We have to give Malinda a lot of credit. If a man TORE ME TO PIECES like he did her in that Essence article, we would NEVER sand next to him.
For those who FORGOT, this is what Mekhi told the mag:
I was 23 when she got pregnant. You want to do the right thing - what society deems as being the right thing. She wanted a structured family lifestyle that she was used to growing up. The women are dominant matriarchs in her family and the men are subversive, subservient and subdued. Me? I come from a family of men - grown-ass men handling their business.
It's easy for a woman to say, 'He cheated on me and did this and that.' Look, I'm a very sexual person - I love to make love. In the morning, stink breath? I want to make love. At night after champagne, I want to make love. Women have to let men be men, not walk over them. If you are dealing with a yellow-bellied, no backbone muthaf***a, then okay. I'm a mover and a shaker - a king . . .
If you want your man to be there with you, you have to be there with him too - a stimulus for a muthaf***a. For most of the relationship, I was the mover and shaker, she was home complaining.
i dnt blame neither of them. everybody jus not on da same level& dats da results of it.
Man what's up with these girls not giving Tge goods to ur man? When my man wants it he gets it. If I'm sick he can get it. I didn't want to give it to him after we worked out but he wanted it so I gave it. Anytime anyplace Janet said it The best. #teamgivehimthatstuff whenhewontit
He is a buttwipe then and now. I'm glad she's moved on and that midget Asian
he married can't touch Malinda. Cute kid.
Maybe she was home...watching the baby while he was out *** around? I remember seeing an article where he complained she didn't give him enough ***. One day he'll be man enough to admit that he was immature, not ready to settle down, and should have strapped it up!
So he had a nagging, low-*** woman who didn't want to let him bang her and every other chick out? Gotcha, Mekhi. Glad that they're coparenting the little boy so well, though!
I love a strong man. Take charge and handle your business type of man - exactly what I see in Mekhi. It takes a certain woman to appreciate and respect that.....no disrespect to Malinda. He just wasn't the man for her and vice versa. I wish them the best in co-parenting and individually.
Be your own background investigator:
I agree wit him !!!
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Moving and shaking lol
Sounds like code for "I didn't know how to keep my dyck in my pants though I was a married man" to me!! Some *** are so weak.. Just admit the marriage fell apart because cheated instead of dogging the woman and her family out!! SMMFH!!
THEIR SON LOOKS LIKE AHMAD FROM THE ORIGINAL "SOUL FOOD".
Listen this *** also asked her if he HAD to be there for the birth of HIS
first child stating women have children ALL the time. He was a ***
moving and shaking it in anything with a vayjay.
I totally believe him. LOL But why was he with her? I'm confused...
lol I believe this... I luv Malinda but, I watched an interview of hers back in the day...smh - I remember thinking, " wow, her hubby might be cheating"...lol oh well....Life goes on! They're great parents and in the end - thats all that matters when you're no longer together yet, have children to raise.
Product of good genetics. Cause he is handsome
lmao they all happy nd ***
Some of y'all r straight haters smh @blkhit2011 I believe i think you deal with white women because they will put up with your bs. Not all black women are the same and also white women wear weaves just as well as black women do. so on that note have a good day
SO IF I UNDERSTAND THIS RIGHT MEKHI BASICALLY SAID WOMEN JUST NEED TO LET A MAN BE A MAN. AS IN LET ME CHEAT AND JUST DEAL WITH IT. PERHAPS I MISSED SOMETHING BUT THATS WHAT IT SEEMED LIKE TO ME READING BETWEEN THE LINES.
I remember when Mekhi was fine. I use to have a crush on him in my teens. He's not aging so well.
@blackhit I only wish your dad had pulled out while he was screwing your ugly whoopi Goldberg looking mum because you are a waste of sperm, a waste of oxygen and a waste of life. I wonder if racist white women like the one from the croydon tram will show you as much love as you show white women. *** ***.
Cute kid!! I had no idea that "Bird and Lem" had a kid together!! Mekhi could have shared those comments with Melinda,I agree with@ImOnFire...
@blkhit11: So what are you saying about your black-*** mother?! You're despicable. If you hate yourself and those that brought you here so much..slice your neck--TODAY!
@oddfutureindeed: Well said!
Don't give a *** bout the adults but the lil boy is cute. Look a lot like the lil boy who played in Soul Food the movie.
CUTE KID I LOVE HIS EYES :)
Aaaah they're all cheesing. Too cute. :-)
GREAT LOOKING FAMILY. GLAD TO SEE THEY ARE STILL WORKING & RAISING HIM TOGETHER.
I think he might have been talking about his "recent" ex wife!
awww they were a cute couple. I love Mekhi Pfiefer- he is a Beautiful man :D She was also very beautiful
typical male justification for not controlling his *** organ...(yet you were being a young man of 23)
"I love to make love. In the morning, stink breath? I want to make love. At *** after champagne, I want to make love. Women have to let men be men, not walk over them."
