: MediaTakeOut.com learned that Chris Bosh is FIRING SHOTS at his babys moms. In a LEGAL LETTER sent to Allison yesterday, Chris Bosh's attorney claims that the $2,700 a month that he pays her is ADEQUATE.
He also claims that Allison may be committing WELFARE FRAUD. The lawyer suggests that Allison had a job OFF THE BOOKS and can't collect UNEMPLOYMENT . . . so she went on FOOD STAMPS instead.
What woman can't live off of 2500 on top of a job...This chick needs to get locked up...Some of yall women trip me out....
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This greedy *** got 250K on top of 2700$ support for her child, medical expenses for the child, and even a college fund set up. WHAT MORE DOES SHE WANT? I don't get it, why is this *** hand still out? That *** has been conditioned to believe she had a baby by a baller so she gets the guap but I hope the courts break that disgusting cycle, get a job ***!!! it is despicable that shes on this media blitz bad mouthing this man when he's doing what hes supposed to do. You ignorant people who are siding with her are conditioned by society to think she deserves thousands just because hes a millionaire.. um NO SHE DOESNT! *** GET TO WORK just like all these other mothers who are making it on far less than what you are getting from Chris. Chris is a good guy and I knew it was something more to it, however, if she got even a mininum wage part time job, she would have at least 4000 a month on top of what hes giving her, and that is more than adequate for the child to live a comfortable and lavish life. I hope her food stamps get turned down, shes is ABUSING THE SYSTEM!!! Shes a sad *** grimey ***, man...
Come on Allison, the man is paying all of the child's expersives and you're getting $2700.00 a month in child support? I bet she dosen't have a college fund for the child. If she's gettin foodstamps I'm wrtting the Governor. Allison is just another Baller's BabyMama Scorned. I bet she buys a new weave every month with that support check. Leave the man alone, and get on with your life. And by the way. do what everyone else dose when they get laidoff, file for unemployment.
SMH, it just amazes me that as soon as these women meet these ball players they believe they have hit the jackpot!!!! She needs to find a job just like all the other single mothers out in this world. I believe she's getting more than enough for that child, much more than alot of other moms out here. Jeez Louise, Foolishness
Well, from all the stories mto is writing about this situation it aounds like Chris is doing his job. His child is taken care kf in every aspect that he's supposed to besides living with her, ita the bm that can't live. If she would've let him take her to the playoffs last year and olympics this year maybe he would've given the bm some money until she got back on her feet. Seems to me that his child is his concern. So for those that said he had the judge in his pocket wa wrong.
im back lol... ***, use that clause of him paying for her education and put your child in a Montessori school for kids while you work a full time job, idiot! I'm sure he will pay for the school. U have to break that mentality that he owes you something, forreal ***! Wow, you silly ***, if you are reading this *** you disgust me
If Halle Berry has to pay a dude 20K a month to provide the conditions that Nahla is used to having when living with her mom than Chris should pay to provide his child with the same lifestyle that he enjoys...if the mom benefits in some way then he should've been more selective with his sperm..you cannot bring children in the world and have them live like paupers while you yourself and your new kids live like royalty...it isn't right. 2700 ain't *** compared to what he makes..I live a average middle class existence and my mortage is 1400 a month...that's before I do gas, insurance, cable electricity, food. clothing, car note..etc..so you mean to tell me that 2700 is reasonable for a multi millionair..if Ms Mathis is unsucessful in getting an increase I hope to all that's holy Trinity grows up to see how she was treated as compared to the child he has on the way and hates him for it....BOOM
Get her Chris! *** fired!! she's been warned. These chicks are crazy. Get a *** job...her and Pilar. You are not disabled, get a job! This man is paying child support and additional expenses that he doesn't have to pay. Didn't these chicks learn from 50 cent's baby momma? I still laugh at that. Wasn't she getting like 30k a month from Fifty without a court order and her greedy triflin' behind took him to court to try to get more money from him and the judge gave her like 5k a month? You see what greediness leads you? GET A JOB!! There should be a reality show called "Triflin' Baby Mom's"
This *** needs to move on, he will get what's coming to him. He should get custody since he is so adamant about not putting any money in her hand. If you want your child to live good and not the woman who brought her into the world (b i t c h a s s *** i g g a!!) then you and that fake ***, Kim *** wanna-be, barbie b i t c h should get custody of the little girl. Lets see how that goes over. That prissy b i t c h will not have one day of that little girl who is not his living with them!
Hoes these days...she needs to get her life, still trying to live like she's a BBW when CLEARLY, she no longer is. $2700 a month, with school (& supplies) medical & dental, plus a college fund, & $250k (in 2010), girl get. That's more than enough to handle a toddler. I hate when women get greedy (get what you DESERVE, but don't be greedy) it's not cute. In all actuality, she's making herself look stupid, maybe someone should tell her that, so she can save what little bit of dignity, & self respect she has left #IJS *Kanye Shrug*
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If he's paying everything then she should have just given him custody like he asked. She's holding on to the baby for that $2700. He pays for everything his child needs and the $2700 should cover everything else the baby doesn't have and that's not even the issue. If your own family fires you and leaves you on your *** then there's something wrong. She probably has just enough to cover bills and food and that's enough.
I agree Dondi. To everyone saying 2700 is enough to raise a child, of course it is. But the fact is when you have are living in mansions, driving rxpensive cars, spending more on your new wifes shoes or baby shower cake in one *** than you do on your first child its sad. Youre child comes to visit you and sees the lavish lifestyle that you provide for your new wife and kid and then when she goes back home to her average house and lifestyle in the end she will resent the dad. I can understand where he is coming from in that he doesn't want to finance his ex's lifestyle but sometimes when you choose to have kids here and there you must make that sacrifice just so your kid doesnt feel second best. Even if the woman went and got a job she will never be able to provide the lavish lifestyle he can, giving her a little more will not hurt his pockets. Its not about being a gold digger, its about making sure that your child feels just as loved as your new one. Seriously, this man makes more ine one game than a lot of people make per year and hes being a penny pincher just BC he's afraid the woman raising his child 95% of the year will buy her self something nice once in a while? Oh well if she does, if thats the "risk" he has to take so that his daughter is living just as good as his new son then oh well...not like Adrienne cant afford to give up buying one more pair of expensive shoes each month
@suebee @dondi: The child is his priority not the Mother.
Chris is responsible for his daughter. That's it.
As long as his daughter is taken care of that all that matters.
It does not mean he loves her any less.
What you too are describing is " Me Too".., which is a form of jealousy & greed.
This is so sad. Really sad.
While $2700 would be nice for my son and I to live off of, his father, my husband is the type of man, if he were making millions a year, he would want HIS child to live a best he could afford. Chis Bosh can afford way more than $2700 a month to her, but is only doing the bare minimum. Chris, whatever happened between her and you, don't make your child suffer. If you and your new wife and potential kids can live nice, why can't this child. I AM NOT SAYING he needs a 12 bedroom mansion, they don't, but Chris, you're not a UPS worker. Step it up and let this child have just as much of a nice upbringing with access to nice things, as well. Men stop making your children go with less, and BALL with your current fling, just because you're silly and immature towards the EX. Baby mamas, you're NOT entitles. If your EX is a baller and IS willing to pay for you and your son to have a decent life, be grateful! Some folk don't even get anywhere near $2700 per month, and they ARE working!
THIS STUPID HEAUX SAID THAT 2700 A MONTH FOR A KID ISN'T ENOUGH. THE FUQQQQ. YOU'RE AN ADULT WITH A MORTGAGE. WE'RE NOT TALKIING BOUT BILLS. THAT CHILD DON'T HAVE ANY BILLS. I'M PRETTY SURE 2700 + INSURANCE + COLLEGE FUND IS ENOUGH AND I BET IF SHE ASKS HER DADDY FOR SOMETHING, HE WON'T HESITATE TO GET IT B!TCHES OUT HERE BE TRIPPIN FOR REAL. THAT'S HOW HEAUXS GET SNUFFED. TRYING TO RUN THAT MAN DRY. HE'S TAKING CARE OF HIS CHILD AND HIS FAMILY THAT LIVES WITH HIM. IF I WAS HIM, I'D SUE FOR SOLE CUSTODY OF THE CHILD... B!TCHES ALWAYS TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO GET OVER.
AND IF YOU THINK HE'S NOT DOING ENOUGH, THEN YOU'RE A GOLDDIGGING BASIC B!TCH
All of yall talking about some 'lavish lifestyle" are materialistic ***. Seriously.. You can buy a season full of clothes for a child with $1500 and toys and sh!t with the rest. You can buy groceries, get them computers, cell phones etc. Like seriously? Just because 2700 a month not enough to pay the MOM'S BILLS AND EXPENSES doesn't mean it's not enough for the child. That's more than enough. Seriously What the fu(*** is a child gonna do with 100K a month? NOT A *** THING but mommy can buy a car and a big *** house and whatever mommy wants. CHILD SUPPORT IS FOR THE SUPPORT OF THE CHILD. If it was BABY MAMA SUPPORT, it would've been called that.
