: We kinda sorta feel a little bad for Savannah. Obviously she's in TURMOIL while waiting for Bron Bron to marry her.
She been with dude for 12 years . . . and gave him 2 babies . . . and Bron STILL ain't trying to wife her.
Hard to what roll over and spread your legs...cook..clean..take care of him and his kids... girl you are his wife you just dont have the paper but title..bump a title...uncle sam say you dont need one...yall have been shacking like you married girl...girl you married...Now what God says is between you and Him.
Poor thing my ***! That stupid broad wanted to be another statistic...a low budget baby out of wedlock having chic. When chics have some standards and stop getting preggos before marriage or stop playing house before marriage, then men would be more inclined to marry them! She is sadly so typical! Better her than me! I can't settle for that okie doke!
that pic looks like she did it for a magazine i doubt shes roccin in everyday life and mto she *** retweeted it from 2 differ names dont mean she talkin bout her own *** life although after 12 they shoulda been married i mean hell they playin house and have kids so how you cant be ready after that idk but its on them
Savannah, it's been long enough. Tell him what you want and how you feel. If he truly loves you and respects you, he will admit you are right and marry you. If he doesn't love you enough to marry you after all this time, as hard as it may be, you are going to have to cut yourself loose from that relationship. All the best - Cleveland.
At least she don't have to worry about him cheating on her & she's well taken care of. Nobody told her to move in & play house, like all the fathers in the world say why by the milk if U can get the cow 4 free. So move out, get a career & maybe just maybe he'll see your ambition & find it 2 B sexy or wife material.
You damned if you do you damned if you don't. Bron-Bron knows what he's doing. I respect the fact that he.doesn't want to disrespect the sanctity of marriage. Besides, where is she going to go from king James? Dude maybe better looking but that money ain't going to be as long. She's been there 12 years what's a few more? She has two kids ain't that like 25% of his income? Think about it...
That girl look like she could care less if james do or don't put a ring on it.... Look on the bright sidepeople she's not a single mom struggling to take care of her kids.James might look 55 lol but the dude is still young and so is his boo....But I say she's happy with the title she have right now cause if she didn't than two kids wouldn't be in the picture.....
THIS is where BW fail!!! SMMFH!!! THIS RIGHT THE *** HERE!!!!!! THIS RIIIIIGHT HERE....is why you DON'T give these fools kidssssss!!!!!! I'm telling you NOPE!!! Then black dudes think ALL BW just be trying to get pregnant just to get a check...well most do but I can assure you NOT all!!!! AND this IS WHHHY right here!!! For procrastinating a hope he runs into a rat *** bytch that pokes a hole I'm the condom and gives him that HELL most of them are afraid of!!!!! *** REEEEE ***.....***!!! I wish them the best!!!! Don't give them no kids....
@LLOYD AGREED 100%
I think its messed up how a man can *** all these women and play on their vulnerabilites knowing every women dreams of her wedding day sinec she was a little girl. I do however, think *** needa getta grip on reality and send him a check because if it were me, and I had his 2 kids and no ring, he wud NOT waste another 12 YEARS of my life!! Kids or no kids. And he needs to grow the *** up. U put a ball thru a hoop for a living homie, u dont have the *** cure to cancer! One injury and ur a disabled vet, wheelchairing ur way to the bank. U betta humble yaself fast!
Poor Girl? POOR GIRL? BYTCH GETS NO SYMPATHY FROM ME! HER OR ANY BYTCH CLAIMIN THEY WANT A RING BUT WILL COMPROMISE BY TAKING HER BD'z MONEY! You cant have everything and money dont buy love AND fidelity. She woulda have been left if that was what she really wanted. Idc how long they been together. What happened to what happens when a womens fed up?
@definition you cant possibly be with someone for 12 years and have 2 of their kids and not love them. love is the biggest obscurity and is also the biggest excuse for why ppl get comfortable in their situations. what *** needa realize is that love aint got *** to do with it bc u can love someone from a distance. i understand ur frustation, but maybe a lil empathy, not sympathy, wud be appropriate. i really dont think it was all about money bc she has his kids, she can leave him and still get $$. she jus needa stop being weak cuz LeBron is all ova da place, jus like on the court.
Savannah is a beautiful woman inside *** out and she love Lebron to death and the fact that he has not married her yet says alot .... He got a good 1 and quick to *** it up cause he knows she ain't goin' nowhere ... The ballers with the scandalous b*tches b quick to wife them up !! I don't get it !! **shrugs***
Plus, if he married this girl his life would be hel.la boring and church like..... That would reallly suck and now u see why ballas wife up up video ho.es and models because THEY FUN and aint walkin around wit 2 kids and shi.tty attitue.. Gross.. Chiks need to get their priorities right... MARRIAGE than Kids, are we spouse to feel sorry for this girl cause shes stupid????
