@Sixwishes, Vixenise, and Big_Moose
Take the noise level down a thousand, please. Some women, like myself, are simply not impressed with Shemar--I, personally, have to get a vibe about a man and I do not get it with Shemar, so as far as I am concerned, every woman in the world can have him with his attributes, money, and fame--those things belong to him and not me (I do not follow the crowd; I am my own person). Also, I need to let you know that Van Diesel does not do it for me either--he rings no bells for me.
I am not stuck on black shades, but I am stuck on mannerisms, personalities, manliness, and to some degree, fitness. I am aware of the fact that there are a lot of dl men just as much as I am aware of the fact that people need to talk, date, marry, and pray. One of you stated something about educated men, which is a good thing, but for me, is not the most important thing. As long as a man has godly fear, a thirst for knowledge, commonsense, an open-mind, and humility, he is quite right for me.
Oh, before I go, allow me to drop some names of men I think fit the bill: Malcolm X, Denzel, Billy Dee., Badr Hari, Clyde Drexler, the father character in the movie, Crooklyn, Muhammad Ali, Tyrone Spong, Lebron, Huey P., and W.T.R.--***, I'm being so bad, but it is what it is, wouldn't you agree?