I speak like a two year old, you're entitled to your opinion, I should want to learn, blah blah blah. Next: Learn from who? You? No thank you because you see their is a big difference in speaking on a topic with the intent to make a difference in your community, as well as others.. Which is not what you're doing!
I drive black men away from black women like me? Lmao!
Oh please! I feel sorry for you because you come up here everyday talking down to people as if you're actually doing something to make a difference.. So, when it comes to me learning something from you.. I'll believe that once you say or do something worth hearing. You hate the people (white-man) but then you turn around and put down your own people.. (You believe that black women would just *** the *** up and support their black men)..
Let me make one thing clear, it is not my job (as a black woman or not) to fall back, *** up and do whatever it takes to help my man progress more. I don't need anybody to take care of me because I was raised (by both my mother & father) to be independent, speak up for myself, get my education & never put my dreams, career or anything in between on hold for anyone. So if a black man, white man (I really could give a ***) is not strong enough to make it on his own without my support.. Then that black man can go out and find any woman he wants because I refuse to settle for a weak link..
If a black man has to depend that much on me.. He go out and find the first weak minded white woman he wants!
If a black man needs me to carry him when he is the one that has been raised to be the head of the household, but can't because he needs me to hold his hand the entire time..
He would never make it through the front door of any of my male relatives homes..
My mother didn't *** up and walk my father through life, so neither will I..
You don't want a woman, a wife or soul_mate..
What you want is someone that will sit back and do whatever you say, so stop playing!
At the end of the day, we all know that No Man will ever completely respect a women that's not Strong enough to make her own decisions or take care of herself..
A man is not about to remain content when he's the one putting in all the work BUT, it's okay because she supporting her man (while still *** the *** up!
But what that man (Black, White, Asian.. You name it) is going too do, is give a big *** *** you to the woman that was nothing more then support (and a mute)..
For a woman (such as myself) who was smart enough.. Strong enough and Independent enough
to laugh at men who have the same *** up mentality as you!
Mistake number one: I stopped my life to help you..
Mistake number two: You make it.. Mistake number three: You leave.. Mistake number four: I have no job experience, education, money or anything in between..
Sad & pathetic *** conclusion: I'm now looking like the fool because I put You before Myself!
What kind of *** up system is that?
I agree with you one hundred percent, that at the tender age of 24
I do still have a lot to learn and sitting back and allowing myself to become educated by people who have something to actually teach me has gotten me
through basic training, through one degree (now a double bachelor major)..
Being strong enough to stand as a woman (without first having to take care of a man) has gotten me
my own cars, a home, a career and everything else that I could ever want or need.
But you're rite.. A weak *** Black man that Needs Me too Support Him in order for Him to One_day, maybe, I don't really know, kind of, sort of, well I hope become successful.. So that he can then hopefully, well he said so, but I don't really know for sure become the Provider... Then any woman, of any race Can Have Him!! Say what you want about me, but all you did was talk in circles.. Thanks for the (so called) knowledge thou!
Until we speak again My Luv!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!