: MediaTakeOut.com just got some NEW DETAILS into the death of Steve McNair. And it's starting to look more and more like he was shot and killed by his 20 year old mistress.
Here’s what MediaTakeOut.com knows so far. About 5 months ago, the very married Steve met a 20 year old waitress at Dave & Buster’s Grand Sports Café named Sahel Kazimi. The two hit it off and the two began dating romantically.
During their relationship, which lasted only a few months, MediaTakeOut.com learned that Steve bought her a Black Escalade and rented her a luxury condo – where the two would meet regularly.
But, according to Sahel’s ex-boyfriend, Keith Norfleet, Sahel felt that Steve was dragging her along – and began behaving erratically. The boyfriend told a Tenessee newspaper, “[Steve] was making her believe they were going to be together and everything would be perfect.” According to him, she was last spotted banging on Norfleet’s door in the middle of the night – looking to talk. He wasn’t home to … and the next day – Steve McNair was found dead.
And here’s the last piece of evidence. Police found both Sahel and Steve’s bodies at a Nashville condominimum that Steve had been renting for Sahel to live in.
MediaTakeOut.com learned that Steve’s body had a multiple gunshot wounds – including one to the head. And Sahel – well she had a single gunshot wound to the head. And a recently fired pistol was found laying beside her hand.
Sad story …
I KNEW SOMETHING FUNKY WAS UP WITH THIS STORY THE MIN I HEARD IT ON THE NEWS ON SATURDAY. EITHER SHE *** HIM AND TOOK HER OWN LIFE OR SOMEONE SHE WAS DATING CAME IN AND *** THE BOTH OF THEM. I'M SORRY BUT SHE LOOKS CRAZY IN HER PICS. I WILL NEVER FOR THE LIFE OF ME UNDERSTAND THESE PRO ATHLETES. THEY MAKE MILLIONS AND MILLIONS AND SEEM TO WANT TO HAVE IT ALL ON AND OFF THE FIELD WHICH OFTEN INCLUDES A WIFE, SOME KIDS, A LOT OF JUMP OFF'S AND FOR SOME STRANGE REASON A MAIN JUMP OFF WHO THEY FURNISH WITH AN ESCALADE AND A CONDO ON THE SIDE...JUST STAY SINGLE!!!!
This woman is a loser if this is true! Cheating and infidelity isn't right, but it doesn't justify taking someone's life and anyone who thinks that it does is an idiot! I mean WTF people? If someone cheats, or breaks up with you, have some dignity, walk away with your head high and move on. Let your payback be finding a better situation and being happy. You don't kill someone!! ***!
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MTO is full of ***. Another false exclusive. No other credible media outlet is reporting that this is a murder-suicide. As of now it's a murder investigation. And usually your exclusives are wrong. Let's wait and see what the police investigation finds out. Enough speculation MTO! Anyway this is a sad story either way you look at it. Sad because because of the loss to his wife and children.
I'm sorry to hear about the death of McNair...however this is a classic tale of if you give a person enough rope...they will hang themselves...the wife was fully aware of Steve's infidelities, however she refused to chase him down about it...she was living good and quietly out in Green Hills (exclusive area of Nashville) minding her own business...and karma evened the score...you can't do wrong to people and expect nothing to come of it...he had no business cheating...he could have just divorced his wife if he wanted that po trash that bad...he got tricked out by some po trash...
It is dangerous to lead women on, especially nowasdays. This is tragic. He was a great guy and gave back a lot to the community. She was very young, probably *** that he wasn't going to leave his wife and kids for her. She was Iranian from what I hear.Their culture and religious beliefs differ so much from ours, this may have been a factor. Always be upfront about your intentions with people. Honesty is the best policy.
Nasty azz nekka...Thats what his azz gets. Now he is dead! He should of kept his d*ck in his pants. I don't feel one bit of sorry for his azz! Cheating on his *** wife and buying that punjab bytch luxury items oh no! He was doing to *** much and he got dealt with over some coochie and a bytches feelings...Idiot He should of kept his azz at home with his lovely wife and kids!
How can some of yall put cheaters in the same category with rapists and murderers? No matter what he did-he didn't deserve to die like this. But I hope this is a wake up call for all those athletes out there cheating on their wives. It's not worth it--women are striking back and not taking no sh&t. My heart goes out to his wife and kids. R.I.P
MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS WIFE,KIDS,AND MOM WITH HAVING TO DEAL WITH HIS UNTIMELY DEATH AND THE WAY IT PLAYED OUT IS TOO MUCH FOR 1 TO DEAL WITH...AND TO ALL THE JUMPOFFS THAT THINK THEY CAM MAKE A MAN LEAVE HIS HOME KEEP IN MIND U ARE JUST A JUMPOFF NOTHING...JUST GOES TO SHOW BLK WOMEN ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE'S TO SPAZZ OUTT AND THE AGE 20 VERY IMMATURE! RIP
Dont blame it on her being crazy if the guy tells the female the truth about his situation or tell her what is to be expected and let her make that choice for herself if she was the one who killed him and herself my opinion (she wasnt the one) than he wouldnt have had anything to worry about when it came to her getting her feelings hurt but what I would have suggested him to have stayed faithful to his wife
yes, no one is classifying this as a murder-suicide.. but other websites are saying the police are not looking for suspects. according to other websites, the condo belonged to Steve and Wayne Neely...I'm sure the wife new he was stepping out and like most baller's wives.. they turn the other cheek. However, like many have stated... stop dippin out of your significant others. The grass is not always greener on the other sides. Besides, if you paid your wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend, the attention you pay to your side piece.. then your relationship would be healthier and happier.
This was senseless. I knew something wasn't adding up; like the story was missing a huge piece. I think she did it because he wouldn't totally commit to her. And if she couldn't have him, she wasn't going back to working at Dave in Busters and taking the bus. Let this be a lesson! The grass ain't always greener on the other side!
I hate the fact that this ended with two lives taken but he deserves what he got think about how embarassing this is for his wife and children and he should have not been housing that Hoe to begin wit if he wanted to do all thar *** like buying cars and lining her pockets he shoild have divorced his wife and married her
I FEEL SORRY FOR MECHELLE B/C SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN SO PASSIVE...EVEN B4 THEY WERE MARRIED...SHE WOULD JUST SIT BACK AND KINDA KNOW HER PLACE..I THINK THATS Y HE MARRIED HER WAS SHE WAS SO EASY GOING...AND THEY DATED A LONG TIME...WISH SHE WOULD'VE PUT HER FOOT DOWN MORE...JUST REALLY FEEL BAD FOR HER THO!
to Crenee and anybody saying he deserves it and "no symmpathy at all" "he should burn in hell" ...for real? Seriously?!? How you gonna say somebody need to die or worse burn in hell for some cheating?!? I don't cheat and can't stand a cheater but it ain't life and death! Ya'll need to get your mind right.
o pleaze! spare me and wtf ever! this *** brought this upon himself. he would still be alive if he had kept his *** in his pants. y? because there would be no crazy jump off story to tell. he was selfish thinking with his little head instead of his big head. now his children don't have a father and his wife doesn't have a husband. *** up talking about G-D because G-D didn't tell him to behave like a fool
NO ONE DESERVES TO BE EXECUTED FOR INFIDELITY!!!!!
I am sorry for all parties involved. Mechelle is a widow, Steve is dead, and Sahel *** her life. For what? A little stuff on the side.
LET THIS BE A WARNING TO ALL CHEATERS. YOU MAY BE DEALING WITH AN UNSTABLE PERSON AND YOU MAY NOT KNOW IT!!!!
TRUTH!
