@ The Proverbial Hater -Co-sign my dear.
Better to read comments where no one is surprised at this. Even as a mutt, I know for a fact that racism is as virulent through out America forever and there ain't no change coming soon. It is what it is. I always remember reading what Skinner said that the more a white person claims to be a bible believing Christian the more likely they are to be distant from black folks. If any black folks believe white Christian who said they love Jesus will act differently towards them than those who don’t need a darn wake up call because these churches today are the most segregated institution there is – Racism and Religion... like partners in crime, lol.
@zoup
I agree about blks pushing themselves on whites. This couple sort out looking for a predominately white church, they atleast could have joined If they really wanted to marry there. Far as a lawsuit against this all white church in the good old south; Yeah right! It will be stopped before it start. Baptist churches has boards in place whereas they pick and choose who will be pastors. They can vote them out.
@phater
This isn't Africa, If ppl don't like the laws move to Africa where they can sign an agreement between the 2. Over here if they choose to do that, when it comes time to add your spouse to job benefits, taxes etc. Don't complaint when you'll not allowed. And you know there's going to be complaining.
There's some benefits when signing those papers. If men feel the states will be unreasonable in his marriage; Hell grow some *** and sign a pre nuptial agreement. Don't know what state you live in, most states charge 20 for a licence and 25 for divorce. ppl choose to hire attorneys. Those *** are your crooks.non contested divorce can be done for 100 bucks.
My oppion; that mutual agreement is a way for some sorry *** guys to sleep with whomever, walk out on women and kids etc. In other words not be held accountable...
Southern white christian, more oft than not, equals closet racist. The pastor is full of it. If he truly was against the congregation not wanting black marriages at the church, he would have performed the ceremony there regardless. The couple is stupid for still allowing him to officiate the wedding. That is Mississippi. I am sure there are thousands of 'black' churches to chose from. *** be like that but it is. We are always trying to integrate.........
Phater
You didn't answer anything. I fully comprehend and see though your anti pro black ***!t. What you can't do; want to be smart ***, is come on here thinking you making me look stupid like yourself.
You say keep it private like the Indians & "The white Men ". News flash ***, Indians don't just have reservations, they're considered sovereign nations. They have their own governments and laws that monitor/judges their ppl, from marriage, paying taxes even their own banking institutions. Not that big of a difference.
"The Quakers did it" pre nuptial agreement is private with no courts or government. Again ***! The pre nup is notarized for what? The courts just in case. NOT PRIVATE!
Far as blk men whom I love and proud to be 1 of the great 1s. I've seen over the years the blk male leave families and whip blk women *** for years. Look in our community today it's an 87% divorce rate. Now you answered your own question Stupid! Whites don't splits. Now you talking about keeping it private. Why so alot of these renegade acting *** blk men don't be held accountable. Who's going to make them honor the mutual contract? The women, See you can sell that proverbial ***!t to dummies, not me.
See while you on this computer talking a bunch of nonsense or watching porn spanking your little salami, My company, nonprofit, wife and myself are in the community helping alot of single moms. And I see this every *** day. Now you want a bunch of abused battered women young and old (generations) to keep this private. I don't have a problem with a dreamer, but stupidity don't set with me. And your views are mostly stupid. For the record you didn't say go to Africa, yet you keep implying what the ancestors did and you have such a big issue with the laws, well Hell you and your cosigners need to move y'all happy *** to Africa and pickup some of the old roots.
Shake your head to that!! Man If blks were to follow your path we would be in an even worst position/state in life. And you say I'm brainwashed gfoh! Why? Cause I learn how to survive in the jungle. And not keep talking that old field negro BS. See you stuck in the slavery days and looking for reparations. While don't ask for *** I earn mine. Dude my time is money, and your cheap talking *** can't afford my time. Get a *** life..