: Since the entire Chris Brown and Rihanna incident, the issue of reverse-domestic abuse - or when a woman abuses a man – has been on everyone’s minds.
Well now for the first time, someone is speaking out about it. MediaTakeOut.com has learned that popular 1990s R&B singer Case is speaking out about his relationship with R&B singer Mary J Blige. And according to Case, Mary PHYSICALLY ABUSED him.
Here’s what Case told AOL in an interview:
Me and Mary J. Blige did actually date. We lived together for awhile. A couple of people told me that Mary said I used to beat her up and another girl said it was K-Ci [Hailey of the group Jodeci].You know what … we can see Mary doing that … at least the OLD Mary …If anything, she was the one throwing s-t at me. I still got a scar!
That's just throwing stuff, ain't like she put her hands on u, and she probably ain't mean for nothing to hit him either! Ole a$$ sucka popin up on the sense tryin make allegations! get the *** outta here!
If she couldn't beat KC scrawny a$$, she sure as hell don't look like she can beat his extra husky self!
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LMAO! Boy just remember to keep ducking and quit whining like a lil b!tch. It was 10 years ago. Get over it! Who didn't know Mary was a gangsta back then? And what did you do to her for her to flip out on you? Were you trying to jump on her like ***-Ci? Cause if that was the case you deserved alot more than that. But like I said that was 10 years ago so let the QUEEN be.
Sh!t!!! Don't fuucks with Mary J" she look like she enjoy throwing punches. and when I look at her marrige with kendu she looks more like the husband and he looks like the wife LOL" I don't know why I feel like that everytime I see pics of them" Mary from the hood" fighting is a sport to most black girls and boys so It wouldn't surprise me if Mary was checking that *** LOL.
You can also look at some of her live performances in the early days when she's all over the stage and just get the feeling she's not to be fuucked with LOL.
oh please stop making something outta nothing...he didn't get into any kind of details to say he snitched on Mary...if anything he prolly responded in defense to "assuming" she wz referencing him abusing her as opposed to ***-Ci...*** then further he just said she threw ish...what chick DON'T do that now *** then...i didn't get Mary abused him outta that article MTO
MTO, I am not sure if this story is real or not, but thanks for posting. You’ve actually shown the biases this society has when it comes to women vs men. Everybody virtually crucified Chris Brown for allegedly beating on Rhianna but a man comes out with news of him being a victim and you hear these worthless b!tches on this site saying all manner of evil about him.
Boy sometimes I wish this country was run like Afghanistan
Please after being out of the limelight for about 10 years this kat is dropping an album out and is trying to be relevant again, and I guess he needs to promote it by talking *** the way these mediocre artists feel the need to do lately since they obviously sell off the merit of their work.
Touch Me Tease Me was a long time ago Case....
*** all you wanna be WHITE UPITY *** BLACK PEOEPLE ON HERE AND MEDIA UNCLE TOM TAKEOUT HAS WELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF ITS A LITTTLE BET OF FIGHTING IN A RELATIONSHIP LET IT BE.. wHEN [EXPLETIVE] KILL HIS WIFE AND FAMILY THE WHITE PEOPLE EVEN DONT BELIEVE IT..
BUT WHEN A BLACK COUPLE FIGHT EACH OTHER WE READY TO LYNCH I'LL OWN PEOPLE...STOP BEING WHITEWASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@jluv2009, right! He ain't telling the whole story. But you know how some people are. They tell you only what they want you to know. He ain't doing nothing but trying to get publicity. I mean really, who was thinking about Case before today?
@sdavis99, r u serious? To keep herself in the spotlight? LOL! Mary been in the spotlight since 1992. It's 2009 now. Do the math and use common sense.
THE WORLD HAS TAUGHT US VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN IS FUNNY!
VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN IS PUNISHABLE BY DEATH!
THERE ARE ALOT MORE MEN BEING ABUSED THAN U THINK IT IS JUST THE THOUGH OF BEING THOUGHT OF AS A *** OR PUNK OR PU$$Y THAT PREVENTS THEM FROM SAYING ANYTHING. IF A MAN WERE TO CALL THE POLICE ON HIS GIRL TALIN BOUT SHE'S ABUSIVE THEY WOULD PROBABLY THINK IT WAS A CRANK CALL AND HANG UP! JUST LOOK UP ABUSE AGAINST MEN IT DOES HAPPEN!
BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST VIOLENT ABUSIVE CONDESCENDING PEOPLE ON THIS PLANET. THEY ALWAYS WANNA BLEACH CLOTHES, SLAPP NI&&AS, HIT THEM WITH OBJECTS, SLASH TIRES, KEY CARS, AND 4 SOME REASON THEY R ALWAYS THREATENING TO "CUT SOMEONE"!
I DEF BELIEVE MARY COULD WHOOP A NI&&AS *** BUT SINCE SHES A GIRL IT AOK, RIGHT?
