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I am happy for Luda. He is one ‘rapper’ that seems to have realized he’s not a kid any longer and has made the gigantic step into maturity and being a man – handling his affairs. I love the hair cut – and love the fact that he is still REAL. I had a chance to meet him and spend some time and learned a lot about him and his business-mind. He brother is money-smart, and intelligent , always reading to empower himself about his business, his money and maintaining himself when all the hype goes away. I knew a young lady he dated here in Nashville – and he treated her with respect and graciousness. I applaud him for his integrity in the business of entertainment and personal affairs.
Aaw they make a cute couple, she's a beautiful girl. I swear it's always some *** idiots on here gotta make everything into skin complexion. I knew the "why couldn't he get a dark skin girl" comments were gonna come out of a few fools mouths on here. Why the hell is that always an issue with people on here? Seriously! I've never seen people more caught up with complexion than on here in my life. If she was white than that would be a whole other issue. But she's black, or at least she's a minority so who the fcuk cares if she's not dark! If she got a tan and was 5 shades darker she would still be a pretty girl. So why the does that even matter??? You are bridging the divide between us further and further by the constant concern over how light or dark someone is and it’s really stupid and ridiculous. It doesn’t matter, people are people. I’m sorry but to me it makes people sound insecure when comments like that are made. I’m secure in myself so I could care less what skin complexion someone’s significant other is. That’s like when they show Paul Wall’s wife me saying “why couldn’t he get a light or white girl?” Why would I even care? I mean look how stupid that sounds! His wife is a beautiful woman and her dark skin doesn’t make her any less beautiful in my opinion. But if a someone were to say that, they’d be jumped all over. But it’s ok for people always to question why someone is with a light chick as if we are aliens or something! lol Don’t get me wrong, it happens on both sides on here, light pp talking about dark pp and vice versa. But it’s not right. It’s really sickening! Ugh.
@ sicilatina
Like what you said, but you dont go far enough. You said: "But she's black, or at least she's a minority "
I say, what difference does it make if she wasn't a minority ? Would that mean if she was white, it would be OK for people on here to talk *** about her then ? It seemed to me that was what you were saying with that comment, correct me if I'm wrong.
The point is, black folks period are more pre-occupied with race and skin color than any group of people this planet has ever seen, and it's such an @ssinine thing to be concerned about.
Cont. And to me it's mostly from a group I will call "the defenders of the darkies" that always come in here mostly to disparage lightskinned black people, and the people who date them, not the other way around. Light, mixed, yellow *** don't come in here talkin *** about how crispy the next nygga is ??? Black folks as a whole need to cut this *** out and get in together. Ignorance against our own is the worst !
@kattdaddy2, No I for one wouldn't have a problem if she was white. I'm saying that people on here do have an issue with it. So I can't understand why since she is a minority what the issue is. You misunderstood my comment, I wasn't saying “at least she's a minority” like that’s the best thing. I meant for all the ignorant people on here that have an issue with skin color, at least she's a minority, so what's their issue? That’s what I meant by that. I by far have no issue with color or IR relationships for that matter--I am a product of one. I think anyone that has problems with any of that have deep rooted issues.
Why are dark skinned women so bitter someone please tell me even if luda wasnt dating this chic he wouldnt be dating you...so why not just be happy for the man ...and to @ MufasaMandingo white *** wear weaves and fake nails too there not excluded bruh ur *** anyway why are you posting comments about females
STOP WITH THIS NONSENSE....EVERYBODY GET THE *** OF THIS THREAD INCLUDING ME...THIS GIRL IS BLACK DAMITT...WHY IS THIS A RACE ISSUE? CLEAN UP YOURS HOUSE. GO TO WORK. LOVE YOUR MAN OR WOMAN. GET OF THE COMPUTER AT YOUR JOBS.. IM OUT UNTIL LATER.. I KNOW WERE ALL ADDICTED TO MTO BUT THIS IS SOME SICK SC.HITT.
@danga1181,ya that's true.I was lookin h*lla racist and I *** have said a lot of things I said......but I can't change what I said and I still feel how I do.I *** have allowed myself to be brought down to that level but them black chicks were attacking me verbally and my race like they always do on this site.I'm a fan of mto.I like their website. so what if its mostly black people on here if I see some ish that I'm tired of seeing I'm allowed to speak my mind without being attacked.and yes, majority of the bw on this site are some racist, hateful, b*tches.
@ Br0wnG0ddess, you are obviously another one with issues. Why she gotta be a lightskin ***? What do u think you look like??? And no you are not as cute as her at all!!! Or as classy by the look of your pic. Your true insecurities are really showing since you feel the need to display yourslf in a "***" like fashion taking a pic of yourself in your bra. And to make the point that you are hotter than her, you obviously are trying to prove that to yourself and others.
LMAo @emmettmays85, yep u are right about that!Please, I don't give a sh*t what these fools say about me on here. It's always some light dark mixed bullsh*t. People always on here dragging light, mixed, & white people through the mud. But let you say something about a dark skin person and it's an all out war. Like i said, anyone (light or dark) that talks negatively about another person based on skin color has deep rooted issues and is insecure. There is ugly and pretty in all shades!
