: The following message was put out by Swizz Beatz soon-to-be-ex-wife R&B singer Mashonda . . . it's a long read.
In short, she suggests that Alicia stole Swizz from her. Read it at your leisure:
After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @Alicia keys twit page. I've never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I've reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.I was a fan of AK's last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.
Already I can hear some of you saying " why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken". Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.
My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.
If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would've handled things more carefully. I'm not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now
This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don't have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!
I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what's real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the "people", this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don't understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I'm not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.
To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.
Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
First and foremost Swizz new he was married and so did Alicia trust she will be in that same position in no time cause chicks like these fail to realize if he did it to me what makes you so special that it wont happen to you. And wasnt Alicia suppose to marry that dude that was in her video behind her. You reap what you soe and Alicia its all good now but trust babe best believe he will do ten fold to you compared what he did to his WIFE.
Psstttt!!! Every1 saying she handled this classy but the loser put this on Twitter??? Pluhheeze!!! Move the eff on. Obviously their was strife in their relationship already. She is just tryna make AK look bad but to me she comes across just disgruntled. Girl get that alimony and child support and keep it pushin!!!
Wow...Well, my little inner circles around New York City and what I've seen in person of Alicia Keys shows me she's a ***. I get it that she's more into women v. men.
This isn't rumor control, it's what I've seen with my own eyes.
Mashonda, raise your child. Your hubby is no GOOD! And, for those of you to criticize Mashonda for having a baby to her married husband, please!
At least, unlike so many others, she's raising her son!
And another thing @MTO. When yall post ur stories in the morning does everyone just go home? Bcuzz this *** was the talk of Twitter yesterday morning. It seems to me like any other blog spot u would have worked that in YESTERDAY as it happened. Yall suck. Always late. Depending on yall I would have just found out Michael Jackson was dead!
I commend Mashonda for handling this situation the best way she can..As for Alicia, girl, I love your music and everythang, but u trifling and dead wrong for this ish...Not only her either because it does take two..I also feel tha same towards Swizz..He had tha nerve to introduce her to his wife knowing that they were freaking each otha on tha low...WOWWW
1. It's horrible to have lost love, but when someone loves another person more you have to face that reality.
2. Why should Alicia deny what is real for her and Swizz? That would be fake and hypocritical.
3. Mashonda, please do not keep bring up your child to make Alicia feel guilty. That is using the child for your own emotional purposes.
Swizz is still spendign time with his son. That won't change. He left you not the son, so don't try to use your son against Alicia.
4. Why are you bringing up how you used to be a fan? And how you "believed in" Alicia? That sounds crazy for real.
MTO YALL LATE I READ DIS ALREADY DANG WHAT YALL DO JUS LRUKIN ROUND SITES STILL DEY PICK CROSS DA MEDIATAKEOUT ON IT THEN GO WIT DEM LAME AZZ STORIES SO WHAT WHO CARES WHAT DEY GOT GOIN ON WE GOT PROBLEMS JUS LIKE DEM DEY AINT NO BETTA DERES JUS AIRS CAUSE DERE FAMOUS MASHONDA HONEY PICK UP DA PIECES AND MOVE AND WORRY BOUT U AND UR SON ALICIA DONT OWE U NOTHIN DATS UP 2 HER IF SHE WANNA GIVE IT DERE HAD 2 ALREADY BE DAMAGE DERE U WAS PROALLY JUS 2 BLIND 2 SEE IT JUS WANTED 2 HOLD ON AND KEEP UR VOWS LIFE MOVES ON SWEETIE WHEN 1 DOOR CLOSES GOD OPENS ANOTHA 1
Mashonda has moved on ,she just wants akeys to acknoledge her and her child .For akeys to know there gonna be in swizz life there for her and ak need to have an understanding and respect.Bottom line is akeys cheating with this womens husband,this b!tch has no regard for family because she did"t grow up in one
She's a fool. And everyone hopping on her Alicia is the bad guy is too. We're on the outside looking in. We don't know what went on in that marriage and she's telling her side... AGAIN. If she was so over it why the public bs? If she's moved on why care? Two years have passed and he's with someone else and she's still at this dumb sh*t. Nothing she has done has brought him back to her. Hell, After that public humiliation letter he'll probably push even harder for the divorce which she's stalling. She isn't going to ruin Alicia's career and she isn't going to make that man love her.C'mon son
If she deliberately went after your husband then she will have to pay for that,because what goes around comes around just move on. Who cares? It sounds like she is having trouble moving on. Life goes on, get over it. At least you don't have to worry about how to pay the bills like a lot of women who men leave them. Anyway why are you acting like a teenager putting your business in the streets, who cares any way?
HE IS NOT GOING TO KEEP IT AT HOME AND IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU KICK, SCREAM, CRY, DO STUNTS IN THE BEDROOM IN A SUPERWOMAN COSTUME...WHATEVER.
A.KEYS & SWIZZ IS DEAD AZZ WRONG AND HANDLED THERE BUSINESS *** UP. HE SHOULDA BEEN HONEST WITH MASHONDA FROM THE GITTY-UP AND ASKED FOR A DIVORCE BEFORE *** WITH A.KEYS LIKE THAT.
MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO MASHONDA.. A.KEYS LOST ALL MY RESPECT FOR THIS ONE. SUPERWOMAN MY ***...HOMEWRECKER. ITS BEST MASHONDA MOVE ON, THIS *** WILL NEVER LAST BETWEEN A.KEYS & SWIZZ CAUSE ITS BUILT ON A LIE.
MASHONDA HANDLED THE SITUATION WITH CLASS..HELL SHE SAID SHE TRIED TO PRIVATELY REACH OUT SEVERAL TIMES. IF THE KID IS GOING TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS DAD HE WILL BE AROUND ALICIA TO, SO I UNDERSTAND MASHONDA WANTING TO RESOLVE THINGS AND BE AT PEACE WITH A.KEYS.
TO THE COMMENT WHO SAID IF MASHONDA WAS DOING HER JOB SWIZZ WOULD HAVE BEEN AT HOME...SOUNDS LIKE THE WORDS OF A HOMEWRECKING GROUPIE ***. WHAT WOMEN FAIL TO REALIZE IS IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU A FREAK, BETTY CROCKER IN THE KITCHEN AND A MASSEUSE FOR A MAN, IF THAT *** AIN'T GOT IT IN HIM TO KEEP IT AT HOME GUESS WHAT?
HE IS NOT GOING TO KEEP IT AT HOME AND IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU KICK, SCREAM, CRY, DO STUNTS IN THE BEDROOM IN A SUPERWOMAN COSTUME...WHATEVER.
A.KEYS & SWIZZ IS DEAD AZZ WRONG AND HANDLED THERE BUSINESS *** UP. HE SHOULDA BEEN HONEST WITH MASHONDA FROM THE GITTY-UP AND ASKED FOR A DIVORCE BEFORE *** WITH A.KEYS LIKE THAT.
MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO MASHONDA.. A.KEYS LOST ALL MY RESPECT FOR THIS ONE. SUPERWOMAN MY ***...HOMEWRECKER. ITS BEST MASHONDA MOVE ON, THIS [EXPLETIVE] WILL NEVER LAST BETWEEN A.KEYS & SWIZZ CAUSE ITS BUILT ON A LIE.
If somebody writes "she should deal with her husband" I'll scream. That is such a flawed argument. The woman or man who enters into a relationship with a married individual is equally adulterous. And they always seemed to dote on each other, Mashonda and Swizz. Alicia's songs about love and female empowerment took a back seat to her raging hormones, I see. That's hardly in keeping with this image of herself as an artist and humanitarian. It's vulgar and she should be ashamed. Instead, it seems, she's too busy flaunting their affair.
This chick is soo GHETTO!!! how dare she go in on Alicia keys like that!!! She is turning into a stalker!!! Didn't she just shake Alicia hand 2 weeks ago at that party??? She's so unclassy for this.
Honey GET OVER IT!!! YOU THOUGHT HAVING HIS BABY WOULD SAVE YOUR MARRIGE??? *** GET A JOB A TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD!!!! seems to me she's mad that her bank account ((Marrige)) ran dry and that child support for 1 child will not be enough her SMDH the reason they still married is because she won't finalize the *** papers. I guess she figures this the most fame shell ever get.
I cannot believe some of the comments I am reading! This is a woman that intentionally went after a married man some ***! Mashonda has the right to be angry! I hope Swiss does that *** the way he did his wife! I hope neither of the ever sell a record *** A Keys marriage ruiner and *** Swiss I hope she get every *** dime!
Swizz Beats lil' skinny azz needs to make a choice. Dudes already get a bad rap when it comes to us and relationships. I bet he'd feel like a real *** if, when he left his wife, A. Keys cheated on him. That's what's wrong with us guys now, when we do it, we wonder why women trip. But when they do it to us, then it's WWIII. I won't sit here and act like I have never cheated before, but I saw how it affected the other person and I felt sick about it. The karma bit me in my *** and I understood. Not cool bruh, you can't f*ck with people's heart that way.
IT'S ABOUT TIME SOMEONE FINALLY PUT AK PLASTIC SURGERY, EX *** NOSED, WHOPPED SHAPED HAMBURGLAR, LAZY EYE HEFFA GET CALLED ON THE CARPET.
fIRST, SHE CAN NOT SING, HER BACKUP SINGERS CARRY HER SONGS. 2ND SHE CAN'T DANCE, YO SHE AINT GOT NOO RHYTHM.
