No mama didn't handle it properly but this is typical of dark black bishes
that should NEVER breed and have kids. I blame the nicca's that keep
depositing their sperm in these trifling women. This is pathetic and
yes, all she had to do was delete the page and if it's a GROWN man
contact the freaking cops. That's what a mexican woman did when
grown men texted her daughter inappropriately but other women
know how the parent and black women know how to yell, be uncouth,
ghetto and undignified. Pathetic. I truly despise these nicca's.
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No it will not lead to rebellion and resentment...She was being rebellious by posting and accepting pics like she was, That's what's wrong with the Black community now! stop condoning behavior like this . this is the way of the Gentiles...Beat the brakes off your sons for acting ike females, crack the whip on lil girls trying to twerk it our God isn't pleased with our actions..We are supposed to be the light of the world..not the Bafoons that you constantly see on World Star HipHop, Mediatakeout, and its staff.
I'm rolling with mama on this one. Too many mothers are in the habit of trying to keep up with their daughters, rather than RAISE them. When the average grandmother nowadays is 35 years old, it's refreshing to know there are still Black mothers out there who care enough to make sure their girls don't become another statistic. @Ransomed, you should really think carefully before you post asinine comments like that above. How dare you speak of parenting styles of women, if A) You are not a woman. B). You came from a black woman. or C). You're just a dumb ass man with mommy issues. Grow some balls, then you will understand that sometimes the soft approach isn't always the best one.
Big ups to you ma. More mothers and fathers need to put dey children in check. Dis sh!t gittin outta hand. We raisin a generation of wanna be strippers an heaux, ana generation of wanna be thugs and gangstas. Weezy aint sh!t.
@carmouche Black parents been beating their children like slaves since forever and how did that turn out for the most part? Question that need to be asked is where's her father? Does she have deep rooted issues? Why is this the type of attention she's seeking? Being so quick to beat and embarrass children and not ask THESE questions is what's wrong with the black community.
THATS RIGHT MAMA!!!
SET HER YOUNG AZS STR8!!
HOPE THE YOUNG LADY DOESN'T COMM.IT SU.ICIDE OVER THIS BCUZ THATS EMBARRASSING AF
SHE JUST SHOWING SHE CARE FOR HER DAUGHTER I GUESS BUT SHE PROBABLY COULD'VE HANDLED IT DIFFERENTLY
The only way to handle kids is to make them think you will go further than them. Make it not worth it to do what they don't need to do. At least her mother cares. I hope she has a father or uncle though, I think she needs a hug.
Nope. Humiliating her like this won't solve the problem. I doubt that her mother was an example of excellence and self respect. You must be the example that you want your kids to follow. She never addressed why she would do something like that. I bet the mother did not have a frank conversation on why accepting those pictures was both disrespectful to her and her mother. Black people: humiliation and beatings don't address the root of the/our problem(s).
F#CK THAT CUSSIN n ALLLL she wasn't wrong WHAT THE F*@K would YOU [media] have US [parents] DO to satisfy to YOUR liking how WE should handle/discipline OUR KIDS???? Now see if we let em run around like they DIDN'T have a mama, that'd be a post about how we or our kid are ratchett, ghetto, need a hug, need a Father n all that BULLSH%T!!! When you can post all the pretty, positive, pleasuring to your child ways to be a respected and obeyed parent and it be successful then PLEASE PLEASE make that the headline post of the day! Til then SHUT THE F*@K UP!!!!!! Bet her daughter won't be doing that shit again any time soon!
Maybe she could have approached it differently but at least she addressed it. People kill me criticizing how some parents do. It doesn't matter if they are hood or not she apparently cares about her daughters well being. Who hasn't been humiliated if you have parents or parent who cares??? She deserved to be put on blast. She was already on FB posting anyway. So her business was out there. Good job mom.
@bigdeal500,I second that. You took the words right out of mouth,on both posts.
@Topic,This video was posted on YouTube,too. Just type in,"Mother embarrassed 14 year old daughter on Facebook",on Google. It was posted less than 24 hours ago. A couple of people clowned MTO in the comment section. LOL.
@Ransomed is 100% right!!..LOWLIFE black men need to stop N/U/T/T/I/N/G in trash and producing more brain-dead offspring!!...The world already has enough of that!!
@bigdeal500 you can tell by the tone of her voice what shade she is!!...The spirit, voice and look of typical ratchet darky B*TCHES are ALWAYZ THE DARKER SKIN TYPES and you all know it!!!...
Sometimes I wonder about our people, and I'm not really speaking about the mom/daughter.The ignorant statements against the mom, really? So the kids in Chiraq is talking helping? Embrassing is accepting grown men on her page in the first place. You allow these kids some freedom snd trust they can make the right decisions and look what happens. Black parents are doing their best for the most part, white suburban kids do far worst but the real ignorant black people ignore that to shade on our own. I got whooped, never been to jail and never will. Kids have no respect but when a parent puts their foot down its wrong? Talking clearly isn't always working to a child who thinks they're grown.
