: This appears to be child abuse to us ... if anyone knows the woman in the film ... you may want to reach out to local authorities and have this investigated...
Oh Pahleeeezeee...this is only wrong because of the day and age we live in....I grew up in the 80's and my mother used to wrap her thighs around my body to hold me still while she cornrowed or str8'*** my hair. Yall see she got mad kids up in their, they are mockin her and laughin at her...*** she aint got no time to be playin around, her Oodles and Noodles gon burn and Ray Ray gon' be *** ova.
Now if she would have bust her in her *** head with that brush that would be a different story. Sometimes you gotta just do it because other *** gots to be done and them kids me tryin you....
I think this is abuse. She seems to be brushing her hair too harshly. She should wet the hair use some leave in conditioner and detangler spray, and brush the hair before she combs through it. Poor baby, I know that some kids are tender headed, but there are better ways to combing a childs hair then to be pulling it out from the roots with a comb like a mad woman.
this was so ghetto-rific, maybe if she combed the childs hair more often.
And after all that jerking a sprayin', she still has not done anything to her hair. The family members seem rather wild' & loud. This is so sad, because it's nothing 'normal' about them. These children will be labled with some type of ADD or ADHD borderline-Autism in school. Parents must understand how crucial it is to communicate to child and maint consistency in a disciplined household.
My goodness. If she had any common sense she would be using an extra large AFRO COMB AND NOT A BRUSH. SHE OBVIOUSLY DOESN'T HAVE A CLUE HOW TO HANDLE ALL THAT HAIR. STEP ONE: COMB OUT THE HAIR WHILE IT'S STILL WET OR AT LEAST DAMP. STEP TWO: USE SOME KIND OF HAIR GREASE TO SOFTEN THE HAIR. TIP THREE: WORK IN SECTIONS NOT ALL OVER THE PLACE.MOST IMPORTANTLY BE GENTLE WITH YOUR CHILD. WOMAN STOP TAKING YOUR FRUSTRATIONS OUT ON YOUR CHILD! SHE'S TRAUMATIZING HER. SHE WILL NEVER WANT TO GET HER HAIR DONE IF IT'S BEING DONE THAT WAY! SMACKING THAT "MOTHER UPSIDE HER HEAD WITH BRUSH
DAT AINT NO *** ABUSE I BET YALL WOULDA LET YALL DAUGHTERS WALK OUTSIDE WIT DAT NAPPY *** FRO SO PPL CAN SAY TO "YO MAMA LET U WALK OUT SIDE WITH YOUR HAIR LIKE THAT" AND IT ALL COME BACK ON YOU NOW IF SHE WOULDA WOOPED HER LIL *** AND TOLD HER TO SIT DOWN AND *** UP SHE WOULDNA HAD TO DO ALL DAT PIN HER DOWN SHE AINT WOOP HER *** DOE CUZ ITZ ON VIDEO AND DAT WOULDA BEEN CHILD ABUSE
greyeyedchyck happy bithday to your child :)!
@topic
i wasnt even going to comment but the lady doesnt know anything about natural hair. when the hair is dry it it very hard to comb out. she should co wash her hair then comb it out. a whole lot easier and less screaming.
i think both the child and mother were acting out though...i feel like that child is like that no matter what.
OMFG!!! This is the worst video I've ever seen!! This *** just hurt my heart man..There is no reason to treat any child like this..This *** know that that is not the way to manage someone's hair. You can tell she is jealous of her daughter's beautiful locks. She wants her to be baldheaded like her ugly ***!! ugh...I wish someone really would turn her in because this is defintely child abuse! And I'm sure this goes on all the time which makes it even worse..The little girl is obviously in ALOT of pain& I wish I could've taken her place..Where are people's minds at?? TAKE THIS *** DOWN!!!!!
I dont see what she did wrong, it's ok to comment but some of yall are real stupid when it come to your comments. MTO 4real i just come and check yall out when board, yall is full of sh*t i raelly really would like to go one on one with one of yall staffer, writers, and your mommas for having dumb a** child like yall. Grow the f*ck up, that's why Global Grind put you on blast about the fake Michael Jackson in the casket, yall even talk about kids, when you lay down at *** why PRAY when you just going to start the same bullsh*t the next day, I have to go, I think I just broke a vein.
DAISYDOOKS That child has beautiful natural *** hair. The mother should have wet the hair to reduce breakage and pain.
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THANK YOU!!! You comb it while it's still damp adding some oil, preferably coconut or even olive and braid it, keeping the the other (unbraided) sections wrapped as you go.
But since it ain't a *** weave these bytches wouldn't know that.
I don’t see what she did wrong, it's ok to comment but some of yall are real stupid when it come to your comments. MTO 4real I just come and check yall out when board, yall is full of sh*t I really really would like to go one on one with one of wall staffer, writers, and your mommas for having dumb a** children like yall. Grow the f*ck up, that's why Global Grind put you on blast bout the fake Michael Jackson in the casket, yall even talk about kids, when you lay down at *** why PRAY when you just going to start the same bullsh*t the next day, I am so 4real I think I just broke a vein.
The cursing was out of line, but other than that looks like a spoiled brat acting up. I'm bi-racial so I know what's it like having kinky hair. I hated when my mom combed it, but I didn't fight back. This isn't the end of this, people will not understand what's going on and will call this child abuse. Something tells me this lady is in big trouble.
