LAWD AND WE THOUGHT YOUNG LADIES WITHOUT MONEY GO THROUGH SHYT WITH THEIR CHILDREN FATHERS....
@EBENE: YOU CAN PUT A FATHER NAME ON A BIRTH CERTIFICATE W/O THEM IN CERTAIN STATES.
IT IS JUST LIKE IF A WOMAN IS MARRY AND IS NOT W/HER HUSBAND; THE HUSBAND NAME GOES ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE UNTIL HE PROVES OTHERWISE.
O.k. not to say that what he did/is doing is right but what the heck did she think was going to happen? Now I'm really starting to believe that these celebrities have a very distorted view of the real world. Did she really think that after all she went through during her pregnancy that Eddie was going to run to her bedside crying and begging for her forgiveness with a bouquet of flowers and a pack of diapers in hand? And not to trivialize the incident (because if he is the father he was dead wrong) but MILLIONS of woman go through this everyday. Just get the damn DNA test prove he's your baby daddy, shut his trifling a.s.s. up and keep it moving. Lesson learned. Now for her sake I hope its Eddie's baby because if not she'd going to look like a crazy, lying chickenhead.
Rich black men have it easy they have the pick of the litter. They can be with you for minute then leave the next.
Eddie is a dog and ugly so please Mel B we know you wanted a family but Eddie was not a good catch. You still got your looks sister do your thing.
Eddie is mad because he feel like he was traped into this baby thing. I say sister pick your head up and figure out something for you and them children.....I pray its his baby....She seem very sure about all this wow!
Ebene in my state you just put down the name of the father...no special process or anything to get it on the birth certificate. I think Eddie is dead wrong just for the way he has handled this whole thing...he's a grown man acting like a little boy. And he was wrong to put her out there like that talking about he doesn't know whose baby that is until it comes out and has a blood test. He knows he slept with her, and probably didn't use a condomn with his ugly ass. I wonder what she saw in him in the first place...he seem a lil on the fruity side to me. All of his other children look alike even though they are in varying shades of light to dark, so I'm expecting some resemblance. With that said I've seen enough Maury to know looks don't really matter either *lol*
RarlTy....I am addicted to those Maury shows, yes its sad that we as black women go on there and make fools out of ourselves but sometimes its funny how these women go on the show with 5 and 6 different baby daddys saying "Maury I am 1000% sure that Wykeim is my baby daddy" Then Maury says "Wykeim you are NOT the baby daddy" Then the girl falls out in the middle of the stage showing everybody her to small thong....lol
Ok, she gets this DNA test done and Eddie is the father (like we all did not know that). The bottom line is Mel needs to move the hell on for her kids sake!!! She was a month invested in this relationship with Eddie before the pregnancy, Eddie clearly let her know he did not care about her and did not want to be a part of the pregnancy or the birth. What the hell does she expect? If she thinks parading her newborn on the cover of a magazine is going to hurt Eddie she is so sad and desperate. Get a grip Mel, please you are playing yourself out. Do what you have to do get that check if that's what you want and move on!!!!!!! Eddie does not want to be with you and by the looks of it he will be forced to pay support and as Mel said in another crazy ass interview he will not have anything to do with the child. I am just sick of her and her damn whining and crying over a dude that is probably a closet homo anyway, and that has made it clear from the start he does not want her.
sweetc, I clearly understand what you are saying, but Mel is hurt and Mel is angry that Eddie has not acknowledge this is his child. I do agree this woman needs to move on, she made this a public spectacle from the start NOT Eddie. She needs to focus on being a mom right now. DNA only proves that Eddie was a sperm donor it will not validate Mel's feelings of shame and embarrassment at trusting this dude. Eddie is f!cking with her head and fully knows he is father and will cut that check if need be. He is killing this women emotionally and again goes to show that when a man has you mentally he can make you act the damn fool. Mel does need to move on, but I understand she needs to validate this child to herself and she feels the world. Too Bad, SOOOOOO SAD!!!!
