: MediaTakeOut.com was offering CONGRATULATIONS earlier this week, when we CONFIRMED that R&B singer Monica was dating NBA baller Shannon Brown of the Los Angeles Lakers.
Well we have to RETRACT that congratulations (Sorry Mo). According to one of MediaTakeOut.com EXTREMELY reliable sources, that's because Shannon ABRUPTLY DUMPED HIS BABYS MOMS when he met Monica.
And we're not talking about any ON-AGAIN-OFF-AGAIN babys moms. Shannon and his sons mother Sharde have been TOGETHER for 7 years, living together AS A FAMILY!!!
The insider explained to MediaTakeOut.com, "Everything was fine, they were even talking about getting married . . . they were one big happy family, and then Monica came along."
But MediaTakeOut.com's snitch added, "I don't COMPLETELY blame Monica for everything. But as a mom who just had her babys father (Rocko) CHEAT ON HER, she should understand."
Dang Mo, your our girl and all . . . but we can't CO-SIGN on this here. Plus, Sharde is an AVID MTO READER . . . and you know, we gotta STICK UP FOR OUR PEOPLES!!!
Editor's Update: And we hear RUMORS that Shannon may have actually been ENGAGED. Check out the below video, taken last year of Shannon and Sharde. Sharde is CLEARLY wearing rings on her LEFT RING FINGER
If he was with the baby moms for 7 years and hadn't married her, he wasn't going to marry her. Stupid black woman. You weren't married so he was fair game. A baby is not keeping a man there. I don't see how Monica is the blame and I'm not a fan of hers in the slightest but she didn't break up a happy family. He was shacking living with his babys mom. Not his wife.
WTF is wrong with these male and female skeezers of today?!
IF this story is true a big ole SMH @ Monica
However, if Shannon's baby momma did her math right iun the 1st place she would of had her Condolezza Rice looking *** married to him before breeding his spawn
Then she would have got her 7 years worth of support to his career back in dollars not so sure now
Monica is pulling an A.Keys...come on girl you are so much better than that...whats up with taking a man from his family if you are that desperate then you need to be alone for a while...can't stand jumpoffs...when will they learn that they will never come out on top and if they do they'll quickly fall. uggg
I am soooo tired of people blaming the other woman do u honestly think monica would be caught in public wit a man that has a woman? use your *** heads people. if a married man or a man that has a woman is seen in public like they are then jus maybe he could be taking a break from his GF or him and his wife are seperated and just coming out about it! HOW THE HELL IS THIS MONICA FAULT.
A MAN DOES WANT HE WANTS NO WOMAN CAN MAKE A MAN LEAVE HIS WIFE OR BOYFRIEND THE PROBLEM IS THE MAN NOT THE OTHER WOMAN SO Y THE MEDIA IS ATTACKING THESE WOMAN YALL HAVE SAID NOTHING ABOUT THE MEN!
I ALREADY KNOW I'M *** BUT FELLAZ IF YOU FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER YOU MUST BE CUTE!! IF NOT THEN I WON'T CHAT WITH YOU!! I AM MIKE HARRIS...ATLANTA'S BIGGEST QUEEN!!! JUST LOOK ATME! WHAT ELSE IS THERE REALLY LEFT TO SAY??? I HAD TO GYP SCHOOL TODAY TO BE THE FIRST POSTER AND I WANT SOMETHING STIFF AND HARD UP MY *** *** TODAY!!!! --------------- www.twitter.com/sexymikeharris
Surely Mo had no idea dude was involved cos she doesnt strike me as the type of woman who's capable of intentionally wrecking someone else's home. She left Rocko cos he was cheating for god'sake I mean *** on give her a brake. I dont think shes anything like Alicia Keys,she stikes me as the type of woman who respects others. Shes NOT a hoodrat who jus happened to get famous. With that being said, I wish her the best but surely shell rectify this mess.
I want to believe Monica is too classy to do something like that. Whether 'shacking up' or married, if a man is with ANOTHER WOMAN - IT'S WRONG !If you dont want it to be done to you, then DONT DO IT TO SOMEONE ELSE ! Ima just have to wait until i hear more about this one.....giving her the benefit of the doubt first.....
Yall need to stop fueling the fire for these paranoid as women on MTO. They already scared their man will cheat or leave them. If you are a baby momma for 7 years it could mean that he's just not that into you. No one should stay in a relationship where they are unhappy. Move on because you only live once. This man doesn't have to stay with a baby momma. If you were supposed to stay married to a person even if you are miserable divorce would be non existent.
okay how the hell are they homewreckers? DID THEY PUT A GUN TO THAT MANS HEAD AND SAY U GONNA *** ME? IF THAT PERSON REALLY LOVES U IT'S NOTHING ANOTHER WOMAN CAN DO FOR HIM. THESE PEOPLE HAD PROBLEMS AND WAS LIVING SEPRATE LIVES LONGER THAN WE KNOW BUT KEPT IS QUIET! LOOK AT CHRSITIAN MILIAN WE ALL THOUGHT HER THE DREAM WAS STILL A MARRIED COUPLE BECUASE THEY DIDN'T ANNOUCE THERE BUSINESS TO THE WHOLE WORLD! NOBODY WRECK THAT HOME BUT THAT HUSBAND AND WIFE PERIOD!
He LEFT HIS WIFE - WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH HER? Men can say "NO - I'm taken," too. For the person who asked if this is a new trend. NO - People have been cheating since PROBABLY the beginning of time. But for a man to leave his wife at the drop of a dime - you really have to question that LOVE in the first place. She should probably count her blessings - he's gone.