3RD HER BODY IS NOT BANGIN WIT DAT PANCAKE SHE GOT FROM HER MAMMY.
4TH SHE AINT GOT TOP BANK LIKE TOP BEETCHES
5TH SHE AINT NO CROSSOVER LIKE HALLE
6TH SWIZZ IS SS[SPAM][SPAM]OOOOO F'IN OOOO GAN F-IN MOOGLY
MASHONDA U AINT LOOSIN MUCH, UH
PLS DO A KELIS AND HIT DEM POCKETS. SWIZZ -***- AK SHO AINT JEY *** BEY
Man if this is true then Alicia Keys is a pretentious *** that has everyone drinking her kool-aid.
I hate women that dont give a *** about the children involved in the situation and rather run around like dogs in heat chasing after married men.
If you help the man that you "love" break up his family and leave his children then is that really love? Or are you just a selfish low-life creep just like him?
And Alicia doesn't owe her ***. She didn't step out on her, he did. All she is causing is baby mama drama. Swizz will get a court visitation order and there's nothing she can do about it.
Alicia doesn't have to be in the picture while he spends time with his kid. All of that is crapola for drama and control.
What is she going to do when Alicia marries dude and have her own kids by him? ( I would like to know why this guy is even getting this kind of attention, in the first place.) She had better get a grip before he fights her for custody.
SMH All you people taking up for Alicia, dismissing the very serious way in which Mashonda was violated, and rationalizing Alicia's decision to engage in an illicit affair have never, ever been in this situation, huh? It's being robbed of security, people. Imagine going to your parents' home tomorrow and having them act as if you're a stranger. That's how it feels when someone you love betrays you in this way. You are being so naive in your defense of Alicia.
THIS IS JUST CRAZY,I JUST CANT GET OVER HOW A.KEYS GOING AROUND THIS LIKE ITS A FANTASY,DONT SHE CARE ABOUT HER REPUTATION I GUESS NOT I BET SHE WILL WHEN ITS TIME TO DROP THAT NEW ALBUM OF HERS,I CANT DEAL WITH THESE FEMALE CELEBS THEIR EITHER ***,ATTENTION ***,HOME WRECKIN *** I CANT SUPPORT NONE OF THESE *** NO MORE... AS FOR MASHONDA SHE NEEDS TO MOVE ON AND GET AN DIVORCE ALREADY FROM THAT UGLY *** NICCA SWIZZ THAT NICCA AINT ALL THAT ANYWAY,GET THAT DIVORCE AND GET YA KELIS ON LOL,AND IF THIS LETTER DONT WORK KNOCK ALICIA *** OUT ALONG WITH SWIZZ I KNOW I WOULD *** THAT LOL
I don't believe this letter is drama control this woman is hurt and if you are women heartbreak is bound to come your way...but on tha flip Alicia has her game face on in pubic, but is prolly hurting and confused and in love all @ the same time behind closed doors...we can't really judge till we wear the shoes feel me???
CLASS!!! I AGREE DIS WOMEN B WANTN 2 B WITH D MAN SO BAD STILL GIV A *** OR LESS ABOUT D CHILDREN INVOLVED. I DONT WANT A PERSON AROUND MY CHILD DAT CAN NEGATIVELY IMPACT HIM OR HER EITHER. FOR THE BETTERMENT OF D CHILD EVERYBODY NEEDS TO B ON D SAME ACCORD. IF NOT,D MAN NEEDS 2 MAN D F UP AND LEAVE D OTHER WOMAN ALONE.
No one can deny AK's talent, but she was dead wrong for starting this relationship with Swizz. Some ppl say that it wasn't on her... and that "we don't know what really happened"... however, I don't care what the situation is... u don't f*ck with a married person! Period! I lost all respect for AK after this situation came to light. I would have thought that she would have made a better choice, but we're all human... she'll learn in the future that she should have never started this relationship... "Karma is a b*tch!"... This entire situation will come back on her 100 fold.
Believe that!
HALF OF YALL READERS AREN'T GETTING THE POINT: SHE IS NOT DESPERATE. SHE LET US KNOW WHAT IS GOING DOWN. ON TOP OF THAT, WHAT SHE IS SAYING IS ALICIA IS KEEPING SWIZZ FROM HIS CHILD. SHE WANTS ALICIA TO KNOW THAT THERE IS A CHILD INVOLVED AND MASHONDA WANTS TO BE ABLE TO GET ALONG WITH SWIZZ AND ALICIA FOR THE SAKE OF THEIR CHILD.
HE HAD TO INTRODUCE HER,THEY WERE BOTH ON THE SAME LABEL..SHE NEED TO GET OVER HIM.IT WOULD'VE BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE ANYWAYS.HEY WHO KNOWS WHAT SWIZZ WAS TELLING KEYS ABOUT HIS DISFUNCTIONAL MARRIAGE.MAYBE HE TWISTED KEYS HEAD UP INTO THINKING IT WAS OVER WITH THE MARRIAGE SO SHE STEPPED UP AND SNATCHED HIM.THE WIFE JUST MAD BECAUSE SHE WON'T BE TAKEN CARE AS WELL AS SHE WAS BEFORE THE BREAKUP.MOVE ON AND GET THOSE BABY STACKS!!
I think that it is sad how we as women are willing to disrespect other women.I don't know the situation and there are always three sides to every story: his side,her side, and the truth. I do think that it is tragic that a beautiful family was broken up,whatever the cause. If this is true Swizz is definitely to blame as well. I am not sure how helpful this letter is going to be in this situation but I wish the best for everyone involved. I especially wish the best for the little boy that is in the middle of this whole situation. To my beautiful women, don't allow yourself to be used. If he
i read the letter yesterday on another site, i feel sorry for mashonda and swiss cuz this situation is so ugly and a baby is involved. i hope ak takes the soon to be x words seriously and allows a relationship to resume between father and son. you can control a person completely and if you feel like the other person your trying to keep him away from has a win then you've already lost even though the man may be with you at this current time.
and *** e wayz i thought ak was so in love with dude she been with for almost ten years,
yuck
@ lovehatefashion- I totally agree, you can tell who the sidechicks are on here. I don't see her calling AK a *** or ***. So, she's not a woman scorned. But it's cool, this would be one of those rare moments when I say take him for what he got because if he had any respect for Moshanda and his KID he would get them to sit down and work things out for the childs sake. Yet, some people on here would say that's wrong. I wouldn't even let my child be around her, seeing how she has a heart of stone.
One last thing...
2 the ppl saying that Mashonda needs 2 move on, ur obviously not married...
and if u are, maybe u need to check the dedication u have 2 ur marriage. It's not easy to walk away from ur spouse. It's not like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship... it's not like a baby daddy/baby momma relationship either... it's a true commitment.
If ur a truly dedicated and committed husband or wife, especially one that has a child or children, it's very difficult to walk away... especially when there's another person in the picture. ...
If ur a single woman, and u meet and man and he said he was married? u r surpose to run for the hills !!!!! the truth is that nobody respects marrige not even AK. why would u find it fun to deal with somebody that didnt end there other relationship and start a new, i feel her pain, he didnt want a family and if he felt that way he should of stayed single
You know I like Alicia, but this is some hoe ***. Some women can be such idiots. And I don't care how talented or beautiful the woman is, they are not exempt from doing dumb ***. Doesn't make the woman a genius. I just don't like that she did this. She is not the only one to blame, it is dudes fault as well, but to chase and pursue a married man and come between a woman, her family, and her kids is hoe ***. It is obvious disrespect, shows callousness, shows her ignorance and stupidity. The guy isn't even divorced.
I agree with sweetblk, he prolly cheated b4 but with someone of a lower calibur who he felt wasn't worth losing his fam for but he's all wide open for Alicia...he did the typical *** move and didn't pass up the chance to tap alicia keyes (a lot of dudes dreamb***ch) ***...the rewards prolly woulda been greater if he was strong enuff to do pass that up!
For all the folks not seeing the bigger picture here she us obviously a women scorned you can clearly see that, by how she states things. In paragraph 2 she says keys held a party for swizz beats, which she to attended and shooks keys hand why had she not pulled her aside woman to woman confronted her there? she is only trying to expose the truth about keys and swizz year affair.
u see that why i dont *** with AK's nomore cause she was creepin while he was still with wife *** that wrong she didnt have her father cause her mother did the same thing so it seems like the apple dont fall from the tree *** if i was his wife i would have beat her *** 4 that 1 then i would let him have her *** take him 4 everything
@EmmaLouise94...being a woman who demands to be 1 in the man I loves life, @ some point us women have to stop and ask ourselves would you want some1 to do it to you? But a lot of women who settle for less always *** taken men, no morals and principles! Upbringing maybe? But experience allows me to learn that's y a man with a woman is off limits to me!!!!!
Speaking on a more lighter note of someone who knows the two through family she, in my opionion will never come to terms with the divorce and if swizze happens to marry keys Mashonda might even go insane if she has not spoken to keys women to women from what I hearing through family mashonda knew something like this might have occured but just wanted to be supported but anyway hope she will be okay and move forward with her life .