MTO, you may want to do a little more research. ***. Norfleet's was love sick over this chic. His myspace tells says it all. Also, his friend's myspace, also threaten McNair and Sahel with on his myspace page. Their myspace hasn't been accessed for 3 days. It was her stupid boyfriend and his even stupider friend.
THINK MECHELLE FELT SHE DESERVED TO BE WITH HIM IN HIS TIME OF FAME CUZ SHE WAS THERE B4 HE MADE IT UNDER ANY ***...BUT I THOUGH THE BABIES MAY HAVE CHG HIM...SO SAD STEVE I REALLY HATE IT MAN! I CANT BELIEVE UR BOYS WEREN'T THERE...THEY WERE ALWAYS THERE HOLD'*** THE UMBRELLA...AND U KNOW WHO IM TALK'*** BOUT...OF ALL TIMES I JUST CANT BELIEVE THEM NICCA WASNT THERE
Well, no one deserves to be killed execution style but he should have been honoring his marriage vows and you reap what you sow! I feel bad for his wife she must be distraught and humilated! He was found at a home he rents for his mistress *** and killed she dead next to him he brought shame on their family and that is a sin and a *** shame!
It very well could be a setup, the boyfriend seems to have a lot to say. But what it's going to come down to is the pistol. If there is gunshot residue on her hands at all, any blowback (blood residue) inside the pistol's muzzle because with most suicides the gun is held very close to the head if not directly against the head. Normally in high profile murders the weapon is not left behind unless someone panics or tries to create a setup. So those things along with whatever other details the investigators have will tell what happened. From details given it does SOUND like murder-suicide.
God...
The comments being made here are embarassing. There is no *** of "white girl" or "Arab girl" nonsense from racists with no life whatsoever.
LOL, we can finally put a black man in the White House, but you can't take the racist behavior away from many young black people who grew up saying "***" and "dat white girl" all their life. Grow up, I'm biracial and feel bad for the punks in this country that still care about race.
Steve mcnair was one of da toughest qbs 2 play da game. Whatever happend and wuteva took place surrounding his death does not matter there is a woman that has lost a husband and babies have lost a father 2 me thats da bigger picture. As far these jagoffs trying 2 judge him da bible says let he who is without sin cast da first stone. Remember that u mofos
uracistlosers
just be quiet! this girl was arab and saying so does not make it less true. she should have kept her legs closed to a married man. u should keep your mouth closed as a biracial person on a predominantly african american site. african americans are villanized in society all the time. does the press eliminate their racial make up? noooo so *** up!!!
yeah it's starting like look a murder suicide surpise it don't happen more often in relationships like this. a guy buying and telling a chick there going to be together..then the jumpoff realize she just rented piece of azz. and that lifestyle might end at any moment.. race is not factor, a BW can do the same thing.
These young girls gone wild types are dangerous; she had no real career other than being a waitress and partying and it's obvious through her photos that she wasn't innocent. So many athletes have these young girls on their hip pocket as a side thing for ***; most can buy them off so the girl can accept being a side thing, but some are unstable and can't. You don't mess with young girls. And when you are in a relationship with an athlete; you are not the only one.
man see i didnt wanna go in on these dumb bytches in here but yalls comments r very stupid! wit the exception of a few smart young ladies, u other dumb brawds saying this guy deserved to die cuz he cheated must have had yall dumb azzez cheated on cuz u wasnt good enough to keep ur *** man! yall judging this dude like yall azzez aint never cheated or lusted for another nikka or someone of another race while u was in a relationship! yall do it every *** day but try to act like yall so *** good. man yall ho's be killin me talking bout this man when u stanken *** doin the same ***!
The point of this is that two people were murdered. That in itself is sad. Even if she did it- I am not bold enough to sit here and say who deserved what. A woman is without a husband, children without a dad, and let's not forget the two victims were a part of someone's family too. Whatever the scenario is it's sad. Please, marriage, relationships, dating- be picky, be very picky. Settling for whatever is easy, convenient, or too good to be true can put you in a bad situation. It's better to spend time finding the right one, than losing time or your life trying to get away from the wrong one.
the cops need to investigate the ex. He had on his myspace status "dont let anyone come in between you and the woman you love, because then you will have nothing. The ex and Sahel had only been broken up 5 months, but they had been together 4 years b4 she met McNair. Also, I checked out the "ex" friends page and it said "F*ck a quarterback, who's McNair in 09 anyway, rip Sahel Kazimi" Well the dude posted that on July 2nd!!! His page has been deleted as of this morning. I dont believe the Murder Suicide thing.
Sad situation. That's why it does not pay to cheat because too much is at stake, too many emotions are involved. I feel for everybody in this situation. Especially the wife, she lost her husband and possibly discovered he was cheating. What a harsh reality. Its just not worth it..Its just not worth it!
Okay, I myself have been "left" by an ex-boyfriend who, though I am brownskinned, said that he only liked white, mixed, asian- etc, anything other than black girls. Even still, I will not be caught dead (no pun intended) saying what this man deserved because of messing with someone of a different race. If it was a black woman then it would just be sad and all this racial stuff wouldn't be coming up. It's not right- all that does is back up the stereotype that black women are bitter and jealous of women of another race. Come on women- we are stil great no matter who they choose to be with!
I dont think it matters what color she is but ppl have got 2 do better nobody is gonna be perfect but @ the age of 36 married & with sons its time to get ur life together we are not promised 2 live until 70 or 75 y/o we could go any day at any moment and we need 2 get our lives RIGHT (for me that means accepting Christ and living by his principles) for u it might be sumthin different but when we pass it *** be tragic but if it is ppl should have better things 2 say about us All around this sit is sad just sad
And for the men AND women who cheat on their spouses, plz make sure its worth it McNair may have paid for it in the worst way but others are losing their families, messing up their kids lives and causing other ppl excruciating pain We need 2 be more responsible when we take those vows I would rather for a man to never marry me and leave me than take me our family through years of hell and anguish, thats why any man that didn't wanna treat me right, I let his azz walk cuz it aint worth it
A tragic case of a *** who lost control of his ***
I don’t understand the reasoning of you Negroes in America. You are a recognizable millionaire athlete, *** with a sub-par waitress…a waitress who is earning minimum wage.
You took this brawd and bought her an Escalade and a luxury condo to match….And you had to lie to her, making her think she could ever be more than a side piece…Are you *** kidding me!!!???
You had the position of authority…There is no way this brawd would give up that side-piece role and go back to waitressing. All you had to do is be honest…and made it clear that she is a side-piece and will never be anything more than a side-piece-of-***…I could almost guarantee you, she wouldn’t have turn you down.
But, you negroes are always mystified by piece of a mixed-***…thinking it is worth more than its market value…*** outta here.
DISCLAIMER : I am not promoting infidelity…but being a realist and a perfectionist.…It is what it is…If you are going to do it…do it right….Ahahhahah!!!!
I am out….
I can't say that I think the age matters either, it's about the emotional stability of the person. There are grown women committing murders out here too. But until we know the facts, and actually after, we *** be speaking so ill of the deceased. This girl may have been a victim too and people are calling her all kinds of names. And she could be Indian, or Arab- but her name does not determine her ethnicity. We need to have respect and give our condolences to the families that are mourning. They don't want to read or hear about this negativity.
and another thing...i don't know why some women wast their time on a man who is taken....the same thing he did to her, he will do to you...you are wasting your time and you do not have that platinum....wake up...stop being blinded by things that are unimportant and face reality and men...if you just love women that much, don't wife anyone, until you are ready to be true to ONE!
