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@NinaDeLaHermosa- Co-sign! White men is where its at no disrespect to my brothers.
@Topic- I don't think this is Ashanti's man though. He looks *** as hell and he's fat. Ashanti doesn't seem the type to date ugly white men. I'm sure she got high standards like alot of sistas that chose to date non-black men. Anyway forget her date, Ashanti looks so pretty here. I think she lost weight. She looks nice.
YUCK!! I dont hardly think that clown is Ashanti's man! Puh-leeze, Dude look just like Amber Rose,he got arched eyebrows,pointy head,out of shape and is so UGLY!,He look so ***.Ashanti would not be crazy to dump sexy *** Nelly for this ***-hag.I Even if Ashanti wanted a white man,she should at least got a first class, handsome,prosperous one.
OK THE WHITE GUY OBVIOUSLY IS *** AND WANTED TO TAKE A FAN PIC WITH ASHANTI.
WHAT I DONT GET AND STILL DONT TILL THIS DAY IS WHY SO MANY PEOPLE THINK THIS WOMAN IS UGLY. THEY ALWAYS SAY HOW UGLY SHE IS SINCE I WAS *** THE 7TH GRADE. I THINK THERE JUST BAND WAGON HOPPERS I MEAN' LOOK AT HER FACE. SHES STUNNING. PEOPLE DONT GIVE CREDIT WHEN IT DUE
This boy doesn't hardly look white! Judging from Ashanti's expression in the first pic, they seem llike strangers:an entertainer and a fan taking a pic, which is a disappointment because I try to encourage ALL the Black women I know to date interracially and leave these Black men alone. I love Nelly, but he is a Black man, which means he is sub-par for a Black woman. Shan looks cute in these pics too.
wow. Ashanti looks great. she looks cute on these pics. This is the best i have seen her look.
As far as the white dude..?? not!!!
He is no replacement for Nelly,..so no way! Besides black women are not like black men and rerely switch over publically like this. We don't generally have to go out and get a white man to define us ...especially if you have Nelly. Who is this ***? You can't replace Nelly with Vanilla Ice. lol lol
@@Nataine
Not knocking your preference..BUT because you have decided to EXPLORE new options it seems as if you have become a little bitter towards the black man...
( I have dated outdised my race have friends and cousins that date arabs,mexicans, btw sister engaged to a white so lets not turn this into a RACE thread please.lol.)
JUST CURIOUS...
@ Welcome2Holland,
I'm not beefing or anything with you mama, but I said black men are sub-par for black women, meaning I believe Black men can't measure up to the greatness that we are, said it and meant it whole-heartedly. I didn't bash Black men or say anything negative. You took my compliment to Black women as an isult to Black men (glass half-full/half empty thing). How you concluded "bitter towards the Black man" out of that, I have no idea. I've never dated a Black man, never will. That's not bitter, it's just refusing to settle for less, and for me a Black man is definitely less.
@ Joekerr, angry perhaps??? LOL Look how bad you talk to/about women. I mean, you can't be for real, look at your signature. I'm going to assume that you are an adult, so you're a grown Black man with a sig that says "IM JUST A GOOD NICCA UP TO NOGOOD NICCA"??? And you expect some Black woman to take you seriously??? LMAO!!! You're wasting your time, doll. You might as well get a white girl who doesn't mind Black foolishness & call it a day :) Now, go ahead & prove me right again & call me all the Black hoes/***/tricks you want, words I've never heard come from a white man's mouth :)
@Welcome2Holland,
I get my impression by looking around my own environment. EVERY Black man I've ever known is either a drug dealer, crackhead, ***, deadbeat dad, compulsive cheater, abuser, alcoholic, jobless/broke/live in somebody else's home, or has a record. Anyone with that criteria is permanently barred from my radar, no matter what color. But there is a SMALL selection of white men I know that fit this awful outline. I'm not saying all white men are "good", I'm saying I haven't seen a good Black who meets my standards in 24 years (any Black man I personally know, not going off TV)...
...(cont.) It's like if everytime you go to Wendy's they get your order wrong, you're going to have a stigma about ALL Wendy's restaurants. You're likely to say "I don't eff with Wendy's, they NEVER get my order right". You haven't been to EVERY Wendy's in the country, but you've gotten the wrong order enough to wipe your hands with Wendy's period. Same for me, except I never had my hands on a Black man to wipe them off, I just steer clear of them period.
