@NYCblackMAN...I agree wid ya my brotha. We need the fathers to be present in our childrens lives, not the *** visits father, I mean the father that stays and help raise his children. I wouldn't know how to properly raise my sons and daughter without my husband. There are things that my husband does for our children that I cannot hold a light to. He is very well needed and bcuz he is here...I feel my children are well rounded and therefore will help them in the future. I hate chicks that say I can do all by myself, I don't need a man...well, u needed the man to get the child in the first place, so it should give those broads the slightest indication that hey, the children STILL need the man, their father in their lives...wake up sistas, get men that will stick around so you can help raise our youths into little gods and goddesses, not pimped out *** and low life bums. And tattoos are soooo freaking ugly, not attractive at all!!!