WOOOOOOW!!! Father Goes HAM On Son . . . When He Learns The Boy ACTED UP IN SCHOOL!! (Is This GOOD DISCIPLINE . . . Or ABUSE)

: We're about 90 PERCENT behind the father on this. We don't like all the FOUL LANGUAGE he used towards the boy . . . but everything else . . JUSTIFIED!!!

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red_prada
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straight abuse he need to get locked up follow me on twitter @red_prada


inandyr
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thiswhat a lot of fathers need to do http://www.youtube.com/user/iNandYR?feature=mhee


KatWoman
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Smh, poor baby. He wont be acting up next time though. LOL @KittyKat_Rawr


Cinnamin
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ABUSE...... don't humiliate your children as punishment, it won't work, it will cause them to hate you!


popcorn_fAiry
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Damn...it been alright if he didn't film it


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LongLegged
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BRAVO!!!! For him being a FATHER. We need more FATHERS our here and maybe our men won't be such BITCHES!!!!!!


popcorn_fAiry
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i think the haircut and the suicides was just fine...the ass whoopin...that just sealed the deal


ajax38
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JUSTIFIED, THAT'S WHAT WE NEED TO DO TO OUR BAD ASS KIDS AND MAYBE THEY WON'T BE LOCKED UP AND PERFORMING LOW IN SCHOOL. FOR ALL YALL WHO SAY IT'S ABUSE, SHUT THE FUCK UP


DC-Slim
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He did what should have been done real talk Follow @SlimFromDC on Twitter


Alessandra
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Children need discipline. They don't need to be beaten like crazy, though, especially on camera. Why is the father filming this and cursing like that on camera? Take care of your business without cameras rolling. He needs to be taken from this crazy ass publicity seeking fool. It sounds like he's not even raising the boy. That's the problem with so many young brothas, WHERE IS THE DAMN FATHER AND WHY ISN'T HE WITH THEM?


tanbunny
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im all for #teamBeatThatAzz


SomerKnight
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Considering they build jails based on 3rd grade performances I say beat dat azz. I feel sorry for the next generation cause todays men ain't bout $hit so u know what it will be like in 20yrs. Black women will have to cross the color line in order to have a decent mate.


inspecta


linwood379
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That really did cross the line. If the kid didn't hate him, I do....


Ajent
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He'll look back on this and laugh and be glad he had a father care enough to discipline and make sure he didn't grow up like a lot of other ignorant kids with no sense.


PainInc82
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Good discipline. I commend the man for it. some of these lil bastards running around here now need that type of guy around. Words from my Marine Drill Instructor "pain breeds dicipline"


darealwifey
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I am all for physical discipline, but there is a fine line between discipline and abuse. The number ONE rule when administering physical discipline is self-control on the part of the person doing the HITTING. The number of licks should fit the crime, and there is nothing wrong with telling the kid ahead of time how many licks are coming, and the parent sticking to it, so that they don't get carried away. A LOT of men get carried away with adrenaline and anger. You should NEVER hit your child out of anger. Wait until you are calm and can exercise control. Having said that, this father is trying to save his son, and put him on the right path, so I support him. I do think he went overboard with the hair cut and pictures and video, though. That being said, nobody can put fear in a child (especially a boy) like daddy can. But fathers, remember to also be kind and loving to your children, and let them know that you love them no matter what.


mrsbeejones
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So true @darealwifey.


Bianca99
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I can understand disciplining a child for bad behavior but why did he have to record it. And why wasn't he living with him because he kept saying "your grandmother sent you to school". Obviously everyone is gonna see the video and thats gonna make the kid feel worse.


Robena
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Glad to see the dad taking some responsibility in rearing his child but he is a child. I don't condone adults talking to kids like they're grown - its not necessary, plain and simple. Spanking him probably would have sealed the deal, physical endurance may have been over the top. Hopefully, all in all, this kid will think twice about misbehaving next time.


TERRYSWORLD
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better start them off while they are young cause when them 'folks' get ahold of these young men in jail and prison its 10 x's worse


Patience_02
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I believe in showing your child there are consequences for bad behavior, but this is pure humiliation to the highest degree. On top of that does a child really need that many licks? The answer in my opinion is NO. In the long run this will only make the child a monster, and believe me we have enough of that today.


mzbklyn87
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Thats called good parenting. No where did this man beat his child to unconsciousness (like some parents reported in the news) burn him with cigarettes (like some parents reported in the news) send him to school with a busted lip, black eye (like some parents in the news). Thats called discipline! Aside from the ass-whopping what is the difference btwn what this father did and if the little boy got sent to boot camp. That man should be commended because as a result his son won't end up in jail or 6ft under. That brother gives a damn about his son and his future.


seaki
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I could not even finish watching this. The father is a fame-hungry-basic sperm donna. WHY would you beat your child on camera. Children DO NEED discipline,especially these days when they are exposed to so much at an early age. But this should be done in the privacy of their own home. Why humiliate the child? this type of behavior is raising a generation of OVERLY AGGRESSIVE-ANGRY BLACK MEN that are not accountable to anything BUT PAIN AND PUNISHMENT concerning anything in their lives. This young mans motion in life will be "If it didn't hurt, it is not good" WSHH, your site should be taken down for even having a video up like this that is showing the apparent abuse and humiliation of a minor. Authorities will be contacted for sure and WSHH will be taken to course, you can bet on it. This is not comedy, this is not funny, this is a SERIOUS situation. "Design your own fashion line? I can help" http://www.wix.com/seakicreativeservice/designnow


henryyy
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tee2526
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Do ya watch Beyond scared striaght?? This kids are runnung tha house nowaday!!!! WE got kids raisein kids!!!! This his child and he has the RIGHT 2 do WHAT EVA he wants 2!!!!!!! Simple as that!!!!!!


senorSHAZAM
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See if MORE people did this it wouldn't be so many people in jail! Cause they would have learned early on in life that their actions have consequences!


HoodLordSociety
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fbfdiva
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Good technique but he shouldnt have recorded it because thats just embarrassing the child and later he gonna resent you But follow me on twitter @Swisher_sw33ts Muahhhh


dcsheeda
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Good job dad!!


ChicaGorilla312
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HE GOT TAUGHT A LESSON, THAT'S THAT. AT LEAST WE KNOW THIS CHILD WONT GROW UP TO END UP A GUEST ON DR PHIL FOR SLAPPING HIS MOTHER, HE WONT SHOOT UP HIS SCHOOL , OR DISRESPECT HIS PARENTS. THIS IS GOOD DISCIPLINE. KIDS NEED IT THESE DAYS. THIS JUST DID NOT NEED TO BE BROADCASTED TO THE MEDIA. NO REASON TO HAVE PUT IT ONLINE, THAT WAS JUST PLAIN DUMB.


Aladyk2u
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the pictures and film were out of line. The haircut i wouldn't have done because your child represents YOU when they leave the house. However, I agree with whoopin that ass and including those drills as well. That was enough discipline. Videos and pics? nobody needs to know your business like that. Once you start filming videos, you are doing it for attention.


MissWright25
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Now that is what I call a father handling business. Women have been raising sons by themselves for years but it's nothing like a MAN raising his son to be a MAN.


ALLINEEDISGOD3
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THE FATHER WENT OVER BOARD


WebbLuvee
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If we had more fathers like this then (insert every bad statistic in black homes) would be reversed.


@iSlapStankHOES
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I'm all for whooping a kids ass ! And he did exactly what he was supposed to do. He let the kid Know what He was gonna do to him . Lol that hair cut was wrong though lmao haha Bt I Bet Money the Kid got his Act right . He got a haircut from Hell Azz Beat then had to work out with that sore azz oh yea he learned his Lesson lol. More Black MEN need to do this to their Sons!! Follow Me @iSlapStankHOES


Shane Oh
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Jamaica str8!...bwoy violate, get beat dwn, he a child


S214
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He cares enough to discipline the child. My husband and I do this to our daughter minus the whooping, straight boot camp she cries "I want a whooping". You have to start out when they are young so they will have respect and act right! He wants his be in line and it's not abuse! I rather have people calling me abusive because I'm trying to discipline my child than have my child act a fool and people say I'm a bad parent who can't control my kids


taylormademan1
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Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it" (Prov 22:6) If he don't beat him society will!!!!!!!!!!!!


theboytybaby34
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why did they record this,, smfh discipline is good but im confused about this shi# follow me @tmacthemoneyman ill follow bak


G13
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Everybody want a father/man in they life but everybody got a problem with how they discipline. The only bad thing is the video tape but everything else will keep that boy good in school and OUT of prison.


lilropeep
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I Need to have all the real Dad step their s**t up like this!


luckEcharm
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Like he said Job well done. He did nothing of abuse the boy was fine in the end but he was left knowing the consequences if he messed up in school again. Boys need FATHERS!!!!!!!!!!!



Maria7532
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Don't agree with putting it out there for the whole world to see, but there's nothing wrong with the discipline.


ateecha
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There is a reason why children act up in school and that's because they are UNMOTIVATED and UNINSPIRED. The teacher and parents need to take a look at themselves. At no point did the Father help his son to understand what he had done wrong, he was too busy listening to the sound of his own voice and using abuse as the answer. What did it teach that boy? The opposite of what he intended to achieve. I found it very, very hard to watch. It was all very much boasting and self indulgent, why did he have to film that? To show off that he whooped a kid's ass? We complain that we are oppressed by the whites but is it any wonder what our people are doing in the streets if this is the behaviour they see at home? I hope he feels like such a big grown up dude after whooping that little boy's ass. His use of languages conveys his extreme unintelligence perfectly. And the language of all of you agreeing with him shows the same.


gemini615
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women that raise men have boys that become bitches...even if a man don't want to be w the girl...raise your kids...women who try to pay back their men for leaving them by keeping their children away from them...you are only punishing the child. i am ALL for disciplining ur kids...beat them if you have to...recently boys have grown up to become punks, bitches, etc. Teach them how to be men. Women do not know how to teach a boy to be a man...they have them dressing in tight jeans, and tight shirts and think its cute. i can't stand it


HTOWN2000
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You know its borderline to me because he beat his ass twice and then let his potna get one in too. I mean damn two ass whoopings is good, then to let someone else get it in with the belt too! It might be good discipline or whatever but you can't take it too far like that. He tells his boy now its your turn. I understand all the other shit but dont take the time to videotape it either. Someone please call the popo for that little boy.


prettiladi83
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The cussing and the filming wasn't needed, but nice to see a father taking the time to teach him a lesson. Lord knows there's too many bad ass wild kids running around these days.


djcatman
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Remove the CURSING AND FILMING!!!!!, otherwise JOB WELL DONE DADDY!!!!


IMAFOOL33
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GOOD JOB..THESE WHITE FOLKS BUILDING PRISONS FOR YOUNG BLACK MEN !!!


TreeBaby
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That Dad Did Exactly What He Was Supposed To Do !!! Good Job!!!


ChicaChe
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I APPLAUD THIS MAN, CPS SHE APPLAUD HIM TOO!


MrsIrvingToBe
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Man, this almost made me cry. I got my tail tore out the frame almost everyday. I could not for the life of me get it together in school. My mom took things away from me.. She made me wear my hair like a baby since I was acting like one, she made me at time dress like I acted (like a baby).... but she NEVER televised it. That's not really our business, though entertaining to some. He did take it too far with putting it on the net. I don't have kids but have a serious passion for them because I know the type of hell I caused others. And now I teach and give back. You don't have to curse at your child to get the point across... I was never cursed at, but those beatings did the job. and I am very successful, degree in psychology, talented and doing my thing. We as a people need to learn better strategies... we have good intentions, but they aren't always executed properly.


Muffins
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You guys can say what you want, This is Black excellence in the making. He will be a scholar, while you folks continue to make comments on MTO. Get offline and take care of your sons. #yougodad


Naifree
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TOTALLY JUSTIFIED!!!! You act up in school, you pay the consequences!!! And it makes it EVEN BETTER that the father of the child is the one administering the punishment. FATHERS BE THERE FOR YOUR SONS!!!! I love every minute if it. Nothing wrong with a lil discipline, "time out" don't work for most kids but that belt does!!!!


ChicaChe

seescarface
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He didn't Ho HAM, HE Handled his business as a father! Not to many have a strong black father, I had one and I don't fall in line with NONE of the statistics. @ longlegged, very true! @ chocolatedrp props to ur mom!


smoochy
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GREAT JOB DAD! Feels good to see a black father taking responsiblity & being an involved parent. Good lessons but cut out teaching him all that foul language, he'll just go out and use on other people, not cool. And all the people who think this is abuse, you're probably some of those bad azz kids that didn't get your Azz's whipped enough as a kid and now you're a fukked up adult, so shut the hell up and sit the fuk down! And whatever you do don't breed!



whitepow3r
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THIS IS WHY BLACK MEN ARE IN JAIL. BLACK PEOPLE STUCK ON SLAVE MENTALLY. BEATING YOUR KIDS DOESN'T HELP THEM IN LIFE. IT JUST TOUGHENS THEM UP FOR WHEN THEY GO TO JAIL. BEATING YOUR KIDS ISNT GOING TO STOP THEM FROM ACTING UP.


traynice
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That's the problem with these young stupid ass black parents...why cut his hair and beat him. Stupid Nigga shit that's why our community is so fucked up..Either you don't discipline or your dumb ass don't know how.


TriniMia
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This right is nothing close to what we got growing up in the Caribbean. So what if it was recorded..we got beat at school, then at home, then which other family member was in the mood to beat you as well. I've seen friends get beat in front of the whole neighborhood...but guess what...we lived to laugh about it. He will will be one of the few that make it...and thank his father later...he may hate him now...but I understand the beatings today...I got a belt buckle to the eye...by accident while getting punished...but kept it moving. Guess what...after a few I didn't want anymore...lol.


Muffins
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P.S: If you don't whoop you kids asz now.....the police will do it for you in a few years


pennylane
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VIOLENCE PERPETUATES VIOLENCE. TIME TO BREAK THE CYCLE!!! He is teaching his son to be VIOLENT and ABUSIVE to make a point, instead of using his mind to solve problems and figure out a different way to act. I see so many things WRONG with this videotaped abusive parenting, but first out the gate is the fact that the FATHER is not 24/7 Parenting. This child is being raised by his Grandmother. So how are you going to come in as the Enforcer and part-time Dad. There is a reason for the boy "acting up" in school. He wants attention. Even negative Attention is better than none. The TALK was good, but follow it up with positive reinforcement and also restrict privileges. That Spare the Rod/Spoil the Child Mentality OBVIOUSLY does not work. Go to Prisons and poll the black men there and I am sure you will find many of them had fathers who BEAT THEM!


MrsIrvingToBe
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@Smoochy, see you are the example of everything you are talking about... You don't have to do all the cursing to get your point across.. I taught in an alternative school for 3 years and I saw kids come to school from abusive homes. And kids act out because of their environment. The daddy is not even that active. Why is the grandma raising HIS son.. Don't come acting like superman when you only sees your son when he's in trouble.. that child needs to see that man regularly....


pytea
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wow he beat him like he was a slave


butch31
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I wouldn't say abuse, but just tough love! If the father didn't care, he would not have done anything. Hopefully this lil boy learns from his mistakes and stop embarrassing his family at school. Next step is seeing a psychiatrist. Spare the rod, spoil the child. I hope parents watching this learn to raise their kids. This particular dad is zero tolerance level.


petitekim
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People fail to realize that this is his second time acting up in a week. So the first punishment wasn't good enough for the boy. As for the video tape, I would have done that also so that I would show him to remind him of what he got when he acted up before.


Eddie60
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FUNNY THE BEATING WAS NOT FILMED! THIS WAS TOO MUCH FOR ME - I ALMOST THROW UP WHEN I HEARD HIM BEATING THE LITTLE BOY. MY FATHER BEAT OUR BUTTS WHEN WE ACTED UP EVEN IN SCHOOL. I WENT TO AN ALL-WHITE CATHOLIC SCHOOL, WHICH HE HAD TO PAY FOR, SO ACTING UP WOULD CAUSE YOU SOME SERIOUS CONSEQUENCES, BUT NOTHING TO THIS DEGREE. IN THE THIRD GRADE I BENT OVER AND TOLD MOTHER SUPERIOR WHAT SHE COULD KISS. TRUST ME I COULD NOT SIT DOWN FOR A WHILE AND I SHOULD HAVE BEEN DISCIPLINED, BUT NOTHING CUASES THIS MUCH DISCIPLINE. BLACK MALES ALREADY STRUGGLE IN ALL AREAS FROM ACCEPTANCE TO HAVING PEOPLE DISRSPEAT AND ANNIHILATE THEM. YOU DON'T NEED TO BE ABUSED BY FAMILY ON TOP ALL THAT. I UNDERSTAND WHERE THERE FATHER WAS COIMING FROM AND TRYING TO DO SO HIS SON WOULD NOT BE A STATISTIC, HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN DISCIPLINED, BUT THIS FATHER WENT TO FAR.


vixenise
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It is a proven fact that children who are hit by their parents are more likely to be violent. Google the percentage of convicts who were hit in a way that cps wouldn't approve. We can bring other races into this by talking about crap we see in grocery stores and on tv shows, but it wouldn't change the damage that has been done to us by us. Some of you are so used to seeing dead beat fathers that you look at abuse and okay it simply because the father is in the picture. Reminds me of women who allow men to harm their kids simply to say "i gotta man." The hell?! Extension cords, high heels, chokeholds, belts with metal attachments, scratching, slapping, stomping...should i go on?...aren't acceptable ways in discipline a child. Anyone who thinks that abuse is fine and say "I was hit and i came out alright," you're not alright!


mruptown
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A real father and not some baby daddy with too much time and sperm to give a shit.


seaki
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This is the way animals treat each other, we are human beings, GOD gave us a mind and intelligence to relate and raise our children. Violence does nothing but generate fear,anger,and resentment. I see many of you have the same "Plantation Mentality" that "controlled your ancestors during the era of slavery and sharecropping. The racist white man's rule was to beat when a black "got out of line". But he had no idea of the genius in his methodology, as he would inspire generations of "Love by Violence". Beating is easy, cowardly way to deal with a child that misbehaves. Parenting takes a lot more than picking up a belt. I guarantee you that he done nothing to see WHY the child was disruptive, Was it the lessons.maybe has a High IQ and is bored by the lessons? Investigate the REAL issues in your children's life. Thats why God gave us a brain. "Design your own fashion line? I can help" http://www.wix.com/seakicreativeservice/designnow


Patience_02
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@ Vixenise I agree.


customcalendars4u2
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I couldn't finish watching either after he made him go into the room and drop his pants. SMDH!! That is ABUSE!!!! this kid is obviously mature beyond his years by the way he interacts with his Militant F.u.c.k.e.d father. Most kids when they know they are in trouble show some sign of emotion especially if a whoopin is coming and he didn't. First Red Flag! The boy has been getting dealt with by his father like this all his young life and you can tell that by the video, now you tell me this; If you have a father that humiliates you,beats the s.h.i.t out of you and calls others over to participate then why isn't his way of parenting working??? Why is the child still acting out in school? I will tell u why from my observation his dad is talking to him like he is an adult that can comprehend his adult way of thinking,his father has beat his ass so much in his short time on earth that he is desensitized to getting his whippings,he can't be a child at home so he plays in school even though he knows what will happen if the teacher calls home. All his father is doing is raising another "ANGRY BLACK MALE" that will think when he grows up if people don't do what he wants them to do that it is O.K to lash out and HIT! But later on he might pick up a GUN shoot & kill your child because he is so angry. Think About That!!! I know If his teacher knew how he was being treated at home I promise you they would have dealt with him in another way. If this tape is showed to the authorities they would have to investigate this family and I hope they do. Just because a child goes to school in the latest fashions doesn't mean he has good parents!