Ok, I don't want to sound cruel, but Mel has a 8 year old daughter that is watching this whole drama play out. Number one Mel was not with Eddie for more than a minute before she got pregnant, she started annoucing this pregnancy as soon as she took her damn EPT test!!!! That was her fault, this should have been between them not the world, especially since she has a 8 year old daughter!!!! Then she looked miserable and depressed through the whole pregnancy. Now I agree Eddie is wrong ONLY in the fact that he has not reached out to Mel, but her ass continues to make this a media circus. Her DAUGHTERS should be her number one priority not Eddie's ass!!! If he is the dad she will get financial support but we all know that is not what she wants. He hurt her by dismissing her, but this will be a very important lesson learned. She needs to stay out of the media becuase she is getting on my damn nerves!!!! I see why the hell Eddie does not want to deal with her she is CRAZY!!!!!
Sex is like playing Russian Roulettte.If you are f*cking then chances are you may get pregnant. If you don't take the necessary precautions not to get a sista knocked up or get knocked then hell it's a consequence and repercussion production. I just hope with all the rah rah surrounding this chick that she is correct in who fathered her child. Nothing is worst than a woman scorned..especially one that had youre baby! Whew..Eddie is in trouble! After all those kids he had with his first wife..he should have gotten snipped.
I gotta side with eddie for a moment. How does he know she wasn't sexin with another man prior to their date? Then she's gonna opened her legs without using protection? Pure stupidity! Just because you're dating a celebrity doesn't mean they don't have nasty sex habits & apparently she wasn't worried about getting pregnant. Or was it planned all along? If it turns out that he is the father I have no doubt that he will handle his business.
OMG, "cnotes" I did not even think about that!!!! Mel is really making me not like her. I do believe Eddie is father and I do believe he KNOWS he's the father. I just specualte he can't stand her ass at this point and wants nothing to do with her.
i feel bad for the child that she has to go through life knowing that her momma fucked around and got pregnant by a butt pirate....i dont respect no one that dont take care of their children and its 2007 shouldnt women know by now that getting pregnant dont keep no man
this chic iz just tryin to make a mil out of the 15 cents she got left from da spice girls. i personally dont trust da sistas from britain(over here in da states), i aint met a cool 1 yet! make a family? she already had a kid (8yr old). She dont want a family, she want a Phantom.
To quote Big Homie..."If my hand in the cookie jar know one thing, I'ma take the cookie not leave my ring!!" I think they should seriously do a Maury episode on PPV or something. I would probably pay to see that. They could do an hour-long special of just them 2. She could be out there before they bring him out like, "I AM 17 million percent sure he's the father. She got the same T-shirt he had as a baby!!". Then they show his previously recorded piece where he's leaning against a fence and then jumps out like "MEL!! YOU KNOW I AIN'T THIS BABY'S FATHER!! YOU A HOE AND YOU SLEPT WITH THE WHOLE CAST OF DREAMGIRLS!!! WHEN THIS TEST COME BACK SAYING I AIN'T THE FATHER, I WANT YOU AND THE BABY TO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!"
Fortuna or Fortune it means the same thing......CHING CHING!!!! Eddie is really being hardcore and he doesn't give a sh!t!!! He doesn't want Mel so there is nothing she can do to make his life miserable. You think he hasn't already talked to his kids about this and his for the moment girlfriend is standing by him. He has millions and it wasn't like he was cheating on his now ex-wife when this all went down. All he has to do is cut her a check, and then it will look like that's what she wanted from the whole beginning (the child's name is Fortuna , for god's sake) if it is decided it is his child. And NEWSFLASH Mel, if Eddie does decide he wants to see his kid, HE CAN, especially if he is giving financial support. Watch what you wish for Mel it might not be what you really want!!!