Well Month I'll start by sayn I used 2 luv u. I c u have been illuminated. Now *** u! Yall illuminati mofo's just don't give a *** huh? Well I know you used 2 quote scriptures so u know God. I wouldn't want 2 b in ur shoes on judgement day! U went from classy to NASTY! *** u ho you keep on lettng the d'evils convince u its ok 2 do what u want. Oh btw did I say *** u? You always have a rebuttal however there's no excuse for becoming TRASH! U dumb B!TCH!
Homewrecker: 1)A person who allows, or convinces, a man/woman to cheat on their significant other with them, being the "homewrecker". (2)A person who sleeps with/has a relationship with a married man/woman, even tho they know that person is married. (3)A person who does one/both of the above, and feels no guilt or remorse whatsoever for their actions.
Under that definition Monica is a homewrecker. Same goes with Fantasia and Alicia Keys.
2010 The Year of the Homewreckers and Dirty Dogs!
Rocko, is a KNOWN CHEATER IN THE ATL! Monica has known that! If Shannon was with the baby momma, he cheated because he was tired and bored with her. Monica and Shannon are WRONG. Monica is feeding into the devil's GAME! She is trying to be like her golddigging friend Keyshia Cole and find a BALLER! I have to admit, that is a homewrecker for you.
Homewrecker: 1)A person who allows, or convinces, a man/woman to cheat on their significant other with them, being the "homewrecker". (2)A person who sleeps with/has a relationship with a married man/woman, even tho they know that person is married. (3)A person who does one/both of the above, and feels no guilt or remorse whatsoever for their actions.
Under that definition Monica is a homewrecker. Same goes with Fantasia and Alicia Keys. --------------------- PREACH!!!!
Dumb girl, she wasn't married so he can do what ever he wants. Yeah Monica what goes around comes around. This is what happens when money motivates you, your fine being the baby momma well now you are only the baby momma. whats the problem she was never the wife? Girls demand more out of life, you live with a *** for 7 years you should be married if not what just transpired is a possibility.
Monica aint done nothing wrong. She was a girlfriend not a wife and clearly you all said he dumped the girlfriend BEFORE he got with Monica so it aint like he cheated on the g/f. She allowed herself to get preggers for a man that aint married her. It's unfortunate but people change their mind all the time. Shannon changed his mind, yall cannot blame Monica for this.
LOL @ me think Condi was his baby momma
Fred, you best clean up your fcuking act before Condi's peep's raid your fcuking (hole in the wall) office
Using her photo like this can be construed as Libelous
I guess if we were working with a Chinese Calender
2010 would be deemed as the Year of the Homewrecking hoe with a blind monkey as the symbol
SMDH!
I THINK SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST REALLY DUMB!!! HOW THE HELL CAN ANOTHER WOMAN MAKE A MAN DO ANYTHING? IF THAT MAN WRECKS HIS HOME THEN WHY IS THE BLAME GOING ON HER! FIRST OFF MTO FOR ALL WE KNOW HE BEEN BROKE UP WITH HIS BM!! I SWEAR SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST STOOPID! EVERYONE WOMAN IN HERE THAT IS SAYING SHE WRONG AND THIS AND THAT I AM SURE YALL ARE THE TYPE THAT WANTS TO FIGHT THE OTHER WOMAN INSTEAD OF YO MAN!! SMDH
UNLESS THE GIRL IS YO SIS,BFF,COUSIN U HAVE NO REASON TO BE MAD OR LAY HANDS ON THE OTHER WOMAN!
imho,it doesn't matter how things went down because bottom line,if Shannon would've wanted to not get involved with Monica,he could'venend of story. No man/woman can come between other adults love/life if the other person doesn't allow it! Besides,the fact that Shannon's been with the mother of his child for so long,has a kid/s with her and has yet to marry/commit to her says a lot. Not condoning it but keeping it real. Plus,he's attractive,young and earning a lot of money so temptations will always present themselves on a platter for him.
Okay i"M a dude. But why folks always blaming the women for a breakup? If he truly loved his girlfriend he would of stayed with her. He did stay with her for 7 years, and i'm pretty sure he cheated on her the whole time. Just like the ladies on "basketball wives" said. NBA relationships don't last ever... Monica probably knows this. she just dating and having fun. More power to her. ATleast shannon dumped his girlfriend first instead of cheating. He did the right thang
Definition of a home wrecker is someone who sleeps with any married man and knows he is married especially when children are involved.
smh so how is Monica a home wrecker if he is not married to his baby mom. People please be serious for once,JUST BECAUSE A GIRL HAVE A DUDE BABY DOESN'T QUALIFY HER AS THE WIFE.
ANYONE CAN GET PREGNANT FOR A GUY ALL YOU NEED IS SPERM AND EGG, SHE DON'T EVEN HAVE TO BE YOUR GF. There are surrogate line up to pop out babies all the time.
some celebrities that are official home wreckers are Alicia Keys, Fantasia etc. If she was dumb enough to have a kid with a dude that didn't put a ring on it and be with him for 4 years without a ring thats her problem.
MTO ya'l is stupid, ya'l need another name for this situation NOT HOME WRECKER BECAUSE THERE WERE NO HOME INVOLVE THERE.A HOME TO ME IS A PLACE WERE FAMILY ARE AT THERE MOST COMFORT, LIVE TOGETHER, LOVE AND IT INVOLVE TWO PARENTS WHO ARE COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER IN MARRIAGE.
p.s sorry but even though some single parents do a great job raising there kids but a single parents does not make a house a home.
A house is a space were anyone can live or be living at.
