KEEPING IT REAL!!! Steve Harvey Explains Why Men Can Not Be JUST FRIENDS With Women . . . Do You AGREE??

: We do think it's very odd that we're taking RELATIONSHIP ADVICE from a man like Steve Harvey - who is accused of BEATING his first wife, then STEALING from her, and when she complained - he tried to have her COMMITTED TO A MENTAL HOSPITAL.

Well be that as it may, dude is speaking GOSPEL in this interview:

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3D_Six_Pack

XoxoLyric
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why is Steve Harvey the relationship guru? twitter.com/infamousbelle


AlreadyNYoDreamz
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I dont agree...At all.


dremy305
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Women do the same thing. Get outta here. It goes both ways. Steve is right in one way, but Steve is catering to his female audience thats why he writes his books in the way he writes them.


KGdaKiD

bambam1985
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he is telling the truth


davidisrich
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If y'all buy his books y'all just as crazy cause I will never take advice from a fake negro like steve harvey


thepornspacenet
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hahahhahahah...stop trying to figure the ish out man...check out top black porn site here


JAY_DONT_EAT_DZ_HOEZ
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i disagree 100%..............im kool with alot of females i havent had sex with.....men can be kool with th eopposite sex with out tryin to fu*k.......and who is steve harvey again?


hrmcswagger
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steve tell it like it is Go and Check out www.BelieveNoHype.com


Naijaboy82
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i agree with him for the most part!! Not saying men and women cant be friends but lets be real>>most niggaz deep down when it comes down to it will fukk they female friends especially if they are attractive WHEN THEY GET A CHANCE!!!


JewelOfTheWild
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I dont agree with anything that scumbag Steve has to say. He should ask himself "Why he couldn't have been a better friend to Bernie Mac" Or a better friend to his ex-wife he tried to swindle out of paying child support. He sucks and that new show "The Steve Harvey Project" sucks even more, what the hell was the Centric network thinking. Hollywood blackballed his country azz from LA for a reason.


dcscott1

killahink
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hes Damn right,only women believe in that friendship shit,men have a different point


andrew-show
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i think it is an opinion you cant put all men in a box like that. its not fair. its not true. Soujaboy cousin is dating KATT STACKS watch his youtube vids at:www.youtube.com/drudafuture1... Very funny stuff.



uniqueSag
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BULLSH*T!!! When did this bumpkin become a relationship expert? I started reading his book "Think like a man, act like a woman." I could've written that ish! It was nothing in there that my father, brothers and uncles didn't teach me. As well as my "male friends." Of which I have several whom have been in my life for 10/15 yrs...and who have become friends with my husband as well as myself with their wives. I've realized mainly black men think this way. There have been plenty of discussions on this topic with my friends and I *male & female* It's defintely possible.


kaa
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I am still trying to figure out how he became a relationship expert. He openly admits to his personal life being a mess until age 45. His advice is all basic common sense stuff. You can't teach common sense to an adult.


ceeaser28
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honestly real talk most women I believe really believe some men are just their friends strikly platonic. Though men even if they dont mind a platonic type, would take it there if its presented. Most men want to take it there, which is the reason why most men are attracted to their women friends. Lets be serious fellas, every chic in your phone book, facebook, myspace etc you keep in contact with you are attracted to, and want to hit if given the chance. Women on the other hand, I believe don't have that many they would want to, but alot of times women get caught up in the moment (more emotional then men) and things happen, only because the man was looking for it and acted out on it at the right time.


LaReina
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Bullshit. I have a guy friend who is seriously one of my best friends. I can talk to him about pretty much anything and vice versa. I know he would never disrespect my marriage by trying anything. This Nigga shouldn't ne handing out any type of relationship advice.


Ransomed
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AS long as you are NOT attracted to them then there shouldn't be a problem in maintaining a FRIENDSHIP...sometimes Steve comes across as a slimeball. i guess Shirley Strawberry & Carla aren't his "friend" either since he doesn't have female friends.


JstBReal
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Steve is old school so its different nowadays. I hve plenty of females I'm cool with and we don't fukk.


Jon_E_Joe
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Don't know why dude think he's an expert, but I do agree. I got some female friends that I wouldn't cross that line with but they gay as hell!


imsickoftvnradio
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It makes me laugh how some black women need to rely on a man in a dress (tyler perry) and Steve harvey to tell they grown self something. Sad. Entertaining but sad.


