: We're about 90 PERCENT behind the father on this. We don't like all the FOUL LANGUAGE he used towards the boy . . . but everything else . . JUSTIFIED!!!
Children need discipline. They don't need to be beaten like crazy, though, especially on camera. Why is the father filming this and cursing like that on camera? Take care of your business without cameras rolling. He needs to be taken from this crazy *** publicity seeking fool. It sounds like he's not even raising the boy. That's the problem with so many young brothas, WHERE IS THE *** FATHER AND WHY ISN'T HE WITH THEM?
I am all for physical discipline, but there is a fine line between discipline and abuse. The number ONE rule when administering physical discipline is self-control on the part of the person doing the HITTING. The number of licks should fit the crime, and there is nothing wrong with telling the kid ahead of time how many licks are coming, and the parent sticking to it, so that they don't get carried away. A LOT of men get carried away with adrenaline and anger. You should NEVER hit your child out of anger. Wait until you are calm and can exercise control.
Having said that, this father is trying to save his son, and put him on the right path, so I support him. I do think he went overboard with the hair cut and pictures and video, though. That being said, nobody can put fear in a child (especially a boy) like daddy can. But fathers, remember to also be kind and loving to your children, and let them know that you love them no matter what.
Glad to see the dad taking some responsibility in rearing his child but he is a child. I don't condone adults talking to kids like they're grown - its not necessary, plain and simple. Spanking him probably would have sealed the deal, physical endurance may have been over the top. Hopefully, all in all, this kid will think twice about misbehaving next time.
I believe in showing your child there are consequences for bad behavior, but this is pure humiliation to the highest degree. On top of that does a child really need that many licks? The answer in my opinion is NO. In the long run this will only make the child a monster, and believe me we have enough of that today.
I could not even finish watching this. The father is a fame-hungry-basic sperm donna. WHY would you beat your child on camera. Children DO NEED discipline,especially these days when they are exposed to so much at an early age. But this should be done in the privacy of their own home. Why humiliate the child? this type of behavior is raising a generation of OVERLY AGGRESSIVE-ANGRY BLACK MEN that are not accountable to anything BUT PAIN AND PUNISHMENT concerning anything in their lives. This young mans motion in life will be "If it didn't hurt, it is not good" WSHH, your site should be taken down for even having a video up like this that is showing the apparent abuse and humiliation of a minor. Authorities will be contacted for sure and WSHH will be taken to course, you can bet on it. This is not comedy, this is not funny, this is a SERIOUS situation.
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HE GOT TAUGHT A LESSON, THAT'S THAT. AT LEAST WE KNOW THIS CHILD WONT GROW UP TO END UP A GUEST ON DR PHIL FOR SLAPPING HIS MOTHER, HE WONT *** UP HIS SCHOOL , OR DISRESPECT HIS PARENTS. THIS IS GOOD DISCIPLINE. KIDS NEED IT THESE DAYS. THIS JUST DID NOT NEED TO BE BROADCASTED TO THE MEDIA. NO REASON TO HAVE PUT IT ONLINE, THAT WAS JUST PLAIN DUMB.
the pictures and film were out of line. The haircut i wouldn't have done because your child represents YOU when they leave the house. However, I agree with whoopin that *** and including those drills as well. That was enough discipline. Videos and pics? nobody needs to know your business like that. Once you start filming videos, you are doing it for attention.
I'm all for whooping a kids *** ! And he did exactly what he was supposed to do. He let the kid Know what He was gonna do to him . Lol that hair cut was wrong though lmao haha Bt I Bet Money the Kid got his Act right . He got a haircut from Hell Azz Beat then had to work out with that sore azz oh yea he learned his Lesson lol. More Black MEN need to do this to their Sons!!
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He cares enough to discipline the child. My husband and I do this to our daughter minus the whooping, straight boot camp she cries "I want a whooping". You have to start out when they are young so they will have respect and act right! He wants his be in line and it's not abuse! I rather have people calling me abusive because I'm trying to discipline my child than have my child act a fool and people say I'm a bad parent who can't control my kids
Thats called good parenting. No where did this man beat his child to unconsciousness (like some parents reported in the news) burn him with cigarettes (like some parents reported in the news) send him to school with a busted lip, black eye (like some parents in the news). Thats called discipline! Aside from the ***-whopping what is the difference btwn what this father did and if the little boy got sent to boot camp. That man should be commended because as a result his son won't end up in jail or 6ft under. That brother gives a *** about his son and his future.
women that raise men have boys that become ***...even if a man don't want to be w the girl...raise your kids...women who try to pay back their men for leaving them by keeping their children away from them...you are only punishing the child. i am ALL for disciplining ur kids...beat them if you have to...recently boys have grown up to become punks, ***, etc. Teach them how to be men. Women do not know how to teach a boy to be a man...they have them dressing in tight jeans, and tight *** and think its cute. i can't stand it
There is a reason why children act up in school and that's because they are UNMOTIVATED and UNINSPIRED. The teacher and parents need to take a look at themselves. At no point did the Father help his son to understand what he had done wrong, he was too busy listening to the sound of his own voice and using abuse as the answer. What did it teach that boy? The opposite of what he intended to achieve. I found it very, very hard to watch. It was all very much boasting and self indulgent, why did he have to film that? To show off that he whooped a kid's ***?
We complain that we are oppressed by the whites but is it any wonder what our people are doing in the streets if this is the behaviour they see at home?
I hope he feels like such a big grown up dude after whooping that little boy's ***. His use of languages conveys his extreme unintelligence perfectly. And the language of all of you agreeing with him shows the same.
You know its borderline to me because he beat his *** twice and then let his potna get one in too. I mean *** two *** whoopings is good, then to let someone else get it in with the belt too! It might be good discipline or whatever but you can't take it too far like that. He tells his boy now its your turn. I understand all the other *** but dont take the time to videotape it either. Someone please call the popo for that little boy.
Man, this almost made me cry. I got my tail tore out the frame almost everyday. I could not for the life of me get it together in school. My mom took things away from me.. She made me wear my hair like a baby since I was acting like one, she made me at time dress like I acted (like a baby).... but she NEVER televised it. That's not really our business, though entertaining to some.
He did take it too far with putting it on the net. I don't have kids but have a serious passion for them because I know the type of hell I caused others. And now I teach and give back. You don't have to curse at your child to get the point across... I was never cursed at, but those beatings did the job. and I am very successful, degree in psychology, talented and doing my thing.
We as a people need to learn better strategies... we have good intentions, but they aren't always executed properly.
TOTALLY JUSTIFIED!!!! You act up in school, you pay the consequences!!! And it makes it EVEN BETTER that the father of the child is the one administering the punishment. FATHERS BE THERE FOR YOUR SONS!!!! I love every minute if it. Nothing wrong with a lil discipline, "time out" don't work for most kids but that belt does!!!!
GREAT JOB DAD! Feels good to see a black father taking responsiblity & being an involved parent. Good lessons but cut out teaching him all that foul language, he'll just go out and use on other people, not cool.
And all the people who think this is abuse, you're probably some of those bad azz kids that didn't get your Azz's whipped enough as a kid and now you're a *** up adult, so *** the hell up and sit the *** down! And whatever you do don't breed!
This right is nothing close to what we got growing up in the Caribbean. So what if it was recorded..we got beat at school, then at home, then which other family member was in the mood to beat you as well. I've seen friends get beat in front of the whole neighborhood...but guess what...we lived to laugh about it. He will will be one of the few that make it...and thank his father later...he may hate him now...but I understand the beatings today...I got a belt buckle to the eye...by accident while getting punished...but kept it moving. Guess what...after a few I didn't want anymore...lol.
VIOLENCE PERPETUATES VIOLENCE. TIME TO BREAK THE CYCLE!!! He is teaching his son to be VIOLENT and ABUSIVE to make a point, instead of using his mind to solve problems and figure out a different way to act.
I see so many things WRONG with this videotaped abusive parenting, but first out the gate is the fact that the FATHER is not 24/7 Parenting. This child is being raised by his Grandmother. So how are you going to come in as the Enforcer and part-time Dad. There is a reason for the boy "acting up" in school. He wants attention. Even negative Attention is better than none. The TALK was good, but follow it up with positive reinforcement and also restrict privileges.
That Spare the Rod/Spoil the Child Mentality OBVIOUSLY does not work. Go to Prisons and poll the black men there and I am sure you will find many of them had fathers who BEAT THEM!
@Smoochy, see you are the example of everything you are talking about... You don't have to do all the cursing to get your point across..
I taught in an alternative school for 3 years and I saw kids come to school from abusive homes. And kids act out because of their environment. The daddy is not even that active. Why is the grandma raising HIS son.. Don't come acting like superman when you only sees your son when he's in trouble.. that child needs to see that man regularly....
I wouldn't say abuse, but just tough love! If the father didn't care, he would not have done anything. Hopefully this lil boy learns from his mistakes and stop embarrassing his family at school. Next step is seeing a psychiatrist. Spare the rod, spoil the child. I hope parents watching this learn to raise their kids. This particular dad is zero tolerance level.
FUNNY THE BEATING WAS NOT FILMED!
