: MediaTakeOut.com learned that actor LANCE GROSS has a new girlfriend . . . . celebrity stylist Rebecca Jefferson.
Cute girl and they look happy. We got flicks of the new couple going SKY DIVING together.
For the idiots calling eva light skin she is not light skin. Eva has a brown chestnut color, and with the right lighten and camra flash she can look light skin just like meagan good and ashanti. That girl can be doll up and look her best, but eva has a real exotic look to her which make her beauty more interesting.
She's okay. Tastysis, he has admitted to having a crush on Kelly Rowland and she may not be as dark as him but she's dark. I dont think just because he dates lighter girls that its always self hate. He hasnt said anything negative against darker women and at least she's black or at least half black. Im Meagan Good's complexion and Ive always been attracted to lighter skin men and occasionally much darker than me but rarely close to my color. Even with white people ive noticed blonds tend to be more attracted to dark hair and vice versa. Maybe its biological that people do like whats similar as in same race but also different from you. I dont want someone just like me, it would be like dating one of my siblings.
Sayitloud
I've never need him with a non-mixed woman in my life! Saying that he has a crush on a non mixed woman doesn't really add up to a hill of beans. I'm going with his actions! He dates girls with "good hair", light skin, green eyes and so forth! I know self haterd when I c it and Lance is def it!
Look people right now this young man is having fun in the dating world.Why is it that alot of men his color can date any race of women with different skin complextion but find it hard to find there skin complextion women out there..So all the same skin complextion people out there that dating one another look like siblings?I'm talking about skin not hair..Talking about kelly rowland and actually dating a kelly rowland is two different things...Let me guess girls like kelly rowland are hard to find in hollywood right...But other skin tones are easy to find.They don't see beauty in dark.
@Tastysis "you" bring up the subject of people being color struck, but what does this say about you? (food for thought)
A confident person would not worry about black-men or women who may or may not have issues skin-color.
In stereotypical fashion, you put Lance Gross in a box assuming that he maybe self-hating due to the women he dates. You did not factor in he may have a "connection" or things in common with the women he dates.
Preference and self-hating is two different things. You are assuming the worse this with every black man you see with light-skin sista. I don't deny self hating with black men and women, but I don't past judgement on every person I see either. (you really can't saying anything,if I don't know them)
You bringing up the question a person is color struck is just as counter-productive as a person who is color struck, beauty is beauty in all colors.
Maybe he does have self hatred. Maybe he was told growing up he was too dark. Women get the most hate for being dark, that I know but men get it too when they are as dark as Lance. He's gorgeous but to be honest I personally find him to be too dark for my taste. If black men can say it about black women then I can say it about them. I like dark skin but to a point. With human beings I find that anything extremely white and pale or anything extremely dark looks harsh to my eyes and I think thats how alot of people tend to look at it racial issues aside.
Spare me with that preference ***.Alot you dark skin black men are prejudice among yall own race but quick to say sistas are jealous of light skin girls..Half of yall don't find yall own *** skin attractive..Yall will date all shades of black but dark.If my regular *** can see and find beautiful dark skin men everyday but most celebs that have tones of females fans and groupies everywhere they go but none of them can have a connection with dark skin woman... I guess now I'm bitter and cannot fine a man for stating the obvious.Young Berg only said what most of yall think daily....
Alot of darkskim dudes are like that!!! My Childs father like that! When his kid was born he thought the baby was gonna be dark like him but was lightskin and stayed lightskin for a minute with light brown eyes! They do tend to NOT *** with the girls their skin complexion! He would keep the baby out in the heat talkin about I'm depriving the baby of it's natural color....because the baby wasn't dark like him...SMMFH! America is *** UP!!! I don't really care.....it's funny but not funny to see how hard up people be on it tho...
Aww shes cute. I think she looks better lol. And im a BLACK WOMAN. So you ignorant insecure little betches stfu with the *** mess. You seem sad and bitter. What grown asz man or woman types paragraphs in caps? Come on little girls do something with your lives. Get off the site if it bothers you that much. Im black and none of the comments bother me. They only bother you if you know its true. There's no point in arguing with the people on the internet because theyre the *** maddest ones. These people starting *** on the internet have nothing else to do. And lance gross is sexy. mmm!
I don't recall who addressed me regarding my self hate comment but this is my opinion and I actually don't spend my days or *** thinking about ds and ls women! I'm an adult with a fam and career of my own! This is a gossip site where we can share our opinions, ideas and thoughts! I'm quite comfortable, and have a ds man at home! Thank god he doesn't have the same hang ups as many ds men in America,,,but then again his parents r from Ghana and he wasn't raise like us!