Trini4th
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Everything was Fine an I !00% agree wit his Method..it worked on Me!..lol.. he didnt have to Cut off da Boys eyebrows Tho..but lil man did think he was to Pretty to listen...lol...Special Shout Out To The Father!!.....News at 10.


Greg4422
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It's abuse, when you take all those acts together, cutting his hair, and act of humiliation, then a beating by the father in a uncontrollable rage, and the physical hell week workout...all for the camera... this father needs his azz beat.


Clovertrail
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THIS IS ABUSE AND STUPID GHETTO MENTAL CRUELTY. HE IS CONSTANTLY BEATING THE BOY BUT YET HE IS NOT ACTING ANY BETTER AND THEN TO LET SOMEONE ELSE BEAT ON HIM WILL TEACH HIM NOTHING BUT ANGER AND BLACK PEOPLE ARE SOME OF THE MOST IGNORANT, MOST VIOLENT PEOPLE WHO ARE POPULATING THE JAILS B/C THEY HAVE A PROBLEM W/ANGER. THE BOY WILL HAVE MENTAL ISSUES LATER ON. THE DAD LOOKS LIKE AN IGNORANT THUG WITH ALL THAT MESS ON HIS HEAD. HE NEED TO TAKE THAT RAZOR TO HIS OWN HEAD.


Zomg
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@ateecha, I agree with you and all the sensible posters. You do not need to physically beat your child to get them to behave, only the low-brow individuals will resort to such. All he's learning is to resent that man and that if he doesn't get caught, there will be no punishment. But to each their own.


baddestinthegame
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If that's how he treats his kid on a regular basis, there's no mystery why the kid is acting out in class. He said he had just beat him a few days ago. Obviously, it's not working. And when the grandfather comes home, he says, "we're going to take turns." Terrible! Profanity, shaving eyebrows, beating with a belt, shoving a camera in his face, huiliating him outside in public... that's what you busters call "good parenting?" Parenting is literally brain surgery... it is literally shaping the brain and lifestyle of another living being. How many people are capable of being brain surgeons? About 1% of the population. That is EXACTLY how many people SHOULD be having children. 99% of you motherfuuckers have no business crapping out kids! And if you fools think that there isn't going to be a follow-up video in a few days of this dude getting arrested, you obviously don't live in Florida.


tippy2u
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There is a fine line between discipline and abuse. This is abuse. Whipping your child is fine, but you can't tell me that he didn't leave bruises on him. Was he trying to be macho by videotaping it? It doesn't even sound like he lives with his father. I'd like to take a razor to his hair....and a bat upside his head.


dmarley78
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I AGREE WITH EVERY THING THIS FATHER DID 'WELL DONE"


wampy10
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I think this is horrible! This father is not doing this for the well being of his son! He is doing this to get Youtube Hits and to be on this site. There is no reason a father needs to speak to his son the way he was. I dont agree with the way his friend was saying they were gonna take turns beating him. I too was hit as a child, and after my mother would loose control she would cry because she knew she was wrong. No child deserves to be beaten with a belt the way he did and especially not publicly! How many black and latino men are in jail BEING DISCIPLINED? TOO many!!! and what happens after their time?? Most of them go back! This man should have his son taken away from him for being so stupid and having this embarrassing video put up! He should be embarrassed of him self. If his son deserved to be beat for acting up in school, this man deserves to be beat for laying his hands on his son and letting someone else touch his son as well! Idiot! Follow me on twitter @iamWAMPY


dmarley78
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i agree with every thing this father did "WELL DONE"


Patience_02
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Time for a new show to come out "What Not to Do"


vabeats
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good job?..its on the net..u cant separate that they both need discipline. The net is not a village.


Nana_02
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I'm so livid with this video and so f*ckin disgusted. how dare a parent beat their kids with a belt, even after the kid is sayin "stop its burning" all cuz they actin up in school. Parents like that DON'T deserve to have kids under their roof. Shame to ya MEDIATAKEOUT.COM for clappin 2 this mans behavior.


magnanimous616
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That is horrible. I disagree with this post. Fathers should not discipline their children in such a manner. To let a child know that they are wrong and to go about correcting the problem is one thing, however to break down the child’s self esteem is another. The “father” in this video recorded his child being tormented. There isn’t anyone that is perfect and I’m pretty sure he isn’t either. I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t allow his hair to be cut in a way that’s not presentable just to teach him a lesson. Also, he video taped the entire thing. There was amusement he found in the way he disciplined his child. Great, there’s a male in the house however if he continues to treat that child like that, then in that child eyes, he will not be looked at as a father. FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER  @JUS_FRESH86


Clovertrail
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THIS IS ABUSE AND STUPID LOW CLASS PARENTING. THAT THUG PROBABLY DIDN'T EVEN MARRY HIS MOM AND NOT CONTRIBUTING ENOUGH TO HIM AT ALL. HOW COME HIS GRANDMOTHER HAD TO PAY FOR HIS HAIRCUT? THEN HE STEPS IN AND BEAT ON THE BOY. IT IS OBVIOUSLY NOT WORKING. THE BOY NEEDS BETTER PARENTS.


geegee626
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I agree with the father 100%. Now that's disipline!



iluvsongz
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NOTHINGS WRONG WITH THIS... DONT LIKE THAT YOU PUT IT OUT HERE FOR HIS SON FRIENDS TO SEE BUT HES A MAN RASING A MAN IN 2011 WHERE WE DONT SEE BLACK FATHERS DOING THEIR JOB, BUT THEY ON MAURY SAYING THAT BABY DONT LOOK LIKE ME... I PERSONALLY THINK HE JUST SAVE HIS SON FROM PRISON, IF IF HE DISIPLINE HIS CHILD NOW LIKE HES DOING THEN 10 YEARS FROM NOW HE WONT HAVE TO PUT HIS HANDS ON HIM BECUZ HE'LL KNOW HOW HIS FATHER GETS DOWN


LEUFANE
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Lil kids are bad as hell and sometimes this is necessary. My neighbors son is 7 and told an 80 year ol man to suck his dyck. Lil homie will think twice before actn up again becuz he know whats waiting. When I was yung my mama used to whoop my azz and stay on me about doing the right things.Every beating i got i deserved and she always counseled me after.I love u ma because of u i have a career,never been arrested or in jail, dont have any a bunch of kids n baby mamas. if this is what it takes to keep black men outta jail.....I say whoop dat azz


baddestinthegame
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Why does the "father" keep referring to the "grandmother" as the person who sent the child to school? Why does the "father" say "grandaddy is home" when the older man enters. Obviously, this fool is NOT involved in the kid's daily life. Maybe if he were, the kid wouldn't be acting out. On the other hand, since this profane clown has absolutely no idea what he is doing as a "parent/sperm donor," it might be a good idea for him to stay out of this child's life. This is the EPITOME of why I am NEVER having children. I do not want them living in a world with the morons you fools are raising.


Greg4422
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taking bets, how long before this father is arrested for child abuse since this video has gone viral? I say 2 days... don't drop the soap papa...lol


Patience_02
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I see many comments saying "If that what it takes", and I say a simple mind produces simple actions.


magnanimous616
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I disagree with this post. Fathers should not discipline their children in such a manner. To let a child know that they are wrong and to go about correcting the problem is one thing, however to break down the childs self esteem is another. The boy in this video recorded his child being tormented. There is not anyone that is perfect and I am pretty sure he isn't either. I’m pretty sure he would not allow his hair to be cut in a way that’s not presentable just to teach him a lesson. Also, he video taped the entire thing. There was amusement he found in the way he disciplined his child. Great, there is a male in the house however if he continues to treat that child like that, then in that child eyes, he will not be looked at as a father.


DJJayito
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I would LOVE an update to this video to see if this worked. No father wants to discipline his son, but sometimes, especially when you live in a neighborhood where MANY do end up in prison, YOU HAVE TO! To at least TRY to keep them safe.


Cinnamin
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People often misinterpret the bible. Proverbs 22:6 says,Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it." To train a child dosen't necessarily means beating a child. I'm not against disciplining unruly kids, but there is a way to do it. His language was unacceptable, the shaving of the child's eyebrow was uncalled for, and the film was not necessary, however i did like the bootcamp which i think black people should use instead of whooping all the time! The prison is fill with angry black men that was belted in there younger years so beating don't always case a child to "act right". The problem with most black parents is that we lack affection, we seldomly, if ever, tell our children "I love you".Sometimes the promblem is not the children it's ignorant parents. Never humiliate your children, it causes hatred that cause destruction.


DJJayito
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and anyone saying you can reason with kids. YES, sometimes you can. I'm guessing that with this kid, you cannot. You try to keep reasoning with him, see what happens. And - NO - I am not about hitting kids.


Sexy48
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By any means necessary! You won't think twice about it if he robs your a$$ 10yrs. from now!!


leftandright
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! In the DC area, all people see is these fucked up acting teens jumping on innocent people because they feel they can (not all of them are out of control, but enough of them are). About damn time some one takes control of his managed ass, before the streets do. My mother whooped her 5 kids asses just the same, and we all are still alive, didn't sell drugs, and have degrees and careers with nice families.


luv2kiss
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WAY TO GO DAD!!. BLODDY KID WAS OUTTA ORDER AFTER THE DAD HAS SPOKEN WITH HIM IN REFERENCE TO HIS BEHAVIOR PREVIOUSLY AT SKOOL. GOOD JOB. DON'T SHOW HIM NO MERCY.


leftandright
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I will say this about the video, I don't agree with him video taping it and putting it on the web.


Zaira
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Good parenting? He kept saying things about the grandparents like they were the ones who are raising the child. What was the purpose of him recording the video for the whole world to see. Nothing wrong with disciplining a child but he is doing too much.


Patience_02
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"If that's what it takes" No. Please do some research for other alternatives thank you :) The two beaters should use that energy on helping him with homework. Once again a simple mind produces simple actions!!



thugbephine
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Yea that was abuse to the 10th agree. Only because He should only did 1 of the other... YOu can't spank them, then make them go through a hard workout routine. He should of done just 1


leelee1229
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i did not agree with his method of parenting, i think it was a little dramatic and he shouldn't have recorded it. i understand the physical discipline part but the whole hair cut and beating him was over the top that child will grow up to hate him the child isn't learning anything especially if he wasn't explained what he did wrong.


Mistamel
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THIS DUDE IS TRYING TO GET THE FAME THROUGH HIS KID. I'M A FATHER AND HAVE A SON AND I DO DISCIPLINE HIM BUT THIS IS JUST BS. WHAT IS HE TRYING TO PROVE HERE, IS HE TRYING TO SET AN EXAMPLE TO ME PARENTING MY SON.. GTFOH. HE TRIED TO GET POPULAR LIKE THE UNCLE THAT WHOOPED HIS NEPHEW BECAUSE OF THAT GANGSTER FACEBOOK...SOME OF YÁ LL MIGHT THINK THIS IS GOOD PARENTING..I SEE THIS AS TRYING TO GET SOME FAME..F*UCK OUTTA HERE...THIS KID IS GOING TO HAVE A PROBLEM AT SCHOOL FOR A LONG TIME..I'M MORE FURIOUS AT THE DAD..I'M SO HEATED RIGHT NOW, U CAN'T IMAGINE....


Delanda
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Ok, maybe the father shouldn't of recorded all of that, BUT!! I'm sorry, these bad a$$ kids NEED to have that a$$ whipped! To the people that feel the police should be involved, please mind your business. Clearly you don't know what abuse is. Other then the foul language, the father said/did nothing wrong. At least, DAD is in the boys life! I bet Jr. will think twice before he acts up again in class...


Blacque
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not abuse at all, discipline is what that is...my opinion a switch a work wundaz dad, belts make churrinz mean n they dont hurt. switches hurt like fire n u dont exert alot of energy using them


bonebody
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What I find funny is all the people talking about abuse and how wrong this is and all that. Yeah, maybe the whipping was a little much, but I remember when I was a child catching ass whoopings from my pops (stepfather) and I turned out just fine: bachelor's degree, making $75K a year as an IT instructor, served eight years in the military, never been to jail, never had a problem with the law. I just wish I knew my biological father, but it's all good because someone stepped up and helped me to become the man that I am today. Also the videotape, in my honest opinion, was definitely justified. It can serve as a reminder to that little boy what happens when you act reckless in school. All that "timeout" and other "alternative" methods for child rearing don't work for everybody. But I also don't condone always putting a belt to a child all the time either. I take things away from my children: their time, their toys, their freedom cause if they act up while they are in the world they will end up in a place where all of those things will be taken from them anyway.


denay_64
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I am with so many people who are saying it!! THATS WHAT IT TAKES TOO RAISE A STRONG MAN! You have all these women raising young gay boys,saying oh no! dont do him like that. give him some ice cream and love him.! THATS THE PROBLEM! A real man spends time and when he fucks up,GETS IN THAT AZZ!! I still thank my pops too this day for it!!!


Mistamel
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That robbing your a$$ comment is just bs...like black men robbing / killing other blacks didn't get good parenting GTFOH. ..I have seen plenty black men around me go to jail or gotten killed and they had hard working decent parents that tried to teach them good morals and values ...but they got into a lot of shit because of peer pressure... Don't stereotype all black people going to jail because of parental failure..I didn't have a father in my home..but me and my lil brother turned out very well.. This is just EXTRA...videotaping; taking pics...


CDEX08
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The world is corrupt because many people disobey the basic biblical principle of disipline. The Father did the right thing! "He who spareth the rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him correcteth him betimes" (Proverbs 13:24) and "Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell." (Proverbs 23:13-14)


CL101
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DISCIPLINE...AND WHOEVER SAYS IT AINT NEEDS THEY A$$ WHOPPED BY THIS MAN PERSONALLY


mocha0021
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Abuse?! He did bad and had to suffer the consequences. For every action there's a reaction. Obviously talking to the little boy didn't help. This is usually how my sons get disciplined ( minus the haircut). Like he said you go to school to learn, nothing else. In my household I'm not raising NO dummies. My kids will be somebody when they get older. Like in the clip. It takes a village! Parenst need to get ahold of their kids before the streets do. I know for a fact my kids will not be a statistic!


Niagara
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IT'S CALLED DISCIPLINE. I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH WHAT HIS FATHER DID EXCEPT FOR THE LANGUAGE, OTHER THAN THAT. KUDOS TO DAD.


CL101
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ITS FUNNY HOW PPL SAY AFRICAN AMERICANS ABUSE THEIR KIDS BUT WHO'S THE FIRST TO B ON THE NEWS DROWNING THEIR KIDS???? OR JUST KILLING THEM AND BARRYING THEM???? NEED I SAY MORE....CASEY ANTHONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


jamaicanqueen11
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THAT'S DISCIPLINE!!!....IN MY COUNTRY JAMAICA THAT WAS HOW MY PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS DISCIPLINED US WHEN WE MISBEHAVED.....GAVE US A WHOOPIN!!


bonebody
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Another thing, have you seen how some of these kids are acting out here? No respect, lack of discipline, bad behavior is being rewarded, etc. Like a few of the previous posters mentioned, these kids are raising each other out here. These kids want iPod's, cell phones, gaming consoles, fresh gear but yet they want to act up in school? GTFOHWTBS.... Then people talking about call the people on the father? At least this child knows his dad and his dad is taking the time to do something in his life, so much I can say for plenty of other children out there that don't even know their dad or they calling every other man that comes to the house Uncle _____. But everybody is going to have a different perspective on this. Some people grew up in warm, loving environments and such activity wasn't necessary. We don't know what type of environment they are actually in. All anybody can go off is the video that was posted and anything that is said is merely speculation. But I will go out on a limb and say that this child will probably not act up as much anymore.



mustardseeds27
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I'm in my 40s and my generation failed our youth with all that "time out", video games, and compromising with their children. I was born in the 60s and parents would BEAT that ass. So I say this man did the right thing by doing this to his son. This will serve as a deterrent to bad behavior and you can best believe that kid won't be laughing and talking in school no more.


Mistamel
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Him giving the whooping AIN'T the issue...HIM RECORDING that shit and putting it on the internet is...TO ME THAT TAKES AWAY THE MESSAGE IN DISCIPLINE LIL MAN..Hé's is not teaching me as a BLACK parent anything...I'm not learning anything of valua by this...


Alcololic
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Cosign Patience_02. A dad does more than punish (not the same thing as discipline). He also plays catch, helps with homework, and gives his children love. Show us a video of this father and son getting along and doing something positive and then I'll say pops was in line here.


JoeyW
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This is CHILD ABUSE! How in the world can you be satisfied enough with the thought of your own child in misery? Only a sick individual would do something like this, and then RECORD it to publish on the internet. It amazes me how many black parents have SLAVE MENTALITY today. Go back a few hundred years: when slaves would disobey their masters, what would happen? The masters would pull out the whip and beat the slave. So we have black parents adopting the same policies of slave masters and applying them to their children, and no one sees anything wrong with that?? Then black parents who beat their kids love to say "White parents don't do this, that's why their kids end up being serial killers". So your parents can teach you that violence is the solution to all problems, and as long as you don't end up a serial killer then you're OK? What about blacks ending up in jail for violent acts at higher portions than other races? When you are bred in violence you figure that it's the only way to resolve issues. And lastly, I hate this notion that parents have where they want their children to fear them. There is a difference between FEAR and RESPECT! A lot of lazy bums out there see it easier to get someone to fear them, but respect is earned. But then again, those people treat their kids like slaves so of course earning their respect is out if of the question. Some people on this earth make me sick.


WHO919
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I'm against the azz whooping even though I grew up with them, I feel if you play an active roll in your child education this would not have happen, It appears that the child is raised by his Grandmother/mother but yet the father discipline him, trust me the problem is much deeper then this cause I was like this kid growing up even though the beating would hurt but the pain will go away and I was back on my grind doing stupid chit that why I don't let my children get away with this they know the rules I have no problem taking away any thing that they see as fun come home due your home work and read no tv for a day,week or a month I don't care how long it takes


kasual
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SEEM TA ME IF HE WAS DAT GOOD OF UH FATHER HED B RAISIN HIS KID NOT GRANDMA.. SMMFH.. OBVIOUSLY HE STIL FCKN UP WIT AL DESE WHUPPINZ HEZ GETN.. BEAT UM TOO MUCH DEY KUM IMMUNE TO GETN HIT N STIL FCK UP NOT ENUF N DEY GET SPOILED..