Luda kinda lookin like Jay in these pics. I know Jay-Z is the face of hip hop and all, but do all these rappers need to be joinin the Junior Camel Club? I mean, they ban Joe Camel from advertisements to keep kids from smoking, but Jay Camel and Chris Camel get to hang out at basketball games...What kinda message is that sending to the children?
@emmett, yeah thats what I can't understand. It's like light skin women are put in the came category as white women. Black women that have a problem with IR dating usually seem to have a problem with black men with light women too. Why because a black man dates a light woman he's considered a sellout too? Is that the logic? I really don't get it.
For the people asking about why he didn't get a dark chick yall are hella ignorant. I'm a beautiful brown shade and I NEVER feel ignored or lessor than that of a lighter female. I'm just delighted to see BLACK LOVE period. Don't be petty focus on protecting our race before everybody is just 'mixed' with black and we're even more lost then we are now.
@ siclatina
My bad, I see we are somewhat on the same page. We both clearly understand the sickness in or black community. This pre-occupation with race and skinn color. I think american black people are the most racist group of people on the planet right now. No one cares about race and skin color as much as we do. MTO makes money off the hits to it's site with such topics. I just think it highlights black peoples true opinions on this subject. Some of you get it, but alot of you don't.
Bottom line, racism from black people is as bad or worse than racism from white people.
@253sfinest, i hear you. I've gotten to that point before on here too and said things i really didn't mean. But it gets me so angry to see it day in and day out. People just say *** against light people like its perfectly ok and the norm. Like we are outcasts. As soon as they put up an IR story or one about Halle's daughter, all the mixed people bashing begins.
Lastly
I'm am sick and I have had it with you racist nyggas on here, period ! I'm sick of dark-skinned people coming in here thinking it's ok to disparage other races and mixed black people ! That *** is un-acceptable and you crispy *** need to get over that *** ! You don't make yourself more beautiful my calling other ugly !
Black is beautiful, no matter what the shade, and people are beautiful no matter what the race or color. Why can't a sista say, Wow, that's a beautiful white woman right there... with that brotha. Is that a crime ?
@emmettmays85, yeah i notice that too. Like when they show Robert Dinero with his black wife. All the black women love that! It's like a twisted sense of triumph or badge of honor for a black woman to see a white man with a black woman. But not the black man, oh no, then the white/light woman's a *** and goldigger and the man's a sellout!
Oh yeah, And I am not ashamed to say that I am one of those brothas that luuuuvs light-skinned and mixed women. Bottom line, that is my preference and I'm proud of it. No disrespect to dark sistas at all, but I have my preferences, and that is ok. Don't get me wrong, I have dated some beautiful dark sistas too. I don't discriminate. I've also dated many different kinds of women outside of my race. Race didn't matter, beauty and personality is what matters.
@Br0wnG0ddess, if thats the point you were trying to make then you wouldn't have called this classy young lady a *** for no reason. U look like you're trying to be in a rap video yourself, lookin like a trifflin *** youself. U look about 18 years old with a pic of you in your bra touching yourself?! Real trashy. Yeah and I'm BLACK enough to tell you take off that dingy *** looking bra and stank *** 1994 belly gem, to go put some clothes on and go to the library and study so you can get an education.
I'm glad some of you get it. Gives me hope for our people. I was so hot the the girl in the video for the Wale thread that I posted a long comment on her site joydailytv.com. Check it out.
Black people, we need to get over this pre-occupation with race and skin color and stop being racist towards our own light-skinned and mixed brothas and sistas. It don't make you more black to talk *** about mixed looking people, or white people for that matter. It makes you as ignorant as the KKK !
@ 253
I got so much *** in public from sistas when I was dating a white girl, it wasn't funny. They one thing I liked about here is that she wasn't no punk @ss scared white girl. She wouldn't let that *** go. She would confront they @sses on the spot ! They would be so shocked that she even said anything they would be embarrassed and move on.
And wow, this is a first for an MTO thread. People actually defending mixed people for once. Usually it's the other way around. Im waiting for the "defenders of the dark-skinned" to come out and let us have it LOL !
LOL @ emmett, yeah that's funny! I know plenty of lightskin moms with darkskin sons. Thats just another stupid invalid reason that people have made up to try and justify why they have issues with a bm dating a light woman. And real deal is that the issues start within themselves and has nothing to do with what anyone else is doing.
@ 253
Im gonna be real. I think to some extent, for some brothas, dating a light-skinned girl is their way of getting a white girl without selling out. I've had brothas say to me "I ain't dating no white girls or outside of my race", then show up with the yellowest sista they could find LOL. Nygga, if you wanna date outside your race, do it and don't care what black people think. Instead the reaction from other blacks is, Well at least she's black !
@ greekness
Much thanks. Just tryna stay focused on the real issues here instead of the *** MTO directs us towards.