THIS WAS TOO MUCH FOR ME - I ALMOST THROW UP WHEN I HEARD HIM BEATING THE LITTLE BOY. MY FATHER BEAT OUR BUTTS WHEN WE ACTED UP EVEN IN SCHOOL. I WENT TO AN ALL-WHITE CATHOLIC SCHOOL, WHICH HE HAD TO PAY FOR, SO ACTING UP WOULD CAUSE YOU SOME SERIOUS CONSEQUENCES, BUT NOTHING TO THIS DEGREE.
IN THE THIRD GRADE I BENT OVER AND TOLD MOTHER SUPERIOR WHAT SHE COULD KISS. TRUST ME I COULD NOT SIT DOWN FOR A WHILE AND I SHOULD HAVE BEEN DISCIPLINED, BUT NOTHING CUASES THIS MUCH DISCIPLINE.
BLACK MALES ALREADY STRUGGLE IN ALL AREAS FROM ACCEPTANCE TO HAVING PEOPLE DISRSPEAT AND ANNIHILATE THEM. YOU DON'T NEED TO BE ABUSED BY FAMILY ON TOP ALL THAT. I UNDERSTAND WHERE THERE FATHER WAS COIMING FROM AND TRYING TO DO SO HIS SON WOULD NOT BE A STATISTIC, HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN DISCIPLINED, BUT THIS FATHER WENT TO FAR.
It is a proven fact that children who are hit by their parents are more likely to be violent. Google the percentage of convicts who were hit in a way that cps wouldn't approve. We can bring other races into this by talking about *** we see in grocery stores and on tv shows, but it wouldn't change the damage that has been done to us by us. Some of you are so used to seeing dead beat fathers that you look at abuse and okay it simply because the father is in the picture. Reminds me of women who allow men to harm their kids simply to say "i gotta man." The hell?! Extension cords, high heels, chokeholds, belts with metal attachments, scratching, slapping, stomping...should i go on?...aren't acceptable ways in discipline a child. Anyone who thinks that abuse is fine and say "I was hit and i came out alright," you're not alright!
This is the way animals treat each other, we are human beings, GOD gave us a mind and intelligence to relate and raise our children. Violence does nothing but generate fear,anger,and resentment. I see many of you have the same "Plantation Mentality" that "controlled your ancestors during the era of slavery and sharecropping. The racist white man's rule was to beat when a black "got out of line". But he had no idea of the genius in his methodology, as he would inspire generations of "Love by Violence". Beating is easy, cowardly way to deal with a child that misbehaves. Parenting takes a lot more than picking up a belt. I guarantee you that he done nothing to see WHY the child was disruptive, Was it the lessons.maybe has a High IQ and is bored by the lessons? Investigate the REAL issues in your children's life. Thats why God gave us a brain.
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THIS IS ABUSE AND STUPID GHETTO MENTAL CRUELTY. HE IS CONSTANTLY BEATING THE BOY BUT YET HE IS NOT ACTING ANY BETTER AND THEN TO LET SOMEONE ELSE BEAT ON HIM WILL TEACH HIM NOTHING BUT ANGER AND BLACK PEOPLE ARE SOME OF THE MOST IGNORANT, MOST VIOLENT PEOPLE WHO ARE POPULATING THE JAILS B/C THEY HAVE A PROBLEM W/ANGER. THE BOY WILL HAVE MENTAL ISSUES LATER ON. THE DAD LOOKS LIKE AN IGNORANT THUG WITH ALL THAT MESS ON HIS HEAD. HE NEED TO TAKE THAT RAZOR TO HIS OWN HEAD.
@ateecha, I agree with you and all the sensible posters. You do not need to physically beat your child to get them to behave, only the low-brow individuals will resort to such. All he's learning is to resent that man and that if he doesn't get caught, there will be no punishment. But to each their own.
I couldn't finish watching either after he made him go into the room and drop his pants. SMDH!! That is ABUSE!!!! this kid is obviously mature beyond his years by the way he interacts with his Militant F.u.c.***.e.d father. Most kids when they know they are in trouble show some sign of emotion especially if a whoopin is coming and he didn't. First Red Flag! The boy has been getting dealt with by his father like this all his young life and you can tell that by the video, now you tell me this; If you have a father that humiliates you,beats the s.h.i.t out of you and calls others over to participate then why isn't his way of parenting working??? Why is the child still acting out in school? I will tell u why from my observation his dad is talking to him like he is an adult that can comprehend his adult way of thinking,his father has beat his *** so much in his *** time on earth that he is desensitized to getting his whippings,he can't be a child at home so he plays in school even though he knows what will happen if the teacher calls home. All his father is doing is raising another "ANGRY BLACK MALE" that will think when he grows up if people don't do what he wants them to do that it is O.*** to lash out and HIT! But later on he might pick up a GUN *** & kill your child because he is so angry. Think About That!!! I know If his teacher knew how he was being treated at home I promise you they would have dealt with him in another way. If this tape is showed to the authorities they would have to investigate this family and I hope they do. Just because a child goes to school in the latest fashions doesn't mean he has good parents!
If that's how he treats his kid on a regular basis, there's no mystery why the kid is acting out in class. He said he had just beat him a few days ago. Obviously, it's not working. And when the grandfather comes home, he says, "we're going to take turns." Terrible! Profanity, shaving eyebrows, beating with a belt, shoving a camera in his face, huiliating him outside in public... that's what you busters call "good parenting?" Parenting is literally brain surgery... it is literally shaping the brain and lifestyle of another living being. How many people are capable of being brain surgeons? About 1% of the population. That is EXACTLY how many people SHOULD be having children. 99% of you motherfuuckers have no business crapping out kids! And if you fools think that there isn't going to be a follow-up video in a few days of this dude getting arrested, you obviously don't live in Florida.
There is a fine line between discipline and abuse. This is abuse. Whipping your child is fine, but you can't tell me that he didn't leave bruises on him. Was he trying to be macho by videotaping it? It doesn't even sound like he lives with his father. I'd like to take a razor to his hair....and a bat upside his head.
That is horrible. I disagree with this post. Fathers should not discipline their children in such a manner. To let a child know that they are wrong and to go about correcting the problem is one thing, however to break down the childâs self esteem is another. The âfatherâ in this video recorded his child being tormented. There isnât anyone that is perfect and Iâm pretty sure he isnât either. Iâm pretty sure he wouldnât allow his hair to be cut in a way thatâs not presentable just to teach him a lesson. Also, he video taped the entire thing. There was amusement he found in the way he disciplined his child. Great, thereâs a male in the house however if he continues to treat that child like that, then in that child eyes, he will not be looked at as a father. FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER ï¨ @JUS_FRESH86
I'm so livid with this video and so f*ckin disgusted. how dare a parent beat their kids with a belt, even after the kid is sayin "stop its burning" all cuz they actin up in school. Parents like that DON'T deserve to have kids under their roof. Shame to ya MEDIATAKEOUT.COM for clappin 2 this mans behavior.
I think this is horrible! This father is not doing this for the well being of his son! He is doing this to get Youtube Hits and to be on this site. There is no reason a father needs to speak to his son the way he was. I dont agree with the way his friend was saying they were gonna take turns beating him. I too was hit as a child, and after my mother would loose control she would cry because she knew she was wrong. No child deserves to be beaten with a belt the way he did and especially not publicly! How many black and latino men are in jail BEING DISCIPLINED? TOO many!!! and what happens after their time?? Most of them go back! This man should have his son taken away from him for being so stupid and having this embarrassing video put up! He should be embarrassed of him self. If his son deserved to be beat for acting up in school, this man deserves to be beat for laying his hands on his son and letting someone else touch his son as well! Idiot! Follow me on twitter @iamWAMPY
NOTHINGS WRONG WITH THIS... DONT LIKE THAT YOU PUT IT OUT HERE FOR HIS SON FRIENDS TO SEE BUT HES A MAN RASING A MAN IN 2011 WHERE WE DONT SEE BLACK FATHERS DOING THEIR JOB, BUT THEY ON MAURY SAYING THAT BABY DONT LOOK LIKE ME... I PERSONALLY THINK HE JUST SAVE HIS SON FROM PRISON, IF IF HE DISIPLINE HIS CHILD NOW LIKE HES DOING THEN 10 YEARS FROM NOW HE WONT HAVE TO PUT HIS HANDS ON HIM BECUZ HE'LL KNOW HOW HIS FATHER GETS DOWN
Lil kids are bad as hell and sometimes this is necessary. My neighbors son is 7 and told an 80 year ol man to suck his dyck. Lil homie will think twice before actn up again becuz he know whats waiting. When I was yung my mama used to whoop my azz and stay on me about doing the right things.Every beating i got i deserved and she always counseled me after.I love u ma because of u i have a career,never been arrested or in jail, dont have any a bunch of kids *** baby mamas. if this is what it takes to keep black men outta jail.....I say whoop dat azz
Why does the "father" keep referring to the "grandmother" as the person who sent the child to school? Why does the "father" say "grandaddy is home" when the older man enters. Obviously, this fool is NOT involved in the kid's daily life. Maybe if he were, the kid wouldn't be acting out. On the other hand, since this profane clown has absolutely no idea what he is doing as a "parent/sperm donor," it might be a good idea for him to stay out of this child's life.