You are both color stuck idiots. You put down this woman who is only trying to spare her child from being another statistic, and you both make comments that are just as bad or worse than whatever the women said. Good and bad parents come in all colors-all races. Melanin has nothing to do with it. Case in point, a while back in a supermarket, one of your beloved light skinned mothers was making a scene, threatening to beat her child in public, taking off her belt and holding it over her child while the little girl was screaming bloody murder which of course caused half of the supermarket to stare at her in disgust and shock.
I was raised by a fair skinned mother and trust me she didnâ€™t spare the rod with me. Itâ€™s crazy that I should have to have this conversation with ppl of color. SMDH!!!!!
MARY now u know that name is a lie *random as fluck*. well she made her feel shameful by posting it on her wall because she was accepting dik pics. u not suppose to be doing that at that age. im glad she tried to nip it in the bud. the lil gurl was caught. stop acting fast lil gurl.
This is abuse. You don't curse at and embarrass a14 year old. She is verbally abiding her and not teaching her anything. My parents did the same thing when all they had to do was talk to me rationally and explain to me why it's wrong and ground me. Hitting and cursing at me made me rebel more. All the people condoning this mess are abusers themselves. Funny how the people who say stuff like this end up with criminals as kids then try to give parenting advice.
Shouts Ma! All the people that said you didn't do the right thing would be on a jury ready to send a brother to jail for statutory. This is crazy. I'm glad you stepped up. Your words are your words. We cannot imagine how you felt seeing that being sent to a 14 year old. We have a hard job raising young girls. Right here, I have your. Back profanity and all!
@bronzereign and @ransomed must be imprisoned in their own homes,because I have seen plenty of people threaten,curse at and beat their children in public. Light skinned,dark skinned,white,black etc. Last week,I stood in front of a light skinned black woman in the checkout line at a convenience store. And I overheard her cursing and threatening to slap her two children because they wouldn't stay still in line,and they we're both under the age of six. The little boy looked like he was about three. And I just shook my fuqing head. You talk about black men,as if they're the only that stuck their jank in a woman that should've been sterilized before she could have kids. gtfoh.
All parents should so this.. Kids these days are out of control!!! Lil girls twerkn at 9yrs old, lil boys postn they baby penis's, come on now!! Parents should embarrass their kids asses like this.
One doesn't have to negate the other. You CAN be stern and do what this lady did and still later explain to her why she did it. Just because she wasn't having it doesnt mean that she can't go back and have a loving convo with her later. Sometimes you gotta scare these youngin's straight and then give em' a hug later.
Smh, how you gonna tell someone how to parent their child, talking about she embarrassed her? So what if she embarrassed her; better to be embarrassed than on a milk carton somewhere. There is nothing wrong with spanking your child for doing something that they have no business doing, especially if you have already talked to them about it.
And for some of ya'll on here.......what the heck is wrong with ya'll? If you got a whooping for doing something wrong and it just made you act up worse, then that means that there is something wrong with YOU, not your parent. Whoopings are not supposed to feel good, they are the last resort to let you know that a parent means business. Stop blaming parents for everything; some children are gonna grow up to be criminals simply because there is something wrong with them (such as impulse control or some deviant behaviors). If I have taught my child right from wrong, then at some point they need to go out into the world and apply what I taught them in the right way, and if they don't do that, punish them accordingly.
1) So what did Mama do to the grown men that were talking sexy to a 14 year old? I hope they got told by Mama as well, followed by a Chris Hansen visit. My big problem would be with the adult males (NOT MEN) who were trying to get with my little girl, then I could scold her after exposing some pervs.
2) At least we can presume she didn't beat the girl with an electrical cord for this.
As the voice of reason on this site, I gotta say this, When someone has to use profanity to get their thoughts out, it shows their ignorance. She embarrassed her daughter and I have no problem with that, it's obvious that the fb posts where sexual due to the mother saying "No one is put their d*ck in nothin'!!! she is 14 years old. Some of y'all women gotta remember when y'all was 14 and y'all start getting that new body, thinkin that you are grown cuz you gettin all of this attention. I get the angry part, I get being involved, what I don't get is the posting of the video on her fb page. It is also obvious that the girl is lying, she got caught up. The mother should be going to the police about any grown man hollering at her 14yr old daughter. If she didn't curse she could of gotten her point across much better. Me personally I would of grounded her and threaten the grown man and call the police. But what are you going to do?
You go momma! Hell all these fast a** girls need to get checked. My momma cussed like a sailor, the same way as this chick. I don't agree with all the cursing but as my momma said, "Look how fine you turned out!" Plus I used to be darker but Nancy beat the black off of me and I never did anything like this (FYI FB was not around!). Lol!
