: It seems like everyone in America is wishing THE BEST to NFL star Adrian Peterson for the death of his BIOLOGICAL SON. But the boy already had a REAL FATHER IN HIS LIFE, who loved him - and cared for him.
A man claiming to be little Ty's father has taken to Facebook to set the record straight . . . see below . . .
OK,IT'S BEEN SAID THAT THE WORST THING A "MOTHER" COULD GO THROUGH IS THE DEATH OF HER CHILD,,,,,,,,,,I SAY THE WORST THING IS FOR A CHILD TO BE KILLED BY THE HANDS OF A "PUNK",BUT THATS OK BECAUSE NOW HE WILL BE THAT SAME "PUNK" IN JAIL WITH A NUMBER.......R.I.P.BABY BOY,,,,,,,YOU ARE NOW IN THE HANDS OF YOUR ""REAL FATHER YOUR SAVIOR """"""JESUS CHRIST''''''''.JUST SLEEP LIL PRECIOUS ONE,NOTHING AND NOBODY CAN HURT YOU NOW.
Soooo the mama didn't know who the daddy was for all of the kids life. What made her decide it was Ruffin? Because the baby was lite when he was younger? What made her decide it WASN'T Ruffin? Because the baby darkened up? So she was dealing with Ruffin,AP and who knows who else, THEN for whatever reason finds out who the REAL Bio dad is AND is messing with a NEW guy AND moves him into her house?!? Someone PLEASE get that broad some self esteem and common sense STAT! Bish needs to keep her nasty a z z legs closed, or use b irth control. This is uncalled for and gross.I wouldn't be surprised if she was out with a different dude when she left the baby at home with the killer. She needs to be spayed, so she can't have any more kids, since she doesn't take care of the one she had.
I was thinking the same thing, apparently he had no real relationship with the child. No one goes to work after your child dies, unless your a killer, trying to prove you didn't commit a crime, by continuing on with the day like nothing happen. Plus the mother of the child was living in a apartment complex while the child's father is a millionaire???? NET WORTH 24 MILLION??.......So this average other dude comes forward saying he was taking care of the child? Let me get his straight...why were you not dating the mother at the time of death? hy did her f*** buddy kill her child if your so involved? Just because you bought a few groceries while you were sleeping with her or paid a light bill doesn't make you the father, she came as a package deal anyway. I don't give a f**k if AP just found out that he was his child, you call your accountant/lawyers and YOUR child's lifestyle/ BASIC BULL**** LIVING ARRANGEMENT should change immediately.
We understand. He's upset. But I hadn't heard AP ask but that the public respect his privacy. We're offering condolences based on the news reports but I'm sure that makes him feel some type of way. . Either way it's sad.. Praying for you as well Bobby Ruffin :( NO parent should have to go through this. #Rest well babyboy
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I was thinking the same thing, apparently he had no real relationship with the child. No one goes to work after your child dies, unless your a killer, trying to prove you didn't commit a crime, by continuing on with the day like nothing happen. Plus the mother of the child was living in a apartment complex while the child's father is a millionaire???? NET WORTH 24 MILLION??.......So this average other dude comes forward saying he was taking care of the child? Let me get his straight...why were you not dating the mother at the time of death? Why did her f*** buddy kill her child if your so involved? Just because you bought a few groceries while you were sleeping with her or paid a light bill doesn't make you the father, she came as a package deal anyway. I don't give a f**k if AP just found out that he was his child, you call your accountant/lawyers and YOUR child's lifestyle/ BASIC BULL**** LIVING ARRANGEMENT should change immediately.
This story is just to sad but it seems the momma had a little to much going on real dad,biological dad,boyfriend how long did she know this new Guy before she left her baby with. U can't judge a book by it's cover poor lil stink stink had to suffer because of his mother's poor judgment :(
This whole situation is sad. Unfortunately, it was the mother's responsibility to inform every man she slept with their was a possibility he could be a father. Now we have two men who are getting slammed because of a decision neither made for their life. I can understand why Bobby is upset but Adrian hasn't asked anyone for anything it's the fact that Adrian is famous. This is the same.thing the media did to Kyle Tameka Raymond son. How many times did they mention his real father's name? Instead they used Ushers name. Its just sad no matter what.
I totally agree with some of the comments. Who goes back to work (meaning AP) when your 2-yr. old son was recently murdered? The mother was clearly leading a questionable sex life because she didn't know who the father was and had to prove it by a paternity test. This beautiful little boy paid the price for the sins of his mother. Wonder if this is what Public Enemy meant by the black race heading for "Self Destruction" because black men are steady putting white girls on a pedastal while degrading and demeaning sistas.