@selita, I agree with you. Marriage, THEN kids. Besides, instead of waiting for him to pop the question she should ask him instead. If he tells her know, why the frack is she staying? If he doe stay in spite of bein told no, then that's all on her. She made her decision, and she needs to stop waiting for a fairytale to come true, and grow up.
@Selita *** up, so called woman. There are black men walking around, fooling around, and not marrying women from other races--so I guess there are a lot of dumb women regardless of their race. Also, I want to share with you what a black, mandigo man said to me (he and I were good friends): " I will never walk around in the open with a white woman on my arms--I will only visit her for *** in the wee hours of the morning. I will flirt with a light skinned woman in the open and *** her, but I would never marry her, for I truly like the Afrocentric look of a dark skinned woman (cont. below).
A black woman being in a long relationship, popping out kids and no wedding any soon?! Say it ain't so! 70% of us will NEVER be married. We need to have more respect for ourselves and quit letting these boyfriends or decade old fiancees impregnate us. I couldn't count how many times I've heard black men saying they don't want to be with a woman with kids. Like black women are knocking each other up smh.
12 yrs ?!?! thats on her !! me , myself I woulda been gone . think ima wait around for ur worn out piece to get up after u done fcked around w/ lord knows who doin god knows what . its really this simple : u can *** , let succ any *** u please , just not on my time !! lebroad is a fool, but shes a bigger fool . u teach ur man how to treat u, hold ur ground and put ur foot down NEVER , E V E R lower ur standards. he can either respect it or check it . shes a different type of *** .
she better get with that i mean jus because u got somebody kids doesnt mean they bout to wife u no matter how many yrs its been cause to me a ring dont mean *** point blank i mean she with him so idk she trippin she got him she jus aint got the name she better jus get or sit her *** back in *** up that simple ma
That BABYMOTHER title is not a nice thing compared to the WIFE title. She's been by his side for years, before the NBA and had his children, that's more than enough reason as to why he should marry her but I bet his ego is bigger than his ***. You people up here talking about she should leave. Leave and go where and with what money? She got herself into a PROBLEM boo once she had those kids. Shaunie needs to be checking for her so she could be on BASKETBALL WIVES, that way she can get her own bread and save for a rainy day, cause let me tell you, the clouds are rollling in.
im a fan of lebron but i will say this dude probally just dont wanna commit he's young and hes paid, he has women throwing them selves at him and to make matters worst dude is gone for 6 months out of the year, marriage is a big step and lebron doesnt have a smart gene in his body , ive seen dude in his interviews he says the dumbest *** so maybe he aint ready but girl as much as these people hate yo man i bet its another baller out there willing to put a ring on it, just to get him upset so dont wait too much longer on to the next one if you got to sorry lebron had to keep it real *** dwade aint no different im waiting for him to wife gabby *** as long as d rose doesnt get hitched
She should quit waiting! I would have never got pregnant in the first *** place by a boyfriend. It doesn't take twelve years to figure out if you want to spend your life with someone. I can sort of understand a broke *** man not wanting marry because he can't properly care for a wife, but in that case, maybe you *** be seriously dating, and you *** sure don't need to be responsible for any children. LeBron is more than likely on some bullsh*t. Savannah should leave his behind if she's really unhappy with situation.
@maintainthesexy : u said leave and go where w/ what $$ ?? if I left my hubby right now for whateva reason I dont need his $$ to maintain my lifestyle. I dont kno what type of *** lay around for 12 yrs , dont bother to be educated to secure her and her childrens future. one thing I put in my sons head is no woman is gonna put up w/ ur *** cuz u look good and got $$ . key word : woman . if shes been savin for 12yrs she should be secure for a minute. shaunie had that much sense . yea she should hit her up !!
I dont think she's talking about that on some dam twitter...Ms Savannah stays away from the headlines ....do you honestly think she would come out with that
Savanah...if you read this ghetto azz site...dont not allow these knucklehead people sway you....***.... She reminds me of Lisa Ray with the new hair style----She looks so cute in that photo
Yall gotta understand is not his fault.Alot of black women just like to settle for anything..How many other race of women with black men are baby mommas...Hell look at kendra come on I can never blame the man on this one...From high school and up to now nothing..She is good enough to have his kids but not good enough to married but yet she is still there hopeing and praying things will change one day...The girl wanted that title...With that kinda status james have is a big slap to her face...But hey she like it...
LIBchick you are correct however it's NOT just WW with BM...look @ keV federline!!!! You do have a very valid point tho!!! Then some black dudes have the gull to call me WHITE and I'm black!!! Ok whatever you say bro....how bout save yo *** for yo baby mama!!!! She loves you!!! It's low tolerance for *** over here!!! So I tell them I'm glad your BM loves you...get out my face and stay in hers then....
Why do some women feel just b/c a woman pushes out kids for a man she's entitled to be his wife? Savannah knew what she was doing when she got pregnant the 1st time the very year he was drafted. Instead of going to college and starting her own life, she hitched on to his wagon early so she wouldn't be left behind. With him from the beginning? She was living with her parents before she moved in with him & he was living with his mom so what struggle has she been there for? She's reaping the benefits of his hard work, nothing else-she aint entitled to nothing but some child support at this point.
