folks are *** than us that is for sure,But Last time i checked Big daddy Kane is black so what would be the relevance of talking about white men? And the way i see it if i am black then i can speak to/about/for/with black folks if i feel like it, It' s not a problem when black men date white chicks and talk down on black women,why should it be now?
honestly Flag post Fanfare I love my strong black men, but just like the issue of light skin/dark skin, some [EXPLETIVE] need to be said PLAIN and simple, seriously tho i hate when issues are being brought up and people act like we are just tripping, Now i don' t know about her being white or praising white boys all i know is the part where she called our men on their *** ain't false!It needs to be said, and if a brother read her post and want to prove her wrong by doing the right thing then we won something ----------- Explain to me what the issue is. Here we have an outdated picture of a black male celebrity who has never stated that he was ***, or any of the things on her list? Where is the issue? where is the social issue as it relates to black men ? She created one! She lives for this ***! lol
With that said, okay. Let's address the list. True or False? (Depends on who you ask.) True in HER world i guess.. so therefore she made the decision of marrying a non-black man.
Beating black men's heads up with it, after you have made your choice is not productive. You got your man, go away!! Continuously telling a drunk that he is a drunk is not productive. Providing him with literature to Achoholics Anoymous or the Betty Ford clinic is more productive. That's my point.
She just likes to do it for fun. It just does not appear to be for helpful purposes, it appears to be for "showcasing". TO just poke fun at them., and to make them feel "small. It's not right.
Most of the mess that people believe about black men is stereotype-hype set up like tape recorders in the mind of anyone who will listen.
Basically, as long as there are gullible people supping it up, the whole process will continue. There will be those who sensationalize these 'statistics' as long as mini-minded morons eat it up! Then you regurgitate it with a kind of matter-of-fact-ness, like it's something you personally know about. WTF! You're lame!
Form an opinion based on your own knowledge and experience.
I don't give a fcuk what year those pics were taken if I ever walked into the room and a man was laying his *** across the bed *** ass naked with his eyes slightly closed trying to look sexy taking pictures! What man tries to be sexy?? There is nothing masculine looking about him in those pics. Furthermore I'll bet the photographer is a man!! SMH at you Big Daddy!!
@Honestly
Um you're talking to the wrong person because people WILL be called out by me if they EVER stereotype black women like that.
Again,where did she get the black *** community out of this.Everyone was on Big Daddy Kane EXCEPT HER.Everyone had something to say that was merely a joke EXCEPT HER.
This post was posted for humerous reasons,not to bash black men.
Yes a lot of our men is like that but why specifically throw it on the black men?Especially when you're barely showing no interest in them!
Assumes white person?Can you show me when I assumed she was white?I got on her *** before guesses on her race was even said.EVERYONE got on her before people started assuming what race she was.Read first.
But Big Daddy Kane is straight so what's the relevance of talking about *** people?
AYO!! WHO IS THIS HONESTLY BROAD?? I KNOW YOU AIN'T ABOUT TO TAKE ME THERE EITHER??? CAUSE LISTEN, JUST BECAUSE THERE ARE "SOME" NOT ALL BLACK MEN WITH CHARACTER DEFECTS, DON'T MEAN THE REST OF US ARE!!!!
I'M NOT TRYING TO TAKE YOU THERE, BUT IF YOU WANNA GO LET ME KNOW, CAUSE I'M READY FOR WHOEVER WANTS TO TALK ABOUT THE "BROTHA'S" OR THE BLACK COMMUNITY!!!! TRUST ME BY THE TIME I GET DONE I'LL SOUND LIKE THE "CHAMPION OF TRUTH" AGAIN IF YOU OR ANYBODY ELSE IS READY TO GET IT ON ABOUT THE BROTHA'S LET ME KNOW!!!!! CAUSE "HONESTLY" YOU MIGHT WANNA WATCH WHAT YOU'RE TALKING AS FAR AS CALLING BLACK MEN ON OUR SH*!
THERE'S ALOT OF BLACK MEN WHO DO TAKE CARE OF HOME AND FAMILY!!! THERE'S TRULY ALOT OF BLACK MEN WHO MAKES SURE HIS "LADY LOVE" IS WELL TAKEN CARE OF!!! HONESTLY THERE'S ALOT OF BLACK MEN WHO WOULD FIND EVEN YOU AN INTERESTING FEMALE OF CONVERSATIONAL INTERESTS!!!! IT'S NOT ALWAYS B*#CH THIS AND THAT!!! IT'S NOT ABOUT CHEATING ON YOU FOR YOUR COUSIN OR SISTER!!! IT'S ABOUT UNDERSTANDING THE STATE OF WHERE THE "YOUNG BLACK MEN" WANT TO BROADEN THEIR HORIZONS!!!