Westchild
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In regards to certain types of men (such as himself), he does have a point. But who is to speak for half of the population? Anyone who says that they can do that is BS-ing. Not all men are so basic. There are men in this world who have a certain level of sophistication about them, who have moved on from the cave-man mentality, and clearly Steve is not one of them.


hoeboe
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Steve hit it on the head. Some of you women are so damn gullable to think this guy; your so called friend wouldn't let you blow his JOHNSON. I don't care if he's married a pastor whatever hes a man first. Calling Steve old school thats gotta be the dumbest damn comment, It's called wisdom and maybe talk should listen.


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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Steve Harvey, the newest host of the Family Fued, is excellent. He brings a flavor no other host, including Richard (the first host of the FF) brought, yet this is bullshat to the 100th power. I have male friends, and we are just that - FRIENDS! No sex (wouldn't even think about it) because they are in good, solid, relationships, and so am I. So, again, I call B.S. That is all.


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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hoeboe - the thing with people that like you is that they think everyone else is like them. No, my friend wouldn't let me blow his JOHNSON, nor would I want to. What kind of foolishness is that? Just because YOU think that way doesn't mean everyone else does (praise Jesus for that) Hey, hoeboe, I gotta secret for you. There are some men that know how to control their penises, and know how to control their impulses. Imagine that? Men that cheat are good at saying, "All men cheat," when in reality, all men do not cheat. Just because you lack morals, doesn't mean everyone else is like YOU.


VILLA
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I hate to say it but Steve Harvey is right!


Firestarter
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My best friend is a male. Matter of fact all of my friends are male. We have had many problems with trying to maintain the friendship and they all have come from people on the outside or the females that enter into a relationship with them. I think the reason my friendship have lasted with them is because we have been friends every since we came in contact with each other in elementary. These were the days of 4 and 5 year olds. That was 30+ years ago and we have still maintain this great friendship of respect and honesty. It can happen if you are committed from a early age.


hoeboe
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if you listen maybe you can learn something. from the beginning of time of Adam and Eve to now men has fallen to this. I never put myself in that position thats why my wife is my good friend because I've been that guy with many female friends and can admit if I could have come up with a way to not complicate my life by getting in their panties, myself as well as every man in this world would do it. Those who's willing to put themselves in that position, those who aren't willing don't have females as friends.



ILoveOldSkoolRB
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@Villa - in order for Steve to be right, he'd have to talk to every man on the planet that has female friends. He is NOT right. I have male friends that wouldn't even think about sleeping with me or any other woman than their spouses. People can have opinions all day long, but unless they can be backed up with facts (and since he isn't in the mind of every man), he can't prove his theory. Does that make sense to you? If what he said was true, I guess it would be fair to call men, "dogs."


LilAntDawg
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Steve Harvey did that ish foreal? Damn, ni99a just lost some respect from me.


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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hoeboe - Adam and Eve were mates. God created them to have perfect fellowship with each other until sin entered the world. When that happened, man's inhibitions have gone amuk. That's when lust and all kinds of sexual perversion entered, and that was not God's plan. I'll say it again, until you've tapped the minds of every man on the planet, the argument you and Steve are trying to make is fallacious. It can't be proven, period! You've been that guy because maybe your brain in located where it shouldn't be. Dogs follow their instincts. Human's are supposed to be more controlled.


BEYOTCHPLEEZE
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Steve sellin' books and talkin outta his azz! Steve sellin books. Who would take any kind of advice from him???


hoeboe
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Listen rather you want to blow his Johnson or not don't means he won't let you do it. I don't care if its your churh brother or whomever, he's a man and if i don't know nothing in life i know menbecause I'm one. I've been in those shoes in my younger days thats why I know. Every man is visuals not emotional and thats why we always get caught up with women. Trust me ladies what steve is saying is true and every real men will admit it.


uniqueSag
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ItAintMyFault I am female and ALL of my friends are male. It has been this way most of my life. If one of them approached me in a sexual manner, then that's the deal breaker. It has NEVER happened. Steve really does not have a clue. ...... I purposely scrolled down to your comment. I wanted to read your seasoned insight. *smiles* I agree!