All my life, I never cared what race the girl was that I dated. Only that she was beautiful inside and out regardless of what race she was born into. I never allowed such trivial and truly ridiculous criteria to govern who the hell I'm gonna be attracted to. Can you imagine how racist I would be if I said to myself "I can't be attracted to her, she Norwegian" That's just ignorance the the 10th degree...
Like I said before look at all the UGLY *** hating!!!! I'm trying to understand what her skin tone has to do with him dating her... Yall sound feel stupid about this race sh*t, So when a man see's a lite skin chick he goes after her becuz its kinda like dating a white girl without being a sellout??? LMAO *wtf* Who thinks about *** like that when they tryna get a females number? Anywho she's pretty, they look good together...
@kattdaddy2, I agree. I hate that at least she's black comment. Like if she was anything else she would be less than. Like the brownBRAgoddess just said, cause I'm mixed, that means I’m not black enough!! What the hell does “black enough” mean anyway? Cause I’m not dark? Or just because I’m not 100% black. Sorry I don’t know anyone who is 100% anything. People have the right to date and love whomever they choose and no one has the right to judge how or why. It's not anyone's business or concern. When you place that much energy into getting angry at every IR couple you see, maybe you need to take a look at your own life and figure out what is lacking and ask yourself why you are taking so much offense to it. Maybe it’s because you are unhappy and see yourself as inferior for some odd reason, and that all goes back to being secure within yourself. Because obviously the IR couple is happy and not worried about you and what you think.
@ sicilatina I got your back girl, I may take a few breaks to get work done.lol.but I got your back! @kattdaddy, I know.that's the kind of white girl I am.me and my man got kicked out of an ice cube concert cuz these big bw would not stop f*ckin with us.long story *** it was worth punchin the girl in her mouth!lmao!I'm not a violent person but if you push anybody far enough they're bound to snap!
@ 253
I just think it stupid to hate on people for these reasons. Hating a white girl cuz she with a brotha, hating a light skinned girl cuz she lightskinned and considered more beautiful by society. It's all ignorant. We should look at people the same and judge them by character and personality, not race or features.
I love women of all races and think all races are beautiful in their own way. Or rather, their are beautiful women of all races. Their are drop dead fine korean, bosnian, scottish, etc women on this earth. Beauty doesn't belong to one race...
@ katdaddy2: Right so race doesn't matter to you as long as they're mixed or light. You, katdaddy 2, are the worst type of black man out there. The ambiguous one. I feel sorry for you honestly because you've never felt the true love of a black woman obviously. If you had it WOULD indeed matter to you who was in your bed and giving birth to your children. i'm praying for you and there is no sarcasm in my words.
Is girlfriend is so *** pretty. Its not because of her skin color either. Skin color does not equal beauty. I hate how lightskin ppl always put down dark skin ppl and vice versa. Black ppl can be more racist to their own *** race. At the end of the day we are all black and will be treated as such smh. I wish mto would just stop posting pics of couples because maybe we won't have this stupid *** argument everyday
@ onmylevel
R U serious ? I basically re-stated Martin's I have a dream speech, and u have a problem ??? Martin wanted us to judge people based on their character and personality, not race or skin color, yet you want me to consider race in the equation when I chose to date, marry, and have kids ???
You have no clue hos @ssanine and racist you sound. Looka here potna, I don't owe it to black women to date their @ss ??? I don't have some mis-giuded sense of allegiance that pre-cludes me from marrying other races ? Sure, a black family is a beautiful thing, we need more of them, blah, blah, bla
OMG, THESE REMARKS ARE SO OLD!! WHO CARES WHAT COLOR SHE IS OR ANYONE ELSE!!!!! GET OVER THE RACE *** ALREADY!! BIRACIAL IS BEAUTIFUL AS IS ANY OTHER "MIXING", WORRY BOUT YA SELF WHO YOUR DATING, YOU LIKE WHAT U LIKE DON'T IMPOSE IT ON US,OBVIOUSLY PEOPLE HAVE ISSUES WITH THEMSELVES THATS Y THEY SO MISERABLE, MISERY LOVES COMPANY!!!PATHETIC!!
Oh l0rd what is going on in this thread? another light skin vs dark skin debate? Willie lynch would be proud. Ludacris is dating another black woman, who gives a *** what goes she is? and if I recall ludacris has dated dark skinned women in the past.
At least ludacris is keeping the wealth inside of the black race and not spending it on some pasty becky like some of these other black celebs.
wow almost 300 comments for this? lmao unreal @willielynch2010 aka spiderman300 aka gerardbutler44: how can light skin blacks to considered non-blacks? please explain! That sounds hella dumb! Unless a person is bi/multi racial I can understand but other than that,it's str8 bs! FyI most blacks in the planet are composed of different mixes even in the deepest jungles or smallest villages in Africa so what are you trying to say? lmao
@angelaheiressnyc
Yep people are never satisfied. People complain about wealthy blacks spreading their wealth outside of the race but ludacris is not doing that. He has a black woman on his side and that is what matters. At the end of the day whether you are light or dark in a white mans eyes you are still a n_gger and that is just the facts of life. Light vs dark skin, and black men vs black women wars need to come to an end. I'm high yellow and I never hate of dark skin people so why are the dark skinned hating on light skinned? wtf!!!