This is the EPITOME of why I am NEVER having children. I do not want them living in a world with the morons you fools are raising.
I disagree with this post. Fathers should not discipline their children in such a manner. To let a child know that they are wrong and to go about correcting the problem is one thing, however to break down the childs self esteem is another. The boy in this video recorded his child being tormented. There is not anyone that is perfect and I am pretty sure he isn't either. Iâm pretty sure he would not allow his hair to be cut in a way thatâs not presentable just to teach him a lesson. Also, he video taped the entire thing. There was amusement he found in the way he disciplined his child. Great, there is a male in the house however if he continues to treat that child like that, then in that child eyes, he will not be looked at as a father.
People often misinterpret the bible. Proverbs 22:6 says,Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it." To train a child dosen't necessarily means beating a child. I'm not against disciplining unruly kids, but there is a way to do it. His language was unacceptable, the shaving of the child's eyebrow was uncalled for, and the film was not necessary, however i did like the bootcamp which i think black people should use instead of whooping all the time! The prison is fill with angry black men that was belted in there younger years so beating don't always case a child to "act right". The problem with most black parents is that we lack affection, we seldomly, if ever, tell our children "I love you".Sometimes the promblem is not the children it's ignorant parents. Never humiliate your children, it causes hatred that cause destruction.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! In the DC area, all people see is these *** up acting teens jumping on innocent people because they feel they can (not all of them are out of control, but enough of them are). About *** time some one takes control of his managed ***, before the streets do. My mother whooped her 5 kids *** just the same, and we all are still alive, didn't sell drugs, and have degrees and careers with nice families.
i did not agree with his method of parenting, i think it was a little dramatic and he *** have recorded it. i understand the physical discipline part but the whole hair cut and beating him was over the top that child will grow up to hate him the child isn't learning anything especially if he wasn't explained what he did wrong.
THIS DUDE IS TRYING TO GET THE FAME THROUGH HIS KID. I'M A FATHER AND HAVE A SON AND I DO DISCIPLINE HIM BUT THIS IS JUST BS. WHAT IS HE TRYING TO PROVE HERE, IS HE TRYING TO SET AN EXAMPLE TO ME PARENTING MY SON.. GTFOH. HE TRIED TO GET POPULAR LIKE THE UNCLE THAT WHOOPED HIS NEPHEW BECAUSE OF THAT GANGSTER FACEBOOK...SOME OF YÃ LL MIGHT THINK THIS IS GOOD PARENTING..I SEE THIS AS TRYING TO GET SOME FAME..F*UCK OUTTA HERE...THIS KID IS GOING TO HAVE A PROBLEM AT SCHOOL FOR A LONG TIME..I'M MORE FURIOUS AT THE DAD..I'M SO HEATED RIGHT NOW, U CAN'T IMAGINE....
Ok, maybe the father *** of recorded all of that, BUT!! I'm sorry, these bad a$$ kids NEED to have that a$$ whipped! To the people that feel the police should be involved, please mind your business. Clearly you don't know what abuse is. Other then the foul language, the father said/did nothing wrong. At least, DAD is in the boys life! I bet Jr. will think twice before he acts up again in class...
What I find funny is all the people talking about abuse and how wrong this is and all that. Yeah, maybe the whipping was a little much, but I remember when I was a child catching *** whoopings from my pops (stepfather) and I turned out just fine: bachelor's degree, making $75K a year as an IT instructor, served eight years in the military, never been to jail, never had a problem with the law.
I just wish I knew my biological father, but it's all good because someone stepped up and helped me to become the man that I am today. Also the videotape, in my honest opinion, was definitely justified. It can serve as a reminder to that little boy what happens when you act reckless in school. All that "timeout" and other "alternative" methods for child rearing don't work for everybody. But I also don't condone always putting a belt to a child all the time either.
I take things away from my children: their time, their toys, their freedom cause if they act up while they are in the world they will end up in a place where all of those things will be taken from them anyway.
That robbing your a$$ comment is just bs...like black men robbing / killing other blacks didn't get good parenting GTFOH. ..I have seen plenty black men around me go to jail or gotten killed and they had hard working decent parents that tried to teach them good morals and values ...but they got into a lot of *** because of peer pressure... Don't stereotype all black people going to jail because of parental failure..I didn't have a father in my home..but me and my lil brother turned out very well..
This is just EXTRA...videotaping; taking pics...
I am with so many people who are saying it!! THATS WHAT IT TAKES TOO RAISE A STRONG MAN! You have all these women raising young *** boys,saying oh no! dont do him like that. give him some ice cream and love him.! THATS THE PROBLEM! A real man spends time and when he *** up,GETS IN THAT AZZ!! I still thank my pops too this day for it!!!
The world is corrupt because many people disobey the basic biblical principle of disipline. The Father did the right thing! "He who spareth the rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him correcteth him betimes" (Proverbs 13:24) and "Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou *** beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell." (Proverbs 23:13-14)
Another thing, have you seen how some of these kids are acting out here? No respect, lack of discipline, bad behavior is being rewarded, etc. Like a few of the previous posters mentioned, these kids are raising each other out here. These kids want iPod's, cell phones, gaming consoles, fresh gear but yet they want to act up in school?
GTFOHWTBS....
Then people talking about call the people on the father? At least this child knows his dad and his dad is taking the time to do something in his life, so much I can say for plenty of other children out there that don't even know their dad or they calling every other man that comes to the house Uncle _____.
But everybody is going to have a different perspective on this. Some people grew up in warm, loving environments and such activity wasn't necessary. We don't know what type of environment they are actually in. All anybody can go off is the video that was posted and anything that is said is merely speculation. But I will go out on a limb and say that this child will probably not act up as much anymore.
I'm in my 40s and my generation failed our youth with all that "time out", video games, and compromising with their children. I was born in the 60s and parents would BEAT that ***. So I say this man did the right thing by doing this to his son. This will serve as a deterrent to bad behavior and you can best believe that kid won't be laughing and talking in school no more.
Abuse?! He did bad and had to suffer the consequences. For every action there's a reaction. Obviously talking to the little boy didn't help. This is usually how my sons get disciplined ( minus the haircut). Like he said you go to school to learn, nothing else. In my household I'm not raising NO dummies. My kids will be somebody when they get older. Like in the clip. It takes a village! Parenst need to get ahold of their kids before the streets do. I know for a fact my kids will not be a statistic!
I'm against the azz whooping even though I grew up with them, I feel if you play an active roll in your child education this would not have happen, It appears that the child is raised by his Grandmother/mother but yet the father discipline him, trust me the problem is much deeper then this cause I was like this kid growing up even though the beating would hurt but the pain will go away and I was back on my grind doing stupid chit that why I don't let my children get away with this they know the rules I have no problem taking away any thing that they see as fun come home due your home work and read no tv for a day,week or a month I don't care how long it takes
This is CHILD ABUSE! How in the world can you be satisfied enough with the thought of your own child in misery? Only a sick individual would do something like this, and then RECORD it to publish on the internet.
It amazes me how many black parents have SLAVE MENTALITY today. Go back a few hundred years: when slaves would disobey their masters, what would happen? The masters would pull out the whip and beat the slave. So we have black parents adopting the same policies of slave masters and applying them to their children, and no one sees anything wrong with that??
Then black parents who beat their kids love to say "White parents don't do this, that's why their kids end up being serial killers". So your parents can teach you that violence is the solution to all problems, and as long as you don't end up a serial killer then you're OK? What about blacks ending up in jail for violent acts at higher portions than other races? When you are bred in violence you figure that it's the only way to resolve issues.
And lastly, I hate this notion that parents have where they want their children to fear them. There is a difference between FEAR and RESPECT! A lot of lazy bums out there see it easier to get someone to fear them, but respect is earned. But then again, those people treat their kids like slaves so of course earning their respect is out if of the question.
Some people on this earth make me sick.
That first initial haircut was F***** up. He zeeked the sh*t out of him. Then he gave that boy some "act right". That was a old school Joe Jackson type of *** whoopin'. I bet he won't act up in school no more. That belt don't play. I believe in some cases *** whoopins are necessary, but it doesn't take that many hits with the belt to get your point across. As you can see by the very first whack the boy was in tears. About 3 or 4 whacks would've been more than enough. He went overboard. The workout was a good way to discipline a child. He might turn him into a pro athlete one day, who knows.
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I agree with you brother. Not all kids out there killing, robbing and stealing come from broken homes. A lot of that has to do with these fantasies that mass media is pushing. The images that are celebrated and glorified by the music industry. A lot of these kids choose to lead the lives that they live because they want to fit in or they want to emulate someone/something that they've seen on TV or heard on a record.
That's how you break the cycle. If WE promote more positive messages and images then more positive things will occur. If WE taught these children how the world operates then they can function better. Hell, if WE educated OURSELVES better then we could function better. Get some business about ourselves, have a little pride and dignity; develop some self-worth and awareness. It can be accomplished by becoming financially literate, politically active and socially aware.