I have to agree. That letter was very well articulated. The woman can air her greivances if she wants to. Cause the *** Alicia pulled is hoe ***. Just to know she even did this makes me loose all respect for her. It is obvious Mashonda is hurting, her family is hurting and Alicia Keys is like I don't give a f--***. I am going to be a hoe and I don't care who's man I steal to get some dyck.
And Alicia hasn't been in a public relationship where they are clearly in love, with any public affection before this (I thought she was closet ***, and still do) but now she is about to learn about heartache...whether careerwise or with Swizz or somethin, KARMA!!! Every dog gets their day, and how you get em is how you lose em!!
If her husband left her, he was missing something she wasn't given. We don't know anything about Swiss and his ex-wife or Alicia for that matter, but I will say it's more to the story than what I just read.
It's important never take anything for granted. The relationship could start off great, but sometimes people outgrow the other person. Whatever it takes to get a man or woman, it takes that and more to keep them. You can't slack off once you are married.
she may not have an album dropping soon, but she's aware that alicia does. there's motive.
keep igging her alicia. that's the more responsible avenue to take. swizz needs to deal with her, not u.
angelina publicly address jen; she let brad handle that.
when a man moves on, he's been plotting the move for quite some time. he doesnt just leave - out of blue.
for her son, (and hopefully her dignity) she needs to keep it movin'.
I am disgusted by some of yall comments.... Blaming Mashonda for her husband cheating on her? I mean really.. Thats the problem with black women yall *** well some of yall *** are simple as hell. AK was just as wrong as Swizz and this home wrecking *** made a song called Karma??? Superwoman??? Choose your words carefully AK cause 99.9% chance you are going to be in the same situation that Mashonda is in. I cant believe yall saying get over it, you lost, you cant compare to AK are yall really serious? How can you tell someone to get over their husband? To stop loving someone? AK is a
Swizz and Mashonda's son Kasseem was born in Jan 2007, they divorced in April 2009, two years after their son's birth; Selfish, uncaring Alicia Keys knew but didn't give a *** about breaking up a marriage and leaving a son without his father. Swizz, a coward, is just as guilty, neither he nor AK have the class and intellect of Mashonda.
Why are people saying A. Keys is a homewrecker and STOLE Swizz from Mashonda? Did she run up in their house with chloroform soaked rag and put it over his face? Did she drag him out and throw him in her trunk, never to be seen by Mashonda and their son again?
Hell no.......
Husbands don't get stolen, most of them leave willingly as I see it. I am not one of those women who doesn't know how to respect another woman's marriage or relationship. It just bugs me out, how women always feel like they need to CONFRONT the other woman about something. Check the man you walked down the aisle with.
TO THE COMMENT WHO SAID IF MASHONDA WAS DOING HER JOB SWIZZ WOULD HAVE BEEN AT HOME AND HE MUST HAVE BEEN MISSING SOMETHING AT HOME...
SOUNDS LIKE THE WORDS OF A HOMEWRECKING GROUPIE ***. WHAT WOMEN FAIL TO REALIZE IS IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU A FREAK, BETTY CROCKER IN THE KITCHEN AND A MASSEUSE FOR A MAN, IF THAT *** AIN'T GOT IT IN HIM TO KEEP IT AT HOME GUESS WHAT? HE IS NOT GOING TO KEEP IT AT HOME AND IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU KICK, SCREAM, CRY, DO STUNTS IN THE BEDROOM IN A SUPERWOMAN COSTUME, HAVE A MILLION OF HIS BABIES, GIVE HIM A BLOOD SACRIFICE, WHATEVER.
I read the whole thing...it held my attention...because it was real. I feel Mashonda's pain. And I am VERY dissappointed with Ms.Keys. My sights of her being a strong woman, no longer exists. Because a strong woman wouldve been strong enough to leave this along. A strong women wouldve been wise enough to know that she deserves more than a married man. Well I hope she wakes up and realizes her wrongs. Because Karma is a bytch. I'm sure she knows, she did make a song about it. "What goes around, comes around, what goes up, must come down".
@babygirl, She is putting her biz on... OUT! IT IS OVA!! Just like one poster said, this is not the first time he may have stepped out. But since it's Alicia, and the fact dude is blowin up, she's feeling rejected...All ppl wit da AAAHS, are not helping her. She needs to pull up da big girl panties and step! If ur daughter went thru this, what would u say to her?
home wrecking *** just like her pastey white *** mammy thats where she probably got that foul *** from cause we all know how they do it... Thats why she dont have any remorse... AK you was my girl but now I really.really,really hope that every album you put out FAILS!!! You lost a fan I promise i`ll get Taylor Swift *** b4 urs ever again in life u low life!!
Blaming Alicia is like blaming ourselves as black women...its not about blame its about knowing the morals and prinicple and upholding them, we as blk women get criticized for almost everything that we're put up against...we have to rep ourselves waay better than most and AK is an icon...she is outta line!!!
Well, from what I have always heard no matter if the husband cheated and knew that he was married that you ARE NEVER supposed to cheat with anyone else's husband &&if YOU DO YOU WILL HAVE BAD LUCK, Like it or NOT just b/c Alicia Keys is a talented artists DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS PERFECT. She is a human as well. Therefore; she is WRONG and two wrongs don't make a right... so clearly she is a HOMEWRECKER... Question is: Why couldn't she find her own man! ! Mmmm.. at leats Swizz Beats was Mashonda's husband at first... Tah
yall *** is f*cked up motherf*ckers that was her official hubby how dare you say she on his *** i actually admire her for keepin her composure cause if that was me sheeeeeeeeeshhhhhhhh hhhh omg it wudda been over for alicia as beautiful as she as and as much money as she has outta all these fine men you tellin me she cuddnt find her own?
diamondstatediva1,
Educate us. Most of us are not aware of that situation. Who was he with before? I am not being rude, I just want to know. I thought he just had one kid.
This is from swizz beatz twitter page in response: FYI I WILL NOT ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS ABOUT MY PERSONAL LIFE ON TWITTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THATS CHILDS PLAY IM A GROWN *** MAN!!!!!!
get ova it mashonda that's mad childish to put ya biz out there that's *** u handle behind closed doors not 4 the whole world to c girl I understand u trynna get sum publicity outta this but I believe alicia got wit swizz after they separated like reports say mashonda sound like sge bitter as hell a she don't wanna accept the fact that the marriage is ova
ALICIA WILL NOT STICK WITH HIM CAUSE ONLY A SELFISH TRICK BREAKS UP A HOME.SOMETHING MORE APPEALING WILL COME ALONG SHE'S OUT OR SHE'LL DO WHAT RIHANNA DID AND BREAK IT OFF IF THIS AFFAIR THREATENS HER CAREER. TRUST THAT ALICIA WILL GET HERS FROM SOMEONE ELSE. JUST WHEN SHE FALLS MADLY IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE, RIGHT WHEN SHE'S FEELING SECURE...**BOOM** SHE'LL FEEL MASHONDA'S PAIN! SWIZZ WILL ALSO FEEL THE PAIN WHEN SHE DUMPS HIS STUPID AZZ!!TRUST!! TO ALL THESE DUMB AZZ GEN. Y BROADS THAT ASSUME IF SHE WAS DOING RIGHT, SWIZZ WOULDN'T HAVE LEFT BLAH BLAH BLAH...GROW UP...YA SOUND IGNORANT!!!!
MASHONDA: Yes, your soon to be ex and AK were both wrong. What's done is done, and I think you realize that he ain't coming back. As for your son, all that is left is to work out the custody agreement. They don't really have to deal with you at all. Someone else can pick up the kid for visitation. And they don't have to socialize with you at b-day parties. Holidays can be split. Take the high road and don't start with the "only way he sees the child is through me!" nonsense.
I feel bad for her but in my opinion you can't "steal" a man or woman away from anyone. If they leave its because they wanted 2. AK was wrong for going after Swizz because he was married, I don't think any1 can deny that, but all I am saying is that this long *** letter should have been to the person who stood before God and vowed to love her forever, her husband not AK. Men and women are scandalous but it is up to the person you are with to respect you and your relationship not some1 else. I'm married & I would be more mad @ my husband than the other woman.
Sk0rPi0n_KinG says:SHE NEEDS 2 GET THE [EXPLETIVE] OFF MY BOY SWIZZ DYCK
BEEYOTCH, UR NOT WANTED ANYMOE
I say : *** stfu that was her devouted husband some1 she dedicated her like too some1 she planned on spending the rest of her life with who she thought was the love of her life its not like she was a regular old gf where he cud just leave he put a ring on it! she had his baby so wtf yu talkin bout you just a ghetto *** *** with no family morals
@thrasher...
U sound dumb ignorant... r u married? Do u have a child or children with someone ur married to?
If not then, u can't possibly understand by any measure what Mashonda is going thru.
As far as Swizz steppin out on Mashonda b4, that doesn't have anything to do with AK! She's the 1 in this relationship with Swizz... not some other random skank... and if it were some other groupie b*tch... I would b saying the same thing.
Btw... if it were my daughter and she felt that she needed to get sh*t str8 with a b*tch that was sleeping with her husband and more than likely would...