A lot of black women comb their daughters or brush their sons hair ROUGH LIKE THAT! It's absolutely unnecessary and the idiot mother seems to get some sick thrill out of it PROBABLY BECAUSE SHE HAS TO WEAR A WIG HERSELF AND DON'T HAVE HAIR LIKE THE CHILD DOES. ANYWAY A KID GETTING THEIR HAIR COMBED DOES NOT HAVE TO BE A TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCE! WITH A LITTLE HAIR LOTION AND OIL OR EVEN WATER SPRITZ THAT CHILD'S HAIR WOULD LAY DOWN WITH NO PROBLEM I HAVE THE SAME KINDA HAIR..... SO TO THE MOM OR BABYSITTER YOUR AN IDIOT!!!!!!!!!! 4u2.com
WOW...yeah...mama need her azz kicked twice! Lil mama is bad as hell, but she made it worse by pulling her hair like that!! Why didn't she just part it into sections? And why she cursing at those kids like that? My mama used to trap me between her legs and pop me with the brush but this is too much...I'm ashamed...when will we learn??
LMAO @ who said "give her to Madonna"!
Who the F**K says there's nothing wrong with that?? I know some kids rant and rave when it's time to get their hair done but this woman OD'd. Spoiled? Bad? She's in pain. It's normal for a child to scream and try to run to protect themselves when in pain. That woman was coming her hair like that to hurt her. She was non productive. COMEPLETELY NON PRODUCTIVE. There was no style being done, no progress being made. Squirt squirt, wrestle, brush. WTF was that? I've done plenty of kids' hair before. My daughter has nappier hair. Hot Ghetto Mess.
Whew! For the mammy; ***, that is not a doll..I comb wigs better than that and for the little girl; did I hear you say that you hate your mammy?...wrong thing to say while she is pulling and jerking at your hair. I guess this happens everyday somewhere. Stop having these children if you don't want to comb their hair.
You people are idiots. If you say you would have beat her for doing that that's your temper and impatience. Don't disguise it as anything other than that. You say she didn't hit the girl? That's because she was on camera. She just took out her frustrations on her head. If this was White people they'd be outside of her house, protesting. Us Black folk'd be protesting if ACS got involved. SMH
This really is a shame...and for the people on here that are suggesting that this "mother" perm this little girl's beautiful hair are just as bad. There is a technique to combing and brushing natural hair and she's not using it!! Having your hair pulled hurts and that all that she's doing here....what can't she see??
The girl actually has some VERY nice hair and being natural myself, her hair is amongst the easiest type to handle...this mother just needs to educate herself on the methods of combing natural hair....but hell, she has a perm AND a weave herself...smh
@DMarie69...
Natural hair in general gets knots! This pathetic mother is being cruel and spewing hateful words at this baby. She's not acting out for the hell of it, her *** head hurts! Who the hell combs hair (that isn't permed) from the roots out? I'm sure this lady doesn't do that to her weaves...why? because it rips the hair out!!
She going to comb that little girl bald, she ignorant. I bet she don't come her own hair like that, and that's if she got any under that silky a$$ wig! Some woman don't need kids, and she need to stop taking her frustration out on her daughter it don't take all that to comb her hair!
If anybody else is having this issues please pay attention. 1st moisturize the hair this will make the hair soft and manageable. 2nd part the hair into sections used a wide tooth come or the white girl brush to comb the hair 3rd brush from tip to root work your way up. 4th take your take do it right
Coming from a tender headed black woman with coarse, thick hair, I only have one perspective of this. THE MOTHER NEEDS TO DISCIPLINE HER CHILD PERIOD. If the child would have sat down in the first place, her mom wouldn't have been so mad. OBVIOUSLY IF THE MOM WASN'T ON STRAIGHT ADRENALINE, SHE WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN BRUSHING LIKE THAT.
YOU can tell the BLACK AZZ NAPPYHEADED HOE MOther is just jealous that her daughter has a better grade of hair than her!...There is obviously no reason to comb the little lightskinned girls hair like that because it aint even that NAPPY!...
BLACK AZZ mothers produce mixed children cause they know they would usually have better features and hair than themselves but you know what you're prolly gonna get when you have mixed children...THEY abuse them cause These ghetto hood rat mothers get jealous cause these mixed children are a reminder of what they will never POSSESS!
I can only speak for what I have seen with my sisters son, and my youngest daughter. My sister would attemp to comb through her sons hair gently, parting it and sectioning it off, conditioning, and he still act a fool, jumping around screaming and what not, to where the only way she was able to comb it was to get what ever spot she could before he ran off again. Same with my my youngest daughter. She had a coarser grade of hair than my older daughters thus making hair grooming a *** mare for the both of us. I don't see abuse here, what I see is a lack of technique and no patients.
MTO - shame on you. I implore you to identify the person who uploaded this to you so that all guilty parties can be reported to the appropriate authorities.
Who can you not have a clause that all instances of suspected illegal activity would be reported.
You have an obligation to do so. I will await the news that you did so.
Shame on you.To be aware that this child is being injured and do nothing about it. I don't know what's worse, the physical or verbal assaults and insults.
Ghetto *** black people! Yeah she probably does have a bunch of other children and noodles on the stove waiting on Ray Ray. These ghetto *** black people are something else. And of course some ignant coons are in the background laughing it up. No wonder the child is screaming for one she don't even know of those brush and comb her hair right. At least she isn't perming her hair up - I guess.
lmao@Magnificent....lol
@Tjtrae..lmao! Yes she is!