Excuse me!!! For those saying women should invest in birth control...ok that is true BUT I think condoms are a MUST!!! I feel as tho birth control is just another way for a guy to want to have unprotected ***! #NO BC changes your body! Irregular periods, blood clots etc all so they can just slip *** slide!!! Lol!!! SMH! Ok I'm done...this topic is sensitive!!! Condoms are JUST as effective as birth control...condoms are BC too!!!
Another stupid betch. Has kids and literally WAITS for him to marry her. I have no respect for girls like that. Learn how to grow a back bone and move df on. Where's the girl power? lol why get married to get divorced? She's so naive. She'll end up divorced then she'll be saying "it's hard to get this child support from lebron" come on girl not another one lol. She's actually lucky if she thinks about it. But Lebron is straight up ugly she can do better.
Most of you *** on here are baby mothers yourselves and are single mothers and for y'all to talk bad about savannah is beyond me,atleast lebron can afford to take care his and and atleast he takes care of his kids and savannah... What about y'all baby daddy's??????*crickets* I'll wait that's and 9 times out of 10 lebron is going to marry her and y'all are hating. @leoshae89:*** STFU with that ghetto *** name,we all know you are on welfare with several different kids by 3 diff baby daddy's. Your mom is a hoodrat got naming you leoshane,what kind of name is leoshae?
Excuse me again!!! How many of Y'ALL fathers did *** for you and YOUR mothers????? I'll wait....I'm quite sure alot of "baby mamas" posting have it better than alot of your folks did! Now I like savannah and I think she a good woman! All I'm saying is in my book we NOT playing husband and wife....and we NOT! #Simple
Sounds like these chics need to have a sit down with Trina for some one on one talk about how to get a baller to fall in love, cake you out, yet still refuse to have his babies...First of all women have to accept that they may not EVER get married, so get to know who you are instead of trying to find yourself through some man....Trust me, I'm being stalked by a chic who just don't get it about her baby's father. Thing is she had a baby by this man, I refuse to have his baby cause him being here won't make or break me...Everytime I see him and Savannah she looks insecure..LaLa has the ring and she and Carmelo still look uncomfortable together...You can't get married when there is no love there no matter how many children you have together.
Dont sweat it girl It's not yu he has a fear of RINGS lmao shid lebron say YU aint gettina ring until I get a ring.! Ah ha smh he know he triflin yu gon be with this woman 12 years & got 2 kids by her but yu wont marry her yet. Um is this a sign that yur still runnin round out there dont waan turn simple "cheating" into "adultery" huh.? Lol nah jp but yea guess he just not ready idk
Well MTO, seems like all you do is want to get up in people's personal lives. I don't think the lady is going anywhere and what's it to you if he wifes her or not? That is a decision they both have to make and any amount of time that she spends with him isn't gonna change that. It's obvious that LeBron loves her, or he wouldn't have had two kids with her. Pleast MTO, the last thing they or anyone else needs is for you to be in their B/I. So just chill and fall back and let's see you handle your own relationship issues.
Savannah should have stopped at kid #1 of his and realized he wasnt in no hurry to make her his wife. She seems like a good woman, and im sure he loves her. If he really does do his thing when he's on the road, I respect him for not sullying the sacrament of marriage. He knows shes not going anywhere. She needs to get herself a degree and let him write the check.
And I agree, if women would wait before churning out kids and being so quick to play house, men would actually have to work toward that privledge & would want/respect marriage more. You CAN hold your man down w/o being a doormat! If you dont respect yourself, why should anyone else? I dont feel bad for her.
@websted from a man point im sure Mandingo was tellin you that at the same time he was wondern how good use your mouth if you know what im sayn!!!! Cornball *** *** just tryn to treat you like he say he treat all the other types of women, and you thought he was different & deep huh!!!!!!!!! LMMAO!!!!! Yall gonna learn!!!!!
Savannah, Don't listen to this women tryin to give you advice on what you should do when they are either single, with kids and broke. You living good, your kids see you and the daddy living in the same house everyday. Don't force the issue now. You are in a different situation than what these women THINK they know. How many women can actually say that they are still with their high school sweetheart. Some of the women giving advice probably have 2 or more baby daddies. Don't listen to people who don't know you or the situation you are in. LeBron went from HS to Millionaire. No way in hell was he ready to get married then. And now he isn't ready now. As long as he loves and respects you and keeps the his business tight. Play your role correctly. If you don't then another chick will swoop in an EAGERLY PLAY THAT ROLE OR ANY ROLE HE WANTS. He will probably come around in another 5 or 8 years. But at least your children will have both parents in the same house.
The sad part is if she leaves him, he will UNDENIABLY start being a ho for a little while, then MARRY some white or Hispanic chick. Before you go ballistic, nothings wrong with bi-racial dating, I'm just pointing out how sad it will be because Vannah has loved and been devoted to him 12 years. It would be a slap in the face but that's what he'd do. We all know Bron Bron doesn't learn life's lessons very easily.
