: MediaTakeOut.com got its hands on photos from Fantasia Barrino's baby shower over the weekend in Atlanta. Her and Antoine look happy. Best of luck to them . . .
@prettymars she does care what ppl i.e. the public thinks about her the public got her where she is. Dug American Idol, buying her records. She wouldn't have tried to take her life if she didn't care what ppl were saying about her which is why I'm not going to say anything negative about her decisions.
Fantasia is finally living for herself. Sometimes you have to wish someone the best even when you see the writing on the wall.
Tacky gold headband - check ugly ratched weave - check smiling when she should be crying - check
Fanny, Fanny, Fanny...sitting up there next to THAT woman's HUSBAND acting like you then came up or something...you really are a piece of garbage ghetto black nasty no count picking up the scraps of a quality woman's man desperate bish. Why is this dumb tacky headed *** even having a baby shower? Does she have NO shame? My goodness!! How tacky, low class and dirty of you. I knew there was a reason I disliked this darky so much and I knew it was more than that ugly skin color of hers. She's just GARBAGE! I really hope he leaves her b/c you can clearly see he's NOT INTO YOU BOO BOO #sillyrabbit
ive never seen so many haters in muh freakin life...no one knows the real story with him& his wife& fantasia..all u guys know is what u hear in these blogs and junk...and i heard someone say u lose em how u get em...but im married&me& my husband got to gether when he was in the process of leavin another, so dnt blame her blame him..better yet look at ya selves cz over 90% of chicks who bad atlk her & how they got 2gether, has or is or would date a man who is married ESPECIALLY if he's got money. And obviously he divorced his wife& is doin right by Fantasia..so stop bein haters!!! be happy for their BABY, freakin losers
and one more thing...for u ladies who love to say a women who take husbands....he was never taken if he got TOOK frm someone else..the man in the relationship has the commitment not the outsider..plus men tell the outside women lies all day long so u cnt blame her bcuz she may not even know&end up fallin in love wit dude. Dnt blam the female blame the man silly ***
They only look happy because ignorance is bliss. But fantasia should stick to the long hair and waves/curls because it softens her face. Also, get rid of that goofy looking dude on the side, because there are plenty of other men out there for you girl. And that man was still living in his wife house, so what the h*ll is a "separated" that allows you to go sleep with and impregnate other women? He is just around for a meal ticket and he will continue to be around for the money. This would have never happened if she had gotten with a U.S. Cellular worker. Ha, Ha. I have two of her albums and I won't buy another one. I listen to music to relate it to how I'm feeling, but I can't relate to this type of foolery.
@tairealah he ain doin right by shid he knocced her up he ain marry her first so therefore its baccwards they can do them but it ain right period and yes you will lose a person the way you got them if its foul just cuz ur man married you dont mean he wont bounce on you too...i didnt know she gained thatmuch weight how far along is this chicc according to mto shes been preggers for *** near a year now
Congratulations Fantasia and Antoine!! I am so sick of hearing this *** about "you lose 'em the same way you got 'em" and karma, etc., etc. This is not necessarily true!! This sounds like something someone's great grandmother told them. I know plenty of relationships that started in this manner and are still standing some 30 -40 years later. Some relationships are just meant to be and this is one of them!!!
Sh!t great grandmothers and grandmothers got some wisdom and they used to know how to marry and keep a man way back then. There is a reason why relationships do not work when you knowingly take a man from someone else..........because there can never be any trust or respect in the relationship; and those are key components to having a successful relationship. Some relationships are the "exception" and not the "rule." Ya'll better watch "He's just not that into You."
*Singing* "Somebody needs attention." People are so silly. "I am number one.....two is not a winner.....and three no one remembers." If a man is not married to you, then technically he is not "yours" because he belongs to himself and therefore if you get him to marry you, then big up to you, but you still *** mess with a man who is with someone else (bad look for you). But if he is married, then you move the h*ll around, because you are messing with some "what God put together" type of stuff, and trust me, you don't want to get in the middle of that. And yes, the piece of paper saying that you're married does matter, because it just does. Why do people have to be bitter because some people have common sense and actually try to do what they are supposed to do? I'm imperfect and I sin, but I would not choose to get mixed up in those types of sins ever, because it is foolery at its best. But I guess I am biased, because I actually try to live my life according to a high set of standards (outside of my participating in this "gossip" site. So "good day" to you.