SO PLEASE DON'T BE A VICTIM LIKE "GUESS JEANS" WE ARE WONDERING WHY THIS IMITATION "SISTA" WOULD GET ON HERE TALK SH*! ON THE BROTHA'S WHEN SHE DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO BIG DADDY KANE IS!!! SHE KNOWS MADONNA BUT NOT BIG DADDY??? THAT'S LIKE SAYING YOU WANT DOCKERS INSTEAD OF ***!!!!
fanfare, I feel you and the way you broke it down, But to her defense i have been here for a minute and it' s the first time i heard her say anything derogatory towards the black race, Usually she is displaying pride towards us,Now come on sister you know some people don' t need to speak you know they are *** from five years away lol i' m not an *** and i am not calling Big daddy Kane *** though This pic is Ew Loool , Now sometimes i don't know about you , but i can see a picture or a comment or a phrase and then start to rant about something probably minimally relevant to the subject but i still rant my *** off, So i think the sister was just ranting, I am one of these people that think that Character not skin define you so therefore *** comes in every color lool, But i agree with what you said however, calling her names is not going to solve the issue if anything it proves "in her world" like you said that whatever she feels and think is right :)
I just went back and read what guessjeans posted and honestly I find nothing wrong with what she said and it to be true. 9 out of ten African American males fit in one of those categories. But lets not make this a one sided issue cause most not all black men have their personally opinion of black women. I have came across plenty of black men who said they rather date someone out of their race or mixed.
Ah matter of fact I still have a message some *** sent to me on my page This is what the *** had to say about black women:
o i aint talk 2 no fat gurl em wat dont u get i cant stop ugly people and other people from commenting and sending me adds thats why i wrote it on my page and i go out whenever us grown people go out on the weekend and i have never dated a 100% black women reason is they are bald head wear weave fake nails must likely have kids fat eat unhealthy all things im not into and im not arguing with u im just giving u real talk yall black gurls need it yall a mess lots of drama here is a fact 4 u doe 70% of black women are single 50% are obese lol now let that warm in ur brain ..................................................
Even tho he's *** illiterate I always keep in the back of my mind this is how most black men feel about black women. Im dealing with a guy right now that constantly remind that I have a weave on my head and how weaves shed (as if other female nationalities hair doesnt shed)or (as if other nationalities does not weaves), yet my weave cost more then any outfit he can put together any day. On top of that I know he has a thing for Asian and Rican women. Its like a constant reminder that im not good. On top of that he has three kids by two different baby mothers WHO ARE BLACK!!!!
Society *** me up
anyway I agree with guessjean and definitely understand where she's coming from
GoodGirl2 Flag post @Anti_dumb & Tjtrae~~ Look Got *** it!! I'm sick of this on again off again ***!!
THE TWO OF YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO GET YOURSELVES ANOTHER WEDDING PLANNER!! THIS IS TO MUCH FOR ME!! ANTIDUMB WHY DON'T YOU LEARN HOW TO KEEP YOUR MOUTH ***!! YOU AIN'T NEVER GONNA GET MARRIED!!! --------------- Want A Piece of Peace!
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THERE'S REALLY NOTHING TO SOLVE IT'S SIMPLE AND PLAIN, IF YOU ON HERE TRYING TO BASH THE "BROTHA'S" ON MY *** THEN COME ON CAUSE TODAY IS YOU AND WHOEVER ELSE THAT WANT SOME CAN GET SOME!!!
I TRULY AM NOT COMING AT YOU BUT IF YOU FEEL OFFENDED THEN YOU SHOULD FOR TRYING TO TALK SH*! ON THE BLACK MAN!!! SOME BLACK MEN DO HAVE SOCIAL PROBLEMS, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE PROBLEMS, ILLITERACY PROBLEMS, BUT SO WHAT AT LEAST THEY KEEP ON PUSHING FOR A BRIGHTER DAY!!! GUESS JEANS TOTALLY DISRESPECTED THE BROTHA'S AND IF YOU AGREE THEN YOU WOULD BE THE NEXT VICTIM ON THE LIST OF "ACT RIGHT!!!"