@ nataine
I am drawing the conclusion this started at home as a little girl..WAS ur father in your life because maybe this is part of the reason you have no RAY of hope for the BLACK MAN..im sorry but I come from 2 parent home with LOVING MEN in my life surrounded by GOOD hard working..GREAT JOBS,FAMILY VALUES AND are great dads.. I am aware that some people dont have that and I guess when u dont have a daddy's love to begin with you lose out on a lot..BECAUSE thats where it starts..WHERE DO YOU LIVE?? where these are the only type of people you come across
@NATAINE
Do the Census check. See how many people are in America. And see how many of them are black. Look in the prisons. See who brought CRACK into America and dumped it into our neighborhoods. NOT JUST BLACK MEN
DO you believe in JESUS??B/c "his skin was like bronze, and his hair was like wool"
MAYBE NOT a black man but a COLORED man perhaps and u couldnt possibly think of him in sucha manner.
I wonder how yur great,great-grandmother would have felt about that comment. Yet, during her time she endured numerous times of her white slavemaster breaking in her slave quarters to steal her womanhood on a *** ritual. (Perhaps that's where you got your covergirl complexion...) Yet master never even coming close to standing as tall as her one true love, Her Man, Her STRONG BLACK MAN. The one who held her hand as they entered through the "door of no return" con't
in sub-saharant Africa and vowed to find each other again after being torn apart during that long boat ride (which now you call a cruise) taking them from thier dear home to be enslaved and bondaged for 400 years, only to have a descendant like YOU to think so low of ALL BLACK MEN..
HAVE WE FORGOTTEN OR HISTORY??
@ GuessJeans, I didn't even say "trifling". There is no aggression, hostility or a feeling of being "fed up" with Black men for me. I just have NO INTEREST & it comes from what I've seen. Everything from being in elementary school hearing about the asst. principal's affairs or being 8 and seeing my neighbor beat the hell out of his pregnant girlfriend right outside. It's a simple preference that I have based on my own experience. And I agree wholeheartedly about men of all colors being up to no good, I just happen to think the population of no good men is far higher in the Black community.
@ Welcome2Holland,
WHOO!!! Why do you want to take it all the way to childhood? Why is it so hard to believe that Black men's actions have influenced the way I view them? I'm not being rude, but it's not rocket science! You may have grown up with both parents in a wealthy Black neighborhood full of Black love and Black support: that doesn't make you oblivious to the fact that Detroit, a predominantly Black city, was the nation's most dangerous city 18 times since 1982, it doesn't make you ignorant to the fact that Black men are murdered at the hands of other Black men more than anyone else,
it doesn't make you unaware that Black children are the majority in the system due to deadbeat, drug addicted, imprisoned parents, it doesn't make you not know about the countless numbers of Black men with no education, no dreams, no aspirations, no ambitions, no get-up about themselves and no employment. Black men refuse to work for $7.25 an hour, so they rob people & sell drugs, go to prison and work for $0.25 a day. My point is I'm not telling you anything about Black men that you don't already know. I'm well aware of the whole slavemaster-slave debacle, however, I will not allow ANY Black
person, male or female, to use slavery as a weapon to pity a Black man enough to give him a chance. Black men don't deserve a title like "strong", I actually perceive them as very weak, weak in the mind, heart and spirit. As far as Jesus goes, I thought it was a bit blasphemous to compare Jesus to today's Black man, but to each its own. Do you view Black men on the same level as Jesus, I mean really, when you look at them, do you see a God?
@ Nataine Ahaha…..
You mentioned that you don’t date black men…and you never have….and somehow, you’ve able to formulate in your mind that black men are sub-par and low standard when compare to other men….
Ok…I have no issue with that…that’s your belief….but, my question to you…and to others that feel the same way….If you believe that black men aren’t worth ***…and you have effectively stop dating black men….then, what is your issue… what exactly is your problem?
You should be happy…content…joyful….ahahah!!! You have arrived at a solution to what is ailing you.
Yet….yet….as I read your rhetoric…it is almost as if you are not content…You are so dissatisfied…that you would come on a website to express how unhappy you are with black men….black men whom you never dated or ever plan to date…how asinine is that?
Aahahaha….something smells like ***….*** to be exact…and it’s not black men
The multiple personalities on MTO are interesting. We have the black girls who want to be white, yet are constantly at war with these white brawds on this site…we have cave rats who thinks they are queens….we got brawds who talk high standard but sleep low standard…we got *** who thinks they are wife material…we got the pseudointellectuals who spew our more *** than most ***/holes….and finally we have the parasites….those who serve no purpose than to feed on their own….