DrKG it's obvious these rats have no standards so you're wasting your time trying to break down principles and standards to them. They get excited if Burchum the janitor wink at them so you know a MARRIED man with kids and a job (low paying job at that) can definitely get it b/c they want what the wife got...to bad Fanny will NEVER be a wife. MARK MY WORDS...she is dark, ugly, hood, scandalous, illiterate dumb, howls like a freakin wolf and is stank. She will NEVER be a MRS ANYBODY...even this cell phone salesman won't wife that. Trust!
@Ransomed Typical self hating black woman ( no disrepect my dad is black) why do you have to call her dark and ugly..... don't get it twisted you probaly get hype if a guy from the club comes up to you... flashing money and fake jewlery. and i'm far from a rat I COULD probaly buy you out never lived in a GHETTO.. From Orange County, Ca.
Smile now, cry later Fantasia. She's going to be running somewhere and hiding when he KFed's her ***. Brittany Spears ran around with Kevin like he was the best thing. Then their ish was over, they divorced, she was humiliated, and had a nervous breakdown behind it. Now he's moved on, gets a fat check from her and just had another baby by another woman. Fantasia, you're next.
Wooooooow this girl have so many fkn haters! Keep your head up fanny, let the haters be your motivators. I swear ppl act like they hv never ran across a lying *** man that said he was single when he actually was not. Some of yalls *** even messed with other womens men even though u knew they were together! Half of yall are from a relationship your mom had with a married man, so stop being on the outside looking in! Nobody knows what the hell he told that girl, you was not there. And y the hell nobody is getting on his ***? Oooh I guess because he is so cute and fine. That be the ones that lie like a dog. Yall better wake the fk up!
IF FANTASIA HAD KNOWN THIS MAN WAS MARRIED WHEN THEY FIRST MET IM SURE SHE WOULD NOT HAVE DATED HIM. THIS MAN LIED AND SAID HE WAS SINLE JUST LIKE ALOT OF YA'LL *** MEN DO! FANNY DIDNT KNOW HE WAS MARRIED UNTIL HIS WIFE WENT TO THE MEDIA WITH IT! THAT IS WHY SHE TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE BC HE LIED TO HER AND THE PUBLIC KNEW ABOUT IT. BY THAT TIME SHE WAS ALREADY TOO DEEP IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND HE WAS TELLING HER THEY WERE GETTING A DIVORCED SO SHE COULDNT LEAVE HIM.
didn't know he was married....ummm marriage licenses filed divorces are PUBLIC RECORD. She probably don't know how to use a computer, but she can NOW read a little better. Guilt causes her to abort a child, who knows if it was pre/post a suicide attempt (hmmmm aspirin, most she could experience is hearing loss from that) then get pregnant again by the same dude and call this fetus "from god"....sooooo what was the aborted fetus, especially since the dude is STILL MARRIED? Now all she has to do is pay for HIS divorce and they can live happily ever, suspiciously awaiting his next cheat, now two kids out of wedlock....after!
On behalf of all men, thank you ladies, Thank you for going hard on Fanny and letting Mr Cook get off easy. Thank you blaming the woman as the home-wrecker, Thank you for realizing that Mr Cook didn't have a choice, he had to sleep with Fanny cuz she over powered him. That you ladies for realizing that you should blame the stranger instead of the MAN you shared your vows with in front of GOD, the man you share your bed with. Please continue this thought process cuz Men really appriecate it. So it is all Fanny's fault. Antione Cook didn't do anything wrong and Fanny is the ho, ***, ***, homewrecker, cuz SHE didn't respect your vows, and your man did,,,,, (y'all some dumb azzes) THANK YOU GOD FOR MAKING ME A MAN!! I see why Men rule the world. But I digress I guess why should a man care that women will blame the stranger in their relationship,,it's not like the man invited her in. I mean if the man doesn't respect his vows/marriage why should the woman?????
