Most young girls put to much strain on themselves trying to be like somebody they are not. If your Mom is a good enough woman to be your role model - you don't feel the need to follow OPP's styles, choices, options, etc. You are well grounded and know just who you need to follow, especially if your Mom is a good decent woman. So I don't have any hangups on dressing like others - nothing and I feel 100% Loved and happy - even though I have no particular style. Less stress on me - I can just be who I am, not who I THINK I want to be.