@ KungfuJoe yes they are weak and controlled by the powers that be.
JOE JACKSON was a good father... because he provided for his family. He not only skeeted and made dem babies but he took care of dem babies. He didn't leave Kate; he stuck with them. He took care of them. He dressed them. Plus, he groomed them for show business industry and ushered them to ***â¦ the American Dream.
KATHERINE JACKSON was a weak mother. She was lovingâ¦ depending on what you call love. Too much sugar will rot your teeth; thus, you canât be that sweet all the time in raising children. The children will favor you, but they will also walk over you. Spoiled rotten.
She never could control her children. According to that film about the Jacksons' American Dream, those children were off the chain whenever Joe was not around. Example: those girls were so sassy the way they talked back to their mother. They had some flip mouths on them. Another example: when they moved into the big house in California they were jumping all over the beds... my grandmother would've torn my azz up for jumping on a bed. The children never respected her as a mother, because she never disciplined them. [How in the helll is she going to discipline her grandchildren when she never disciplined her own?]
MICHAEL JACKSON was apparently very hurt and abused by his upbringingâ¦ by a lot of teasing from his siblings. Not that he was a saint, because his father should've whooped his azz whenever he got sassy, which he did. But aside from that, he was deeply hurt by his siblings and the whole family. Example: when Jermaine married that Gordy girl and turned his back on the group at the highest point of their career, Michael begged him not to turn his back on the group... but no, Jermaine was with the big Berry Gordy and f*ck what Michael and the group wanted. [I suppose that thatâs when that recruited Randy to join the group to fill Jermaineâs spot.]
*** was reached by Michael by the early '80s and he had outgrown his family as a professional entertainer. Heâd worked very, very hard on his act, his style. Entertaining was his thing. Much of it seemed to have been inspired one way or the other by his struggles with the family. It is very understandable considering all the hell he suffered from their teasing and name calling. I imagine when it got to the '90s it was rather stressful and confusing even... such works as the Bad album bespoke his emotional condition.
THE LAST WILL AND TESTAMENT was drawn up to exclude these very people who brought him the most pain in life. Sure the entertainment business causes a lot of stress... for anyone. But the type of hurt that the family causes is what hurts more. He shows this by the design of his last will and testament. He was always a hurting man. He went out and developed his own family and his own support system: Prince Michael, Paris, and Prince Michael II. And when he expired he willed everything to them and not his blood family for a significant reason. It's simple.
And a MAN'S FOES SHALL BE THEY OF HIS OWN HOUSEHOLD. [St. Matthew 10:36]
Michael Jackson tried to give his mother the world, but she dropped the ball. She was too weak to stand on her inheritance and enjoy the position as a queen beneficiary wearing pearls every day. She looks beautiful. But she has no backbone. She allows her poorly-raised children to sway her. She also allows her grandchildren to grow out of control, based on her weak personality. Face it, she's an unfit parent... just look at her own children's behavior. This does not mean that sheâs not a good person; it just means that sheâs not effective as a parent.
With all due respect, I adore the Jackson Five and I adore Katherine Jackson's beauty and poise; but as a guardian she dropped the ball by allowing herself to be swept away by some crooked azz offspring and not touching bases with her dependents [Michaelâs children]. The ones that she is paid handsomely to touch bases with.
With such an inheritance as she is left, she should only meet those offspring of hers at the Olive Garden once or twice a month. Somewhere away from her home. With a guardian allowance so big as hers those grandchildren should not have to live in a HOTEL [the estate with all the extended family members] with all of those baby mama's children and so forth.
Her domain sounds like it was out of control... because of her own mismanagement. Upon receipt of that inheritance the first thing she could've done was enroll in a child psychology or child rearing class. She could've also enrolled Michael's children in a military academy so they could learn some discipline... since she can't seem to discipline children too well. [I'll stop]
It gets emotional for many of us because we loved the Jacksons music... and to see people that you admire f*ck up so major in the public's eye is so disheartening. I know none of us are perfect but cotdamm.
Michael Jackson's children are better off with a guardian unrelated. Trent, a.***.a. T.J. may be a good sitter, but should not be guardian. The children need STRUCTURE.
I hope I have not offended anyone, because I love the Jacksonâs music as much as anybody. Amen.