Yellaboitm
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Dat Niggah Need To Be Put Under The Jail. Then He Posted The Shit Online


Supreme21
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That first initial haircut was F***** up. He zeeked the sh*t out of him. Then he gave that boy some "act right". That was a old school Joe Jackson type of ass whoopin'. I bet he won't act up in school no more. That belt don't play. I believe in some cases ass whoopins are necessary, but it doesn't take that many hits with the belt to get your point across. As you can see by the very first whack the boy was in tears. About 3 or 4 whacks would've been more than enough. He went overboard. The workout was a good way to discipline a child. He might turn him into a pro athlete one day, who knows.


bonebody
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@Mistamel I agree with you brother. Not all kids out there killing, robbing and stealing come from broken homes. A lot of that has to do with these fantasies that mass media is pushing. The images that are celebrated and glorified by the music industry. A lot of these kids choose to lead the lives that they live because they want to fit in or they want to emulate someone/something that they've seen on TV or heard on a record. That's how you break the cycle. If WE promote more positive messages and images then more positive things will occur. If WE taught these children how the world operates then they can function better. Hell, if WE educated OURSELVES better then we could function better. Get some business about ourselves, have a little pride and dignity; develop some self-worth and awareness. It can be accomplished by becoming financially literate, politically active and socially aware. Don't let society dictate what's right and what's wrong, just go out and do the right damn thing.


Bianca99
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I dont know everyone is saying " I bet he wont do it again". Obviously he did it again cause he is getting his lil butt tore up for doing it again. Kids definitely have to be disciplined but he didnt have to record it and act like he is father of the year. Obviously he doesnt live there and the grandparents are raising the child. He should have tried to talk to him first without all the foul language.


SellOutsMustPay
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You weak ass honkeys stop commenting on the way this brother is raising his kids.Thats y these lil crakkkker babies end up shooting up schools cause u so called white people want to put ur lil crakkkker baby on time out.MIND YA BUISNESS


SellOutsMustPay
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These crakkkers want to criticize the way this brother is disciplining his lil man.According to the bible it is not a sin to whoop your kid cause that whooping might save there lives.But it kills me the way these crakkkers want to criticize this brother.Thats why these crakkker pale skin babies end up shooting schools,killing animals,on meth,and being serial killers.Now to my hispanic and black people.If your kid is out of line and does something bad u need to whoop his back side.Im not saying beat down your kid or kill them.Just whoop that ass.That ass whooping might save your kid from being killed or in jail.


bonebody
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I just have to say GTFOH to everybody talking about this whole "slave mentality" BS. You fake @$$ Furious Styles, self-righteous Negroes. As if black people are the only ones that whip their children. Children get their @$$3$ whipped in every corner of the Earth but I don't see y'all talking about the "slave mentality" in those instances. So spare me the talk about anything of the sort i.e. Willie Lynch Letter. A lot of what people are saying has been the same stuff that has been programmed into your minds and regurgitated for years to no avail. It's no longer a valid argument in my opinion. The new slave mentality is the creation of the current monetary system. In that right we are all slaves to every institution that man has created (financial, religion, political, etc). Learn to do and think for yourselves. If you want to really impress me start to put some of that BS y'all spitting on MTO on the daily and create a real movement. Other than that, you just as bad as the people that you're claiming are so terrible and dysfunctional in the world.


tot62702
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Just some food for thought. I am not against the father in principle, but let's be fair. Belt whippings ARE NOT A GUARANTEE for a successful adult. While some kids need a good a** whipping, some of this society's worst offenders were WELL SPANKED and whipped as a child. You have to take the temperment of the child in question. MY cousin was whipped REGULARLY......And I do mean regularly. Case in point. A six he got whippings for acting out in school. At seven he caught a ass whipping for crying when he fell off his bike. At nine, his dad (my uncle) caught him with a gun. He ran away before his father could kick his ass but two days later his dad whipped him so hard his butt had bruises and cuts on it. At 14, he got into a fight at the pool and when Dad came, he pulled down his bathing suit and whipped him in front of EVERYBODY!!! You name it: bad grades, late for curfew (even if five minutes), dirty language, whatever......You guessed it. He got a butt whipping. And anybody could witness it Two weeks ago, he was sentenced to ten years for home invasion. He has been a drug for eleven years. Seven of those years have been crack. His life is broken and he has six children but isn't a real part of their lives...... Look at Michael Jackson. Was he sexually abused as a child? I doubt it. We all know how Joe Jackson was infamous with his love of the belt and switch and as talented a musician he was, let's face it: The man was a mess. I called CPS on a woman who beat her son practically DAILY!!! The belt was swung almost every single DAY for something. It was to the point he didn't even cry from the whippings. He was groaned through it. No tears. And he was only three when I called. I am not against corporal punishment. I am for ANY positive discipline. But some African-Americans have the idea that a belt on bare a** is all we need to cure the ills of our youth. But history proves again and again that is not ALWAYS the case. I remember at fifteen my teacher called home and let a message that I was playing on the computer. She wasn't computer illiterate and didn't realize I was reading articles on the computer. It's not like I was playing Tetris or something. But my parents were patient and asked for my side in the matter. And My mother called the teacher and we got on the same page. But there are parents out there who would have whipped me first and ask questions later because the teacher called. Just my two cents.....


desdes
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that's what i'm talkin about. that's called good ole fashion discipline. that's how me and my brother got it and this father is doing it the right way. and MTO I dont see why ya'll trippin over the language. my mama cussed at us when we got in trouble so its no big deal. at least he aint beatiing the child to death.



TheYolanda85
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ABUSE! no need for him to humiliate the poor kid! HE'S just a kid see that's whats wrong with us parents sometimes we expect a child to act like a grown up when we have all gone through that stage! that is just part of being a kid fooling around laughing and just being happy!! ... i bet the dad here acted like a fool too once in his life when HE was a kid and come on! if the kid got all this humiliation for just clowning around in school just take that video game console away u were talking about for God's sake! and make him do some chores around the house he seemed like a smart kid to understand! imagine what the dad would do to him if he he was to do something worst like get in a fight in school or steal pfft that fool would prob. kill that poor kid... its good to discipline your kids but not to that extreme especially for something that small...seems to me that the dad was treated like that when he was young too and now hes trying to take out on his own child not good SMFH.... >;/


tot62702
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I wanted to clarify (sorry there is no spelling or grammar check. My cousin was whipped by HIS FATHER regularly and has been a drug addict since sixteen. He is 28 now. My Dad is white (not that race is an issue), but I do believe if his father were more like mine, he would have been better off. He founded the gun in some alley or somewhere and it was in his closet. He wasn't looking to use it or anything. It was more of a curiosity than anything.


Bianca99
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Stop bringing race into every damn thing. Im black and I have a cousin that grew up to be a thief and a killer. His mom tried every type of disciplinary action possible to try and make him grow up to be a successful, productive black man. Parents can only do so much, people are going to grow up and do what they want.


RealRuckusReturns
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WTF with recording it and putting it on the internet???? What the h*ll? No reason for that. I mean, he has good intentions, but I do NOT see what embarrassing and humiliating a child before the whole world will accomplish. All that is going to do is jack up the kid's self esteem. I mean....damn....n*ggas have no clue...even when they try to do right they still f*ck it up.


RealRuckusReturns
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And some of you all talking about corporal punishment are idiots. Go to any prison and take a poll and I guarantee 90% of the n*ggas in there got whipped and spanked. If you do not balance discipline with positive affirmation, all you are doing is F*CKING THE KID UP.


babyboytres
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I GOT MY ASS WHOPPED INFRONT MY CLASS BY MY AUNTY WHEN I WAS YOUNGER,I GOT WHOPPED WHEN I DO SOMETHING BY MY GRANDPA,GUESS WHAT? I HAVE NEVER ENDED UP IN JAIL,OR EVEN ARRESTED IN MY LIFE,I HAVE NO RECORD,I GRADUATED HS,& WENT THRU COLLEGE,DISCIPLINE WORKS,YALL SAYING WHY HE RECORDING IT,CAUSE THE REGULAR DON'T WORK NO MORE,NEED TO GIVE THEM A LIL BIT MORE.PROUD OF DUDE THERES THOUSANDS OF BLACK MEN IN JAIL CAUSE HIS FATHER WASN'T THERE TO TEACH HIM RIGHT OR DISCIPLINE HIM..


bonebody
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Violence.... Some of y'all wouldn't know what violent and abusive is if it hauled off and punched you in the lips. But again, we are all going to have varying degrees of opinion when it pertains to anything going on in this world. To me, nine or ten lashes with the belt is not violent, maybe excessive, but not violent. Now if he were to start throwing jabs, kicking him, choking him, using other weapons against him then I'd have to say that's violence. He didn't beat that child bloody, he was walking, running and doing suicides shortly thereafter. The only thing I can agree on is any psychological or emotional abuse, but even then.... I'm just saying, some of these kids might need more structured discipline; some boot camp-style drilling, a little tongue lashing. When I was in the Army we got tongue lashings and had to do front-back-go's until we damn near passed out but it wasn't abuse, we were being broken down and raised back up. But I guess some of you might think that they were brainwashing us huh? Silly people....


mintlg
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JOB WELL DONE! I DIDN'T COME FROM A LINE OF ABUSE, BUT I DID COME FROM A FAMILY THAT DIDN'T PLAY GAMES WHEN IT CAME TO DISCIPLINE. IF THIS IS THE METHOD HE FELT WAS RIGHT...I APPLAUD HIM. BETTER THAT THAN TO NOT HAVE A HAND AT ALL IN THE CHILD'S LEFT. TOO MANY DEAD BEAT DADS THAT AREN'T EVEN AROUND TO GIVE A GOOD ASS WHOOPING NOWAWAYDAYS!


SheDuckedOff
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he did a good job.A lot of men are rarely in their children's lives.. bad behavior should not be rewarded


silkcity
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Right on bro! need more of that out of parents. 2 many of these kids walking around lkin fresh and don't deserve it. Great job of being a dad!


UaDummy247
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I cant believe how pussified society has become. He got whooped with a belt, for acting up in school. Some of you act like the father was doing him like "Penny" on Good Times with the iron and stuff. I clearly remember a time when if you acted out of place as a child, mommy or daddy put your ass back in place. Thats all I see that happened here. The man talked to his son at the beginning and everything to see wtf was he thinking. This was a well balanced azz whoopin. If time-outs work for your kid, then good. Do you. I just dont think you need to be so quick to call "child-abuse" to some one with a different method of disciplining theres. #Bye


UaDummy247

Missmoney100
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THIS IS NOOO GOOD I DONT THINK THIS GOOD PARENTING AT ALL. WHY WOULD HE RECORD THIS? I JUST DONT THINK THIS WAS RIGHT AT ALL


ICU22
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I must say this video was hard to look at, I'm all for discipline but this was brutal. Another thing why was it recorded? Simply to humiliate the child, meanwhile causing this child to be teased & taunted by his peers in public. Ultimately resulting in him to be involved in fights & more trouble in school.


bonebody
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Reward good behavior, face consequences for bad behavior. Encourage them when they excel, make them aware of their shortcomings, correct that behavior and look out for any progress. When they start doing good again, pull back just a little, but never leave your guard down. I never said that all a child needs is their ass whipped exclusively or even on a daily basis or every single time they do something wrong. I don't even do that with my own kids. The belt stopped working on them a long time ago, so, as mentioned in one of my previous posts, I've resorted to taking away things they felt they were entitled to: games, toys, time, etc. I reward them when they act right, but I make sure they understand what they did wrong and explain to them how they can avoid repeating said behavior.



Greg4422
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@desdes qoute... "at least he aint beatiing the child to death" Not this time...


destn4gr8ness
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Only thing I disagree with is recording it everything else is all good. Reason why kids misbehave is because there is no real repercussions an somtimes @$$ whoopins are needed just for a friendly reminder as to why they need to act right an most importantly respect those in authority. I applaud the discipline but not the video taping


ButterflyyLuv
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ABUSE ! now you wonder why our black men grow up hating their fathers and sh't like that cause of this mess. I believe in discipline but come on now filming? thats terrible ! and whoopin' his azz aint gon make it better talk to him and tell him what he did wrong first and warn him..that will scare a child if you warn them but yeah the father needs an azz whoopin ! @_ButterflyLuv_


KrystleStabss011
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Lol only push overs think this is abuse I don't know a black parent that DON'T curse at they kids when they actin up.....he ain't wrong so shut y'all ol sensitive asses up. Sons probably already grabbin dick at this lil boys age lmfaoooo.


tot62702
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OK.......Let's review. the father KNEW he was getting a whipping. He got a whipping on Monday and only a few days later he is getting another whipping? He talked to his son to see what he was thinking? Like the kid could say "Well Tommy told me a joke, and then I laughed and then I told some jokes and we just got carried away Daddy. I'm sorry". Spare me. There was NOTHING he could say. And how much you want to bet he will "act up" again in the school within two weeks.


swiss_honey_bee
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OMG NOOOOO!!!! HE DIDN'T HAVE TO BEAT HIM UP. THAT SOUNDED REALLY PAINFUL. I JUST HOPE THAT WAS A LESSON ......


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Tigerett901
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Ten thumbs up to the father........ THis is not child abuse.....I bet his lil azz will think twice about acting up again. We need more parents like this in the world. Sometime tough love is the best love for some. There are so many young children straying away from reality and get lost in the troubles of the world. You have to teach cause went they do wrong they will look at the parents and judge them not the child. Great job father...


RealRuckusReturns
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Plus dad is an attention w.h.0.r.e. If you are really about helping your child, handle that business in the privacy of your own home. Don't sit up there and record it and broadcast it to the whole world. Dumb a.s.s n*gga. Then when the D.A. and child protective services pull the video from the net and use it as evidence against him he will swear he was done wrong. People act like the internet isn't PUBLIC lol.


JoeyW
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@bonebody You are one sad case. The fact that you would even bring up army tactics in a conversation about disciplining a CHILD is beyond idiotic. The army is not the real world. Why would any sensible human being want to "break down" their own child? That's the part of life where you start building the foundation, and if you crack that then it's damaged forever. And it'd be funny if it wasn't so pathetic how you just gloss over psychological and emotional abuse as if it was so insignificant, then you go right back into spewing your BS


Tigerett901
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@ ajax38 ......... Love your comment... so true


tot62702
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And AGAIN I ASK, if you are using corporal punishment on THIS level at such a young age, what will he do at 14? Good Lord. I am NOT for lack of discipline. But it has to be good discipline.


johnnybbrnU
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HE IS A FUCKING COWARD. WHERE DO HIS PUNK ASS LIVE. STRAIGHT HUMILIATION. HE NEED HIS PUNK ASS WHIPPED.


Doctor40
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Me and my son have the same conversation in the car every morning en route to dropping him off at school: "Do your work, Pay attention, Follow the rules, and Respect yourself and Respect others". But PEER PRESSURE always wins...Because when kids are in the environment with their peers, they feel they have to impress. I know the father meant well, but unfortunately...LIL DUDE PROBABLY ACTING UP IN CLASS RIGHT NOW. Its a different world when you go to school...especially public school. The child probably is not a bad student, but PEER PRESSURE is tough. Hell, Im an adult and from time to time I want to impress others..so can you imagine the thinking of a child. Just continue to nurture and support him, he'll be alright. I Promise.


blkr0se
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OK AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT NOTICE THE BOY IS WITH THE GRANDMOTHERS NOT THE FATHER!!! SMDH. I'M ALL FOR DISCIPLINE. BUT IDK BOUT THIS



Mei
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KUDO'S TO THE MAD DAD LMAO!!! Shorty look like one of those bad ass Bronx kids that'll say suck their d*ck & run. But he better watch out because he's making shorty strong enough to retaliate and f*ck his ass up by the time he turns 13 LMAO!


Itsmebitch
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Thats abuse and I hope law enforcement take a look at this video and lock his ass up..yes you should disipline your kids but that was a little bit too much and than he had the nerve to put it online like he bragging about it that shit aint funny..If he end up not getting locked up for this its all good he just have to reap what he sow cause right is right and wrong is wrong


Itsmebitch
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I wish people will stop saying something about fathers are not in their children's lives.. stop messing around with these bustas that aint doin shit for they self just meeting a man at the club having a one night stand getting pregnanat by him thinking he gone stay..and apparently he not in his sons life either cause he said somethin bout his grandma takin care of him he just wanted some internet attention so he did all this shit to his son this shit s not funny


huriyyah
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I am twix n between on this. On one hand, he will survive, he will learn that despite whatever is making him want to act out in school that acting out is only go'n to get him more trouble. Now the other side of the picture is that y is the grandmother raising the child. This indicates the mother is absent and that is what this young man is acting out about. However, this is the culture in the black family. That despite what is wrong, you cannot and will not make things worst by showing your


Brieon15
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I think this is the craziest thing I've seen on here ! Wth is wrong with you Sir? Maybe you need to take your a** back to jail so somebody can have the pleasure of putting their dic* to work fuc* the belt. I feel so bad for this little boy, I almost got choked watching it. My friends & I have done beyond worse things in school besides laughed & disrespected a teacher and never has something even close to this crossed our parents minds. There's a line in the sand and this mad crossed it !


LimbaLimba
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Good ol' ass whooping. I got my butt whooped as a child. Mary was NOT having that. Bad behaviors NEED to be punished. Period. If you don't want to suffer the consequences, then act like it. My mother's way of disciplining me kept me out of all kinds of trouble... never been to jail... AND I'm on college studying to become a Nurse.


chipxskylark
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My father used to do things like this to me...I know exactly how that boy feels...deep seething resentment and hatred...the same kind i have towards my father and I'm 27! I haven't spoken to him for years... it never goes away...I made honor roll all throughout school at the boy's age but i never knew it because I was constantly getting beaten for "excessive" talking and "disrupting" the class...It wasn't until i got to college that i learned I suffer from ADHD...no one ever cared to investigate the cause of my in school behavior...they just beat me for it. I WAS BORED IN SCHOOL! NO INSPIRATION! NO CHALLENGE! the same tired lessons taught year after year....bottom line is that all boys crave the love and respect of their fathers...i guarantee that the man in this video was humiliated and physically abused by his father as well...this behavior has been passed down for generations...I bet it was the words that hurt that little boy worse than anything else...when i have children...I'm breaking this cycle...there are far more effective and creative ways of disciplining your children.


mustardseeds27
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To: Doctor40 I believe that peer pressure can be a powerful force for "some" kids, but the powerful force of a parent has be stronger. The "peer pressure" can't win over the parents, so the parents have to try harder to make their power stronger.


tjtrae1
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Not only is this physcial abuse but mental abuse as well. Got a question for the men cosigning this abuse what if dude was just a step dad and you were the biological dad would go over and shake his hand and say that's great parenting or would go over to get in dude ass for abusing your son? I think we all know the answer to that one-


johnnybbrnU
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IT TAKES MORE THAN BEATING A KIDS ASS, TO MAKE A FATHER. I HAVE CUSTODY OF MY SON AND ALL I GOT TO DO IS RAISE MY VOICE AND HE GETS IN LINE. I NEVER HAD TO PUT MY HANDS ON HIM. SPEND MORE TIME WITH HIM AND SHOW SOME FUCKING LOVE TO HIM, AND SHOW HIM YOU CARE AND HE WILL GIVE IT BACK!


sexe757
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What did this kid do so bad to deserve this. Beating a child does not do anything. This is not funny. Dad needs to take parenting class. Why would he record this mess?


sammi_cupcakes
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As my boyfriend would say "He put the fear if God in that boy". Everything was justified, you cut up in school and you gone get that a.ss whooped. Thats whats wrong with these parents of today. You want to be the friend and not the parent, so when the kid going around getting into all kinds of trouble you sitting looking stupid. Be a good parent and DISCIPLINE your kids. Some kids need they a.ss kicked and others don't but these kids need to learn respect early before someone busts them upside the head or kills them.