I HAD TO CONTINUE BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY IGNORANT COMMENTS BEING MADE. I USED TO LIKE ALICIA AND HER MUSIC BUT HOW CAN I LISTEN TO SOMEONE WHO CLEARLY DOESN'T HAVE ANY MORALS. WHAT CAN SHE SING ABOUT. LOVE?...BEING A SUPERWOMAN. THINKING BACK...SHE ACTUALLY TRICKED HER FANS BECAUSE IF MOST OF KNEW THAT SHE WAS SINGING ABOUT ANOTHER WOMANS HUSBAND THEN WE WOULDN'T HAVE LISTENED TO HER MUSIC. TREAT OTHERS LIKE YOU WOULD WANT TO BE TREATED! ALSO, TRUST THAT THE DEVIL IS BUSY...HE MAKES WHAT GOD SAYS IS WRONG LOOK RIGHT IN OUR EYES BY USING OUR EMOTIONS! I'M DISGUSTED!
I made an account just to comment on this story. Some people are saying why doesn't she just move on...wtf! I know that most of yall are young but this isn't some boyfriend girlfriend ish...this is a marriage! You don't just move on that quickly and they're not even divorced yet! This is her life...she thought this person was going to be with her forever. Wedding vows are serious and *** be taken lightly! Alicia Keys has lost all of my respect as a woman. Her actions go against everything that I thought her music represented. As for Swiss beat's little rat lookin ***! No comment! =X
@thrasher *Rolling eyes* If a dude left me for another chick...Hey, i lost one! Lick my wound, keep it steppin...HATE, HATE, A NEEDY MUTTER ***!! Her whining azz is annoying to ME, I can see why he left. ******************************************
Wow! I hope u never have to face the hurt and devestation that Mashonda has gone thru (with a spouse)....
it's not the easy get up and go that u believe it to be.
Well, I'm a fan of Alicia Keys & a married woman too. My opinion, I dnt care how long it took 4 the divorce to be final, AK shoulda fell back until it was. I feel Mashonda tho I think it coulda been another way to handle this besides writing a public letter, but at least she chose the non-violence route cause ain't enough bond $ in the world that woulda covered the *** I did to my husband & AK!
I understand loving someone but she should've at least TRIED to let them work it out, especially if she asked her too. Swizz beats was going to do what he wanted, but AK made the choice to continue to f with him. Is she that insecure that she had to mess with a married man? If she knew her worth she wouldn't have been afriad to let them work it out, because she would know what God has for her is for her and understand that there are plenty of men out here to choose from. Wrong is wrong. F them both! Keep your head up Mashonda and continue being a good mother!
As a woman I have been the other woman and now and now as a wife I fear reaping what I've sown. Mashonda really should forgive and move on. I understand your hurt pain and humiliation but if you believe in GOD then you must know that HE will work this out. Her and him will get theirs. What Alicia does personally has absolutley nothing to do with me listening to her music. I just know like most artist she is a hypocrite.
Nice letter, well written, but it's crazy that she's calling Alicia out on TWITTER of all places when it's her husband that broke HIS vowels to her. You are not married to Alicia Keys so why in da hell you're trying to "connect" with her, so you portray? It's your husband you need to be seriously talkin to.
Obviously your marriage and your husband wasn't all crakced up as you make them out if he left you for her. I'm certainly not defending Alica. She is dead *** wrong IF this story's all true but your husband is the main culprit becuz he broke the vow.
Mashonda is a class act-she IS moving on and this is part of the process. She has a son and has every right woman to woman, to let AK know how she feels. She handled it with maturity and class. Too bad, I like AK, but her and Swiss flaunting their relationship while he is still married is a little tacky.
It's crazy that so many of you are saying that the wife needs to move on and let it go. . .How insensitive can you be for real. She's not saying that she can't move on. I never even read her saying she wanted to try to make it work. What I got from this is that she feels disrespected because Alicia knowingly messed up a home and a family. Happy or Unhappy, it was not her call. As a REAL woman, you let that man work out his current situation before he takes those kind of steps with you. Out of all the men Alicia could have, she chose a married man. . .wow!
I THINK THAT ALICIA KEYS IS A BEAUTIFUL PERSON...ON THE OUTSIDE. ON THE INSIDE, IT IS ANOTHER STORY. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR MANY YEARS AND UNDERSTAND WHAT MASHONDA MUST BE FEELING. I REALLY CAN'T SAY I'LL BE AN ALICIA KEYES FAN AFTER THIS. I'M DONE BEING HER FAN. I HOPE SHE NEVER HAS TO FEEL THE PAIN SHE HAS CAUSED THIS WOMAN. BUT KARMA IS B!TCH AND WHO KNOW BETTER THAN ALICIA KEYES....SHE SANG ABOUT IT!
This is so sad and for anyone that could say Mashonda needs to get over it you say that when the ish happens to you it seem like celebs have absolutely no respect and its one thing for this happen to an everyday person but when you gotta c this on tv and in mags how can you just get over it so easily its hard for everyday ppl I couldn't imagine it on this level AK better b glad M not featuring her azz on an episode of SNAPPED
What we also don't realize is that this was more than a five year marriage. There was a relationship before then. And put yourself in her shoes. If you were having major or minor issues with your relationship, would you want your man/woman to go ahead and step out and persue someone else while you two are trying to work through your problems? She did what many women have done and what more young women need to do. . .She stuck it out in her marriage and tried to make it work despite what was said in the news or on the street. She respected her vows and I respect her more for that alone.
ppl can be so stupid sayn she needs to move on thats like waiting to exhale for a husband of sum years to jus up *** leave *** afta all she put up with him *** now him *** ak are all hugged up *** pics *** *** like its nuthin u kno that has to hurt swiss is stupid i dnt respect him as a man karmas a *** THO.... MOMA ALWAYS SAID DNT LEAVE THE ONE YOU LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE
I just don't think she should have done this on Twitter. Its one of those situations were since I don't like u I want everyone else to dislike. Personally I'm still a fan of AK and Swizz has a baby by another chick that's younger than the child he has with his wife. So obviously it aint the first time he cheated or whatev. I wonder if it was some random chick he chose would it play out like this? AK is succesful, articulate and beautiful... A triple threat. God bless em all tho!
It's real messed up how some of yall are telling this woman to get over it and move on! This is her HUSBAND that AK is blatantly flaunting a relationship with. To those calling her desperate and all that other ***, ya'll maybe need to keep ya' legs closed to married men! Like a previous poster said, that man wouldn't have been able to cheat with AK if she had said no. She is just as responsible as he is. And to people saying you can't help your feelings and blah blah blah, when it comes to married individuals you *** even let it get to a point where you catching feelings. It's trifling
Famous or not, Alicia is a person before anything and she's is due her mistakes, but to knowingly make a mistake and not seem to have any remorse what-so-ever is straight trifflin'! There's no other way around it. I believe in karma and we'll see what happens with this couple a few years from now. . .
We're on the outside looking in so we'll never know the full story but I do know that Mashonda is (understandably) still very hurt & she's going to have to admit that & stop putitng on this strong woman facade so she can start healing. I would expect this out of Lisa Raye or Lil Kim but not AK =( HE is the one that should held accountable for breaking her heart & if I were AK I wouldn't trust that he wouldn't do the same to me.
on his part and hers too. And people saying just get the alimony and cs and get over it?? That's some trife gold-diggin' ish. It isn't always about money, she obviously loved her husband and her family and is hurt that it was taken away. She's better than me, cuz we all woulda' been on an episode of Snapped. With that said, I hope she does take him for EVERYTHING. People saying if she had handled her business and all that, gtfoh. You could be makin' 5 course meals, attending business dinners and swinging from chandeliers in the bedroom, some men are just greedy and free & easy ussy is worth it
Mashonda please just LET IT GO! I've been in your shoes so trust me I know, your marriage was over long before he left you. Most women just don't want to believe that it's over. Really why would you want a liar & cheater back? Move on and raise your kid. If AK ways responsible for the destruction of your marriage then karma will find her. But for you to keep talking about it is plain embarrasing!
@babygirl, I have never lost a dude to another chick, that i cared about. If it does happen, i wont blame the chick...period! I would SEE the signs, and take action THEN! I DONT STAY WIT SOMEONE, WHEN ITS CLEAR THAT ITS OVA! All ova a stupid contract, vows? Only women...How are u goin SWEAR to ALWAYS luv dis person? The vows need to be revised!
She's just as classless as Alicia Keys. Her son is gonna read this one day. It's better to keep a dignified silence and discuss things in private, because once you put your business out there, you're opening pandora's box.
Having said that, I wouldn't be surprised if Swizz was tapping some other *** before Alicia during his marriage. To think no guy will ever ever sleep with another woman while in a relationship is funny..
Some of yal are ignorant as hell. What is with these comments about how someone technically can't steal someone away from someone else and that the wife needs to move on? The point is that the trick is wrong. Alot of yal ripped Gabrielle a new *** but want to give this heffa a pass. Wrong is wrong. I hope this *** *** wrecks one of your marriages so someone can tell you to get over it.
alicia aint the blame, he is. im pretty sure alicia didnt force him to choose her over his wife. their marriage was probably already *** up before alicia came along, why else would he look in the other direction. she cant blame alicia and their is no such thing as a women stealing another womens man. she should of kept him happy. if it wasnt alicia then it would have been another women.
