: MediaTakeOut.com just learned that Usher was given Full Custody of his two children with ex, Tameka Foster Raymond. The two have been in the midst of a bitter child custody legal battle.
But it is a very CURIOUS decision, given that Tameka was not found to be an unfit mother. And courts usually give MOTHERS full custody, unless they are PROVEN to be unfit.
But a scandal might be brewing. MediaTakeOut.com EXCLUSIVELY learned that Usher's lawyer, John Mayoue, worked on the judge Bensonetta Tipton Lane's election campaign. In fact, he was the treasurer.
Here is what Tameka had to say about the proceeding, last week. Before the decision was announced.
To begin, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to the countless number of people who opened their hearts, extended their prayers, well-wishes and remained hopeful for my son Kile during the last weeks of his life. I truly believe that he has always been an Angel from birth and the World was just too small to contain a spirit so vast. I’m thankful and blessed to merely be the vessel that carried him and humbled that God gave him to us to love. I also feel humbled by everyone’s show of concern, and knowing that Kile Glover touched the lives of so many has given me strength during my worst & darkest hour … Again I THANK YOU ALL!
Sadly, I remain in the unfortunate position of having to respond to and attend court proceedings that were not initiated or begun by me. I did not file this custody case (January 2011) and was content with the ‘joint custody’ arrangement that we share. Most importantly, nor do I wish to appear in court while I am mourning the loss of my son. But I do not want to delay thus prolong these proceedings either; I’d rather continue this arduous process hoping it will help move me through this most difficult period in my life.
People seem to be privy to only my filed responses as ‘Defendant’ to the initiation of this case (Jan 4, 2011), when I have only been defending myself and protecting the best interests of my children through my counsel. I cannot control how the media reports are written/slanted/spun or even how court documents may be manipulated in their attribution of certain statements as if they are direct “quotes” from me- yet I can control what I actually say myself.
This may sound really cliché but you must NOT believe everything you read or hear and never judge… especially without solid facts and always, but always consider the source. Discernment is key. My boys are my entire world and I will fight tooth and nail to keep all of my sons together as a family, I pray for a swift, peaceful resolution so that we all can move forward.
Again, thank you for your concern, positive energy and hope for my family during this surreal time. There have been times when just the right words, at the right time, have provided me shelter through this storm and I appreciate you all. Please continue to keep us in your prayers.
With Love & Light,
Tameka Foster Raymond
not trynna be mean but the judge honestly need to look at the fact that when her son got hurt she wasnt even in the same city as him whats the poibt of havibg full custody if ur just gonna hire somebody else to watch them when ur out of town when they could be with their daddy for free, and she needed usher plane's to even reach him. u got a man that wants to be in his son life and she trynna take it away smh her stingy *** want that check and he agreed to give her more time with the kids but not full custody. smh.
I am sorry for her loss , unfortunately since the courts are involved in her custody issues she has to stay strong for the two babies with Usher. Obviously Usher had good reason to want full custody and in Ushers heart he probably feels like he must proceed with this case to get his babies. We do not know why the *** are the way they are but as a father I am sure he has his reasons. As a parent he is entitled to file for full custody it is his right. I am sure he is sad Kile died however the show must go on in his mind he is not letting that stop him fron getting custody of HIS boys.
The truth will all come out in the end... Of course everyone will say she is a low down dirty bat... But Usher has been lying point blank in everyone's face as well a out his current girlfriend. I mean seriously.. Her kids are putting family pictures on instagram...lol I'm a huge usher fan but I am a mother first... Either he could be really stingy and try to stake sole custody to be mean or bitter or what ever or maybe she wants the kids kids for. Check.... But I really wouldn't be surprised if they truly just wanted the best for the children but the MEDIA has convinced them they are both evil ppl... Or maybe they know each other too well... We may never know but it's no ones place to name call cause yu know these people none... No matter how many articles Yu read!
@taih588 not well said first parents are not going to be around their kids 24/7 and I thought that her son was w/ family friends when the accident happened? Usher initiated the custody battle and why would he want full custody of his kids when he is always on the road and promoting his music. Where do u think these kids will be when he is doing that? I think the reason he wants custody is bc he doesn't want to pay her child support. They had joint custody before and she was fine with that so what was the problem? I wish she didn't write this bc so many ppl are against anyways but sometimes when you feel like ppl are not hearing or getting the truth you want to protest it so everyone knows.your side of the truth.
Like Pebbles who also brought her Bay Area baggage/past to complicate the life of a successful man (L.A. Reid), Tameka had a child out of wedlock as a teenager, had a rap *** for crimes and was pregnant before she got married to Glover and Usher. She is a master manipulator and must be hellified in bed. With all the fresh women around, she did pull at least two men in the ATL who could have done much better than this tired ho.The fact that she flipped the script so easily from the tragedy of her child's death to attacking Usher says a lot about who she is. Why did she get in his plane? And yes, he was at the funeral and kept a low profile to respect the bio dad and family. I do hope for the best for all of them. They will need divine intervention to get all of this worked out without ruining the children's lives in the process.
Nobody cares about your custody battle! Trying to stay relevant. Why do people always want to play the victim? As if they are never guilty of any wrongdoing. Even if Usher filed for full custody maybe it's because he doesn't want to deal with her and all the BS that she claims she is not partaking. Stop it already and keep your business out the streets. Why confirm or deny. Let people speculate and let the rumors die.
@Just Thinkin: "Tameka had a child out of wedlock as a teenager, had a rap *** for crimes and was pregnant before she got married to Glover and Usher " <<<<<<<--------------- PREACH!!!!!
Tameka just wants CHILD SUPPOT checks.
How your son just died and you talking about Usher? she should be mourning.
..she should leave the boys alone. and want them to be happy.
Tameka you just buried your son, why in the hell are you even on this site? This *** is just evil. So, she don't have a problen with the person that killed her son and injuryed the little girl. How much child support did she get from her first exhusband? Did he pay for her Saks Fifth Avenue Card? This is just so disgracefull, and disrespectfull to your son. Is she even greaving the death or just worried about Usher's life. Tameka, I hope you read all of these comments. You almost died a year or two ago, and your kids could've been left motherless. Now you just lost your son. The ole saying is, God just do not like ugly. She better be carefull of her actions. I'm sure she's getting thousands of dollars a month for two kids and still not satisfied. I guess Usher's mother was right after all, the *** is evil. She should be asking the person that killed her son why was he so reckless. Close your eyes to dollar signs and bitterness. Move on with your life, you will be 50 old years soon, and still stressing out about Usher and his life. Move on, and *** the hell up.