What people fail to realize is, it doesn't matter how well CB (& his WIFE) are living, HE WORKS to live that well. It is his job (legally) to provide 50% of his daughters support, while her mom does the other 50. He is doing that AND THEN SOME, PLUS SOME MORE. It's not his responsibility to keep his BM in Gucci & Gold. If she wants that she needs to A) Get a *** JOB or B) Get her a husband to buy it for her. I can't believe it's women on here consigning this BS! All this is going on, cuz she's salty that she can no longer floss like a BBW. A man doesn't owe his BM ***, how she lives, & what she doesn't have is her concern, not his. Chris ain't her Daddy. GET A JOB!
@trollsmasher, in the average every day working world men (and less times women) are struggling to pay child support and still live a decent lives themselves. Here we are talking about a different world that 99% of us will never be a part of. In these cases of multimillionaires where a couple, married or not, have a child together providing the custodial parent with the basics is not all that's given...nor shoukd it be. If as a super rich parent you enter into a relationship with a person who you know could work 6 jobs and still not make 1/4 of what you do in a year AND then decide to have a child with said person then maybe it should cross your mind that if the relationship goes sour that you would STILL want your CHILD to reap the benefits of your amazing career. Yes, by default, sometimes the custodial parent will end up benefitting too. But you know what, if I'm living in marble floored mansions, only wearing the best, eating fancy then guess what: when I send my child back to their custodial parent I want them to be living the same way they live at my house! Not BC I think I should be financing the other parent's life but BC if I only walk in marble floors floors and if fancy is the way my newborn son is living then my first born daughter will be living the same way too whether shes on a weekend trip to my house or at her other parent's house. If I CAN provide it I will! Do I agree with one *** srands and groupies getting rich by popping out babies? NO but these are grown men who know the deal. Stop having *** with women whos lifestyle you dont want to finance if ahe happena to come out pregnant, its not that difficult. If you are bringing children into this world be prepared to make sure they are living the lifestyle you live no matter whos home theyre in. Why would you want any less for YOUR child?? And in this case whats worse is she was his long time girlfriend.
That grimy mofo Chris bosh is so feeling hisself since he want to the Heat. He looked like skeletor with them wack de-las and sick overbite. Now he's Hollywood. Can't make sure your child is living easy? Bet his baby has a 10k nursery with maids and nannies. Y just cuz he lives with you. If u can't fully recover wonder where this girl u married will b within 2 years? On to the next. Oh and I'm sure he's paying handsomely for his dl boyfriend. Can't wait till you get caught you dirty bird.
I think a lot of you who have commented against his baby's mother forget that Trinity is also HALF HIS!!!! Why *** he set up a trust fund and do extra things for his child. Should he get a pat on the back for doing what any father should do? You left this woman when she was 6 months pregnant and hooked up with her look alike. Probably a lot more to this story that meets the eye and only time will tell.
Evidently troll master loves living in a basic environment. And evidently troll master has never experienced living in an upper class neighborhood. And even more evident is troll master doesn't know that living in a upper class neighborhood is inherently more expensive than living in the projects. Power bill, water bill maintenance feesand special Assessments are things you can look forward to paying in an upper class neighborhood. So just figure at least another 1000 for that. For those basic ppl who have never bought an authentic pair of louboutins, maybe you should check his site. The really nice ones are over 2000, you know the ones they can't copy in bare feet shoes. So you must see the ppl who believe batty boy bosh's lies have no idea what it is to be anything more than basic.
@suebee: Once again, Trinity is Chris Bosh main & only concern.
$2,700 per month is more than enough for the Trinity!
.... Allison is lusting & desiring material things which is just disgusting & show how greedy she is abusing the innocent Trinity for her own Welfare.
$250,000 in 2010 .. What did Allison do with that ? EXACTLY.
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Diddy & the rest of rich & wealthy celebrities support thier children & Baby Mothers ..because of some stupid judge ruling.
Materialistic & Fame monsters.
Thirsty Jezebels.
As if the non black women aren't breaking you *** niccas as well. Black women aren't the only gold diggers, remember most of the black men date non black women, as you on MTO state daily. But it's the black women that are the gold digging bums. Thank goodness I keep my puzzy tight and right. I don't Believe I EVER want children....not in this crazy fugged up world.
No where in either of my posts did I say 2700 was not enough to raise a child, of course it is! All im saying is that if I was a multimillionaire living the life I would want my child to have the best of everything at all times, whether theyre visiting me or living with the other parent. If my providing the BEST (not the minimum, not adequate, not a little more than average the BEST) means that the custodial parent is gonna splurge at times on themselves too then I'd take that if it meant my kid was living just as fancy as I was. And if I didnt want to take the chance that the money would be spent on fancy shoes or cars for the custodial parent then guess what? I wouldnt have children with people I didnt want collaterally benefitting from my wanting my kid to have a top notch life (in terms of material wants).
If the *** feels like she deserves more her *** should've waited until she got that ring before she popped out any children. Her dad is a prominent lawyer in Atlanta you would think he would've taught his daughter better. SMH. If you don't want to be treated like a baby mamma then don't become one. If they were ever married she would be getting a lot more now, but they never were so she loses. I hope he sues her for custody and then she'll really be hurting. If I was a man I'd always sue for full custody, got me *** up giving u money to support ur *** too. This goes to show all these dumb hold digging broads that having a baby for a ballet without a ring means NOTHING. Have the goal of being a WIFE instead of a BABY MAMMA. The lack of that goal is what is destroying the black community. 70% of black children are born out of wedlock. That statistic is disgusting.
@suebee: Allison is greedy & bitter asking for more than $2,700 per month on top of $250,000... and other funds set in place for the Trinity.
When the purpose is that he is taking care if his child.
Way to show how ugly she truly is inside and out .
Not humble at all.
Chris Bish definitely made the right choice .
Dam he got a good lawyer! I'm pretty sure his clientele will sky rocket. Females have set the bar high and got record amounts of child support so of course she expects the same. While it is not mandatory for him to do more, he could if he wanted to. Maybe if she would stfu he would. You clearly catch more bees with honey. I would be lying to myself if I said I wouldn't be mad if I had a child by someone who made millions and I only got 2700 a month. Call me whatever .....
@suebee:
Keyword: " I "... are you Allison ...yourself ? Or her best friend ?!
Trinity is Chris Bosh priority not the Allison
$2,700 per month is more than enough for Trinity. That's it.
As long as his daughter is taken care of that all that matters.
He already gave Allison $250,000.
...and she still have her hand out.
GREED. SELFISH.
For the third time, YES $2700 a mth is an adequate amount to raise a child on. I think we all get that. My saying that he should provide his daughter with the same lifestyle doesnt have anything yo do with being materialistic. My point is that HE obviously puts value on materialistic items and finds them to be of importance in his life. His new wife does too as evidenced by her clothes, the parties she throws etc etc. If HE (not me, get it?) values this type of lifestyle I would think that he'd value it for his children. Afterall isnt providing, what you deem, the best for your children most peoples main goal when raising them? So if he feels his wife and newborn are deserving of the best (again in material things) then why doesnt his daughter deserve the same? BC he chose to concieve her with someone he had no intention of marrying? BC his ex might be a gold digger?If his son is being raised in the lap of luxury and he can provide the same for his daughter (and her mother by default) and it wont even leave a dent in his pocket then I dont see why he wont do it. But its him who at the end of the day will have to explain why his son grew up with closets full if Gucci and she grew up with closets full of GAP. Yes both their closets might be full but *** the same. And for anyone who says thats materialistic, maybe it is, but thats how HE is living (not me) so its relevant to this particular situation
So 250K isn't enough and 2700 plus other espenses is not enough money?? Wow if she can't take care of her daughter maybe she should give up custody,, Chris tried to get custody before. Child support is not baby momma. Maybe if you get MARRIED BEFORE HAVING BABY MAYBE YOU WILL BE ENTITLED TO SPOUSAL SUPPORT LIKE THE LAW ALLOWS. He is doing what he is supposed to do. She need to step up her game.
@suebee: That's Chris Bosh, personal choice.
It's 2 different ***.
That's his Wife ... he is obligated to, whether he loves her or not.
Honestly, the lifestyle Chris Bosh lives .....does not & should reflect .....how Chris feels about Trinity.
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Maybe, Chris gave Allison a Inch....& Allison took a mile.