MOMS A STRAGHT LOON!!that's why her daughter is like this,look how she handles conflict...someone needs to retake conflict and resolution again ,it's offered at most universities...teaches proper mediation,and why don't you decorate that kids room,Angry bird!!
Her mom cares about her. You can call it abuse and all but it's for her own good. When she grows up she will understand and I'll thank her mother for watching her back. There are rapists, child molestors and perverts, murderers, etc. out here. Sometimes you have to be mean and put the fear in your kids in order for them to Stop. You can talk rationally all u want to but some kids just don't understand.
TOUGH LOVE! I back her Mom 100%! To all the people saying just delete her page, don't you think she will just start another one??? Her Mom got her point across and didn't hit her. Too many kid today aren't disciplined and have no respect for their parents, elders or themselves! Good job Mom!
@bigdeal500 I can't believe you got kids, I hope not because they will run all over you. No one likes getting embarrassed but if its deserved its necessary. How can you say her upbringing was bad or there is no father or she hadn't talked to her first? Apparently she lied before about this with the same girl, how about its a mom dealing with a daughter who doesn't believe water is wet. Quite sure people have talked to Cheif Keef but most kids now think they know better and when they get placed in check they don't know how to respond. Peer pressure alone makes it harder for parents to do their job. Kids want to prove to other kids who they are trouble or not.
FUNNY AS HELL LMAOOO ANYWAY SOME PARENTS DONT KNOW HOW TO RAISE KIDS THESE DAYS GOTTA TAPE YA DAUGHTER AND YELLING AND THREATENING HER ON CAMERA SHE SHOULD REPORT HER ASS TO HER SCHOOL IM GLAD MY MOM NOT CRAZY LOL,I HAVE NO KIDS SO I CANT RELATE TO THIS LOL...
even though on the rachet side
the mother needed to put her butt on blast
therefore that probably helped a dude from catching a case
all of her closed friends viewed and any guys who didnt know her age have been warned now
kids can create a new fb easy at least her moma put her on blast
and she will punish her if she tells the Mary lie again
parents have control of your kids ..
check over homework and all activity warranted
The mother did the right thing it doesnt matter where her father is I have a 14 year old and if she was doing this I would do the same thing all the negative comment on here I bet yall dont have any kids or u dont have teenagers at lease her mom cared enough to check her people r just a mess now day she did the right thing!!!!!!!!!!!!
We need more Mothers in the world like Her!!! I give her a A+. I would have done the same thing. I have a 14 yr old and I know how it is. So you go mom..maybe more moms will watch the vid and learn from her!
Behavior like this is learned. The Bible and word of YHWH speaks that the sins of the parents shall fall upon the children. Oops there you have it. She is 14 and look at how she is dressed. See she is frustrated but I guarantee if she was obedient to the word and not allowing her child to see things she should not then this child would not even dress or believe that it was okay to be on fakebook posting and receiving pictures. Children need love, guidance, discipline and structure from their parents as in two and if not two than one parent. A lot of these young men and women see their mother's or fathers mainly mother's dating every Tom, dick and harry that comes through the home. You can parent and party at the same time. Parenting is a lifetime job, until they are grown and out of the house you must first respect yourself so you can get respect.
I DARE YOU TO TELL ME IT WAS MUTHA FKN MARY AGAIN!!! MUTHA FKA! lol the language mama.... i feel some kind of way when parents curse their kids out... also, she wasn't mad about the 14yo showing cleavage?
At any rate, I know she's trying to keep her kid from being a fastie & getting preg at a young age.... I get it...
14 yr old kids should not have their own fb pages. also, this little girl shouldn't have her t_ttays out like that. she don't look 14. also, people don't spank their kids anymore that is why they all wild out.
LMAO @ Mary tho. Hahahaha, she just put it all on her. The mama didnt commit a crime... Cause my mama would have beat the dogg shit outta me and im dominican, so being black doesnt mean a damn thing.. People just have different ways of parenting.
Howignorant are you to say that all black mothers yell and are black bitches. YOU are disrepectful. You really need to shut ur mouth. Im tired of men bashing women especially black women. What race are you anyway. Not all black women act the same. There are many intellectual women of color. Just because you haven't come across any thats your fault. Do me a favor and stop talking. Keep your mouth shut@ Ransomed
I'm reading so many of the comments posted here and I really want to cry because far too many on here are taking up for this young lady and instead finding fault with the mother. My question is why? She was receiving D*** pics. That's a real problem and a big deal. I would have gotten embarrassed by my mom too and maybe I would be more judgmental about her methods if I wasn't a parent too. What's wrong with you guys? Huh? I mean really. My mom never really cursed at me but the fact that her mom did was not the point. You guys are misdirecting. The tragedy here is the fact that she is already sexually experimenting and that's a gateway that will only lead to sex if she hasn't had it already. Our community does not need another teen mom. All she got was harsh words....and?? She disrespected herself and her family and lied on top of that. Wake up and stop cutting breaks for our kids. All we're doing is a raising a generation of kids that we are afraid to discipline. How can we teach them responsibility and honesty when we won't endorse it or demand it. Btw her Mom never touched her so come off that attack too. All she did was embarrass her. Honestly she shouldn't even be on FB, Twitter, etc if she can't be trusted anyway. SMH.