OH WEEL HER BAD FOR HAVING BABY NUMBER 2!!! I WOULD HAVE LEFT HIS ***!! IF HE LIKED IT THEN HE SHOULDA PUT AH RING ON IT!!! AND AS FAR AS LEBRON GO, HE SMART, HELL I WOULDNT MARRY NOBODY EITHER, ALL A MARRIAGE IS A CONTRACTED COMMITMENT SMH GETTING MARRIED IS TRENDING NOW AND SO IS DIVORCE, I WOULDNT MARRY NOBODY IF I WAS RICH, WHEN THE DIVORCE COMES THEN THEY ARE ENTITLED TO EVERYTHING.....I CANT HAVE THAT!!! KEEP IT CORDIAL!!! IF SHE MAD, THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED CHILDSUPPORT, OR BETTER YET ON TO THE NEXXT SAVANNAH!!
If they have been dating that long and he ain't married her, then girl move around. A man marries a woman when he wants to and obviously he don't want to. There is always someone else willing to marry you and you can get that child support no doubt. He should be trying to marry her instead of constantly knocking her up. If you don't have a degree, go get one courtesy of him and his money, then when ya'll done, you can still survive. Money ain't everything and I would not stay with someone long term who is not gonna marry me, money or not. Where is God in all of this mess that they doing?
ppatton
listen..silly little person, the kids are ***... The point is Lebron should be a man, a real man... an step up to the plate and marry the mother of his children...so they wouldn't grow up with the stigma of being ***. Kids are cruel and I can guarantee they're going to hear it in school. But I suppose you don't care having a few *** kids yourself, with all that education you have, apparently, you still got knocked up by some loser that left you high and dry the first chance he got... not such a smart move. Anywho...enjoy your miserable life as a single unwed mother.... Ms. Master's Degree.
FYI: I'm living dam good sweetheart, how about you? does that degree keep you warm at ***? just saying
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Lying azz MTO at work again. BTW I can never understand is why these outside sources are all up in arms about if and when Lebron should marry, and where is the written rule that every couple HAS to get married. I wonder if same dictators are as worried about their own lives or that of immediate family members as well? Im not knocking marriage by no means, but they're grown let them decide!
Why should she leave him? Cuz he won't marry her? That is gots to be the dumbest thing I have heard in my life. Why don't you cut off your nose to spite your face as well. Look LeBron and Savannah have been dating since high school. How many of you women are dating someone from your high school? How many men have you slept with since H.S.? Look don't feel bad for her. She is living the life she would NEVER have if she didn't get pregnant by LeBron. People make mistakes all the time. from the uneducated to the educated,from the welfare single mother of 5 to the educated mother of 1 or 2. Women need to make better decisions when it comes to the affairs of the heart. And stop blaming the man you chose to lay down with all of your problems, some of the fault is yours too. Example you go to a car dealership and buy a car with out doing your homework or not knowing the warning signs and you get upset with the dealership or car? You choose to buy that trap and pay high interest on it, nobody forced you. Was it dealership at fault,,, yeah a little but the majority of the blame goes to the buyer. Women need to heed this warning "Buyer beware" this statement will help you in life. Before you sign for something or make life altering decisions,,,ask yourself do I REALLY NEED THIS/HIM? IS THIS/HE THE ONE FOR ME? IS IT OR HE RELIABLE/TRUSTWORTHY? If you hesitate then, there is probably a good reason, just slow down, pull back and don't fall for the okey doke or the sales pitch just breathe and say I can't and I won't.
I guess everyone forgot that LA LA waited 10 years to get married. STFU!
He has been playing in the NBA 8 years and still can't even win a ring when he became the big 3. They just got engaged a few months ago. He may well do it know because from what I hear there will not be any basketball this season.
THINK ABOUT THIS LABRON MAYBE IF YOU GET MARRIED TO THE MOTHER OF THOSE TWO BOYS MAYBE GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH A RING. MAYBE YOU WAITING UNTIL *** CAN MARRY OR WAITING UNTIL YOU ACTUALLY WIN A CHAMPIONSHIP RING OR MAYBE YOU WILL NEVER DO EITHER. THESE TWO MEET IN HIGH SCHOOL.
July 12, 2010. A little birdie just CONFIRMED to MediaTakeOut.com that in between IMPREGNATING his babys mom Savannah, LeBron had a "fling" with Beyonce's cousin Angie Beyonce.
Angie is Beyonce's cousin and her former personal assistant. The two were BEST FRIENDS up until a few years ago when they had a falling out over some silly ish.
And our insider had an OPINION as to why they believe LeBron and Angie were dating. According to the insider, "LeBron is a real d*ckrider. I truly believe that he only dated her so that he could get inside the inner circle of Beyonce and Jay Z."