HE THOUGHT HE WAS BEING SLICK AND MESSING AROUND ON HIS FAMILY, NOT JUST HIS WIFE. IF YOU HAVE KIDS AND YOU CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE, THEN YOU CHEAT ON THE KIDS TOO. IT MESSES UP THE WHOLE FAMILY. EVERYONE'S LIVES. HE GOT CAUGHT UP, THEN *** UP. AND PEOPLE ARE SUPPOSED TO FEEL SORRY?????? PROLLY NOT. IT'S CALLED FATAL ATTRACTION.
I most certainly have to agree with the sentiments expressed by URacistLosers.
The racism and sexism in the Hip Hop culture is ridiculous and reflected sadly in how many young black people talk these days.
Look at how many pathetic "white girl" or "white ***" comments there are here.
Who cares what her race was - the point is Steve McNair made the serious mistake of cheating on his wife.
SHE IS UGLY...RIDICULOUS...BLACK MEN DISGUST & DISAPPOINT ME SOMETIMES FOR REAL...UGLY PERSIAN TERRORIST LOOKIN'HEFFA. HIS POOR WIFE & KIDS. THIS IS SO SHAMEFUL ...............................................................................
B**CH DONT BRING NO PERSIAN TERRORIST TALK INTO THIS! YOU ACTIN LIKE BLACKS HAVIN BEEN KILLIN EACHOTHER FOR NOTHING FOR YEARS!!! SHO STFU WITH YA IGNORANT DUMB ***, KEEP SHOWING OFF THE FAKE *** PIC THATS SUPPOSED 2 B YOUR RING BC YOU PROLLY A UGLY AZZ TROLL! STOP BEIN A RACIST WHO$RE
LMAO @ ALL THIS HATE TOWARDS MIDDLE EASTERN WOMEN FROM THE SAME WOMEN THAT CLAIM RACISM AND INEQUALITY..LIKE BLACK WOMEN DONT HAVE GROUPIES?!??! REALLY?!?!?! SORRY MAYBE IF SHE HAD WROTE A BOOK LIKE "SUPERHEAD" SHE WOULD HAVE MORE SUPPORT FROM SOME OF THESE BLACK WOMEN TALKN RACIST..IM NOT SAYIN ALL BLACK WOMEN AT ALL BUT THE ONES ON HERE WHO HAVE ALL THE HATE INSIDE, LIKE YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT STEVE MCNAIR!...YOU JUST CARE THAT HE WAS KILELD BY A NON BLACK WOMEN LOL THATS HOW PATHETIC YOU SOUND..
I honestly don't feel bad for either of them especially him! Not only was he cheatin but spendin the money he coulda been spendin on his sons on a ***. He was grimey and not only did he play his wife and jump he played himself. Its sad for his family because he died doin some dirt and now they know. My heart goes out to his wife. I hope she gets all his insurance money plus everything he had *and* a new nygga. It all works out in the end. Karma is real
MTO WHY DO U REFER 2 HER AS A JUMPOFF???? THE WOMEN PASSED AWAY OMG...SHE WAS HIS GIRLFRIRND TOO BAD... THEY SAY PRETTY GIRLS ARE THE CRAZIEST WHAT A WASTE CUZ SHE WAS REALLY REALLY PRETTY! R.I.P. McNair YOU DIDNT DESERVE THIS. MEN WHO CHEAT ARE NOT HAPPY HE PROBABLY WASNT HAPPY WUITH HIS MARRIAGE AND WAS LOOKING FOR AN ESCAPE
First off wanna say sorry to all his loved ones for their loss. Ok now for Nayanna's ignorant *** sayin that's what he get for messin w/a white girl. Heffa she's persian! Idiot! U just another ignorant black female jealous ! Sweetie I'm white & have dealt w/ignorant females like urself. Hate on biotch, hate on. U just crack me up! He was playin mind games w/ a 20 yr old girl. A young girl like that couldn't handle being the other woman. Nationality has nothing to do w/ it. But if ur jealous *** feel's more woman to hate on white females, hate away biotch! lol!
I figured she was his lover...I'm not gonna say that's what he gets for cheating on his wife 'cause no one deserves to murdered...Let this be a warning to all men...STAY TRUE TO YOUR WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS...If he wasn't messin' around he wouldn't have died by that girls hands...I used to love watching him play the game though, he was a great player...R.I.P. Steve McNair
JCK---men also talk to younger women because they are easier to please. buy her something cute and she's in love. they also don't know how to distinguish their wants vs. needs and often get caught up because of that. their bodies are still in tact, they arent jaded by other men (for the most part), thus making them niave to serious heart breaks.of course this is not true for all...
Everyone sayin she committed the ultimate biblical sin sound *** ignorant! All sin is equal right!? Thou *** not commit murder is right up there with thou *** not commit adultery. She was wrong for killin him but he was equally as wrong for cheatin. Men take cheatin lightly that is why situations like this occur. Somebody on here said did "she" think about the fact that he had a wife and kids?? Wrong thing to ask. DID HE THINK ABOUT IT?! HIS FAMILY! He's is the catalyst in this situation. If it wouldn't have been this girl it would have been another.
Aino Flag post @NAYANNA
it's a fact that Persians and Arabs are different ethnic groups, Persians are from central Asia, Arabs are middle eastern. Look it up.
Why are you bothering anyway. What do your expect. CNN reported this morning that 74% of young blacks do not graduate high school (that's 3 of every 4).
Her race or ethnicity should not be a factor here unless we want to admit that those awful stereotypes about blacks are also true.
question-- why are many of you all trying to be moral police? if you belong to this site.. you should really be quiet about respect. this site is geared towards GOSSIP and witch hunting 24/7--365. how are you going to be selective about when you pass judgement.. lmao...also.. for those who only see "passing judgement" as one dimensional.. you are also passing judgement when you say someone is pretty. lol or is that an unknown? bless the hearts of children and fools. lmao
This is the legacy he's left his kids...tragic. Yes he cheated but was it worth his life...think not. Todays black man is sometimes sad to watch. Whites are like the forbidden fruit and once they get laced they just have to try it. It's obvious from this chic's pics that she is nothing more than Persian garbage but I guess he only saw the long hair and lite skin. He probably hit it and got a blow job the first day. I'm a Titans fan and have been and will continue to be. Love the guy, sincerly. But like I said, hellava legacy to leave your kids over a nasty jump-off.Your kids pay 4 ur mistakes.
UGH! Why get married if your not going to fully commit to someone, especially if your a pro athlete, u know the pus-C possibilities will be endless!
And why do men deceive women? He deceived BOTH his wife and the jump-off. I'm sure he wasnt sending any clear signals to the jump off about not feeling her hard when he goes and buys her all these luxury items!
His children didn't deserve for their father to die and it's fked up that many men put themselves in these positions all too often. They cheat and there is a huugee chance they will lose their children and the life they lived either w/ d
divorce (most commonly) or by something less common and allthe more tragic like this!
MEN NEED TO STOP BEING DECEIVER OVER PUS-C! Stop playing w/ women's emotions that run very deep. Some women don't care to curb or control those emotions. Either way it's not right. If It wasnt gonna be the jump-off it coudl also have been his wife if he had hurt her enough and she didnt control her emotions.
And why do men deceive women? He deceived BOTH his wife and the jump-off. I'm sure he wasnt sending any clear signals to the jump off about not feeling her hard when he goes and buys her all these luxury items!
His children didn't deserve for their father to die and it's fked up that many men put themselves in these positions all too often. They cheat and there is a huugee chance they will lose their children and the life they lived either w/ divorce (most commonly) or by something less common and allthe more tragic like this!
