: These celebs are going on Twitter and putting their OWN BUSINESS out in the streets. Check out the below argument that R&B singer Tank had with his baby's mother:
A MESS!!!TANK: Hey! hater of the year.. didn't the courts deal with our situation already? still not happy! love my kids, love my life! <
TANK: Stop hiding who you are. tell everybody you're my baby mama in charlotte and you took my to court cause you didn't like my offer. and the courts gave you less and you're very mad at me. so you send horrible emails and tweets about me when you should be somewhere trying to get a job. you're the kind of woman that gives baby mama a bad name. TANK: Enough times to know i don't ever want to see him with you. you can never be present when i see my son! i would rather he not be there with you but i don't have enough proof to say what you really r! everybody is getting ready to see though cause you're gonna say it for me.! Everybody watch and listen TANK: i was very drunk that night! my son wasnt a mistake though so i'll take full responsibility!!
I hate when men try to blame the women for begin agolddigger. most of these ni$$as know that these women wouldn't want anything to do withthem if they were not famous. If these male enternainers would stop hiting everything moving they wouldnt not have to worry about knocking up "gold diggers".Hell but a condom on thats a novel idea.
What an idiot. Doesn't he know that he can't possibly "put her on blast" without putting himself on blast. She isn't the only bitter person from where I sit. Listen, condoms don't cost that much. Up on Twitter actin a plum fool! She does need to get a job if she has full custody, but Tank needs to be a father. If he loves his son and questions the character of the mother, then mosey on over and scoop shorty up! Two dead-beats and a child who didn't ask to be hear. Take a bow, clowns!
Whatever...Tank needs to stop..he wasn't that damn drunk to not think altogether..he knew what he was doing when he stuck his man in her! And him and the baby mama need to have some dignity..i mean yall two grown adults battling over child custody over the damn internet? I hope the judge sees this type of shyt that's going on here..childish
What a COP OUT to even bring up about how drunk u were that night it's not her fault you can't handle your liquor. I'm sure when the date started out you were not drunk and you both knew what you came there to do, but the mere fact that you would go back and forth with her on a twitter page shows your level of maturity and that my friend is how SHE CAUGHT YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE..... 4u2.com
Women now a days is way too greedy they have sex with someone they think is rich and pray for a settlement that will have them rich like 50 cent's baby mother and the mother of Diddy's kids. That is a rare settlement. These women need to get a damn job and contribute to raising their children. These women are so stank and money grubing ought to be ashamed! Regardless of what a man want to pay me mine is going to be well taken care of regardless of everything the child will be well taken care of i won't sit on my ass wait on some [EXPLETIVE] to pay me off every month!
FU*CK ALL YALL GHETTO BABY MAMA CHICKEN HEAD WELFARE LAZY HOODRAT HO*ES ON MTO. YALL BE SETTING NIG*GAZ UP FOR THAT CHILD SUPPORT - GET OFF YALL LAZY AZZ AND GET A JOB YOU WELFARE HOODRATS. I HAD A GHETTO HO*E COME STRAIGHT OUT TELL ME "I WANT TO HAVE A BABY BECAUSE ALL MY FRIENDS ARE HAVING THEM". I WAS LIKE WHAT HO*E ARE YOU OUT YO FU*CKING MIND. THAT HO*E WOULD GET ME DRUNK AND SAY LETS DO IT WITHOUT RUBBER BECAUSE IT FEELS BETTER. THAT HO*E EVEN TOLD ME WE DONT NEED RUBBERS BECAUSE SHE WAS ON BIRTH CONTROL, BI*TCH WAS LYING, POKING HOLES IN MY CONDOMS. I GOT OUT BUT HO*E ALMOST HAD ME.
Damn Tank is fine as hell! I don't c how any1 can get any1 2 drink 2 much, & then phuck them without a condom! I can c how people can b slipped that date rape drug, but they were 2 consenting adults! Girlfriend needs a job, & Tank needs 2 stop spreading that rumor cause the child is here now & its going 2 be bad if the child hears that mess!
Some of u dumb azzs need 2 stfu! Men r never the victim when it comes 2 sex! If U men don't want 2 have kids with hoodrats then u shouldnt phuck wit em at all & if u do please understand that there is a possibility that this bird could become preg, thereby bounding u 2 4-ever! Sex is supposed 2 be 2 procreate with ur wife, & nothing more...but some of u horny azz oversexed beast will hit anything within a 5 mile radius just 2 get a nut!
I see that all of the useless baby mama's are getting highly offended. Nobody is saying that he shouldn't take care of his responsibility. Yeah, it takes two to tango, but the ladies has the final say about what she aNts to do with her body and the guy just has to deal with it. Bringing a child into this world knowing that he is not wanted just to get a check every month is just plain wrong. And some women wonder why men run. Stop settling for a long dick and even longer bank account. Know your worth more than being a baby mama. Strive to be a wife.
