Video model Melyssa Ford has been in the game for about a DECADE . . . and she has NEVER managed to get OFFICIALLY WIFE'D by any celebrity. The closest she came was earlier this year . . . when she was spotted EVERYWHERE with rapper Flo Rida. She even THREW his official birthday party.
But unfortunately for Melyssa, it was NOT TO BE. Flo and an unknown BCKY were photo'd arm-in-arm at last nights VMAs.
Let the slander begin in 5..4..3..2....
aye, live yo life brah
Typical. Thats what they usually do when they get a little $$!
I saw an article about why black men like white women. Where was that? Some urban journal.
the disenfranchisement of black women will now commence below me in the form of hateful comments about white women and the black men that date them...ready set go!
He's a idiot @djhollywood502
then again... the WHITE GIRL is pretty! but nothing on Melyssa Flo u F'D up! @MissDiamondUK
IN YOUR FACE hoe *** Melyssa. *** I'd beat the *** outta video hoes like her.
nice upgrade.Melissa has been passed around way too much by famous rappers
You cant teach a ho new tricks
u let melyssa stay home for this broad?? #lost
So he dumped Melyssa for some random, scrunched face white girl? Melyssa may have had a past, but she's educated and came up since then. He's a dummy....he did the same thing to Brandy a couple of years ago.
FLO RIDER IS WACK NE WAYZ...
She's cute do you Flo-
A non-mf*ing factor bish! Flo Rida,Melyssa Ford and the random girl.
THATS AN UPGRADE. MELYSSA FORD IS NOTHING BUT A HOE
She's cuban. Furthermore just because a person has the looks, ala melyssa ford, it doesn't mean they were compatible. We don't know either of them to tell the difference between tv personalities and their true selves in private.
Actually, she looks like taye diggs wife, idina menzell.
I didn't know Melyssa Ford was considered a HOE....I've never heard anything bad about her.
Black Women better LEARN AND LEARN QUICK: EXPAND YOUR DATING AND MARRYING OPTIONS! PLEASE LEARN HOW TO TRAVEL!
let his *** be he corny anyway and his album not even salin...
good, he didn't deserve a banger like Melyssa with his lame *** no how...
upgrade.. im sure she was a nag...
Black women step yo game up! Da Beckys snatchin all da niccas up. Str8up!
we losin' y'all!
"you keep tryin' and you stay right girl. When he get on he leave yo *** for a white girl"
I JUST WANNA KNOW HOW HE GET THAT HAIRLINE TO GROW IN REVERSE.
Sorry black girls... White girls are Better!!! Got me one!!!
Dis man music be wiggadee wack
Honneey. If a man wants a white girl he gon get 1. Black women don't have to step *** up, what's higher than melyssa ford? She's one of the finest video models that ever hit the screen. Men have their preferences. Black women are being treated like dogs these days. Better then than you girl.
...He could have passed Melissa over this way. I'll boink her. FloRida got that LeBron hairline going on there!!
A step up from a video hoe, she white so what, go ahead black women hate like y'all usually do, lmao!!!!!!
MTO sho' do get excited when a black man trades his black woman in for a white one.
This gives them hope for swirl babies, which they just get so excited over, a la Jamie Foxx.........
MTO hates BLACK CHILDREN AND WOMEN!
At least they look nice
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HE'S A TOTAL SELL OUT !
NO MORE SUPPORT FOR HIM.
THERE GOES HIS BLACK AUDIENCE.
Melyssa can still get it!
Sorry Melissa... Sucks for you lol
I think Flo Rida and his date look nice together
Hooka got her nose all turn up in that pic!
Melissa could do better. (Drake voice). Follow me on twitter @Troy_DaTruth
his hairline dumped him cuz i dont think it's coming back!
He needed to get rid of that barber that keeps getting away with f'kn up his hairline...
Haitian man are like that as soon as they havr money they put some milk in their coffee I am not surprise@ flo
Only thing the white girl got on Melissa Ford is that her hair is real. Oh and that forehead on Melissa Ford is tragic, but I can look past that.
THATS NOT IMPROVEMENT, IF YOU ASK ME
drop that high maintenance red bone
YOU KNOW THE SAD PART IS, MOST OF YOU ARE ADULTS. feel so sorry for your children and future children! ANYWAY, MELYSSA is/WAS too good for him. Insiders know why!
looks pay a big role but its not everything. plus white women wither away worse/faster than black/hispanic women. u dummies need to see these white broads without makeup. lol plus IF MELYSSA WERE WHITE or maybe evn spanish you clowns would careless about her PAST HISTORY. different set of rules for black women please. sheep. smh.
Upgrade! White women stay winning! :)
These *** always leaving black women for these [EXPLETIVE] but when they money gon they want to run back to the black women just terrible
dear black women:
instead of complaining and bursting a blood vessel every time you see a black man with a different race, why don't you expand YOUR options? who gives a *** if he's dating a white, orange, yellow, purple woman? he's doing him! obviously she has something he likes. stop worrying about everyone else and DO YOU.
always complaining about the black man "selling out". sit cho azz down. its 2011. people are dating outside of their ethnic backgrounds like it's no tomorrow. black women are the ONLY women who have this strange, distorted loyalty to black men, even though black men have no problem putting down black women, calling us hoes *** b!tches *** such, and dating whomever they want. yet you wonder why we are the least married in America.
wake up and smell the coffee. smh.
Whattup Bytches, that is what happens to Video Vixens/Hoes. Yall are going to learn, no Real Man will wife you when everyone has had a turn. And as far as *** Flo-rida(Florida), r we really surprised!!! Let him and disease swallowin' Becky go on about their business. Who really gives a ***!!! Yeap, I said it!!!!
and who the hell is a Flo Rider anyway? Melissa looks almost as thirsty as Vivica Fox messing with Slimm.
po lil tank tank.
He's probably not with either one of them...(rolls eyes at stupid article)....love that pink bandage dress though...her figure is amazing...
salute deez nuts. nikka hairline lookin like the mcdonalds sign
I LOVE COMING TO THIS SITE ..........TO READ THE DUMB *** BLACK PEOPLE WRITE !
its very clear why blacks gets passed by every ethic group that comes here even Mexicans !