Ok, I see how it works: a dissenting opinion means I work for his ex. Alright then.
And why is everyone making this about his wife vs his baby mamma? My point is, if he wanted to he could HOOK HIS CHILD UP with a life that most people can only dream of. He chooses not to BC he doesnt want the woman he chose to concieve her with to benefit from it. Thats all it boils down to. Now his daughter gets to live that life while on visitation and then goes back to the average life with her mom. Im sure she's well fed, well clothed, safe and hopefully happy. We're not talking about the basics that the every day hard working parent provides for their child day to day or through child support. We're talking about the extras in life, the luxuries, the things most of us will never reach. His daughter will have less of that than her brother BC her mother is not the chosen one. I know i'd be resentful of mysuper RICH parent if my sibling got and got and got just bc he lived with my father. At the end of the day thats on him, Im not her laeyer and im not the judge so my opinion is just that. Now back to my regularly scheduled everyday average life...anyone got $2700 I can borrow? Lol
That letter sounds unprofessional with legally irrelevant statements. Chris Bosh is equally responsible for her being a baby mama and not a wife. With that said, she should have never done those videos or filed for food stamps. What kind of legal strategy was that? She should go back to court, and Chris Bosh should be ordered to pay more because he is *** and will not pay his child what she deserves on his own. Children are expensive and when you make babies with women who are not your wife, be prepared to pay for it. I feel sorry for their daughter. He is spiteful, cheap, and would rather make his child suffer than think that he is helping the mother if his child. She seems stupid.
" I know i'd be resentful of mysuper RICH parent if my sibling got and got and got just bc he lived with my father. "- @suebee
A parent teaches a child the values & importance in this world. For all this, Chris Bosh should file for full custody.
Trinity is loved by Chris Bosh and that's what matters.
If Allison Would just eat a slice of humble pie and stop being self centered & greedy.
$2,700 per month is luxury.( Trinity is the envy of the whole neighborhood )
$250,000 could have put marble floors & update an apartment to luxury.
Pay for an Education that will finance a luxurious lifestyle .
It's not where you live or how your living ... It's who your character & education...
We don't know all the sides to this story. On one hand; yes it is great that he's paying for medical, daycare, clothes, etc. for the child in addition to the $2,700. On the other hand who knows if he's wielding his power of having money and overrides the child's mother in decisions of what types of med plan, daycare, etc. He may be getting off cheaper as to paying for those things instead of whatever sum he would be paying per month for child support. Maybe that's why she's bitter. I did always think it was strange that she always tried to deny their daughter going to attend career changing games. And for the people complaining; their child was planned and they broke up while she was pregnant. Obviously someone didn't think enough of the other to not get married. Athlete, mogul, millionaire, thousandaire, whatever; at the end of the day there's a legal scale that everyone should have to adhere to without either side coercing the other to enter into agreements that step outside of the scale. I feel so badly for their child. It has to be bad enough that this is going on, but for it it to be so public...I hate when she grows up and reads about what happened as if experiencing it isn't enough.
@rp89 $2700 no where in this country is luxury, even if both parents are clearing that per mth it's not luxury. Maybe a decent life, a little above the average but not luxury by any means.
However, I do I agree with your statement "It's not where you live or how your living ... It's who your character & education." And I can only hope that if I was in the financial position he is in that I could raise my children to value what's really important in life. It gets annoying and frankly sickening at times reading about all the little teen pseudo-celebs with famous parents who are flaunting all of their expensive stuff on twitter and instagram as if they actually work for it. At the same time, kids learn more by their parents actions than their parents words. Chris Bosh obviously believes that the fancy and ridiculously expensive things are somewhat important or else why would he buy them? B/c he can? B/c he wants to? If you're walking around with ugly $3000 sneakers just b/c they have a label but then telling your kids money is not important in life do you think they're really going to get that message? I'm not saying he doesn't love his daughter, I'm sure he does. What I'm saying is I see this situation as an example of a child missing out on the luxuries of life (luxuries that HE has demonstrated are important in his life) all b/c he does not want the mother that he CHOSE for his daughter to reap any benefit from.
Listen, I get it I really do. There are many women out there who look to get knocked up by a Baller thinking it's a ticket to the high rollers life (hell, his wife probably did just that but was "smarter" about it), and I don't agree with that mentality. But as a multimillionaire you need to protect your assets if you don't want to share them with every Jenny, Mary or Allison. And by protect your assets I mean wrap it up or don't have *** with the woman period. As a millionaire you have more to lose, she has more to gain therefore it's on you to really make sure you don't get into a situation you don't want to be in. And if by chance that did happen and if I could AFFORD it you can bet yourself that I would offer to put my baby up in a mansion right next door to me so that at the end of the day she's living just as fancy as I am. If I could do that and still have baller money to spare then why not? I could care less if the baby mama, the baby aunt, the gardener, or the milkman is eating a little better b/c of it as long as my CHILD is living the same as I am. I seen time and time again people talk about "oh did you see her all decked out but her child is is dressed like a ***" well to me this is the same but on a whole other scale. yes the child may be safe, clothed, fed with a roof over her head but is she living the same life as her dad once she goes back to her moms, no. If you have and you can provide it then your child should have it too. And if you have it but dont want to provide it then dont have kids with people who never in their lifetime could bring in the type of money that you can. But clearly, not everyone sees it that way. So on this topic we will agree to disagree.
And for anyone saying "well then let the baby go live with him". So now we're saying that b/c he rich he is a better parent? Everyone knows the life of a basketball player involves a lot of travel and very little time to be home and raising the kids. This has been said many times even by the respectable basketball wives. So why would a judge give him custody so that his new wife could raise the kid. Please...
WHO EVER SAID BOSH IS AS RESPONSIBLE IS A *** FOOL. WOMEN NOT MEN HAVE BABIES. A MAN CANT MAKE U HAVE A ABORTION OR MAKE U CARRY HIS BABY 4 9MONTHS ,, SO HOW THE HELL IS IT ON HIM IF U KEEP IT AND HE DONT WANT IT. IF SHE HAD SOME SINCE HER BIG 4 HEADED AZZ WOULDA GOT THE RING FIRST.ALL YALL WOMEN WHO TALKING SH-IT ARE MOST LIKELY STUPID BABYMAMA'S . SO GOT SIT THE F-UCK DOWN KEEP YOUR LEGS AND GET THE RING FIRST. EVEN IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT AS A EX WIFE U HAVE LEGAL RIGHTS. DONT EVEN COMPARE A WIFE AND A BABYMAMA CUZ YALL HEFFAS ARE NOT ON MY LEVEL.
So I see how it works: If you agree he should pay more it means you're a gold digging baby mama *** ***? So by the same token all people on his side would be dead beat dads who don't or only provide for your children the minimum as ordered by the courts. Both statements are ridiculous. In reality, we're all on here discussing the life of millionaire strangers who's life we have no bearing on whatsoever...I think we're all in the same boat.
suebee **Listen, I get it I really do. There are many women out there who look to get knocked up by a Baller thinking it's a ticket to the high rollers life (hell, his wife probably did just that but was "smarter" about it), and I don't agree with that mentality. But as a multimillionaire you need to protect your assets if you don't want to share them with every Jenny, Mary or Allison.
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^^^YES^^^ Trust, I'm poor (soon to be rich) and the little bit I have I'm NOT sharing it with anyone beside my children and HUSBAND. These men need to WAKE THE HELL UP. You are a millionaire therefore you have s[SPAM]ooooooo much more to lose then the chick that is desperately trying to be your future baby mama. There is NO WAY in hell I'd be spreading my seed around like it was sand on the beach shore. Now Chris has two headaches - a baby mama and a wife and trust that midget wife of his does NOT love or want him. She loves his money but hey, he wants to have a cover for his *** lifestyle so maybe they have an arrangement.
Bottom line is Chris' baby mama is a hoodrat who needs to sit down somewhere. She played herself by being his BABY MAMA and NOT his wife. Get smarter black women and stop thinking you're special b/c you can have a nicca's baby. Any and every hood chic, low self esteem having, money hungry chick can do that BUT not every chick will be WIFE!
Obviously she wants more money. I dont care if Bosh plays ball or not...a child does not need $2700 a month for nothing. Ive never been in a court room where a room filled with single mothers were receiving that kind of money and they *** be. Its the mothers choice to buy all this expensive s*** for the kids. Food, clothing & *** are both parents responsibility...not just one. So what are her contributions since everybody expects Bosh to kick out that much on a monthly basis. Its called child support, not alimony support. She just wants to humiliate him. No matter how much money Bosh makes....if the child needed extra, I would provide it before I gave it to her a** too. Some things are so unnecessary but these are the kind of women ballers love. They want babies to trap your a** so they can keep digging in your pockets.