@ EIGHTIESBABY!! NO NEED IN GETTING AT YOU I WANT THE ONE WHO WAS TALKING LIKE SHE GOT IT GOING ON LIKE THAT AND HER NAME IS GUESS JEANS!!!!!!!! NO NEED IN GOING AFTER THE LITTLE FISH WHEN I WANT THE SHARK!!!!!!!!
YOU COOL, I'M TRULY WAITING ON THIS FEEBLE MINDED GUESS JEANS TO RESPOND!!! HONESTLY IS TESTING ME, BUT I WANT THE ONE AND ONLY, GUESS JEANS!!!
Tika90 @ Fanfare, yea she does go a bit hard on the brothers, and some really do need tough love, but I feel like she attacks them every chance she gets... -------------- A tad bit too hard. She seems to enjoy it. She is not trying to help them, that's my thing. she comes off like she wants to and likes to mimic them. It's not funny, and it's not her problem. She has her white man. Go in peace. he he
A tad bit too hard. She seems to enjoy it. She is not trying to help them, that's my thing. she comes off like she wants to and likes to mimic them. It's not funny, and it's not her problem. She has her white man. Go in peace. he he --------------- I stimulate the economy..
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She has a white man??? I didn't know that.... Not that there's anything wrong with it, it's just if that's the case, maybe she feels she needs to down brothers to validate her interracial relationship is o.***, to her. IDK..... If this isn't the case then, my bad!!!
honestly Flag post fanfare, I feel you and the way you broke it down, But to her defense i have been here for a minute and it' s the first time i heard her say anything derogatory towards the black race, Usually she is displaying pride towards us,Now come on sister you know some people don' t need to speak you know they are *** from five years away lol i' m not an *** and i am not calling Big daddy Kane *** though This pic is Ew Loool , Now sometimes i don't know about you , but i can see a picture or a comment or a phrase and then start to rant about something probably minimally relevant to the subject but i still rant my *** off, So i think the sister was just ranting, I am one of these people that think that Character not skin define you so therefore [EXPLETIVE] comes in every color lool, But i agree with what you said however, calling her names is not going to solve the issue if anything it proves "in her world" like you said that whatever she feels and think is right :) ----------- I did not call her names! I have no beef with her. I just did not like the long laundry list she put out there. But yeah, generally, I am Henny without the Coke, though baby. I give it straight. But i am a good person. However, this is a blog. Grown folks! A little hotsauce on things is ok..is it not?
I usually t reserve the name calling for Stormzoe ! lol But at any rate, she did not spare any humility as it relates to the black man., now did she? Your brother, your father, your son, your husband, your boyfriend. She did not spare,nor did she sugarcoat. I would even say that she called them names. You agree with her, so it's ok for her ? Profanity or lack there of, means little when you elect to put down or demean someone. It is what it is, either way. If you have been here for a while, you need to check the archives. She DOES NOT praise black men. She may praise black women,every so often, but her disdain and critique of the black man is very prevalent on EVERY THREAD WITH a similar topic, that she can squeeze it in on. You must be mistaken. lol
@HOnestly- Sister thanks for standing up for me :) . I don't understand where this venom is coming from today. I guess people are in a bad mood and I became the skategoat. I have not said anything that hasn't been said. EVERYBODY within the black communities have voiced what I stated at one point or another.
@Fanfare- I FIND IT DEPLORABLE how you're in here hurling insults at me yet Irvalio and other black men on here can call women bald-headed tricks, hoes, skanks, and hoodrats but NOTHING is said in OUR DEFENSE.
What's even MORE upsetting is there appears to be this ONE-SIDED LOYALTY thing going on at MTO. Hardly ANY OF THE BLACK MALE BLOGGERS (albeit Akbar, and Blakgold) DEFENDS BLACK WOMEN when white bloggers (especially white female bloggers) HURL insults at us and call us every name in the book! FOr some reason, BLACK men aren't DOWN for their WOMAN but yet when a BLACK woman speaks against BLACK MEN all HELL break loose from both black women and black men. I'm not trying to create any problems but there is SOMETHING very DISTURBING about this phenomena. Amber, PinkPuffylips, Thatgirl and the other white girls can say WHATEVER they want about a BLACK WOMAN and hardly ANY OF the BROTHERS jump to our DEFENSE (except Blakgold and Akbar). NOW for some reason unbeknown to me, yall want to TEAM up on me as if I AM SAYING SOMETHING NEW when all of you KNOW *** well EVERYTHING I stated has been voiced at some point by blacks in our society.
Tika90, and 215eightiesbaby- Both of you are very level-headed and I have alot of respect for you even though you don't agree with me.
