: Two weeks ago, when R&B singer Mary J Blige assaulted her husband Kendu, everyone in the industry wonder what was the root of the couple's problems.
The NY Newspapers suggest that the assault was caused by Kendu FLIRTING with waitresses.
But according to one of MediaTakeOut.com's SNITCHES, it was about MORE. Our insider claims that Mary is suspicious of her husband Kendu's relationship with one of his artist's, Laneah.
The insider tells us that Kendu (who is the head of Mary's MATRIARCH RECORDS) and Laneah have a "very strong" personal and professional relationship, and Mary suspects that there could be something MORE.
We're not sure WHAT to make of all this. We just hope that Mary doesn't OVERREACT. In our book, those two are INNOCENT until proven GUILTY!!!
@realroxanne....if you were an "inside gal" you would know better that Kendu's oldest daughter is in her early-mid twenties. To suggest she is 30 would mean he was a small child when he had her. And you would also know better that when they were set up by a mutual friend Kendu and his former wife were already separated and she refused to date him further when she found he hadn't begun the divorce proceedings. Mary didn't wreck that marriage it was already over. You read what you wanted to read about the situation..I assume the glass house you live in is streak free.
I HEARD CTHAT MARY SLAPPED THIS GUY IN THE FACE SOMEWHERE,LET ME TELL YALL BLACK MALES SOMETHING IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND YOUR MOTHER NO IS YOUR WIFE YOUR MOTHER NO AND EVEN WITH MY MOTHER I AINT PLAYING THAT *** IF YOU ARE A GROWN THATS HOW YOU MUST BE TREATED IF YOU LET A BLACK WOMAN ARE ANY OTHER WOMAN PUT HER HANDS ON YOU AND YOU DONT TRY YOUR BEST TO MAKE THAT HO REGRET IT THEN YOU ARE STUPID AND WEAK.I CAN CHEAT ALL I WANT MY BODY BELONGS TO ME YOU DONT LIKE IT LEAVE.I WOULD HAVE KNOCK THE HELL OUT OF MARY.
@ spiderman 300: You are disrespectful & you sound very stupid too. Just wondering, do you proof read what you write? Sounds alot like chicken scratch to me. Before you try & put somebody down, you need to learn how to write, & stop filling the page with that kiddy sh*t.. Nobody wants to keep reading that
WHAT STOP PLAYING SAY THATS NOT SO MJB MJB THHE ONE THAT ALL THE BLK CHICKS THAT I KNOW SO ADORE HER MUSIC FULL OF LYRICS CRYING ALL THE DAM TIME WHINING......QUIET AS KEPT I SAID IT SHE CAN'T REALLY SING 2 ME *** MANY OTHERS....SHES NO BETTER THAN FANNY *** ALICIA KEYS DAM HOMEWRECKER.NOW U REAPING WHAT U SOW U STARTED IT.AND I KNOW ALICIA SINGS WAY BETTER THAN MJ LEAST AKEYS DON'T KEEP SOUNDING THE SAME WAY ABOUT THAT DRAMA *** LIKE MARY HER MUSIK IS DIFF'RENT.....
Wow! I had no idea Ken was married when they met. However, I did notice that it was something about his slick A that I did not like and the way that Mary credited him for giving her self esteem and being able to love herself. B.S. I would never give a man that much credit. It should come from within. I did not like how she would get on talk shows and glorify his ***! I hope he gets what he deserves with his cheating ***! And Mary I love you, but get it together please!
ya'll know *** well mary's beef with kendu didn't have anything to do with this chic...but that is smart to put it out there like that because it is giving her some exposure.
she is a cute girl with nice dimples and a banging body... i can see her doing well since everything in the industry is based on looks
Men, please take notes:
When a man and a woman have relations (sexual) the two become as one. Thus, when one man out and joins with another (*** with another woman) the man takes along with him his spouse (spiritually This is how a woman can "feel" that you are cheating without actually seeing it (yet) because whatever happens in the dark will eventually come to the light (Ladies this works both ways). If you feel, think or sense some cheating is going on - trust that intuition, seek the facts before you speak and handle your business accordingly.
