: MediaTakeOut.com learned that actress Stacey Dash is claiming that her soon-to-be-ex-husband , Emmanuel Xuereb, used to beat her routinely.
In recently uncovered legal documents, Stacey explains the abuse - in SWORN testimony. Here is how TMZ is reporting it:
TMZ obtained the restraining order -- originally signed by a judge January 29 and still in effect -- in which Dash claimed her husband, Emmanuel Xuereb, hit her in the face, head and body during their two-plus years of marriage . . . but she was afraid to report it to police.
*** STACE... U COULD OF DONE BETTER... I MEAN EVERYTHING... THE OTHER DAY I CAUGHT SOME MOVIE GANG OF ROSES OR SOME ISH... WITH HER LIL KIM, AND LISA RAYE... THAT MOVIE SUCKS SO MUCH, THAT ITS FUNNY... AND I REALIZED... HOLY ***.. I COULDNT NAME ONE GOOD MOVIE STACEY DASH MADE... SO HER LIFE HAS BEEN A BUNCH OF BAD CHOICES... WHATTA SHAME 2... SHE'S BEEN UNBELIEVABLY BEAUTIFUL...
It has nothing to do with race.I know plenty instances,where black women have been abused physically by black men...and still didn't leave because they didn't want to give up the financial security.And sometimes women may try to give them second chances.If they really love their men,they try to make the relationship work...regardless.If it was me I'd run as fast as I could.Stacy Dash says,she escaped...what he if didn't let her.That could've turned out uglllly!!
What a waste. She could have gotten her *** beat by a black man and still had a nice swole d*ck to ride on from time to time as a consolation prize. Instead she got her *** beat and then had to take some small pink 4 inch *** that she convinced herself was good enough because she loved him. What is the moral of the story ladies? If you gone get yo *** beat at least get some good d*ck out of it.
Willie Lynch,the Moynihan Report and an ancestral memory of her man's institutional castration and disenfranchisement has left the BlaKKwoman with blond traKKs,blue contacts, and the desire of a mundane sire. As the oldtimers in prison say:"ain't but two peoples free-the white man & the BlaKKwoman."
My white husband and his family are so ashamed of me and my kids because we are black that they lock us all in a closet anytime we have guest. but its cool i will gladly endure all of this pain and humiliation because i'm so happy to find a white man. I just hate myself so much I can never be with some that looks like me. pls help
Please so I guess the black guy with the white girl is a sell out to huh? Please she just got with the wrong man (HIM BEING WHITE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT)and i'm sure she knew that before she married him but ignored the SIGNS!!Anyone can marry anyone they want to,There are more positive interracial relationships than bad ones tina turner,alfre woodward etc..
this poor creature me34 is a poster child for self hate. some *** don't think itz right 'less a white man said it,like that crazy dude on "BoondoKKs." Pity me34 and deprogram her like they did the rapist in "A CloKKwork Orange" or the gangbanger in "Tales from the Hood":tie that azz up,pry her eyelids open& make her watch counterculture media for about a year...
@ Stiffstick404
lol....What you call a black men who risk it all and break their *** neck just to marry a white woman?......
A black man will wife a white woman quick give her his life and *** credit get dump and drain the hell out with nothing left....He then runs his crusty broke azz back home to a black woman to save his broke stupid azz...
All busted the hell up and dying in tears crying......What!!.....ROFLMAO...
***! 1st of mto,ya'll on a roll today LOL. 2nd,Stacey was nothing but giggles when she went on the Wendy Williams Show as well as the Jaime Fox show when she spoke about her previous/most recent marriages but it sucks to know that she underwent domestic abuse,hopefully the divorce doesn't turn out too messy & wish hr the very best.
Stacey & Garcelle are such beautiful,black women but obviously make poor choices in men. What's even worse is that these husbands/exes of theirs aren't even too much to look @ but oh well.