I think the mother went about it the right way...I mean hell these lil young girls dont mind showing their ass but want to be docile and embarrassed when their parental counter parts show them they arent doing anything but self destructing smh
@WakeUpPlease Ransomed's profile picture is that of Tamia the artist who is Bi-racial not Black and she is lightskinned... even if she was Black she looks and acts nothing like most black women!!...I'm sick and tired of black people alwayz wanting lightskinned people to represent them... Represent your own darkskin and short-nappy-haired selves. Black women especially need to quit lying to themselves!!...
She could have just deleted her page or contact authorities..But these fast ass girls need to be taught a lesson..I thank god i didn't fall short when i was younger...We all do dumb things but you have to draw the line somewhere..All these young moms trying to be their kids friends won't get them the respect they should have..Be a PARENT ...Tired of these ratchet parents encouraging smoking,drinking,partying,hang out late nights etc...Just because their doing with you does not make it ok...I pray for this generation because my 5 yr old will not fall victim to this crap..!!!!!!SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY!!!!!!! NEED A JOB AND CANT FIND ONE!!! WELL I AM WORKING FOR A LEGITIMATE COMPANY THAT IS NOW HIRING, HAS GREAT BENEFITS, YOU CAN WORK FROM HOME, AND HAS GREAT PAY!!! NO EXCUSES THE OPPORTUNITY IS RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, SO DON'T WAIT ANY LONGERâ€¦GET PAID EVERY FRIDAY!!! IF INTERESTED SEND ME AN EMAIL TO firstname.lastname@example.org ...Follow my instagram @ mz_natalia
you know what. i usually keep my opinions to myself but this time i HAVE to comment. some of you people that commented are some simple, sad, pathetic people. YOU DAM RITE THAT MOTHER WAS 100% correct. Now I would not have used all the cursing but hey she did the right thing. Most of you who said she was wrong probally either have some closet freak childeren, OR you have children that use you like a rag doll. This generation of teens are sad. no morals, and no respect for THEMSELVES. That mother deserves MOTHER OF THE YEAR IF YOU ASK ME. I congradulate you for standing your ground mom and making her KNOW you are not playing. TO the rest of you who think you are gods gift and trying to sit down rub her face and ask her whats wrong YOU dear people are the ones who really need to be put in check.
That was ridiculous! all that profanity and screaming was not the way; just take the facebook page down. Hell with that behavior the child's looking for an escape! Just let her know she is waaay too young for that behavior.
Why Wait Till She Is 14 Years Old To Be A Parent??? Had She Been A Parent And Not Her Daughters FrienD From The Beginning...I Guarantee You The Odds Of Her Doing ThisD Would Of Been Slim To None. Obviously This Teen Has Not Respect For Herself Or Her Mother To Be Doing This. Then You Wonde Why The Young Girl Is An Attention Seeker....Till You Realize Her Mother Posted This For The World To See....What Real Parent Is Going To Recor Themselves Disciplining Their Child??? Somebody Who Loves Attention.......Sad.....Poor girl.
I definitely think that the mother did the right thing, and I think that it was just what the little girl neede she is being disobedient and she was showing a lack of respect for herself. Her mother did what she did out of love and she did it very passionately I applaud her for that. It really was just what I needed to hear because just yesterday I whipped my daughter for having a facebook account after I told her to take her page down she just kept reactivating her page well I beat the shyt out of her with a belt as I talked to her and told her why I was beating her. My daughter since yesterday have gotten closer and I even showed her this video to show her that Im not the only one that is passionate about this subject and to all of those ignorant people on here saying that the mother is wrong YOU ALL ARE INSTRUMENTS OF THE DEVIL!!! WE NEED MORE MOTHERS LIKE HER THAT TAKE CHARGE OVER THE LIVES OF OUR CHILDREN BECAUSE THE DEVIL IS BUSY DESTROYING THEM I COMMEND HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE AND YOU CAN ALMOST BEAT HER DAUGHTER WILL THINK TWICE BEFORE GETTING ON FACEBOOK.. as parents we are held accountable if we dont beat our children in gods eyes especially when they are behaving inappropriately. god bless you mom and keep putting your foot down god bless you and I love you.....