@Topic.....Where's the abuse tho? I didn't c any abuse at all maybe except for a few foul words here and there! The whole vid was a waste on my time that I can't get back unfortunately! The mom is silly and the lil girl needs to be steal and stop acting up!
btw- SHE HAS BEAUTIFUL HAIR WITH HER PRETTY SELF. REMIND ME OF MY LIL GIRL. HER HAIR IS THICK JUST LIKE THAT.
WHAT THE H.E.L.L IS WRONG WITH YOU GUYS? THAT S.H.I.T IS ALL KINDS OF WRONG. SISTAH'S SHOULD KNOW HOW MUCH THAT WOULD HURT, JUST HAVIN SOME IGNORANT B.I.T.C.H. YANKIN A COMB THROUGH YOUR HAIR! YOU HAVE TO BREAK IT DOWN INTO LITTLE SECTIONS AND HOLD THE ROOOTS AND WORK FROM BOTTOM OF SECTION UP. THAT CHILD HAD EVERY RIGHT TO WIL' THA F.U.C.***. OUT! THAT KIDS DADDY NEEDS TO SLAP THE S.H.I.T. OUT THAT B.I.T.C.H. AND THE ONE HOLDIN THE CAMERA TOO!
THAT DOESNT EVEN CONSTITUTE COMBING THE GIRL'S HAIR ALL THAT WAS IS PULLING THE GIRLS HAIR. THOSE WHO SAY THE CHILD IS BAD OR THAT ITS OK WOULDNT BE SAYING THE SAME THING IF THE *** AT THE SALON DID THAT S.H.I.T. TO THEM! I BET YOU'D BE READY TO CHUNK'EM. SOME IGNORANT PEOPLE MAKE ME WANT TO NOT EVEN COME TO THIS SITE ANYMORE *smdh*
I dont see where some of you don't see this as abuse. If the kid is in PAIN, how does this sh*t make sense? This is why most of you simple broads don't have hair now. And I'm sure the minute the kid is old enough she is going to relax her hair and destroy it's beauty. There is nothing wrong with natural hair. And why do women keep having kids with men that don't love them when all they do is end up hating they're children? She's telling her to move her F*cking hand! What kind of mother speaks to her child that way, then demands respect. She'll never respect her and no one else will either...
CINDIESEL3G Flag post Something's gotta be done about these ghetto b*tches havin kids. They need their P*ssy sewn together or something. ****** @CINDIESEL- As harsh as thats stated, you have a point. Some women just aren't cut out to be mothers. Not only does this black woman have NO clue how to comb her daughter's hair (should be combed when wet/using a WIDE TOOTH afro comb), she's cursing like a mad sailor at the poor baby as well. I had hair like that and thank goodness my mothers knew how to take the proper care for it. This video was hard to watch.
I wanna slap the *** outta that ghetto, gap tooth ***. Poor child.. Begging and pleading for her to *** stop.. Even told her she hated her.. And I'm sure she meant it cuz it was too easy for her to say. Poor baby has gorgeous hair.. Hating *** punk *** mother doesn't know how to *** handle it. Jealous ***. She's probably a *** chickenhead *as to why we see her with a head full of weave* just yanking the poor childs head off. She'll probably pull it tight after all this.. which will just yank the edges out and break her hair more.. Smh.. Someone PLEASE call the autorities.
smh @ these comments yeah the mom was wrong for cussin her out but if u watch the video u can see that this is just a lil bad *** girl who dont wanna get her hair combed
my lil cuz use to act the same way she got that type of hair and everytime she even saw the comb she would start cryin cuz she didnt want nobody combin her hair
this is nothin new. What we need to talk about is the is girl flimin and laughin at her
Ignorant evil b*tch is a sorry excuse for a mother! That was ridiculous! Of course the child is screaming, the bother was practically beating the kid in the head with the brush. And I don't know what's worse, this hateful hood rat or the fact that people here are endorsing it! Sorry but just because your parents did it to you doesn't make it right!
*** MTO, I thought she was beating the *** out the child or something.
I admit the woman should not be cussing at the child like that, but the little girl has a lot of hair and it's tangled. It will always hurt trying to get it untangled and that child has a LOT of hair.
If the mother would braid the girl's hair up at *** before she went to bed it would help in the morning when she had to comb her hair out.
I use to cry when my grandmother was trying to brush or comb my tangled up hair.
Honestly There was nothing wrong with what the mother was doing.She is combing her hair wrong( parted in sections and combed from end to root) but she obviously keeps there hair naturally curly it just has to be combed out some times before you can get it to curl up naturally when you wet it. All kids with curly hair went through it and their gonna cry regardless so she is just trying to get it done..... stop the maddness people.... ***
This was so sad, I wanted to cry!
That child is going to grow up to hate herself. She is so beautiful and has such beautiful hair, but her mother is cursing and yelling at her and calling her hair "nappy ***".
The woman is NOT trying to detangle this child's hair. She's not trying to comb it with any order; she is literally yanking it with the brush and pulling it with her hands. If you watch the video closely, you can see clumps of her hair all over the living room floor. Yet, she isn't parting the hair or trying to style it.
She's just hurting the child for no reason!
*** Black People Yall are RIDICULOUS! I used to get popped in my face with the comb for trying to watch it while my momma did my hair, and I was a tender headed *** hoe but my mother was never like this.
