: MediaTakeOut.com just received some EXCLUSIVE information - Lisa and Ed Hartwell have separated.
What did it? Well no OFFICIAL word yet. But THE STREETS are saying that Lisa was "UNHAPPY" with her husbands financial situation.
Oh well . .. who ain't see THAT coming . . .
UUHHH! DATZ SAD, NOW I THOUGHT THAT THEY WOULD'VE BEEN THE COUPLE TO LAST THE LONGEST! HE SEEMED LKE A COOL GUY AND LISA LOOKED LYKE SHE WAZ VERY HAPPY.
I GUESS IT GOES 2SHOW U THAT JUST COZ SUMTHING LOOKZ GREAT ON THE OUTSIDE (& 4the Cameras) THAT ITZ USALLY THE WORST RELATIONSHIP BEHIND CLOSED DOORZ!
It's amazingly funny I am reading comments of single women saying they would leave their man (husband) if they were in Lisa's situation. I guess this is why some men aren't getting married cuz some women just want to be down with a husband only in good times. Well ladies keep up the talk and instead of marriage you'll get baby momma status or jump-off,side piece status. Y'ALL are playin yourselves. Her husband wasn't lazy, he is just down not out. But when he gets back on and he doesn't want to settle down anymore and spend what he deems as deposable income on women, then y'all are going to try and clown him.
Wow!!!! Clearly this was very evident when she realzied they had to downsized. What about sticking together with your partner through thick and thin? Doesn't exist in today's world, huh? Goes where the grass is greener!!!!! Lisa, hope when you go where its greener you find true happiness. Ed, hold your head up and keep the faith my brother.
THIS IS SO SAD. I FEEL BAD FOR HIM, I GUESS I WOULD BE BROKE TO OPENING BUSINESS'S THAT DIDN'T WORK OUT. CHICK YOUR NOT A FASHION DESIGNER. GOD GOING TO GET YOU FOR DOING THIS TO THIS MAN. HE TOOK YOU IN WHEN YOU HAD NOTHING. THE GRASS IS NEVER GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE...'FOR RICHER OR POORER'. ED THERE ARE GOOD BLACK WOMAN OUT HER DON'T GIVE UP!!!
Ed, please dont resort to what the tragic loss of what husband of HWDC did this week. I was upset with Ice-T comment this wk after the tragic loss of Armstrong, now I totally gets his comment. (In that, if he had married to any of these housewifes he would certainly considered suicide an option).....sad but its true. She was all happy when he was raking in the millions, none he got injured and not, now she is very unhappy. Maybe she was the one that have him squandered all his millions. Now when the well dries she serves him divorce papers!!! Let me leave it at that!!!!!!
"If this is true, she'll find some other color-struck negro who'll max out his RushCard cause she's half-Chinese" youre halfway right, she will find another color-struck negro because shes half chinese and half celebrity, but there will be no maxing out of RushCards this time. the only thing out there waiting for her is .jerks .***' jerks .married men .sexual deviants
see, she been in two failed high profile relationships, her credit score is bad, she aint no spring chicken & worst of all is that 2 and maybe even 3 big headed kids done busted up outta that thang. when you add all that up its like "what do a good nygga gain from ***' with you?" her options for a mate is severely limited, SHE just dont know it yet.(these hos delusional out here in 2011, aint they?) but she'll get her nygga wake up call when she tries to get back out there on the dating scene.
@sarai-juelz STFU just b/c the dude don't play for a team doesn't mean hes broke. Its called having a SAVINGS something that most blk ppl don't know about. You think all athletes all their money in the season? Lol...your really clueless. Who you think the crib belongs to?...It sure aint lisas. Who you think help lisa with the funds to start that real estate conglomerate?...Exactly my point. She's just a gold-digging ***. Your just defending her b/c she blk and she a female.
Not saying that about lisa because who knows why they broke up really and the reason.. . A lot of Black males esp the rich ones dont like chicks that are with them cause they really are into them and want to be with them. They love gold diggers! They will wife groupies *** etc. They have no standard except extreme shallowness. They love women that have interest in moneey and not them if they did not have the careers or professions and status. So oh wells. Not surprised black men love women like that ! so death to the women that are down with their men and say Hello 2011 to the rise of the Gold digger / ***.
