@sixwishes & vixenise – It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to “get” what you two are saying. No one thinks or claimed that anyone was bashing BW. Please find that in my comments.
@vixenise – Kudos to you for stating what I already stated when you “entertained” me. I “pressed” for an answer that I already provided… umm, it’s called leading… you know rhetorical questions often do that. Yet, I’m the imbecile? lol
When I made the point that Black men, despite their negative image, are still desirable for dating, what exactly did you understand that to mean??? Yes, there is a double standard. And it doesn’t just span across *** (the point I made) but also race (the OTHER point I made). And that’s why I call BS.
Most people just won’t admit or accept that BW, with or without the negative image assigned to them as a whole because of the few “hoodrats,” will still be undesirable to most men. Asians have positive stereotypes attributed to them, yet Asian men are the most undesirable group of men if you ask most women… even in comparison to BM despite BM’s negative stereotypes.
@unremarkable -- “Excuse me” is a polite way to get someone's attention or ask someone to repeat what they said if you didn’t hear or understand it. You, however, may assign a tone and personality with it; but don't place that on me just because you're used to saying it or hearing it being said with an attitude and ghetto demeanor. Says a lot about who and what you're used to being around, doesn't it?