August 30, 2010. MediaTakeOut.com has been hearing a CHORUS OF CRITICISM from women claiming that Savannah was being used by her babys father, NBA *** LeBron James. But now, MediaTakeOut.com EXCLUSIVELY learned that Savannah's a lot shrewder businesswoman than many gave her credit for.
According to a VERY RELIABLE NBA insider, LeBron negotiated a $25 MILLION DEAL with Savannah. And under the terms of the reported deal, Savannah would receive the money "in case their relationship ends."
The insider explain, "It's actually a paternity/confidentiality agreement, many NBA players have it with their child's mothers. But LeBron's is a lot more detailed and Savannah gets a lot more than most."
The deal, the snitch tells MediaTakeOut.com, guarantees Savannah a lump sum of $25 MILLION if she and LeBron separate. In exchange, Savannah is NOT ALLOWED to talk about LeBron to the public.
DANG GIRL!!! We ain't know you were THAT KINDA Businesslady . . . we got new respect of rthe chick now!!!
september 22, 2010. It appears that CONGRATULATIONS are in order - LeBron James and Savannah are ENGAGED!!!
MedaTakeOut.com learned that NBA MEGA-*** LeBron James and his babys mother Savannah got engaged LAST ***.How do we know this, well Savnnah sent out a text message to her closest GIRLFRIENDS last ***. And one MTO reader happened to be there when it arrived.
The insider told MediaTakeOut.com, "It said 'I'm going to by Mrs James. He proposed.'"
*** and to the point, we like that in a man. Savannah's a very LUCKY GAL to have gotten the ring. But Bron is EVEN LUCKIER to have a woman like Savannah to hold him down all these years.
Congrats and BEST OF LUCK to them both!!!
As if marriage is going to solve anything. Over 75% end in divorce. I have 2 diff friends that lived with their sig other. Friends & family pressured them to get married and they were divorced within a year and no longer speak to each other, both couples. Problem with most folks is they think what works for one works for everybody. She has nothing to worry about. It's more important to come to the 1 u luv than to be just married. Guy standing up taking care of his kids. 2 of my ex's got married within a yr of us breaking up 20 yrs ago. Both totally unhappy want me back. They're married though
HAHAHAHAAAA @ TheTruth!!!! I have male friends that be living off their baby mamas...I'm like I'm soooo glad that's HER and NOT me!!! You know lots have *** to say when you single, I don't know why when you dont have kut kards about it!!! I DO NOT want nobody living off me then got the nerve to still be cheating AND eating other bytches pu$$y like no *** tomorrow then coming home to me!! I'm SELFISH!!! I want it ALL!!! If the boy is mine he is MIIIIINE!!!!!!!! Have a great one folks!!! LMMFAOOOOO!!!!!!! ;-)
Greg_44...that's not true because a child can be legitimated without marriage...before I started tutoring and doing my singing I filed legitimation papers for men who were not married to women they have children by. You can google that to see that I'm telling you the truth. But besides that you called them ***...and to call kids *** is ridiculous...
Some women will do ANYTHING and wait an ETERNITY for that financial stability from these ballers. I can see one baby, but if he hasn't wifed you by now, wtf are you doing giving him a SECOND baby? I wouldn't wife her dumb a$$ either. Ninjas always putting out wifey expectations from their girlfriends, but don't want to give her the wifey title. What's worse is these women are doing all these wifey duties, playing house, suck'*** his willy wonker, and ish without a wifey title, then want to raise hell when he won't wife them. FUGDE DAT ISH! OPTIONS vs PRIORITY. She is clearly not his priority.
If u can get the milk for free why buy the cow .. Tiger should have did the same thing before he married that blonde head blue eye gold digging devil. He worked for that money *** had to give that wack broke nanny half sometimes I don't Blame wealthy men for not marrying now days marriage is treated like contract away if u love someone u love them married or not relax mto lebron is a fine blk man who takes cares his kids his chick look still around she must be happy married or not off his top
We have alot of black women out there in situations like this compare to other race of women period..Now look I had a man that was living a lie but yet wanted to marry me..Alot of people out there should really start believing in god..I was 22 at the time and always felt something wasn't right about him..He always sweet talk me into not wearing a condom whenever his *** tired to go in,at that time I was still a virgin.Like I said God is good because for some reason his *** could never get all the way in me no matter how many times he tired to take it...
His grandmother loved me so much that she told me he was already married with kids..Like I said I was young ,he still sweet talk me into believing he wasn't married they only had kids..Now I no her situation is different from mine but look his plan of traping me with kids never work..I always prayed that God help me see the light in every relationship I'm in...Think God I got out of that mess with no kids involve..He was trying to trap my young *** real hard at that time......Maybe God is giving her alot signs that she is missing or not trusting..Stop second guessing your gut feelings sevanna..
It's easy for ppl to say leave when she been w this man since she was a child and they have 2 kids. I think those kids having daddy home is more important than a piece of paper. True, they should marry. It is the right thing for him to do to secure his childrens future and hers, if he died the govt would tax his estate and take a lot of $ but if they were married it would pass to her untaxed. Also it is the right thing to do in God's eyes. BUT on the other hand those kids need their daddy & mom together!