@Sleeky
*** ASK YOURSELF, WHY ARE YOU A *** MINORITY? YOU ARE NOT EVEN REVERENT UNLESS YOU ARE BEING USED AS A TOOL BY THE MEDIA TO CAUSE DIVISION AMONG THE MAJORITY OF BLACK PEOPLE WHO SO HAPPEN TO BE DARKER SKIN MEN & WOMEN. YOU HOS ARE JUST THE MONKEY WRENCH THROWN THE MIDDLE. *** *** THE *** UP. WHAT I HAVE TO SAY WILL PUT AN END TO ALL THE *** YOU SAYING.
And light skin women are black to I'm 22 I not self absorbed or think I'm better than anyone but from pass experiences dark skin women have always been vendictive towards me and I never got why I a red bone that think blacker the berry sweeter the juice and I love dark akin women and think their beautiful but for some reason they always wanna act nasty towards me and bring my shade of black in it which is unnessesary but I always wonder y wheen I swear to my unborn seed I don't get it why
Ms_Lieutenant, if light skin black women arent real black women then why are you using one in your avatar? Looks like a painting of a lighter skin black woman to me. What if a light skin woman has obvious west african features, is she still not a real black woman? What if a dark woman has euro features, that means shes still "more black"?! You've got way too much anger and bitterness towards light skin women. Its not their fault they are light skin.
One reason it was a relief once I started dating white boys was to not have to listen to hate and anger based skin tone anymore. Kanga, I dont nessacarily see non blacks that like blacks tend to just like the very dark ones. In Cali I have seen white boys with every shade of black. The common theme is that they are usually thin. I have known very dark skin girls and dark skin boys that went after trying to date white people the hardest so that maybe why theres still more darker people In IR versus light people. Multiracial black women I have found are popular everywhere. Fact of life.
1ST OF ALL HONEY THERE IS NO BITTERNESS OR HATE OVER HERE. I KEEP IT ALL THE WAY, LOVE ME OR HATE ME I DO NOT CARE WHATSOEVER. MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN & WOMEN ARE DARKER SKIN, EVEN IN AFRICA. NEVER WILL YOU FIND A LIGHT SKIN PEOPLE WHO DOMINATE OVER DARKER SKIN UNLESS YOU BREED OUT THE DARK SKIN. SO WHY THE *** ARE THEY REPRESENTING BLACK WOMEN?? EVEN MIXED WOMEN ARE NOW REPRESENTING BLACK WOMEN BUT DID GOD CREATE THE MAJORITY OF BLACK WOMEN WITH LIGHT SKINNED OR MIXED LOOKING?? IF THE ANSWER IS NO? THEN YOU ARE APART OF THE PROBLEM.
I dont think the majority of black AMERICANS are dark skin at least not anymore. People say most are but very rarely do I see a black woman as dark as Bria Myles. Most of the black women I see are somewhere between Ciara and Kelly Rowlands color not too many much lighter and not too many much darker. And for some reason I see more dark skin black men than I do women. Dark skin is already starting to be breeded out. I dont think its the majority anymore. Africa may have more dark but also has all shades. Skin tone isnt always based on mixture either, sometimes its climate as well.
2ND THE WOMAN IN MY PHOTO IS NEITHER DARK OR LIGHT. WHO THE *** YOU DATE OR YOUR SKIN COLOR PERSONALLY DOESN'T MATTER TO ME. IT IS THIS NEW AGE FALSE WATERED DOWN IMAGE OF BLACK WOMEN I HAVE AN ISSUE WITH. BLACK MEN & WOMEN ARE THE OLDEST REPRESENT ION OF MODERN HUMANS & WE CAME INTO THIS WORLD WITHOUT NON-BLACK PEOPLE. AS FAR AS I'M CONCERNED, THEY *** EVEN MATTER TO US BUT THEY DO NOW SINCE THE *** MEDIA HAS SO MUCH INFLUENCE.
Lace Gross is a black tar baby, You *** [EXPLETIVE] with a ***^gger who looks like that and your kids will be real crispy ugly, You see he don't even f^uck with any dark skin woman
You *** are delusional to thing dark skin guys are checking for any dark skin woman. Keep dreaming you camatose ***, Just look at all the black men with white women they are all mostly dark skin men, You *** keep waiting on some dark skin guy to check for you and why would your dumb A$$ *** want a tar baby ***^gger to father your kids so your kids could come out looking like buckwheat Dues ***!!!!!!!