Right so who's the new NEW dude then? Little boy had about 3 BDs in his short little life. Oh course NFL dude is going to play on Sunday he's happy he's not getting stuck for 18 years old child support. But try explaining all this to your other two year old son that you ARE raising!
There's a lot going on with this story. If AP just found out he was this boy's father no1 can be faulted except the boy's mother. Why is Mr. Ruffin feeling some way? It's not his fault nor is it AP's fault...Ppl do handle death differently so it's understandable why AP may play in today's game. Overall rip to this baby. Let him rest in peace and all the finger pointing stop.
To me, it just seems like this dude was more pissed off he didn't get as much recognition as "AP" (as it were) did. The mother obviously has more skeletons in her closet that there is led to believe. Judging by what he is whining about in his post, is the fact that people are saying they are feeling sorry for "AP" (as it were) because of his son. Regardless of who is raising him. "AP" (as it were) probably didn't know that he had a son until this hood rat ass mother of his had a question as to who it might be....
This is what I am guessing happened.... The mother and this dude probably was in a relationship a while ago. They probably broke up, and in the meantime, she probably went to the club wearing her "fcuk'em girl" dress. Met up with "AP" (as it were) and slept with him. Anybody who knows about sex knows that all it takes is one time to get preggo. So after that, she probably got back with this dude and made up. Then she drops the nuclear bomb that Uh-oh....... she's pregnant, and probably didn't know who the father was. Since this dude was already in the picture and probably was happy as hell that his lady was pregnant with "his" kid he didn't question it. Which is the biggest lie a woman can tell. So now when something like this shit happens and blood is needed to help save his life, and then second nuclear bomb drops that he isn't a match, because Uh-oh..... (Spoiler Alert!!!!!) he is NOT the father comes out, she has to say who the father might be and get him tested. Then come to find out that "AP" (as it were), you ARE the father. Like the Media does, they dig and dig and dig and found out that the boy's father was a celebrity football player, now the attention is now diverted from the man who raised him to the man who made him.... So now Mr. Bobby Ruffin is pissed off and acting like a diva because nobody knows him and all of the publicity is going to mr "AP" (as it were) all because the boy's mother was a whore. Mr. Ruffin, your son is dead, and the only thing you are upset about is who is getting publicity....
And for the record, @ab7520, That is what they said, but nobody is putting white women on a pedestal, and black men aren't degrading and demeaning sistas. Sistas are doing this sh!t to themselves by sleeping with multiple men and not knowing who the father of their kids are. Or tricking a man into raising another man's kids and having him paying child support. Black men are going to other races because they don't feel like dealing with this Sh!t as a whole.
I don't blame him I read on twitter where a couple of people was like oh my god ap didn't deserve for his son to die are you kidding that man don't give a flying fuck and to add insult to injury he was smiling in the interview if that was my son and I know I wasnt around for his life then I wouldn't stay at the hospital for an hr then go back to practice and hold a meeting thats wack but its not all his fault this is her fault also because she shouldn't been just fucking anybody usually I would rather die before I take up for a white girl but raise your hand if you've ever done a backgeound check on yourself I have and the information was incorrect and tou leave your kids around strangers everyday example the cleveland kidnapper he was a hus driver and guess how many parents was fine leaving their kids around him because he was school approved and shouldn't the police pressed charges when the first lady stepped forward and said that she hit her son he should've been in jail. Sorry for his lost but ap don't seem sorry.
Oh please Ruffin. The reason it was discovered AP was the dad is because the mother took Ruffin to court for child support and a DNA test was done. That's when he learned he wasn't the father. If he was the "real dad", then why wasn't he paying child support?! If he was the "real dad" then why was a DNA test done in the first place. I don't know about all states, but where I live there is no DNA test if the father signs an acknowledgment of paternity at birth. Did this "real dad" do that?
"Behavior is the mirror in which everyone shows their image" and the tasteless act of re-hashing this sad story by any and every media outlet to me is just despicable. Let it go and let the immediate family and friends affected deal with their loss privately!!!
And to the people that's saying he beat the baby because he was black or because ap was the dad sound stupid that could be a possibility but have u ever thouht that maybe he took his attitude out on the baby because the mom wanted to go to the club and be a smut by shaking her as s for other men when she had a man at home I'm black and racism still goes on but everything isnt racist.