I thought MTO was gullible and stupid, some of you on here are no better.
yall say "hope they can work it out"..GTFOH
Kendu is tired of MaryJ, Mary sure know how to pick em, he is screwing around on her dumb ***, good for him.
and...she ain't got a pre nup...see, she stupid.
Maryj Oprah *** Jennifer H Alicia
these women are friends who men dump!!!!
Mary J gave her response to this:
Look in my eyes. Tell me what you see Do you see perfection in me? To you, do I look complete? Now take one more look pass my celebrity. That's where you'll find the real me. To you, do I still look complete?
I got every material thing I could ever need. (Hmmm) I got the love from my fans that adore me. (Yeah) And I'm grateful. (And I thank you so very much) But my love for myself is lacking a little bit. (Just a little bit) I can admit that I'm working on me. (Hmmm) Staying faithful. (Staying faithful and what I'm tryna say is...) Just like you sometimes I get down. (Just like you, I get down) Sometimes I just wanna cry. (I just wanna cry) Sometimes I get depressed. And just like me, tryna be complete. (And just like me, tryna be complete, ohh) Just understand we're all just a work in progress. youtube.com/watch?v=nGqq6TNwXZo&feature=***
it dont surprise me *** all mary had 2 do was call me and i could of told her about her man *** i *** him when they first got married been 2 the penthouse by the huslters club in the city *** i didnt even know who he was until i start seein mjb this and mjb that i should of charged that *** 5g instead of a 1g lmmfao
More Drama
One day not long after their first date, Mary blurted out something that, three years later, would turn out to be prophetic. "You're my husband," she declared. "But how is this possible that you are my husband and you're taken?" That's the one detail Isaacs didn't want to focus on much when he first met Blige: He was married but separated, with two young children. He also had an older daughter from a serious relationship he'd had as a teen. He never lied about anything, but he wanted to protect his burgeoning relationship with Blige and deal with his situation in his own way. For the most part, that's what happened, until one day he impulsively put his then 2-year-old baby girl on the phone with Blige. "I think that kind of twisted Mary up," he now realizes.
It was more than she could handle. "I thought, I can't do this. I'm not a home wrecker," she remembers. "I was like, give me a gun and I'll just blow my brains out, because I'm at the point of...like I said...my spirit is dead. There was a lot of pain, so I ran straight into more self-destruction. I was thinking about the wife, I was thinking about the kids, and I was thinking, I just don't want to be responsible for that."
Isaacs insists that his first marriage was already dissolving before Blige was fully on the scene, and he says that today he and his ex-wife have a good relationship. Still, it took some time to convince Blige that she hadn't torn apart a family. Eventually she opened her heart back up to Isaacs, and he moved in to her New Jersey home. But as they got closer, they started reading the Bible together, and it got harder to pretend that they were living according to the Word. "When you're having *** and you're not married, it's called fornication in the Bible," Isaacs says. He tried to rationalize their living arrangement with the thought that he was in love and planning to get married. But the guilt was eating away at both of them, and they knew they had to stop.
"Men don't really do well with no ***," Blige says bluntly. "But I said, 'You will have to show me that you really love me that much and move out.' And he showed me that he loved me that much." Isaacs moved out, and for a year and two months the couple abstained. They were married December 7, 2003.
Children of God
Having moved outside to get a little air, the couple end up sitting casually opposite each other in their outdoor living room. Blige throws her feet up on the *** table and picks up the thread of a conversation from a few minutes earlier. "They're just so loving," she says, referring to her stepchildren, Nas, 7, and Jordan, 8. "They're a product of their mother and father. The kids are so sweet, and they're so smart. They asked, 'You want us to call you mom?' I said, 'No, call me what you want, and if you're ready to ever call me mom, you do so. But for now, we're friends.' "
On the subject of having her own children, Blige wrestles with conflicting emotions. She wants them: "I think I'm going to have children." She doesn't want them: "But it's not something that I have planned." She wants them: "But if it happens, I'm not going to get rid of my baby." She doesn't want them: "Well, you know what it is with me? I've just got so much work. God's got to be done with me, the low moments and all the insecurities of the past. Your kid is around you 24/7. When you have stepchildren, they come around and then they go home. My child is going to be watching me go up and down on the days that I go down. I don't want my child to feel what I felt when I was coming up, what it was like for my mother to hurt all the time. So I have a fear-it's probably one of my biggest fears-a fear of my child suffering, you know, with that energy."