@katdaddy2 although i'm happy that you learned a new word i don't consider my comments or my opinion of you and those who think like you assanine. Martin Luther King to my knowledge never referred to ANYONE as a defender of darkies or even referred to ANYONE FOR THAT MATTER AS A DARKIE THIS COMING FROM YOU THE DARK BROTHER IN THE SUIT CORRECT.. or are you mistaken as to who you are. Choose your words wisely i'm not a white girl on here posting and agreeing with you just cause im either f*cking or cause I want some blk d*ck. All i'm asking for is consistency.
AT LEAST HE'S DATING A BLACK GIRL...
ALL U PEOPLE NEED TO GO TO HELL ALSO !!!
THAT *** IS RACIST TOO ! WHAT IF THAT WAS A WHITE GIRL SITTING THERE ! YOU RACIST MORONS WOULD BE SCREAMING AT THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS WITH A SIMILAR RACIST ATTITUDE ! BOTTOM LINE, IT DON'T MATTER WHAT COLOR OR RACE SOMEONE DATES ! THAT IS THE POINT !
@ katdaddy2 : Either black Americans should speak less on race and move forward or we can continue to call each other "crispy ***" which is it? In my opinion everything you spitting is bullsh*t and you're just another lost black man making excuses for only dating white women. Next time you speak to me come with some logic and be consistent in your argument cause right now I can't take you seriously.Peace to the black men who happened to fall in love with someone other than a black woman. you can and should come home. Prayers for those who call those and those who look like them CRISPY
@ Danga1181 Of course you should love them! I don't believe anything I said should have led you to think otherwise but if so I apologize that was not my intention. I was merely commenting on something I found to be quite ignorant.Katdaddy2 stated repeatedly that African American's should speak less on race and that racism is horrible etc while simaltenously putting down his own people! I mean you're a beautiful dark black man. How did it feel to you to be referred to as crispy? I think people take offense to the wrong things and totally missed that the devil is on here in disguise. Peace
@kattdaddy2
STFU YOU BYTCH, the only reason why you have something to say is because you are trying to justify procreating with some white woman. Stfu and gtfo of here!!!! if you want to suck on dog smelling p_ssy that is your own business, if you want a marry a white woman that is your business, if you want to engage in *** with a white woman that is your own business but don't try to come in here and try to get us to accept it. Keep that *** to yourself!!!
@ Onmylevel
Ahhh, now we have a conversation...
Allow me to explain. Anyone who choses to use race or skin color as criteria to decide who they will date, marry, or have kids by is indeed ignorant in my opinion. I will assume for the sake of argument that YOU fall into this category.
Defenders of the darkies, just a figure of speech designed to grab you attention to my point, and in your case, it worked. Point being, you know who the hell im talkin about when I say it...
My skin color is irrelevant, but If you saw me in person, I look lighter than that pic, but it really dont matter. I love myself just the way I am. I love being black and wouldn't trade it for anything.
Also, people didnt agree with me for the reasons you stated. They agreed with me because they know I'm right.
My main point is: This pre-occupation with race in our community needs to stop, period ! We need to deal with black racism also. It hurts us to think so ignorantly.
@onmylevel
Well if thats the case i feel ya. I do think Us black people r at times over senitized *** focus to much on race but in the same breath we must stand for our own *** not let anybody bring us down. It's a grey area of society moving forward(all of society. black, yellow, brown etc) towards were race doesn'st define us but still being proud of our heritage, Not 4gettin our roots.
@manifest:also some bloggers on here seriously need to read a book,travel or engage with ppl of different ethnicities/races/cultures to get a freaking clue & stop the ignorance.
Plus,try to be careful not to fall for the bait mto tends to feed since whenever certain thread are posted these "mysterious" sns pop up (undercover mto employees lol)
We should be able to openly talk about race, and eliminate the racism within our own community. You should never assume. What makes you think Im not dating a black woman right now ??? (I am indeed in a relationship with a BLACK woman) I just dont like black folks talkin *** about lighter black and non black women dating brothas. That is ignorant !
Sum of u are comical. Luda & the *** girl r almost the same color. There's is nothing wrong with having a preference for attraction but when u only exclusively date that kind that is ignorant. Looks is one of the least important qualities in a mate. As long as their healthy, clean, & keep theirself up that's all that matters. Some of obviously have never been married. When the real issues come up color is beyond irrelevent. This goes 4 women sho say "I don't date *** guys" as well for the men who say I only date girls with big butts. Both=ignorance
@GREEKNESS
Stfu, IF you want to be a smart azz I can be a smart azz trust me bytch. White people always coming on black sites with their little self entitlement attitude thinking they are welcomed. Stfu and don't respond to any of my post if you have a problem with it. I am going to state my f_king opinion like I always do, if you have any issues with it then go to stormfront. You will fit right in over there.