TAMEKA MARRIED USHER CAUSE SHE WAS ACTUALLY IN LOVE WITH HIM. HE SHOULDA COVERED HIS WANKA (WILLY/D**K) INSTEAD OF PUMPING 2 BABIES OUT OF HER. HIS MOTHER IS TO BLAME FOR THEIR BREAK-UP...... SHE DIDN'T WANT HER SON WITH NO DARK-SKIN CHICK & SHE DIDN'T LIKE THAT TAMEKA ALREADY HAD CHILDREN.
TAMEKA APPEARS TO BE A GREAT MOTHER. PPL WHO LIVE IN GEORGIA KNOW THAT THAT LAKE ALWAYS HAS TERRIBLE ACCIDENTS UNFORTUNATELY. A DEAR CLOSE FRIEND OF MINE LOST THEIR SON SEVERAL YRS AGO THERE TOO & HE IS STILL GRIEVING.
USHER JUST WANTS TO PLAY MR. MOM & MAKE SOME PUBLIC STATEMENT TO HIS FATHER WHO ABANDONED HIM MANY YEARS AGO & PROVE THAT HE IS NOT GONNA HURT HIS KIDS THE WAY HIS DAD HURT HIM........ & HE'S PROBABLY STILL DEALING WITH THOSE ABANDONMENT ISSUES EVERYDAY. HE NEEDS TO SETTLE FOR JOINT CUSTODY. HE'S FIGHTING TAMEKA FOR 2 OR 5 MILLION DOLLARS???? WHEN HE'S GONNA MAKE THAT BACK IN 2 MONTHS?! C'MON.
[[ @taih588:" ..... u got a man that wants to be in his son life and she trynna take it away smh her stingy *** want that check and he agreed to give her more time with the kids but not full custody.... " ]] <<<<<<---------------- TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!
Tameka would just give him full custody ...if she was mouring.
an try at a later date.
BUT TAMEKA WANTS FAME & MONEY.
That's why she STILL HAS USHER LAST NAME
& dragging usher to court.
everybody wants to be TOYA CARTER....W/ LIL'WAYNE MONEY.
How can Usher file a motion for Full custody when he always touring & performing? He's become overly concerned about alimony & child support but it was all good in the beginning? No prenup? Sometimes a bed is made & you have to lay in it. She is a good Mother of 5, why try to take away 2 of her children to avoid support? Usher you should have listened to your Momma in the 1st place!
This is truly a hateful, bitter, evil black woman. The moment Usher found out her son was brain dead he went to his lawyers to work out a compromise, giving Tameka primary custody, trying to end this battle, she said no, see you in court. I believe she was planning to use the death of her so (she didnât care about) to get sympathy for the courts. All this ugly, old evil witch care about is money and her 15 minutes of fame, not any of those children, she only see them as pay checks. This B*tch is heartless and soulless. If there were no reporter or cameras would she have even been at her childâs funeral?
I can't take her. I really TRIED to give her the benefit of the doubt but I'd be on 24/7 psychiatric watch if I'd just buried my baby in a padded freakin cell but she is on twitter and giving interviews like the skank, cold hearted callus woman she is. Her "boys" are her world--- yeah the BOYS she pushed out for USHER RAYMOND b/c she *** sure didn't give a *** about the BOYS she pushed out with her first husband. In fact she ABANDONED them and chased after the R&B dik making sure to hurry up and get pregnant so she'd have at least an 18 year meal ticket. I know Usher is beating himself up EVERY freakin day for EVER giving this "woman" the time of day. She is a bish and pure EVIL. I hope all of her evil ways continue to backfire on her.
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flag as inappropriate/spam I am sorry that she has lost her child. I just wish we could have heard more about her son in these paragraphs instead of it going back to Usher. Usher needs to have a heart too.
***************************************************** Usher has a heart. He had a private plane take her to her dying son's bedside. He also asked the judge to delay the hearing but TAMEKA insist on going to court even though she just buried her son. She's showing everyone she didn't give a *** about Kile. She doesn't deserve to be a mother. Typical hood rat weaved up good for nothing but being on her back bish.
Tameka, has always had inferiority complex about being too dark. She seems to hate her skin colour, and tries to blame every disappointment in her life on her dark skin colour. She is a gold digger who committed adultery to get her hooks into Usher.Now that she is so busy BLEACHING HER SKIN, she will find out that turning herself white will not fool people about her being a bitter gold digger
Why does everyone keep saying she wants a check, no dumb *** she wants her sons. If he has full custody the boys won't be with her so thats 3 son s gone. Don't y'all get it, now y'all back to bashin her while she's still grieving, y'all are ignorant dummies who don't deserve technology so y'all can spread for ignorance for all to see. If u *** can read she said she'll fight for her boys to stay together. Who gives a *** about a check right now.
I DONT BLAME USHER FOR TRYING TO GET CUSTODY OF HIS TWO BEAUTIFUL YOUNG BOYS!!!!TAMEKA IS STILL BITTER ABOUT THE DIVORCE AND JUST BECUZ SHE LOST HER SON R.I.P NO TELLING WHAT SHE MIGHT DO TO THEM BOYZ JUST TO TRY TO GET BACK AT USHER!!!GOD DONT LIKE UGLY!!!!!SHE NEEDS TO STOP ALL THIS *** DRAMA AND FOCUS ON HERSELF!!! MOVE ON B!TCH!!!!
@sanityplease: ***. Some of y'all are HEATED. 'Bout to break blood vessels over people who don't give a sh*t about you. Hilarious ---------
Oh yeah? Well if she doesn't give a sh*t, why the fu*k is she making public statements to strangers to not judge her/believe her, etc. She cares a whole *** lot, lol!
@atl69girl i totally agree with u. also ppl are so quick to talk *** bout this woman and its pathetic! usher is always on the road and how could he have the kids full time with his lifestyle. i believe tameka is a good mother *** not just being some gold diggin bytch like u all make her out to be. alot of these comments are so cruel to a woman still grieving the loss of her baby! smh i hope she gets what she deserves. btw i am an usher fan so its not like i'm just hatin on usher, but he seems like an a$$hole with all this..
I'm torn about this because I am a mother. But I do remember usher's mom not liking her and not going to the wedding. I also recall him firing his own mother because he wanted to show his love and loyalty to tameeka. I did read that he chartered a plane for her immediately after hearing of the accident, he didn't have to do that. She complained he only visited kile once. He didn't have to visit @ all and maybe he was respecting kile's father. He did try to end the case while she was in the hospital with her child and he even offered a little more in child support and from her son's bedside she declined. And after the funeral he did ask the judge for more time to allow her to heal she's screaming NO. So just know I'm no usher fan I never liked him but can tolerate some of his love songs lol but he seemed to be a very caring, compassionate person in this situation. And he didn't have to be, this situation could have been turned around and used to his advantage to make tameeka look VERY unfit as a mother. I don't have a side to choose because when I see pics of her son my heart hurts and I want to cry so I hope she feels/felt the same way. But as much as I don't care for usher it still seems like he was extending a hand to her while she was on all fours seething @ the mouth. RIP little cutie kile.