Isaacs is intently listening to his wife speak. His body language suggests he is really hearing this for the first time. "I could keep having kids until I can't have them no more, especially with her," he counters. "I wouldn't mind it. But I understand what she's saying." He goes on to explain that even his children sense what Blige is talking about. "The two babies, they see it. The things she worries about them seeing-her ups and downs. They also get it with their own mom."
Blige is especially proud of her relationship with Isaacs's 20-year-old daughter from a teenage relationship. "I love Briana," she says. "Yeah, we were both having little issues on the low with each other, because we are the same kind of people. But I had to realize that I'm older and I have the most wisdom. I said, 'I've got to grow up right now for Bri.' So I did, and now we're cool. She calls me with all her stories that 20-year-olds have."
OMG!!!!! I WAS IN THE TIME SQ AREA LAST WEEK..AND I SPOTTED KENDU...I DECIDED TO GET MY SPY ON LOL...JUST IN CASE MARY WAS NEAR BY, AND I FOLLOWED HIM INTO A RESTUARANT...HE WAS WAITING AROUND IN THE LOBBY LOOKING LIKE HE WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE, BUT NOT COMING IN TO EAT, THEN HE WALKED OUTSIDE TO GET SOME AIR...AND THIS SAME GIRL PICTURE WALKS UP TO HIM...THEY HAVE A BRIEF CONVO ON OUTSIDE AND WALK DOWN THE STREET TOWARDS 8TH AVE HUGGED UP...i THOUGHT IT WAS HIS DAUGHTER BECAUSE SHE LOOKED SOOO YOUNG...BUT CLEARLY NOT....POOR MARY! IT'S TRUE....
Dam kendu not the lable mate you lookn real wack now-just like a fool who bangs his nex door neighbor....Too much money for this ***. If you like yung *** pay for it and dont ruine ur marriage. Keep messn up and imma be rolln *** bed wit mary pouring cash money over us -do u know what money *** and sweat smell like---
Well everyone knows that sometimes us Women "Jump" to conclusions and we can be wrong. But there is times when we have that "gut" instinct that somethings up. I mean 8 out of 10 Mary didn't just up and one day decide to "think" "assume" one day that somethings up. He must have gave her that feeling....but if its true that is wrong on so many levels. And if not Mary should apologize!
(Mellataz)...YOU ARE A CONFUSED BRAINWASHED IDIOT. I MAKE SURE THAT WHATEVER DUDE I AM TALKING TO DOES NOT HAVE THE SAME BRAINWASHED MENTALITY AS YOU. THE MOMENT A GUY START'S SAYING (OH YOUR LIGHT SKINNED..AND BLAH, BLAH, BLAH..I CUT HIM OFF)...SOME DAYS I CAN HARDLY STAND BLACK MALES (I REFUSE TO CALL THEM MEN)
AS WE SAY IN OUR CULTURE, " IF IT DIDN'T BEGAN RIGHT, IT WILL NOT END RIGHT" KENDU WAS STILL MARRIED WHEN DATING MARY J BLIGE, IT WEIRD HOW AMERICANS THINK BECAUSE THEY ARE " SEPERATED" THEY NOT MARRIED . SORRY YOU BUST YOUR BUBBLE, BUT KENDUWAS STILL " LEGALLY" MARRIED, WHILE SEEING MARY J BLIGE, AND ANYTHING RELATIONS YOU HAVE WHILE YOU ARE MARRIED, IS STILL ADULTERY. SO IF HE IS SEEING THAT CHICK, KARMA ALWAYS COME BACK AROUND, WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.
Mary if you are reading this I saw them together summer of '08(around July 15-25),outside the Beverly Hills Hotel in the smoking section to the left of the hotel entrance.(I was smoking they weren't) Leneah was crying and Kendu was comforting and kissing her in a way that was inappropriate for a married man. He was saying something like " it's okay just stay in the room until I get back ,it's only a couple of hours, we just went shopping you will be ok" she had hella Macy's and other bags. I started to say something but you never know what's allowed in celebrity marriages. Sorry