((Attention)) if any of you dumb hoes are blaming alicica keys for ending mashondas marraige you are ignorant you can't steal a cheating man nobody put a gun to swizz head and mad him cheat with alicia he did it on his own so why is everybody blaming alicia key? swizz is to blame he's the husband he's the one that committed vows to mashonda NOT ALICA KEYS!!! that's the problem with women mainly black women always pointing the finger at the other woman instead of the one who started it (the husband) dumb ***
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TrueWords Flag post ((Attention)) if any of you dumb hoes are blaming alicica keys for ending mashondas marraige you are ignorant you can't steal a cheating man nobody put a gun to swizz head and mad him cheat with alicia he did it on his own so why is everybody blaming alicia key? swizz is to blame he's the husband he's the one that committed vows to mashonda NOT ALICA KEYS!!! that's the problem with women mainly black women always pointing the finger at the other woman instead of the one who started it (the husband) dumb ***
I think Mashonda should have put AK on blast they r being very disrespectful going out *** public and the divorce is not final and people taking pictures of swizz *** ak like its cool its not cool I feel like Mashonda is not going to be able to heal becuz they keep up with da ***.it but when Mashonda does find da strenght to heal she will be unbreakable I tip my hat to u Mashonda cuz me *** my homegurl would have been waitin to catch da *** I wouldn't have that strenght to just let parade around like its all good... Mashonda is maddd classy stay fab gurl
REAL TALK...
I feel sorry for this woman... having your partner leave you for somebody else is very heartbreaking
Alicia Keys is only half the problem
The real problem is that society tries to push men to only settle with 1 woman...
which goes against nature
men are not meant to settle with only 1 woman
its not natural
just like its not natural to go on a diet (How hard is it to stick to one?)
men love women.... LOTS of women ... thats why men are not quick to make commitments to women... Because men can ONLY GET ONE!!!
GOD BLESS HER I FEEL HER PAIN.NO ONE REALLY UNDERSTANDS UNTIL THE SHOES IS ON THEIR FEET......TRU BUT LET ME DROP SOME WISDOM ON MTO........ THE SAME WAY U GETEM IS THE SAME WAY U LOOSE EM *** DONT EVERY DOG HAVE THERE DAY *** WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. SO LISTEN A LIL MORE *** TALK A LOT LESS *** THE SITUATION WILL WHOLE BE OVER BEFORE SHE KNOWS.....I THINK THAT THESE R SOME WISE WORDS FROM MS.S.GIBSON HER SELF....BAAAAABBBYYYY WHEN I TELL THESE WORDS COULDNT BE MORE TRU.
so alicia cant talk about love because it might offend mashonda? she chose to go to akeys twitter page. so obvisouly she looking for some reason to go after alicia. swizz has made a song publicly acknowledging his feeling for akeys, hell he wore a ak pendent around his neck. why not write and open letter to him? he has clearly moved on and she should also. hell dont chase him replace him.
@ true words... boo let me explain sumthang 2 u... this has nothing to do with being white or black stoopid this is bout respect, bottom line how would u feel if da person u took vows wit is disrespecting u over sum1 new be serious all y'all would be hurt stop post stoopid *** ak is not to blame for their marriage failing but she contributes to maddness she is an accessory to the fact *** not one time did Mashonda say da what she is saying again is be RESPECTFUL they can wait til da divorce is final to do all da extra *** stop makin everything a black gurl issue ur comment is madd ignorant
WHAT GOES AROUND,COMES AROUND, WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN.IF KARMA WAS A MOTHER A.KEY'S WOULD BE THE CHILD!I ALWAY'S KNEW A.KEYS WAS FAKE AND SHE DIKEN,SHE DIKEN.LOL..I LIKE HER MUSIC,BUT I WILL ONLY BOOTLEG IT, I WILL NOT SUPPORT A HOMEWRECKER!I COMMEND MASHONDA!KEEP YOUR HEAD UP GIRL,HE WAS'NT ALL THAT ANYWAY'S,THE CREATOR WILL BLESS U WITH YOUR KING YOUR TRUE SOULMATE.AS FOR A KEY'S.YA'LL RELATIONSHIP IS DESTINED TO FAIL, BECOUSE IT WAS BUILD FROM A LIE.HE GONNA DO U THE SAME WAY! THEN YOU GONNA RIGHT A SONG ABOUT,AND I'MMA LAUGH SO HARD,AND SAY "THAT'S WHAT U GET U HOMEWRECKING BIATCH!"
Wow.. Sistergirl Mashonda, you need therapy.
Alicia Keys did NOT break up your marriage, its quite obvious HE WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU and you seem to have tremendous self-esteem issues.
You come across as low self-esteem, and dragging your son into this mess is inexcusable.
Get help, move on and be strong for yourself and your son.
Very classy letter considering the situation.
The entire situation is not classy. Unfortunately people cheat and cheaters normally do not care about hurting peoples feelings.
Its a dangerous situation sleeping with multiple women and/men. He could have brought something awful home to his wife. STI's or STDs. The other woman has it easy her only job is to upset the relationship the man is in.
@im-chuck....society pushes men to be with 1 woman and its unnatural? I beg to differ Christianity pushes men and women to be monogamous if you didn't read the bible there's a new testament that banned polygamy because ppl were getting out of hand. This country just happened to select christianity as its national religion. If u dislike that be muslim or something else
I have been in Mashonda's shoes and I know she is hurting, but hell we have all known about this affair for as long as she has. She's acting like a straight up stalker. Mashonda needs to cry it out, be angry, whatever and get over it. I could understand if this letter came out a year ago. Let go boo boo (the fool). Take it from someone who's mother did stay with her husband for the sake of the kids. I watched a lot of arguing, watched my mother cry and only learned to hate my father. I always felt if my parents broke up, I could have actually had a relationship with my father.
Much respect to Mashonda for being a Real woman about things.She asked them both they denied it.I am a woman and mother. She deserves some answers from AK because she knew they were married.Seems like her and swizz had their talk.As a mother she need to trust AK doubt a woman will do anything to a child when the woman is so in love with the man.Her Love is real and so is her Pain.People should respect that because we've all been hurt at some point in life.
Alicia Keys is dead wrong and an a very sinful adulteress plan and simple!. Any woman who even thinks this is a joke, funny or he's upgraded to something better that says a lot about you as a woman?. Never support women who sleep with married men! never condone a man who cheats on his wife!. Those who cheat must know it won't truly work out in the long run, god surely won't condone or bless them like a married couple. Swizzbeats ex-wife has the right to express her hurt, betrayal and pain she was married to him for 5 years people!. Any woman or man that would break up a mariage aint ***!.
YOU MTO READERS ARE SO STUPID & ILLITERATE!
....4 THOSE WHO CANNOT COMPREHEND MASHONDA, WHO IS "WIFEY" SAID THAT SWISS WHO IS HER "HUSBAND" INTRODUCED THE 2 WHILE THEY WERE TOGETHER---"2 G E T H E R!" MASHONDA LEFT A MESSAGE "2 YEARS AGO" 2 Y E A R S! U IDIOTS! & AK STILL HAS NOT RESPONDED....GET THAT U ***!
If Mashonda has really moved on, she would do just that... MOVE ON! Actions speak louder than words. I know as a woman, it is a hard pill for anyone to swallow (losing your man to someone else), but come on a year and a half later you are publicly writing her. Mashonda definitely has a motive... to break them up. and even if he comes back, it will never be the same. Alicia won! Chalk it up and let go. Be happy. That's the real revenge.
Do you guys freaking hear ya selves.AK is fake kept denying the whole time that she was sleeping with that lady's husband.now what does that tell u to thoes who have a brain? AK KNEW IT WAS WORNG THATS WHY SHE WASNT WOMEN ENOUGH TO OWN UP TO IT.dont blame mashoda both swizz and a.***. Played a role. and if u dumb enuf to get with a guy that cheat thinking he wont do the same to u! Lol u got another thing ***
AK is a home wrecker. But Swizz is an even bigger rass for doing what he did to Mashonda. But what really happened in their relationship that cause things to go the way they did? AK could have let the *** cool before she went ahead and jumped on it. How would you feel if you were married to someone and the other woman is publicly displaying affection for the man that you love(d). AK & Swizz don't forget Karma is a bish!!! Oh yeah good luck with your Hollywood relationship we all know how long that lasts. Yall ain't no Jada & Will, Patrick Ewing and his Wife..Do I dare say Bey and Jay-Z
I have a new found respect for mashonda for taking the classy road, as far as AK goes my respect for her and swizz went through the window. What "superwoman" steals another woman's husband especially since a child is involved? Some of you are saying mashonda sounds bitter when all-in-all she is hurt this was/is her husband for 5 yrs not forgetting how long they were together before they got married. This new generation of kids are so dumb...But swizz and AK needs to know that karma do exist
LET'S NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS.....THERE'S ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO THE STORY.. I FEEL IT FOR HER BECAUSE SHE WAS HIS WIFE, BUT LET'S NOT ACT LIKE THE VICTIM! THEY WERE SEPARATED! IT'S NOT LIKE ALICIA PURPOSELY CAME IN AND STOLE HER MAN, THAT MARRIAGE WAS ALREADY OVER BEFORE ALICIA. SO WHAT IF SWIZZ FELL IN LOVE WITH ALICIA....IT HAPPENS, DON'T JUDGE THEM BECAUSE THEY HAVE A CONNECTION AND WANNA BE WITH EACHOTHER. HE WASN'T HAPPY, SO HE MOVED ON...HE'S A GROWN MAN, HE'LL BE THERE FOR HIS CHILD. AND ALICIA WILL RESPECT THAT. BTW: KEYS HAS REACHED OUT, BUT YOU KNOW SHONDA AINT TRYN TO HEAR THAT
I'm not defending cheaters because being unfaithful is not cool, but the fact is that monogamy goes against our natural biological imperative. No ***/vagina ever belongs to you, no matter how long you've been together or married. We are just mammals, and the desire to reproduce with others *** be condemned but understandably, it is if you are in a relationship but let's be realistic, most people aren't susceptible to the idea of an open relationship.