THOSE *** DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER. I DEAL & UNDERSTAND THE FACTS BOO BOO. I HAVE NO REASON TO BE BITTER BECAUSE THE FACTS SUPPORT ME WHILE THE MEDIA SUPPORT THESE OTHER HOES. IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU VALUE MORE AS A PERSON. *** I VALUE THE TRUTH & YOU VALUE THE MEDIA CONTROLLED BY FAST AGING WHITE PEOPLE.
Opinion, i totally agree with your comment right above kangas. Growing up many people assumed that i was a light skinned black girl so i received the dirty looks and comments from very dark women. My closest friend since childhood was very fair and has dealt with the same. We were known by the black students as stuck up and wannanbe white because of our color, hair and non urban style. Thank you for pointing out what we all know to be true.
The way I talk on this site most people will think I only date black men but is not true..Im not evening a out going or social type person but yet I have manage to give everybody a chance when it comes to dating..Meaning all types of skin tones.I have sense enough to know that my soul mate or the person God have out there for me most likely will not be within my preference..That dark butts alot of yall run away from,yall will end up coming back to it inorder to fill the void within most of yall low esteem,insecure and salf hateing hearts.Alot of yall are passing true love by..
Look any dark skin men out there that have dated all race of women with all types of complexion but for some reason there dark skin complexion is not in there than you have a problem..We are all black that come in all shades right.For some reason when a black woman state the obvious than preference come flying in..Spare me with that mess.In order to find dark skin attractive you have to be secure with yourself and most black men are not...The day they start working on this issue then maybe things will start changing.
@Sleeky
*** YOU ARE THE MINORITY BECAUSE YOU WERE NEVER MEANT TO REPRESENT NO ONE, THAT IS HOW IRREVERENT YOU ARE IN THIS *** WORLD ***. YOU ARE LIKE THE *** HALF BREEDS TRYING TO FIT WITHIN' SOMEONE'S RACE HO. YOU SEE I DON'T GIVE A *** HOW DESIRED YOU ARE. YOU STILL AIN'T *** IN MY EYES & I DON'T GIVE A *** WHAT YOU THINK ***. THAT'S COMMENT KEPT *** WHY YOU WRITING ESSAY ABOUT *** SOME *** I DON'T GIVE A *** ABOUT.
Malcolm x was also light skin and obviously proud to be black. To be honest most of the black people ive heard my entire life say dark is ugly or desperate to have mixed kids so they seek out white people are dark skin men AND women. Its not just the men even though thats what people think. Thats why I stand firm that white people can barely tell the difference in our color or care and the reason so many very dark people mate with them is more about dark people seeking them out than the other way around. Ive seen this all my life. I judge REAL BLACK by actions.
All black people that parents claim black are black.Even though america and other countries didn't give them the choice to pick what race they wanted.Like I said there is a huge difference among us either you choose to face it or move on.White do know the difference when it comes to us black people..Black people also know the difference when it come to all of us is facts sweetheart.Obama wouldn't be no where near that white house if his skin was as dark denzel washinton..Full blooded black are on this earth too people.They should have been given a choice period.Me saying it *** be a pro
Most dark skin women are secure with themselves.Thats why alot of them go after dark skin men..Women in general are more secure then men.Thats why you alot of beautiful women with weird looking guys..Our stander is not as high as men..Dark men will date different races with the same skin tone than their own.Example brazilian,dominican or hispanic..The once that are secure with their looks will date all including there own dark skin women...Look at how many dark to dark relationships in hollywood compare to light and light couples..
I'm done with this race stuff on this site..I will never comment on anything on hear that have to do with race anymore..Mto is noting going to get the best of me and anybody else for that matter..I know my heart and the kinda person I'm so this raciest website is not going to take me with them..My views come from the different race of people god have bless me to know in life..I have had many bi racial friends that feel there parents should have been given a choice in this country.Many do not have anything in common with the black race.
Most black people,bi racial and multi racial people views would probably be different if they had the choice to pick what race they wanted to claim and not just the black race......Self love is where it will start for alot of us before we start to see any changes within our race.....I apologize to those I have offended on this blog it will never happen again...I don't have hate in my heart for anybody on this earth..My views are just different from many that's all.......NO MORE LIGHT AND DARK TALK FROM ME OR BLACK AND WHITE TALK FROM ME ON HERE....IM DONE..I APOLOGIZE..
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