Having an abusive man is not about a skin color. Didn't A.I. abuse his black wife? Didn't Chris B abuse his black girlfriend? Was not Halle Berry in abusive relationships where black men beat her? How man black women you know in your own backyard getting abused by their black men? Exactly! And your point again? Why make this a racial issue, when it's not? There are shady characters of men in every race and religion. Abuse holds no color barrier. Stacey's self-esteem is so low that she thinks Jaimee Foxx is a prize to be admired. She is drawn to a certain types of men. Look at what Jaimee had to say about the little white girl Miley Cyrus. Take a look at the mockery he made of a "Precious" situation and tell me if he respects women. He has abusive characteristics in him as well. Stacey needs to seek professional help before moving on to another relationship.
Stacy is just disgustingly pathetic. She's even worse than Garcelle. This self-loathing bish been married to THREE white men. Catch a clue, heffa. Men, and white men in particular, are not the answer to your obvious issues.
She had the nerve to go on the WW show and say she slept w/ all three of her white husbands on the first date.
Of course he going upside your head, Bish. He ain't got no respect for you because you don't have any respect for yourself.
Men are men. White skin don't make them any better. Look for the right man Stacy and no the WHITE man. Geesh.
@StiffStick4O4 They didn't think that! But you do! Garcelle was married to a black man before who fathered her first child. What difference did that make? Halle was married to two Black Men before and what difference did it make? Those black men like her previous Black boyfriends were abusive, users, and shady. You are simply looking for an excuse to make this about color when it is not. A man is a man regardless of skin color. What makes one better than another has to do with "Quality of Character." Those women have self-esteem issues which attracts them to certain types of men [shady characters w/B.S. Rhetoric] regardless of skin color. You feel so inferior that you need to point out skin color. Who gives a flying-"F" about a man's or woman's skin color? A relationship between a man & woman is more than a skin color. Get over it!
Blackmen beat blackwomen more than a whiteman would. Blackmen also use and cheat on blackwomen more as well.
Being with a whiteman can be better but you still have to pick the right whiteman.
Being with a blackman isn't better. They are shady as hell and they beat and kill whitewomen all the time too.
Blackmen treat blackwomen like *** slaves more than the whiteman. Too many baby daddys and baby mommas in the black community so being with a blackman isn't better. Most are losers!
Blackmen beat blackwomen more than a whiteman would. Blackmen also use and cheat on blackwomen more as well.
Being with a whiteman can be better but you still have to pick the right whiteman.
Being with a blackman isn't better. They are shady as hell and they beat and kill whitewomen all the time too.
Blackmen treat blackwomen like *** slaves more than the whiteman. Too many baby daddys and baby mommas in the black community so being with a blackman isn't better. Most are losers!
@ me34
WOOOWWWW.... U HAVE SOME REAL SELF HATING ISSUES! THERE'S NO WAY & HELL I WOULD DATE SOMEBODY BCUZ OF *** GOOD HAIR, DOES HAIR MEAN THT MUCH TO YOU??! I SWEAR BLK PPL R SUM OF THE MOST RACIST DUMBEST RACE EVER! THESE COMMENTS ON HERE R *** EMBARRASSING! PLZ KNOW THT THESE COMMENTS LEFT ON HERE DOES NOT REPRESENT ALL BLK WOMEN & MEN!
My husband is white and he is the best in bed and loves me and our daughter forever. He has never laid his hand on me and he is a real man.
Most blackwomen dont have it like that. They have screwed up sneaky, thugish, dirty whorish loser black baby daddys that *** every female they can get no matter what color. Most got 3 black chicks on the side. Some cheating with a whitegirl too.
Most blackwomen have it bad dealing and being stuck with little blackboys that aren't half the men that whitemen are overall.
Stacey is a trashy holywood D list flunky anyway. She wont attract a fine whiteman like my husband. She will always get tossed around by whitemen or blackmen. She is a *** like too many women out here.
That whiteman dont respect her sleazy ***. He knows she is a dumb ***. Whitemen aren't no punks either.
