: MediaTakeOut.com just got its hands on the pics of Trey Songz OLD GIRLFRIEND Tonie. Apparently Tonie supported Trey and even helped pay for studio time when Trey, then A BROKE AZZ, didn't have it.
Well Trey rewarded her by DROPPING HER the second he got signed. A shame . . .
BLACK MEN REALLY DON'T LIKE "RIDE OR DIE" CHICKS! They rap and sing about them all the time, but if she's not "red-carpet-ready" or can make straight-haired babies, then he's out. Then they want to criticize black women for not being supportive enough. No other race does this to their women but ours!
thats why you dont take care of no man, before he take care of you, i mean its cool, if he fall on hard times and needs help, no problem help yo man, but not like that, and trey if you reading this, cause you probably are, give the girl some money regardless if you are still with her or not, she was there for you, now hook a sister up
Like this is anything new! Black men are always having somebody else pay their bills. They use women with low self esteem to get what they want out of them then when the women is broke the black man runs off with another. Any woman who let's a black man anywhere near her money should just prepare for bankruptcy!
Women who take care of grown azz men are pathetic. "I'll tell a trick in a minute, Yo I drive a bucket. And won't think nothing of it. He can ride or walk, either leave it or love it. I'll show 'em that I'm not the O-The-***- E" I wouldn't even go 50/50 with a dude. I do bad by my *** self. Men are supposed to take of women, so it's in their nature. Just as soon as they get 50 cent, they'll be off tricking, no matter what dumb azz broad is working her azz off for him. That's whyt The strip clubs are open 24/7. smdh @ "sugarmommas"
Trey Songz, sweet in the booty ***. Trey, is just another flaming ***. He did her a favor anyway. That's how most black men are when they become successful. They want the chicks in the hood but as soon as they become successful they wanna act all different. Trey Songz wannabe R. Kelly ***. He can not sing with his tight pants whining when he sing ***.
Lis BLACK MEN REALLY DON'T LIKE "RIDE OR DIE" CHICKS! They rap and sing about them all the time, but if she's not "red-carpet-ready" or can make straight-haired babies, then he's out. Then they want to criticize black women for not being supportive enough. No other race does this to their women but ours!
@ Lis that is one of greatest *** myths i have ever . insecure *** always wanna evaluate a *** mental state of when he is with a white woman or a non-black woman , or a black woman that is'nt kunta kinte black u miserable *** come spewin your ***
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If I have to take care of myself, Im gonna BE BY MYSELF. FLOSSING. AND NO BROKE DOWN, CHEAP, LEACHING DUDE IS GETTING CREDIT FOR SH!T THAT I did on my own. No *** can ride for free. My daddy worked 72hrs a week and gave the entire paycheck to my mother, my sister, and myself. If I have a so-called man, he will pay for everything AND I WILL STILL HAVE MY OWN. THANK YOU. cause im nina, beach.
because some women financially support their man & stand by their side through thick or thin that doesn't necessarily mean they have low self esteem..Many men in the entertainment industry of all races have been taken care of by their women when they had nothing but hopes & dreams of someday making it big. These women didn't do it out of interest but out of love & probably were the only ones who believed in their men.Sucks these men felt that they were way too good for these chicks once they blew up however it happens quite often. Some women have also felt the need to "upgrade" as well
funny how *** rumors start then next day we are seeing pics of his ex girlfriend!!!!!!!!!
women paying anything for a man is so weak and trifling. They are payign for the stick!!! Trickin!!
but if these girls are dumb I say run em!!!
they will never get a real man supporting a boy. Real men take care of theirs. If he not taking care of you you are dumb and getting played!!!! PEriod!!
Set Standards!!!!
Teddy Pendergrass was *** too. Back than Teddy was ever woman dream. Rumors were out about him being ***. he denied it to. The truth came out when he got in a car accidents while his lover was in the car with him. His lover were giving him a blow job when the accident happen. Teddy had so many women he was sleeping with at the same time. Trey songz is bi. one of my friends,friend said he had *** with him. I like Trey Songz as a artist. still a fan.
@babyfat: Now I'm just curious from all this but why is there such a double standard? so it's ok when women get taken care of men but when some women show their men some financial support,they're both weak & desperate?...Isn't a relationship supposed to be 50/50 & I'm talking about a solid relationship too,not some "friends with benefits",off/on *** nor baby momma nor baby daddy neither
@TJeanie: that's either a lame latina trying to imply that a sleazy black man would prefer her over a black girl (when some of their no pride having self-hating azzez would. I understand why they have no pride, nothing to be proud of) or some lame azz black dude trying to indirectly insult black women because his sorry azz can't get a decent one. Latinas can have that trash.
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5 STaRS @ angelaheiressnyc - exactly! Just because she was helping him out doesn't mean she was desperate- I'm sure she really loved him, and he just didn't love her back.
He DO look zesty to me though- he's not that cute [he could be Tommy Davidson's seed], and if he did just use this girl, he'll get his one way or another...
@ emmettmays85, how you doing this morning, Sexy?
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That's the truth BABYFAT GIRL!
I'm not takin care of no man unless it's my husband who just got downsized or laidoff from a company or somethin like that. These broads crazy out they *** mind...you gots to be really unattractive if you payin dudes to be with you. My momma told me my pu$$y was platinum! Lol! Nicca gone buy some groceries pay a gas bill do somethin round here lol! It's he that findeth a wife...not the other way around. These some dumb *** broads out here.
when will some females learn??? dudes don't want or appreciate a ride or die chick!!! so please keep and save your money on these ***!!!! They would only wind up leaving you for a big booty, or big boob freak, who is dumb, and weak, and who doesn't really care too much for them!!!! Might even wife a groupie looking/acting trick over you anyway!!!! I had to learn the hard way too!!!