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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hoeboe, all men are not alike. Generalizations make people very ignorant because they see the world through blinders - myopic, if you will. I'm a female, but I don't believe I can speak for every female on the planet. I know men are visual, so does that mean that every female he befriends, he's gotten have sex with them? Again, many people think because THEY do something or have a certain mindset, means everyone else thinks the same way. They don't. I don't care of you are a man or not! It's the character of a person that distinguishes the good and bad. We will agree to disagree, okay.


HizWife4Life
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@ UniqueSag I agree wholeheartedly because I am the same way and when I got married some of those "friends" scattered because that must been one of their "perks" of friendship... But I still got my three best friends and they're men and they are my children's godfathers and get a long good with my husband...


YuNg_MoNeY
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FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER!!!!!!!!!!!! @TY_FR3SH


McClean555
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He's absolutely, 100% correct!!


hoeboe
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frist what bible you reading, God gives us freedom of choice just as Adam and Eve. The Hebrew bible say the whole painful childbirth came from eve talking adam(man) into tasting that the fruit of his lorning which back than to now is known as the growing area of the body. Do more studying. It even said in the beginning The sons of God went into the daughters of men. What make you think it than changed now. I know life, my 9k sq ft home with a successful business beautiful wife and a real peace of mind show that. I don'tthink with my johnson anymore, i also don't put myself in that position because messing in that area can cause to lose everything. It's on you to listen or not. Yeah we agree to disagreeto be agreeable.


tiplite2004
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I keep saying Tyler perry and Steve Harvey are frauds..


DOLL11-ONE
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Steve is a lying piece of crap...Ive had the same male friends forever and ever.....Im friends with their significant other as well......that's when you're keeping it real and without any expectations.....


Firestarter
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I would also like to add that Steve H. is right that majority of the time these friendship are not true. You can't deny the truth just because it came from someone with major flaws. I have seen the situation Steve describe happen over and over again. My father, brothers, male cousins, etc. have shown that Steve concept is true. Even my best friends have talk to me about how they became friends with other women in their life in hopes of something might happen one day. In their words, "We just wait her out for the day that her emotions take over her thinking". In the case with my friends, well those friendships were solidified years ago at 4. There were no attraction then and no attraction now. In their words, "We all know to much about each other, the good and alot of bad". We don't cross the line that shouldn't be cross in a friendship. Everyone knows those lines. It's the lines that you wouldn't cross in a friendship with the same sex. We know each other well enough to know if we are lying or not. We all agree, if it comes a day when we can't tell if we are truthful are not; then it is time to walk away from the friendship.


DOPEoBOYoFRESH
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true as its gonna get



freekountri
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I THINK STEVE IS FULL OF SHIT! LIKE DR. PHIL....


SweetDelilah
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People are sraight dumb, Steve Harvey never claimed to be an epert. So stop making stuff up. The only thing he said was that he has males friend and trust me, men talk. Next men are simple and territorial. When they want something they go for it. Men can't be friends with a woman without having thoughts in the back of his mind. Let that woman present any opportunity and he will go for it. Plus all the men here saying that have not crossed that line, you have not crossed it because you know that woman wouldn't have it.


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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Hoeboe - I'm not saying that man doesn't lust, but when God created Adam and Eve, it was only after they disobeyed God and Satan entered the picture that sex became about lust and out of the perfect will of God. Apparently, YOU haven't studied or you'd know that. Sex was meant between one man and one woman (in marriage). The bible says that when a man lusts in his heart, he's already committed adultery, so while you are stating that you are married and you would allow your female friends to suck you off, you have already committed the act of adultery in your heart. Did you read that part?


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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"Men can't be friends with a woman without having thoughts in the back of his mind." ---------------------------------- Another fallacious argument. How can you, Steve, or anyone else prove this statement? Opinions are one thing, facts are another. Unless you, Steve, Hoeboe, etc. are in the minds of all men, you are erroneous in your judgement. You cannot prove your statement. The thing with people is they get fixed. They see reality from a limited perspective and never investigate whether what they believe is true. Those are the kinds of people that are not teachable.


ShutYoCoonAssUp
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@HizWife4Life stfu and quit sharing your biography, noboby g.a.f ya dumb b/tch!