??? Why should he marry her? He got the cow and the milk. Not calling her a golddigger but if he wasn't. Labron James would she have put up with this ***. She laid down had these kids now wants to get married. Stupid *** chicks!!!!! Women its not the men its us stop having all these *** kids then think someone gonna marry your ***.
12 Years together and all you welfare two or more baby daddy having skanks are telling this young lady to leave o_0. today's time marriages ain't nothing but contracts to fall apart once you do it. They kids seeing they mother and father together is much more important then a fantasy wedding with a bunch of hating *** wishing it was them hoping for the worst. Puppy love to grown adult love and still going strong is beautiful.
@Kanga
Evidently, the Mandigo's comment touched you in some kind of way, for you addressed something that a man shared with me. Are there some men out there who think this way, yes? To be honest, I think he meant what he said, for he actually flirted with a few light skinned women, but always introduced a dark skinned woman as his girlfriend--actually he is married to a dark skinned woman and he has two boys with this woman. The point I was striving to make with Selita is that there are some brothas out there who behave and think this way--I guess this is there sense of black pride.
Typo: There should be their. @Whitegirls Your comment revealed something about you: The Mandigo's comment made you feel uncertain of yourself, or you did not like the fact that a black man (in his own weird way) wished to love, build, and live forever with a Afro-American woman. There are some men in the hood who think this way. This is their way of not being brainwashed by the establishment--the man made the comment not me. Oh yeah, this guy respected me, for he tried me back in high school and did not get anywhere; he was at an extreme low point in his life when he shared this with me.
savannah YOU screwed up. THIS was YOUR decision. What were you doing hanging around 12 years? go to college, got a degree so when *** happens, youve got money on the side. 12 *** years of your life wasted. plus two kids. WHAT ARE YOU GNA DO IF HE DECIDES TO DUMP YOUR ***?! lebron is a selfish ***. he likes the comfort someones looking after his kids, taking care of him and his emotional needs while running around with hoes. *** NO WAY IN HELL WILL I WASTE TIME HANGING AROUND THIS LONG.
Marriage these days is just a contract he loves her *** takes care of his kids *** they are *** a home that's all that matters it will happen she been there for 12 yrs WTF is the problem now .. Lebron is a good father *** involved *** his children lives a wedding won't change that . U see what happened to tiger with that blue eye blonde head devil stupid *** ***
@Thetruth052489, @thetruth052489 It's funny how you clown black men. Putting us down, saying negative stuff. But I think it's the bitter women who made bad choices in men that are the most outspoken. Too bad you couldn't be that outspoken in your own life. I love black women and I have a black woman in my life. But some black women tend to think "How dare he cheat on me or how dare he leave me or her,,,etc,,, The truth be told All men of all races cheat on their women. A black man cheat on his wife or sleeps outside of his race, He's a sellout, weak minded. But a white man does it. You never hear that from his significant other. It seems that some of y'all will be bitter and lonely all of your lives and the only have one person to blame and when you look in the mirror you can see her face.
*** I'm starting to think media *** losers have to pin something on black men they hate to see a successful blk man doing good a mess need to make some *** up on them talking bout never want to marry *** make babies. WTF ok *** spanish men they are worst *** dumb *** white men are usually perverts *** good after lil boys *** girls *** wait all of them are cocaine addicted weirdos so talk about that.( Charlie sheen )
@WEBSTEDD THE WW ARE STILL HIS BOOTY CALL WHILE HE IS MARRIED TO A BW!!MARTIN LUTHER KING STYLE!!!read between the lines!AND YOU FEEL HONORED CAUSE HE DOESN'T MARRY WW BUT ONLY CHEATS ON HIS BW REGULARLY WITH LIGHTSKINNED CHICKS. THAT'S HOW IT SOUNDS!! HIS/YOUR WORDS SOUNDS WEAK AND INVALIDE!COMFORT LIES???ALSO HIS CHRONOLOGY WAS: IMPREGNANT, PROVIDE, MARRIAGE (IF HE'S STILL AROUND I GUESS). MINE WOULD BE 1)MARRIAGE !!!!2)IMPREGNANT AND PROVIDE!AND YOU DIDN'T REALLY ANSWER KANGA'S QUESTION! HE DIDN'T ONLY DATE BW AND HE SURE STILL ISN'T!
@HOLLYWOOD10, you're absolutely correct ... Children are gifts from God not man-traps. If he doesn't care/love enough to marry you BEFORE having children, why should you care/love/settle/try-2-trap him by poppin out child/ren ... then your feelings are hurt 'cause he won't wife you. You got the child but you can't get the man to wife you after so many YEARS INVESTED? Shame - Then he meets someone else & wife her 1year/no kids later. WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US. As long as women continue to be THAT TREE ... men will continue to use it/them for that place to pee ... i'm just saying.