I agree with what some ppl said in earlier comments!!! LADIES WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM WHO ARE STUPID GIVE AND BE PAYING THESE SORRY *** MONEY!!!!! ONE THING I'VE BEEN TAUGHT..."A MAN AIN'T BE PAYING FOR YOU LIKE THAT, GIVING YOU MONEY, AND PAYING YOUR BILLS WITHOUT TREATING YOU LIKE YOU ARE SOME KIND OF TRICK!!! THEY WOULD FREAK U ANYWAY AND ALL WAYS THEY WANTS, AND PROBABLY ABUSE YOU TO GET THEIR MONEYS WORTH!!!" SO FEMALES SHOULD NEVER GIVE A *** HER MONEY OR PAY FOR HIM!!! ONLY IF HE'S WILLING, THEN THATS THE ONLY TIME U SHOULD BE!!!! THATS REAL!!
I feel sorry for the girl but she WAS obviosly desperate and got played. It's her own dumb *** fault. Do y'all really believe that he was even faithful to her while they were together??? Look at her. I'm sorry but that's the way it is. She prob knew what the business was from jump cuz ain't no way he was with her for her looks no amount of personality can overcome that. Guys already *** almost anything what u think they gon do when "anything" come with money in hand? Common sense.
@ 7lady i see u constantly *** and cry about *** going to white women and non-black but u call this man fruity lookin why? because he does'nt have a criminal? oh cause we all know how some of u *** love these thug ***. this is why when some *** get money they hop the fence because alot of sistas (not all) think the educated *** are corny and lame . so the next time u cry a *** river about *** hopping the fence remind yourself
She needs to take somethin offa that!!! He lived with his mom, so what was she payin beside studio time...his cell bill!!! That's what happens when you pay dudes and don't make em earn their own! Assisting is one thing, but taking on full responsibility for what he should be paying is stupidity!!! Femmales who do that make it hard for good women!!! Stop makin it so easy for a *** dang!
Emettmays85: I have a white man and he treats me better then any black man every could. Anytime I need something he is there. Everyday he tells me how much he loves me. He's isn't disrespectful and rude like so many black men are. Stay in the hood please because no one outside of the hood wants to see you! You are the main example of why I don't let black men anywhere near myself or my possessions. You guys aren't worth it. Just drama and stress. That's all a black man could bring into my life.
Bottom line! Black men don't have anything. They aren't worthing anything. They will never have anything as long as they keep thinking the way they do. They would rather go to jail then to go get a full time job and support themselves and the kids that they are so quick to make! As long as my tax dollars pay for the mistakes black men make ill keep "bashing" them!
Emmetmays85. Did I bother to tell you iam a male. My bf knows better then to worry about a black man taking me from him. I'm sure you would drop your draws if you saw me because your probably on the DL like all other black men. If you fire back with a *** slur it proves I'm right and your nothing but a punk. You know it true!
@ thetruth052489, look I don't stereotype people cause u never know what they've been thru. But you've been hurt very bad and u need some help. Every black man ain't the way u make them out to be. I'm not gon sit here and debate with u all day about this because its useless. You're going to have your own assumption. But please get help. Your hatred for black men will dismantle u as a person.
Wow @ the comments.
And most of you from the states really have trouble finding a "good black man"/attracting black men??
I'm from Canada and I've never had any trouble attracting black men .. 98% of my friends are all guys - mainly black guys and all of them are attracted to/look for black women.
Glad I live where I live and don't have that problem.
if she supported him its cuz she wanted to! yaw act like women are half human or sum ***, like they cant make conscious decisions on their own...a BLK MAN always had to have been using her...chix usually trick to buy emotions...*** trick to ***!!! she was tryna keep him happy but at the same time satisfy herself..*** that my *** game iz GRADE A and these hoes iz thirsty these days so u *** right if a chick offer ima TAKE ADVANTAGE of it!! maybe if these other *** was *** em right they wudnt have to SETTLE in situations like this!
Sounds like someone has the equivalent of battered women's syndrome. A loser is a loser is a loser. This black woman loved this man, held him down, and thought by lifting his worthless *** up they would be solid. I love black men but one thing I cannot stand is a black man who uses a black woman to advance himself with every intention of leaving her behind. I have seen women put black men through school and they run off with someone else. It is about the kind of character black men should be held in regard. Just because you are a black man doesn't mean you get an automatic pass. So I can understand black women being the way they are for reasons like this. Everyone woman should be careful, should be empowered, and should have the love and support of a good black man. Not just any black man who sees the black woman as a stepping stone.
@ Drevil530, how u gon say black men don't hold down their women. It ain't the black man that needs changing babie its u. U allow the sh*t. And the reason u always hear about black men doing dirt is because of women like u. U on MTO dissing black men right! Answer this question for me. "Do u ever hear of white women sitting around talking about white men? H*ll naw. Your perception is crazy.
If I had a thin skin, I would look at myself like ***, I ain't shid lol cause some of ladies are goin' hard. 1st and foremost, the situation here easily goes beyond race. Almost everyone get used or their heartbroken at some point. Now because a BW has never been hurt by a non-black man doesn't mean it can't happen or it want happen. Plus there are nearly 80% whites living in America and with 80%, the divorce rate is high as hell. Statistics show America has the highest divorce rate. Yes a predominately white country. Shockin’ huh?! lol Not to throw race in the equation, but let's not act as if whites are some kinda prize possession because news flash, this ain’t the case.