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Dreayonn! Yes...people need to stop passing the buck! If a woman wants 2 phuck a dude without a condom, and then gets upset that the dude doesn't want 2 take care of the baby or if he has an Std its ur own damn fault unless ur in a committed relationship! No dude on earth can hit this raw unless its my husband..and if its not we will be tested and we will be in that committed relationship & on the road to marriage!
IF WHAT TANK IS SAYING IS TRUE THEN I AGREE, INSTEAD OF TRYING TO GET AS MUCH MONEY OUT OF HIM AS SHE CAN, WHICH LETS FACE IT MOST BABYMAMAS OF CELEBS DO (EDDIE MURPHYS BABYMAMA MEL B HAS WON 2 MILLION, HOW MANY BARBIES CAN THAT CHILD NEED), SHE SHOULD BE TRYIN TO GET A JOB AND NOT COMPLAINING ABOUT HOW MUCH MONEY SHE CAN GET FROM HIM COS THAT JUS MAKES HER LOOK LIKE A WHORE (KANYE WEST - GOLDIGGA COMES TO MIND)
THIS SORRY SHYT WAS ON ANOTHER WEBSITE YESTERDAY AND THE MOTHER WROTE A STATEMENT ABOUT THIS BULLSHYT.
TANK NEEDS TO STOP ACTING LIKE A CHILD AND HANDLE HIS BUSINESS. TWITTER IS NOT FAMILY COURT, WHY DO PPL PUT THEIR FANS IN THE MIDDLE OF THEIR CHILD CUSTODY BATTLE.
IF THIS WOMAN WAS SO BAD..WHAT DO THAT SAY ABOUT TANK............MOST LAWYERS SHOOT HIGH TO GET THE AMOUNT OF MONEY THEY WANT.
BROTHER GET OFF TWITTER AND DEAL WITH YOUR FAMILY.
His name should be 'Stank'. So tired of these black coon fools getting mad because you got some two bit jumpoff whore pregnant. Yeah right he was 'liquored up'. Is that the excuse he's gonna use for all his baby mama's? Aww, poor him. He better be glad all he got was 'son' screwing around with some lame whore.
BLACK WOMEN AINT NOTHIN BUT CHICKEN HEAD HOBOS.. ALWAYS WONDER ABOUT WHICH CLUB SHE GOIN TO THIS WEEKEND OR WHAT HARD WORKIN BROTHA SHE GONE LAY UP ON TO GET HIS MONEY S.H.I.T. U WOMEN DO NEED JOBS QUIT BEGGIN AN MOOCHIN OFF OF BROTHAS ..ALWAYS WANNA THROW CHILD SUPPORT ON BROTHAS TELLIN BROTHAS U CANT SEE YO KIDS WHEN WE WANT TO WHEN WE STOP WORRY CAUSE YALL WANT LET US SEE EM THEN YALL WANNA RUN TO THE WHITE MAN AN YELL CHILD SUPPORT
RESPONSE FM THE SON MOTHER
Durrell Babbs and I have a son together. His name was changed in the last two months of my pregnancy by his father (it was always his option to name him as he saw fit). Also around that time I learned that another woman was also carrying his child. As opposed to communicating the truth, Mr. Babbs opted to remain silent. That seems to be the way he handles situations that make him uncomfortable. Or he simply chooses a lie over the truth. As he has done in our situation. He say’s our son was not a mistake, yet it sounds that way despite his clever, yet juvenile disclaimer. Let it be known that our son was not a surprise to either of us. In 2006 he asked me twice to consider having a child with him. Cleary, I eventually said yes. It was the best discussion I ever made. Durrell Babbs Jr. has brought so much joy into my life. Sometimes I wonder how I was able to exist without him in the first place.
Had it not been for the fact, that someone I called a friend betrayed my trust. No one would have known the name of my child’s father (outside of our families and close friends). Not saying it’s wrong for people to do press releases and things of that nature. And the main reason I’m sharing these words now is because, I will not be made out to be some one night stand or someone that sought to trap a man with pregnancy. I have always and will continue to be a woman of independence. If Mr. Babbs hates me as he has proclaimed (wonder if I make him sick too – LOL )? Flashback just now to when mom made me mad. Anyway, If he feels as he does we didn’t have to connect again in an intimate manner after we learned of our child’s existence. Just a thought.
I don’t hate Durrell. I just wish he were a man that kept promises. I would like for my child to have “A Real Father” – his words. One that couldn’t fall asleep on any given night, not knowing if his child were OK and his needs were being met. It is my preference that they not be strangers. He say’s he loves my son. I want him to prove it. A monetary commitment does not a father make. Angry was not the way to handle his lack of communication. However, after utilizing all normal forms of communication, I made a bad decision. Who knew this man, would go the route he did. Perhaps, some good can come out of it in the end.