How in the hell is a man nit equally responsible for a child that he created. You are super stupid and clearly have no understanding of BIOLOGY let alone an understanding of responsibility, integrity or the most basi of morals. A man has no responsibiliy for his offspring...GTFOH. U ignorant classless women are as bad as these deadbeat dads. I have no kids, and I would be damned if I dated or married a piece of a man who feels no responsibility for children he fathered. I am single, childless, professional, and do my thing, without sharing too many details about my personal life. I want to get married and start a family one day, and I will. You say get on your level, even if I were a baby mama with multiple baby daddy's, I would still have to stoop down to get on you level. U sound like the *** fool...
@suebee I think your arguments have been weak and shows that you must be a scorned baby mama who has a dead beat baby daddy. Child support is really based off the fact that the mother is going to have to pay for Daycare and Medical expenses. This is why Judges hit Fathers over the head because they know the Mother is most likely going to be the one that has to pay for that. Chris Bosh agreed to pay for all of that. So just that alone decreases what she should get monthly. Now what is left is money for food and clothes. You're telling me 2700 a month is not enough for food and clothes? Child support does not include paying off baby mama's rent or mortgage. If she can't keep a roof over her child's head then maybe she should give up custody. Then you came with the silly argument that his child is going to resent him because he's living in a Mansion and he doesn't make sure that her Mother is living in one too. I'm pretty sure when his child's cognitive development improves she will be able to deduce that her Father lives a more lavish life because of something they teach you in Micro Economic, Economic Rent. He does something in life that makes it possible for him to make millions and the child's Mother just waits for a check and doesn't try to find a niche in life that can make her enjoy a better life. I guess having a child by a millionaire means you are set for life and become an extension of the child support. I respect women who say just do for our child and I don't want *** from you. I doubt you bashed his baby mama when she wasn't allowing his daughter to spend time with him. Last year this man had to get a court order for his daughter to go to his games. Then I read a comment that he *** be applauded for setting up a college fund for his daughter as if that *** is common. I doubt any of yall baby's father have a college fund set up for their child. This man should be applauded for taking care of his daughter and his daughter alone.
WHAT ELSE DO YOU EXPECT FROM THESE NEGROES. BECAUSE THEY'RE IN THE NBA DOESN'T MEAN THEY HAVE LOST THEIR UNEDUCATED HOOD WAYS.
HE CAN SHOVE THAT 2000 DOLLARS UP HIS FRUITY-LOOKING AZZ.
THAT GIRL WASN'T JUST SOME JUMP OFF HE PICK UP ON HOLLYWOOD BOULEVARD.
HE WAS WITH HER FOR A LONG TIME...THE FAMILIES KNEW EACH OTHER...THEY WERE IN LOVE...AS A MATTER OF FACT THEY ARE VIDEOS SHE POSTED WHEN THEY FOUND OUT OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT AND YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE THAT FRUITY-LOOKING *** WAS OVER THE MOON HAPPY ABOUT IT.
WHY NOW ALL THE HATE AND THE PR CAMPAIGNS TO DESTROY THAT WOMAN ?
YOU MAKE MILLIONS.
WHY THIS CHILD *** BENEFIT OF THE SAME STANDARDS OF LIVING THAN THE WIFE HE HAS WITH THAT NEW CHICK WHO'S BY THE WAY THE REAL JUMP-OFF.
THAT OTHER CHICK WAS THERE FROM THE BEGINING....THAT NEW HOE HERE GOT ON THE SCENE WHEN HE WAS ALREADY MAKING BEAUCOUP BUCKS.
YOU TELL ME WHO'S THE ONE WITH THE HIDDEN AGENDA.
ALLISON NEEDS TO GET HERSELF A REAL LA LAYWER AND MAKE THAT *** PAY. PERIOD.
MOTHERF*****R GOT A BEEF. AND IT SEEMS TO ME LIKE HE MAD AND BITTER ABOUT SOMETHING. EITHER WAY *** GOTTA PAY.
GET YOU A HOLLYWOOD SHARQ HONEY...AND LEAVE THOSE GHETTO ATTORNEY'S ALONE.
IF HALLY BERRY CAN PAY CLOSE TO 30 GRAND A MONTH TO A SUCCESSFUL MODEL AND ALREADY WELL-OFF MALE MODEL THE COURT SYSTEM CAN *** SURE AWARD YOUR CHILD MORE THAN THIS MEASLY 2 GRAND.
GET YOU A PR REP TOO.
BURY HIS AZZ.
tales of a failed and bitter gold digger. like previously mentioned, she grew up in a prominent family, so one would think she would have cultivated the art of garnering common sense rather than common cents...
and don't think we didn't catch that u and the other b* pull these stunts while the heat was in route to the championship, when media coverage was at its peak...
Some men do that Chris Bosh sh!t out of spite of the baby(s) mother but the child ends up suffering. A real man/woman will make sure that all his/her babies receive the same kind of life style. Not one kid on welfare and the other with a silver spoon.
*** Chris Bosh and any punk azz man who feels he right.
Kudos to Halle Berry for taking care of her biz and paying that white ninja $20.000 per month so her child can be given the same life style with Daddy as Halle affords her.
LMBAO @ some of these book long comments tho. Ninjas act like there comments have bearing on the people at hand. GTFOH. Even my comments don't matter, it's just an OPINION....
@ TrollSmasher: Can we just stick to the discussion (or end it, if you so choose) instead of insinuating that I'm a "Troll" or under some fake name. I'm guessing by your name that exposing Trolls is your schtick on here? I dont know. I'm a regular old person like you. I check this site every day and I never post here, in fact I opened my account today to comment. Why? b/c I felt like it. Probably the same as the day you decided to open your account whenever that was. What benefit would I have going around pretending to be 10 different people. I'm bored and have a little free time on my hands but not that bored and don't have that much time. I've been labeled a Troll, a *** ***, a gold digging baby mama, Allisons lackey, a mental midget etc etc b/c I don't agree with what you and some others say. I'm just on here like you and everyone else reading celebrity gossip and posting my opinion like you and everyone else!
Again, for what seems like the millionth time, $2700 is ADEQUATE to raise a child on, I know plenty of people who raise a child on less, way less. I NEVER said it wasn't, in fact I said in about each of my posts that is was. I'm sure his daughter is fine, not starving, not cold, loved and healthy. So if that's the main objective then it's all covered. My only point is that if he is living a certain way and CAN AFFORD for her to live the same way and still have MILLIONS left over I personally don't see why he wouldn't do that. That is all. Is he obligated to do that under the agreement he has now? NO. Is his child suffereing right now b/c he isn't? probably not. All I know is that If it was my kid and I was a multimillionaire I would still want my kid living in the same style I was (again, assuming that all that materialistic stuff is on my radar. Obviously it's on Chris Boshes). That is just me. Some people feel that they are satisfying their obligation by covering the basics, that's fine. I don't agree with that mentality when it's well within your means to give more. I believe it should be proportionate to ones income, particularly once we get out of the realm of the every day hard working person (be it a lawyer, construction worker, taxi driver) and into the realm of big/gross,huge money. Again, my opinion.
You stated "yea with that kind of money being dropped.....whats a poor child to do ***......they might actually have to stop eating at gourmet Che Maritz..and start eating grilled 50 dollar surf and turf entrees at Rays Steakhouse in ATL.......BLANK STARE...0_o" This comment actually speaks to my point in that while both options are probably ridiculous to the average person (including myself) why should Chris Bosh's son be eating at Che Martiz while his daughter is eating at Rays. That's all. Again, some see it as she has more than average and in that I agree. But I see it as his son is going to grow up one way and his daughter is going to grow up another. We're not talking about the average Joe who's getting raked for 30% of his income and cant even pay for his own apartment b/c he's spending so much on child support. We're talking about a man who is a multi-millionaire. I don't classify these two separate situations as the same. Again, my opinion.
I've stated several times I don't agree with women who actively seek out rich men in order to get pregnant and then collect a check. But those women are out there, no Baller is so stupid that they dont know about gold diggers. So they need to really take the responsibility to not knock these women up b/c in the end they have more (financially) to lose. Whether his ex is one of those woman I have no idea. From what Ive read from these comments they were in a long term relationship and planned to have the baby and then he left her. In either case, gold digger or not, I believe that once a baby is brought into the world the motive for having said baby is no longer relevant as far as the childs financial obligation to the child. It becomes a matter of the kids being provided for at the same level as the other children who live with the child support paying parent. You pay a percentage of your income. Plenty of courts across the US agree with me, imagine that!