I haven't posted a comment in forever. But something has to give. Monica just lost every cool point in my book. @BlackMuslimgirl I agree, baby moms doesn't equal marriage but forreal "Get your own Bag" like the Ruffles commercial. This tramps out here are just too d@mn desparate for me. I will abstain for 5 years before I ride all over someone else's SLOPPY SECONDS.. Monica, Gabriel Union, and A.Keys... sorry boo you used be my favs... But now you're just cruddy and PEEWWWWWWWW.
please MTO, it cant be homewrecking if aint nobody married!! get off mo back, this is way different than getting with a married man, please come again, save ur bs!! this is not the same as fantasia, alicia, or any other real homewrecker that got involved with a MARRIAGE!! why do people who aint married or never been married think they know what homewrecking is?
WHAT I DON'T RESPECT IS THE FACT THAT I REMEMBER LIKE YESTERDay WHEN MONICA WAS BEING INTERVIEWED SHE CLEARLY STATED THAT SHE WOULD NEVER GET INVOLVED WITH AN ATHLETE BCUZ THEY WERE SO ARROGANT AND SELF CENTERED I HOPE SHE DIDN'T FORGET MAKING THAT STATEMENTS WITH INTERNET BEING SO ADVANCED THESE DAYS. THAT'S JUST FAKE TO MAKE SUCH A GENERALIZE STATEMENT AND THEN RETRACT UR COMMENT BCUZ TIMES ARE HARD NOW. SHE ALWAYS HAS SPOKEN SO HIGHLY OF HER THUGS DUDES UNTIL THEY ALL USED HER UP AND THREW HER OUT LIKE YESTERDAY TRASH.
I wouldn't call that homewrecking so much, after 7 years and living together he should have married you. Which means as a woman who has been in his life that long, playing house with kids and all, there should have been something in the back of your mind that said he's obviously maintaining his way OUT. I do think it sucks since she may have developed some dependence on him and saw themselves as a family that was just as solid, but you've got no real stake in a "boyfriend".
@ DominiRican: ¿Usted incluso sabe el ESPAÑOL, usted puta muda? ¡Usted deshonra su raza, usted se deshonra, usted es un aborrecimiento! ¿Qué usted planea en la conquista con sus diatribas odiar-llenadas? ¿Cómo está USTED mejor que negros? Pienso it' s USTED que tienen celos hacia las mujeres negras porque usted le conoce es apenas un negra español. USTED tiene sangre negra en usted, hermana. Poor representation of Latinas. YOU are a hoodSPIC groupie wannabe. If you hate Black women, why do you want to f@ck with their men. Selective racism. Get the f@ck out!
Wow there yt guys on youtube defending the honor of bw!
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I am all about defending the honor of BW with that being said why do non bw come on this site bash bw and claim everything the bw is and has? Do y'all compare urselves to bw to feel self worth? Do u look in the mirror everyday and try to look better than a bw? Wow that's really sad!
OMG!! Monica is NOT a homewrecker!! For one he never even married that chick of what... 7 YEARS?!? What coulda been HIS excuse...?? Cuz it *** sure ain't money. Why women think bc you have a baby by a dude FIRST before marriage you're automatically "Wifey".. umm BIG DIFFERENCE. It's 2010 "baby mothers" are at the LOWEST of the totem pole (wife, fiance, girlfriend, side chick, jumpoff/(bust it baby).... then BABY MOTHER these days... nobody respects them, it's actually a dis in some places to be known as a "BM"... PaLEASE!
she aint no *** homewrecker...shannon was prolly only wit ol girl for tha baby..until something better came along...And obviously the feelings for monica were stronger...y she gotta be a homewrecker..she can help that he was in a *** relationship...good luck monica..hes cute and i hope he treats you better that rocko did
MTO you are using the term "homewrecker" too loosely. Monica DID NOT break up anything. This couple was not married and in your own words, you state that he ended the relationship when he met Monica. ~ Okay, so dude didn't cheat on his son's mother with Monica. He broke up with her, and THEN started dating Monica. ~ It seems to me Swizz Beats & Antwaun Cook need to take a page out of Shannon's book. ~ You MOVE OUT before you MOVE ON......
THANK YOU @ thugbephine, samantha97 and ms_angie. Shadera (the baby momma) STAYED AROUND FOR 7 YEARS and had this man's children. I doubt if Shannon forced her to stay or have his kids. She prolly wanted to believe that he would marry her one day so she stayed around. She always had the option to leave. Unfortunately for her he exercised his options before she did. Harsh but reality. He was not married and at least he broke up with her before getting with MOnica so he DID NOT cheat. Life is not fair people understand this!
If this is true
I SMH @ Monica because dude was in a relationship and I SMH @ dude cause he lead his silly baby momma on
HOWEVER, he did NOT marry her which means he was always keeping his options open
she *** have got herself knocked up and hung around for 7 frikking years!
Anyone who does that, deserves what fate has in store for them.
Fcuk being a "baby momma" you ain't a wife you ain't ***
So more fool her
But him and Monica don't get a pass
Him because he lead baby momma on and Monica because she should have more class than stepping into a re
SMH @ Monica because dude was in a relationship and I SMH @ dude cause he lead his silly baby momma on
HOWEVER, he did NOT marry her which means he was always keeping his options open
she *** have got herself knocked up and hung around for 7 frikking years!
Anyone who does that, deserves what fate has in store for them.
Fcuk being a "baby momma" you ain't a wife you ain't ***
Come on nw they r all grown azz people,that's just like if ur dude decide to break up wit u an than date someone else.hw is it the girl who he *** dating fault?it aint!same f*ckn scenerio wit this sh*t!people break up an move on that's life just cause he has kids wit this girl dnt mean he has to b unhappy wit her *** grow up people!wat akeys did was wrng fantasia too they where married!
Oh well ***!! I need to concentrate more, sorry for the nonsensical posts above....and I ain't see that Shannon broke *** off BEFORE going in on Monico, so
My first retraction on MTO
Monico is NOT homewrecker because when she was dating him
1. Dude was not married 2. Dude was not in a relationship
so her *** do get a pass!!