CAN PEOPLE PLEASE REFRAIN FROM SAYING ********* IT REALLY IS UNCALLED FOR , ON TO THE MATTER OF TAMEKA SHE REALLY SHOULD TAKE ALL THIS *** BEHIND CLOSED DOORS, BECAUSE NEITHER SHE OR USHER ARE GOING TO COME OUT OF THIS LOOKING GOOD.THEY BOTH LOOK STUPID AND SHOULD SETTLE WHATEVER DIFFERANCES THEY HAVE OUT OF THE PUBLIC EYE , FOR THE SAKE OF THE TWO CHILDREN THEY HAVE, RIP KILE XXX
Ok once again I gotta be the voice of reason, Look Tameka and Usher are basically having a rich verison of baby momma / baby daddy drama,,, Usher hasn't had to check in with anyone ever, now Tameka was asking him to check in with her when he leaves the state with their children, Usher is like, look woman these are my kids and I will take them where ever I want. Now if he were taking them to another surburb or driving to a close city I would sorta agree, but they stay in Georgia but are flying to California or NY,,, That is too far to not know where their children are. The other stuff like his new girlfriend is just B.S. drama. Look Tameka knew where her other son was and he still got hurt. Usher is going to have to bite the *** and play check in. Both parents need to stop this drama stuff cuz it is getting old. Usher get co-custody with yo ex-wife, check in when you about to leave the state with your kids and don't bring yo girlfriend to your ex-wife's house. Yeah Usher I know you wanted to show her that your girlfriend is badder than her, but is it worth the drama,, You should just let her imagination go wild when you say stuff like man I am tired or I'm going on vacay for a week and she knows you about kick it with new girlfriend. She will be *** off but in her home by herself,,,
@melnel...Omg u said it best. Wtf is wrong with these ppl especially these groupie rats who call themselves women taking up for Usher??? I swear women can be so weak for men. Usher should NOT seek full custody unless Tameka is unfit. To be unfit, she would have to abuse drugs or be abusive or neglectful to their sons. Usher woke up one morning & decided that it was ok to leave his wife & children (who he pretends to luv so much) cuz (according to his interviews) he wanted his swagg back. Usher does NOT need any custody to see his children. That's what court ordered visitation is for. Tameka is NOT the culprit. It's so obvious that Usher wants ALL the benefits of being a father without taking ALL the responsibility. His mom & every other THIRSTY broad in the USA made Usher think that he is above God. Tameka should not lose her kids so that Usher can "play" dad after HE LEFT THEM. U silly broads flappn yo jaws cuz Tameka wants money DUUUUUH He should pay her. She has his kids!!!! They cant eat for free...smh...these silly hoes...i just cant wit them...smh...shame on u...defending Usher just cuz he's "sexy"...shallow rats!
And then ppl have the b@llz to say the girl should grieve a certain way, that she should delay the hearing for her sons to sit around and cry all day over the loss of another son. Who are u to tell her how to grieve? She cant stop being mom to her other children cuz she lost one. And Usher's mom is rachet. She's all about money, pimped her son his whole life & couldnt let him be a man. She wouldve advised him to stay with his wife & raise his kids if she was a real mom but nooooo she needed Usher to get his swagg back so he could go out & make $ for her fully grown almost senior citizen arse. Dat lady need a man to lay some good pipe in her arse & then maybe just maybe she'll get a life & let Usher be a MAN.
None of our business really.. I don't hate Tameka for tryin to clear it up.. Ain't she gonna get money anyway. Usher is the Celebrity he should make the statement about the custody battle.. All dudes are trifling when they ready Tameka.. We already know! My heartfelt condolences for your loss.. That statement of Thank you for all support would of been enuff.. Clear ur head *** ur conscience and ur heart from all the drama.. "Say what ya want" tho. Usher fans already love him.. Uphill battle with that one.. Best wishes! & Good luck.
As a human being who has faced a great personal tragedy, Nerd, Tameka deserves sympathy. I am not an attacking "demon," but a woman who has lived long enough and been around the entertainment industry long enough to know who's who and what's what to some extent. I know the Bible says "judge not" and I do not. The truth is that Tameka seems to have lived her life doing HER...and that includes some pretty reckless and hurtful behavior. Usher, too, has a trail of bad behavior too. But her whole life is about "upgrades" and movin' on up, George Jefferson style. Usher came to her rescue when her vanity getting that plastic surgery in Brazil almost killed her after putting her aging body through so much with having two baby-mama insurance babies back to back. And once again, he helped her get to Kile's side with the plane. I'm sure she must be devastated by the negative feedback, but clearly she intended to ride a wave of public sympathy for her unspeakable loss. And we get that. Unfortunately, we also get HER...her present and her past.
@Sixfourfella...right "Usher hasnt had to check in with anyone ever" like I said he thinks he's above God. He wants total control like both man & God's laws must yield to his celebrity. He does not respect women. He taunted Tameka by bringing gf to her house. I mean yea there's no man law against that but being a responsible adult involves having some class & managing relationships effectively. He knew nothing good could come from that. He's messy childish. He couldve left his girl home or @hotel. Imo, it's too soon for him to have other women around his kids anyway. Children should be parents prize possessions. Im sure he hasnt introduced his girl to his bank acct # cuz its too soon she must earn his trust, so y does he trust her around his kids? Are they less valuable than his $? Those kids need time with their father without having to share him with some broad. Tell her thirsty arse to WAIT. I dont bring men around my kids PERIOD. They cant even come to my house or know where I live. And I dont want to meet their kids too soon. Prove that u are decent & consistent & then Ill let u close. That's putting kids first.
Thought-Tameka is a mom. Men are used to coming and going as they please. They don't have a chemica bond with the children as the mother does. He wants the kids to avoid payiny money and not having to look in the woman face that he left and dismissed. Common sense. He simply doesn't want to face her ever. And he doesn't want to deal with her hurt. Whatever she did in he past was her past. Not ours. We can't carry the candle on that. NO one liked this woman when he married her and that is why I believe the situaion could not last. I have been in a relationship where all were against us together and it is very hard to fight others hatred. It went on for years. So she is dealing with the loss of love and the hatred of others and now the loss of her son.
@alleyes: tru tru & what an appropriate name cuz ur eyes can see (thru Ushers bs). Dats right he does not want to take responsibility for the destruction he caused. He does not want to acknowledge that when he left his kids he fulfilled the legacy of his own father who walked away and made him a ***. Its a shame that his *** mom doesnt want better for her grandsons. She was too busy hatin on Tameka & Usher's (then) intact family.