@proverbial hater: by Minimum I mean paying what the courts or in this case the mediator have told him what needs to be paid. If you go to court and they tell you you need to pay 300 per week and you pay 300 per week that is considered the minimum payment and you have satisfied your court ordered obligation. If they order you to pay 300 and you pay 600 then you're paying above the 300 minimum. If you pay less then you open yourself up to a whole bunch of legal consequences. In this case Chris is paying the minimum, and in my opinion it's the BARE minimum when you look at how much he rakes in per year.
Again, Allison can go to school and get 10 BS, 3 MS, and 2 PhD but someone please tell me in what world she is going to bring in the same amount of money as CB? She won't. And of this fact he was well aware BEFORE he chose to knock her up and get her pregnant. And she was aware of that fact as well. I'm saying if you choose to give your sperm to a woman who will never have as much financially as you then to me you are saying "I'm willing to make up the difference to ensure that my child has everything that they would have if they were living with me". That is MY OPINION. You don't have to agree with it and my opinion has no bearing on on any of this in reality anyway. Neither does yours.
My previous suggestion or advice to Ms. Allison remains the same: Allow Bosh Spice to see his child, pray to God, pick up the pieces, and determinedly stride forward, Allison.
Also, due to my distaste for ***, I can't help but let Bosh's P.R. person know he/she used an incorrect pronoun. Instead of using he, try to remember to use the pronoun "him" to correct the following sentence: Mr. Bosh works tirelessly at his career as an NBA player in order to provide financial stability for he and his children (including Trinity), and lastly, try to remember to place the pronoun that refers to oneself last---can't stand so-called big people trying to step down on little people.
If she has no income to factor in then the judge obviously will have to go off his income alone... and his income once again is cause for more than $2700 monhly........ Like PrayerPartner1 said our opnions dont matter so dont get so hung up on what MzDavis is saying its just an opnion honey... And in my opnion he got it then pay more why one child living in a mansion the other in a condo/apartment......
He *** want his children to have anything less the best. He should want her to live in a life style compatible to his at all time. Sure her mom will also reap the benefits. He really *** care if her mom benefits it's only be for a little while. It's about the child. If she committed some type of criminal act, he should be the one to reveal it.She's his daughter mom. I'm sure the kid loves her mom. He going to regret any acts of selfish,pettiness' he committed against her. Hate on 50 but he a stand up dad in my book base on what I've read. If this true girlfriend need to get lawyer. Kelis, help the girl give her your attorneys number.
Lol...At these chicks talking about she needs more money. That's because u want to sit on your azz and go shopping when the kid is in school. You not fooling nobody lazy Mf's. More money equals no job for ur azz tricks. Take ur kid Chris. Once we break up i'm not supporting ur azz. Kid only and 2700 is enough.
@MzDavis85 There are also mitigating *** that the court also takes into consideration before ordering what the Father has to pay. I live in Florida and it's not solely based off income alone and that shows how much you are willing to lie to prove your weak argument. There is a reason why dudes go to court in Florida and show the Judges their receipts of the things that they pay for their child. Any girl in Florida will tell you that there is a way of reducing what you have to pay monthly. It's called proving that you actually contribute without the court ordering you to do so. Notice how the the Judge said Chris is doing stuff that he wasn't ordered to do or is not legally obligated to do. This is what you call mitigating ***. If you can prove to the Judge that you're paying all the costs for the child and you're helping the baby mama financially ala 250,000 given to the baby mama for no reason, this is something that will make a Judge say it doesn't make sense to order him to pay what someone who isn't helping at all to pay. Try actually knowing how the court system works before saying that is the law.
It doesn't matter how long they were together before the fact of the matter is it didn't work out. While he stupid *** is crying and not going to school bettering herself like becoming a doctor or something she's doing what far too many BW do and that's put too much of her confidence in her *** and vagina and not in her brain power.
Her *** worked for her one time, but don't expect it to work too many other times, in fact most BW talk that get a baller BS and never do. They just become older fat broads with plenty of prostitute dreams of trying to get rich lying on their backs go up in smoke.
@webstedd your correction was wrong and frankly did not make any sense. There was no grammatical error in what his lawyer wrote. The word He and Him can be interchangeable in that sentence. Both can be used. For you to claim that it's a grammatical error you would have to show how it's used incorrectly or how it makes no sense to use that word.
------ @PrayerPartner1: " Some men do that Chris Bosh sh!t out of spite of the baby(s) mother but the child ends up suffering. " ------
$2,700 per month is not suffering!!!!! Trinity is well taken care of.
The average child support is less than $200 per month
$250,000 in 2010... is what Bosh gave Allison. It's 2012.... Where did that money go?!
As long as a child is loved that's all that is matter. Bosh is doing better than most Father's.
Allison just wants to keep up with The Jones and retire on Bosh money & fame.
Chris Bosh should file for dull custody and Get rid of the Baby Mama Drama!
Allison is just bitter & lost site of the child.
2700 A MONTH = 675 A WEEK...
MONTHLY EXPENSES: 1) RENT $1000...now in THE BAY AREA you CANT find a nice studio for this amount 2) CAR NOTE & INSURANCE (IF PAYING THAT) $550.00 3) GAS $500.00 4) CABLE, INTERNET AND CELL PHONE $250.00 (YES THE NIKKA NEEDS TO PAY THE EX THE CELL PHONE TO STAY IN CONTACT WITH THEIR CHILD) 4) FOOD $500.00 5) LIFE AND MEDICAL INSURANCE $150.00
TOTAL::::: $$$$$2,801 AND THAT IS JUST THE BASICS...YES SHE NEEDS A JOB. EVEN IF SHE WAS BRINGING IN 2000.00 A MONTH HERSELF THAT WOULD HELP....
*** THIS MAN SPENDS THAT ALONE ON SHOES.....WHAT IS ANOTHER $1000.00 A MONTH TO CHRIS?
IT DON'T SURPRISE ME WHAT THESE NAPPY HEADED SKID MARKS DO!!!
IT'S ALL ABOUT GREED WITH THEM!! THEY ARE OUT TO GET PAID AND DRAG ANY MAN THAT IS WILLING TO GIVE THEM THE TIME OF DAY!!!
I AM SO GLAD BOSH, GOT SMART DUMPED THIS NAPPY HEAD AND GOT HIM A WOMAN OF ANOTHER RACE,HE KNEW HE SCREWED UP BY GOING THIS ROUTE!!
SHE'S A TRAMP AND LOSER JUST LIKE THE REST!!! YOU NEVER HEAR ABOUT BLACK WOMEN DOING POSITIVE ISH BECAUSE THEIR AIN'T A *** THING POSITIVE TO TALK ABOUT!!!!! BOTTOM OF THE BARREL ARE THE WOMEN OF THE BLACK RACE!!
I DON'T CLAIM THE BLACK RACE ANYMORE SO NO WORRIES ON ME!!
I CAN'T BLAIM THAT ......
MARTIN LUTHER KING JR AND MALCOLM X HAD WHITE QUEENS ON THEIR ARMS!!!
ALL UP IN YA!!
@blackbeautyanddiva:
CHILD SUPPORT.
It's called CHILD SUPPORT... Not FAMILY SUPPORT!!!!!!!
or BABY MOTHER SUPPORT. ---- $2,700 per month is for Trinity. Not Allison.
If Allison managed to spend $250,000 in 2 yrs then clearly she is not fit to take care of Trinity.
So, Bosh should file for full custody and give Trinity the lavish lifestyle ...Allison so desperately wants.
I'm a man ill say this that's a *** move on part Chris Bosh the man only has to pay 2700 a month as much as he makes. Only 2700. Granted he probably promise this woman the world to have his baby etc . He's learning from dwade. Slandering babys mother is not cool taking your children from there mother isn't ill be the first to admitt women have more of a bond with the children its to deep for a man to ubderstand I get with mine she carried these rug rats 9 months I get it I expect nothing less from the superstars who took paycuts too team up thansk a lot this trend is doing what a lot of people predict making basketball a few good teams and the rest the washinton nationals last year suck for the NBA they lost even more money in most locations franchise tag is coming thank lebron. Bosh and wade pay cut playing ***
AND STOP WITH THE NAME CALLING. IT IS NOT THAT *** SERIOUS! MAN . DATOUCH AND SOM E OF YALL POSTINGS HAVE THE TRAITS OF THIS CONVERSATION GONE WRONG BECAUSE YALL LET DISAGREEMENTS GET THE BEST OF YALLâ¦..HAPPY BIRTHDAY FANTASIA MONIQUE BARRINO!!!!!!!