Dolemite2000 it was sealed yet you know all about it. I live in same city and no she doesn't see those kids. You think its cool and cute that she at least can say she has kids by a nfl player and r and b singer how much class does it take to be a golddigger and baby maker to the rich and famous I will come back later to check your answer. Lame *** probably got 3 baby daddies yourself so think its cute
Lisa talks a good game but if you listen to her you'd see that she's full of ish. She has more skeletons than 200 cemetaries and Kim Z knew it. Keith Sweat wasn't raising their kids because he didn't want them on the show--believe that. Ed is younger and lived beyond his means to please her. That whole real estate career was embellished, and she tried to start the other businesses (kids clothing, jewelry, etc) thinking the show would help promote them. When I saw Ed helping her make jewelry, I knew his career was over then. That's why they left the show. She didn't want her truth exposed.
This bobble headed gold digging tramp was frontin' with all those ficticious businesses she had going, thats where the money went.
He couldn't tell she wanted him for his money when he was a football player?
He couldn't tell she didn't want to downsize her living arrangements, the *** is dillusional.
if thats the reason why she is leaving him he had no need to marry her in the first place, when you get married its a choice to share yo life with a person and whatever that person may come with, you are vowing to except what ever after that moment forward, you are not supposed to kick yo man while he is down, im pretty sure when the money was rolling in he took care of her, ladies there is nothing wrong with helping yo man out when times get rough on him, if thats why she left him then she will get hers *** isnt that what put this broad on in the first place being married to him
If your spouse is going through a financial hardship why can't you be in support of them for a time period? If you really love them you wouldn't even give it a SECOND thought! She was suppose to be this Big *** real estate broker on the show,but I guess her *** is just "broke"! I wonder if she left her son behind as well that she has with her husband like she left her other two sons she has with Keith Sweat...When the going get's tough,the tough get going... Sad!
@Dolemite2000 if you file for primary custody, when you've already lost custody, you should be barred from asking for child support. You want custody? Then prove you can pay for the children's support by yourself. If you can not do so, then you should not take the children away from the person who CAN provide them with that support and already is.
I'm so sick of women who use children to fund their own personal shopping sprees.
Lot of things can happen in a relationship...grow apart, cheating, and yes money issues, but lets hope Lisa didn't leave the man because his NFL career is over and the money ain't the same... that would make her one sad individual. And bruh if you were cheating on Lisa and got your azz caught... you're a dam fool.
didn't see this coming, but it's not surprising. as soon as they had to downsize, lisa put up appearances for the camera that it didn't bother her, but her fast talking to the camera about the situation told alot - she was *** and trying to save face on camera. that's too bad. they seemed like they were happy to work it out. *** shame. maybe her and her co-star are getting it now. the whole situation is unfortunate
Well.... thats what golddiggers do...they leave when the well runs dry. I knew she was a skank! A real woman stands by his side, til death do us part, remember?? She left Keith Sweat *** too when he got broke. That broad is all about herself. Selfish trick. I hope he comes up and get with a better woman.
I've corresponded w/ Lisa before. She is a nice woman. Its unfortunate that you can't be a motivated, focused, business minded woman who wants to be a good wife, mother, entrepreneur, etc. w/o being labeled a b*tch or a golddigger. We hold ourselves back as a gender & as people when we assume we know people because of what we saw of them on a tv show. Lisa & Ed will prayerfully work their issues out. They deserve to do so PRIVATELY, sans public scrutiny.
LISA WAS HOLDEN DOWN EVERYTHING BY HERSELF THAT IS VERY STRESSFUL. MEN ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THE HEAD NOT THE TAIL.
WOMEN WILL STICK IT OUT FOR A WHILE TO SEE WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO. HELL HE WAS WAITING ON HER TO DO EVERYTHING, DAM I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF.
OLDER WOMEN AIN'T GOT TIME FOR THE GAMES, LET THESE YOUNG BIOTCHES TAKE CARE OF THESE LAZY BLACK MEN. JUST GIVE THEM SOME *** AND THERE HAPPY.
The Hartwell's aren't even on the show any longer and it CERTAINLY doesn't come as a surprise to me. I recall when they were DOWNSIZING Lisa was none too HAPPY. The borrowed close to two-million to move into a mansion that RIGHT there was a CLEAR sign that they were LIVING too HIGH on the HOG! Lisa didn't have any SOLID earnings just businesses that could have possibly FLOURISHED and you cannot BUILD a foundation on possibilities.