Don't let society dictate what's right and what's wrong, just go out and do the right *** thing.
I dont know everyone is saying " I bet he wont do it again". Obviously he did it again cause he is getting his lil *** tore up for doing it again. Kids definitely have to be disciplined but he didnt have to record it and act like he is father of the year. Obviously he doesnt live there and the grandparents are raising the child. He should have tried to talk to him first without all the foul language.
These crakkkers want to criticize the way this brother is disciplining his lil man.According to the bible it is not a sin to whoop your kid cause that whooping might save there lives.But it kills me the way these crakkkers want to criticize this brother.Thats why these crakkker pale skin babies end up *** schools,killing animals,on meth,and being serial killers.Now to my hispanic and black people.If your kid is out of line and does something bad u need to whoop his back side.Im not saying beat down your kid or kill them.Just whoop that ***.That *** whooping might save your kid from being killed or in jail.
I just have to say GTFOH to everybody talking about this whole "slave mentality" BS. You fake @$$ Furious Styles, self-righteous Negroes. As if black people are the only ones that whip their children. Children get their @$$3$ whipped in every corner of the Earth but I don't see y'all talking about the "slave mentality" in those instances. So spare me the talk about anything of the sort i.e. Willie Lynch Letter.
A lot of what people are saying has been the same stuff that has been programmed into your minds and regurgitated for years to no avail. It's no longer a valid argument in my opinion. The new slave mentality is the creation of the current monetary system. In that right we are all slaves to every institution that man has created (financial, religion, political, etc).
Learn to do and think for yourselves. If you want to really impress me start to put some of that BS y'all spitting on MTO on the daily and create a real movement. Other than that, you just as bad as the people that you're claiming are so terrible and dysfunctional in the world.
Just some food for thought. I am not against the father in principle, but let's be fair. Belt whippings ARE NOT A GUARANTEE for a successful adult. While some kids need a good a** whipping, some of this society's worst offenders were WELL SPANKED and whipped as a child. You have to take the temperment of the child in question.
MY cousin was whipped REGULARLY......And I do mean regularly. Case in point. A six he got whippings for acting out in school. At seven he caught a *** whipping for crying when he fell off his bike. At nine, his dad (my uncle) caught him with a gun. He ran away before his father could kick his *** but two days later his dad whipped him so hard his *** had bruises and cuts on it. At 14, he got into a fight at the pool and when Dad came, he pulled down his bathing suit and whipped him in front of EVERYBODY!!! You name it: bad grades, late for curfew (even if five minutes), dirty language, whatever......You guessed it. He got a *** whipping. And anybody could witness it
Two weeks ago, he was sentenced to ten years for home invasion. He has been a drug for eleven years. Seven of those years have been crack. His life is broken and he has six children but isn't a real part of their lives......
Look at Michael Jackson. Was he sexually abused as a child? I doubt it. We all know how Joe Jackson was infamous with his love of the belt and switch and as talented a musician he was, let's face it: The man was a mess.
I called CPS on a woman who beat her son practically DAILY!!! The belt was swung almost every single DAY for something. It was to the point he didn't even cry from the whippings. He was groaned through it. No tears. And he was only three when I called.
I am not against corporal punishment. I am for ANY positive discipline. But some African-Americans have the idea that a belt on bare a** is all we need to cure the ills of our youth. But history proves again and again that is not ALWAYS the case.
I remember at fifteen my teacher called home and let a message that I was playing on the computer. She wasn't computer illiterate and didn't realize I was reading articles on the computer. It's not like I was playing Tetris or something. But my parents were patient and asked for my side in the matter. And My mother called the teacher and we got on the same page. But there are parents out there who would have whipped me first and ask questions later because the teacher called.
Just my two cents.....
that's what i'm talkin about. that's called good ole fashion discipline. that's how me and my brother got it and this father is doing it the right way. and MTO I dont see why ya'll trippin over the language. my mama cussed at us when we got in trouble so its no big deal. at least he aint beatiing the child to death.
ABUSE! no need for him to humiliate the poor kid! HE'S just a kid see that's whats wrong with us parents sometimes we expect a child to act like a grown up when we have all gone through that stage! that is just part of being a kid fooling around laughing and just being happy!! ... i bet the dad here acted like a fool too once in his life when HE was a kid and come on! if the kid got all this humiliation for just clowning around in school just take that video game console away u were talking about for God's sake! and make him do some chores around the house he seemed like a smart kid to understand! imagine what the dad would do to him if he he was to do something worst like get in a fight in school or steal pfft that fool would prob. kill that poor kid... its good to discipline your kids but not to that extreme especially for something that small...seems to me that the dad was treated like that when he was young too and now hes trying to take out on his own child not good SMFH.... >;/
I wanted to clarify (sorry there is no spelling or grammar check. My cousin was whipped by HIS FATHER regularly and has been a drug addict since sixteen. He is 28 now. My Dad is white (not that race is an issue), but I do believe if his father were more like mine, he would have been better off.
He founded the gun in some alley or somewhere and it was in his closet. He wasn't looking to use it or anything. It was more of a curiosity than anything.
Stop bringing race into every *** thing. Im black and I have a cousin that grew up to be a thief and a killer. His mom tried every type of disciplinary action possible to try and make him grow up to be a successful, productive black man. Parents can only do so much, people are going to grow up and do what they want.
WTF with recording it and putting it on the internet???? What the h*ll? No reason for that. I mean, he has good intentions, but I do NOT see what embarrassing and humiliating a child before the whole world will accomplish. All that is going to do is jack up the kid's self esteem. I mean....***....n*ggas have no clue...even when they try to do right they still f*ck it up.
Violence.... Some of y'all wouldn't know what violent and abusive is if it hauled off and punched you in the lips. But again, we are all going to have varying degrees of opinion when it pertains to anything going on in this world. To me, nine or ten lashes with the belt is not violent, maybe excessive, but not violent.
Now if he were to start throwing jabs, kicking him, choking him, using other weapons against him then I'd have to say that's violence. He didn't beat that child bloody, he was walking, running and doing suicides *** thereafter. The only thing I can agree on is any psychological or emotional abuse, but even then....
I'm just saying, some of these kids might need more structured discipline; some boot camp-style drilling, a little tongue lashing. When I was in the Army we got tongue lashings and had to do front-back-go's until we *** near passed out but it wasn't abuse, we were being broken down and raised back up. But I guess some of you might think that they were brainwashing us huh? Silly people....
I GOT MY *** WHOPPED INFRONT MY CLASS BY MY AUNTY WHEN I WAS YOUNGER,I GOT WHOPPED WHEN I DO SOMETHING BY MY GRANDPA,GUESS WHAT? I HAVE NEVER ENDED UP IN JAIL,OR EVEN ARRESTED IN MY LIFE,I HAVE NO RECORD,I GRADUATED HS,& WENT THRU COLLEGE,DISCIPLINE WORKS,YALL SAYING WHY HE RECORDING IT,CAUSE THE REGULAR DON'T WORK NO MORE,NEED TO GIVE THEM A LIL BIT MORE.PROUD OF DUDE THERES THOUSANDS OF BLACK MEN IN JAIL CAUSE HIS FATHER WASN'T THERE TO TEACH HIM RIGHT OR DISCIPLINE HIM..
JOB WELL DONE! I DIDN'T COME FROM A LINE OF ABUSE, BUT I DID COME FROM A FAMILY THAT DIDN'T PLAY GAMES WHEN IT CAME TO DISCIPLINE. IF THIS IS THE METHOD HE FELT WAS RIGHT...I APPLAUD HIM.
BETTER THAT THAN TO NOT HAVE A HAND AT ALL IN THE CHILD'S LEFT. TOO MANY DEAD BEAT DADS THAT AREN'T EVEN AROUND TO GIVE A GOOD *** WHOOPING NOWAWAYDAYS!
I cant believe how *** society has become. He got whooped with a belt, for acting up in school. Some of you act like the father was doing him like "Penny" on Good Times with the iron and stuff. I clearly remember a time when if you acted out of place as a child, mommy or daddy put your *** back in place. Thats all I see that happened here. The man talked to his son at the beginning and everything to see wtf was he thinking. This was a well balanced azz whoopin. If time-outs work for your kid, then good. Do you. I just dont think you need to be so quick to call "child-abuse" to some one with a different method of disciplining theres. #Bye
I must say this video was hard to look at, I'm all for discipline but this was brutal. Another thing why was it recorded? Simply to humiliate the child, meanwhile causing this child to be teased & taunted by his peers in public. Ultimately resulting in him to be involved in fights & more trouble in school.
Reward good behavior, face consequences for bad behavior. Encourage them when they excel, make them aware of their ***, correct that behavior and look out for any progress. When they start doing good again, pull back just a little, but never leave your guard down. I never said that all a child needs is their *** whipped exclusively or even on a daily basis or every single time they do something wrong.
I don't even do that with my own kids. The belt stopped working on them a long time ago, so, as mentioned in one of my previous posts, I've resorted to taking away things they felt they were entitled to: games, toys, time, etc. I reward them when they act right, but I make sure they understand what they did wrong and explain to them how they can avoid repeating said behavior.