YOU WANT TO KNOW WHY GORILLAS LIKE WHITE WOMEN ? COME ONE LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR BLACK WOMEN THE ANSWER BECOMES QUITE CLEAR IF YOUR JUST HONEST WITH YOURSELF .....In the mean time thanks for the entertainment !
My my nice!
lmfao yall some haters..... lol... she is beautiful smh.. hating bc she is white lmfao.. I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!! heheh :)
UPgrade Meylessa Ford been ran through this chick right there is a dime perfect 10 anybody who says otherwise is a hater
he not tryin to brighten up the place,,HE TRYIN TO WHITEN UP THE PLACE!!!
Im a black female and I really dont think its a big deal. Black men and women are too much alike believe it or not. Both bitter and betch all the time. Well MOST. Blacks can be the most ignorant people for real. Tough love. Its embarassing how someone can post a vid of a black and white together and all hell breaks loose. You know other races are laughing at you right? Black men thinking theyre the ish because theyre like for their dark skin and big dcks that some dont have. I mean if I was a black man Id want someone to atleast say Im smart. But blacks like being looked at like pieces of meat. You dumb broads should be ashamed of yourselves. Every race can interracial date but BLACKS. When another black is doing good who's hating? BLACKS! Believe it or not whites and hispanics didnt always get along so hopefully blacks can move on and get along too. But blacks of course are the worse as always. And by black I mean afro american. People look at us like jokes. Black women get mad when a black dates a non black or a light skinned black. And black men dont know how to act around other races of women. Come on people. Grow the fck up and get over it. You think youre making yourself look good when youre making other races feel better about themselves. I love being black but please a lot of you betches need to change. For real. Spend some time to yourselves and stay off media websites. A lot of you cant handle things like me. INTERRACIAL DATING IS NORMAL. Both sexes need to be worrying about black men and women are the most with aids. You need to be worrying about *** like that. Black women stop fcking tyrones, wearing weaves and thinking black men are only made for you. Black men learn how to act around other races and control your cussing. Both learn how to act better in public. ***. TAKE MY ADVICE!
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This dude is so "NOT" hot! How does he even get these women he's pulling? Oh.... I get it, he must be BLESSED BELOW!
Game is game no matter what color! Becky's got bills too...
Melyssa ain't no ho, maybe Amber Rose and Kat Stacks are, but Melyssa ain't no ho. Plus Flo Rida is an ugly ghetto trash and the other woman looks like a broke down Nelly Furtado.
OH WELL!!....WHITE GIRL IS PRETTY THOUGH!!
MY BROTHER IS A RESEARCH SCIENTIST AND HE'S MARRIED TO A WHITE GIRL..AND I LUV MY SISTER-IN-LAW, WE GET ALONG JUST GREAT!!
He sho nuff ugly
I been lookin 4 my white queen
I dont blame him I can tell ford been *** alot of *** she look like a str8 up feeak
Hell nah ain't that sum sh!t...He left yo azz for a white girl (In Kanye voice) lol
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This is why I started dating different races, because black men are always doing it. Black women, we need to start broadening our horizons. I'm not even going to lie, I dated a white man and he was way more appreciative than any black man I've been with HANDS DOWN.
So. He ain't no prize, looking like a fat assed blind Tyler Perry..
HOW DO YOU LEAVE MELYSSA FORD FOR THIS TRASH.....SHE IS A TYPICAL LOOKING WHITE GIRL!!!!...I DONT CARE IF SHE IS HISPANIC SHE LOOKS WHITE!!!!...ITS FUNNY THAT BLACK MEN THINK THAT THEY ARE WINNING WITH THESE CHICKS LOL!!......OH AND SINCE I'M A BLACK FEMALE.. TO ALL THE OTHER BLACK FEMALES WHO THINK THAT WHEN YOU DATE OTHER RACES OF MEN (BECAUSE BLACK MEN ARE DOING IT) THAT IT MAKES EVERYTHING BETTER...WELL I'M SORRY TO TELL YOU LADIES BUT IT DOESNT!!!! ALL MEN ARE THE SAME WHETHER THEY ARE BLACK,WHITE,ASIAN,HISPANIC IT DOESNT MATTER!!!!! BUT I DONT DATE OUTSIDE MY RACE! ...I LOVE MY BLACK LOVE AND I WOULDN'T HAVE IT ANY OTHER WAY!...ITS REAL
thats why getting an education would be better for some beautiful young women such as Melyssa instead of modeling...no man respects a video vixen their mindset is that they are good for sucking & fycking...so these women need to stop being on the Draya train bc its not an everlasting situation
OH AND FLO RIDA IS A PIECE OF TRASH SO MELYSSA FORD IS NOT LOSING!!!!...
Wynta Saint Laurent
i always loved melyssa ford
Melyssa FOR is UGLY AS. Fu.CK now onder No one wants her big as.s ol' forhead.. like c'mon girl fix urself u looka hot mess!
At least the white girl sexy and doesn't have that "Video h.oe" LOOK!!! I'd take the white girl over that big ol forhead been around the block 20 timez look.... NO REAL man would ever wife MELYSSA ford and thats why she will Die alone.... Can't make a h.oe a husewife (real talk)
MELYSSA FORD u are done, please go on welfare an just leave us all alone...
This loser jumps from next to next
Melyssa looks better.
TO:YOUWILLNEVERKNOW:: Black men cheat wayyyyyy more than white men so please don't say All races are the same.. You must be joking me. the white girl only with Flo for the money she can get or he is her p.i.m.p!!!
BLACK men willl FOREVER LOVE to Date white women so you bit.ches on here just better get use to it!!!!!!!
HAHAHAHA it makes u ho.es on this site soooooooo mad that black guys LOVE white women and always will.. So grow the fu.ck up and GO tell that sh.it to ur mama cause Blacks will forever love white women.
I just want to know what jealous, hatin, racist *** run this site. First of all, you dumb ***, there are black girls named Becky out there in the world....also Flo is a grown *** man that can do whatever he wants. Stop judging people cause your lives are worthless. Stop bein mad when a black guy hooks up with a girl that isnt black. We dont live in the 1800's anymore. You call it comin up when a black girl dates a white dude....you are all ***-backwards. Go get a real job and stop talkin about people you dont know and will never know.
