@Mizzdumbho, I'm about done talking to you, you don't make any sense whatsoever.
I think I wasted 30 mins of my life going back and forth with you and I want my
time back. Oh well, moving on.
@***, sorry dear, I don't want to share life and hair stories. Like I
said, every Black person I've worked with never received any heat for their
hair. You just like Draino in yours, that's just all to it...Draino Head!
@tiredofthebs20, excellent comments! You actually made very good points. Don't
agree with them all, but good points!
@tugie That's cool, I knew someone was going to take it there. Just remember,
Black women use the excuse that White women don't own or have a patent on
straight hair. I say it works both ways. Black women don't own or have a patent
on natural big lips or extra large ***. I've known and seen plenty White and
non-Black women with those attributes, so lets call a spade a spade.
Sorry dear, your comments don't work on so many levels and I'll jump into that
right now. First, when a Black man cuts, braids, or waves his hair, he isn't
really altering in that much unless he uses draino/relaxer products...and before
you jump into it, yes I know that many Black males that do that to their hair.
Second, You as a woman can never fill or walk in the boots of any man regardless
of what you do in your home and same thing goes for a man. It is what it is.
That's why most relationships aren't successful because we just can't relate to
the opposing gender. This is the same for all races not just Blacks.
Usually I don't go this hard, well, not lately I haven't, but I just get tired
of this issue. If BW would just let what's gone be, be what it is, than I
wouldn't be so up in arms about this. I ask all people of all races to think
about what you're doing when you bash someone for having a choice in what they
like in a mate. I ask them to think if what their doing is even rational? It's
like they're bashing someone for liking Pizza, over steak, Ice cream over
yogart, Playstation over Xbox. You're bashing someone for having a preference,
and though I'm a firm advocate of free speech and independant thinking,
constantly bashing and insulting someone over something over dating preferences
is just wrong and juvenile. Also the thing with free speech/will/independant
thought is that it works both ways. If you're insulting someone over a
preference, don't get up in arms when someone else doesn't like what you have to
say about it and puts a shoe in that ***. That's what I've really been trying to
say to these dumb broads the whole time, but like usual, they see what they