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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cont. I know for a fact that what Steve or anyone else with that mindset things is wrong. Just because a man/woman are friends does not mean they are attracted to each other. Haven't you heard of a female friend being attracted to a freind she's known for years, yet he didn't feel the same way about her. Just because men are visual doesn't mean they would bone just any woman.


KDior
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this is not true. Steve may not be capable of having a female friend but it's just not true at all. I know first hand...I have had male friends, who were genuinely my friend and didnt want anything beyond platonic friendship. My husband has a friend that he has know for years, she is like a sister to him and she and I are also very close. Not True.


rastamermaid
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Don't care for the messenger,it's on point! We are first and foremost visual being,we like what's pleasing to our eyes. Law of attraction comes into play in all areas of life,that being said if your bestfriend is a woman and you're a man.She sad about a break up and it get hot and heavy and she comes on to you. It would take a real strong friend not to go there but the man in him will have to try. Real Talk


hoeboe
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Frist I never said I would let my female friends blow me while I'm married, read what I said. I've been in those shoes as a young man and I wont put myself on that position again. Lady i I'm sure I make more money in month than you probably will make in a lifetime on your current job. I life a very high lifestyle and my wife, 3 sons and myself enjoy everyday of it. I will never jeopardize that for 1 night of pleasure. First where did it say eve wasn't able to bare children before the sin came. It said she would bare a painful birth. adam and eve was made in his image, there was a world before them, there was other species. Trust Ive spoken to pastors, preacher around the worldso you trying to teach me on that is a waste of time. If you smart women know it all and feel that your male friends who you been knowing for years don't think about you in that way. Put a pic of you wearing a nice pair of panties on, and make it as if you misplaced it. Trustthat man will not care about you'll friendship or your husband he will see you in a different way and he will think about it. And I bet everything I own he will cross that line. Don't say thats inviting him this suppose to be your friend. Any women try it and if he don't within 1 or 2 months. If you really care about your friendships don't


Miracle05
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I know many guys and girls that are just friends and have no interest in each other whatsoever. True, men talk, and so do women, but there is a huge difference between what you talk about and what you actually do. I'm sure there are people who have thought about robbing a bank at their most destitute moment, but that does not mean that they will take that opportunity even if given the chance.


Miracle05
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Bottom line: Everyone is different. It all depends on the person. You cannot make such generalized statements because they do not represent the thinking of all males out there.


True_Beauty_Bklyn87
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Wow Steve has anybody ever said shut up to you yet? & Why when a man who supposedly knows it all about relationships don't have a solid relationship themselves? wow..Steve let me be the first to say: SHUT UP! lol..


millions2nette
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Steve's Ex's ever pop up in the media at any time. Well, as far as agreeing with him on that point about men and women not being able to be friends, I can understand and agree with that premise in most cases, although I know there might be some rare cases where that male female friendship might be possible, but then again, as he is insisting, whenever he can wiggle himself into that crack, he will. Then when that happens the friendship is over.


millions2nette
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Wow, I didn't know that about Stever H. I had no idea that he was beating, stealing and trying to have the abused woman committed. That is certaily news to me. I think he reformed himself from that now, and perhaps he gave the crazy woman some money, and money has a way of healing wounds. I notice that none of


lvlf
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HE'S RIGHT BUT THATS COMMON SENSE ANYBODY WID TRUE GAME BOTH MALE AND FEMALE KNOWS THAT! A MAN CAN BE FRIENDS WID A WOMAN BUT THAT WOMAN HE JUST CANT BE ATTRACTED TOO! I HAVE A FRIEND BUT SHES GAMED UP AND A HUSTLER AND I RESPECT HER HUSTLE BUT I WOULD NEVER BANG HER CUZ SHES NOT CUTE!THIS GUY IS A FUCKIN CONMAN HES JUST LIKE JESSE JACKSON AND AL SHARPTON ! STEVE HARVEY IS A FUCKIN JOKE!



Micky19
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Totally disagree, I'm an man and I have lots ofd female friends who I couldn't possibily sleep with in fact the idea is almost frightening. I have female friends I knew since middle school till now and I'm 25 never had any type of sexual relation with them and do not view them as such. Steve Harvey is right in the aspect of that pertaining to some men but to generalize all men like that is pretty ignorant shallow and close minded.