If he broke off a previous relationship, so he could start dating Monica then kudos to him!!
Cause he did *** the RIGHT way!!
*** didn't get married so his baby momma should have known he was feeling her to that yet she kept dropping babbies
So she a *** fool!
First of all yall dumb as hell... Yall runnin off at the mouth talkin bout Monica like she did somethin wrong if yall read the *** correctly it said HE BROKE UP WIT HIS BABY MAMA WHEN HE "MET" MONICA! So how the *** is she a homewrecker she wasnt messin with him while they were together yall need to read *** before yall take *** and run wit it and yall actually believin this *** when mto be lyin all the time this whole website full of ***!
Well it did say he DUMPED the baby-mama when he met Monica so it doesn't sound like he was sneaking around cheating on her.
If he had that kind of history with her and could dump her like that then just imagine when he meets someone else he'll dump Monica at the drop of a dime.
Isn't he like 24 years old, he's still young and soaring his oats....I'd be scared to marry him.
MONICA didn't wreck a thing. I did videos with this Sharde *** and she's and opportunist. She has ONE child by him that's two and she kept talking about being courtside and gettin money. We were all like WOW this chick is a real gold digger. Shannon just wanted a woman and in person Monica is much prettier . Inside and out. The Sharde chick has a chin like jay Leno and an attitude like Keyshia Cole. And has anyone noticed all the photos and events u see her at were from last year. MTO should be ashamed because Monica is they type you could call up before you put this *** up.
@TravisMerit
I beg to differ
Alicia Keys Fantasia Gabrielle Union
all fcuked married men.
Monica did not, in fact dude wasn't in a relationship when he dated her. Sooooo she is in the clear!
My point is a man should not have to stay in an unhappy relationship just cause he's married but finish the relationship properly FIRST1
Which is what Shannon did, however, it's a little cruel leading someone on knowing they're hoping for more, so that was kind of mean of him But his baby momma's the fcuking idiot that let that *** happen...
Sooooo...
Yeah they weren't married, but in most places in the world that relationship is considered a common-law relationship, same as a marriage but without the legal ***. If they were indeed together for 7years then she is entitled to 50% just the same as if they were married. She should get a lawyer and don't take this sitting down.
Evey action has an equal or opposite reaction. We will just have to see how Monica's action plays out in the long run. It high time women raise their standards in selecting a mate, it can't be so dog eat dog out there that breaking up families is cool.
And HELLO. Shannon was NOT married nor considering it. People are to quick to take these tired *** babymommas sides. When I watched her shake her rear and flirt with men at Lil Waynes video ***, I instantly saw Sharde for the woman she was. She's had her eye on the prize for years and Shannon woke up. She will hate she released this story. Because that face never made her a dime so she's mad he's dating someone genuine. The truth is sure to come REAL soon.
@hot2trot Actually common law marriages are only recognized in some states throughout the US and one main requirement is you must be LIVING TOGETHER,
not just be together.
In L.A. (where they're currently based) the relationship would have to fit a whole other set of requirements before it could be considered Common Law
Quite frankly this baby momma ***
needs to be knocked on the head
trapping a man so he's part of your life forever by way of producing an offspring
does not constitute as him committing himself to you
Only marriage does that
and that's how it should be
That's why the 'legal' laws of marriage exists. Having an affair with married persons is different than a breakup (or breakoff) from someone who puts the horse before the carriage and plays house. She gambled and she lost. A lesson learned for single women everywhere playing these games; you win some and you lose some. Get married!
if I was a nba baller's wife or girlfriend, I would be stacking those chips so high on the side, that when/if he started acting a fool, I won't have *** to complain about. I'm walkin up out that bytch with my head and pocket level held high.
Uh, bytch- it was fun while it lasted and thanks for the networking
First iff gabrielle union, a keys, etc we only have the media side if what happened to those relationships not the whole story. Lets keep it real marriage is not the stamp on a relationship that it used to be. Its like being boyfriend *** girlfriend nowadays. We dont know what happened in any of these people relationships to judge any of them. It seems to me that this site for whatever reason produces bad media to gain popularity which really sucks. Its a open forum of constant judgement against others when we dont know the real. Mto gives he say she say
@Fendi I don't give a fcuk if the baby is 2 days old! Y'all baby momma's kill me
If he ain't put a fcuking ring on it you got to be a dumb *** to get knocked up!
And don't sing me that tired old fcuking "baby momma tale" bout "relationships last longer than marriages" baby mommas always think that gives them wifey rights well it fcuking DOESN'T!!
And too many triffling *** women who KNOW their man ain't into them to that Resort to these desperate measure
That dumb *** of a baby momma must have thought dropping his spawn would make a difference
well she's got her fcuking answer now!
LMAO!
FendiFiend, I must say you make a few valid points as to men being non-commital and such but ... isn't it 'our' control (us women) if we let persons abuse or mistreat us or better yet, disrespect us? I'm just keeping it real. We are better than we give ourselves credit for and I've learned people (yes, black men too) only do what we allow. Sometimes you just have to 'walk away' and quit thinking it'll change in time. Sometimes it is what it is. No good.
@HOT2TROT You're welcome sweetie
As I have clearly stated in my posts about Alicia Keys and Gabby Union
If those thirsty *** had waited until their dude's had got divorced before fcuking him then it would have made the world of difference.
The point is the dude has to end the committment with the previous person, be it living together, engagement or marriage BEFORE going near the next person, which apparently is what happened her.
So you *** straight Monica get's a pass!
As you say HOT2TROT you don't got marriage you don't got ***! Cause that means he's letting you know off the back you ain't the 1 for life you just the 1 for right now!