She looks hispanic
i dnt giva *** what color r shade u is if u cant keep a man u aint *** @selita please been with minds 6years he wnt look twice at u.....
Why do you ppl always have to diss white girls with black men? Are you guys really that insecure about yourselves? Melyssa ford is a hoe! And just because she is black is the only reason some of you feel he did her wrong. It's seriously pathetic. Get the fxck over it!
Leave him alone. He looks so happy now. The smile says it all. I'm glad for him. White is just right. Plus she banging.
AT SELITA: I'M NOT ABOUT GET DEEP WITH YOU ABOUT THIS SUBJECT.......BUT ISNT IT FUNNY HOW WOMEN LIKE YOU WHO THINK BLACK MEN LOVE YALL SO MUCH ARE ALWAYS CHEATED ON!!!!! H[SPAM]H[SPAM]HAHAHAHAHAHAHA...........I'M SPEAKING THE TRUTH!!!!...LIKE I SAID ALL MEN ARE THE SAME YOU FOOL!!! I PERSONALLY KNOW WHITE MEN WHO CHEAT AND LAUGH BECAUSE THEIR GIRL THINKS THAT THEY ARE SO FAITHFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LAUGH AT FEMALES LIKE YOU!!
I AGREE WITH PRETTYBROWN817 MY FIANCE IS BLACK AND WONT LOOK TWICE AT THAT CHICK SELITA EITHER!!!!....
OMG[SPAM]!!!!!! STOP STOP STOP TALKING ABOUT BLACK AND WHITE....ANNNNNOOOOYYYING ALREADY. WHO THE F*K EVEN CARES???!!! IM SOOO SICK OF HEARING BLACK THIS AND WHITE THAT!!!! *** THE F*CK UP!!! THIS SITE IS SUPPOSED TO BE ABOUT ENTERTAINMENT, NOT BLACK GUYS DATING WHITE GIRLS AND WHO HAS A PROBLEM WITH IT. MOST OF YOU DO. SO JUST GO AWAY!!!!!!!!
@Myslayzie:*** UP AND GO PLAY IN TRAFFIC!!!!!! WHAT YOU MEAN THIS IS NOT ABOUT BLACK GUYS DATING WHITE GIRLS!!! OBVIOUSLY IT IS BECAUSE THAT'S THE HEADLINE!!!!!SO *** UP AND MIND YOUR BUISNESS DO YOU THINK PEOPLE ARE REALLY GOING TO STOP TALKING ABOUT BECAUSE YOU SAID SO!!!!! B**CH PLEASE
The majority of black men are already losing. And very few are capable of earning substantial, sustainable means based anything that's not superficial or in the entertainment industry (football, music, basketball, etc.). The majority of everything black men do is because of their subconscious need to overcompensate. Let him have her. He needs this. His ego needs this. And even though she's not cute to me at all, he might actually like her. Compatibility isn't subject to race...
*** up b*tch...send your kids to play in traffic..WHAT I WAS SAYING (SINCE YOURE TOO STUPID TO FIGURE IT OUT) IS THAT IM SICK OF ALLLLLLL YOU BLACK *** COMPLAINING ABOUT WHITE GIRLS!!! LIVE YOUR OWN LIVES AND GET OFF IT!!! PLUS THATS MY *** HOMEBOY AND I DONT LIKE YOU STUPID HOES TALKIN *** ABOUT HIM. SO WHAT HE TOOK A WHITE GIRL TO THE VMAS...YOURE ALL JUST *** YOU DIDNT GET TO GO AND THAT HE DIDNT TAKE A BLACK HOE LIKE MELYSSA FORD!!!! GO STUFF A D*CK IN YOUR MOUTH AND *** THE F*CK UP ***!
hahahaha of course ur man wouldn't look at Me with ur ugly self around!!! But when u aint there.. he BE creepin! Best believe girl.. I laugh at Ho'es lke you! You can't stand that Black men love and can BE LOYAL to a white woman since both ya'll YOUWILLNEVERKNOW, and PRETTYBROWN817 r such HATERS.. We laugh at you- . go tell ur white/black crisis to ur MAMA. Cause she the only one that WILL EVER care... EVER....
lol...@ selita...so true
i guess since amber another video ho, is loved and excepted and almost a wifey, she kinda had high hopes of the same thing happening to her lol, besides flo rida aint at all hot sorry he scares the hell out of me , that hairline dam dude just go bald already, or pull a neyo and never get caught without a hat
melyssa ford is hella pretty.. and are those white girl's boobs fake? jsut wondering
@SELITA: I'M DONE FUSSING WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE INSECURE WITH YOURSELF THATS WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO!....
@Myslayzie:I'M NOT COMPLAINING AND I'M NOT ABOUT TO GO BACK AND FORTH WITH YOU EITHER BECAUSE I HAVE A LIFE.............ANYWAY.. I HAVE FRIENDS WHO ARE WHITE AND DATE BLACK MEN BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN I AGREE WITH IT..
I HAVE NO REASON WHAT SO EVER TO HATE.....I'M NOT RACIST AT ALL!
ANYWAY ON ANOTHER NOTE( MELYSSA FORD IS BEAUTIFUL)
I gotta admit the white girl looks cute too. Melissa is hot, maybe she'll find herself a rich white dude.
Did Flo pick out the clothes for both women?
what do you mean you dont agree with it??? Its not your business.... everything is interracial nowadays and if you want to live like that, go live in alabama. (you probably live there anyway now that i think about it) you ever told your "friends" that you dont agree with them dating black men? I would be surprised if they ever even wanted to talk to a close minded ignorant *** like you ever again. You should just stop being their friends now and stop being fake towards them. it none of ANYONES ELSES biz who dates who....Im also done cause this is going to give me a headache even having a conversation with a dumb woman....grow up and open your mind a little...you'll get further in life without all that anomosity in your heart...
very well put - myslayzie :)
@myslayzie:ACTUALLY I AM A CITY GIRL SO YOU ARE WRONG!...I DIDN'T MEAN I DON'T AGREE I MEANT I DON'T LIKE IT BUT I'M GETTING OVER IT CAUSE EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN PREFERENCE....ALSO YOU CAN'T EXPECT US BLACK FEMALES NOT TO GET *** WHEN THERE IS PEOPLE LIKE @SELITA DISRESPECTING US FOR NO REASON!! MAKING IT SEEM LIKE WE ARE ALL THE SAME WHEN WE ARE NOT!!!! IT'S DISRESPECTFUL AND YOU KNOW IT!