There is nothing OKAY with being this *** impatient. She ain't ask to have hard to comb hair so why should a little girl be punished because of that reason while the the white girl next door (though they probably live in the hood and only have ghetto white neighbors), gets her straight *** hair combed out peacefull. I don't give a rat's AZZ How many kids you got.
If you don't got the PATIENCE to deal with more than one child at a time THEN YO AZZ NEED TO KEEP YA LEGS CLOSED UNTIL YOUR CHILD CAN DEAL WITH HERSELF!
*** shame that ya'll think it's WRONG for a child to cry out in pain. No wonder we got all these hard azz black women out there fighting every chance they get.
OMG all she had to do was put in a leave in conditioner....some coconut oil too. It would've softened it. She didn't have to brush that hard either. She was being extra. She just wanted to torture the little girl in the process. No wonder she hates getting her hair done.
And how she listening to Linkin Park's "Ima bout to break" while doing all this? (LOL)
This is sad...
You see she's starting from the root. That's not the right way. But besides that, the brush is sliding right through the hair so why all that extra force? And best believe if it wasn't being recorded (why is it being anyways) she would've cunked that girl a few times with he brush...I know my momma did. LOL
I suppose because some of ya'll had screaming, yelling, and hitting mothers, you azz-ume what this bytch did was correct and that the child was wrong. If you are one of those ignorant people, please for the life of me, do not reproduce. To sit here and say there is nothing wrong w/this is scary. Please do not have children because you will repeat the cycle that has happened so many times in the black community: cursing, screaming and beating black mothers instead of loving, correcting when necessary, and understanding mothers. THIS WAS ABUSE PURE AND SIMPLE.
People saying this girl is bad for telling her mother she hated her are stupid and/or blind.
A child knows when somebody is being hateful toward her! And this child's mama just told her that she "ain't got no d@mn daddy," and to "stfu." Proving what a miserable mother she is, she also told the child "I hate you."
Some of you wouldn't know child abuse if it bit you in the azz. Maybe you had hood mothers that behaved like her, but I dare you do this to your child in public. Actually if you believe what this heffa did was right, do that to your child in public and sees what happen. We wonder why other races perceive us a savages. We are so violent prone. Half ya'lls mama were probably just like this woman so you don't know any better. That's not how you treat a child, dummies. Hood rats at its finest.
Female since you got the attention via Mediatakeout blast and we know you reading this---just do this from now on:
1.)Detangle as much as possible in the shower. -This is the best time when WET. 2.)Use a leave in conditioner 3.)Section the *** hair. 4 or more sections Take it section by section. Start with the ends and brush the knots out.
That's all there is to it!
And please don't put no relaxer in the baby hair. Please.
ILoveOldSkoolRB
Thank you! You are so very right. As a community black people need to get over the whole "well it was done to me so it's okay" garbage! That whole legacy of yanking a child's hair out their skull like she is doing, and beating children with inanimate objects leaving welts and other sorts of nonsense needs to GO! There is a difference between discipline and abuse and *** like this crosses the line and does more harm than good to our children!
Don Simmons>>>No, thank you! Someone finally gets it. It think this mentality has been passed down from generation to generation, and instead of lovingly disciplining our child, the first thing we want to do is curse, hit, and humiliate them. I suspect this has happened to those who claim, "this is not child abuse." It's shameful. Hopefully the cycle will stop and they will never be able to reproduce. Lord only knows what they are doing to their children if they have them.
Why do people keep bringing up the PAST! What right do we have to continue aacting like we did in the 1800s???? Are we not smart enough to EVOLVE and know right from wrong? There is not a *** thing out there you can show that will mak me say, you know what, you're right, this child is so lucky she don't have to go out and pick a switch from the tree because regardless it's PAIN and it's Not right. I feel so sorry for the people that want to hang on to every inkling of the past. We need to move forward and LEARN from the past.
I am appalled. That is child abuse. I can't believe some of you defend this behavior. What ignorance. Children do not share our tolerance of pain. She is moving around uncontrollably because she is in PAIN. Some of you ladies should not reproduce. Also, do you really hate your natural hair that much? Pathetic.
Its not so bad... granted, the mother could have brushed it softer... but the little girl is being difficult...
If you look closer though, the kids both look clean, the little girl has on little jewelry, the house look fairly clean, the little girl doesn't have any bruises or scars... and I don't c any hair coming out in the brush... SHE'S FINE...
I use to cry everytime I got my hair done when i was her age. She did all that and didnt get smacked once... She is lucky.
I can't believe you posters put in tips on how to do kids hair! What should have happened is MTO - YOU should have contacted the poster of this item and turned this over to child welfare authorities and let THEM decide. Also, the person taping mentioned ***. If that tape goes to them they should take action. They will know who sent it.
Some children are very tender headed. I've seen little girls act out this way when gettin' their hair braided or gettin' their hair brushed. Take it from a person who used to have a lot of hair, it can be painful especially for children. I use to comb my own hair, I wouldn't let anyone touch my shid. Also I neva used a brush when I had a lot of hair. That's stupid.
This *** was not even remotely funny! I couldn't watch the whole thing either. This BITC* is beyond ignorant, as is whoever the cackling HEFFA is who is filming this mess!!! It is most definitely abuse, and it should be investigated! I cannot believe how she was talking to that little girl! Trashy!!! I disagree with the person who suggested that she just put a relaxer in the little girl's hair, there is NEVER a need for that IMO. She needs to learn how to care for it properly, and as soft as her hair looks, all that would take is a spray bottle with water and oil & some damned patience!!!
just wow at some of the responses.... you mofo's sound mentally challenged... wtf is wrong with you people?! and are you serious?!! there nothing wrong with naturally kinky, curly hair.
