(the reason why BW get praise for dating Wm because its rare)
Exactly my point ! THE REASON WHY IT'S RARE IS BECAUSE NON-BLACK MEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO BLACK WOMEN THAT MUCH !
The reason why you see soo many black men with lots of different races is because other races love the *** out of black men, but it's not the other way around, clearly ! Not a dis to black women, just a statistical fact.
(and doesn't seem like for show vs BM dating WW or non black women it just seem too suspect in my opinion)
Are you a black man ? How the hell do you know why we date non black women ? It's not for show I assure you. It's because black men have a thing for non black women and non black women have a thing for us.
(and some of yall wonder whats wrong with black men white/non black women interracial relationships...)
You still haven't told us what's wrong with it ?
First, I wanna congratulate you on your civility. Us rowdy Americans don't have such etiquette.
Now, let me be very clear. I AM NEVER TALKING ABOUT ALL BLACK WOMEN EVER ! I MAKE VERY SPECIFIC DISTINCTIONS OF WHO I'M TALKING ABOUT ! TO MAKE A BLANKET STATEMENT ABOUT A GROUP OF PEOPLE IS CLEAR IGNORANCE !
When I said "American black women" it means this is the catergory from which the women I have a problem with emanate. It doesn't mean all black women are bad, or the same, or that they all have chips on their shoulders.
It means the sistas that I'm talking about come from that group, but not all women in that group are the problem. But I will say that the issues that we are discussing here only affect black women that were born in this country. If you notice, you never see any black women from say London or West Africa get on the internet and talk *** and complain about how black men are dating non-black women and how much a sellout to the black race we are ???
See, these bytches (and yes, this is what I call these insecure heffas) have some mis-guided sense of racial loyalty that you only find in the Klu Klux Klan. They believe that we who date inter-racially are "traitors to the black race" and that we black men owe our allegiance to them in the form of dating and marrying them exclusively.
Now, since the dynamic is lopsided (meaning that all races of women love black men, yet primarily only black men date black women) Also, most black women are only attracted to black men, and their in lies the problem.
Black men have many options on who to date and marry, and black women have very few. Which is one of the reasons that black women don't get married as much as other races, and black women have a 73% percent out of wedlock bithrate. This "***" of available and marriable black men makes "some" black women very bitter and blame non-black women for this ***. They see people like Kim *** and other non black women with lots of wealthy black men while they have a hard time finding 1 decent one that wants them for more than a piece of @ss !
This *** of black men is not only compounded by IR dating, but also by incarceration rates, lack of educated black men, etc.
I am sad for black women for the above paragraph. And I think it would be beautiful if there wasn't such a rift between sistas and brothas. BUT THE SOLUTION TO THIS IS NOT TO DISPARAGE BLACK MEN FOR IR DATING !
The solution is a whole other paragraph, but I assure you these ignorant bytches ain't tryna hear it.......