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As a woman I'm siding with bosh. The ex should've bought a nice townhouse for about $100,000 that way she wouldn't have to worry about getting kicked out. On top of that money he gives her $2700 monthly, college fund, and pays all the expenses. If he only paid cs then he probably would pay about 20 a month and she would still say thats not enough. Some of you are too ignorant to do the math and see that he dishes out more than 2700 thats just all allison can touch. Parenting is a 50/50 job, so besides allison birthing her how does she support her? I'll wait...
@Cutthroat
The correct pronoun usage for that particular sentence is him. There is a such thing as nominative case pronouns: I, he, she, you, we, and they, and there is a such thing as objective case pronouns: you, him, her, us, and them. The nominative case pronouns are used as subjects as sentences, or individuals/things that are committing actions, and the objective case pronouns are used as things/individuals that receive the action or acted upon. Also, a simple rule to remember about objective pronouns is the fact that they normally follow prepositions--google rules concerning nominative and objective pronouns.
Now, it's your turn to explain to me how the pronoun "he" can be used in that sentence.
a woman has to be held accountable for herself as well as a child she helps bring into the world. these one sided arguments about what he is doing/he should be doing more, what is she doing to help support her child? what has she done to prevent having herself and child from being placed on public assistance? some people will do anything for anything for a free check...humiliate themselves, their families, etc. of course a man should take care of their child, but when is a woman entitled to an "easy" life b/c she spread for a ball player? y'all need to be teaching your daughters to be and do better. if she didn't expect things she wouldn't be in this predicament - and she's had all the opportunities in the world to not be in this predicament...
sn: she is taking assistance from those in real need in this is a ploy for more mo money, mo money, mo money...
@ trollsmasher: Just because someone doesn't agree with every portion of your argument doesnt mean they're being contrary. Arguing for the sake of arguing? isn't that what we're all doing here? None of what we say makes a difference in the actual matter at hand. We're stating our opinions that is all.
You can disagree with me all you want or like. But fact of the matter is in many states and cases the monthly child support sum is determined by calculating a percentage of the income of the paying parent. And particularly in cases of wealthy individuals, lifestyle of the more well off parent is also taken account in order to ensure the children are able to live in the same lifestyle when with both parents hence the reason we see these exorbitant child support orders on a lot of stars. Some states also have the support paying parent pay for medical costs, extracurricular activities etc in addition to that monthly child support. So in reality the laws many states actually agree with what I'm saying.
I'm not calling him a dead beat dad or a loser. I'm just perplexed as to why he wouldn't want his kid living the same life style he has. That is all. He and his current wife obviously place value on the finer luxuries of life. There are many millionaires who aren't flashy and live very humble lives. He's not one of them. So if Mr. Bosh himself values the finer things in life I just don't understand why he wouldn't want his daughter living the finer life as well.If I was in his position financially (which I'm not and never will be unless I hit the mega-millions lottery) I would want my kid living the life. That's just me. You feel differently
@webstedd All you did was copy and paste something you googled online. The English language is not an exact science to where sentences are based off of set of rules that you find online. Notice how in your definition it states," that they normally follow prepositions" meaning that there is an exception to that rule. The word "He" can always used as substitute for a male's name. Mind you that the lawyer wrote the sentence starting off using Bosh's name and later used the word He to signal that he's talking about Chris Bosh. Go look up the word "He" and it will say "He" can always be used to substitute a male's name. Those set of rules that you found do not apply to when someone's name has been mentioned in that sentence already. Case in point: Chris Bosh loves to fish for "him" enjoys it so much. Now if we go by the rule that you found online then this sentence would make sense because "him" followed a preposition. Now let's rewrite that sentence using "he". Chris Bosh loves to fish for he enjoys it so much. Now why does this sentence makes sense and not the one with "him" following a preposition. It's because the word "he" signals that we're talking about Chris Bosh.
@Hater: Sorry to say but you basically said exactly what I said in different words. My use of the word minimum as I explained above means that when you are court ordered to make a payment you must pay that amount AT MINIMUM or go to jail, or get your wages garnished, etc etc. paying the minimum means paying what you're court ordered to pay and nothing more. I'm not using a legal term. If the judge tells me I have to pay 300 per mth plus medical and extracurricular and I pay that. Then I am meeting my legal obligation and paying the minimum amount as required by court order. Again, your entire post said exactly what I'm saying but in different words.
Funny you mentioned the 17% b/c that is actually the starting figure used in my state as well (NY). By using the calculation you provided that was given to you by a judge as you said: How does $2700 equate to 17% of his last years salary? Didn't he make close to 16million? By that starting point alone he should be forking over almost 25k per month. Good thing you're not his lawyer or he'd actually be paying what he should be paying as required by the law in most states.
@hater Youre not really breaking I down for anyone, nice try though. What broad sweeping law is it you speak of? It doesnt exist. Child support payments are set based on a myriad of other factors, whether the father and mother are/ married is not one of them. A fathers signature on a birth certificate is hia agreementto provide for said child, not a marriage to the mother. In cases where no signature is present a paternity test is the other alternative. In every case, yes, the judge can use his or her discretion but these supposed laws you speak of are not bond. Off the top.of my head I can think of several celebrity cases where parents were never married yet the child support amount reflects the lifestyle of the richer parent. Yap all you want about "*** ***" and"broads", doesnt make your words any more true.
@hater , again for the last time. The laws surrounding child support are not cut and dry or black and white. Just bc a judge ruled one way for your cousin doesnt mean its the case for everyone. two quick examples that had kpposite ruling are Halle berry and Salama Hayeks husband a millionaire and a billionaire who had children out of wedlock both paying more per mth in child support than some make in a year.
@suebee: Halle Berry & Hayek ...Baby Daddy's Knew the law and played it in thier favor.
Every move they made was strategic .... so that's thier fault .
If Allison knew the law and even got married. She would be paid like all those other Baby Mothers , Baby Daddy's & Ex-Wives.
...an they say Allison Father is a lawyer. That's even sadder.
Chris Bosh needs to ask D.Wade how he did it.
& Deion Saunders has the best Pre-Nup ever. 50 Cent baby mother made herself look like a fool.
Now, Allison is embarrassing herself. Poor Trinity.
$2,700.00 per month in child support . And that $250,000G Bosh gave Allison ... Could have been invested in Allison education or a business and been a millionaire buy now.
But Allison spent $250,000G in 2 yrs... On God knows what and is crying for more because she wasted it... and don't want to work .
Like , the other uneducated " Basketball Wives" "Love & Hip Hop" , " Real Housewives " ... Ex Wives & Baby Mothers ... who only want fame & money.
Dispecable.
I don't understand why she feels like she should live high off the hog because she had a child by a man with money? First of all, why didn't she wait until they were married before getting pregnant? If he wanted a child that bad, he would of had to marry me. Point blank. And she's playing games, don't want to allow his daughter to see him play basketball in the Olympics... it appears to me that he takes good care of his daughter, but I don't understand why she don't get a job or enroll in school so she can take care of herself? I don't see how in 2 years, you can blow through 250 thousand dollars while you are working and getting 2700.00 a month in child support. It isn't child support. It is her support, and this is what is wrong with many women today. They don't want to work, they want to ride the coattails of a man... she needs to get her own money or find herself a husband.
@Cutthroat
First, and foremost, I did not copy and paste anything--I have a minor in English, so dig your foot out of your mouth again. Please stop while you are ahead, for you are showing your ignorance. If you go back and reread what I wrote, you will see that I explained that the objective pronoun is used when someone or something is receiving the action or when action is being done to it. As you said yourself, the objective pronoun is normally used after a preposition. Now, let's look at your example: Chris Bosh loves to fish for he enjoys it so much. Is someone in your sentence receiving the action or is the verb in your sentence acting on something? The answer is no, so in this case the pronoun "he" suffices, but in the example I spoke about, financial stability is being provided for people, so they are receiving something--the objective pronoun "him" should be used. Another trick you can use or perform to determine what pronoun should be used is to delete the words "including his children (including Trinity)," and read the sentence to the word he. If the sentence sounds okay with the word "he," then it is okay, but if it sounds "off," then delete "he," and insert the word himself, which actually sounds better. Let me share something else with you that people do that makes me with you cringe: They write incorrectly say or write, between you and I, when they should say or write, between you and me.
Face it, the lawyer or P.R. person used the wrong pronoun. We all make mistakes, so let's not continue to sweat this one.
I'm late on the thread and feel I need to comment as a product of child support. I lived with mommy and daddy paid child support. And I will say this:
CHRIS BOSH IS A CHEAP @SS FOOL
ANYONE WHO CAN AFFORD TO GIVE MORE TO THEIR OWN CHILD AND CHOOSES NOT TO IS AS SELFISH
MOTHERS HAVE BEEN DOING THIS FOR YEARS, GIVING MORE TO THEIR CHILDREN THAN THEY CAN AFFORD. FATHERS NEED TO STEP IT UP.