@Honestly- Girl I swear these bloggers act as if I have said something shocking?! WHat in my comments were shocking or insulting?! None of it.
If you notice, I even put a disclaimer under my comment because I WAS SO sure that some of these people would curse me out for this even though they know I'm telling the truth.
I LOVE black men and NEVER said I hated them. Some of you need to learn to THINK RATIONALLY and discard EMOTION. WHERE in my first comments did I MENTION anything hateful or spiteful towards black men??? Hell I'm black and got black daddy, uncles, grand-daddy, cousins, etc,etc. I don't mean ALL black men and anyone who has an ounce of logical thinking can clearly see I'm not refering to ALL.
Guess Jeans is an angry bitter Kracker who uses fake pictures of Black women. Arguing with him is pointless. Look at what it wrote before.
SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE SOME BLACK MEN AIN'T WORTH A ***
April 11, 2009. I'm sick of SOME black men with their TIRED RANTS against the white man. ***.
NOBODY told yo *** to GET LOCKED UP.
THE WHITE MAN didn't make you sleep with 6 different women to which you have 10 different kids and facing chid support!
The WHITE MAN didn't tell yo *** not to LAND A decent JOB
He didn't make you DATE their WOMAN
The last time I checked, this was the LAND of OPPORTUNITY and EVERYBODY is entitled to their own FREEDOM. ALSO the U.S has made it so EVERYBODY can go to school (whether community college, state school, etc) to land a SUCCESSFUL and FULFILLING JOB!!!!
I'm sick of the *** woe is me ***! YOu think BLACKS got it bad, go to these third world countries where you LITERALLY will find 5 yr old kids CLEANING the STREETS and working a 9-5 because they helping their mama and daddy pay some bills while living out of a cardboard box or mud hut.
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This Kracker is crazy and probably doesn't wash.
Attention: The Asiatic Black Man is called ***, but half of yall be on here saying that rappers who kiss men on the mouth can get it? Are some of yall losing your minds! (Read his lyrics) ------
stepping to me they want to get some But Im the kane, so yo, you know the outcome Another victory They cant get with me So pick a bc date cause youre history Im the authentic poet to get lyrical For you to beat me, its gonna take a miracle And, stepping to me, yo thats the wrong move So what you on, hobbs, dope or dog food? Competition I just devour Like a *** against a chihuahua Cause when it comes to being dope, hot *** I got it good, now let me tell you who I am The b-i-g d-a-double d-y ***-a-***-e Dramatic, asiatic, not like many Im different, so dont compare me to another Cause they cant hang, word to the mother At least not with the principal in this pedigree So when I roll on you rappers, you better be Ready to die because youre petty Youre just a butter knife, Im a machete Thats made by ginzu, wait until when you Try to front, so I can chop into Your body, just because you try to be basing Friday the 13th, imma play jason No type of joke, gag, game, puzzle or riddle The name is big daddy, yes big not little So define it Heres your walking papers, sign it And take a walk As the kane start to talk, cause...
<break> Aint no half-steppin? <scratched> Im the big daddy kane (3 times)
My rhymes are so dope and The rappers be hoping To sound like me, so soon Ill have to open A school of mcing, for those who want to be in My field in court Then again on second thought To have mcs coming out sounding so similar Its quite confusing for you to remember The originator, and boy do I hate a Perpetrator, but Im much greater The best oh yes I guess suggest the rest should fess Dont mess or test your highness Unless you just address with best finesse And bless the paragraph I manifest Rap prime minister, some say sinister Non-stopping the groove, until when its the Climax, and I max, relax and chill Have a break from a take of me acting ill Brain cells are lit, ideas start to hit Next the formation of words that fit At the table I sit, making it legit And when my pen hits the paper, ahh ***! I stop and stand strong over mcs And devour with the power of hercules Or samson, but I go further the length Cause you could scalp my cameo and Ill still have strength And no, thats not a myth, and if you try to riff Or get with, the man with the given gift of gab Your vocab, Ill only ignore Be sleeping on your rhymes till I start to snore You cant awake me, or even make me Fear you, son, cause you cant do me none So, think about it if youre trying to go When you want to step to me, I think you should know that...
<break> Aint no half-steppin? <scratched> Im the big daddy kane (3 times)
I appear right here and scare and dare A mere musketeer that would dare to compare Put him in the rear, back there where he cant see clear Get a beer, idea or near stare, yeah So on to be want to be competition Trying to step to me--must be on a mission Up on the stage is where imma get you at You think Im losing? Psst, picture that...