People pay attention fendi fiend is TOO invested. Is that you Sharde... Lol. Truth is I KNOW you. Please don't make me tell YOUR truth. The rapper you linked up with when you were supposedly only being in his video didn't keep your secret. Monica is a solid woman and I've been told that by many who know her. This chick is getting sympathy for ALL the wrong reasons. I respect Shannon because by her words he takes care of her and their son well. But it's BEEN done. U knew that Sharde when u smashed the rapper. Please don't make me go further. This post is *** me off.
By the way Sharde someone that you think is a close friend is revealing quite a bit. I just got the call and found out Shannons been gone while you have been lieing and pretending everything was fine and this was long before he met Monica. Guess that money you stole from him wasn't worth it. I knew Monica wasn't down with the cheating after the pain Rocko inflicted on her and she even took the highroad with that *** then. If you keep this up I will tell all. Slow down and look around Sharde. Everyone isn't your friend. Shannon has t slept next to you for months on end.
@Texas Let's cut the BS
I respect your views on some things but I know you and I have never seen eye to eye on this matter, even though we don't directly address one another about it
But ima straight *** so in response to your statement I will state that he APPARENTLY didn't go near Monica until he was single, so how in God's name can SHE be a homewrecker??
Just cause someone still loved him??
Dude was single and unmarried when he started dating Monica, so at worst he is at fault for leading his baby momma on to think that one day they would get married but the fact is he didn't marry her and cut her loose as soon as he found something better
Baby momma took a gamble by hanging on and lost
Dog Shannon Brown has been a hoe BEFORE Michigan State! Sharde as mentioned earlier is an opportunist and will try to get with any *** who MAY have money! She has been this way since HS! There is a long list of men including my boys who have slept with her, especially up at MSU! Sharde "tried" to be video vixen in the past, which did not work. Also they have not been together for 7 years! LOL! Where does MTO get this *** from? If you from MIchigan you would know this. Secondly, if you truly know Shannon he was THE MAN at MSU! And F*CKED PLENTY of broads and Sharde knew this & luckily she was the one that got knocked up! So this isn’t new news! EVERYONE knows Shannon is a hoe! And soon enough Monica!
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WTH??!! Even though he's not married to Sharde, the bottom line is that there were in a relationship. Period. Monica had no business stepping to him in that way, and he had no right stepping to Monica in that way. What is going on with these female singers? First Alicia Keys, then Fantasia and now Monica?? These women obviously have low self-esteem and are desperate. And, the men that their involved aren't any better! They know exactly what their doing! I'm losing respect for alot of these people now. Everybody acts like their losing their *** minds! SMH.
@Fendi *** plz!
Your confused baby momma *** ain't fooling anyone! LMAO!!!
The dumb *** that you are addressed me first so don't cry about *** now!
and I KNOW I am better than you
because you are the one that resorted to making defamatory comments about ALL black women, like the fcuking idiot you are.
Just because a black man doesn't want to marry your dumb *** it don't mean the other single black women won't find a life partner
Is that enough profanities for you???
*** don't start none there won't be none
@FendiFiend I don't care what black men or women do. I do care about what I do though and what I'm raising my son to be. You are right though. I *** have made it a point to chastise black women. Because I think black men definitely have the most work to do. I feel we should spend less time judging and complaining but more time doing.
PEOPLE KILL ME HOW QUICK THEY ARE TO JUDGE SOMEONE WITHOUT KNOWING THE FACTS! I DON'T BELIEVE NOTHING MTO SAYS UNLESS IT'S ON ANOTHER SITE LIKE T.M.Z! NOW WATCH TOMORROW AFTER MO REP CALL THEM AND CHEW THEM OUT FOR MAKING MO LOOK BAD! THEY GONNA B SORRY!! SMDH HOW U GONNA TRY AND RUIN SOMEONES NAME WITHOUT ALL THE INFO
@Texas Good point about being another side to the story
But I respectively disagree about being hard on the baby momma
All baby momma's who have children with men they love but to whom they are not married
take a chance and some win and some don't.
Yes, I could be making some large assumuptions but giving the current information (also see comments by the1inATL), it looks the way it does to me, particularly as it's no secret that some women do try to "keep" their *** by having babies.
But as I say, you have a point and I can respectively disagree on some of them.
But let's see what MTO comes out with LMAo...Always something funny
What?!!! How are you gonna Blame Monica? He most likely stepped to her and being the type of women she is I knoe she didn't just start messing with him while he was involved with his sons mother ... They proly weren't together Monica knows how it feels to be cheated on so sne wouldn't do that to another woman so plz stop accusing her thnks! #TeamMo!!
Ah hell! I didn't even see this, Let me repost it
Thanks AtWill313
well this is from someone that knows her crowd and not just some mouth piece from the baby momma crowd, LOL
AtWill313 Dog Shannon Brown has been a hoe BEFORE Michigan State! Sharde as mentioned earlier is an opportunist and will try to get with any [EXPLETIVE] who MAY have money! She has been this way since HS! There is a long list of men including my boys who have slept with her, especially up at MSU! Sharde "tried" to be video vixen in the past, which did not work. Also they have not been together for 7 years! LOL! Where does MTO get this [EXPLETIVE] from? If you from MIchigan you would know this. Secondly, if you truly know Shannon he was THE MAN at MSU! And F*CKED PLENTY of broads and Sharde knew this & luckily she was the one that got knocked up! So this isn’t new news! EVERYONE knows Shannon is a hoe! And soon enough Monica!
@Texas That's one thing I've always believed
No matter the *** dude walks
If he leaves behind a broken heart that could be you!
Which is why if I were single I wouldn't even contemplate boys with baggage
when I was single I wouldn't even consider a guy who had children cause drama's almost always guaranteed
But we'll see how this one pans out He may not be in love with Monica but just wanted to be free to date again Although he's got 1 child with her, he never married so he obviously wasn't ready for committment.