OK, so what do YOU want dude? A Medal? Where were you in his life, even if you found out that he wasnt your biological child, did you just abandon him so that trifling mother had to hightail her azz to find another dude to help her until the AP child support kicked in?
At the end of the day, none of this ish matters. All that matters is this baby is dead and the monster who did it needs to pay with his life. that is all.
MOTHER'S STOP LETTING YOUR BOYFRIENDS BEAT ON YOUR CHILDREN. STOP LEAVING YOUR CHILDREN WITH THESE MEN. WE'VE GOT TO DO BETTER. WE'VE GOTTA TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS. ANGRY MANEVOLENT MALES KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF OF OTHER PEOPLES CHILDREN. REST IN PEACE BABY, YOU DIDN'T DESERVE THAT.
Ghostwriter066 summarized it well. The man who raised the child appears to be angry for the wrong reason. AP will never know his child. A biological father but it appears it wasn't his choice.The mother will never be the same, regrets & pain.
WHAT A DIfference A COLoR makes!!!!!!! Notice how ppl respectful refer to this white woman as a 'momma' or mother and not a 'baby momma'. AnD if she was a black woman she would have been called a skank and h0e for sleeping with 2 different ment around the same time Not knowing who the baby daddy is and bussing it wide open for the one that just moved in...... Y'all are racist fckx!!
Idk. It's surprising that this chick didn't seek child support from ap in the first place if he was a possibility. Most of these hos would be holding on to hope that he is the father and hurry their asses up to get a dna test to collect a check. It just seems so funny that he would be the second option here.
It's very possible that he and the mother broke up and he continued to care for the child like a true father & the mother simply started dating someone else. If that's the case he and the mother wouldn't be living together and therefore he wouldn't be present 24/7 in the kids life, that's pretty standard for any divorced/broken up couple with kids. So asking him "where were you" seems ignorant & kinda insensitive. It doesn't mean he was present in the kids life or that he wasn't a good father, it simply means that he wasn't there at that moment.
If this is the actual situation I can completely understand why he feels the way he does, everybody is sad for AP, when AP only just met him after he was in a coma and isn't bothered enough over the death of his own son to have it disrupt his daily routine. Meanwhile this guy who has been raising him is devastated.
RIP to that precious little boy. My condolences go out to his family.
Usually I don't comment, but I have a friend who's baby was beat to death by the ex boyfriend (baby daddy). Blaming the mother without knowing the true story is ignorant. In my friends case she went out of town and left the kid in the care of the grandmother and the grandmother had work in the morning and left her with the ex for only a few hours when he beat her. It's no ones fault BUT the person who committed the crime. Y'all are so quick to judge, wow. But I agree, all this pray for Peterson nonsense has go to stop, he knew this kid as well as you and I both did!
you can cry all about AP not being a good father by practicing and playing in the game today and being worth 24 million and not helping the mother out.. HE JUST WAS TOLD HE WAS THE FATHER WHEN THE CHILD WAS ON LIFE SUPPORT. ..... get your facts straight!! AP wasnt given the chance to be the father he could have been.. rip lil guy...
this S*** is so not cool this poor child dies and you wanna come on here and talk about who fathered this child,what is wrong with you. I think you need some help. so what if AP practiced who care what you did,i think i speak on all when i say we dont care bout you,AP or anyone else. WHO MATTERS IS THIS POOR LITTLE BOY WHO WAS TAKING TO EARLY... you wanna put ppl on blast and s*** if you,AP and this other dude was in the pic,where were you when this child needed to be watched,yup AP was at practice but if you and AP wanna brag on how great fathers you are why weren't you there why did you let a stranger even be around your son. so please b4 you wanna go blasting look at your self,its not about u,AP or the mother or that sick dude its about that poor 2yr old that will not see any future.
This whole situation is because of that white, smelly (baby mama) tramp, wh*re and her child killer boyfriend. AP and the guy who raised the child are not the bad people. AP playing his game today don't make him a bad person he didn't know that kid. The trailer trash had a fling with AP. She cheated on the guy who was raising the kid.
Bobby Ruffin here is the deal nigga! number 1 you were not the biological father number 2 you werent there when the SOB was bashing his head in! so why are you even commenting? Bottom line that Ashley Doohen was a raggedy broad for having that monster anywhere near her kid! Ap found out the baby was his and stepped up to the plate what else could he do? and you want to blast that man?really my nigg? Ole girl obviously wasnt bangin you because the monster was in the house not YOU! Dude shouldnt even be commenting at all!RIP to the lil man!