My reference to crispy, is not to put down dark people. It was to make a point. Every week dark skinned people come in here and talk *** about lighter skinned blacks. How does it feel to be disparaged by your skin color. If they can dish it out, they can take it !
@ Danga
Manifest and willie are the ignant *** Im talkin about. The people who agree with me know what I was tryna say with my examples. I love all races of people equally, and so should these people, but the don't. They put race before more important things like character. Lots of black folks do this, and it needs to stop.
@emmettmays85 My problem is not Kattdaddy 2's preference persay. My problem is that he posted repeatedly stating that we should not choose our partners based on skin color while making it perfectly clear ( cmon use common sense) that IF he does choose to date a black woman then she will more than likely be lighter hued. He's EXACTLY what he's pretending to argue against. As I told him I believe he's just making excuses for his preference instead of owning it. Peace
@kattdaddy2
You are calling me ignorant yet you are insulting darker skinned members of your own race. You are one contradicting piece of ***.
Since you want to play it that way I will play your game. I'm lighter then you are, way lighter. I'm better then you, Do you like how that feels? I bet you don't like that, so stop insulting dark skinned people by calling them "crispy" and "Darkies".
U see the biggest deal i have with IR dating is loss of heritage. *** that goes for both sides. I have a very strong background being Half Jamaican half Ghanian (great great grandson of Agbusumatu, Cheif *** conqueror of the Pando region surrondin Accra. My wife Is White French(the crowd gasp...lol).Our son being 1/2 french,1/4 JA, 1/4 GA It's gonna be a lil more difficult teaching him who he really is, where he came from *** the history of our families. In the same breath my boy is a child of the world *** should have more oppurtunities in life than either of us..... continued....
@ Katdaddy 2 You say that we now have a conversation but you're still not coming with any substance. The level of your self hatred is displayed by your need to clarify that you're actually lighter in person. I mean cmon really? Why feel the need to point that out? If it's acceptable for you to refer to dark skinned blacks as crispy or darkies to grab attention then why are you wasting words on those who may have used language offensive to you for the same reason?
Again tho loss of heritage is the hardest part. As much as i love my son it scares me to think in generations to come there might be no black people. *** that does go both ways that they be no "anybody except light brown but frankly most of u Yanks don't know *** about ur roots anyways. Talkin black this black that but have no idea about our true history. Sorta sad actually....
Im Canadian by the way
@ Kattdaddy 2 I will only bed, marry and procreate with a black man so yes in your opinion that means that I am ignorant but in MY opinon that just shows that my love for YOU is greater than your love for ME and thats incredibly sad. Of course you don't OWE black women your love but you owe us your respect and a true representation of a black man. You have to love yourself before you can love somebody else! Even a white girl won't love you if you don't come with a little more than what you're coming with . Peace
@GREEKNESS
This is a site that caters to black people....Once again why are you over here?
White people in general have a nasty little habbit of coming on black websites, and when they are on these sites then want to be complete smart azzes.
Do you want Black c0ck? Do you enjoy watching black men and women insult one another? do you enjoy watching light skin vs dark skin debates? I'm curious to know. Personally I don't get anything out of going to sites that cater to white people, so I have no idea why whites are always on black sites.
@ clark
they aint payin me a dime ! They need to as much hits as I generate for them ! I aint here to instigate, Im hete to get people to think about how absurd and racist some black peoples opinions are when it comes to race and skin color. Black folks need to give up this ingorance and pre-occupation with race, period and start looking at people as individuals, not colors and races.
What the f%$*** is so ignorant about that MORON !
I didn't know "white people" couldn't come on here and enjoy celebs they either enjoy their music or appreciate the work they do as actors etc...I'm an individual, people *** put EVERYONE in the same CATAGORY!!If I get disrespected I don't think of the person's race I look at that person as bein ignorant...I go on all sites "black or white"..
DANGA SAID: It's a grey area of society moving forward towards were race doesn'st define us but still being proud of our heritage, Not 4gettin our roots
I agree wholeheartedly! The black race has come to a crossroads and you've defined it perfectly. The problem is is that we get some who want to be accepted so much that it's to the detriment of other blacks. i.e the dark brother refering to other dark people as CRISPY/DARKY. In my opinion a white person (not all) would read that and rejoice because he is truly lost to us. We have to find a balance without forgetting who we are. Peace
I'll leave ya'll with this. I aint trying to put my Boys business in the streets....but... Bredren would only date black girls. straight, No brown no nothin just black women. Settled down, Married for 5 years *** two kids doing the fam thing to come *** find out his wife is *** around with her ex After 7+ years of being together. Now my man is remarried to a non black girl....Does it mean now he'll have no problems? No. Does it she aint gonna cheat? No. Does it mean it'll all work out in the end? who knows....continued...
@ Rosa123 you're so silly and obviously a child to make such blanket statement. If you're a reader of MTO and MTO posts then you know this problem goes both ways. There are several people who come on here for the purpose of insulting black women in general dark women specifically it's not being discussed right now because the woman in question is light skinned. Do you need examples or are you straight?