I had to think why it is that ppl say everybody getting on Fanny but not dude. Well (for me) here is why (IMO) we've all been duped before. But if you're honest with yourself (ladies) there is always that little sign, or window of opening where the truth shines through, but we just don't want to see it. Ok, so maybe some ladies don't know that marriage licenses are public record and you can check and see if anybody is married (or divorced). Yet, once Fanny got the revelation that he IS STILL MARRIED, did she turn away from him? Did she make a conscientious (but hard) decision to leave the man alone? Did she pack her bags and go into hiding until she could reconcile her feelings, gain some strength and move on? Nope, she not only jeopardized her own life, and in doing so was forsaking her own daughter... but she went right back to him...after the abortion, after the life ending attempt she went right back to him. The Bible says that when we are tempted, we are also provided a way to escape. It's just whether or not we want to escape. Her means of escape, was that fine, single, young interest in her video (according to HER reality show). Her manager/publicist (or whoever dude is) told her this man was interested in her (an escape), but nope she wanted what someone else had (albeit only on paper) but he was still on paper married. THAT is enough to show the character of this man...he is too lazy to get a divorce???? WTH??? Every woman may not be as strong as the next woman...but I was told 'what don't kill you, will definitely make you stronger'. So Fanny, take yo vitamins because until you REQUIRE this man to get some divorce papers, if you're not careful you'll still be paying to help him support his kids. (jumping down off the soapbox -- that is all)
The crazy part about this is that Fantasia grew up in the same town as I did...this runs through her blood! She knew better. All the chicks on here talking bout "oh, quit hating this" and "quit hating that". Nobody's hating on her. Hell, if anything we supported her while she was coming up, but when you make black women look bad by NOT WAITING UNTIL HE WAS ATLEAST SEPERATED, we will turn on you quicker than a door knob. Let's look at the facts, her manager is resourceful! It's his job to do research on folks that may cost him his job. Do y'all really think that they didn't know Antoine was married until the show aired or Fantasia tried to take her life??? GET REAL! If y'all believe that, then some idiot needed to put y'all in that cold water they put Fantasia in when she tried to kill herself. Fantasia will ALWAYS have to bear the burden of being a homewrecker, the same as Alicia Keyz, for HER decision. Noone made her stay! Finding out a man is married AFTER y'all have been together isn't an easy situation to walk away from in 30 seconds or less, but that demon is the same as finding out the man you've been with for months is on crack and it's been him that's been stealing your money! Hell...just WALK AWAY! Fantasia, if you're reading this...and I know you are, keep your head up! It's not all your fault but you DID have a sayso in whether you went back. Don't ruin your career over this and have to end up coming back to High Point NC because if you do, you will end up hearing the "I told you so's". Keep it in the road. Straighten up and fly straight. Look to the hills from which cometh your help! But you WILL reap what you've sewn. I only pray that when the chips come tumbling down, you won't go back to suicide but rather look up towards heaven, but your day of reckoning is coming young lady.
Bored reading the comments, not that it matters but Fanny didn't know hee was married at least that's what they determined in a court of law. The wife tried unsuccessfuly to sue her for alienation of affection they sided with Fanny. I think she is dumb for going back to him not only did he our he nearly cost her everything. I do agree with the ppl saying messing with an involved especially married man is dead wrong. Bad karma.
@tiacura -- who does that??? Any woman who doesn't want to look like what Fanny (and AKeyes) looks like now? If the story is she was "lied to" why not check...because its just easier to melt with whispering of sweet lies and go with the flow. Fanny had to be totally humiliated, sitting in a court of law, under oath, being asked embarrassing questions, about her personal life, answered in front of total strangers (and probably family too). All of that humiliation to the point of ACTING suicidal...and you go back to the dude...LOL yeah ok. If you always do what you've done, you'll always get what you got. The ball was always in her court...she can't play defense.
She played like she was a humble young mother trying to win American Idol to make a betterlife for her baby. Soon as she won, she starting acting wild and personally I have never seen or heard anything about her 1st child again. Now she stealing people's husbands by waving the money she was blessed with and offering to take care of him. Then she talks to the 'WIFE' like she her game is weak. It was your money dummy, that's all.
Im not going to comment on her decision to date a married man because I don't know the facts behind how they met, but I will comment on the fact that beauty is the eye of the beholder, so for all of you people calling her ugly and ***, you are the ones who are ignorant and obviously hate yourselves. Fantasia has some of the most beautiful black skin period and I'm light skinned, so I'm being 100% objective. Just because you are light skinned doesn't automatically make your complexion or you pretty, your tone and skin type plays a huge part and I've seen a lot of pale, bumpy face light skinned people with not so cute features and people will swear up and done they are pretty. It's sad to see so many colorstruck and brainwashed black people. It's one thing to say a person its not attractive because you don't think their features are cute, buy when you are mainly degrading their color, then you have a serious problem!!
WOW!! Alot of these people commenting need to get a life,hobby,or Job!! Who are we to judge anyone...Thats all on God....like seriously, It's her life and she made the choices...So you all are mad because? The same ones thats being so ugly..are the same ones who most likely got plenty of skeletons in your closets...NO ONE IS PERFECT!!! life goes on..but most are so ignorent and childish they cant understand or see that. You get no where being that rude and judgemental. (Oh and being dark skinned is BEAUTIFUL).