GOOD!!!!
THIS BISH JUST LIKE ALL OF YOU NAPPY HEADS IN HERE ARE JUST AFTER MEN FOR WHAT THEY CAN GIVE THEM!! YOU LAZY WOMEN DON'T WANT TO WORK DON'T WANT TO EARN THINGS ON YOUR OWN, BLACK WOMEN LIKE TO TRY AND USE PEOPLE!! THEY ARE ALL UNFIT MOTHERS AND I AM GLAD SOCIETY IS WAKING UP AND TAKING A STAND AGAINST THESE BISHES!!! IT'S RIDICULOUS HOW MANY BLACK KIDS SUFFER DAILY BECAUSE THEIR MOTHERS CONTINUE TO FEED THEM HORSE $H%T AND TREAT EM LIKE ANIMALS!!! BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT GOOD PARENTS AND SHOULD HAVE A RULING LIKE THIS WITH ALL OF THEIR KIDS!!!! THEY ONLY WANT THEM FOR GOV ASSISTANCE AND SECTION 8 HOUSING!!!!!
IT WAS HER FAULT THE KID DIED IN THE FIRST PLACE!! SO PLEASE WITH THIS AND HOPE IT'S A SIGN OF THINGS TO COME!!!! BLACK AIN'T BEAUTIFUL YA'LL I AM GLAD EVERYONE IS SEEING IT NOW!!
MY MOMMA JUST SAID: THESE BLACK WOMEN/GIRLS TODAY AIN'T $H%T!! THEY ARE MISERABLE, CLASSLESS, AND HAVE NO MOTIVATION, AND PROBABLY HAVE EVERY DISEASE UNDER THE SUN!! SHE SAID DON'T YOU BRING ONE OF THOSE NAPPY HEADED APES HOME HERE!! FIND YOURSELF ONE OF THESE LIGHT PRETTY WHITE OR EXOTIC BEAUTIES OUT HERE!!! I WANT MY GRAND KIDS TO BE RAISED PROPERLY AND HAVE THE BEST LIFE HAS TO OFFER, NOT SITTING UP IN STRIP CLUBS OR ON WELFARE!!! NO NAPPY HEADED KIDS HERE, SHE LOVES THAT GOOD HAIR!!!
ALL UP IN YA!!!
she needs to stop it, she knows *** well that she cant manage all of them kids on her own. I think its for the best that they are in the custody of their father.. If shes paying all that attention to all of her other kids how much attention does ushers children recieve from her? Also, if she had less children maybe she couldve paid more attention the day the her son was in accident
I have to agree...how do you go from grief to commenting on child custody???? I know if it were my child, I still be heavily sedated, in a padded cell -- I'd look like Diana Ross in Lady Sings the Blues. I'll even give the bod (benefit of doubt) and say that maybe grief has made her angry and she responded that way...*** naahhhhh - who am I kidding!
Okay. Something's amiss here. Why does this woman always have her kids taken away from her??? If I can recall, may he RIP, someone mentioned Kyle wasn't with her either. What's the REAL deal here? And yes, if Usher's attorney worked on something with the judge who proceeded over the case, that's foul! I am prays for Ms. Foster-Raymond, as something's not being revealed here. Is she mental?
I also can't help but feel bad for her. ANY REAL mother would be torn up and apart if her child/children were taken from her! I am just not getting this. As the mother of a 3 year old son, I would be just too distraught. Unless Usher comes forth with the real reason he did this, I'm really not liking him right about now.
Tameka is no angel. For some reason, people think that mothers have automatic rights to the child and that fathers should have visitation. If Usher can show that he can be a better parent, then why *** he have the children. Tameka didn't handle herself as a grown woman. She was bitter because of the new girlfriend, but for those women who worry about stuff like that, it is usually not your business unless the new girlfriend is abusive to the children. Tameka was mad that Usher moved on so quickly. She behavd badly. I feel sorry for her that she lost a child. My twin sister lost her two year old child to cancer. I certainly sympathize. I would not wish a child's death on anybody. But when she started worrying about herself (going to get a tummy tuck within a few months of giving birth), she essentially stopped acting like a mother. I realize that a divorce is difficult, but Tameka started acting like a teenaged baby mama that you would see on Maury or something. This could have been handled quietly and discreetly. I realize that Usher started the petition, but they could have worked it out in mediation. I don't doubt that Tameka loves her children. I do, however, doubt her ability to raise them without saying negative things about her ex. That alone can be reason enough for a judge to take a child away from their parent. Parent alienation is a real thing and judges aren't standing for it from either side. According to the trial, Tameka constantly engaged in badmouthing Usher (even after her was generous with getting her transporation to be by her child's side). If she toned it down a little, she would have appeared reasonable. Instead, she appeared to be the bitter ex. No judge likes to leave kids with bitter exes.
Ignoring you dumb ignorant usher fans...on the intelligent side, he is a heartless ***, he doesn't want to share the kids but have them all to himself? Every child deserves both parents in their lives, and to top it off now she will have lost all her boys nos...sad day...*** anyone who thinks this is fine....devil. lastly, unless ur deemed unfit...legally the law states that custody doesn't change...but it without meeting the legal standards. Money talk *** *** walks and in this case money talks and families part.
...now doggonit "Hater" -- now you're going too deep!!! Our kids are being brainwashed with Amerikkkan history books in a public school system that don't include Black achievements. And we wonder why our youth are angry and have no pride/focus - it's because in their impressionable years they are taught that Blacks were slaves; and then they struggled (civil rights). They can tell you more about George Washington than they can Sojourner Truth. Jews can have their synagogues, Muslims/Arabs can have their Mosque, but let Blacks have an HBCU and we're promoting segregation?????
ok...I'll stop - now back to our regularly scheduled BS program
THANK GOD HE DID. BLACK MOMS ARE THE WORST. THIS DIRTY,SLUTBAG,GOLD DIGGER GHETTO *** IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HER SONS DEATH. SHE LEFT HER KID WITH HER GHETTO TRASH FAMILY AND HE WAS NEGELECTED. CONGRATS USHER MAYBE THIS WILL BE A LESSON TO OTHER AND MANY OTHER SUCCESSFUL BLACK GUYS THAT CHOOSE TO DATE THESE GHETTO RATS. THEY ARE THE *** OF THE EARTH.