What goes to say they both didn't decide to split up before he got signed. Every artist have had relationships before that got sign. But it just the point of people looking at this as another brother fu*cking over a black woman again. Don't know body know what really happened here. Where was this story 2 yrs ago when he was as hot as he is now. Dude on top of the game now with a hit song and chicken head r coming out the wood works for him. People grow up.
I don't get the Surprise Factor.Black Men who are NOT newly made celebrities do this EVERYDAY!.When they're working at the local supermarket baggin groceries,comin home to a hot meal errday "oh she's a DOWN chick,LOVE my girl!"..Let that *** get higer paying job with a lil security,.."I'm going to get a pack of cigarettes,i'll be right back aight!?.....Gone!..next time ya see his azz it's at a child support hearing.He get a better car,then he looks for a CHICK with job security!..Move in with her and forget about the bridge that TOOK him over to the other side!..Dirty!
@texasglamourchic: the only person that would cheat on their spouse to fkcu a celebrity for free is a dumb azz diseased groupie. I am a fan of some celebrities, but you act is they don't stink, breath doesn't stink, don't carry diseases or are special. everyone knows their name-big freaking deal. Not everyone is excited by that. Some people actually like privacy.
MTO YALL REALLY NEED TO STOP...THIS CHICK NEVER SUPPORTED HIM IN ANY KIND OF WAY..TREY HAD MONEY WHEN HE WAS SONGWRITER AND JUMPING ON LOCAL DUDES MIXTAPES AND SH!T..AS FOR ALL THE *** RUMORS IF YOU HAVENT SEEN HIM WITH A MAN THEN DONT SAY SH!T..PERSONALLY I KNEW HIM BEFORE HE BECAME TREY SONGZ WHEN HE WAS JUST TREMAINE NEVERSON LIVING IN PETERSBURG AND NEVER ONCE DID I WITNESS HIM *** FROM HIM SO STOP THE RUMORS.
NAW! I'm lying, black women don't mistreat me. Cause the ones I have came across r some ride r die chicks. Black woman will always have your back. My only problem with most sistas today is they starting to pick up mens mentality. That's y more and more women is cheating today. Its hard to live with a woman who has a mans mentality cause she won't let u be the man you're designed to be. Lol
NO ONE ON MTO CAN EVER STICK TO THE POST AT HAND I MEAN *** WHAT THE HELL DOES RACE HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING? ALL MEN OF ALL RACES CHEAT AND DO FOUL THINGS TO THEIR SUPPOSE WOMEN BLACK, WHITE, MEXICAN, PUERTO RICAN, PAKISTAN..I MEAN *** IN AFRICA DUDES MARRY AT LEAST 6 WOMEN..A LIL TRIFLING DONT YOU THINK?
CoCo Kizzes
These women have been poisioned by a long history of racism towards Black men. They've always been treated better than us by racist whites, and he puts out so many negative lies about us, and repeat them so ofeten on the news etc.these women start to belive this ish.
They get better breaks in society as far as jobs and careers because the white uses them to fill quotas, and at the same time this keep the Black man from having a job, but they buy into the lie Black men don't want to work.
They also fall victim to the glorification of the White man through the white media
I'm not feeding into the race baiting going on in this thread but I will say that this should be a sign that women need to be more cautious about supporting men until they are CERTAIN that the dude has the same level of commitment. Why be a ride or die chick if dude ain't riding for you during the rough times? It's okay to support a man (emotionally and mentally) and help him out from time to time, but you *** put yourself in a situation where you're the sole person holding up the relationship. That's a set-up for heartbreak and frustration.
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and love stories that paint white men as these faithful, loving, compassionate men. They're brainwashed to the fullest extent. They'll say nothing but sweet things about him because of it, and at the same time they'll say nothing but evil ish about Black men because of the masterful job he has done brainwashing them!
MAN HEFFAS NE-WAY WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND IF SHE STOOD BY HIM WHEN HE AINT HAVE *** HE SHOULD HAVE STAYED. MOST BYTCHES DON'T WANT *** BUT MONEY NE WAY WHAT EVER HAPPEN TO *** LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP NOW EVERYBODY IS OUT 4 THEMSELVES THAT WHY THE AIDS VIRUSES IS SO STRONG AMONG US BLACK PPL
SMFH BLACKS GETTING SADDER AND SADDER BYE THE YEAR
@ STAYPOPPIN, I have to respectfully disagree with your assessment about the source of black female anger against black men. It has nothing to do with supposed perks or being poisoned by the white man. It's because black men take their frustrations out on black women because they perceive that we receive some kind preferrential treatment. You see it every day on this blog, black men tearing black women down while praising the virtues of other women. I'm sorry brother but a lot of us bend over backwards to pleasa y'all and only get kicked in the teeth for our efforts. I love my black men
AFTER READING THE LAST FEW COMMENTS I SWEAR BLOGGERS HAVE NO LIVES....TREY SONGZ IN SOME OF YALL MINDS IS TRIFLING BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU JUST READ..HE WASNT BEFORE THEN SO YALL LET A GOSSIP SITE BRAIN WASH YALL?? ANYWAY TREY IS A BLACK YOUNG MAN WITH MONEY SO OF COURSE HE'S GONNA PLAY THE FIELD...WHEN A WHITE MAN CHEATS ON A BLACK WOMAN I DONT HEAR SH!T ABOUT HIM BEING TRIFLING CASE AND POINT KEVIN FEDERLINE
Why are there people on here acting like black people are the only ones who do this? I have seen this done in other races to. There have been plenty of white men who make it big and then end up divorcing their first wives and get involved with a younger woman. Didn't this just happen with Mel Gibson?