"get a kiddie perm" ----------- slapping a chemical in her hair is not solving ***! the child hair is not the problem it's the ignorant *** mother. bich need to educate herself on how to take care of natural hair. i'm quite sure there are plenty of natural hair salons in detroit.
cont.. "she need her *** whopped" ---------------- she need her *** whopped for fcking what? the girl is in terrible *** pain. her hair is being ripped the fck out..would you sit through that?
"she's spoiled" ----------------- another dunce *** idiot!
"i'm glad i don't have daughter's" ------------------- don't have no more kids
"i'm glad i don't have hair like that" -------------- another ignorant fool!
This Is not Child abuse...my sister was tender headed and whenever my mom did her hair she screamed and cried and was acting like my mom was killing her and my dad always had her back telling my mom to stop...but all she was doing is brushing it that baby was just showing out cause the person who was filming it was laughing
i woulda punched da mama in her mouth SUPER-HARD dat her mama was gon feel da pain!!!! she wont gon be combin/brushin my hair like dat..datz why da lil gurl said she hate her!!! i woulda ran away 4 a few dayz...datz ashame da mama should be arrested 4 child abuse!!!!!! i feel sad 4 the lil gurl..and da teen/adult or wateva should go to juvie 4 bein so rude and not savin da lil gurl from dat..da lil gurl probably had a huge headache..cuz i kno i would!!!!!!!!!!! i hate mothers like dat..just make me wnna bust her face WIDE open!!! DEN SHE GON TELL DA OTHA LIL CHILD DAT HE/SHE NEXT!!! WTF??
*** WONT THE *** GET THE DAUGHTER A *** PERM POOR LIL GIRL I FEEL BAD FOR HER,MY MOM USE TO COMB MY HAIR AND I USE TO SCREAM JUST LIKE THAT LIL GIRL AND CRY AND SHE SAID *** THIS AND GOT ME A PERM,ANYWAY IF I KNEW THE CHICK I WOULD REPORT HER...
CUTE KIDS BUT THAT *** GOT PLAYED SHE THOUGHT IF SHE HAD MIXED KIDS THEY WERE GOING TO HAVE THAT GOOD CURLY HAIR SMH ROFL...
my two daughters have white girl hair and they scream and and act a fool when i braid it at ***....i can only imagine how much pain this little girl was in.....sometimes I do have to yoke them up and make them sit still....but i ALWAYS USE conditioner and detangler and hold it from the roots....and they *** sure have never said I HATE YOU and I WANT MY DADDY.... there have got to be some other serious issues in the home...and this retarted a$$ BIT%& recording it laughing hatin on those two babies and their beautiful curly hair....the mom had to been zooted to be doin her hair dry likethat
OK BUT STILL THAT HARD AZZ BRUSHIN COULD DAMAGE HER SCALP AND SH!T!! I MEAN I AGREE DAT DA LIL GURL IS TENDER-HEADED AND ME 2 BUT DAT BYTCH DIDNT HAVE TO BRUSH HER HAIR LIKE DAT!! DAT BYTCH COULDA GRIPPED HER HAIR AND THEN BRUSH IT ALL THE WAY THROUGH!!! BUT IF SHE DID DO DAT AND DA LIL GURL WAS STILL ACTIN LIKE DAT...DEN BEAT HER TAIL BUT WAT SHE DID WAS HURTING HER SCALP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PPL NEEDA PAY ATTENTION DESE DAYZ AND STOP ACTIN ***!!!!!!!!! DATZ WHY WE HAVE A BRAIN!!!?? USE IT!!
Maaaan WTF! Why is this heffa taking that comb through her head so hard as if she's TRYING to make the baby uncomfortable? Where is the Just for me detangler? Put some oil or moisturizer on that baby's hair. She just running that comb through dry hair, you cant do that...you have to put products in it before all that brushing. ***!
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THAT CHILD NEEDED HER A S S WHOOPED PERIOD! Lol @ da person who said they would have did this in the 1st 5 min. The mother should have tore her A S S up esp. when she said she hate her and I bet u that girl would have sat her A S S down!!! 2 much talkin', I would have whooped that A S S ...... I guess if she didn't do the the child hair yall' be saying that child abuse too
cant have no kid with nappy hair yo. i get real scared bout having a girl with that nappy afro puff str8 up. hair is made nappy and dont feel good to touch. real talk i prefer to wife a latina or white girl cause then i know my baby girl stand a chance of having that indian striaght hair and light skin. str8 up.
I don't think these are her kids. She's probably the auntie or baby sitter/homegirl watching the kids. Because that little girl has alot of hair and you can tell its healthy. So obviously who ever does her hair is doing something right. So this must not be who does her hair everyday on a regular basis.
yo and str8 up most bruthas dont wont no sistas with nappy hair. i hear my boys all the time talking about what they prefer on a sista. most of us want a sista with that beyonce long indian hair light skin and hazel eyes a plus to. being honest im not attarcted to sistas with fros, relaxers or weaves. if im gettin down with a sista she got to be thin with her own long indian hair otherwise i cant date her. str8 up. yo bruthas its hard to find a pretty sista with long hair but trust they out there just take a while to find them.