Marriage is not just a piece of paper...Read ya Bible. And if it's a contract then good, because you are supposed to uphold a contract, and if you don't, then you pay monetary damages. We blacks should be so smart, and then, so many of us wouldn't be broke single parents by chose. Is there something wrong with saying "get married" because the last time I checked, you can't pay the energy bill with love. Shacking up is just an excuse to not commit, and save money, because you can leave when you want to. Spare me the delusions please, get married and do it the right way.
The women on here who are saying that it's ok to not be married, you ain't got to lie to us, because we are just some people behind a computer screen. At least some of the men are telling the truth about it, because they know that he doesn't want to make the commitment, because he scared that he gonna mess up and loose that money. Better to have been married and divorced then to never have been married at all. Men would rather marry a 40 year old divorced woman with kids than a 40 year old woman with kids that was never married, because at least then they know that someone wanted her.
@Swiss_Honey_Bee
Stop crying over spoil milk and move on. If the man is sleeping with white woman, then that's what he is doing--he is not my man. Yet, I want to say this: There are white men who are married to white woman and sleeping with black women, so what do you have to say about that? I can careless who these men are sleeping with; I do know that I am not sleeping with them. Stop being hurt that a black say this, for I refuse to be hurt about what Mr. Charlie says. If this is how these people feel, then oh well, for I don't have to drink their spoil milk.
EXACTLY what I was thinking @ thetruth! Lmmfao!!! He sound like a cold *** tho! So quick to throw the bitter kard on a BW like YOU haven't been or your mother! Bytch your favorite rapper(s) diss their own black a$$ as well as yo *** a$$!!! BM hate harder on black females that get dyme WB's! Not the *** celebrity bytches be with....
I'm addressing different post! If a BW is unfaithful to her man or husband with a WB....god forbid he look good! Chances are she is gonna get Nicole brown simpsoned!!!! Quik too!!! Men CHEAT...lol women are UNFAITHFUL! Y'all seen the movie!!!! It's gonna be B>LOOD if that happen so please lets blow with the madness!!!
Matter fact!!! Depending on who you wit it's gonna go one way or the other! You get Nicole Simpsoned or ya man is gonna break how ol girl husband did in "UnfIthful" he put that dude head to bed!!!! So I think we need to stop the *** and just kut it out!!! But if you got some anger to let out...get it off on MTO...trust me!!! Oh and Lebron do look like he sleep with WW on her until one day she get fly and go out with a mark walberg or Paul walker on his a$$! Not trying to start #JustSayin
@TheTruth052489
LOL No sweetie! I'm not playing with my woman. I have too much respect for her and myself. But if you say no one is checking for us Negroes. Then why are are black men always on everyone's topic? Good or Bad, it's always what we are doing or not doing? It's a shame that just because some celebs or athletes do things that disgrace themselves tend to lump the black men into a negative light. But again the real men like myself we march forward not backwards. For every Kobe or Barkley there's a Grant Hill. For every Jamie Foxx, theres a Chris Rock, Spike Lee or Flex Alexander, For an actor that dates outside theres a Denzel or Will Smith or Ice Cube, etc. I don't know what you have against brothers,,, But I hope you find hapiness cuz you sound bitter and lonely.
Peace Out
Now...on a brighter note some women who come off as BM haters are just tired of the BS and vice versa....they would love to have a BM for real for real it's just their mindset sometimes and just the way the times are! Oh and your man can snap whether you cheat with a WB or a BM...its disrespect! I'm just saying if it's a WB...it's really gonna be a problem!!!!! Soooo why all the shade when BW get upset over the same *** thing!! You gonna feel betrayed...ok annnndddd! Works BOTH ways!!! I'm just satin folks...
I'm growing TIRED of the BABY-MAMA epidemic...and the numbers are MOUNTING! I don't give one IOTA how much MONEY Lebron has...IF Savannah TRULY desires MARRIAGE that an EMPTINESS that MONEY cannot fill! There was a TIME when WOMEN pride themselves on becoming WIVES---SMH! Marriage is just a piece of PAPER---is CLICHE'! It's the conjoining of FLESH---it's SACRED! It's your COVENANT with each other and GOD---but that's PASSE'! And someone mentioned COMMON LAW marriage---that was disbanded in 2005(I stated that before I had to do a research paper and was astounded when I uncovered that tidbit). While they were legalizing CIVIL unions they disbanded COMMON law marriages. So ANYONE that's living with a MAN to date---you are NOT covered by COMMON LAW!
Also what woman would SPEND twelve years with a MAN still waiting for MARRIAGE??? And it doesn't MATTER IF this story is accurate or not this STORY-line is BEFITTING to plenty of women!
oops*that's an EMPTINESS...disband*
There are a few sub-topic...the BIBLE does make reference to *** the Hebrew word is "MAMZER!" And it means illegimate CHILD and it also refers to a MIXED child born of a JEW and of the nations.Deuteronomy 23:2 "A *** shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the LORD. An Ammonite or Moabite shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to their tenth generation shall they not enter into the congregation of the LORD for ever." And it's mentioned a few more times in the BIBLE...