Only thing I disagree with is recording it everything else is all good. Reason why kids misbehave is because there is no real repercussions an somtimes @$$ whoopins are needed just for a friendly reminder as to why they need to act right an most importantly respect those in authority. I applaud the discipline but not the video taping
OK.......Let's review. the father KNEW he was getting a whipping. He got a whipping on Monday and only a few days later he is getting another whipping? He talked to his son to see what he was thinking? Like the kid could say "Well Tommy told me a joke, and then I laughed and then I told some jokes and we just got carried away Daddy. I'm sorry". Spare me. There was NOTHING he could say. And how much you want to bet he will "act up" again in the school within two weeks.
Ten thumbs up to the father........ THis is not child abuse.....I bet his lil azz will think twice about acting up again. We need more parents like this in the world. Sometime tough love is the best love for some. There are so many young children straying away from reality and get lost in the troubles of the world. You have to teach cause went they do wrong they will look at the parents and judge them not the child. Great job father...
ABUSE ! now you wonder why our black men grow up hating their fathers and *** like that cause of this mess. I believe in discipline but come on now filming? thats terrible ! and whoopin' his azz aint gon make it better talk to him and tell him what he did wrong first and warn him..that will scare a child if you warn them but yeah the father needs an azz whoopin !
@_ButterflyLuv_
Plus dad is an attention w.h.0.r.e. If you are really about helping your child, handle that business in the privacy of your own home. Don't sit up there and record it and broadcast it to the whole world. Dumb a.s.s n*gga. Then when the D.A. and child protective services pull the video from the net and use it as evidence against him he will swear he was done wrong. People act like the internet isn't PUBLIC lol.
@bonebody
You are one sad case. The fact that you would even bring up army tactics in a conversation about disciplining a CHILD is beyond idiotic.
The army is not the real world. Why would any sensible human being want to "break down" their own child? That's the part of life where you start building the foundation, and if you crack that then it's damaged forever.
And it'd be funny if it wasn't so pathetic how you just gloss over psychological and emotional abuse as if it was so insignificant, then you go right back into spewing your BS
Me and my son have the same conversation in the car every morning en route to dropping him off at school:
"Do your work, Pay attention, Follow the rules, and Respect yourself and Respect others". But PEER PRESSURE always wins...Because when kids are in the environment with their peers, they feel they have to impress. I know the father meant well, but unfortunately...LIL DUDE PROBABLY ACTING UP IN CLASS RIGHT NOW. Its a different world when you go to school...especially public school. The child probably is not a bad student, but PEER PRESSURE is tough. Hell, Im an adult and from time to time I want to impress others..so can you imagine the thinking of a child. Just continue to nurture and support him, he'll be alright. I Promise.
Thats abuse and I hope law enforcement take a look at this video and lock his *** up..yes you should disipline your kids but that was a little bit too much and than he had the nerve to put it online like he bragging about it that *** aint funny..If he end up not getting locked up for this its all good he just have to reap what he sow cause right is right and wrong is wrong
I wish people will stop saying something about fathers are not in their children's lives.. stop messing around with these bustas that aint doin *** for they self just meeting a man at the club having a one *** stand getting pregnanat by him thinking he gone stay..and apparently he not in his sons life either cause he said somethin bout his grandma takin care of him he just wanted some internet attention so he did all this *** to his son this *** s not funny
I think this is the craziest thing I've seen on here ! Wth is wrong with you Sir? Maybe you need to take your a** back to jail so somebody can have the pleasure of putting their dic* to work fuc* the belt. I feel so bad for this little boy, I almost got choked watching it. My friends & I have done beyond worse things in school besides laughed & disrespected a teacher and never has something even close to this crossed our parents minds. There's a line in the sand and this mad crossed it !
Good ol' *** whooping. I got my *** whooped as a child. Mary was NOT having that. Bad behaviors NEED to be punished. Period. If you don't want to suffer the consequences, then act like it. My mother's way of disciplining me kept me out of all kinds of trouble... never been to jail... AND I'm on college studying to become a Nurse.
My father used to do things like this to me...I know exactly how that boy feels...deep seething resentment and hatred...the same kind i have towards my father and I'm 27! I haven't spoken to him for years... it never goes away...I made honor roll all throughout school at the boy's age but i never knew it because I was constantly getting beaten for "excessive" talking and "disrupting" the class...It wasn't until i got to college that i learned I suffer from ADHD...no one ever cared to investigate the cause of my in school behavior...they just beat me for it. I WAS BORED IN SCHOOL! NO INSPIRATION! NO CHALLENGE! the same tired lessons taught year after year....bottom line is that all boys crave the love and respect of their fathers...i guarantee that the man in this video was humiliated and physically abused by his father as well...this behavior has been passed down for generations...I bet it was the words that hurt that little boy worse than anything else...when i have children...I'm breaking this cycle...there are far more effective and creative ways of disciplining your children.
Not only is this physcial abuse but mental abuse as well. Got a question for the men cosigning this abuse what if dude was just a step dad and you were the biological dad would go over and shake his hand and say that's great parenting or would go over to get in dude *** for abusing your son? I think we all know the answer to that one-
I am twix *** between on this. On one hand, he will survive, he will learn that despite whatever is making him want to act out in school that acting out is only go'*** to get him more trouble. Now the other side of the picture is that y is the grandmother raising the child. This indicates the mother is absent and that is what this young man is acting out about. However, this is the culture in the black family. That despite what is wrong, you cannot and will not make things worst by showing your
As my boyfriend would say "He put the fear if God in that boy". Everything was justified, you cut up in school and you gone get that a.ss whooped. Thats whats wrong with these parents of today. You want to be the friend and not the parent, so when the kid going around getting into all kinds of trouble you sitting looking stupid. Be a good parent and DISCIPLINE your kids. Some kids need they a.ss kicked and others don't but these kids need to learn respect early before someone busts them upside the head or kills them.
It ain't abuse... Its discipline... Somethin that alotta kids lack nowadays... Parents nowadays think that "bad kid" *** is cute... I'll whip my sons' *** when they get outta line too... You don't send ya kids to scholl to clown... If you let them play video games and eat candy or whatever, then you're contributing to their bad *** behavior... Tha father gets a standin' ovation from me...
"Discipline" my ***, any parent that has to resort to the use corporal punishment as a way to discipline their children are failures. You don't need to beat the sense into your children. If you were a good enough parent you would be able to talk to and reason with them. If not, you don't need to be having children in the first place, especially if you don't know how to handle them properly. There are other ways of obtaining respect than hitting them. Only a pure fcking *** would believe that the only way to cure bad behavior is to "beat that azz". People, I swear.... I mean you teach your children not to hit others, yet you hit them, what of lesson are you teaching them? If your only reasoning is "because I said so", then you are a failure. Teach them why they did what they did was wrong. Be a positive influence. Corporal punishment is a stupid fcking tradition that needs to be ended. And why the fck did he shave his eyebrows? That was fcking stupid. Imo he would have been better off not in the child's life.
I am twix *** between on this. On one hand, he will survive, he will learn that despite whatever is making him want to act out in school that acting out is only go'*** to get him more trouble. Now the other side of the picture is that y is the grandmother raising the child. This indicates the mother is absent and that is what this young man is acting out about. However, this is the culture in the black family. That despite what is wrong, you cannot and will not make things worst by showing your behind. That you have got to find a way to figure out how to handle what is bothering you. And, be thankful for what you have rather than complaining about what you don't have. When this young man hears other kids talking bout their mom this and their mom that; he probably wishes his mom was there. Hence, he takes his problem out on the world/school. However, the lesson from the father is this, be thankful u got a grandmother looking after you sending you to school neat *** clean and with a nice haircut rather than mooping and complaining about your mom not being there. Where I'm twix at is that there is always a reason for everything. Somebody needs to address the reason y he's acting out. But all in all, I don't think this father is abusive. To tell you the truth none of us know how to solve every problem. Just long as somebody explain to this young man afterwards that if something is bothering you, talk to somebody and get it solved. @usayititellit or fb Huriyyahdebrabey
OKKK, HE TOOK IT WAY TO FAR TO FILM THIS AND POST. I HAVE BROTHERS WHO GOT THEY AZZ DEALT W/ EVERYDAY FROM OUR FATHER. GUESS WHAT?! WHEN THEY GOT GROWN, THEY STILL DID WHAT THEY WANTED TO DO AND SUFFERING FROM THEIR ACTIONS. YES, DISCIPLINE BUT DON'T BRING ANOTHER DUDE IN TO HELP U CHASTISE UR CHILD. THE HAIRCUT WAS F***ED TO DO TOO. BEATING A CHILD *** IS NOT ALWAYS THE SOLUTION. DUMMIES
This was justified either the parents can do it or the prison system can do it which one would "you" prefer? Better him get his *** whooped and talked to like an adult since he wants to behave like he is grown! The kids who fathers dont discipline them will grow up to rob and/or murder all you fools who think this is abuse. I bet he wont show his *** at school anymore. Good for him! I had to beat my childs *** just yesterday and now I know that an *** whooping isn't good enough because he showed his *** again. Getting cursed out and your *** beat is what just about every black person on this forum went through growing up and I bet 90% cant say it didnt work.