But on the other hand, if you're going to make a commitment, you should honor them. I don't know Swizz/Mashonda's business like that..
I can see there's a lot of homewrecking *** on this web site....she's he's wife. She has every right to be hurt. When ur in love its not that easy to jus move on. Especially when there's a MARRIAGE and CHILD involved. AK lucky she haven't got her a$$ beat. Real talk I would've taken a more violent approach. Much respect to Mashonda!
MASHONDA HAS EVERY RIGHT 2 FEEL THE WAY SHE DOES!
.....UNLIKE U BABY MAMMAS, GIRLFRIENDS & SIDE-CHICS, SHE WAS "WIFEY, W I F E Y! AND THEY WERE "MARRIED" FOR 5 YEARS!....NOT WAITING ON DA RING BUT MARRIED!
-----OBVIOUSLY THEY WERE HAPPY! IT'S HARD 2 JUST MOVE ON WHEN YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE & THEY DO THIS TO U! ESP. ON SOME HUM-BUG SHI* LIKE THEY DID!
I don't know much about this situation, but I do know it can't be his looks. As far as a man that women would fight over, he is not what comes to mind. AK should have just appreciated him for his talent and left it at that. The problem with him may be a superficial mentality. He is like a lot of men who get caught up in the hype and forsake their present romantic interest to date an A-list star. P Diddy *** to this mentality with J.Lo, Kevin Federline with Britney Spears, Dean McDermott with Tori Spelling and Brad Pitt with Angelina Jolie. Only time will tell if this one lasts.
i personally cant pick a side.. i believe what ak did was terribly WRONG!! and that karma is a *** but why must mashonda go public with this ..this is there personal bussiness im sure that ak is not making swizz not see his kids , if he wanted to see his kids he could...in problems like this u cant judge because we are looking form the outside in ...we dont know wat was going on in there marriage we only know what the media displays or in this fact whatshe says " might have felt like the marriage was perfect but in fact wasnt!!!
To keep you from an evil woman, from flattering tongue of a seductress. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids. For by means of a harlot a man is reduced to a crust of bread;and an adulteress will prey upon his precious life(prov 6:24-26).Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; he who does so destroys his own soul.Wounds and dishonor he will get, and his reproach will not be wiped away(prov 6:32-33).Serious Laws of god!
We don't know the whole story so it wouldn't make sense to pass judgement. Everyone had a role to play in this. I have lost respect for Alicia Keys though. And I don't think it was very classy fo Mashonda to put all this info out there. Alicia may want to release some kind of statement if she wants to maintain her classy image. If this story is even true.
Oh plz here she go with a letter come on now no one can mess up ur marriage if a gur loves u he will never leave u trust my word so its way more to the storys besides I hate when females blame the other chick smh get it together he don't want u he did not b4 alicia...and y'all calling her a homewrecker 4 what a chick can never wreck a home its up 2 a man 2 go with the flow he *** sure know how 2 say no...
AK is a *** homewreaker i mean lets face it u fU*Ked a married man who was still living w/ his wife & kid! if that aint a homewreaker then wat is! MASHONDA is exactly right every1's lookn at the celebrity ak & not the real person.how u gon try too make these inspiring songs and u bein a triflin hoe.Wtfff!
wow...she just draggin out all the dirty laundry...making herself such a victim. im famous...wahhwahh, she stole my husband, whaawhaa. good grief girl get a grip. by her own admission the marriage was in shambles, if his heart wasnt ready to move on he wud hav never violated the commitment contract that was made. apparently moshanda was no where he wanted to be. seems she thought that they shud stay 2gether 4 the kid. Ak & swiss were wrong! But its her responsibility to heal herself not only 4 her but her son as well.
Mashonda is NOT fighting to keep Toucan Swizz.... She is exuding her hurt woman to woman... AK has no right to galavant as she has been PUBLICLY w/ another woman's HUSBAND- yet everyone is mad at MASHONDA?! How abt Toucan Swizz is a TYPICAL man that doesn't see a sense of responsiblity. Funny how as SOON as the baby was born- HE BAILED! Alicia is a REGULAR HARLEM scallywag- on the come up as an adultress! *** AK! I never bought her albums anyway! Thanks LIMEWIRE!
Reading this letter I can see why swizz left her. This women is delusional. She talks to much and doesn't know when to *** up. That's why he left. AK has absolutely NO responsiblity to Mashonda. Dont hate the player hate the game. It will set you free. Swizz doest want you anymore and theres nothing AZ can do about it.
cont. Moshonda stated she wanted clousure. There isnt a plausible explanation to justify why ak was fuggin her husband. There isnt anything she cud say to make her feel better. She has 2 make a decision in her mind to 4give & let go so that she can continue on in this life. thas the responsibility to herself 4 her life. Alot of times we cant see the big picture, and we dnt understand. Wen we put things in perspective in an eternal aspect we realize how insignificant most things are! Hope her heart heals soon.
Why are so many people getting angry for us telling Mashonda to move on? It is what it is! It hurts, yes, it stings, yes, but should we be telling her some ole back in the day sh*t! "You just hold on to yo man". EVEN THOUGH HE CLEARLY DOESN'T WANT YOU! At some point you have to let go. I'm not saying it's not a messed up situation, I'm just saying. Just because you love it, don't mean it's yours. And if she does want him back, this "open letter" ain't helping. When you fall, you bleed, you say ouch, you cry, maybe get stiches if you need it and then heal. Same here... Deal with it!
Anyone know exactly WHAT Alicia tweeted about that garnered this response from Mashonda?
This internet letter seems a lil pitiful, even though I do understand her frustration, but it makes her look a lil pathetic, especially when she tries to use her son as some sort of guilty bargaining chip. Just move on, girl. Don't look back. The best revenge is living your life well.
AGAIN to the ignorant crowd!!! AS A WIFE- SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO SPEAK ALL SHE WANTS. What ever happened to the sanctity of MARRIAGE?! He said his vows to Mashonda! He made a child with her... as she TALKS to much is y'all ONLY excuse as to why TOUCAN LEFT HER?! Gimmie a dam break!! Ignorant ***! Ill pray for u Mashonda!
TEAM MASHONDA! People are blinded by AK's beauty and talent and refuse to acknowledge what she's done. That's ***! How can someone make so many songs empowering women and then do something so triflin'! The point is this if you know that a man is married you do not make yourself avaliable to him, no matter how much he pursue's you. All REAL WOMEN will agree. And Mashonda if your reading this stay strong because God will send you a love to heal your brokenheart. THE REAL WOMEN ARE PRAYING FOR YOU!!!
Its *** up or very naive for even setting eyes on a married man. And don't get me started on listening to THEM tell you they are separated and the marriage is over. LOL they'll all say that if it benefits them.
The minute I find out a man is married I run in the opposite direction. Nothing but drama and emotional pain will follow. Why do to another woman what you know will destroy you emotionally? And why be with a man that could be so heartless to do that to a woman he vowed to love and respect? I don't know what the details were with these 3, they could have been over a long time ago, c
lol it's easy to see which women are unhappy around here...if it was the other way around and his wife left him then I’ll bet my bottom dollar that a good majority of the women around here would be saying that she did what was best for her...that she deserves to find love...and that he was most likely cheating...but because he left he's a snake that has no respect for her...*** hypocrites...I don't know why some many are so surprised...the divorce rate in the US is well over 50% and still going up...when will people just accept that it's an outdated institution
I don't know how it went own with these 3, but I do know that married men never leave their wives. Yeah they will *** some random bytch or even have a long drawn out affair, but they hardly ever leave, and when they do, it's usually when the marriage has already deteriorated to a point where nothing will fix it and they are just going through the motions and one partner has already emotionally checked out, so they live their lives as "single" and all it takes is one person to spark a flame and give them feelings of love, not just lust, and that gives them a concrete reason to finally leave
first of all, i believe in "how you get him is how you keep him" so if ak did steal or disregard a "good" marriage for her own gains...GOD will judge her...GOOD. HOWEVER COMMA, what woman of dignity resorts to using TWITTER to address another woman regarding an affair if she is trying to be discreet and protect her son????? No one who has their child AND their own best interests at heart! Now Swizz, being a grown *** man could have handled things differently but Mrs. Beatz may not be telling the WHOLE truth about how SHE could have contributed to the downward spiral of their "good marriage"
yall keep sayin she should "just move on". WTF!! she was...my bad IS his wife. reguardless of what was happening in his marriage he should have honored his vows or have the respect to end it. not creep and then flaunt his affair. and AK is dead *** worng. As a grown woman your never suppose to step inside the boundries of another womans relationship(married or not). thats bad karma. and if shonda asked her to step back and give her room to either fix her marriage or end it then Ak should have atleast done that. If swizz was so in love with her he would have been just as in love DIVORCED!!
cont..because they start feeling like they don't want to live a lie, and their feelings for this other person are "real" and too strong, and they feel trapped in their marriages due to the responsibility of taking care of kids, taking care of the spouse, bills, etc. But yeahin general, married men DON'T leave, but when they do, it's usually over something they feel really strongly over, to the point that it will drive them crazy or make them extremely resentful if they stay married.