@ghostwriter066 - The media has done a great job at portraying black women as trifling uneducated leeches that have several bans daddys and tons of kids but somehow fail to report the thousands of white women who don't know whose their childs father and collect welfare. This story is a prime example that being trifling isn't exclusive to blacks and the media, blogs and entertainment industry need to be more fair in how they portray various races. Final word, aren't black men just as trifling as the woman they impregnate? Why place all the blame on the woman?
I SEE SOME CRAZY COMMENTS!
Once again, people are hero worshipping AP. This is what people do with stars. People are blasting Bobby Ruffin but he was a father to another mans child.
IN THIS DAY AND AGE WHERE WOMEN HAVE BABY AFTER BABY OUT OF WEDLOCK, THIS SHOULD BE APPLAUDED.
Like he said, he was there when they pulled the plug and he's just upset not playing in a football game. So stop riding AP's dick and putting this down because AP is a star.
R.I.P. to this child first. But as far as this dude goes, really?! So what u mad the attention isn't on u? AP said nothin but asked for privacy. This dude is bogus for this bs. Really, he is saying, so let me blow your mind? Wow, dude u need to take several seats and go mourn for the kid u helped raised. It's not AP fault tht u were raising his baby becoz the girl had ur head in a cloud. U should NOT even be worried about this. Smh.....
Ghostwriter066 you sound a little dumb because that blackman did sleep with another race of woman and she tricked 2 blackmen into acknowledging the child because she didn't knowwho it was so you might want to retract your laststatement. Most non black women. K
Continued most non blackwomen know all they have to have is their light skin and hair you ignorant blackmen will be so happy to believe what they say. THIS WHITE WOMAN DID THE VERY THING YOU JUST ACCUSED BLACKWOMEN OF DOING
@ab7520, No argument about that at all. You are 100% correct. There are thousands of white women out there in the same situation as black women in not knowing who the father of their children are. The reason why black women are the target of lots of media is simply because, they broadcast themselves as being baby mamas. It isn't the media doing this. They are doing this to themselves. You can't give the media all the credit when it comes to that when you got shows like Basketball wives, love and hip hop who celebrate and congratulate on being a baby mama. Fantasia writing songs like "Baby Mama." I will agree that the media has some play with that, but I can't say it's 100% their fault. I mean when a woman comes out and says she has 6 kids 5 baby daddies, 3 are locked up, 2 are brothers, and 1 is married, that isn't the media's fault... In the white community, having a kids and not being married to the father, or be with the father is disgraceful to the family. You don't hear about it as much for that very reason. They tend to be an embarrassment to their family and don't put their business out there. Not in the black community. Black women are proud they got a baby daddy. Majority of white women are ashamed they have an illegitimate child. Asian families that is disrespectful to the family name and sometimes they will be disowned. We as black people celebrate ignorance. We got songs called "That's just my baby daddy..." Drake saying "If I had a baby mama, she probably would be richer than a lot of you ninjas..." Lil Wayne got at least 3 baby mamas. It's not the media doing this.
there's no need to go back and forth about who did this and who done that for the kid this is all about a tragedy that should have never taken place Adrian Peterson didn't know whether or not he was the biological father neither did this guy until the final test results were revealed so lets all pray for the family and justice shall be served when it comes to Mr.Patterson and no prison and I mean not one prison on the face of Gods green earth can compare to the justice that's going to be in store for Mr.patterson come the Lords judgement day.
@lovegod1, I never said ALL. I didn't even know this chick was white. Nor do I even care. Regardless of race, she filled out the application correctly for being a H03... I'm just saying. And you are 1/2 correct. He didn't know he was the father until he was already in the coma, So even though she is white, she only tricked one dude, because a woman will lie to you all day about who the father is, but DNA will never lie to you. Either way, my statement still stands. Black women do most of this to themselves. How can we as black men degrade women, when black women degrade themselves more than anybody? We as black men however do greatly acknowledge it and exploit it, I'll give you that.
I knew something was up with AP...he was nothing but teeth on the news talking about "respect his privacy" and then goes and plays ball today??!!!! And the mother...Biological dad, Father dad and then Boyfriend dad...way toooooo many men in that lil' boys life! What is WRONG with our thinking? All she was concerned with was having someone to sleep with. Black People REALLY need to get ourselves TOGETHER!!!