MisterCameron
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It ain't abuse... Its discipline... Somethin that alotta kids lack nowadays... Parents nowadays think that "bad kid" shit is cute... I'll whip my sons' asses when they get outta line too... You don't send ya kids to scholl to clown... If you let them play video games and eat candy or whatever, then you're contributing to their bad ass behavior... Tha father gets a standin' ovation from me...


ThankYouBasedGod
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"Discipline" my ass, any parent that has to resort to the use corporal punishment as a way to discipline their children are failures. You don't need to beat the sense into your children. If you were a good enough parent you would be able to talk to and reason with them. If not, you don't need to be having children in the first place, especially if you don't know how to handle them properly. There are other ways of obtaining respect than hitting them. Only a pure fcking dumbass would believe that the only way to cure bad behavior is to "beat that azz". People, I swear.... I mean you teach your children not to hit others, yet you hit them, what of lesson are you teaching them? If your only reasoning is "because I said so", then you are a failure. Teach them why they did what they did was wrong. Be a positive influence. Corporal punishment is a stupid fcking tradition that needs to be ended. And why the fck did he shave his eyebrows? That was fcking stupid. Imo he would have been better off not in the child's life.


huriyyah
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I am twix n between on this. On one hand, he will survive, he will learn that despite whatever is making him want to act out in school that acting out is only go'n to get him more trouble. Now the other side of the picture is that y is the grandmother raising the child. This indicates the mother is absent and that is what this young man is acting out about. However, this is the culture in the black family. That despite what is wrong, you cannot and will not make things worst by showing your behind. That you have got to find a way to figure out how to handle what is bothering you. And, be thankful for what you have rather than complaining about what you don't have. When this young man hears other kids talking bout their mom this and their mom that; he probably wishes his mom was there. Hence, he takes his problem out on the world/school. However, the lesson from the father is this, be thankful u got a grandmother looking after you sending you to school neat n clean and with a nice haircut rather than mooping and complaining about your mom not being there. Where I'm twix at is that there is always a reason for everything. Somebody needs to address the reason y he's acting out. But all in all, I don't think this father is abusive. To tell you the truth none of us know how to solve every problem. Just long as somebody explain to this young man afterwards that if something is bothering you, talk to somebody and get it solved. @usayititellit or fb Huriyyahdebrabey



mizzn
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OKKK, HE TOOK IT WAY TO FAR TO FILM THIS AND POST. I HAVE BROTHERS WHO GOT THEY AZZ DEALT W/ EVERYDAY FROM OUR FATHER. GUESS WHAT?! WHEN THEY GOT GROWN, THEY STILL DID WHAT THEY WANTED TO DO AND SUFFERING FROM THEIR ACTIONS. YES, DISCIPLINE BUT DON'T BRING ANOTHER DUDE IN TO HELP U CHASTISE UR CHILD. THE HAIRCUT WAS F***ED TO DO TOO. BEATING A CHILD ASS IS NOT ALWAYS THE SOLUTION. DUMMIES


N00ni3
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Forget what all these people who are saying that was abuse. He recorded to show what good parenting is! Some men are not even around to discipline at all. He didn't burn him or tie him up or even beat him on camera. All he did was embarrass him a little. Don't ya'll think the little boy caused embarrassment to the children he was teasing in school? Think about it people, that man wants his son to be something in life and I for one APPLAUD him taking care of his fatherly duties. I bet that little boy will behave from now on!!!!!


BrownSkin83
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This was justified either the parents can do it or the prison system can do it which one would "you" prefer? Better him get his ass whooped and talked to like an adult since he wants to behave like he is grown! The kids who fathers dont discipline them will grow up to rob and/or murder all you fools who think this is abuse. I bet he wont show his ass at school anymore. Good for him! I had to beat my childs ass just yesterday and now I know that an ass whooping isn't good enough because he showed his ass again. Getting cursed out and your ass beat is what just about every black person on this forum went through growing up and I bet 90% cant say it didnt work.


RaRaRoRo
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I don't think it was 'abuse,' I think it was just old skool. It's considered abuse in 2011 though. My opinion - I don't see anything wrong. I bet he ain't gone eff up in school again.


Jayhood718
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why in the world would this man record then post this video for other people's entertainment a dame shame. You get respect were you give respect and that is why the boy might be acting up in school.although he is a child he still is a person that deserves respect. theres nothing wrong with decipline but i rather my children respect me then to fear me. cutting his hair and sending him to school bummy is just to belittled him. postive reinforsement parents not negative. he was better off taking the video games he spoke about I hope that young boy doesnt grow up with selfesteem issues.


djshawntouch
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what yall talkin bout man, that is an old fashion Ass whoopin, I almost had a Flash back from my child days, Bet his lil ass wont act up. shoot, I grew up on that type dicipline, came out with a masters Degree and havin a good job, Wasnt tryin to have any more teachers call home or send home a bad report,


SEXYJ
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(GOOD) IT'S NOT ABUSE EMBARRASSMENT IS GOOD SOMETIMES


ChulaChula85
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Ok I don't agree with the video-ing and posting on the internet and if he was going to use the physical workout as punishment then he should have left the whipping out. However, that is his child. I agree that you don't have to give so much to get your point across and with the person who stated DO NOT DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILD ANGRY!!! That's the #1 thing to remember. I'm all for disciplinary action because not knowing right from wrong is partly why kids get in so much trouble. Even though there are various issues and reasons why they do. Everyone has to face consequences for wrongdoing, point blank. Children have to know that they can't go out behaving any kind of way and get away with it. There was a time that you could come to the school and discipline your child and there was no problem with it. Now, there's so many politics involved and society wants to control and raise your kids. There was a time schools were more unified. It's too many passes given. Not saying people should be cruel and abusive but kids need guidelines and boundaries, that's just it. It's every parents' job to protect, guide and love their children. If you instill a strong sense of self and love in them, they'll have no need to look for it in others. Everybody makes mistakes, so don't feel so bad when you're child makes one. It doesn't make you bad parent! What you do to correct it determines what kind of parent you are!! The youth needs parents and leaders to make it.


Cissy
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Better that the father beat his azz rather than the police!!!


Halle
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A little extreme, but the kid needed discipline, I BET ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT KID WILL NOT ACT UP IN SCHOOL. IF YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR KID 3-4 TIMES TO STOP ACTING UP, YOUR DISCIPLINE IS NOT WORKING, BEAT THAT ASS. THE TEACHERS DON'T HAVE TIME TO STOP CLASS AND CONSTANTLY TELL YOU DUMB ASS KIDS TO STOP WHATEVER THEY ARE DOING.


SpreadLove
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This right here is what creates angry, rage-filled, disrespectful young Black men, without a sense of true right and wrong. Why should this boy respect others when he is publicly humiliated, cursed at, and abused by his own family? And all because he was acting up & laughing in class, in other words...being a KID?!? Lazy parenting to the fullest. Any ignorant bully can beat a small child's ass. Demonstrating a strong character and model behavior, explaining things reasonably, and having FAIR consequences...THAT is good parenting. Raise your kids to do right because it is RIGHT, not because they're afraid of being beat. BIG difference. Bet this young boy will only harden, become a bully himself, and be more slick about not getting caught. I only hope his own spirit is stronger than that. The sad thing is how many Black folks cosign this brutality. Passed straight down from the slave master. Wake up - its not working!! I truly hope the proper authorities are contacted. Hate to think what goes on when the camera isn't rolling. This man needs help.


TheInnocentOne
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Shit like this makes me glad I'm grown.LOL I felt bad for the kid yo. I couldn't do that to my child.


iloveyouxoxox
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SMFH! MTO! IF YOU EVER HAVE TO ASK IF IT IS ABUSE OR GOOD DISCIPLINE, GUESS WHAT! ITS ABUSE! THAT IS FUCKING AWFUL, HE IS TRYING TO HUMILIATE HIS KID AND GET FAME THROUGH HIS KID. THIS IS A DAMN AWFUL FATHER. YOU DO NOT HUMILIATE YOUR CHILD LIKE THAT. That is only going to make his son fear him and even resent him and will probably be afraid to go home now., thats it. thats abuse. Abuse is when you exert a more powerful force upon and your intention is to harm them. & then he is just trying to torture that little boy and make sure he gets bullied?! wtf kind of parenting is that? i hope that father sees this comment. F*CK YOU, I HOPE YOU ROT IN HELL YOU PIECE OF SHIT! YOU DO NOT DESERVE THE HONOR OF BEING A FATHER YOU GHETTO HOODRAT! Kids mess up bc they do not know better and clearly the father does not know better. "Beating is easy, cowardly way to deal with a child that misbehaves. Parenting takes a lot more than picking up a belt. " AMEN! I am so against laying a hand on any child. My god, i pray someone helps this poor little boy. who knows what will happen next. @N00ni3 your an idiot if you think this is good parenting. that is NOT good parenting, it is ABUSE! You still heard the child being beaten on camera and being cussed at on camera. That is going to damage his self esteem. smfh dont become a parent. That is not discipline that is abuse. theres a fine line HITTING A CHILD IS NEVER THE SOLUTION


iloveyouxoxox
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this parent is nothing more than a bully and lame ass excuse for a father. @SellOutsMustPay one black to another, do your research because it is mostly black people who are in jail or on the streets selling drugs. It makes my soul burn to that because of the problems that lay across the black community. and a lot of those people had parents like this. I know theres a stereotype for black parents to beat their children, thats why im so thankful that mine didn't. Because the way my parents raised me, kept me off the streets, doing drugs, have sex young, etc. They NEVER EVER hit or humiliated me. Its awful for the fact the dad did this, but to tape it and put it online is beyond DISGUSTING! and you trying to justify it smfh at you. You EVER hit your kids. If it is a spanking fine (and i still dont agree with it). But if you are exerting that much force and humiliating them that much, it is not okay. This is abuse. Cussing and beating your child with a belt because they messed up? what about the next time he messes up? he is going to be afraid to go to him and confess which will lead to more trouble. this is such an awful father. he does NOT deserve to be a father. It sickens me to see people justifying this. You cant hit kids, it affects who they are as a person. Children are altered by their parents actions and this isnt how you should want it. This was too fucking much. This is not fair or reasonable consequences.


GiveMeKisses
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Aint nothing wrong with an occasional butt whooping, thats whats wrong with these kids today aint nobody diggin off in the a** enough. The only thing I didnt agree with was cutting of his eyebrows but hell that aint gone kill him either , they'll grow back #He'll live



iloveyouxoxox
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Abuse is a cycle and it is bound to happen again, and worse everytime. That scares me considering he put it on the internet. it is NOT okay to hit your child, it is NOT okay to videotape it and it is NOT okay to post it on the internet. "Lazy parenting to the fullest. Any ignorant bully can beat a small child's ass. Demonstrating a strong character and model behavior, explaining things reasonably, and having FAIR consequences...THAT is good parenting. Raise your kids to do right because it is RIGHT, not because they're afraid of being beat. BIG difference. Bet this young boy will only harden, become a bully himself, and be more slick about not getting caught. I only hope his own spirit is stronger than that." You took the words right out of my mouth. This is NOT how to get children to behave. you sound like you are a great parent or will be one day.


redeyez
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At least he gives a damn to even beat that a$$, that's what's wrong with kids now they don't get that a$$ tore up. I stand behind the dad 100% need more parents like him!! Bet his lil tail won't cut up anymore. Don't nobody got time to be running up to no damn school cause yo a$$ want to cut up in school. Take your ugly self to school, do as you are told, get that work done and bring ya a$$ home its as simple as that. I GOT my a$$ handled when I was a child now I WILL be a college graduate this December. Those whoopings paid off, I am a asset to society rather than your average menace.... Discipline your kids it pays off.


iloveyouxoxox
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I dont get how some people are saying this will keep him out of prison. This is just going to make him learn to be more slick and discrete. A lot of black children deal with child abuse and have gone to prison in their teen or adult years. This clearly does not work.


businessdiva2004
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ACS...and that's all I have to say.


aishatarr
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Mto dead wrong for posting this shit, you need to take this down because this is clearly abuse.


iloveyouxoxox
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About 80% of 21 year olds that were abused as children met criteria for at least one psychological disorder 4 Abused children are 25% more likely to experience teen pregnancy About 30% of abused and neglected children will later abuse their own children, continuing the horrible cycle of abuse Children who experience child abuse & neglect are 59% more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28% more likely to be arrested as an adult, and 30% more likely to commit violent crime 4 44% of all men in prison in the USA were abused as children KEEPS THEM OUT OF PRISON MY ASS!!!!!!!!!!!


jorundi
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If there were more Fathers like this, or even close to this, there would be fewer black people on street corners disrespecting the race, fewer black women disrespecting themselves and fewer Black Men in our prison systems. While his punishment was harsh, I don't think that his son will go to school acting a fool in the classroom again. I also don't think his son will disrespect anyone ever again. That was something that he won't forget for decades. All you people that are hollering "abuse" are the reasons that our race is in such a predicament. Children now are growing up not having a sense of right and wrong. It might be late, but at least this father is trying to fix it.


iloveyouxoxox
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Also, people saying that only black people do this. You are ignorant. Child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all religions and at all levels of education. It is so fucking sickening and WRONG that it happens. I could NEVER harm my child or put them in that humiliation or pain.


mabeline
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Wow this kinda brought back memories, our dad applied that same military punishment when the guys messed up. That's how you raise men. cu


thegoto
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What is missing..A FATHER...look at how this dumb ass is dressed and how he displays his "concern" for his son>>to cuss him like a dog while beating him will only teach him to return the favor when he gets older>>this was all for the father to look tough>>I'm willing to bet this lame ass excuse of a man doesn't help him with his homework, never eats breakfast or dinner with him and NEVER tells him I LOVE YOU---Bill Cosby wrote in his book Come on People that 98% of black men in prison got beat as a child---love produces productive children...beatings create inner anger and hostility that will surely come out at some point. Take your publicity seeking thug ass to a Parenting Class and learn that parenting has nothing to do with beating a child and embarassing him on film.... respond directly>>> activelife@aol.com<<<<


Illjill
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idk why he filmed it. it wasnt child abuse but some white person gon see that and call it child abuse. that was a old fashioned ass woopin. what most of the kids today need to get their act right.


silky1700
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Just a throw back parent. Most foreigners don't beat their kids. In America our parents whooped our butts and the neighbors whooped our butts also.


jaymels32
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this predator lookin cunt needs beat with a belt see how he likes it if he's such a father why is grandma handing him over to dad why doesnt he have him all the time he should be thankin the lord i'm not that child's mom he would be so fucked


silky1700
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To many boys are raised by their young mothers who don't care about nothing about partying. These women let these young boys get away with anything that's why they act out. I know the fathers not around but back in the day, mothers was just as strong as men. Abuse...Lol that's not abuse. We got wost whoopings than that and straightened out. You new women are soft talking about abuse and you wonder why they thugs. You let whitey run your household from the T.V....Sad.


redeyez
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Either catch a beating by your parents or get one from a stranger who could give two f*cks about your a$$.... These kids get away with all kinds of crap in their home that mess is not going to fly in the real world. I can't get down with just removing privileges that is not enough my siblings and I GOT that and our a$$es beat and again I stand behind whoopings I turned out way better than most of the people I grew up with who parents didn't care enough to beat their ass. I thank my mother and father for caring enough about my future to discipline me.



Street Line
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it worked for Joe Jackson!


the1nonly4real
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Definitely abuse....that was uber extreme for "laughing in class". If I was this child's mom and got wind of this vid, I would kick daddy's ass! There is a huge difference between disciplining and humiliating your child.


Missmoney100
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SMFH THIS IS NOT RIGHT!!!!!!! THE STUPID FATHER HAS MENTAL PROBLEMS. I MEAN COME ON WHY WOULD THAT RETARD DO THIS ? THAT LIL BOY IS EMOTIONALLY & PHYSICALLY ABUSED. THAT'S NOT HOW YOU PARENT YOUR KIDS SMH. THIS IS NOT RIGHT!!!!!!!!


iloveyouxoxox
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@jourdani this is abuse, and the kid WILL mess up in school again. Its bound to happen because that is part of growing up. What is going to happen next time he makes a mistake or acts up. He is teaching him violence is all right because thats how is father raised him and beat him.That is what goes on in the streets. Those people THINK its all right to harm others and exert powerful forces upon them. This kid is probably afraid now. You teach your children to do what is right because IT IS not because they are horrified to get beat when they go home and than have it posted online. Any ignorant fool can beat a child, they do not deserve to be called a parent. Parenting takes a lot more than beating your child, putting it online. Your comment is wrong, most black men who are behind bars HAVE dealt with the pain and burden of child abuse. Most black women who disrespect themselves ROOT BACK to child abuse. This is all pure psychology and stats. and that just doesn't go for blacks. it goes for all races who have suffered through this. Children aren't having a sense of whats wrong and right because the parent does not know either if they think this all right and "good parenting"


Seasoned1953
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Every culture have their way of parenting their children: How can one say it's wrong because its not their way! There are different punishments for different crime/bad behavior. Whose to judge how one was taught, or to say the way they were taught is wrong. Society/people always have something to say about "EVERYTHING" especially when it come to the black race. Where was the talk when BillyBob stayed locked in his room and told his mother to "stay out" then went to school and shot up his classmates. Maybe if one of his parent kicked off into his ass he would have thought twice before doing so.


iloveyouxoxox
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@Illjill stfu. Im black and im calling this child abuse BECAUSE IT IS!!!!!!!! Dont even bring race into this. That is irrelevant. Child abuse is exerting a powerful force against your child and your intention is to hurt them and it is even worse bc he fucking published it online. I hate how some people think this is okay. Beating your children DOES NOT KEEP THEM OUT OF PRISON YOU FUCKING IDIOTS! GO LOOK AT ALL THE MEN AND WOMEN IN PRISON AND ON THE STREETS. A LOT OF THEM THAT ARE DOING TIME WERE ABUSED AS CHILDREN! GO LOOK AT ALL THE TEEN PREGNANCIES AMONG ALL RACES. A LOT OF THOSE KIDS, IN FACT MOST, WERE MISTREATED LIKE THIS AS CHILDREN AND NOT RESPECTED AND HUMILIATED. WHICH IS WHY THEY CAN'T RESPECT THEMSELVES NOW BECAUSE THEY DID NOT WITNESS WHAT IT TRULY WAS AS A CHILD. THIS IS ALL PURE PSYCHOLOGY. MOST OF THEIR PROBLEMS ROOT BACK TO CHILD ABUSE. IT MOLDS A CHILD! IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOUR CHILD?! I SURE AS HELL NO THATS NOT WHAT I WANT FOR MINE! THIS IS NOT DISCIPLINE OR RESPECT. IT IS CHILD ABUSE.