Ahahah….it is what it is…
@ nataine if that's your preference, then to each is own. Maybe it's the environment you surround yourself with or the company you keep, but coming from someone who also interracial dates, I have learn that people are the same regardless of there skin. Whites or any other race all go through the samething you have with black men. A white man can also leave you with a child to raise on your own. I'm sure you have already been outside your race, so I don't even have to mention the other challenges you have to face with close minded people, but there are good black men out there
@Nataine
oh yeah....i forgot....
this is my favorite...we got the "i as a strong black woman" type...whose weakness are only surpass by their insecurities....
Nataine...the more you type, the more you doing women on this site a disservice...and if you are black...you exposing how frail black women are...
I am more upset at you...for the image that you and others like you are casting on black women as a whole...than for your opinion on black men as a whole....
ahahaha.....
And something I really can't understand is how is a black woman any different from a black man, don't get it twisted I'm not trying to start anything, but we ALL being black are in the same situation as to where we stand as a race. I'm not going to mention, like some of you have about black men, about black women faults and steretypes, because I don't buy into that. Just live your life anyway you choose. Do what makes you happy
@ da_advocator, if you go back to the beginning, you will see that I commented to the post regarding Ashanti and this guy. Other posters questioned my feelings and beliefs and I politely answered their questions. You say "what is your issue… what exactly is your problem?", I don't have one. Again, I'm expressing my true beliefs based on what I was asked. I didn't come here & rant & rave about Black men as you are trying to insinuate. People love to paint Black women as bitter, angry & hostile. Those descriptions don't apply to me, therefore they don't rile me up the way you were hoping, sorry.
correction
this is my favorite...we got the "i am a strong black woman" type...whose weaknesses are only surpass by their insecurities..
yeah...If i missed a personality...forgive me...there are too many on this site to keep track off...and more than likely they are from the same cast of bitter brawds on this site....
lol...I am out..
@ da_advocator, you *** allow people's personal opinions to upset you as mine has. You have to grow past that and stop allowing how others feel to dictate how you feel. That's not too healthy. If you base how you are going to feel on how everyone else does, you are going to be flip-flopping feelings every 2 seconds. You have to find your own mind and stability in your feelings, not derive them from others.
@Nataine
Other posters questioned my feelings and beliefs and I politely answered their questions. You say "what is your issue… what exactly is your problem?"
, =====
Your first mistake was to think or believe that I give a *** about your feelings.... Just as you say you never cared for black men, there are certain elements of black America I don't care for.
In fact...don't fool yourself...I am only commenting on the discrepancy that exist in your rhetoric...and exposing you for the fraud that you are.
In fact, to show you how apathetic I am to your plight….ahaha….I am ending it right now…continue to spew your ***…I am sure you have more than enough *** on here to eat it up….ahahaha
Have a good evening…and if you have a problem finding a white man….I know a couple who wouldn’t mind tagging a black brawd….but, you got to fit the bill….
SEE…I am very diplomatic….I realized as black man…Your T.W.A.T. no more belongs to me as it belongs to you…in fact, MASSA had always own your T.W.A.T
Have a good evening….lol
Ashanti is my girl no matter what she does or where she goes Ashanti is going to shine regardless "she is glowing" that what you call real true talent when you don't even have to make a song but when you step out in the light you will still glow Get Em Shani oh yeah MTO she do not go with that guy he looks *** and he don't look like shani type at all she got a man MTO leave her alone already
@ Joekerr, you said "ARE YOU ANGRY AT BLACK MEN.....HURT BY ONE OR MANY". Um, clearly you want to believe this to ease the gutpunch of a Black woman not wanting ANYTHING to do with up to no good (by your own admission) Black foolishness. As it clearly states in my previous posts, I have never and WILL never date a Black man, so therefore, have not been and won't ever be scarred by one. Nice try though :)
WHOEVER HE IS HE *** THAN A FLOCK OF ***!!
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I don't really think Nelly and Ashanti date anymore. Nelly is my dood and I hang out with him almost every single *** on Ustream. Ya'll STLunatics fans follow them on twitter @nelly_mo,@AVERYSTORM,@MurphyLee,@KYJUANSTL,@CITYSPUD and tell em @cassieososassie sent ya. Oh and come hang out with Nelly live on Ustream, NellyTV [link to external website removed] Then you can ask him about Ashanti yourself but word tho, I never see that chica on cam, he's usually always by his self or with his Derrty ENT fam. Tell your people and LET'S GO!!!