AND FYI IM SICK OF THE *** JOKES I KNEW TREY WHEN I USE TO HANG OUT IN PERTERSBURG AND NEVER DID HE COME OFF AS *** I MEAN *** BECAUSE HE'S SOMEWHAT OF A PRETTY BOY WITH A NICE BUILD HE GOTTA BE ***..WELL THEN I GUESS BOBBY V, PLEASURE P, GINUWINE, USHER, TYRESE, JEREMIH, AND ALL THE OTHER MALE R&B SINGERS ARE ALL *** TOO THEN..YEAH RIGHT PICTURE THAT
@ TexasGlamourChic
I'm not being a smartass, this is just a question.
How did you determine that Virginia is not a southern state? I thought that Richmond, VA was once the headquarters of the confederacy. I'm from Virginia and I always thought that we were a southern state. However you are not the first person I have heard say that. I've heard differing opinions. Again, I'm just asking. Not being a smartass.
@emmettmays85 I agree. Black men have their ways its crazy. They gloat so much about what type of woman they want and when they have it they still dont act right. And wonder why alot of women are turning to other women. Dont get upset. The simple things women ask of men sometimes they cant even do. Not saying all men are dogs but most black men dont have the best intentions until they reach a certain age.GOOD MEN are an ENDANGERED SPECIES.
BLACK WOMEN HAVE AND WILL DO THIS A LOT MORE AND FASTER LET A SISTER GET A BETTER JOB ARE MAKE IT IN THE ENTERTAINMENT BUSINESS SHE WILL DROP THAT BLACK MAN WHO WAS THEIR FOR HER THRU THICK AND THIN QUICK AN FAST BLACK WOMEN ON HERE TALKING LIKE THEY ARE RIDE ARE DIE CHICKS ***.I TOLD MOFOS ABOUT JENIFER HUDSON I SAID WAIT UNTIL SHE GET UP THE LADDER THAT BOYFRIEND SHE HAD GOT TO GO AND THATS WHAT HAPPEN THE HIGHER UP A SISTER GO MORE SHE GONNA START THINKING SHE BETTER THAN YOU DOROTHY DANDRIDGE WAS THE FIRST BLACK FEMALE *** ACTRESS IN HOLLYWOOD WAS MARRIED TO A BLACK MAN.
@fabulousweetie, I completely agree. I just wonder when in the hell we're going to take our power back and stop letting what happened in the past and what this devilish society does to break us dictate how we live our lives. Like you said, we are an awesome force, so awesome that they had to strip of our roots and knowledge so that we would be ignorant to our achievements and history. I wish we could see that and stop all this useless fighting.
I'm not feeding into the race baiting going on in this thread but I will say that this should be a sign that women need to be more cautious about supporting men until they are CERTAIN that the dude has the same level of commitment. Why be a ride or die chick if dude ain't riding for you during the rough times? It's okay to support a man (emotionally and mentally) and help him out from time to time, but you *** put yourself in a situation where you're the sole person holding up the relationship. That's a set-up for heartbreak and frustration.
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Well Said!
CONT,WHEN DOROTHY DANDRIGE STAR STARTED TO SHINE SHE GAVE HER HUSBAND AND THE BLACK COMMUNITY HER *** TO KISS,STARTED THROWING HERSELF ON WHITE MEN THEY USED HER AND TRICKED HER OUT OF MILLIONS OF DOLLARS SHE DIED OF A OVERDOSE IN A SHABBY APARTMENT IN L.A GOT WHAT SHE DESERVE,A BLAXCK FEMALE WILL TURN HER BACK ON YOUR BLACK *** FASTER THAN ANY OTHER RACE WOMAN.
Thanks @ Dreayonn. I've learned the hard way that people will only do what you allow them to do. Think wisely, truly assess the relationship and exercise caution before you put your entire heart out there for someone who may not hold the relationship in the same esteem as you. Hell, folks that love you may still try to take advantage if you don't establish those boundaries. Love hard but love smart too.
Okay, this *** Mountain Dew has me posting like crazy. Time to take a walk and see if I can't burn off this liquid crack.
Do u want to know the real reason some black men cheat on black women. Its because some black women has a very strong will, sometimes to strong. They carry this independent mentality. So when a black man don't feel needed he cheats with a women who at least pretend she needs him. LMAO this statement is really about to get some of u beautiful black women going.
*** these sambos who run this site. show proof of the story. i hope you people can see that the intent of the story is to make black men out to be *** losers who use black women for their personal gain. another attempt to fractionalize black men and black women. f'*** sellouts.
and for the record any black man that would do this to a black woman deserves death in my opinion.
Flag post Thanks @ Dreayonn. I've learned the hard way that people will only do what you allow them to do. Think wisely, truly assess the relationship and exercise caution before you put your entire heart out there for someone who may not hold the relationship in the same esteem as you. Hell, folks that love you may still try to take advantage if you don't establish those boundaries. Love hard but love smart too.
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So true. And a lot times, we think because we did all these nice things for a person, we deserve a reward. While I feel a person should show gratitude, we also shouldn’t do all these nice things for the sole purpose of makin’ someone be with you either. This why the two should both want a commitment as you mentioned earlier. We live and we learn.