Forget what all these people who are saying that was abuse. He recorded to show what good parenting is! Some men are not even around to discipline at all. He didn't burn him or tie him up or even beat him on camera. All he did was embarrass him a little. Don't ya'll think the little boy caused embarrassment to the children he was teasing in school? Think about it people, that man wants his son to be something in life and I for one APPLAUD him taking care of his fatherly duties. I bet that little boy will behave from now on!!!!!
why in the world would this man record then post this video for other people's entertainment a dame shame. You get respect were you give respect and that is why the boy might be acting up in school.although he is a child he still is a person that deserves respect. theres nothing wrong with decipline but i rather my children respect me then to fear me. cutting his hair and sending him to school bummy is just to belittled him. postive reinforsement parents not negative. he was better off taking the video games he spoke about I hope that young boy doesnt grow up with selfesteem issues.
what yall talkin bout man, that is an old fashion *** whoopin, I almost had a Flash back from my child days, Bet his lil *** wont act up. ***, I grew up on that type dicipline, came out with a masters Degree and havin a good job, Wasnt tryin to have any more teachers call home or send home a bad report,
Ok I don't agree with the video-ing and posting on the internet and if he was going to use the physical workout as punishment then he should have left the whipping out. However, that is his child. I agree that you don't have to give so much to get your point across and with the person who stated DO NOT DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILD ANGRY!!! That's the #1 thing to remember. I'm all for disciplinary action because not knowing right from wrong is partly why kids get in so much trouble. Even though there are various issues and reasons why they do. Everyone has to face consequences for wrongdoing, point blank. Children have to know that they can't go out behaving any kind of way and get away with it.
There was a time that you could come to the school and discipline your child and there was no problem with it. Now, there's so many politics involved and society wants to control and raise your kids. There was a time schools were more unified. It's too many passes given. Not saying people should be cruel and abusive but kids need guidelines and boundaries, that's just it. It's every parents' job to protect, guide and love their children. If you instill a strong sense of self and love in them, they'll have no need to look for it in others. Everybody makes mistakes, so don't feel so bad when you're child makes one. It doesn't make you bad parent! What you do to correct it determines what kind of parent you are!! The youth needs parents and leaders to make it.
A little extreme, but the kid needed discipline, I BET ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT KID WILL NOT ACT UP IN SCHOOL.
IF YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR KID 3-4 TIMES TO STOP ACTING UP, YOUR DISCIPLINE IS NOT WORKING, BEAT THAT ***.
THE TEACHERS DON'T HAVE TIME TO STOP CLASS AND CONSTANTLY TELL YOU DUMB *** KIDS TO STOP WHATEVER THEY ARE DOING.
This right here is what creates angry, rage-filled, disrespectful young Black men, without a sense of true right and wrong. Why should this boy respect others when he is publicly humiliated, cursed at, and abused by his own family? And all because he was acting up & laughing in class, in other words...being a KID?!?
Lazy parenting to the fullest. Any ignorant *** can beat a small child's ***. Demonstrating a strong character and model behavior, explaining things reasonably, and having FAIR consequences...THAT is good parenting. Raise your kids to do right because it is RIGHT, not because they're afraid of being beat. BIG difference. Bet this young boy will only harden, become a *** himself, and be more slick about not getting caught. I only hope his own spirit is stronger than that.
The sad thing is how many Black folks cosign this brutality. Passed straight down from the slave master. Wake up - its not working!! I truly hope the proper authorities are contacted. Hate to think what goes on when the camera isn't rolling. This man needs help.
SMFH! MTO! IF YOU EVER HAVE TO ASK IF IT IS ABUSE OR GOOD DISCIPLINE, GUESS WHAT! ITS ABUSE! THAT IS *** AWFUL, HE IS TRYING TO HUMILIATE HIS KID AND GET FAME THROUGH HIS KID. THIS IS A *** AWFUL FATHER. YOU DO NOT HUMILIATE YOUR CHILD LIKE THAT. That is only going to make his son fear him and even resent him and will probably be afraid to go home now., thats it. thats abuse. Abuse is when you exert a more powerful force upon and your intention is to harm them. & then he is just trying to torture that little boy and make sure he gets ***?! wtf kind of parenting is that? i hope that father sees this comment. F*CK YOU, I HOPE YOU ROT IN HELL YOU PIECE OF ***! YOU DO NOT DESERVE THE HONOR OF BEING A FATHER YOU GHETTO HOODRAT! Kids mess up bc they do not know better and clearly the father does not know better. "Beating is easy, cowardly way to deal with a child that misbehaves. Parenting takes a lot more than picking up a belt. " AMEN! I am so against laying a hand on any child. My god, i pray someone helps this poor little boy. who knows what will happen next.
@N00ni3 your an idiot if you think this is good parenting. that is NOT good parenting, it is ABUSE! You still heard the child being beaten on camera and being cussed at on camera. That is going to damage his self esteem. smfh dont become a parent. That is not discipline that is abuse. theres a fine line
HITTING A CHILD IS NEVER THE SOLUTION
this parent is nothing more than a *** and lame *** excuse for a father.
@SellOutsMustPay one black to another, do your research because it is mostly black people who are in jail or on the streets selling drugs. It makes my soul burn to that because of the problems that lay across the black community. and a lot of those people had parents like this. I know theres a stereotype for black parents to beat their children, thats why im so thankful that mine didn't. Because the way my parents raised me, kept me off the streets, doing drugs, have *** young, etc. They NEVER EVER hit or humiliated me.
Its awful for the fact the dad did this, but to tape it and put it online is beyond DISGUSTING! and you trying to justify it smfh at you. You EVER hit your kids. If it is a spanking fine (and i still dont agree with it). But if you are exerting that much force and humiliating them that much, it is not okay. This is abuse. Cussing and beating your child with a belt because they messed up? what about the next time he messes up? he is going to be afraid to go to him and confess which will lead to more trouble. this is such an awful father. he does NOT deserve to be a father. It sickens me to see people justifying this.
You cant hit kids, it affects who they are as a person. Children are altered by their parents actions and this isnt how you should want it. This was too *** much. This is not fair or reasonable consequences.
Abuse is a cycle and it is bound to happen again, and worse everytime. That scares me considering he put it on the internet. it is NOT okay to hit your child, it is NOT okay to videotape it and it is NOT okay to post it on the internet. "Lazy parenting to the fullest. Any ignorant *** can beat a small child's ***. Demonstrating a strong character and model behavior, explaining things reasonably, and having FAIR consequences...THAT is good parenting. Raise your kids to do right because it is RIGHT, not because they're afraid of being beat. BIG difference. Bet this young boy will only harden, become a *** himself, and be more slick about not getting caught. I only hope his own spirit is stronger than that."
You took the words right out of my mouth. This is NOT how to get children to behave. you sound like you are a great parent or will be one day.
At least he gives a *** to even beat that a$$, that's what's wrong with kids now they don't get that a$$ tore up. I stand behind the dad 100% need more parents like him!! Bet his lil tail won't cut up anymore. Don't nobody got time to be running up to no *** school cause yo a$$ want to cut up in school. Take your ugly self to school, do as you are told, get that work done and bring ya a$$ home its as simple as that. I GOT my a$$ handled when I was a child now I WILL be a college graduate this December. Those whoopings paid off, I am a asset to society rather than your average menace.... Discipline your kids it pays off.
About 80% of 21 year olds that were abused as children met criteria for at least one psychological disorder 4
Abused children are 25% more likely to experience teen pregnancy About 30% of abused and neglected children will later abuse their own children, continuing the horrible cycle of abuse
Children who experience child abuse & neglect are 59% more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28% more likely to be arrested as an adult, and 30% more likely to commit violent crime 4 44% of all men in prison in the USA were abused as children
KEEPS THEM OUT OF PRISON MY ***!!!!!!!!!!!
If there were more Fathers like this, or even close to this, there would be fewer black people on street corners disrespecting the race, fewer black women disrespecting themselves and fewer Black Men in our prison systems. While his punishment was harsh, I don't think that his son will go to school acting a fool in the classroom again. I also don't think his son will disrespect anyone ever again. That was something that he won't forget for decades.
All you people that are hollering "abuse" are the reasons that our race is in such a predicament. Children now are growing up not having a sense of right and wrong. It might be late, but at least this father is trying to fix it.
Also, people saying that only black people do this. You are ignorant. Child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all religions and at all levels of education. It is so *** sickening and WRONG that it happens. I could NEVER harm my child or put them in that humiliation or pain.
What is missing..A FATHER...look at how this dumb *** is dressed and how he displays his "concern" for his son>>to cuss him like a dog while beating him will only teach him to return the favor when he gets older>>this was all for the father to look tough>>I'm willing to bet this lame *** excuse of a man doesn't help him with his homework, never eats breakfast or dinner with him and NEVER tells him I LOVE YOU---Bill Cosby wrote in his book Come on People that 98% of black men in prison got beat as a child---love produces productive children...beatings create inner anger and hostility that will surely come out at some point. Take your publicity seeking thug *** to a Parenting Class and learn that parenting has nothing to do with beating a child and embarassing him on film.... respond directly>>> activelife@aol.com<<<<
To many boys are raised by their young mothers who don't care about nothing about partying. These women let these young boys get away with anything that's why they act out. I know the fathers not around but back in the day, mothers was just as strong as men. Abuse...Lol that's not abuse. We got wost whoopings than that and straightened out. You new women are soft talking about abuse and you wonder why they thugs. You let whitey run your household from the T.V....Sad.