AND SO WHAT THAT SHE WASN'T HIS WIFE. HE CAME IN HER AS IF SHE WAS. THEY WERE BOTH DOINT ADULT ACTIVITIES WHICH RESULT IN ADULT RESPONSIBILTIES. A RING HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TWO CONSENTING ADULTS LAYING DOWN WITH NO PROTECTION.
CHRIS BOSH'S WIFE SHOULD BE DOWN FOR ALL CHILDREN TREATED EQUALLY.
CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE THE PRODUCT Of THEIR PARENTS' MISTAKE: RATHER, CHILDREN SHOULD HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO LIVE BETTER THAN BOTH PARENTS, IF ALLOWED.
THIS CHICK BORE HIS CHILD FOR 9 MONTHS (JUST LIKE HIS WIFE DID) AND HAS THE SCARS TO PROVE IT. SHE'S RAISING HIS CHILD. I WISH A ***@ WOULD ARGUE WITH A CHICK LIKE ME THAT our BABY DOESN'T DESERVE THE SAME THINGS THAT HIS OTHER BABY GETS JUST BECAUSE OF A "MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE".
THE SAME MEN ARGUING ON HERE, STATING THAT THE CHILDREN WHO ARE BRED FROM WIVES DESERVE MORE THAN THE CHILDREN WHO ARE NOT NEED TO KILL THEMSELVES.
MY PARENTS WERE MARRIED, THEREFORE I AM NOT SPEAKING FROM A PERSON OF EXPERIENCE............
I AM SPEAKING FROM A PERSON WITH A HEART.
Datouch......
You are a douche bag. Nappy headed *&% really??? only a scorn guy would say that. I guess your ex was black dumped your pencil *** ass for a real man and now all black women are Nappy headed ***. I am not against dating outside my race because I had bad experiences with black men but I wouldn't encourage anyone to stop dating within their race. *** yourself and it will be one less douche in the world.
@suebee... I get your point. but here is where your point fails, because the other guys (very smart i might add) failed to dumb it down enough. u state (roughly) that its not about what the court order that Bosh should pay as much as his $16m salary allows him and that the daughter should live a simliar lifestyle as the other kid does.
the smart guys seem to argue mostly that its not obligated for him to do so by law, and you argue that *** the law he's the father and shes the daughter and she should be living a similar lifestyle and the mother living it too is just a "suck it up" for Bosh.
but here's where all that ends... HE DID! THE $250K IS THAT KICKER. ITS THAT NOW YOU CAN LIVE A SIMILAR LIFE. thats $20k per month on top of the $2,700
the only thing that child prolly has access to that the out of wedlock child doesnt is an awesome home and awesome cars... WELL SHE HAS THAT WHEN SHE WITH BOSH AND WOULD HAVE HAD THAT ON THE REGULAR IF HER MOTHER DIDNT THROW AWAY THAT $250k.
I make $130k (before taxes) a year, and I have a $300k home and 2 $100k vehicles. I lease cars (they depreciate duh) and i finance my home (u dont have to buy a home outright). and I'm not living anywhere close to paycheck to paycheck (but I do budget my money very well, and invest well too). my point is that $250k would/should have done allot for bridging the gap of the 2 kids lifestyles.
ps. I have a child and his mother makes just over a quarter of what i make, and so far i dont have a court order child support. i have/see my son every day and put HALF on whatever he needs.
YOU KNOW JUST READING AT SOME OF THESE COMMENTS WHO THE NAPPY HEADED DEADBEATS ARE. GUESS THAT BOSH STORY HIT A RAW NERVE...
THESE *** DEADBEAT *** PROLLY GET FLASHBACKS FROM ALL THE BABY MOTHERS THEY IMPREGNATED AND WHO TOOK THEM THEM TO COURT.
MOST OF THESE DIRTY AZZ REJECTS OF NEGROES COMMENTING ON HERE...FULL OF HATE AND ANGER BECAUSE THE WHITE MAN PUBLICLY SPANKED THEM IN THE COURTROOM AND REMINDED THEM HOW WORTHLESS THEY WERE AS FATHERS...
ALL THAT ANGER....FOR PROLLY NO MORE THAN 10 DOLLARS A WEEK OF CHILD SUPPORT...CUZ YA KNOW *** *** NEGROES YA TOO DUM AND UNEDUCATED TO EARN A REAL LIVING LIKE THE REST OF THE MEN ON THIS PLANET...
99.99 OF YOUR REJECTS OF SOCIETY HAVE NO SKILLS...NO EDUCATION...STILL DRESS WITH YOUR PANTS DOWN TO YOUR KNEES...TALKING BOUT' YA RAPPERS....
HA HA HA ....WHAT A F**CKING JOKE....
DEADBEAT AZZ NEGROES....REJECTS OF MEN.
EVERY OTHER NATIONALITIES TREAT THEIR BABIES LIKE THE MOST PRECIOUS DIAMONDS...AND YA WORTHLESS AZZ *** B*TCHES FIGHT TOOTH AND NAILS TO NOT PAY THAT MEASLY 10 BUCKS A WEEK CHILD SUPPORT.
THAT'S WHY YA'LL AT THE BOTTOM OF THE TOTEM POLE OF MEN.
YA'LL THE LAUGHING STOCK OF AMERICA AND THE WORLD.
WON'T BUY DIAPERS FOR THEIR KIDS BUT WON'T MIND SPENDING MONEY ON BOTTLES OF PATRONS JUST TO TRICK AND IMPRESS CHICKENHEADS....
SAME CHICKENHEADS THEY WILL F*CK WITHOUT CONDOMS AND GET PREGNANT....
....AND ROUND AND ROUND AGAIN.....
DIRTY AZZ PARASITES.....
AND WHEN ONE OF THEM FINALLY MANAGE TO DO SOMETHING OUT OF THEMSELVES....B*TCHES WANT TO ACT LIKE THEY'RE BILL GATES AND HAVE THE MOTHERS OF THEIR GAZILLION OUT-OF-WEDLOCK KIDZ LIVING IN MANSIONS WITH BUTLERS AND DRIVING MASERATIS...
GIVE ME A F*CKING BREAK.
JOKE OF MEN.
I LOVE MY BLACK MEN...BUT I WOULDN'T TOUCH AN AFRICAN-AMERICAN *** BI*TCH DEADBEAT REJECT AZZ WITH A TEN FOOT POLE.
YA'LL THE GARBAGE OF AMERICA.
SHAME ON YA.
TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN. TAKE EXEMPLE OF THE OTHER RACES....DIRTY PILE OF DUNG
WHEN YOUR AZZ IS ON SKID ROW 20 YEARS FROM NOW BECAUSE YOU WERE TO LAZY TO EARN A LIVING.. YOUR KIDZ WILL BE THE ONES EXTENDING A HAND TO RESCUE YOUR WORTHLESS AZZ.
ALL THESE *** *** ON HERE....I SWEAR.
THAT HOE NEED A JOB.............CHILD SUPPORT IS FOR THE CHILD ...............YALL *** HOES ON HER TALKING ABOUT HE NEED TO PAY MORE ....THATS MORE THAN MOST OF YALL MONTHLY CHECK.PLUS READ THE PASSAGE HE PAY 2,700 (WHICH IS MORE THAN ENOUGH FOR A CHILDS MONTHLY EXPENSES)PLUS HE PAYS 100% FOR SCHOOLING,HEALTH INSURANCE,AND COLLEGE FUND......THAT HOE JUST MAD HE PAYS THAT *** INSTEAD OF BEING A DUCK AND GIVING HER 20K A MONTH AND LETTING HER DECIDE WHAT TO PAY AND WHAT NOT TO PAY .
SMART MAN!!!!!.....TEAM HEAT
@ trollsmasher: the laws on child support payments are not black and white, set in stone. The family court judge gathers different financial info from both parties and makes a ruling based on said information as well as hearing arguments from both sides. The judge then makes a decision using judicial discretion and some preset caculations. Hater hmself said a judge told him that the calculation upfront is 17% of ones income If that was the case CB would be paying close to 25k per mth. obviously its not set in atone or we wouldnt see complete different child support rulings cases with people of similar financial means. You lost me on the rest of your post
@mmaaron still not sure where my argument failed. Again, 2700k a month plus medical plus preschool plus a 250k lump sum it PLENTy of money to the average person. To CB its a drop in the bucket. That is my point. Hes not living comfortable like you might be hes living extravagantly. My one and only point in all of my long winded responses is: If he is living a lavish lifestyle I dont understamd why he would not want both of his children living the same way. Not bc hes obligated to provide it but bc as a parent why would he want his daughter to liveve any less than the way he lives.