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@ fabulousweetie, babie if u go into a relationship or marriage thinking u setting yourself up for failure that's what's gon happen, your marriage or relationship will fail. So get that negativity out of your head. Yes u would have to make sacrifices, but so would he. That will makes your bond with him that much more stronger. Making sacrifices for each other. That's called luv when u can do that.
@tuf-tony:***! death? I don't know about that however any person who does this whether it's men to women or women to men is mighty foul! Unless,there's some sort of agreement? Because there are cases like that too. & you're right,m.t.o provided no evidence whatsover regarding these accusations towards Trey but then again,it's quite common amongst these celebs
@ fabulousweetie, again thanks for being 100 and admitting to having a slick mouth...most sistas won't do that. But what I trying to say is never let your guard down, just hide it lol. Just go into a relationship trying to be friends and partners. U doing what most women doing on here today just not as worst as them. U assuming what some man may do to u. U can past up a lot of gud men that way.
Do u want to know the real reason some black men cheat on black women. Its because some black women has a very strong will, sometimes to strong. They carry this independent mentality. So when a black man don't feel needed he cheats with a women who at least pretend she needs him. LMAO this statement is really about to get some of u beautiful black women going. **************** Oh please! And then when yall go runnin' to that woman who pretends to need you, yall are gonna eventually start dissin' her and seeing her as a weak woman who can't take care of herself or yall say she's lazy.......
emmettmays85 Flag post angelaheiressnyc Flag post @emmettmays85: what's up? how are you today & what do you have planned for the wknd?
im doing alright this weekend im going to visit my lil bro. then might go to the club and find somethhing to stab
lmao well ***! don't hurt yourself while you're @ it neither
@angelheiress..good afternoon sista. yes i am sincere and serious when i say death. because a black man who would resort to this kind of low level behavior would be killin the spirit of a black woman thus breaking down the fabric of the black community and spawning useless jemimas like drevil530 and truth52489. black men are suppose to protect and provide for our black women and children. not destroy and neglect.
@tuff-tony: yes,you make very good points however death is still a tad bit too extreme IMO ..anyways,what comes around,goes around. Whoemever decides to cold-heartedly use their mate as a stepping stone with the sole purpose of obtaining material things or get ahead in life & once they make it,they ditch their mates & never look back,is one foul individual. Btw,we can't be quick to jump into conclusions neither like many of us already have w/o truly knowing the facts because like you stated m.t.o (as usual)posted this story to create drama amongst their bloggers which sadly,never fails!
@angelheiress..i would never jump to a conclusion my dear. that is why my original post was condemning mto for not being clear and concise with the facts. and so far as my..as you say "extreme" idea of death i don't think it is as revolutionary as you may think..in many societies certain transgressions against the family unit are deemed punishable by death (i.e. infidelity).
@Staypoppin
Umm so you personally knew Brad Pitt and Robin givens at that time. Robin givens is A Bad example to use when she hustled on Mike Tyson. Brad Pitt was her rebound that only lasted a year. The reason they got together was because they were on the same show at the time. So how you figure she supported him he was making paper right along with her ***.
She shoulda insisted on marriage before she started supporting him financially.
He prolly woulda said no and left but she woulda had her money.
If he had agreed to marriage then she would have had a legal standing for a settlement when he decided to trade her in for a upgraded model of chick.
She was stupid enough said.
Another thing this *** *** be based on Race plenty of trifiling *** dudes in every ethnic group. Black women take it easy on brothers not all are lowdown lowlife get overers. Also maybe if you stop going after these Hardcore thugs who aint never had to do a *** thing in his life but lay the pipe some of you's wouldnt be so bitter and generalizing all Black MEN. FYI this is coming from a girl who dates all colors of the rainbow so I know...What I spit is the truth
@fabulousweetie..i like your style..i'm glad you caught the sarcasm..you say willie lynch is dead..i say he was never alive..that's another issue. we have a disagreement about virgina. 1st let me suggest using an encyclopedia instead of a dictionary. you'll garner more facts. 2nd on 4/17/1861 virginia joined the confederacy and has been considered a southern state from that point forward. look it up sweetie.
I USED TO LIKE U I THOUGHT U KNU HOW 2 TREAT A LADY....WOW LOOKS DECEIVING...THATS HOW SELF CENTERED PPL IS AZ SOON AZ THEY GET ON THEIR FEET THEY 4GET ABOUT THE ONES THAT LOOK OUT 4 THEM...AND GUESS WHAT IF THIS IS TRUE TREY THAT MADE U LOOK UGLY B/C UGLY RUNS A LONG WAY....WOW... GIRL..U WILL GET UR BLESSING KEEP UR HEAD UP...