She is not a respectable women anyway. Let her be with a blackman and watch how bad she will be cheated on and beat even worse.
Being with a blackman wont help this *** anyways. Blackmen are mostly cowards who beat women more than any other race of men.
They are also the biggest cheaters and usually got 2-3 blackgirls and some got a couple non blackgirls.
Blackmen beat and kill women balck or white. They are sleazy and dumb overall.
Whitemen overall are stronger better men. Not all of them are good but most are way better men than blackmen.
black women who are with white man are usually so *** miserbale and withdrawn from society. you can see it on their faces while they're out in public.
I mean whats the point really?
you have a filthy hairy white boy and nothing else? no family, no respect no peace of mind?
and then your slave master calls you *** every *** during ***..WTF
Black people are a trip. Why are people saying "swirl gone wrong", "letting a white man beat yo ***", "if she was with a Black man..." blah blah blah? For one, not all white men anre abusive. Two, yall know that yall know many Black couples who *** like it's nothing, so why flip it like Black men are these loving, caring, nurturing beings who treat Black women ezxceptionally and hold us in the highest regard? Get real. Yall know a Black man knows absolutely nothing! They.....
...know NOTHING about taking care of themselves, because their mamas have always done it & always will. They know NOTHING about decency, self-respect, respect for women, pride in their race, dignity and honor, integrity and committment and staying away from crime. What Black woman in her right mind would want to affiliate with such foolishness??? My desire for a Black man fizzled as a teenager, once I was old enough to be perceptive to the world and the people in it. I'm 100% for white men all the way.
Blackmen use blackwomen as *** slaves and dont respect them mostly.
Blackmen also beat and cheat on blackwomen everyday all over.
We all know this happens too frequently.
Blackwomen got it bad with blackmen. Look at how many black children got no daddy married to their momma. They cheat mostly anyways.
That's not to say white men are perfect and Black men are evil, don't get me wrong. We are all human, therefore imperfect. White men is just what I am attracted to. And once you date one, they come out the woodwork in flocks to line up for a chance. I would like to encourage all the Black men here to go out & date interracially. Get as many white women as you can, that way all the white men are left available for the good Black women that yall Black *** men don't deserve.
steelereers, speak the truth boo! I'm not sure why Black women, of all people, are here arguing about how bad white men are and Black is the way to ho. These are the same Black women who never had a dad living in the home, if they did, he was probably sorry & abusive or they have a brother, uncle, or baby daddy who is that way. If they dont, its because they are in prison.
@ RETURNOFYAIDOL, that is sooooo true. She does say everone hits her. I dont think its ever a woman's "fault" when a man hits her, UNLESS she hits first. But I know that people send off non-verbal cues which attracts certain "types" of people tp them. Because she has been abused, abusive men can sense that in her aura and they attract to her. Like me, I date white men only, so white men CONSTANTLY approach me. Old, young, corporate, skater, heavy metal or nerds. But ***, if every man is beating your ***, how much are you contributing to that?
I know a lady who got beat by her white husband. He called her every name from grease monkey to anything you can name. She had to move to a *** in another state to get away, she's now with a black man. A lot of our problems will not be solved by marrying a white man or white woman, it actually makes the problem worse. He probably got angry because he felt she was using him for his race, still no reaseon to hit her. Im not going to lie, a lot of white girls get mad when I turn them down too because they have a complex and think they are the highest females, many of them do...
@bourgie_girl, that is okay that you feel that way. I am accustomed to backlash from Black people for my choices. However, I am secure and comfortable enough with myself to make decisions that satisfy me, even if everyone around disapproves. I have one life, and I will live it to make me happy, not concern myself with what others think of my decisions. People say to me "give Black men a chance, you're Black." I say give them a chance for what? I know what they are about and it's something I will NOT make a part of this...