Micky19
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I mean what man does not think about sex? gay, straight or bi all men of all races, ethnicites and sexual orientation think about sex. But to sit here and say that all men just wanna get to know females outta sexual lust is ridicolous. And this is just a ploy to go out and sell his little books. I think females should take him up on his offer and ask their guy friends that question and watch the response. See what a total fraud Harvey is and why his book of bullshyt only appeals to the desperate.


silky1700
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Why is Steve wrong??? Ask ur so call male friend if he want some puzzy and see what he says. If he says no well he's a diamond in the ruff I tell u...But ask him and see what he says. Nucca gonna jump all over and into it fo sho...friend my azz.


CoffeeBaby
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I can't hear the video, however Steve does have a point. Of course, as others have already stated, each individuals experience is different. Speaking from my personal experience, men usually have a motive when attempting to befriend me, and I can smell it a mile away: A) Because they want sex; and/or B) They hope the relationship I'm in will fail for they can try to get with me. I can count over and over how many guys have approached me, I tell them I'm taken, and they say something like 'You can have friends can't you?' Which I could, but I'm not stupid; I know what the 411 is, buddy. You ain't fooling nobody.


Micky19
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@ceeaser28 "Women are more emotional than men" thats not even a true statement....if anything men are just as or more emtional than women. Men are quicker to fight another man (sometimes an woman) if the individual steps on their shoes, call them certain names etc. etc. just because men oppress their emotions more doesn't mean women are more emotional.


TUFFEY212
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I totally agree. You can be good friends but if given the opportunity your gonna run with it! point blank. twitter.com/tuffdesigns


PromiscuousGirL
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@Hoeboe Sweetie if you talked to Pastors around the world then you know that people from all walks of life can teach u a valuable lesson. I myself don’t agree with male/female friendships, especially if you are married.


PromiscuousGirL
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@Mickey19 My theory on that is that it is not always the man who befriends with the intent to hook up. Some women if they find the man to be attractive will befriend a man hoping that one day they will get a chance. They could be seduced by his great personality or success, hoping to one day they can benefit from it. I just think in male/female friendships there is usually attraction on one side sometimes both. People can act so naieve sometimes and they are only fooling themselves.


TheRose
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Gay men are just friends with women. So yes it can be done.


hateyoself01
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@MDNFLBCH That's realist comment in mto history!If I approach a woman I wanna hit!I don't give a sh.t about her personality or if she is good woman or if she can clean or cook.If I see a sexy bitch on the side of the road with a flat tire I'm gone help her because I wanna f.uck!If I see fat bitch ima keep going period!


thaonlylakergirl
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Men will pretend to be your friend. They think as time passes, they are breaking down or will catch u at a weak moment. Sorry but it almost never works!


ILoveOldSkoolRB
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hoeboe - I don't give a rat's azz about how much money you make or your lifestyle. So what if you make more money than I. And? Material wealth doesn't impress me in the least because it's temporal. That high and mighty lifestyle you live today can crash and burn tomorrow. Don't get it twisted. Anyway, we will agree to disagree. With all that "supposed" money you have, you're very narrow minded, prideful individual, so whatever. Have a nice life and good luck to you and your fam.


KDior
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@Travis That was brilliantly said...I agree! Anytime anyone thinks they can speak for everyone they are just very narrow minded, so much so that they truly believe that everyone else is just as narrow minded and its normal. Nope!


angelaheiressnyc
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LMAO!!! @ Mdlfngrb1tch & silky1700 ..DEAD!!


Tigerett901
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A man with more than 2 failed marriages should not be trying to give relationship advice....... and I don't want to her that "we learn from our mistakes" We as humans R still learning. Steve is a large lip, loud mouth wanna be leader... and anyone that buys his books or follow his advise is just as lost as he is...



Tigerett901
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Correction: A man with more than 2 failed marriages should not be trying to give relationship advice..... and I don't want to hear that "we learn from our mistakes" We as humans R still learning. Steve is a large lip, loud mouth wanna be leader... and anyone that buys his books or follow his advice is just as lost as he is...