@ jabugy "Do u want to know the real reason some black men cheat on black women. Its because some black women has a very strong will, sometimes to strong. They carry this independent mentality. So when a black man don't feel needed he cheats with a women who at least pretend she needs him. LMAO this statement is really about to get some of u beautiful black women going." ........ I HAVE 2 SAY I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH U 2 A CERTAIN DEGREE...BUT AT THE SAME TIME, BEING A STRONG "BLACK" & YES I SAID "BLACK" WOMAN, THAT SORTA SADDENS ME. ON THE 1 HAND IF A WOMAN COMES ACROSS AS CLING OR NEEDY
SOME OF YOU KNOW IT ALL PPL ON HERE REALLY CRACK ME UP TO MIGRATE HERE ON THE DAILY BASIS TO ARGUE ABOUT ***!T...@LEAST IF YOUR GONNA ARGUE KNOW UR SH!T....VIRGINIA IS A SOUTHERN STATE... I REPEAT "VIRGINIA" IS A "SOUTHERN STATE"...FYI....I STRONGLY SUGGEST FOR YOU TO KNOW YOUR SH!T B4 U GET ON HERE KICK'*** UP DUST...LIKE SOME CYBER GANGSTER GETT'*** ALL WORKED UP BEHIND A MOFO U DON'T KNOW...I DON'T HAVE TO CALL U OUT YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHO YOU ARE...
and another thing @ spiderman
Don't use dorthy Dandridge situation as you recall she was married to a black man that mistreated her *** as well and left her and her mentally disabled daughter to feen for themselves. Now dont try to uphold one of her lovers and belittle the other based on race. That's why Halle berry switched over she did the run of the mill with brothers and finally gave the *** up after her 2nd fail marriage but *** wanna call her a sellout. PFFFT....*** Please! Lowlifes come in all flavors so stop single out certain RACES...thank you
@ tuff-tony...
THIS IS SIMPLY MY OPINION OF WHAT "I" FEEL IS A "STRONG BLACK WOMAN" OK....DONT GO LOOKING IT UP IN WEBSTER TRYNA C IF WHAT IM SAYING MATCHES WHAT WEBSTER SAYS, OK....LOL
A WOMAN THAT CAN HANDLE HER OWN. A GOD-FEARING WOMAN B/C SHE KNOWS "GOD" HAS HER SO THERE'S NO NEED 2 B ANY OTHER WAY BESIDES "STRRROOOONG"...NOT SAYING SHE DOESN'T NEED A "MAN", BUT WILL B JUST FINE W/O 1 ...& CAN STILL MAINTAIN PERFECTLY BY HERSELF.....{EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY, FINANCIALLY AAAAAAAND SEXUALLY}....
@noh8ers..i like that lil joke..but thats fabulousweetie with her ole antiquated dictionary with false facts..i'm intelligent..ask glassdoll1..i'm using my skullnotes..we just having fun. as for your definition i thank its beautiful but riddle me this. how is that different from the definition of a black woman...minus the "strong".
What does race have 2 do with being a jiglo, money hungry jerka?! Jigloes, and Golddigging hoez come in all races and ethnic backrounds! Shame on Trey if he dumped her 2 upgrade 2 someone that he THINKS looks better! He will alwayz half to trick on b!tches now! I ask how does the shoe feel on the other foot??
Nubian_Princess
Well, I don't know if Black men are taking frustrations out on Black women because they get better breaks in society, in fact, I believe they're lashing out at the arrogant, sadity, attitudes some of these sistas carry around because she's able to get hired in the first place, and she's not fired for some kinda of hangups white men may have at the brotha that's working along side him and or fine women of all colors in an office setting (Always a threat to his ego).
Their more upset by the attitudes than the breaks she can get in society.
@noh8ers..i'll let you sistas have most anything i got..so long as the use don't turn into misuse or abuse. i'm not gonna reach into my cerebral cortex today and give you my silioquy on why black womenn should abandon the word "strong" when refering to themselves. but i will remind myself to catch you another time and explain my philosophy. stay sweet you beautiful black woman.
BLACK MEN REALLY DON'T LIKE "RIDE OR DIE" CHICKS! They rap and sing about them all the time, but if she's not "red-carpet-ready" or can make straight-haired babies, then he's out. Then they want to criticize black women for not being supportive enough. No other race does this to their women but ours! ____________ @ I LUV NERDS. THIS IS SO TRUE, IT DESERVES MULTIPLE POSTS
@ I LUV NERDS
They don't want a chick that need to use Creme-of-Nature or Dark-&-Lovely if u know what I mean. They got to have that arm candy, or the type of chicks we see in videos all the *** time. Look at Russel Simmons, Kanye, Micheal Jordon, Taye Diggs, Tiger Woods, OJ Simpson, Dame Dash......(boy I could go on forever)
This should come as now surprise. Trey is going to get exactly what he deserves. We all know what happened to Steve McNair who thought he could play people any which he wanted and in the end it got him a *** to his head. Black men have it coming with they make stupid decisions like that. Its time to step it up and get going in the right direction.
@ lildon01, you sound so ignorant speaking in the manner in which you speak. If what you say is true then I'm guess you don't have any type of car because a KIA is probably out of your price range. Your just upset because your not doing the things you see other black men on TV doing. Stop trying to be a thug or a gangsta and get a degree or something. We have enough black men making the race look bad, don't add to the number!
VIRGINIA FOR ALL YOU FOLKS WHO MISSED GEOGRAPHY CLASS IS THE TOP OF THE SOUTH..NOT THE DIRTY DIRTY...THE TOP OF THE SOUTH AND YES ITS A SOUTHERN STATE...THE FIRST SOUTHERN STATE...THE DMV AREA REFERS TO NORTHERN VA(ARLINGTON, FAIRFAX, ALEXANDRIA ETC) THOSE PLACES CLOSER TO DC...AND THE DMV AREA STOPS BEING CALLED THAT ONCE YOU HIT RICHMOND..FOLKS IN RICHMOND ESPECIALLY THE SOUTHSIDE ARE COUNTRY AS HELL..AND THE FURTHER SOUTH YOU GO LIKE NEWPORT NEWS, NORFOLK AND THE TIDEWATER REGIONS THE COUNTRIER IT GETS YOU'D THINK YOU WERE IN THE CAROLINAS SOMEWHERE..