TruthHurtzNHealz
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I agree with spankings, i got them well into my teens.There is a fine line between abuse and discipline I agree with that also however, the pain only lasts a few miutes but when you curse a kid out like some of the crap I have heard these chicks in the store say to their kids it sticks with them a lifetime. More men need to take active roles in their kids upbringing PERIOD...


iloveyouxoxox
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@Seasoned1953 No, a kid who goes and does something that drastic has something happening to them at home to make them even think to do something that drastic. If they bring a gun to school and shot, then that is a problem and they probably saw that kind of violence at home. Parents mold their children when they are young. Kids who are bullies, have or had bullies for parents. Next, this is against the law to abuse your child like this and post it online regardless of what culture or ethnic background you are. Have you ever done research on cultures and child abuse? It happens among all cultures and religions. Look at that child in pain, you think that is right, or that is okay? Who the hell knows what this guy has done before or will do in the future. That is the cycle of child abuse and it only gets worse. Your argument is weak. I repeat, THIS IS AGAINST THE LAW! IN CASES LIKE THIS PEOPLE NEED TO SPEAK UP AND HELP THAT CHILD. Why people think child abuse will keep kids out of prison in adulthood is beyond me because a lot of those people in prison and all their problems root back to their childhood. Child abuse, to be clear. You people need to do your homework before you say that shit and THINK! Just bc it happened to you, (which im sorry if it did,) does not justify or make it okay to happen to someone else. Just because some people shoot heroin and do drugs doesn't make it okay. Just because other people go have unprotected sex doesn't make it safe or okay. And just because child abuse happens to so many others, DOES NOT MAKE IT OKAY! Psychology, and the law all back up my argument as well.


redeyez
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Lmao@iloveyouxoxox u hollering about respecting a child. #1 the little boy DISRESPECTED the teacher, his classmates, his parents, and himself by cutting up in school. So you can have a seat with that ish. Respect is EARNED not GIVEN. And for his DISRESPECT he was DEALT with accordingly....


Zaira
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Disciplining a child is absolutely necessary but trying to humiliate and cursing the child out is dead wrong. The child gets mocked at school the next day for not having any eyebrows, he gets into a argument with another kid for that. Guess whats gonna happen when he gets home? Looks like the kid is with the grandparents anyway, does he just come around to install his brand of discipline? I would be 38 hot if I was the grandmother.


SunChild
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....the a.s.s beating & physical exercise are on point! BUT, the humiliation can break the spirit. And Rule #1 is to INVESTIGATE, because they will not teach yours to compete with theirs.


blkblkblk
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YO ,, WE NEED MORE DADDY'S LIKE THIS, DO WE REALLY KNOW HOW BAD THESE DAMN KIDS IS. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK


imnew
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All you bleeding hearts screaming "abuse and humiliation" need to chill.......that man every right to discipline HIS child. Show him love and teach him right from wrong.....hell, if he don't.........the Police will be more than happy to!!!!


gregswife05
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Applaud...We need more fathers out here like this he cares about his child future..I bet you anything he gonna grow up and be successful now..


aknouh
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that kid will grow up to BE somebody...i had my ass whooped by my father many of times, and then he would come and talk to me about WHY he had to beat my ass, and i am GRATEFUL he cared enough about me to teach me a lesson. TRUST me PAIN will remind you of what is right and what is wrong, i'm not saying beat the living shit out of ur kids i'm saying that there is nothing wrong with FEAR and LOVE mixed together. PUNISHING your kids is not HATE it is TOUGH LOVE. and i'd rather raise strong kids than a little spoiled brat. and for those who didn't like this video go put ur kids in a time out and have them shoot/stab YOU when they grow up because u never taught them right from wrong and never EARNED their respect.



gregswife05
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And mediatakeout stop stealing from world star hip hop..I seen this already on there..be original


The_sky_is__the_limit
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I am a teacher and probably look at this from a different perspective. What if this ABUSE & HUMILIATION caused this poor baby to committ suicide or take a gun to school??? Everyone would not be applauding the "stand up dad" now would they? Had this been done to a grown man it would be call ASSAULT with a weapon! Whippings don't keep black kids out of jail, off drugs, etc. PARENTING does. I am 28 years old and have NEVER had a spanking in my life. I have several college degrees including in a few (M.Ed. & Ph.D) education and (B.S.) psychology, have never been in legal trouble, own my own home & vehicles, am married with children who both read far above grade level and YES I am black! If he whipped this baby a few days prior and the little boy did the same thing again then APPARENTLY whippings are not effective punishment for him. Physically hitting a child is not the only consequence in the world. Do I spank my kids, yes when warranted, but there is no need for belts and the excessive amount of times he hit this baby! HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


confetti
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HEY!! thats ol buddy from "She can get it" on youtube by spoken reasons lol had to say it. But I dont think what he did was wrong how is shaving his head whooping his asz and making him do military work abuse? THAT SHT IS DISCIPLINE! There needs to be more discipline like this because the youth of today....TERRIBLE. The worst yet. Especially the black youth. It literally takes a village to raise a child these days. I wont whoop mine but I'll make them do push ups run and all of that. Whoever disagrees ....idk what to say about them. When your child ends up like a stereotype remember you could of prevented it :x


Zaira
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Just because the parents dont beat their kids down doesnt mean they will grow up to be criminals. Me and my siblings were disciplined, but not like this guy is doing to his son. Im in my last year of college, my sister is in college and my brother is working on his dissertation for his PHD. We were raised by a single black mother. So go somewhere else with all of that "if you dont beat the crap out of your kids they will throw their lives away".


yourstruly2
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These days the fathers are not in the child's life at all! I commend him for his effort to at least help the grandmother out if he does stay with her. 1st he had already given the boy a warning Monday n his Gma dressed him in baggy funny looking clothes to try to teach a lesson. So this is actually lesson #3!! Although I hate he recorded this it helped me as a single mom raising my son w/o no father fiqure need to do! I actually let my son watch this video! Like Michael Jackson father said he displined his kids they way he knew how n none of his kids were in jail strung out on drugs


Pam Jacklyn
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GREAT FATHER!! This father needs an award for being a FATHER! This is the Bible folks: Spare the rod, spoil the child--period. Anyone who thinks this is "abuse" needs to read the newspaper and see how many black teen boys are in gangs and killing folks at this very moment. If those black boys had fathers like THIS they wouldnt be out there shooting folks--period! Stop babying these black boys!!!!!!!


jaded4life29
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Gotta love it!! Especially the exercising. As for the whipping..My mama hit harder and longer than that wussy azz whipping. Extension cord anyone? The problem with young America is that they do not know how to CUT THEIR OWN SWITCH. When life gets hard they punk out. Hence we witness a generation of sissified men who lack self control. and hyper aggressive women.. (No offense to tha sistas) Consider the psychology of cutting your own switch...Sometimes you must do something painful in order to get to the next level. You learn to minimize this effect by the choices that you make. The only thing that would make this punishment abusive is if the father does not abide by his own rules. A parent can not be a drug dealer, drug addict, alcoholic, irresponsible, thief, criminal, jailbird, slacker, abusive to others, disrespectful to authority, lazy, shiftless and incompetent, and then turn around and beat their children for exhibiting the same behaivor. Children know what a hypocrite is and their disciplinary actions cause more harm than good. For those that claim that physical punishment is abusive, If you are going to be Black and survive in America without losing your mind... We must be very strong mentally and emotionally for we live in an unatural environment that requires superlative strength just to co-exist among those that would destroy us. Why is it that when the whippings stopped, the killings, gangs, murders. violence, crime and prison population exploded?


gregswife05
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Great1StillHere, what are you talking about CAN YOU READ, I agree with him, Learn how to read before you try to come at somebody.


Zaira
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Why are you calling me out lol. I have an opinion just like everyone else here. True that is his child not mine but I dont agree with his form of punishment that is all. Hopefully he learned his lesson though.


Pam Jacklyn
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"Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell." (Proverbs 23:13-14) (thanks to the guy who originally posted this)


keshh
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That was not abuse, abuse consists of psychological or physical damage towards the child, he explained thoroughly what he was about to do to his son and why, there aren't many active BLACK fathers around who care about their child's education, so I applaud him for taking initiative to correct his son at a young age and not allow him to be a statistic, as long as there aren't any broken bones or bruises, its not abuse in my eyes, although he can work on his choice of words.


MissDijah
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I applaud him for being in his son's life and for being a disciplinarian but, he went too far. My mother always said one punishment and now that I am a parent I agree. If ur gonna spank then spank. If ur gonna give a haircut then get out the clippers. This man belittled his son spanked him then tortured him. ACS or CPS do what u do.


MYBlackPowerStick
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ABUSE! There are effective ways to teach children lessons that don't involved humiliation and physical abuse. Child abuse is more likely to produce criminals... humiliating children is more likely to produce deviants. Just because ill-informed parents have used abuse for generation doesn’t mean they were right. It is sick that a parent can hear their child crying from pain and still proceed to beat them. Why would any parent what to inflict pain? I question the mentality and the character of such parents. As I said there are effective methods of discipline, people should take the time to pick up a psychology book on parenting and actually learn those methods. There are plenty of people that grow up without physical abuse for discipline and they are normal, well-adjusted humans. Note I said effective discipline, not no discipline. People have this crazy that all children that weren’t beaten as children grow up to be wild. That is far from the truth. The thing that gets me is that parents think this type of action if okay. As an adult you would never want anyone in authority (police, boss, etc…) to physical hit you as a way of teaching a lesson. So why do we view our children as acceptable punching bags? Really… you are that poor of a parent that you can’t guide and teach your child without physically assaulting them?


AlkaliDC
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Abuse. This man should be publicly stripped, humiliated, shaved, beaten, and put into exile. His son should be granted a new surname of choice. Anyone who advocates this time of abuse as discipline is either a moron or in need of intensive therapy. Anyone condoning the behavior they see here is weak. If you fail to teach a child, you fail. If you fail to accept our own failings, you become a failure. Such parents should not have parental rights. If you cheer this kind of shit on, you're sick in the mind/heart. If this was my father, I'd have killed him in his sleep.


Sexy48
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Mistamel shut up!! I.ve seen with my own eyes how it goes yungman. If descent families raise criminals what do you think will happen with undisciplined children. And i'm black!!



AlkaliDC
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Authority only deserves respect when it's respectable. That man deserves very little respect. You can be an adult or an elder all day long...that doesn't mean you should respected just because. If you can't handle that - grow up. If you need to bully children like that - try it on a real man and see what happens.


AlkaliDC
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If he's such a good parent, why does the boy life with his grandmother? Exactly... B**ch a** little boys trying to raise younglings.


AlkaliDC
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And idiots quoting Jewish and Hebrew scriptures as if they have an actual Jewish or Hebrew understanding of them doesn't make them wise, and doesn't make them Christ. It makes them fraudulent morons and thieves. In an actual Jewish/Hebrew community, this man would be exiled.


Bianca99
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That was a tad extreme he could have only used one form of punishment. And his son is going to be embarrassed when he goes to school the next day for having no eyebrows. That is going to cause more problems for him. We're supposed to teach our kids right from wrong, not belittle and curse them out. Kids are not gonna be zombies while they are at school, but they also have to pay attention and respect the teachers.


AlkaliDC
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I know some decent advocates that work for children. I'm going to make sure they get this and get this matter investigated. Someone should act to intervene on this child's behalf. Hopefully he loses custody of his children and faces some serious charges. If his actions were consequential to his son's...then mine are consequential to his. Fair trade.


yellowberry
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i didn't like it. you can discipline a kid without putting your hands on them. just simply limit or eliminate the things they care for the most. doing something to them that leaves them with a bad immpression of you WILL carry over into adulthood. they should understand there are rewards for doing whats right and penalties for doing whats wrong. hold them to high standards of charater EVERY DAY and not when its convient. this will make a huge difference in a childs life and how they develop. they are sponges of knowledge for anything they come upon. if its done right, they will be ok, if its done wrong, they will carry it into the next phase of their life.


TTROPHYWIFE
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I see no problem with what the father did other than video taping. This is what it takes to raise a good strong man. These kids these days need they ass whooped when they get out of hand. For real For real!


Kola's Boof
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THIS is why I do not date black men. Violent babydaddies. Black men should be ashamed of themselves. This fool is abusing his child and that belt around his neck is sick. Black people are sick. That man is a down low homo! TAKE DOWN YOUR PANTS. CHILD ABUSE. And if you don't think that is child abuse YOU GOT A PROBLEM. BLACK PEOPLE ARE SICK. We are failing!


AlkaliDC
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Yes, you'd know because you were alive back then. Weak idiot.


AlkaliDC
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If adults have been so successful in raising children and creating funcitonal societies, they wouldn't b*tch about the world so much. Yes...adults have been successful at creating a destructive, barbaric world for children to grow up in. Then they succeed at turning in groveling whiners. This father isn't even in the childs home. You wanna know why the world is so screwed up - look at adults. You'll see very clearly why the world is the way it is. Anyone who can't see is either mentally handicapped or blind, deaf, and dumb.


emorylove22
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my dad use to beat me and it would hurt really bad!! and i hated him for it!! this was child abuse in the video and i don't care what yall say!! nobody has the right to put their hands on anybody.i grew up with nothing but hate for my dad because i still remember the horrible child hood and pain that i suffered.He thought it would make me better but it made me hate his azz.i cried when thinking about it..there are somethings i never forgot as a child and thats my abusive dad..there were days i wished he was dead and that i could kill him and run away.i still hate him.i am better without him and very glad he is not in my life!!


shh..wagg_based_bri
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this isnt real, this dude does videos on youtube with @spokenreasons, i would expect somethin like this from them. #classic


JYDA
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How come no one cries abuse when young inmates are beaten and worse by both prison employees and fellow inmates? Somehow our twisted society thinks these youths deserve their abusive situations. When parents were allowed to discipline their children far fewer of them landed in jails. Now we let society try to convince us that a strange man with badge, a stick, cuffs and a stun gun has the right to discipline our children by we don't. Most child abusers are not concerned or deterred by any laws and never have been. They are the ones that are maiming and killing kids every day. Rarely do these protective agencies stop them before its to late--they are too busy harassing parents who are trying to raise decent people in a time where peer pressure, laws and the media is doing all it can to make sure that doesn't happen.


AlkaliDC
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Great1StillHere....I will not throw pearls before swine or swine before pearls. I will not debate this matter. Those adults who bring harm to children are monstrous to me. Those who defend those who harm children are sometimes worse. Like your beloved Jesus saying "get behind me," I will point out "you are too far behind me to keep up." The cult of Christianity makes a mockery of good will. Jesus wouldn't put up with the abuse of children. I would harm the abuser.


JMN0727
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MTO, I am completely in shock that you would have to ask if this is abuse or good parenting. This video needs to be sent to CPS or somewhere that they can take this child's dad to prison where he belongs. The kid is already going to be punished enough by being sent to school with a jacked up haircut and no eye-brows. The tag team butt whooping is over the top and abusive. Why not videotape that too, since you did with the other parts. I'm disgusted that you think this is JUSTIFIED as well. I used to pop my son on the behind when he acted up at first. When he was three, and I had just spanked him, he asked me how it was okay for me to spank him for hitting me just to show him that hitting is wrong. A THREE year old even knew that violence begets violence. The fact that this kid got an ass whooping earlier that week, shows that this type of punishment doesn't work. As a kid, I got spanked all the time. Did it stop my behavior? No. Did I repeat some of the same things that got me spanked before? Yes. Spanking does not work, it's a cop out. I say we hold this man down and beat him bare assed with a belt to see how HE likes it.



meow0121
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Good to see a daddy doing his job!! To each their own! I think discipline is definitely needed nowadays. It worked for me. It sucks, but I never misbehaved because in the back of my mind, I knew what the consequences would be. My father put the FEAR in me early. still have it to this day!! LOL. But he was a GREAT father who raised 3 girls on his own. PROPS dad!! It must feel good for him, to see his girls all career driven and successful. I'm telling you, kids need that conscience that asks, "what if mom or dad finds out?"


AlkaliDC
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If this is how you treat your children. Stay as FAR away from me as you can.


Savageman
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Daddy handlin bizness!!! Cudos to this man. There are consequences for your actions, and a lot of kids don't know that. If this dad keeps on him, this kid is gonna make a lot of money being an athlete or something like that, because his daddy kept him in line. Hard times calls for hard discipline. Thank you for sharing this. I think a lot of us need to see what real discipline is.


huriyyah
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in the first place, the behavior o n the child is only because no one chk'd it in the first place when he was a toodler, kindergarden so on. Second, the breakdown in the family and the grandmother raising the child. The father allowing grandmom to pay for everything and thinking that being a parent is playing these dumb butt video games with a child. These video games (black opp n grand theft) teach disrespect. Second, somebody need to get the father and teach him how to parent. He definitely went overboard. The haircut will cause the boy to retailiate if another child teases him. The beating will teach the child to be resentful. The boot camp was not age appropriate and well overboard. And, furthermore, after this kid endures all of this, a regular beating will mean absolutely nothing to him. As, parents, we must learn that you cannot give one ass whipping that is gonna cure a child for the rest of their life. None of us, stop our actions on the first , second, yes maybe the third time. The father definitely needs to learn patience and how to spend some quality time w the child. The "you come over here n we play video games don't we" is sending the signal that the father thinks he has done his part. This is just a case of not knowing what to do and how to do it and the child is the sacrificial lamb.


uwillhateme
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we got whipped with extension cords, switches, belts and all! its not killing them. Sometimes kids need tough discipline. Not all kids react well to just ... go sit in the corner...or let me talk to u ... some kids are bad as hell and and sometimes a$$ whippings are needed.....wtfu thought.


vixenise
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Jyda, actually abuse is cried and noted at prisons. My father was wrote up for giving an inmate a dirty look. It all depends on the inmate, facility and situation. Look, i love being black and all, but Im pissed that Im apart of a race so dysfunctional that we excuse abuse because a man is somewhat in the picture. That kid is living with grandparents. Apparently his methods arebt working if this is the second time in one week. Kids act up, how you deal with determines how frequently and severe the problems are. He has a great chance growing up to abuse his wife, children or anyone in general all because some young punks. I did a little research and saw that this is a guy from spoken reasons. Hopefully this is a joke. Joke or not, the fact that so my people condone abuse shows that there are children or potential children not as lucky as this kiddo. One more thing: think logically, folks. If you're from the old school and went through this and advocate this, where did or people go wrong? How did your generation mess up my generation having us screw up even further generations? Ill answer it for you: slavery has f*cked us all. I took history, i know what Im talking about.