Its not abuse.... But dat woman do need 2 be slapped 4 combin dat child hair so hard.... She prob tenda headed like me so I no dat feel terrible.... But dem ppl recordin it *** pickin at da lil girl wont no help.... Dey shuda ben hit wit da brush.... But its not abuse she jus need sum lessons on doin lil kids hair
ProudBLKman wtf is wrong with you???? how can u say proud black man when u dissin black women??? Here's a news flash.......mostwhite and latina girls don't want a brotha who diss his own kind....such a turn off and very punkish... and another news flash,BEYONCE DON'T HAVE LONG INDIAN HAIR IT'S WEAVE YOU ***
why she aint hold her hair from the root and then try and comb...lol but that aint *** like i thought it was gonnna be mto yall are a trip...she aint even talkin crazy to her to be honest well from the little i heard...hell that little girl was gettin a little grown herself tellin her momma no and ***...she would have been popped harder...thats prob why the momma doin her head like that cuz she bein grown at the mouth.
biitch is crazy. must be from brooklyn where hos cuss babies toddlers and gawd himself like a nicca in the streets.
black folk we have a collective mental illness regarding hair and hues.
smdh
the way she is combing it is making it worse.
dumb azz. poor child is screaming because she knows she is surrounded by idiots.
I don't think this was abusive. Granted, she does need to watch what she says and learn to be more gentle combing her daughters hair but she had more patience than what I would have had. After all that moving around and crying...I would have already popped her. Had the little girl sat still, it wouldn't have hurt as much. The mom looks like she's brushing her hair as fast as she can and as much as she can due to the little girls behavior.
@cristacp25- yo listen for a minute. i love my black sistas i love black women period. can a brutha help what he prefer? i love my black queens but i prefer the ones with long straight or wavy indian hair and light skin. queens like alicia keys beyonce that kim kardashian chick and that black broad that be hosting 106 and park are the type of black sistas i want. aint nothing wrong with it. some white boys prefer white broads with blonde hair and *** some latin guys want they women with big ***. i like my black sistas with long hair aint no shame in that.
If this was a white ***, you hos would be on here complaining about she can't do hair. Well this *** is black and she can't do hair either. This child should not have to suffer because this dumb *** *** dunno how comb her child head. If I was that child, I would snatched that *** weave out. Show her how it feels to get ya ish yanked around. I don't care if she has to part 10 strains of hair, if that's what you have to do to comb her hair, then that's what you need to do dumb ***.
And as for "proudblackman", even if you mix with another race, the chances of you having a brown complected nappy headed child are still high. I know you're the type that wouldn't love your children if they came out looking as dark and nappy as you, it's a shame the black community is plagued with damaged minds like you. Please don't procreate, something tells me even your mulatto children would have identity issues with a father like you.
BUT THE MORE I WATCHED IT THE LIL GIRL IS JUST BEING BRATTY AND DONT LIKE GETTING HER HAIR COMBED.
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Maybe the reason she doesn't like getting her hair combed because the mother pin her *** down, cuss her *** out and most importantly dunno what the *** she's doing. The mother need to look into what she's doing wrong as well instead of blaming the child. When my mother combed my hair crazy, I told her to get the *** out my hair. And I might of got smacked but I didn't care cause that ish hurt and let her know.
THAT IS CRAZY. SHE SHOULD HAVE NOT WAITED SO LONG TO DO HER HAIR. THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR HER TO CURSE OUT THIS LITTLE GIRL AND PUT IT ON VIDEO. THERE IS NOTHING CUTE OR FUNNY ABOUT THIS FOOLISHNESS!!!!!!LET A PROFESSIONAL DO HER HAIR IF IT IS TOO MUCH FOR HER TO HANDLE....PUT SOME BRAIDS IN IT...DO SOMETHING ELSE. NOW THIS LITTLE CHILD MAY GROW UP WITH A COMPLEX.
mto yall are too *** dramatic with the title. however that is not the way you comb hair like that especially children's hair.
that *** dumb...you don't yank at long hair like that all that time she was makin no progress. you part the hair in sections and grasp it by the roots then you rake the *** out of it.
them poor kids. that *** need hur *** whooped.
this is one special mom , i tell ya , if you are using detanglers and still having a had time , its because you are doing it wrong , first off if the mom took her time and part the hair in small pieces *** spray the detangler it would be much easier ..... if you are mad at the daddy , please don't take it out on the child , and this sweet little girl have some nice hair all it needs is TLC
THIS IS SHAMEFUL! THE POOR LITTLE CHILD CAN BARELY CATCH HER BREATH AND FOR ALL OF YOU THAT THINK THIS IS OKAY, GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT TYPE OF PARENTS YOU ARE. BUT IT'S JUST A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE IT CATCHES UP WITH YOU. DO NOT LET THIS GO MTO, OR ELSE THAT CHILD'S LIFE OF ABUSE WILL BE ON YOUR HANDS. SEND THIS IN TO THE AUTHORITIES NOW. THEY'LL KNOW HOW TO FIND THAT WOMAN. THIS IS EXTREMELY SERIOUS.
This IS child abuse...and this isn't the only video of this girl getting her hair RIPPED out.
Here's vid #2: [link to external website removed] and vid 3#: [link to external website removed]
Like someone on another board said: "she's lost her effin' mind. she combs her hair into a ponytail, then takes it down and brushes it all over again several times. wth is her problem. she's intentionally being rough with the baby. the baby is begging for her to stop but she keeps going. her hair could have been done is 60 seconds."
...so yeah, this definitely isn't right.