<break> Aint no half-steppin? (3 times) Mister cee, step to me...
The name is big daddy, you know, as in your father So when you hear a def rhyme, believe that Im the author I grab the mic and make mcs evaporate The party people say, ***...that rappers great The creator conductor of poetry Et cetera, et cetera, it aint easy being me I speak clearly so you can understand Put words together like letter, man Now thats dictation, proceeding to my innovation Not like the other mcs, who are an imitation Or an animation, a cartoon to me But when Im finished, Im sure that you are soon to see Reality, my secret technique Because I always speak with mentality I put my title in your face, dare you to base And if you try and come get it, yo imma show you whos with it So if you know like I know, instead of messing around Play like roy rogers and slooow doown Just give yourself a break, or someone else will take Your title, namely me, cause Im homicidal That means murder, cause Im about to hurt a- Nother mc, that try to get with me Ill just break him and bake him and rake him And take him and mold him and make him Hold up the peace sign... Assalam walaikum!
@Fanfare- I FIND IT DEPLORABLE how you're in here hurling insults at me yet Irvalio and other black men on here can call women bald-headed tricks, hoes, skanks, and hoodrats but NOTHING is said in OUR DEFENSE.
What's even MORE upsetting is there appears to be this ONE-SIDED LOYALTY thing going on at MTO. Hardly ANY OF THE BLACK MALE BLOGGERS (albeit Akbar, and Blakgold) DEFENDS BLACK WOMEN when white bloggers (especially white female bloggers) HURL insults at us and call us every name in the book! FOr some reason, BLACK men aren't DOWN for their WOMAN but yet when a BLACK woman speaks against BLACK MEN all HELL break loose from both black women and black men. I'm not trying to create any problems but there is SOMETHING very DISTURBING about this phenomena. Amber, PinkPuffylips, Thatgirl and the other white girls can say WHATEVER they want about a BLACK WOMAN and hardly ANY OF the BROTHERS jump to our DEFENSE (except Blakgold and Akbar). ----------- Guess jean, girl...you were in rare form today. That list you posted needed to be addressed. I found it quite distasteful and divisive to blacks as a whole, not just black men. No one is gunning for you, because you do this quite oftent, and the black men address you and call you on it quite often. Today may seem different , based on the content, and the fact that the list was totally baseless and off subject. You have to admit that you come of as someone who LOOKS for a reason to bash black men. Visitors to this site will read that as you poor pitiful black women. You have no leaders. How pathetic you are as a people. You have useless men, fathers, sons and children. With that said, no one is bashing you, so quit your whining. We are trying to uphold the dignity of the black culture and keep things balanced! Did you not expect to be addressed on some level? Give me a break. The innocent play of sympathy is so not you.
WELL HE ALWAYS LOOKED *** TO ME..BUT LIKE SOMEONE SAID EARLIER..HE WAS A *** SYMBOL BACK IN THE 80'S..SO THESE PIC ARE WHAT THEY ARE..EITHER WAY, HE AINT MAKING A COMEBACK SO WHATEVER...NOW FOR GUESS JEANS..JUST COULDN'T *** YOUR *** AZZ MOUTH WITHOUT MAKING A FAT JOKE, COULD YA? ARE YOU FATAPHOBIC? AND YOU ARE NOT AND NEVER WILL BE PRETTY AS AALIYAH SO PLEASE PUT THAT OTHER OREO BYTCH PICTURE BACK UP!!!
GUESS JEANS!!! WHAT'S GOING DOWN?? YOU DIDN'T SEEM TO WANT TO ADDRESS ME, WELL I'LL ADDRESS A COUPLE OF THINGS WITH YOU HERE AND NOW!!! AS FAR AS ANYBODY TALKING ABOUT THE "BLACK QUEEN" THEN I WILL (TRULY AND HONESTLY) SAY THIS: "I'LL DIG IN ANYBODY WHO WANTS TO TALK BAD ABOUT ANYTHING OF THE (BLACK QUEEN) YEAH THAT MEANS YOUR "BLITE" *** TOO!!!!