I don't think that just bc 2 ppl aren't married, that means they're fair game. Esp if they have children and have established themselves as a family (ie sharing a residence, kids, splitting bills etc) but regardless if this is true, Monica would never turn Shannon down. This is about the biggest come up a no shape having washed mother of 2 could ever wishh for. I think she would have dealt with him even if he was married.
Please Monica isn't a homewerecker!!! Technically if your man doesn't man marry you he's still on the market for the taking LMAO!! It's your stupid *** fault to even have a baby by a man who isn't ur husband and to keep having kids by him when it is obvious he doesn't want you. Girl, your trap didn't work LMAO!!! Move on!!!!
A single woman or man has the right to get who THEY WANT. They have the RIGHT!!! If your man or woman no longer desires you, hold your head high and step. That's all there is to it. Also, you should get a ring BEFORE YOU HAVE CHILDREN. PLAYING HOUSE does not count! Some of you need to understand that all is fair in love and war!
Ah ***!! @FENDI - Dumb *** I just scrolled up and read your statement properly (as I haven't been reading them)
But there's no way I can let this go unchecked...LMAO
I see you have the AUDACITY to question why as a married woman I'm on MTO??!!
***, you tried to describe yourself as a "catch", with career, etc.....yet you still fcuking single and been on MTO for frigging years!! LMFAO!!
You belong in that thread about why church women can't find a husband
Instead of crying on this fcuking site bout why black men don't want to marry your ***
Some of you are lying your AIZZ off, if your busted azz was in a 7 year relationship, with his kids, and a promise to marry, you would be on MTO with tapes, photos and audio's of Monica trying to steal your place, calling her a HOMEWRECKER, so stop lying just because you are a fan of Monica's ugly aizz.
This ain't the first time for Monica, she tried to get a married baller to put her phone number in his phone at a shopping mall, and his wife was there shopping, his wife called Monica's aizz out on a message board, with details and everything.
Monica is not a homewrecker the baby mother is trying to make Monica look bad. I hope Monica find someone who will make her happy. Monica is a beautiful successful black woman, and I wish her nothing but the best. Now back to the baby momma you need to not saying anything shacking with no marriage is not a good look. It took you 7 years to realize Shannon does not want you , and it is not a good look. Instead of being bitter toward Shannon not marrying pick up your face and help being a mother to your kids. Bad mouthing the other woman is not a good look trick. How low can you go leaking stuff
LOL@Texas Girl, you so funny with your questions/statements thrown out to cyber space
Well, I'm throw in my 5 cents worth.......
I do think Monica was dumb getting knocked up without being married but the focus isn't on HER baby daddy
And if she's trying to get Shannon to marry her as per MTO then she obviously realizes now, it's better to be married before having kids
I hope she's not trying to get married now though
He's really young and as you say, she needs to concentrate on herself and family a bit more.
Why is the baby mama mad at Monica? Stupid bishes like her makes me sick. Her dumb behind should be mad at Shannon. And this bird brain baby mama has no class at all. This bish could have handle this situation behind closed doors, but no she had to post this on a Ghetto website. And this bish thought she was hurting Monica no she made her own self look stupid. After 7 years she hung on to Shannon for what this bish cannot take a clue.
Furthermore, I don't understand the rush to have kids...
A youngster getting married just to have a child is ALMOST just as bad them not being married and having a child
Why can't people date for some time get to know the other person see if want them as their life partner, then get married and have kids
I just don't see what the rush is
I see u wanna temp me. Sharde has a very colorful Detroit past. From HER she said Shannon pays for everything while she does nothing. She wasn't living with him until the BLOODTEST confirmed that the boy was really his. What happy couple gets bloodtest. They were cut buddies and he tried to man up. But babies don't make relationships. Shannon is also aware that her dealings in Atlanta, Miami and LA run deep. No one wants there wife bumping in videos and screwing rappers. Which is wby he didnt marry her. Again I say your friends aren't your friends Sharde please go sit down. There are alot of women who deserve this sympathy and she is NOT one of them. The things she has bragged about are coming to haunt her. Just like this story will. And she even had the nerve to say today she should have her own reality show. You all will see what I say is TRUTH. That's obvious her own friends don't like her. They telling me what's going on
Is that Condoleeza Rice sitting in front of them? Lol!! Here again we have so many accusatory and critical comments when none of us no whats really going on. MTO does what all low-level media reporters do, present the story @ a very slanted angle, adding all kinds of misleading and persuasive comments and details. And in this case Monica is looking like the bad guy (or girl). I try not to be persuaded by anything I read on MTO, until I find the same info some place credible. And I don't judge b/c it's not my place. It's sad how so many people are so easily persuaded by mere gossip. Smh.
I'm done with this thread. Truth will come out VERY soon. And Monica said some real *** on her twitter. She said if these games make her feel better she will take the high road and say nothing because the truth needs no support. I don't know Monica but she's outspoken as he'll and I love it. Too many celebs seem to be afraid of media and people. When most things reported are LIES. I really wish Fred wouldve called Monica before posting this MESS. But then again when does MTO care about truth.
SMH@ This .... why do U all keep forcing men into staying with you and forcing the relationship to prolong when the other partner wants out ... sad! PERIOD! You can't hold a man/woman their not your personal piece of property. On the other hand these two are not even married, they were probably talking about it after seven years and still had not decide? Ok ... ***/*** something does not sound right. Living together as a family for seven years does not mean that these two had/has plans to be together for the rest of their lives."Dumped abruptly" does not sound like it was serious any more.