LMAO!!! Almost all little black girls go through the same thing the first time that their mother brushes her "kitchen" for the first time. I saw my sister brush my neice's hair for the first time and I was 50% mortified and 50% LMAO. I'm just glad i'm not a girl because my family is old school. BUT, I agree that the language the mother uses in the video was a little to harsh for the baby.
I'll bet every black female in here with regular black hair got the same treatment as this little girl when she was a young child. If you don't remember, you were eith too young or you blanked it out of your memory because you were traumatized.And don't fron either, all you women with female children know that you did the same thing as this woman. The difference is that some children have more sensitive scalps than others like the girl in the video.
I can't believe how some of ppl are justifying what this woman is doing and saying to her child! what this woman is doing is emotional and psychological abuse. Just because you went through it when you were a child and "turned out just fine" doesn't mean it's not abusive and therefore proper behavior.
This woman, and every woman like her, needs to have her uterus removed and "business" sewn up. She and any woman who would treat a child like this doesn't deserve the privilege of having children!
As for the way this child was acting, this kid is what 3 or 4 y/o and has most likely suffered...
...through this kind of painful treatment before. Given this, why wouldn't she approach this type of situation with contempt and anxiety? If you're hair was nappy and tangled, wouldn't you be in physical pain if a someone purposely combed your hair incorrectly (forcefully starting at mid strand instead of gently at the ends and working their way up)? Wouldn't you be in emotional pain if this person was supposed to love you unconditionally but was instead berating and demeaning you for something that you have no control over and was born with?
Stop acting like that poor child was just acting up and wasn't in any real physical pain. That "mother" is at 30 y/o. She should know how to comb textured, Black hair. She is purposely combing incorrectly and hurting that child so she can validate and project her self-hatred!
I hope this hoe goes bald!
UnProudBlackMan
Every time you come on here you type some silly BS! Rocsi from 106 isn't black, nor is Kim *** you stupid idiot! Do not refer to these desperate hoez as Queens! The only Queens that blacks should acknowlege where the ones in Africa! You need to learn what Proud actually means, cause you still fall ***!
after seeing video 2,3 , this mama is loco , why put it in a pony to take it down back and brush it some more , this child is in pain fr all that brushing , my son had hair long and nice , and back then i used to take better care of his hair than i do mine , Baby love for kids was my best friend when it came to doing his hair , and when it got to more than i can handle i took him to get it done $ 35 once a month , when he cut it at 7 yrs old to this day he wish he hadn't
SMDH,How in the world could some of you black women here reading this thread condone this abuse that this mother is afflicting on her daughter? this is wrong and plain abuse.I pity the little girl,There may be a deeper issue really troubling the mother,perhaps she may be taking out her bitterness over the child's father.He may no longer be in the picture,and the *** feels that she has to vent her anger at someone vulnerable: her daughter.
well, i think it's abuse. why does she have to brush her hair so hard? it's not even nappy. i KNOW nappy lol that little girl does not need a whoopin for kicking and screamin. her mom is hurting her so she's acting out. she's not the most loving mother with all that daym profanity, so the little girl is just reacting how she knows. i guarantee if she brushed it in a civilized manner and was more loving, that lil girl would not be acting like that. mine most certainly do not. they usually end up falling asleep.. i couldn't even watch the whole thing so i kno it's not right.
How do you people know thats his/her mother, maybe it his/her aunt or older sister or cousin. Maybe that's why she didn't whup the *** out of him/her for acting like he/she needed an exorcist. I thought the video was a riot.
The critics need to loosen up, you people don't even know whats going on. Children can take a whuppin now and then, tha't how they learn right from wrong. No wonder black kids are running around nowadays like they don't have any discipline or sense!
F'ucking ***'igger C'unt needs to have someone yank HER hair out and shove it up her *** one strand at a time. Ugly evil *** *** is probably jealous because her daughters hair is longer and prettier than hers...and y'all KNOW how obsessed some black women can be over long hair, even though nine times out of ten it's a stank-***-bedbug-attracting weave. Murda De ***, I say.
sh*t, i would've been screaming too! we only saw five minutes of this. who knows how long she's was "brushing" the hair.
can't blame the child for being "bad". look at her momma! she's a bad influence!
it's the mother's fault her hair is "knotted" as she said. she probably let the girl's head look a mess for days on end, then get *** because she has to comb it.
yes. the proper way to comb/brush hair is to hold it at the roots. she kept raking the child's head.
who was the fool filming this ish? laughing in the background. the half-assed momma chuckeled a bit herself.
okay....this child hair IS NOT NAPPY..its tangled and apparently alot of you don't know the difference. the child has good hair that's easily tangled, not "NAPPY".....I wish I knew that crackheaded looking ***, I'll beat her ***....she was roughing that lil girl up, no matter what, you don't cuss out no *** child like that.
That's *** child Abuse! What A Sick Bytch Needs To Be Locked Up. It's Not That *** Serious. If She Didn't Feel Like Doing It She Should Have Left Her Alone And Let Somebody Else Do It Or Something. Looks Pre-Meditated Like She Was Trying To Hurt Her, And Did Yall Check Out The Yellow Rubber Glove Next To Them? WTF??
This is a dang shame! And why so many black women don't have a stick of hair on their head. Black women we've got to do better. You cannot pull on our hair like that, that's why most of us walking around sporting a weave or a small stick of a pigtail. Learn to take care of your hair and your children's hair properly, so we don't bring up another generation of bald headed girls.