BigBlack9
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Sorry to tell you but it's true more often than you want to think or that most men will admit. NOTICE: I didn't say all cases. The fact that most women think it's not is because the man won't make it obvious, then you would see it coming. As was stated, offer that friend some pu$$y and see him turn on you like a rabid pitbull. Funny how so many people sit on here getting all holy on a site that is about gossip, sex, and false idolatry. How's that hypocrisy taste armchair Christians?


hoeboe
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THIS IS WHY OUR PPL IS CAUGHT UP IN THE BS WE'RE IN NOW BECAUSE WE DON'T LISTEN. LADY YOU DON'T HAVE TO CARE ABOUT MY BUSINESS LIFE GOS ON. I'VE SEEN A COUPLE COMMENTS THATS CRAZY BUT REAL. THEY SAID THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR EYES THEY COME WITH ONLY ONE THING IN MIND. YOU'LL HAVE HEARD IT FROM SEVERAL AVENUES YET STILL YOU THINK THIS MAN CAN BE YOUR FRIEND AND NEVER ONE TIME THINK ABOUT HOW IT WOULD FEEL TO HAVE YOU JUST ONE TIME. IF YOU HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT YOU STUPID AS HELL. AND KEEP LIVING IN THAT TV WORLD. MEN WILL WAIT YEARS SOMETIMES BEFORE STRIKING, WE ARE PREDICTORS. THESE LYING BOYS COMING ON HERE NOT BEING HONEST SAYING THEY'VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT A FEMALE FRIEND IS FULL OF BS. THE ONLY WAY I DON'T SEE THAT MAN THINKING ABOUT YOU LIKE THAT, ONLY ID YOU ARE NOT HIS FRIEND AND THERE'S NO ATTRACTION. IF YOU WOMEN LOOKING GOOD, SMELLING GOOD KEEPING YOURSELF UP ALL AROUND, WHAT THE HELL IS HONEST BECAUSE HE YOUR FRIEND. THAT MAN ISN'T GOING TO SAY GIRL I LIKE YOU AZZ IN THOSE JEANS. HE'S WAITING FOR THAT RIGHT MOMENT. YOU LADIEBETTER STOP WALKING AROUND WITH YOUR EYES CLOSE. EVERY STATE HAD THAT LAW EVEN THOUGH THEY DON'T ENFORCE IT ANY LONGER. ( NO WOMEN IS ALLOWED TO BE IN A ROOM ALONE WITH A MEN OTHER THAN HER HUSBAND) LOOK IT UP. SH!T DON'T CHANGE IT ONLY GETS OLDER STEVE DIDN'T JUST START TALKING ABOUT THIS. TO HELL WITH STEVE BOOK, ANOTHER GREAT BOOK FOR MEN AND WOMEN. IN SEARCH OF GOOD PUZZY, DON SPEARS. PLZ GET FOR THOSE MEN WHO'S OK WITH THEIR WOMEN HAVING MEN FRIENDS, COME HOME AND THIS FOOL UP IN THE HOUSE CHILLING. FRIEND MY AZZ


crazyass
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Can't speak for 99.9% as he said but for me and my friends that is a correct statement UNLESS the woman is butt ugly and fat and we have no physical attraction whatsoever. Like it or not(and I could care less either way), that's how it is! Wait a minute though.....that only goes for us straight guys lol.


E_2_turnt_up
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Man fuck steve Harvey man bashing ass he cant speak for all men him or tyler perry gay ass fuck out of here lol


pc7171
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STEVE HARVEY CAN'T TELL ME A MOTHA FCKN THANG. WHO IS HE TO BE GIVN THIS OR ANY KIND OF ADVICE FOR THAT MATTER...PULEEZE! @ DAT0UCH, THEM HONKEE HOES CAN HAVE YOUR YOUR DIRTY BLACK AZZ... YOU CAN'T DO SHIT FOR US ANY DAMN WAY...NICCAH! I HOPE YOU FLY INTO A MOUNTAIN YOU BASTARD... HOWS THAT FOR SOME GOOD LUCK!


biteme0003
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I can't even be mad at him for that, because I know it's true. Even with my male "friends..."


swtj
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This could be true..but I have male friends that are happily married. I don't think this applies to every man out there.