Classysexynsmart
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This is considered excessive coporal punishment... simply because he used an object to hit his son and used humiliating techniques by degrading and demeaning him and I am sure that boy has bruises on him.... CPS should be called and if this was my case he would loose his kid but he dont have custody of him anyway grandma does so how does that make him a good parent to begin with....


lameazzbiotch
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If you listen to the video HE IS NOT THE FATHER! The Grandmother sent him there to get straightened out by that THUG. No FATHER would degraded, torture and humiliate thier for any form of pubilicity. No FATHER would tear their son make them feel like nothing. I believe this so called MAN is a child molester. Why would he want to see a child naked "PULL YOUR PANTS DOWN" really. All these EDDIE LONG TYPE NIGGAS on the streets. This man deserves prison not praise. THAT LITTLE BOY HE MESSED UP FOR LIFE IS NOT HIS CHILD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


24hyacinth
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That was abuse! Hitting that child with his pants down so many times with a leather belt. And I'm sure the father didn't hold back. He should be arrested. He started off with discipline and went to abuse. People can grow up without being abused and become good people! This is nonsense. Arrest the father!


jussreal25
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The father did the right thing in how he discipline his son. The point in him doing this video is too embarrass the boy so he don't do the stuff he was doing in school and on the street. Some ppl comment on here saying why the boy don't live with his father? It's simple, he prolly works 2-3 jobs like most single parents and is not home to watch his son so grandmother is doing her part in taking the little boy b/c obviously there is no mother in the picture. Some ppl on here even said that the father don't care about his own son and only want to hear is own voice when he's discipline him. If y'all heard the conversation you can see that he does stuff with his son and it upsets him that his son will disrespect him by acting up in school. As a parent it feels like a slap in the face, b/c the little boy obviously wasn't raised that way. Why is ppl worrying about the father cursing anyway. He's going to learn it from ppl and TV anyway so thats the least of the problem.


WTF1775
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It seems like the child is being raised by the grandparents, so why doesn't the abusive father raise his own child and provide a roof over his head? He probably got his ass whooped growing up, but obviously it didn't work for him. He invites another man over to discipline (assist in beating his son), and continue the humiliation...since when does a father need help from another man beating his son? This video is definitely out of line, and is an embarrassment to real black men!


elover08
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when i was young my parents used to take turns beaten me. i never saw it a s abuse. because i became a better person for it and before i do anything wrong i think twice about it including now. i'm 36 years old. and i still think would that hurt my parents, ambarrass my parents so that made me and my siblings better person.


Avani
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Ok this is obviously a "Daddy" not a Father. The grandparents have the child and he only comes around to play video games and spank the child. No real man is gonna treat his son like that, try to purposely humiliate him. If "Daddy" is only coming around to spank the boy, the kid is gonna hate to see him coming and grow to resent him as well. Someone should def report this video if they havent already done that. Nothing wrong with a good ole spanking but not with pants down. Granddad was just standing there not saying anything, im disgusted with him too.


Kola's Boof
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I dropped dimes on one of my sisters. I discovered my nieces and nephews had MARKS ON THEIR THIGHS FROM EXTENSION CORD WHIPPINGS. Yes I dropped dimes on her. She got parenting classes -after the raid. She figured out that I did it and later on, hit me upside the head with a coke bottle. Guess what? I WOULD DROP DIMES AGAIN. That is perverted child abuse and anyone who agrees with his menthod is damaged beyond repair! That child will act out, bully other kids, steal, and if he's being molested, which I believe is true, he will perv the other kids, too. IF I knew that 'father' you'd have to hold me off of him I would lay hands on that grown ass fool. Humlilating your child for the world to see is the act of a sick coward!!! Black men are hot messes. Yet another reason I will not date them and never have a child by one. That 'man' is a punk and should be put in jail. People ask yourself, would you agree that ish is the truth if if was a little white boy being buzz cut beat on the naked ass and humliated before the cameras? We'd say his parents were crazy krackers. Black folks are a sickness and anyone who agrees with a CHILD ABUSE deserves to meet up with this little boy in about 10 years cause trust, he is gonna shoot your black ass dead. He will be angry and careless, can't you see the wrong?? Black people, do better. But, I don't live near negroes nor date them. Have some bm friends but that is about it for the most part, the black man is losing, a loser and a laughingstock for the world to see.


jussreal25
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And to some of the females on here that said that some of these little boys need to be raised better to become a real man. Yes, I agree but also some of these little girls out there need to be raised better as well and to the basic mothers out there stop teaching your daughters to trap men with kids and take them to court to get a child support check. Smh



ARTOFWAR
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@@@ (Ajent) YOU SAID-- "He'll look back on this and laugh and be glad he had a father care enough to discipline and make sure he didn't grow up like a lot of other ignorant kids with no sense."------- Exactly my man----As a child my father imposed a no nonsense zero-tolerance parenting method--- especially when it came to matters of education and any misbehavior on my part involving school related incidences. My father would work 14 hour days, and at times double shifts, and triple shifts, at Ford Motor Truck Plant Detroit. When he finally would come home from work, he would be exhausted and hungry, and due to his efforts, never once was the electricity ever cut off, and food was always in abundance in the refrigerator and pantry. However, misbehavior was treated with swift and firm physical discipline. My father instilled in me that there are detrimental consequences for bad choices and behavior. In other words, he reinforced in me that if one insists on acting egregiously, then one should not expect for good things to be the outcome, yet bad things to be the outcome. And this is the primary reason why too many children of this so-called New Day- New Wave hands off your children parenting approach is not working.--- children face very little, to no penalty for bad behavior, and often are even being rewarded for bad behaviors and choices--- so there is no incentive for them to act appropriately, and no REAL penalties for them to fear when they act inappropriately. This is not exclusively a Black issue, it is indeed also a White issue. Children as well as young adults are being rewarded for maleficent behaviors and actions---thus we live in a Kim Kardashian, Paris Hilton generation, where one can become wealthy and famous for becoming essential whores, drunkards, and drug addicts. All the while teachers, scientist, and scholars in general are living paycheck to paycheck. I too while growing up disliked my father and told him so on many occasions, and his response was always the same---"I am not here to be your friend, I am here to raise you so that one day you will become a successful adult" end of story. Many years later after having achieved two Master Degrees and a Doctorate---I can say with absolute exuberance-- I love my father---I love many people, but my father I love the most, and will continue to tell him so as much as time will allow. You see, without my father's no-nonsense approach to parenting-- especially growing up in Detroit, there is no doubt in my mind that I would be one of the 2.5 million currently incarcerated, in some penal institution, somewhere in America, or even more probable-- deceased. Parents need to stop trying to be their children's friend and become parents--so what if your child thinks he or she hates you from time to time---stop being so soft and weak---because when those very same children that claim to hate you grow up to be fine productive adults, they will look back to the butt-whippings, and not only will they laugh---they will thank you for all of them--- because now as adults they will understand that those butt-whippings were not out of hate or even anger, but out of love. I no longer live in Detroit, and neither does my father and mother. I have been fortunate enough to move my family to much more breathtaking vistas. And although I will always have love for Detroit and still visit old friends when time allows, it is due to the stern discipline my father gave me that today affords me the options to reside wherever in the world I choose to reside. Yes, I love my father--- you have better believe it-- and would not take back not even one of those butt-whippings he gave me- in trade for the life I so enjoy today....Artofwar


GOTTOTELLTHETRUTH
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THIS IS WAY OVER BOARD. AND IS WHY SO MANY CHILDREN ARE BEING KILLED BY THEIR OWN PARENTS.. LOVE BEGOT LOVE TEACH THEM LOVE,PATIENTS,GENTLENESS,AND KINDNESS ECT.. THAT TYPE OF PUNISHMENT WILL ONLY CAUSE HIM TO KNOW THAT AND ACT IT OUT.. FEAR IS THE WORST TO INSTEEL IN A CHILD EXSPECIALLY FROM THEIR PARENTS.. YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THEIR HERO AND PROTECTOR OF PAIN AND HURT NOT THE ENEMY.. WHO CAN THEY RUN TO IF NOT YOU.. GOD FORBID SOMEONE ELSE ABUSE THEM THEY WILL BE TOTALLY LOST...SMDH DAMN SHAME GET IT TOGETHER!!..


TEEROCKJELLI
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there is no need to humilate, beat and torture a child. That was not a man or a teen, that is still a baby. At his age you can take his toys, make him read books and do book reports on them, double chores every day, and become involved in his school. Laughing and joking in class is typical at his age. Now if he had been touching a girl or cursing at a teacher, then okay... Some men take discipline too far. You replace bad behavior with the behavior you want him to display. Sending him to school bummy does nothing but make him a victim to others including teachers, some who enjoy knowing certain kids are in trouble at the end of the day. That dude look strong as well. All this really does is create a tolerance for pain, waiting for a chance to inflict some. I'm praying for these kids coming up. Swag is not important, being a successful adult is.


Championess
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I agree with the disciline, but not the whole filming it thing...thas what makes it a little foul...wanna embarrass the boy give em a good ol whoopin in front of the class...but this is FAMILY binness...not the world's


TheRose
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The discipline was negated by the dumb ass filming it to show the whole world. Airing the dirty laundry into the streets?? Showing everyone how well you beat the kid?? Stupid!!


luvsofresh
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Say what you want..but I see nothing wrong. Thats the problem with todays youth..there are not afraid of ANYTHING. In some aspects of being ambitious and successful then yes I encourage todays youth to NOT be afraid of where you come from and to be ambitious and successful. But in situations where a child is going to school, being disrespectful and what not,.then yes some harsh ass whooping is due. That little boy went back to school acted a fool knowing he just got his ass whooped for acting up..and went right back and did it again..thats called fearless. Im only 25 but shit..when my mother clinched her teeth and talked in that voice, I knew immediately what time it was. And some of you know what I am talking about..but my point is..these kids need to learn discipline and respect..I dont have kids..but if you dont want to get it the first..I will MAKE SURE you get it the second time..and 3..go to your dad! lol he is disciplining his child and doing it old school style..hes being more of a parent than some of the other parents we have seen mto post in the past.........#IMJUSTSAYING


treysongz4eva
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the haircut n the workout was too much but thats just some people ways to discipline their children but he needed a beating


AlkaliDC
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Great1....don't try to tell a Jew about a Jew...or more specifically, a half-jew about another half-jew....you sound like a white man trying to tell a black man about a black man.


MichelleMichaels
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I feel the reason he is acting up is because his father acts up. Parents, especially black fathers, need to realize that their children are imitating their behavior. They don't know any better.


MichelleMichaels
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This is why so many black men cannot commit. Their fathers never committed, that's why they were never around.


lameazzbiotch
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THAT MAN IS NOT THAT CHILDS FATHER OR EVEN RELATED TO HIM! THIS MAN DOESN'T GIVE A FLYING FUCK ABOUT THIS CHILD!


msnickizolanski
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and people wonder why white people call black people IGNORANT smh im ashamed to be black this is fucking ABUSE all of the people who agree with this needs their ASS whooped real talk!


leelee1229
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i think the father stupid and ignorant to disciplined his child like that then turn around and put it up online like who the fuck does that. he need some serious consoling for that sick shit he put that child through, the hair cut and beating would be fine but all that extra shit was just stupid.


PurpleKisses84
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I can agree with him getting a whoopin' and maybe even the workout but the haircut was alittle much and I definitely dont agree with him recording all this. Thats something that should be kept private! Follow me @purplekisses84


shidamai02
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DEFINITELY ABUSE!!!!!! That is wrong with our community--more than half of you fools said that is good parenting and he is a good father. Although we don't know all the facts--based on the video, the grandmother is raising the boy and his "father" plays video games and beats/humiliates/degrades him. Beating the sh&t out of him is not going to fix the problems. The boy obviously is not being raised by his mommy or daddy. He is ACTING OUT!! The boy can't help it. How about you raise your boy (i.e., live in the same residence, bathe him, clothe him, feed him, read to him, help him with his homework, take him to football/soccer practice, take him to the library, have his friends over for playtime, take him to the doctor/dentist, put him to bed, have multiple daily IN-PERSON conversations with him, be there at 2am when he wakes up with a nightmare, slip that $1 under his pillow from the tooth fairy, hold him when he falls off his bike and hurts his leg, tell him IN-PERSON how much you love him )----THEN you will probably have less issues with his behavior. The boy's probably looking for something that he ain't getting from being raised by Grandma. Raise your BOYS, men!



southernbell90
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This is beyond WRONG and as a Social Worker this is what we live for to help protect children from animals like this....and its not like he is in the childs life daily because the child lives with his grandmother...so he is not a REAL PARENT nor REAL MAN...to tape this is ridiculous....I wish I knew the address because I would make this my PERSONAL case...some ppl need to realize tht embrassment and going to the extreme never solves problems especially with a child....this really messes up a childs life....


M-M
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I don't know if this will make the child behave in school or just toughen him up to be worse-I heard the father say he had whooped him 2 days ago, so maybe that isn't working. I can remember my dad using a belt on my brother to discipline him, but I didn't see much of a difference in his behavior after the whoopings. I hope this situiation improves and the father finds other ways of handling his son because soon he will be to big for him to use a belt on.


Chateeceg
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Ok I hate this video n some of yall comments. Personal the ones that have been beat are the main ones that are abusive now n thats a proven fact. Next im ok with the workout. It helps their body but the beating(not whooping) was not something I like. From personal experience the older they get the more the whoopings dont faze them. Then what is he going to do? Fight him like a man on the street. Stop praising him bcuz it seems as though he is only the discplinary. Good he wants to teach him a lesson but dont do it like that nor on camera!!!!!


COLLAGREENHUSLER
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HE RAISING HIS CHILD SO EVERYONE WHO GOT A PROLEM WITH THAT NEED TO STFU!!!HE KNOW HE GOT TO DEAL WIT POPS WHEN HE ACT UP THATS THE BOTTEM LINE!!!


TEEROCKJELLI
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continued- I fast forwarded alot, didn't know he was beat by 2 different ppl. NOT GOOD. It's peculiar that he finds balding his son befitting while his head has long locks. Plus if you listen to the fathers tone, he finds pleasure in "disciplining" the child. This was very disturbing, especially the last pic of the kid, his eyes are swollen and it is just a very sad sight, and I wonder if the father was laughing at the child in the end. This is also quite emasculating for a young boy to experience. Just as times have changed and the world is quite advanced, so are the children, so what worked back in the days can't to be compared to today. Taking video games from a kid for 2 months is much more punishing to a kid than a beating. And beatings did nothing for me but make me tough as nails, having a physical fight with my father at 17, just to prove a point. (Luckily I gained understanding a few years ago, leaving a life of violence behind) And anyone saying that punishment was befitting is in denial. I'm not saying don't beat your kid, but some things are just inhumane to do to a young child. That boy is very intelligent, (you can hear in it in his dialogue) and his intelligence should be pushed, not violence.


prettimami
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Wut an ass.,.there are other forms of discipline...this looks like good old fashion ignorance....I felt so bad for the kid....dude def went overboard...


SweetestGirl_Brannu
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Pure humiliation tactic. I've seen it time & time again with black men as "fathers." They're so busy in a competition of "whose b.alls are the heaviest and swing the most" with their sons that they forget that fathering is so much more than unnecessary discipline, chest punching and bootcamp training. Did anyone ever stop to contemplate that maybe this father is an absentee father until it is time to bestow punishment? My Mom called on my deadbeat of a sperm donor a few times during my childhood to discipline me & he was as sorry a father as they come! If this father were more involved in his child's life and more concerned about what extracurricular activities to enroll him in versus videotaping Nazi type humiliation chastening of his child for WSHH or thinking what type of corporal punishment he will use the next time his child gets into trouble, then maybe, just maybe, trouble wouldn't even be a word associated with his child's behavior in school. Parent's, father's in particular, have all but forgotten the importance of sitting your child down and talking with them. A pity that people are in here defending this man-child when it is clear that his only intention was to mortify his poor son by, in his warped mind, making an "example of him" by publicly sharing what should be a private moment. It wouldn't be a stretch to imagine that this silly man only sees his son when it is time to rule with his "iron fist." And you think this boy won't grow up to resent this man who is masquerading as his father? Think again..


trina6300
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That dad did the right thing that was not abuse at all. These kids are out of control. It's good to see a dad involved in his sons life Its better that he handle him now rather than visit his ass in prison or attend his funeral. He put fear in that boy and hopefully he went back to school and acted like he had some sense. The dad gave me some ideas for my 15 year old daughter if she acts up since her last ass whooping (PUSHUPS)


maryland_jeff
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LongLegged you a ol' skunk mouth lookin BITCH!!!!!


maryland_jeff
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pattycakesz you a ol rat mouth lookin BITCH!!!!!, and maybe your the one who needs their ass kicked for raising bad ass kids


MuziqMami
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YES!!! I agree 100%. Discipline is real and it's needed. Some of his word choices could have been a tad better, but he got his point across and made sure it was one that would be remembered. I say Kudo points to him.


PocahontasDiva
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Step B: DAT AZZ! Bawahaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaahaaaaa! I'm onehunn behind father on this shat! And the last pic of the lil' bad azz urchent crying and sweating is priceless! He won't be giving grandmamma no grief no more!


lameazzbiotch
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@DeveryBrooX that's the FATHERS twitter, stop by his youtube page and hear him speak spoken word http://www.youtube.com/user/deverybroox. Devery is a multi-talented artist blessed with the ability to entertain. Devery is a musician, singer, songwriter, painter, and poet. He has single-handedly tackled the task of magnifying culture, as it pertains to art, in central Florida. Devery is the creator and host of the #1 open mic show in central Florida. You would never think a guy with all those wonderful talents would post a video of him abusing his child online. WOW!


MrAllend
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I sit here and read some of your opinions and it's just that an opinion just like what I am posting. Even if you aren't a parent you should understand that just talking to a child or taking things away isn't going to make them stop misbehaving, neither is beating them senseless. Taking the time to explain why and what you are going to do along with not over-reacting with that method you're trying is justifiable 1.) the guy is not a part-time father he is there in the child's life if you listened closely 2.) the boy got in trouble twice in the same week 3.) he got a beating for a minute with 16 licks of the belt.... Is sixteen a little excessive??? depending on the force of the belt. He didn't leave the little boy with a messed up haircut he just simply cut it very low. I have a Son who I love dearly and is with me all of the time. He gets disciplined at times and he knows what a belt feels like. Now I don't have to use it often but if mentioned to him he straightens up immediately. So as a preventative it works. I tell his teacher in school if he doesn't behave just say I'm going to tell your father and no more problems after that. It works if done correctly and if you show a loving attitude along with concern. I can say the video wasn't necessary but a great reminder of the consequences for his actions.


Shawniepea
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If the dad doesn't whoop his ass the police will. I agree with the punishment IF his behavior changes. By the way the dad is fine as hell. Love the locs. Anyway, I definitely would not have filmed it. Although we agree Child Protective Services may not. Also, what's the kid doing living with grandma? Grandmother's should not be raising their grandkids. Kids will run all over their grandparents.



Kola's Boof
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Sick child abuse. We as a people are sick.


MissDijah
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I read most of the comments why are ppl making this a spanking issue? Spankings are ok the way the father treated his children is unacceptable. Like I said before one form of punishment would suffice. I do not curse at my child it messes with their self esteem. HAS HE EVER HEARD OF POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT? my son acted up in school I gave him a speech. He didn't act up again now he's going on a trip. He gets an after school snack. I hope this dad is forced to take parenting classes. The kid might live with him sounds like the kid acted up on Friday spent the weekend at his grandparents came home on Monday where he misbehaved again.


badgurll
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He is a child but as in life you do wrong and you suffer the consequences. That is what he is trying to teach him. I bet he wont act up in school again. Disciplining your child shows love and that you care unlike some of these absentee fathers who dont do sh!t and be in the childs life. Also you dont know how bad that child is to make that comment that is abuse. Either the daddy is going to do it or someone else will.