@thetruth Steve wasn't well educated. They had to work with him in doing interviews. Do you remember how Magic Johnson sounded when he first became a commentator? the man was horrible. No woman would have wanted Steve or jock Steve like that if he hadn't been the athlete that he was. The women made him think that he could play them like that.
@drevil350.... you will be gargling on some black dudes semen later *** so what r you whining about, whah, whah, whah, whah. I came onto the site to see news, gossip, and comments about the subject and not negative, dark, closet secrets you keep boggled up in your heart. Go to therapy or suntin sheesh
At Forealtalk1, Drevil doesn't sound like the type of bucket headed hood rat broad that would allowing a black mans *** anywhere near her mouth. She is educated and can spell correctly which is more then I can say for you. To be truly honest your probably on a black mans *** *** because majority of the black men such as yourself are on the DL!
@TheTruth052489, actually my parents have been married for almost thirty years now. I guess you work for the black marriage consensus board now, huh, bish? i'm so, so, sorry that GOD placed you in the surroundings of so many horrible black men, oh what terrible things they must have done to your weeh wittle mind.
Haha! You wish! I would never let a black man get close enough to my mind body or money! You are the prime time reason why! So selfish and so conceded. Always thinking somebody wants your *** or your body. NEWS FLASH its a new *** day and the smart black females are expanding their horizons and dating other races just as the black men are SO SO SO quick to do!!!
Figures! I knew you were either with a fat desperate white women or a hood rat bucket head black broad. Either way she is probably just as ghetto and uneducated as your ***! Trying to come across as somebody when my tax dollars are paying for the *** electricity that is giving you the ability to be online ***! Go get a job and stop living off the Government as you black men are so quick to do!
Oprah Winfrey, Tyra Banks, Mariah Carey, Hallle Berry, Missy Elliott, and Kimora Simmons are just a few of the black women that are running successful empires that black men could never run! So there you have it "staypoppin" your probably in the hood living off of the Government too, and that's as far as things will "pop" for you!
Forealtalk1! College huh? Then you need to go get your *** money back ***! Its buffoon not bafoone! So you should tell yourself and your 50 some odd black male friends to get their heads out of the rap game and into a hooked on phonics book! You make yourself and the other black men look so *** simple, claim you in college but can't even spell buffoon right? You *** monkey!
Dr. Evil
If you're lucky enough for a white man to think enough of you to give you a position to hire or fire (which is rare, you always have a white boss) it doesn't surprise me they'll look over my application, that's what traitors do! What happen to all of the loyalty we're supposed to receive from BW???
You act like BM are supposed to hang around and be loyal to women you just proudly boasted would overlook his application! LOL!! Fortunately we're not stuck like you, we have options to date outside our race, no one else wants you!! It only exist in your head!!
"Staypoppin", What the hell type of business do you run? The "crack game" is not a *** business, its what black men because they are too scared to go get an education in fear of not being "hard" enough for their peers! You sound so stupid! Its a shame that you are the typical black man of today and wonder why black woman are showing more love to white men. They know how to treat a woman and be a man at the same time. Something you black men need to learn quick!
Forealtalk1: Be original! Just like a black man to do what he see's someone else doing. Don't use my stuff on me! You black men are so known for following other instead of being leaders. You probably watching BET right now imitating the rappers you see! Your now worth the trash in a land fill you ignorant ***!
@ STAYPOPPIN01
U sound stupid. What does weave have to do w/ anything??? Last time I checked white wmn wear weaves too.
THE POINT IS blk men have a tendency to marry/date non-blk wmn when they make it. Do you see Donald Trump, Bill Gates, Jude Law or David Beckham flaunting dark-skin beauties on the red carpet???
@ TheTruth and DRevil STFU!! As stay poppin said there are many successful black men out there with equally successful black women by their sides, so please do not generalise. Just cause no one from either race want dumb uneducated *** dont mean ur gonna throw every black man under the bus! And who gives a *** if someone dont use proper grammar on a post! ITS NOT A ***' SENIOR THESIS! STFU AND YOU AND YOUR WACK *** COMMENTS GO PLAY IN TRAFFFIC!! BITTER HOE!
THELIE
I Gotta run. I see you showing them love, but I see them running from you, I put my soul on the fact that you're still single smiling and starting coversations with white guys and getting nowhere. That ish always cracks me up when I see it in public. The Black woman always look like they're having an ibntimate or interesting conversation, and the white guy always seems distracted or like he's being nice and holding a conversation with you until he can get the hell outta there.
BTW, white men are killing their wives at alarming rates these days, stop dreamin about the characters
@ TheTruth052489
Keep speaking the truth. U would think blk men would marry up instead of down.
Tigers wife (NANNY) Kanye's girfriend (WANNA-BE-MODEL) Micheal Jordon's girfriend (NO JOB) Taye Diggs wife (WANNA-BE-ACTRESS) OJ'S ex wife (BARTENDER) ICE T's wife (NO JOB) LAMAR ODOOM (REALITY STAR???didn't know that work KOBE BRYANT's wife (NO JOB) CUBA GOODING JR's wife (NO JOB) ......*** THIS IS EMBARRASSING, I'LL STOP HERE...LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT THE *** EVER! U Do not know me! I'm about my education. I have to be able to care of me first before I bring a child into this world! Unlike ur *** who is so bitter at the black man! Just cause ur black man left u and ur child, does not mean that all black men are like that. Again STFU u BITTER HOE!