AS FAR AS TALKING ABOUT THE BLACK WOMAN!!! WHAT CAN YOU SAY BUT THANK GOD FOR THEM!!! I LOVE BLACK WOMEN, I'VE NEVER DISRESPECTED, HIT OR JUST MADE THE BLACK WOMAN NOT FEEL LIKE A WOMAN!!!! SO WHAT ARE YOU BITTER ABOUT??? IS IT THE DISRESPECT OF THE BLACK WOMAN BY THE YOUNG THUNDERCATS OUT HERE?? (ARE YOU BLACK???) CAN YOU COME TO SAY TO YOURSELF THAT THE " BLACK MALE BASHING" THAT YOU DO REFLECTS THE BITTER MOTHER F*#KER YOU ARE!!!!!!! YOU HAVE A DISCUSS FOR THE "BLACK MAN" JUST LOOK AT THE SH*! YOU WROTE ALREADY!!!
I TRULY DON'T WANNA HAVE TO GET AT YOU ANYMORE ABOUT THIS "BLACK MAN BASHING" I'M JUST HEATING UP SO IF YOU DON'T STOP THIS BASHING THEN I'LL BE FORCED INTO BROADCASTING YOUR LITTLE "MARSHA BRADY" ***!!!! KICK BACK WITH ALL THAT BLACK MAN THIS AND BLACK MAN THAT BULLSH*! AND I'M COOL OFF YOU!!
OH YEAH LEAVE MY BABIES: "FANFARE AND FOREVER DOPE" ALONE!! THEY ONLY STUCK UP FOR WHAT WAS RIGHT!! THE ONLY ONE-SIDED THING ON HERE IS "Y O U!!" GROW UP AND FIND OUT WHAT'S REALLY GOOD IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY BEFORE YOU GET TO ROCKIN YA JAWS!!!
GuessJeans
We understand that a lot of the black men are *** or whatever, but his is not the time nor pace to state those statements.AND you could have done it in a more respectable manner as to NOT just specifically make it black men.
You're man is Italian.Why do you care?
And I can ALSO assure you that most black men are STRAIGHT.I don't need any statistics,websites,books, nothing to tell you that.
Foreverdope : "why was I debating with you when you're obviously illiterate." You are an idiot, Obviously you' re trying to Irk me , but it won' t work sit down, big will was the one i was referring to but wait there you are co-signing with him, A bunch of internet gangsters Pitiful at best
thebigwill: Get some of you? Lmao are you serious? sit down sounding like you' re on your period, Get some of what ? uh I am so scared of you *** like a school girl,Get back to work!
fanfare: I see well if i am mistaking, Is the venom displayed by the two fools above the solution?
GuessJeans: Hey Girl! I was never the one to join and follow anyway,Let that be the reason, However beside tika and them, who respectfully disagree, i believe fanfare The only person worth addressing in my opinion, Took your comment at heart so she is the one you should discuss with...I understood your post thought i didn't agree with all of it, I am not once of this people to sweep issues under the rug , So tell me is it true you' re married to a white man?
Guessjeans flagpost If you notice, I even put a disclaimer under my comment because I WAS SO sure that some of these people would curse me out for this even though they know I'm telling the truth. ---------------- LMAO!!! OMG! A DISCLAIMER???
Too Funny! So by putting a disclaimer on it you felt you were doing a service to us? Girl pleasse! A disclaimer is a way of backing away from the actual validity of a statement, as it is written. A disclaimer is what radio and tv broadcasters often use to avoid being responsible for varied, diverse oppinions and viewpoints. You are on a blogsite.If you stand by what you say then you do not need a disclaimer! Post facts , and stop posting stereotypes and biased information that is not balanced. You knew that was some mess you type, that's why you came back and try to "gel" it.
Whatever, (choking on my strawberries)...
BE Fair!
"Amber, PinkPuffylips, Thatgirl and the other white girls can say WHATEVER they want about a BLACK WOMAN and hardly ANY OF the BROTHERS jump to our DEFENSE (except Blakgold and Akbar)."
Hmm I am telling You, Let them "team up" on you girl, What they gonna do ? call you names that should slide right off of your skin,The way i see it if five people cursing you on a blog could make a difference in our community we would not be where we at right now now would we?
@honestly fanfare: I see well if i am mistaking, Is the venom displayed by the two fools above the solution?
---------- oh no. I would never suggest that it is. Nor do i pretend to have a solution. We are all just kinda blogging and giving our 2 cents.Everyone is different.
I, at least wanted readers to know that not ALL black women view men in this light, and that not all of us choose to focus on a LIST.
HOW YOU SAY SOMETHING, often fuels the content of the feedback. BIGWILL is a dude. Of course he gonna defend manhood. lol She knew men would respond. She likes it. (just my oppinion) Nothing against her, because none of us know each other.