THIS MAN DONE GOT HIMSELF KILLED BY CRAZY SNOW WHITE AND HE HAD A PRETTY AZZ STABLE BLACK WIFE AT HOME? WOW...THAT'S SOME CRAZY ***...AND PAYING FOR SOME OTHER BYTCH HOUSE WITH HIS FAMILY'S MONEY...THESE NYGGAS ARE SCANDALOUS...IT'S JUST DON'T MAKE NO *** SENSE..I ALREADY KNEW THIS WAS "LUST" GONE WRONG TYPE OF ***..BUT I DIDN'T THINK THE CHICK *** HIM AND HERSELF...
YOUNG GIRLS...LET ME DROP SOME SCIENCE ON YA..BLACK MEN LOVE PUZZY AND MONEY...NOTHING MORE..AND YOU A *** FOOL IF YOU THINK THEY GONNA BE WITH YOUR AZZ AND BE FAITHFUL..AND FOR ALL THE SNOW WHITES, YES...BLACKIE WILL DOG YOUR LITTLE PRETTY SKINNY SELF OUT TOO..THAT *** DOESN'T MEAN NOTHING...AND FOR ALL THE BLACK MEN THAT THINK SNOW WHITE IS SO WONDERFUL..TAKE NOTE OF HOW CRAZY THOSE BYTCHES GET OVER A MAN..STILL WANNA PLAY WITH THAT?
The thing is everybody always got some old self righteous *** *** to say. No body is perfect, who is following your ass*s around *** your every f*ck up? Think about all the shady *** you done in your life, some of which you never got caught for. You may have been to jail in yourlife, or married and divorced. No body's perfect, the difference is that they didn't broadcast your *** on T.V. Yes, this is a bad way to die, but this doesn't sum up this man's life. On the feild this man was one of the toughest s.o.bs to ever play football.
Funny how people are saying that he brought this on himself for cheating on his wife…..let’s try to keep in mind that we don’t know what their marriage was like
for all we know they could have still been married but separated (if you know what I mean)…..also I’m seeing people post that I know I saw post in the CB and RI threads a few months ago and at that time it was “under no *** should a man hit a women” and now all of a sudden it’s “well this is what happens”…..*** hypocrites
@TDR25
Women are loony by nature (you write)? I have a name for you to consider...OJ Simpson. He is like this 20 year old! The only difference is she turned the gun on herself and OJ ran and hide in a van...today he is jail(not for murder charges but for being STUPID). This sad event has nothing to do with race or gender!
Off the field, this man donated outstanding amounts of cash to various causes. I remember when our dumb *** government couldnt get a bottle of water in to Katrina victims, this man sent 18 wheelers loaded with food into damaged areas. So don't be so quick to judge, cause like I said no body is perfect. (Forever #9)
@BROOKLYNLATINA..I GET WHAT YOU SAYING..BUT IMMA HAVE TO JUMP ON THE CHICKS...THESE WOMEN NEED TO WAKE UP OUT OF FAIRY TALE LAND AND REALIZE WHAT THESE NYGGAS ALL ABOUT...BLACK MEN ARE ABOUT.. PUZZY AND MONEY..A WOMAN IS A *** FOOL IF SHE THINK A BLACK MAN, ESPEICALLY ONE WITH A LITTLE MONEY IS GOING TO FAITHFUL..HELL TO THE NAW...I SEE LIFE THE WAY IT IS..NOT THE WAY IT OUGHT TO BE.
My sincere sympathies go out to his WIFE and CHILDREN. They described his wife as being “VERY DISTRAUGHT” and I can believe it!!! I can’t imagine being told my husband has been found *** dead in a condo with another woman (OF ANY RACE)…. Then to discover that he has supplied this female with vehicles and a place to stay?.. LAWD HAMMERCY !! How would a wife grieve?? I can’t feel sorry for this man… He obviously had NO PROBLEM “paying the price” to get what he wanted
But in regards to his wife: There’s nothing like having to raise a son NOT to follow in the footsteps of his own FATHER
I agree with TDR25,Magic827,JCK, & BrooklynLatina.
From what some of the posters are stating there is more to this story, like the ex-boyfriend. This whole thing is wrong in every way you look @ it. She may or may not have been crazy before they meet. But one thing for sure, her crazy-ness came out during their time together. Men will do that to you, sons of ***.
She looks like an uneduated trashy ***, who doesn't even have looks on her side. I guess all she needed to get him was youth and willingness. Now he's dead, and has shamed his famliy for this ugly piece of middle eastern punta. He paid the ultimate price for his cheating, but I doubt others will heed the message of this sad cautionary story.
Keep in mind folks, none of us knew his life, his marital relationship, the relationship with this girl, nor were any of us at the scene of the crime. Assumptions are fine, but let us not say what we "know" because all we have so far is media based speculations, the case has not been closed yet. In the meantime we need to remember that we are all human and murder is not okay in any situation. And we need to give condolences- not make judgements because we don't know the facts yet. If they were separated I'm sure his wife had an idea. Either way condolences to her and all the families involved.
@SPICY_HOTT
I thougt nobody deserved to DIE!! Dame I really got under your nasty skin HAHAHA I FEEL GOOD!!! How do you know what my stuff looks like Have you been in it??? oH You just want to get in it? Thanks but No thanks. I See the Holyness you were preaching B4 went wayyyy out the window. HAHAHAH B!t$h
Let me say this: McNair was separated from his wife but he had a track record of infidelity. His wife, Mechelle is personally familiar with his wandering eye as she can attest. I know his death is shocking to her, but his cheating is NOT!! In the upcoming days, it will be reveal that McNair also had drinking/marijuana issues and owned multiple handguns and an assault rifle but I won't get into that right now.
This is a sad situation all around. McNair was flawed but he did great things for his community. This 20 year old is dead and all because she couldn't accept rejection. Sad!
I take MTO rags with a grain of salt. Anyways, you can't play with people emotions. Playing with someone emotions doesn't justify murder at all, but who told your *** to cheat? Or told you to be with someone who is barely out of your teens? If people had high standards, this likely wouldn't have happened.
RedDragon
In my experience, men are only as faithful as their options, this goes for most men. I just think these men should stop putting themselves in positions that could ruin their lives (i.e. having to pay alimony & child support at best, or their lives at worst) over pus-c. Is new pus-c really that serious for some of you men? Most women I chill w/ including myself love monogamy and loyalty and could care less about new d!ck, esp if its gonna interfere w/ or ruin what you have at home.
I think it's interesting that some of you are talking about men deceiving women but purposely left out the fact that this chick had a bf of 4 yrs she was creeping on McNair with. Is that not deceiving? Yes McNair was wrong and so was she. How can he deceive her when she knew he was MARRIED? It doesn't get any clearer than that. If you are going to throw blame, throw it on both parties.
And regardless, neither deserved to die over this. Some of you don't know the situation with McNair and his wife.
@TDR2D2...LOL...WOMEN ARE LOONEY BY NATURE? NAH PLAYA..HOW ABOUT YOU MEN ARE CRAZY..LET ME TELL YA STORY...HAPPENED IN MY HOOD....I REMEMBER A DUDE HAD A WIFE AND A BABY MAMA...HE WAS STILL MESSING WITH THE BABY MAMA...SHE TRIED TO BREAK IT OFF...HE WASN'T HAVING IT...SO SOMEHOW SHE AND THE SON SHE HAD WITH THE GUY ENDED UP IN THE WOODS...HER STRANGLED AND TIED TO A TREE..AND THE BOY WAS LEFT OUT IN THE WOODS FOR 24 HOURS..BITTEN BY SNAKES AND BUGS..HE LIVED..BUT I'M SURE THAT KID IS A MENTAL MESS..SO WHO'S LOONEY NOW? SORRY HONEY..I AINT GETTING CRAZY OVER YOU FOOLS, I KNOW WHAT YALL ABOUT..