That's not making love, its satisfying a sexual peak - for love must be present in order for love to be made. If you're not going to marry - which I understand the concept of "society" wanting you to "do the right thing" because relationships *** be based on what "society" feels is right; or a mistake made that resulted in a child, but is "letting men be men" not walking all over the women?? If there is no relationship/commitment then by all means do whatever.
Being a "sexual person" ok, that's cool; at 23 years of age it's kind of expected from a "man being man" who lacks self control; yet being a "mover and a shaker -- a king" is lowering the standard of the throne. King's provide for their house, are present in the house, and rule their house with compassion and authority, that authority *** include lack of self control as the little head w/o a conscience continues to drive the masculinity of "the big head". Poor definition example for the Black family structure and an additional discredit to the Black family unit.
...instead of labeling it being a "grown *** man" recognize that there is a difference between being "of age/grown" and being mature. All "grown as men" are not mature.
From Mekhi's point of view sounds like she was doing a little too much "neck-rolling"...and not the good kind either...
beautiful black woman
Lmfaooo@ oddfutureindeed comment hilarious and true!!!!!!!
Y'all are going in on blackhit and I am much obliged. I don't even need to say anything, keep up the good work. ;-)
typo All "grown *** men" are not mature.
Amen this brotha smart bottomline ladies i know its hard work taking a big dic on the regular we Black KINGS gonna have a side chick cuz if you ladies not gettig sexed good uall gonna leave or cheat,uall push babies out your pusi so stop acting like uall cant take a big1,6or7 hours is enough time for uall to recoperate and if your not good still start sucking it and his 2 friends below(ball s)even if your man dont eat pusi.
& none of them were smart enough 2use birth control???WOW.
This is news? Grown mature folks who care first and foremost about their children's growth and well being are doing this all over the world.
@blckhit11 u can't be serious! And Malinda just have a forgiving heart
eh they are both married to other people now. MTO needs to muv the hell on. Cute kid.
I wanna see Bradly Cooper..
Some people didn't get the Memo I guess,but Malinda and D.Nice got a divorce. Looks like they have a beautiful happy son together. I remember when Mekhi did those interviews back then going around spewing venom and making hateful,hurtful comments about his then wife. Talking all under the poor, defenseless woman's skirt about what she would and wouldn't do in their bedroom after marriage and I knew then that she had f.u.c.***.e.d up and married the WROOONG SOMEBODY!! He just wasn't that to have and to hold type of dude she was looking for back then. When they did the stupid comedy movie "High School High" together and she found herself attracted to him she should have just got it out of her system and then kept it moving, but u live and u learn. He sounded resentful at the time that she and her family actually expected him to be an honorable stand up guy who would respect his wife's feelings,be faithful and considerate and when they demanded he live up to his vows he got *** and wanted out and the only way OUT was to bash, ridicule and humiliate her in public. Well he is very lucky/fortunate and I think he knows this now looking back on his mistakes that she did come from the kind of family he despised so much back then, one that is slow to anger,loving,forgiving and without malice,because most women would have prevented him from being a father and would still be punishing him to this day for the hurt he caused in the past.
ok so now he's justifying his ***#t? At the end of the day the $hit just didn't work out period. Y would he put that dumb *** on paper, facebook, etc... one minute, but then forget that his son can always view it and realize that his dad dogged his mom's out? He's very self-fish only thinking for him and not how it makes the family look. It wouldn't have matter if she was sucking him and f&cking him every which way he wanted, @ the end of the day he was offered a better opportunity (or so he thought) and he did what any coward would do and that was 2 run with it. the grass is never greener on the other, and it seems like he already figured that out, y else would he b cheesin' *** a pick wit your son and the woman who was the bain of your existence a few years back? He don't have 2 say sorry, he looks stupid *** hell *** the pic. They always go back (or try 2) to familiarity. He got the big head 'cause he was making $$$$$, and through his family 2 the wolves now that he's a nonrelavent factor, he's tryin' 2 get back *** where he fitted ***. O well SWIM GOOD my n*gg!, better make it work wit the trap b*tc* 'cause Melinda makes her own $$$$$ *** clearly moved on from his punk ***, that's a rap.
I'M SURPRISED HE DSNT HAVE A BECKY. DUDES THAT BLAK USUALLY DO.