LAZY,GREASY,GHETTO FILTH. I HATE BLACK WOMEN. THANK GOD FOR WHITE AND LATIN WOMEN. MAKE THIS BLACK POS GET A F'ING JOB LIKE RESPECTABLE WHITE WOMEN DO. BLACK WOMEN ARE SO DISGUSTING. ALL THEY LOOK FOR IS A FREE RIDE FROM THE GOVERNMENT OR OPEN THEIR LEGS TO GET A CHILD SUPPORT DEAL AND USE THE GUYS KIDS AGAINST HIM IN CUSTODY BATTLES.
BLACK WOMEN ARE THE SH*TTIEST PARENTS AND THE REASON FOR MAURY'S SUCCESS. THEY ARE THE LOWEST FORM OF LIFE. HOPEFULLY THIS MANLY FACED,EGOTISTICAL,GHETTO,RUDE,LAZY LOSER WILL OFF HERSELF NOW.
I feel sorry for Tameka. But in all honesty, she acted like a teenaged girl on Maury. You don't worry about the new girlfriend unless they are abusive to your children. Usher may have initiated the proceedings due to parental alientation. Tameka was constantly saying bad things about Usher to the press. I can only imagine what she must have said about him around the children. I don't understand why women think that they should automatically have custody of children. Both parents have rights to the children. Tameka stopped acting like a parent when she went and went out of the country to have a tummy tuck a few *** months after giving birth. She needs to stop worrying about her image and worry about how her antics effect her children. Threatening to kill people (in the court transcripts) and acting like a teenager when you are almost 50 years old isn't very cute. Also, I feel sorry that she lost her child. When Usher offered her use of his plane in order to be by her child's side, she accused him of being fake. She is bitter and this turn of events will only make her more bitter. She needs to look at herself and see how this happened instead of trying to blame her ex.
Tameka had it coming. Usher is a God fearing man and so is his mother. Justice was served. Tameka was and still is a gold digger. Even after Kyle died, Usher sent her a plane etc. I dont know if Tameka thought the lil boy's death would reconcile them but it didn't. Usher does not wanna be bothered with her man looking old ***. He is successful and does not deserve for a low self esteemed woman to leech off of him. He deserves his boys. He was never an unfit father like her evil *** tried to make it seem.
To Calori Capice. What has Usher done to cause you to say that he was wrong? He has as much right to the children as she does. Tameka was always talking sideways about Usher and if you are a parent, you are not supposed to ridicule or give your children a bad impression of their other parent. Tameka actively did this. Tameka is to blame for losing her children. Tameka should have acted like a responsible mother by nurturing them and promoting a positive relationship with Usher. Instead, she acted a fool and had to pay for it. Tameka just didn't know that the cost would be so high (losing her children). Tameka should have put the emotional well being of her children ahead of her own hurt feelings. Live and learn.
HOPEFULLY FOR BLACK WOMEN AND THEIR KIDS!! THIS IS A SIGN TO COME!!!!! NAPPY HEADS HAD IT COMING!!! I HOPE ROMNEY GETS IN OFFICE HE WILL FIX THEIR BLACK A$$E$!!!!
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@thenewmissu were u there when she was saying this ? were u there when they were maling the kids no disrespect but if u team usher thats good and danty but sorry i cant agree on infomation u got from media display . usher took advantage of Kyle's death to boost sales and procced with this court battle not Tameaka she may be alot of things u assume she is but Usher still showed *** ways with the new girl and all the etcs .
Calori Caprice. Feel free to get the transcripts from court. The records are not sealed. Not hard. I am not team Usher. I am team children. Once again, Usher's new girlfriend has nothing to do with this. Where are you getting that Usher took advantage of Kyle's death? He was not obligated to do anything for her or her older children, yet he did. Usher tried to get the hearing delayed. Tameka insisted on going on with the trial. Not Usher. Usher's new girlfriend is none of Tameka's business. Tameka was actively trying to alienate Usher from his children (check the voicemails Usher saved and introduced into evidence). You can't do that. I don't care how much you don't like the new girlfriend. Usher may have been a ***, but he was within his rights. Tameka was talking bad about Usher. You can't do that in front of your children. Apparently the judge agreed with me. If you call your ex all kinds of crazy names, a judge can and apparently will take action. Tameka could have exacted her revenge by living well. Instead she chose to fight about Saks Fifth Avenue accounts.
She almost died after traveling to another country for plastic surgery. Meanwhile her infant and toddler son's were home without her. She was in a different city when her son was injured. And just weeks after his death, she continues her war with Usher. For those boys protection, they need to be with Usher. She is reckless and quite frankly, a poor mother.
Okay so who is gonna watch the kids while Usher is on tour? Do you all truly think he ain't gonna hire someone to watch them too? Aye. Ya;ll are some *** fools writing this stupidity. As one poster said, I am an usher fan, but a mom too. Her motives are probably just as she said, to keep her boys together. When you have carried a child, for a normal woman, it is nearly impossible to give it away...best to Tameka.
My question is how was an attorney that worked on the judges campaign even allowed to present a case in front of her? There has to be some kind of conflict of interest because who in their right mind didn't know that the judge would show Usher's attorney favoritism and have a biased opinion in his attorneys favor? Tameka had some stupid attorneys to even allow the case to remain in that judges courtroom! I hate to say it but she got a boomerang thrown on her and got back what she threw out, she left her other kids with their father for the high life with Usher so now it's time to reap what you sowed Tameka! Only this time it won't be the high life because you are labeled as a person who abandons her kids and your reputation is ruined! You got to take a seat girl!
I with whoever said something is not right. Why not joint custody?? Usher is an entertainer. He has to tour and attend other events for his career. Who will be watching the kids when he's away?? His girlfriend?? A nanny?? I mean come on. Everyone is talking about she wasn't with her kids, hell, he's not gonna be with them either. I'm saying.....I like Usher. The last album I have is 'Confessions'. Still don't necessarily agree with this. Something is amiss and I want to know what it is. I don't even follow this mess, but now my curiosity is peaked. Maybe, just maybe, MTO is on to something............
I don't doubt that Tameka thinks she is a good mom. I also don't doubt that she wants to keep all of her children together. Still, she has no one to blame but herself. She should have acted like an adult. Her crime wasn't hiring a nanny. It was talking bad to her kids about their dad.Try really hard people.........there is a lesson to be learned here. Stay positive for the sake of the children.