MTO you need to post her address so I can get a plane ticket and beat her @$$ myself!!!! How you call your child out her name & your raggedy @$$ don't know how to do hair? & plz let me at the stupid B*** That recorded it and laughed!! SHAME ON YOU GHETTO BROADS I HOPE SOMEONE BEATS YOU DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!
MTO && many of it's brainwashed readers: Yall are soo dayum dramatic.
The little girl is tender-headed && needs her azz whooped. She was basikally feeding off of the kamera girl's laughing. Basikally...showing out.
The only thing I don't agree with in this video was the kursing. Other than that, this *** is normal. (The sad reality)
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I SEE WHY HER MAMAM HAS A WEAVE IN HER HAEAD.
THERE IS NO REASON FOR ANY CHILD OF ANY COLOR TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH THAT. MY DAUGHTER HAIR IS LONGER AND THICKER AND SHE DOES NOT GET TORTURED LIKE THAT. AND THE GIRL HAIR IS NOT NAPPY.....
THAT MOTHER WAS DOING THAT ON PURPOSE. IT IS NO WAY A BLACK MOM DON'T KNOW YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO WORK YOUR WAY UP TO THE ROOTS AND WET IT.
FOR THOSE WHO SAY IT IS NORMAL GET YOUR *** OUT THAT "HOOD bOX". SOME OF WILL ALWAYS BE A N166A
Tastysis.........my daughters have white girl hair because they are white.... their dad is white and im Halp white half PR....i should have been more specific....i was just making a point that their hair is straight and stringy and they still get knotty and scream and act a fool sometimes...i put braids in it after they get out the bath so it dont get ratted up at ***.... so i can only imagine how this girl feels with such thick curly hair....
I THINK THAT SHE WAS NOT ABUSING HER BUT I REALLY THINK THAT SHE AINT HAVE TO TAKE THAT *** LONG TO BRUSH HER HAIR UP INTO A PONYTAIL. I COULD SEE IF SHE WAS TAKIN THE BRUSH AND HITTING HER IN THE HEAD WITH IT OR BRUSHING HER ARMS WITH THE BRISSLES OF THE BRUSH WHEN THE GIRL WAS PUTTING HER HANDS IN HER HAIR TO BLOCK THE BRUSH, BUT SHE WASNT. LITTLE KIDS JUST DONT LIKE GETTING THEIR HAIR DONE.
You *** should be ashamed justifying this! My blood is boiling now! That so called *** of a mother needs her *** beat down to the ground! There was no need to brush that poor childs head like that! There is a proper way to comb a childs head. All she needed was a *** flat iron anyway! SMH-*** shame! Some females dont deserve to be mothers!
Wait MTO, aren't you part of the problem? When the media which includes you constantly make women of colour feel inferior about their natural hair what do you expect? Constantly talking about someone who needs a perm, or this person has good hair. This is the result. Deal with it, live with it, you helped create it.
This is painful to watch the person filming is gettin off on this!!! How Sick some of us have beomce. You can comb hair like that without hurting someone it just takes time patience and a skilled hand. Rather than torture the girl just cut it *** and when she gets older then comb it it will grow back.
Stupid Tr**k! Has the *** every heard of detangler, leave in conditioner, setting lotion?!?!?! This is why the world is full of angry black women. Cause their moms were ignorant enough to blame them for some sh*t that's their own d*mn fault!
I'd like to send a special *** out to all the moms like mine that don't raise their kids on this kind of BS!
Love yourselves Black People! Love your hair and your skin! We are the supreme... and to covet anything else is simply beneath us.
I would'nt consider this abuse. Just poor judgement. She could have saved her daughter and herself alot of pain and time if she just had've combed and brushed the hair holding it at the roots. The little girl has such a beautiful thick head of hair. Hopefully one day she'll learn how to better care for her childs hair.
THATS NOT RIGHT! DUMB B*TCH!!!! She needs to take her ghetto azz down to Sally's beauty supply and buy some hair mayonaise or some hair cholesterol... put a shower cap on her head let her sleep in it! The natural heat from her head will do the trick! The next day that baby's hair will comb so much more easily & wash it out and put her in some cornrows!!!
that stuff caost $5 a jar and a wave cap or a shower cap you can get at the 99 cent store!
*** whay is she torturing that CHILE! SHE SCREAMING BLOODY MURDER!!! I can see from that she ain't put nothing on that girl's hair its so dry! SAD
that *** needs her *** whooped! and i volunteer for the duty! there is a correct way to comb kinky hair! first you put it in sections and then you comb from the tips of the hair and as you comb the kinks out you move up the section! by the looks of the background she is living in low income housing! the vicious cycle of the poor and uneducated still exists! can someone enroll her in parenting classes. they do teach little things like how to comb hair!!!
She is dead wrong! First of all she doesn't even know what she's doing. Ur supposed to do it from the root in small sections. She's just slamming the brush through it like an idiot! I understand that's its tough dealing with kinky hair but she can do better than that and who ever is taping it needs to sit DOWN!
Didn't watch all the vid but I did see how the girl was jumping around in the beginning though.
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Black woman who think this is acceptable need to take their bald head *** somewhere....most you wear wigs cause none you can get hair length like that poor little girl.She going to end up hating black people(she hate her mother for how she treat her I would too if some black ugly *** mother or not pulled my hair like that)......all you *** make me sick!You don't need to pull on the child head.That why lots black woman are bald head or with *** ass damage hair.