All he's learned thru that hardship in his life is that u can't make assumtions about anybody. Limiting urself only gives u a smaller window for success. Thinkin cause u only date black ur gonna live happily ever after or just cause u date outside ur race u'll be happy is BS. Nothing is garanteed. Don't limit urself *** find the best person out there for u.
@ Greekness Manifest put it a bit more bluntly then I would have I tend to agree. Of course you can and should if you so choose to visit this site and even comment if you like. But what do you really know about a black person's struggles? just as I know nothing of yours. I mean you're on here bigging Katdaddy2 up but did it occur to you that if you really agreed with the message he was attempting to preach that you would have felt a bit uncomfortable with his method You may be biased because you desire blk men I can't be sure but you can't speak on things you know nothing about. Peace
@ tajaiden I don't think she meant it quite that way. It's just frustrating as a black woman to read posts by white women ( or whatever) speaking on something they have no clue about especially when considering their motives. I do believe that we should have a forum exclusively for ourselves so that we can speak candidly but this one isn't it. I guess she feels that way ( as do I) because no matter how much a white person such as greekness say they're for one love ur a *** when they're mad. period. Put ur pic back up ur pretty! Peace
@ manifest. Please, get off kattdaddys d*ck, I don't smell like dog you smallminded peasant.white women probably don't want your *ss.where's all the hostility coming from.you don't like yourself,and u f*ck with bw so you probably don't get head very often!lmao.grow up.he's not tryin to convince you of anything, just stating facts.u want a white girl but you're scared of what bw will think so you jump on the racist bandwagon.you mine as well be a klansman
@GREEKNESS
I'm not a chick sweat heart, I'm a man lol. Does it surprise you that a black man would be so rude and disrespectful to a white woman such as yourself? lmfao. Not all of Black men want a becky I hope you realize that. I found it amusing that you automatically assumed I was a black woman just because I was being combative towards you.
Like I said I won't bother you anymore, Black people are interesting. If I was white I would be on mto stalking black people myself. I can't really blame you now that I think about it : /
@GREEKNESS
I never told kattdaddy2 not to be with a woman or a white woman for that matter. That is his business, I just had issues with him coming on here and disrespecting dark skinned members of his own face, So I disrespected his racial preference in women. You should of read all of his comments, he was being very vulgar to dark skinned blacks. I'm high yellow but even I had a problem with his statements.
women just ignore Katdaddy and Danga1181.
These two men don't represent black men who actually love, respect and value black women.
THEIR COMMENTS HOLD NO WEIGHT! And they *** even be talking about black women. I wish the IR DATERS WOULD MOVE THE F**k ON and stop complaining/talking about the opposite ***.
everyone says "its a preference" but the problem is why is the preference always light???? Why does it seem to never be dark.
and this is coming from someone who is skin color of rihanna. AND YES im defending darkskin people > I have dark skin cousins. I love black people! all skin colors need love! Light has always been in since slavery NOW LETS START uplifting dark skin.
@ onmylevel
White women especially come on black sites and put their two cents in as if they know everything and are always right. They are so condescending and have their Nose stuck so far up their @ss they can't even see how rude they are. AND NO ONE KNOWS WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE A BLACK MAN OR WOMEN. so how can they speak for us or about us. ITS IRRITATING. their opinions hold NO weight! they are pretty much here to argue with BW for entertainment.
@GREEKNESS
Well you had a post calling me a "chick" so you were assuming I was a black woman.
And yes I call white women "becky" it is no different then a white man or woman calling me "tyrone" lol.
And the answer to your question is when you pay my internet bill I will tell you my motives for coming on this site. Had to take one out of your play book.
My skin color is irrelevant, but If you saw me in person, I look lighter than that pic, My reference to crispy, is not to put down dark people. <----CLEAR SIGN THAT U HAVE A COLOR COMPLEX
hOW CAN U SAY THAT U DON'T HAVE AN ISSUE IF IT WASNT AN ISSUE U WOULDN'T BE BRINGING UP THE FACT THAT YOU ARE LIGHTER IN PERSON. TALKING ABOUT THE POT CALLING THE KETTLE BLACK
WOW ARE U KIDDING ME I THOUGHT THIS THREAD WOULD GET THE LEAST COMMENTS. I COME BACK HOME AND SEE THAT IT HAS THE 2ND MOST COMMENTS ONLY BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE FIGHTING OVER LIGHT AND DARK. PLEASE GO TO SLEEP OR SOMETHING I SEE THE SAME PEOPLE IN HERE THAT I SAW EARLY THIS MORNING.