Boys need their father more than they need their mother. And all of you women out there already know that. A woman cannot teach a boy how to be a man, just like a man cannot teach a girl how to be a woman. It's sad when the mother and father cannot raise the child together as a traditional family but when it all boils down to it, it's more important for the boy to be with his father
I DON'T KNOW HER R USHER PERSONALLY I FEEL SO SORRY FOR HER, I DO NOT THINK NO CHILDREN SHOULD BE TAKING FROM THEIR MOTHER UNLESS SHE WAS A BAD PARENT.NOBODY KNOWS WHAT WENT OWN BEHIND CLOSE DOOR WITH THOSE TWO, ONLY WHAT YOU READ IN THE MAGAZINE,PAPER.. I THINK THE JUDGE SHOULD HAVE EVEN THAT OUT. SHE JUST LOST HER SON NOW SHE LOSE TWO MORE OF HER KIDS, MAN I KNOW THAT HURTS. IF THIS HAD TO HAPPEN TO ANY WOMAN ON HERE YOU KNOW THAT WILL HURT YOU AND THE WOMAN THAT'S IN YOUR MAN LIFE IS GOING TO BE AROUND YOUR KIDS MORE THAN YOU THAT IS A HARD SLAP IN THE FACE. . I WILL PRAY FOR HER
OK...WELL I MUST BE IN THE MINORITY BUT I ACTUALLY FEEL GUTTED FOR HER! CHILDREN NEED TO BE WITH THEIR MOTHER UNLESS IT HAS BEEN PROVEN THAT SHE IS UNFIT TO CARE FOR THEM, AS WAS NOT THE CASE IN THIS SCENARIO.....USHER IS A HEARTLESS *** TO DO THIS TO HER CONSIDERING THE DEATH OF HER OTHER CHILD..HE PROBABLY GOT THAT OTHER COUGAR READY TO PLAY "MUMMY" TO HIS SONS..
They should have shared custody of the children, point blank period. Those boys need their mother just as much as tgey need their father and if his motives were anything other than the well being of his sons, he will reap what he sowed and they may resent him. He wanted full custody, but he could have dropped it since he was the one that initiated it.
First of all, congratulations to him. Some fathers deserve it, not all mothers are good mothers, sometimes the child is better off with the father. I saw a couple of comments that said he only wants full custody so he doesn't have to pay child support. That is the stupidest *** comment I ever read. If the children are living with him, what is the big *** difference? At least now he knows that money will be used on his children and not on stupid *** frivolous things.
Most of yall on here are judgemental ***. These are her kids too not just Ushers, I think its kinda messed up that they cant share joint custody. Someone said she was out of town when Kile was hurt...so freaking what? Parents go out of town and leave their kids all the time ***. You think Usher gonna have .lots of time for them? Aint he still performing and doing shows. This is a very messed up situation, its sad that ppl on here can only say she deserves it. What the hell do you know about her or Usher other than whats published. Stop judging ppl you dont know and ppl in general...thats GOD's job.
Another thing, you can always tell who the single mothers and the ones who didn't have their fathers around are based on some of the comments, he might be a better parent than she could ever be, they're way past breastfeeding and they are young boys, maybe if some of u baby mamas had ur baby daddies around maybe your nasty snot-nosed *** would be productive citizens instead of little *** that will rob and steal.
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Fact is...No one on this earth is perfect and Tameka has been judged so *** harshly by Usher stans that were mad that he married her as if they actually had a chance to be married to him.Tameka has been called every name that one can be called and people actually have the nerve to be mad at her for being defensive at times because of it. For once MTO actually printed some truth and the truth is that Tameka was not proven to be unfit and yes the judge has ties to Ushers lawyer which is why she should have recused herself but then again it seems that once again "money" ruled this situation.I'm still wondering "why" Usher did not take those drug tests but then again he has something to hide. I hope he doesn't do drugs around those kids....
Usher is just a small man in every way.......
The lost of a child can be devastating.However, feeling sympathetic doesn't changes the facts.Fact she attacked & threaten Usher current girlfriend, worry about a Saks credit card, her son was on his death bed she was slick venting about Usher. Truth is her questionable character is why she lost custody. The death of her child does change that.Fact is she mostly likely would use a nanny just as Usher is probably going to. Sometime the father is the better parnet.Sorry for her lost but it is what it is. She should not be speaking negativity the death of her child should've change her perspective in very positive way.I'm just saying......
Anyone that actually blames Tameka for the fact that she wasn't in town when her son was killed is a *** fool! Her son Kile was with his father...There are some really heartless people in this world and I hope the same karma you wish on Tameka doesn't come back to haunt but then again it does seem that the most evil people never "receive' karma...
I think they should have joined custody, Usher will be on the road a lot and he doesn't need to uproot those kids and have them on the road with him. Or have them kids spending more time with a nanny when they should be with there mother. She has just lost one son now two more i pray for you Tameka and pray things get better for you. Usher stop being so heartless and share custody with her.
Look I don't know who is in the wrong or who is in the right, they went to court and so far she lost. Now some of you are saying Usher is in the wrong and how can he take care of his children, Look if the Judge thinks he can then I guess he can. Something happened in court for the judge to rule in favor of Usher. I just hope that children's welfare will be the most important thing in both parents life. And besides Usher is not taking them away from Tameka forever, she will be able to be in their lives, they live in the same city. People act like Usher is going to fly away to France and Tameka will stay in the ATL.
It would tear me apart if my children were taken. Ive seperated from my partner 5yrs ago and the children are with me. I am full black always put my children first no man has been around them or my house. I know the first 7yrs of being a mother I probably spent only two *** away. The school holidays kids are with dad. I do a 8-5 *** collect kids we have a cooked dinner and chill. We talk laugh they are precious and I know they grow so fast so I love being with them as much as possible. I don't beat on my kids either and they are not rude and I believe they have a great future ahead of them because I'm instilling love everyday. It sad that people think all black women are monsters if u take the time you'll see we are not all bad. Hope Usher and Tameka's children wil be okay and have a stable loving environment
Custodial matters is nothing to take lightly....your indication that only unfit mothers get their kids taken away is a stupid comment made by folks who nothing about family law or courts... The judical system is no different then any other bureaucy....and the old saying if you got the cash you win is absolutely true....
Tameka is no saint but now she will feel the injustice and the unspoken accusation that this society put on non custodial mothers....unlike the other mothers she will still be able to eat and sleep comfortably and won't have to take any job to pay child support or medical and educational expenses like other mothers.... Something needs to be done with this system because it is not fair to the mother, kids and in some instances the fathers....I have more to say but right now I annoyed at the light hearteness in the caption and find the whole thing offensive....
Crazy, why is there a custody battle in the first place?? Is she unfit? And if Usher's lawyer worked on the presiding judge's election campaign, is that a conflict of interest? That don't sound right. If that is true and she don't look into it then she is crazy herself. It's sad that she had to bury her son and go through this too.