@Texas She does have a checkered past and needs to forget about guys for now
but what's suspect about this situation (if it's even true!)
it was obviously delivered by the baby mama's camp probably after seeing the article by MTO on how Monica had netted a baller
But they still couldn't bring themselves to accuse Monica of sleeping with him during her relationship (which are the standard homewrecking accusations...LOL)
You know I'm anti-homewreckers
but just like Siouvaugn, this sounds too much like an angry vengeful ex.
But we'll have to watch this space I guess
Once again, Monica will never be anything other than Rocko's baby mama. She's new to Shannon and she'll be washed up with two months. If he didn't wife his baby's mama after seven years, what reason(s) would he have to wife Rocko's baby mama? And she has two kids! Now, Rocko doesn't want her. Therefore, she'll never be anything more than Rocko's baby mama!
Oh please STOP with this sh*t already..ugh!!! Don't try to tack on this 'homewrecker' title on Monica! Every week it's somebody different whose a 'homewrecker'...cut it out! And how can she be a homewrecker when they weren't even married??? She's just a baby mama and they were together for 7 years and is 'talking' about getting married, so please! What was there to wreck?? Sounds like they weren't going anywhere..LOL But yall are NOT about to start dissin' Monica!
Yall will not put that title to Monica. She is *** will always b a classy woman. If he left his bm that was his own doin. Monica aint put no gun to his head or fall for the "I'm not happy at home" lie like Fanny did so she doesn't quailfy as a homewrecker, *** if they aint married it aint homewrecking anyway.
How is she a homewrecker? You can't reck a house that wasn't a home to begin with. Just because someone has a child with someone doesn't mean they are happy with them. We don't know what kind of drama they had in their relationship to make him want to be with Monica, so before anyone starts pointing fingers people need to chill. Monica has been known to be in long, meaningfull relationships. I will not doubt her now.
@ syy, I agree. There have been rumors that he was basically with her because of the child. He was having problems with her and other males. MTO can kiss my ***, they talk about Alicia *** and Gabby like they arfe real women, when they both slept with MARRIED men. Brown is not married and I'm happy that he has met a real woman like Monica
Another low self esteem single baby mama trying to make themselves feel important if another man is weak enough to lay with a woman who would disrespect not only herself but help him disrespect his relationship with a woman who they took vows before GOD. I guess no one is scared of God no more till they go to hell with gasoline drawers on. These wannabe baby mamas and thugs should be concentrating on their kids cause they are usually dumb enough to have multiple *** out of wedlock. SMH
At 20005 save the sermon. We all have plenty work to do on our lives. The bible says no sin is greater than the next so if u say a bad word, have a child, or betteryet play holier than type and don't have kids but fornicate u are NO better than the next. And this man was not WITH nor MARRIED to this ***. I know her and she deserves no sympathy. Shannon wised up. Trust me and he left LONG time ago. Sharde is the great pretender and no one should buy into it. Monica has had long solid relationships and even if we don't like who Monica has choosen in the past you can clearly tell it was all for love and that she loves and cares about people from her heart. Sharde has been an opportunist . Shaking and moving in videos and in these streets doing her thing. All of the truth will come out. Her friends are worst than most peoples enemies so you will all see. TRUST monicas done nothing wrong. That man was long gone before her.
OK THERE'S SOME THINGS WRONG WITH THIS #1 WHY Y'ALL GOT CONDOLEEZA BIG *** FACE IN THE PICTURE!? THE STORY IS ABOUT THE PEOPLE BEHIND HER! #2 THESE BASKETBALL PLAYERS DO NOT TELL THE TRUTH THATS WHY THEY'RE ALWAYS A PART OF SOME SCANDAL #3 MONICA IS NOT A HOMEWRECKER IF THE OTHER WOMAN WAS JUST A BABY MAMA, IF SHE WAS WIFEY I COULD UNDERSTAND BUT SHE'S NOT
If he wanted to really be with that female he would of been with her like he has been with Monica. Obviously something wasn't working in their relationship. Monica has been known to love and stick by her men, so with that said I think Brown's fine *** made a great choice. Still Standing is one of the best R&B songs this year and Lakers have won another ring. I am happy for them. Monica, continue to be the good mom that you is and Brown you do the same. And that's what its all about at the end. The KIDS
Her and rocko split because of mess like this 6 months ago. And from very reliable people rocko was an insecure cheater so she did right by dropping him. As for people mentioning cmurder I don't know why. In a 17 yr career she hasn't had many boyfriends at all. You look at how these chicks move now and you can tell Monica isn't down with anything but love and stability. And to be clear she's slim but like a supermodel. All them big thick chicks in the game end up looking like Free from 106&park. The look of them just make you wanna call them auntie. Like I said earlier shannons babymoms is a MESS. She personally looks like Jay Leno to me. She lies and does anything to get what she wants and the way she laughed at the fact that Shannon gave her everything made me sick.... what an ***. She felt she caught her man because they went from cut buddies to staying in the same house but be clear. That wasn't until after he bloodtested that baby and was told if he didn't do it they would live in Georgia which meant hebeluldnt see his first born. This chick is a web of lies and Shannon woke up. Not to mention. 7years just sounded good to her and MTO stupid *** will print anything. The kid is 2 and she didn't live with Shannon that long. Her bestfriend said that she TOLD her. Don't tell nobody but Shannon got his own place months ago. Can't wait until the truth drops. It's wrong as he'll for her to try and ruin two careers because her games didn't work. Take your check and go. I can't imagine how Shannon feels because 20,000 a month and all bills paid which is what SHE said. She should be somewhere starting her own buisiness or doing something constructive instead of lieing on Monica. This girl will stop at nothing and even though I don't know Monica or Shannon I will keep telling the truth because WRONG is WRONG.......