This STILL sounds fishy!! I don't think the girlfriend pulled the trigger! It says she had one *** hole in her head. Women are not known to commit suicide by physically harming themselves! Women are known for cutting themselves are taking pills. Women do not want to be found with any bruises to their body. Men do not care! You should always be SUSPICIOUS when it is said a women took her own life by a gunshot wound! Please keep this family in your prayers.
Lexia
The chick involved was ignorant for sure, but take into account she was very young (20) and very immature it seems. I'm not condoning what she did at ALL, she was wrong for messing with him in the first place. But you have this older, more powerful man who may have wined and dined her and swayed her with promises and gifts. Many young women that age probably wouldn't have stood a chance. He may have swept her off her feet. Regardless her emotions got too deep and way overboard and now two people are dead and a widow and her sons are left to mourn.
My heart goes out to his WIFE! not only did she lose her husband his *** mitress is the *** that killed him..she has to bury her husband and to bury him knowing he was cheating on her is just too painful i know!! These black niccas go out here findign these young *** to *** and wife up on the side thinking they into somethng and look what happened to his ***..he ran into a crazy ***!! SO SAD!!! i feel for the wife and kids...its embarrassing too!! she dont deserve tha!!! nobody do!
If I were his wife, I would set up the funeral arrangements and not even attend. It was better when I thought it was a robbery gone bad.....but now I'm having trouble feeling anything but disgust for this man.
He was sooo out of pocket on this one.
I keep hearing that song in my head from the movie CHICAGO...."He Had It Comin"
Men rarely want to live their wives for jumpoffs. RIP. Black women will most likely take your *** to the cleaners but at least you may still have life! I sure the wife didn't know he had a jump off becuase from all reports she is absolutely devastated. Karma be stepping out on his wife and kids. I hate to say it but black men are simply trifflin and never happy with their own skin color.
@ ***
Typical comment from you! Its not only "these hateful hos" that's mamking light of the fact she is non black, but alot of BM are saying the same things. Did you miss that part? You are no different from these "hateful hos" who love to place blame on others. BM like you always blaming WM and BW for your destruction instead of looking in the mirror at yourselves!
I'm amazed by the ignorance on here...(wait a minute, no I'm not) Let's see we've had I don't know how many white politicians and celebrities to cheat and get caught up with younger women, and this is only a black man's issue? The governor of SC went off to another country and didn't tell a soul where he was going and had everyone looking for him, wife included and found out he was having an affair...
And I'm not really trying to hear these excuses about the women being young and were deceived. At 18, you are a legal adult everywhere in the country. She was 20. I've had several married men trying to holler at me in my late teens and early twenties but I never folded because I knew they were MARRIED. All this he/she was young ish is for the birds because you know *** well there isn’t any coming back from death…and you know *** well what being married means. If a person commits murder at the age of 20, should they skip going to jail because they were “young”? Both were wrong. She would’ve never been “deceived” had she not attempted to be deceitful first by playing her boyfriend of four years. No one is innocent here. My prayer goes out to Mechelle and the family.
@TheBestEver
*** be killing me with the stupidness talking about he *** have messed with anybody other than a black chic cause this type of *** happens...*** PLEASE!!!! come off of the Nonsense... ======
They are delusional if they don’t think black, asian, spanish women wouldn’t have done the same
@hotbunny
Yeah but dude just liked to run around way too much, married or not. I'm telling you he had no respect. Other cultures are raised differently, the girl was supposedly with the other guy for four years and would've probably married him, but then she meets Steve and he comes up talking all of that suga daddy cap, so she thinks she's found her king, when in reality he's telling three other women the same CON =======
Respect for what?...The game of *** is nothing new…it’s an old game, played by Saints, Popes, Princes and villains alike.
Don’t fool yourself thinking it is more than that. What’s even more telling, even women are playing you for that pucci…enough already…I love how you think other cultures of men aren’t the same…really?
You should marry a Persian man…I will guarantee you, he will have 3 to 4 mistresses or wives…and not a *** thing you can do about it
@brooklynlatina
And why do men deceive women? He deceived BOTH his wife and the jump-off. I'm sure he wasnt sending any clear signals to the jump off about not feeling her hard when he goes and buys her all these luxury items!
=========== You make it seem like only men deceive women…ahaaha!!!...Women deceive women…women deceive men…all the time…it is what it is
@broolylantina
In my experience, men are only as faithful as their options, this goes for most men. I just think these men should stop putting themselves in positions that could ruin their lives (i.e. having to pay alimony & child support at best, or their lives at worst) over pus-c. =========== See…you would have had my applause there…only one thing…People (not just men) are only faithful as their options….let’s be real…Women will cheat just as much as some if giving the opportunity or option….ahahah!!! Hey…what is the statistics on cheating women…let’s time I checked the scale was tipping slightly more on the side of women…
For all of the mistresses/jumpoffs that believe married men are not cheating on their wives if they're separated": YOU'RE WRONG! According to the Bible and the law, you're not released from your marriage unless it's legally dissolved + Christians must have Biblical grounds for divorce: adultery (only the victim is released) and death.
I think he got what he deserved for creepin' with that a-rab biotch...NOT! Once again, MTO is perpetuating racism and ***. "See, McNair had a beautiful black wife, and then when a non-black female became involved, tragedy struck." Now we can all respond by saying we saw it coming, as if it wouldn't have happened if the "jump-off" were black. We can also use our resentment to forget that cheating--in any ***--is wrong, and that we really don't know anything about this case yet.
da_advocator
Sorry but i only speak from my own experiences and the type of women I chose to surround myself with. Cheating isn't an option for me. I would rather be honest (as i did in one relationship) and tell the man I am with that I wasn't feeling the same way or ambivalent over him anymore and before I disrespected him and myself by cheating I would rather let him go.
This is not a BM issue. Cheating cuts across race, gender, religion and nationality. I mean the BIGGEST cheater was Bill Clinton (a white man). However, BrooklynLatina is right! You have to take into account that this was 20 year old messing around with an older, mature man (Steve knew the game, as he played it alot). This girl just got caught up and believed they had a future together. The difference between the SC governor and McNair was the governor messed around with an OLDER lady.
It doesn't excuse cheating and my heart goes out to Steve's wife/children and that young lady's fami
Oh-oh-oh oooh. You. Just. KNOW. what. THIS. is. about.
*** FIENDS y'all ought not give JUMP OFFS all this extra attention. Let them take a few nuts to the face- she was OBVIOUSLY that chick.
The one he could have filthy *** with, pay her enough to keep her around with open mouf and legs. Then it dawned on her she was an OBJECT. a play thang. b but WHO was the REAL *** here? Luxury condos and ***. O. M. ***. GAWD. Look WHO DEAD? Who got pimped and paid with HIS LIFE? FOR A coupla GOOD *** sessions? Look who left a soon to be Bitter Black Woman alone to raise fatherless sons??? smd
the following are opinions only - i aint looking for king james bible quotes on this here day of the lord *** about matrimony and adultery taking vows etc....talkin 'bout vows; half of y'all stopped listening or insisted on changing the verbage of the 'honor and obey' part anyway.
Oh-oh-oh oooh. You. Just. KNOW. what. THIS. is. about. For those that ignore the power you are sitting on right now. Get a nicca kilt. *** FIENDS y'all ought not give JUMP OFFS all this EXTRA GOT-*** attention- it gets them confused about their place.
she was OBVIOUSLY *THAT* chick. BLESS HER (BIPOLAR?) HEART. The one he could have filthy *** with, pay her enough to keep her around with open mouf and legs. Then it dawned on her she was an OBJECT. a play thang.