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IF HE WERE TO SAY SHES ABUSIVE(WHICH SHE IS) WOULD IT MATTER?? WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE DID TO HIM THAT *** SHE COULDA TWISTED HIS *** OR SOMETHING. BUT MEN AREN'T SUPPOSED TO SAY THAT THEY WERE HIT FIRST BCUZ IT STILL DOESNT JUSTIFY THEM RETALIATING BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST SUPPOSED TO TAKE THEIR BEATING AND THEN NEVER SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT FOR FEAR OF BEING LABELED WEAK AND *** SO HE'LL BE SEEN AS A *** 4 GETTIN HIS *** BEAT BY A WOMAN . IT IS A LOSE LOSE SITUATION FOR HIM IN SAYING THAT HE WAS ABUSED SO THAT IS WHY HE HASN'T. BUT WORF HERSELF SAID SHE SLAPPED HIM ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS. SO HE IS THE VICTIM BUT OF COURSE ACCORDING TO THE DOUBLE STANDARD THAT EXISTS MEN CAN NEVER BE VICTIMS. ITS FUNNY THAT THEY ARE ABUSED AND THEY ARE *** FOR BEING ABUSED! SO *** OFF!
Well ***! I didn't even know that they dated awhile back. I wonder was she referring to him in that "enough cryin'"song?!?!
If this is true, why is he coming out with this info?? Do he have an album coming out soon?? I guess people don't believe in keeping things to themselves anymore..smh
I still like his music though!! I bet mary's not even trippin' off of this because she found the one for her, it's all good!!
What is his point of bringing all this up now?
Why he didn't say anything when it was happening?
See people like this kill me. Don't wait until someone is in the spotlight to start talking all bad about them, years after the fact.
If the old Mary was beatin' yo' a.z.z. back then, you should of said something THEN!
Case is only doin' this to bring light to himself and his flop of a music career, which is sad because I like a couple of his songs (especially 'Missing You').
Why is it that when a woman gets her *** beat, we jump to her defense. But when a woman goes ham on a dude, nobody even want to believe it happened.
Don't you see that this is th #2 reason woman get they assed whooped (#1 being that some dudes are just crazy). To many women get away with throwing *** at and slapping their man. At some point the *** pushes him over the edge, and she realizes she bit of more than she can chew. Maybe if more attention was paid to abusive women instead of just abusive men, domestic violence as a whole would decrease.
Boy you need to STOP! ..Case, baby you need to go ans sit down somewhere cause that was over how many years ago?! GTF over it.
If this were the early 90s I would've believe it cause MJB was a *** trainwreck waiting to happen from all the drugs- BUT now, YOU sir, Case need to go smoke a blunt or go to counseling if you're still re-hashing what happened in the 90s.
GROW UP..
Amazing how there are those condoning that hood rat Mary J Blige's actions. Because lets face it, she said it herself, she used to be a hoodrat and she has personified that many times. She was an abusive alcoholic. Had she had been a man and Case the woman in this scenario, all posts of sympathy would be in this thread.
But because of the double standards that have penetrated society (especially in the black community), it seems acceptable for a woman to attack a man but not vice versa. Yet these distorted feminist demand equality?
I'm glad there some posters in here with some sense. Violence is wrong, period.
I cosign with handsome stallion 100% ------ You know what the sad thing is that you have over 90% of the women on this thread treating her like she is a *** hero for hitting a man (if true) and even some mangina on here laughing and defending this sh*t too. That is not a feminine trait to be hitting a man, putting yourself in a man's place and then don't expect to be treated as such.
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@anitdumb
I'm impatiently waiting for your wall of shame!
See... the same people crying over rhihanna geting smacked around 1 time.. are in this post clownin' and showing their "ARSE" lol
This is why I cant jump on the "never-ever-ever" hit a tramp band wagon.
These comments let me know..
there is still a few "women" in this world who need the beatings to keep them in check.
(dont start none... won't be none)
CHUUCH! lol
R U guys kidding me? How does a man get beat by a woman? By not putting his hands on her...by not defending himself for fear of having the situation reversed by NYPD...that's how. Ya'll seriously sound like its just UNHEARD of for women to attack men. Really? It's not.
Even if a man pushes a woman back or blocks a punch or whatever he stands to be charged with some type of crime. Trust.
And for the record, I don't think Case is revealing this info. now for any reason other than to acknowledge in light of the Chris/Rihanna case that it is more than possible that women attack men, too.
All I am going to say is that there are a lot of posters being completely disingenuous on here. Its interesting how if a woman hits a man, throws something at him, busts him upside his head you get women hooting and hollering and thinking its the funniest thing in the world, but let a man defend himself and strike back and all of a sudden its "oh the horror".
I believe Case's story....And Mary is every bit as wrong as a man would be if he started getting physical.