...one life that I have. Give Black men a chance for what? Give them the chance to beat my ***, cheat on me, get me pregnant, then leave me & not pay child support, then end up writing me from prison to send him money? I would never allow ANYONE to do me that. The reality is, with a Black man, the chances of that happening are severely heightened. Look around your own community. I know it may sound offensive, but you know as well as I do, it is the truth. Whether we are Black or not, my views of Black men are not even an opinion, i'm speaking facts.
Plz, can you people use "some" black men and not "all" black men because you better believe my mama didn't raise no weak *** men. My brothers take care of theirs, my father took care of me and my brothers(who are not his biologically and his other 4 kids as well and has been married to my mother for 27 years. So yes I take offense when ppl try to dawg ALL black men!!!!
H[SPAM]HAHAHAHAHA!!!
so much for the perfect angelic white man theory that most sista's have nowadays.
When your white husband starts beating your azz and calling you a "drity she-boon n_gger bytch" don't come crawling back to black men. Keep your azz the f_ck away from me.
The real sista's stand up.
I'm sorry but for some reason I dont believe her, has nothing to do with race(him being white) its because she's detailed about being held down by the arms, or basically being restrained, but then goes on to say in the past been hit in the head face and body, I would be giving more details about the beatings and not being held down, doesnt make sense, and honey if he was whippin your ***, why the hell you didnt call Damon and Pookie and them, schiet his *** would have been handed to him effing with me, my family dont play
@ dagreat1, I tried hard to understand, but you totally confused me. LOL What are you saying, in a nutshell? Are you a Black man or woman?
And I'm not "meeting" these men, I've never dated a Black one. I am observing my community. I'm from the part of Phoenix where Blacks and Mexicans are the majority, but the extreme minority statewide. So when there are 250,000 people in your community & to a certain extent, everyone knows everyone, what is one to think? I can't even tell you how many Black boys from my 8th grade graduating class are in prison today.
I know everyone has the right to their own feelings, but it is just like weak *** Black women to come in flocks to defend worthless, sorry, broke, busted and disgusting Black men who care nothing about you. Let this be a white blog where white women were dogging Black women, Black men would be here cracking up and co-signing. Black women WAKE UP & upgrade to a good white man. Yall are waiting arounf for a "good Black man", let me tell you, there is no such thing.
Aww my baby Emmett is ride or die, thats why you my e-boo LOL. and trust my hubby tried to slap me one time, many years ago and I went ape *** on his ***, he almost died that day, my friends was like you better leave homie, she about to kill your *** LOL. He is a good husband tho, we all make mistakes.
But really tho she is Stacy Dash, I'm sure she know plenty of folks that woulda stomped his little *** out cold
steelreelers I guess you know this because you have been with EVERY single black man in the entire universe. Pu*ssy probably has no walls. But as long as you got that strap on for your perverted white hubby I guess it's all good. Perhaps you should spy on him instead of bashing men who share your features. Maybe he has child porn stashed on the computer. Maybe he rapes animals or visits she-male prostitutes. Or perhaps the hatred of your own kind blinds you to these very possible conclusions. You are a VERY sick person.
Wow!! What is going on with these white men?!?! I guess the grass isn't always greener on the other side. But aside from that...it's sad to hear she had to go through that. She seem like such a sweet hearted person and doesn't deserve an abusive idiot like him, whether he's white, black, purple, or green.
Ignorant black women who watched "Something New" now think white men treat them better. But look at the facts. How many white men stay with black women? That's good for her and Garcelle Beauvois. That's what they Get for believing white men are more faithful than Black Men *************** The movie "Something New" wasn't about white men treating black women better, eventhough that might've been what some BW took from it, but that movie was basically saying that BW should be more opened minded to date outside their race because you never know where you could find true love. And to say that's
Manifest is ***. He talks bad about whitewomen and blackwomen and he sounds confused.
He says he doesn't like whitewomen and then says he doesn't full with American blackwomen but only foreign blackwomen.
This kid is flat out wack and a little sweet.
A straight blackmen doesn't say the things he says. He is so wack and lonely!
dadumbazz1, does Obama stay on your mind 24/7?! ***. You always gotta start *** over politics, you don't have to make everything about Obama; oooh, i'm so scared of your threats. I've never called Obama a mulatto you dumbazz, stop lying. Old azz.