He probably had love for his wife and didnt want to objectify and defile her doing the thangs he wanted to do. And sorry, I know some of y'all don't like these OPINIONS -but if you think a HIGHLY PHYSICAL, ambiutious, energetic *** AND RICH man isnt going to entertain some fantasies- be GLAD you married to a REGULAR guy? lol lol lol-he can't afford to keep one, so he gotta settle for overweight chicks at the job. EASY PUCCI. KEEP IT ON THE LOW LOW BUY HER A CATFISH AND CHICKEN WANG DINNER and she straight. She don't want your broke ***, so she aint gonna sweat you, she just want some *** and affection sometimes lol lol lol You think most men want to have slow and passionate loving *** with one woman for the rest of his natural life? AND THEN ITS *When* *SHE* FEELS* like it. (once a month)
Don;t know about y'all, but *I* don't want a niqqa chasin me around my house, *** in hand ESPECIALLY if he got a gorilla ***. Maybe in my 20s...i remember actually being chased........................................................
*oh* snaps out of it
But after 10 15 years of marriage, is it fair to insist men think of *** the way a female and her female friends friends do? Most women fake it til they have kids, then I'm tired becomes the reason NOT to do it. Dude may have wanted to pull hair, gag a biitch sometimes, do really nasty things and DID NOT WANT TO OBJECITFY HIS WIFE.
BUT..... WHO was the REAL *** here? Luxury condos and ***. O. M. ***. GAWD. Look WHO DEAD? Who got pimped and paid with HIS LIFE? FOR A coupla GOOD *** sessions? Look who left a soon to be Bitter Black Woman alone to raise fatherless sons??? smd this is Shakespearean
RedDragon Flag post @I'MSICKOFRADIOANDTV...LOVE DOESN'T MAKE YOU ACT THAT WAY..THESE FOLKS AINT IN NO *** LOVE..SHE WAS IN LUST WITH THAT DYCK.. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> It was luv. He lied and told her what she wanted to hear instead of the truth and she believed it. (my guess)You mentioned some good points though.
@post...my heart goes out to his sons who no longer have their dad.
Time will tell if this was a murder/suicide. I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't. Arab/Persian/Muslim men don't play when it comes to their women messing around w/ non-Muslims, especially black men. It's a religious/cultural issue.They'll kill their sisters/women w/ the quickness to rid them of or remove them from such disgrace!
Lexia,
Was she really still with her BF of 4 years when she left him fr Steve? Like I said before I don't condone what she did because I woudl have never intentionally hooked up with ANY man knowing that he was married. Not at 15 and most certainly not now. But alot of these young chicks tend to make excuses for these type of men, more-so if the man may be implying that they are "separated" or only with the wife for the kids sake. I have heard those excuses from men all my life. Thank God I've been smart enough to read between those lines. Some women may just want the perks taht go with that
Vaginal hypnosis is a ***. A lot of Cats are still doing the same thing, Steve got caught in the worse way. Men have this fantasy about the cooch in all it's glory that keeps us in trouble. If we REALLY knew and saw it's purposes ( medical tapes) we'd become eunuchs.
Condolences to the Wife and kids...
Please lets not blame our black men coz white men do this too. It's sad for his wife and especially his boys.
Lets not judge his young woman, it doesn't matter whether she was Arab or Persian, becoz this is someones daugther, sister, friend etc. None of us are perfect. This could happen to anyone, anyone can snap.
Sistahs, we need to stop hating on women of other ethnicities. That makes us bitter. Our men, not all, go after them and then we want to hate on the woman. I have a lot of black friends in Europe married to white men, and the white women there are not hateful towards sistahs.
@ ***
Whatever! You wrote it and I called it. You love to sit back and judge others, but you can't handle it when someone does the same thing to you. BTW, my organization has done more for the black community than your sorry azz ever have. My advice to you: learn to be more mindful with your comments. BM are saying the same things about McNair and this lady, but you want to focus on "hateful hos" (which is your way of saying BW).
@teefierce
For all of the mistresses/jumpoffs that believe married men are not cheating on their wives if they're separated": YOU'RE WRONG! According to the Bible and the law, you're not released from your marriage unless it's legally dissolved + Christians must have Biblical grounds for divorce: adultery (only the victim is released) and death. ===========
Really? Well, since your bible says so...then it should become law...How about all cheating are punishable by 10 years in jail...aahhahaha!!!!
Let's be real, cheating is a moral offense and should only concern the parties involved...all other *** who love to sound self-righteous….if given the same opportunity, would have done the same.
They would have left their men to entertain a famous millionaire….they would have accepted his gifts and never questioned the intent of the gift. They would have lied to themselves, filling their minds with the illusion that they are more than just a side-piece
Ahahahah!!!!
The only thing this man guilty off….is Karma…If you disrupted the natural balance of this Universe with negative energy…the Universe will always seek to re-balance itself. This is the Universe re-balancing itself
The law of conservation of energy and matter
I am out…have a good afternoon.
Hey everyone just remember the 80/20 rule! In life the one you love will always give you 80% of what you need. Jump offs are the other 20%, yeah the jump off looks great and they are great in bed but at the end of the day, in mist cases they go back to the wife or husband, well in this case Steve never made it back home. If found your 80 leave that 20 alone it is nothing but trouble.
1) It's tragic that he had to go out like that. Steve McNair was one hell of a footballer.
3) To all the Black women spewing racist hatred, and saying that's what he gets, sit your bitter ***' *** down and sip on a tall, cold glass of STFU. Most of you couldn't point out Saudia Arabia or Iran on a map if your lives depended on it. Stop being angry because Black men left your *** a long time ago. Open up your options and start dating outside of your race too. Otherwise quit yer bellyaching. Oh yeah, I am a Black woman.
This is worth a repeat:
da_advocator said:
"They would have left their men to entertain a famous millionaire….they would have accepted his gifts and never questioned the intent of the gift. They would have lied to themselves, filling their minds with the illusion that they are more than just a side-piece…"
All of y'all talking *** about cheating and quoting bible versus need to marinate on that. Because most certainly MOST of you were also a side piece at some point in time. Again, sit your *** down.
Okay, Ms_Stanley has been watching too much Why Did I Get Married. Anywayz, once again why do we care about what Kim does? She is NOT famous for anything accept f u ck ing Ray-J. She is not an actress or singer. I wish the media and reporters stop giving this check so much undeserved attention. She still nobody to me. She is just a female that screwed a celebrity.
da_advocator
Furthermore I have been in a situation where I was with a regular joe who made the average dollar, and was being enticed by a very good looking man w/ brand new luxury car, w/ a very very good and stable income, who was really trying to pursue me with a vengeance. That was my "option" I didn't even give that option a second thought. I was so in love w/ my significant other and respected him so, that nothing could deter me from what I had at home. i just don't get when others don't make the same assessment for their own partners over a moment of carnal pleasure.
She broke it off with her boyfriend to be with McNair. They moved to Nashville together. Her bf tried to warn her of messing with a married man. And then she lied to him saying she was going to break it off with Steve.
Ex-boyfriend worried Keith Norfleet, who said he dated Kazemi for four years before they broke up five months ago, was worried about her dating McNair, a married man. She met McNair while she was a waitress at Dave & Buster’s Grand Sports Cafe, he said. Norfleet said they’d been speaking a lot recently and she planned to break it off with McNair. He said she banged on his apartment door early Saturday morning, but she left before he could get to the door. He spent much of Saturday afternoon looking for her and trying to find out if she was the woman who died with McNair.
“She was a very strong, independent girl. A hard worker,” said Norfleet, who had hoped to get back together with her. “She had a huge heart. She was very caring, very loving.”
