I love DJR!!

Ring or no ring, it work for them. They look like a happy family.

I meant it works for them.

Oh wow....20yrs!!!! :-/

She needs to spruce herself up a bit, cuz she's looking haggard

*** is she feeling *** follow me on twitter @iamsluggin i followback and give daily ***

Not surprised! our black community is in trouble so many of us look down on marriage silly rabbits

MTO yall are the ones who brought this to our attention before... This is a recycled story yall just changed the pics..... Or Fred do you have dementia over there????

So What if they're not married, at least he's there raising his children and sticking with the mother of his children. They dont seem to have a problem with it.

@*** --- exactly what I was gonna say. I love when people pay attention!

some people dont need rings to be committed and sides they could be married and not have yall all up in their bz rings dont make a marriage COMMITMENT does so *** off mto he ain left her yet and hes raising his kids with her so it works for them

Smart man Lol

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Gahhh, another simian-faced black man, you're on a role today mto

*** 20 years

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When those kids become 18 he can kick her arse out the house and in the street with nothing. Maybe a sympathetic judge will give her a few chips and that's maybe. Other than that she's not entitled to half of his assets. No homes, cars, stocks, bonds nothing.

The very fact that they've been together for 20 years (if that's true) shows you the value of marriage. Outside of the legal perks it garners, it ain't worth the paper its license is written on.

Everybody knows black men don't commit with marriage. Esp rich ones

If it works for them, but I just hope the GF is on his will if anything happens to him. Very pretty lady, same with the daughters. Don is a great actor.

they are married....its called COMMON LAW.

Gorgeous family. I hope she got some assurance though that she geting the house and some money, if he decide to walk off with some 19yr old he met on a movie set.

Marriage ain't for everyone if they love each other and are committed that piece of paper ain't gonna change sh.t

My question is, how is mto and a few other idiots are making a big deal about them not getting so called "legally" married when OBVIOUSLY they're doin just great without the marriage certificate??? Its just a *** piece of paper. Have y'all ever heard the phrase "if it ain't broke, then don't try to fix it"? Its like some of y'all *** want these *** to fail so you can talk about their "divorce" afterward.

Mind ya business... Mind umm ya business.. @datsthatish

lmao jus like a ***.igga he aint gon marry her til they in their late 50's, watch what i tell you lol follow me @YumPopsicles #teamfollowback

So what? It's better than being married for 2 years and cheating on each other. If it ain't broke don't fix it.

Who in their right mind would want to ruin their life with a wedding ceremony??

(Hello Jeremy)

@QUEENBEETS

Don Cheadle lives in California. California does not recognize common law marriages. And of the characteristics involved in attributing common law marriages to couples, Don Cheadle and his girlfriend do not exhibit all of them (a necessary requirement), as to be recognized even in states that do permit common law marriages.

I'm sure he is a good guy and loves her, but maybe not as much as he loves his dollar bills.

Lol, Black people are never satisfied.(especially some of y'all black women) If he was with a white woman, he gets hated on. If he is with a sista with no ring, he gets hated on.

At least he is there raising their child together with his woman, that counts for a lot in this day in age. Marriage is not for everybody.

Marriage is not for rich black man, i don't care how handsome that you are. At the end of the day, all girl will see thru only your cash...

She has alote of patience!

Anyway, what up Mouse!

im not talking about CALIFORNIA, in their minds they are married ...if don cheadle dies... his sh!t going to her ANYWAY....

What a interesting looking couple. Hell I can see why he didn't put a ring on that sasquatch.

He knows what he is doing, he does not want her hand in his money that's what that's about cheap. It's time to keep it moving. BM could of atleast invested 10 yrs with his ***, and got something out of it in the end. SMH keep it pushing BM if he love you you would of had a ring on it by now 20 yrs come on.His ugly *** lucky somebody satyed with him that long.

nothing wrong here my uncle been with his baby momma for 40years and they live together very happy,he said he could do better things with the money lol and told her he will soon.

but in his mind they are married in the creator eyes.

HE IS SO SEXY .....LOVE SOME CHEADLE!!! SHE HAS A NICE CATCH, AS WELL AS HIM

So what! It's not for every couple but not getting married has and is working for them-

They can do something with them kids hair they got money thats terrible

They not married but they still together living in the same house with their children. Of course the women are going to clown the man until the have a son of their own, Whatever works for them. moving on,,,,

@srkim.....what are you talkin about? i googled the link and didn't see anything about workin from home!

You don't need a piece of paper to prove your love, its been people that have been married (Tony Parker and Eva Longira) and divorced within 3 years so that don't mean nothing they been together 20 years and still staying strong.

His girlfriend is >>>> (this) close to a TCB no lye relaxer POOEY

MARRIAGES ARE PROBLEMS UNLESS YOU HAVE A WHITE QUEEN!!! CHEADLE DO YOU!!! IF YOUR HAPPY WITHOUT THE RING THEN I DON'T SEE THE ISSUE!! HAPPINESS IS NOT DETERMINED BY WALKING DOWN THE AISLE!!!!

THOSE ARE USUALLY THE STEPS PEOPLE TAKE WHEN THEY ARE ABOUT TO END IT!!!!

TRUE BLACK MAN!!!!

ALL UP IN YA!!!

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I think she is a dumb ***...you gotta be either desperate or stupid to have two of some man's children, whether i'm in love with him or not, and live with him for 20 years, and not get a ring. *** a commitment i want the paper to say we are committed before i start having some man's kids, *** up my body, with no guarantees of a future...And should his *** kick the bucket, she has no idea what provisions he has made for her. I might provide for the kids and not her. He is not stupid...he didn't want to get married cuz he wants the quick way out should that relationship sour, and he don't want to be obligated to her...and her dumb *** inadvertently went along with it for 20 years. She is totally gambling on him, and personally i think that is dumb. He can walk away from her tomorrow, go marry someone else, and that wife will get all his benefits....sad....women we gotta demand better.

In God's eyes, Cheadle is dishonoring the woman, and she's allowing herself to be dishonored. When a man is intimate with a woman who is not his wife, he is touching something that he has no right to. We all know this, but no one wants to talk like this because so many people would be indicted. It is not easy to live like this, but it is the honorable way to live. In our hearts and souls, those of us who aren't hardened, we know this to be true. Sure lots of marriages end poorly, but even more non-married relationships end poorly, so arguments that marriage does not work just don't fly. I know I am going to get totally booed off this blog, but I just want to speak a little truth into this space. Sure, each person makes their own decisions, but we all do under God. You choose.