Unfortunately, Lisa appeared to be GUIDED by MONEY and keep up wth the Joneses. IF loved Edgerton so MUCH then she would just ride it out---this too shall pass!
I think this is a false *** story! Marriage is hard work, u have to have each other's back thru the good *** bad. Sometime *** gets real bad, and that's no time to bail. Lisa doesn't seem like the type to bail when her man is down in a financial bind. If she is that type then he surely needs to get rid of her. For better/worse, richer or poorer! Ppl don't always take the time to study and work on their vows but those vows are real!!!!!! Don't play w/ it.
I'm always suspicious of a relationship where the woman is over five years older than the boyfriend or husband, but I actually liked those two together. I would want my future hubby to be the main provider too, but I wouldn't divorce him for being a broke *** unless he was just relaxing all day, not even trying to bring an income into the household. I think Ed is in the United Football League now, but likely earning peanuts compared to his former NFL salary. They should be able to work this out, though. A woman really in love with the man, not his income, should be able to come to terms with a decrease in earnings. Oh, well. There's likely more wrong than just finances.
I just paid $22.87 for a XBOX 360 and my girlfriend loves her SONY LAPTOP that we got for $38.76 there arriving tomorrow by UPS. I will never pay such expensive retail prices in stores again. Especially when I also sold a 40 inch LED TV to my boss for $674 which only cost me $62.81 to buy. Here is the website we use to get it all from, WWW HITPENNY COM
I knew it !! When he said they needed to move out of their house I could tell she was DONE then .... She was all lovin him when he was makin 3 million a year .... And then she was like I don't want to be broke .... And then when she said she would live with him in a shack ...complete lie.... Lisa was all about the money she's a straight golddigga
The man is a good catch, even though he can't go back to the living he once had. From what we saw (and you can never really go by that, but since that's all we know), he seemed to really love her. If she left solely over finances, she's one of those dumb women people talk about that don't appreciate a good man. And he's fine, too?! I'll take him.
They'd better not finalize a divorce, or that's how he'll get his money - alimony. If they stay married, she's not obligated to give him any set amount of money; and conversely if he gets back on his feet, he's not obligated to give his wife any set amount of money while married. It's when people become exes that they are forced to become the bankroll for someone else. One another note - what happened to for better or for worse? What the hell, did she marry a football contract or a man? Alas, there is no telling how much truth there is to the reason for the separation, so no opinion here.
I met Lisa Wu in ATL at a womens biz conference....i knew within 2 mins of talking to her that Lisa has been and always will be a golddigging ***. Ed married her BC he thought he was getting a "prize"...a half-black-half-asian halfbreed that can actually string 2 sentences together- problem is she's all talk and no action - and all about money and status and fame and nothing else. ppl think asian women are so docile and meek they arent. i worked with one...those hoez are cutthroat and are worse than pinktoes when it comes to $. they will do anything to get it and keep it - and they don't give a *** who they hurt. sad that ed has to learn the hard way - but- kneegrows need 2 stop passing these industry hoes around like weed. puff puff pass - and ***.I.M...don't wife em.
There is a big difference between a lazy man and a man who falls on hard times. Marriage vows are serious and for better or worse rich or poor. But like another person stated, a lot of these athletes and wealthy men seek women for looks and not for love/loyalty. If u are looking for an armpiece you best be sure you can pay for it bc when you run out of funds then you will find yourself alone. When will men learn? I was w my hubby when we were broke, when we were doing ok, when he lost his job, and now he makes more than he ever has. If he lost everything I would still be by him. That's what marriage is about! No I would not be w a *** ass dude but when u have a man who does everything to provide you stand by him no matter if he's broke. Then u get out there and help. When my husband lost his job he cut lawns. I would rather be broke with him than rich without. That's love! Shame on Lisa.
They seriously need to change the weeding vow quotes: "until death do us apart" to "until debt do us apart".
Basically that's what relationships are based on now is how much are you bringing in. So basically the relationship start off with deception in the closet.
Not taking side on this couple issue and don't give a ***, just saying it's a trend in every home in America as I see it.