Either way they both paid wages 4 their sins. They will have to deal wit JEHOVAH GOD *Psalms 83:18* the one & only true GOD for breaking the ten commandments. Its sad he would destroy his family this way, how embarrassing. BLACK-MAN, I say to u stop all of this extra sexual activity, do not let ur flesh become weak, and ruin ur life, its NOT worth it! U either end wit a disease dat is incurable or death.
@almasez: Just because you, apparently, don't live by any moral/ethical rules or doctrine...... ** oh boy. sorry wrong again. I KNEW this was coming. so *** predictable I live life with my eyes wide open- that does NOT mean i CONDONE this. If anything it IS a MORALITY TALE.
Psychopaths taught religion to us so anything that deals with it is suspect to me, so don't bring that noise..
Knowing to do RIGHT is inherent who ANYONE of a higher conscious and I don't deal with people who cannot control their urges. I PROMISE you him and his families 'doctrine' is more similar to YOURS than MINE. So typical, folks guote the good book all day but when they think no ones looking...creep creep Dont get mad at me for being an eavesdropper and voyeaur and calling that *** out on a ***. hypocrites.. . lol
shoo...Go away...I'm not looking for any e battles with y'all today peace
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I CAN ONLY FEEL SORRY FOR STEVE'S WIFE.
AND STEVE'S CHILDREN.
SHE HAS GONE THROUGH ALOT OF PAIN AND HURT BY HIS CHEATING WAYS.
STEVE EVEN TOOK HIS MISTRESS ON VACATION!
GOD SAYS YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW!
SOME REAP FINACIAL PROBLEMS! SOME ARE LONELY IN OLD AGE! SOME HAVE LEGAL PROBLEMS! SOME HAVE MAJOR HEALTH PROBLEMS!
BUT TRUST YOU WILL REAP.
SO I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR STEVE.
I FEEL SORRY FOR HIS WIFE. AND CHILDREN. AND SOMEONE FOR THE MISTRESS BECAUSE SHE WAS YOUNG AND NAIVE.
THAT'S GOOD FOR HIS *** ESPECIALLY IF HE WAS CHEATING WITH HER. MAYBE THIS WILL TEACH THE REST OF YOU BLACK DUMB *** MEN THAT BECOMES ATHLETES THEN SUDDENLY A BLACK WOMEN IS NO LONGER GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU. HOPE THE *** WAS WORTH IT. NOW YOUR DEAD AND YOUR WONDERFUL BLACK WIFE WILL ENJOY LIVING OFF YOUR MONEY AND SHE DESERVES IT TOO. SEE HOW LIFE WORKS YOU ***!
Keith Norfleet better be glad it was Steve, and not him, GOD is good! here's his myspace page:*[link to external website removed] My heart goes out to Mechelle and the 4 boys, Steve may u rest in peace my brother, but u wrong for this! Wowerz, u make black men look really bad, U were put in a situation to make a difference, and just like Adan & Eve, the devil was able to get u too.
WHY DON'T WOMEN KNOW THAT MEN USUALLY DON'T LEAVE THEIR WIVES FOR MISTRESSES? BUT THEN AGAIN, MEN NEED TO STOP LEADING WOMEN ON AND PLAYING WITH THEIR EMOTIONS. HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED. AND UNFORTUNATELY, MANY WOMEN ARE NAIVE, CRAZY AND JEALOUS. I SEE HOW HATEFUL, JEALOUS AND CRAZY WOMEN R EVERYTIME I COME TO THIS WEBSITE LET ALONE IN EVERYDAY LIFE. WOMEN NEED TO STOP LETTING INSECURITY AND EMOTIONS CONTROL THEIR LOGIC. THIS IS TRAGIC. I HOPE BOTH REST IN PEACE BUT I FEEL FOR HIS CHILDREN THE MOST.
Yeah Yeah KIMPEACH whatever helps you sleep at ***. Just because you know what love and loyalty are doesn't mean that someone didn't have you booty-tootin' for cash at some point in your life.
And yes, I have no problem admitting what I've done in my past because I'm not a hypocrite and this is the effing internet for gawd's sakes. But let's not argue. Whatever you say girl, you are absolutely right and I hope you feel better.
**Hugs** ;-)
teefierce has a good point im not convinced this was a murder suicide just yet cause she had a boyfriend when she met mcnair and them alot of them arab muslims hate no-muslims aka infidels a lot of rich muslim arabs in africa and middleeast own blacks as slaves as quiet as its kept in before anyone comes at me on b.s. i dont hate arabs and i think they have some beautiful women same as mexicans but i know alot dont like black folks
THIS A VERY UNFORTUNATE SITUATION FOR THEM BOTH BUT EVEN MORE SO FOR HIS WIFE, KIDS AND MOTHER..THIS HAS BROUGHT BOTH SHAME AND HUMILIATION ON THE FAMILY..BUT THIS FEMALE KNEW THAT SHE WAS NOTHING MORE THAN A RENTED PIECE OF AZZ..THE IDEA THAT HE WASNT GONNA LEAVE HIS WIFE AND SHE HAD TO TAKE THE BACK SEAT TO A BLACK WOMAN PUSHED OVER THE EDGE..BEING THAT SHE WAS WILLING TO BRING COMPANY INTO THE BED ROOM AND HIS WIFE WASNT...BUT SHE WAS NOTHING MORE THAN A TOY WILLING TO GO THE XTRA MILE'S IN THE BEDROOM
@brooklynlatina
Furthermore I have been in a situation where I was with a regular joe who made the average dollar, and was being enticed by a very good looking man w/ brand new luxury car, w/ a very very good and stable income, who was really trying to pursue me with a vengeance. That was my "option" I didn't even give that option a second thought. I was so in love w/ my significant other and respected him so, that nothing could deter me from what I had at home. i just don't get when others don't make the same assessment for their own partners over a moment of carnal pleasure.
============ And you will never get it why others seek to act on their most carnal urges…until it happens to you.
I like your story…but, let’s be clear…the mere fact you didn’t act on your pursuers advance doesn’t mean you won’t if everything aligns itself. All you are saying in your story is that the guy wasn’t right for you…for whatever reason, he didn’t stir your passion.
Now…Suppose the guy did stir your passion…Now you are faced with a dilemma…On one side of the coin you have a man you been with and is in love with…on the next side is your pursuer, who you feel passionate about.
What’s you decision? You see, the human mind is methodical…but the heart is unpredictable…When these two organs aren’t in balance, it’s like evil and good warring inside of you.
Your mind tells you…your pursuer has money, he is good looking, and you are passionate about him…maybe if you try him out for one ***, he may be the one for you…the perfect guy.
But, the heart responds…but, you’ve been with your guy for several months, he is good to you…never wronged you and you are in love with him, why would you betray his love and trust?
Now…you have a dilemma…What do you do…?...if you are like 99% of the human population, you began to adopt a defense mechanism, where you began to lie to yourself…where you began to create or map excuses for an act you are about to commit. It is these excuses or delusionary tactics that allows you to commit the act to start with. It makes it easier to cheat
You see…you begin thinking…it’s only for one ***…I am just going out to dinner nothing more…or it’s only a small gift, it’s not that expensive…or we only have a friendship relationship, it’s nothing serious
This is reality…but, keep in mind…for every act there is an opposite and equal re-act –ion.
Karma is real…I am out.
@ADE...its SUNDAY...its not too late 4 u...u gotta friend in JESUS, now take yo *** to somebody's CHURCH! lol...b4 i slap u wit this hotwater cone-bread, hahaha! oH YEA MY SISTERS: Real talk, not all blackmen are like this, there are still some good ones out there, stop looking 4 material gains sisters. Find a brother who is real and normal.