Either catch a beating by your parents or get one from a stranger who could give two f*cks about your a$$.... These kids get away with all kinds of *** in their home that mess is not going to fly in the real world. I can't get down with just removing privileges that is not enough my siblings and I GOT that and our a$$es beat and again I stand behind whoopings I turned out way better than most of the people I grew up with who parents didn't care enough to beat their ***. I thank my mother and father for caring enough about my future to discipline me.
@jourdani this is abuse, and the kid WILL mess up in school again. Its bound to happen because that is part of growing up. What is going to happen next time he makes a mistake or acts up. He is teaching him violence is all right because thats how is father raised him and beat him.That is what goes on in the streets. Those people THINK its all right to harm others and exert powerful forces upon them. This kid is probably afraid now. You teach your children to do what is right because IT IS not because they are horrified to get beat when they go home and than have it posted online. Any ignorant fool can beat a child, they do not deserve to be called a parent. Parenting takes a lot more than beating your child, putting it online. Your comment is wrong, most black men who are behind bars HAVE dealt with the pain and burden of child abuse. Most black women who disrespect themselves ROOT BACK to child abuse. This is all pure psychology and stats. and that just doesn't go for blacks. it goes for all races who have suffered through this. Children aren't having a sense of whats wrong and right because the parent does not know either if they think this all right and "good parenting"
Every culture have their way of parenting their children: How can one say it's wrong because its not their way! There are different punishments for different crime/bad behavior. Whose to judge how one was taught, or to say the way they were taught is wrong. Society/people always have something to say about "EVERYTHING" especially when it come to the black race. Where was the talk when BillyBob stayed locked in his room and told his mother to "stay out" then went to school and *** up his classmates. Maybe if one of his parent kicked off into his *** he would have thought twice before doing so.
@Illjill stfu. Im black and im calling this child abuse BECAUSE IT IS!!!!!!!! Dont even bring race into this. That is irrelevant. Child abuse is exerting a powerful force against your child and your intention is to hurt them and it is even worse bc he *** published it online. I hate how some people think this is okay. Beating your children DOES NOT KEEP THEM OUT OF PRISON YOU *** IDIOTS! GO LOOK AT ALL THE MEN AND WOMEN IN PRISON AND ON THE STREETS. A LOT OF THEM THAT ARE DOING TIME WERE ABUSED AS CHILDREN! GO LOOK AT ALL THE TEEN PREGNANCIES AMONG ALL RACES. A LOT OF THOSE KIDS, IN FACT MOST, WERE MISTREATED LIKE THIS AS CHILDREN AND NOT RESPECTED AND HUMILIATED. WHICH IS WHY THEY CAN'T RESPECT THEMSELVES NOW BECAUSE THEY DID NOT WITNESS WHAT IT TRULY WAS AS A CHILD. THIS IS ALL PURE PSYCHOLOGY. MOST OF THEIR PROBLEMS ROOT BACK TO CHILD ABUSE. IT MOLDS A CHILD! IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOUR CHILD?! I SURE AS HELL NO THATS NOT WHAT I WANT FOR MINE! THIS IS NOT DISCIPLINE OR RESPECT. IT IS CHILD ABUSE.
I agree with spankings, i got them well into my teens.There is a fine line between abuse and discipline I agree with that also however, the pain only lasts a few miutes but when you curse a kid out like some of the *** I have heard these chicks in the store say to their kids it sticks with them a lifetime. More men need to take active roles in their kids upbringing PERIOD...
@Seasoned1953 No, a kid who goes and does something that drastic has something happening to them at home to make them even think to do something that drastic. If they bring a gun to school and ***, then that is a problem and they probably saw that kind of violence at home. Parents mold their children when they are young. Kids who are ***, have or had *** for parents. Next, this is against the law to abuse your child like this and post it online regardless of what culture or ethnic background you are. Have you ever done research on cultures and child abuse? It happens among all cultures and religions. Look at that child in pain, you think that is right, or that is okay? Who the hell knows what this guy has done before or will do in the future. That is the cycle of child abuse and it only gets worse. Your argument is weak. I repeat, THIS IS AGAINST THE LAW! IN CASES LIKE THIS PEOPLE NEED TO SPEAK UP AND HELP THAT CHILD. Why people think child abuse will keep kids out of prison in adulthood is beyond me because a lot of those people in prison and all their problems root back to their childhood. Child abuse, to be clear. You people need to do your homework before you say that *** and THINK! Just bc it happened to you, (which im sorry if it did,) does not justify or make it okay to happen to someone else. Just because some people *** heroin and do drugs doesn't make it okay. Just because other people go have unprotected *** doesn't make it safe or okay. And just because child abuse happens to so many others, DOES NOT MAKE IT OKAY! Psychology, and the law all back up my argument as well.
Disciplining a child is absolutely necessary but trying to humiliate and cursing the child out is dead wrong. The child gets mocked at school the next day for not having any eyebrows, he gets into a argument with another kid for that. Guess whats gonna happen when he gets home? Looks like the kid is with the grandparents anyway, does he just come around to install his brand of discipline? I would be 38 hot if I was the grandmother.
that kid will grow up to BE somebody...i had my *** whooped by my father many of times, and then he would come and talk to me about WHY he had to beat my ***, and i am GRATEFUL he cared enough about me to teach me a lesson. TRUST me PAIN will remind you of what is right and what is wrong, i'm not saying beat the living *** out of ur kids i'm saying that there is nothing wrong with FEAR and LOVE mixed together. PUNISHING your kids is not HATE it is TOUGH LOVE. and i'd rather raise strong kids than a little spoiled brat.
and for those who didn't like this video go put ur kids in a time out and have them ***/stab YOU when they grow up because u never taught them right from wrong and never EARNED their respect.
HEY!! thats ol buddy from "She can get it" on youtube by spoken reasons lol had to say it. But I dont think what he did was wrong how is shaving his head whooping his asz and making him do military work abuse? THAT *** IS DISCIPLINE! There needs to be more discipline like this because the youth of today....TERRIBLE. The worst yet. Especially the black youth. It literally takes a village to raise a child these days. I wont whoop mine but I'll make them do push ups run and all of that. Whoever disagrees ....idk what to say about them. When your child ends up like a stereotype remember you could of prevented it :x
Just because the parents dont beat their kids down doesnt mean they will grow up to be criminals. Me and my siblings were disciplined, but not like this guy is doing to his son. Im in my last year of college, my sister is in college and my brother is working on his dissertation for his PHD. We were raised by a single black mother. So go somewhere else with all of that "if you dont beat the *** out of your kids they will throw their lives away".
These days the fathers are not in the child's life at all! I commend him for his effort to at least help the grandmother out if he does stay with her. 1st he had already given the boy a warning Monday *** his Gma dressed him in baggy funny looking clothes to try to teach a lesson. So this is actually lesson #3!! Although I hate he recorded this it helped me as a single mom raising my son w/o no father fiqure need to do! I actually let my son watch this video! Like Michael Jackson father said he displined his kids they way he knew how *** none of his kids were in jail strung out on drugs
Gotta love it!! Especially the exercising. As for the whipping..My mama hit harder and longer than that wussy azz whipping. Extension cord anyone? The problem with young America is that they do not know how to CUT THEIR OWN SWITCH. When life gets hard they punk out. Hence we witness a generation of sissified men who lack self control. and hyper aggressive women.. (No offense to tha sistas) Consider the psychology of cutting your own switch...Sometimes you must do something painful in order to get to the next level. You learn to minimize this effect by the choices that you make.
The only thing that would make this punishment abusive is if the father does not abide by his own rules. A parent can not be a drug dealer, drug addict, alcoholic, irresponsible, thief, criminal, jailbird, slacker, abusive to others, disrespectful to authority, lazy, *** and incompetent, and then turn around and beat their children for exhibiting the same behaivor. Children know what a hypocrite is and their disciplinary actions cause more harm than good.
For those that claim that physical punishment is abusive, If you are going to be Black and survive in America without losing your mind... We must be very strong mentally and emotionally for we live in an unatural environment that requires superlative strength just to co-exist among those that would destroy us. Why is it that when the whippings stopped, the killings, gangs, murders. violence, crime and prison population exploded?
GREAT FATHER!! This father needs an award for being a FATHER! This is the Bible folks: Spare the rod, spoil the child--period. Anyone who thinks this is "abuse" needs to read the newspaper and see how many black teen boys are in gangs and killing folks at this very moment. If those black boys had fathers like THIS they wouldnt be out there *** folks--period! Stop babying these black boys!!!!!!!