So what rich ppl *** marry anyway not unless it's to a person who worked hard to have the same amount of wealth as them. You see Tiger dumb *** he married a blue eye blonde haired devil who went from being a broke ugly nanny to having million . Chicks now days treat the *** like a meal ticket their kids too those lil *** seal the deal ...
You don't have to be married to be a good man or father so leave this man be she not slow she know she opened her legs *** made those children can't cry over spoiled milk . And by the way stop with this blk *** white men *** I know Of plenty plenty of stupid white men who have *** with blk chicks at that *** that's married so a cheating husband is ok right stupid *** ppl
Marriage equals security when will u dumb b!tches get that? im not just talking about financial security. it means that u r "stable" if u want to get spiritual u have "covering" God forbid something happens to ur husband u are covered u the children ur home and everything u worked so hard to build. if a man has 5 baby mommas and he dies yall fighting over his money and *** like pathetic tramps.
It is not judging to say that people should be married before they have children. The fornication is the sin, not the children. Children should have financial protection for their future in case their parents die. I used to fornicate before I was married (and it felt real good too) but had to knock that off and *** it down. Some of ya'll should try going without *** for a year at a time and see how you feel, instead of acting like animals in heat. Don't like society dictate ya body, we lost the meaning of "dating" and everyone screwing all the time.
He is from Spring Hill in the valley in Akron. Nothin but *** there & I know he never saw healthy marriages. It's sad, but she knew that going into it. They were teens when they fell in love & 2 kids later, she is under too much pressure to stay now. But it's not too late Savannah! If the money isn't enough, and you're not happy, leave!
@ppatton---We ALL have an advocate with the FATHER(the MOST HIGH) that is in HEAVEN(if you believe). Also WE are ALL born in SIN shaped in INIQUITY! Now then...being RAPED is very different from a person that is WILLFULLY having unprotected *** and PROCREATING. "For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins,"
Anyway, it appears that you are SMOKE-screening with these other INSTANCES. Every UNWED mother wasn't RAPED and from that PRODUCED a child---RIGHT?!!? The GREATER issue for me are the UNWED mothers that are having children OUT of WEDLOCK(unnecessarily) which is draining OUR ecomomy because MORE TIMES THAN not the child's FATHER is not in their life(and they DON'T know his whereabouts). And so begins the repetitve CYCLE and it's MADDENING! I become infuriated when a woman has a CHILD by a man once and he doesn't take CARE of that baby AND then 6-8 MONTHS LATER she's pregnant by the same DUDE---SMH. And what does he do--JET and so begins a FLURRY of BITTERNESS and RESENTMENT towards the CHILD and anyone else in their PATH! And these are the SAME women that feel that after 3-4 children by two-three MEN---now want HUSBANDS! And I'm certainly NOT discounting the unWED FATHERS but WE all KNOW that the responsibility of a CHILD out of WEDLOCK rest on the SHOULDERS of the MOTHER---RIGHT?!!?
BTW...I'm HAPPILY ABSTAINING---I'm saving my MIND and BODY for my INTENDED! And by no stretch of the IMAGINATION nor do I sit on a THRONE! I'm just GROWING tired of the EPIDEMIC that has GROSSLY allow US to lose sight of the FAMILY structure, among other THINGS!
@ppatton---I certainly dont want to be PREACHY...the BIBLE tells US to "suffer the little CHILDREN to come unto to me and forbid them not for such is the KINGDOM of GOD." <<<This very passage it what COVERS our children from the SIN in which they were born(and that includes ALL of us).
I thank you and I COMMEND you for REALIZING your VALUE as a woman and that will be PIVOTAL in your daughter's LIFE. Unfortunately, ALL unwed mothers(just as ALL unwed FATHERS are placed in a fishbowl and so forth) are systemactically placed in a FISHBOWL. That doesn't MEAN that there aren't EXCEPTIONS as you have proven yourself to be.
My PASSION will always be our COMMUNITY and it's DECLINE(praying FEVERISHLY for a CHANGE)! The FAMILY structure is VERY crucial to OUR children looking on. The roles of MEN(husband) and WOMEN(wife) is NON-existent so much so there are other ELEMENTS(t.v's, computers, ipods, though scare for SOME but MONEY and so forth) that SIT at the HEAD of families today. And then WE lQQk in disbelief when WE see IMAGES of CHILDREN running amuck and such.
And also EVEN when one is SELF-supporting it still DOESN'T change the SCALE of the statistics(but within yourself you know that your GROWTH isn't impeded by the CHOICES that you made). And there are SCORES of women that have turned a NEGATIVE into a positive (I APPLAUD them) they have SINGLE-HANDEDLY defied those CARDS stacked up against them and are NOW happliy married.
We can ONLY control what's within our own NUCLEUS and hopefully it will BUILD a better TOMORROW....GODSPEED!