MTO IS MAKING YOU HAVE HATE TOWARDS US BLACK FEMALES!!!......AND FOR WHAT?????
he switched gears without even stepping on the clutch
some of you people are so fked up and *** from the real world..so.sad ignorant fools wake up its 2011...hope you all have kids that end up dating someone respectable who treats them well and gives them the world and then you can come along and ruin whatever life they could have had by your uneducated ignorace
why black chicks always be hating on black men that date white women nothing is wrong with that you can't help who you love
and yes I'm the first black girl who could care less :-(sad
@youwillneverknow you don't get it, do you? love is color blind. who is to say that a person is obligated to date within their race??? in a way that does make you racist.
some of you are real ignorant with the color ***. does it matter what color the chick is? hell, obviously mz. Ford wasn't doing something right. color doesn't have anything to do with it. stop living under a rock.
i'm a black woman and idgaf what color ANY black man dates. if she makes him happy i'm happy for him. why does that concern me?? grow up.
does'nt surprised me one bit.. he
looks like that type atleast she's pretty
tho, but i would've stayed wit mel=]
Melyssa Ford is half white herself
Who cares....she resembles Penelope Cruz
seal has the best looking white women. u know the white girl was gone be busted. black males and their busted non black chicks lol they r the lamest lol but maybe the girl only has to be of a higher standard when its their own race. theyll take other races bums.lol nothing new new african american negroes date skin color anyway nothing else matter.
@KittnCouture: SO EXPLAIN TO ME AGAIN HOW YOU THINK I'M RACIST????? SINCE YOUR SO SMART WHEN DID I SAY SOMEONE IS OBLIGATED TO DATE WITHIN THEIR RACE???!!!! I SAID EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN PREFERENCE!!!!! .....THERE'S PEOPLE ON HERE DISRESPECTING US BLACK WOMEN AND YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUY WHAT I SAID!!!!!.....YOU JUST DON'T GET IT!!!
Black men are getting treated well and don't have to put up with BW who walk around and think being rude for no reason is cute/funny. It's played out and BW are the last to know that's all. Can't even be nice to BW in public like hold doors and ish because they'll take you for a sucka and get their disrespect quota in for the day. I held the door open for an AVERAGE looking BW yesterday and her ugly young daughter who's attitude is already *** up and they both walked in without saying thank you. I let the door close on the momma's fat *** and kept it movin' We don't need to put up with that ish!
Hey everybody.. This is layz and Im hafl puertorican and half black. I can honestly say that Black love is going downhill. Ok lets be real there is no need for all of us to argue. Honestly we all are different races and come from different backgrounds and customs. I am not a white women so I can not walk the shoes of a white women or judge a white women when I am not white. So I cant just blame the white women for going with a black man. It is not just her fault. Secondly black women there is a reason why black men go to mixed chicks or other races. Black women sometimes try to say its because we are easy or hoes. It does not matter what race you are you can have a strong independent women who does not let a man run over her. Race is not the issue. Black men want to be HAPPY. they are tired of black women who have standards to high, are too aggressive and full of dram NOW IM NOT SAYING ALL SO DONT SNAP AT ME..im saying majority can be uncivilized, loud and ghetto. If black women would learn how to approach their mean and play there role as women and not try to be the *** in the relationship to it will make things so much easier. But at the same time Im not going to blame just black women. Black men need to wake up to. Do not degrade your black women, treat them bad, constantly cheat and lie on them and then you wonder why your women is aggressive because you are mistreating her and then when she tells you what you are doing or tries to get you to listen more to her mind, body and soul. You want to do what you want to do and use it as an excuse to go get a white women or other race. There are more things that go into this issue. But for the most part I think love is beautiful no matter what race you are. If people love each other let them love. White women you can not judge a black women because you do not understand her struggle of life. Black women are known to be strong women. We can not help that it is in our nature. There are so many things to us that are beautiful if that was not the case why are there so many races wanted to be like BLACK PPL in general. Are clothing lines. music, entertainment ans sports has taken over. So instead of us bashing each other. Take the time to get to know a white women and where she comes from. White women take the time to learn from a black women. If we stop the hate we can learn something from each other. But to white women the black women are basically saying that they are tired of black men treating them any kind of way and use to go to other races as an excuse like it is all the black women. Now lets be real black men there is a cause and effect to everything if your women is trippin there is reason why? what are u doing to make her aggressive and angry? Black women and men need to respect each other a lot more. I am not telling black women to be naive and let a man treat you any kind of way. I am saying carry yourself like a lady with class and be more laid back learn to be his best friend and his lover at the same time and it wont push them away to date (MIXED CHICKS OR ANY OTHER RACE)
You know this all started because this website really started to irritate me because they are always calling white girls beckys and even though im only half white, it offends me. If white people had a website calling all black women Shaniquas or Bonquitas, there would be a huge uproar. I just dont think that its necessary to degrade someone for the color of their skin. I also dont agree with some of the things that selita had to say because some of it was just out of spite. I personally dont want another womans man tryin to creep with me when his girl isnt looking. That just means he'd do the same to me. Anyway, this site needs to chill out and just report entertainment *** and not have all the put-downs and racist comments.
"there are people on here disrespecting us black women"
true. and? what can i do about that? what do you want me to do, get angry? be outraged? I already know what to expect from the people on MTO. their ignorance is their problem. i don't have anything to do with the opinions of a few uneducated people on the internet about black women. going back and forth with them won't change their minds or affect their views. it saddens me more than anything but it is what it is. people are like that all over the world. i take comfort in knowing that i'm nothing like the coons they talk about or put down so often.
and what i said was that your closed-minded view that people should not date outside of their race IN A WAY makes you racist. yes, you said everyone has their preference, but that doesn't change the fact that you "don't agree with it." back in the day white people didn't believe we as black ppl should mix *** mingle with their "pure, white race" and many still don't agree with it. how does what you say differ from those old views?
personally i don't find it anything to agree or disagree about. as long as a person is happy with who they are with more power to them. what does that have to do with me?