CordDont3
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WOW THIS GUY HAS OFFICIALLY WENT CRAZY..THIS DUDE SOLD OUT A LONG TIME AGO, HES JUST HOLDING UP HIS END OF THE BARGAIN, BY PROMOTING THE SEPARATION OF OUR PEOPLE...IM A BLACK MAN,AND I HAVE A LOT OF VERY CLOSE FRIENDSHIPS WITH WOMEN, SOME WITH HUSBANDS,BOYFRIENDS, SINGLE ONES....QUIT PUTTING ALL GUYS OUT THERE LIKE WERE JUST AFTER ONE FREAKING THING... YOU DON'T EVEN MENTION ANYTHING ABOUT THE TRUE ASPECT OF FRIENDSHIP...BEING THERE FOR EACH OTHER WHEN THEY'RE DOWN AND OUT, SHARING A COMMON INTEREST OF LOVE FOR EACH OTHER, AND LOVE FOR GOD.....BUT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE A GOD-FEARING MAN..GET OUT HERE WITH THAT I OFFICIALLY LOST ALL RESPECT FOR THIS MAN...LADIES YOU ALREADY FAILED BUYING HIS BOOK OF FALSE INTERPRETATIONS, KEEP LISTENING TO THIS DUDE IF U WANT......ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN? THAT'S BLASPHEME TOWARDS THE LORD!!! STEVE HARVEY YOU SHOULD ACTUALLY SPEAK ON SOLUTIONS ON HOW TO BRING AN ALREADY STRUGGLING RACE BACK TOGETHER, INSTEAD OF TEARING US APART MORE


404706
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already knew that. he just validated it. BUT i do think there are some guys who strictly are just friends and want nothing more. i guess thats that .1% he was talking bout.


Lyrics
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HE IS SOOO FOCKIN RIGHT!!!


rastagal85
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i'm so tired of women believing steve harvey is the truth. some of the things he says is true, but not gospel. he just said, "...he's your friend only because you have made it absolutely clear that nothing else is happening except this frienship..." well shyt, women have the power in that relationship because if she says we will never be more than friends that's it. i have plenty of male friends & we are just that...FRIENDS! steve, stop taking these foolish womens' hard earned cash.


MzNan33
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n how much this joker makin' re-iteratin' the same dumb sh#t we already knew? must of spent all that kingz of comedy money or somethin'. And women can say the same thing 'bout given head, "it ain't that we don't give head, yo ass just ain't gettin'". Its not a man's world booboo, if anyone thinks he's the truth then jump out of ur car while switchin' lanes on the freeway, idiot. men that have been married more than once, aren't and shouldn't b given advice; his azz need to worry 'bout makin' 'em alimony and child support payments. he probably tryin' 2 clear his concious from his first disaster of a marriage, and con this second into believin' he's changed. Like NeNe said "That's a monkey in wig..."


C0C0Nel
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regardless of anything it takes two..i've been cool wit my dudes for a min N no lines have ever been crossed plus my mind has never gone to the gutter, we done had sleep overs n ish lol.. now as for yo man bein cool wit a slut bucket, thats a whole nother story!


Cbanks360
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He's not talking about from a square males perspective, but a black "hood" males perspective.



RUDE_BOY
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That's real talk. I have a friend with several female friends and every week it's something different....can you help me move this... can you pick my kids up..can you fix this. Hell with that either we sex'n or we ain't.


eltoroloco
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im a guy i dont agree where better read my comment or not i dont car enot trying to change ppl decission but anyone realize he didnt really answer the question and if he did he is implying he will cheat like come on a married man cant have a female friend thats bs what about ppl who are male and female and are bestfriend or grew up together its sad if u dont have a female friend u can conisder a sis itreally is temptation is something u do when u wanna fuck or attacted to a girl but damn to want to do it to eevry girl is something else i think this duke is mad is only girl he had is his wife


creamgirl1
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Not true, I have several friends that are like brothers and they would not want to sleep with me and I don't want to sleep with them. The thought of it sounds gross. We've slept in the same bed together and trust me a move was not made. I have some guy friends that would make a move but not all of them.


blacktiger3915
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HAHA!!! Women will believe anything!!! This is a LIE!!! Stop reading books and listening to talk shows about relationships!!!! Calm down and it will come naturally.


iamvonte
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Stop Snitchin wit yo non funny ass


iLuvMTO
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if the woman is attractive then i agree with him. but if the woman is not sexually attractive to the male then its possible for him to see her as nothing more than a friend even if she gave him the chance.


chelszx
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I disagree cause i have a guy bestfriend whom i love like a bestfriend. We tried the whole dating thing years back but then we realized tht we're just better off as friends. Steve harvey ol ugly non funny asx cn go kick rocks. Lol.


cowboyfan4lyfe
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He's right, but not 99 percent right. What he should have asked would the man want to sleep with you not date you.