ADE - GO 2 CHURCH
@Doll11-One You come on mto everyday with your dumb stupid *** comments and you don't make sense. How old is your dumb ***. Hold up let me guess??? 3 years old. You are a follower and a fat lonley b^tch. Get a life you clown. You try to be funny and you have no humor. You piggy back off of others comment (Goon Like) and you come across as elementary in your tone. Let me give you a website to visit, hooked-on-phonics..com cuz you are as basic as they come. FYI, The Jump Off can't go to jail because she is dead too. You dumb Broad. I donate to UNCF because THE MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WAIST.
REALLY DONT WANNA PLAY THE RACE CARD BUT HEY HERE I GO..I WANT ALL THESE OTHER RACES NON-BLK TO KNOW THAT UR PUZZY AINT HITT'*** THAT GOOD 2 MAKE A MAN DIVORCE HIS FAMILY..UR JUST A RENTED PIECE OF AZZ..WHO'S LIFE STYLE IS SUBJECT CHG @ ANY GIVEN MOMENT SO DONT GET COMFY CUZ JUMP OFF'S ARE REPLACED QUICK!
@DA ADOCATOR..SOME OF WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE..BUT ALL WOMEN ARE NOT GOLDDIGGERS..WHEN A WOMAN LETS A MAN "PUT HER UP"...SHE'S GIVING HIM CONTROL OF HER LIFE...AND I WOULD NEVER LET A MAN CONTROL ME LIKE THAT..IVE BEEN GIVEN NUMEROUS OPPORTUNITIES BY OLDER MEN TO BE "PUT UP"...BUT I HAVE MORALS..I DON'T HAVE MARRIED MEN AND I DON'T DATE ANYONE THAT'S UNAVAILABLE...I'LL RIDE IT OUT ALONE AND HOPE FOR A BETTER..THAT'S WHAT A REAL STRONG BLACK WOMAN DOES..
Men need to stop cheating this….men need to stop cheating that…..you know what when will the women accept their *** *** comings
.if a man wants *** and his wife is not in the mood then he needs to respect her feelings
if a woman wants *** and the man is not in the mood then he’s a fruit
that’s some of the most ignorant *** out their
.bottom line is this (and it goes out to all the women out their)
if your man can’t get what he’s looking for at home then he’ll go and look for it somewhere else
maybe more of you should just stick to women on women relationships because it seems like most of you don’t want to be with a man anyway
you just doing it because your trying to stay face
Now…Suppose the guy did stir your passion…Now you are faced with a dilemma…On one side of the coin you have a man you been with and is in love with…on the next side is your pursuer, who you feel passionate about.
What’s you decision?
Once again I've been in this position more than a few times. My decision, stop putting myself in a position where things could go down that coudl damage what I hold dear and love. I dont get why people just dont think about the other person and are selfish. If you start having feelings for someone else, leave the person you are with that isnt doing it for you an
You see…you begin thinking…it’s only for one ***…I am just going out to dinner nothing more…or it’s only a small gift, it’s not that expensive…or we only have a friendship relationship, it’s nothing serious
------------------------------------------ I don't lead anyone on or keep them on a string if MY interntions are not honorable or sincere, and I cannot be sincere if I am with someone else, so i would never accept any invitation or gift that comes with strings attached.
da-advocator
Let me tel you something. Lets just say I'm not an ugly woman. I get alot of "options" presented to me often. But when I am with somoene I amd with them out of genuine and sincere feelings. and I think about how hard it is for them to deal with thinking their girl is getting propositioned by different men on the regular and that it's "only a matter of time before she plays me" See that makes me even more determined to be the good woman and keep myself out of sticky situations. i have also always been the type to only have eyes for whoever I'm with, ruling out competition.
cont.. If I dont feel strong enough for a person or feel that my attentions can possibly be swayed by another then I don't even bother commiting to that person. Why should I? Why have a BF if I feel that if a better option comes along I will cheat? Why get married if I cannot discipline myself to be loyal to the person I have exchanged vows with? "FORSAKING ALL OTHERS" to me is not just words to regurgitate to please a crowd.
*** WILL NEVER LEARN, NOW BOTH FAMILY'S HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE FACT THAT THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS WENT OUT VERY SHAMELESSLY.
BLACK NFL PLAYERS ARE OFFICIALLY IDIOTS. I MEAN NBA DON'T HARDLY GET INTO THIS MUCH TROUBLE, NOT TO WHERE THEY END UP *** LIKE THESE DUMB A$$ FOOTBALL PLAYERS. MAYBE THEY SHOULD MAKE THE SEASON LONGER BECAUSE THEY SURE BE GETTING INTO A LOT OF CHYT OFF SEASON.
IT'S A SAD STORY AND I HOPE THE BEST FOR BOTH FAMILIES BUT I HOPE THIS IS A LESSON TO ALL YOU MEN WHO LIKE TO PLAY WITH WOMAN HEARTS AND YOU WOMAN WHO LIKE TO MESS WITH MARRIED MEN.
**Most women I chill w/ including myself love monogamy and loyalty and could care less about new d!ck, esp if its gonna interfere w/ or ruin what you have at home**
I appreciate that statement BROOKLYNLATINA... if more ppl adopted that attitude who knows how far we could get
@LEXIA u are so right 2 bring up the SC governor dude disappeared& then got on tv and said he can die now that he's found his soul mate Oh but hes "trying to fall back in love with my wife" I would pack my stuff and bounce just off of that statement women need 2 stop enabling these men (ex. Senator Edwards wife)
*** i'm glad i took a several crim justice courses in college along with a forensic sceince class. all ya'll got it twisted. if you listened to the press conference post autopsy, you would know that the cops think the boyfriend did it.
two things stand out.
- cops still not ruling anything out - cops not searching for outside suspects
this is because the autopsy shows inconclusive evidence that she pulled the trigger. gun residue would have been EVIDENT on her hands. since it WAS NOT they are waiting on the ballistics tests to be POSITIVE.
*** YA'LL NAIVE.
creamgirl
alot of male athletes, particulaly african american, are drawn to things that doesn't make sense!!! they can't seem to juggle new-found fame, fortune, and women!! these things have always been around, just out ofthe reach. of african american men!! they just lose their *** mind!! u don't see venus and serena acting like that!!
My sympathy goes out to the wife and children of Steve...Cheaters this should be a lesson to all... Try to get slick and get ya self swiss cheesed out by a young girl emotinally *** up in the head...The wife should let Steve's side of the family bury him (she should wipe her hands off the funeral) take her share of money for the children
THIS IS MY LAST POST..HOPEFULLY SOME PPL WITH SENSE WILL GET IT.. 1 STEVE WAS NOT CREEPING,HE AND MECHELLE BEEN SEPERATED A LONG WHILE 2 HE DIDNT MEET HER AT 16!!! 3 HE WAS A EXCELLENT FATHER PLEASE BE MINDFUL OF WHAT U PUT IN THE UNIVERSE DONT BELIEVE ALL WHAT YOU HEAR WE(THE FAMILY)UNDERSTAND PPL WILL HAVE THIER OWN THOUGHTS BUT SOME OF U SHOULD REMEMBER LET HE WHO HAS NOT SINED CAST THE FIRST STONE! MY OWN THOUGHTS IS WHETHER HE OFFICIALLY DIVORCED OR NOT WOULDNT HAVE STOPPED WHAT HAPPENED.ON BEHALF OF MY FAMILY AND IN TRIBUTE TO MY COUSIN WE THANK EVERYONE WHO SHOWS LOVE&THANK U