Whoever wrote this statement needed someone to proofread it. What good lawyer would send this mess? A cease and desist for defamation would have better suited the situation, if she is indeed being untruthful. Also MTO, it is not fraud on Allison's part, unless she doesn't report the income to the federal gov for income tax purposes. As stated in this statement, she is allowed to apply for assistance. This guy makes millions/ year. He needs to pay more. All the other things mentioned probably add up to less than $4500/ month. If he doesn't want to buy her bags and shoes, then he should put them up in one of his properties and pay all of their basic living expenses. The whole get a job thing, burns me. Is that what he's saying to his wife. I'm not say that his ex *** have a job, but she obviously had a job that ended. If this is a tough time for her, then her baby daddy should be able to help her.
@cutthroat In your example, "for" was not used as a preposition. It was used as a conjunction (conjunctive adverb, to be exact) and could easily be replaced with the word "because". Also "he" and "him" are never interchangeable. It is never correct to say, "Him went to lunch," or "I'm here to see he."
Is the daughter's stomach full every ***...does she eat her fair fill whenever she's hungry...is her clothes clean...is her bed comfortable...does she have access to cool when she's hot and heat when she's cold...is her education top-notch...does she sleep well...is she able to get where ever she needs to be...is she safe...is she as healthy as humanely possible ?? If she's able to answer "yes" to all these questions then she's living as lavishly as anyone else who can answer all these questions "yes" is...point blank. Is there any guarantee that anything extra the baby momma receives is going to mostly contribute to how much more upscale the child's life appears ?? This isn't about the child. The only thing wrong with this situation is the fact that the baby momma is claiming she's broke...based on the facts, if this was solely about the well being of the child, there's no possible way that this can be true. Take the baby momma out of the equation and the child is well taken care of, probably with enough left over to take care of a child herself. Seems as if the worst action being committed in this situation is the baby momma using the child as a pawn for her own personal gain and there is where the problem lies...point blank!
@subee but apparently he does... he has been trying to get custody, because she wont let him see his daughter as the court ruled.
but let me mind u, we dont want this rich baller to end up like a vast majority of these ballers... BROKE. then who gets anything????
paying for 2 extravagant lifestyles can lead to financial problems in my opinion. but I understand your point. it just might be a drop in the bucket for him, but its def not a drop in a bucket for his child and she def could live like a princess off that money.
so question... what do you think he should be paying and/or doing?
I did a little digging... (hey, I'm bored on Sunday mornings) and i see that Bosh sends for his daughter frequently (in a chauffeured limo to boot) and that $250k (and that extravagant lifestyle) could have come again, but the mother mismanages the money. therefore why would any sane person continue to make those "drops in the bucket" if your child is already paid up, and the mother keeps dumping that money into the river (THEREFORE THE CHILD NEVER SEES/ENJOYS THAT MONEY).
ps. and the reason he only pays that little amount is because the CS order was done in Texas, and in Florida he would have been paying $15k-$20k
pss. be REAL... this child is 3-4 years old (my childs age). not only is his payments going to go up, but that child has no sense of what extravagant lifestyle is. I too hate fathers who don't go above and beyond for their children, but people want him to spend $20k a month for his 3 year old????? I bet he doesn't spend $20k a month on his child that lives with him.
@smaaron: personally I dont care what he pays, again as i've said im sure the baby is healthy safe and loved. All im saying is when an average hardworking man gets raked over the coals and has to struggle after paying large amounts of child support I dont understand why people are complaining when he pays like 0.001% of his income. Lucky him. If he can do more he should want t. From what I can tell he pays C. Loubiton more a mth than he does his own kid.
@hater: again, you basically said what ive been saying. Its not set in stone and the support order is based off a myriad of other factors with the 17% being a starting point. I already said that so on that fact we agree.
@hater I understand what subee is saying... she's not arguing if Bosh should/could be paying more, its that fact that that's one of his children and he lives an awesome life 24/7, and that MORALLY he should want his child to live that same exact life 24/7. now whether that child is living awesomely is something we will prolly never know. is that child prolly living better than most children??? uhmmm, YES. give me $250k, $2.7k p/month, health/dental, and plus college... I'D BE A MULTIMILLIONAIRE.
so lets end the argument about Bosh, and START the argument about this woman... I can't wait to find out where the hell that $250k went. it came from proceeds of a home he/they sold. ***, I got $10k last year and turned it into $25k in 4 months.
No wonder black people stay in family court disputing child support all of the time! Majority of you guys posting are uneducated on the subject. There is no magic number on how much it costs to care for a child. The amount of child support ordered depends on the income of both of the parents. I am not familiar with the laws of Florida, but it sounds like he is not paying a fair share of child support because of his yearly earnings.
Fellas, if you don't like paying child support, STOP HAVING *** CHILDREN! STOP DIVORCING YOUR WIVES! The government should be giving condoms and birth controls away by the millions to keep court dockets from being overrun and public assistance programs from being overextended.
@cheekaches, Nice try. First off I never said that the word he and him are always interchangeable. Show me where I wrote that they were always interchangeable. If you knew how to read you would have read that I wrote that they were interchangeable in the sentece that was mentioned because Chris Bosh's name was mentioned and the word he can be used to replace his name and therefore signal that we're talking about Chris Bosh. The reason why it still makes sense to use the word he is because Chris Bosh's name was mentioned in that sentence. That is English 101. The defintion of he is:the male person or animal being discussed or last mentioned. Go ask any English Professor would it be incorrect to use the word he in that sentence. BTW don't use an example showing how him and he aren't interchangeable when I already did that in one of my previous comments. Deductive reasoning from that alone would have told you that I know that they aren't always interchangeable but in that sentence it is correct to use the word he.
The points I got from this whole situation are: 1) Instead of welfare, why didn't she apply for unemployment? 2) If he is such a *** ass dad (according to the materialistic of society), why not take him back to court and get more child support. 3) What the *** are y'all buying for a 3 yo that totals more than $2700/mo. Don't forget child support is supposed to cover the child.
Look ladies, let me be the voice of reason,,, Chris gave this broad 250k TWO *** YEARS AGO,,,, WHERE IS THE *** MONEY????? He is giving her 2700 a month,,, so 2700 X 24= 64800.00 + 250K = 314,800.00 in 2 *** years and she wants more,,, Naw hoe, where is the loot that was supposed to be for the kid. Some of y'all broads lost y'all ***' minds wanting him to pay more,,, She needs to show how she spent the Child Support. SMH,,,this chick need to get a job or work on her dik suckin skillz or something cuz this right here is some ***
@cutthroat First off, I never said that you said that "he" and "him" are always interchangeable. I stated that they are NEVER interchangeable. There is never a time when they can be switched and used correctly. NEVER. You're almost right in the sense that the definition of "he" is English 101. I differ to say that the knowing the definition of he is below basic. My five year old knows the definition of "he." The problem that we're having is that this isn't English 101, legal *** should contain the highest calibre of grammar. In this example it's clear that the reflexive pronoun should be used. So "he" is the incorrect choice. "Him" is imprecise. "Himself" is the correct form of "he" to use in this case. Two people have tried to show you. Keep taking low *** and having below basic understanding of English language usage, if you desire. I think you're the one who needs to consult the English professor.
@cheekaches No disrespect but I doubt your son knows the definition of that. The definition clearly says that He can be used to replace a male's name when that name has been mentioned in that sentence therefore making it grammatically correct to use the word He. You say they can never be interchangeable but offer no evidence to prove that claim. It's funny how you say this is incorrect yet I can find several articles where this is being used. Case in point:The way the LeBron James-esque drama played out, you half expected the Justin Schultz media conference to consist of he, Taylor Hall, Jordan Eberle, Ryan Nugent-Hopkins and Nail Yakupov on stage at an Oilers pep rally predicting the number of championships ahead. Never mind the fact that I can find several articles by renowned writers that use He to reference that their talking about the aforementioned male in that sentence or paragraph. I won't tackle that subject because I'm going to assume that you're a Pulitzer prize winning writer that is a master of the English language. I'm going to tackle the nonsense that you spewed that He and Him are NEVER interchangeable. He and his friends went to the store. Him and his friends went to the store. She and Her can also be interchangeable. Go look up whether or not they can be interchangeable. This is sheâ vs. âThis is herâ, This is she and This is her are both grammatically correct. The verb âto beâ acts as a linking verb, equating subject and object. So this is she and she is this; âsheâ and âthisâ are one and the same, interchangeable, and to be truly interchangeable they must both play the same grammatical roleâthat of the subject. This is from English.com. I'm not taking low ***, I just find your assertion that He and Him are never interchangeable to be foolish and inaccurate. In this world you have to back up claims with facts from reliable sources.
