I said it once, and I'll say it again..
If black women are attracted to the STRAIGHT hair let them go straight. It doesn't necessarily mean they don't like their natural hair, maybe they just prefer it straightened. It is okay to PREFER something else. White people straighten their hair ALL THE TIME. But because it is not AS OBVIOUS, people don't seem to care.
I say, if you want to PERM, PRESS, STRAIGHTEN, OR RELAX your hair, you do that. ***, I do it and it looks GREAT.