Datchik, Drevil hit your situation right the head with a hammer! You'll never be "datwife" your bucket head that probably has a kid every time she sees anew pair of Jordans she wants so she can use her check from social services to go buy them! After all starting a career would just be too hard for a small minded thug loving hood rat bucket head like yourself!
NYSDIVA, TheTruth052489,DrEvil530, I know i did alot of trash talking but to keep it real i love my black women and i have alot of black male friends that don't want nothing else but a black women, so when i hear a black women talking about black men wanting white women of another race it really upsets me. It was nice talking to ya'll females, i find it very attractive that ya'll have so much anger towards the black man. Even though ya'll talk so much trash i can see deeper than ya'll words. I don't blame ya'll for feeling the way ya'll do but don't put all black men in the same category.
Forealtalk1, you are truly dumb! Black men are dogs just face it. I know you think we are bashing but I'm not talking about nothing I haven't seen a black man do. I know it hurts you to know you're at the bottom of the barrel but the only way to get to the top is with hard work and commitment not rapping and sports!
@ TheTruth you really need to stop airing your MOTHER"S business out on a blog...I highly doubt she would take kindly to that! The life style you speak so knowingly about, I HAVE NEVER BEEN AROUND ISH LIKE THAT! SORRY! NEVER LIVED IN THE HOOD! SORRY! My man is a successful BLACK MAN so is my father and they BOTH chose BLACK WOMEN! So *** your ignorant *** up! Again Ur a Bitter HOE and u so need to go jump off a cliff! Dont hate cause u can no longer see ur age on a calender and u still cant find u a man, u old as dirt BITTER HOE!
"Datchick" Thank you for proving me right! You are a typical black bucket head. That's why the black men give you kids and nothing else. No support or love just kids. So go lay on your back and continue to have kids for checks! The manner in which you speaks proves me right! Drevil hit it on home. If more black women would conduct themselves like ladies they would get treated as such. Go lay on your back now I'm sure Prey'qwone is there at your house ready to give you another kid!
@ Thetruth LMAO u are pure comedy! pretty dumb too! I fail to see how my comment proves ur non existent point! U fail at being accepted in the real world, so u turn to a blog and *** SURPRISE! U FAIL HERE TOO! Y DONT U JUST GIVE UP? UR PROBABLY NOT EVEN WORTH A SECOND GLANCE FROM A BLACK MAN. U REALLY SHOULD LEAVE YO MOMMA ND SISTERS' BUSINESS OFF THE BLOGS...OH AND THE MANNER IN WHICH I "SPEAKS"??!! REALLY?!! LMFAO GET IT THE *** TOGETHER! BITTER BLACK ***!
If dude felt like it was time to upgrade then more power to him. Everyone does that. I don't see how people think it's just the "BLACK MAN" that leaves his lady behind. Where do you think half of these divorce and allimony laws come from, White men leaving their wives for their mistresses. You honestly think that *** was made to protect you?
@the truth ((Not)).. Whoever you are, you sound very dumb & stupid. How could you call yourself black, but yet your on here making racist remarks? I dont even think your black, i think your just saying that to throw people off. And how can you say that all black women do is lay on their back & have kids for a check? Maybe thats what you do, or maybe your friends with that octomom ***. And your dead *** wrong if you think that the only way for blacks to make big paper is to rap or do sports. You sound like a fake, phoney *** *** with a mind of her own.
@the truth ((Not)).. Another thing, your on here saying that all black men are dogs, but yet your married to one?? Yea right, you are a stupid *** racist ***, & if you are black that makes it worst. Your probably the type to try & get on tv & down your own race, for a buck. And what do you mean when you say your not from the hood & youve never lived there? Thats why you cant judge what you dont understand, & while your talking, thats only a stereotype, because you have many successful people that are from the hood, silly golddiging ***
What does it matter what she looks like? She was there for him when he didn't have a pot to *** in. She wasn't looking for money then, she was holding her own and his. Even if he is not with her he could do something for her. We don't know if he has done anything for her or not. Nothing has been really said about it. If he hasn't then he needs to man up. Don't ever forget how you got where you are.
WELL IF THAT IS TRUE TREY WILL NOT BE AROUND FOR LONG SO TREY BABY I HOPE YOU IENJOY YOU LITTLE FAME BOO BECAUSE I KNOW THIS GIRL NAME "KARMA" AND SHE ALWAYS COMES BACK TO BITE YOU IN THE *** SOONER OR LATER YOU WILL SEE. SO SAD THAT HAPPEN TO HER BUT BABY GIRL YOUR BLESSINGS WILL COME IN ANOTHER FORM DO WORRY YOU WILL BE TAKEN CARE OF AND TRUST SO WILL TREY!
I BELIEVE AND AM NOT SURPRISED! HE'S AN OPPORTUNIST! KISSING ON TONI BRAXTON...
I ALWAYS GOT A NEGAIVE VIBE FROM THIS CORNY *** DUDE WHO CLAIMED TO BE A RAPPER, LIKE MAKE UP YOUR FAKE *** MIND
I WAS SO MAD WHEN THEY HAD HIM INVOLVED IN THE O'JAYS TRIBUTE WITH JOHHN GILL AND TYRESE
I MEAN COME ON GIMME A BREAK!!!!!! I HATE THE WAY HE SINGS BUT THE SONGS ARE USUALLY CATCHY LOL.
SOUNDS LIKE HE'S CHOKING ON AN WHOLE SHELLED EGG!