To Durrell Sr., I apologize for making you feel like you had to go into attack mode. However, at the same time, I will not tolerate lies being placed on my head and around the life of my child. As I have always stated before the door is wide open for you to be the father you said you would like to be to our son. Our immature burst on the net doesn’t change that. Granted I’m very disappointed right now and probably won’t believe a word you say for a while. But that’s how trust works … you have to earn it.
I am a great mother and you should know your son is reaping the benefits of that fact. You promised he would know his family, cousins and all ‘em. Let’s start with you again. On my age and this cougar business, you never had a problem with it before. Besides, 40 is all up side your window looking in right now. So enjoy your “youth.” LOL.
For those that seek to judge me, my child’s father and act as if you have all the answers. Know that you don’t. Otherwise you wouldn’t have made mistakes, cried or experienced happiness as you have over the years. It’s called life. This is my life and have no regrets.
I POSTED HER RESPONSE BECAUSE THE FIRST THING WE DO AS BLACK WOMEN IS ACCEPT WHAT THE MAN SAY AS FACTS.
AND THEN WE START DEGRADING A SISTER LIKE SHE STRIPPED THE BROTHER DOWN, POURED A BOTTLE OF GIN DOWN HIS THROAT AND THAN HAD SEX WITH HER SELF AND MADE A BABY.
IT TAKES A SORRY BROTHER TO GO ON TWITTER AND DISS HIS SON'S MOTHER...........
It is amazing how many thoughts come from people who don’t even really know the truth about some issues that appear on this site. We all have our opinions, but truth of the matter lies in several things from where I sit. For one, couples who are dating should be communicating on a much higher level and degree when it comes to the discussion of children and where each person is at the time. Alcohol should never play into the act, but it happens all the time. This is the road that leads to ‘excuses’. Second, and this is just my thought – I am not super religious, but I do try to be spiritual and I know that every act in the flesh that we produce, there is a spiritual response. In other words, if we commit acts in our bodies that are not wholesome and meant to be, such as having sex without the benefit of marriage, then we stand to bring into the world a child, whom God has sanctified and blessed, but that the two people involved in the process, might not have the same agreement. When two people are not in agreement, they are not walking together. The child should come from love between the two parents, and these are the consequences we suffer when we leave God out of the acts. I can clearly see why God wanted us to be married before children. The children have to have a covering – the parents together as ONE are their covering, just as we are covered by Jesus. We allow satan and all the evil in the world to chase after us and catch us in the wrong acts. I pass judgment on no one in this issue, however, I would only suggest that the parents find some way to sit down and really converse – forgive each other, and start again. They have a child to rear together – and as a schoolteacher, I have seen the likes of too many children who suffer from their not understanding the absences of father or mother and they grow up to continue this cycle. Parents, love your children as Jesus has loved you, come together and forget the past, move forward with how you plan to rear this child and provide for him, and give him love, comfort him, and most of all , make him feel safe and wanted. God bless you all.
Ok, now they are both on the wrong. I don't know about baby momma cause I didn't see her say anything, but you NEVER SAY YOUR CHILD IS A MISTAKE. There are no mistakes in the eyes of God. The mistake is on his part and that chicks part...not the child. The mistake is he could not control his alcohol, the mistake is he is blaming the woman, the mistake is he is a petty man for putting his and that woman's business in the streets. Not only her business but their child's business as well. In this information age, did he not know one day that kid may see his father's words. WHAT A F-KING IDIOT
FIRST THING: MTO and the other sites are not the place to be discussing this type of situation and passing judgement without having the facts. This can hurt the child one day!
SECOND THING: Why is this newsworthy? Tank doesn't have Jamie's, Luda's, Usher's, Wayne's, Jigga's or even Bow Wow's kind of PAPER! He was on Cribs one time showing us his garden apartment. SAD.
Stop dragging your baby's mama through the mud on these sites.
Sorry Tank, You need to grow up because it was your choice to drink and have sex. You baby's mama didn't trick you, you knew exactly what you were doing.
Why is it an issue with money when you found out she was pregnant with your son? He comes from your seed and you are responsible for him whether the mother works or not.
The next time you will use you head on your shoulders rather than your dick head. You saw her as a piece of [EXPLETIVE] and she got pregnant. Now, you regret the relationship, but not the birth of your son. Hopefully, you and her will have an understanding.
"His name should be 'Stank'. So tired of these black coon fools getting mad because you got some two bit jumpoff whore pregnant. Yeah right he was 'liquored up'. Is that the excuse he's gonna use for all his baby mama's? Aww, poor him. He better be glad all he got was 'son' screwing around with some lame whore." ^^^
LOL, YEAH THAT NAME FITS HIM PERFECTLY...