@nataine, do you know every black man? obviously some black man hurt you somewhere, now you have this blanket view that all black men are dogs. A white man will cheat on you, beat you, lie to you just as much as any black man will, hun.
and there are black men who do try and treat their women like queens. its about the right man, not whether its a black or white man. If you date white men, no one's stopping you, why do you have to bash black men in the process?
@emmett I somewhat see what you're saying. I'm just sick of people who act like being only with whites is the epitome of everything success. For the most part I see black men with that attitude.
@ANGELHEIRESS AND @NATAINE
MY BAD, NEVER KNEW THAT STACY WAS HALF MEXICAN/INDIAN…I KNEW SHE WAS SOME TYPE OF MIX, BUT THOUGHT IT WAS WHITE. THX 4 THE HEADS UP!
BUT MY QUESTION REMAINS THE SAME…WONDER IF THERE WAS DOMESTIC ABUSE IN THE HOME GROWING UP THAT ALLOWED STACY TO BECOME MORE SUSCEPTIBLE TO THESE TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS?
Has anyone watched First 48 lately? I'm just sayin.(Kanye Shrug) Now who does what as much as who? Yeah, black men aren't all bad but the facts are the facts. We all could stand to improve a little. We as black women have to stop letting losers impregnate us and raising loser black sons. Until then I'm going to go where I'm celebrated and not where I'm merely tolerated. And right now that happens to be with a white man. @ topic I hope things work out for Stacy.
fabuloussweetie is a *** who gets ran through by too many blackguys. She gave herself away the otherday. Blackmen know she is wide open and she gets played all day long!
Blackmen will continue to step on weak women like you! If you dont improve yourself honey you will be alone forever.
Blackmen dont respect you and you know it! You'll keep getting pimped out!
Bushwine is such a nasty, smelly, ugly blackman. No wonder he is so jealous of the whiteman. He is militant in 2010. Thats wack. He's wack and knows it.
Blackwomen dont want you. Only the ghetto ones with no IQ. I would laugh at you you fat militant hatred ***! IR couples will always shine over you and your hand or your unhappy ghetto broads.
Sorry dude there are more and more of us dating and marrying whitemen and you cant stop it! Get over it!
Bushwine get over it I'm a blackwomen who has a white husband and I support IR couples all the way.
I cant stand ignorant losers like yourself. You smelly, slobby, ignorant cant see your *** under your stomach pig.
My daughter is biracial and biracial children are beautiful. You set our race back and the country back 50 years loser. Honey you wish you could see me. There are plenty of us blackwomen branching out in 2010!!! Get over it pig!
Bushwine I doubt there are white people wasting there time on this site. Most whites I know never heard of mediatakeout.
I'm here to support other blackwomen into stepping out and being free and not being afraid to date outside their race because blackwomen are very oppressed because of blackmen.
We are too beautiful to be in the overall situation were in. I'm blessed but too many others are stuck in a rut with sleezy blackmen.
@nkreseknowledge
Lol you are so right..
73% of child molestations are committed by white males.. It baffles my mind why any human female would want to date one of those sub-human savages. Even white women dont want white men.
They are meth smoking,Child Molesting, serial killing descendants of Neanderthals!
Bushwine you dont know me I just got a point to prove and I'm just 1 of many blackwomen who feel the way I feel.
I dont hate nobody. I just hate the racist attitudes that too many of "my people" still have. I have traveled the world and I am very diverse. I grew up in a area and part of the country where there was lots of IR dating etc..Most in the south are the ones stuck still.
Its 2010 and me being a mother and a wife to a whiteman who is fly to so many blackwomen etc..I dont appreciate you speaking hate towards whitemen because my daughters father is white.
Its 2010!
Bushwine me personally its every family for themselves nowadays. Blacks dont do anything for each other and its getting worse.