WHO THE HELL CARES WHAT COLOR THEY ARE OR RACE. WHY THE HECK DO YOU PEOPLE CARE SO MUCH. I CAN SEE SO MANY BITTER PEOPLE IN HERE. THE SAME ONES WHO COME IN THESE THREADS EVERY DAY TALKIN ABOUT RACE ALL DAY EVERY DAY ARE THE MOST BITTER OF THEM ALL. EITHER YOU HATE YOURSELF AND YOU HAVE TO VALIDATE HATE FOR OTHERS BECAUSE YOU HATE YOURSELF OR YOU JUST HAVE NO LIFE AND JUST HAVE HATE PERIOD BECAUSE YOU CANT GET ANYBODY IE. ANYONE OF ANY COLOR OR RACE. YAH ARE SUPPOSE TO BE ADULTS AND YOUR FIGHTING OVER SKIN TONES IN A THREAD THAT WASNT EVEN FISHING FOR RACISM AND SELF HATE COMMENTS. ALL IT SHOWS IS A PICTURE OF A COUPLE WHO ARENT EVEN FAR DIFFERENT WHEN IT COMES TO COMPLECTION.
AND TO PEOPLE SAYING WHITE WOMEN OR PEOPLE COME ON THIS SITE TO TALK ***. NO YOUR WRONG ITS BLACK PEOPLE MAKING DIFFERENT ACCOUNTS ACTING LIKE DIFFERENT RACES OR GENDERS OR SIMPLY MAKING ACCOUNTS ACTING LIKE SOMEONE ELSE TO ADD ON TO THE DRAMA OR TO GET THEIR POINTS ACROSS. I GUARENTEE YOU MOST OF THE RACE THREADS HAVE PEOPLE WITH MUTIPLE ACCOUNTS TALKING TO THEMSELVES. WHICH IS COMPLETELY LAME!!!!!
@GREEKNESS
He had several post stating that "dark skinned" women were not his preference and that they were darkies and crispy. Then he went off on this rant about women from Korea and Europe, then when black women got on his case he tried to say he was married to a black woman. I didn't buy it. Then he went off on yet another rant phrasing white women so I attacked his preference. You really need to read ALL of the comments lol. anyway I'm leaving also, I really need to get some study time it.
where do WHITE PEOPLE get the nerve to come to black sites and posts their opinions on what black men and women go through. I will NEVER UNDERSTAND the level of disrespect! ignorance! INSENSITIVE! views they have.
white people can be some of the most racist people and whats so SICK is think they aren't. They are the ones who started this BS. Black people have a right to hate them and despise them and if white people had compassion like they think they do, THEY WOULD UNDERSTAND WHY BLKS DON'T LIKE THEM.
@ girly, gtfoh,my man and I have a very healthy and "giving" *** life.don't be mad cuz you haven't found one that will do it to u biatch.and @allisa biatch please, this isn't an all "black" site.this is america.get over it.you b*tches prove my points everytime you type somethin or open your funky mouths.stop hatin me cuz you ain't me!bwahhhhhhhhhh
cute girl. Do yall ever get tired of arguing about race who cares their will always be close minded ppl in this world ppl *** on here just to post racist *** y get mad cuz most of da ppl on here arent who they claim to be, you'll never see each other in real life i guarantee u ppl would not say half of da things they say on here 2 someones face and lastly everyone is entitled to their opinion even if its immature ignorant or racist let them deal with their own issues
OK, let me clear some *** up !
My comments weren't meant literally geniuses. I only said thos things as an example ! See how *** take *** outta context !!!
I gave a provocative title to a group of people on here that I abhore. I used the faux term "defenders of the darkies" to describe people who come on here disparaging lightskinned people in favor dark people.
I also used the term crispy *** to disparage the darker skinned black people who come on here who ALWAYS ON A CONSTANT BASIS USE RACIAL SLURS TO DESCRIBE LIGHTER SKINNED BLACKS ! I SAID IT TO MAKE A POINT OF HOW DO THEY LIKE BEING DISPARAGED BY ANOTHER BLACK PERSON FOR THEIR SKIN COLOR !
IT'S ALL IGNORANT !!! SO DONT U NAYSAYERS GO PAINTING ME OUT TO BE SOME MORONIC IDIOT ! CHECK YOURSELVES !
Some of yall get all bent out of shape about something that you can't do anything about. If you went up to a brotha who was with a white girl and said some of the things that you say on these forums, I guarantee you it still wouldn't change his mind about who he chose as a mate. Yall get too sensitive about small sh!t.
@BATTYBWOY
So because Jayoholiday makes an attempt to get the first post on various articles you decide to insist on stealing his photo and use his sexual preference as a bashing tactic against him? Wow, if you are so comfortable and secure with your own sexuality why do you have to resort to such measures?
And I honestly don't have any issue with IR relationships, However I do have a problem with people coming on here and phrasing women from korea and europe and degrading their own women calling them "darkies". That is where I draw the line.
You know Snoop Dog did a admixture test on the George Lopez show and he was 23% Native American and 6% white, he is mixed and looks it in a lot of ways. Black people in america are mixed. Charles Barkly, who is light skinned, was 25% white, was blacker than Snoop, so skin color means nothing. Light skinned blacks and dark skin Americans are the same. We are are all mixed race black folk.