Everyone says don't judge me on my past to hell with that I take it into consideration I can't judge you on what you haven't did yet only on what you have done its called CREDIT and if you have none you can't get anything IJS Usher should have took her past into consideration and he wouldn't be here now she had 3 kids I'm in the A you can find a better woman on Candler Rd nothing wrong with used but she was USED UP he deserve this for being a sucker he love old women leave they *** at the bingo game get you a 25-30 vixen
Its SAD to read a bunch of dmb *** comments coming from a lot of people who dont know this woman! A bunch of jealous *** women on here who dont know where there kids, FATHERS are! She appears to be a great mom and everyone knows MONEY WILL ALWAYS WIN! You dont know her or usher! So, get your dumb, uneducated *** off of MTO and go read a real book and stop limiting your reading to stupid gossip! Its sad to see women would love to see another woman torn down cause of your obvious jealousy!
I personally think no kids should be taken away from there mother unless she is unfit, kids need there mother, I know usher loves his sons as well but if you have kids together be adults about the situation and come together to make smart decisions. Usher is an celebrity that be on the road most of the time and tameka will have more time for them to be able to put them on the bus for school and be there when they get out of school and be able to spend more time with them instead of the nanny, this women have been through a lot she lost her son so why take away the other children that she have, she need them more then any thing, usher got enough money to come and see his sons anytime he want to, this is just a sad situation that two parents can't come together and make mature decisions, most boys are mommas boys so the judge was wrong for the decision she made, instead of giving them joint.
Man, these folks with money are paying the court system! Ya'll know *** well they should have been awarded JOINT custody. It is RARE for women 2 lose custody. Unless the women have drug problems and mental problems and has some evidence that she is causing a substantial amount of harm 2 the kids, then she'd lose.
Ummm, also, how is Usher watching the kids when is always on the blogs without them? He travels way 2 much and those boys need 2 be with their MOM who'd provide them with a stable environment.
Usher is another man who is PAYING his was through life. That judge needs to be investigated!
Ok..I think most of the people on this site lack basic comprehension skills. Just because Usher is the celebrity in this case doesn't mean that he is the better parent. Tameka was cool with joint custody...and WAS NOT UNFIT. It makes no sense to me to take children this young from their mother to give to a man who will turn their care over to nannies. Mothers are nurturing...God made us that way...Fathers are important too but in different ways. These boys are too young to be taken from the mom. If they were older then Usher would be pivotal....but these are very young boys..psyhcologically it is never a good idea to separate younger children from their mothers unless they are unfit and in this case she isn't. I smell a payoff...
Yall are a bunch of dumb ***. Obviously yall riding Usher *** and cant see whats really happening. Its called Money is Power fools! One reason why this mother deserves to have her sons taken away? There is no reason. Not to mention her other son just passed away! Usher is an evil ***! You dumb *** have no heart and hating on a woman and mother for no reason other than the fact that yall wish yall had Usher. He dont want none of yall hoes. Thats why women cannot get ahead and cant get the respect we deserve because of stupid *** like yall! Go kick rocks tricks!
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My group works with custody battle at the Domestic Violence *** I work at. They almost never ever take Children away from there Mothers espically in the South. Even if your in a ***. It almost always has to be Drugs or abuse from the mother to the Children. . This is clearly which has ore money. Usher is always on the road. The first question would be who is watching the Children. Which will probably a nanny. And a judge would never do that if there is a parent that could be with the children instead of a nanny.
I thought this ruling meant that they still will share custody but Usher gets to call the *** with the children. If that's the case, the judge believes Tameka is not capable of making sound decisions for her kids. Once they BOTH let go of the bitterness, they'll be able to parent the kids together. As a mother, my heart goes out to her. However, she really doesn't present herself as the nicest person. Sometimes that can come back to bite you...as it did in this case. Wish them well.
@KRAZY
flag as inappropriate/spam Tameka you just buried your son, why in the hell are you even on this site? This *** is just evil. So, she don't have a problen with the person that killed her son and injuryed the little girl. How much child support did she get from her first exhusband? Did he pay for her Saks Fifth Avenue Card? This is just so disgracefull, and disrespectfull to your son. Is she even greaving the death or just worried about Usher's life. Tameka, I hope you read all of these comments. You almost died a year or two ago, and your kids could've been left motherless. Now you just lost your son. The ole saying is, God just do not like ugly. She better be carefull of her actions. I'm sure she's getting thousands of dollars a month for two kids and still not satisfied. I guess Usher's mother was right after all, the *** is evil. She should be asking the person that killed her son why was he so reckless. Close your eyes to dollar signs and bitterness. Move on with your life, you will be 50 old years soon, and still stressing out about Usher and his life. Move on, and *** the hell up.
^^^ I AGREE
This is sad. All any us have to go on is what the media puts out there. Without being in their circle I can not jump on either side. I do think that for any mother to lose 3 of her kids whether is death or physical custody within weeks is heart breaking not matter her past. I feel for her in that regard.
Didn't Tameka originally walk out on her husband and 3 kids for Usher? Then she had 2 more by Usher, ran off and tried to get a " mommy makeover", almost died, got dumped, then tried to portray this loving mother and scorned ex-wife. I never bought her act, not for one second. And to use Kile's death in the courtroom by saying thatUsher wouldn't post about it on Twitter...WTF? This chick is so basic and definitely needs help!
So when Katy Holmes ran off with Suri from Tom Cruz she was labeled a hero, but Tameka is called every bad name in the book SMH, she should want a check, she deserves a check to take care of their children. And then the stupid court system takes their children away from their mother and basically hands them off to their father who is always on the road, so basically a stranger will probably raise them, and some people are applauding this action, really SMH!
@thenewmissus...all u can say is Tameka is bitter & she behaved badly. U stupid BLEEEEEEEP! It is ILLEGAL to take away a mother's custody cuz she was bitter and it is totally UNREASONABLE. That judge is as crooked as yo spine u thirsty hoe. I bet Usher could tie your mother down & rape her in frpnt of u & you'd defend Usher cuz he's URSHER BABY. YOU STUPID HOES GET YO LIFE!
...and what did Tameka say to her kids that was so bad? And was is the TRUTH? And again DUMMIE it is NOT lawful to remove custody bcuz a mom tells her kids that their dad doesnt want to pay child support or puts gf b4 them or speaks about their dad's character. Pls tell me where I can find this "No Bad-Mouthing" law...ITS TRU if she said it. Ugh I cant wit these silly women...ugh ugh ugh
Proverbial Hater, she's in it for the money, plain and simple. I also want you to read Caramelchick1's and OddFutureIndeed's comments (next to each other) .
Notice how these two (black women or white men) bring up black women and men as if it relates to the *** story. They are truly sad human beings.
I guess OddFutureIndeed decided to stop displaying her other alias "JasmineU2" because she's been caught. Nice.
As for the topic, I truly wish this woman's son rests in peace but Tameka is nothing but a money grubbing loser.