Well Im TEAM MASHONDA because she may not be saying so but HOmegirl is hurting. AK is dirty IF she really was sleeping with swizzy while he was still married. As a woman, I have no respect for women who knowingly get involved with married men...so AK's just lost a fan in me. I won't call her a home wrecker and whatnot cuz swizzy wrecked mashonda's home.
@Rese&Ladyof, I *** wit ya'll! Point blank...IF A CHICK GOT A LOCK ON DUDE, HE AINT GOIN'...PERIOD!! If i was Alicia, i wouldnt say sh!t! She doesnt need ur acceptance in her PRIVATE life. U ppl act like u were there, and know all the details, to come to a conclusion.Good think dude didnt have any freaky fetishes, dis chick would have put it out!
...which is a very IMPORTANT thing to consider. You can say you took your vows seriously but if you did not take and PLAY your position as a wife, as seriously, the vows are MOOT! It sounds good though when/if you want to appears a victim and so wronged by your spouse. If ak did decide to stand back and swizz decided to pursue another chick, would Mrs. Beatz still be so compelled to put it on blast?...NO! I'm sick of ALL THREE of them! LATE!
1- Alicia was wrong for willingly dating a married man PERIOD. Swizz was wrong for at least not waiting until the divorce was FINAL before he decided to pursue a relationship w/ another woman. 2- This letter is definitely a cry for help. It was well-written and I my heart does go out to her. I alsounderstand that Mashonda is hurt and would like some respect and/or empathy from AK. And that right there, I don’t agree with. If this woman didn’t have enough respect for you to NEVER go anywhere near YOUR husband, than what makes you think she would respect you or the child that is in the picture now???? (Mashonda is in denial somewhat from the looks of things and is having a very hard time accepting this, which I don’t blame her for, I’m just saying) But AK is obviously all for self and as long as she can *** Swizz and parade around with him, then she is happy and she could care less about Mashonda’s heartache/heartbreak. So, I think that it was a waste of time and waste of media coverage to write this letter to AK. And furthermore, why is Mashonda even reading AK’s tweets?? Instead of coping and trying to move on from the situation, she is indulging in it. That makes no sense to me. It’s like she is stepping in the kitchen when she knows she can’t take the heat!!! I also agree with whoever commented earlier and said that when they were at the party/event and she saw AK there & shook her hand, that would have been the perfect time to pull her to the side and discuss it or exchange numbers so that they could possibly arrange to meet up and discuss it at another time/place. This whole letter wasn’t a good idea IMO and it doesn’t help the situation or change it. What’s done is done!!! 3- Wow, that part kinda bothers me too. Because how do you go from shaking this woman’s hand (AK) at a party; PRETENDING as if you accept their relationship and made it appear that you are moving on to you writing this letter?? Mashonda is not only hurt, but confused as well. 4- AK is not keeping Swizz away from his child. Mashonda SHOULD NOT blame her for that. Swizz has a responsibility to that child regardless of who is with and if he is not stepping up to the plate, it’s because he doesn’t want to obviously. AK has nothing to do with that IMO. Mashonda is bringing this child into the situation and I think she is wrong for that. Swizz’s affair does have an affect on the child, but only to a certain degree. AK doesn’t have any obligations to the child, SWIZZ DOES.
Mashonda needs to realize that if it wasn't Alicia, it would probably have been someone else. If he had emotionally "checked out" of the matrimony, then he was gonna leave regardless. She needs to cut her losses and console herself with the fact that if he did it to her, he will do it to Alicia, and if by some rare reason he doesn't do it to Alicia and it works out, then she can realize that he just wasn't the man that was meant for her, that perhaps there is someone else that is better suited and meant to love her they way she deserves, and Swizz and A were meant for each other..perhaps....
Very classy of her to put their business on twitter. A public site. Sure. Then these are the same people saying please respect our privacy through this difficult time.lmao. Mashonda< although I feel for her is playing the part of a woman scorned. She need to move on already. Swizzy would have left her already. She seems very contradictory in parts. However classy is not a word I would use for this twittering mess.
Naturally this story is going to have pros and cons,For the ones who've been the "other" woman..Understanding. For the ones who it CAN happen to.Resentment. From my comprehension of her plea,all she really wants Alicia to do is be woman enough to step back long enough for the little boy to Bond with his Father,(which means he has NOT been a good father since the relationship).She has that right as a mother to ASK Alicia since she feels SHE is the coz of him shirking his Responsibilities.She covered all grounds!...she came at her through Twitter becoz Alicia is all words, but no Talk!...SMH
You know what? I have a great amount of disgust for any grown *** woman who knowingly sleeps around with married men. Both of those *** were at fault. Swizz probably thought that he was getting something better, and going to realize that AK wasnt worth ruining his marriage and hurting his family. I can't stand fake *** ***. Beyonce is one, and so is Alicia. Alicia wanna pretend like she so this and that and so down to earth, but she ain't nothing but a typical dumb *** *** who thinks she can have whatever she wants because she throws on tight *** pants and heels.
(cont) Swizz is wrong & so is Alicia, but Swizz WAS NOT HAPPY. That is crystal clear. So Mashonda may have believed that everything was going well between her & Swizz, but it doesn't seem like it at all. He seems much happier with AK. Of course Mashonda is hurt because she would rather him be happy w/ her, but life doesn't always work that way unfortunately. And she *** have ignored the signs early on in the relationship. He brought AK around on a few occasions and Mashonda just didn't take notes on the fact that he had an interest in AK. You have to pay very close attention to things like that!! Mashonda just seems like she was blind and she was thinking with her heart and not her mind and did not want to believe that her Swizz (her husband) was checkin for another woman right underneath her nose. She claims that Swizz & AK denied it in the beginning and she CHOSE to believe it, but I think deep down she knew what was up.
THEY SAY CHECK THE NYGGA & NOT THE HOE BUT IT DEPENDS ON IF SHE KNOWS ABOUT THE WIFE/GIRLFRIEND & DECIDES 2 STAY WITH HIM OR NOT.IF SHE DOES KNOW THATS WHEN SHE BECOMES A HOE & A HOMEWRECKER ESPECIALLY IF THE GUY IS LIVING WITH HIS WIFE/GIRLFRIEND.GUYS DONT GIVE A F*CK ABOUT ALL THAT CUZ THEY GON DO WHAT THEY WANNA DO ANYWAY.I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR FEMALES THAT DECIDE 2 CONTINUE A RELATIONSHIP KNOWIN THAT THE GUY IS MARRIED OR HAS A GIRLFRIEND.FEMALES THAT DO THINK THAT THEY ARE BETTER & IT AINT GON HAPPEN 2 THEM. U REAP WHAT U SOW.GOD DONT BLESS RELATIONSHIPS THAT WERE BOUGHT 2GETHER BY ADULTRY
now I'm a groupie because of my last postreal talk I have a kid and my daughter dad cheated&cheated with da same chick I blmed him not her &left dat madeMe stronger &I moved on a year later I've been with dude eversince& me&my daughter father is great friends what imsaying is I'm 23 with a 7yr old about to graduate college4nursing I'm engaged and have my own crib car..what if I would have tried2hold on to my childs dad over da yrs or looked 4 answers life ain't perfect if it ain't ment to b it ain't never going work..wether married engaged or together..www.myspace.com/mrs_Blyden
I understand Mashonda 100%. For the people that was never in a relationship lasting more than one year, you need not to comment. None of you seen why did i get married? This is a prime example of the 80/20 rule. Swizz left the 80 for the 20 because 20 looked good when he wasn't getting it. And to MTOisNOTcredible, Alicia does owe her an explanation. They both do. A man doesn't wake up one morning and decide to cheat. Mashonda knows what she's doing. Husband cheated. It was public, everyone knew. Therefore, Mashonda gets half. Why do you think she was civil and not combative?
@ROSE77...ARE YOU SERIOUS? THE ONLY THING REAL BETWEEN A *** AND A *** IS LUST...L-U-S-T..HE'S ADDICTED TO THAT BOOTY AND SHE'S ADDICTED TO THAT THING..THAT'S ALL...YOU PEOPLE KILL ME CONFUSING LUST WITH LOVE..A MAN THAT TRULY CARES FOR ANYONE ISN'T GONNNA STRING ALONG TWO WOMEN.AND HIS LOYALTY FIRST AND FOREMOST WAS TO HIS WIFE AND HIS CHLD...THAT IS WHAT'S REAL!!!