And the way Mel has been sweating him about this being his kid, if Eddie in the long run does want to be a part of this childs life, Mel can't stop him. I agree "justus", Mel really better stop and THINK and stop letting those hormones lead her into making more stupid choices. I would do everything privatley from now on, I would keep this sh!t out of the media and I would get my sh!t together pronto. Eddie has LOOOOOOOOOOOONG money and can make this even more heart wrenching for Mel. You can be hurt and want revenge but THINK SMART!!!!
What was HE suppose to do....she admitted HERSELF he hit it once.....now she wants to housekeep, and move in....just sit back collect your fat child support check (if he is the daddy) and find a part-time babbydaddy for her......get over it and yourself!
You played yourself like a tramp, how sit back and wait for your tramp check......
You can't keep someone from being a dad simply because they broke YOUR heart. Eddie has a reputation for being a very good father to his children with his wife, so Mels only defense will be he did not want to be bothered with her. And she has let this crap play out in the media. You notice Eddie has not said a word after his initial statement last summer.
Like I said before and I'm a say it again...
Fortuna- The name of the restaurant that they were in while parked in the back parking lot where Eddie hit that a**!
Daphne- The character on Scooby Doo. She came to Mel cause while hittin it in the back seat he was making Scooby Sounds
Bey- IN Olde English Bye B*tch Bye!
And so you have it Fortuna Daphne Bey!
Locktress are you sure you aren't Ricky Smiley sidekick! lOL you are so silly
AS for this article that is a damn shame Eddie didn't call after she gave birth. This is what i don't get about men who are quick to holla "it ain't mine", If you screwed her raw, THEN ITS A MAJOR POSSIBLITY YOU MORON! I would have had more respect for him if he would just stop acting like he still in high school and take a damn test, to get all this over with. And as for his current girl, I don't know what kind of respectable woman she is, because I would have reached out to Mel, no it doesn't have anything to do with her, but she is apart of Eddie's life now therefore she takes on all of his mess... and celebrities see why things get out of proportion, all of this could have been avoided if he would have simply just acted like a real man, a real grown up about the situation.
Also, Mel needs to grow up, and she is starting to make me think its about the money too with all these publicities, who parades a newborn around like that, I would not be broadcasting any of my pregnancy, but I will milk Eddie for all he is worth if he is the father and acting like he didn't fuck me raw, but I'll do it quietly, instead of out loud because if he isn't the father she is really going to look like a despearte golddigger trying to get a buck at all expenses. AT this moment in time, she should be in "fuk eddie mode" because her baby was just born and I would be spending all my time with my newborn, while my lawyers deal with this, she just got her priorities screwed up, and it will be damn shame if this end up like the Maury Provich show...
O.K. I do feel bad for Mel. I know black women go threw it all the time, but they do get emotional, whether rich or poor. It cant be fun to have a baby w/out the man at your side. Yeah she does need to get over it and take care of her children but it is easier said then done. And Eddie IS actually the one who 1st made it a public thing.
And to the person siding w/ Eddie you said she should have known to use protection...well he shouldve too. Im tired of men acting like pregnancy is the womens fault...well it takes 2 to tango.
AND NO ONE SAID IT BETTER THAN strongblackwoman
Why should anyone feel bad for Mel B? I'm pretty sure she is well off from her spice girl career. Ok...if it's Eddie's baby then prove it. Otherwise raise that child like every other black woman in America By your damn self!!! I feel bad for the single mothers who take care of their kids and can't get child support from their deadbeat baby daddy's. She'll live. OH since when was she relevant? What has she done since the spice girls?
@Ebene: It's according to what state you live in whether you can automatically list the father's name.
Heck, in some states, some judges are making men continue paying child support even after the DNA says its not his!!!!!
I read a story where one man had a DNA done and 3 of the 4 children he had with his own wife, weren't his; the judge made him continue paying child support! He's suing.
Y all the drama? Get the test done, prove to the man that he is or is not the baby's father and move on. I et sick and tired of this "I need to be validated" mentality. If he turns out to be the child's father get your support and take care of your child, if it proves that he is not the father, find out who is and take care of your child.