"COLD HEARTED".... You have to be a spineless/heartless person to continue to want to brag a person through this when there already at there lowest....this lady is still mourning her son and has to mourn the lost of two more of her kids....talking about kicking someone when there down....usher hop his azz around stage and sing all this love sh!t but can't chime in to her feelings of the kids....what kind of a person that's always on the road doing shows and touring gets full custody over a mother that's stable in one state...there's def more to this story.... I think that momma of usher is in his ear about that child/spousal support and he's listening to her...ole momma boy!!!!!
@Hot Mom. You are simple. If you knew anything about the justice system, you would look at my quote and understand (was a paralegal for 10 years). Both parents have rights to the children. One parent does not trump another parent. She lost primary custody because she couldn't behave as a woman. If you talk crazy about your ex in front of your children or try to interfere with the parental rights of the other parent, you can have your children removed. Instead of trying to pick a fight with me, you should try to educate yourself. Look up parental alientation. Do yourself and the rest of us a favor and use your head. There are consequences for acting badly but I suspect that you probably already know that. Wise up or *** up.
@thenewmissus, stop trying to twist words to make a nonvalid point. Telling ur kids something about their absent parent & interfering with visitation is not the same. It is illegal for a custodal parent to violate ANY court order. However, telling ur kids TRUTH is NOT illegal. U claim u know what she said but have not quoted her. Then u throw out a psychology term "parental alienation" which is totally irrelevant. FYI, I minored in Psyc in college & took Psyc graduate courses. So u dont wanna play the education card with me AND I majored in "real life" as well. So back to the ? that u neva ans: where is this "No Bad-Mouthing Law"? I mean if a parent is a COKE HEAD like Usher, doesnt his child have a right to know at an appropriate age (for example)? How do u determine "bad mouthing" the court of law Ms. Paralegal? _/_/_/
..."both parents have rights to the children. One parent doesnt trump the other parent. Tameka lost primary custody because she didnt behave like a woman" ??????? @thenewmissus, a paralegal wrote this??? Usher trumped Tameka's rights didnt he? So now u can lose custody if u dont act "womanly"? How does one act "womanly"? Is there a set of rules that all females must follow to fit that description? We live in a DEMOCRACY for Gods sake, not a DICTATORSHIP. Now bish u *** UP or WISE UP (in your voice)!
Also, let me clear up a few misconceptions
1. Usher was going for child custody, not termination of parental rights. There is a difference. When "The State" takes your kids away and don't want to give them back, they have to prove you are an unfit parent. However, when it is a case of child custody, you just have to prove that you are the better parent.
2. Tameka lost primary custody. She will have visitation rights.
3. Once again, parental alienation can cause you to lose your children. I will even give you an example. I worked at a law office where they specialized in family law. One case involved two previous Jehovah's witnesses. I will call them Mr and Mrs. A. When Mr. and Mrs. A started having marital problems, they sought counseling from their church. The church elders assigned them another JW coupleto counsel them. We will call them Mr. and Mrs. B. Well, Mr. A and Mrs. B started having an affair. Both couples got divorced. Then, Mr. A and Mrs. B got married. The previous Mrs. A had primary custody. However, Mrs. A was quite bitter about the whole break up (can't blame her for that). Mrs. A then started dating the previous Mr. B. However, two years later, Mr. A went for primary custody because whenever the kids would visit, they would tell their father about what their Mom had said about him. The children were assigned a guardian ad litem and a court ordered psychologist. After the psychologist report showed that the mother had in fact, constantly spoke negatively about Mr. A, the court awarded Mr. A primary custody and the mother then had visitation rights. The father moved to Colorado (and BTW, he represented himself in court) and took the kids with him. This couple had a ten year court fight. The only people I truly felt sorry for were the children. They turned into some goth acting folks with fascination in supernatural and suspected devil worshipping.
For some reason, a lot of people on this site thinks that Tameka is the victim. I feel sorry for her, but the only true victims are the kids. Both parents could have had this mediated instead of taking it to court. If they tried mediation, that means that one person was probably being unreasonable in their demands. It takes a unusual level of bitterness for a child custody battle to take place.
I hope this post will clear up any misconception. For those of you who want to remain ignorant, feel free. I am looking at you HotMom.
BTW, HotMom. You are correct that it is not ILLEGAL to talk negatively about your ex. However, this was not a criminal proceeding. It was a civil proceeding. And yes, if you talk negatively about your ex to your children, there can be consequences. You can insult me all you want but if you doubt this, ask Tameka. In fact, look beyond your backyard and you may discover some other truths. You can disagree with this decision all you'd like, but please don't choose to remain ignorant. It's not cute and then you make the rest of us black women look bad.
Look it's like this, when you go to court and go on record saying you are going to kill someone and then turn around and say Yes I said that cuz I was angry and people talk in my subdivision,, well guess what, That sends up Red Flags to the judge and the fact that she might of been alittle bitter with Usher when he wanted to take the kids someplace. So basically she looked bad in the courts eyes. If you turned this around and Usher did the same thing, he would of lost custody too. Look there's a lesson to be learned. Stop with all the drama, Sometimes it's better to *** yo mouth then to say something that can and will be used against you. The only difference is now Usher can take his kids where ever he wants and then make a call like "Oh we are in Cali for the weekend, I will have them back later in the week. Basically Usher never had to check in before and now he doesn't have to. I just hope that he remembers what happen to the kids older brother.
Usher and that judge are low down heartless pieces of sh!t. Who does that to someone who just loses a child and then you're going to take the last of her children that she has left. I am no Tameka fan, but wrong is wrong. I am quite sure that after what she has been through that she would have agreed to joint custody with Usher with no child support. But no he didn't want that. Tameka is right when she said that he was just being fake when he offered to fly to be with her when her child was in the hospital. Because this just shows that he hates her. He was just trying to be there so that he could look good in the public eye. That creep wouldn't even pay for an extra month of life support for her son. If it was his son he would have done it!. I don't care what this man is selling but I am never going to buy it! And by the way just because you and the baby father have arguments or you say some bad things about him does not make you an unfit mother. This girl was not unfit and does not deserve to lose full custody of her kids.If anything they should have both gotten joint custody. You all who are saying that she is a gold digger are so ignorant and cruel because money has nothing to do with a woman who is fighting to keep her kids.
@THIS*WOMAN'S*WORK: THANK YOU! .... Tameka is CRIMINAL & Manipulative Oppurtunist........Google it.
***Tameka CHEATing with Usher ...on her 3 Kids & Ex-Husband ****Usher Mother knew Tameka was up to no good. *** He son dies and she is in court the next day!!! **** USHER OFFERS JOINT CUSTODY..........TAMEKA SAYS NO!
" RAYMOND " is still Tameka's last name because all she want is fame and fortune.
WHy not let the kids be happy ?!.....Tameka wants the Child Support.