REAL4REAL
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There are 2 different factors that we should take a look at. First of all the excessive nature, cutting the hair was a nice touch but the eyebrows? excessive. The discussion about why your going to get the whoopin' was the right move but the cussing? excessive. The actual whoopin' exactly right especially since lil man was a repeat offender, the assistance from another grown a$$ man? excessive. The boot-camp drills to drive the point home yessir, the camera in the face and eventual release to the father's favorite news source WSHH? excessive. I believe this man had the right intention but the going overboard rendered it counterproductive. All the people on here talking about don't spank children let's see which parents truly have the respect of their children and their children's peers. And please believe there is a very thin line between respect and fear...


REAL4REAL
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Secondly there is a very real possibility that this man has failed himself.(i.e. Been locked up) This makes it all the more understandable that he would be so hard on his son ESPECIALLY if he had been locked up for whatever reason. I know there are many things I've experienced that I will make damn sure my sons don't have to experience and if that means beating that a@@ so be it. It's better coming from me in Love than from the street or the bing...


usuallyquietobserver
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Why is the child at grandmas? if dad can afford video games then he can afford to be a full time dad.


usuallyquietobserver
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but then again, if grandma is dads mom, then she messed up with son and she'll probably mess up with grandson as well...pitiful pitiful...poor boy is gonna grow up dumb like dad...


llty
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He looks BAD.


Kola's Boof
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I went to his twitter that man is a down low homie. Beater Dad is gay. Negroes got no gaydar. All those gay. To take a pic of your child crying like that is shameful. I also think he hates the boy cause the kid is dark. You know gay men don't like dark black people. I keep saying the same thing over and over if you think that is normal you have a problem!


MochaDreams
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I am not going to criticize that young man for how he handled his son, because at least he recognized the urgency in correcting a child's misbehavior in school. However, had he been my husband, I think I would have been like, "Babe, I think you need to pick and choose whether you're going to beat him OR cut his hair and do drills, because all three is over kill." I think Black parents tend to forget that automatically spanking a child for every offense minimizes its impact over time. Proof of that would be the number of friends who've told me that, at times, they would literally choose to defy their parents to do something they wanted, because the satisfaction of doing what they wanted (i.e. - House Party), was worth the beating they had waiting for them. The point is you should change it up, keep the kids on their toes, because if you go 3, 4, or 5 DIFFERENT offenses using discipline methods other than beating them, when you do catch them off guard by pulling out the belt again, it's going to yield some results. Now, I am still on the fence about this being videotaped. On one hand, this is very humiliating for that young boy, and you know these fast tail kids have access to this site, so it's nothing for his school mates to find this and clown him about it. On the other hand though, this can serve as an instructional video for all those lazy, shiftless parents out there who do absolutely nothing when their children act up in school. If I hear another parent say, "Well, kids are going to do what they're going to do," I am going to scream!


OurTime2Progress
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This IS child abuse. Now, this dad (whose intentions were on point, but whose methods were way off base) will likely get arrested. Hopefully, he will not go to jail so he can still be the strong dad his son needs. Dad needs to realize that effective method of discipline for a misbehaving child do not involve abuse. The suicides, to a point, may have been effective. But the rest...HE(_(_ NO!!!!


Missmedia81
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The worse kind of child abuse is ignoring your kids or acting like everything they do is all good!!!! Uhmm Well if you are teaching your kids right from wrong hey I agree with whoopings. recording it is weird. The messed up haircut plus whooping. I've seen the Police whoop them if their parents dont.... The punishment and jail is even worse.


LOLattheworld
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LOL! All of these comments have now taught me to never comment on anything WSHH or MediaTakeOut posts on their websites. Because half of the truth is posted, and the rest is left for everyone to speculate. Facts that I may be aware of that the rest of you maybe should know. #1 - This kid was in the legal system before he met this "guy." Yes, in elementary school and already hitting the jail cell. #2 His father is NO WHERE to be found. #3 That is not his house. #4 Did you see the beating? Think about it. #5 This punishment was NOT a first resort. Although I agree that filming it wasn't the best choice, I know that it was NOT submitted to any of these gossip columns by him. Nosey neighbors I guess. I keep waiting to hear a black celebrity talk about how their behind got whooped and they nearly died from a spanking, or how much they hate their mama....still waiting...


jones036
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I'm all for a good "spanking" when needed. This man beat his child as if he were a slave! The child didn't threaten to harm someone, he didn't steal! The punishment was too great. We need to learn to discipline (to teach what to do) our children. Discipline starts from birth. When that 1 year old starts to hit and bite you should redirect their behavior and show them what to do with their hands and mouths. When that 2 year old starts to cuss (they've learned it from you) you should give them a better world to say (increasing their vocabulary) instead of laughing and thinking it's cute. When they are 3 years old then they are out of control (not so cute now) and the beating begins! Did this father ever think of why his son was acting out in class? I have a clue! He wants his FATHER'S attention! The child is living with the grandmother and not the father. When children seek attention, they don't care whether it's positive or negative! We as a people need to stop having children by multiple partners and we need to get married and have both parents in the home! The WHITE MAN is not holding us back! WE ARE! WE ARE OUR OWN WORST ENEMY!


reeree_187
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I APPLAUD HIM ... HE GAVE HIS SON A TASTE OF PRISON.... THASS EXACTLY HOW THEY TALK TO YOU IN JAIL I KNOW I WORKED IN A MAXIMUM SECURITY PRISON. KEEP DOIN WHATCHA DOIN AND HE WILL PASS IT ON TO HIS CHILDREN AND THE NUMBERS OF OUR CHILDREN DYING IN PRISON WILL FADE... THANK YOU.



ladyk2011
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I am an educator . . School Guidance Counselor and a mother of two and grandmother of two. I totally disagree with the father's tatics!!!! Our children mimic our behavior. They are not going to act any better that we do. The language that the boy uses at school comes from the parent. So how could he discipline his son for the language he uses at home. Change the way you talk and your actions and the child will act accordingly. The cutting of his hair and eyebrows are extreme. This will only encourage the behavior of the student when other students pick on him. Other students can be very cruel, mean and evil. The boy,s behavior is only going to manifest it self. We are adults sometimes have difficulty handling the pressures of what others say about us, so it is extremely difficult for children to handle that pressure. Besides how involved is he in his child's education . . . is he an active parent? Does he help his son with home work at night? Does he spend quality time with his son? Sometimes children act out because they are not getting the attention at home that they so desperately need. I am not saying don't spank the child at all but I will tell the parent to check him self and the home enviroment. Becuase change starts at home and then go abroad. Don't kill our boys self esteem and spirit build it up!!!


LOLattheworld
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All these comments make me laugh...even the ones with the psychology degrees aren't thinking on the broad/objective scope I would expect you to. First of all, you're not sitting around reading a scholarly peer reviewed article. You are sitting and being entertained by a GOSSIP COLUMN...so get off your high horse and pipe down a bit. Do you think ANY man (father or not) would submit this video to a gossip column? How do you think they obtain these videos? So if he didn't submit it, and it was for "personal use", how did he intentionally share it to embarrass the child? If he was the "attention seeking whore" that we're claiming he is, I would have expected him to speak to the camera a bit. In fact, wouldn't more embarrassment have come if he left the haircut the way it was?!?!? And why leave the camera to give the whooping if he was hoping to embarrass him? I too have worked in the Social Work, Psych, AND Justice system. What if this child is one of the many who have hit the jail cell before the age of 10 ?!?! If his parents are junkies or dealers and this man saw he was going down the same road? Being raised by grandma who can hardly keep up cuz of her age, who he will turn to abuse in the next 5-7 years because she cannot control him? Although I would have never recorded this, that isn't because I feel like it would be embarrassing to the kid. I just wouldn't record it cuz I wouldn't give ya'll proof of anything so that 300K people could sit up in their own broken homes and judge me, when the stats are there to prove that our children are only getting worse and you are not any closer to a solution. But instead of getting out there to find one, you too busy telling everyone else what they doing wrong. I laugh at the world. If he didn't film it, and he whooped him in front of the rest of the family/neighborhood like they used to do, would that be abuse as well? lol! How about if they took turns, like they used to? I'm still waiting to hear a black celeb tell us how much they hate their parents for the whooping and discipline. I think ALL parents cross the line into abuse at sometime during parenthood...because there is no handbook. There is only hindsight. You learn while the children learn and I hope that with all the negative press, this guy learns that this probably wasn't the best method. But what I will NOT do is sit here and speculate as if I know why this happened, what led to it, what the relationship is between these two, or who this man is as a person. All of this presumption and loathing reminds me of all those comments racist people make about Obama and the First Lady on Yahoo!. Spewing a bunch of hate for people you don't know and probably will never meet. But you are perfect. So your "hate" and "degradation" is fine, as long as its not child abuse. And as soon as you are done tearing this man apart for trying to do something right, you will turn your Waka Flocka/ Soulja Boy/Rick Ross right back up, hit the malls to buy your club clothes for the night, and continue to support the ignorant mess that children like this little boy thinks is the way of life, because we tell them one thing, and we support and reward another. I laugh at the world. If this doesn't apply to you, please find a way to volunteer in your community spend time with our black children. The arts and sports are being cut out of the schools, and slowly but surely, it will ruin this generation. DO SOMETHING....cuz we've SAID enough.


AlkaliDC
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All these ignorant ass comments about prison, amongst other words to describe them. Laughing and acting up in class never sent anybody to prison. If you believe that, you're a throwback to your species and you stand as evidence that maybe...just maybe...evolution doesn't REALLY exist. Kids get into mischief because their kids! The prisons are flooded with black males because of prejudice and an a fucked up system. You'd rather beat your children like punching backs to alleviate your stupidity and ignorance and to make them fit the systematic standards than actually stand up for your rights or for blacks or other unfairly treated adults who get chucked into cages like animals. All this bullshit about he's trying to keep his son out of jail. Anyone who agrees with that is probably just pissed off because they got beat as a child and their parent should have gone to jail, like this ignorant ass ghetto coward should be, or your simply worse than the children. One minute its the white man's fault, the next its the kid's fault - because they acted up in school. So instead, parents act like the "white man" towards their children. Yeah...that's the sort of average level intelligence anyone could pick up from watching 30 minutes of a Tyler Perry movie on the chitterling circuit....smh.


Hizonli1
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lol if he didnt beat him he prob woulda got away with it but you know he in jail


Isaygoforit
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I applaud this father for taking the time, care and love to correct his son's behavior. People are upset that he filmed his discipline session, but I completely understand. He had gotten on the boy and spanked him earlier in the week for the same behavior. So this time he upped the ante. Not only did he spank him, but he cut his hair and made him do drills. Next time he won't have to do any of that. He now has proof of what will happen if the boy acts up. He can use this as a tool to do a preemptive strike and cut the boy off at the pass. I work in an inner city school where you see children like this all of the time. Our school was off the chain last year because we were trying to teach children to "reflect" on their bad behavior instead of giving them real discipline. This year we told them right at the jump that last year's practices were out the window and that there were different expectations and different consequences for bad behavior. Now, instead of being on the verge of closure we have everyone applauding the difference in the school and in their children. Teachers are now being able to teach all of the children instead of focusing on so-called "bad" children. All of the children's scores are now going up (unfortunately we test them a lot). Those parents that didn't want to get on board had the option of going elsewhere, and we are getting reports back on how badly they are continuing to behave in their school environments. Like W.E.B. DuBuoise said "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men."


TEEROCKJELLI
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@AlkaliDC I agree with you. I been working with inner city school systems for the past 15 years, and he doesn't show signs of the unruly kid, the bully, or the disrespectful type. In fact he seems like one of the "cool kids" that everyone wants to joke with. The simple remedy to this problem was for the teacher to move his seat. The boys family is overreacting. I couldn't sleep last night thinking of this child. IMO this father was only concerned with taking the boys "cool points" away. EVERYONE at some point joked around with their buddies at school, IT'S A SOCIAL SETTING!! You teach them right and wrong and move on. It's funny how NOT ONE BLACK PERSON suggested reading books or even the old "I will not joke around in school" 200 times instead of going to recess. Anyone with an education, or even a heart, would know the behavior did not warrant the punishment. All that "yeah beat him before he ends up in jail" is nothing but a ghetto crock, which I would've agreed with if he was stealing from a store, or a neighbors house, or something like that. The father needs someone his size to knock his corny azz out, right in front of lil one. And you chicks who agree are the same chicks who would let a child abuser beat your child to a pulp because you love the guy and not the baby... WHAT? AIN'T NO MORE TO IT...


alexesclark
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This is pure COONERY at its best! First of all if he so concerned why is the boy living with his grandmother. If he is that dedicated of a father why isnt he living with him? Second, what LOVING father disciplines his son by CURSING at him like that? He needs discipline but this is NOT discipline. It is so obvius that his father was not raised a man because this is SOME HARDNOSE, BITTER, SINGLEWOMAN DISCIPLINE. A real man does not have to go through these measures to deal with his son. He acts likehe has to prove his manhood or something. Parents are to lead by example.. If the father expects the son to be respectful then HE should be respectful. He expects the son to be respectful of the teacher and the randmother and of him but he is in NO way respecting his son. So this father is expecting to raise his son to be a productive member of society by treating him this way. It is obvious the father is immature and is definitely has no EDUCATION, just his language shows that he knows nothing of respect! This boy is going to grow up afraid of his father and is going TO HATE SCHOOL. BLACK MEN need to read why this exact foolishness is the reason why BLACK MEN/boys have the highest drop out rate and the HIGHEST rate of being placed in Special Education. I didnt hear him say at all that he went and talked to the teacher? Conference? Dressing him all bummy for school.. really mature. Cutting his hair bald? So you are stripping his self esteem and self confidence which is needed to SUCCEED in school... Iheard the father say, "you come over here and play video games but never said anything about helping with school projects or going over homework.. Black men have their priorities so messed up. Does he realize that boys- black boys esspecially between the age of 8-12 hve the highest energy rate that surpasses White boys.. Maybe because they are blessed with AFRICAN decent. I am an educator. I am a teacher. I know for a fact that intelligent/smart/gifted children often get in trouble because they are BORED. What is this father doing other than beating his son. NOTHING-but yet he want to beat him into submission because he was talking and playing. that is what boys do. Instead of beating him, and showing force- why isnt he raising his own son. So he wants to be BIG AND BAD DADDY whenit comes to beating, but had no problem allowing the grandmother to raise him. A real man would not have felt the need to prove to the world that he is a good father by abusing his son for the world to see. The chidl is not always to blame. He may have ADHD, which is common among African Americans, not allways because of bad parenting, but becuase of unstable, stressful living conditions, how can this boy focus on learning if he is scared that this is what he will go through if he makes mistakes. He may sit down and be quiet but his mind will never stop working and what will happen when he is too big to whoop... DROPOUT! The dad really needs to try to reach his sons heart instead of his ass. HE cant expect the grandmother to raise his responsiblity and then want to be billy bad ass when it comes to discipline.


BigDiva41
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Video-taping it for others to see is abusive, why did he post this. The belt on his arm was scary enough, when he's older the boy is going to hate him. Discipline is essential in the upbringing of a child but this was clearly abuse and unnecessary.


chi_chica
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Someone please rescue this child. All kids act up at one point. We all were kids, and i'm more than sure we all have misbehaved at some point. We are all imperfect, and i'm definitely more than sure we all did not listen to our parents all the time as well. The parent should investigate thoroughly why their child is repeatedly acting up. The child could have a chemical imbalance, a learning disability, or mental handicap that could cause him to be distracted. The child could also be intelligently gifted as well, which can also cause him to be inattentive to work that isn't challenging. If the child doesn't have mental afflictions, a personality disorder, a mood disorder, or anything that could cause him to have problems staying attentive to his school work, he could have also just have been finished completing his tasks, and might have decided to simply enjoy a good joke. Kids laugh. That is what they are supposed to do. If the child, was deliberately being disrespectful or simply testing the waters to see how much he could get away with, then yes, he should be disciplined for continuously corrupting the learning process, but not in this way. He is just a child. In fact, I doubt he is deliberately being disrespectful because he doesn't sass his father at all. People learn the biggest lessons about life from making mistakes. It is the method you choose to correct them that will determine if they learned their lesson at all. Personal growth occurs from proper corrective actions regarding bad behavior. How often do adults slack off on the job or at school? All the time. Adults will go on social network sites instead of committing themselves to be dedicated to their tasks during work hours. Adults will take extended breaks from their designated break periods to slack off. Adults drive over the speed limit when they are not supposed to. We are human beings. We don't do what we are supposed to do all the time; it happens. I'm sure people will change their tune if adults got beaten every time they don't do what they are supposed to do all the time. Oh no, they would call it "cruel and unusual punishment." (see the constitution) If the father could train his son to acquire a better work ethic, or see a psychologist to make sure his son didn't have any learning handicaps, I'm sure his son would perform better in school. Parents also have to consider that some of these teachers are glorified babysitters. Not all teachers are dedicated to their craft, and some like to take their frustrations out on students they may not favor in particular. Parents have got to do a better job to bring their children up so they can function well in society. The father needs to find out the real root of his child's misbehavior first, so he can encourage the child to perform better in the classroom. In addition, I feel there was no point to shaving the child's head and eyebrows, or filming his punishment. His hair will eventually grow back. Also, that tactic humiliates the child, and I'm sure that action will deplete the child's sense of self-worth, not to mention lower his self-esteem. Corporal punishment does not work for every human being. According to the tape, that child got hit 16 times by that man. 16 times for laughing. I'm sure the beating didn't end after that segment was abruptly stopped. We all were kids at one time. Let's put ourselves in their shoes sometimes so we can have a better understanding of what they go through. Don't beat your kids. Teach your kids. There are other ways to discipline your child that work other than was was depicted in this film. As adults and parents, we are obligated to ensure that children become the individuals God wants them to be. Jesus Christ teaches us to treat people as we want to be treated. Getting beaten for simply expressing a God-given emotional trait at the wrong time is absolutely criminal and horrific. If we don't want our children to become a future deleterious influence on society, we must make more of an effort to discipline our children in ways that will not be harmful to their psyche. We must stop implementing permanent solutions to temporary problems. Parents must stop beating their kids all the time for every inkling of misbehavior. To the young father: If the whoopin' didn't work before, then it's not gonna work anymore. Try something else for that child's sake.


jorundi
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@all the bleeding hearts that think this is abuse, please take warning: If you don't whip that azz when they are that small, there will be a police officer that is willing to do it for you...just wait another 5-10 years. As for abuse producing violent people...that depends on the type of abuse. Sexual abuse causes all kinds of problems that can be witnessed in prisons, on street corners and strip clubs. Physical abuse...not an azz whipping...but negligent abuse does the same thing. . You must learn the difference between a disciplinary azz whipping and a beating. This kid wasn't beaten, he got an azz whipping from a father who cared enough to show him the consequences of bad behavior. He explained to his son, in more detail than I would have, exactly what the behavior was that was wrong and why he was getting punished. From his speech, this wasn't the first time that the kid had done this. As I stated before, I wish that we had more fathers who would take the time to explain that "if A occurs, B will happen" and follow through. Too many times parents will threaten over and over until the threats mean nothing. I applaud this father for following through. Have a Good Day!