Nursedoll I will "tell him" but this is the way I am sure he will respond:
I can’t fall in love …knowin I still got these feelins for you ….it’s been so long since I told you we was thru…. you kept in touch and I touched as well….. Thought we kept it cool Now you Boo’d up… found you some one to replace me thass wassup…. I found me a girl but I did it for front…( or fun) Baby girl is cool but she’s fallin in love…. but I don’t think I’m thru which you baby
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Blame it on thealcohol?....Nah my dude....Quiet as kept I was two sheets to the wind when my oldest was born but that was then. I was young and had fun and actually welcomed my daughter with open arms. She is nineteen now and Im a proud grandpop for the first time. I supported her then and now and will go to bat for any of mine even if im not with her mother. My love for her is geniuine. Stop the Bullsh*t Tank! Pull ya skirt down "B"!
Everybody's using these social sites that are meant for networking or promoting as a place for childlike,catty texts & putting their personal/intimate affairs on blast!wtf? Ok,he's upset with her & has every right to be but he should behave like the bigger,more mature adult & settle whatever differences in person @ all times.This just makes him look worse than she is which will give her more than enough reasons to go out of her way to get on his nerves because she already knows what makes him tick..Btw,does he have new material out?
U know what, I believe Tank. I'll bet that he probably was drunk & when the chick knew he was "somebody", made sure his drunk azz did NOT put a condom on. Don't be naive to think some chicks arent scandalous like that. He pays like he's supposed to since it's court ordered & sees the kid. As long as Tank can show him an example of real family when he's w/ Dad then more power to him. Baby daddys hardly air out hoes, but women do it breakfast, lunch & dinner. FOH! I'm on Tanks side. I've seen the drama bitter woman can bring to the table being the "new girl" who has no kids.
@Husler: WOW! Just wow..lmao..you stay ranting & raving up a storm in M.T.O..take a deep breath man....You must've ran into way too many good-for-nothing/loser woman..rather unfortunate however not all Black Womwn or women from the hood are like that..hope you found or find a good woman that means well & contibute positively to society
Celebrities should know that they could be targets for something like this, if they let alcohol lead them.He can't blame that night entirely on her.If she's HONEST about needing more money,a few more dollars shouldn't hurt him.If he claims to love his son so much.That's IF he can afford it becoz his career hasn't been going that well.Does he provide additional needs besides giving her money? If so, she shouldn't be complaining.
At the end of the day I hope they can work out their differences and kept it off the net for the sake of their child! The in between stuff doesn't matter just take care of business on both ends to make sure the child is healthy.. mentally, physically n spiritually! Stop being spiteful toward one another..It's about the child not the two of u!...WORK IT OUT!
SEE THIS IS THE TYPE OF SHHHITTTT I CAN'T STAND WITH MEN IF IN FACT THIS IS TRUE I BLAME TANK EVEN THOUGHT IT TAKES TWO TO PLAY BUT REAL TALK I HATE IT WENT MEN SAY I WAS DRUNK ALWAYS BLAMING IT ON THE ALCOHOL DUDE YOU KNEW WHAT YOU WAS DOING EVERYONE KNOWS WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK YOU DO AND SAY WHAT YOU REALLY FEEL, NOW YOU GOT A BABY INVOLVED BUT YOU CLAIM HE WASN'T A MISTAKE WHEN IN-FACT HE IS A MISTAKE, ASK YOURSELF IF YOU WERE AHEM SOBOR WOULD YOU HAVE STILL HAVE HAD SEX WITH HER? IF THE ANSWER IS NO THEN THAT BABY IS A MISTAKE YOU JUST LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE. NOW THE CHIC IS TRYING TO GET YOU
They are both being CHILDISH if the details are true. The mommy should educate herself and/or go to work to help support her son. Tank shouldn't be putting dumb crap up about being drunk the night he made his son. How does he think his son will feel if he ever reads that or if someone tells him that one day????!!!
Up2it why the heerrlll you don't talk about all the OTHER diseases that white women have? Hmmm how about we start with all their CANCERS for instance you stank ho. How would you feel if someone told you that they are glad that YOU or your white mama or white woman is probably going to die without her breast or pu$$y? Sounds faakked up doesn't it hobag?
Tank is a NASTY ass man anyway. When he came to Dallas he had sex with my pregnant homegirl, and ate her [EXPLETIVE]. Didn't even know her! So yeah! Set up??? Naw [EXPLETIVE] she didn't get you drunk! She was just fine as hell and you wanted to BONE. Oh and I heard his package is ridiculously small!!! So yeah lil man, going around shootin babies out that lil thing. you have like what 8 kids? Lil NASTY!!! UGH!!!
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