Wow. THis is crazy and more sad than I thought. I feel for this guy, yet where were you when the ratchet baby mama needed someone to watch her child? Clearly, this woman was an unfit mother and a true slorebag. Sad she had to lose her child. One biological father, another man raising him and a boyfriend watching him. SMH... If she were a black woman, the media would be ripping her to shreds.
@ab7520 so true they make it seems as if black people are the scums of the earth but I bet the media is not going to talk about how much of a wh*re this white "baby mama" was. Smh. If this was a black women she would be getting bashed to her bones but luckily I'm a strong person who see past that.
So wait...so AP's other baby mama, the mother of the dark skinned two year old he's been pictured with, just found out that he had some other chick pregnant at the same time. ..just in case you thought he was being faithful.
You guys pointing the finger is not helping! Can you guys can imagin what she's going thru. You guys are right! No one ,mother or father should leave their kids with anyone. But I don't think she would have let him if she knew he would get harmed. I bet she is going through it! The only person at fault is the killer! No one should harm a child. Not knowing or caring for someone is Not a pass to harm them, nor act as God and end someone life! Y'all calling her a whore! But why she didn't been get a DNA test on the football player since she a whore! A real whore would have been crossing her fingers as she pushed the baby out with the DNA test on her side to collect them checks! Can't be too much of a whore. Her son is two , she had a one night stand on her boyfriend got pregnant and stating dating someone else, what's wrong with that. Nothing. Her fault was trusting her new boyfriend too quickly. Someone of you have cheating and sex with two guys in a short period of time the only difference , you didn't get pregnant. Give her a break! And it has nothing to do with race! All that negative energy should go directly to the killer! And this should be a wake up call to All parents, don't trust no one with your kids period! Cuz people can be so deceiving with a smile! On topic: this guy should just shut his mouth, you was there since day one congrats! But let AP have his moment that is his biological son. That guy act as AP trying to take credit of anything, all he ask was for his privacy.
The black and white shot is so old black women get over it who cares a man is a man and it don't matter if black women date white men and we say something then we hating but reverse it and black men are deserting y'all ass f$$k all y'all
R.I.P TO THIS PRECIOUS ANGEL.
F. U. C. K. this ratchet ass basketball player. this is obviously some chick that was a or one night stand or a jump-off and he goes and have unprotected sex with someone he is not in a relationship with, then gets this tramp pregnant unknowingly. After the game he needs to be tested for h i v a i d s. i am quite sure he has it and is knowingly spreading it.
He had 2 "fathers" but he was left with a "boyfriend"!!! The only person that I feel sorry for is that poor 2 year who took it to the head. Still, I say lock up his skank *** mama and that anorexic Jackie Chan looking mofo and whack them in their heads. This ish is soo stupid.
U dumbass people believe anything these scum bags post. Mto u people u a@$holes should b shut down for the lies u post and for this one u showed the world how ignorant u really r. U non spelling shit bags. F u ck u very much
AP will be in the headlines, he is the NFL baller...we praise these "unsung" heroes in American society...the same way we hail white women as "angels" and they are far from it...this baby was THE ONLY victim...the mother should be IN JAIL for child endangerment...she knew this man was abusive, yet where was she, probably off with the other snowbunnies procreating with her next baby daddy being used as some black man's cumbucket...PATHETIC!
The boy's mother is a HOE! I try not to judge these hoes but these hoes make me sick. This HOE has involved 3 different men in a two year olds life. And one of them killed the boy. Who the fucc deals with 3 different men in a two year period? A HOE!
"More sad" is perfectly acceptable. "All y'all talking about the 3 adults." is a straight butchering of the English language. Sorry your head has been too far up Rhianna's @$$ to read a fkin book.
Anyway...it is not idol worship to say that we were sorry to hear about what happened to Peterson's son. Now that I know the facts I still feel sorry for him. Now that this man has revealed he is also tied in with the child's life, I feel sad for him. If the child's grandmother came on t.v. and said "hey I'm sad too" I would feel bad for her as well. I don't know why this guy is upset that a professional athlete has fans who gave an outpouring of support when learning of a tragedy in his life. We didn't know about you, dude. Now we do. Still sad for A.P.
For anyone who wants to judge him for the way he chose to mourn, run your own life. You don't know what somebody else is dealing with or how they need to deal with it. Some people need to work after a tragedy, some need to rest, some fall apart...don't judge him for playing.