DaTroof89
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STEVE... LAME... im so sick of sum n.iggaz forever puttin ALL US MEN IN "ONE BOX"... is it sum men that cheat, only befriend females to fuk etc. absolutely, but not ALL MEN... wut steve is basically sayin is that... 1. ALL MEN R DOGZ... 2. ALL MEN CHEAT... 3. ALL US MEN R SO WEAK MINDED & IMPULSIVE & DONT GIVE A FUK BOUT NOBODY AS LONG AS WE GET WUT WE WANT (SELFISH ETC.)... then we wonder why SUM females say the sh.it they say bout us, well hell cuz they got n.iggaz like STEVE (A MAN) tellin them we aint sh.it, basically... ONLY DESPERATE FEMALES & WEAK A.ZZ N.IGGAZ BELIEVE THIS SH.IT... AGAIN r there SUM men & women like that, YES, but NOT ALL...


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HardCore
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This niggga is the biggest fucc'n hypocrite the world has ever seen. If he was told that he would be forever silenced if he couldn't go 10 minutes without telling a lie,then that would be the end of his career. Relationship Expert, come on people! I bet it was majority white women who bought all those books (after Oprah's show) 'cause a black woman wouldn't admit to it.


frenchcreoleprince
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I don't care what you think of Steve Harvey, he is telling the truth in that video. IF YOU THINK THAT YOU'RE BEING CHEATED ON, DON'T STRESS OUT ABOUT IT. GET PROOF. CALL US AND WE'LL TELL YOU HOW TO GET THE PROOF YOU NEED. 1.877.248.1678


DJ_Satin
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A shame. Men and woman rob each other by taking real friendship out of the equation. We become opponents rather than partners. Brothas and Sistahs shouldn't stand for this, especially; we're already in trouble. Please evolve.


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ceeaser28
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hoeboe is right in what hes trying to explain, funny most knocks of his comments come from women. Women need to understand of course a man will just want a platonic relationship at first, or atleast make it seem that way. I know madd dudes that falsly act as a damn good friend, prob a better man then that of the women has, that hes tryin to get at. Believe me though he'll put you on the back burner, if your a tough one to break, let friends be friends for now, and chip away at you until you feel so trusting in them, that if something does happen it was ok that it did. Men have been doing this.



ceeaser28
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cont. for ages. They know its all about building a womens trust, and if something goes down not to make it seem dirty, or make her feel like a hoe. Look at a mans main female friends he speaks to often, and I guranntee hes not only attracted to them, he also knows those women he has a chance at beatin. Yeah he has women (even if attracted to him) that he knows will most likely never cross that line, and he has no problem keeping friends, but believe me her number is not being hitup on a daily or weekly like the main prospects. The solution (like for me) not get involved on a high level with a


ceeaser28
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cont... a women you feel so lustfull about. The whole not put yourself in that postion type saying. If your a man and think that you can spend time at a house of a female friend your very attractive to on a regular basis, and though you value each others relationship think something might not happen you've already dropped the ball. So you women who has a man, but talks (daily) goes out with, spend time with,facebook, myspace,twitter etc, and accept gifts from guy friends and thinks he dosent want to smash IF given the chance your blind, and need to hear what US MEN and saying to you please.


Capricorn29
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I am a female and I agree with him.


johnwallacejr
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Steve Harvey,my name john henry wallace,jr aka john jr age40/D.O.B 11/14/1970 a solid single heterosexual bald head black man out of tampa florida/metro pcs 8134030419..Review my facebook page name john henry wallace,jr ...steve you are correct it is very impossible for we men and women to be only friends which most women will disagree and just flaw excuses to justify..Sincerely john jr


EarthWindFire82
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Maybe HE has problems keeping the line drawn, but it is not impossible. Maturity and respect are key. Not everyone is sexually attracted to a friend of the opposite sex. My male friends and I are like family and I am engaged. As long as they respect me and mine and the same applies on my end.