Monica is a very humble, beautiful strong women with class. She would never go into this relationship with Shannon Brown knowing he was still living with his child mother. This is the most inaccurate story ever and Monica is the realist celebrity out. You people are so ignorant some of the comments are just pathetic and some of you have the nerves to call Monica ugly. Monica is beautiful from the inside and out. She has her own and work for it from age 14. She has more class then all you ignorant people put together. She is women of God and carry herself that way. Clearly the ex is scorned and Monica clearly does not have anything to do with that. You people are on the outside looking in an have the nerve to degrade her charater over a gossip blog. Monica is better than this and deserve more respect. Some of you even stated she can't sing. That is the most ridiculous thing ever. Monica is the best female R&B singer out. She is a wonderful mother and put the wellbeing of her kids first. She even stated Shannon hasn't met her kids yet because she has to do it the right way. You ignorant people clearly don't know Monica. She does not dwell in negativity and stay positive. The ignorant person who wrote this mess all they had to do was ask Monica she is that real. I suggest the ex get some class like Monica and move on. Monica had nothing to do with the demise of their relationship. She has the nerve to attempt to tarnish Monica name. Clearly she doesn't know the struggles Monica have been through and overcome. This is minor compared to what she has been through and STILL STANDING. For the record to those who said she is old and washed up. Monica is only 29 been out since she was 14. Sold over 20 million records wordwide. Still standing is doing well and she is presently umbarked upon a HUGE tour with Trey Song, about to launch a clothing lines for kids in honor of her kids (whom she adores), about to launch a nail polish line, working on second season of her reality show "STILL STANDING", and you called that washed up. What have you haters done? Always negativity among the black race trying to put one another down instead of building the race up. You people need to reevaluate your life and stop this hate on a person you know nothing about. Only GOd came judge his people. I suggest the scorned ex address her issues with Shannon not Monica, move on and do what's best for her child. Monica you inspire me and keep your head up because you can do anything through Christ who strenghten you. The devil is busy but he will not win. Love Moncia and Shannon Brown together what an awesome couple. Sharde God bless do you and move on. Black haters, stop the madness and don't believe everything you read. GOD Bless. I am done.
Oh well these *** need to stop opening their legs thinking that popping out babies will give them a meal ticket and free rent for 18yrs. Instead of being a bitter *** *** about it she should have made him put a ring on it. As far as im concerned he was fair game, they werent married she was just another babymama!
I follow Shannon and Monica on twitter, they say theyre together.. Anywho he also made a statement saying him and his bm have never even talked about getting married and things between them died long before Mo came into the picture he just stuck around to have both parents there for his kid.. If he didnt give her a ring before or after they had a kid and they've been together that long he never intended to in the 1st place.. Look at Lebron and his bm thats all they'll ever be is babymamas.. Oh well next!
GOOD Shannon stood up for his son and woman (Monica) this sharde is a real character that set out to try and make them look bad. I've told y'all the truth and the whole truth. She is still bragging saying good now women won't buy monicas records and laughing. The more she talks the more *** I get but Shannon statement says a mouthful and the cool part is he never disrespected sharde to do it. GROWN MAN ish..... While she selling lies to MTO he made it ***, sweet, and CLEAR. He been left his babymomma. I'm just mad some people automatically believed her ...... So sad . Her day is coming .
Im so dissappointed in the blantant disregard for someone's relationship. Its ok cuz hes not married, and he didnt put a ring on her finger... blah blah blah, but if it happened to you it would be a whole different story? PLEASE!!!! Whats wrong its wrong (AND IM NOT SAYING ANYONE IS WRONG)but you cant say its wrong cuz he not married... love is love and a commiment ia commitment and its *** up he jus dumped her for a bigger name. period.
i agree with the`1atl you are right about sharde. she really did get around, she had a naked acalender floating around the neighborhood growing up. her mom used to tell us how she would get done and her ignorant ways. she was a man stealer too, before she moved to atl she made it known she was a hoe. its been said that she did it to wayne and a number of other dudesin the industry.
I am laughing at these jealous women. Why you mad at another female who you don't know getting a good man? Maybe that's why some don't have one NOW. They was not married and their was no REAL relationship. He was just feeding her because she had his child. Y'all baby daddies probably don't even claim y'all. I'm happy for Monica. She is known to be in long/meaningful relationships. Whomp whomp @ hatin *** people. Its 2010. Get a life
Woooosssaaaa! First of all WHY DON'T PEOPLE RALIZE THAT IS CONDALEEZA RICE ON THE PIC AND NOT THE BABY MAMA?????? Ignorance is bliss I tell ya! Secondly at blackisbeautiful10 you sound like an ignorant fool! Why is it 100% the woman's fault? What about the wife that is doing everything right and that man STILL goes out and cheats with the woman that KNOWS he has a good wife but doesn't care because she wants the money, fame and d*ck?Get the f*ck outta here!
Monica didnt do nothin wrong. The babymoms stayed w/him for 7YEARS!! after that 3rd year she shouldve left him. no ring for 7yrz=no ring at all! so plz stop sayin monica a homewrecker! plus if she do get mad, get mad @ shannon. Monica cant make him do nothing he already wanted to do from the start. Ladies never i mean NEVER get mad @ the girl, get mad @ your man for doing this. p.s. aim for marriage then get baby cause yu trapping a dude is like trapping big foot...not gonna happen!
She obviously had a meal ticket baby.If he really loved her he would have married her by now (living together for seven years c'mon man!).If you don't have a child out of wedlock then you don't have to worry about being engaged indefinitely. A baby momma have no clout all they have is child support and medical insurance for 18 years, if they're lucky.She learned the hard way that just because you put the cart before the horse does not guarantee marriage.Wake up stop having all these kids hoping to get married it's not fair to the child.Rich guys can get custody instead of paying then what.