I could almost give a pass to a woman who hooks up and falls in love with a man and THEN LATER finds out he is married and still continues the relationship, cuz at that point a woman can be blinded and confused by her feelings of love, but the fact that Alicia knew he was married and had a family with this man, makes her wrong period, I don't care if he's telling you they're over and he doesn't love her anymore. Ugh If that's the case go get a divorce and then we can talk. Some men just always want their cake and eat it too, and some women are just too easy to dismiss the feelings of another w
And response to da post b4 mine no it don't depends if the chick knows the guy is married wtf are u saying honey a girl can put her panties down in front of ur man and be one off the baddest chicks if ur man heart is with u he's not going to let noooo pu. Ssss yyyy beytween y'all if leaves u for her than honey there was way more problems b4 that u really think its deifferent if the girl know y'all together u know how many chicks knows dat and still witll try but if that's ur man he ain't going else where
Mashonda is a sweet heart who has tried to handle this situation with class. I pray her heart is healed & AK is woman enough to talk to her- which IS the point of this MTO even tho yall wanna make it that Mashonda is saying ak stole her husband. Mashonda is right- there is a child, the least you can do in the situation is communicate..Ak is whack for this.
In response to another response sweetie I said I got hurt by my daughters dad we was living together that was my first everything and we planned 2 marry but mayb my dad taught me different I was hurt crying but like I said if he don't want to be with me I'm leaving and *** I'm not blaming anyone life goes on
FOR THOSE OF YALL SAYIN THAT "IF SHE WOULDVE BEEN DOING WHAT SHE SUPPOSED 2 DO THEN HE WOULDNT HAVE CHEATED" HOW CAN YALL SAY THAT? ESPECIALLY WOMEN. HOW MANY OF YALL WOMEN DO "EVERYTHING" IN THE WORLD 2 MAKE UR MAN HAPPY LIKE COOK,CLEAN,WASH, PAY BILLS,& DON'T COMPLAIN & HE STILL CHEATS? WTF? ITS NEVER ENOUGH 4 THEM.THEY ALWAYS THINK THAT THERE IS SOMETHIN OR SOMEONE ELSE BETTER WHEN WHAT HE NEEDED IS AT HOME THE WHOLE TIME & WHEN HE REALIZES IT ITS 2 LATE. SO YALL NEED 2 QUIT SAYIN THAT BS.IF YALL WERE OR HAVE BEEN *** HER SHOES THEN U SHOULD KNOW HOW SHE FEELS CUZ MOST OF US WOMEN HAVE BEEN.
first off, Swizz disrespected GOD! if your not in love anymore, get the papers done first before messing around with another woman while your still MARRIED! So that let's me know that what Alicia did was in disregard. Alicia did care about Swizz still being married, and neither did he...that's why i feel it was messed up of him to get wit Keys...if your done with being in love with your WIFE, then get the sh.it done all the way so you can make a correct exit...don't worry about giving up child support, you shoulda thought of that earlier! Mashonda, just get over that scare crow lookin *** nuca
..also MTO yall never tell the whole story..this didnt come out of the blue it was in resonse to all of the tweets alicia had been doing about love & understanding & knowing everything about someone but loving them anyway...also this: aliciakeys: Question is...*** love is it better to go 4 the choice that is "SMART" or the choice that has "SPARK"?? Just thought those mto readers not on twitter following this should know where this really came from.
Bottom line you need to wait until the person is officially DIVORCED before you call yourself getting involved...they need to come to you with legal signed *** in hand...Alicia is going to learn that what you put out into the UNIVERSE comes back to YOU...so with that being said...this one will be a wait and see...and trust me after KARMA gets thru beating that *** for what she helped destroy between Swizz and his wife...the public may never know...some *** you just don't do...you ain't got to have every man...you got to have them papers signed and in hand Alicia...bottom line...
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I agree. You can have a woman who caters to a man, puts his needs in front of hers, is a *** in the bedroom and a very good woman in public, good mother etc, but when that man gets bored (like so many of them do) they go out and cheat, like it's a given, like it's something they have a right to do. If it's gonna happen it's gonna happen regardless of how well your holding it down at home. Especially if the couple have been together more than a few years. Ever hear of the term "seven year itch"?
@nutsy,blu,mtois,broklyn,vanity...PREACH!! jaming, *GASP* Ive never seen THIS side of u...*smile* Me, likey!*wink*@mdot, sweetheart, i do respect marriage. But life can be cruel...Was it wrong what swizz & keys did? YES! Do i want chica to take some time to HEAL, focus on her child, so she can LEAVE this baggage behind, so as to NOT take it out on the next dude? YES!
TO muah31103:
WELL SAID!!! I WENT THRU THIS WITH MY SOON 2 BE EX HUSBAND AND TILL THIS DAY I STILL DONT KNOW WHERE IT WENT WRONG. I DID "EVERYTHING" 4 THAT DUDE AND I GAVE UP SO MUCH 4 HIM BUT I GUESS IT WASNT ENOUGH. I SAID VOWS UNDER GOD 2 STICK BY MY HUSBAND THRU SICKNESS AND HEALTH, RIGHT AND WRONG, AND ALL THAT. BUT HIM AND HIS HOMEWRECKIN HOE GON PAY. THAT RELATIONSHIP AINT GON BE BLESSED SO I AINT EVEN WORRIED ABOUT IT B/C NOW BOTH OF THEY *** ARE SUFFERING AND IT AINT DUE 2 ME CAUSIN IT. HOW DO U EXPECT 2 B BLESSED WHEN U HELPED BREAK UP A MARRIAGE??? CMON NOW BE SERIOUS.
how kould someone take somethan that was no longer urz if yu still had your husband heart u would of made it tho tha dark spot yall was in. if u truely love someone you will except what happen and move on *** grow frm a situation but if the party that messed up dnt wanna work it out its bekuz the love was no longer there. yu kant have sumone that doesnt want yu to have them yu have to take every situation and grow frm it if yu kant grow frm it then yu have not excepted whats gonna happen frm this pt on and your gonna hurt bad
Either this chick is dellusional or desparate to extend her 15 minutes, either way her quest for public sympathy is getting old REAL FAST. Someone "advised" her to go and read Alicia's twitter? Really, so not only is SHE obsessed with Alicia but so are her instigating a** friends. Mashonda grow up, it's pretty pathetic that the only time people even bother to click on a blog with your name on it is when Alicia Keys' name is mentioned in it.
You never know how many dumb mofo's in the world until you read comments posted on Media Takeout! Why in the f*ck would Mashonda want Swizz back? Cause she can trust him? The reason Alicia doesn't want to talk to Mashonda is because she's ashamed.Do you think Alicia thought of his CHILD when she decided to say yes? don't get it twisted.."you reap what you sow." All we have to do now is..wait! God's word will not return VOID! TRUST! I'm also sure that the dummies making these *** comments are tricks themselves. Cheating with someone elses man!
1ST OFF!!! TO THE PEOPLE SAYING ALL THIS IGNORANT *** ABOUT THE WIFE, YALL ARE LOST SOULS. YALL EITHER SLEEP WIT MARRIED MEN ALL THE TIME OR JUST NEVER BEEN IN A REAL RELATIONSHIP. MASHONDA DID WHAT SHE HAD TO DO, AND SHE WAS CLASSY. IMAGINE SOME CELEB CHIC THAT USED TO GETTIN HER WAY COME UP IN BETWEEN MY FAMILY. I DONT THINK I WOULDVE WAITED 2 YEARS I WOULDVE RAN DOWN ON HER *** THE 1ST DAY! ANE ALL THE MEN SAY *** YALL WOULD TRY TO KILL SWIZZ IF HE WAS SMASHING YA WIFE. I HOPE AKEYS STEPS UP AND SHOWS SOME *** RESPECT. ITS FOOLISH 4 AK TO THINK SHE CAN AVOID THE WIFE AND MOTHER 4EVER
I know exactly how she feels and it is a hurting feeling to have just given birth and your no good man is out there sleeping with someone else. Their marriage wasn’t to broken before the situation b/c she was pregnant when they started the affair. Both are to blame. Married means off limits. It is a hurting feeling to be at home with an infant child while your HUSBAND is out there publicly with someone else. In her case so the whole world to see. If they were having problems having a *** that don’t respect the marriage doesn’t make it easier to work things out. So now you have a broken marriage and a boy that is growing up in a fatherless home
Man, I know that's gotta be some effed up feeling that women go through while they are married. This dude put the ring on, had a new born, and started creepin'...WITHOUT A DIVORCE! Swizz, you put her through some sh.it for no reason, sh.it happens i know, but you could have at least got the divorce first! Alicia, you some shi.t for not makin it known for him to get papers first..Karma hoe. Now, back to the Eagles vs. Chiefs game LOL!
YALL ARE RASSES!! yall so busy worried about this woman as a celeb that u dont want her to be blamed for her humanly mistakes. shes an adulterer she slept wit a married man. who cares about how much u like her music. if she was *** your husband im sure u wouldnt feel mashonda was the bad guy. M had every rite to blast alicia she shouldve done it earlier. M just wasnts the broad to face the fact that she needs to deal wit her if she plans on ever being round her son, yall must not cant read!!!!!
@dicegirl...you *** have made the comments or if you had to...you *** have added your picture because now when people see you they're going to think what a dumb hoe you are!! If Alicia is so right...she should address Mashonda BUT she knows she's wrong and she's shame!! Dumb *** people taking up for a trick who won't even take up for herself! There's no excuse! All those songs about strong women! hmph...she's nothing but a lying *** trick. Didn't her MOTHER teach her better! Dayummm!!