Men do not want aggressive women. They want to hold and give unconditional love to a lady. Now a women trying to act like a man and play the role as a man. For example I been with my man for almost 5 years and we have a successful relationship. Why? because I give him his space I let him be the man in the relationship and I play my role as the women and we grow more and more and build something together, We talk things out, we listen to each other. We satisfy each others needs. When you have all that.. BLACK LOVE CAN EXIST..I am pretty sure there are black men that still love their black women. Its just LOVE is suppose to be peaceful you may have your bad times. But love is not suppose to be hurtful or violent. Treat each other right. Love him unconditional rather it is at his lowest point and highest point. Do not expect so much from each other understand everything is a chose. Do not give each other more love or less love than what you guys are given one another. Make sure it is 50/50 on both ends. If you want your man to cater to you. Do the same for him reward each other be FAIR
what IRKS me is when black men have the nerve to talk about "black woman this, black woman that... loud, ghetto, blah blah blah". if you got your black azz out the hood maybe you would be introduced to a more civilized breed of black woman. and how is it that you have fifty-eleven kids by twenty different women[and don't take care of any of them], have no education, dress in nothing but Coogi, and stay in the club ever weekend, yet you expect to find a young, beautiful, successful black woman who has her own, cooks, cleans, with no kids? same thing with black women... "nikkaz ain't ***, blah blah blah", but u have enough kids to make your own soccer team and lay on your back and collect EBT, FI, and other gov't benefits for a living?
sweep in front of your own door before you attempt to belittle ANYONE. if you have such a problem with the type of person you're attracting i doubt the problem has anything to do with color. maybe the problem is YOU.
YOU ARE WHAT YOU ATTRACT. check your price tag. are you on clearance?
@KittnCouture.. I have to agree with you on what you just said. But you happened to be apart of that percentage that is CLASSY, INDEPENDENT, and knows how to carry yourself. But I do not feel we even blaim the ghetto. You can live in the hood and still have common sense. Like I was saying before we can not put all the blaim on black women or men. We both need to help each other because we need more BLACK LOVE to exist even though all love is beautiful. Other races sometimes do not realize there is more to the issues beneath why black women are turning to other races and black men are turning to other races. We need to listen to each other and help each other progress
@kittncouture: I KNOW THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN DO ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY ON THIS WEBSITE ABOUT BLACK WOMEN....BUT YOU CHOSE TO COME AT ME OUT OF ALL THE PEOPLE ON HERE LIKE WHAT I SAID WAS SO HORRIBLE COMPARED TO SOME OF THESE OTHER PEOPLE!!
@ YOUNG_LEHADER WHITE HOS ARE NOT QUEENS! GET UR SMALL AZZ MIND RITE....@ SELITA *** STAY *** UR LANE!! BLK WANT WHITE/HISPANIC HOS 1-BC THEY R WEAK AS BOYS & DONT KNO HOW 2 HOLD IT DOWN......2-THEY LIKE HOS(WHITE/HISPANIC ETC) THAT THEY CAN CONTROL @ ALL TIMES ......3-BLK QUEENS DIDN'T WANT THEY SORRY AZZ ....SO SELITA U CAN HV THE LEFTOVERS D *** WE DIDN'T WANT!!....U LIL ***!
@youwillneverknow I understood where you were coming from and what you were trying to say. I do not see your comments as racist. I think what you were saying is as a black women sometimes it is hard dealing with that. You are not telling your friends what to do. If your friends decide to date out of their race that is their business. You were just making a point on how black men have a tendency of handling things with their black women. Black men sometimes despite of black women being aggressive at times have there ways of going to other races because they feel they can get what they want. And if you feel you have to go to another race to get happiness that is a problem. If you date outside of your race love that person because you choose to love them not to get something that helps your needs that you feel a black women is not giving. At the end of the day a black women understands a black mans struggle she can relate to him a lot more on a lot of levels
Why he had to dump her, cuz she the ex video vixen? Maybe she dump him, we'll never knw. Dig this mto love race debates, that's how they get paid. The more comments we leave for them to show companies the amount of traffic they're getting, the more they can charge for ad space. And what's better to get comments going than a race debate
@laymami89- EXACTLY! ....THANK YOU
But I've already stated my opinion. Can't none of these non-black women even walk in the shadow of an African-American woman, darkskinned, lightskinned, red-bone, caramel, don't matter the color. I don't care if she from the hood or from the out-skirts I'll still take her over a non-black chick. When ni**as wit money run to them non-black women I think they crazy but I just look at it as more for me and dudes like me. It's nothing like a black woman. From their full lips to the hips and sexy thighs. Oh and forget that big juicy bubble in the back. Now none of the non-blacks can offer that, that's y I can't do nothing with them, y'all can have them
hey baby! i see you're holding it down. just wanted to *** out at cha! contine my darling :)
sorry, meant to say "continue"
Melyssa claims she is half white any way. So he went all the way white with the white chick. Flo doesn't look like that great of a guy. Who cares if white chicks get the bad black guys- drug addicts, cheaters, and physical abusers. Those type are not a loss to Black women.
Who da hell r deez people??
DO U FLO-RIDA....But I ll f**k MELYSSA FORD.....she can still GETT it!!!!! :) BLK women need to stop it....do u criticize blk females for dating wht men?????
Here's my question to the ladies, Name a brother who said I Don't like black women. Please don't give me sign on names either. Tell me when you actually heard a brother say in your face I don't like black women. People online be having cyber courage and it could be anyone talking sh*t. And selita or whatever his name is. All men cheat. Blacks don't cheat more than whites and vice versa the same thing goes for hispanics and asians ant etc. Show me a race of men and I can prove that a small number of them cheat on their wives or girlfrends. I hate this topic cuz no one knows why flo-rida broke up with melyssa ford. People talkin mighty reckless online SMH
Who knows if he even broke up with her. She could have broken up with him or they could have parted mutually. Why do most people feel when a couple aren't together anymore, the guy must have left the women.