Whites never do anything for each other and its all about individual and looking out for your loved ones. Black folks dont care if you starve, neither do white folks.
Our people, my people is *** *** nowadays. Blacks will stab you in the back too. I love my family and loved ones. Community doesn't care anymore.
I love to see blackwomen step out and get a non blackman. I think its good for blackwomens reputation in this modern day in the USA and I am proud of my daughter who is biracial and represents black and white united as one!
If I knew it was safe I would show you a picture of my family but yall are way too crazy. You might live near where I live. I'm not takin that chance.
Yall are way too crazy! I'm not putting my family out there like that.
Honey I dont love the whiteman or the blackman I just like coming on here and giving support that its ok for other blackwomen to do the same.
I love my husband who is athletic and a smarter Jon B. type. I like athletic whiteboys that love blackwomen.
I'm an advocate for biracial children and IR couples.
I guess blackwomen are coming out so often now I dont need to say much but I just want to represent for my girls. To many sistas wasting there life away with weak brothas.
I also dont type the way you do. You type in ebonics. I am a college graduate and I never type like that.
I do so much for the black community you wouldn't know!
I dont speak this way in public. I'm sure you dont either. Here we can! I want other blackwomen to not think they have to carry the black movement and be who they want to be. Its a diverse world out here. Travel more Bushwine and many others!
I also dont type the way you do. You type in ebonics. I am a college graduate and I never type like that.
I do so much for the black community you wouldn't know!
Ohhh really??? That *** looks like a sentence fragment to me... Let me guess, you have a degree from a prestigious school!!! Bwhahaha!!!
Community service doesn't count as contributing to the black community...
You're not a representation of black women...Usually the ones that do it, don't try and force their lifestyle on others...FAILED!!!!
steelereers
"Mr Corley why cant you accept that I'm a representation of many blackwomen dating or marrying nonblackmen."
"There are blackwomen who prefer a non blackman.
Get over it! Its 2010!"
I could give a *** less who you date... And there are many whitewomen who prefer non WM... And I never was on it...
dastupid1 You started this ***, I never addressed you. Its like anything I say you gotta come behind and say some ***; even when *** doesn't have *** to do with the matter at hand. What the hell does Obama have to do with this post. Not a *** thing. LOL at you "warning" emmett. Oh yes, youre soooo being civil. How about not even fcking addressing me?
Emmett, this is an old man who claims to have served in the Gulf war. He is OBSESSED with me and has admitted to saving every post I've made. Whatever he has to say isn't to be taken seriously.
"Mr Corley maybe you could join a gang! Plenty of guys like you gangbangin, baby momma makin, STD giving/spreading killers, rapist, bad fathers!"
Wow and you said that you're a college graduate??? Judging by that sentence, you couldn't pass a "sub 100" English class... STUPID ***!!!
History has shown that where the white man has landed, he created mayhem...His past has shown him to be violent, destructive, disease carrying, and the biggest rapist of all time...So steelereers you need to look at your race, before you cast any stone...
donthateonthegreat - u don't even know the meaning of ignorant. What grade u dropped out of high school? I got degrees under my belt. I was stating an opinion. But I guess u get your jollies off on arguing via internet. Sitting there in your moms basement, picking fights online, waiting for mom to get home and cook dinner huh? I bet u a myspace *** huh? Sitting around in your dirty house robe and underwear complaining about life. ******************** HaHa, please lil boy, you wish!...Up out my face boy!
Are we living in the ***.king 50s or what? All you prejudiced dumbazzez need to get a life and grow up! Fu.cking black dudes cause domestic violence just as much as any other races and what does race have to do with domestic violence anyway? F.uck you bigoted idiots!! And dating outside your race doesn't mean you dont love your race, LOVE DOESNT HAVE A FACE/RACE/OR GENDER ON IT. so call me a sellout you ghetto hoodrat f.uckheads that just makes u look like the jackazzez cause your still living in the middle ages
P.s white guys are 500% better looking than black guys hahaha