Gentleman_Dan
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ABUSE!! Only the uneducated and uncivilized could support this nonsense! Discipline should teach a lesson without psychologically scarring a child. How can you truly call yourself a man when you are bullying a kid?


iloveyouxoxox
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This kept me up last night. and @gentleman_dan you got it right on point. and also, it would make sense that MTO would support such a TERRIBLE thing cause the people who run this site are fucking animals and racist. @redeyez ALL KIDS FUCK UP! is he gonna do that the next time he messes up? There is a way to discipline children without emotionally and psychologically scarring them. Him acting up in school, does not deserve this. Hell i dont care if he kicked the teacher or got in a fight. This is far worse. The cycle of abuse gets worse everytime. What is that guy going to do next? Any damn fool (like yourself) can beat a child or support this kind of "parenting". REAL parenting takes so much more than beating and humiliating a child. My parents never ever laid a hand on me as a child but they did discipline me when i did something wrong and i learned my lesson. Your argument is weak.


GMr3ll<
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DISCIPLINE at its finest...he needed his ass whoop'd, dis aint child abuse he teaching his son the reality of consequences & yes its supposed to hurt & humiliate him...drowning all your kids in a tub & claiming you depressed & insane like datt pink booty(caucasian) ass lady did a couple years back is child abuse & Bad parenting: RIP to her kids real talk...305 in dis bih


DCBABY73
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I don't agree w/ him putting this on camera, but everything else is parenting 101. Rather see his whooping now than hear about him in 10 years going to jail for robbing and killing some old lady for 2 bucks. I wish more fathers would step up and do their jobs and our Black society wouldn't have the majority of its men in jail or in the ground.


iloveyouxoxox
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@DCBABY73 no, most people who are in jail and locked up have delt with some sort of abuse in their lives. this is kid could grow up to be violent, this is all psychology 101 rather than "parenting" 101. Violence and cussing out your child never teaches them anything good.



TMWILL
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Ok here we go yet another f'd up black child, a azz whooping aint never help none of yall dumb azz mutha fuckas. We have been so brain washed by slavery we think that the only way to rear children and make them behave is by whooping them. THIS METHOD DOES NOT WORK!!!!! It only makes the child easy to anger. We wonder why there is so much voilence in the black community this is the ROOT!!!! Please believe that the worse child in school the one that is always fighting or rebelling are the ones getting there azz beat at home. The prisons are full of young men and women that were all ABUSED!!!!!There are actually many studies on this and it is factual. Kids that grow up in a nurturing, non-voilent enviroment are the ones that excell in life and are able to deal with adversity. We often laugh at White folks when there kids act out and they dont assult them as if that helps, but that same kid will grow up and know how to act if someone accidentally bumps them, most of our people are ready to fight. Its no different from raising a pit bull, if you want to make your dog mean all you have to do is hit him enough, he will become a vicious animal. If you take that same pit bull and provide love and patients he will be a good animal. I hope within the next 100 years of less WE black folks wake up and realize that all that shit the slave master was doing to us was wrong and at some point this type of behavior must stop.


johnty aka Mr eveready
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we should appriciate a young brother is willing to take the time and teach a child at a young age that your choices have consequences and as well that there is respect that needs to be had which we lost in our children and if yall know who this brother was would understand he has nothing but good intentions and they should be respected and appreciated


GMr3ll<
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@iloveyouxoxox a littlie food for thought: I received the same treatment as that kid when i was coming up if i decided to act up...with that being said im a 24 yr old BLACK male without a police record besides traffic tixs, never been to jail, obtained an associates degree, 10 classes away from graduating with a bachelors degree but statistics say i was supposed to be in prison or dead by 21, so tell the police i can buy my own bracelets thx you, i had the opportunity on numerous occasions to engage myself in misconduct situations but the thought of datt ass whooping deterred me from going down the wrong path...but i would not expect you or anyone that concurs with your thoughts on the subject to understand & thats cool bcuz "WE ARE NOT THE SAME"


TMWILL
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ok I guess, you got your PHD in Psychology as I do....idiot......and we were the last and longest slaves on this earth....you sound like the typical uneducated black male!!!!


TMWILL
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Wow...you guys sound really uneducated, to think that someone putting hands on another helped their behavior...Its just another form of bullying that has been proven NOT to work....and for the idiot that does not believe the many studies that has been done on the men and women in the prision system regarding abuse, just look it up...thats why we have the internet it's called the information super highway for a reason!!!! Willie Lynch really did his job, we continue to stay ignorant just because. For all of you in here that dont think these kids today are not getting these type of beating you obviously have your eyes closed.....this has never stopped, many turn to drugs and the streets to escape this type of behavior.....WAKE UP NEGROES!!!!!


LOLattheworld
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Does "Iloveyouxoxo..." have kids or just a psych degree? Not being rude...just asking. I would love to know where your perspective is stemming from. Also, were you spanked as a child? Notice I said "spanked" and not "beaten" cuz there is a difference. If you expect me to believe that a child being spanked on his bottom, as opposed to being punched in the face, hit with an iron, drowned in the bathtub, etc. is abuse, then I don't know if it makes sense to entertain these thoughts. THESE are the offenses that CPS is trying to protect children from. Some of you really wanna see this man go to jail over this while Casey Anthony running free as a damn cheetah. smh. Again, I laugh at this world.


LOLattheworld
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LOL @ TMWILL.So are you saying that slavery exists nowhere else on earth? Nowhere?!?!


LOLattheworld
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That's the sad part and why I think the video should be removed. He apparently DID NOT submit this video and someone stole it and placed it on the site (and probably got compensated for it), which is copyright infringement in itself. But unless you a celeb, you can't force these sites to remove anything these days. Even if they know it's destroying someone and portraying something that is not true. Sad. I bet no one even considered that not only did he NOT submit it, but he is NOT the father. SMH. I hope we rush to volunteer for the youth as fast as we rush to judgement. THEN the world would be an amazing place. Until then...


My 2 Cents
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The son misbehaved earlier this week. Dad dealt with him then. However, the child went BACK to school and misbehaved AGAIN. Therefore, dad "stepped up" the punishment. NO PROBLEM here! People are complaining about the videotaping of the actions. Did the son misbehave in a closet? He acted out in front of others. He's catching what Dad felt was warranted in public. I just hope that this video doesn't land in the wrong hands, and Dad gets punished for it.


Carmella82
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That was so unnecssary to cut his hair. I agree with the beating because some boys need that. He lives with his grandmom so he was probally wanted attention. He took it too far....really.


rudiepooh
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I don't agree with him video taping it... like entertainment. His tactics need some fine tuning but there is nothing wrong with spanking. If my kids act up in school they KNOW what's gonna happen. I hurts to do it sometime but I love them enough to do what it takes to raise them correctly.


Joy
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GOOD FOR HIS ASS - MORE FATHERS NEED TO BE TOUGH ON THEIR SONS------ and MAKE THEM behave before the SYSTEM gets a hold of their A*SS...... I think he loves him enough to SCOLD HIM... He gave him chances to behave and it didn't work SO BEAT THAT A*SS,,,, Your child should fear you!


Patience_02
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@TMWILL I agree!! "Great minds think alike"


sapphyprincess
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First of all, some of y'all need to stop adding things to the story. THE BEATING WAS NOT ON THE TAPE!!!!! We only heard it. We do not know if the uncle (or whoever that was) joined in. Negroes KILL me speculating and adding ish. Anyways, back to the situation itself. The father was JUSTIFIED, period. He had a discussion with his son PREVIOUS to the discipline, and he STILL acted up. Yup, I would have stopped those waves from spinning too! Sure would have! That's the problem. I bet HALF of you on here let your kids act a fool and run YOU! (I'm speaking about the ones who are calling this abuse) This was NOT ABUSE! Would I have taped this and posted it on the net? ABSOLUTELY! You want to be a clown? Want people to laugh at you? HERE YA GO! Now, the whole world is laughing at you. Keep acting up! I agree with many of the posters on here. Children nowadays are SOFT, DISRESPECTFUL and OUT OF ORDER! This man did what he had to do as a MAN raising a future MAN! I can't believe how many people are condemning this man, but if he was sitting up there smoking with this kid, some of the ignorant posters on here would be condoning the buffoonery! GTFOH! Like I said, the man was justified. Now that this kid KNOWS that this is online for the WORLD to see, he won't act up again in school. Trust and believe!


Yanna18
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that look like dat man off youtube dat be in dat funny man skits follow me @pretti_me18 nd i'll follow bak



_honeydrop
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as im watching this... im realizing the lame ass "father" doesnt even take care of his kid.... his mother does..... if you cant take care of your damn seed, you dont need to put your damn hands on the baby..... lame ass bitch ass excuse for a father... maybe thats the problem pops.... maybe he takes you guys for a fuckin joke because THATS WHAT YOU ALL ARE


Reckless2011
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This could def go both ways. The video never really says what he did wrong. the punishment should fit the crime. The fact that this was video taped is crazy. Show intentions to put on a show. But the fact that his son has that much respect and wasnt jump as if he was scared to get hit show no signs of abuse.


LMF
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This is pure ignorance at its best. The question I have is a. why the need to film it b. why is grandma responsible for sending him to school but he "comes over" to play video games with dad. Maybe THATS the problem.


jorundi
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@Great1StillHere and those of you using common sense...I speak on the greatest authority. I am a 30-year Inner City High School Math Teacher. The people here that are calling this abuse have either 1. Not taught in an inner city middle or high school, or 2. cannot relate to what is happening to our African American youth or 3. don't have a clue as to what their " privileges/time out/lets talk" manner of raising children has done to our public schools. To you people that call this abuse...I have had to deal with your "spoiled/no consequences/no limits" method of raising your children for 30 years. If self discipline had been taught at home, my job teaching would have been a lot easier. It is impossible for a teacher to teach unless he/she can get the students' attention. When they are not taught to respect authority, there can be no teaching. So when your child doesn't pass standardized tests, quit looking at the school and it's teachers. Try to find out why your child did not learn what he should have learned. 99% of the time the root of the problem lies in your "spoiled/no consequences/no limits" method of child-rearing. I wish that I had been the teacher of the children with this type of father. I had a few like that, but that was not nearly enough.


shawn876
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Maybe if his dad was raising him instead of his old grandma things would be different. Don't come over just to chastise the kid be there for him all the time. Why doesn't he live with dad. This is straight child abuse and this kid should be taken away and put in a loving home


HOUSE_OF_BEAUTY
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we need more father's like that to discipline these little boys out here because these little boys today are growing up in broken homes without a father figure in their life. They out here in these streets doing everything up under the sun and god only knows what else. I agree 1000% with this father in the video. It's clear you can see he loves his son very much and he not gone play with his lil ass about school. School is for learning and getting your education especially at his lil age anyway and he want to go to school and clown around. That butt whipping he got ain't no different then the ones we all got when we were teenage kids growing up. I don't think he over did it with the language because my aunt and sister's use to do the same thing when I was about to get a whipping. Notice he didn't start swearing until he got ready to whip him other then that he was just talking to him so I agree with the father. My question is though...who was dude that came in and help whip the little boy


NurseHenry
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As a healthcare professional, I have seen many abuse cases, and this is not one of them! As long as the child has no phyiscal injuries, and the father allows the child to keep his underwear on during the spanking process, there isn't anything in this video that can be used against this father as abuse. The father, actually protected himself by filming the process, in case the mother, grandmother, or law enforcement were to proceed with legal actions against the father. The national statistics have young blacks 21 and younger at a higher risk at being incarcenrated or murdered. The non profit organizations and the churches in the black community have for years condemned black fathers for not being present, and this father is present and taking an active role in his son's life.Therefore, my professional opinion is, this is not abuse. But when a White cop beats him or kills him, then the Black community yells FOUL PLAY! Let's not be hypocrites!


DVyneWon
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The language I don't care much for. However, I believe this father did what he thought he needed to in order to prevent his son from becoming another typical statistic. A few examples: 1. another elementary / middle or high school drop-out 2. another black man sitting in a prison instead of an institute of higher learning or in his very own office as CEO of his own business 3. one more unneeded thug running the streets robbing OUR communities and murdering our neighbors (or us) I'm all for this father beating his son's behind and being hard on him. It's better he do it now than to have the police do it later.


WhereIsHipHopGoin
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@ G13 and GMr311 AMEN to what yall said. I agree with it growing up I knew if I did something I was not suppose to I still had to go home to get my ass beat. I was treated the same way. I am a grown women with my own job, apartment, don't have any children (and never had an abortion), or was never arrested and I DO NOT HATE MY MOTHER FOR THE DISCIPLINARY ACTIONS THAT WAS TAKEN BY HER. IF ANYTHING I RESPECT HER FOR THAT. I AM A GROWN WOMAN AND I STILL DON'T CURSE OR DISREPECT MY MOTHER. I have a great relationship with her and everything. When I was in high school I mad the right decision about who to hang out with and how far to go with my behavior. To my understanding if you listen he said to the boy (and the boy said YES SIR) We Play Games And Have Fun All The Time Don't We? When they were outside he said to the boy You Got Ten Seconds To Get To The Sidewalk and the boy took more than 10 seconds but he (the dad) didn't over react like he could have. As I said before I got my ass whipped often as a kid and I was the one at school sticking up for kids being bullied by ignorant kids who didn't have any discipline. Also I was the one telling my friends to calm down their bad behavior. I agree with why did he tape it but he probably wanted to show him in the future so he would think twice about his behavior again. The fathers mother is probably helping him to raise the boy (were is his mother? you didn't hear anything about that) I know a lady who is helping to raise her grandson because his mother is not in his life and his father takes him on his days off from working 2 jobs. A LEAST HIS DAD IS IN HIS LIFE. THAT IS WHAT A LOT OF THESE KIDS NEED. THINK ABOUT THIS ONE WITH THE WAY TODAYS YOUTH IS GOING WILL I HAVE A GOOD DOCTOR OR DENTIST WHEN I'M 60? WILL MY GRANDCHILDREN HAVE A GOOD TEACHER OR PRINCIPLE?WILL WE EVEN HAVE ANY FIREFIGHTERS? I THINK SO IF WE GET OUR CHILDREN TO DO THE RIGHT THING WHEN THEIR YOUNG.


rosie33
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aint nothin wrong with a good ass whoppin', The Bilbe says spare the rod and spoil the child maybe they wouldnt be walking around the place with they pants round they ankles acting hard smoking and listening to weezy acting upas if they the besty thing that ever happened to the world, pull urself together america im out!


leelee1229
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@Great1StillHere even though the beating was only a min the humiliation lasts a lifetime, i hope you know that by doing this the child is loosing trust in his parent to know that he will not inflict torturer to him. a child should not fear a parent but have respect for them and with that the father will never gain respect and will most likely just be fear. and instead of not doing things because its wrong he will only not do it because he know he will get a beating... so if the father disappears from his life what now is stopping him from acting out if who he fears is gone. Second if this father is ever so WONDERFUL with his parenting then why does he live with the grandmother and not him what he's only good enough to beat his child but not good enough to step up as a real father and actually raise his child please answer me that one


iloveyouxoxox
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@LOLattheworld this is illegal and abuse under law. and 2nd) using aggression and violence toward your child leads to nothing good. He did not spank him, he beat him with the belt. repeatedly. AND he exploited his child with this video. I dont want to see him go to jail necessarily but he needs to learn (and clearly a lot of you) that using violence on your child will only hurt them in the long run. So psychology plays a lot into this. along with common sense


UseR101286
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Naw that was fawked up...He aint need all'at... A ass whoopin a do ya! I bet nobody did his uglay ass daddy like that when he was little, that's why he ignorant now doing that boy like that! NOTE: DISCIPLINING YOUR CHILD WITH ABUSE DOES NOT ALWAYS MEAN THEY GONE GROW UP AND HAVE A CLEAR HEAD ON THEY SHOULDERS! IT CAN ALWAYS TURN NEGATIVE AND THEY GROW UP KILLIN PEOPLE... I'M NOT SAYING DONT TAP DAT ASS BUT DONT KILL THE BOY! SMH...


wiselibra89
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I have to give it up to him first and foremost because even though he was punishing the child their was still a lot of love there that anyone can see. With that being said the ass whooping did seem extreme but who knows what the little boy was doing. He was limping he didn't sock him or kick him he WHOOPED THAT ASS! Anybody who ever got a whooping can think of AT LEAST one major ass whooping and I bet they didn't do it again!


Blanca's Business
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HE LOVES HIS SON AND THATS WHY HE DECIDED TO DO THAT TO HIM!!!!! MORE FATHERS NEED TO TAKE INITIATIVE AND PARENT THEIR SONS!!! THATS WHY WE HAVE SO MANY BLACK MEN IN JAIL BECAUSE THE MEN THAT WERE SUPPOSED TO RAISE THEM AND DISCIPLINE THEM LAUGHED AT THEIR BAD BEHAVIOR GROWING UP AND TURNED INTO FUCKED UP ADULTS!!!! GET IT RIGHT THATS NOT ABUSE THATS SOME REAL SHIT!! THAT YOUNG BLACK MAN KNEW HE WAS DOING WRONG IN SCHOOL AND DECIDED TO KEEP DOING SO SO HIS FATHER TOOK ACTION!!! YOU DAMN RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



shaybutta235
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Dat lil Boii needed everything he got had he learned his lesson the first time he wouldn't have had to do it again.....hell no its not abuse if more fathers disciplined their sons then it would B less men n jail and more being fathers to their kids....its better that he gets it now so the police won't have to do it later in his life


kenwood75
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Listen, I am a father of a hard headed Nine year old boy. I can control him at home but once he leaves out of this door he loses his mind at school. Butt whoopins alone don't do it. I have to use other tactics such as these to really make him have second thoughts when he about to mess up. Now if I didn't give a damn about my son, I would just let him do whatever. the problem with society today is that we always are critical on everyone else business and think our shit don't stank. If you are letting a child get away with misbehaving at school without consequence (other than time out) you are doing your child and community a injustice. I commend this brother for giving a damn.... and about him putting it on film.. it should be a tutorial to yall soft ass hen pecked so called parents.


MissLexiHall
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Whats his number??? I want to hire him for Obama's new goverment program..... The Fuck a Kid Up Foundation!!!!! lol. Good Parenting!!!


vlbaybee
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beat that ass #that is all


mya12345
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all i can say is child abuse these needs to be reported.


mya12345
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this is not good parenting this is abuse i bet some one from social services is watching .


D from Denver
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He shouldn't have posted the video, but though he may not be there all the time, he is very evidently in the boys life, because he knows the situation and wants to show there are repercussions for bad behavior. Black boys are becoming too feminized and lacking of accountability for their actions, and lack fathers as examples. Boys react differently to fathers and males than than with women, they tend to comply better and understand that men are not going to allow as much under their watch. When they don't have any men in their lives, the ones they do have there are forced to fight their bad behavior as they grow too old to handle. If we take care of and instill good values into our kids, all we can hope for is that they understand right from wrong, to help them along in life. It may somewhat abusive, but he could be possibly changing a negative direction this young boy is heading. There is no perfect solution, but one thing I do know is there has to be a response to bad behavior, and I've rather dole out the punishment now than let the correctional system have my kids any day. He did what he thought was right, but shaving his eyebrows, that part was abusive and ridiculous!!