Who cares! flo-rida ain't ***! He is another MC hammer, with smoke and mirriors and white folks love him and think he is a good rapper! He sucks ***! I thought Melissa had better taste than that, but apparantly she is the groupie she swears she isn't! Wow! He looks funny with that ww on his arm! Period!
That's a straight Undercover Brother moment right there! Where's the mayo?
*** yo azz up
My man's bestfriend told me that he doesn't like bw to my face, and tried to go in on Lebron's James wife while his white slutty, bi-sexual white alcholoic girlfriend was sitting right there! That was the most awkard evening of my boyfriends life because I let him, and his girlfriend have it!
THANK YOU!!! SOME FEMALES IS TAKIN DAT DOUBLE STANDARD ISH TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL<-----@Jady_SMH Who knows if he even broke up with her. She could have broken up with him or they could have parted mutually. Why do most people feel when a couple aren't together anymore, the guy must have left the women.
@BrownandBlessed you is ProBLACK aint u. you probably still wear Cross Colours
Omg staypoppin please stfu! You always come out to comment on these threads! You never comment on anything else, just that you think bw are rude and defend your right to date out! Nobody cares if you got your feelings hurt by a woman with no manners! If you open the door for some ww, or spanish women here in ny you will too get ignored because this is New York! Period! All ww are not friendly, and nice and they aren't dying to be married to a black man despite whatever delusion you hold to be true! LMAO! You ignorant, selfhating bm crack me up!
I havent heard of melissa ford since rocafella was out. shes like a quarter and sand cuz shes passed around like torch and everyone feet and *** and hands been up on dat!
And I am a real man and I love pretty black women. From tall to *** from light to dark. I love you. If A brother don't like you it's his lost but being mad at the woman only gives her power. Hell, being mad at the man doesn't help you either. Just keep it movin'
@*** THANK YOU. You couldnt said it no better!! Gettin mad at the women gives her huge power
@Tastysis, Here's my question to you, And be honest. Was your boyfriend's friend all that? I mean if you were single and you saw him would you want him? I'm glad you roasted him but sad and mad at the same time. I don't like ignorant women period,,,black,white,hispanic,etc but for a black man to say he doesn't like black women is beyond ***'d up. I have never heard this before. I have heard negative comments about black women in the locker rooms, barber shops, bars etc. But I have never ever heard any brother say I Hate black women. He must has some issues. The thought of a brother saying that to me has ***'d up my comphrension! But I guess you will have a small number of lost fools who think that way, but rest assured that it is a very small number
Ish NEVER happens when it comes to non BW whether they date men or not. It's a common courtesy that some BW take for a weakness. I can comment on whatever thread I want, I'M A GROWN *** MAN. Even if it did happen with non bw i should at least expect a thank you from my own kind. They're always crying BM treat them like ish, but when u try to treat a HUGE portion of BW like a lady, they take it as an opprtunity to show their ***!
Also men from other races say negative stuff about their women, Basically we (men) say the same stuff ESPECIALLY IF IT IS THE SAME SITUATION.
It depends on where you are at,,If you are dealing with ignorant women, you are going to have to expect ignorant things, I held the door for all women, some have said thank you others haven't. The reason why I hold the door open for a woman is simple. I do it because I was raised that a gentleman opens a door for a woman. I do it so my neice can tell the difference between a gentlemen and a ***, I do it so my nephew knows how to be a gentleman. I don't do it for a thank you (a thank you is welcomed but I don't get upset when I don't hear it) But you need to continue to do the right thing and hold those doors. Don't let a couple of ignorant women take you off the right path
You been screaming that same sad *** sh*t for going on 3yrs now! It's getting quite old dude! And don't act like you haven't encountered negative looks from white women! They all don't want you, despite what a few hoez have said or done! Wake up! If i didn't know how to treat my man, he wouldn't be here, where he has been for 5 yrs, so miss me with that one partner! Go live your life, and quite worrying about a few bw that didn't do 2 back flips, the splits, and dougie when you opened the door! GET OVER IT! ***!
*** yo azz up
You already know the answer to that! Hell no! He is ugly, and she was a bad bulit, bi-sexual, alcholic who cheated on him, but he still rather be with her than a sister! Sad really! He asked me to introduce him 2 my Korean/chinese friend and I said hell no! He is a Chavanist! I see your point, but Im not sure that you understand my point! Im happy in my relationship! I have an opinon like everyone else, and I like to stress that bw are beautiful and it's foul to talk reckless when you know ur mama, grandmama and sisters are black! Stop it!
@***: THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I WAS SAYING TO THE CHICK SELITA EARLIER!!!! ALL MEN CHEAT IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT RACE..
That white girl is ugly, and I bet in 10 years she is going to look like Florence Henderson! She already look 39! LOL
I don't believe all men cheat. That's like saying all women are faithful! It doesn't exactlly ring true.
*** yo azz up
Im jaded by ww/bm relationships because the women usually are very insensitive towards black women, or just plan rude! Ive seen if first hand with more than one non-black woman! They have a certain contempt for black women! It's weird! Even blk men have the same contempt for the white man, but will wife up his daugther! It's all very weird and Ill never understand it! Staypoppin runs to these threads to talk about how rude bw are, but let a wm come in here talking about how bm ain't ***, and he gets his panties in a bunch and will even talk about how they are child molestors! It's really very funny to watch the hypocrisy!
@Tastysis- IF YOU LOOK AT THE COMMENTS EARLIER BETWEEN ME AND THE GIRL SELITA ...SHE SAID BLACK MEN CHEAT WAY MORE THAN ANY OTHER RACE....TO ME THAT IS NOT TRUE...I WAS NOT SAYING ALL MEN CHEAT...I WAS SAYING ALL DIFFERENT RACES CHEAT NOT ONLY BLACK MEN
Good *** all! *** yo azz up! Good food for thought! Later!