Look and Listen. you have to treat man as man. They are simple creatures. You feed them, f**k them, and things are alright. You have to make them feel important and boost them up. Men can be very insecure and need that daily reassurance through *** so they think *** she just can't get enough. But as a woman as much as we give, we should also receive. And when a woman doesn't, how can we focus on a man's needs. When you aren't cared for and revered then its impossible to continue to do the same. SO Mekhi should check himself before he acts as though all faults fall in Malinda's court.
brad pitt did date black women and he must like em somewhat arsehole he adopted 1. your comment is dumb and flawed. maybe black women didn't want to marry them either. just cause u date somebody don't mean marriage or kids. if ur a black male you can not speak for white men and black female relationship have u even seen enough of them.your not a white man and by how ignorant your comment dont seem like u know any. we not talking about the 1s ur *** add thave u evenried to rob. black women low divorce rate black males the highest...... no matter what nationality or race of the women so ctfu please.
@blkhit good to see you back. Keep preaching to these *** *** birds. You speak truth and they respond with ignorance. Chinese men and black women are the most unwanted species lmao
*** you sound really angry at your momma. Go cry to that stank nappy headed bitc.h. get your emotional azz out of here you *** house ***.ger
He is fine but crazy as hell..After i read that, i saw why she couldn't stay with him. HE IS A NUT! He is seriously screwed up in the head, and no self respecting woman could stay with him even if she wanted to and tried her hardest, cause straight up he is *** in the head. Real talk...he is the crazy fine negro you have *** with and then keep it moving.
MEKHI , MY MAN , I FEEL YA MY BRUH , SOUNDS LIKE MY SECOND WIFE , LOL LMAO , I TOO WILL MEET MY LADY 50/50 BUT I'M THE MF KING , AND SHE'S MY GLORY IN MY WIFE , *** HAS TO BE SPONTANEOUS ALSO, YEAH I HATE A YELLOW BELLY WEAK ***, KISS *** CHUMPS IN SUBSERVIENT SLAVE TO HIS WOMAN ABSOLUTELY NO BACKBONE, DEM MAKE REAL MEN LOOK BAD, MY 1ST WIFE WAS A HOE , COULDN'T MAKE HER A HOUSEWIFE , LMAO ROFL TA TA
I don't see where he said anything bad about her. He said that she wanted him to be some old subservient dude and that wasn't him. She wanted to get married and he did thinking it was the right thing. It wasn't for him. Just because you have a kid with someone you don't have to marry them. Maybe before you go nutting up in a woman these are things that you think about. Everybody bashing but all he said was that he made a mistake in getting married and it didn't work out. You gotta also ask yourself a question. She just got divorced again. So it it them or her? HMMM. Dunno.
Blkhit: fatty angry *** white man overly supportive of black men and their penii (because he's on their *** extra hard), or black self-hating coon that got dissed by black women?
Like as many licks it takes to get to the center of a tootsie pop, the world shall never know blkhit's true identity.....lma[SPAM]
I've seen a lot of Black women chase away good Black men with their salty tongues then whine about how all the Becky's are taking them. Well take note a Becky might not cook very well, but she is a guaranteed freak in the bed and on top of that she doesn't see the need to check her man in public in front of her too vocal friends. Respect and good ***...that's what you need to keep that relationship VIBRANT. He's isn't doing anything but giving the advice it took Steve Harvey 200 pages to get to. Anyway can't wait to see the next season of Toorchwood, Mekhi is fire on that series.
I wouldn't say he "tore her to shreds". Maybe he came off a little pompous, but it's not he blatantly disrespected her. He just told how it was in their marriage. They have a cute son together though, and she actually looks pretty right there. I never thought she was too cute before.
@BlackHit2011- I WAS GONNA SAY SOME REALLY MEAN SH** TO YOU BUT I'M NOT BECAUSE ITS NOT GONNA CHANGE HOW YOU FEEL!!!!YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO BUT TALK ABOUT BLACK WOMEN AND HOW MUCH YOU CAN'T STAND US...IF YOU HATE US SO MUCH THEN WHY BRING US UP...YOU DONT KEEP TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING THAT YOU HATE......ANYWAY I CAN TELL ONE OF US BLACK WOMEN THAT YOU DATED REALLY HURT YOU THAT'S WHY YOU HATE US SO MUCH!!...GET OVER IT ALREADY AND IF ONLY YOU'RE MOM KNEW HOW MUCH YOU DISRESPECT US ON THIS SITE SMH!!!
@BlkHit you remind me of my co worker who dump a black girl becuase she was to educated and goal driven (those were his words not mine) to put up with a man that wants to sling his *** everywhere to any woman that would take it so he went and got a white girl and boy does he treat her like ***, what gets me the most is that you have other races of woman that do the same things if not worse than black woman, no every black woman is ghetto, its bad for use bacuse we as black people put our own black race down so why should any other race respect us let alone our woman
@dieselpro bloody hell was there a need to write an essay???
i feel u man u wore the draws & kep'em..u did yo part(yo duty to please that booty)& then some..u still the bread winner