Thats how it be tho. A woman can wup your *** and if you complain or call the cops you're the pu$$y, but if you wup her *** back you're the punk that fights girls. Yeah their girls now when their the victim. Oh and not to mention the book that gets thrown at you in court. It's best if you have a chic who can't be civil, duck her. Keep it movin they are a dime a dozen but a clean criminal background is priceless.
Cokecaine, liquor, Puffy, Demons, NY living, a past, permiscuity, blackness, pressure, publicity, abortions, ego, abandonment issues, oppression, frustration, healing can all make this story about Mary very very true.
Hell that scar under eye that they photoshop the hell out of these days is from when Pepa kicked dat asss for *** Treach back in the day. Many sisters got a past like the brothers & I respect her for not fronting on that *** so leave her the hell alone Case. You obviously been demonized by the same factors mentioned above because the same recognizes the same, it's how we come out of it.
Besides, I know *** well Kendu get an empty of bottle of Cognac upside the head every now & then. He ain't leaving cuz she pays the bills. That's the reality of the Angry Black Woman Syndrome a disease sisters work on for the rest of their lives. And although we need to cut this *** out, it's *** sure warranted.
CASE ADMITTED THAT MARY HIT HIM NOT ABUSED HIM... SERIOUSLY HOW MUCH DAMAGE CAN A WOMAN'S HIT CAUSE VS. A MAN'S
MEN HAVE BEEN HITTING WOMEN SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIME, NOW ITS TIME FOR FEMALES TO START HITTING BACK, JK
VIOLENCE IS NEVER THE ANSWER BUT @CAKESNPIES...WHY DESIGNATE ALL THAT HATE TOWARDS ONLY BLACK WOMEN?? WAS LORENNA BOBBIT WHITE OR BLACK?? IF YOUR GONNA SAY WOMEN HIT AS MUCH AS MEN THATS ONE THING BUT PLZ DONT START WITH ATTACKING BLACK WOMEN. PPL IN GENERAL CAN BE ABUSIVE IN A RELATIONSHIP, MEN CAUSE MORE DAMAGE ITS THAT SIMPLE. IT DOESNT MEAN FEMALES SHOULD GO AROUND BACK HANDING THEIR PARTNERS THO
LOL AT ALL THE PPL SAYING ITS SAD THAT WOMEN GET AWAY WITH THIS AND THAT... WELL BOO HOO
I SAID IT ONCE AND I'LL SAY IT AGAIN. MEN DONT NEED VAGINAS TO CALL 911 AND OBTAIN A FULL STAY AWAY ORDER
IF YOUR TOO BUSY BEING PRIDEFUL TO GET HELP THEN GET YOUR *** BEAT BUT THE LAST TIME I CHECKED MEN ARE ABLE TO BREAK A FEW MORE BONES THAN A WOMAN COULD SO GIMME A *** BREAK
A BIG *** MAN DOES NOT NEED TO HIT A WOMAN UNLESS SHE LOOKS LIKE CHINA THE WRESTLER OTHER THAN THAT WHAT THE *** ARE YOU REALLY DOING?? IF THROWING SOME CHICK AROUND, PUNCHING HER IN THE FACE, AND BODY SLAMMING HER MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER CAUSE SHE BACK HANDED YOU THEN GO RIGHT AHEAD... AS FOR THE FEMALES WHO SUPPORT THAT NOTION CANT WAIT FOR SOME DUDE TO BREAK YA FACE
by the way I've never been hit but on behalf of my DV clients I had to say it
I'm not surprised..Mary back in the day was very different..real talk Mary J spit a mint out of her mouth on me from a balcony at a club..i was at a table under the balcony..i think she thought that *** was funny ..when i looked up her and her sister were saying they were sorry...i havent ever forgotten that
@*** Not saying it's ok for anyone to be hitting anyone, but If a woman wants to get physical with a man she deserve everything she get coming to her. You want to be treated equal well don't complain when that *** gets whupped. Of course not by me but if I had to defend myself well... Don't think women can't mess you up. They are also a whole lot slicker at not getting caught of course I wont tell for fear of giving any crazy women any ideas. Restraining orders don't work for men you think they will work for women. You are very green and have much to learn. So while I don't condone beating women sometimes if you're not careful you can find yourself in some sticky situation. Fight or flight while flight is the feasble alternative it is not always availble.
That cat was to laid back for Mary then, you know one of the guys with that "nice guy syndrome" Mary was out there wild'*** with the drugs,men and alcohol and Case was trying to be captain save a hoe and she wasn't ready for that. I believe she used to beat his ***,because that's what she was used to in past relationships FIGHTING! Looking for unique gifts? visit 4u2.com
Although I do believe that MJB gave KC & Case hell, that happened in 1302 B.C. Go produce an album, write a song, walk a dog, WuSah, something!!! Rihanna & Chris Brown have a dispute and now everyone is a victim to domestic violence. If you didn't say anything then, don't make yourself look stupid now.