@BATTYBWOY
No it doesn't bother me, I've never even showed any interest in speaking to you until now. Since you decided to have the *** to address me now I am addressing you for your motives behind stealing a stealing a *** man's photograph..LOL
Men who are secure with their OWN sexuality don't resort to stealing pictures of *** men and using the pictures as their avatar...LMFAO!!! Something is definitely suspect about you. It is 2010 brother, come out of the closet. The straight people won't bother you, I promise :)
@BATTYBWOY
You can't do the name calling? is that why you are calling jayoholiday "battybwoy" ? You are contradicting yourself mister.
Come on, you are seriously getting manhandled by me right now. ( which you probably like...LOL) Why did you even try to address me if you wanted to make a fool out of yourself? Get it together, stop stealing pictures of *** men, and get real. I think I will use your tag line right now and ask you "HOW U DOIN??????" LMFAO
@BATTYBWOY
Wait, Let me get this straight. You attempted to confront me on one of my post and now you want to high tail it and run away? LMFAO!!!!!! HAHAHA
Wow, You are here stealing pictures of *** men, worrying about my comments, and complaining non stop about being called a "kneegrow". You are exhibiting very feminine characteristics. That is right run away and play your madden because you can't handle me right now. And you keep saying you don't want to do name calling yet you are calling another individual "battybwoy" smfh.
@BATTYBWOY
ugh there is no point, You are acting like a girly man *arnold schwarzenegger voice* so I will just end it here. Smfh
later lol, don't steal to many pictures of *** men, you might end up dreaming about getting your back door pounded out by them...LMFAO. Baldwinvillage HIDE YOUR AVATAR YOU COULD BE NEXT!!! smfh
@kattdDdy-Racism needs to end, black racism too ! I agree 100%.. So many want invoke Dr. Martin Luther king Name but they forget the part about letting go of racism. I mean the same people who are saying no to IR dating and bashing different colors are children of people who marched,protested and died for "equality" and a band on segregation . It's like "some" blks want to use the Jim crow law when it comes to dating. Saying blks should only date and procreate with there own kind... That's sounds stupid to me. If a man or women love another person color *** matter
@tiplite
And that's what I was trying to say to the one guy before he resorted to name-calling. Blacks don't like to hear that they're the most racist when it comes to things like this, but it's true. And oh yeah, I'm black. Had to put that out there before some "expert" comes on claiming to know what race I am.
@tiplite2004
The only one invoking Dr Kings name is you, you always bring his name up to try and justify IR dating. Nothing is wrong with IR dating, *** whoever you want but stop saying MLK marched and died for IR dating. MLK died for equal rights and opportunities for the oppressed. IR dating had nothing to do with his purpose on this earth, so stfu you are making yourself sound stupid.
@manifest... Bruh, u got issues! Out of everything I wrote u find some negative to say? Call me stupid and stfu... I think this is like the third thread you've done that ish... Get off my off my sack! I repeat stop taking *** and Get off my sack.... Like I was say MLK died so we could have equality... If u weren't so quick to jump on my dic.*** u could have read that. This is a quote from MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. ‘Races do not fall in love and get married. Individuals fall in love and get married" ***
@BLUE-LAME
Like I said earlier, I don't argue on this site anymore, I don't get into name-calling, but what I can do, instead of getting all heated with a bunch of people who like to have dead-end discussions is to let you insult me,or do whatever you do, so we can get this thread to 1,000 comments since that's what Fred Muwangagahunga likes. Now, let's keep it going.
@tiplite2004
You are ignorant, just date whoever you want that is all I'm saying, but don't bring Dr king's name into this. This is like the 10th thread I've seen you mention martin luther king whenever you try to justify sticking your *** into anything nonblack.
Our ancestors spent hundreds of yrs fighting for equality,voting rights, decent living environments, unity amongst our people. And you can't even thank them for that, you only mention them when you try to find an excuse for sticking your *** into anything nonblack. You have obviously haven't learned anything smfh.
@BLUE-LAME
For real??? 2000. Okay. In case you didn't see what the rules are, here it goes. You insult me, or whatever you do that you THINK makes me upset, I tell you how much it doesn't bother me, and we keep posting comments until we get to 2,000. It's gonna be tough, but I know we can meet this quota.
manifest your logic is pure twisted you talk about race alot in every post we all know your pr & black that your spic mom called your black *** dad a *** boo hoo-let me get u a tissue. so now cause your spic mom called your black dad *** youll only dates crispy dark skinned black chicks never mullatto or cracka becky bytches
did i get it right?????
your racism is suspect to me and will always be you expose yourself with the amount of energy you spend talking about the beckys and how you would never date one and dont want one i heard that like 100 times already
@KatDaddy2,
You referred to darkskinned people as "crispy". Then you state you have a preference for lightskinned sisters and claim to have dated darskinned sisters. How dark? Alek Wek or Sanaa Lathan? Hypocrite. She can be dark but not too dark right? How long did you date them? I know an Uncle Tom who will claim he has dated black women but you find out there was a limit to their skin color or he only went out once or twice nothing long term. You are just as ignorant as the people you criticize. If you want to talk about racism you should address your European standards of beauty.