They don't have to do flips and splits. Just open your *** mouth and show you recognize a brother showing you some respect. These thugs got some of these women so turned out, they figure respect equates to being a sucka. I know you hate to admit the truth, but don't get mad when someone else does. I'm not just talking about uneducated rats, because you have educated rats too.
Bruh, c'mon. You KNOW your boys say the same ish I'm saying. That ish sounds good on the internet, but you know how disrespectful for no reason they can be. You can't tell me you haven't noticed how fashionable they think it is to say something slick, or not say anything at all when you say some basic everyday conversation ish. BUT that attitude melts when a WM ask them something and they show their manners. All I'm saying is show your manners to me too. I think the problem is we were taught to always show women/girls respect, but they were never trained to return the favor! (unless he's white} Look at how many say " I don't do ish for no man!" Case closed.
Tastysis it lost my comment to you. I'm too tired to type it again. Catch you next time.
@TextOns, I would say that's putting it mildly. You must be diplomatic. And Cross Colours that was funny. Hahaha!!!
she's probably Cuban
On a totally OTHER observation, Demi Lovato rocked the same silver dress that Melyssa Ford is wearing.
Who Wore It Better?
IMO: it's a tie!
And as far as this story.... it's 2000 *** f'in 11.... to each his own.
To quote the late Michael Jackson on his Birthday. "It don't matter if you're black or white."
Man he is *** am I the only one who realizes this
I just got confirmation from melyssa herself on twitter this is not true
lmfao at the dumb bi**hes that are sooo mad bc a back man dates a white woman.. WE ALL BLEED THE SAME AND BEING JUDGEMENTAL BC OF COLOR IS *IGNORANT* NO WONDER MY *BLACK MAN* DONT WANT A BLACK WOMAN YALL ARE BITTER AND A BUZZ KILL ALL YALL DO IS HATE ON THE NEXT.. TALK SHI* AND PUT DOWN A WHITE WOMAN BC SHE IS WITH A BLACK MAN GET OVER URSELF... BLACK MEN DONT *BELONG* TO YALL!!!!!!!!! LMFAO... IGNORNACE IS A BLISS AND ONE DAY U WILL BE LOOKING STUPID LEFT BEHIND BC U ARE STUCK IN THE PAST AND SO JUDGEMENTAL.... YALL SPREAD SOOO MUCH HATE ITS SAD!!! MY HUBBY IS BLACK AND WE BEEN 2GETHER 4 YRS STRONG... LMFAO.. SO PLEASE GO GET A LIFE AND STOP SITTING ON HERE SPEARDING HATE!! ILL BE PRAYING FOR ALL OF YALL... :)
not all black women. btw... JUST THE IGNORANT ONES THAT LOVE TO JUDGE BASED ON COLOR!!!!!
@SEXYTRANNY______ *I DOUBT THAT* BUT HOW CAN U JUDGE ANY1 OR TALK ABOUT ANY BLACK MAN WHO DATES WHITE WOMEN WHEN U FU** MEN????? LMFAO ... HMMMM O_o U ARE ONE OF THE REASON BLACKS HIV STATISTICS ARE SOOOO HIGH SMH.. AND HOW CAN ANY1 SAY BLACK PPL SHOULD DATE THEIR OWN RACE??? LOL .... CAN U PLEASE DEFINE THAT?? BC DEEP DOWN WE ALL HAVE SOME OTHER RACE IN US.. DO YA RESEARCH PPL... YOU ARE NOT ALL 100% AFRICAN!!!!! TO BE REAL WITH IT U SHOULD SAY THAT BLACK PPL SHOULD STICK WITH THEIR OWN COLOR LOL....BE SERIOUS!!!! LOL.. *IGNORANT*
Melissa can do sooo much better than this joke Flo Ryder with his loony tunes music & painted on hair. Ughhh I can't stand that look.
I understand what you are saying. No need to type in caps girl!
We have opinoins just like everyone esle, and ur response is exactally why you get cursed out because u lack diplomacy! I don't care what your blk man wants, or doesn't want because bm that exclude their own race tend to be *** azz n*ggas who have a inferiority complex toward wm, and would like a more submissive dingbat tramp that will bend at his every wish! You look like that type of ***! I have my black man, and he would'nt give ur cave rat azz a second look because he knows what he has at home! Brains, and banging body @ home that can relate to him on another level u wanna be down ***! Btw I saw that post from the other thread, and I just wanted u to know that you probably *** brag about pushing a 2007 Impala! LMAO!
He must like plastic boobies. Next!
keezywife07...usually i try to stay away from the bm/ww threads cause I dont give a ***...I AM A STRONG SUPPORTER OF BLACK LOVE AND WILL RIDE UNTIL THE WHEELS FALL OFF. but BIOTCCCHHHHH best believe dont none of us black woman on here give a *** that you obtained the braggin rights to say you married to a black man.....yippe *** doodoo.its when u & others try to come in here and think you doing BW a favor by trying to school, diss, or try to tell US WTF black woman need or need not. you think you know soooo much about a black woman...the same black woman that your husband says he dont like.....*** YOU AND YO HUSBAND...stop studying us!!!! and you and yo husband move the hell up out the ghetto...your analyzation of black woman is all *** up...
Wow I swear african women get jealous af.... So what he took a white woman. I'm white and pretty af. I got hella black women hating because I pull ***. And it aint bc of what y'all think were known for. Bc trust I'm not a ratchet chick. I keep things real. Black women who hate,i look at you guys and laugh
Danniesosexy....girl *** up....your grammer is all *** up....i cant even dis your paragraph because i dont understand your points.....how old are you?
Got rid of video ho for a nice looking lady, pretty sure MTO will dig the dirt up on her too and she'll be agroupie too haha.
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Well She Prettier Than Ms Ford, She Is Washed ( Google Morg Parks)
Its a *** shame how its ingrained in many Blacks to automatically see White as "better".
Calling Ford a hoe, when you probably have done 10 times as much yourselves....and calling
this White girl a major upgrade. She is attractive, and that is all. She is not on a level with Ford.