I am a teacher and probably look at this from a different perspective. What if this ABUSE & HUMILIATION caused this poor baby to committ suicide or take a gun to school??? Everyone would not be applauding the "stand up dad" now would they? Had this been done to a grown man it would be call ASSAULT with a weapon! Whippings don't keep black kids out of jail, off drugs, etc. PARENTING does. I am 28 years old and have NEVER had a spanking in my life. I have several college degrees including in a few (M.Ed. & Ph.D) education and (B.S.) psychology, have never been in legal trouble, own my own home & vehicles, am married with children who both read far above grade level and YES I am black! If he whipped this baby a few days prior and the little boy did the same thing again then APPARENTLY whippings are not effective punishment for him. Physically hitting a child is not the only consequence in the world. Do I spank my kids, yes when warranted, but there is no need for belts and the excessive amount of times he hit this baby! HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I applaud him for being in his son's life and for being a disciplinarian but, he went too far. My mother always said one punishment and now that I am a parent I agree. If ur gonna spank then spank. If ur gonna give a haircut then get out the clippers. This man belittled his son spanked him then tortured him. ACS or CPS do what u do.
That was not abuse, abuse consists of psychological or physical damage towards the child, he explained thoroughly what he was about to do to his son and why, there aren't many active BLACK fathers around who care about their child's education, so I applaud him for taking initiative to correct his son at a young age and not allow him to be a statistic, as long as there aren't any broken bones or bruises, its not abuse in my eyes, although he can work on his choice of words.
ABUSE! There are effective ways to teach children lessons that don't involved humiliation and physical abuse. Child abuse is more likely to produce criminals... humiliating children is more likely to produce deviants. Just because ill-informed parents have used abuse for generation doesnât mean they were right. It is sick that a parent can hear their child crying from pain and still proceed to beat them. Why would any parent what to inflict pain? I question the mentality and the character of such parents.
As I said there are effective methods of discipline, people should take the time to pick up a psychology book on parenting and actually learn those methods. There are plenty of people that grow up without physical abuse for discipline and they are normal, well-adjusted humans. Note I said effective discipline, not no discipline. People have this crazy that all children that werenât beaten as children grow up to be wild. That is far from the truth.
The thing that gets me is that parents think this type of action if okay. As an adult you would never want anyone in authority (police, boss, etcâ¦) to physical hit you as a way of teaching a lesson. So why do we view our children as acceptable punching bags? Really⦠you are that poor of a parent that you canât guide and teach your child without physically assaulting them?
Abuse. This man should be publicly stripped, humiliated, shaved, beaten, and put into exile. His son should be granted a new surname of choice. Anyone who advocates this time of abuse as discipline is either a moron or in need of intensive therapy. Anyone condoning the behavior they see here is weak. If you fail to teach a child, you fail. If you fail to accept our own failings, you become a failure. Such parents should not have parental rights. If you cheer this kind of *** on, you're sick in the mind/heart. If this was my father, I'd have killed him in his sleep.
Authority only deserves respect when it's respectable. That man deserves very little respect. You can be an adult or an elder all day long...that doesn't mean you should respected just because. If you can't handle that - grow up. If you need to *** children like that - try it on a real man and see what happens.
That was a tad extreme he could have only used one form of punishment. And his son is going to be embarrassed when he goes to school the next day for having no eyebrows. That is going to cause more problems for him. We're supposed to teach our kids right from wrong, not belittle and curse them out. Kids are not gonna be zombies while they are at school, but they also have to pay attention and respect the teachers.
I know some decent advocates that work for children. I'm going to make sure they get this and get this matter investigated. Someone should act to intervene on this child's behalf. Hopefully he loses custody of his children and faces some serious charges. If his actions were consequential to his son's...then mine are consequential to his. Fair trade.
FAIL...this idiot father (if that's what you wanna call him) is clearly an egotistical piece of sh*t who should have someone stick their foot up his dumb *** as well as call CPS on his pathetic ***. That is noway to discipline a child. For all the idiots who agree with this all I can say is take the shackles off your *** slave ankles...this is abuse. I can't stand when I hear people say well my mother or father beat the hell outta us when we were growing up (like that's somehow respectable or okay) I we came out okay. Well when slaves were beaten into submission most of them came out okay too but it doesn't mean what happened to them was okay.
WOW...this is a disgrace...smdh. BLACK people please do better and stop making excuses for this type of ignorant hoodrat ***!
i didn't like it. you can discipline a kid without putting your hands on them. just simply limit or eliminate the things they care for the most. doing something to them that leaves them with a bad immpression of you WILL carry over into adulthood. they should understand there are rewards for doing whats right and penalties for doing whats wrong. hold them to high standards of charater EVERY DAY and not when its convient. this will make a huge difference in a childs life and how they develop. they are sponges of knowledge for anything they come upon. if its done right, they will be ok, if its done wrong, they will carry it into the next phase of their life.
THIS is why I do not date black men. Violent babydaddies. Black men should be ashamed of themselves. This fool is abusing his child and that belt around his neck is sick.
Black people are sick. That man is a down low ***! TAKE DOWN YOUR PANTS.
CHILD ABUSE. And if you don't think that is child abuse YOU GOT A PROBLEM.
BLACK PEOPLE ARE SICK.
We are failing!
@Great1StillHere...your profile picture perfectly describes your slave-like mentality. Just because a child knows their parent doesn't mean their parent knows how to discipline or anything else. There are kids who know their crackhead parents, stripper parents, drug-dealing parents etc. That doesn't mean their parents are a good influence on them or know the first thing about discipline or parenting. Please *** up and go read a child psychology book and stop making stupid comments.
This father is clearly an idiot who *** be raising children or animals in my opinion.
If adults have been so successful in raising children and creating funcitonal societies, they wouldn't b*tch about the world so much. Yes...adults have been successful at creating a destructive, barbaric world for children to grow up in. Then they succeed at turning in groveling whiners. This father isn't even in the childs home. You wanna know why the world is so screwed up - look at adults. You'll see very clearly why the world is the way it is. Anyone who can't see is either mentally handicapped or blind, deaf, and dumb.
my dad use to beat me and it would hurt really bad!! and i hated him for it!! this was child abuse in the video and i don't care what yall say!! nobody has the right to put their hands on anybody.i grew up with nothing but hate for my dad because i still remember the horrible child hood and pain that i suffered.He thought it would make me better but it made me hate his azz.i cried when thinking about it..there are somethings i never forgot as a child and thats my abusive dad..there were days i wished he was dead and that i could kill him and run away.i still hate him.i am better without him and very glad he is not in my life!!
How come no one cries abuse when young inmates are beaten and worse by both prison employees and fellow inmates? Somehow our twisted society thinks these youths deserve their abusive situations. When parents were allowed to discipline their children far fewer of them landed in jails. Now we let society try to convince us that a strange man with badge, a stick, cuffs and a stun gun has the right to discipline our children by we don't. Most child abusers are not concerned or deterred by any laws and never have been. They are the ones that are maiming and killing kids every day. Rarely do these protective agencies stop them before its to late--they are too busy harassing parents who are trying to raise decent people in a time where peer pressure, laws and the media is doing all it can to make sure that doesn't happen.
Great1StillHere....I will not throw pearls before swine or swine before pearls. I will not debate this matter. Those adults who bring harm to children are monstrous to me. Those who defend those who harm children are sometimes worse. Like your beloved Jesus saying "get behind me," I will point out "you are too far behind me to keep up." The cult of Christianity makes a mockery of good will. Jesus wouldn't put up with the abuse of children. I would harm the abuser.
MTO, I am completely in shock that you would have to ask if this is abuse or good parenting. This video needs to be sent to CPS or somewhere that they can take this child's dad to prison where he belongs. The kid is already going to be punished enough by being sent to school with a jacked up haircut and no eye-brows. The tag team *** whooping is over the top and abusive. Why not videotape that too, since you did with the other parts. I'm disgusted that you think this is JUSTIFIED as well.
I used to pop my son on the behind when he acted up at first. When he was three, and I had just spanked him, he asked me how it was okay for me to spank him for hitting me just to show him that hitting is wrong. A THREE year old even knew that violence begets violence. The fact that this kid got an *** whooping earlier that week, shows that this type of punishment doesn't work. As a kid, I got spanked all the time. Did it stop my behavior? No. Did I repeat some of the same things that got me spanked before? Yes. Spanking does not work, it's a cop out. I say we hold this man down and beat him bare assed with a belt to see how HE likes it.
Good to see a daddy doing his job!! To each their own! I think discipline is definitely needed nowadays. It worked for me. It sucks, but I never misbehaved because in the back of my mind, I knew what the consequences would be. My father put the FEAR in me early. still have it to this day!! LOL. But he was a GREAT father who raised 3 girls on his own. PROPS dad!! It must feel good for him, to see his girls all career driven and successful. I'm telling you, kids need that conscience that asks, "what if mom or dad finds out?"
Daddy handlin bizness!!! Cudos to this man. There are consequences for your actions, and a lot of kids don't know that. If this dad keeps on him, this kid is gonna make a lot of money being an athlete or something like that, because his daddy kept him in line. Hard times calls for hard discipline. Thank you for sharing this. I think a lot of us need to see what real discipline is.