Plus, what the hell do you all know about her?? Calling Ford out of her name, how do you know
that her White *** is not a hoe? How do you know she isn't one of Heidi Fleiss' girsls? All you
know is that she is White, and you well trained coons are ready to see her as Cinderella. She
probably thinks its LL Cool J, she is with. Wake up, ***!!! White people are not better, just
A black woman is gonna keep it real...that hairline prefers beckys...
lmfao.... i got yall hot :) hehe its all good see hte diffrence between me and u is idgaf what u gotta say lol... im doing me nad my hubby takes care of all my needs and ghetto?? lol no hunny.,,, never that my fam paid!! :D and tranny please lol.. ur a *** be for real u have no room to talk about any1 ur nasty as they come lol... get for real.... and yall are soooooo judgemental all u do is put down other ppl *white* ppl at that... LMFAO... too much hate in ya heart... somehting is not right in ya life or u would not be on here popping shi* bc of some1's color... lol... get a life... :) bye bye ... lol...
This has nothing to do with RACE - if you love someone - you love them - no matter what RACE - but it looks like "HIS LOST" to me.
uggh...these men make me sick its not even funny. they do not realize that they are basically eliminating the black race by getting up w these white women that would not be with them if they did not have any money. Black men claim to not want to be with black women because of our attitude. White women would not want to be with you if you didn't have any money...trust. Once the money or the elusion of having money goes away...she will leave you just as fast. You disrespect your black mother or any black woman in your family when you choose to only date white, spanish or asian women. You make white, spanish and asian women believe its ok to disrepect black women because you don't even respect us. Lucky thing most of us have respect for ourselves and still have love for you. With the disrespect coming from all angles you wonder why some black women do have a chip on their shoulder. Its disgusting the way black men drool over these f*cking women. doesn't matter if they are fat, ugly, sloppy, flat ***, a nanny, etc. As long as she is not black its good with them. I don't blame black men 100% however, i do blame their parents who did not teach their sons to respect black women and to love themselves and who they are and where they came from. Black men be careful because nobody will have your back as much as a black woman.
@Bruh...i agree with you 1000%. SMH at the ignorant posters...black on black on racism will be the death of us all...trust me. Be careful.
Staypoppin01 I agree with you on what some of the brothers say. But in Tastysis scenario, I have NEVER HEARD A BROTHER SAY HE DIDN'T LIKE BLACK WOMEN. I've heard bruthas talk about their baby mamas, girlfriends,jump-offs and ex-wives. I've seen some ignorant brothers talk slick at the club about women. So yeah negative comments from brother's to sisters yeah,but guess what other races say the same thing about their women too.
He was a *** and his girl was a ***. Roasting them was good. But I would of put a quarter in his cup and told the both of them to buy a clue and get a job cuz both are some *** b*tches!! We as a race need to handle our on affairs and stop having seminars and TV SHOWS saying we can't do this or black man *** that. The problem is both sides fault. Once we agree on that then we can move forward
@ ***...i have heard comments from black men stating that they do not like or want black women. I was on the train in nyc going into Bklyn and 2 men were talking... very loudly might i add...stating that they could not stand black women...they only wanted white women and that black women had attitudes. They were saying this in the presence of black women as well as every other race since nyc is a melting pot.
First of all a black woman will have an attitude if you disrespect her. A white woman will have ignore you if you cannot do anything for her monetarily. Respect a black woman and treat her like a queen; she will respond in kind and treat you like a king. White women could care less how you treat them as long as you are taking care of them. White women may not talk back or give you attitude...but when you no longer have anything to give her...she will no longer be around for you period. BUT black men could care less...because all they care about is how white people view them and proving that they are good enough. To those men i say Fu@*** you.
@ Tastysis and Gemini615 I would like to apologize for MY naivete'. I always thought that when I heard a black man say he didn't like black women it was always online or some he said/ she said stuff. If you women have and experienced this firsthand, then you have a more realistic view of the topic than me. I have travelled to different countries and I have been to different parts of the US. Me personally, I have never heard this, and the people I chose to associate myself with don't / or wouldn't utter those words. So my thinking was since I never heard this, this type of negative thinking didn't exist. I really don't know how to respond to what both you have written except that the so call men in question aren't the men you wanted in your lives anyway,, it's their lost. and THEY ARE SOME LOST FOOLS!!!! Most of the time I do feel I am right with my line of thinking and opinions but I am not too proud to admit when I am wrong. Unfortunately I am wrong in this case. but I wish I wasn't.
Melyssa better go her mothers native country and *** up a man over there.
I don't know why she would continue to *** around with entertainers/rappers?
As FINE and intelligent as she is I can't figure ou t why she isn't settled down already?
And when he get on he leaves your a.ss for a white girl...lol
blackbeautyanddiva.............. how bout you take your OWN advice and kill yourself twice... you probably dont understand WHAT THE *** im sayin because you are a slow one. and once again.... like i said Black WOMEN who hate i look at YOU and LAUGH.... i know u understand THAT.. ((((laughing my freeakin *** off))). do i really have to spell everything out for you. these dudes out here can choose who the hell they wanna talk to. bein racist is DEAD.!!!! its 2011.
o my goodness it never fails with these men. the beautiful Melissa Ford and you quit her to get with Becky.....wth!!!!
All the people concerned with who this dude dates, 1 question: Have you peeped his hairline? dwl
MTO you say that frontin' like FLO'Rida the ish!! How about she dumped him? IDK but dayum it aint like he topping the charts anyhow, maybe she wanted a CURRENT RELEVANT Baller? Again IDK just sayn.
@ *** apology accepted. I just want black men to realize where we are coming from. You must be willing to accept us as much you want us to accept you. By 'you' i am speaking of those men that choose to disrespect us and leave us for what they consider a 'better' option. If you are willing to make yourself better for a white/spanish/asian woman and work hard for her then i think its only right you do the same for black women as well. Its truly sad...
She could've at least been a bad white braud............
I agree with ankhkitty all three are non-***$ckin-factors!
And when he get on he leave your *** for a white girl (kanye west voice) . lmaooo
I have been around melissa ford before and the *** is super whack she thinks she is a whitegirl herself....And may I say she was feeling the kid to but she is extra wack.
Good luck to them. Why are people hating on the man's life? God bless